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Busteds 'Psycho Girl', Listener Story Corner and Dennis the dog! Ep 13 · Galaxy Crashers: The Busted and McFly Podcast

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  Hello and welcome. You're listening to Galaxy
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  Crashes, the Busted and McFly podcast.
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  The only podcast where the 2 worlds of Busted and McFly
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  collide. I'm Sham.
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  And I'm Tay, and on this week's episode we're talking all things
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  Psycho girl with stories of crazy exes from not only us, but
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  you guys too. Yeah, and we've got some really
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  interesting listener stories this week as well as this or
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  that. The We Are Family section is
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  back again and we are dissecting the song of the week as always.
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  Indeed we are. So how are you?
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  How's your week been? Yeah, not too bad.
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  I have really spoke to us this week.
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  No, that's true. Actually, I was thinking that
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  the other day. I was like, we haven't had our
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  normal catch up. But to be honest, it's probably
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  because there's nothing to catch up because same old, same old,
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  same old. I yeah, I've not really been
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  doing much. I've had quite busy weekends
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  though. I feel like I haven't sat down.
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  Do you know what I mean? Even though I probably have very
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  much doom scrolled for hours on end, I still feel like I haven't
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  sat down. Yeah, I get you.
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  It's easy to like to get lost in that like zone, isn't it, Where
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  you just sit down and you don't move, but then.
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  This this afternoon, this afternoon I had, oh, it's not
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  really this afternoon. It was about half six.
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  I got in and I had a shower and Arya said to me, can you read me
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  a story when you get out the shower please, mummy?
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  And I said, if you're still awake, I'll read your story.
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  So I got out of the shower, sat on my bed in my towel as you do,
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  just like air drying because I can't really want to turn my
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  pyjamas on. And I was sat there scrolling on
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  my phone. And she came in and she said,
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  mummy, I'm still awake, can you read me that story please?
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  And I said, Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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  You go get into bed and I'll be there in a second.
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  And I swear to God, it felt like 2 seconds had passed.
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  And she came into the bedroom and she said, Mummy, have you
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  forgotten about me? God bless her.
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  I was just, I was just doom scrolling.
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  It's. So easy to do.
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  It's so easy to be trying to make like more of an effort to
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  not be on our phones around Molly because she sees us on
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  them all the time. And it's so hard to not do it
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  because obviously everything that you do is on your phone.
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  Yeah, exactly. And I've got because school is
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  like proper back in session now, I feel like I've just got like
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  1000 emails to catch up on because every day they're
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  realising a new issue. Do you know what I mean?
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  So I feel like when I. Spring 1 behaviour.
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  Yeah, literally. I feel like I come home from
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  school, I sit down on the sofa and I've got like 12 emails to
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  reply to. I'm only atai.
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  Shouldn't be this important? Leave me alone.
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  Oh, so funny because I remember it so well.
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  Literally. Anyway, have you been busy week?
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  No, no. I'm.
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  OK, I've been I've been ill again.
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  I. Cannot get well at the moment.
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  Everything. Oh, there's just so many germs
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  in my house. It's just gross.
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  I just don't understand how like I feel really minging and then I
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  wake up and I'm like OK, I feel better today.
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  I feel better. And then a couple of days go
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  past and I feel fine and then literally another day and I'm
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  ill again. I'm like.
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  Why? How has this happened?
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  It's just awful. But other than that it's been
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  OK. We had a pretty chill weekend.
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  We didn't get up to much, but it's been a really nice start to
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  the week. Actually.
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  Last night we had the Northern Lights like.
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  Beautiful. It was insane.
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  And it's one of my bucket listings and they've been above
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  like where we are quite a few times and I've always missed
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  them. Every time I wake up the next
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  day and I see them all over social media and I'm like, oh
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  for God's sake, I've missed them again.
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  But. Yeah, me and Bradley woke up
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  this morning and we were like, how?
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  How is it every single time we miss 'cause there's some photos
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  from I live right next to an aerodrome and there's there was
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  cars parked everywhere over this aerodrome because yeah, I and I
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  said to Pradi, that would have been such a lovely little
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  atmosphere to be part of. Oh it.
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  Was amazing. But yeah, we missed it 'cause I
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  fell asleep at 7:00. Oh to be fair though, genuinely,
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  I would have missed it if it wasn't for Tash.
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  Thank God Tash was, she's such a good friend.
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  It was 9:30, twenty to 10 and me and Jack had gone to bed
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  literally at 8:00 because we were both knackered.
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  We got into bed, we watched an episode of Fallout, which is
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  what we're watching at the moment.
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  And then Jack came downstairs to watch some football much of the
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  day or something. And I was like, right, Family
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  Guy and I'm going to nod off. And it was like 20 to 10.
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  And I heard my phone going off. And I was like, who is ringing
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  me at 20 to 10? Like, surely it's something
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  awful has happened because nobody ever rings me this late.
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  And Tasha was like, I'm so sorry to wake you up if I've woken you
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  up. Sorry to like interrupt your
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  evening. But I thought you'd like to know
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  that the Northern Lights are visible from the house.
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  And I was like, Oh my God, really?
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  Just like, yes, I literally got up and backed my dressing gown
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  on and my my Crocs and just went and see because we've got
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  outside our bedroom door, we've got a flat roof, which is our
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  Conservatory extension. So you can literally step out of
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  my bedroom onto the roof, which is really cool.
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  Oh nice. Oh my God, they were insane.
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  Like like proper pink hue in the sky to start and then like
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  within about 5 minutes the green had started to move and oh it
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  was absolutely phenomenal. So I was really that really like
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  made my day because I'm not going to lie, I had the worst
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  day I've ever had at Supply yesterday.
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  So for those of you that that haven't listened before, I'm a
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  supply teacher. So I do a lot of like going to
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  different schools, TA ING teaching here, there and
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  everywhere. And I love my job.
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  I love just going into new schools and meeting new people
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  and like new kids. And yes, it is crazy.
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  And sometimes it's like think on your feet kind of thing.
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  But my Lord above yesterday I was not mentally prepared for it
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  was only a half a day. It was 4 hours.
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  So I, you know, thought half a day is fine.
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  It's, it's good pay. Like I was happy to go down to
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  this little school I'd not been to before.
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  Within about an hour and a half, I was considering walking out.
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  Oh. My goodness it.
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  Was that bad? That sounds awful.
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  It was chaos. There was just no organisation.
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  It was very like just like I just felt like there were just
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  so many safeguarding issues. Did you feel like it was?
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  So me and there's another teacher at my school.
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  Every time there's like I want to say supply.
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  It is normally when there's a supply in, but you know, when
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  there's like a classroom that's just really playing up, we call
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  it nativity. You know the movie.
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  Right, Yes, I. Know when all the kids are like
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  little shits and it's like safeguarding 101 going into
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  nativity. It's like as a teacher or TA
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  watching that movie, it's like. You don't.
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  Like you can't watch it the same anymore.
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  Literally. But yeah, we survived.
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  We're here. Another, another, another week.
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  Proud of you, yeah. Proud of myself.
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  Thank you. It's time for this or that.
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  And this week we've chose some very interesting scenarios,
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  which we did actually find 2 that were quite similar.
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  So we've chosen a couple each. So there's going to be a few few
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  to think about and they are all related to our song of the week,
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  Psycho Girl. So Shannon, I'll let you go
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  first and then I'll do one and then you can do your other one
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  because I know you've got 2. Nice so my first one is would
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  this or that skip the get to know you stage?
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  Just full on obsessed from the word go right?
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  Or spend a year in the Get to Know Me stage constantly feeling
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  like you're teetering on the edge of a relationship.
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  Oh, that's a tricky one because I'm not like, well, actually say
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  that. I was just going to say I'm not
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  like a full on obsessed from the word go kind of girl.
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  But actually if you asked my husband, he'd probably disagree
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  with you because there was quite an obsession at the beginning.
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  I think I would probably, yeah, I probably would go obsessed
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  from the word go because a whole year, teetering on the edge, a
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  whole year, that's a long time. And in my head I'm like, if it's
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  a year and you're still uming, uming and R ING about this, then
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  I'm not for you, babe. I mean, you're either all in or
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  you're not. Do you know what I mean?
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  I agree with you, but also I kind of feel like, I feel like
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  last Christmas was last week. Like I could do a year.
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  Yeah, I could do. The years are going so quickly
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  now. I'm in my 30s.
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  I could do now. They are now.
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  They are, but if you think about when you and Brad started
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  dating, that was a long old time ago.
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  Same for me and Jack. Like if that was happening when
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  you met, like, would you have been OK with that?
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  So I this is a really hard one for me because I'm not an
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  obsessed kind of girlie when it comes to relationships.
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  I want a best mate. I don't want like, I don't want
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  to be fawning over you. However, I do hate, I hate the
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  get to know stage so much. I don't want to know your
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  favourite colour. I don't want to know what your
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  favourite meal is. I don't want to know what
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  football team you support. I hate the get to know you
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  stage. I want to be able to write
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  somebody a list of all those those things about me, give it
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  to them and they just remember it.
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  I don't want to talk to you about it.
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  Yeah, I don't want to tell you that.
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  My favourite colour and my favourite band.
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  Do you know what I mean? I don't.
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  I don't care enough. Or we could just do quick fire
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  questions, get it out the way. What you don't?
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  Want to get care of that? No, I yeah, I just don't think.
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  I mean also it's just says get to new stage.
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  Just full on obsessed as in we're both obsessed with each
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  other. I feel like it would be OK if
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  it's like me obsessed with them or them obsessed with me.
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  It might just be a bit too much. But if we're both obsessed with
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  each other from the word go. I think, OK, yeah, yeah, I see
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  that do. You know what I mean?
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  Could it be all right? I'm not an obsessed kind of
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  girl, but also I think if they were obsessed with me and I
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  wasn't obsessed with them, that would be an ick.
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  I think I would really, really be put off them.
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  Oh. My God, have been in that
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  situation, Definitely have been in that situation.
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  So awkward because actually, do you know what?
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  I've probably been on both sides of that situation.
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  Yeah. In my dating life, I've probably
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  been on both sides of that situation and it's not nice
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  either way, not going to lie. No, even sorry.
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  My my monitor is beeping next to me.
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  I didn't realise I still had it on.
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  Yeah. I genuinely don't think being on
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  either side is fun. I don't, I don't think.
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  I I think, yeah, I don't think there's a preference.
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  I don't. I hate both sides, to be
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  completely honest. Yeah, I think I I definitely go
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  with obsessed. I think that's probably easier
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  for me. Just just rather somebody be all
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  in. OK?
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  Mine is this or that. Have a girlfriend who says I
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  trust you but has your location, passwords and a secret shrine to
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  you in her house. Or one who disappears for three
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  days and comes back like nothing happened at all.
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  Oh well, I did just say that I hate obsessions, but I don't
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  know if I could deal with the disappearing for three days.
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  Yeah, yeah. That's.
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  I'm a lot. I'm the girl.
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  I'm the girl who has an argument with you and I'll live in the
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  same house as you, but then I'll go to work and I'll text you all
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  day. I don't want to talk to you
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  about this conversation that's made me very angry, but I'll
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  text you about it. Yeah, I don't want you to
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  disappear from me. I want you to know that I'm
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  still here. I want you to know I'm here and
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  I'm angry, but I also want you to know that I'm here.
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  Do you know what I mean? And I'm angry.
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  Yeah, exactly. And I'm angry.
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  I love that. OK.
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  So you're going for which one? I don't, I genuinely don't know.
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  I have a girlfriend who says I trust you but has your leg.
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  Yeah. Do you know what?
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  I'll do that one. I've got nothing to hide.
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  You can have my location. You can have my passwords.
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  The secret shrine is a little bit odd, but whatever.
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  You do you. I have nothing to hide.
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  You do you. Yeah, like, as long as I don't
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  have to see your secret shrine. It's secret, right?
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  So I I've seen it. Secret.
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  It's secret. I I actually think I agree.
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  I agree with you. I think that's a good choice.
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  I'll tell you where my location is.
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  My location is my work and my bed.
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  There is nowhere else I ever. Go.
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  I can tell you that. I can tell you the three places
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  that you'll find me, right? In a school, somewhere at home
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  or in Liddles, because that's literally where I spend my life.
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  I swear. Down.
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  Yeah. That's it.
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  Nice, maybe. Occasionally the same, but ALDI.
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  Yeah, Oh dear. And I get like, you know, if you
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  don't have anything to hide, then what?
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  You're not really shouldn't really be that worried about
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  passwords and stuff, surely you know what I mean?
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  Like I, there's me and Bradley, know each other's passwords for
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  everything. I yes, worry about him when we
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  break up. If I said when we break up, then
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  Oh my God, I worry about about him if we ever break up because
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  I'm the girl that will then log into everything and read your
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  messages, see what you're really saying about me.
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  Oh. My God, don't do that.
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  That's terrible. Let's not think about that.
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  It's not going to happen. Can't be dealing with that.
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  Oh my gosh. Yeah.
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  Now I I think I agree. OK, go on then.
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  Let's do your last one because I know you had another one.
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  My last 1 is really simple, have a psycho X or be the psycho X.
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  So when we get to story time later, I'm going to share, I'm
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  going to share two stories, one of me being the psycho X and one
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  of me having a psycho X. So I've been in both roles.
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  I think I would much rather have the psycho X because I am
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  ashamed of my of how I acted. I'm not going to lie.
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  I mean, I was, I was 18 and young and in love and crazy and,
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  you know, just a bit of a nut bag to be completely honest.
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  And most of the time I was drunk.
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  Let's face it, I was drunk most of the time.
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  But still, I think I can look back now as an adult and think
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  it gives me the ick to think that I behave that way.
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  So yeah, I think I'd rather have the Psycho X.
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  It's always a funny story, isn't it?
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  What do you? Think yeah, I think I think I'm
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  the same because yeah, I I just don't I, I'm way too anxious to
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  ever say yeah I'll be the psycho X because.
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  I would live my whole life. Could you, like literally, I
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  just live my life in complete embarrassment.
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  I don't think I'd leave the house if I ended up being the
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  psycho X. Not because I'm not.
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  I'm not psycho X shaming anyone, All right?
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  No. If you want to be a Psycho X for
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  a little while, if you've got a reason for it, do it.
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  I don't care as long as it's not affecting me.
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  But I don't think I could live with it because I am such an
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  anxious Sally. I really couldn't also have a
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  Psycho X. What, are you telling me
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  somebody was once obsessed with me enough to be psycho?
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  Yes, please. I mean, that's a good way to put
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  a spin on it, I suppose. Well, there we go.
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  That's a good moment for a ba ba ba duba, I think.
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  Let's just done that there. This week on We Are Family, we
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  are talking about one of, oh, let's say my favourite things in
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  the whole entire world. We are going to be talking about
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  a member of the Fletcher family now.
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  We have spoken before quite intensely about the Fletchers.
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  We've talked about Carrie, we've talked about Tom, we have
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  mentioned Giovanna on occasion as well, and our undying love
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  for the whole family and Buzz at 1.2, and the fact that, you
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  know, we'd all actually quite like to be a member of the
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  Fletcher family. I thought, you know, maybe one
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  day they'd like to adopt me. But instead of adopting me, they
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  decided to adopt A dog instead. And that dog is Dennis, so to
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  say. I thought, after I've seen some
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  such cute posts from Tom on Instagram of Dennis playing on
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  the beach and running around in the sea down here, by the way,
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  might I add, in the tow of the country that is Cornwall, He
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  they came down on a holiday. I think it was either just
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  before Christmas or just after Christmas to Watergate Bay,
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  which is up in the Newquay area, so only about half an hour from
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  where I am. And they took Dennis to the
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  beach and he was running around and having the best time ever.
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  He is so freaking cute. Have you seen the videos of him?
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  Because he's actually adorable. Yeah.
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  He is so he, you know, it was so funny because Bradley doesn't
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  really care about McFly. He's like, he's an absolute
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  loser. But I always show him the
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  pictures of that bloody dog and the videos.
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  And you know what? You can't.
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  You can't wipe a smile off your face when you see that animal.
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  Oh, and you see a golden. He's he's such a typical golden
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  retriever. Do you know what I mean?
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  He's so dopey and cute and like, I can just picturing him in my
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  head right now, tilting his head.
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  Do you know? What I mean when they look at
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  you and they're like. The puppy tilt, Yeah.
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  Blue does it all the time. So the the video that sparked me
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  to put Dennis as our we are family member this week is the
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  video that Tom posted of him and he's like asleep looks like he's
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  like on a bed like a dog bed or something.
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  You're like he's he's not asleep, but he looks like he
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  could be asleep, but he's got his eyes open and he's just
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  looking at the camera. And then the camera slowly,
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  slowly, slowly pans out and around him is just a complete
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  utter mess of destruction where he's obviously actually pulled
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  apart all of like the stuffing out of the bed that he's lying
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  on. And Oh my God, it was just so
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  cute. And I was just, it just took me
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  back to when Baloo was a puppy and I, Oh my God, I just
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  remember him chewing every single thing he could possibly
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  find. And then today I found another
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  video Tom had shared and it's just pictures of Dennis with
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  different shoes in his mouth. I love that.
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  My old four different shoes. We used to say that Harvey would
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  bring us presents and we came in the door because we'd walk
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  through the door, we'd sit on the sofa and Harvey would have a
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  shoe in his mouth and he'd give you a shoe and she came in the
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  door. I didn't matter who you were.
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  I remember him doing that because I met him a few times,
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  obviously, like when we first started being friends.
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  Obviously I went up to your mum and dad's a few times, didn't I?
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  And he, he was there. I do remember him doing that
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  balloon he. Was just not.
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  He's not a shoe person. He's, he likes to just grab
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  random things. It's very strange.
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  If somebody comes in the house, he gets very excited and he's
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  learnt that if he has a toy in his mouth, he doesn't mouth you.
• 19:01
  Like I always used to tell him off because he doesn't bite.
• 19:04
  He's very, very soft, but he like, licks and like, puts his
• 19:07
  mouth on your hand. I have to tell him, like, not to
• 19:11
  do that. So he's learned to go and pick
• 19:13
  up a toy instead. But sometimes it can literally
• 19:16
  be anything that's on the floor like.
• 19:18
  Genuine. I remember I came to your house
• 19:20
  once and he gave me a piece of tissue.
• 19:22
  Yeah, yeah. Tissue, like wet wipes, Marley
• 19:25
  socks, teddies of Marley's pencils, a bit of like toilet
• 19:30
  roll, you know, like the toilet roll holders.
• 19:32
  Sometimes I let Marley play with those.
• 19:34
  He'll pick those up. I've seen him pick up so many
• 19:36
  different things, even like down to like a tiny little piece of
• 19:38
  like, tape or something that's stuck to my sock or something.
• 19:42
  And he'll pick it up. He'll find it.
• 19:45
  And then he gets the zoomies and it's just the cutest thing ever.
• 19:47
  But yes, well, Dennis is a golden retriever and I thought
• 19:53
  it would be super cute to mention him today.
• 19:56
  They actually got him last August 2005, August 2005, They
• 20:01
  great dumped him. I know.
• 20:03
  Oh yeah, such a good month, such a good summer month.
• 20:08
  I just think having a dog is such a.
• 20:12
  It's just a different, it's just a different thing, isn't it?
• 20:15
  Do you know what I mean? Like, I know you've had like a
• 20:17
  family dog, haven't you? And like, you've got cat now,
• 20:20
  and you've had cats quite a lot, haven't you, with your like,
• 20:22
  since you've been, you know, adult enough to have your own
• 20:25
  house? So like about getting a dog, we
• 20:27
  have and it's actually something that we looked into during
• 20:30
  lockdown is adopting a dog or you know, fostering.
• 20:36
  So until they get there for home, we didn't.
• 20:38
  Really be able to say goodbye. No, that's the reason why we
• 20:42
  didn't do it. Because I know I would be, I
• 20:45
  would be really, I would be awful.
• 20:48
  But also we just, it's really hard because since me and
• 20:53
  Bradley have been together, I lost my dog, he lost one of his
• 20:57
  and we've lost 2 cats and we just, it's just a heartbreak
• 21:04
  that we're not ready for. Do you know what I mean?
• 21:07
  I am so ready for all of the goodness.
• 21:10
  I'm so ready to love a dog the way it should be loved.
• 21:13
  And sometimes I get really angry at people that I see not loving
• 21:17
  a dog how it should be loved. For example, people like I used
• 21:21
  to in my old job, I used to work in hospitality and I used to
• 21:24
  actually physically tell people off for walking their dog when
• 21:27
  it was too hot when they came into our coffee shop because.
• 21:31
  We see it all the time down here in Cornwall, we see it all the
• 21:33
  time on. People.
• 21:34
  Yeah, I bet you do. Literally it's like 30° in the
• 21:36
  summer and you're like, what are you doing?
• 21:38
  These dogs need to be at home like they should not be.
• 21:40
  So we ask. Rather not give them a walk and
• 21:43
  not kill them of heat exhaustion.
• 21:45
  Do you know what I mean? Yeah, exactly.
• 21:47
  And also you could just do it later in the evening or take
• 21:51
  them to in, take them in your car to a field or something
• 21:54
  where it's not really, really hot or, I don't know.
• 21:56
  There are so many other things you could do.
• 21:57
  We are so ready for one. But also there are things that
• 22:01
  come with having a dog like. Oh God, it's in.
• 22:03
  The house. Yeah, it's a massive
• 22:05
  responsibility as well. Like it's the winter, especially
• 22:07
  when you've got. Yeah, exactly.
• 22:10
  We've got two kids. There's hardly enough room for
• 22:11
  the four of us. Yeah.
• 22:13
  We need a bigger house, we need more spare time, yeah.
• 22:20
  They deserve a lot of love as well.
• 22:21
  And like I also sometimes fit even feel bad like with Baloo,
• 22:25
  because he's 3 now, he'll be he'll be four this year, which
• 22:28
  makes me feel physically sick that he's going to be 4.
• 22:31
  Like I can't believe that's not even OK.
• 22:35
  I, I feel I get even get like mum guilt with him because
• 22:40
  obviously I'm playing with Mali like all day.
• 22:43
  We're at home together and I do try my best to involve him and
• 22:45
  like he's quite lazy. He likes to chill and sleep and
• 22:47
  whatever. But like I find it really hard
• 22:49
  when I come home. Obviously, like if Jack's in
• 22:52
  here with Molly, the first thing I do is go to Molly and he's
• 22:55
  like buzzing around my legs and like sometimes I'm like
• 22:59
  accidentally like trip over or something because he's right in
• 23:01
  front of me and then I'm like go away below and then I'm like,
• 23:04
  Oh, I'm sorry. And then I watch a video where
• 23:08
  someone's like talking about their dog or like the dog's
• 23:10
  dying or something. And I'm like, Oh my God, how
• 23:12
  ever been so horrible to you? Like when I say so horrible, I
• 23:16
  let it's me telling him to go away.
• 23:17
  Like that's how horrible I am to a dog.
• 23:19
  But that even that in itself, it's just like heartbreaking.
• 23:23
  It's so sad. There's such big parts of your
• 23:25
  life. But I do think that the years of
• 23:28
  memories that you make with them are worth the heartbreak.
• 23:31
  It really is. And it is going to kill me when
• 23:33
  he goes. But my God, I'm so lucky to have
• 23:36
  him. He's such a good dog as is dead.
• 23:38
  Another thing I will say as well, yeah, another thing I will
• 23:41
  say as well is that we also would really love to adopt A
• 23:44
  dog. And I I think people, not
• 23:47
  people, but companies eat like animal shelters and stuff make
• 23:51
  it so hard for you to be able to adopt A dog when you have
• 23:54
  children. It is near on impossible to
• 23:58
  adopt A dog when you have children.
• 24:01
  And expensive as well. My God, it's so expensive.
• 24:04
  I think because we looked at rescue and it worked out, it was
• 24:07
  going to be something like 4-5 hundred pounds to actually
• 24:10
  rescue a dog. And it was £800 to, to get a
• 24:13
  puppy. And we were like with us,
• 24:16
  obviously at that point we were trying for a baby and stuff and
• 24:19
  we knew that we needed to have a dog that was timid and could be
• 24:22
  around children. We just thought, you know what,
• 24:25
  getting a puppy was just a better option for us at that
• 24:27
  time. But it isn't to say that I
• 24:29
  wouldn't have rescued if if the right thing had come along, but
• 24:31
  it was just so long and expensive.
• 24:34
  And they do like house cheques. And you know, and I get that you
• 24:37
  need a dog to have a good home. I understand that completely,
• 24:40
  but. Also, don't these dogs just need
• 24:42
  homes? Yeah, exactly.
• 24:44
  You could adopt A child. Like, easier than adopting a
• 24:47
  bloody dog. Crazy.
• 24:49
  But equally, I think I love golden retrievers.
• 24:53
  And when I saw that they'd got a golden retriever, I was like,
• 24:56
  this is the cutest thing ever because we were having an R ING
• 24:58
  between a Labrador and a golden retriever for like a while.
• 25:01
  We were like, although we did make a very rash decision in
• 25:04
  getting below, it was very last minute.
• 25:07
  Jack didn't really get a say. I found the dogs that they were
• 25:09
  for sale and I was like, should we go and see a dog?
• 25:12
  He didn't have a lot of say at all.
• 25:15
  But we went for a Labrador because golden retrievers in my
• 25:19
  head don't shed. Like shed loads more than
• 25:21
  Labradors. I was wrong.
• 25:24
  My dog is a walking bowl of fluff.
• 25:27
  My house is, there is hair everywhere, like on the shelves.
• 25:33
  Like how does that happen? Like how does that happen?
• 25:35
  It is is all the time and it is disgusting.
• 25:39
  It makes me want to cry. I see Molly sometimes if she's
• 25:41
  in a Strop, she like lies down on the floor.
• 25:43
  I'm like, get off the floor. You're covered in dog hair.
• 25:47
  She's like rubbing her face in the carpet.
• 25:49
  I'm like, oh God, what are you doing?
• 25:51
  I remember one time I came to your house.
• 25:53
  Actually, it was when we went to see Carrie in the Love Letters
• 25:56
  Tour, and I wore these black leggings and a jumper.
• 26:03
  Yeah, always. And I was sat on your sofa and
• 26:06
  you were like, OK, it's time to go, 'cause you were taking me to
• 26:09
  the train station. Yeah.
• 26:11
  Like it was on on a way out and I remember looking down and I
• 26:14
  went to. Here's a leg roller for you.
• 26:17
  I went to stroke balloon and it wasn't balloon as my leg.
• 26:20
  Yeah, and I've got black waggons.
• 26:23
  Yeah, because he literally just rubs up against you and then it
• 26:26
  just falls off of him and then you.
• 26:28
  I always say to people, never wear black to my house.
• 26:30
  Just don't wear beige. If you could wear beige or wear
• 26:32
  jeans because jeans don't get hairy.
• 26:35
  Never ever wear black there. You go.
• 26:38
  Oh. Dear, there you go.
• 26:39
  Well, you know, dogs. Dogs are not just for Christmas,
• 26:42
  they're for life. And we're very happy that we get
• 26:43
  to see Dennis on our Instagram screens as well.
• 26:46
  So thank you for sharing him with us, Fletchers, because if
• 26:50
  we can't, we can't, Yeah, we can't be part of your family.
• 26:52
  We can live vicariously through Dennis.
• 26:54
  Exactly. It's time for Song of the week,
• 27:00
  and this week's song is no disappointment.
• 27:04
  We are checking our rearview mirrors.
• 27:05
  We are changing the passcodes on all our phones and locking the
• 27:09
  doors. Because this week we are looking
• 27:11
  at Busted song Psycho Girl. Oh yes, we are here for the
• 27:31
  Psycho Girls. So we're going to get straight
• 27:33
  into it. I thought we'd just give our
• 27:35
  ratings and then I want to talk about the lyrics and the like,
• 27:38
  the story behind it. And then we've got a few stories
• 27:40
  of our own to share as well, haven't we?
• 27:42
  So let's, let's get to it. Give me a rating and a turn.
• 27:46
  What do you think and why? OK, this is a dodgy rating for
• 27:50
  me. OK, I'm going to give it a 5
• 27:53
  because I tell you I love this song but I also forget about
• 27:58
  this song. Yeah, it's quite forgetful.
• 28:01
  Yeah, I when I listen to it, I'm like, what a banger.
• 28:04
  But like I've just, it's just, I just forget about it.
• 28:10
  It's. I get you.
• 28:12
  Yeah, it's not. Lyrically, it's really good.
• 28:16
  Like when I listen to it, I'm like, oh, what a good song.
• 28:18
  But I wouldn't listen to it while I'm running, and I
• 28:20
  wouldn't listen to it when I wanted to cry, and I won't
• 28:22
  listen to it when I want to scream in the car.
• 28:24
  It's just one of those songs that's like very mellow.
• 28:27
  There's no need for me to go to this song.
• 28:31
  Do you know what I mean? I get you, I get you.
• 28:32
  There's no, like, vibe for it, is there?
• 28:34
  Like, what's no mood you're in? You've got to be in, like, a
• 28:37
  really strange mood to want to listen to this song.
• 28:39
  Yeah, I get that. Yeah.
• 28:42
  So I'd say 5. OK, I'm going to actually for
• 28:45
  once agree with you. I've also rated this live.
• 28:48
  I think for me, I think it's very samey.
• 28:54
  They are there is a simple yet effective song.
• 28:57
  I think that's what I wrote down because it is good.
• 29:00
  It is. You know, it does have quite
• 29:02
  effective lyrics in that we've they're very relatable and if
• 29:08
  not a little bit sexist, but you know, it's of the time a lot of
• 29:13
  psycho boys out there too. But it's OK.
• 29:16
  But I copied and pasted the lyrics out earlier so that I
• 29:19
  could have a little look at them.
• 29:20
  And I just want to for us to go through them a little bit
• 29:24
  because they already. Trained them and I.
• 29:27
  So I just. Read 1 and it was like
• 29:29
  everything I say she takes it the wrong way and I'm like is
• 29:31
  that about me psycho girl? I mean, it starts with she's so
• 29:37
  weird, it scares me. Yeah, same.
• 29:42
  Hilarious. I don't think she likes me.
• 29:46
  But then he says, and thinking of her name, it's driving me
• 29:49
  insane. And it's almost like they're
• 29:51
  like, this girl's absolutely fucking messed up, but I want
• 29:56
  her. Yeah.
• 29:58
  Do you know what I mean? Like, it's very strange.
• 29:59
  So that's the beginning. She's so weird, it scares me.
• 30:02
  I don't think she likes me, and thinking of her name is driving
• 30:05
  me insane. Then we move on to the chorus.
• 30:07
  She's my psycho girl, my psycho girlfriend.
• 30:10
  Everything I say, she takes it the wrong way.
• 30:12
  She's my psycho girl, my living nightmare.
• 30:16
  Yeah, it's about me personally attacked by James Bond.
• 30:22
  I just was like, you're living nightmare, why are you with this
• 30:25
  woman? She's everything I need, but I
• 30:28
  can't stand her. Stand her.
• 30:30
  Literally, I can't stand her. Written is this song if Imagine
• 30:36
  you were dating one of the band members at the time they
• 30:39
  released. I was just about to say, yeah, I
• 30:43
  was just about to say, imagine if, like, imagine if you find
• 30:46
  out that he wrote, like, Busted have written a song about you or
• 30:49
  James Bond has written a song about you, you'll be like, Oh my
• 30:51
  God, how cool. Which one is it?
• 30:52
  And it's Psycho girl. Yeah, I can't.
• 30:55
  Go to school for it's nothing fun it's not.
• 30:59
  Falling for you it's. Not meet you there.
• 31:02
  It's psycho girl and then obviously yeah she's everything
• 31:07
  I need but I can't stand her. The next verse again it's the
• 31:11
  same last two lines. The 1st 2 lines are I can't
• 31:14
  change her thinking but she's so good looking thinking of her
• 31:19
  name it's driving me insane again.
• 31:21
  So she's she's absolutely psycho, but it's OK because
• 31:26
  she's fit. She's fit.
• 31:27
  She's PHIT fit, so I can deal with it.
• 31:31
  I mean, I can understand that. I can get with that a little
• 31:35
  bit. Depends who it is, you know.
• 31:37
  I've put up with a little bit of annoying behaviour.
• 31:41
  From your cousin for a. While, and you know, he was,
• 31:44
  he's all right, he's easy on the eyes.
• 31:46
  So I can't say it's like it was psycho behaviour.
• 31:50
  It's just a bit of a Dick, but again, so yeah, thinking of her
• 31:55
  name is driving me insane. And then we go back to she's my
• 31:58
  psycho girl, got my psycho girlfriend.
• 32:01
  My favourite bit is the bridge because even though again, it
• 32:06
  still goes to thinking of her name, it's driving me insane.
• 32:09
  Which is literally every verse. And the bridge, It's the bit
• 32:12
  where he goes. We spent the night in, we
• 32:15
  started fighting. Since then, it's never been the
• 32:19
  same. It just makes me so happy.
• 32:22
  It's like, it's like an anthem, you know?
• 32:24
  And like you're like, you sing a song and you're just feeling
• 32:27
  every like inch of it. Every time I hear that bit, I
• 32:31
  love it. But then it doesn't actually
• 32:33
  make any sense. But this is what I mean, it
• 32:36
  shouldn't get to the bridge for you to start loving it.
• 32:38
  No, I know. No, that's why I rate it.
• 32:41
  If I if I'm completely honest, Ann probably being a little bit
• 32:44
  generous with A5. Oh, no, because I like it.
• 32:48
  I just don't ever choose to listen to it.
• 32:50
  When I listen to it, I'm like, oh, yeah, what a banger.
• 32:52
  But actually, I've never, I don't.
• 32:55
  Never in my, like, rememberable memory have I been like, oh, do
• 32:59
  you know what I really do? You know what I really fancy
• 33:02
  listening to Psycho Girl. So good.
• 33:07
  Oh God. Do you know what though?
• 33:10
  I, I, yeah, I do. It's not, it's not one of my
• 33:12
  favourites. It's definitely a lower ranked
• 33:15
  Busted song. I've got some Busted songs that
• 33:18
  I absolutely love. But this is yeah, it's down
• 33:20
  there, It's down there. I just think it's not it, it is,
• 33:25
  it is good of the time. It is of the time, like I said,
• 33:28
  you know, we would have said things like this a lot back
• 33:31
  then. Nowadays, to call someone a
• 33:33
  psycho girl, it's probably not very nice.
• 33:37
  I mean, calling someone your living nightmare and telling
• 33:40
  them you can't stand them is. I don't think that's ever been
• 33:42
  nice. Nice.
• 33:43
  No, but equally I felt like it was acceptable in the night in
• 33:47
  the late 90s early noughties. Yeah, if you were saying it to
• 33:50
  your friends, do you know what I mean?
• 33:51
  Yeah, maybe. Maybe.
• 33:54
  Oh, dear. But one thing I do love about
• 33:57
  this song is Charlie Simpson's voice.
• 34:00
  Can we just put that out there? Because he.
• 34:03
  Oh, just a moment. This is going to be a constant,
• 34:07
  like a constant theme through every Busted song.
• 34:11
  Just that it's like, oh, the songwriting is pretty good.
• 34:16
  Oh, it's a little bit boring to start with, but Charlie's voice.
• 34:20
  Charlie's voice is, it just makes it all so good.
• 34:23
  And you know me, I'm a big James Bond fan.
• 34:26
  I am Jamie till I die, and I love Matt.
• 34:28
  So it's not like I don't like their voices at all.
• 34:30
  They're very different voices, aren't they?
• 34:32
  James is like the cool. He's like the Tom Fletcher of of
• 34:36
  Busted. And then you've got Matt, who's
• 34:38
  a bit more like Rocky and he's a bit more like Danny.
• 34:41
  You know, he's got that raspy, like, you know, like he's got
• 34:45
  that interesting tone. Then you've got CC's just
• 34:49
  someone else. You can't compare Charlie.
• 34:51
  I know Danny is an incredible singer, and I'm not saying that
• 34:54
  like Charlie is better than Danny.
• 34:56
  That's not what I'm saying. But I'm saying you cannot
• 34:58
  compare their vocals. Like Danny's versatility is
• 35:02
  insane and his vocal range is mental, but what he can do with
• 35:06
  his voice is someone else. And it's definitely like, in
• 35:10
  that way, I think it is probably higher than Charlie's in terms
• 35:14
  of versatility. But Oh my God, Charlie's voice
• 35:18
  is like melted caramel. You.
• 35:20
  Know what I'm I will say I do disagree with you a little bit
• 35:24
  there. I'm like Danny till I die.
• 35:26
  However, Charlie, Danny is like, he can be sing song and he can
• 35:32
  be raspy and he can be tough and like, you know, it feels a
• 35:37
  little bit raw, but I've never heard Danny scream like I've
• 35:41
  heard Charlie scream. Ah, very true, very true.
• 35:44
  And you know what? That's because I don't listen to
• 35:46
  Charlie scream stuff. I know you're more into that
• 35:49
  sort of stuff than I am. And I forget that he does fight
• 35:52
  star and president and those sort of like more Rocky things.
• 35:55
  I just love him when he just sings his little and he's got
• 35:57
  that like, oh, that low. But you know what?
• 36:00
  That's what I. Like the vibration in his voice.
• 36:02
  Yeah, that's, but that's what I really love about a lot.
• 36:05
  So I listen to so well, as we all know, I think both of us
• 36:09
  have got quite a wide range of like music that we listen to.
• 36:13
  But I listen to a lot of like rock, metal.
• 36:17
  And one of my favourite things is hearing somebody that can be
• 36:20
  so aggressive and screamy do that like perfect slow song, but
• 36:26
  like not miss a beat. And that is literally Charlie.
• 36:31
  He doesn't miss a beat, ever. No, you're so you're so right
• 36:34
  that I completely agree with you.
• 36:35
  Do you know what? They're all just amazing in
• 36:37
  their own way, aren't they? And like, I think they're such
• 36:39
  overlooked bands. They really are.
• 36:41
  Like, I mean it's. Because they're pop and they've
• 36:43
  got a it's because they're they like start started off puppy and
• 36:48
  they started off with a like a teen heavy female teen fanbase.
• 36:53
  And for some reason the world just hates a girl fangirl.
• 36:57
  Oh God, seriously, get over it. Oh, don't get me on this.
• 37:00
  Do not get me on this. Do not get me on this.
• 37:03
  Because I, I always use the same, the same example.
• 37:09
  When I was younger, I was a belieber.
• 37:11
  I was like, right there. Everyone, of course I was.
• 37:15
  Everyone called me like, you know, names for liking Justin
• 37:19
  Bieber, and then he brings out a fucking album with Skrillex and
• 37:22
  then every guy likes him suddenly.
• 37:25
  And then I'm like, what? So he's cool now?
• 37:27
  He's cool now because boys like him.
• 37:29
  Yeah, exactly. So true.
• 37:32
  So true. Oh.
• 37:33
  My God. Anyway, yeah, sorry, don't start
• 37:35
  me off on that tangent. No, no, it's fine.
• 37:37
  I love it. I love it.
• 37:39
  So yeah, a bit of an interesting song, a strange one.
• 37:42
  Not my top rated, not my lowest, but yeah, I think 5 is a is a
• 37:45
  good rating for it definitely. But it also has sparked quite a
• 37:50
  lot of conversations between US and between some of you guys.
• 37:53
  So we put a post out last week of the Psycho Girl and how we
• 37:58
  are looking. We were looking for stories from
• 38:00
  you about perhaps your Psycho X's or you being the Psycho X.
• 38:05
  We had so many interesting stories and some of them really
• 38:08
  blew our socks off. I couldn't actually believe some
• 38:11
  of them were true, I'm not going to lie.
• 38:13
  We've picked a couple of our favourites to share because we
• 38:15
  also have to share our Psycho Girl stories.
• 38:18
  So we've picked 3 and we're going to take a turn to reading
• 38:22
  them out. So one that we received.
• 38:25
  This person said my first boyfriend used to take my phone
• 38:29
  away and lock me in his bedroom. My dad came to pick me up from
• 38:34
  Kings Cross station and lo and behold I wasn't there.
• 38:38
  My mum called his mum and asked where I was and she laughed and
• 38:41
  said I didn't want to come back, which wasn't the truth at all.
• 38:44
  What a Dick head. And then she's put in brackets.
• 38:46
  You can add that with a laughing face.
• 38:49
  She wanted me to say what a Dick head.
• 38:51
  What on earth locked you in his bedroom?
• 38:56
  That's just not OK. That's how weird.
• 39:00
  I mean, that's a clear, obvious control issue, right?
• 39:05
  Yeah, right. I wonder where that man is now.
• 39:08
  Yeah, I fear for the girl. That with a restraining order or
• 39:11
  two. Yeah, probably.
• 39:12
  I feel for the person that he's ended up with if he hasn't ended
• 39:15
  up with anyone, because that is absolute proper psycho
• 39:18
  behaviour. Taking your phone away is one
• 39:23
  thing. Locking you in his bedroom?
• 39:25
  I'd love to know. What?
• 39:26
  Your parents. What your parents thought about
• 39:28
  this if you did tell them? Because if I'd have told my mum
• 39:31
  or dad if something like that. They'd be marching up there.
• 39:34
  And literally, I can remember telling my dad that I'd been
• 39:36
  cheated on and he told me he was going to bring a shotgun down.
• 39:40
  Obviously he didn't and it's licenced, don't worry.
• 39:44
  But still, you know. But also like his, his parents
• 39:48
  must have been like freaks as well because they carried on his
• 39:52
  lie. Weird.
• 39:54
  So weird. Like why would lie?
• 39:58
  Because they were like, oh, she doesn't want to come back.
• 40:00
  Yeah, exactly. Like, what?
• 40:02
  Weird. I mean, they're probably just
• 40:04
  making up for their son's awful psycho behaviour, aren't they?
• 40:07
  Family of psychos. Yeah, he's obviously learned it
• 40:10
  from somewhere, hasn't he? So.
• 40:12
  Yeah, well, yeah, maybe that's how his parents got together.
• 40:15
  Exactly. Well, you never know, right?
• 40:17
  Do you want to read story #2? Yes so this one says my psycho X
• 40:24
  story is whenever I went out with my friends when he wasn't
• 40:28
  invited he would follow me around via social media AKA
• 40:32
  Snapchat location and find my friends and he would constantly
• 40:37
  ask me for photo proof that there was no men with me.
• 40:41
  That's right, no male friends allowed.
• 40:44
  I stayed with him for two years until I took off the Rose tinted
• 40:47
  glasses and realised that was no oh.
• 40:50
  My Lord above, that's not good. That's not good at all, is it?
• 40:55
  I mean that is not OK. No.
• 40:59
  This takes that, this or that like completely.
• 41:03
  Multiplied by 100 Yeah wow. It's the, it's the photo proof
• 41:09
  thing. I mean, following somebody on
• 41:12
  social media, looking on their Snapchats, things like that.
• 41:15
  I mean, if, if nobody finds out that you're doing that, then
• 41:17
  whatever. Like if the, if, if you're
• 41:20
  stupid enough to have your location turned on on Snapchat
• 41:24
  so somebody can see where you are all the time, then that's.
• 41:26
  Especially if you're doing something wrong like.
• 41:28
  Yeah, exactly. Equally fine, yeah.
• 41:32
  Yeah, I just think asking for photo proof that there's no men
• 41:35
  with you. How can you even do that?
• 41:37
  If you were with men, you'd just say go and stand over there
• 41:39
  while I take this picture. I was just, I mean, that's
• 41:42
  ridiculous thing. And also that's not that's not a
• 41:45
  thing. That's not a no Wow.
• 41:48
  I think that shows serious like lack of self esteem though on on
• 41:53
  the X's part because it's obviously more of a worry thing
• 41:57
  like and do you know what? But also, they stayed with him
• 42:00
  for two years, two years of having to have a relationship
• 42:04
  like that. That's rough man, and to this
• 42:07
  person who's been brave enough to tell us this story, I hope
• 42:10
  that you've never put up with that sort of behaviour again,
• 42:12
  because that is rough as rats, man.
• 42:13
  You deserve so much better. Well, but turn your bloody
• 42:16
  Snapchat location off. Well, delete Snapchat because
• 42:20
  it's fucking shit, yeah. Who needs Snapchat?
• 42:22
  I mean it depends how old you are I suppose.
• 42:24
  If you're like 1819 then it's OK, but if you're 30 like us,
• 42:27
  not a thing anymore. Literally.
• 42:31
  Not good. OK, we've got one more from
• 42:34
  another listener. So this one, this one made me
• 42:38
  laugh out loud when I read it. Genuinely had to read it twice.
• 42:42
  I was like, did she actually just say that happened?
• 42:46
  Hello. So basically I was with someone
• 42:50
  for a few years and we went to Mcbusted at Hyde Park, but he
• 42:54
  hated McFly. When we got there he started to
• 42:58
  accuse me of sleeping with members of McFly.
• 43:03
  I was like, I wish laughing face.
• 43:08
  That's the first part I stopped. I genuinely stopped in my tracks
• 43:12
  and thought, what first of all? Madness.
• 43:18
  This girl's obviously a big fan, but Busted McFly.
• 43:21
  I love that. If she was sleeping with members
• 43:23
  of the band, she ain't going to be stood in general admission
• 43:25
  with you, mate. She's going to be backstage
• 43:27
  waiting for them to come off sick, you know what I mean?
• 43:29
  She ain't messing. Around if she unless you never
• 43:31
  know, it could be Maura Higgins at centre saying you never know
• 43:35
  Shannon, we are not talking about Maura.
• 43:39
  We are not talking about Maura Higgins on this podcast.
• 43:43
  The Bottom Up. She said it, she said it OK but
• 43:49
  still, you know, weird. OK so the next bit was he was
• 43:53
  very horrible to my friends and ruined that whole experience for
• 43:56
  me. I had to pretend to stop liking
• 43:58
  McFly as he was very controlling about this and wouldn't let me
• 44:02
  go and see them. I was young at the time so I
• 44:05
  thought it was love in quotation marks.
• 44:09
  Thankfully I'm now with someone who doesn't care how many times
• 44:12
  I see McFly but my ex fully ripped up some of my McFly
• 44:16
  posters and ruined some of my merchandised.
• 44:19
  I learned not to be bothered what others think.
• 44:21
  As a McFly fan and McFly mean a lot to me.
• 44:25
  I mean my gosh fuck that's mentor.
• 44:27
  I've been fuming. Yeah, also so proud of you for
• 44:31
  finding someone after that that like loves you, who you are and
• 44:35
  lets. You.
• 44:36
  Have your little obsession because exactly.
• 44:40
  Oh, we're I could we're. All a little bit.
• 44:42
  We're all a little bit obsessed with McFly, don't worry.
• 44:45
  Yeah, we're all friends here. We're all friends here.
• 44:49
  Oh dear. So yeah, that was that was
• 44:52
  another one which I thought was was quite good.
• 44:54
  We do have quite a few to read, but that we're already at 55
• 44:58
  minutes of this podcast quite now.
• 45:00
  So as much as maybe we'll share some on our stories for you guys
• 45:04
  to have a read for those of you that have sent them in, thank
• 45:07
  you so much for sending in your stories.
• 45:09
  Obviously, everything's anonymous.
• 45:10
  If you ever want to share a story to be read out on the
• 45:12
  podcast, please send us Adm on Instagram or you can actually
• 45:16
  e-mail us at Galaxy Crashes Podcast at gmail.com.
• 45:21
  So as we've done everybody else's Psycho X stories,
• 45:25
  Shannon, did you want to dive into our past psycho stories?
• 45:30
  And when I say our, I mean me, because you don't really have
• 45:32
  any. I don't really.
• 45:34
  I really don't have any I like. I'm such a chill bean.
• 45:39
  I will mourn over you and just eat loads of cake until I stop
• 45:43
  feeling things like I love that. Yeah, stop.
• 45:47
  Feeling things. I'd love to hear yours though.
• 45:50
  OK, I mean, I've got some that I will not share on this podcast
• 45:54
  because my parents listen to this, so perhaps I'll tell you
• 45:59
  those after. But I do have I do have a couple
• 46:02
  of instances that aren't quite as bad.
• 46:05
  Shall we? Let's go with with a psycho X
• 46:07
  first. So I had an ex-boyfriend.
• 46:10
  We were together for a year and a half.
• 46:13
  We were like 17, long, long time ago.
• 46:16
  We actually moved in together into a little house, but
• 46:21
  actually the house I'm living in now with a roommate because we
• 46:24
  couldn't stay living in it's mum's for forever.
• 46:26
  And our friend we were quite good friends with and he was
• 46:28
  looking for somewhere as well. So we sort of all said let's
• 46:30
  move in together. It lasted I think about 3
• 46:33
  months. That was literally all but it
• 46:35
  was it was. But when we broke up, obviously
• 46:42
  the house that we were living in belong to my grandparents.
• 46:46
  So it was really awkward because I then obviously had to ask him
• 46:50
  to leave. He didn't want to leave.
• 46:53
  He didn't have anywhere to go. He used the excuse as I haven't
• 46:56
  got anywhere to go, I can't go back to my mom's, I've got no to
• 46:58
  go, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
• 46:59
  And I felt awful because I was the one breaking up with him.
• 47:01
  I felt like I had to sort of be a bit more lenient on it.
• 47:05
  So all of my stuff, like my belongings, everything was still
• 47:09
  being kept in the house because when he left I was going to come
• 47:12
  and live in here anyway. But I was actually living that.
• 47:15
  Store in my grandparents house so I remember coming in and
• 47:20
  getting some things and leaving my camera bag in this house
• 47:24
  where he was living and a few nights before.
• 47:28
  Bear in mind this was a good 5-6 weeks after we'd split, you
• 47:32
  know. We'd had a fair month or so
• 47:34
  apart and I'd gone to a skate park evening with my friend and
• 47:39
  it was like a bit of a get together with a load of mates
• 47:42
  and it was just a giggle. We were all like in our sleeping
• 47:45
  bags going down half pipes and it was hilarious.
• 47:47
  But there was a photo of me and I was sat next to another person
• 47:53
  who was male and we were having like photos as groups and then
• 47:59
  like all together. I don't know whether perhaps he
• 48:02
  had his arm on my shoulder or like we were leaning on each
• 48:05
  other. I don't know.
• 48:05
  She. Was like chilling.
• 48:07
  Yeah, there was nothing like romantic about the photo.
• 48:11
  Like it was genuinely just a very chill picture.
• 48:14
  Well this this person had then found my camera in the house and
• 48:21
  spent time sat going through all of the photos on my camera.
• 48:24
  He then rang me while I was at work.
• 48:26
  I used to clean for a little little old lady up in the
• 48:29
  village next to our SO. I used to walk to work and walk
• 48:32
  home. He rang me screaming down the
• 48:35
  phone saying that I needed to come home, that he needed to see
• 48:39
  me, needed to speak to me. He was like, I can't believe you
• 48:42
  would do this to me. And I was like, dude, we're not
• 48:46
  together. Like this is really weird.
• 48:48
  Anyway, I started walking home because I was thinking of him
• 48:51
  running around my grandparents like garden or you know, area
• 48:55
  where they were living because they live next door to where we
• 48:57
  were living and like, you know, just being crazy.
• 49:01
  So I started walking home and then he came along the road in
• 49:05
  his car by reminder there's no pavements.
• 49:07
  This road is like quite a bendy little Rd is not good.
• 49:11
  Absolutely flooring it around this corner.
• 49:13
  And he came around the corner so fast then saw me that he slammed
• 49:16
  his brakes on and pulled his handbrake so hard that he
• 49:19
  actually ripped his handbrake out of the car.
• 49:24
  And I remember he was like get in the car.
• 49:27
  And I was like OK, like calm down.
• 49:30
  I got in the car and he was like you've just made me break my
• 49:33
  car. I was like, I haven't done
• 49:35
  anything here. Oh my goodness.
• 49:36
  You did that, you're the person going mental.
• 49:39
  We're not together anymore. Also get the fuck out of my
• 49:43
  house. Yeah, literally off your box.
• 49:46
  Move out. I've had enough now.
• 49:49
  And yeah, it was just, it was just a bit mental, like it was
• 49:53
  really crazy. And that wasn't, that wasn't the
• 49:55
  only time it had happened. He found my he went through my
• 50:00
  phone at one point and found a message that he didn't like and
• 50:05
  it again, we were not together. And it wasn't like a crazy
• 50:09
  message. It was just maybe I was being a
• 50:11
  bit flirtatious with someone. I don't know.
• 50:13
  I was 18 who cares? And I was actually having a
• 50:18
  coffee catch up with one of my old friends from school and he
• 50:21
  turned up at this coffee day and.
• 50:23
  Was like, Oh my goodness. Stormed in and was like, I need
• 50:25
  to speak to you outside. And I was just like, and you
• 50:28
  know what? He was a really nice guy.
• 50:29
  Like he genuinely this was like the only time.
• 50:32
  You're not selling that to him. I'm really not.
• 50:34
  But like he was, he was really nice at the beginning and like I
• 50:38
  felt bad for sort of like breaking his heart, you know?
• 50:40
  But like at the same time, like that was just uncalled for.
• 50:44
  It's just a little bit mental. And now I look back in now, I
• 50:47
  was like, gosh, that really was a bit psycho.
• 50:51
  But he did finally move out my house.
• 50:53
  He did leave dirty dishes in my dishwasher for like 6 weeks or
• 50:57
  something and it ended up having to be chucked away because it
• 50:59
  was so bad. It was pretty rough.
• 51:01
  But you know, if that's all it took to get him out, at least I
• 51:04
  got him out in the end. All it took.
• 51:08
  Yeah, exactly. That's my Psycho X story.
• 51:10
  I I've probably had my fair share of being a bit of a psycho
• 51:16
  gal. Really.
• 51:17
  Oh my. Goodness, I'm ready.
• 51:19
  Mainly when I was younger. So I was with somebody for quite
• 51:26
  a long time, five years I think nearly in total.
• 51:29
  But at the beginning he's, he was a bit of a Playboy.
• 51:33
  He was a bit of a a bit of a dickhead.
• 51:35
  He would put a bit of a facade on in front of his friends where
• 51:40
  he almost acted like I didn't exist.
• 51:42
  It was very, very strange. Bear in mind, we were.
• 51:44
  Like firstly fell end. Yeah, well, exactly.
• 51:48
  We were together, like we were officially together, like I'd
• 51:51
  bet his parents and he'd met mine and it, but on a night out,
• 51:55
  it was genuine. He would actually ignore me.
• 51:58
  It was very, very weird. We'd be walking around like we
• 52:02
  used to go to this club in Penzance called Sound, which was
• 52:06
  pretty fun. I think you probably went there
• 52:07
  with us at some point, Chan. It was a cool.
• 52:10
  It was a cool place. I used to work there as the
• 52:13
  camera person there for a while, but I can remember vividly him
• 52:17
  like walking past me with his friends and like not even
• 52:20
  looking me in the eye, like just walking past me.
• 52:23
  And I'd like grab his arm or like, try to say like, hey.
• 52:26
  And like, like he'd invited me out to be there with him and his
• 52:30
  friends. And I was there with him and his
• 52:31
  friend and maybe like one of my friends who was probably off
• 52:35
  having fun and meeting people and, you know, and I was just
• 52:39
  like, what the fuck? And I remember one night after
• 52:42
  like weeks and weeks of this happening, I just had a fucking
• 52:44
  knife of it. And I was like, I like, I
• 52:47
  remember he was inside. I remember grabbing him and
• 52:49
  pulling him outside. And I was like, I got a bit
• 52:52
  upset because I was like, you're just like, what is this?
• 52:55
  Like you're ignoring me. And then the next day you're all
• 52:58
  over me and you're like, oh, I really like you.
• 53:00
  And, you know, you're inviting me to your parents.
• 53:02
  And what the fuck? Like, how can you explain that?
• 53:07
  It doesn't make sense. So I worked out it was obviously
• 53:10
  always when we were drinking but he he got really pissy with me
• 53:15
  for crying and his mates used to take the piss out of me.
• 53:18
  They even wrote a tweet about me once that I saw and they didn't
• 53:21
  tag me or anything but I remember seeing it and it said
• 53:24
  she doesn't know how to party, she just knows how to cry.
• 53:26
  And I was like. Oh my goodness.
• 53:29
  Bear in mind these boys were like 19/20/21 like he was four
• 53:33
  years older than me, I was 18 so.
• 53:35
  He was 20. That sounds like that.
• 53:38
  Sounds like if I ever bought an album out, that would be my
• 53:40
  album title. I mean, they were very accurate.
• 53:46
  They're talking about me now. I really don't know how to
• 53:49
  party. I did a few years later and I.
• 53:51
  Have, and I really do know how to cry.
• 53:53
  Yeah, I really do. But it was very it was just so
• 53:57
  strange and he came out he was pissed off because I was crying,
• 54:00
  his friends were taking the piss out of me and he decided he was
• 54:02
  going to walk home. Now bear in mind he lived in
• 54:05
  Hale Penzance is a 20 minute drive and he was going to walk
• 54:09
  home. It was like 8-9 miles.
• 54:12
  It was going to take hours. He started walking away and I
• 54:16
  was just like like stop walking away from me, stop ignoring me
• 54:19
  actually answer me. And I grabbed his hoodie as he
• 54:23
  was walking away and he like he pulled so hard that it like
• 54:26
  ripped the hood of his hoodie. 10 minutes later, the police
• 54:32
  turned up. Oh my God.
• 54:35
  And they were like, I was crying and I was like shouting after
• 54:38
  him. And he was just, again, I was
• 54:39
  just trying to follow him and he was just ignoring me.
• 54:41
  And they were like, you need to talking to me.
• 54:44
  You need to go and sit down. You need to go and calm down.
• 54:46
  And I was like, I was like, why are you talking to me?
• 54:48
  I was like, he's the problem here.
• 54:50
  And they were like, no, we've been told you're the aggressor.
• 54:54
  Aggressor. Which is so funny because I'm.
• 54:57
  Like the most aggressive person in the whole world, Taylor the
• 55:00
  aggressor. Taylor, the psycho girl
• 55:02
  aggressor. And that was me.
• 55:04
  And that's what men do to your brain.
• 55:07
  They make you feel like you're the problem and they make you
• 55:11
  the problem. Because if he did just turn
• 55:13
  around and had a conversation with me about what had happened
• 55:16
  or not, ignored me in the 1st place, considering that we'd
• 55:19
  been seeing each other for at least four or five months at
• 55:21
  that point, then I wouldn't have got so pissed off that I grabbed
• 55:24
  his hoodie and it ripped, do you know what I mean?
• 55:26
  Like that was it? Like it really wasn't that much
• 55:28
  of an issue. Probably should say that
• 55:31
  specific person went on to cheat on me in that exact club where
• 55:35
  my friends worked. So that worked out really well
• 55:37
  for him, just putting that. What a great guy.
• 55:40
  Well, to be honest, listening to that story, I don't think that
• 55:43
  makes you sound like a psycho girl.
• 55:44
  I think that makes you sound like a very normal girl because
• 55:47
  I mean, I'm not a psycho ex-girlfriend and I would have
• 55:50
  done the same thing, so. I felt very psycho at the time,
• 55:52
  I think. I think his friends made me feel
• 55:54
  really psycho because. They yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:56
  It sounds like, yeah, it sounds like a bit gaslighting you into
• 56:01
  thinking you are. Literally, and now like as well,
• 56:04
  looking back on it now as as a 30 year old, 33 year old nearly,
• 56:09
  it was so toxic. It was so toxic.
• 56:11
  It was vile. And and I don't think I really
• 56:14
  realised how toxic it was because that first year was so
• 56:18
  bad. I always like I forgot about it.
• 56:21
  I just sort of because it got better after that that I sort of
• 56:24
  forgot that that all happened and like it was doomed from the
• 56:27
  beginning. Do you know what I mean?
• 56:30
  I put up with a lot of shit that I shouldn't have part where then
• 56:33
  actually, I'm so glad that it was me that sort of decided to
• 56:37
  to call an end to it in the end. And and again, it was it wasn't
• 56:41
  a nice thing to have to go through.
• 56:43
  It's never nice to have to break up with someone, but equally I
• 56:46
  put up with a lot of shit from that person and I deserved
• 56:50
  better. And now I've got.
• 56:51
  Better. Silver Linings.
• 56:56
  But yeah, I was the psycho girl. So there we go.
• 56:58
  Psycho X and Psycho Girl Tay, that's me.
• 57:05
  Thank you all for being here. Thank you for listening to U.S.
• 57:07
  chat utter nonsense again for another hour.
• 57:09
  We are so, so happy that so many of you are still listening to us
• 57:12
  after. Well, this is episode 13, so
• 57:15
  nearly 13 weeks ago. Yeah.
• 57:17
  So thank you so much, everybody. And thank you for checking in on
• 57:20
  Instagram, for following us, for sending us your stories.
• 57:22
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• 57:26
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• 57:30
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• 57:33
  new people and maybe Spotify will eventually pay us.
• 57:38
  You never know. We're getting there.
• 57:40
  We're really getting. There we need.
• 57:42
  Some more followers, that's it. Because if you, if you don't
• 57:45
  sort of subscribe or add the, the podcast to your downloads
• 57:50
  and it doesn't count as like a follow, you're still a listener,
• 57:52
  but you're not a follower. If you want to follow us, that
• 57:55
  will really help because we've got to get to I think it's 500
• 57:58
  or 1000 followers to be able to monetize.
• 58:01
  So if we could do that, it would make all of the great hours
• 58:04
  where we sit here talking about how psycho we are just that
• 58:07
  little bit extra worth it just for a few.
• 58:09
  Yeah, it's in the pocket. We will be in your ears again
• 58:12
  next week, but we have some very, very special guests coming
• 58:16
  to join. Us.
• 58:16
  Oh. Yeah, we do.
• 58:19
  The three guys from Wednesday at 7 the band are coming on the
• 58:23
  podcast to talk to us all about their new music, their tours,
• 58:27
  and their inspiration, which comes a lot from Busted and
• 58:30
  McFly. We are super excited to have
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  them on. Make sure you tune in next week
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  for that one. Oh yeah, I am buzzing for that
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  one. But for now, keep your playlist
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  loud. And happiness in your hearts.
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  Goodbye everyone.