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- 0:02Speaker 1: Here's your host, Alex Darren. Fifteen years ago today, this
- 0:09Speaker 1: little media conglomerate was started on WQMC Radio, the Voice
- 0:14Speaker 1: of Queen's College.
- 0:15Speaker 2: The views and opinions expressed by the DJs of the
- 0:18Speaker 2: following program do not necessarily reflect the views and opinions
- 0:21Speaker 2: of WQMC Radio, the Voice of Queen's College. And good
- 0:27Speaker 2: afternoon of opinions and.
- 0:29Speaker 1: Welcome to this special presentation of the Sports Hour with
- 0:33Speaker 1: Alex Garrett.
- 0:34Speaker 3: I am Alex S.
- 0:35Speaker 1: Garrett, and I am honored to be in the studio
- 0:37Speaker 1: with Mets and Islander broadcaster Howie Rose.
- 0:40Speaker 4: I'll be here with Bob Wolf, longtime broadcaster, Hall of
- 0:44Speaker 4: Fame broadcaster for both baseball and basketball and many sports,
- 0:49Speaker 4: and he's been my mentor for so many years. Thank
- 0:53Speaker 4: you for joining us tonight.
- 0:54Speaker 3: It's just delight to be with you, Alexander.
- 0:57Speaker 1: About a month after, about a month after Queen's College
- 1:02Speaker 1: gave me that radio show at WQMC Radio, one of
- 1:05Speaker 1: the first big guests I got was Bernie Williams who
- 1:08Speaker 1: came to Queen's College to perform not with baseball, bat
- 1:12Speaker 1: and glove, but with his guitar. What was like playing
- 1:15Speaker 1: it in center field an opening day of the new
- 1:17Speaker 1: Yankee Stadium.
- 1:19Speaker 5: It was a very surreal experience for me. I would
- 1:22Speaker 5: have hoped that I was in uniform with a glove on,
- 1:25Speaker 5: you know it's playing center field, but lost time to
- 1:29Speaker 5: tell us. You know, you can only borrow your ability
- 1:32Speaker 5: for a little time. So I think the next best
- 1:36Speaker 5: thing was to go out there and play my tribute
- 1:40Speaker 5: to the game.
- 1:40Speaker 3: To the fans that were there.
- 1:41Speaker 5: I think it was very fitting, so I feel really
- 1:44Speaker 5: good about it.
- 1:45Speaker 1: The first big loss of this media, the first big
- 1:48Speaker 1: loss after getting on internet radio, was a loss of
- 1:52Speaker 1: George Steinberner. And years later Rene Gron talked about that relationship.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Mister s.
- 1:59Speaker 1: Had family.
- 2:01Speaker 6: You actually helped to educate George Steinbrenner. He found out
- 2:10Speaker 6: that you were stronger than most. You felt like, hey,
- 2:16Speaker 6: I can be here, I can do here. I don't
- 2:19Speaker 6: have to be ashamed that I only have one leg.
- 2:21Speaker 6: And I cried right now because you may have given
- 2:26Speaker 6: him his strongest education.
- 2:30Speaker 1: You could see all these videos at alex GNYC won,
- 2:33Speaker 1: but I did get a chance to talk with Jim Abbott,
- 2:36Speaker 1: the one arm pitcher who threw a no hitter for
- 2:38Speaker 1: the Yankees, about that very no hitter when he visited
- 2:40Speaker 1: Queen's College and there was no one again to no
- 2:43Speaker 1: hinder or something that really could me. And I'm sure
- 2:45Speaker 1: people are still love you.
- 2:47Speaker 3: They do. It's amazing, you know. It's just a game
- 2:49Speaker 3: that came out of the blue. September fourth, nineteen ninety three,
- 2:52Speaker 3: he went out there a Yankee stadium and in nine
- 2:55Speaker 3: twenty seven.
- 2:56Speaker 1: Out later they have even got gents to catch up
- 2:58Speaker 1: with Carmelo Anthony when he on his basketball camp to
- 3:01Speaker 1: Queen's College.
- 3:02Speaker 3: Well, this is the first year. This is the first
- 3:04Speaker 3: year we was at It was at Queens.
- 3:05Speaker 7: Last year we got at Saint John's and it's actually
- 3:09Speaker 7: a different setting, and I mean, you can just setting.
- 3:11Speaker 3: It's more a little.
- 3:13Speaker 1: Bit more intimate than it was then.
- 3:14Speaker 3: It was at Saint John's.
- 3:16Speaker 7: We had a lot more court, you know, I must
- 3:18Speaker 7: say Saint John's were kind of separated a little bit
- 3:21Speaker 7: into two gyms just when it's on in one gym.
- 3:24Speaker 3: You know.
- 3:24Speaker 7: So hopefully we can, you know, figure it out and
- 3:26Speaker 7: come back next year.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Hi, buddy, Alexander Garrett, you're with Queen's calling dead looks
- 3:31Speaker 1: up here with men's hen basketball coach Kirk Pepinochis Kirk.
- 3:35Speaker 7: You had it your seventeenth season.
- 3:37Speaker 8: As night to day coach, and then we had the Piershuckey.
- 3:40Speaker 8: Piers Huckey hold need the McDonald McDonell heads Shullers god
- 3:44Speaker 8: one thousand points, one thousand career points for Khalil McDonald
- 3:50Speaker 8: meg him the twenty fifth player in the school's history
- 3:55Speaker 8: to achieve that on our hold up one.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Five years ago today, I walked this long here at
- 4:02Speaker 1: Queen's College for the final time as it was commencement
- 4:07Speaker 1: five years ago today. So just a word of thanks
- 4:10Speaker 1: to everybody who's made five year anniversary possible. First of all,
- 4:14Speaker 1: to Mom, to Vic and and my father. You guys
- 4:19Speaker 1: push me even after college and I appreciate that push
- 4:23Speaker 1: and that love every day. So thank you to them.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Here at Queen's, Rob Mike Sport and Tom Emberley Alestra
- 4:31Speaker 1: basically all mentors in the athletics department open to see
- 4:34Speaker 1: them now, So thank you to them on this fifth anniversary.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Andrew Warren, Keenan Vishaal, Khalil, my friends from softball, all
- 4:48Speaker 1: the athletes, thank you also for always being there and
- 4:56Speaker 1: being part of this journey. It's also hard to believe that.
- 4:59Speaker 1: I we walked off this campus into a radio station
- 5:03Speaker 1: board opping. So Frankie Morano, Kevin McCollough, Matt Symbol, We're
- 5:09Speaker 1: coming together here on one to eleven Broadway made Alex.
- 5:13Speaker 1: Yeah right, you gotta understand you're a new Jackie.
- 5:15Speaker 9: Actually got to give credit to Alex Garrett there, did
- 5:18Speaker 9: Alex find that sketue?
- 5:19Speaker 6: Alex is our young engineer, sitting bro.
- 5:22Speaker 3: We are honored to have you as part of the team,
- 5:25Speaker 3: and you do a good job for us.
- 5:26Speaker 9: Little Alex Alex Todd, you know Alex, he's by works huhne, Alex,
- 5:37Speaker 9: thank you for being here behind the pleasures.
- 5:40Speaker 1: How is your day today?
- 5:41Speaker 10: Congratulations on your ten year anniversary.
- 5:44Speaker 1: I appreciate it.
- 5:45Speaker 10: Thanks to Alex Garrett and that podcast people at the station.
- 5:51Speaker 10: I forwarded it to some people at the station and Christina.
- 5:55Speaker 10: They said, there's something here, we like it. So Alex
- 6:01Speaker 10: Garrett is single handedly responsible.
- 6:04Speaker 1: And in twenty twenty two, to keep this thing special,
- 6:07Speaker 1: I decided to reinvent the wheel and actually retire the
- 6:11Speaker 1: Sports Hour with Alex Garrett. I never thought I'd say
- 6:15Speaker 1: goodbye to the baby that got me to really start
- 6:20Speaker 1: in the podcasting world, in the online radio world. But
- 6:24Speaker 1: I said, why call it the sports hour when really
- 6:30Speaker 1: I'm shining a spotlight and those in sports. So welcome
- 6:35Speaker 1: to Alex Garrett's Sports Spotlight and why not my new
- 6:40Speaker 1: friend Brian Hoak from MLB dot Com, the Yankee Beat reporter.
- 6:45Speaker 1: Wellmere with the gentleman of the New York Yankees, Brian
- 6:48Speaker 1: cast from Alright, I'm you and Nesta Cortes starting PITTI
- 6:51Speaker 1: to the Yankees. I'm here with us Waldo Caverra's Waldo course.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Well thanks for coming to Just in Time Baseball. All right,
- 6:56Speaker 1: I'm here in Major League mad and Jake Kosak, two
- 6:59Speaker 1: of the biggest Yankee in flying back up a little
- 7:01Speaker 1: while now. So what's it like being back up here?
- 7:03Speaker 3: And what do you episode? What are you working on?
- 7:05Speaker 1: You know, just just really having fun and and you know,
- 7:08Speaker 1: swinging the bat, you know, working on the deafense. It's it's,
- 7:12Speaker 1: you know, working on all of it. It's it can
- 7:15Speaker 1: all be improved. I think for the days just stopped
- 7:18Speaker 1: working the day.
- 7:18Speaker 11: Stop playing, so you just keep working on on your
- 7:22Speaker 11: old game, trying to approve it all.
- 7:23Speaker 3: All I am here, what are you brat? So I
- 7:27Speaker 3: believe I'm not.
- 7:28Speaker 1: Thank you for ruining the network today, awesome sports man,
- 7:39Speaker 1: especially the new Sports Fast. You got to be here
- 7:42Speaker 1: today to break out the sports talk again with my
- 7:46Speaker 1: colleague and weekly co host Lou Tourminello. It's Tourmentello's take.
- 7:51Speaker 11: Well talk to believe how long ago we met, Alex
- 7:53Speaker 11: and I have such great memories of seeing you and
- 7:55Speaker 11: your dad at SHA Stadium and Yankee Stadium and uh
- 7:59Speaker 11: City Feeld in more recent years, and we were reminiscing
- 8:03Speaker 11: last night. You're thirty two now. We met when you
- 8:05Speaker 11: were around seven at the Viscarti Center out of Long Island,
- 8:08Speaker 11: so it's been about a quarter of a century. I've
- 8:11Speaker 11: enjoyed following your life and career. So congratulations on all
- 8:15Speaker 11: of your success and thanks for having.
- 8:18Speaker 1: Me Onki McPherson and Man you went from Bleacher Creature
- 8:21Speaker 1: to on air radio in New York City.
- 8:24Speaker 9: Good what's been accessed for you so far?
- 8:26Speaker 3: Can't wait. It's an honor, it's a privilege.
- 8:28Speaker 1: We're gonna have a good time.
- 8:29Speaker 9: Awesome.
- 8:30Speaker 1: Thanks for joining me, Kat Howsure, the Man bro and Legory.
- 8:33Speaker 1: What's the story you might hear on WWF an and
- 8:37Speaker 1: she's a longtime friend and she's finally joining on this podcast,
- 8:40Speaker 1: and thank you for joining me. It's been a long
- 8:43Speaker 1: friendship here for thirteen years. Glad to finally have you
- 8:46Speaker 1: on here.
- 8:47Speaker 5: I remember, Alex, when you came up to the US
- 8:50Speaker 5: Open Tennis.
- 8:50Speaker 1: Championship and helped me out with as like an intern.
- 8:54Speaker 2: And boy, we've known each other for a long time
- 8:57Speaker 2: and you've always been.
- 8:58Speaker 1: All right, I'm here on the Alex Scatt podcast. Now
- 9:01Speaker 1: we're at the Mark sass Memorial Softball game with the
- 9:05Speaker 1: one and only Mark Arne. And Mark, I gotta say
- 9:07Speaker 1: thank you because fifteen years ago, was it that long ago?
- 9:10Speaker 1: That was she you took me under your wing at
- 9:12Speaker 1: the US Open, and here we are an interview on
- 9:14Speaker 1: my podcast.
- 9:15Speaker 12: So thank you and we have come full CIRCLEO man, there.
- 9:18Speaker 1: You go and hopefully a longer conversation down the road.
- 9:20Speaker 12: And one of these days.
- 9:21Speaker 3: Those fifteen years back, when we first started in college,
- 9:25Speaker 3: it was a whole different vibe we were, we were
- 9:27Speaker 3: different people. But the idea of something you know, of
- 9:30Speaker 3: this continuing when you first started it, I was like, Okay,
- 9:32Speaker 3: it's awesome, Like it's a great idea. It's fun everyone's
- 9:35Speaker 3: talking about doing a podcast, doing this, doing that, just
- 9:38Speaker 3: like you know, a lot of people like, yeah, I'm
- 9:40Speaker 3: going to do a podcast, and then it just fizzles
- 9:43Speaker 3: out after time. But you've been You've stuck to it.
- 9:45Speaker 3: You've been doing it for fifteen years and doing it well.
- 9:50Speaker 3: And you know, listening to you on a speaker and
- 9:55Speaker 3: Botify and Spotify like all like you're freaking all over
- 9:59Speaker 3: the place.
- 10:00Speaker 9: I think you could you bait something on your wing.
- 10:02Speaker 1: But I first heard oh you're.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Welcoming and your pop up at the Barkley and there
- 10:07Speaker 2: and here.
- 10:07Speaker 12: You are wonderful, Thank you so much.
- 10:10Speaker 1: Well keep rolling, and then, my friends, is fifteen years
- 10:14Speaker 1: of media. I hope you enjoyed all three reels. And
- 10:18Speaker 1: I'm reminded of this song by Billy Joel.
- 10:20Speaker 12: Today, I am your.
- 10:21Speaker 2: Champion may one yard Hearts, but I know the game.
- 10:26Speaker 1: You forget my name, and I won't be here in
- 10:28Speaker 1: another year if I don't stay on the jots back
- 10:33Speaker 1: with a very special friend Usher always after this all right, Well,
- 10:37Speaker 1: I'm here with Asher always my buddy for now fifteen years.
- 10:41Speaker 1: I can't believe it was basically freshman year two thousand
- 10:45Speaker 1: and nine and right off the bat. You were at
- 10:47Speaker 1: the Yanks game last night? How energetically similar to two
- 10:52Speaker 1: thousand and nine to this fel right now? I feel
- 10:54Speaker 1: kind of a similar energy.
- 10:55Speaker 3: Here, dude. It was incredible the game last night. Loud,
- 11:01Speaker 3: everyone was people were standing half the time, cheering, jeering
- 11:07Speaker 3: at you know, Bow Naylor and Josh Naylor and everything
- 11:11Speaker 3: with all of that with rocking the baby from Mosa
- 11:15Speaker 3: two years ago. But no, it was the game was incredible.
- 11:20Speaker 3: The atmosphere was incredible. It was so much fun. I
- 11:24Speaker 3: haven't had that much fun in the game in a minute,
- 11:28Speaker 3: but the atmosphere, yeah, it was just the atmosphere was crazy.
- 11:33Speaker 1: You know, I think the fans were waiting for that
- 11:35Speaker 1: offense to explode. Let's be honest, it's been a very
- 11:38Speaker 1: tough offensive stretch here for the end.
- 11:40Speaker 3: Also, remember like, let's be let's talk about the explosive offense.
- 11:45Speaker 3: Though we had what five four or five like pass
- 11:50Speaker 3: balls or wild pitches last night.
- 11:54Speaker 1: It was well and judge, you know, he's hitting, but
- 11:57Speaker 1: he's doing that running on the base pass That so
- 12:00Speaker 1: huge too. He's got his game together, yeah, I mean
- 12:03Speaker 1: not in a homer yet, but at least he's getting
- 12:05Speaker 1: in the action in one way or another, and that's huge.
- 12:08Speaker 3: No, I definitely feel the vibe of the team is
- 12:11Speaker 3: a lot more positive. People like people are moving people.
- 12:15Speaker 3: The ability to play small ball douts if you're relying
- 12:17Speaker 3: on the home run doesn't hurt that Sodo, you know,
- 12:20Speaker 3: snuck one over the wall. And then and then Stanton
- 12:23Speaker 3: hit one one hundred and fourteen miles an hour. Thank
- 12:27Speaker 3: god it hit the wall in the bullpen. It didn't
- 12:30Speaker 3: hit a person because that person probably wouldn't have been
- 12:32Speaker 3: able to walk home. But yeah, you know, we're not
- 12:35Speaker 3: relying on the home run. It's just adding to it.
- 12:37Speaker 3: That's definitely.
- 12:39Speaker 1: Well you just said they're so Kiyoshi not relying on
- 12:41Speaker 1: the home run, because this team, when they don't hit
- 12:43Speaker 1: homers normally don't win.
- 12:45Speaker 3: And yet here they are. And then yeah, at nowhere
- 12:48Speaker 3: a rodin too.
- 12:49Speaker 1: Middle of the summer loup or end of the sum
- 12:52Speaker 1: end of the summer, begin in fall. Luke Weavers now
- 12:56Speaker 1: got this role and he is the closer. I mean,
- 13:00Speaker 1: the funny thing is Chapman was supposed to be the closer,
- 13:03Speaker 1: but he never felt secure. I've never felt the secure No,
- 13:06Speaker 1: dare I say since Mariano, am I right to say that.
- 13:10Speaker 3: I agree wholeheartedly with that sentiment. I was talking to
- 13:12Speaker 3: somebody about this and at the game yesterday, I have
- 13:16Speaker 3: not felt this strongly that a pitcher is going to
- 13:21Speaker 3: come into the game, that a closer is going to
- 13:23Speaker 3: come into the game and we're actually going to close
- 13:25Speaker 3: it out since Mo, you know, we had who we had,
- 13:30Speaker 3: Since we've had Chapman, we've had Robertson, we've had no
- 13:34Speaker 3: play homes. You know, we had Dylan Betensis. You know,
- 13:38Speaker 3: we were kind of experimenting for the last fifteen years
- 13:43Speaker 3: or something like that since Mo retired, and you know, yeah,
- 13:47Speaker 3: we we were spoiled having him, That's for certain. We
- 13:51Speaker 3: were definitely spoil let's be honest, one of the best relievers,
- 13:53Speaker 3: one of the best closer in my opinion, I think
- 13:56Speaker 3: statistically in the game ever. You know, we we were
- 14:00Speaker 3: spoiled for what He joined the team in ninety four,
- 14:06Speaker 3: was it ninety four to ninety five, someone.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Like that, right right around there.
- 14:09Speaker 3: And yeah, and then we had him until was it
- 14:12Speaker 3: twenty ten, right with twenty actually thirteen.
- 14:18Speaker 1: He ended up pitching three more few more years after
- 14:20Speaker 1: winning that World Series on nine saving it out.
- 14:22Speaker 3: He pitched till thirteen thirteen, which is this thirteen, and.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Then Jana retired a year later. No, it's it's just
- 14:29Speaker 1: Weaver and now Boone relying on him for five outs.
- 14:32Speaker 1: That's tremendous respect right there, and tremendous trust.
- 14:36Speaker 3: He's yet to give up a run this entire postseason.
- 14:40Speaker 1: Knock on wood, right, well, thank god.
- 14:42Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I think it's what's seven? I think I
- 14:44Speaker 3: think the number was the last seventeen times he's come
- 14:46Speaker 3: in and he's pitched. Was it seventeen times he's come
- 14:49Speaker 3: in here, last seventeen innings something like that, he hasn't
- 14:52Speaker 3: given up a run. So it's it's incredible to watch,
- 14:56Speaker 3: and it's comforting, and it makes you feel like we
- 14:59Speaker 3: could bring a we could bring a lead into into
- 15:02Speaker 3: the eighth, into the ninth and you know, be able
- 15:05Speaker 3: to you know, to bring it home. So it definitely
- 15:08Speaker 3: helps for certain you know, while with we were dealing
- 15:11Speaker 3: with play homes. Don't get me wrong, I love to
- 15:13Speaker 3: play homes for a bit, but then over the this
- 15:16Speaker 3: year it was just like, couldn't trust it. It was
- 15:20Speaker 3: too scary. But then now he comes in, he comes
- 15:24Speaker 3: in last night and the seventh and pitches masterfully and
- 15:27Speaker 3: then you have who else came in? Rich Hill came
- 15:30Speaker 3: in and he got the whole interference situation whatever. Like, honestly,
- 15:36Speaker 3: I think it was the right call. Crappy, crappy play
- 15:39Speaker 3: by Rochio, but of you know, the right place. Let's
- 15:42Speaker 3: be honest. He did what he had to do to
- 15:44Speaker 3: get that extra base. And you know, if I think
- 15:47Speaker 3: if we had a healthy Rizzo at first base, that
- 15:49Speaker 3: play would have been made. That ground ball that knuck through,
- 15:52Speaker 3: it would have been would have been made. But when
- 15:55Speaker 3: a guy's playing with what three fingers on his right hand,
- 16:00Speaker 3: whatever the however many figures are still broken or whatever, like,
- 16:04Speaker 3: you got to give a guy a break. He also
- 16:05Speaker 3: played well coming in.
- 16:07Speaker 1: And he's swinging better. I think that's so important to
- 16:09Speaker 1: highlighting he's been hitting the ball a little bit. And
- 16:11Speaker 1: you know, it's fitting that I have you on fifteen
- 16:13Speaker 1: years later because we were on campus and I just
- 16:16Speaker 1: was running around campus when I started the show, saying
- 16:19Speaker 1: listen to this, listen that you remember it well and
- 16:22Speaker 1: you were one of the first big supporters of the
- 16:24Speaker 1: Sports Hour, and I really appreciate that fifteen years later
- 16:27Speaker 1: we could talk about it.
- 16:28Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a freshman year, a freshman year in college, but.
- 16:32Speaker 1: Fifteen years ago, I'm feeling the energy again like I
- 16:34Speaker 1: did when I started the show, and that gives me life.
- 16:36Speaker 1: I mean, this gives me life for the show.
- 16:39Speaker 3: Dude. It's crazy because you think about it. Remember back
- 16:41Speaker 3: in but econ an accounting class when we first met,
- 16:45Speaker 3: back fifteen two thousand. Night bit makes me feel old.
- 16:49Speaker 3: That's thirty four years old. You know those fifteen years
- 16:53Speaker 3: back when we first started in college. It was a
- 16:56Speaker 3: whole different vibe. We were different people. But yeah, idea
- 17:00Speaker 3: of something you know, of this continuing. When you first
- 17:02Speaker 3: started it, I was like, Okay, it's awesome, Like it's
- 17:05Speaker 3: a great idea. It's fun. Everyone's talking about doing a podcast,
- 17:08Speaker 3: doing this, doing that, and just like you know, a
- 17:10Speaker 3: lot of people like, yeah, I'm going to do a
- 17:12Speaker 3: podcast and then it just fizzles out after time. But
- 17:15Speaker 3: you've been you've stuck to it. You've been doing it
- 17:18Speaker 3: for fifteen years and doing it well. And you know,
- 17:21Speaker 3: listening to you on a spreaker and uh botify and
- 17:27Speaker 3: I heard botify, like all like you're freaking all over
- 17:30Speaker 3: the place. Now it's you know, I'm just waiting for
- 17:33Speaker 3: that day where we really start to blow up and
- 17:35Speaker 3: get to that next level. That would be you know,
- 17:38Speaker 3: that's awesome. But you're you You see this slow and
- 17:41Speaker 3: steady climb. It's you know, you're going up into the
- 17:45Speaker 3: right doesn't matter how fast it's taking, doesn't matter how
- 17:47Speaker 3: slow it's taking, the fact that it's going. You know,
- 17:50Speaker 3: all you want to do is just keep keep going
- 17:52Speaker 3: up to the right things. Just keep getting better and better.
- 17:54Speaker 3: It's all. That's all matters.
- 17:55Speaker 1: I love sort of doing these where are they now?
- 17:57Speaker 1: Features with different alumni I know from the years. So
- 17:59Speaker 1: what are you up to now? Ashily? I know we
- 18:01Speaker 1: talked about a while back, but what are you.
- 18:03Speaker 3: Up to these days? Been running a company called dark
- 18:07Speaker 3: Horse Capital Group where it's a commercial and investment mortgage brokerage.
- 18:13Speaker 3: So been been doing that now for shoots. It's twenty
- 18:19Speaker 3: one been running this company so November twenty twenty one,
- 18:22Speaker 3: so three years and changed almost four. So yeah, you know,
- 18:27Speaker 3: it's definitely ways away, very different from what I was
- 18:30Speaker 3: thinking about doing when I was in college. I wanted
- 18:32Speaker 3: to I don't know what I wanted to, couldn't figure
- 18:36Speaker 3: that out. Change my majors so many times, and now
- 18:39Speaker 3: you have my MBA and everything in real estate and
- 18:42Speaker 3: finance and focusing on commercial and investment real estate on
- 18:45Speaker 3: the financing aspect throughout the country. So it's very different,
- 18:50Speaker 3: you know, very very big swing from where I once was.
- 18:53Speaker 3: That's for certain.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Well, and I know that you do these mixers. I
- 18:57Speaker 1: haven't heard about them recently, but you are a big
- 18:59Speaker 1: networking guy. Did you feel that vibe when you were
- 19:02Speaker 1: at Queen's College or were you so focused on school
- 19:04Speaker 1: the networking thing just came naturally afterward.
- 19:07Speaker 3: Let's be honest. I've probably was never really focused on school.
- 19:09Speaker 3: It was just the side. It was in the side
- 19:12Speaker 3: of being on campus all the time. You know, I've
- 19:16Speaker 3: always been that's just my personality. Just talking to people,
- 19:20Speaker 3: getting into people and networking just in a different sense
- 19:23Speaker 3: of the word, because you know, you're a big networker. Also,
- 19:26Speaker 3: it's just a different way of looking at and meeting people,
- 19:29Speaker 3: talking to people, caring about what they do, who they are,
- 19:32Speaker 3: you know, what they do for work, their business, their life,
- 19:35Speaker 3: and just developing relationships. Networking is just about developing relationships
- 19:40Speaker 3: with people and caring about who they are, what they
- 19:43Speaker 3: do and you know, from my personal perspective is running
- 19:46Speaker 3: my business and trying to grow my business, it's how
- 19:48Speaker 3: could I help? How could I do business with them?
- 19:51Speaker 3: How could I help them grow? What they do? And
- 19:53Speaker 3: they make money, I make money. We work together, we build,
- 19:56Speaker 3: you know, build relationships, develop business between each other. So
- 20:01Speaker 3: I've always been That's always been me. It's always been relationship,
- 20:05Speaker 3: just talking to people, getting you know, I could my mother.
- 20:08Speaker 3: My mother said I can have a good conversation with
- 20:10Speaker 3: a with a brick wall, you know, So developing relationships
- 20:13Speaker 3: that way and cultivating relationships actually just what networking is about.
- 20:17Speaker 3: So switching from hey, let's be friends, let's watch sports,
- 20:20Speaker 3: is play games, just do this, do that, hang out
- 20:23Speaker 3: to yeah, let's still do all those things. You know,
- 20:25Speaker 3: I never stopped, as you said, going to the Yankee
- 20:28Speaker 3: game issue. I never stopped caring about sports. I still
- 20:30Speaker 3: play on a regular basis with friends and other people.
- 20:33Speaker 3: I go to sporting events. But then also now just
- 20:36Speaker 3: turning that around and adding the business aspect to it,
- 20:38Speaker 3: adding the career aspect to it, and trying to work
- 20:41Speaker 3: with people, develop with people, and you know, yes, of
- 20:44Speaker 3: course help grow my business and help grow everything. But
- 20:47Speaker 3: you know, it's the whole you give and you get,
- 20:49Speaker 3: so you know, you give to get. You know, there's
- 20:52Speaker 3: a there's one person, very big and uh in the
- 20:55Speaker 3: networking world. His saying is givers game. So the whole
- 20:58Speaker 3: idea is you give, and you go out of your
- 21:01Speaker 3: way to help people, and you go out of your
- 21:03Speaker 3: way without expecting anything in return. You do what you
- 21:05Speaker 3: have to do to help people grow, to help put
- 21:07Speaker 3: people into connections that are helpful to them and work
- 21:11Speaker 3: well for them. And then yeah, the anticipation is that
- 21:14Speaker 3: people look at you, you develop a good reputation, you
- 21:17Speaker 3: develop a good name for yourself, and you know, whether
- 21:20Speaker 3: it be karma, whether it be you.
- 21:22Speaker 4: Know, is very real.
- 21:24Speaker 1: I believe in that. But exactly let me let me
- 21:27Speaker 1: let me tell you this because sometimes I like to
- 21:29Speaker 1: interview those CEOs and everything like that, and you've got
- 21:31Speaker 1: your own company, but you know, it sounds like you
- 21:33Speaker 1: have helping people have one leg up in their lives.
- 21:36Speaker 1: And I think that's so important to highlight today.
- 21:38Speaker 3: Dude, that's for certain, you know, doing my best to
- 21:42Speaker 3: to help people that are less fortunate. I mean, you're
- 21:44Speaker 3: in terms of the charity wise, but then also just
- 21:46Speaker 3: in general business wise. You know everyone needs help, you know,
- 21:50Speaker 3: that's that's the thing. You know, at the end of
- 21:52Speaker 3: the day, you can't go about everything by yourself. When
- 21:55Speaker 3: you try to go about everything by yourself, you realize
- 21:57Speaker 3: it's so much more difficult. You know, you could only
- 21:59Speaker 3: go so far by yourself. You go further with a group,
- 22:02Speaker 3: you go further together.
- 22:04Speaker 1: Let's about longevity real quick, because obviously you've been at
- 22:07Speaker 1: this for a while. I'm at this for a while.
- 22:09Speaker 1: How do we encourage others to keep this longevity? If
- 22:12Speaker 1: they have a project, just keep going with that project
- 22:14Speaker 1: and never go We never know where it leads to, right, dude.
- 22:17Speaker 3: It is so coming from somebody like me who and
- 22:21Speaker 3: you for that matter, When you start something it's not easy,
- 22:24Speaker 3: or maybe you get like a quick win and everything's great,
- 22:27Speaker 3: but then you get kicked in the teeth and things
- 22:28Speaker 3: go bad. Things happen, and you know you want to quit.
- 22:31Speaker 3: You want to quit, and you're like, I'm done. Things
- 22:33Speaker 3: aren't working out, I'm not making money, I'm not having fun,
- 22:36Speaker 3: I'm burnt out, I'm not enjoying myself. And it's just
- 22:39Speaker 3: it's just it's not going right, and you're just not
- 22:42Speaker 3: having it, but like and then you look at oh,
- 22:47Speaker 3: these people who are successful, they must have had an
- 22:49Speaker 3: easier No, people aren't successful usually because they had it easier. Yeah,
- 22:54Speaker 3: you have some people like that, but that, in my opinion,
- 22:56Speaker 3: is the outlier. Most people that are success and get
- 23:01Speaker 3: to the place that they wanted to get to and
- 23:03Speaker 3: that they desire to get to, or get to the
- 23:05Speaker 3: place where they are right now, where they are what
- 23:07Speaker 3: you've used success As they went through hell, they just
- 23:11Speaker 3: didn't give up. At the end of the day. If
- 23:14Speaker 3: you don't stop and you don't give up, and you
- 23:17Speaker 3: keep busting your ass and you keep doing the right
- 23:20Speaker 3: things and you keep working the right way, everything works out.
- 23:25Speaker 3: Like I almost gave up. You know, people like, oh,
- 23:29Speaker 3: you know, you should never give up. And you're sitting
- 23:31Speaker 3: there and you're like, oh, these people who are in
- 23:33Speaker 3: these industries, you know they you know, they never had
- 23:37Speaker 3: the inkling of giving up. They never thought of giving up.
- 23:40Speaker 3: I call it bullshit. You know it's it gets so
- 23:44Speaker 3: difficult sometimes and you could be in such a difficult
- 23:47Speaker 3: place of the CEO me running my own company. I
- 23:49Speaker 3: don't have anybody that works for me or with me.
- 23:52Speaker 3: I have a few people that you know kind of
- 23:53Speaker 3: work for me, but know one that I really would
- 23:56Speaker 3: rely on to that extent. So it's a lonely place.
- 23:59Speaker 3: Sometimes it's not easy. You're sitting there. Your failures are
- 24:02Speaker 3: all yours and your successes are all yours. So at
- 24:05Speaker 3: the end of the day, yeah, it feels great when
- 24:07Speaker 3: you feel success in some aspect of the words. But
- 24:11Speaker 3: when you hit failure and you're sitting there and you're
- 24:13Speaker 3: looking yourself in the mirror and it's you you, it's tough.
- 24:18Speaker 3: It gets it's not easy. It gets very difficult. So
- 24:22Speaker 3: if you don't stop and you keep working and you
- 24:25Speaker 3: keep that positive mindset and you keep the compound effect
- 24:30Speaker 3: is not trying to have these huge winds, but small
- 24:33Speaker 3: winds stacked on each other. Everything adds up and at
- 24:37Speaker 3: the end of the day, that's what matters. It's about
- 24:41Speaker 3: not giving up and just piling through, just getting it done.
- 24:45Speaker 1: You know what's interesting as you're talking about this, is
- 24:48Speaker 1: you're talking about the idea of handling the note right,
- 24:51Speaker 1: handling hearing no And I feel like, as a media
- 24:54Speaker 1: guy trying to get press credentials, you hear know a
- 24:56Speaker 1: lot and I'm sure for you sometimes you hear the
- 24:58Speaker 1: no when you're trying to oh whatever you got going on? Yeah,
- 25:02Speaker 1: but it's just been moving forward. How do you bounce
- 25:04Speaker 1: back from that no and turning into a yes.
- 25:08Speaker 3: So I used to play a game with myself and
- 25:11Speaker 3: I had I learned this from one of my old
- 25:14Speaker 3: bosses back years ago. When you get that no, you're
- 25:17Speaker 3: just one no closer to it yes. So you think
- 25:20Speaker 3: about it this way. You have to take your KPIs.
- 25:21Speaker 3: You have to sit and you'll be like, Okay, every
- 25:24Speaker 3: single time I'm selling this one thing that's sales, how
- 25:28Speaker 3: many people did I have to talk to to get
- 25:30Speaker 3: to that person? Okay? So I had to speak to
- 25:32Speaker 3: this amount of people to be able to get that
- 25:35Speaker 3: initial yes that they're interested. Then once they're interested, you
- 25:39Speaker 3: get that next yes with for me, the documentation moving on.
- 25:42Speaker 3: So there are many different steps in our business. It's
- 25:45Speaker 3: not just you get the yes and bang, you're done,
- 25:47Speaker 3: have a good day. It's you have to get multiple
- 25:51Speaker 3: yeses to get to that close. So when you get
- 25:54Speaker 3: to that close, how many First of all, how many
- 25:57Speaker 3: people did you have to talk to at the beginning
- 25:59Speaker 3: to get that initial yes? And then for every step,
- 26:02Speaker 3: how many more people. How many people did it dwindled
- 26:05Speaker 3: down to be able to get that close. So it's
- 26:08Speaker 3: a numbers game. At the end of the day, everything
- 26:10Speaker 3: comes down to numbers. You sit there and you're like, Okay,
- 26:15Speaker 3: I had to speak to one hundred people to get
- 26:18Speaker 3: that initial yes. So out of every hundred people, I
- 26:21Speaker 3: got five yeses. And out of those five yes, is
- 26:23Speaker 3: one of them closed. So you're telling me that I
- 26:25Speaker 3: have to talk to one hundred people to get one closed. Okay,
- 26:30Speaker 3: So how many people did I speak to? So out
- 26:32Speaker 3: of those one hundred people, ninety nine people are going
- 26:35Speaker 3: to say no right to get to that one yes.
- 26:37Speaker 3: So if you let one no get to you, even
- 26:41Speaker 3: if it's a harsh no, even if it's a hard no,
- 26:43Speaker 3: if you let that one note get to you and
- 26:45Speaker 3: derail you, you're never going to get to that one
- 26:47Speaker 3: yes because you need to hear that one no ninety
- 26:50Speaker 3: ninety times to be able to get to that one yes.
- 26:55Speaker 3: So it's it's the mindset of you know, yes, it's
- 26:59Speaker 3: not easy, but playing that game with yourself sometimes if
- 27:02Speaker 3: you're having a bad day and you're like, okay, these
- 27:04Speaker 3: people are saying no or they're you know, saying fuck
- 27:07Speaker 3: no or whatever it is, and you're really not having
- 27:09Speaker 3: a good day. You know, you're sitting there and you're like, okay,
- 27:14Speaker 3: that's what. So you sit there, you're playing that number
- 27:16Speaker 3: of game. Okay, that's one. How can I get to
- 27:18Speaker 3: that next one? You just got to keep going to
- 27:19Speaker 3: the next one. That's why every relationship matters, because the
- 27:23Speaker 3: ability when you have a develop a relationship with somebody
- 27:26Speaker 3: through what I do through networking or just through relationship
- 27:30Speaker 3: building in general, the ability to take that number of
- 27:34Speaker 3: one hundred people that you have to talk to, let's say,
- 27:36Speaker 3: probably can say to get to that one yes, that
- 27:40Speaker 3: number when it's a warm introduction and you have that
- 27:43Speaker 3: relationship with somebody, whether you have the relationship with the
- 27:46Speaker 3: client themselves or someone of the client trusts, that makes
- 27:50Speaker 3: it easier for you to then get through that initial
- 27:54Speaker 3: process and that one hundred will dwindle down sometimes even ten,
- 27:58Speaker 3: So now you're talking to ten people. Of those ten people,
- 28:00Speaker 3: you'll get five yeses, so you'll get fifty percent instead
- 28:04Speaker 3: of one percent or five percent.
- 28:06Speaker 1: So in other words, don't cast a big net or
- 28:09Speaker 1: cast a big net.
- 28:10Speaker 3: Well, so that's the thing is you have to diversify,
- 28:13Speaker 3: like everyone talks about, you know, you want to be
- 28:14Speaker 3: smart about how you do what you do, or at
- 28:16Speaker 3: least for what I do. I have multiple different streams
- 28:19Speaker 3: and multiple different ways that I try to find clients.
- 28:22Speaker 3: I have, you know, the wide net of just being
- 28:26Speaker 3: here doing my marketing, my emails, the website and all
- 28:29Speaker 3: that stuff that we'll get some certain types of direct marketing,
- 28:34Speaker 3: which you'll make it a little warmer of an introduction,
- 28:37Speaker 3: and then LinkedIn, which is very huge for me and
- 28:39Speaker 3: what I do. I'm very big on LinkedIn. With that,
- 28:42Speaker 3: it's a little bit of a warmer introduction that someone
- 28:45Speaker 3: knows me, sees my profile, sees who I am, sees
- 28:48Speaker 3: my background, see my face, maybe follows me and sees
- 28:51Speaker 3: my posts and see everything over there. They get to
- 28:54Speaker 3: know me a little bit. So, whether it be LinkedIn
- 28:56Speaker 3: or even Instagram or Facebook, where with social media you
- 28:59Speaker 3: have the different ability to connect with somebody without directly connecting.
- 29:03Speaker 1: To the which is totally fifteen years ago. I feel
- 29:05Speaker 1: like fifteen years ago social media wasn't the way it
- 29:07Speaker 1: was right.
- 29:08Speaker 3: I mean eighteen years ago in two thousand and nine,
- 29:10Speaker 3: I had a Facebook and a Twitter that I looked
- 29:17Speaker 3: at periodically. I still barely look at Twitter X whatever.
- 29:19Speaker 3: I'm still honestly ninety percent of the time that I'm
- 29:22Speaker 3: on it, I'm looking at your staff.
- 29:23Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm tagging on everything.
- 29:25Speaker 3: That's fine, But yeah, No, it's just so the ability
- 29:29Speaker 3: of casting a wide net. It's it's the ability of
- 29:33Speaker 3: knowing where your people are that you want to connect
- 29:36Speaker 3: to and then developing it from there. And then you know,
- 29:39Speaker 3: by developing those relationships, you have those people that'll be
- 29:42Speaker 3: easier to connect with and harder to connect with. You
- 29:45Speaker 3: just diversify it, and it gives you the ability to
- 29:48Speaker 3: create that longevity that we were talking about, because it's
- 29:51Speaker 3: not just about closing one deal that doesn't make your life.
- 29:54Speaker 3: You have to have consistency. You have to have the
- 29:56Speaker 3: ability to continue and do and hit those numbers in
- 30:01Speaker 3: the matrix that you want to hit on a regular basis.
- 30:04Speaker 3: And if you're not hitting them, you're not making money,
- 30:06Speaker 3: you're not closing, you're not there's no longevity there because
- 30:08Speaker 3: you're gone unless you're just doing everything for free. And
- 30:12Speaker 3: that's no fun.
- 30:13Speaker 1: No, that's not all right. I gotta ask you about
- 30:15Speaker 1: this because I only knew you fifteen years ago as
- 30:18Speaker 1: college buddy of mine. We didn't really talk about LFE
- 30:21Speaker 1: outside of campus really, I felt, but were you working,
- 30:24Speaker 1: I mean, were you working through the college years or what?
- 30:26Speaker 1: Tell us about that?
- 30:28Speaker 3: Yeah? So jeez. So I my first job was actually
- 30:32Speaker 3: when I was I was like ten years old. I
- 30:35Speaker 3: used to shovel driveways when it was snowing. I used
- 30:38Speaker 3: to push the lawnmower and mow people's lawns, rake leaves.
- 30:42Speaker 3: I was babysitting. When I was in high school. I
- 30:47Speaker 3: was always ustling. I always trying to make money, trying
- 30:49Speaker 3: to do something in that regard. But when it comes
- 30:52Speaker 3: to college, that's really when I turned it up. I
- 30:55Speaker 3: was working my first years in college. I was working
- 30:59Speaker 3: at a bowling alley. I've always loved bowling before, as
- 31:02Speaker 3: you know, but like I really got into bowling. I
- 31:05Speaker 3: was like twenty twenty one when I really got into bowling.
- 31:08Speaker 3: I was working in a bowling alley. I was bowling
- 31:10Speaker 3: forty games a week. I was, you know, So I
- 31:13Speaker 3: was working in Syosset in a bowling alley, and then
- 31:16Speaker 3: I left there and I worked in Verizon. I was
- 31:20Speaker 3: selling phones in a in Garden City, in the store
- 31:23Speaker 3: for shoot three years. So throughout the entirety of college
- 31:29Speaker 3: I worked. I was working at Verizon basically from twenty
- 31:33Speaker 3: ten through twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen. Yeah, it was like
- 31:37Speaker 3: twenty It was twenty ten ish to like twenty thirteen,
- 31:41Speaker 3: twenty fourteen. I graduated, actually graduated Queen's College in August
- 31:46Speaker 3: July August twenty fourteen, technically because I had to finish
- 31:50Speaker 3: the summer semester change my major five times. So yeah,
- 31:53Speaker 3: I worked at Verizon for like three and a half
- 31:56Speaker 3: years or something like that it was. And then after
- 32:00Speaker 3: that I had other jobs that I was working. But yes,
- 32:02Speaker 3: throughout college, I was taking four or five six classes
- 32:06Speaker 3: a semester, and I was working thirty forty fifty hours
- 32:10Speaker 3: a week.
- 32:11Speaker 1: And you were very involved with HILLEL and all those
- 32:14Speaker 1: other organizations as well. Tell us how being involved on
- 32:18Speaker 1: campus help build your character in addition to all his
- 32:20Speaker 1: work you were so.
- 32:23Speaker 3: So going back to we were saying about networking and
- 32:25Speaker 3: just character development personally and just in general, like going
- 32:29Speaker 3: out and meeting people and being able to talk to
- 32:32Speaker 3: people in situations maybe you don't know anybody walking into
- 32:35Speaker 3: a room where you maybe know one person, two people,
- 32:37Speaker 3: or even noble, you know, being able to talk to
- 32:40Speaker 3: people's developed relationships and learn. I wasn't that I was
- 32:43Speaker 3: involved with Hillel, but not like in the I never
- 32:48Speaker 3: really got into leadership until after college, you know, just
- 32:52Speaker 3: in general. That just wasn't It wasn't something I viewed
- 32:55Speaker 3: myself as. I didn't view myself as a leader honestly
- 33:00Speaker 3: until recently, until over the last like five or six years.
- 33:04Speaker 1: Let me tell you why I say that though, because
- 33:05Speaker 1: I remember I zoomed through the Q cafe and there
- 33:07Speaker 1: you are holding court with everybody. I'm like this kid's
- 33:09Speaker 1: you know, big man on campus.
- 33:10Speaker 3: Guy to guy, you know, because that's just my personality.
- 33:13Speaker 3: I have a you know, I'm not quiet, I'm loud,
- 33:16Speaker 3: I'm there. So the ability to talk to people has
- 33:19Speaker 3: always been my thing. But I never I never viewed
- 33:22Speaker 3: myself as a leader, which is something that I wish
- 33:25Speaker 3: I would have realized when I was younger and I
- 33:26Speaker 3: would have learnt. Is not that you know, I have
- 33:29Speaker 3: the personality that could be a leader, but to cultivate
- 33:33Speaker 3: the right way of doing things and learning how to
- 33:36Speaker 3: be a better leader. And it's not about leading and
- 33:38Speaker 3: telling people what to do and how to do it.
- 33:40Speaker 3: But it's about whether it be leading by example or
- 33:43Speaker 3: leading by doing something within the team that it's not
- 33:48Speaker 3: oh hey, you know, it's me, come look at me.
- 33:51Speaker 3: That's what I always view a leader as. I always
- 33:53Speaker 3: view a leader as, oh hey, look at me. But
- 33:55Speaker 3: now when you look at a leader, it's not you boasting.
- 33:59Speaker 3: It's not you talking about how you know, big of
- 34:01Speaker 3: a man you are, big of a woman you are.
- 34:04Speaker 3: It's about doing the right thing for people around you.
- 34:08Speaker 3: And you know you've seen you and I send memes
- 34:10Speaker 3: to each other million times a day. You know you've
- 34:12Speaker 3: seen those memes. You have. A boss is the one
- 34:14Speaker 3: standing behind when everybody's pulling with the whip, and then
- 34:17Speaker 3: you have the leader is the one in front and
- 34:20Speaker 3: working and pulling along with everybody. So it's working as
- 34:23Speaker 3: a team, working with people. You know, a leader is
- 34:25Speaker 3: part of the team. A leader is not over and
- 34:27Speaker 3: above the team. So that was a huge learning curve
- 34:30Speaker 3: for me over the last like I said, five six,
- 34:32Speaker 3: seven years, how big.
- 34:34Speaker 1: At the company staff wise? Is it just you or
- 34:36Speaker 1: how many people you got working with you?
- 34:38Speaker 3: So it's just me in terms of like for the
- 34:41Speaker 3: most part, however, I do have a few like business development,
- 34:45Speaker 3: you know ten ninety nine salespeople kind of thing that
- 34:49Speaker 3: worked for me, I think, not including my marketing team.
- 34:53Speaker 3: Like my marketing team, I outsourced it to this incredible
- 34:57Speaker 3: marketing company. CEO has been Oh. CEO has changed everything
- 35:02Speaker 3: for me. I spent so much money last year on
- 35:04Speaker 3: marketing that just went completely wrong, and I brought him in.
- 35:07Speaker 3: He and I had become really close over the last
- 35:09Speaker 3: six months, and he revamped everything. He's doing even more,
- 35:13Speaker 3: like going into twenty twenty five, we're coming up with
- 35:16Speaker 3: a whole plan tech.
- 35:17Speaker 1: Well, I love your Monday motivation posts. I don't know
- 35:19Speaker 1: if those are going to keep going.
- 35:20Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't done those in a while. I was
- 35:23Speaker 3: with a different marketing group that I was working with,
- 35:25Speaker 3: but that's something I was thinking about bringing back with
- 35:28Speaker 3: THEO and putting something together like that. But yeah, it's
- 35:32Speaker 3: it's a small company right now. It's really honestly just
- 35:35Speaker 3: me with a few people as like consultants and outsourced.
- 35:41Speaker 3: But yeah, it's growing, hopefully over the next couple hopefully
- 35:45Speaker 3: over the next year, so I'm probably going to bring
- 35:47Speaker 3: a couple of people on as I continue to grow
- 35:49Speaker 3: and get to that position. That I want to get.
- 35:51Speaker 1: You know, I think the recession scared a lot of
- 35:53Speaker 1: people from starting their own business. So how were you,
- 35:56Speaker 1: literally years after the recession able to say, you know what,
- 36:00Speaker 1: I'm gonna have that entrepreneurial spirit. And quite frankly, I
- 36:02Speaker 1: feel like people on the ground have it more than
- 36:05Speaker 1: the government has it for the citizens. I mean, you
- 36:08Speaker 1: and I are have that spirit more than you know,
- 36:11Speaker 1: the White House right now specifically, So how do you
- 36:15Speaker 1: inspire others to get that business going? Because there's still
- 36:19Speaker 1: more of an unal spirit needed.
- 36:21Speaker 3: I think very much. So I think both yes and no.
- 36:24Speaker 3: So going back to what I said before, to be
- 36:28Speaker 3: an entrepreneur, to run your own thing, it's a whole
- 36:30Speaker 3: different mentality. You know, You're like, I don't have a salary.
- 36:34Speaker 3: The only the person that pays my salary is the
- 36:36Speaker 3: same person you know that wipes my ass. It's me.
- 36:40Speaker 3: You know, it's a horrible analogy, but it's true. Like, sure,
- 36:44Speaker 3: I don't I don't make money if I don't close.
- 36:46Speaker 3: So like that's the thing is a lot of people
- 36:49Speaker 3: are used to, you know, having the nine to five
- 36:51Speaker 3: job or whatever it is, where you have a salary,
- 36:53Speaker 3: you have a known income, I don't you know. So
- 36:57Speaker 3: the reason why I go to answer your other question,
- 37:00Speaker 3: the reason why I opened up my company and I
- 37:01Speaker 3: dove into this. Actually I opened up a different company
- 37:04Speaker 3: doing the same exact thing with a business partner. You know.
- 37:07Speaker 3: It sadly didn't end up working out. He's a great guy,
- 37:10Speaker 3: wish him the best. But I opened up a company
- 37:13Speaker 3: with him back in June of twenty twenty. So right
- 37:16Speaker 3: in the height of everything, I was working for a
- 37:19Speaker 3: different group. We were doing business financing and small balance
- 37:23Speaker 3: real estate financing. We were doing incredible. One of my
- 37:26Speaker 3: he's still one of my good friends to today's name
- 37:28Speaker 3: is Brian Hunt. Incredible guy. So I was running vizdev
- 37:32Speaker 3: for his company. He opened it up. It was literally
- 37:34Speaker 3: meet him and our buddy Kim, the three of us,
- 37:37Speaker 3: three dudes sitting at his kitchen table at first and
- 37:40Speaker 3: building this company back in September of October of twenty nineteen.
- 37:46Speaker 3: And it was incredible. It was one of those was
- 37:47Speaker 3: like an entrepreneurial It was the three of us. We
- 37:51Speaker 3: had that entrepreneurial mindset. We were working at it. It
- 37:54Speaker 3: was one of those stories. We were doing incredible. It
- 37:56Speaker 3: was a slow burn at the beginning. But that's going
- 37:58Speaker 3: back to what I was saying before September, October, November,
- 38:02Speaker 3: it wasn't great. We didn't start really jumping until November
- 38:06Speaker 3: December of twenty nineteen, and then January of twenty twenty
- 38:10Speaker 3: we started really seeing the fruits of our labor grow
- 38:13Speaker 3: to it's it's a compound effect. We're working on it,
- 38:15Speaker 3: we're working on it, we're working on it, and then
- 38:17Speaker 3: everything just started going. And then February we have an
- 38:21Speaker 3: incredible year. We beat like literally every a year. We
- 38:25Speaker 3: had incredible months. So in January we did X. February
- 38:30Speaker 3: we did two X. We doubled what we did in
- 38:33Speaker 3: January in month of February. And then in March of
- 38:37Speaker 3: twenty twenty, before the world shut down, we were set
- 38:41Speaker 3: to or me by myself with my team on the
- 38:44Speaker 3: business development side, we were set to triple the entire
- 38:49Speaker 3: output of the company in March, like a third of
- 38:54Speaker 3: the way through March, we're set, we're setting a trajectory.
- 38:57Speaker 3: I'm going to triple the entire output of the company.
- 38:59Speaker 3: But then the sales side, separate from us, they were
- 39:02Speaker 3: also on pace to have a banner month as well.
- 39:05Speaker 3: And then the world shut down, nothing closed, we didn't
- 39:09Speaker 3: do anything. I'm literally sitting there with Brian over the
- 39:14Speaker 3: next couple of months and we're just like, what the
- 39:15Speaker 3: hell are we going to do? You know, I've had
- 39:17Speaker 3: my real estate license for a while I was running,
- 39:19Speaker 3: I was doing real estate sales and stuff like that.
- 39:22Speaker 3: I was in the middle of getting my MBA, and
- 39:24Speaker 3: I I was focusing on like the real estate and
- 39:27Speaker 3: the finance side, and that was when I really I
- 39:29Speaker 3: was working on a couple of commercial and investment real
- 39:31Speaker 3: estate deals and I was falling in love with that side.
- 39:35Speaker 3: And my friend of mine and my ex business partner,
- 39:39Speaker 3: he turns to me, He's like, why don't we just
- 39:41Speaker 3: open up our own company and keep doing this? Because
- 39:43Speaker 3: we were working on a couple of projects together. And
- 39:46Speaker 3: so I had a conversation with Brian and I'm like,
- 39:48Speaker 3: I wasn't leaving Brian like telling him, you know, Sea,
- 39:50Speaker 3: I don't want to be a like we're still really
- 39:52Speaker 3: good friends, and I sent him business. He sends me business.
- 39:54Speaker 3: To this day. We still talked, you know, a couple
- 39:57Speaker 3: of times a week usually, but I ended up leaving
- 40:03Speaker 3: from him because I'm like, if I'm going to try
- 40:05Speaker 3: and do my own things. If I'm going to try
- 40:07Speaker 3: and build something that's mine, what better time to do
- 40:12Speaker 3: it when the world is shut down, when everything is
- 40:17Speaker 3: there's so much unknown, and people are running and people
- 40:19Speaker 3: don't know what to do. So whenever there's there's a saying,
- 40:22Speaker 3: whenever there's blood in the street, you go first one.
- 40:24Speaker 3: You know, that's when that's when you buy. You know,
- 40:27Speaker 3: that's when you go when things are going wrong, when
- 40:29Speaker 3: everything is going to shit and you're sitting there, what
- 40:32Speaker 3: am I going to do? You have to commit? So
- 40:37Speaker 3: that's my thing. Also, I won one thing with me
- 40:40Speaker 3: Every year, I try to have one phrase, one saying
- 40:44Speaker 3: that I live by. This year has been commit this year.
- 40:47Speaker 3: It's literally been for me to commit to my dream,
- 40:51Speaker 3: commit to this business, commit to what I want to do.
- 40:54Speaker 3: Because when we opened up that original company in twenty twenty,
- 40:57Speaker 3: I was learning I do about this industry to get
- 41:01Speaker 3: myself into trouble. But I wasn't that I'm I wasn't
- 41:04Speaker 3: that you know, experience. I didn't know that much. Thankfully
- 41:07Speaker 3: I had some good mentors, some good teachers, and through
- 41:11Speaker 3: business development and networking, I met some really awesome people
- 41:14Speaker 3: who I was able to talk to, ask questions and
- 41:17Speaker 3: learn from.
- 41:18Speaker 1: By the way, I'm going to post this podcast that
- 41:21Speaker 1: we did back during the pandemic when we first talked
- 41:23Speaker 1: about this opening. I think we did like a grand
- 41:25Speaker 1: opening kind of podcast for you.
- 41:27Speaker 3: I remember that, yeah, right around and then I remember
- 41:29Speaker 3: that that was Yeah, it was from my that was
- 41:33Speaker 3: from my study.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, And we did that and I got
- 41:36Speaker 1: to post that for people to have a reference for us.
- 41:38Speaker 1: So the point is we're both alumni, but we both
- 41:41Speaker 1: have this arc of success that we're working on each
- 41:45Speaker 1: other too. You know, we're working it out together too,
- 41:47Speaker 1: which I like. And when you impart wisdom to folks
- 41:50Speaker 1: like myself, it was still kind of like not trading
- 41:54Speaker 1: the waters, but just working at this podcast almost every
- 41:57Speaker 1: day and you're still impart of that wisdom fifteen years
- 41:59Speaker 1: old or what's that like for you to do that
- 42:01Speaker 1: for your friends and your clients. I mean, you got
- 42:04Speaker 1: a lot of wisdom to share.
- 42:06Speaker 3: Well. So I don't view myself as somebody who is
- 42:11Speaker 3: you know this, you know big. I don't think people
- 42:15Speaker 3: look up to me in that way. That's that's not
- 42:16Speaker 3: who I don't feel that way. I don't feel like
- 42:19Speaker 3: I'm imparting wisdom, but like there's certain things, yeah, certain things,
- 42:23Speaker 3: I know, certain things I'm confident. But going back to
- 42:26Speaker 3: we were saying, also, you know, will to answer your
- 42:29Speaker 3: question about working together and basically feeling like that, and
- 42:32Speaker 3: then you know, I'm working with a few with my
- 42:34Speaker 3: buddy THEO, he's running my marketing. He also opened up
- 42:37Speaker 3: his company a few years a handful of years ago.
- 42:40Speaker 3: So like to have people that you feel like are
- 42:42Speaker 3: in the same situation as you. You know that you're
- 42:45Speaker 3: working a lot. You know, yeah, we're not working together,
- 42:48Speaker 3: but we're working alongside. We're going similar trajectories. We're working,
- 42:52Speaker 3: we have similar mindsets, we have similar dreams of what
- 42:55Speaker 3: we want to be, where we want to be, how
- 42:57Speaker 3: we want to be, and what type of person we
- 42:59Speaker 3: want to be. It's kind of like to be able
- 43:03Speaker 3: to do my part, to feel like I'm helping and
- 43:08Speaker 3: working with somebody, and if you if someone has any questions,
- 43:11Speaker 3: I need someone to talk to, has just needs a shoulder,
- 43:14Speaker 3: just needs a sounding board, just like to talk about something,
- 43:17Speaker 3: or you know, you know, you were saying, like, oh,
- 43:20Speaker 3: imparting wisdom. If there's something that I feel that you
- 43:22Speaker 3: feel like I have that I can give to you,
- 43:26Speaker 3: like please, you know, that's just take it, like, let
- 43:28Speaker 3: me help you, let me give you know, let me
- 43:30Speaker 3: because I don't view myself as being you know, that smart,
- 43:34Speaker 3: or being anyone's mentor or being anything all that special.
- 43:38Speaker 3: You know, I'm still grinding, I'm still learning. I'm not
- 43:40Speaker 3: I'm nowhere near where I plan on being or where
- 43:42Speaker 3: I want to be. I'm better than where I was,
- 43:44Speaker 3: that's for certain. I look back and I'm better than
- 43:47Speaker 3: where I was, but I'm nowhere near where I want
- 43:49Speaker 3: to be. And I think that's the biggest part, is
- 43:53Speaker 3: not losing that hunger and seeing the people around you
- 43:57Speaker 3: and not being oh, I'm going to be better. It's
- 44:01Speaker 3: we're going to be better. So it's someone like you.
- 44:04Speaker 3: You know, you're one of my closest friends for the
- 44:06Speaker 3: last fifteen years. You know, whatever I can do to
- 44:09Speaker 3: help whoever I can put you around, wherever I could,
- 44:11Speaker 3: whatever I can do that is helpful to you, My buddy,
- 44:14Speaker 3: Like I said, my buddy THEO, my buddy Andrew who's
- 44:17Speaker 3: running who's an executive director. One of the other events
- 44:20Speaker 3: that I've thrown for this waterproofing company, they're waterproofing, exciting whatever.
- 44:23Speaker 3: They're a big construction company and in the city and likes.
- 44:28Speaker 3: He's one of their executive directors, he's running their sales team.
- 44:31Speaker 3: He's he and I've become really close Brian, Like I
- 44:33Speaker 3: was telling, like, those group of people you know a
- 44:37Speaker 3: guy in other words, you know, yeah, you want to
- 44:40Speaker 3: know a guy because you want to have the right
- 44:42Speaker 3: group of people around you that they want to win,
- 44:45Speaker 3: and they want you to win, and you want them
- 44:48Speaker 3: to win. So you want to be surrounded by those
- 44:51Speaker 3: people who will bust their ass for you and with you,
- 44:55Speaker 3: but not at your detriment. They will do their best
- 44:57Speaker 3: to help lift you up if you need and you
- 45:00Speaker 3: will do your best also to help lift them up
- 45:02Speaker 3: if they need so well.
- 45:05Speaker 1: Of course, one of the goals, one of the goals
- 45:06Speaker 1: down the road is still get the show sponsored. So
- 45:08Speaker 1: I know we've been talks about just you know, reaching
- 45:11Speaker 1: out to people and seeing if they're interested, and I
- 45:13Speaker 1: appreciate that support also us.
- 45:16Speaker 3: Honestly, at the end of the day, all all you
- 45:19Speaker 3: need is one once once you get to that point
- 45:23Speaker 3: where you're like, so I'm trying to build an investment fund.
- 45:26Speaker 3: Once I get one investor to join into my fund
- 45:30Speaker 3: and to buy into me, buy into my partner Rebecca
- 45:33Speaker 3: on this deal, and buy into everything. It makes it
- 45:37Speaker 3: so much easier for other people to see the value
- 45:41Speaker 3: because everyone always is afraid to be the first one.
- 45:44Speaker 3: So actually, if you think about it, a little bit
- 45:46Speaker 3: of a little bit of a scripture, so in the
- 45:49Speaker 3: Bible when the Jews are leaving Egypt and an exodus,
- 45:53Speaker 3: so no one wanted to go into the water. No
- 45:58Speaker 3: one wanted to be the first one to step into
- 46:01Speaker 3: the red sea. No one was too afraid because they weren't.
- 46:05Speaker 3: And this one guy went in and not only did
- 46:08Speaker 3: he go in, he went all the way in, so
- 46:09Speaker 3: they said the water went over his head. Then the
- 46:12Speaker 3: water split. So you just need that one person to
- 46:17Speaker 3: make that leap and to work with you, and then
- 46:20Speaker 3: everything is revealed and everyone will So it's it's just
- 46:23Speaker 3: that one step and all you need is one Yes,
- 46:26Speaker 3: all you need is one person to find value in you,
- 46:29Speaker 3: and then sky's the limit.
- 46:32Speaker 1: But I think it's pretty cool that we both have
- 46:33Speaker 1: our own companies off the ground and running. Even if
- 46:36Speaker 1: that were way about one investor, you know, it's like
- 46:38Speaker 1: we're off the ground running.
- 46:39Speaker 3: Anyway somewhere brother, exactly right.
- 46:42Speaker 1: Well, Aneshie, this has been really special. Fifteen years later,
- 46:45Speaker 1: I'm still glad to have you on the anniversary because
- 46:48Speaker 1: who do I turn to every time I'm like applying
- 46:50Speaker 1: to something, it's awesome? You do I turn to every
- 46:52Speaker 1: time I get approved for something? It's awesy? So this
- 46:54Speaker 1: is very fitny to have you on today.
- 46:56Speaker 3: Oh wait, you're probably one of those people that I
- 46:58Speaker 3: talked to the most, probably one of the time five
- 47:00Speaker 3: people that I text and talking about a regular basis.
- 47:03Speaker 3: So you know, I look forward I sincerely look forward
- 47:07Speaker 3: to doing this fifteen years from now and doing thirty years.
- 47:10Speaker 3: You know it's going to be and hopefully in thirty
- 47:13Speaker 3: years we're going to be you know, something that we
- 47:16Speaker 3: both can couldn't even fathom.
- 47:18Speaker 1: It is going to be happening one Yankee or met
- 47:21Speaker 1: player at a time. For me, that's kind of how
- 47:23Speaker 1: I view you know, you got to get those person
- 47:26Speaker 1: over there.
- 47:26Speaker 3: All you like, all you need is that one yes.
- 47:28Speaker 3: All you need is you know, that one person to
- 47:31Speaker 3: say yes, that one player to be on. You got that,
- 47:35Speaker 3: uh the interview with Nestor a little bit ago. You
- 47:38Speaker 3: got to see Waldo Cabrera. Yeah, like you got some
- 47:42Speaker 3: good Who is that guy that you that you did that.
- 47:45Speaker 1: Quick impromptu with like Terry Bradshaw.
- 47:49Speaker 3: A my Bradshaw, Like you just you just got to
- 47:53Speaker 3: keep grinding. You know. On the other side of hard
- 47:56Speaker 3: work is success. You just got to keep working at
- 47:58Speaker 3: it and you can't give up. But you know, the
- 48:01Speaker 3: word no is just okay, maybe not this way, but
- 48:04Speaker 3: another way. If you don't give up and you keep working,
- 48:07Speaker 3: you're gonna do.
- 48:07Speaker 1: You feel like everything's working in the background that we
- 48:09Speaker 1: don't see. I have that approach also, is like all right,
- 48:12Speaker 1: maybe not now, but down the road it will happen.
- 48:14Speaker 1: Things are working in the background that we don't even see.
- 48:17Speaker 1: And I do believe that's because God's got that wheel
- 48:19Speaker 1: in the sky turning for us.
- 48:20Speaker 3: So if we saw everything that was going on for
- 48:24Speaker 3: our benefit or for our detriment, it would be a
- 48:27Speaker 3: totally different story. But we don't. So you look back
- 48:31Speaker 3: at everything, like for me, what I'm doing right now,
- 48:33Speaker 3: commercial investment, real estate, landing, Like I wasn't thinking about
- 48:38Speaker 3: doing this fifteen years ago. I wanted to be I
- 48:40Speaker 3: don't even know what I wanted to be. I wanted
- 48:41Speaker 3: to be an agent. I was thinking about like being, uh,
- 48:44Speaker 3: being a talent agent or something like that. I don't know.
- 48:46Speaker 1: I had no more because you're you're in the sports
- 48:49Speaker 1: world man.
- 48:49Speaker 3: That I was watching. I was watching Entourage. I wanted
- 48:52Speaker 3: to be already cold, like come on, but you know
- 48:55Speaker 3: now I'm doing this. And everything in life happens for
- 48:58Speaker 3: a reason. You know, everything the butterfly, the butterfly effect.
- 49:03Speaker 3: Everything happens in a certain way at its time. And
- 49:07Speaker 3: maybe you didn't succeed at X, because if you succeeded
- 49:11Speaker 3: at that something, that whatever. There's always a rhyme or
- 49:14Speaker 3: reason for everything. And we don't know. It's not our
- 49:18Speaker 3: job to know why everything happens. We are you know,
- 49:22Speaker 3: at the end of the day red God's mercy that
- 49:24Speaker 3: he is the one who controls the world. And you know,
- 49:27Speaker 3: we're sitting here and we're doing what we can to
- 49:31Speaker 3: do what we think is best. But we also have
- 49:34Speaker 3: to learn that we don't know what is best.
- 49:35Speaker 1: And spreading positivity, which I feel like that show fifteen
- 49:38Speaker 1: years ago was trying to do while giving a sports
- 49:41Speaker 1: try to give a little positivity on the campus of
- 49:43Speaker 1: Queen's College, and I think I think we're working on that.
- 49:46Speaker 1: One last thing you mentioned diversity, and you know, people
- 49:49Speaker 1: have kind of chided me for having five thousand different podcasts,
- 49:52Speaker 1: but I do believe having diversity like that, with the adapting,
- 49:55Speaker 1: with the sports, with the news, it's sellable. That's kind
- 49:58Speaker 1: of why I do that. Okay, each feature could be marketable.
- 50:01Speaker 1: Am I wrong in that approach?
- 50:04Speaker 3: I don't think so. If you keep it completely separate,
- 50:07Speaker 3: then it makes sense because the people that are going
- 50:09Speaker 3: to want to listen to the political side will listen
- 50:11Speaker 3: to the politics. People that want to listen to sports
- 50:14Speaker 3: will listen to sports. But if one person is like, oh,
- 50:16Speaker 3: well he's talking about sports and I don't give a
- 50:18Speaker 3: crap about that, it's not going to work. But if
- 50:20Speaker 3: you're on top of everything, and you're because also if
- 50:23Speaker 3: you think about it from jumping a little ahead, also,
- 50:26Speaker 3: if you think about it from a from an advertising
- 50:29Speaker 3: point of view, you're going to have certain advertisers that
- 50:31Speaker 3: are going to want to advertise for politics, certain advertisers
- 50:34Speaker 3: that are going to want to advertise for sports, like
- 50:36Speaker 3: you have with fanatics and those guys. You know, they're
- 50:38Speaker 3: not going to want to do politics, but they do sports.
- 50:41Speaker 3: You know, so having too many is one thing, but
- 50:46Speaker 3: having niche that are doing that, you're doing it right,
- 50:51Speaker 3: it's worthwhile. It could work, It could work nicely in
- 50:54Speaker 3: your benefit if it if it's done correctly, and if
- 50:58Speaker 3: it's not, you know, you're not doing three things thirty
- 51:01Speaker 3: three point three percent each. If you're doing three things
- 51:04Speaker 3: at one hundred percent each, that's doable. But if you're
- 51:07Speaker 3: just going to do each one at thirty three percent each,
- 51:09Speaker 3: you're better off just focusing you all into one. That's
- 51:13Speaker 3: kind of what got me into doing what I'm doing
- 51:15Speaker 3: is because I was kind of doing this, kind of
- 51:19Speaker 3: doing that, kind of doing that a few years ago,
- 51:21Speaker 3: and it was just like, if I'm going to be
- 51:25Speaker 3: the best at something and be successful, I need to
- 51:28Speaker 3: focus my energies for what I was doing in one direction,
- 51:33Speaker 3: and for you focusing your energies in this case, as
- 51:36Speaker 3: long as you're putting the right energy into each one
- 51:40Speaker 3: and you're working on all of them, I don't think
- 51:43Speaker 3: it's a bad idea.
- 51:45Speaker 1: Well, I will tell you we're at the one hundred
- 51:47Speaker 1: and nine ninth episode of adapting, so this is going
- 51:49Speaker 1: to be two hundreds because your story is adaptability. How
- 51:51Speaker 1: you've been able to adapt from one niche to the
- 51:54Speaker 1: next and succeed. I mean you're successful. You've been closing
- 51:58Speaker 1: half a million to million dollar. I'm like, this guy
- 52:00Speaker 1: is blocking it right now. And if people want your
- 52:03Speaker 1: help though and your support, even in the real estate
- 52:06Speaker 1: world or whatever, how can they reach you?
- 52:09Speaker 3: Honestly, I make a joke, I'm one of the easiest
- 52:11Speaker 3: doc people out there because all you got to do
- 52:13Speaker 3: is Google my name and you'll find my information. You
- 52:16Speaker 3: can check out the company's website at dark Horsecapitalgroup dot com.
- 52:22Speaker 3: You can shoot me an email. It's my last name,
- 52:25Speaker 3: all wife A L l W E I S S
- 52:28Speaker 3: at Dark Horsecapitolgroup dot com. Or you could always shoot
- 52:32Speaker 3: me text my phone numbers out there somewhere. I'm not
- 52:36Speaker 3: going to put it up because I don't need it
- 52:37Speaker 3: out there anymore. But yeah, you know, shoot me an email,
- 52:41Speaker 3: reach out to the company, look me up on LinkedIn,
- 52:45Speaker 3: look me up on Instagram. LinkedIn it's just my name
- 52:48Speaker 3: Asher Asher all wife A s ah g E R
- 52:50Speaker 3: last and all ways, and or you look me up
- 52:53Speaker 3: on Instagram always Asher A l w A Y s
- 52:57Speaker 3: underscore ash er A s h E R. Love to help, love,
- 53:01Speaker 3: to connect people, and if anyone needs advice on something
- 53:05Speaker 3: and they think I'm the right person to go to
- 53:07Speaker 3: for whatever reason, I'd loved out well.
- 53:11Speaker 1: You are a man of wisdom and a good dude.
- 53:13Speaker 1: So thanks for joining me as always and especially on
- 53:16Speaker 1: the daylight today.
- 53:16Speaker 3: Thank you so much anytime, brother, That's what I'm here for,
- 53:19Speaker 3: and I love it.
- 53:20Speaker 1: Hopefully love me as well, and we will do this
- 53:23Speaker 1: again down the road.
- 53:24Speaker 3: I know it. Hell yeah, I look forward to it.
- 53:27Speaker 12: Thank you for listening, Thank you to Asher for joining,
- 53:30Speaker 12: and thank you all listening to the fifteenth anniversary special
- 53:35Speaker 12: about the Sports Hour became one Leg Up in a
- 53:38Speaker 12: fifteen year span, and we'll continue to
- 53:40Speaker 1: Have that leg up for you each and every day
- 53:43Speaker 1: on Alex Garrett's One Leg Up Network