Latest / Motivational Podcast / BE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR THOUGHTS – Control Your Mind, Control Your Destiny
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- 0:15Speaker 1: When we are free, there is a letting go of attachments.
- 0:19Speaker 1: We can enjoy a thing, but we don't need it
- 0:22Speaker 1: for our happiness. There is progressive diminishing of dependence on
- 0:33Speaker 1: anything or anyone outside of ourselves. Sometimes we surrender a
- 0:45Speaker 1: feeling and we notice that it returns or continues. This
- 0:52Speaker 1: is because there is more of it yet to be surrendered.
- 0:58Speaker 1: We have stuffed these feelings all of our lives, and
- 1:02Speaker 1: there can be a lot of energy pushed down that
- 1:05Speaker 1: needs to come up and be acknowledged. When surrender occurs,
- 1:14Speaker 1: there is an immediate, lighter, happier feeling, almost like a high.
- 1:20Speaker 1: By continuously letting go, it is possible to stay in
- 1:24Speaker 1: that state of freedom. Feelings come and go, and eventually
- 1:31Speaker 1: you realize that you are not your feelings, but that
- 1:35Speaker 1: the real you is merely witnessing them. You stop identifying
- 1:42Speaker 1: with them. The you that is observing and is aware
- 1:46Speaker 1: of what is happening always stays the same. As you
- 1:52Speaker 1: become more and more aware of the changeless witness within,
- 1:56Speaker 1: you begin to identify with that level of consciousness. You
- 2:03Speaker 1: become progressively primarily the witness rather than the experiencer of phenomena.
- 2:12Speaker 1: You get closer and closer to the real self, and
- 2:16Speaker 1: begin to see that you had been duped by feelings.
- 2:20Speaker 1: All along. You thought that you were the victim of
- 2:28Speaker 1: your feelings. Now you see that they are not the
- 2:31Speaker 1: truth about yourself. They are merely created by the ego,
- 2:36Speaker 1: that collector of programs which the mind has mistakenly believed
- 2:41Speaker 1: are necessary for survival. Let's not forget that we are
- 2:48Speaker 1: letting go of all the programs that have made us
- 2:51Speaker 1: a slave for a long time. Letting go of negative
- 2:57Speaker 1: feelings is the undoing of the ego, which will be
- 3:00Speaker 1: resistant at every turn. This may result in skepticism, a
- 3:04Speaker 1: sudden upsurge of escapism. Keep letting go of every fear
- 3:09Speaker 1: as it arises, and the resistance will resolve. What are
- 3:13Speaker 1: you afraid of regarding this process? Are you willing to
- 3:16Speaker 1: let go of that? The level of shame is at
- 3:31Speaker 1: the bottom, close to death, representing bare survival. The level
- 3:38Speaker 1: of courage is the critical point that marks the shift
- 3:42Speaker 1: from negative to positive energy. It is the energy of integrity,
- 3:51Speaker 1: being truthful, empowerment, and having the capacity to cope. The
- 3:58Speaker 1: levels of consciousness low courage are destructive, whereas the levels
- 4:03Speaker 1: above it are life supporter. Above the level of courage,
- 4:15Speaker 1: people seek us out because we give energy to them power,
- 4:20Speaker 1: and we have good will towards them. Below the level
- 4:23Speaker 1: of courage, people avoid us because we take energy from
- 4:28Speaker 1: them force. As we let go of negative feelings, there
- 4:38Speaker 1: is a progressive movement up the scale to courage and
- 4:42Speaker 1: then beyond. At the level of courage, the negative feelings
- 4:49Speaker 1: have not all disappeared, but now we have sufficient energy
- 4:53Speaker 1: to handle them because we've re owned our power and
- 4:57Speaker 1: self adequacy. When letting go, ignore all thoughts, focus on
- 5:09Speaker 1: the feeling itself, not on the thoughts. Thoughts are endless
- 5:17Speaker 1: and self reinforcing, and they only breed more thoughts. Thoughts
- 5:25Speaker 1: are merely rationalizations of the mind to try and explain
- 5:29Speaker 1: the presence of the feeling. The real reason for the
- 5:35Speaker 1: feeling is the accumulated pressure behind the feeling that is
- 5:39Speaker 1: forcing it to come up in the moment. The thoughts
- 5:45Speaker 1: or external events are only an excuse made up by
- 5:49Speaker 1: the mind. These programs have blinded us to the truth
- 5:59Speaker 1: of our real identity. Letting go is a natural ability.
- 6:06Speaker 1: It is not something new or foreign. It is not
- 6:10Speaker 1: an esoteric teaching or somebody else's idea or a belief system.
- 6:15Speaker 1: We are merely utilizing our own inner nature. When we
- 6:28Speaker 1: have been letting go for a while and have begun
- 6:31Speaker 1: experiencing what is really going on, we will laugh at
- 6:35Speaker 1: our thoughts. Thoughts are fakes, absurd make beliefs that obscure
- 6:41Speaker 1: the truth. Pursuing thoughts can keep us occupied endlessly. We
- 6:49Speaker 1: will discover one day that we are right where we started.
- 6:56Speaker 1: Thoughts are like bait to a fish. Bite at them,
- 7:01Speaker 1: we get caught. The real self is the space between
- 7:09Speaker 1: the thoughts, or more exactly, the field of silent awareness
- 7:15Speaker 1: underneath all thoughts. It's best not to bite at the thoughts.
- 7:24Speaker 1: We don't need them inside of us. But out of
- 7:28Speaker 1: awareness is the truth that I already know everything I
- 7:33Speaker 1: need to know. Thousands and even millions of thoughts can
- 7:39Speaker 1: be replaced by a single emotion. Emotions are more basic
- 7:43Speaker 1: and primitive than mental processes. Take advantage of the higher
- 7:50Speaker 1: states in the momentum of letting go. Keep on going
- 7:55Speaker 1: because it will get better and better all the time
- 8:00Speaker 1: go gains a certain momentum, it is easy to keep
- 8:04Speaker 1: it going once it is started. The higher we feel,
- 8:08Speaker 1: the easier it is to let go. Often we have
- 8:14Speaker 1: let go, but think that we haven't. We are not
- 8:20Speaker 1: aware of all the coal that we have shoveled. We
- 8:22Speaker 1: are always looking at the shovelful we are handling right now.
- 8:27Speaker 1: We don't realize how much the pile has gone down.
- 8:32Speaker 1: It is common for people who have made enormous gains
- 8:35Speaker 1: to claim it just isn't working. We have to remind
- 8:39Speaker 1: ourselves sometimes what we were like before we started this process.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Resistance to let him go as perception is replaced with vision.
- 8:55Speaker 1: It takes no position and sees the intrinsic value and
- 8:59Speaker 1: lovability of all that exists. Everything emits energy, either positive
- 9:06Speaker 1: or negative. Ego is losing ground and will try tricks
- 9:15Speaker 1: and bluffs. Once we start letting go, its days are
- 9:19Speaker 1: numbered and its power is diminishing. The ego is not
- 9:24Speaker 1: our friend. Like master control, it wants to keep us
- 9:28Speaker 1: enslaved by its programs. There are no other goals than
- 9:32Speaker 1: to overcome fear and achieve happiness. Letting go is like
- 9:38Speaker 1: the sudden cessation of an inner pressure or the dropping
- 9:41Speaker 1: of a weight. It is accompanied by a sudden feeling
- 9:45Speaker 1: of relief and lightness, with an increased happiness and freedom.
- 9:53Speaker 1: You are then in charge of how you feel, and
- 9:55Speaker 1: you are no longer at the mercy of the world
- 9:58Speaker 1: and your reactions to it. You are no longer the victim.
- 10:05Speaker 1: There is no need to blame others or blame what