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- 0:00Foreign.
- 0:09Welcome
- 0:10to
- 0:10Advisory
- 0:11Secrets
- 0:11with
- 0:12Deb
- 0:12Halliday,
- 0:13the
- 0:13podcast
- 0:13for
- 0:14accountants
- 0:14and
- 0:14bookkeepers
- 0:15who
- 0:15are
- 0:16ready
- 0:16to
- 0:16move
- 0:16beyond
- 0:17compliance
- 0:17work
- 0:18and
- 0:18step
- 0:19confidently
- 0:19into
- 0:20advisory
- 0:21if
- 0:21you
- 0:22ever
- 0:22felt
- 0:22there
- 0:22must
- 0:23be
- 0:23more
- 0:23to
- 0:23your
- 0:23role
- 0:24than
- 0:24year
- 0:24end
- 0:25accounts,
- 0:25tax
- 0:25returns
- 0:26and
- 0:26deadlines,
- 0:27you're
- 0:28right.
- 0:28In
- 0:29this
- 0:29podcast,
- 0:30I'll
- 0:30share
- 0:30the
- 0:31strategies,
- 0:32insights
- 0:33and
- 0:33real
- 0:33world
- 0:34lessons
- 0:34that
- 0:35help
- 0:36accounting
- 0:37professionals
- 0:38transition
- 0:39from
- 0:39technician
- 0:40to
- 0:40trusted
- 0:41advisor.
- 0:42We'll
- 0:42explore
- 0:42how
- 0:42to
- 0:43lead
- 0:43better
- 0:43financial
- 0:44conversations
- 0:44and
- 0:44deliver
- 0:45real
- 0:45value
- 0:46to
- 0:46clients.
- 0:46I'm
- 0:47Deb
- 0:47Halliday,
- 0:48author
- 0:48and
- 0:48creator
- 0:49of
- 0:49training
- 0:49programs
- 0:50for
- 0:50accounting
- 0:51professionals,
- 0:51and
- 0:52this
- 0:52is
- 0:52Advisory
- 0:52Secrets.
- 0:53Foreign.
- 1:00To
- 1:00talk
- 1:00about
- 1:00something
- 1:01that
- 1:01many
- 1:01accountants
- 1:02and
- 1:02bookkeepers
- 1:02aspire
- 1:03to.
- 1:03Become
- 1:04a
- 1:04trusted
- 1:04advisor.
- 1:05It's
- 1:05a
- 1:05phrase
- 1:05that's
- 1:06used
- 1:06a
- 1:06lot
- 1:06in
- 1:06our
- 1:06profession,
- 1:08but
- 1:08what
- 1:09does
- 1:09it
- 1:09actually
- 1:09mean?
- 1:10And
- 1:10perhaps
- 1:11more
- 1:11importantly,
- 1:12how
- 1:12do
- 1:12you
- 1:12become
- 1:13one?
- 1:14Because
- 1:14becoming
- 1:15a
- 1:15trusted
- 1:16advisor
- 1:17isn't
- 1:17something
- 1:17you
- 1:18can
- 1:18simply
- 1:18decide
- 1:18to
- 1:19be.
- 1:20You
- 1:20can't
- 1:20put
- 1:21it
- 1:21on
- 1:21your
- 1:21website,
- 1:22you
- 1:22can't
- 1:22add
- 1:23it
- 1:23to
- 1:23your
- 1:23LinkedIn
- 1:24profile,
- 1:25and
- 1:25you
- 1:25certainly
- 1:25can't
- 1:26claim
- 1:26it
- 1:26for
- 1:26yourself.
- 1:28Being
- 1:28a
- 1:28trusted
- 1:29advisor
- 1:30is
- 1:30something
- 1:31that
- 1:31is
- 1:31earned.
- 1:32It's
- 1:32something
- 1:33clients
- 1:33decide
- 1:34about
- 1:34you.
- 1:34And
- 1:35it
- 1:35usually
- 1:35happens
- 1:35gradually,
- 1:36often
- 1:36without
- 1:37you
- 1:37even
- 1:37realising
- 1:38it.
- 1:39One
- 1:39conversation
- 1:40at
- 1:40a
- 1:40time,
- 1:41one
- 1:41relationship
- 1:42at
- 1:42a
- 1:42time,
- 1:43one
- 1:43piece
- 1:43of
- 1:44advice
- 1:44at
- 1:44a
- 1:45time.
- 1:47The
- 1:47Misunderstanding
- 1:47About
- 1:48Authority
- 1:51One
- 1:51of
- 1:51the
- 1:51biggest
- 1:52misconceptions
- 1:52I
- 1:53see
- 1:53is
- 1:54that
- 1:54people
- 1:54believe
- 1:55authority
- 1:56comes
- 1:56from
- 1:56knowledge.
- 1:57Now,
- 1:57don't
- 1:58get
- 1:58me
- 1:58wrong,
- 1:58knowledge
- 1:59is
- 1:59important.
- 1:59Technical
- 2:00expertise
- 2:01matters.
- 2:01Experience
- 2:02matters.
- 2:02But
- 2:03we've
- 2:03all
- 2:03met
- 2:04incredibly
- 2:05knowledgeable
- 2:05people
- 2:06who
- 2:06struggle
- 2:07to
- 2:07influence
- 2:08others.
- 2:08And
- 2:09we've
- 2:09all
- 2:09met
- 2:09people
- 2:10who
- 2:11aren't
- 2:11necessarily
- 2:12the
- 2:12most
- 2:13technically
- 2:14gifted.
- 2:14But
- 2:14clients
- 2:15listen
- 2:15to
- 2:15every
- 2:16word
- 2:16they
- 2:16say.
- 2:17The
- 2:17difference
- 2:17isn't
- 2:18knowledge.
- 2:18The
- 2:18difference
- 2:19is
- 2:19trust.
- 2:19Authority
- 2:20isn't
- 2:20built
- 2:21when
- 2:21people
- 2:21know
- 2:21what
- 2:22you
- 2:22know.
- 2:22Authority
- 2:23is
- 2:23built
- 2:23when
- 2:23people
- 2:24trust
- 2:24how
- 2:24you
- 2:24think.
- 2:25That's
- 2:25a
- 2:25very
- 2:25different
- 2:26thing.
- 2:27The
- 2:27Moment
- 2:28Everything
- 2:28Changes
- 2:30There's
- 2:30a
- 2:30moment
- 2:31that
- 2:31happens
- 2:31in
- 2:31many
- 2:32client
- 2:32relationships,
- 2:33and
- 2:33once
- 2:34it
- 2:34happens,
- 2:35everything
- 2:35changes.
- 2:36The
- 2:36the
- 2:36client
- 2:37stops
- 2:37contacting
- 2:38you
- 2:38after
- 2:39they've
- 2:40made
- 2:40a
- 2:40decision
- 2:40and
- 2:41starts
- 2:41contacting
- 2:42you
- 2:42before
- 2:42they
- 2:42make
- 2:43it.
- 2:43Think
- 2:43about
- 2:43that
- 2:44for
- 2:44a
- 2:44moment.
- 2:44Instead
- 2:45of
- 2:45hearing,
- 2:46I've
- 2:46signed
- 2:46a
- 2:47lease
- 2:47on
- 2:47a
- 2:47new
- 2:48premises,
- 2:49you
- 2:49hear,
- 2:50I'm
- 2:51thinking
- 2:51about
- 2:51taking
- 2:52on
- 2:52new
- 2:52premises.
- 2:53What
- 2:53do
- 2:53you
- 2:53think?
- 2:54Instead
- 2:55of,
- 2:55I've
- 2:56hired
- 2:56three
- 2:56new
- 2:56staff.
- 2:58You
- 2:58hear,
- 2:59I'm
- 2:59considering
- 3:00growing
- 3:00the
- 3:00team.
- 3:00Can
- 3:01we
- 3:01talk
- 3:01it
- 3:01through?
- 3:02That's
- 3:03when
- 3:03you
- 3:03know
- 3:03the
- 3:03relationship
- 3:04has
- 3:04shifted.
- 3:05You're
- 3:05no
- 3:05longer
- 3:05simply
- 3:06reporting
- 3:06what
- 3:07happened,
- 3:07you're
- 3:08helping
- 3:08shape
- 3:09what
- 3:09happens
- 3:10next.
- 3:11And
- 3:11that's
- 3:11where
- 3:11true
- 3:12advisory
- 3:13begins.
- 3:15Why
- 3:15Clients
- 3:16trust
- 3:16some
- 3:17advisors
- 3:17more
- 3:17than
- 3:17others.
- 3:20Interestingly,
- 3:20trust
- 3:21isn't
- 3:21built
- 3:21through
- 3:21one
- 3:22big
- 3:22event.
- 3:23It's
- 3:23built
- 3:23through
- 3:24consistency.
- 3:26Clients
- 3:26trust
- 3:26people
- 3:27who
- 3:27show
- 3:27up
- 3:28consistently,
- 3:29people
- 3:30who
- 3:30listen,
- 3:30people
- 3:31who
- 3:31care,
- 3:32people
- 3:32who
- 3:32follow
- 3:32through,
- 3:33people
- 3:34who
- 3:34understand
- 3:34their
- 3:34business.
- 3:35I've
- 3:35found
- 3:36that
- 3:36many
- 3:36business
- 3:37owners
- 3:37aren't
- 3:37looking
- 3:38for
- 3:38someone
- 3:38who
- 3:38has
- 3:39all
- 3:39the
- 3:39answers.
- 3:41They're
- 3:41looking
- 3:41for
- 3:41someone
- 3:42who
- 3:42genuinely
- 3:42understands
- 3:43what
- 3:44they're
- 3:44trying
- 3:44to
- 3:44achieve.
- 3:45Someone
- 3:46who
- 3:46understands
- 3:47the
- 3:47pressures,
- 3:48the
- 3:48risks,
- 3:49the
- 3:49opportunities,
- 3:50the
- 3:50reality
- 3:51of
- 3:51running
- 3:52a
- 3:52business.
- 3:53And
- 3:53when
- 3:53clients
- 3:54feel
- 3:54understood,
- 3:54trust
- 3:55grows.
- 3:57The
- 3:57Importance
- 3:58of
- 3:58Listening
- 4:01if
- 4:01I
- 4:01could
- 4:01give
- 4:01one
- 4:02piece
- 4:02of
- 4:02advice
- 4:02to
- 4:03anyone
- 4:03wanting
- 4:03to
- 4:04become
- 4:04a
- 4:04trusted
- 4:05advisor,
- 4:05it
- 4:06would
- 4:06be
- 4:06this.
- 4:07Listen
- 4:07more.
- 4:08One
- 4:08of
- 4:08the
- 4:08biggest
- 4:08mistakes
- 4:09professionals
- 4:10make
- 4:10is
- 4:11assuming
- 4:12advisory
- 4:12is
- 4:13about
- 4:13talking.
- 4:13It's
- 4:14not.
- 4:14It's
- 4:15about
- 4:15listening.
- 4:15Most
- 4:16business
- 4:16owners
- 4:17will
- 4:17tell
- 4:17you
- 4:17exactly
- 4:18what's
- 4:18happening
- 4:18in
- 4:19their
- 4:19business
- 4:19if
- 4:19you
- 4:20create
- 4:20the
- 4:21space
- 4:21for
- 4:22them
- 4:22to
- 4:23do
- 4:23so.
- 4:24The
- 4:25challenge
- 4:25is
- 4:25that
- 4:25many
- 4:25advisors
- 4:26are
- 4:26already
- 4:27thinking
- 4:27about
- 4:27the
- 4:28answer
- 4:28before
- 4:28the
- 4:29client
- 4:29has
- 4:29finished
- 4:30speaking.
- 4:30They're
- 4:31solving
- 4:31instead
- 4:32of
- 4:33listening.
- 4:35But
- 4:35often
- 4:35the
- 4:35most
- 4:35valuable
- 4:36insights
- 4:37come
- 4:37from
- 4:38what
- 4:38isn't
- 4:39being
- 4:39said.
- 4:40The
- 4:40hesitation.
- 4:41The
- 4:41uncertainty.
- 4:43The
- 4:43concern
- 4:44hidden
- 4:44beneath
- 4:45the
- 4:45numbers.
- 4:46That's
- 4:46where
- 4:46real
- 4:47advisory
- 4:47conversations
- 4:48begin.
- 4:50Expertise
- 4:50alone
- 4:51isn't
- 4:51enough
- 4:53I
- 4:53know
- 4:53accountants
- 4:54with
- 4:54decades
- 4:55of
- 4:55experience
- 4:55who
- 4:56still
- 4:56struggle
- 4:56to
- 4:56position
- 4:57themselves
- 4:57as
- 4:57advisors
- 4:58not
- 4:59because
- 4:59they
- 4:59lack
- 5:00expertise,
- 5:01but
- 5:01because
- 5:02expertise
- 5:02alone
- 5:03isn't
- 5:03enough.
- 5:04Clients
- 5:05don't
- 5:05remember
- 5:06every
- 5:06technical
- 5:07answer
- 5:07you've
- 5:07given
- 5:07them,
- 5:08but
- 5:08they
- 5:08do
- 5:08remember
- 5:09how
- 5:09you
- 5:10made
- 5:10them
- 5:10feel.
- 5:10They
- 5:11remember
- 5:11whether
- 5:11you
- 5:11gave
- 5:12them
- 5:12confidence,
- 5:13whether
- 5:14you
- 5:14helped
- 5:14them
- 5:14see
- 5:15a
- 5:15way
- 5:16forward,
- 5:17whether
- 5:17you
- 5:17help
- 5:17them
- 5:18solve
- 5:18a
- 5:18problem,
- 5:19whether
- 5:19you
- 5:19were
- 5:19there
- 5:20when
- 5:20things
- 5:20got
- 5:20difficult.
- 5:21That's
- 5:21what
- 5:22creates
- 5:22loyalty.
- 5:22And
- 5:23loyalty
- 5:24creates
- 5:24trust.
- 5:26Confidence
- 5:26without
- 5:27Ego
- 5:30Another
- 5:30important
- 5:31lesson
- 5:31I've
- 5:31learned
- 5:32is
- 5:32that
- 5:32trusted
- 5:32advisors
- 5:33have
- 5:33confidence
- 5:34but
- 5:34not
- 5:34ego.
- 5:35There's
- 5:35a
- 5:35difference.
- 5:36Confidence
- 5:36says,
- 5:37I
- 5:37believe
- 5:38I
- 5:38can
- 5:38help.
- 5:39Ego
- 5:39says,
- 5:40I
- 5:40know
- 5:40better
- 5:40than
- 5:41you.
- 5:42Clients
- 5:42don't
- 5:43respond
- 5:43well
- 5:43to
- 5:43ego.
- 5:44They
- 5:44respond
- 5:45well
- 5:45to
- 5:45confidence,
- 5:46to
- 5:47calm
- 5:47certainty,
- 5:48to
- 5:48someone
- 5:48who
- 5:49can
- 5:50guide
- 5:50them
- 5:50without
- 5:50making
- 5:51them
- 5:51feel
- 5:51judged.
- 5:52One
- 5:53of
- 5:53the
- 5:53most
- 5:53valuable
- 5:54things
- 5:54we
- 5:54can
- 5:54do
- 5:54as
- 5:54advisors
- 5:55is
- 5:55create
- 5:56a
- 5:56safe
- 5:56environment
- 5:57where
- 5:57clients
- 5:58can
- 5:58think
- 5:58openly,
- 5:59explore
- 6:00options,
- 6:00and
- 6:01make
- 6:01decisions
- 6:01without
- 6:02feeling
- 6:02criticized.
- 6:03That's
- 6:04where
- 6:04trust
- 6:04flourishes.
- 6:06Authority
- 6:07is
- 6:07built
- 6:07between
- 6:07meetings
- 6:10Most
- 6:10people
- 6:11think
- 6:11authority
- 6:11is
- 6:11built
- 6:12during
- 6:12client
- 6:12meetings,
- 6:13but
- 6:13I
- 6:13think
- 6:13it's
- 6:14built
- 6:14between
- 6:15meetings.
- 6:16It's
- 6:16built
- 6:16when
- 6:17you
- 6:17remember
- 6:17something
- 6:18important
- 6:18to
- 6:18the
- 6:19client,
- 6:20when
- 6:20you
- 6:20follow
- 6:20up,
- 6:21when
- 6:21you
- 6:21send
- 6:21an
- 6:22article
- 6:22that
- 6:22may
- 6:22help
- 6:23them,
- 6:23when
- 6:23you
- 6:23check
- 6:24in
- 6:24after
- 6:24a
- 6:25difficult
- 6:25period,
- 6:26when
- 6:27you
- 6:27demonstrate
- 6:27that
- 6:28the
- 6:28relationship
- 6:29matters
- 6:29beyond
- 6:30the
- 6:30invoice.
- 6:31Those
- 6:31small
- 6:32moments
- 6:33create
- 6:33enormous
- 6:34trust
- 6:34over
- 6:35time.
- 6:36And
- 6:36often
- 6:36they
- 6:36become
- 6:36the
- 6:37reason
- 6:37clients
- 6:38stay
- 6:38for
- 6:38years.
- 6:40The
- 6:41Long
- 6:41Game
- 6:43One
- 6:43of
- 6:43the
- 6:43challenges
- 6:44today
- 6:44is
- 6:45that
- 6:45we're
- 6:45surrounded
- 6:46by
- 6:46messages
- 6:47promising
- 6:47quick
- 6:47results
- 6:48build
- 6:49authority
- 6:49in
- 6:5030
- 6:50days
- 6:51become
- 6:51an
- 6:51expert
- 6:52overnight.
- 6:52Position
- 6:53yourself
- 6:53as
- 6:53an
- 6:54authority
- 6:54instantly.
- 6:55But
- 6:55that's
- 6:55not
- 6:56how
- 6:56trust
- 6:56works.
- 6:57Trust
- 6:57is
- 6:57the
- 6:57long
- 6:58game.
- 6:59It's
- 6:59built
- 6:59through
- 7:00hundreds
- 7:01of
- 7:01interactions,
- 7:02small
- 7:03moments,
- 7:03consistent
- 7:04actions,
- 7:05reliable
- 7:05support.
- 7:06And
- 7:06that's
- 7:06actually
- 7:06good
- 7:07news
- 7:07because
- 7:07it
- 7:08means
- 7:08you
- 7:08don't
- 7:08need
- 7:09to
- 7:09become
- 7:10someone
- 7:10different.
- 7:11You
- 7:11simply
- 7:11need
- 7:12to
- 7:12keep
- 7:12showing
- 7:12up
- 7:13consistently.
- 7:15What
- 7:16Trusted
- 7:16Advisors
- 7:17Really
- 7:17Do
- 7:19When
- 7:20I
- 7:20think
- 7:20about
- 7:20the
- 7:20advisors
- 7:21I
- 7:21trust
- 7:21most
- 7:22in
- 7:22my
- 7:22own
- 7:22life,
- 7:23they
- 7:23all
- 7:24have
- 7:24something
- 7:24in
- 7:24common.
- 7:25They
- 7:26help
- 7:26me
- 7:26think
- 7:26better.
- 7:27They
- 7:27don't
- 7:28tell
- 7:28me
- 7:28what
- 7:28to
- 7:28do.
- 7:28They
- 7:29don't
- 7:29overwhelm
- 7:29me
- 7:29with
- 7:30information.
- 7:30They
- 7:31help
- 7:31me
- 7:31see
- 7:31things
- 7:32more
- 7:32clearly.
- 7:33That's
- 7:33what
- 7:33trusted
- 7:33advisors
- 7:34do.
- 7:34They
- 7:35create
- 7:35clarity.
- 7:36And
- 7:36clarity
- 7:37leads
- 7:37to
- 7:37confidence.
- 7:38Confidence
- 7:38leads
- 7:39to
- 7:39decisions,
- 7:39and
- 7:40decisions
- 7:40lead
- 7:40to
- 7:40results.
- 7:42Final
- 7:43Thoughts
- 7:44if
- 7:44there's
- 7:45one
- 7:45thing
- 7:45I'd
- 7:45like
- 7:45you
- 7:45to
- 7:46take
- 7:46away
- 7:46from
- 7:46today's
- 7:47episode,
- 7:47it's
- 7:49becoming
- 7:50a
- 7:50trusted
- 7:50advisor
- 7:51isn't
- 7:51about
- 7:52knowing
- 7:52more.
- 7:52It's
- 7:52about
- 7:53it's
- 7:53about
- 7:53helping
- 7:53clients
- 7:54think
- 7:54better.
- 7:55It's
- 7:55about
- 7:55building
- 7:55trust
- 7:56one
- 7:56conversation
- 7:57at
- 7:57a
- 7:57time.
- 7:58It's
- 7:58about
- 7:58listening
- 7:59more
- 7:59than
- 7:59you
- 7:59speak.
- 8:01And
- 8:01it's
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