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E 303: Healing Through Hypnosis: Peter McLaughlin's Transformative Experience · Adult Child of Dysfunction

• 0:45
  One.
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  Good
• 0:48
  morning,
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  everybody,
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  and
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  welcome
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  back
• 0:49
  to
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  another
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  episode
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  of
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  Adult
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  Child
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  of
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  Dysfunction.
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  Today
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  we
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  have
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  with
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  us
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  Peter
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  McLaughlin.
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  He
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  is
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  a
• 0:54
  guest
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  who
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  is
• 0:55
  someone
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  whose
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  life
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  changed,
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  literally,
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  in
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  a
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  single
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  day.
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  In
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  2003,
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  while
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  volunteering
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  as
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  a
• 1:00
  firefighter,
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  he
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  was
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  diagnosed
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  with
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  both
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  Lyme
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  disease
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  and
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  leukemia
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  and
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  told
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  he
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  might
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  have
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  10
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  years
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  to
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  live.
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  For
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  many
• 1:06
  people,
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  that
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  would
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  have
• 1:07
  been
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  the
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  end
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  of
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  the
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  story,
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  but
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  for
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  him,
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  it
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  was
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  actually
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  just
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  the
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  beginning.
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  That
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  diagnosis
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  led
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  him
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  into
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  deep
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  exploration
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  of
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  the
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  mind,
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  body,
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  spirit
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  connection,
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  the
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  subconscious
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  patterns
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  that
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  drive
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  our
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  lives
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  and
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  the
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  idea
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  that
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  what
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  shows
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  up
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  physically
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  may
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  have
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  roots
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  far
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  deeper
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  than
• 1:21
  we
• 1:21
  realize.
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  Welcome,
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  Peter.
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  Thank
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  you
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  so
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  much,
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  Tammy.
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  I'm
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  happy
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  to
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  be
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  here
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  with
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  you.
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  Yes.
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  No,
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  this
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  is
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  great.
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  So
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  now
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  you
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  are
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  going
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  to
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  finish
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  this.
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  I
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  wanted
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  to
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  introduce
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  you
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  first,
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  but
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  you
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  are
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  now
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  a
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  certified
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  hypnotherapist,
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  life
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  coach,
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  and
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  creator
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  of
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  Blue
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  sky
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  Hypnosis,
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  a
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  YouTube
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  channel
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  with
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  over
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  130,000
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  subscribers
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  and
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  17
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  million
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  views.
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  Today,
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  talking
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  about.
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  Wow.
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  Root
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  causes,
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  subconscious
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  programming,
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  how
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  trauma
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  shapes
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  our
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  lives,
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  and
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  why
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  healing
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  is
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  less
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  about
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  fixing
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  and
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  more
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  about
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  uncovering
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  what's
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  underneath.
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  I'm
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  actually
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  super
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  excited
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  about
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  this
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  conversation,
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  to
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  tell
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  you
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  the
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  truth.
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  Me
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  too.
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  Yeah.
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  So
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  a
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  diagnosis
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  like
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  that,
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  I
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  mean,
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  it's
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  bad
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  enough
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  to
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  be
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  told
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  you
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  have
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  leukemia.
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  It's
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  bad
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  enough
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  to
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  be
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  told
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  you
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  have
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  Lyme
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  disease,
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  which
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  we
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  all
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  know
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  is
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  now
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  sometimes
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  a
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  very
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  chronic,
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  lifelong
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  thing,
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  but
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  both
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  at
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  the
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  same
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  day.
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  Yeah,
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  Right,
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  right.
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  Wow.
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  Talk
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  about
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  that.
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  Well,
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  someone
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  else
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  described
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  it
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  perfectly,
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  which
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  is
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  getting
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  hit
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  upside
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  the
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  head
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  with
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  a
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  spiritual
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  2x4.
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  And
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  obviously,
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  I
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  was
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  probably
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  still
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  am
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  to
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  a
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  degree,
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  a
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  pretty
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  stubborn
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  person.
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  And
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  it
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  required
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  that
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  kind
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  of
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  dramatic,
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  scary
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  diagnosis
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  to
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  get
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  my
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  attention.
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  I'm
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  certain
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  that
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  all
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  kinds
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  of
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  things
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  happened
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  prior
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  to
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  that
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  that
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  I
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  wasn't
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  paying
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  attention
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  to
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  that
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  I
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  was
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  pushing
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  away.
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  And
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  this
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  is.
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  This
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  is
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  something
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  that,
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  for
• 2:47
  me,
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  really
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  got
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  my
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  attention.
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  I
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  couldn't
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  push
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  it
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  away.
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  And
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  it
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  really
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  did,
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  in
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  my
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  view,
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  present
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  a
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  door
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  to
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  me.
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  And
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  I
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  think
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  we
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  live
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  in
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  a
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  free
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  will
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  universe.
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  I
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  didn't
• 2:56
  have
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  to
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  open
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  the
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  door,
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  but
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  I
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  did.
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  And
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  by
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  opening
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  the
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  door
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  and
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  walking
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  through
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  it,
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  it
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  changed
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  my
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  life
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  in
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  myriad
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  ways.
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  So
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  was
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  it.
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  It
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  was
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  an
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  immediate,
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  like,
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  aha.
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  My
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  whole
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  life
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  has
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  to
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  shift.
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  My
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  beliefs,
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  my
• 3:09
  thinking,
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  my
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  everything.
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  Was
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  it
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  that?
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  No,
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  no,
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  I
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  can't
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  say
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  that.
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  I
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  think
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  I
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  went
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  through
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  the.
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  There's
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  like,
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  all
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  these
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  stages.
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  I
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  forget
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  the
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  woman
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  who
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  came
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  up
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  with
• 3:19
  it,
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  but
• 3:19
  the
• 3:19
  stages
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  of.
• 3:20
  Of
• 3:20
  grief
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  after
• 3:21
  somebody
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  dies
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  and
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  the
• 3:23
  first
• 3:23
  one
• 3:23
  was
• 3:24
  disbelief.
• 3:24
  I
• 3:25
  didn't
• 3:25
  believe
• 3:25
  it.
• 3:25
  I
• 3:26
  thought,
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  this
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  is
• 3:26
  completely
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  ridiculous.
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  And
• 3:28
  I
• 3:28
  went
• 3:29
  back
• 3:29
  and
• 3:29
  gave
• 3:29
  blood
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  again,
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  and
• 3:30
  they
• 3:30
  came
• 3:30
  up
• 3:30
  with
• 3:30
  the
• 3:30
  exact
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  same
• 3:31
  results.
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  And
• 3:32
  I
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  went
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  through
• 3:33
  anger
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  and
• 3:35
  bargaining
• 3:36
  and
• 3:36
  grief
• 3:37
  and
• 3:37
  a
• 3:38
  feeling
• 3:38
  of
• 3:38
  hopelessness
• 3:39
  and
• 3:39
  then
• 3:40
  back
• 3:40
  to
• 3:40
  anger.
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  And
• 3:44
  it
• 3:44
  took
• 3:44
  me
• 3:44
  a
• 3:44
  couple
• 3:45
  of
• 3:45
  years.
• 3:45
  I
• 3:46
  put
• 3:46
  my
• 3:46
  business
• 3:47
  kind
• 3:48
  of
• 3:48
  on
• 3:48
  autopilot.
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  have
• 3:49
  a
• 3:49
  security
• 3:50
  guard
• 3:50
  business
• 3:50
  with
• 3:51
  50
• 3:51
  employees.
• 3:51
  And
• 3:51
  I
• 3:52
  just
• 3:52
  started
• 3:53
  only
• 3:53
  sending
• 3:53
  out
• 3:54
  invoices
• 3:54
  and
• 3:55
  doing
• 3:56
  the
• 3:56
  payroll
• 3:57
  and
• 3:58
  only
• 3:58
  dealt
• 3:59
  with
• 3:59
  emergencies
• 3:59
  when
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  they
• 4:00
  came
• 4:00
  up.
• 4:00
  Everything
• 4:01
  else
• 4:01
  was
• 4:02
  focused
• 4:02
  on
• 4:02
  researching
• 4:03
  because
• 4:04
  the
• 4:04
  hematologist
• 4:05
  oncologist
• 4:05
  had
• 4:05
  said
• 4:06
  to
• 4:06
  me,
• 4:06
  we
• 4:06
  don't
• 4:06
  know
• 4:06
  what
• 4:06
  causes
• 4:07
  this
• 4:07
  and
• 4:07
  we
• 4:07
  don't
• 4:07
  know
• 4:07
  how
• 4:07
  to
• 4:07
  cure
• 4:08
  it.
• 4:08
  And
• 4:08
  I
• 4:08
  thought,
• 4:08
  I'm
• 4:08
  going
• 4:09
  to
• 4:09
  have
• 4:09
  to
• 4:09
  figure
• 4:09
  this
• 4:09
  out
• 4:09
  myself.
• 4:10
  And
• 4:11
  the
• 4:11
  more
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  researched.
• 4:12
  And
• 4:13
  again,
• 4:13
  over
• 4:13
  time,
• 4:15
  it
• 4:15
  was
• 4:16
  three
• 4:16
  years
• 4:16
  or
• 4:17
  so
• 4:17
  between
• 4:18
  the
• 4:18
  diagnosis
• 4:19
  and
• 4:19
  when
• 4:19
  I
• 4:20
  went
• 4:20
  out
• 4:20
  to
• 4:20
  Santa
• 4:21
  Fe,
• 4:21
  New
• 4:21
  Mexico
• 4:21
  to
• 4:21
  study
• 4:22
  hypnotherapy.
• 4:23
  And
• 4:23
  the
• 4:23
  research
• 4:24
  pulled
• 4:25
  me
• 4:25
  gradually
• 4:26
  from
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  physical
• 4:27
  plane
• 4:27
  of
• 4:27
  cause
• 4:28
  and
• 4:28
  effect
• 4:29
  into
• 4:29
  the
• 4:29
  power
• 4:29
  the
• 4:30
  mind
• 4:30
  has
• 4:30
  over
• 4:30
  the
• 4:30
  body.
• 4:31
  And
• 4:32
  then
• 4:32
  as
• 4:32
  I
• 4:32
  studied
• 4:33
  this
• 4:33
  work
• 4:33
  and
• 4:33
  as
• 4:34
  I
• 4:34
  began
• 4:34
  to
• 4:34
  do
• 4:35
  more
• 4:35
  of
• 4:35
  it,
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  was
• 4:35
  drawn
• 4:36
  even
• 4:36
  higher
• 4:36
  into
• 4:37
  the
• 4:37
  spiritual.
• 4:38
  I
• 4:38
  was
• 4:39
  going
• 4:39
  to
• 4:39
  ask
• 4:39
  how
• 4:39
  long
• 4:39
  it
• 4:40
  took
• 4:40
  to
• 4:40
  get
• 4:40
  from
• 4:40
  the.
• 4:42
  The
• 4:43
  Western
• 4:43
  medicine
• 4:44
  type.
• 4:44
  You
• 4:44
  have
• 4:45
  this,
• 4:45
  and
• 4:45
  this
• 4:45
  is
• 4:45
  your
• 4:45
  symptoms
• 4:46
  and
• 4:46
  this
• 4:46
  is
• 4:46
  your
• 4:47
  quote,
• 4:48
  unquote
• 4:48
  cause,
• 4:48
  which
• 4:49
  obviously
• 4:49
  they
• 4:49
  don't.
• 4:50
  They
• 4:50
  didn't
• 4:50
  know
• 4:51
  until
• 4:51
  it
• 4:52
  came
• 4:52
  to
• 4:52
  the
• 4:52
  spiritual.
• 4:53
  Because
• 4:53
  it
• 4:53
  seems
• 4:54
  in
• 4:54
  my
• 4:54
  world,
• 4:54
  at
• 4:54
  least
• 4:55
  everybody
• 4:55
  I
• 4:55
  know,
• 4:55
  eventually
• 4:56
  that
• 4:56
  path
• 4:56
  takes
• 4:57
  them
• 4:57
  there.
• 4:58
  It
• 4:58
  takes
• 4:58
  them
• 4:59
  into,
• 4:59
  you
• 5:00
  know,
• 5:00
  it's
• 5:00
  it.
• 5:01
  And
• 5:01
  we
• 5:01
  all
• 5:01
  have
• 5:01
  that
• 5:01
  wake
• 5:02
  up
• 5:02
  call.
• 5:02
  So.
• 5:03
  And
• 5:03
  sometimes
• 5:04
  it
• 5:04
  sends
• 5:04
  us
• 5:04
  more
• 5:04
  into
• 5:04
  that
• 5:05
  spiritual
• 5:05
  world.
• 5:05
  It
• 5:06
  certainly
• 5:06
  did
• 5:06
  me.
• 5:07
  I
• 5:07
  had
• 5:07
  a
• 5:07
  stroke
• 5:07
  last
• 5:08
  January,
• 5:09
  and
• 5:10
  I
• 5:10
  had
• 5:10
  been
• 5:11
  kind
• 5:11
  of
• 5:11
  dabbling
• 5:12
  in
• 5:12
  that
• 5:12
  whole
• 5:12
  spiritual
• 5:13
  thing.
• 5:13
  I
• 5:13
  was
• 5:13
  certified
• 5:14
  to
• 5:14
  do
• 5:14
  Reiki
• 5:14
  and
• 5:15
  I,
• 5:15
  you
• 5:15
  know,
• 5:16
  was
• 5:16
  all
• 5:16
  about,
• 5:16
  like,
• 5:17
  cause
• 5:17
  and
• 5:17
  effect.
• 5:17
  And
• 5:18
  I
• 5:18
  knew
• 5:18
  my
• 5:18
  childhood
• 5:19
  trauma
• 5:19
  had
• 5:20
  caused
• 5:20
  all
• 5:20
  these
• 5:21
  physiological
• 5:21
  things,
• 5:22
  but
• 5:22
  it
• 5:23
  really
• 5:23
  threw
• 5:24
  me
• 5:24
  quickly
• 5:24
  into
• 5:25
  the
• 5:25
  spiritual
• 5:25
  world,
• 5:26
  into,
• 5:27
  let's
• 5:28
  figure
• 5:28
  out,
• 5:29
  figure
• 5:29
  this
• 5:29
  out.
• 5:29
  And
• 5:30
  I
• 5:30
  need
• 5:30
  something
• 5:30
  bigger
• 5:31
  than
• 5:31
  me
• 5:31
  to
• 5:31
  help
• 5:31
  me
• 5:32
  do
• 5:32
  that.
• 5:32
  Yes.
• 5:33
  Yeah,
• 5:33
  absolutely.
• 5:36
  Not
• 5:36
  about
• 5:36
  what
• 5:36
  those
• 5:36
  little
• 5:36
  vials
• 5:37
  of
• 5:37
  blood
• 5:38
  say.
• 5:38
  It's
• 5:38
  about
• 5:39
  everything
• 5:40
  else.
• 5:40
  It's
• 5:40
  about
• 5:41
  the
• 5:41
  bigger
• 5:41
  picture.
• 5:42
  Exactly.
• 5:43
  That's
• 5:43
  awesome.
• 5:44
  So.
• 5:45
  So
• 5:45
  you
• 5:45
  did.
• 5:46
  So
• 5:46
  this
• 5:46
  was
• 5:46
  19
• 5:47
  years
• 5:47
  ago.
• 5:47
  This
• 5:47
  was
• 5:47
  2003.
• 5:48
  Well,
• 5:48
  now
• 5:48
  it's
• 5:49
  23
• 5:50
  years
• 5:51
  ago.
• 5:51
  I
• 5:51
  was
• 5:51
  diagnosed
• 5:52
  in
• 5:52
  2003.
• 5:54
  So
• 5:54
  that
• 5:54
  was
• 5:54
  23
• 5:55
  years
• 5:55
  ago.
• 5:55
  Almost
• 5:56
  exactly.
• 5:56
  It
• 5:56
  was
• 5:56
  like
• 5:57
  May
• 5:57
  of
• 5:58
  2003.
• 5:59
  And
• 5:59
  it
• 5:59
  took
• 6:00
  me
• 6:00
  about
• 6:00
  three
• 6:00
  years
• 6:01
  to
• 6:01
  find
• 6:01
  my
• 6:01
  way
• 6:02
  to,
• 6:03
  To
• 6:03
  Being
• 6:03
  a
• 6:03
  hypnotist
• 6:03
  to
• 6:04
  being
• 6:04
  trained
• 6:04
  as
• 6:04
  a
• 6:04
  hypnotist
• 6:05
  and
• 6:05
  starting
• 6:05
  to
• 6:05
  practice
• 6:06
  as
• 6:06
  a
• 6:06
  hypnotist.
• 6:06
  So
• 6:06
  the
• 6:07
  practice
• 6:07
  has
• 6:07
  been
• 6:07
  about
• 6:07
  19
• 6:08
  years,
• 6:09
  but
• 6:09
  it
• 6:09
  was
• 6:09
  23
• 6:10
  years
• 6:10
  ago
• 6:10
  that
• 6:11
  I
• 6:11
  was
• 6:11
  diagnosed.
• 6:12
  Okay,
• 6:12
  and
• 6:13
  are
• 6:13
  you.
• 6:13
  How
• 6:14
  are
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  physically?
• 6:15
  I
• 6:15
  mean,
• 6:15
  you
• 6:15
  look
• 6:15
  great.
• 6:16
  Thank
• 6:16
  you.
• 6:17
  I
• 6:18
  feel
• 6:18
  really
• 6:18
  good.
• 6:19
  And
• 6:19
  I'd
• 6:20
  like
• 6:20
  to
• 6:20
  answer
• 6:20
  that
• 6:20
  question
• 6:21
  in
• 6:21
  two
• 6:21
  ways.
• 6:21
  The
• 6:22
  first
• 6:22
  way
• 6:22
  is,
• 6:23
  I
• 6:23
  think,
• 6:23
  the
• 6:23
  way
• 6:24
  modern
• 6:24
  people
• 6:25
  expect
• 6:25
  the
• 6:25
  answer,
• 6:26
  which
• 6:26
  is,
• 6:26
  what
• 6:27
  is
• 6:27
  your
• 6:27
  white
• 6:27
  blood
• 6:27
  cell
• 6:28
  count
• 6:28
  in
• 6:28
  the
• 6:28
  case
• 6:29
  of
• 6:29
  leukemia?
• 6:30
  And
• 6:31
  the
• 6:31
  answer
• 6:31
  to
• 6:31
  that
• 6:32
  is,
• 6:32
  it's
• 6:32
  still
• 6:33
  high,
• 6:34
  but
• 6:34
  it's
• 6:35
  less
• 6:35
  than
• 6:35
  half
• 6:36
  of
• 6:36
  what
• 6:36
  it
• 6:36
  was
• 6:37
  when
• 6:37
  I
• 6:37
  was
• 6:37
  diagnosed
• 6:37
  23
• 6:38
  years
• 6:38
  ago
• 6:38
  when
• 6:39
  they
• 6:39
  told
• 6:39
  me
• 6:39
  I
• 6:39
  might
• 6:39
  live
• 6:40
  for
• 6:40
  10
• 6:40
  years.
• 6:41
  So
• 6:41
  to
• 6:42
  me,
• 6:42
  that's
• 6:42
  a
• 6:42
  big.
• 6:42
  That's
• 6:43
  a
• 6:43
  big
• 6:43
  positive.
• 6:44
  That's
• 6:44
  a
• 6:44
  big
• 6:44
  win.
• 6:45
  On
• 6:45
  the
• 6:46
  other.
• 6:46
  The
• 6:46
  other
• 6:46
  way
• 6:47
  of
• 6:47
  answering
• 6:47
  is,
• 6:47
  I
• 6:47
  think,
• 6:47
  the
• 6:48
  way
• 6:48
  people
• 6:48
  would
• 6:48
  have
• 6:48
  answered
• 6:49
  that
• 6:49
  question
• 6:49
  for
• 6:49
  most
• 6:49
  of
• 6:50
  human
• 6:50
  history,
• 6:50
  and
• 6:50
  that
• 6:50
  is,
• 6:50
  how
• 6:51
  do
• 6:51
  you
• 6:51
  feel?
• 6:51
  And
• 6:52
  I
• 6:52
  feel
• 6:53
  really
• 6:53
  good.
• 6:53
  I
• 6:54
  don't
• 6:54
  feel.
• 6:54
  I
• 6:54
  don't
• 6:55
  feel
• 6:55
  like
• 6:55
  my
• 6:56
  age.
• 6:56
  I'm
• 6:57
  going
• 6:57
  to
• 6:57
  be
• 6:57
  64
• 6:58
  in
• 6:58
  about
• 6:59
  a
• 6:59
  month,
• 6:59
  and
• 7:00
  I
• 7:00
  don't
• 7:00
  feel
• 7:01
  that
• 7:02
  age.
• 7:02
  I
• 7:02
  feel
• 7:03
  much,
• 7:03
  much
• 7:03
  younger.
• 7:04
  I
• 7:04
  feel
• 7:05
  strong
• 7:06
  and
• 7:06
  my
• 7:06
  thinking
• 7:07
  is
• 7:07
  good,
• 7:07
  and
• 7:07
  I
• 7:07
  feel
• 7:08
  like
• 7:08
  I
• 7:08
  have
• 7:08
  a
• 7:08
  lot
• 7:08
  of
• 7:08
  energy
• 7:08
  and
• 7:09
  I
• 7:09
  sleep
• 7:09
  well
• 7:09
  and.
• 7:10
  And
• 7:10
  I
• 7:11
  actually
• 7:11
  feel
• 7:11
  better
• 7:11
  than
• 7:11
  I
• 7:12
  did
• 7:12
  before
• 7:12
  I
• 7:12
  was
• 7:12
  diagnosed.
• 7:13
  And
• 7:13
  I
• 7:13
  was
• 7:13
  diagnosed
• 7:13
  when
• 7:14
  I
• 7:14
  was
• 7:14
  41.
• 7:15
  Wow.
• 7:16
  You.
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  mean,
• 7:16
  for
• 7:17
  the
• 7:17
  people
• 7:17
  that
• 7:17
  cannot
• 7:18
  see
• 7:18
  him,
• 7:18
  that
• 7:18
  are
• 7:18
  just
• 7:18
  listening
• 7:19
  to
• 7:19
  this,
• 7:19
  he
• 7:19
  doesn't
• 7:20
  look
• 7:20
  64
• 7:20
  years
• 7:21
  old,
• 7:21
  let
• 7:21
  me
• 7:21
  tell
• 7:21
  you.
• 7:23
  Not
• 7:23
  even
• 7:24
  close.
• 7:25
  Not
• 7:25
  even
• 7:27
  slightly
• 7:27
  close.
• 7:28
  Thank
• 7:28
  you
• 7:28
  for
• 7:28
  that.
• 7:29
  Well,
• 7:29
  you
• 7:29
  know,
• 7:30
  and.
• 7:30
  And
• 7:30
  you're
• 7:30
  right.
• 7:30
  That
• 7:31
  is
• 7:31
  a
• 7:31
  huge
• 7:31
  marker
• 7:32
  because
• 7:33
  the
• 7:33
  numbers,
• 7:35
  it's
• 7:35
  kind
• 7:35
  of
• 7:35
  like
• 7:35
  I
• 7:36
  say,
• 7:36
  age
• 7:36
  is
• 7:36
  just
• 7:36
  a
• 7:37
  number.
• 7:37
  It's
• 7:37
  the
• 7:37
  same
• 7:38
  thing
• 7:38
  when
• 7:38
  my
• 7:38
  father
• 7:39
  had
• 7:39
  prostate
• 7:39
  cancer,
• 7:40
  that
• 7:40
  PSA
• 7:40
  count.
• 7:41
  And
• 7:41
  it
• 7:41
  was
• 7:41
  like,
• 7:43
  that'll.
• 7:43
  That'll
• 7:44
  work
• 7:44
  itself
• 7:44
  out.
• 7:45
  Let's
• 7:45
  work
• 7:45
  on
• 7:45
  the
• 7:45
  other
• 7:46
  stuff.
• 7:46
  Let's
• 7:46
  work
• 7:46
  on
• 7:46
  just
• 7:47
  taking
• 7:47
  care
• 7:47
  of
• 7:47
  your
• 7:48
  body.
• 7:48
  Let's
• 7:48
  work
• 7:48
  on
• 7:49
  getting
• 7:49
  to
• 7:50
  that
• 7:50
  spiritual
• 7:50
  aspect.
• 7:51
  Let's
• 7:52
  work
• 7:52
  on
• 7:53
  getting
• 7:53
  out
• 7:53
  of
• 7:53
  victim
• 7:54
  mentality
• 7:55
  and
• 7:55
  just
• 7:55
  accepting
• 7:56
  this
• 7:56
  is
• 7:57
  something.
• 7:58
  And
• 7:58
  I'm
• 7:58
  either
• 7:58
  gonna
• 7:59
  sit
• 7:59
  here
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  wither
• 8:00
  away,
• 8:00
  which
• 8:00
  is
• 8:00
  what
• 8:00
  they
• 8:01
  say
• 8:01
  is
• 8:01
  going
• 8:01
  to
• 8:01
  happen,
• 8:02
  because
• 8:02
  what
• 8:03
  your
• 8:03
  mind
• 8:03
  thinketh
• 8:04
  becometh.
• 8:06
  You
• 8:06
  know,
• 8:06
  like
• 8:07
  I
• 8:07
  said,
• 8:07
  dad,
• 8:07
  if
• 8:07
  you
• 8:07
  sit
• 8:08
  here
• 8:08
  and
• 8:08
  you
• 8:08
  say
• 8:08
  one
• 8:09
  more
• 8:09
  time,
• 8:09
  it's.
• 8:09
  This
• 8:09
  is
• 8:10
  going
• 8:10
  to
• 8:10
  kill
• 8:10
  me.
• 8:11
  It
• 8:11
  most
• 8:12
  certainly
• 8:12
  is.
• 8:13
  Stop.
• 8:14
  Yeah.
• 8:14
  You
• 8:14
  know,
• 8:15
  and.
• 8:16
  And
• 8:16
  he
• 8:17
  eventually.
• 8:18
  I
• 8:19
  mean,
• 8:19
  he
• 8:19
  bought
• 8:19
  it
• 8:19
  for
• 8:20
  15
• 8:20
  years,
• 8:21
  but
• 8:21
  it
• 8:22
  was
• 8:22
  Agent
• 8:22
  Orange
• 8:22
  cancer,
• 8:23
  too,
• 8:23
  which
• 8:23
  is
• 8:23
  a
• 8:24
  Tough,
• 8:24
  aggressive,
• 8:25
  from
• 8:25
  the
• 8:25
  Vietnam.
• 8:27
  Yeah,
• 8:27
  that
• 8:27
  was.
• 8:27
  He
• 8:27
  had
• 8:28
  it
• 8:28
  in
• 8:28
  every
• 8:28
  single
• 8:29
  soft
• 8:29
  tissue
• 8:29
  organ,
• 8:30
  ironically,
• 8:30
  except
• 8:31
  his
• 8:31
  liver.
• 8:31
  And
• 8:31
  he
• 8:32
  was
• 8:32
  an
• 8:32
  alcoholic
• 8:32
  from
• 8:33
  the
• 8:33
  time
• 8:33
  he
• 8:33
  was
• 8:33
  20,
• 8:33
  so
• 8:34
  figure
• 8:34
  that
• 8:34
  out.
• 8:35
  Wow.
• 8:35
  I.
• 8:36
  I
• 8:36
  said
• 8:36
  they
• 8:37
  wish
• 8:37
  they
• 8:37
  could
• 8:37
  have
• 8:37
  taken
• 8:37
  his
• 8:38
  organs
• 8:38
  and
• 8:38
  done
• 8:38
  a
• 8:39
  study.
• 8:39
  Even
• 8:39
  his
• 8:39
  doctor
• 8:40
  was
• 8:40
  like,
• 8:40
  I
• 8:40
  would
• 8:40
  love
• 8:41
  to
• 8:41
  have
• 8:41
  been
• 8:41
  able
• 8:41
  to
• 8:42
  start
• 8:42
  from
• 8:42
  the
• 8:42
  beginning
• 8:42
  with
• 8:42
  this
• 8:43
  because
• 8:45
  it
• 8:45
  was
• 8:46
  in
• 8:46
  every
• 8:46
  single
• 8:47
  soft
• 8:47
  tissue
• 8:47
  organ,
• 8:48
  the
• 8:48
  cancer,
• 8:48
  except
• 8:49
  his
• 8:49
  liver.
• 8:49
  So
• 8:50
  I
• 8:50
  think
• 8:50
  he
• 8:50
  pickled
• 8:50
  it.
• 8:51
  I
• 8:51
  guess
• 8:52
  so.
• 8:52
  Yeah.
• 8:53
  Alcohol
• 8:53
  was
• 8:53
  like,
• 8:53
  no,
• 8:54
  it
• 8:54
  can't
• 8:54
  deal
• 8:54
  with
• 8:54
  one
• 8:54
  more
• 8:55
  thing.
• 8:55
  But
• 8:55
  anyway,
• 8:56
  a
• 8:56
  whole
• 8:57
  nother
• 8:57
  side
• 8:57
  story.
• 8:59
  So
• 8:59
  talk
• 8:59
  about
• 9:00
  how
• 9:00
  it
• 9:00
  led
• 9:00
  you
• 9:01
  into
• 9:01
  like,
• 9:02
  was
• 9:02
  hypnosis
• 9:03
  because
• 9:03
  you
• 9:03
  wanted
• 9:03
  to
• 9:04
  find
• 9:04
  root
• 9:04
  causes.
• 9:07
  There
• 9:07
  were
• 9:07
  a
• 9:07
  couple
• 9:07
  things
• 9:08
  that
• 9:08
  happened
• 9:08
  that
• 9:09
  at
• 9:09
  the
• 9:09
  time
• 9:09
  they
• 9:09
  seemed
• 9:10
  disjointed.
• 9:10
  But
• 9:10
  in
• 9:10
  a
• 9:11
  flash
• 9:11
  it
• 9:11
  all
• 9:11
  came
• 9:12
  together.
• 9:13
  And
• 9:13
  one
• 9:13
  of
• 9:13
  them
• 9:14
  was,
• 9:15
  I
• 9:16
  ended
• 9:16
  up
• 9:16
  selling
• 9:16
  the
• 9:17
  security
• 9:17
  guard
• 9:17
  company
• 9:17
  because
• 9:18
  I
• 9:18
  felt
• 9:18
  like
• 9:18
  I
• 9:18
  couldn't
• 9:19
  afford
• 9:19
  the
• 9:19
  stress
• 9:20
  that
• 9:20
  I
• 9:20
  was
• 9:21
  under
• 9:21
  because
• 9:22
  of
• 9:22
  this
• 9:22
  work.
• 9:23
  I
• 9:23
  would
• 9:23
  get
• 9:24
  called
• 9:24
  in
• 9:24
  the
• 9:24
  middle
• 9:24
  of
• 9:24
  the
• 9:24
  night
• 9:25
  when
• 9:25
  there'd
• 9:25
  be
• 9:25
  some
• 9:25
  kind
• 9:26
  of
• 9:26
  a
• 9:26
  problem
• 9:26
  and
• 9:26
  my
• 9:26
  heart
• 9:27
  would
• 9:27
  be
• 9:27
  pounding
• 9:27
  because
• 9:27
  I'd
• 9:28
  think,
• 9:28
  this
• 9:28
  is
• 9:28
  my
• 9:28
  fault
• 9:29
  and
• 9:29
  I've
• 9:29
  got
• 9:29
  to
• 9:29
  fix
• 9:29
  it.
• 9:30
  And
• 9:31
  I
• 9:32
  sold
• 9:32
  it.
• 9:32
  And
• 9:32
  then
• 9:33
  I
• 9:33
  had
• 9:34
  this
• 9:34
  feeling
• 9:34
  of
• 9:35
  kind
• 9:35
  of
• 9:35
  panic
• 9:36
  of
• 9:36
  not
• 9:36
  having
• 9:36
  anything.
• 9:37
  So
• 9:37
  I
• 9:37
  bought
• 9:37
  this
• 9:37
  little
• 9:37
  shipping
• 9:38
  and
• 9:38
  packing
• 9:38
  store
• 9:38
  thinking
• 9:39
  that
• 9:39
  I
• 9:39
  could
• 9:40
  just
• 9:40
  have
• 9:40
  it
• 9:40
  as
• 9:40
  an
• 9:40
  investment
• 9:41
  and
• 9:41
  have
• 9:41
  it
• 9:41
  on
• 9:41
  the
• 9:41
  side,
• 9:42
  which
• 9:42
  was
• 9:42
  a
• 9:42
  total
• 9:43
  joke.
• 9:43
  I
• 9:43
  ended
• 9:43
  up
• 9:44
  spending
• 9:44
  tons
• 9:45
  of
• 9:45
  time
• 9:45
  there
• 9:45
  and
• 9:45
  making
• 9:46
  very
• 9:46
  little.
• 9:47
  And
• 9:48
  it
• 9:48
  may
• 9:48
  have
• 9:48
  all
• 9:48
  been
• 9:49
  because
• 9:50
  this
• 9:50
  one
• 9:50
  day
• 9:51
  a
• 9:51
  person
• 9:51
  walked
• 9:52
  in
• 9:52
  with
• 9:52
  a
• 9:52
  box
• 9:53
  that
• 9:53
  they
• 9:53
  wanted
• 9:53
  to
• 9:53
  ship
• 9:54
  and
• 9:54
  it
• 9:54
  said
• 9:54
  on
• 9:54
  it,
• 9:55
  this
• 9:55
  was
• 9:55
  in
• 9:55
  Connecticut
• 9:56
  Hypnotherapy
• 9:57
  Academy
• 9:57
  of
• 9:57
  America,
• 9:58
  Santa
• 9:58
  Fe,
• 9:58
  New
• 9:58
  Mexico.
• 9:59
  And
• 9:59
  I
• 10:00
  got
• 10:00
  into.
• 10:00
  And
• 10:00
  I
• 10:00
  was
• 10:01
  fascinated
• 10:01
  by
• 10:01
  it.
• 10:01
  I
• 10:01
  just
• 10:02
  thought,
• 10:02
  this
• 10:02
  is
• 10:02
  really
• 10:02
  interesting.
• 10:02
  And
• 10:03
  I
• 10:03
  got
• 10:03
  into
• 10:04
  probably
• 10:04
  an
• 10:04
  hour
• 10:04
  long
• 10:05
  conversation
• 10:05
  with
• 10:06
  this,
• 10:06
  with
• 10:06
  this
• 10:06
  woman
• 10:07
  whose
• 10:07
  sister
• 10:08
  had
• 10:08
  started
• 10:08
  this,
• 10:09
  this
• 10:09
  school
• 10:10
  with
• 10:10
  her
• 10:10
  husband.
• 10:11
  And
• 10:12
  as.
• 10:12
  And
• 10:12
  then
• 10:12
  I
• 10:13
  just
• 10:13
  kind
• 10:13
  of
• 10:13
  forgot
• 10:14
  about
• 10:14
  it.
• 10:14
  And
• 10:14
  then
• 10:15
  my
• 10:15
  wife
• 10:15
  and
• 10:15
  I
• 10:15
  were
• 10:15
  watching
• 10:16
  that
• 10:16
  movie,
• 10:16
  the
• 10:16
  Secret,
• 10:18
  you
• 10:18
  know,
• 10:18
  when
• 10:18
  you
• 10:19
  could
• 10:19
  first
• 10:19
  stream
• 10:19
  movies.
• 10:20
  And
• 10:21
  we
• 10:21
  were
• 10:21
  sitting
• 10:21
  there
• 10:21
  watching
• 10:21
  it.
• 10:22
  Halfway
• 10:22
  through,
• 10:22
  I
• 10:23
  looked
• 10:23
  at
• 10:23
  her
• 10:23
  and
• 10:23
  I
• 10:23
  said,
• 10:24
  I
• 10:24
  need
• 10:24
  to
• 10:24
  be
• 10:24
  a
• 10:24
  hypnotist.
• 10:25
  And
• 10:25
  she
• 10:25
  looked
• 10:25
  back
• 10:25
  and
• 10:26
  she
• 10:26
  said,
• 10:26
  yes,
• 10:26
  you
• 10:26
  do.
• 10:27
  And
• 10:28
  I
• 10:29
  did
• 10:29
  some
• 10:29
  research
• 10:30
  on
• 10:30
  different
• 10:30
  places
• 10:31
  and
• 10:31
  I
• 10:31
  kept
• 10:31
  coming
• 10:31
  back
• 10:32
  to
• 10:32
  the
• 10:32
  one
• 10:32
  in
• 10:32
  New
• 10:32
  Mexico.
• 10:33
  And
• 10:33
  I
• 10:34
  called
• 10:34
  them
• 10:34
  up
• 10:35
  and
• 10:35
  it
• 10:35
  turns
• 10:36
  out
• 10:36
  that
• 10:36
  the
• 10:36
  founder
• 10:37
  had
• 10:37
  been
• 10:37
  a
• 10:37
  paramedic.
• 10:38
  And
• 10:38
  I
• 10:39
  was
• 10:39
  heavily
• 10:39
  identifying
• 10:40
  with
• 10:40
  being
• 10:40
  a
• 10:40
  first
• 10:40
  responder
• 10:41
  then.
• 10:42
  And
• 10:42
  their
• 10:42
  focus
• 10:43
  was
• 10:43
  on
• 10:44
  the
• 10:44
  adjunctive
• 10:45
  uses
• 10:45
  of
• 10:46
  hypnosis.
• 10:46
  With
• 10:47
  medical
• 10:47
  issues.
• 10:49
  And
• 10:49
  I
• 10:49
  thought,
• 10:49
  okay,
• 10:50
  this
• 10:50
  has
• 10:50
  got
• 10:50
  to
• 10:50
  be
• 10:50
  the
• 10:50
  place
• 10:51
  for
• 10:51
  me.
• 10:51
  And
• 10:51
  they
• 10:51
  said,
• 10:51
  there's
• 10:52
  one
• 10:52
  spot
• 10:52
  left,
• 10:52
  and
• 10:52
  we're
• 10:53
  starting,
• 10:53
  like,
• 10:53
  in
• 10:54
  four
• 10:54
  days,
• 10:54
  five
• 10:55
  days.
• 10:55
  Wow.
• 10:57
  So
• 10:57
  my
• 10:57
  wife
• 10:58
  was
• 10:58
  totally
• 10:59
  behind
• 10:59
  me,
• 10:59
  God
• 11:00
  bless
• 11:00
  her.
• 11:00
  And
• 11:00
  I
• 11:01
  signed
• 11:01
  up,
• 11:01
  went
• 11:01
  out
• 11:02
  there,
• 11:02
  and
• 11:02
  it.
• 11:03
  It
• 11:03
  felt
• 11:03
  like
• 11:04
  the
• 11:04
  experience
• 11:05
  changed
• 11:05
  my
• 11:05
  life.
• 11:05
  I
• 11:05
  felt
• 11:06
  like
• 11:06
  I
• 11:06
  came
• 11:06
  back
• 11:06
  a
• 11:06
  different
• 11:07
  person,
• 11:07
  which
• 11:07
  is
• 11:08
  what
• 11:08
  they
• 11:09
  said
• 11:09
  would
• 11:09
  happen.
• 11:11
  The
• 11:11
  person
• 11:11
  who
• 11:12
  was
• 11:12
  in
• 11:12
  charge
• 11:12
  of
• 11:12
  enrollment
• 11:13
  said,
• 11:14
  whether
• 11:14
  you
• 11:14
  go
• 11:15
  on
• 11:15
  to
• 11:15
  practice
• 11:15
  this
• 11:15
  or
• 11:16
  not,
• 11:16
  it'll
• 11:16
  change
• 11:17
  your
• 11:17
  life.
• 11:17
  You'll
• 11:18
  never
• 11:18
  be
• 11:18
  the
• 11:18
  same.
• 11:19
  And
• 11:19
  she
• 11:19
  was
• 11:19
  totally
• 11:20
  right.
• 11:21
  Right.
• 11:22
  Yeah.
• 11:23
  I
• 11:23
  mean,
• 11:23
  and
• 11:23
  just
• 11:23
  in
• 11:24
  that.
• 11:24
  And
• 11:24
  that
• 11:25
  probably
• 11:25
  dove
• 11:25
  you
• 11:26
  way
• 11:26
  more
• 11:26
  into
• 11:27
  the
• 11:27
  spiritual
• 11:27
  just
• 11:28
  because
• 11:28
  of
• 11:28
  the.
• 11:29
  The,
• 11:30
  like,
• 11:30
  talk
• 11:31
  a
• 11:31
  little
• 11:31
  bit
• 11:31
  about
• 11:31
  what
• 11:32
  your
• 11:32
  experience
• 11:33
  with,
• 11:34
  like,
• 11:34
  the.
• 11:35
  The
• 11:35
  here
• 11:35
  and
• 11:35
  now
• 11:36
  world
• 11:36
  that
• 11:36
  we
• 11:36
  live
• 11:37
  in
• 11:38
  versus
• 11:39
  what
• 11:39
  you
• 11:40
  experience
• 11:40
  when
• 11:40
  you're
• 11:41
  going
• 11:41
  through
• 11:41
  hypnosis
• 11:42
  or
• 11:42
  when
• 11:42
  you're
• 11:42
  training
• 11:43
  or
• 11:43
  when
• 11:43
  your
• 11:43
  mind
• 11:43
  is
• 11:43
  in
• 11:44
  that
• 11:44
  whole
• 11:44
  other
• 11:44
  mindset,
• 11:45
  I
• 11:45
  guess
• 11:46
  you
• 11:46
  could
• 11:46
  say,
• 11:46
  if
• 11:46
  that
• 11:46
  makes
• 11:46
  sense.
• 11:47
  I
• 11:47
  think
• 11:47
  one
• 11:47
  of
• 11:47
  the
• 11:47
  best
• 11:47
  ways
• 11:48
  of
• 11:48
  doing
• 11:48
  that
• 11:48
  is
• 11:48
  to.
• 11:49
  Is
• 11:49
  to
• 11:49
  help
• 11:49
  the
• 11:49
  listeners
• 11:50
  relate
• 11:50
  to
• 11:50
  what
• 11:50
  hypnosis
• 11:51
  is.
• 11:51
  Because
• 11:51
  it's
• 11:52
  such
• 11:52
  a
• 11:53
  ubiquitous
• 11:54
  term.
• 11:54
  It's
• 11:54
  been
• 11:54
  in
• 11:55
  our
• 11:55
  vernacular
• 11:56
  since
• 11:56
  we
• 11:56
  were
• 11:56
  little
• 11:56
  kids.
• 11:57
  In
• 11:57
  every
• 11:57
  form
• 11:57
  of
• 11:58
  communication,
• 11:58
  whether
• 11:59
  it's
• 11:59
  a
• 12:00
  comic
• 12:00
  book
• 12:00
  or
• 12:01
  a
• 12:01
  movie
• 12:01
  or
• 12:02
  a
• 12:02
  TV
• 12:02
  show
• 12:03
  or
• 12:03
  a
• 12:03
  staged
• 12:04
  play
• 12:04
  or,
• 12:05
  you
• 12:05
  know,
• 12:06
  the
• 12:06
  local
• 12:06
  news,
• 12:07
  somebody
• 12:08
  mentions
• 12:08
  that
• 12:08
  word
• 12:08
  or
• 12:09
  lyrics
• 12:09
  in
• 12:09
  popular
• 12:10
  songs.
• 12:11
  And
• 12:11
  in
• 12:11
  the
• 12:12
  popular
• 12:12
  conception,
• 12:13
  in
• 12:13
  the
• 12:13
  entertainment
• 12:14
  vein,
• 12:15
  they
• 12:16
  make
• 12:16
  it
• 12:16
  look
• 12:16
  like
• 12:16
  it's
• 12:16
  one
• 12:17
  person
• 12:17
  controlling
• 12:17
  another
• 12:18
  person
• 12:19
  who
• 12:19
  then
• 12:19
  surrenders
• 12:20
  all
• 12:20
  of
• 12:21
  their
• 12:21
  autonomy
• 12:21
  and
• 12:22
  they
• 12:22
  don't
• 12:22
  remember
• 12:22
  anything
• 12:22
  that
• 12:23
  happened.
• 12:24
  And
• 12:25
  what
• 12:25
  I
• 12:25
  like
• 12:25
  to
• 12:25
  talk
• 12:26
  about
• 12:26
  for
• 12:26
  people
• 12:27
  is
• 12:27
  the
• 12:28
  times
• 12:28
  when
• 12:28
  you
• 12:28
  have
• 12:29
  been
• 12:29
  in
• 12:29
  hypnosis,
• 12:29
  you
• 12:30
  just
• 12:30
  didn't
• 12:30
  know
• 12:30
  that's
• 12:31
  what
• 12:31
  it
• 12:31
  was.
• 12:32
  Right.
• 12:32
  When
• 12:32
  you've
• 12:32
  been
• 12:33
  driving
• 12:33
  your
• 12:33
  car
• 12:33
  and
• 12:34
  you
• 12:34
  pull
• 12:34
  into
• 12:34
  your
• 12:34
  driveway
• 12:35
  and
• 12:35
  you
• 12:35
  can't
• 12:35
  remember
• 12:35
  driving
• 12:36
  the
• 12:36
  last
• 12:36
  15
• 12:36
  minutes
• 12:37
  when
• 12:37
  you
• 12:38
  were
• 12:38
  working
• 12:38
  in
• 12:38
  your
• 12:38
  garden
• 12:39
  and
• 12:39
  you
• 12:39
  came
• 12:39
  in
• 12:40
  and
• 12:40
  washed
• 12:40
  your
• 12:40
  hands,
• 12:40
  and
• 12:40
  there
• 12:40
  was
• 12:41
  a
• 12:41
  cut
• 12:41
  on
• 12:41
  the
• 12:41
  back
• 12:41
  of
• 12:41
  your
• 12:41
  hand,
• 12:42
  but
• 12:42
  you
• 12:42
  didn't
• 12:42
  feel
• 12:43
  the
• 12:43
  pain.
• 12:44
  When
• 12:44
  you
• 12:44
  were
• 12:44
  in
• 12:45
  love
• 12:45
  and
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  lost
• 12:45
  track
• 12:46
  of
• 12:46
  time
• 12:47
  or
• 12:47
  watching
• 12:47
  a
• 12:48
  movie
• 12:48
  and
• 12:48
  you
• 12:48
  thought,
• 12:49
  oh,
• 12:49
  my
• 12:49
  God,
• 12:49
  the
• 12:49
  movie's
• 12:50
  already
• 12:50
  over.
• 12:50
  I
• 12:50
  thought
• 12:50
  it
• 12:50
  was
• 12:50
  20
• 12:51
  minutes
• 12:52
  that
• 12:53
  you
• 12:53
  moved
• 12:53
  without
• 12:54
  a
• 12:54
  hypnotist,
• 12:54
  in
• 12:55
  those
• 12:55
  instances,
• 12:56
  into
• 12:56
  a
• 12:57
  hypnotic
• 12:57
  state.
• 12:57
  That's
• 12:58
  what
• 12:58
  hypnosis
• 12:58
  is.
• 12:59
  It's
• 12:59
  a
• 12:59
  focused
• 13:00
  state
• 13:00
  of
• 13:00
  concentration
• 13:01
  where
• 13:01
  certain
• 13:02
  things
• 13:02
  outside
• 13:03
  of
• 13:03
  the
• 13:03
  diameter,
• 13:04
  the
• 13:04
  tight
• 13:04
  diameter
• 13:05
  of
• 13:05
  your
• 13:05
  concentration
• 13:06
  disappear.
• 13:08
  It's
• 13:08
  like
• 13:09
  they
• 13:09
  don't
• 13:09
  exist.
• 13:10
  And
• 13:11
  your
• 13:11
  brain,
• 13:11
  if
• 13:11
  you
• 13:12
  were
• 13:12
  to
• 13:12
  image
• 13:12
  your
• 13:13
  Brain.
• 13:13
  Parts
• 13:13
  of
• 13:13
  your
• 13:14
  brain
• 13:14
  in
• 13:14
  that
• 13:14
  state
• 13:15
  would
• 13:15
  go
• 13:16
  dark
• 13:16
  and
• 13:16
  other
• 13:17
  parts
• 13:17
  would
• 13:17
  light
• 13:17
  up.
• 13:18
  And
• 13:19
  this
• 13:19
  is
• 13:19
  where
• 13:19
  your
• 13:20
  creativity
• 13:21
  lives.
• 13:21
  This
• 13:21
  is
• 13:22
  where
• 13:22
  your
• 13:22
  emotions
• 13:23
  live,
• 13:23
  and
• 13:23
  this
• 13:24
  is
• 13:24
  where
• 13:24
  the
• 13:24
  programming
• 13:25
  that
• 13:25
  runs
• 13:25
  your
• 13:26
  life
• 13:26
  lives.
• 13:28
  You
• 13:28
  know,
• 13:28
  if
• 13:28
  you
• 13:28
  had
• 13:29
  to
• 13:29
  think
• 13:29
  about
• 13:30
  walking
• 13:30
  across
• 13:31
  the
• 13:31
  room,
• 13:31
  all
• 13:31
  the
• 13:32
  things
• 13:32
  that
• 13:32
  would
• 13:32
  have
• 13:32
  to
• 13:33
  happen,
• 13:33
  all
• 13:33
  the
• 13:33
  muscles
• 13:33
  that
• 13:34
  would
• 13:34
  have
• 13:34
  to
• 13:34
  fire
• 13:34
  and
• 13:34
  what
• 13:35
  you'd
• 13:35
  have
• 13:35
  to
• 13:35
  do,
• 13:35
  you'd
• 13:36
  fall
• 13:36
  down,
• 13:37
  right.
• 13:38
  If
• 13:39
  you
• 13:39
  had
• 13:39
  to
• 13:39
  think
• 13:39
  about
• 13:39
  shaking
• 13:40
  somebody's
• 13:40
  hand,
• 13:41
  it
• 13:41
  would
• 13:42
  totally
• 13:42
  confuse
• 13:42
  you.
• 13:43
  Right?
• 13:44
  Driving
• 13:44
  your
• 13:45
  car,
• 13:45
  it
• 13:45
  would
• 13:46
  be
• 13:46
  like
• 13:46
  the
• 13:46
  first
• 13:46
  time
• 13:46
  you
• 13:47
  drove
• 13:47
  it
• 13:47
  every
• 13:47
  single
• 13:48
  time.
• 13:49
  But
• 13:49
  we
• 13:49
  have
• 13:49
  this
• 13:50
  ability
• 13:50
  to
• 13:51
  create
• 13:52
  programming
• 13:53
  and
• 13:53
  patterns,
• 13:53
  most
• 13:54
  of
• 13:54
  which
• 13:54
  really
• 13:54
  works
• 13:55
  for
• 13:55
  us.
• 13:56
  Right.
• 13:56
  Some
• 13:56
  of
• 13:57
  it
• 13:57
  is
• 13:58
  working
• 13:58
  against
• 13:59
  us.
• 14:00
  And,
• 14:01
  and
• 14:01
  we
• 14:01
  call
• 14:02
  that,
• 14:02
  I
• 14:02
  think
• 14:02
  largely
• 14:03
  we
• 14:03
  would
• 14:03
  call
• 14:03
  that
• 14:04
  self
• 14:04
  sabotage.
• 14:05
  Right.
• 14:05
  But
• 14:06
  I
• 14:06
  have
• 14:06
  a
• 14:06
  completely
• 14:07
  different
• 14:07
  concept
• 14:08
  about
• 14:08
  that,
• 14:08
  which
• 14:09
  is
• 14:10
  the
• 14:10
  role
• 14:10
  of
• 14:10
  the
• 14:10
  subconscious
• 14:11
  mind
• 14:11
  is
• 14:11
  to
• 14:11
  protect
• 14:12
  you.
• 14:12
  And
• 14:13
  we've
• 14:13
  already
• 14:13
  established,
• 14:14
  maybe
• 14:14
  we
• 14:14
  haven't
• 14:14
  established
• 14:15
  it
• 14:15
  has
• 14:15
  no
• 14:15
  concept
• 14:16
  of
• 14:16
  time.
• 14:16
  Something
• 14:16
  that
• 14:17
  happened
• 14:17
  40
• 14:17
  years
• 14:17
  ago
• 14:18
  is
• 14:18
  right
• 14:18
  now.
• 14:19
  Right.
• 14:19
  So
• 14:19
  if
• 14:19
  you
• 14:20
  put
• 14:20
  those
• 14:20
  two
• 14:20
  things
• 14:20
  together,
• 14:21
  you've
• 14:21
  just
• 14:21
  described
• 14:22
  ptsd.
• 14:24
  So
• 14:24
  self
• 14:24
  sabotage,
• 14:25
  in
• 14:25
  my
• 14:25
  view,
• 14:26
  is
• 14:26
  not
• 14:27
  part
• 14:28
  of
• 14:28
  you
• 14:28
  trying
• 14:28
  to
• 14:28
  sabotage
• 14:29
  you.
• 14:29
  It's
• 14:30
  trying
• 14:30
  to
• 14:30
  protect
• 14:31
  you.
• 14:32
  It
• 14:32
  just
• 14:33
  is
• 14:33
  trying
• 14:33
  to
• 14:33
  protect
• 14:34
  you
• 14:34
  against
• 14:34
  a
• 14:34
  threat
• 14:35
  that
• 14:35
  doesn't
• 14:36
  exist
• 14:36
  anymore.
• 14:37
  Oh,
• 14:37
  absolutely.
• 14:38
  100%.
• 14:39
  100%.
• 14:40
  I
• 14:41
  agree
• 14:41
  with
• 14:41
  that
• 14:41
  totally.
• 14:42
  And
• 14:42
  I,
• 14:43
  you
• 14:43
  know,
• 14:43
  coming
• 14:44
  from
• 14:44
  the
• 14:44
  background
• 14:44
  that
• 14:45
  I
• 14:45
  come
• 14:45
  from
• 14:45
  and
• 14:45
  working
• 14:45
  with
• 14:46
  the
• 14:46
  clients
• 14:46
  that
• 14:46
  I
• 14:46
  work
• 14:46
  with,
• 14:47
  we
• 14:47
  all
• 14:47
  self
• 14:48
  sabotage
• 14:48
  because
• 14:49
  we
• 14:49
  all
• 14:49
  are
• 14:49
  trying
• 14:49
  to
• 14:50
  protect,
• 14:50
  we're
• 14:50
  trying
• 14:50
  to
• 14:51
  be
• 14:51
  little.
• 14:52
  I
• 14:52
  remember
• 14:52
  I
• 14:52
  use
• 14:52
  as
• 14:53
  an
• 14:53
  example
• 14:53
  the
• 14:53
  first
• 14:54
  time
• 14:54
  I,
• 14:54
  I
• 14:55
  really
• 14:55
  realized
• 14:55
  how
• 14:55
  bad
• 14:56
  I
• 14:56
  was
• 14:56
  doing
• 14:56
  it
• 14:56
  was
• 14:57
  that
• 14:57
  I
• 14:58
  was
• 14:58
  up
• 14:58
  for
• 14:58
  a
• 14:58
  big
• 14:58
  promotion
• 14:59
  at
• 14:59
  work
• 14:59
  and
• 15:00
  I
• 15:00
  didn't
• 15:00
  take
• 15:01
  it.
• 15:01
  And
• 15:01
  the
• 15:01
  reason
• 15:01
  I
• 15:02
  didn't
• 15:02
  take
• 15:02
  it
• 15:02
  was
• 15:02
  because
• 15:02
  I
• 15:03
  laid
• 15:03
  in
• 15:03
  bed
• 15:03
  and
• 15:03
  pictured
• 15:04
  myself
• 15:04
  up
• 15:05
  on
• 15:05
  the
• 15:05
  stage
• 15:05
  accepting
• 15:06
  the
• 15:06
  award.
• 15:07
  And
• 15:07
  I
• 15:07
  was
• 15:07
  scared
• 15:08
  to
• 15:08
  death
• 15:08
  about
• 15:09
  getting
• 15:09
  the
• 15:09
  award,
• 15:10
  not
• 15:10
  getting
• 15:10
  the
• 15:10
  promotion,
• 15:11
  getting
• 15:11
  the
• 15:12
  award.
• 15:12
  And
• 15:12
  I
• 15:12
  literally
• 15:13
  turned
• 15:14
  down
• 15:14
  that
• 15:14
  promotion.
• 15:14
  And
• 15:15
  people
• 15:15
  like,
• 15:16
  what
• 15:16
  did
• 15:16
  you
• 15:16
  do
• 15:16
  now
• 15:17
  years
• 15:17
  later,
• 15:17
  I'm
• 15:18
  like,
• 15:18
  I
• 15:18
  know
• 15:18
  exactly
• 15:18
  what
• 15:19
  I
• 15:19
  did.
• 15:19
  Yeah,
• 15:20
  I,
• 15:20
  my
• 15:20
  brain
• 15:21
  was
• 15:21
  programmed
• 15:22
  to
• 15:22
  stay
• 15:22
  small
• 15:23
  and
• 15:23
  getting
• 15:23
  that
• 15:24
  promotion
• 15:24
  was
• 15:24
  not
• 15:24
  going
• 15:24
  to
• 15:25
  let
• 15:25
  me
• 15:25
  stay
• 15:25
  small.
• 15:26
  And
• 15:26
  exactly.
• 15:27
  So
• 15:28
  those,
• 15:28
  you
• 15:28
  know,
• 15:29
  when
• 15:29
  you
• 15:29
  talk
• 15:29
  about
• 15:29
  root
• 15:29
  causes
• 15:30
  of
• 15:30
  things
• 15:31
  and
• 15:32
  you
• 15:32
  know
• 15:32
  that
• 15:32
  that
• 15:33
  makes
• 15:34
  100%
• 15:35
  sense
• 15:36
  and.
• 15:36
  That
• 15:36
  part
• 15:36
  of
• 15:36
  you
• 15:37
  that
• 15:37
  was
• 15:38
  inducing
• 15:39
  you
• 15:39
  to
• 15:39
  turn
• 15:39
  down
• 15:39
  the
• 15:40
  promotion
• 15:41
  was
• 15:41
  doing
• 15:41
  it
• 15:41
  for
• 15:42
  a
• 15:42
  perceived
• 15:43
  beneficial
• 15:44
  reason.
• 15:44
  Oh,
• 15:44
  yeah.
• 15:45
  It
• 15:45
  wasn't
• 15:45
  doing
• 15:46
  it
• 15:46
  to
• 15:46
  harm
• 15:46
  you.
• 15:46
  It
• 15:47
  was
• 15:47
  doing
• 15:47
  it
• 15:48
  because
• 15:48
  it
• 15:48
  thought
• 15:48
  it
• 15:48
  would
• 15:49
  protect
• 15:49
  you.
• 15:50
  And
• 15:50
  so
• 15:51
  like
• 15:51
  a
• 15:51
  Little
• 15:51
  child,
• 15:52
  if
• 15:52
  they
• 15:53
  do
• 15:53
  something,
• 15:53
  if
• 15:53
  they
• 15:53
  make
• 15:54
  a
• 15:54
  mess
• 15:54
  in
• 15:54
  the
• 15:54
  kitchen
• 15:55
  and
• 15:55
  you
• 15:55
  scream
• 15:55
  and
• 15:56
  yell
• 15:56
  at
• 15:56
  them,
• 15:56
  you're
• 15:57
  just
• 15:57
  going
• 15:57
  to
• 15:57
  make
• 15:57
  it
• 15:57
  worse.
• 15:59
  If
• 15:59
  you
• 15:59
  sit
• 15:59
  down
• 15:59
  with
• 16:00
  them
• 16:00
  and
• 16:00
  you're
• 16:00
  really
• 16:00
  gentle
• 16:01
  and
• 16:01
  you
• 16:01
  explain
• 16:01
  to
• 16:01
  them
• 16:02
  the
• 16:02
  proper
• 16:03
  way
• 16:03
  to
• 16:03
  do
• 16:03
  it
• 16:03
  or
• 16:04
  something.
• 16:04
  Right.
• 16:05
  Or
• 16:05
  you
• 16:05
  give
• 16:05
  them
• 16:05
  a
• 16:06
  task
• 16:06
  that
• 16:06
  they
• 16:06
  can
• 16:06
  do
• 16:07
  so
• 16:07
  they
• 16:07
  can
• 16:07
  feel
• 16:08
  useful,
• 16:09
  you're
• 16:09
  way
• 16:09
  better
• 16:10
  off.
• 16:10
  And
• 16:11
  we
• 16:11
  can
• 16:11
  do
• 16:11
  that
• 16:11
  with
• 16:12
  that
• 16:12
  part
• 16:12
  of
• 16:12
  ourselves
• 16:13
  that
• 16:14
  is
• 16:14
  quote
• 16:14
  unquote
• 16:15
  sabotaging.
• 16:15
  We
• 16:16
  can
• 16:16
  thank
• 16:16
  it
• 16:16
  for
• 16:17
  what
• 16:17
  it
• 16:17
  has
• 16:17
  done
• 16:17
  for
• 16:18
  us
• 16:18
  in
• 16:18
  the
• 16:18
  past
• 16:19
  and
• 16:19
  for
• 16:20
  its
• 16:20
  intention
• 16:22
  and
• 16:22
  explain
• 16:22
  to
• 16:22
  it,
• 16:23
  I'm
• 16:23
  using
• 16:23
  very
• 16:24
  simple
• 16:24
  language,
• 16:25
  that
• 16:25
  it
• 16:25
  doesn't
• 16:25
  need
• 16:26
  to
• 16:26
  do
• 16:26
  this
• 16:26
  anymore,
• 16:26
  that
• 16:28
  you're
• 16:28
  safe,
• 16:28
  but
• 16:28
  if
• 16:29
  you
• 16:29
  ever
• 16:29
  need
• 16:29
  it,
• 16:30
  you'll
• 16:30
  call
• 16:30
  on
• 16:31
  it,
• 16:31
  it
• 16:31
  will
• 16:31
  come
• 16:31
  back
• 16:31
  out.
• 16:32
  Right.
• 16:33
  And
• 16:33
  is
• 16:33
  that
• 16:33
  kind
• 16:33
  of
• 16:33
  what
• 16:34
  you
• 16:34
  work
• 16:34
  through
• 16:34
  with
• 16:34
  people
• 16:35
  with
• 16:35
  the
• 16:35
  hypnosis?
• 16:37
  Yeah,
• 16:37
  I
• 16:37
  mean,
• 16:37
  I
• 16:38
  think
• 16:38
  another
• 16:39
  way
• 16:39
  of
• 16:39
  explaining
• 16:40
  it
• 16:40
  would
• 16:40
  be
• 16:40
  to
• 16:41
  find
• 16:41
  the
• 16:41
  traumas
• 16:43
  that,
• 16:43
  that
• 16:44
  set
• 16:44
  up
• 16:44
  a
• 16:44
  pattern
• 16:46
  and
• 16:46
  to
• 16:47
  heal
• 16:47
  or
• 16:48
  resolve
• 16:48
  the
• 16:48
  trauma
• 16:48
  where
• 16:49
  it
• 16:49
  lives,
• 16:49
  which
• 16:49
  is
• 16:49
  in
• 16:50
  the
• 16:50
  past.
• 16:51
  Because
• 16:51
  the
• 16:51
  symptom
• 16:52
  is
• 16:52
  dependent
• 16:53
  for
• 16:53
  its
• 16:54
  life
• 16:55
  on,
• 16:55
  on
• 16:56
  the
• 16:56
  root.
• 16:56
  Just
• 16:56
  like
• 16:57
  the
• 16:57
  part
• 16:57
  of
• 16:58
  the
• 16:58
  plant
• 16:58
  that
• 16:58
  is
• 16:59
  above
• 16:59
  the
• 16:59
  surface
• 16:59
  of
• 16:59
  the
• 17:00
  earth
• 17:00
  is
• 17:00
  dependent
• 17:01
  for
• 17:01
  its
• 17:01
  life
• 17:02
  on
• 17:02
  the
• 17:02
  roots.
• 17:03
  Right.
• 17:03
  If
• 17:03
  you
• 17:03
  pull
• 17:04
  a
• 17:04
  weed
• 17:04
  out
• 17:04
  by
• 17:04
  its
• 17:05
  roots,
• 17:06
  it
• 17:06
  can't
• 17:06
  survive.
• 17:07
  Right,
• 17:08
  Right.
• 17:09
  So
• 17:09
  your,
• 17:10
  your
• 17:10
  goal,
• 17:10
  and
• 17:10
  the
• 17:11
  main
• 17:11
  goal
• 17:11
  of
• 17:11
  the
• 17:11
  hypnosis
• 17:12
  is
• 17:12
  to
• 17:12
  get
• 17:12
  all
• 17:13
  the
• 17:13
  way
• 17:13
  down
• 17:13
  to
• 17:13
  the
• 17:13
  root
• 17:14
  and
• 17:14
  he'll
• 17:14
  heal
• 17:15
  that
• 17:15
  part
• 17:15
  or
• 17:15
  give
• 17:16
  that
• 17:16
  part
• 17:16
  love
• 17:16
  or
• 17:16
  give
• 17:17
  whatever
• 17:17
  it
• 17:17
  needs.
• 17:18
  And
• 17:18
  you
• 17:18
  know,
• 17:19
  in
• 17:19
  for
• 17:19
  the
• 17:19
  listeners
• 17:20
  out
• 17:20
  there
• 17:20
  too.
• 17:21
  You
• 17:21
  think
• 17:22
  about
• 17:22
  how
• 17:22
  some
• 17:22
  of
• 17:22
  these
• 17:23
  things
• 17:23
  really
• 17:23
  got
• 17:23
  ingrained.
• 17:24
  Like
• 17:24
  you
• 17:24
  said,
• 17:25
  the
• 17:25
  mistake
• 17:25
  that
• 17:25
  you
• 17:26
  made
• 17:26
  as
• 17:26
  a
• 17:26
  child
• 17:26
  that
• 17:27
  you
• 17:27
  were
• 17:27
  berated
• 17:27
  for.
• 17:28
  And
• 17:28
  then
• 17:28
  all
• 17:28
  of
• 17:28
  a
• 17:28
  sudden,
• 17:28
  you
• 17:29
  know,
• 17:30
  40
• 17:31
  years
• 17:31
  later
• 17:31
  you
• 17:32
  spill
• 17:32
  something
• 17:33
  and
• 17:33
  you're
• 17:33
  like,
• 17:33
  I'm
• 17:34
  such
• 17:34
  an
• 17:34
  idiot.
• 17:34
  You
• 17:35
  know?
• 17:35
  Exactly.
• 17:36
  Yeah,
• 17:36
  because.
• 17:37
  And
• 17:37
  think
• 17:37
  about
• 17:37
  it
• 17:38
  too.
• 17:38
  When
• 17:38
  you're
• 17:39
  little,
• 17:39
  when
• 17:39
  these
• 17:40
  things
• 17:40
  happen
• 17:40
  to
• 17:40
  you
• 17:41
  when
• 17:41
  you're
• 17:41
  little,
• 17:41
  everything
• 17:42
  seems
• 17:42
  so
• 17:43
  big.
• 17:44
  You
• 17:44
  know,
• 17:44
  as
• 17:44
  an
• 17:45
  adult,
• 17:45
  if
• 17:45
  you
• 17:45
  had
• 17:46
  never
• 17:46
  had
• 17:46
  that
• 17:46
  happen
• 17:46
  to
• 17:46
  you
• 17:46
  as
• 17:47
  a
• 17:47
  child,
• 17:47
  if
• 17:47
  the
• 17:47
  very
• 17:48
  first
• 17:48
  time
• 17:48
  you
• 17:48
  were
• 17:48
  18
• 17:49
  and
• 17:49
  you
• 17:49
  spilled
• 17:50
  something,
• 17:51
  you
• 17:51
  wouldn't
• 17:51
  be
• 17:51
  like,
• 17:52
  you
• 17:52
  would
• 17:53
  just
• 17:53
  be
• 17:53
  like.
• 17:53
  And
• 17:53
  happens
• 17:54
  because
• 17:55
  you
• 17:55
  well
• 17:56
  adjusted.
• 17:57
  So
• 17:57
  it's
• 17:57
  almost
• 17:57
  like
• 17:57
  you
• 17:57
  have
• 17:57
  to
• 17:58
  go
• 17:58
  back.
• 17:58
  Like
• 17:58
  I
• 17:58
  say,
• 17:59
  when
• 17:59
  we
• 17:59
  work
• 17:59
  through
• 17:59
  inner
• 18:00
  child
• 18:00
  work
• 18:00
  and
• 18:00
  reparenting
• 18:01
  your
• 18:01
  little
• 18:01
  self,
• 18:02
  it's
• 18:02
  like
• 18:02
  you
• 18:03
  have
• 18:03
  to
• 18:03
  go
• 18:03
  back.
• 18:03
  And
• 18:04
  because
• 18:04
  you're
• 18:04
  right,
• 18:05
  there
• 18:05
  is
• 18:05
  no
• 18:05
  concept
• 18:06
  of
• 18:06
  time.
• 18:07
  And
• 18:07
  that,
• 18:07
  that
• 18:08
  it
• 18:08
  does
• 18:09
  exactly.
• 18:11
  You
• 18:11
  know,
• 18:11
  you
• 18:11
  freeze
• 18:12
  that
• 18:12
  moment
• 18:12
  that
• 18:13
  you
• 18:13
  are
• 18:13
  Reprimanded
• 18:14
  or
• 18:14
  yelled
• 18:14
  at
• 18:14
  or
• 18:15
  scared.
• 18:15
  It
• 18:15
  freezes
• 18:16
  in
• 18:16
  a
• 18:16
  moment
• 18:16
  of
• 18:17
  time.
• 18:17
  And
• 18:18
  the.
• 18:19
  I
• 18:19
  always
• 18:19
  use
• 18:20
  the
• 18:20
  example
• 18:20
  from
• 18:20
  the.
• 18:21
  When
• 18:21
  you
• 18:21
  said
• 18:21
  the
• 18:21
  PTSD
• 18:23
  is.
• 18:24
  And
• 18:24
  it's
• 18:25
  so
• 18:25
  sensory.
• 18:26
  You
• 18:26
  know,
• 18:26
  I
• 18:26
  had
• 18:26
  something
• 18:27
  happen
• 18:27
  when
• 18:27
  I
• 18:27
  was
• 18:28
  in
• 18:28
  six
• 18:28
  years
• 18:29
  old
• 18:29
  and.
• 18:29
  Or
• 18:30
  five
• 18:30
  years
• 18:30
  old,
• 18:30
  even
• 18:30
  younger,
• 18:31
  four
• 18:31
  or
• 18:31
  five.
• 18:31
  And
• 18:32
  every
• 18:32
  day
• 18:32
  it
• 18:32
  happened
• 18:33
  over
• 18:33
  and
• 18:33
  over
• 18:33
  and
• 18:33
  over
• 18:33
  again.
• 18:34
  And
• 18:34
  while
• 18:34
  it
• 18:35
  was
• 18:35
  happening,
• 18:35
  it
• 18:35
  was
• 18:36
  so
• 18:36
  funny.
• 18:36
  My
• 18:36
  mom
• 18:37
  was
• 18:37
  listening
• 18:37
  to
• 18:37
  this
• 18:38
  soap
• 18:38
  opera.
• 18:38
  She
• 18:38
  was
• 18:39
  watching
• 18:39
  the
• 18:39
  soap
• 18:39
  opera
• 18:40
  why
• 18:40
  this
• 18:40
  abuse
• 18:41
  was
• 18:41
  happening.
• 18:42
  And
• 18:42
  30
• 18:43
  years
• 18:43
  later,
• 18:44
  I'm
• 18:44
  sitting
• 18:44
  at
• 18:45
  the
• 18:45
  table.
• 18:45
  I
• 18:45
  was
• 18:45
  just
• 18:45
  talking
• 18:45
  about
• 18:46
  some.
• 18:46
  This
• 18:46
  to
• 18:46
  someone
• 18:47
  yesterday.
• 18:47
  30
• 18:48
  years
• 18:48
  later,
• 18:48
  I'm
• 18:48
  sitting
• 18:48
  at
• 18:49
  a
• 18:49
  table
• 18:49
  talking
• 18:49
  to
• 18:49
  my
• 18:50
  son
• 18:50
  and
• 18:50
  his
• 18:50
  friends,
• 18:50
  and
• 18:51
  I
• 18:51
  threw
• 18:51
  up
• 18:51
  on
• 18:51
  the
• 18:51
  table.
• 18:53
  And
• 18:54
  they
• 18:54
  all
• 18:54
  looked
• 18:54
  at
• 18:54
  me.
• 18:54
  And
• 18:54
  I
• 18:55
  was
• 18:55
  like,
• 18:55
  wait,
• 18:55
  because
• 18:55
  I've
• 18:56
  been
• 18:56
  doing
• 18:56
  a
• 18:56
  lot
• 18:56
  of
• 18:56
  work.
• 18:57
  And
• 18:57
  I
• 18:57
  went,
• 18:57
  wait,
• 18:57
  hold
• 18:58
  on.
• 18:58
  And
• 18:59
  then
• 18:59
  I
• 18:59
  stopped
• 18:59
  and
• 19:00
  thought
• 19:00
  about
• 19:00
  it.
• 19:00
  And
• 19:00
  it
• 19:01
  was
• 19:01
  that
• 19:01
  music
• 19:01
  from
• 19:02
  that
• 19:02
  soap
• 19:02
  opera
• 19:02
  playing
• 19:03
  in
• 19:03
  the
• 19:03
  other
• 19:03
  room.
• 19:05
  So
• 19:06
  that,
• 19:06
  you
• 19:06
  know,
• 19:07
  I
• 19:07
  immediately.
• 19:07
  Because
• 19:08
  I've
• 19:08
  done
• 19:08
  the
• 19:09
  work
• 19:09
  and
• 19:09
  because
• 19:09
  I
• 19:10
  could
• 19:10
  go
• 19:10
  back
• 19:10
  and
• 19:11
  go,
• 19:12
  I
• 19:12
  see
• 19:12
  where
• 19:12
  that
• 19:12
  came
• 19:13
  from.
• 19:13
  Then
• 19:14
  I
• 19:14
  can
• 19:14
  make
• 19:14
  myself
• 19:15
  okay,
• 19:15
  and
• 19:15
  I
• 19:15
  can
• 19:15
  turn
• 19:16
  on
• 19:16
  that
• 19:16
  soap
• 19:16
  opera
• 19:16
  all
• 19:17
  day
• 19:17
  long
• 19:17
  now.
• 19:17
  But
• 19:18
  I
• 19:18
  had
• 19:18
  to
• 19:19
  get
• 19:19
  that
• 19:19
  out
• 19:19
  of
• 19:20
  my
• 19:20
  nervous
• 19:20
  system
• 19:21
  as
• 19:21
  far
• 19:21
  as
• 19:21
  that
• 19:22
  being
• 19:22
  that
• 19:22
  trigger.
• 19:23
  But
• 19:24
  you
• 19:25
  made
• 19:25
  a
• 19:25
  comment,
• 19:25
  and
• 19:26
  I
• 19:26
  really
• 19:26
  love
• 19:26
  that
• 19:26
  people
• 19:27
  are
• 19:27
  basically
• 19:27
  actors
• 19:28
  on
• 19:28
  a
• 19:28
  stage.
• 19:30
  Talk
• 19:31
  a
• 19:31
  little
• 19:31
  bit
• 19:31
  more
• 19:31
  about
• 19:32
  that
• 19:32
  because
• 19:32
  I
• 19:32
  wanted
• 19:33
  to
• 19:33
  hear
• 19:33
  what
• 19:33
  I
• 19:34
  like.
• 19:34
  Yeah,
• 19:34
  I
• 19:34
  mean,
• 19:35
  Shakespeare
• 19:35
  450
• 19:36
  years
• 19:36
  ago
• 19:37
  said,
• 19:38
  all
• 19:38
  the
• 19:38
  world's
• 19:39
  a
• 19:39
  stage.
• 19:40
  All
• 19:40
  the
• 19:40
  men
• 19:40
  and
• 19:41
  women
• 19:41
  are
• 19:41
  merely
• 19:42
  players.
• 19:42
  Each
• 19:42
  one
• 19:43
  has
• 19:43
  his
• 19:43
  entrances
• 19:44
  and
• 19:44
  exits,
• 19:45
  and
• 19:45
  everything
• 19:46
  is
• 19:46
  full
• 19:46
  of
• 19:46
  sound
• 19:46
  and
• 19:47
  fury.
• 19:47
  And
• 19:47
  in
• 19:47
  the.
• 19:48
  And
• 19:48
  in
• 19:48
  the
• 19:48
  end,
• 19:48
  it
• 19:48
  all
• 19:48
  means
• 19:49
  nothing.
• 19:49
  That's
• 19:49
  what.
• 19:49
  That's
• 19:50
  what
• 19:50
  he
• 19:50
  said,
• 19:50
  right?
• 19:51
  And
• 19:52
  my
• 19:53
  experience
• 19:53
  working
• 19:54
  with
• 19:54
  clients
• 19:54
  in
• 19:55
  spiritual
• 19:55
  regression,
• 19:56
  so
• 19:57
  hypnotic
• 19:57
  spiritual
• 19:58
  regression.
• 19:58
  You
• 19:58
  can
• 19:59
  take
• 19:59
  a
• 19:59
  person
• 19:59
  to
• 20:00
  the
• 20:00
  moment
• 20:01
  at
• 20:01
  which
• 20:01
  they
• 20:01
  were
• 20:02
  making
• 20:02
  plans
• 20:02
  for
• 20:03
  this
• 20:03
  lifetime,
• 20:06
  and
• 20:06
  you
• 20:06
  can
• 20:07
  understand
• 20:07
  the
• 20:08
  deeper
• 20:08
  agreements
• 20:09
  or
• 20:09
  contracts
• 20:10
  or
• 20:10
  patterns
• 20:11
  that
• 20:11
  were.
• 20:12
  That
• 20:12
  were
• 20:12
  decided
• 20:13
  upon
• 20:13
  and
• 20:14
  that
• 20:14
  the
• 20:14
  person
• 20:14
  agreed
• 20:15
  to
• 20:15
  with
• 20:16
  family
• 20:17
  members,
• 20:17
  friends,
• 20:18
  children,
• 20:19
  people
• 20:19
  that
• 20:19
  they
• 20:19
  got
• 20:20
  married
• 20:20
  to.
• 20:20
  They
• 20:20
  can
• 20:20
  understand
• 20:21
  what
• 20:21
  their
• 20:21
  purpose
• 20:22
  is
• 20:22
  on
• 20:22
  this.
• 20:23
  In
• 20:23
  this
• 20:23
  life.
• 20:24
  And
• 20:25
  as
• 20:26
  a
• 20:26
  person
• 20:26
  who
• 20:26
  used
• 20:27
  to
• 20:27
  be
• 20:27
  an
• 20:27
  actor,
• 20:28
  I
• 20:28
  recently
• 20:28
  returned
• 20:29
  to
• 20:29
  it
• 20:29
  through
• 20:29
  a
• 20:30
  bizarre
• 20:30
  story.
• 20:31
  But
• 20:33
  I
• 20:33
  can
• 20:33
  say
• 20:33
  that
• 20:34
  that's
• 20:34
  what
• 20:35
  actors
• 20:35
  go
• 20:35
  through.
• 20:35
  Actors
• 20:36
  often
• 20:36
  will
• 20:37
  travel
• 20:37
  in
• 20:37
  a
• 20:37
  troupe,
• 20:39
  a
• 20:39
  company,
• 20:40
  especially
• 20:40
  repertory
• 20:41
  companies,
• 20:42
  and
• 20:42
  in
• 20:42
  one
• 20:43
  play,
• 20:43
  the
• 20:44
  actor
• 20:44
  might
• 20:44
  have
• 20:45
  a
• 20:45
  big
• 20:45
  part
• 20:45
  in
• 20:45
  the
• 20:45
  next
• 20:45
  one,
• 20:46
  a
• 20:46
  small
• 20:46
  one.
• 20:46
  In
• 20:46
  one,
• 20:47
  they're
• 20:47
  the
• 20:47
  villain,
• 20:48
  in
• 20:48
  the
• 20:48
  other
• 20:48
  one,
• 20:48
  they're
• 20:48
  the
• 20:48
  hero.
• 20:49
  In
• 20:49
  the
• 20:49
  other
• 20:50
  one,
• 20:50
  they're
• 20:50
  the
• 20:50
  next
• 20:50
  door
• 20:50
  neighbor,
• 20:51
  the
• 20:51
  best
• 20:51
  friend.
• 20:52
  And
• 20:52
  it's
• 20:53
  almost
• 20:53
  like
• 20:54
  this
• 20:54
  is
• 20:54
  what
• 20:54
  we
• 20:54
  do.
• 20:56
  We
• 20:56
  make
• 20:56
  decisions
• 20:57
  before
• 20:57
  we're
• 20:58
  born,
• 20:58
  before
• 20:58
  we're
• 20:59
  incarnated
• 20:59
  into
• 21:00
  this
• 21:00
  life.
• 21:01
  About,
• 21:02
  you
• 21:02
  know,
• 21:02
  I'm
• 21:02
  going
• 21:03
  to
• 21:03
  do
• 21:03
  this,
• 21:03
  you're
• 21:03
  going
• 21:04
  to
• 21:04
  do
• 21:04
  that.
• 21:04
  And
• 21:05
  why?
• 21:05
  Because
• 21:06
  we're
• 21:06
  all
• 21:06
  here
• 21:07
  to
• 21:07
  learn
• 21:07
  something.
• 21:08
  We're
• 21:09
  all
• 21:09
  here,
• 21:10
  I
• 21:10
  think,
• 21:10
  for
• 21:11
  what
• 21:11
  is
• 21:12
  called
• 21:12
  an
• 21:12
  awakening,
• 21:13
  which
• 21:13
  is
• 21:13
  to
• 21:13
  remember
• 21:14
  who
• 21:14
  we
• 21:14
  are.
• 21:15
  We
• 21:16
  may
• 21:16
  be
• 21:16
  here
• 21:16
  in
• 21:17
  part
• 21:17
  to
• 21:17
  work
• 21:18
  through
• 21:18
  karma
• 21:18
  that
• 21:19
  we
• 21:19
  incurred
• 21:19
  in
• 21:19
  a
• 21:19
  previous
• 21:20
  lifetime,
• 21:21
  but
• 21:21
  it's
• 21:21
  all
• 21:22
  done
• 21:22
  in
• 21:22
  this
• 21:23
  very
• 21:23
  theatrical
• 21:24
  kind
• 21:24
  of
• 21:24
  way.
• 21:26
  And
• 21:26
  awakening
• 21:27
  is
• 21:27
  remembering
• 21:28
  that
• 21:29
  you're
• 21:29
  not
• 21:29
  the
• 21:29
  character
• 21:30
  you're
• 21:30
  playing.
• 21:32
  In
• 21:32
  other
• 21:32
  words,
• 21:32
  you're
• 21:33
  not
• 21:33
  your
• 21:33
  personality,
• 21:34
  you're
• 21:34
  not
• 21:35
  your
• 21:35
  ego.
• 21:36
  That's
• 21:36
  the
• 21:37
  character
• 21:37
  you're
• 21:37
  playing.
• 21:38
  You're
• 21:38
  not
• 21:38
  even
• 21:39
  the
• 21:39
  circumstances
• 21:39
  of
• 21:40
  your
• 21:40
  life
• 21:41
  like
• 21:41
  an
• 21:41
  actor,
• 21:42
  it's
• 21:42
  all
• 21:43
  affected
• 21:43
  you,
• 21:44
  it's
• 21:44
  all
• 21:44
  informed
• 21:45
  you,
• 21:45
  but
• 21:46
  it
• 21:46
  doesn't
• 21:46
  define
• 21:47
  you.
• 21:48
  Because
• 21:48
  at
• 21:49
  the
• 21:49
  end
• 21:49
  of
• 21:49
  the
• 21:49
  play,
• 21:50
  you
• 21:50
  take
• 21:50
  off
• 21:50
  your
• 21:50
  costume
• 21:51
  and
• 21:51
  you
• 21:51
  take
• 21:51
  off
• 21:51
  the
• 21:52
  makeup.
• 21:52
  And
• 21:52
  the
• 21:52
  end
• 21:53
  of
• 21:53
  the
• 21:53
  play,
• 21:53
  in
• 21:53
  this
• 21:53
  metaphor,
• 21:54
  is
• 21:54
  obviously
• 21:54
  when
• 21:55
  you
• 21:55
  transition,
• 21:55
  when
• 21:56
  your
• 21:56
  physical
• 21:56
  body
• 21:57
  dies
• 21:57
  and
• 21:57
  your
• 21:58
  spirit
• 21:58
  is
• 21:58
  released
• 21:59
  back
• 21:59
  into
• 22:00
  heaven
• 22:01
  or
• 22:01
  the
• 22:01
  universe,
• 22:02
  however
• 22:02
  you
• 22:02
  want
• 22:02
  to
• 22:02
  think
• 22:03
  about
• 22:03
  it.
• 22:04
  Yeah.
• 22:05
  I
• 22:05
  had
• 22:05
  someone
• 22:05
  say
• 22:05
  one
• 22:06
  time
• 22:06
  that
• 22:06
  that's
• 22:06
  literally
• 22:07
  that
• 22:07
  our
• 22:07
  life,
• 22:08
  we
• 22:08
  are.
• 22:09
  Someone
• 22:09
  else
• 22:09
  used
• 22:09
  kind
• 22:10
  of
• 22:10
  like
• 22:10
  that
• 22:10
  same
• 22:10
  analogy,
• 22:11
  that
• 22:11
  we
• 22:11
  are
• 22:11
  here
• 22:11
  to
• 22:12
  learn
• 22:12
  something
• 22:12
  and
• 22:12
  have
• 22:13
  that
• 22:13
  purpose.
• 22:13
  And
• 22:14
  you
• 22:15
  will
• 22:15
  literally
• 22:15
  keep
• 22:16
  making
• 22:16
  them
• 22:17
  same
• 22:17
  mistakes
• 22:18
  over
• 22:18
  and
• 22:18
  over
• 22:18
  again
• 22:18
  and
• 22:19
  reliving
• 22:19
  the
• 22:20
  same
• 22:20
  life
• 22:21
  until
• 22:21
  you
• 22:21
  figure
• 22:22
  it
• 22:22
  out.
• 22:22
  Like,
• 22:23
  so
• 22:24
  they
• 22:24
  are.
• 22:24
  So
• 22:25
  when
• 22:25
  she
• 22:25
  said
• 22:25
  that,
• 22:25
  I
• 22:26
  was
• 22:26
  like,
• 22:26
  wow,
• 22:26
  so
• 22:26
  maybe
• 22:26
  we
• 22:27
  should
• 22:27
  just
• 22:27
  figure
• 22:27
  it
• 22:27
  out
• 22:28
  now?
• 22:28
  Like,
• 22:28
  yes.
• 22:29
  And
• 22:29
  she's
• 22:30
  like,
• 22:30
  yeah,
• 22:30
  she
• 22:30
  said,
• 22:30
  because
• 22:31
  otherwise.
• 22:32
  And
• 22:32
  she
• 22:32
  does
• 22:32
  a
• 22:32
  lot
• 22:32
  of,
• 22:32
  like,
• 22:33
  akashic
• 22:33
  records
• 22:34
  and
• 22:34
  things
• 22:34
  like
• 22:34
  that,
• 22:35
  going
• 22:35
  back
• 22:35
  into
• 22:35
  these
• 22:36
  past
• 22:36
  lives.
• 22:36
  She
• 22:37
  said,
• 22:37
  otherwise
• 22:37
  you're
• 22:37
  just
• 22:37
  going
• 22:37
  to
• 22:38
  live
• 22:38
  it
• 22:38
  in
• 22:38
  another
• 22:38
  body.
• 22:40
  Well,
• 22:40
  and
• 22:40
  that's
• 22:41
  the
• 22:41
  way
• 22:41
  school
• 22:42
  is
• 22:42
  supposed
• 22:42
  to
• 22:42
  work.
• 22:43
  If
• 22:43
  you
• 22:44
  don't
• 22:44
  complete
• 22:44
  and
• 22:45
  learn
• 22:45
  what
• 22:45
  you're
• 22:45
  supposed
• 22:45
  to
• 22:46
  learn
• 22:46
  in
• 22:46
  the
• 22:46
  second
• 22:46
  grade,
• 22:47
  you're
• 22:47
  not
• 22:47
  supposed
• 22:48
  to
• 22:48
  be
• 22:49
  sent
• 22:49
  to
• 22:49
  the
• 22:49
  third
• 22:50
  grade.
• 22:51
  Right.
• 22:52
  It's
• 22:52
  the
• 22:52
  same
• 22:52
  with
• 22:53
  us.
• 22:54
  We
• 22:54
  come
• 22:54
  here
• 22:54
  to
• 22:54
  learn
• 22:55
  something.
• 22:55
  If
• 22:55
  we
• 22:55
  don't
• 22:55
  learn
• 22:55
  it,
• 22:56
  there's
• 22:56
  no
• 22:57
  shame,
• 22:57
  there's
• 22:58
  no
• 22:58
  punishment.
• 22:59
  But
• 23:00
  it's
• 23:00
  important
• 23:01
  that
• 23:01
  we
• 23:01
  learn
• 23:01
  it.
• 23:01
  So
• 23:01
  we
• 23:01
  just
• 23:02
  come
• 23:02
  back
• 23:02
  to
• 23:02
  work
• 23:02
  on
• 23:03
  it
• 23:03
  again.
• 23:04
  Wow.
• 23:05
  I
• 23:05
  mean,
• 23:05
  that
• 23:05
  just
• 23:06
  makes
• 23:06
  it
• 23:08
  super
• 23:08
  quick
• 23:09
  and
• 23:09
  super
• 23:09
  easy
• 23:10
  for
• 23:10
  me
• 23:10
  for
• 23:10
  someone,
• 23:10
  like,
• 23:11
  sitting
• 23:11
  outside
• 23:11
  going,
• 23:12
  okay,
• 23:13
  so
• 23:13
  maybe
• 23:13
  I
• 23:13
  should
• 23:13
  just
• 23:14
  nip
• 23:14
  it
• 23:14
  in
• 23:14
  the
• 23:14
  bud,
• 23:15
  take
• 23:15
  the
• 23:15
  responsibility
• 23:16
  now
• 23:17
  so
• 23:17
  I
• 23:17
  don't
• 23:17
  have
• 23:17
  to
• 23:17
  relive
• 23:18
  this
• 23:18
  over
• 23:18
  and
• 23:18
  over
• 23:18
  again.
• 23:20
  And.
• 23:21
  And
• 23:21
  I
• 23:22
  guess
• 23:22
  that's
• 23:22
  where
• 23:22
  it
• 23:22
  comes
• 23:23
  to
• 23:23
  free
• 23:23
  will
• 23:23
  and
• 23:24
  your
• 23:24
  choice.
• 23:24
  And
• 23:25
  you
• 23:25
  have
• 23:25
  a
• 23:25
  choice,
• 23:26
  so
• 23:26
  you
• 23:26
  have
• 23:26
  a
• 23:26
  choice
• 23:27
  to
• 23:27
  think.
• 23:27
  Do
• 23:28
  I,
• 23:28
  you
• 23:28
  know,
• 23:29
  like,
• 23:29
  I
• 23:30
  don't
• 23:30
  know,
• 23:30
  apply
• 23:30
  this
• 23:31
  to
• 23:31
  your
• 23:31
  diagnosis?
• 23:32
  Let's
• 23:33
  see.
• 23:33
  Like,
• 23:34
  can
• 23:34
  you
• 23:34
  do
• 23:35
  that
• 23:35
  for
• 23:35
  us?
• 23:35
  Yeah,
• 23:36
  of
• 23:36
  course.
• 23:38
  This
• 23:38
  philosophy,
• 23:39
  at
• 23:39
  least
• 23:39
  the
• 23:39
  way
• 23:40
  I
• 23:40
  interpreted
• 23:41
  it,
• 23:41
  means
• 23:42
  everything's
• 23:42
  ultimately
• 23:43
  happening
• 23:43
  for
• 23:43
  you,
• 23:44
  right?
• 23:45
  Even
• 23:45
  the
• 23:45
  worst
• 23:46
  things,
• 23:46
  like
• 23:47
  being
• 23:47
  diagnosed
• 23:48
  with
• 23:48
  Lyme
• 23:48
  disease
• 23:49
  and
• 23:49
  leukemia
• 23:49
  on
• 23:49
  the
• 23:50
  same
• 23:50
  day.
• 23:50
  And
• 23:51
  all
• 23:51
  the
• 23:51
  anger
• 23:52
  and
• 23:52
  the
• 23:52
  fear
• 23:53
  and
• 23:53
  the
• 23:53
  grief
• 23:54
  and
• 23:54
  the
• 23:54
  bargaining
• 23:55
  and
• 23:55
  all
• 23:55
  that
• 23:55
  stuff
• 23:55
  that
• 23:56
  went
• 23:56
  along
• 23:56
  with
• 23:57
  was
• 23:58
  there,
• 23:59
  in
• 23:59
  my
• 23:59
  opinion,
• 24:00
  to
• 24:00
  help
• 24:00
  get
• 24:01
  me
• 24:01
  on
• 24:01
  the
• 24:01
  track
• 24:02
  I
• 24:02
  was
• 24:02
  supposed
• 24:03
  to
• 24:03
  be
• 24:03
  on.
• 24:04
  And
• 24:05
  I
• 24:05
  can
• 24:05
  say
• 24:06
  in
• 24:06
  hindsight
• 24:08
  that
• 24:08
  I
• 24:09
  healed
• 24:10
  this
• 24:10
  anger
• 24:10
  that
• 24:11
  I
• 24:11
  had.
• 24:13
  I
• 24:13
  wasn't
• 24:13
  even
• 24:13
  aware
• 24:14
  of
• 24:14
  how.
• 24:15
  Of
• 24:15
  how
• 24:15
  devastating
• 24:16
  it
• 24:16
  was
• 24:18
  until
• 24:18
  I
• 24:18
  actually
• 24:19
  healed
• 24:19
  it.
• 24:20
  And
• 24:21
  because
• 24:21
  I
• 24:21
  did
• 24:21
  that,
• 24:22
  I
• 24:22
  became
• 24:22
  a
• 24:22
  better
• 24:23
  father
• 24:23
  to
• 24:23
  my
• 24:23
  little
• 24:24
  children
• 24:24
  at
• 24:24
  the
• 24:24
  time,
• 24:25
  they
• 24:25
  were
• 24:25
  little,
• 24:25
  they're
• 24:25
  all
• 24:25
  now
• 24:26
  grown.
• 24:27
  I
• 24:27
  became
• 24:27
  a
• 24:27
  better
• 24:27
  husband.
• 24:28
  I
• 24:29
  became
• 24:30
  more
• 24:30
  compassionate
• 24:31
  and
• 24:31
  understanding
• 24:32
  about
• 24:32
  other
• 24:33
  people.
• 24:35
  It
• 24:35
  was
• 24:35
  easier
• 24:36
  for
• 24:36
  me
• 24:36
  to
• 24:36
  accept
• 24:37
  help.
• 24:38
  None
• 24:38
  of
• 24:38
  which
• 24:38
  would
• 24:39
  have
• 24:39
  happened
• 24:39
  if
• 24:39
  this
• 24:40
  hadn't
• 24:40
  occurred.
• 24:41
  Right.
• 25:11
  And
• 25:11
  so
• 25:13
  back
• 25:13
  to
• 25:14
  Shakespeare
• 25:14
  in
• 25:15
  Hamlet.
• 25:15
  Hamlet
• 25:16
  says,
• 25:16
  a
• 25:16
  thing
• 25:16
  is
• 25:17
  neither
• 25:17
  good
• 25:17
  nor
• 25:18
  bad,
• 25:19
  but
• 25:19
  thinking
• 25:20
  makes
• 25:21
  it
• 25:21
  so.
• 25:21
  In
• 25:22
  other
• 25:22
  words,
• 25:22
  the
• 25:23
  way
• 25:23
  we
• 25:23
  interpret
• 25:24
  an
• 25:24
  event,
• 25:25
  we
• 25:26
  can
• 25:26
  interpret
• 25:26
  that
• 25:26
  as
• 25:27
  a
• 25:27
  victim
• 25:28
  and
• 25:29
  start
• 25:29
  behaving
• 25:30
  like
• 25:30
  a
• 25:30
  victim
• 25:30
  with
• 25:31
  everything.
• 25:32
  Or
• 25:33
  we
• 25:33
  could
• 25:33
  interpret
• 25:34
  it
• 25:34
  as,
• 25:34
  hey,
• 25:35
  this
• 25:35
  is
• 25:35
  a
• 25:35
  wake
• 25:35
  up
• 25:35
  call.
• 25:36
  What
• 25:36
  is
• 25:37
  this
• 25:37
  trying
• 25:37
  to
• 25:37
  tell
• 25:37
  me?
• 25:38
  I
• 25:38
  need
• 25:38
  to
• 25:38
  make
• 25:39
  some
• 25:39
  kind
• 25:39
  of
• 25:39
  change
• 25:39
  in
• 25:39
  my
• 25:40
  life.
• 25:41
  I'm
• 25:41
  powerful.
• 25:42
  If
• 25:43
  I
• 25:43
  could
• 25:43
  have
• 25:43
  some
• 25:44
  unconscious
• 25:44
  hand
• 25:45
  in
• 25:45
  creating
• 25:46
  this,
• 25:47
  then
• 25:47
  I
• 25:48
  surely
• 25:48
  could
• 25:49
  create
• 25:49
  something
• 25:49
  different.
• 25:51
  And
• 25:51
  it
• 25:51
  opens
• 25:51
  up
• 25:52
  this
• 25:52
  universe
• 25:52
  of
• 25:53
  possibilities.
• 25:55
  But
• 25:55
  if
• 25:55
  you're
• 25:55
  just
• 25:55
  kind
• 25:56
  of
• 25:56
  going
• 25:56
  along
• 25:56
  and
• 25:57
  everything
• 25:57
  is
• 25:57
  sort
• 25:58
  of
• 25:58
  working,
• 25:59
  then
• 25:59
  what
• 26:00
  is
• 26:00
  your.
• 26:00
  What
• 26:01
  is
• 26:01
  the
• 26:02
  inducement
• 26:02
  to
• 26:03
  change?
• 26:05
  Right.
• 26:05
  I
• 26:05
  mean,
• 26:05
  it's
• 26:05
  a
• 26:06
  good
• 26:06
  point.
• 26:06
  I
• 26:06
  remember
• 26:06
  my
• 26:06
  father
• 26:07
  saying
• 26:07
  to
• 26:07
  me,
• 26:07
  do
• 26:07
  you
• 26:07
  want
• 26:08
  to
• 26:08
  have
• 26:08
  an
• 26:08
  amazing
• 26:08
  life?
• 26:09
  And
• 26:09
  I
• 26:09
  said,
• 26:09
  yeah.
• 26:09
  He
• 26:10
  said,
• 26:10
  well,
• 26:10
  you
• 26:10
  know,
• 26:10
  nothing
• 26:11
  amazing
• 26:11
  ever
• 26:11
  happens
• 26:11
  in
• 26:12
  your
• 26:12
  comfort
• 26:12
  zone,
• 26:12
  right?
• 26:13
  Yeah.
• 26:15
  Get
• 26:15
  out
• 26:16
  of
• 26:16
  your
• 26:16
  comfort
• 26:16
  zone
• 26:17
  and
• 26:17
  create.
• 26:18
  Like,
• 26:18
  as
• 26:18
  long
• 26:18
  as
• 26:18
  you
• 26:19
  stay
• 26:19
  content,
• 26:20
  contentment
• 26:20
  is
• 26:21
  not
• 26:21
  where
• 26:21
  God
• 26:21
  wants
• 26:22
  you
• 26:22
  to
• 26:22
  be.
• 26:22
  God
• 26:23
  wants
• 26:23
  you
• 26:23
  to
• 26:23
  be
• 26:24
  in
• 26:24
  abundance
• 26:25
  and
• 26:25
  thriving.
• 26:26
  Like,
• 26:26
  get
• 26:26
  out
• 26:26
  of
• 26:26
  that
• 26:27
  comfort
• 26:27
  zone
• 26:27
  and
• 26:27
  make
• 26:28
  the
• 26:28
  right
• 26:28
  choices.
• 26:29
  And
• 26:29
  I
• 26:29
  remember
• 26:29
  him
• 26:29
  telling
• 26:30
  me
• 26:30
  that.
• 26:31
  And
• 26:31
  it
• 26:31
  takes.
• 26:32
  It
• 26:32
  takes
• 26:32
  faith
• 26:33
  to
• 26:34
  step
• 26:34
  out
• 26:34
  of
• 26:34
  one's
• 26:35
  comfort
• 26:35
  zone.
• 26:36
  It
• 26:36
  takes
• 26:37
  faith
• 26:37
  to
• 26:38
  face
• 26:38
  something
• 26:39
  really
• 26:40
  scary
• 26:42
  and
• 26:42
  to
• 26:42
  keep
• 26:42
  moving.
• 26:43
  It
• 26:43
  takes
• 26:43
  faith
• 26:43
  to
• 26:45
  just
• 26:45
  accept
• 26:46
  on
• 26:46
  face
• 26:47
  value
• 26:48
  that
• 26:48
  there's
• 26:49
  something
• 26:49
  in
• 26:49
  this.
• 26:50
  For
• 26:50
  me,
• 26:51
  I
• 26:51
  remember
• 26:52
  one
• 26:52
  of
• 26:52
  the
• 26:52
  things
• 26:52
  that
• 26:53
  moved
• 26:53
  me
• 26:53
  the
• 26:53
  most
• 26:54
  after
• 26:54
  I
• 26:54
  got
• 26:55
  this
• 26:55
  diagnosis
• 26:56
  was
• 26:56
  there's
• 26:56
  a
• 26:56
  famous
• 26:57
  cancer
• 26:57
  doctor,
• 26:58
  maybe
• 26:58
  you've
• 26:58
  heard
• 26:58
  of
• 26:58
  him,
• 26:58
  named
• 26:59
  Bernie
• 26:59
  Siegel.
• 27:00
  I
• 27:00
  don't
• 27:00
  even
• 27:00
  know
• 27:00
  if
• 27:00
  he's
• 27:00
  still
• 27:01
  alive.
• 27:01
  I've
• 27:02
  heard
• 27:02
  the
• 27:02
  name.
• 27:02
  The
• 27:02
  thing
• 27:02
  that
• 27:03
  really
• 27:03
  moved
• 27:03
  me
• 27:03
  was
• 27:04
  he
• 27:04
  had
• 27:04
  a
• 27:04
  question
• 27:05
  he
• 27:05
  asked
• 27:05
  all
• 27:05
  of
• 27:05
  his
• 27:06
  patients,
• 27:06
  which
• 27:06
  was,
• 27:07
  why
• 27:08
  did
• 27:08
  you
• 27:08
  need
• 27:09
  to
• 27:09
  get
• 27:10
  cancer?
• 27:13
  And
• 27:13
  half
• 27:14
  of
• 27:14
  them
• 27:14
  would
• 27:15
  get
• 27:15
  angry
• 27:15
  at
• 27:15
  them,
• 27:16
  and
• 27:16
  they'd
• 27:16
  just
• 27:16
  be
• 27:16
  that.
• 27:16
  That's
• 27:17
  it
• 27:17
  for
• 27:17
  you.
• 27:17
  And
• 27:17
  the
• 27:18
  other
• 27:18
  half
• 27:18
  were
• 27:18
  like,
• 27:19
  whoa,
• 27:19
  you
• 27:19
  just
• 27:19
  blew
• 27:20
  my
• 27:20
  mind.
• 27:20
  What.
• 27:22
  Maybe
• 27:22
  there's
• 27:22
  a
• 27:22
  purpose
• 27:23
  to
• 27:23
  this.
• 27:25
  And
• 27:26
  I
• 27:26
  think
• 27:26
  that's
• 27:26
  another
• 27:26
  part
• 27:27
  of
• 27:27
  the
• 27:27
  philosophy
• 27:28
  that
• 27:28
  there
• 27:28
  is
• 27:29
  a
• 27:29
  purpose
• 27:29
  to
• 27:29
  everything.
• 27:31
  Right?
• 27:35
  Yeah.
• 27:35
  And
• 27:35
  if
• 27:35
  you.
• 27:36
  If
• 27:36
  you
• 27:36
  believe
• 27:37
  that,
• 27:37
  if
• 27:37
  you
• 27:37
  have
• 27:38
  faith,
• 27:39
  what
• 27:39
  happens?
• 27:39
  Immediately,
• 27:41
  your
• 27:41
  nervous
• 27:41
  system
• 27:42
  calms
• 27:42
  down.
• 27:44
  You
• 27:44
  know,
• 27:45
  if
• 27:45
  there's
• 27:45
  nothing,
• 27:45
  if
• 27:46
  you
• 27:46
  don't
• 27:46
  have
• 27:46
  to
• 27:46
  fight
• 27:46
  something,
• 27:47
  but
• 27:47
  rather
• 27:48
  understand
• 27:49
  it,
• 27:50
  fix
• 27:51
  it,
• 27:51
  integrate
• 27:51
  it,
• 27:52
  heal
• 27:52
  it,
• 27:52
  whatever
• 27:53
  you
• 27:53
  want
• 27:53
  to
• 27:53
  say,
• 27:54
  then
• 27:55
  you've
• 27:55
  already
• 27:56
  taken
• 27:56
  a
• 27:56
  giant
• 27:57
  step
• 27:57
  towards
• 27:58
  solving
• 27:58
  a
• 27:58
  problem.
• 28:00
  If
• 28:00
  my
• 28:00
  car's
• 28:01
  not
• 28:01
  working
• 28:01
  and
• 28:01
  I
• 28:01
  get
• 28:02
  angry
• 28:02
  and
• 28:02
  I
• 28:02
  start
• 28:02
  beating
• 28:02
  it
• 28:03
  with
• 28:03
  a
• 28:03
  baseball
• 28:03
  bat,
• 28:03
  I
• 28:04
  have
• 28:04
  zero
• 28:04
  chance
• 28:04
  of
• 28:05
  fixing
• 28:05
  it.
• 28:05
  Right.
• 28:08
  You
• 28:09
  know,
• 28:09
  but
• 28:09
  maybe
• 28:10
  if
• 28:10
  I
• 28:10
  just
• 28:10
  kind
• 28:10
  of
• 28:11
  take
• 28:11
  a
• 28:11
  breath,
• 28:12
  open
• 28:12
  the
• 28:12
  hood,
• 28:13
  and
• 28:13
  just
• 28:14
  look,
• 28:15
  maybe
• 28:15
  I
• 28:15
  see
• 28:16
  something.
• 28:16
  Maybe
• 28:16
  I
• 28:17
  see
• 28:17
  a
• 28:17
  hose
• 28:17
  that's
• 28:18
  come
• 28:18
  disconnected.
• 28:19
  You
• 28:19
  know,
• 28:20
  maybe
• 28:20
  I
• 28:20
  see
• 28:21
  a
• 28:21
  wire
• 28:21
  that's
• 28:21
  loose.
• 28:22
  Maybe
• 28:23
  I
• 28:23
  see
• 28:23
  corrosion
• 28:24
  on
• 28:24
  the
• 28:24
  battery
• 28:25
  terminals,
• 28:26
  and
• 28:26
  I'm.
• 28:27
  And
• 28:27
  I
• 28:27
  think,
• 28:27
  oh,
• 28:27
  maybe
• 28:28
  if
• 28:28
  I
• 28:28
  take
• 28:28
  that
• 28:28
  corrosion
• 28:29
  off
• 28:29
  and
• 28:30
  refasten
• 28:30
  this,
• 28:31
  and
• 28:31
  it
• 28:31
  works,
• 28:32
  like,
• 28:32
  okay.
• 28:33
  Yeah.
• 28:35
  And
• 28:35
  it
• 28:35
  is
• 28:36
  funny
• 28:36
  how
• 28:36
  the
• 28:36
  universe
• 28:37
  works.
• 28:37
  You
• 28:37
  know,
• 28:37
  it's
• 28:38
  like
• 28:38
  I
• 28:38
  wanted.
• 28:38
  And
• 28:38
  I.
• 28:40
  That's
• 28:40
  one
• 28:40
  of
• 28:40
  my
• 28:41
  favorite
• 28:41
  expressions
• 28:42
  is,
• 28:42
  look,
• 28:42
  start
• 28:42
  looking
• 28:43
  at
• 28:43
  life
• 28:43
  as
• 28:43
  happening
• 28:44
  for
• 28:44
  you,
• 28:44
  not
• 28:44
  to
• 28:45
  you.
• 28:45
  Yes.
• 28:45
  And
• 28:46
  I
• 28:46
  mean,
• 28:46
  then
• 28:47
  I
• 28:47
  start
• 28:47
  looking
• 28:47
  back
• 28:47
  at
• 28:48
  all
• 28:48
  these
• 28:48
  times,
• 28:48
  and
• 28:49
  even
• 28:49
  just
• 28:49
  right
• 28:49
  when
• 28:49
  I
• 28:50
  started
• 28:50
  my
• 28:50
  coaching
• 28:50
  business,
• 28:51
  I
• 28:51
  had
• 28:51
  been
• 28:51
  wanting
• 28:52
  to
• 28:52
  write
• 28:52
  a
• 28:52
  book
• 28:52
  and
• 28:52
  wanting
• 28:53
  to
• 28:53
  write
• 28:53
  a
• 28:53
  book,
• 28:53
  and
• 28:54
  son
• 28:54
  kept
• 28:54
  saying,
• 28:55
  just
• 28:56
  stop
• 28:56
  working
• 28:57
  so
• 28:57
  much
• 28:57
  and
• 28:57
  just
• 28:57
  write
• 28:58
  your
• 28:58
  book.
• 28:58
  And
• 28:58
  I
• 28:59
  was
• 28:59
  working
• 28:59
  in
• 28:59
  a
• 28:59
  physical
• 29:00
  job,
• 29:00
  and
• 29:00
  then
• 29:01
  we
• 29:01
  went
• 29:01
  to
• 29:01
  a
• 29:01
  Yankee
• 29:02
  game,
• 29:02
  and
• 29:02
  I
• 29:03
  fell
• 29:03
  off
• 29:03
  a
• 29:03
  scooter
• 29:03
  going
• 29:04
  18
• 29:04
  miles
• 29:04
  an
• 29:05
  hour
• 29:05
  and
• 29:05
  tore
• 29:05
  five
• 29:05
  ligaments
• 29:06
  in
• 29:06
  my
• 29:06
  knees.
• 29:06
  And
• 29:06
  on
• 29:07
  the
• 29:07
  way
• 29:07
  to
• 29:07
  the
• 29:07
  emergency
• 29:07
  room,
• 29:08
  my.
• 29:08
  My
• 29:09
  son
• 29:09
  says
• 29:09
  to
• 29:09
  me,
• 29:10
  God
• 29:10
  kept
• 29:11
  telling
• 29:11
  you
• 29:11
  to
• 29:11
  slow
• 29:11
  down.
• 29:12
  Now
• 29:12
  he's
• 29:12
  telling
• 29:12
  you
• 29:13
  to
• 29:13
  stop.
• 29:13
  And
• 29:14
  what
• 29:14
  did
• 29:14
  I
• 29:14
  do?
• 29:14
  I
• 29:14
  wrote
• 29:15
  two
• 29:15
  books
• 29:15
  in
• 29:15
  those
• 29:15
  three
• 29:16
  months.
• 29:16
  Wow.
• 29:17
  And
• 29:18
  I
• 29:18
  never.
• 29:19
  Yeah,
• 29:19
  I
• 29:19
  never
• 29:20
  got
• 29:20
  angry
• 29:20
  about
• 29:20
  the
• 29:20
  knees.
• 29:21
  I
• 29:21
  was
• 29:21
  like,
• 29:21
  you're
• 29:21
  right.
• 29:22
  Let
• 29:22
  me.
• 29:23
  I
• 29:23
  have
• 29:24
  no
• 29:24
  knees.
• 29:24
  I
• 29:24
  can't
• 29:25
  do
• 29:25
  anything.
• 29:26
  Let
• 29:26
  me
• 29:26
  do
• 29:27
  Something
• 29:27
  with
• 29:27
  this.
• 29:28
  And
• 29:29
  when
• 29:29
  you
• 29:29
  think
• 29:30
  about.
• 29:30
  And
• 29:30
  I'm
• 29:30
  sure
• 29:30
  if
• 29:31
  you're
• 29:31
  out
• 29:31
  there
• 29:31
  listening,
• 29:31
  you
• 29:32
  can
• 29:32
  think
• 29:32
  of
• 29:32
  at
• 29:32
  least
• 29:34
  two,
• 29:34
  maybe
• 29:35
  three
• 29:35
  times
• 29:36
  where
• 29:36
  the
• 29:36
  things
• 29:37
  that
• 29:37
  you
• 29:37
  thought
• 29:37
  were
• 29:38
  so
• 29:38
  bad
• 29:39
  ended
• 29:39
  up
• 29:39
  being
• 29:39
  your
• 29:40
  biggest
• 29:40
  blessing.
• 29:41
  Yes.
• 29:42
  Yeah.
• 29:43
  Really.
• 29:43
  And
• 29:43
  this
• 29:44
  is.
• 29:44
  This
• 29:44
  is
• 29:44
  a.
• 29:44
  I
• 29:45
  mean,
• 29:45
  I
• 29:45
  don't
• 29:45
  have
• 29:45
  to
• 29:45
  tell
• 29:46
  you
• 29:46
  this
• 29:46
  or
• 29:46
  anybody
• 29:47
  listening,
• 29:47
  but
• 29:47
  this
• 29:48
  is
• 29:48
  a.
• 29:48
  This
• 29:48
  is
• 29:48
  probably
• 29:49
  one
• 29:49
  of
• 29:49
  the
• 29:49
  biggest
• 29:49
  challenges
• 29:50
  as
• 29:50
  humans
• 29:51
  is.
• 29:51
  Is
• 29:52
  having
• 29:52
  faith.
• 29:53
  Having
• 29:54
  faith
• 29:54
  that
• 29:54
  everything's
• 29:54
  happening
• 29:55
  for
• 29:55
  a
• 29:55
  reason.
• 29:56
  That.
• 29:56
  That
• 29:57
  God
• 29:57
  really
• 29:57
  does
• 29:57
  have
• 29:58
  this,
• 30:00
  and
• 30:00
  that
• 30:00
  even.
• 30:01
  Even
• 30:01
  if
• 30:01
  it
• 30:01
  looks
• 30:02
  scary,
• 30:02
  there's
• 30:03
  a
• 30:03
  purpose
• 30:03
  to
• 30:03
  it
• 30:04
  and
• 30:05
  everything
• 30:05
  changes
• 30:06
  if
• 30:06
  we
• 30:06
  can
• 30:07
  shift
• 30:07
  into
• 30:07
  that
• 30:08
  mindset.
• 30:08
  And
• 30:08
  I'm
• 30:08
  not
• 30:09
  saying
• 30:09
  I'm
• 30:09
  there
• 30:09
  all
• 30:10
  the
• 30:10
  time.
• 30:10
  I'm
• 30:10
  not
• 30:10
  going
• 30:10
  to
• 30:10
  sit
• 30:11
  here
• 30:11
  and
• 30:11
  say
• 30:11
  that,
• 30:12
  you
• 30:12
  know,
• 30:12
  that
• 30:12
  I
• 30:13
  struggle
• 30:13
  with
• 30:13
  these
• 30:13
  things
• 30:14
  too.
• 30:14
  But
• 30:15
  the
• 30:15
  more.
• 30:16
  The
• 30:16
  older
• 30:17
  I
• 30:17
  get,
• 30:17
  the
• 30:17
  more
• 30:17
  experiences
• 30:18
  I
• 30:18
  have,
• 30:18
  the
• 30:19
  more
• 30:19
  I
• 30:20
  take
• 30:20
  it
• 30:20
  on
• 30:20
  faith,
• 30:21
  the
• 30:21
  easier
• 30:21
  it
• 30:22
  is
• 30:22
  the
• 30:22
  next
• 30:22
  time.
• 30:22
  The
• 30:23
  less
• 30:23
  resistance
• 30:24
  I
• 30:24
  have
• 30:24
  and
• 30:25
  certainly
• 30:25
  the
• 30:25
  less
• 30:26
  anger
• 30:26
  about
• 30:26
  unfairness
• 30:27
  or
• 30:27
  going
• 30:28
  into
• 30:28
  a
• 30:28
  victim
• 30:29
  place.
• 30:30
  Yes.
• 30:30
  And
• 30:31
  that's
• 30:31
  the
• 30:31
  biggest
• 30:31
  thing.
• 30:32
  And
• 30:32
  it's
• 30:32
  like
• 30:32
  everything
• 30:32
  else
• 30:33
  in
• 30:33
  your
• 30:33
  brain.
• 30:33
  And,
• 30:33
  guys,
• 30:33
  this
• 30:34
  is
• 30:34
  what
• 30:34
  we
• 30:34
  talk
• 30:34
  about
• 30:34
  on
• 30:35
  this
• 30:35
  podcast
• 30:35
  all
• 30:36
  the
• 30:36
  time.
• 30:37
  When
• 30:37
  you
• 30:37
  start
• 30:37
  doing
• 30:38
  it
• 30:38
  on
• 30:38
  a
• 30:38
  regular
• 30:39
  basis
• 30:39
  and
• 30:39
  seeing
• 30:40
  the
• 30:40
  good
• 30:40
  in
• 30:40
  things,
• 30:40
  it
• 30:41
  will
• 30:41
  eventually
• 30:41
  rewire
• 30:42
  your
• 30:42
  brain
• 30:43
  to
• 30:43
  start
• 30:43
  seeing
• 30:44
  the
• 30:44
  good.
• 30:44
  Good.
• 30:44
  And
• 30:45
  the
• 30:45
  more
• 30:45
  good
• 30:45
  things
• 30:46
  you
• 30:46
  see,
• 30:46
  the
• 30:46
  more
• 30:46
  good
• 30:46
  things
• 30:47
  you're
• 30:47
  going
• 30:47
  to
• 30:48
  attract,
• 30:48
  because
• 30:49
  that
• 30:49
  is
• 30:49
  how
• 30:49
  the
• 30:49
  universe
• 30:50
  works.
• 30:50
  That
• 30:50
  is
• 30:50
  how
• 30:51
  energy
• 30:51
  works.
• 30:52
  That
• 30:52
  is
• 30:52
  how
• 30:52
  the
• 30:52
  whole
• 30:52
  thing
• 30:53
  works.
• 30:55
  Yes.
• 30:55
  Yeah.
• 30:56
  Fully
• 30:56
  agree.
• 30:58
  Yeah.
• 30:58
  So
• 30:59
  what
• 30:59
  makes
• 31:00
  for
• 31:00
  you
• 31:00
  and
• 31:01
  your
• 31:01
  clients,
• 31:01
  what
• 31:02
  makes
• 31:02
  someone
• 31:03
  a
• 31:03
  good
• 31:03
  candidate
• 31:04
  to
• 31:04
  come
• 31:04
  to
• 31:05
  you?
• 31:05
  Great
• 31:06
  question.
• 31:07
  There
• 31:08
  are
• 31:08
  several
• 31:09
  characteristics.
• 31:10
  One
• 31:10
  of
• 31:10
  them
• 31:10
  is
• 31:12
  open
• 31:12
  mind,
• 31:13
  a
• 31:13
  willingness
• 31:14
  to
• 31:15
  go
• 31:15
  places
• 31:16
  in
• 31:16
  their
• 31:16
  consciousness
• 31:17
  that
• 31:17
  maybe
• 31:18
  they
• 31:18
  haven't
• 31:18
  gone
• 31:19
  before
• 31:20
  to
• 31:20
  do
• 31:20
  a
• 31:20
  process
• 31:21
  they
• 31:21
  had
• 31:22
  never
• 31:22
  considered.
• 31:23
  So,
• 31:23
  for
• 31:23
  example,
• 31:24
  if
• 31:25
  we
• 31:25
  find
• 31:25
  out
• 31:26
  that
• 31:26
  their
• 31:26
  root
• 31:26
  cause
• 31:27
  to
• 31:27
  whatever
• 31:28
  issue
• 31:28
  they're
• 31:29
  dealing
• 31:29
  with
• 31:29
  is
• 31:29
  in
• 31:29
  a
• 31:29
  past
• 31:30
  lifetime
• 31:30
  and
• 31:30
  they
• 31:31
  just
• 31:31
  reject
• 31:31
  the
• 31:31
  concept
• 31:32
  of
• 31:32
  past
• 31:32
  life,
• 31:33
  we
• 31:33
  can't
• 31:33
  get
• 31:33
  to
• 31:34
  the
• 31:34
  root.
• 31:34
  How
• 31:34
  are
• 31:34
  we
• 31:34
  going
• 31:34
  to
• 31:35
  fix
• 31:35
  this?
• 31:35
  We
• 31:36
  can
• 31:36
  manage
• 31:36
  it.
• 31:37
  You
• 31:37
  know,
• 31:37
  we
• 31:38
  can
• 31:38
  help
• 31:38
  them
• 31:38
  feel
• 31:38
  a
• 31:38
  little
• 31:39
  bit
• 31:39
  better,
• 31:39
  but
• 31:39
  we
• 31:39
  can't
• 31:40
  really
• 31:40
  get
• 31:40
  to
• 31:40
  the
• 31:40
  root
• 31:41
  cause.
• 31:41
  So
• 31:42
  an
• 31:42
  open
• 31:42
  mind
• 31:42
  is
• 31:43
  really
• 31:43
  important.
• 31:43
  And
• 31:44
  right
• 31:44
  alongside
• 31:45
  of
• 31:45
  that
• 31:45
  would
• 31:45
  be
• 31:46
  courage,
• 31:46
  the
• 31:46
  courage
• 31:47
  in
• 31:47
  their
• 31:47
  mind
• 31:47
  to
• 31:48
  go
• 31:48
  back
• 31:48
  into
• 31:49
  a
• 31:49
  trauma,
• 31:49
  which
• 31:50
  is
• 31:50
  really
• 31:50
  what
• 31:50
  Joseph
• 31:51
  Campbell
• 31:51
  called
• 31:51
  the
• 31:51
  hero's
• 31:52
  journey.
• 31:52
  That
• 31:52
  he
• 31:53
  said
• 31:53
  every
• 31:53
  human
• 31:53
  being
• 31:53
  is
• 31:54
  on
• 31:54
  the
• 31:54
  hero's
• 31:54
  journey,
• 31:56
  and
• 31:56
  most
• 31:57
  of
• 31:57
  our
• 31:57
  stories
• 31:58
  are
• 31:58
  written
• 31:59
  based
• 31:59
  upon
• 31:59
  the
• 31:59
  hero's
• 32:00
  journey.
• 32:00
  That's
• 32:00
  what
• 32:01
  we
• 32:01
  watch.
• 32:01
  That's
• 32:01
  what
• 32:01
  we're
• 32:02
  consuming
• 32:02
  all
• 32:02
  the
• 32:02
  time.
• 32:04
  So
• 32:05
  those
• 32:06
  two
• 32:06
  things
• 32:06
  are
• 32:06
  really
• 32:06
  important.
• 32:07
  And
• 32:07
  then
• 32:07
  the
• 32:07
  third
• 32:07
  one
• 32:08
  is
• 32:09
  a
• 32:09
  willingness,
• 32:10
  I
• 32:10
  would
• 32:10
  say,
• 32:12
  for
• 32:12
  discomfort.
• 32:14
  And
• 32:14
  I
• 32:14
  find
• 32:15
  that
• 32:15
  athletes,
• 32:16
  I've
• 32:16
  worked
• 32:16
  with,
• 32:16
  a
• 32:16
  lot
• 32:17
  of
• 32:17
  professional
• 32:17
  athletes
• 32:18
  and
• 32:18
  D1
• 32:18
  college
• 32:19
  athletes,
• 32:20
  and
• 32:20
  they
• 32:21
  uniformly
• 32:22
  have
• 32:22
  this
• 32:23
  ability
• 32:23
  to
• 32:24
  face
• 32:24
  adversity,
• 32:26
  to
• 32:26
  face
• 32:26
  things
• 32:26
  that
• 32:27
  are
• 32:27
  difficult,
• 32:29
  to
• 32:29
  persevere,
• 32:30
  to
• 32:30
  keep
• 32:30
  going.
• 32:31
  So
• 32:31
  that
• 32:31
  when
• 32:31
  a
• 32:32
  person
• 32:32
  meets
• 32:32
  some
• 32:33
  kind
• 32:33
  of
• 32:33
  resistance,
• 32:34
  they
• 32:34
  don't
• 32:35
  stop
• 32:35
  there.
• 32:35
  It's
• 32:36
  okay
• 32:36
  to
• 32:36
  cry,
• 32:37
  it's
• 32:37
  okay
• 32:37
  to
• 32:37
  be
• 32:37
  scared.
• 32:38
  It's
• 32:38
  okay
• 32:39
  to
• 32:39
  back
• 32:39
  off
• 32:39
  a
• 32:39
  little
• 32:40
  bit.
• 32:40
  But
• 32:40
  we
• 32:41
  have
• 32:41
  to
• 32:41
  keep
• 32:41
  going.
• 32:42
  We
• 32:42
  have
• 32:42
  to
• 32:42
  go
• 32:42
  through
• 32:43
  it.
• 32:43
  We
• 32:43
  can't
• 32:43
  let
• 32:44
  some
• 32:45
  kind
• 32:45
  of
• 32:45
  fear
• 32:45
  inside
• 32:46
  stop
• 32:46
  us,
• 32:47
  because
• 32:47
  as
• 32:47
  soon
• 32:47
  as
• 32:47
  it
• 32:47
  stops
• 32:48
  us,
• 32:48
  our
• 32:48
  forward
• 32:49
  momentum,
• 32:49
  our
• 32:49
  forward
• 32:50
  progress,
• 32:50
  ends
• 32:50
  at
• 32:51
  that
• 32:51
  point
• 32:51
  as
• 32:51
  well.
• 32:52
  So
• 32:52
  I
• 32:52
  would
• 32:52
  say
• 32:52
  those
• 32:53
  are
• 32:53
  the
• 32:53
  three
• 32:53
  things
• 32:54
  that
• 32:54
  for
• 32:55
  me
• 32:56
  define
• 32:57
  really
• 32:57
  successful
• 32:58
  people.
• 32:59
  You
• 32:59
  know,
• 32:59
  a
• 33:00
  persistence,
• 33:00
  a
• 33:00
  willingness,
• 33:01
  a
• 33:01
  commitment
• 33:01
  to
• 33:02
  see
• 33:02
  it
• 33:02
  through,
• 33:04
  the
• 33:04
  bravery
• 33:05
  and
• 33:05
  the
• 33:05
  courage
• 33:05
  to
• 33:06
  face
• 33:06
  things
• 33:06
  that
• 33:06
  they
• 33:06
  don't
• 33:07
  necessarily
• 33:07
  want
• 33:07
  to
• 33:08
  face
• 33:08
  or
• 33:08
  that
• 33:08
  they've
• 33:08
  spent
• 33:09
  a
• 33:09
  lifetime
• 33:09
  avoiding.
• 33:10
  And
• 33:10
  then
• 33:11
  the
• 33:11
  third
• 33:11
  one
• 33:11
  is
• 33:11
  obviously
• 33:12
  the
• 33:12
  openness
• 33:13
  to
• 33:13
  explore
• 33:14
  in
• 33:14
  different
• 33:14
  ways,
• 33:15
  ways
• 33:15
  maybe
• 33:15
  that
• 33:16
  they
• 33:16
  haven't
• 33:16
  done
• 33:16
  before,
• 33:16
  and
• 33:17
  not
• 33:17
  just
• 33:17
  write
• 33:17
  it
• 33:17
  off
• 33:18
  as,
• 33:18
  oh,
• 33:18
  that's
• 33:18
  just.
• 33:19
  That's
• 33:19
  not
• 33:19
  real.
• 33:19
  That's
• 33:19
  weird.
• 33:20
  That's
• 33:20
  strange,
• 33:21
  right?
• 33:22
  I
• 33:22
  mean,
• 33:23
  and
• 33:23
  you're
• 33:23
  the
• 33:23
  expert.
• 33:24
  So
• 33:24
  I
• 33:25
  tell
• 33:25
  people
• 33:25
  when
• 33:25
  they
• 33:25
  come
• 33:25
  to
• 33:26
  you
• 33:26
  and
• 33:26
  they
• 33:26
  have
• 33:26
  these
• 33:26
  questions,
• 33:27
  I
• 33:27
  mean,
• 33:27
  you're
• 33:27
  not
• 33:27
  going
• 33:27
  to
• 33:27
  guide
• 33:28
  them
• 33:28
  into
• 33:28
  something,
• 33:29
  because
• 33:30
  I
• 33:30
  think
• 33:30
  that's
• 33:30
  the
• 33:30
  thing.
• 33:30
  People,
• 33:31
  like
• 33:31
  you
• 33:31
  said,
• 33:31
  they
• 33:32
  have
• 33:32
  this
• 33:32
  vision
• 33:32
  of,
• 33:33
  you
• 33:33
  know,
• 33:34
  look
• 33:34
  like
• 33:34
  a
• 33:34
  chicken,
• 33:35
  bark
• 33:35
  like
• 33:35
  a
• 33:35
  dog,
• 33:36
  and
• 33:36
  you
• 33:36
  are
• 33:36
  now
• 33:37
  waking
• 33:37
  up
• 33:37
  and
• 33:37
  you
• 33:37
  don't
• 33:38
  remember
• 33:38
  anything.
• 33:39
  You're
• 33:39
  not
• 33:39
  going
• 33:39
  to
• 33:39
  guide
• 33:40
  them
• 33:40
  somewhere
• 33:40
  that
• 33:40
  is
• 33:41
  going
• 33:41
  to
• 33:41
  be
• 33:42
  something.
• 33:42
  So,
• 33:43
  like,
• 33:43
  you're
• 33:43
  not
• 33:43
  going
• 33:44
  to
• 33:44
  do
• 33:44
  that.
• 33:44
  You're
• 33:44
  not
• 33:44
  going
• 33:45
  to
• 33:45
  harm
• 33:45
  people.
• 33:45
  This
• 33:45
  is
• 33:46
  not
• 33:46
  to
• 33:46
  harm,
• 33:46
  you
• 33:46
  know,
• 33:47
  it's
• 33:47
  not
• 33:47
  to
• 33:48
  put
• 33:48
  you
• 33:48
  in
• 33:48
  this
• 33:49
  traumatic.
• 33:50
  I'm
• 33:50
  reliving,
• 33:51
  and
• 33:51
  then
• 33:51
  bam,
• 33:52
  you
• 33:52
  walk
• 33:52
  away.
• 33:53
  That's
• 33:53
  not
• 33:53
  what
• 33:54
  it
• 33:54
  is.
• 33:55
  No.
• 33:56
  The
• 33:56
  idea
• 33:57
  is
• 33:58
  to
• 33:58
  go
• 33:59
  at
• 33:59
  their
• 33:59
  pace.
• 34:01
  You
• 34:01
  know,
• 34:01
  everybody
• 34:02
  has
• 34:02
  a
• 34:02
  different
• 34:02
  pace.
• 34:03
  Everybody
• 34:03
  has
• 34:03
  a
• 34:03
  different
• 34:03
  tolerance
• 34:05
  to
• 34:05
  make
• 34:06
  sure
• 34:06
  that
• 34:06
  they
• 34:06
  feel
• 34:07
  comfortable
• 34:08
  conceptually
• 34:09
  understanding
• 34:09
  what
• 34:10
  we're
• 34:10
  doing.
• 34:12
  And
• 34:12
  then
• 34:12
  I
• 34:12
  also
• 34:14
  have
• 34:14
  every
• 34:14
  one
• 34:14
  of
• 34:15
  my
• 34:15
  clients
• 34:16
  let
• 34:16
  me
• 34:16
  say
• 34:16
  it
• 34:16
  this
• 34:17
  way.
• 34:17
  The
• 34:17
  body,
• 34:18
  your
• 34:18
  body
• 34:18
  is
• 34:18
  a
• 34:19
  feedback
• 34:19
  mechanism.
• 34:20
  How
• 34:20
  do
• 34:20
  you
• 34:20
  know
• 34:20
  that
• 34:20
  you're
• 34:21
  happy?
• 34:21
  Your
• 34:22
  body
• 34:22
  tells
• 34:22
  you.
• 34:23
  How
• 34:23
  do
• 34:23
  you
• 34:23
  know
• 34:23
  that
• 34:24
  you're
• 34:24
  unhappy
• 34:24
  or
• 34:24
  you're
• 34:25
  scared?
• 34:25
  Your
• 34:25
  body
• 34:26
  tells
• 34:26
  you.
• 34:27
  Your
• 34:27
  body's
• 34:28
  speaking
• 34:28
  to
• 34:28
  you
• 34:28
  all
• 34:28
  the
• 34:29
  time,
• 34:29
  and
• 34:29
  it's
• 34:29
  under
• 34:30
  the
• 34:30
  control
• 34:30
  of
• 34:30
  Your
• 34:30
  autonomic
• 34:31
  nervous
• 34:31
  system,
• 34:31
  which
• 34:31
  is
• 34:32
  controlled
• 34:32
  by
• 34:32
  your
• 34:32
  subconscious
• 34:33
  mind.
• 34:33
  That's
• 34:34
  where
• 34:34
  all
• 34:34
  the
• 34:34
  patterns
• 34:34
  are.
• 34:35
  Right.
• 34:36
  If
• 34:36
  you
• 34:36
  have
• 34:37
  a
• 34:37
  person
• 34:37
  hold
• 34:37
  a
• 34:37
  pendulum,
• 34:38
  something
• 34:39
  that
• 34:39
  looks
• 34:39
  like
• 34:39
  this,
• 34:43
  that
• 34:43
  pendulum
• 34:44
  serves
• 34:44
  as
• 34:44
  an
• 34:44
  amplifier
• 34:46
  of
• 34:46
  what
• 34:46
  your
• 34:46
  body's
• 34:47
  already
• 34:47
  telling
• 34:47
  you.
• 34:48
  And
• 34:49
  you
• 34:49
  can
• 34:49
  establish
• 34:50
  a
• 34:50
  yes
• 34:51
  and
• 34:51
  a
• 34:52
  no
• 34:52
  just
• 34:52
  by
• 34:52
  holding
• 34:53
  the
• 34:53
  pendulum.
• 34:53
  You
• 34:53
  can
• 34:53
  look
• 34:53
  at
• 34:53
  it
• 34:54
  and
• 34:54
  say,
• 34:54
  show
• 34:54
  me
• 34:54
  yes.
• 34:55
  And
• 34:55
  it
• 34:55
  will
• 34:55
  move
• 34:55
  in
• 34:55
  a
• 34:56
  particular
• 34:56
  direction.
• 34:56
  It'll
• 34:56
  go
• 34:57
  either
• 34:57
  this
• 34:57
  way
• 34:57
  or
• 34:57
  go
• 34:58
  this
• 34:58
  way.
• 34:58
  Yep.
• 34:58
  Yeah.
• 34:59
  Or
• 34:59
  go
• 34:59
  in
• 34:59
  a
• 34:59
  circle
• 34:59
  or
• 34:59
  something.
• 35:00
  Go
• 35:00
  in
• 35:00
  circles,
• 35:00
  whatever.
• 35:01
  Yeah.
• 35:01
  So
• 35:02
  you
• 35:02
  can
• 35:02
  get
• 35:02
  a
• 35:02
  yes
• 35:02
  and
• 35:02
  a
• 35:02
  no.
• 35:03
  And
• 35:03
  then
• 35:03
  you
• 35:03
  can
• 35:03
  ask
• 35:03
  a
• 35:04
  question.
• 35:04
  Client's
• 35:05
  holding
• 35:05
  it,
• 35:05
  not
• 35:05
  me.
• 35:06
  Am
• 35:06
  I
• 35:07
  seated
• 35:07
  in
• 35:07
  a
• 35:07
  chair?
• 35:08
  Goes
• 35:08
  yes.
• 35:09
  And
• 35:09
  am
• 35:09
  I
• 35:10
  700ft
• 35:10
  tall?
• 35:10
  It
• 35:11
  goes,
• 35:11
  no.
• 35:11
  Okay,
• 35:11
  so
• 35:12
  we've
• 35:12
  calibrated
• 35:13
  it.
• 35:14
  We
• 35:14
  now
• 35:15
  have
• 35:15
  your
• 35:15
  body
• 35:16
  speaking
• 35:16
  to
• 35:16
  us.
• 35:17
  So
• 35:18
  now
• 35:18
  we
• 35:18
  can
• 35:18
  ask,
• 35:19
  is
• 35:20
  the
• 35:20
  root
• 35:20
  cause
• 35:21
  of
• 35:21
  the
• 35:22
  migraine
• 35:22
  headaches
• 35:23
  that
• 35:23
  you
• 35:23
  get
• 35:23
  every
• 35:24
  week
• 35:25
  from
• 35:25
  a
• 35:25
  trauma?
• 35:26
  Say
• 35:26
  it
• 35:26
  goes
• 35:27
  yes.
• 35:28
  Is
• 35:28
  that
• 35:28
  from
• 35:28
  a
• 35:28
  trauma
• 35:29
  earlier
• 35:29
  in
• 35:29
  your
• 35:29
  present
• 35:29
  life?
• 35:30
  Let's
• 35:30
  say
• 35:31
  it
• 35:31
  says
• 35:31
  no.
• 35:32
  Is
• 35:33
  it
• 35:33
  from
• 35:33
  a
• 35:33
  past
• 35:33
  life?
• 35:34
  Let's
• 35:34
  say
• 35:34
  it
• 35:34
  says
• 35:34
  yes.
• 35:37
  Is
• 35:37
  it
• 35:37
  in
• 35:37
  my
• 35:38
  highest
• 35:38
  and
• 35:38
  best
• 35:38
  interests
• 35:40
  to
• 35:40
  revisit
• 35:41
  that
• 35:41
  past
• 35:41
  lifetime
• 35:42
  to
• 35:42
  resolve
• 35:43
  this
• 35:43
  trauma?
• 35:43
  Let's
• 35:44
  say
• 35:44
  it
• 35:44
  says
• 35:44
  yes.
• 35:46
  Now,
• 35:47
  that
• 35:47
  person
• 35:48
  still
• 35:48
  has
• 35:49
  a
• 35:49
  choice
• 35:50
  whether
• 35:50
  they
• 35:51
  want
• 35:51
  to
• 35:51
  do
• 35:51
  this
• 35:51
  or
• 35:51
  not.
• 35:52
  But
• 35:52
  we've
• 35:53
  had
• 35:53
  this
• 35:53
  inner
• 35:54
  wisdom,
• 35:54
  this
• 35:54
  inner
• 35:55
  intelligence
• 35:55
  from
• 35:55
  them.
• 35:56
  Tell
• 35:56
  us.
• 35:57
  This
• 35:57
  is
• 35:57
  what
• 35:57
  the
• 35:57
  root
• 35:58
  cause
• 35:58
  is
• 35:58
  of
• 35:58
  your
• 35:58
  migraine
• 35:59
  headaches.
• 36:00
  This
• 36:00
  is
• 36:00
  where
• 36:00
  it
• 36:01
  resides,
• 36:01
  and
• 36:01
  it's
• 36:02
  a
• 36:02
  trauma.
• 36:02
  And
• 36:03
  it's
• 36:03
  your
• 36:03
  highest
• 36:03
  and
• 36:04
  best
• 36:04
  interest
• 36:04
  to
• 36:04
  go
• 36:04
  resolve
• 36:05
  it.
• 36:07
  Are
• 36:07
  you
• 36:07
  willing
• 36:08
  to
• 36:08
  go
• 36:08
  do
• 36:08
  it?
• 36:10
  Of
• 36:10
  course
• 36:11
  I
• 36:11
  would
• 36:12
  be.
• 36:12
  I
• 36:12
  mean,
• 36:13
  yeah,
• 36:13
  it's.
• 36:14
  And
• 36:14
  it's.
• 36:14
  It's
• 36:14
  crazy
• 36:15
  with
• 36:15
  the
• 36:15
  pendulum.
• 36:15
  It
• 36:16
  is
• 36:16
  so
• 36:16
  easy
• 36:16
  to
• 36:17
  do,
• 36:17
  and
• 36:17
  it's
• 36:17
  so
• 36:18
  simple.
• 36:18
  And
• 36:18
  it's
• 36:19
  the
• 36:19
  same
• 36:19
  thing.
• 36:19
  I
• 36:19
  talk
• 36:20
  about
• 36:20
  muscle
• 36:20
  testing
• 36:21
  all
• 36:21
  the
• 36:21
  time
• 36:21
  with
• 36:22
  just
• 36:22
  standing
• 36:22
  there
• 36:23
  and
• 36:23
  just.
• 36:23
  With
• 36:23
  the
• 36:23
  sway
• 36:24
  method,
• 36:24
  you
• 36:25
  know,
• 36:25
  ask
• 36:25
  yourself,
• 36:25
  is
• 36:25
  my
• 36:26
  name
• 36:26
  Tammy?
• 36:26
  Your
• 36:26
  body
• 36:27
  naturally
• 36:27
  leans
• 36:28
  forward.
• 36:28
  You
• 36:28
  say,
• 36:28
  you
• 36:29
  know,
• 36:29
  am
• 36:29
  I
• 36:29
  a
• 36:29
  millionaire?
• 36:30
  My
• 36:30
  body's
• 36:30
  leaning
• 36:31
  back.
• 36:31
  You
• 36:31
  know,
• 36:31
  it's.
• 36:32
  It's.
• 36:33
  It
• 36:33
  naturally
• 36:34
  happens.
• 36:34
  And
• 36:35
  because
• 36:35
  I.
• 36:38
  I
• 36:38
  don't
• 36:38
  know
• 36:38
  why,
• 36:39
  you
• 36:39
  know,
• 36:39
  it's
• 36:39
  like.
• 36:39
  Because
• 36:40
  I
• 36:40
  think
• 36:40
  it's
• 36:40
  that
• 36:41
  universal
• 36:42
  wisdom,
• 36:42
  you
• 36:43
  know?
• 36:43
  God,
• 36:43
  and
• 36:44
  you
• 36:44
  know
• 36:44
  it
• 36:44
  all.
• 36:45
  Your
• 36:45
  body
• 36:45
  knows
• 36:45
  it
• 36:46
  all.
• 36:46
  So
• 36:46
  I.
• 36:47
  I
• 36:47
  picture
• 36:47
  that
• 36:48
  like
• 36:48
  you
• 36:48
  said
• 36:48
  that,
• 36:50
  you
• 36:50
  know,
• 36:50
  that
• 36:51
  thing,
• 36:51
  that
• 36:51
  resistance
• 36:52
  and
• 36:52
  that
• 36:52
  thing
• 36:53
  stuck
• 36:53
  in
• 36:53
  you,
• 36:53
  and
• 36:53
  it'll
• 36:54
  be
• 36:54
  stuck
• 36:54
  in
• 36:54
  your
• 36:54
  body.
• 36:55
  And
• 36:55
  if
• 36:55
  you
• 36:55
  feel
• 36:56
  it
• 36:56
  and
• 36:56
  you're
• 36:56
  like,
• 36:56
  okay.
• 36:57
  Your
• 36:57
  natural
• 36:57
  instinct
• 36:58
  is,
• 36:58
  go
• 36:58
  around
• 36:59
  it.
• 37:00
  But
• 37:00
  it's
• 37:00
  like,
• 37:00
  it's
• 37:01
  still
• 37:01
  going
• 37:01
  to
• 37:01
  be
• 37:01
  there
• 37:02
  until
• 37:02
  you
• 37:02
  can
• 37:03
  go
• 37:03
  through
• 37:03
  it.
• 37:04
  And
• 37:04
  that's
• 37:04
  what
• 37:05
  you
• 37:05
  can
• 37:06
  do
• 37:06
  safely
• 37:06
  with
• 37:06
  people.
• 37:07
  Yes.
• 37:08
  And
• 37:08
  this
• 37:08
  is
• 37:09
  immensely
• 37:09
  persuasive
• 37:10
  for
• 37:10
  people
• 37:11
  when
• 37:11
  they're
• 37:11
  holding
• 37:12
  the
• 37:12
  pendulum
• 37:12
  and
• 37:13
  they
• 37:13
  know
• 37:13
  they're
• 37:14
  not
• 37:14
  consciously
• 37:15
  moving
• 37:15
  it
• 37:16
  in
• 37:16
  a
• 37:16
  particular
• 37:16
  direction.
• 37:17
  Right.
• 37:18
  And
• 37:18
  they're
• 37:18
  like,
• 37:18
  oh,
• 37:18
  wow.
• 37:19
  And
• 37:19
  a
• 37:19
  lot
• 37:20
  of
• 37:20
  times
• 37:21
  we'll
• 37:21
  be
• 37:21
  able
• 37:21
  to
• 37:21
  zero
• 37:22
  in,
• 37:22
  let's
• 37:22
  say,
• 37:23
  on
• 37:23
  a
• 37:23
  trauma
• 37:23
  that
• 37:23
  happened
• 37:24
  in
• 37:24
  this
• 37:24
  lifetime
• 37:25
  to
• 37:25
  a
• 37:25
  particular
• 37:26
  age,
• 37:26
  whether
• 37:26
  they
• 37:26
  were
• 37:27
  indoors
• 37:27
  or
• 37:27
  outdoors,
• 37:28
  whether
• 37:28
  they
• 37:28
  were
• 37:28
  at
• 37:28
  school
• 37:29
  or
• 37:29
  at
• 37:29
  home.
• 37:29
  And
• 37:29
  then
• 37:29
  all
• 37:30
  of
• 37:30
  a
• 37:30
  sudden
• 37:30
  they're
• 37:30
  like,
• 37:30
  oh,
• 37:30
  my
• 37:31
  God,
• 37:31
  I
• 37:31
  haven't
• 37:32
  thought
• 37:32
  about
• 37:32
  that
• 37:32
  in
• 37:33
  20
• 37:33
  years
• 37:33
  or
• 37:33
  30
• 37:34
  years.
• 37:34
  I
• 37:34
  remember
• 37:35
  now,
• 37:35
  when
• 37:35
  I
• 37:35
  was
• 37:36
  six
• 37:36
  years
• 37:36
  old,
• 37:36
  something
• 37:37
  happened.
• 37:38
  And
• 37:39
  I'm
• 37:39
  getting
• 37:40
  that
• 37:40
  this
• 37:40
  is
• 37:40
  the
• 37:40
  root
• 37:41
  cause
• 37:41
  of
• 37:41
  some
• 37:41
  problem
• 37:41
  I've
• 37:42
  been
• 37:42
  dealing
• 37:42
  with.
• 37:43
  So
• 37:44
  their
• 37:44
  inclination,
• 37:45
  their
• 37:45
  willingness
• 37:47
  to
• 37:47
  then
• 37:48
  go
• 37:48
  and
• 37:48
  address
• 37:48
  it
• 37:49
  is
• 37:49
  much
• 37:50
  higher.
• 37:50
  And
• 37:50
  as
• 37:51
  you
• 37:51
  stated,
• 37:51
  it's
• 37:52
  never
• 37:52
  for
• 37:52
  the
• 37:53
  purpose
• 37:53
  of
• 37:53
  going
• 37:53
  and
• 37:54
  wallowing
• 37:54
  in
• 37:54
  something
• 37:55
  that
• 37:55
  happened.
• 37:56
  No,
• 37:56
  it's
• 37:57
  understanding
• 37:58
  it
• 37:58
  and
• 37:58
  then
• 37:59
  doing
• 37:59
  whatever
• 37:59
  we
• 37:59
  need
• 38:00
  to
• 38:00
  do
• 38:00
  to
• 38:00
  rewrite
• 38:01
  it
• 38:02
  or
• 38:02
  heal
• 38:02
  it.
• 38:04
  Sometimes
• 38:04
  this
• 38:04
  involves
• 38:05
  the
• 38:05
  person
• 38:05
  at
• 38:05
  their
• 38:06
  current
• 38:06
  age
• 38:07
  going
• 38:07
  back
• 38:07
  to
• 38:08
  that
• 38:08
  time
• 38:09
  to
• 38:09
  rescue
• 38:10
  a
• 38:10
  younger
• 38:11
  version
• 38:11
  of
• 38:11
  them.
• 38:12
  Right.
• 38:13
  Sometimes
• 38:13
  it
• 38:14
  involves
• 38:15
  forgiveness.
• 38:16
  Sometimes
• 38:17
  it
• 38:17
  involves,
• 38:19
  let's
• 38:20
  say,
• 38:20
  if
• 38:20
  the
• 38:20
  person
• 38:20
  is
• 38:21
  Christian,
• 38:21
  they'll
• 38:22
  have
• 38:22
  Jesus
• 38:23
  or
• 38:23
  Mary
• 38:23
  come
• 38:23
  with
• 38:24
  them
• 38:25
  to
• 38:25
  resolve
• 38:25
  this
• 38:25
  thing,
• 38:27
  all
• 38:27
  of
• 38:27
  which
• 38:28
  is
• 38:28
  possible
• 38:28
  in
• 38:28
  your
• 38:28
  consciousness.
• 38:29
  And
• 38:30
  once
• 38:30
  that
• 38:30
  incident
• 38:31
  has
• 38:31
  been
• 38:31
  healed,
• 38:32
  once
• 38:32
  it's
• 38:32
  been
• 38:33
  overwritten,
• 38:33
  let's
• 38:34
  say,
• 38:36
  then
• 38:36
  we
• 38:36
  use
• 38:37
  the
• 38:37
  pendulum
• 38:37
  again.
• 38:38
  Has
• 38:39
  this
• 38:39
  been
• 38:39
  healed?
• 38:41
  And
• 38:41
  if
• 38:41
  we
• 38:41
  get
• 38:41
  a
• 38:41
  yes,
• 38:42
  we're
• 38:42
  done.
• 38:42
  We
• 38:43
  don't
• 38:43
  have
• 38:43
  to
• 38:43
  deal
• 38:43
  with
• 38:44
  that
• 38:44
  again.
• 38:44
  And
• 38:45
  now
• 38:45
  that
• 38:45
  toxic
• 38:46
  material
• 38:47
  doesn't
• 38:48
  live
• 38:48
  in
• 38:48
  their
• 38:48
  subconscious
• 38:49
  anymore.
• 38:50
  And
• 38:50
  the
• 38:50
  old
• 38:50
  triggers,
• 38:51
  like
• 38:51
  the
• 38:51
  example
• 38:52
  you
• 38:52
  gave
• 38:52
  of
• 38:53
  the
• 38:53
  music
• 38:53
  from
• 38:53
  the
• 38:54
  soap
• 38:54
  opera,
• 38:54
  when
• 38:55
  it
• 38:55
  played
• 38:56
  after
• 38:56
  you
• 38:56
  had
• 38:56
  resolved
• 38:57
  it,
• 38:57
  it
• 38:57
  wasn't
• 38:58
  telling
• 38:58
  your
• 38:58
  subconscious
• 38:59
  mind
• 38:59
  you're
• 38:59
  under
• 38:59
  attack.
• 39:01
  Your
• 39:01
  subconscious
• 39:02
  mind
• 39:02
  heard
• 39:03
  the
• 39:03
  music
• 39:03
  and
• 39:03
  it
• 39:03
  was
• 39:03
  like,
• 39:04
  it's
• 39:04
  just
• 39:04
  music.
• 39:05
  Right.
• 39:06
  There
• 39:06
  was
• 39:06
  no
• 39:06
  more
• 39:06
  association
• 39:08
  between
• 39:08
  the
• 39:09
  music
• 39:09
  and
• 39:10
  trying
• 39:10
  to
• 39:10
  protect
• 39:11
  you.
• 39:11
  Right.
• 39:12
  And
• 39:12
  that's
• 39:12
  when
• 39:13
  you
• 39:13
  know
• 39:13
  for
• 39:14
  sure.
• 39:14
  You.
• 39:14
  You
• 39:15
  definitely
• 39:15
  healed
• 39:15
  that,
• 39:16
  right?
• 39:17
  Absolutely.
• 39:19
  So
• 39:19
  what
• 39:19
  are
• 39:20
  some
• 39:20
  questions?
• 39:20
  Okay,
• 39:21
  so
• 39:21
  I'm.
• 39:21
  I
• 39:21
  know
• 39:22
  I
• 39:22
  could
• 39:22
  talk
• 39:22
  to
• 39:22
  you
• 39:22
  all
• 39:23
  day,
• 39:23
  but
• 39:24
  what
• 39:24
  are
• 39:24
  some
• 39:24
  questions
• 39:25
  people
• 39:25
  might
• 39:25
  ask
• 39:25
  themselves
• 39:27
  if
• 39:27
  you
• 39:27
  would
• 39:28
  be.
• 39:28
  Like,
• 39:28
  if
• 39:28
  they
• 39:28
  would
• 39:29
  be.
• 39:29
  I
• 39:29
  know
• 39:29
  you
• 39:29
  showed.
• 39:30
  Who
• 39:30
  would
• 39:30
  be
• 39:30
  good
• 39:31
  candidates,
• 39:31
  but
• 39:31
  how
• 39:32
  might
• 39:32
  people
• 39:33
  think
• 39:34
  that
• 39:35
  they're.
• 39:35
  What
• 39:36
  questions
• 39:36
  might
• 39:36
  they
• 39:36
  be
• 39:37
  asking
• 39:37
  themselves
• 39:37
  to
• 39:37
  see
• 39:38
  if
• 39:38
  they're
• 39:38
  ready
• 39:38
  to
• 39:38
  move
• 39:39
  forward
• 39:39
  and,
• 39:41
  like.
• 39:42
  You
• 39:42
  see
• 39:42
  what
• 39:42
  I'm
• 39:42
  saying?
• 39:45
  Yeah.
• 39:45
  I
• 39:45
  mean,
• 39:46
  well,
• 39:46
  first
• 39:46
  of
• 39:46
  All
• 39:47
  I
• 39:47
  do,
• 39:47
  like
• 39:48
  a
• 39:48
  lot
• 39:48
  of
• 39:48
  people,
• 39:48
  offer
• 39:48
  a
• 39:49
  free
• 39:49
  20
• 39:49
  minute
• 39:50
  consultation.
• 39:50
  So
• 39:51
  people
• 39:51
  can
• 39:52
  set
• 39:53
  up
• 39:53
  a
• 39:53
  phone
• 39:53
  call
• 39:53
  with
• 39:54
  me
• 39:54
  and
• 39:54
  ask
• 39:54
  any
• 39:55
  questions
• 39:55
  that
• 39:55
  they
• 39:55
  want
• 39:56
  and
• 39:57
  talk
• 39:58
  through
• 39:59
  fears
• 39:59
  that
• 39:59
  they
• 40:00
  might
• 40:00
  have
• 40:00
  or
• 40:01
  specific
• 40:01
  questions.
• 40:04
  One
• 40:05
  of
• 40:05
  the
• 40:05
  questions
• 40:05
  people
• 40:05
  might
• 40:06
  have
• 40:06
  is
• 40:08
  would
• 40:08
  this
• 40:08
  work
• 40:08
  for
• 40:09
  this
• 40:10
  issue?
• 40:11
  Would
• 40:11
  this
• 40:11
  work
• 40:11
  for
• 40:11
  that
• 40:12
  issue?
• 40:13
  And
• 40:13
  my
• 40:13
  answer
• 40:14
  is
• 40:14
  it
• 40:15
  would
• 40:15
  work
• 40:15
  for
• 40:15
  anything
• 40:16
  that
• 40:16
  your
• 40:16
  mind
• 40:16
  is
• 40:16
  involved
• 40:17
  in,
• 40:17
  which
• 40:18
  is
• 40:19
  everything.
• 40:20
  What
• 40:21
  is
• 40:21
  your
• 40:21
  mind
• 40:21
  not
• 40:21
  involved
• 40:22
  in?
• 40:22
  Right.
• 40:25
  So
• 40:27
  that's
• 40:27
  one
• 40:27
  question
• 40:28
  people
• 40:28
  would
• 40:28
  have.
• 40:28
  Another
• 40:28
  question,
• 40:29
  fear
• 40:30
  people
• 40:30
  might
• 40:30
  have
• 40:30
  would
• 40:31
  be,
• 40:31
  well,
• 40:32
  somebody
• 40:32
  tried
• 40:32
  to
• 40:32
  hypnotize
• 40:33
  me
• 40:33
  15
• 40:33
  years
• 40:34
  ago
• 40:34
  and
• 40:34
  it
• 40:34
  didn't
• 40:34
  work.
• 40:35
  And
• 40:36
  I
• 40:37
  have
• 40:38
  dealt
• 40:38
  with
• 40:39
  a
• 40:39
  lot
• 40:39
  of
• 40:39
  people
• 40:39
  over
• 40:40
  the
• 40:40
  years
• 40:41
  and
• 40:41
  if
• 40:42
  hypnosis
• 40:42
  doesn't
• 40:43
  work,
• 40:43
  it's
• 40:43
  either
• 40:44
  because
• 40:44
  the
• 40:44
  person
• 40:44
  doesn't
• 40:45
  really
• 40:45
  know
• 40:45
  what
• 40:45
  hypnosis
• 40:46
  is
• 40:46
  because
• 40:46
  it
• 40:46
  was
• 40:46
  never
• 40:46
  explained
• 40:47
  to
• 40:47
  them
• 40:47
  and
• 40:47
  they
• 40:47
  think
• 40:48
  it's
• 40:48
  supposed
• 40:48
  to
• 40:48
  be
• 40:48
  a
• 40:48
  catatonic
• 40:49
  sleep
• 40:49
  like
• 40:49
  state,
• 40:51
  or
• 40:52
  probably
• 40:52
  more
• 40:52
  likely
• 40:53
  there's
• 40:53
  a
• 40:54
  subconscious
• 40:54
  block.
• 40:55
  The
• 40:55
  subconscious
• 40:56
  is
• 40:56
  trying
• 40:57
  to
• 40:57
  lock
• 40:58
  down
• 40:58
  this
• 40:59
  whole
• 40:59
  thing
• 40:59
  because
• 41:00
  it
• 41:00
  doesn't
• 41:00
  want
• 41:00
  the
• 41:01
  person
• 41:01
  to
• 41:01
  go
• 41:01
  there
• 41:01
  and,
• 41:02
  and
• 41:02
  feel
• 41:03
  any
• 41:03
  sense
• 41:03
  of
• 41:04
  danger
• 41:05
  or
• 41:05
  difficulty.
• 41:06
  It's
• 41:06
  trying
• 41:06
  to
• 41:06
  protect
• 41:06
  you.
• 41:07
  And
• 41:07
  once
• 41:08
  you
• 41:08
  release
• 41:08
  that
• 41:08
  block,
• 41:09
  then
• 41:09
  the
• 41:09
  person
• 41:10
  can
• 41:10
  go
• 41:10
  right
• 41:10
  there.
• 41:12
  What
• 41:12
  other
• 41:13
  questions
• 41:13
  might
• 41:13
  people
• 41:14
  have?
• 41:14
  How
• 41:14
  long
• 41:14
  would
• 41:15
  this
• 41:15
  take?
• 41:16
  Or
• 41:16
  another
• 41:17
  one
• 41:17
  would
• 41:17
  be,
• 41:18
  I'm
• 41:18
  so
• 41:18
  messed
• 41:19
  up
• 41:19
  because
• 41:19
  so
• 41:19
  many
• 41:19
  things
• 41:20
  happened
• 41:20
  to
• 41:20
  me,
• 41:21
  it
• 41:21
  would
• 41:22
  be
• 41:22
  going
• 41:22
  on
• 41:22
  forever.
• 41:23
  And
• 41:23
  what
• 41:24
  I
• 41:24
  say
• 41:24
  to
• 41:24
  people
• 41:24
  with
• 41:24
  that
• 41:25
  is
• 41:26
  I've
• 41:26
  worked
• 41:26
  with
• 41:26
  a
• 41:27
  lot
• 41:27
  of
• 41:27
  people
• 41:27
  that
• 41:27
  have
• 41:28
  had
• 41:28
  the
• 41:28
  worst
• 41:29
  possible
• 41:29
  things
• 41:29
  you
• 41:29
  can
• 41:30
  imagine
• 41:30
  happen
• 41:30
  to
• 41:30
  them
• 41:31
  and
• 41:31
  we've
• 41:31
  been
• 41:32
  able
• 41:32
  to
• 41:32
  work
• 41:32
  through
• 41:32
  it.
• 41:33
  And
• 41:33
  you
• 41:33
  don't
• 41:33
  have
• 41:33
  to
• 41:34
  deal
• 41:34
  with
• 41:34
  every
• 41:34
  specific
• 41:35
  instance
• 41:36
  because
• 41:36
  the
• 41:36
  subconscious
• 41:37
  is
• 41:37
  an
• 41:37
  associating
• 41:38
  making
• 41:38
  mechanism.
• 41:39
  Right?
• 41:40
  If
• 41:40
  you
• 41:40
  heal,
• 41:41
  you
• 41:42
  know,
• 41:42
  incident
• 41:42
  101,
• 41:44
  then
• 41:44
  if
• 41:45
  102
• 41:46
  through
• 41:47
  110
• 41:48
  are
• 41:48
  similar,
• 41:49
  the
• 41:49
  subconscious
• 41:49
  will
• 41:50
  say,
• 41:50
  wait
• 41:50
  a
• 41:50
  second,
• 41:50
  if
• 41:51
  this
• 41:51
  is
• 41:51
  no
• 41:51
  longer
• 41:51
  a
• 41:52
  danger,
• 41:52
  then
• 41:53
  these
• 41:53
  must
• 41:53
  either
• 41:54
  not
• 41:54
  be
• 41:54
  dangerous
• 41:55
  or,
• 41:55
  or
• 41:55
  significantly
• 41:56
  lowered
• 41:56
  in
• 41:57
  danger.
• 41:58
  I
• 41:58
  was
• 41:59
  going
• 41:59
  to
• 41:59
  say
• 41:59
  with
• 41:59
  a
• 41:59
  lot
• 41:59
  of
• 41:59
  yes.
• 42:00
  So
• 42:00
  I'm
• 42:00
  going
• 42:00
  to
• 42:01
  put
• 42:01
  this
• 42:01
  out
• 42:01
  to
• 42:01
  like
• 42:02
  the
• 42:02
  people
• 42:02
  that,
• 42:03
  in
• 42:03
  this
• 42:03
  podcast
• 42:04
  that
• 42:04
  could
• 42:04
  possibly
• 42:04
  be
• 42:05
  listening
• 42:05
  who
• 42:06
  have
• 42:06
  like
• 42:06
  that
• 42:06
  subconscious,
• 42:07
  I'm
• 42:07
  not
• 42:08
  worthy
• 42:08
  because
• 42:08
  of
• 42:09
  something
• 42:09
  that
• 42:09
  happened
• 42:09
  when
• 42:10
  they
• 42:10
  were
• 42:10
  a
• 42:10
  child.
• 42:11
  You
• 42:11
  let
• 42:11
  go
• 42:11
  of
• 42:12
  that
• 42:12
  I'm
• 42:12
  not
• 42:12
  worthy
• 42:13
  or
• 42:13
  I'm
• 42:13
  not
• 42:13
  good
• 42:13
  enough,
• 42:13
  or
• 42:14
  that
• 42:14
  guilt
• 42:15
  and
• 42:15
  literally
• 42:16
  that
• 42:16
  branches
• 42:16
  out
• 42:16
  into
• 42:17
  a
• 42:17
  hundred
• 42:17
  different
• 42:17
  aspects
• 42:18
  of
• 42:18
  your
• 42:18
  life.
• 42:18
  You're
• 42:19
  reacting
• 42:19
  from
• 42:20
  that
• 42:20
  one
• 42:21
  thought
• 42:21
  in
• 42:21
  your
• 42:21
  back
• 42:22
  of
• 42:22
  your
• 42:22
  mind
• 42:22
  that
• 42:22
  you
• 42:22
  don't
• 42:23
  even
• 42:23
  know
• 42:23
  is
• 42:23
  going
• 42:24
  on.
• 42:24
  You're
• 42:25
  acting,
• 42:25
  reacting
• 42:25
  and
• 42:26
  overacting
• 42:27
  in
• 42:27
  a
• 42:27
  Hundred
• 42:28
  different
• 42:28
  ways.
• 42:28
  Yep.
• 42:29
  And
• 42:30
  I'd
• 42:30
  like
• 42:30
  to.
• 42:30
  I'd
• 42:30
  also.
• 42:30
  I
• 42:31
  also
• 42:31
  would
• 42:31
  like
• 42:31
  to
• 42:31
  say
• 42:31
  that
• 42:32
  children
• 42:34
  are
• 42:34
  in
• 42:34
  hypnosis
• 42:36
  until
• 42:36
  the
• 42:36
  ages
• 42:37
  of
• 42:37
  between
• 42:38
  seven
• 42:38
  and
• 42:38
  nine.
• 42:39
  And
• 42:40
  the
• 42:40
  reason
• 42:40
  for
• 42:40
  this
• 42:40
  from
• 42:41
  an
• 42:41
  evolutionary
• 42:41
  standpoint
• 42:42
  is
• 42:42
  that
• 42:42
  hypnosis
• 42:43
  is
• 42:43
  known
• 42:43
  as
• 42:43
  a
• 42:43
  state
• 42:43
  of
• 42:44
  hyper
• 42:44
  learning.
• 42:45
  This
• 42:45
  is
• 42:45
  why
• 42:46
  a
• 42:46
  child
• 42:46
  of
• 42:46
  five
• 42:47
  can
• 42:47
  learn
• 42:48
  to
• 42:48
  speak
• 42:48
  Italian
• 42:48
  much
• 42:49
  faster
• 42:49
  than
• 42:49
  you
• 42:49
  or
• 42:50
  I
• 42:50
  could
• 42:50
  learn
• 42:50
  to
• 42:50
  speak
• 42:50
  Italian.
• 42:52
  Because
• 42:52
  they're
• 42:52
  in
• 42:53
  a
• 42:53
  constant
• 42:53
  state
• 42:54
  of
• 42:54
  hypnosis.
• 42:54
  We
• 42:54
  say
• 42:55
  children
• 42:55
  are
• 42:55
  like
• 42:55
  sponges.
• 42:57
  So
• 42:58
  in
• 42:58
  the
• 42:58
  negative
• 42:59
  sense,
• 43:00
  a
• 43:00
  child
• 43:00
  takes
• 43:01
  on
• 43:01
  a
• 43:01
  sense
• 43:01
  of
• 43:01
  unworthiness
• 43:02
  because
• 43:02
  of
• 43:02
  a
• 43:03
  trauma
• 43:03
  that
• 43:03
  they
• 43:03
  suffered
• 43:05
  that
• 43:05
  happened
• 43:05
  with
• 43:06
  hypnosis.
• 43:07
  Why
• 43:07
  wouldn't
• 43:08
  we
• 43:08
  use
• 43:08
  the
• 43:08
  same
• 43:08
  tool
• 43:09
  to
• 43:09
  reprogram
• 43:10
  it?
• 43:11
  Right,
• 43:13
  right.
• 43:14
  Love
• 43:15
  it,
• 43:15
  Love
• 43:15
  it.
• 43:16
  I
• 43:16
  mean,
• 43:16
  you
• 43:16
  just
• 43:16
  make
• 43:17
  it
• 43:17
  seem
• 43:17
  so
• 43:17
  simple
• 43:18
  and
• 43:18
  so.
• 43:18
  And
• 43:18
  it
• 43:18
  makes
• 43:19
  sense.
• 43:19
  And
• 43:20
  I
• 43:20
  love
• 43:20
  that,
• 43:20
  that
• 43:21
  you
• 43:21
  put
• 43:21
  it
• 43:21
  in
• 43:21
  such
• 43:21
  a
• 43:22
  big,
• 43:22
  broad.
• 43:22
  You
• 43:22
  know,
• 43:23
  this
• 43:23
  is
• 43:23
  for
• 43:23
  everybody.
• 43:24
  It
• 43:24
  really
• 43:24
  is.
• 43:25
  Any
• 43:25
  issues,
• 43:26
  any
• 43:26
  questions,
• 43:27
  and
• 43:28
  reach
• 43:28
  out
• 43:28
  to
• 43:28
  someone
• 43:29
  you
• 43:29
  trust.
• 43:29
  I
• 43:29
  mean,
• 43:29
  you've
• 43:30
  got.
• 43:30
  You've
• 43:30
  got
• 43:31
  Peter
• 43:31
  here.
• 43:31
  Reach
• 43:32
  out
• 43:32
  to
• 43:32
  someone
• 43:32
  that
• 43:33
  you
• 43:33
  know
• 43:33
  that
• 43:33
  can
• 43:33
  give
• 43:34
  you
• 43:34
  the
• 43:34
  right
• 43:34
  answers.
• 43:35
  We
• 43:36
  were
• 43:36
  talking
• 43:36
  about
• 43:36
  it
• 43:36
  Yesterday
• 43:37
  that
• 43:38
  while
• 43:38
  YouTube
• 43:39
  and
• 43:39
  all
• 43:39
  that
• 43:39
  stuff
• 43:40
  is
• 43:40
  great,
• 43:41
  trust
• 43:41
  the
• 43:41
  person
• 43:42
  you're
• 43:42
  getting
• 43:42
  the
• 43:43
  information
• 43:43
  from.
• 43:44
  And
• 43:45
  that
• 43:45
  goes
• 43:45
  with
• 43:45
  instinct.
• 43:46
  You
• 43:46
  know,
• 43:46
  when
• 43:46
  you
• 43:46
  start
• 43:47
  hearing
• 43:47
  things,
• 43:47
  if
• 43:47
  it
• 43:47
  feels
• 43:48
  a
• 43:48
  little
• 43:48
  funny,
• 43:48
  feels
• 43:49
  a
• 43:49
  little
• 43:49
  AI
• 43:50
  generated,
• 43:50
  like,
• 43:51
  not
• 43:51
  even
• 43:51
  their
• 43:51
  voice,
• 43:52
  like
• 43:53
  connect
• 43:54
  with
• 43:54
  a
• 43:54
  human.
• 43:55
  But
• 43:55
  this
• 43:57
  far
• 43:57
  as
• 43:57
  you.
• 43:58
  As
• 43:58
  far
• 43:58
  as
• 43:58
  YouTube
• 43:58
  goes,
• 43:59
  you
• 43:59
  can
• 43:59
  definitely
• 43:59
  read
• 44:00
  comments.
• 44:00
  I
• 44:00
  still
• 44:01
  think
• 44:01
  that
• 44:01
  there's
• 44:01
  value
• 44:01
  there.
• 44:02
  And
• 44:03
  just
• 44:03
  like
• 44:03
  on
• 44:04
  shopping
• 44:04
  on
• 44:04
  Amazon,
• 44:05
  you
• 44:05
  can't
• 44:05
  just
• 44:05
  take
• 44:05
  one
• 44:06
  comment
• 44:06
  and
• 44:06
  say,
• 44:06
  well,
• 44:07
  it's
• 44:07
  really
• 44:07
  good
• 44:07
  or
• 44:07
  it's
• 44:07
  really
• 44:08
  bad,
• 44:08
  but
• 44:08
  read
• 44:09
  a
• 44:09
  number
• 44:09
  of
• 44:09
  them
• 44:09
  and
• 44:10
  you
• 44:10
  get
• 44:10
  a
• 44:10
  feeling
• 44:10
  or
• 44:11
  a
• 44:11
  sense
• 44:12
  for
• 44:12
  what
• 44:12
  this
• 44:12
  person
• 44:13
  is
• 44:13
  creating,
• 44:14
  Right?
• 44:15
  Yep,
• 44:16
  Absolutely.
• 44:17
  And
• 44:18
  wow,
• 44:18
  I
• 44:19
  could
• 44:19
  literally
• 44:20
  talk
• 44:20
  to
• 44:20
  you
• 44:20
  all
• 44:20
  day.
• 44:21
  But
• 44:21
  if
• 44:21
  people
• 44:21
  want
• 44:22
  to
• 44:22
  reach
• 44:22
  out
• 44:22
  to
• 44:22
  you,
• 44:22
  they
• 44:22
  want
• 44:23
  to
• 44:23
  talk
• 44:23
  to
• 44:23
  you,
• 44:23
  they
• 44:23
  want
• 44:24
  to
• 44:24
  learn
• 44:24
  more,
• 44:24
  where
• 44:24
  do
• 44:24
  they
• 44:25
  reach
• 44:25
  you?
• 44:25
  The
• 44:25
  best
• 44:25
  place?
• 44:26
  Best
• 44:26
  place
• 44:26
  would
• 44:26
  be
• 44:27
  my
• 44:27
  website,
• 44:27
  which
• 44:27
  is
• 44:28
  blueskyhypnosis.com
• 44:31
  I
• 44:31
  also
• 44:32
  have
• 44:32
  another
• 44:32
  website,
• 44:33
  which
• 44:33
  is
• 44:33
  my
• 44:33
  name,
• 44:33
  petermacloughlin.com
• 44:34
  and
• 44:35
  that
• 44:35
  one's
• 44:35
  focused
• 44:35
  more
• 44:36
  on
• 44:36
  relationships,
• 44:37
  people
• 44:37
  who
• 44:37
  are
• 44:37
  struggling
• 44:38
  in
• 44:38
  relationship.
• 44:39
  Okay.
• 44:39
  And
• 44:40
  then
• 44:40
  my
• 44:40
  YouTube
• 44:41
  channel
• 44:41
  is
• 44:42
  also
• 44:42
  Blue
• 44:42
  Sky
• 44:43
  Hypnosis.
• 44:44
  Okay.
• 44:44
  Yeah.
• 44:45
  They
• 44:45
  just
• 44:45
  want
• 44:45
  to
• 44:45
  sample,
• 44:46
  you
• 44:46
  know,
• 44:47
  like,
• 44:48
  different
• 44:48
  kinds
• 44:48
  of
• 44:48
  tracks
• 44:49
  that
• 44:49
  I
• 44:49
  have
• 44:49
  there.
• 44:49
  They
• 44:49
  can.
• 44:50
  They
• 44:50
  can
• 44:50
  also
• 44:50
  go
• 44:50
  to
• 44:50
  my
• 44:50
  YouTube
• 44:51
  channel.
• 44:52
  Oh,
• 44:52
  yes,
• 44:53
  definitely.
• 44:53
  If
• 44:53
  you're
• 44:53
  out
• 44:53
  there
• 44:54
  listening,
• 44:54
  go
• 44:54
  subscribe.
• 44:55
  I
• 44:55
  already
• 44:55
  checked
• 44:55
  it
• 44:55
  out.
• 44:56
  It's
• 44:56
  great.
• 44:56
  It's
• 44:57
  very
• 44:57
  informative
• 44:58
  and
• 44:59
  he's
• 45:00
  very
• 45:00
  knowledgeable.
• 45:01
  Obviously
• 45:01
  you've
• 45:01
  been
• 45:02
  sitting
• 45:02
  here
• 45:02
  listening
• 45:02
  to
• 45:02
  him.
• 45:03
  But.
• 45:03
  So
• 45:04
  before
• 45:04
  you
• 45:04
  go,
• 45:05
  first
• 45:05
  of
• 45:05
  all,
• 45:05
  thank
• 45:05
  you
• 45:05
  for
• 45:06
  coming.
• 45:06
  I
• 45:06
  really
• 45:06
  appreciate
• 45:06
  it.
• 45:07
  Thank
• 45:07
  you
• 45:07
  for
• 45:07
  having
• 45:07
  me.
• 45:08
  Yes,
• 45:08
  you're
• 45:08
  very
• 45:08
  welcome.
• 45:09
  And
• 45:09
  before
• 45:09
  you
• 45:09
  go,
• 45:10
  if
• 45:10
  you
• 45:10
  could
• 45:10
  give
• 45:10
  the
• 45:11
  listeners
• 45:11
  one
• 45:12
  piece
• 45:12
  of
• 45:12
  advice
• 45:13
  or
• 45:13
  words
• 45:13
  of
• 45:13
  wisdom
• 45:14
  from
• 45:14
  Peter
• 45:14
  McLaughlin,
• 45:15
  what
• 45:15
  would
• 45:15
  it
• 45:15
  be?
• 45:16
  It's
• 45:16
  that
• 45:17
  no
• 45:17
  one
• 45:18
  is
• 45:18
  permanently
• 45:18
  broken.
• 45:21
  Everything's
• 45:22
  happening
• 45:22
  for
• 45:22
  a
• 45:23
  reason.
• 45:24
  And
• 45:24
  that
• 45:25
  you
• 45:25
  have
• 45:26
  everything
• 45:27
  you
• 45:27
  need
• 45:28
  inside
• 45:29
  of
• 45:29
  you
• 45:29
  and
• 45:30
  that
• 45:31
  you're
• 45:31
  connected
• 45:31
  to.
• 45:32
  To
• 45:32
  resolve
• 45:33
  anything
• 45:33
  that
• 45:33
  needs
• 45:33
  to
• 45:34
  be
• 45:34
  resolved.
• 45:37
  Perfect.
• 45:38
  Well
• 45:38
  said.
• 45:39
  Well,
• 45:39
  thank
• 45:39
  you
• 45:39
  again
• 45:39
  for
• 45:40
  coming
• 45:41
  and
• 45:41
  you
• 45:42
  for
• 45:42
  everybody
• 45:42
  else
• 45:43
  out
• 45:43
  there
• 45:43
  listening.
• 45:43
  You
• 45:43
  heard
• 45:44
  it.
• 45:44
  You've
• 45:44
  heard
• 45:44
  me
• 45:44
  say
• 45:45
  it.
• 45:45
  You've
• 45:45
  now
• 45:45
  heard
• 45:45
  Peter
• 45:46
  say
• 45:46
  it.
• 45:46
  We've
• 45:46
  all
• 45:47
  said
• 45:47
  it.
• 45:47
  Between
• 45:48
  you
• 45:48
  and
• 45:48
  your.
• 45:49
  Whatever
• 45:49
  your
• 45:49
  higher
• 45:49
  power
• 45:50
  is,
• 45:50
  you
• 45:51
  have
• 45:51
  everything
• 45:52
  you
• 45:52
  need
• 45:52
  to
• 45:53
  heal,
• 45:53
  to
• 45:53
  be
• 45:53
  happy,
• 45:54
  to
• 45:54
  feel
• 45:54
  joy,
• 45:55
  to
• 45:55
  do
• 45:56
  all
• 45:56
  the
• 45:56
  things.
• 45:56
  And
• 45:57
  you
• 45:57
  so,
• 45:57
  so,
• 45:58
  so
• 45:58
  deserve
• 45:58
  it.
• 45:59
  So
• 45:59
  we
• 45:59
  will
• 45:59
  see
• 46:00
  you
• 46:00
  back
• 46:00
  next
• 46:00
  week.
• 46:01
  Love
• 46:01
  you
• 46:01
  all.
• 46:01
  Bye.