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BADDIES BOOK CLUB BEGINS!!!!!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables, Why do men have the audacity?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, fact is that that was so popular. I don't
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  Speaker 2: have the answer. I have no idea. Yeah, I actually
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  Speaker 2: have no idea. Men just have They're born with it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Too much audacity, Yeah, the audacity to man's playing.
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  Speaker 1: The audacity to moan after taking a peers, the audacity
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  Speaker 1: to leave the door open while pissing, the audacity to
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  Speaker 1: try and argue they're leaving the toilet set up is normal.
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  Speaker 2: The audacity to not make your partner finish, the audacity
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  Speaker 2: to say I just don't know what you want me
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  Speaker 2: to say, The audacity to not go up and knock
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  Speaker 2: on the door on the first day, or the audacity
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  Speaker 2: to honk that's what it is. Fuck you know, the
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  Speaker 2: audacity to cry when caught cheating.
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  Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Forty Clark Ak.
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  Speaker 1: My partner in crime is Jake Craig aka Daddy Yeah
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  Speaker 1: and Jake Yeah. We have a confession what this is
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  Speaker 1: a confession session episode. We are addicted to something.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what it is? Drugs?
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  Speaker 1: Drugs not drugs. It's a type of drug, a type
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  Speaker 1: of drug. I'm addicted to this phone, Jake, are you
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  Speaker 1: addicted to this phone?
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  Speaker 2: Very you guys are. We had a couple of good
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  Speaker 2: chats about this on Patreon actually in last couple of
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  Speaker 2: hours O of patroons, So go over there. It's five
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  Speaker 2: dollars a month to dollars seventy to twenty five a week,
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  Speaker 2: seventy cents a day support your boys. What did you
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  Speaker 2: just say, like a dollar seventeen eighty five per cents
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  Speaker 2: a day. It's cheapest chip, that's all you gotta know.
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  Speaker 2: Cheapers chips? Is that at Australian Yeah, it's got to
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  Speaker 2: be cheapest chips. Well, then know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: That's cheap anymore? Chips used to be like two dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Growing up, fish and chip shop with your mates, gold
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  Speaker 1: coin two dollars and you'd get a bag full of chips, chicken,
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  Speaker 1: saltant sauce.
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  Speaker 2: That's reminiscing anyone that's not from Australia. We call French
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  Speaker 2: fries hot chips. Yeah, that's what we're talking about right
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  Speaker 2: now is hot chips.
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  Speaker 1: A day in the sun with your mates, some hot chips.
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  Speaker 1: After all you needed was a gold coin from your
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  Speaker 1: mum or dad. You hit me in the nostalgia.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good, that's all.
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  Speaker 1: But that's not we're going to talk. It's not we're
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  Speaker 1: going to talk about today, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Those are the days. Man. We are addicted to this phone.
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  Speaker 2: But we have a solution.
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  Speaker 1: Jake, let me introduce you to the cat S twenty two. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: ring me, ring me, pretend you're ringing ring ring ring.
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  Speaker 1: Yeld's up.
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  Speaker 2: He just checking my time of recording today and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Busy, sorry, should look at this thing? So we have
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  Speaker 1: gone out and bought dumb phones. Yes, and the whole
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  Speaker 1: purpose of this is to have a weekend phone to
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  Speaker 1: get off this and unaddicted.
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  Speaker 2: Mate, look at it.
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  Speaker 1: So this weekend Jake and I are planning to not
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  Speaker 1: use our usual phones and only use this, which will
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  Speaker 1: get us off social media and everything in general.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe we should this weekend have like some sort of
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  Speaker 2: alarms set or something to try. Got something in my
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  Speaker 2: throat to try and remember to just film how we're feeling. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's a good idea, to be honest. You can film
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  Speaker 2: it on this thing. What's a mic?
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  Speaker 3: Like? Ah?
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  Speaker 2: So, Jake, here is yours.
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  Speaker 1: But before you open it, I have another confession. I
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  Speaker 1: might have fucked up why just a little bit. So
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  Speaker 1: my SIM card is in it and it's not working
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  Speaker 1: oh yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And the reason I bought these is I did my research.
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  Speaker 1: Don't open it properly yet. Okay, that's what I said before.
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  Speaker 2: Man, listen, Well, you can't give me something new and
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  Speaker 2: then expect me not to open it. I said, don't
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  Speaker 2: open it yet. Let me explain.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I want to see if your SIM card works
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  Speaker 1: in this because you're with tell S trying you op,
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  Speaker 1: this isn't working.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So the reason I bought these is I went on
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  Speaker 1: Reddit and they said you can activate them, but we
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  Speaker 1: have two solutions. Solution one is your SIM card goes
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  Speaker 1: in and it works and it's Tells and I'll just
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  Speaker 1: change my seam anyway. Option two is we go into
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  Speaker 1: Aerono and get someone to put in the settings to
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  Speaker 1: get it to unlocked properly. Oh yeah, yeah yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: so so it will work.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know it's only three G? Wait it's only
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  Speaker 2: three G? Yeah? So does that mean even if we
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  Speaker 2: want to use something, it's not going to work? Three
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  Speaker 2: G is so ship? Now do they do they still
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  Speaker 2: use three G? Like? Are the service still up? Probably not?
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  Speaker 2: If the service up it doesn't work at all, Like
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  Speaker 2: you can't even use it for a phone call.
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  Speaker 1: So I might have fucked up. So we have to
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  Speaker 1: go through those steps and if not, we can return them.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I said.
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  Speaker 1: Don't open it, okay, okay, okay, and we'll just go
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  Speaker 1: to JBI five. We'll just get a different one. We'll
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  Speaker 1: buy an actual proper shit or should we that doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have Spotify?
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  Speaker 2: Should we? Because there's these actual ones that are called
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  Speaker 2: what are they called?
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  Speaker 1: They called nothing phones, but they're about six hundred USDE.
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  Speaker 1: I felt bad because these were two hundred au D each. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I felt bad. I was like, oh fuck, maybe
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  Speaker 1: these weren't even work.
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  Speaker 2: Ah, it is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: But they're six I set it up with Wi Fi
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  Speaker 1: and stuff at home, which works. Okay, so you can okay,
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  Speaker 1: So it's like I think workable. Here's here's actually something
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  Speaker 1: I have to say, A little knocky a burner phone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that works. Yeah, this kid is gonna work. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we might just need to buy a specific SIM card.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I think the problem might be.
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  Speaker 1: And hoping if we take it out O yours can
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  Speaker 1: you're going to try to set your phone off after.
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  Speaker 2: With that anyway. Mate.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it's sexy a what look, guys, I'm hoping it works,
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  Speaker 1: praying to God's the phone, God's please right now?
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  Speaker 2: Does it just not? You can't go into anything.
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  Speaker 1: I just I reseid it too, like because I thought
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  Speaker 1: maybe if I because I put my SIM card in
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  Speaker 1: after I connected to Wi Fi and stuff, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I'll just reset the whole thing again and then
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  Speaker 1: do the whole process again.
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  Speaker 2: But it didn't work. It's full touch screen as well.
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  Speaker 2: It's a touch screen.
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  Speaker 1: It actually works pretty good. It's waterproof, air tight, waterproof. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what it's built for. It's like a back button.
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  Speaker 1: CAT is predominantly like a truck company. Yeah, like heavy
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  Speaker 1: duty ship.
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  Speaker 2: So this would be what their supervisors and like all
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  Speaker 2: the people they would supply this for their work. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I need to try this up on my actual year. Hello,
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  Speaker 2: it's sick.
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  Speaker 4: It's cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I'm hoping it works well. You can have
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  Speaker 1: a go after putting you my SIM card in. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta find one of those little things to get my
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  Speaker 1: sim card out. Oh that's a pain in the ass.
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  Speaker 2: One of the Joanne will have an ear ring or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, facts backs back so good. But I'm care to
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  Speaker 1: try and get off my phone, get unaddicted, and we're
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  Speaker 1: going to document the process. Yes where you are thinking,
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  Speaker 1: maybe we'll write notes, like don't record our voices, let's
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  Speaker 1: write notes.
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  Speaker 2: Cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, see I'm already getting healthier heard on the
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  Speaker 1: radio somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: That's grate for Well, we both been. I've been doing
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  Speaker 2: it for a little over a month now, and you've
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  Speaker 2: just started today. I bought a notebook. I need bought
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  Speaker 2: a notebook and we've been doing to do list. Jake's
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  Speaker 2: got me onto it.
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  Speaker 1: I told Jake before this that I started writing notes
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  Speaker 1: and then my notes for the day were edit Patreon
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  Speaker 1: what stimulated, And I was like, gods.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm going to forget to do that.
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  Speaker 2: But I'll even put I've been putting in mine. So
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  Speaker 2: I put the work that I want to do for
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  Speaker 2: the day. But then I'll also put go grocery shopping, right,
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  Speaker 2: change the bed sheets.
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  Speaker 1: So I got to get more intricate.
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  Speaker 2: So I'll have ten things I want to do in
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  Speaker 2: a day, but some of them take two seconds. One
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  Speaker 2: of them could just be to remember to call Telstra
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  Speaker 2: about something or call the landlord needs to be emailed
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  Speaker 2: about something, you know, just see ittle simple things because
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  Speaker 2: I forget otherwise, Yeah, you do forget.
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  Speaker 1: I don't forget, but I'm thinking it might help my
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  Speaker 1: brain capacity because I'm feeling held down. Yeah, there's too
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  Speaker 1: much to think about in there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And sometimes do you do you feel like if
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  Speaker 2: you get a message or something about something, do you think, well,
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  Speaker 2: I want to do it right now, so I don't forget. Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Has that ever happened to you?
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  Speaker 1: All the time, I'm like, and then always I'm falling asleep,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, I better write this down.
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  Speaker 2: I forget, and then you almost stress yourself out and
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  Speaker 2: see more busy than you actually are, because I'm happy
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  Speaker 2: to admit I'm actually probably the least busy personal life.
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  Speaker 2: Like I write it to do this with ten things
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  Speaker 2: to do each day, but fifty percent of its work.
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  Speaker 1: Well from the sounds of your to do list, change
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  Speaker 1: your sheets made little thing. I would literally not do
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  Speaker 1: it if I didn't write it down. Really, I would
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  Speaker 1: fully forget to do you like, just look at your
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  Speaker 1: bed and like, oh, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 2: Remember to change my sheets. I make my bed each day,
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  Speaker 2: so I look at a clean bed and it won't
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  Speaker 2: cross my mind. I need to change them. Funny, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to start doing that. Yes, start doing it, and
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  Speaker 2: it a little put jim, put Jim on it. Ok
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  Speaker 2: go Jym. If you if you want to cook, like
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  Speaker 2: some meal prep that day, put me put cook on it.
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  Speaker 2: There's little things simple and then when you check them off,
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  Speaker 2: you're just like feeling a compliment. I hear it.
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  Speaker 4: I like it.
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  Speaker 1: Good for the mental Yeah, I think it will be
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  Speaker 1: really good for We're all about health.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're leveling up LEVELO development. Yeah. You might have
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  Speaker 2: an early on in front of LB of development happening
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  Speaker 2: because you're not twenty five years Oh, I can feel it.
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  Speaker 2: I can feel something going on day cool. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: can feel it. You let me know when you tell
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  Speaker 2: some kids in the park to stop squaar and I'm
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  Speaker 2: actually planning to go for a run after this, I
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  Speaker 2: might see some kids kicking a ball where they're not
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  Speaker 2: meant to hang Okay, stop? Wait? Is full frontal load
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  Speaker 2: development accepting that cyclists aren't that bad.
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  Speaker 1: If that's the case, I never want to. Yeah, do that,
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  Speaker 1: I might get my front leve come out cut out.
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  Speaker 1: I reckon, I have frontal lobe development from my bedtime,
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  Speaker 1: and like when people play loud music around my house
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  Speaker 1: plus ten pm, I'm thinking about going over there.
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  Speaker 2: Some of us have to go to work. Mate. I
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  Speaker 2: picked my younger sister up from the airport today, right,
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  Speaker 2: I'm on the way here. Yeah, And I just asked
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  Speaker 2: how the family's going, how she's going. And then I said,
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  Speaker 2: I said, how's Ethan going. He's my younger brother, yes, fifteen,
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  Speaker 2: And she said because Joanna had just gone to Queensland
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  Speaker 2: a seam and she said, oh, you know in that phase.
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  Speaker 2: He's in a phase puberty. Yeah, And I said so,
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  Speaker 2: I said, oh, I do want to see he's in
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  Speaker 2: a phase. And she goes, yes, Oh my god. He's
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  Speaker 2: such a pain like Dad and Kate. They can never
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  Speaker 2: do anything right or he's mad at them. He's She goes,
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  Speaker 2: he slept. He sleeps in until one pm. Really he's
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  Speaker 2: on school holidays, but he sleeps in until one pm.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, what time has he got to bed?
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  Speaker 2: I see?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, he must be going to bed at
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  Speaker 1: six am, yeah, legit.
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  Speaker 2: And and so when you bring up bedtime, I was
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  Speaker 2: like trying to think of the last time I went
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  Speaker 2: to bed past eleven, especially because you don't drink. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and so I couldn't really think of a time. And
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  Speaker 2: I've been going about like nine yeah, I got about
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  Speaker 2: at like nine thirty nine forty five. Yeah, every night
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  Speaker 2: and I love it. And you know what Ethan needs
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  Speaker 2: to listen to this podcast? Yeah, you should put him
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  Speaker 2: onto it. Up, his up, his health, up, his front
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  Speaker 2: of local development. Mate. Going to bed at like six
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  Speaker 2: am is insane. I don't even think I ever did
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  Speaker 2: that when I was young, making it relatable, but I
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  Speaker 2: don't think I ever did it either.
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  Speaker 1: But I definitely didn't have the same appreciation for sleep
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  Speaker 1: back then. Like he probably doesn't know what it's like
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  Speaker 1: to feel like shit after having a good feels like.
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  Speaker 2: No, you probably he just always feels like it.
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  Speaker 1: Also, that age, you always just have so much energy,
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  Speaker 1: Like you didn't get bounced back, you didn't get hungover
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  Speaker 1: like you used to drink twenty or a million beers.
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  Speaker 1: Next day you're like, oh, I'm ready to go to
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  Speaker 1: the gym, but now six six pack of beers and
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  Speaker 1: you're like, I never doing that again.
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  Speaker 2: On on Saturday, Johanna came to Sydney and stayed at
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  Speaker 2: beth and Es and we went out for dinner and
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  Speaker 2: Johanna had one approle spirits and Beth had half of
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: a margarita. Beth was sweet, but Joanna said the next
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  Speaker 2: day she woke up feeling hungover. She's old, and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, bro, you're not sad. It's freaking crazy. She's
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  Speaker 2: like twenty seven.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just looking forward to twenty five and my
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  Speaker 1: frontal lobe development happens. Yes, yes, yes, but I reckon
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  Speaker 1: we can show a bit of our new lobal development
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  Speaker 1: in the IG question of the week. Ja yeah, buddy,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to explain this. Actually, you'll do a
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  Speaker 1: better job.
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  Speaker 2: It was your idea. Oh okay, So it was this
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  Speaker 2: argy question actually came from Beth and it started off
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  Speaker 2: as a joke and it was it was like a
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: finished this sentence, and then I started the sentence on
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  Speaker 2: the Instagram with why do men? And then everyone could
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  Speaker 2: finish the sentence. Very broad spectrum, very broad spectrum. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and I mean the answers kind of show it, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: show it from what I found. At least.
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  Speaker 1: I like that because it will keep everyone on your
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: toes because you don't know what's happening exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll do Yeah, I'll do the first one.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: Why do men always miss the toilet bowl? And then
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  Speaker 2: in all caps they wrote, it's huge.
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  Speaker 1: That's not how it works. Hey, we can actually give
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: a little bit of insight here. Yeah, it's different for
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: you too.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck.
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  Speaker 1: This might be TMI when you have a four skin
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  Speaker 1: has not pulled back like the perfect amount or like
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: in the right angle, it'll spray a.
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  Speaker 2: Little bit everywhere too.
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, So it's not about like trajectory of hitting it.
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  Speaker 1: It's like physically, like my anatomy is saying, the stream
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  Speaker 1: isn't going straight.
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  Speaker 2: Coming from a circumcised man who who literally doesn't have
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: a foreskin but still get some spray. I can, I can,
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: I can sort of relate. But it must be worse.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: For you or you don't want to know after a
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  Speaker 1: boner too, oh something if it hasn't come all the
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: way back, you're like.
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  Speaker 2: Something also something about right after you've come. Oh that
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  Speaker 2: P is different. It's like it glues it shut semi
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: a bit, and so then P has to like open
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  Speaker 2: it out story time and then it just goes. You
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: don't know what to do story time. This is fucked.
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  Speaker 1: Jake just mentioned he got back from picking his sister
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  Speaker 1: up from the airport and then came straight here like
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  Speaker 1: an hour and a half drive, and I was already
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  Speaker 1: at the studio waiting for him with just talking to
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  Speaker 1: his sister and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And he comes and goes, OK, take a piss. I
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  Speaker 2: had to piss since the airport. It's nearly two hours RNG.
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  Speaker 2: Go straight to the toilet. You hear the stream.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't close the door, and then like pause for
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  Speaker 1: a solid thirty seconds, and then he.
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  Speaker 2: Just goes me Joanna and Jake's ivisister Haley, who's like
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  Speaker 2: hell she seventeen eighteen eighteen, just like pause, like are
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  Speaker 2: you okay? It's just I don't know, have you ever
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: have you ever had to piss so so bad? And
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: you want it to be coming out with the with
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  Speaker 2: the strength of a fucking furying river with a glacier
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: running into it, But it just straight away, it doesn't
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: doesn't happen like that. It kind of it kind of
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: hurts a little bit bladders, Like halfway through, I really
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: let it go. Yeah, my body really thought, okay, we're safe,
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: and that's when it started to feel the best. So
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you sounded like an eighty year
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: old manual. You're almost orgasm in there. I would have
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  Speaker 2: thought you had. I nearly did.
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  Speaker 1: Fucking great, bro, it felt amazing al. Why do men
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  Speaker 1: have the audacity?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Fact that was so popular. I don't have the answer.
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  Speaker 2: I have no idea. Yeah, I actually have no idea.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Men just have They're born with it.
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: Audacity, it's a word too. What is born with? The audacity?
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Audacity to do anything as well? Yeah? Too much audacity? Yeah,
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: the audacity to man's playing, The.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: Audacity to moan after taking a peers, the audacity to
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: leave the door open while pissing, the audacity to try
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: and argue.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: They're leaving the toilet set up is normal. The audacity
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: to not make your partner feelings, the audacity to say
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: I just don't know what you want me to say,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: the audacity to not go up and knock on the
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: door on the first day, or the audacity to honk,
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: that's what it is, fucking hew, the audacity to cry
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: when caught cheating.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: The audacity to just hear when I'm out the front.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: Next ig question is how do we word like audacity
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: is give them to go from that? What do men
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: have the audacity to do. Yeah, something like that. We'll
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: figure something out. Yeah, that's a mental note in the
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: frontal love development. Man, we normally don't come up with
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: ideas on the spotlight this. We've got to think about it.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: That's a good point. They rolled off the song that's
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: scary and good. Yeah, scary because that's our gen.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: I feel like we're becoming like Dart Fader or something.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: I just finished Star Wars, so like I'm in my
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: era started watching Mandalorian again.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: Is it just as good the second time? Yeah?
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Well I forgot about it because there's three seasons, so
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: the first season, like, oh, I forgot about this, So
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: the first.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Season would have come out in like twenty twenty.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: And now I know it's Pablo Pascal, like you don't
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: know forever. Yeah, it's but when we first started, like
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't look up who the casting was. But now
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: that I know it's him, it's even better because.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: He's like sexy. I'm going to save you to what
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: Pedro Pascal? Okay, so you said Pablo, I was gonna
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: let it go. I didn't want someone to comment and
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: think that I also don't know it. What happened to
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: that shirt?
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: You own.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I wear it last. I wore it last right to bed. Oh,
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: I wear in to bed right. It's a great Yeah,
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: that's a great shirt from you. Yeah. Why do men
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: have birthdays because they never grow up? Oh? That's intricate
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: birthday because we want presents and we have your audacty
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: to ask for them. All right, Yeah, yeah, we just
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: want free shit. We still ate. Yeah that's all we have.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: We have age. We may not grow up, but we
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: a yeah.
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: That's it.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a difference, all right. Why do men disappear
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: like ghosts? Reappear like submarines? Like, sir, it's not a
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: stealth mission?
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Fuck? Intricate?
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, the Ghirlipop's got intricate for this one.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: That is, I mean fair. Yeah, that's what I do.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Like, have you ever No, we haven't done that, but
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's relatable for a lot of people listening. Like, guys,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: you think everything's on and it just goes out nowhere
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: for like no particular reason, and then a couple of
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: months down the track he's just like, hey.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: You wa and who gave him the audacity?
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Why do men all put chapstick on the same way that?
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: It's like, why do men put chapstick on wrong? Yeah?
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Is there a wrong way to do
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: it if it's applied? You know what I'm saying.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Is there a wrong way to do it if it
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: is applied?
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: That's too much frontal low development there, mate, I think
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: we just do it. I'm asking the heart hitting questions.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: I'm asking the questions that they can't answer. I just
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm giving the ick when I put
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: chapstick on. That's the same effect.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: I've come to a conclusion that I would prefer to
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: have dry lips then apply chapstick in public.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: The only way to put chapstick on without giving someone
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: the air is to kiss it off your girlfriend. Yeah. Yeah,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend's been wearing that spicy shit, no bro, And
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: like she just applies and then gives me a kiss
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: and she's like, oh sorry.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I'm like it's alright, it's all right, it's not I
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: hate that.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Why do men that barely fives act like nine point
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: five's s.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Elasity? I like how she said nine point five because
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: she knows tens aren't real. Yeah, she's the true stuff.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: She's a listener. She's seen things. Yeah, she's been through
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: stuff in the girl world. Actually, do tens exist? Is
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: it the same ratings as a man's. We've rated this before, like,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I can't remember the exact list it was. Again, it's
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: about personal preference. It was like nines of unicorns.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: We used like stupid analogies, like another magical creature was
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: like an eighth down to a seven.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Okay, I I do this. I hope you do it. Okay,
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: and you get it. Why do men like to just
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: cross that bridge when they get there? Like you're not
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: a troll?
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, let me I can figure this out frontal
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: load development activated. I don't deal with the problem until
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: it has to be dealt with.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Is that it? I mean to be fair way to live. Yeah, Like,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: if there's an issue and I know it's going to
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: come up in two weeks, I won't deal with it now.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I'll just wait the two weeks and then deal with it.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: It's also based a lot off of if if it
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: comes up. If it comes up, that's when I cross
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: that bridge.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: It's living life on the edge. Literally, I'm not going
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: to create a problem that hasn't come yet. I'm also
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: not going to fix a problem that hasn't come yet.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: This sounds a little bit toxic.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: Like if you've done something wrong and you're going to
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: cause a problem, Oh, I think you should bring it up.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: But if like, yeah, I'm talking about like I don't know,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: maybe hmm. Let's think we accidentally put a tiny little
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: ding in the wall and saying we need to fix
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: it or else in real estate when and give us
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: our bond back, and I'll be like, I'll cross that bridge,
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: and yeah, that's what I would use it. I was
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: thinking the audacity of men like slept or cheated with
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: a girl's like friend and in two weeks there's like
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: a dinner together. Yeah, okay to that two weeks. It's
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: an anxious two weeks for him. So the torture, Honestly,
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: he deserves your turn, right.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Why do men just fight air? Like literally just punch
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: the air.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: You eve't shadow boxing for ages.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I'm still the world champion, Guys, still the fucking world champion.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: Bod He used to full shadow box all the time.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Everyone was scared of me. That's why damn you stop
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: shadow boxing. Yeah, I don't know.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like a well, I tell
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: you a story when I was in Bali on so
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Indonesia has Silent Day. I told you about it on
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Patreon Nappy Day, yep. And the whole day you're not
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: allow to leave your villa. And we had a very
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: nice villa that like overlooked very nice rice paddies, and
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: you could see into like three or four other people's
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: villas right just like very far away. They kind of
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: look like ants.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah oh yeah, okay, but you coud see him walking around, yeah, yeah,
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: And I was looking at one of them while swimming
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: in the pool. And this guy he just went for
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: a swim over. He had his tower around his waist,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: he still had shorts on. Thankfully I wouldn't by the way.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: I saw him take his towel off, just drop it
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: and in the middle of his living room just started
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: going to down. If I wasn't in the pool, I
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: would have filmed it.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: And I was like, every single male does this, and
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: there was no one watching.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: And also here's the thing is he probably he probably
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: doesn't do it all the time. He probably does it
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: once a year, and that's just the time that the
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: the craving of the urge struck. It was a good time.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: It was whereas I'm trying to think. I I don't
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: get it that often. He went for a solid three
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: minutes he did. Yeah, it was long. He does it
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, you know, he does it a lot.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Then I was gonna say, you don't really do it. No, No,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I don't really do it. You should up that those numbers. Okay,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: now this is I do this and for good reason. Yeah,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: why do men pinch and roll? Because it's better than scratching. Okay,
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: so much more efficient, so much more effective. I disagree.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: You introduced me to the theory of pinch and roll.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Oh you didn't do it. No, I wasn't even introduced
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: to it. That was just something I thought I created
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: that I found out the whole world.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Does I scratch? We're talking about balls ACKs?
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Light is your ball sack? It's unscratchable. What do you
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: mean it's like loose skin? Yeah, like you just like
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: you don't like scratch it like a like an itchy scab,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: like you scratch it just like trying to pinch and roll.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: I don't really understand the pinch and roll technique. Just
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: where it's itchy, you just pinch and just like roll
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent. Don't do that. Yeah, I do that.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Nah.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I just like I just like move it around, like
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: put my hand on it and like move it around.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Shit, Nah, you gotta get a pinch and roll like this.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: In the Prophacy of your Own Heart, I saw a
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: lot of ones were like, why do we put our
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: hands down our pants? It's comfortable? Yeah? Actually yeah, that's like.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: I saw a lot of them too, and I was like,
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: you're asking a question that's being answered. It's hetorical.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like my girlfriend does it, and I always
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: trying to take a picture of her. She puts her
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: hands on it, like just like the top of her
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: like just like half her fingers because it's warm, and
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I always trying to staff a picture of like what
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: are you doing?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Wait, the funniest thing happened this morning. So girls obviously
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: do gross shit behind closed doors. Okay, why the reason
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: you're saying pause is not gross? Okay, it's just things
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: everyone does. H But this is gross. It's really funny.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: So in what situation would you have like a mad
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: itchy inner bum cheek and itch it?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: What situation maybe like after like a sweaty run and
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: like I've let the sweat dry, Yeah, something like that.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: But where would you be comfortable to do that, ye
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: said action.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like if you were first thing in the morning
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: in a coped with my own home. Yeah's a good place. Yeah. Okay,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: So this morning I got out of bed before Beth
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: and I went downstairs fucking around, and then Henry was
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: down there with me, and I walked back upstairs and
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: the door was open. I just I just like went
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: in and she kind of quickly jolted, and I didn't
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: actually see anything, right, she like quickly jolted. She was
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: in a pajama, she was like fully clothed, and I
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: just stick. I didn't think anything of it. Then she
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: goes and then she started laughing, and she goes, you
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: just caught me scratching my eyes. And I was like,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: and I was thinking, because that's kind of like equivalent
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: of just hands in the pants. She had butt crack
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: and she scratched. That's not even that bad. No, it's
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: not that bad at all, But it was just it
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: was funny. I was like, it's funny. I would be
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: in two seconds earlier because she would have been deep
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: into it, like fake nails and all of you know.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I bet you they scratched better too. The claws oh,
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: we don't know the feeling.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: No, why do men ask for snap at the ripe
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: age of thirty two? This is a re occurring thing.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this is a call out for men.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Snapchat should stop as soon as you finished school. Yeah,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: unless it's for the group chats.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and unless Snapchat was to pay us. I'm going
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: to say this right now. It just should never start.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: One thing I don't understand is like these Snapchat subscriptions.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Is it like only fans? No?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, just like like you're a celebrit and
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: then you have some people paid to watch this. Yeah,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: they get bank on Snapchat. Man, what like, have you
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: ever been on your Snapchat and then you got a
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: stories in an undernath.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Or no, you subscribe to a story so you see
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: someone because the stories go public, just some random guy
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: who's like making bank.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: And then I'm like, how did he start this? How
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: do you become like dude?
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah? No, people make millions of dollars on Snapchat? Yeah,
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: because like the ads that go in between. There just
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: the concept I don't understand. I don't understand why do
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: people start following on Snapchat? Like, I don't get it.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: They must just be really filming everything. Absolutely, we actually
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: were we know someone, like, we don't know them very
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: well that personally we met them before. I'll tell you
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: after you're not gonna remember who it is. But we
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: were told this person because we were got by old management.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: We were trying to get convinced to get on Snapchat. Yeah,
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: because we make money and they were probably gonna try
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: and take some of it. Yeah, that's why they wanted
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: us to do it. And so they had another talent
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: at the same agency, and they said that this talent
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: was making at least six hundred bucks a week from it. Yeah, no,
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: that I do remember exactly, but they had to be posting.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I think it was like one hundred stories a day.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Me and Jake had this conversation and we're just like
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: being relatable, Like our life isn't exciting, No, Like it's
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: like everyone else listening. Wake up, have breakfast, do some work,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: go to the gym, might record that's the exciting bit
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: of the week, yeah.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: And then edit all week. Yeah. I'm like, what are
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: we going to take pictures of my food? I know,
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: but it's like people want to see it apparently because
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: I dare say that person's life wasn't all that exciting. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I just feel like snaptats is taking it to that
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: next level when I know everyone films, I film stuff
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: on Instagram and slightly hypocritical.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know, though, I feel like if Instagram did it,
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I would actually post stories just because I don't go
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: on Snapchat. Something about Snapchat is just like childish and
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: I yeah, it's giving a bit of childish to me.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Sorry to anyone that uses it. I never maybe there
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: was this certain maybe like eraror of people that once
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: all that was rolled out, they liked it once I
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: wasn't on Snapchat when it rolled out or something. I
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: don't you know what I mean. Yeah, I understand what
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: you're saying. It is a bit weird.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: I actually have one thing to bring up that's quite funny.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, So Jake doesn't have his notifications on for Snapchat, right, Yeah,
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I don't have it off for anything but text messages.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Oh that's why I only reply to text. Okay, okay, okay,
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: good to know. But anyway, sorry, the tactic of that
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: was to keep me off my phone didn't work. I
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: still just go on my phone.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: But when I'm like editing and I need like Jake's
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: advice or something. I'll send him a text him being like,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: go on Snapchat because it's the best platform too send
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: a video, send a video.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I'll give him that. Yeah, yeah, like it's good for
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: that anyway.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: I have Snapchat notifications on, so every time I set it, Jake,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: can you go watch a video? He'll reply, he reply
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: on Snapchat, I'll get the notification and then he will
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: text me and go just just send you the snap
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: I've never broken it to you, being like I've got
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: notifications on.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Do okay, listen listen, listen, listen, listen listen because some motherfucker,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: because I remember, for a while, I think you didn't
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: know I didn't have my notifications on. Yeah, So then
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: you were like, why don't you ever reply? Because I
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: take ages? And so then I was like, start sending
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: me a text when you've sent me a stap chat.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: And I was just trying to do the nice common
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: courtesy of doing it back to you of what I
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: was getting you to do to me, because I actually
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: was just fifty fifty whether or not you had them on,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: and I was like, well, if he doesn't have them on,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: he's not going to know I reply, so I may
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: as well tell them my reply. But I love saying
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: the double like I see Jake Craig stepshauted you there
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: like five seconds later, replied, so dumb, And I'm thinking
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: you're thinking like, oh, yeah, I'm I'm doing the right thing.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I'm literally thinking that I'm just like this dumb motherfucker.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: It.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you go, why do men not wash their feet?
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Because why would you? The soap runs down.
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: It does those things a chat, Okay, most humans. Yeah,
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: if you're not in a house, you're wearing shoes, socks
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: and shoes, might I add, yeah, yeah.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Most of the time, my feet don't get dirty.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not raw dogging it all right.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: And also the only things I scrub is the upper
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: parts because that's where Beth or someone made brush shoulders
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: with me.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Is that why you do it?
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: Not for your own smell? No, I don't smell myself.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Everyone's always blind to their own smell.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: Let's break this down with some frontal lobe development. Yeah,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: like the water runs down so it hits your feet,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: but also the water pools a little bit at the
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: bottom of the shower that soaps. Yeah, do my little
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: bath bomb type thing at the bottom.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: My new shower is one of the bath showers. Am
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: I gonna lie?
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: That's got a notch in it exactly more waters just
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: sitting there.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: I don't rate it. I prefer to the other type
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: of shower. But yes, you have to like step over
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: it too. Yes, but naked like a cold day, it
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: doesn't even hang down. I remember when Cassie lived in Sydney,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: she had she had a bath one and I had to.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: I had to.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: I was button naked. You'd step over it and then
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: my head wouldn't fit under it, So I'm like half
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: squatting to get my head. I'm like if someone walked
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: in on here, I'm such an ick.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: The only thing good about mine is that you can
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: customize the high. Yeah, so it is good. Why do
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: men have the longest, prettiest eyelashes for no reason? I've
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: been told that same. I can't do anything about it. Audacity.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: The game's game, and the game is I'm lucky, all right?
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: Why do men pretend like they're not in love?
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Good question, really good question. We don't have the answer,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Actually don't have the answer. I feel like maybe because
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: we're scared of our feelings. Yeah. I think if that's
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: the answer, I think I hate it. Now I've got it.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: It's because we want to be seen as nonchalant, so
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: we're like, oh no, I don't like you. It's a
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: good point. Yeah, we want to be cool. It's a
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: good point. We're showing emotion. Men think is out of
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: a game. Yeah, it's part of it's because it's part
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: of the game, part of the chase. It's how we
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: keep you interested. Yeah. I mean we're not us, which
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: is toxic. But there we say we but it's not.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: But we're pulling ourselves in that gender. Yeah, but I
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: swear we don't do it. Christ Yeah, why do men
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: hat fish?
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: Do you know what this is? Yes? I pray to God.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: In a couple of years, you have to start hat fishing.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah. Is that why you wore today? Yeah?
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: That hairline? Hat fishing? Eh.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Imagine like a couple dates deep, you're thinking you found
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: the one, and then like date four or five is comfortable.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Hat comes off.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Big old devon patch. If I had a Devon, I'll
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: just shave everything.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: It's capable, like you can cop a widow's peak and
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: just have like you can cop a widow's peak.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: That's genetics. Good old Walt Goggins, Who've been seeing him
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: all over the place lately. Who's Goggins? Is an actor?
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: He's in The White Lotus.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Sounds like David Goggins, like cousin.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Or a white dude. He's also in that show that
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: was made off a video game, Fallout, right. Yeah, And
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: basically all these videos are coming out that's saying, like
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: what Goggins is proving that hairlines don't make you sexy,
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Aura makes you sexy. This man has a he rocks
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: this widow's peak. It's so far back, bro, it's crazy.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: At what point, like how far back until you've got
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: to shave it? Like how far are we're talking? I
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: don't know. I guess not everyone's Walt Goggins.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking like tea bag in prison Break.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: Remember him? No, it's not a good show. I've watched
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: it prison Break after mad Men.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, okay, prison Break is a show. I
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: wish I could watch that again, and I've never seen
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: any of it. That's one of the ones where like
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I remember everything, I can't watch it again.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's really good. I hate watching shows that
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: have a humongous twist in them because you can't watch
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: them again. That's what it is, right, Yeah, Okay, the
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: story devo storyline is too good that I remember it,
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: like it starts to fiddle out, you know, like The
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Walking Dead, like the first couple of seasons, but good,
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: and then like it just kept going, like how is
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: this still going? Yeah? Prison Breakslaw did that at the end. Okay,
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: So yeah, it's like they do a bit of a
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: money grab season. They five or six money grab seasons
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: because people still watch it. Yeah, whereas shows about like
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: I haven't watched Breaking Bad yet, but apparently that one
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: ended perfectly.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Breaking Bad, I reckon it's like number one on TV.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: You haven't watched that either, man.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: You've got to watch the first episode and it didn't
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: drag me in. You gotta watch it, okay, Yeah, you
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: got okay, Okay. Why do men round up when measuring height?
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: Isn't that what everyone does for That's why? Yeah, we
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: think everyone does it, that's why. Yeah, moving on, moving on.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Why do men get scared of commitment in their thirties?
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Oh god, I know the answer, because we have birthdays
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: and we don't grow up, but we do age. I
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: got two more.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Why do men blow their nose with their hands?
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: Ew?
• 35:20
  Speaker 6: What?
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: No?
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: If I was to ever do that, I do it,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: and I really let the snot like this propose not wrong,
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: and I don't want it to touch my hands. I
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: do both. And then just really, why do you do it?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Tell us convenience? I love it? Well.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I only do it when like I'm in a scenario
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: where I'm active and I'm going to go home and
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: wash myself. Like I wouldn't do it if I was
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: wearing these clothes, I wouldn't do it.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, if I if you were out for
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: a run. Yeah, when I last it started last year
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: when we were both going to do the marathon and
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: I was running during that, I would fucking snot rock
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: it like a motherfucker. Yeah, let's not like joke here.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Everyone running has like done something and it's not just
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: like sat on your side of your face, yeah.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Or your mouth has gotten all that really and it
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: goes and it is right across your face and it's
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: like a spider man's web and you're just like trying
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: to get it off you. It doesn't work, all right,
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: my last one. Why do men full stop? So many
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: people said that, they were like, that's just it, that's
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: why do men deimately? Why do they? Okay, everybody, this
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: is super exciting. Welcome to the Relatables Daddies book Club.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, welcome to Relatables book Club, where we will
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: buck on a journey reading some of the finest pieces
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: of literature.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: If you have ever laid eyes by is if that's
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: your preferred way to consume a book on, Yeah, how
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: did you make that? How the fun did you make that?
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: Secrets?
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I know you obviously did it like audition or something
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: or garage?
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: Ben? Yeah?
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Do I want to know? So?
• 37:12
  Speaker 7: I just thought I thought this is this For some reason,
• 37:15
  Speaker 7: this segment new segment of Relatables about his book club
• 37:19
  Speaker 7: is hands down the most excited Evince for a segment
• 37:21
  Speaker 7: since Dilemmas.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: All right, and I thought, we need a proper opening. Now, yeah,
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: that doesn't have to be it. I just was going
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: to come week to week. No, let's go. That's the
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: opening of Relatables Batty book Club. Why'd you like it?
• 37:38
  Speaker 6: I was, so?
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Should I add at the end of it, a court
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: of thorns and roses? Yeah, we can make a new
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: each time, we'll keep that and then each time the books. Yeah,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: the book we're reading, and maybe like the chapter, so
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: we read three chapters guys.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah j. Mass. Yeah,
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: three chapters deep. I like to call us Sarah Jane Mass.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Now I'm on first term basis. Yeah, okay, so far. Quickly,
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: I want to add, what do you think of the
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: first three episodes? Because I wrote notes? I wrote notes,
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: I did mine, none as long as yours. I've got
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: like five words, okay, okay. Initial impressions, I want to say,
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I've never read a book like this neither. It was
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: a little bit hard to get into because the dialogue
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: was fucking descriptive, okay, and then after a little bit,
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I'm like, because we have to do it for relatables,
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, let's get into this sin the groove.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: And I had to really like conceptualize the characters in
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: my head. And I really got into it, and I'm
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: liking it. I do have a few thoughts, but first impressions,
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, this is new to me, but I'm intrigued. Yeah,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: that's the best way to put it. Same I'm intrigued.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think right off the bat, my
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: mindset was like, this is for the podcast, Yeah, so
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: I want to be into it, so when we talk
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: about it, I'm into it.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 38:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: And so from just from the get go, I was like,
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: this book's the best book I've ever ever read. Before
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: I opened it, I was like, this is going to
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: be the best book I've ever read, and so so
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: far I'm loving it. Okay, Okay, I wrote down all
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: these notes, and this is more. These notes is just
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: kind of like what we know so far, and I
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: thought it might just help us both to talk about. Okay,
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: so a Court of Thorns and Roses it is in
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: this world. They live on a continent that consists of
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: the Prithian and then also the Mortal Lands. Centuries ago,
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: the High Fay of Prithian used the mortals of the
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Mortal Lands as slave labor until a war broke out
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: and was only stopped once an invisible wall was placed
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: between between Prithian and the Mortal Lands and a treaty
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: was made. Now, the mortals that we know so far, yes,
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: is the main character? Is it Favra or Freyer? I
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: think it's frey Ra.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I don't mind calling her Favra.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: She's the youngest daughter of three, the only real provider
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: for her father and two sisters. She doesn't hate her sisters,
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: but I get the sense that she's a little jealous
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: of them.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, I wasn't gonna say jealous. I thought the rest
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: of her family getting a free ride.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah. See, you know, tell me, I'm going to say
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: this because I wrote, like, what I kind of think?
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: You told me what you think after I said, so
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: that's what I think of of favor. Yeah. Is that
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: so she's the provider? Yeah, and that I get the
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: sense that because she she talks about things that her
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: sisters do that annoy her, but she's not once hated them.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: She's never once like she has said, I'm keen ads
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: for them to be married off.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: But but to me, it sounded like she was doing
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: it out of guilt because her mom died. Oh yeah,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: her mom made her her mom promise, made her promise
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: to provide for the family, even though she's not the
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: eldest daughter. And then she's like doing it because she
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: made that promise to her mum who's died. But then
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: like the back of her head she's like, these girls
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: are bitches.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Okay, that's how I dook it. Yeah,
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: and you're not wrong, Yeah, you are not wrong.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: And then the dad's just like got a broken knee
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: and isn't able to do anything exactly.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So Elaine is the middle daughter of three. She
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: seems to be a real girly girl who is always
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: cheery and in denial about the fact that they are
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: poor and.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Apparently they're poor, poor, poor. What they kept saying like
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: iron something they used to have. I didn't understand what
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: that is.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: I don't know what it was, but it was like
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: iron jewelry. Yeah, I didn't. And so the reason people
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: where iron jewelry is too apparently the Faiary and the
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: high Fay don't like it. But it's all kind of
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: a myth, right yeah, Nesta, Yes, the oldest of three
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: honestly just kind of a bitch. And yeah, it's I'm
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: getting it. She's just a bitch. Yeah. The sisters both
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: were a bit and she I reckon, she's jealous of
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Fate roll Yeah. Yeah. The father, I don't think they've
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: said his name. I didn't take it into it. If
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: they did, I said, I'm not sure they've mentioned his name.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: He has a bad knee and signed an it kind
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: of just sounds useless because he used to be pretty rich.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and so what I didn't get is like someone
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: came into the house and then it was it's like
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: debt collectors, but like they didn't explain what the debt was,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: and then they didn't have the money, so they just
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: broke his knee and then it took like two years
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: to recover. And now he kind of even walked like
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: past the k Yeah, yeah, he still can't. Yeah, he's
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: just fuck Yeah, he's just fun. And the cold weather.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: They're in winter now, and apparently the cold weather just
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: like makes it flair up. Yeah, Okay. And then Isaac
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: is that the one she slept with. Yeah, so Isaac
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: is Faara's secret lover and he has just gotten married. Yeah.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Getting the vibes that he's kind of hot but nerdy
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: at the same time, he's the son of a decently successful,
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: successful local farmer. I got the vibe that.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: What's his name, Isaac, Isaac and Farah are going to
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: sleep together and they're going to cheat. I think what
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: the vibe I get in the near the end of
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: the last chapter was that when they were in the
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: village and she saw Isaac from a distance, she said
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: something like he we don't try and fully hide our loving,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: but we do try to keep it discreet.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And so then he goes. She goes like he
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: kind of does a nod and walks into this empty barn,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: and then she says to her sisters like, I'll see
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: you at home. So I think they did go fuck
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: at the end of the team, I think they go upset.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: And then at that the last paragraph is her saying,
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: just at home, sitting around the fire, because now they're
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: back home.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: I took it as Isaac was going to get married.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: He's not married yet, and I don't know if they're
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: if engagement is a thing. Yes, So he's like, because
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: they do like families, like I'm going to marry Jake's
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: family because he has good sheep.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: Yes. Yeah. And so Nesta the bitch sister has a
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: boyfriend is a wood blogger. Apparently he's the woodcutter's son
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: and is apparently going to propose to Nesta. But Fayer
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: is kind of like, bitch, you have nothing to work
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: for his family. He is not going to propose to you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: He's just leading you on.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, he just wants that because she's apparently hot. Yeah,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: she's supposed to be good looking. They want that pussy, Yeah,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: he wants that's what the sister. The game is the
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: game in this book apparently, yeah, I know. And okay, okay,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: So initial impressions, I liked it.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: I liked it. I liked it. Very mystical, magical. Yeah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I have two more. Okay, so I'll read. So that
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: was the Mortals and of the Perthian. This is what
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: we know. Who exists is the High Fae. Not much
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: said yet except that they're evil wheeled, magic, are unkillable,
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: and pretty much just beast all around.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: With the High Fray, they have that like magical barrier
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: so that the Mercenary was talking about it.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: They're north of that war. And then also the the
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: Faiye I believe, or the Fairy. They're monsters that live
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: above the wall. Seemingly the pets of the High pay
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: very very hard to kill now I believe far at
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: the start of the book, when she kills that wolf,
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: it was a That's what I'm thinking we're going to
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: get into. Okay, okay, okay, so I think Freira, you
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: know how she just sold the wool pelts and wolf
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: and deer skin to the mercenary, the mercenary that beats
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: of a cheek with like scars. I think Freyer is
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: going to become a mercenary. That's my prediction. That, Yeah,
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: that's what I think.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: And then she's like, I don't know, do they hunt
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: those magical mystical beings?
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: M Maybe that's my prediction.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, but I don't know how she's gonna provide.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: For the family while doing that. Maybe she's gonna sunk off.
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: Wouldn't blame her seriously?
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I also, okay, I'm going sharp left turn.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I reckon Freyer. I might have some same sex like
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: funny business in this. Oh okay, you don't do some exploring.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: I like it.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I like what I'm here, and I love it all
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: the way she described the mercenary like the skin.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Tone described the mercenary like it was turning her on. Yeah,
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: the shade.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, why are you?
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: But then she went and had sex with Isaac or
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: and she's also atted to it. She's like the same,
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: she could be by, she could be by. She's also
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: she's the main provider for her family. She goes out
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: and hunts, She goes out and sells the pelts, the
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: animal pelts to get money. She does everything. Yeah, so
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: she's kind so like she has Maybe that's some masculine
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: energy as well. She's got a lot to offer. Yeah.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Wow, And maybe some men can't realize it that the women.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Would like she's hot. You never do know she's hot. Man,
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm like making Okay. I want
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: to read just for people that haven't read the book
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: and are thinking of reading the book. I want to
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: read just the last couple of words from the last
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: chapter that we read, last couple of words of chapter three,
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: which got me so keen to reach chapter four.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about or maybe I'll read chapter four,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: and like, like, I just stopped my dialogue of talking
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: at chapter three because the cliffhanger.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Man, it's fucking try. I just read this. Ah yeah, basic, Okay.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Get like a feel for the dialogue they're talking about.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Later, after another dinner of venison, which is dear, when
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: we were all gathered around the fire for the quiet
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: hour before bed, I watched my sisters whispering and laughing together.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: They'd spent every copper I'd given them on what I
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: didn't know though. Elaine had brought back a new chisel
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: for our father's wood carving. The cloak and boots they'd
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: wind about the night before had been too expensive, but
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: I hadn't scolded them for it, not when Nesta went
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: out a second time to chop wood without my asking. Mercifully,
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: they avoided another confrontation with the children of the bless,
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: which we should say something about. After this, my father
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: was dozing in his armchair, his cane laid across his
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: gnarled knee. As good a time as any to broach
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: the subject of Thomas Mandry with Nesta. I turned to her,
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: opening my mouth, but there was a roar that half
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: deafened me, and my sisters screamed as snow burst into
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: the room and an enormous growling shape appeared in the doorway.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: That's the end of chapter three, guys. The shame is
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: never fucking creepy. That's why I think she killed a
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: Fayory and like his mates are coming to get her
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: for it. Was going to say, is it that mercenary
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: chick coming back? Oh shit, is she that much of
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: a beast though, she's.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Going to come back a bill or is she I
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: want to teach.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: You, is she a high Fai and their magic? Maybe?
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Or so you want to talk about those kids who
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: are like so, yeah, what are they called?
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: The children of the Blessed? It's kind of like a
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: real word situation in this village. There's these there's a
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: cult like.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: It's it's quite hard to conceptualize all the different terminologies.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: In the start, I will say that, like only three
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: chapters in, I'm sure I'll get a swing of it.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but yeah, they seemed annoying and like they're
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: trying to persuade people that the high Fay are actually good.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, and you can like worship ship them
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: like gods or something.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And they were like we sent our cousin
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: to the wall and she never returned. She is the
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: bride of one of the high Fay, and one of
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: them is like, bitch, she just got eaten. Yeah. That
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: was the one moment I liked. One of the sisters. Yeah,
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: say yeah, they were like she's dead, make have some sense.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: It's funny because it's obviously like written as though it's
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: like I don't know, seventeen or eighteen hundreds. Yeah, but
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: then also some of the dialogues like this, yeah, yeah,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: it's just chilling.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's chilling. It's kind of funny, like bit she's dead. Yeah,
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: and so Thomas Mandre that name I just said he was,
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: he's the woodcutter sun so far was going to ask
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: her something about that, but then we were interrupted. Okay,
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: so for next episode, Okay, yeah, how many things I
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: read them? Quick?
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: How many chapters do you want? Five or ten?
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Let's do ten? Ten chapters? Let's do ten? And what
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: we need to do though after each chapter is actually no,
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: let's do this because I think we need to do
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: something to stay on top of it is let's do
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: seven chapters. Okay, just one a day basically, right, So
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: should we do if we do one tonight and then
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: up until to make it day night, just do ten? Okay,
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: we'll do ten chapters. After each chapter or after like
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: every two chapters or something, we need to just write
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: a couple of notes, some notes. It's a good idea,
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: just so we can stay on top of it in
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: our head. Yeah, because we'll read a fair bit of stuff.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: So I saw a lot of comments that were like,
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna read with you. So, yes, next episode will
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: be up to chapter thirteen. Yes, we will, we will
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: be okay, yeah, I ready listen, we will be up
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: to chapter thirteen next episode. Stay tuned that his book
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: club what do you do to Stott? Has stopped like
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: a book closed the book? Do you want me to?
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow? What a good chapter?
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: Where did Jake go? Let me call him?
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: Your call has been he did not just hang up
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: on me. Let me call him again? What the where
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: are you? Where'd you go?
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: I'm just out of the airbnb. What do you mean
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: the airbnb? Sorry I didn't tell you. I booked a
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: guest favorite Airbnb last minute. Couldn't pass it up. You're
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: all good to finish the episode, right? What's a guest favorite?
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: Their airbnb? Is that other guests of love? So you
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: know you will too? Well? That sounds fun. Where are
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: you anyway? Just a couple hours of the code and
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: yeah it is fun.
• 51:04
  Speaker 7: Our place has a pool, a big garden.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Two bedrooms, is right near the beach. Plus it allows
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: dogs for Henry. Did you say two bedrooms anyway? Mate?
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Got to run out Mummy aka Awkwards. I have a
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: deep segment. It's been a minute. It's been seven minutes, mate,
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: all right, if one minute is a week, it's been
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: seven minutes. All right. Pause? Oh you all right? Man,
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: just gotta ask that. I am good, Yeah, yeah, okay,
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: I am good. And I liked what I saw, Okay,
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: what I found? What I heard? What'd you find on
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: the radio? I saw a thing that said it was
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: titled relationship stuff. You're getting wrong because of dumb TikTok influences. Okay,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: I like that. So they give a statement and then
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: they contradict said statement, right, okay, And what I wanted
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: to do was read them have a quick chat about
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: cheap one and each one and see if we excuse me,
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: I agree with it. Okay, Hey, when you gotta go,
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: you gotta go.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: You're getting too comfortable on the pod. Last Patreon, you're farted,
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: now you're burket what's next?
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: Mate? I would like to add, you're going to be
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: pitching and rolling soon. I've definitely already done that.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: I've definitely consciously do what I mean.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: I would like to add to Patren last week that
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: that fart was added in by body. I did fart,
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: but it was silent. It was not.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: You know when you're like driving home and somehow you
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: just like end up home and you don't remember any
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: of the trip. Me inserting that fart was the same concept.
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: You had to actively think of doing it. No, no, no, no,
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: this is my natural instinct. You're always inserting fart. No,
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: just it felt me. It felt right. And you're going
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: to be funny to listen to an episode where just
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: every now and then a little fart noise came up
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: and you were just like, what is that real or not?
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: Which one was to do an episode like fake fart
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Counter and itever gets it right, like.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: They win something win first person to comment the right answer,
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: and we're not going to tell you which episode it is.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, deep Sorry.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, deep body. So relationship stuff you're getting wrong because
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: of dumb TikTok influences. They should love you unconditionally, Okay,
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: they said, no, baby, adult love is conditional, and unless
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: you are their parent, mess up and keep messing up
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: and be ready to lose them. No one has to
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: be with you and you don't have to be with them.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I really like that, Like unconditionally implies that I can
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: do no wrong. Yeah, whereas people can definitely do things wrong.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: Exactly, Like you got to think of you know, like,
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: let's say your brother you love him unconditionally. Yeah, if
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: he cheated, god forbid, cheated on his girlfriend, going to
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: not love your brother anymore for it? No, my brother,
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: he's still your brother. Yeah, but if your partner did that,
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: if your partner cheats on you, you don't keep loving them.
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: No.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Kind of weird to say someone would think unconditional love
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: is if I've never thought about that either, that's good.
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense,
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: it does. Yeah, I mean that you would let them
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: get a little way with a lot of stuff though.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I think there's like a good
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: point to catch yourself out where you're like, is this
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: something I should bring up? Like how do you phrase this?
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like in relationships you like kind of
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: oh where am my god with this brain?
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: Here we go frontal lobe come on picking and choosing
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: what to bring up and like have a tough conversation
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: about is that what you mean? Yeah?
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes you're like, because I love you, I
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: won't bring this up. Yeah, but in reality you should
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: bring it up no matter what.
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, agreed, Yeah, agreed. Yeah, that's something that I've admitted
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: to working on. Yeah, I'm getting good at it. Next
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: one is true love will be easy. That's the statement
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: who says that. I think a lot of people do
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: think that if it's the right person, it will be easy.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I think love is the hardest thing to juggle ever. Fact,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: that's why it's the best emotion because when it works,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: it works.
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: Every human is complex and has different experiences. Love shouldn't
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: be so hard that it ruins your life or mental health,
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: but it will consist of hard times and you having
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: to work together to create something beautiful one hundred percent.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: And I think although a lot of people.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: Aren't in said scenario, when two children of parents who
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: are still together start dating, I think they are in
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: is obviously best case scenario, the best position to make
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: love work, because they've seen so much hardship, but at
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, their parents still come together
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: and they still love each other, whereas you can't change
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: whatever happened to your parents, obviously, No, But like you,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: for example, you've seen two people fight to a point
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: where they gave up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well I've never
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: seen that they gave up on their lives.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: No fair, I understand. I remember, so I don't remember
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: my parents' divorce. I do though my mom's second marriage.
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: She's still with my stepdad, but I have seen them
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: have a lot of issues, and then also seeing that
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: and then the added issue of actually being a child
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: of divorce always made or just like I phrases, was
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: just like, oh, marriage just sounds like too much.
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, whereas me opposite end of the spectrum, like I've
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: obviously seen my parents fight and bicker and do all
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: that shit, but the next day or the next week,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: they resolve the problem.
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how they did it. No, he
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: I was the actually they did it. I wanted to
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: ask you, when you're older, you're married, and you have kids,
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: if you and your wife are having a fight or
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: an argument, because it happens all the time, you know,
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: like at least once a week, Beth and I will
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: have an argument about something that is then resolved within
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: ten minutes. But it happens all the time. Put the
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: seat down something like that all the time. Yeah, and
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: so you're gonna go You're gonna have so many just
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: little love tips with your partner. Do you want to
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: do it where it starts in front of your kids,
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: and you would move it elsewhere because one of them.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: Should you have an argument in front of your children
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: and then maybe move it away, But then be like, Okay,
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: me and your mum had a fight. Sorry, you had
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: to see the start of that. Here's what happened, here's
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: how we resolved it. Like, do you reckon? That's a
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: good way to do it. Definitely, that's an approach I
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: think would deem to be healthy. Yeah.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: I think if you're smart enough to recognize that when
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: you're fighting, pause, let's go solve this behind closed doors
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: and then explain to the kids what happened.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: I think that's really healthy. Yeah. But in reality, when
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: you're in the heat of the moment, you fucking did this,
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: you did that, and your kids just there you don't
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: give a fuck. Yeah, but I think that's a great
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: tip if you can do it, If you can do it, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: you gotta be healthy enough, all right. Next one, Love
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: is a feeling. What do you think I'll tell you
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: the contradiction this This person said, No, it's a considered
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: action taken daily that you choose to do. Don't choose
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: it and you lose the love butterflies are simply hormones
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: being triggered that will not last forever.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, that one I think is a mixture of both. Like,
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: if you want to get scientific, I agree with that, true. Yeah,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: But if you want to believe in love, I think
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: it's a feeling.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Same. Mostly I have times where I maybe I'm
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: alone and the realization that I miss Beth is like,
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: oh I love her, yeah yeah, And I feel like
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: it's a feeling. Yeah.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: But there's definitely like moments in time where you have
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: to consciously make decision to be in love, which makes
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: sense because love technically is work.
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to, like it's not a big thing,
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: but you want to You want to remember to maybe
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: open the door for you want to remember to tell
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: her that she looks beautiful or that he looks handsome.
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: You want it's easy to forget to do those things.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: You need to remember to give them a kiss each
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: time you see them. You need to remember to book
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: dates because it's so easy to especially once you start
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: living together. Best and I I haven't really been and
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: we've been on we have no even been on dates
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: since you're moving together. I want to get into that's
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: called housemate theory. But also it's funny.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: How you just described how you view love and the
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: actions that like scientifically are backed behind love. Yeah, but
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: other men, everything you just described wouldn't be their version
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: of love really well. Yeah, like heaps of men would
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: just be like, oh, we're in love now. That just
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: means like that's.
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: It, Like I provide for you, Yeah, like I might
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: take it to the pub every once in a while. Yeah,
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: but all that shit that's just like must be nice
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: to a lot of people.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: Interesting, Like that's your version of love, which I agree with. Interesting, Yeah,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: But a lot of men they're versions of love which
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: they consciously choose to love their partner only entails, i
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: don't know, taking them to the pub or sex, putting
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: a roof over their head and sex and paying the mortgage.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah that up shit, whereas yours was the actual feelings
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: involved in love?
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: Interesting, man, because that's what I like out of it.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I think that's what makes it beautiful. But
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: going back to housemate theory, have you heard of this
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: kind of Yeah, Yeah, it's where like when you first
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: move in with your partner, a lot of people get
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: scared that all that like emotion and like that you
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: want to see them goes away because you're constantly with you,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: like you wake up next to them, like you're twenty
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: four to seven, you're with them. Yeah, so how are
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: you feeling with that?
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: Oh? Good question, I do say, I freaking I love
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: being there. Housemaid theory.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: Interesting.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: I wonder I miss Beth when I'm not there, like
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: I miss Beth and Henry and I want to be there.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe I'm trying to think about it right like busyness wise,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: which isn't the greatest excuse. So we haven't been on
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: a date since we moved in together, and it's been
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: a little over a month, so maybe that's not one
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: thing I need to jump on. And then I don't
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: know we've been doing. I don't feel like a housemate yet,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: And hopefully it never happens.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: When you go on dates. Is it always you like, hey, Beth,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: would you like to go on a date with me?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: Or is it sometimes like you both sort of like
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: in a conversation and then like it's sort of like,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: oh where'd you? And then like the next couple of days.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: Sometimes every now and then it could be like oh
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: where do you? But quite often it would be either
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: one of us saying can I take you on a date? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: it'll be like a little like special thing.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I always ask, But sometimes it's like where'd you? And
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: then I ask yeah.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: It's like, wait, we've been on day for well, wait
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: do you want to go on a date. Yeah. Sometimes
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: I play around, I'm like, when are you gonna ask
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: me on a date?
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah? All the time. It's definitely like ten, I do
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: that all the time. Okay's my last one? They should
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  Speaker 2: just know and then it starts with their question do
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  Speaker 2: you know everything? Everyone grew up differently and received love differently,
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  Speaker 2: allows space to communicate needs and wants before you expect
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  Speaker 2: things to just happen, hugely different from the bare minimum.
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  Speaker 2: I love that one.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, I think the biggest misconception about love is that
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  Speaker 1: you should know that everything is going to be okay,
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  Speaker 1: or you know what to do or you know how
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  Speaker 1: to feel, where in reality, you change as the person,
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  Speaker 1: your partner changes. She does something, you do something, the
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  Speaker 1: world does something, and then you don't know how you
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  Speaker 1: should be feeling.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: I think that like unknowingness should be more normalized, like
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  Speaker 1: you're like, oh, whoa she like it's not doubt, but
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  Speaker 1: it's like it's just a different feeling that you're like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to deal with this.
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  Speaker 2: No, I agree. Yeah, I think that's a great tip. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: saying that they should just know. So if you're complaining
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  Speaker 2: about something and a friend of yours goes, oh, well
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  Speaker 2: he should just know or she should just know, I
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  Speaker 2: would just be like, shut the fuck up. How are
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  Speaker 2: they supposed to know? I haven't told them yet? Yeah yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: how are they supposed to know? They're not. No one
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  Speaker 2: can be to read your mind.
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  Speaker 1: And I also think it's like somewhat healthy to like
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  Speaker 1: second guest things in your relationship. Yeah, that's like human nature.
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  Speaker 2: Second guess everything.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and if you just like just know that,
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  Speaker 1: like that's fine. Like it's like not trusting your guard.
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  Speaker 2: It's a weird way to put it. But a relationship
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  Speaker 2: is kind of like a business deal. Yeah yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like, if you had a
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  Speaker 2: business and a big, old fat deal came up, you'd
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  Speaker 2: be thinking about every single aspect of it. You'd second
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  Speaker 2: guess it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's healthy too, human nature. And then
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  Speaker 1: you communicate your second guesses with your partner and then
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  Speaker 1: she like says, oh no, this hell is and you're like,
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  Speaker 1: oh that makes.
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  Speaker 2: Me feel better exactly. Yeah, yeah, but it's normal A
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  Speaker 2: second guess, very yeah. I like that a lot.
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  Speaker 1: You know what time it is, Batty sign off time.
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  Speaker 1: It is pinned at the top of this episode and
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  Speaker 1: It says, sign off an episode. I think it's got
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  Speaker 1: a picture of Jake with his arms crossed lovely.
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  Speaker 2: We are calling Bridget. Let's do it? Should I say? Bridget?
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  Speaker 2: That you Hello? Bridget? Is that you? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: It's funny and Jake for the Rolainos podcast.
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  Speaker 2: How's it going?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: Record, hello, hello, Hello, Hello. I saw you re submitted
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  Speaker 2: and said I keep missing phone calls? Is it you? Guys?
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  Speaker 6: I didn't know if it was you.
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  Speaker 2: I can confirmed last week we tried to call you
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  Speaker 2: twice and we had to go to someone else because
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  Speaker 2: you wouldn't pick up.
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm so sorry. I was in a unicort and
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 6: I was like, is this calling me?
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  Speaker 2: And I was it could be taken on honestly, anyways,
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  Speaker 2: we would like you to sign off the episode for us, Bridget,
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  Speaker 2: I would love to.
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  Speaker 6: Can I give some advice?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So my advice is that stress and all of
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: that is temporary, and if you stress too much about something,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: you put yourself through it twice at the moment.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: Well you can.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so try and you can.
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  Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah. I really thank you sort of
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: on them for the episode.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I listen to you guys religiously. Every single time you posted.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, put it on straightaway.
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  Speaker 2: I have a lovely rest of your day.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you. You tune nice to thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Bye bye.
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  Speaker 2: What a weapon. Thanks guys, we love you. Stay bad.