Latest / The Action Catalyst / How To Talk Good and Stuff, with Michael Chad Hoeppner (Speaking, Communication, Sales, Training)
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- 0:00Adam Outland: Welcome to The Action Catalyst. Today's guest
- 0:02is Michael Chad Hoeppner, the founder and CEO of GK Training,
- 0:07a firm dedicated to giving individuals, companies and
- 0:10organizations the communication skills to reach their highest
- 0:14goals in work and life. He's a coach, a professor and a
- 0:17curriculum designer at Columbia Business School, as well as the
- 0:20author of the new book, Don't Say, Um: How to Communicate
- 0:24Effectively to Live a Better Life. Michael, thank you so much
- 0:27for making the time. I was really looking forward to this
- 0:30conversation for many reasons, one of which is that both my
- 0:33parents were opera singers.
- 0:35Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, I knew that. I mean, I of course,
- 0:37did a little research about you, and that's the coolest thing,
- 0:40because you have already a shorthand vocabulary for a lot
- 0:44of this. And my parents similar, were both professional cellists.
- 0:48Adam Outland: Wow.
- 0:48Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, similar kind of artistic
- 0:50passion, but yeah, my mom, in fact, is retiring from the
- 0:54Colorado Symphony Orchestra after 63 years.
- 0:58Adam Outland: Wow!
- 0:59Michael Chad Hoeppner: In the orchestra, yeah, my dad played
- 1:00more than 50 so together they have something absurd, like 115
- 1:04years in the symphony, or something crazy.
- 1:07Adam Outland: That's amazing. You can tell your parents that I
- 1:10was temporarily dedicated to the cello until we moved to Boone,
- 1:14North Carolina, and my parents decided to relocate our house
- 1:19about a half a mile from where the bus would drop you off,
- 1:21uphill. And in order for me to practice, I had to slug that
- 1:24thing all the way. And quickly lost my inspiration.
- 1:28Michael Chad Hoeppner: Time to switch to a violin, right, or
- 1:33the triangle.
- 1:35Adam Outland: The triangle sounded like it would have been
- 1:36a good choice. Well, that's amazing. So yeah, you know, I
- 1:39can relate a lot to what it's like to grow up with music. And
- 1:42there's part of your story I was really curious about, which is,
- 1:45you know, what was your initial inspiration to become on day?
- 1:49Michael Chad Hoeppner: Hilariously, nothing of the kind. I come from
- 1:52a blended family, eight of us kids all together, and none
- 1:56pursued professional music. So I don't know if it skips a
- 1:59generation or what that would be. But I actually was focused
- 2:03on, I wanted to be a paleontologist or an
- 2:05archeologist or a marine biologist, and that obviously is
- 2:09not what has come to pass. So I didn't really get interested in,
- 2:12let's call it communications of any kind, until middle school
- 2:16and high school, and that was when I was getting into theater
- 2:19a little bit. The pivot I'll hone in on, is actually fast
- 2:22forwarding all the way until about oh 2010, or so, which is I
- 2:26was a professional actor for about 10 years, Broadway film
- 2:30and TV and but what I began to discover is that even more
- 2:33interesting than portraying characters on stage, I became
- 2:36totally fascinated by how people learn to do that activity. And
- 2:42so I started becoming really obsessed about, how can you help
- 2:46people be more more effective and calmer and more themselves
- 2:50in front of audiences? So this was a somewhat natural evolution
- 2:54into that. The biggest thing is that we really developed a way
- 2:57in which to use embodied cognition, and by that, I mean
- 3:00getting people to use their bodies to build habits. So, you
- 3:04know, like the adage of learning to ride a bicycle and you never
- 3:07forget, and we developed a whole suite of kinesthetic tools to
- 3:11help people be more effective. So they're a little bit related
- 3:14to theatrical training, but not really, because I kept hiring
- 3:18actors to try to be coaches within our firm, and they looked
- 3:22at me a little bit baffled when I would teach them some of these
- 3:24exercises. I really discovered, as an actor, half my time on
- 3:30stage was slightly equivalent to torture, painful, agonizingly
- 3:35self conscious, hyper aware of every little thing, and
- 3:39relentlessly self critical. Many, many artists out there,
- 3:43and certainly most performing artists out there can relate to
- 3:46that. And what I discovered was that if I could put my focus on
- 3:49something very concrete, it was literally the only way I could
- 3:53navigate through those, those moments of like, really painful
- 3:56self consciousness. What I discovered was that, or that I
- 3:59thought about it, the worse I felt, and the more I obsessed
- 4:03about my feelings and my pain and things like this, the worse
- 4:07I actually felt. And what I discovered was that simply
- 4:09doing, putting the focus on doing and doing behaviors, and
- 4:13just putting one foot in front of the other actually led to
- 4:17much greater healing and greater escape, deliverance, all those
- 4:21sorts of words. For many people, public speaking is equivalent to
- 4:26agony. If you give them very concrete things that they can do
- 4:29and succeed at, they can get past this agonizing moment and
- 4:34experience a little, tiny, brief moment of victory. And from that
- 4:37moment of victory, you can build and build and build, and pretty
- 4:40soon they've established a completely different kind of
- 4:43muscle memory that can help them succeed. One of the first
- 4:47profound experiences I had individually coaching someone is
- 4:51when I dreamt up this Lego block idea because he was having a
- 4:55really difficult time memorizing anything. And so. What I was
- 5:00trying to get him to do was to give himself just a moment
- 5:03longer before all the terrible self critical, berating voices
- 5:09came alive in his brain. And so I had him share one idea at a
- 5:13time and stack a Lego block at the end of each idea. It gave
- 5:17him something to do. Rather than you're terrible, you can't
- 5:20memorize anything. What a terrible communicator you are.
- 5:22He had a distraction, something he had to do, and then in that
- 5:26moment, this total miracle happened, which his brain had a
- 5:29moment to think and actually recall the information he was
- 5:32trying to remember. So it was this really powerful moment of
- 5:35kinesthetic learning. From there, I just developed these
- 5:38exercises working with with real life communicators, both very
- 5:42high stakes communication situations, like presidential
- 5:45candidates for debate prep, but also people much more, you know,
- 5:48Junior, which would be like high school students trying to get
- 5:52better at speaking so they can give a good oral report.
- 5:55Adam Outland: Yeah, quite, quite a wide range. I remember the
- 5:58first time I encountered a challenge speaking. If I wasn't
- 6:02in a good head space, I, like, my vocal cords would, like,
- 6:05constrict or something, and I'd have to, like, clear my voice,
- 6:08like, seven times. Super annoying.
- 6:10Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yes. So blushing, you know, turning beet
- 6:13red, dry mouth. There's a whole bunch of things that people
- 6:17experience that are these physical manifestations of
- 6:20feeling tremendously nervous.
- 6:22Adam Outland: And so, your process is often to try and work
- 6:26through the I don't you call it psychosomatic part, but the
- 6:28emotional response, the nerves before diving into maybe more of
- 6:33a tactical approach?
- 6:34Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, you use the tactics to unlock what I
- 6:38call a virtuous cycle of good communication. So you
- 6:41essentially fix the problem with these kinesthetic tools. They
- 6:46use embodied cognition. They change the pattern dramatically.
- 6:50And then once the pattern is changed, what also tends to
- 6:54change is all those automatic responses that are happening
- 6:57when the pattern is not going well. So there was a person I
- 7:00worked with one time, who would always blush very, very
- 7:02intensely, and I mean, instantly, she would start
- 7:05public speaking, and instantly turn beat red, and she felt
- 7:08terrible about this, and very self conscious. And so the first
- 7:11thing she said to me is, I have to stop turning red. And I said
- 7:15back to her, that's not true. You have to stop moving your
- 7:18feet. She looked at me rather blankly, and what was going on
- 7:23was that she would begin speaking, and totally different
- 7:26than how she would stand or use her body, if she was talking to
- 7:30a friend at the proverbial water cooler, she would begin to
- 7:34relentlessly shift her weight back and forth, back and forth,
- 7:36back and forth, back and forth, almost like miniature pacing,
- 7:39but very rapid, rapid pacing. At the same time, she'd be turning
- 7:42beet red, and she'd be trying to hide this by continually
- 7:45smoothing back her hair over her face, trying to almost
- 7:48camouflage this activity with this motion of her hands over
- 7:52and over again. So I actually crouched down, and I gave her
- 7:56feet some physical feedback to find stillness that tapped on
- 8:00the top of her feet, put some books on top of her feet to keep
- 8:03them anchored to the ground. And when she did that, all of a
- 8:05sudden, magically, she actually took a breath in. Her diaphragm
- 8:09dropped down. Her lungs filled with air, and her entire
- 8:13communication instrument became still. And all of a sudden, she
- 8:17spoke more slowly. For a moment, she breathed in. She got a
- 8:21better idea. She realized she actually has something to say to
- 8:25start the speech off, and she didn't blush.
- 8:28Adam Outland: Sometimes you have to act your way into proper
- 8:29thinking, instead of trying to think your way into proper
- 8:32acting, right?
- 8:33Michael Chad Hoeppner: 100%. If I could, if 1,000% was a thing,
- 8:36I would say 1,000% but 100% Yes, precisely. Actors know this as
- 8:42Inside Out versus outside in approaching of a character. You
- 8:46can see this in other aspects of life too. I mean, anyone who has
- 8:49become aware of some of the sort of approaches or focuses for
- 8:53health and wellness and mental health, you hear people talk
- 8:56about saying out loud each morning some gratitudes or doing
- 9:01these physical things that are reminding you of some of the
- 9:05mindsets that you want to keep. And yes, absolutely. I mean, if
- 9:08you want to go religious for a second, think of all the
- 9:10religious traditions in the world and how very often, if
- 9:14there's a level of devotion that is trying to be unlocked, they
- 9:18actually do physical rituals, sometimes even regimens. And
- 9:23yes, these ways of acting, and if you want to use sort of
- 9:26philosophical language, acting virtuous can unlock positive
- 9:31feelings too.
- 9:33Adam Outland: So almost an anchoring and through your
- 9:35physical actions. One of the things I just... not to do a
- 9:39perfect segue here, this will just kind of take us a different
- 9:42road. But I have to ask for our listeners, the five Ps of vocal
- 9:46variety. I'd love to hear what the five Ps of vocal variety
- 9:49are, because I've learned how important vocal variety is.
- 9:52Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, the first thing I should say is I
- 9:54did not invent vocal variety. Humans use vocal variety. We've
- 9:58been using it as long as. We're human, and there's some really
- 10:02important reasons why we use it, which we can get into but let's
- 10:05cut to your question, which is these five Ps and those five Ps
- 10:08are pace, pitch, pause, power and placement. Probably the
- 10:15first four are instantly familiar. Let's go through them
- 10:18quickly. Pace is speed, so that's fast and slow. Pitch is
- 10:22the note on a musical clef, high or low. So high or low, pause is
- 10:28exactly what it sounds like, silence, and maybe even varied
- 10:31lengths of silence. Power is just another word for volume, so
- 10:36that's loud and soft, and then placement is probably the only
- 10:41one that's not instantly familiar. Placement means where
- 10:44is the sound placed in your body. A big misconception that
- 10:49people have about speaking is that it's a totally cognitive
- 10:52activity, like if I think of smart words, I will say smart
- 10:56words, but it's actually a physical activity. It takes 100
- 10:59muscles to do what you and I are doing right now. It's a physical
- 11:03activity. I mean, even just the act of enunciation, if you think
- 11:07for a moment, even just saying the word enunciation, how deeply
- 11:12physical that is, that final p of placement, just to be very
- 11:15clear, because sometimes people get a little confused about
- 11:18this. That means where the sound is placed in your body. So the
- 11:22The easiest example to think about is, if you have a friend
- 11:25with a really nasal voice, what's happening technically, is
- 11:29the sound is only amplifying in like the nasal passages in the
- 11:33nasal area of the face. So that's if P placement, and we
- 11:38use these 5p of vocal variety to do a whole bunch of really
- 11:42important purposes, like convey meaning, convey emotion, create
- 11:47surprise, and more and but those are the five P's.
- 11:50Adam Outland: It's amazing. And as you keep going, I just, you
- 11:52know, I do actually a lot of interpretation of these lessons
- 11:55with my kids, because it's so relevant right now. Yeah. And
- 11:59you know, your voice and communication is like the one of
- 12:01the most essential things that I want to make sure they they can
- 12:04do, because it's so critical to human relations. So anyway, I
- 12:09love all of this training as a parent just as much as a
- 12:13professional.
- 12:14Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, let's talk about kids for a
- 12:16second. So we are actually in the midst of a real crucible
- 12:19moment in which how our kids learn to speak is a little bit
- 12:23under threat because they spend so much time looking at these
- 12:27devices right here. And for those of you who are just
- 12:29listening, of course, I'm holding on my cell phone and
- 12:32because they're not actually kind of learning interpersonal
- 12:35behavior and interpersonal dynamic in the same three
- 12:39dimensional, 24/7, kind of way that previous generations did.
- 12:42It's fraught. It's in a little bit of danger right now, and I
- 12:45applaud you for taking your one and a half year old's
- 12:48development seriously, because it matters, and we take these
- 12:51skills for granted. We should not.
- 12:54Adam Outland: Hmm. I don't know how much international work you
- 12:56do, but do you find change based on the geography someone's grown
- 13:01up in, like a German person who's working on public
- 13:05speaking, versus someone who's French or Korean? How that
- 13:08impacts those five Ps?
- 13:10Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah, for sure. So to answer the question,
- 13:13yes, I've worked with folks on most of the continents of the
- 13:18globe and all kinds of different walks of life. I for many years
- 13:22when I lived in New York City, I taught at Columbia Business
- 13:24School in the PhD program. And a lot of the folks who get their
- 13:27PhDs at Columbia speak English as a second or third or fourth
- 13:31language. I coach in the startup world a lot, and a lot of the
- 13:34founders who are building companies in the US speak
- 13:37English as a second or third or fourth language, and oftentimes
- 13:41hail from somewhere else. And there's two ways I would suggest
- 13:44we think about this. On the one hand, there are the core things
- 13:48that humans do, and we do them all over the world, and that's
- 13:51partly because we are communication instruments.
- 13:54Communication is not a side card of being human. We built this
- 13:58incredible system of spoken language to be able to team up
- 14:03and gain an evolutionary advantage over somebody else or
- 14:07some other creatures, or stop the marauding, you know, cave
- 14:10bears or whatever it is. So this is just part of being human. But
- 14:14then on top of that core, there is endless complexity with how
- 14:18different languages work. So yes, there are these these
- 14:21changes and these differences all over the place. And then
- 14:24oftentimes, what you're trying to do, though, no matter what
- 14:26culture, is not unlock how an American would speak, or how a
- 14:30German would speak, or how a Brit would speak, but you're
- 14:33trying to unlock how that person would speak, but crucially, when
- 14:40they are not thinking about themselves and how they speak,
- 14:44but thinking about the person they're trying to reach, and all
- 14:47of what we think of as the behaviors of presence or the
- 14:50behaviors of confidence, that means enunciation and eye
- 14:53contact and gestures and all the rest these come out flawlessly
- 14:58when we're in that. Activity of really, truly trying to reach
- 15:02the other person. So no matter the culture that I'm working in,
- 15:05that's what I'm trying to help people unlock.
- 15:07Adam Outland: So important. What do you see as the bigger
- 15:10challenges as it relates to vocal, not just vocal variety,
- 15:14but speaking in general, for salespeople? What are some of
- 15:16the common concepts you end up leaning into the most with
- 15:20people who are in that profession?
- 15:22Michael Chad Hoeppner: I'm going to offer a tactical suggestion
- 15:24first, because it's so useful and so relevant to selling, and
- 15:28you can do it today and make your life better right away. I
- 15:31teach an exercise in a skill called linguistic Well,
- 15:34actually, sorry, the exercise is called finger walking. The skill
- 15:37is called linguistic precision, which means, essentially, are
- 15:40you choosing words, or are words just choosing you? So the
- 15:44exercise is simply when you're practicing asking questions and
- 15:48getting better at doing that, you walk your fingers across a
- 15:51table or desk, choosing each and every single word that comes out
- 15:55of your mouth. The finger steps are the equivalent of the act of
- 16:00choosing words. So in a sense, you're walking your ideas across
- 16:04the table. Now that's the skill, but the way to apply it, if
- 16:08you're in a selling situation, is to practice asking single
- 16:12questions with linguistic precision. There's no filler, no
- 16:16non fluencies, and then at the end of the question, draw and an
- 16:21imaginary question mark in silence. Now this is really
- 16:25powerful for people in a sales role, because what you'll see is
- 16:27that oftentimes they're great at chit chat, they're great at
- 16:30rapport building, they're really good at asking questions to
- 16:33learn more about the person. And then they get to the crucial
- 16:36moment of asking for a next meeting or asking for the
- 16:39business, and their communication falls apart, and
- 16:41they ask like, nine questions in a row, and they talk really
- 16:43quickly and a bunch of samples, and they go down, they back up,
- 16:44they don't let it and all of it crumbles. And so you're
- 16:48practicing this very singular skill of asking one question
- 16:52with linguistic precision and then tolerating relaxed silence
- 16:55at the end, so that you build the muscle of saying something
- 16:58like, how would you like to move this forward? When would you
- 17:02like to meet again? Is there anyone else that we should loop
- 17:04into this conversation? And these kind of, what we call, you
- 17:07know, closing questions, and very often, sales folks will
- 17:11have a moment or two within interactions that feel really
- 17:15fraught for them. And if they can build that skill single
- 17:18questions with linguistic precision and relax silence at
- 17:21the end. It really helps them.
- 17:24Adam Outland: That's great. That's a great technician way to
- 17:26look and reverse engineer successful communication. You
- 17:30have this engineer mind about you that's allowed you to
- 17:32extrapolate the tools to make someone a good speaker.
- 17:36Michael Chad Hoeppner: Yeah. You ask really insightful
- 17:38questions. I don't actually relate to having much of an
- 17:40engineer's mind, I think I have much creative artists mind, or
- 17:43even an inventor's mind. Creativity is the thing that I'm
- 17:47pretty much addicted to. What I would say is that the
- 17:51engineering concept is right in a certain way, which is I became
- 17:55frustrated with how stymied people were by really bad
- 17:59advice. And I don't mean to say bad advice, like they're being
- 18:01sabotaged by people, but bad advice sounds like this. Just be
- 18:05yourself. Just be conversational, Just be natural.
- 18:09These sorts of things are intended to relax the the person
- 18:12you're talking to, but they don't, because all they do is
- 18:15make the person think more about themselves. And they're not
- 18:18relaxed. They don't feel like themselves. They don't feel
- 18:21conversational. They feel perhaps rocked with self
- 18:26consciousness, as I became interested, like, how can you
- 18:29get in there when someone has been really messed up, and
- 18:34engineer them for greater success? By setting up their
- 18:38physical and their vocal communication instrument for
- 18:40success. I helped set them up for success, but it's them who's
- 18:44doing it when they have like an engineer, set themselves up, set
- 18:48their physical and vocal communication instruments up for
- 18:52success. All of a sudden, their brain is dazzling, and it does
- 18:55what it's incredibly good at, which is thinking about ideas
- 18:58now that it's not totally jammed up with anxiety and and
- 19:03multitasking of Don't be nervous. Don't look like an
- 19:05idiot. Don't look like a fraud. Don't mess up. Don't all of a
- 19:08sudden, brilliant things come out of their mouth. And if we
- 19:11think of part of speaking as this act of being present and
- 19:16being focused on the other person, you can't be present if
- 19:20you are thinking about all the stuff you forgot, or anxious
- 19:24about all the stuff you're about to forget. So very often,
- 19:27written materials, although intended to be a support, very
- 19:31often, they cannot be that helpful, because it puts you in
- 19:35the past or the future endlessly. And the act of
- 19:39speaking is a physical one. You're not going to be giving
- 19:42someone a PDF with a bunch of bullets on it. You are turning
- 19:45air into sound and then sound into words. You're doing it real
- 19:48time, and it's being received real time. So anything you can
- 19:53do to help yourself be in the present, as opposed to, you
- 19:56know, those two other time zones that are not that helpful can be
- 20:00powerful. Because here's the funny thing, I've actually
- 20:02helped many people experience that, that wow, I'm better when
- 20:06I'm not quite so anchored to my notes. The hard part is getting
- 20:11them to have the trust and faith to actually try and test it
- 20:15without it, and kind of get their sea legs with that,
- 20:18because it it takes some bravery of letting go.
- 20:21Adam Outland: Yeah, I love that. And I, you know, I'd have to
- 20:24include this question, because I think of sales and acting and
- 20:28how they're similar in so many ways. In sales, I'm very clear
- 20:32you have a sales script, there's a purpose in remembering it,
- 20:36because the words do matter to an extent, but not so much to
- 20:39the extent that it affects the emotion of the conversation in
- 20:43acting. This is the part in the world, I don't know, and so I
- 20:46would love your thoughts. I don't know how often the
- 20:49directors so hard on getting the exact words where you have to
- 20:53get caught up in the words, or if you don't rehearse enough to
- 20:55know all the paragraphs of information, it creates that
- 20:58trauma cycle of, am I, you know, saying the right line, or if
- 21:01you're allowed to be emotionally engaged, how does that? How does
- 21:05that work in acting, and what's your take on scripts versus no
- 21:09scripts in communication?
- 21:10Michael Chad Hoeppner: So you have to promise to interrupt me
- 21:13a lot in this next answer, okay, because that's a big, juicy
- 21:17question, and we could do a whole separate podcast based on
- 21:20that question. Okay, it depends on the version of stage
- 21:24performance improv, there's no script. There may be a couple
- 21:28like pretenses or a couple starting points, but then
- 21:31there's no script at all. That's part of the delight. Sort of
- 21:35like watching jazz musicians improvise, you get to watch
- 21:38people impromptu come up with these hilarious and amazing and
- 21:42heartfelt real time scripts. It's totally astonishing. On the
- 21:46other side, you've got classical texts, Shakespeare, Chekhov,
- 21:50things like that, where oftentimes the script is so well
- 21:53known that if you really had a line club, some of the audience
- 21:57might Hey, he forgot that word in general, stage acting is
- 22:01required to be a bit more precise than film acting in a
- 22:05couple different ways. So film acting, as long as you're not
- 22:08having to do a bunch of takes in which lines are are piggybacking
- 22:12100% on each other, then you may have some freedom, and the
- 22:16director may want to take just the best take. So an example of
- 22:20this is, if you're watching serial drama, law and order,
- 22:24those sorts of things, there's quite a bit of latitude with the
- 22:28script. Other times, there's not, and it also depends on the
- 22:31playwright or the screenwriter. So there really is some nuance
- 22:35there. But the place I want to do a tiny, deep dive, though, is
- 22:39actually about this idea of scripting stage actors. What
- 22:43they're striving for is the exact opposite, that it's not a
- 22:47activity of trying to remember and a burden of mental memory,
- 22:50but rather that the process of learning this language actually
- 22:54informs them, and so these words become irreplaceable. These
- 22:58words actually teach them who the character is. And if they
- 23:02really get behind the words. They actually teach them what
- 23:06the action often is. I mean, as an example, here's a piece of
- 23:09poetry I question things and do not find one that will answer to
- 23:14my mind and all the world appears unkind. Now, if you
- 23:17listen to that, a bunch of those words have final voiced
- 23:20consonants. Question things do not find one that will answer to
- 23:24my mind, final voice consonants just mean consonants that have
- 23:28vocal tone, de ne, those sorts of things. So if you really get
- 23:32behind that language, it begins to activate a sense of
- 23:36onomatopoeia, which is the word sounds like the thing that it
- 23:40is. And all those final voice consonants that can be drawn out
- 23:43actually give you some indication of what the character
- 23:47is doing, which is essentially searching and trying to squeeze
- 23:51every possible answer, because their answer list, they cannot
- 23:55find the thing they're looking for. So I don't mean to get too
- 23:59you know, dramatic or artsy with this whole thing, but actors
- 24:03often rely on the words. It's not trying to master them all,
- 24:06and it's a burden. No, those words are their tool, their
- 24:10superpower, in many ways. Now, what the heck does that have to
- 24:14do with public speaking? The same thing, which is, if you
- 24:17have a script, first of all, do you have to learn a script?
- 24:21Learn it physically and learn it with variety. Don't rehearse the
- 24:25same way. Every time, don't rehearse the same way. Every
- 24:29time, don't rehearse the same way. Every time don't rehearse
- 24:33the same way. Every time you're memorizing vocal variety, you're
- 24:37not memorizing the ideas. So move around in space, walk like
- 24:40an elephant, slowly, big, swinging arms through the room,
- 24:44saying the words and the next time, whisper it into your phone
- 24:48like you're at a library, trying not to get scolded by the
- 24:52librarian. So you're learning the ideas, but you're not
- 24:55memorizing vocal. Variety also get to know the ideas in what
- 24:59you're sharing, not just the words in the page. In fact, I
- 25:03often suggest that people write out their scripts like a poem.
- 25:07Make it look how the ideas make sense, not just how the word
- 25:10processor has divvied it up on the page. That has nothing to do
- 25:14with the ideas and the lines. It just has to do with how many
- 25:18characters fit on a line of text. It's a big topic. It's a
- 25:22worthwhile question you ask. But I also don't want to give you a
- 25:26whole soap opera on this one question.
- 25:29Adam Outland: No. I mean, it was great, and you've, you've split
- 25:31up the little pieces of nuggets of wisdom really well. Michael,
- 25:36I hate to even in this interview, because I feel like
- 25:38we're just scratching the surface. There's like another
- 25:40three hours in us. Where can everybody go to learn more about
- 25:44your work?
- 25:45Michael Chad Hoeppner: Sure, three simple places for the
- 25:47book. It's just DontSayUm.com just the title of the book .com.
- 25:53Don't say um.com, my company's name is GK training, and that's
- 25:58the same URL. G K training.com and then you can find me on
- 26:02LinkedIn. Michael Chad Hoeppner.
- 26:05Adam Outland: Wonderful. Well, I will be looking at your
- 26:07resources for sure, and I'm sure a lot of our listeners will be
- 26:11as well. Thank you so much for joining us.
- 26:13Michael Chad Hoeppner: Thank you for the interview, and thank you
- 26:15for the really interesting questions. I know that can also
- 26:18sound like lip service, like every guest is like, what a
- 26:21great question. You're so smart. But really fun to get to answer.