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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome back to Honey Badger Radio. My
- 0:03Speaker 1: name is Brian, who with Allison, and this is maintaining
- 0:05Speaker 1: frame twelve toxic Manisphere beliefs about women that are actually true.
- 0:12Speaker 1: We're going to be looking at a listical that was
- 0:16Speaker 1: put out there by MSN dot com and it is
- 0:20Speaker 1: called twelve toxic beliefs about women Men develop thanks to
- 0:27Speaker 1: the Manisphere.
- 0:29Speaker 2: And that's us yep, that's us.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Yep. There's basically anyone online talking about relationships in a
- 0:36Speaker 1: way that is like pragmatic or based on science or something.
- 0:41Speaker 2: It's anyone online addressing men as if they're a legitimate
- 0:45Speaker 2: category of being. Let's be right, So it's not just relationships,
- 0:51Speaker 2: it's also fitness advice. Any acknowledgment that men have a
- 0:55Speaker 2: right to exist is part of the manosphere because men
- 1:00Speaker 2: should live in a permanent state of proving their right
- 1:02Speaker 2: to exist by submitting to institutional and feminist narratives. That's
- 1:08Speaker 2: how it works, guys. So get those uh, get those
- 1:12Speaker 2: orders and start submitting to them.
- 1:15Speaker 1: Yeah all right, okay, so and go ahead and do
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- 2:13Speaker 2: And yeah, So what I wanted to do with this
- 2:15Speaker 2: article is we're gonna go through each one and I
- 2:21Speaker 2: have looked at or I've found essentially the opposite sex.
- 2:29Speaker 2: So you just switched the genders in each comment and
- 2:33Speaker 2: see how it maps to feminist orthodoxy. Right, So the
- 2:38Speaker 2: question is do each of these toxic manosphere beliefs about women?
- 2:44Speaker 2: Are they popular normalized feminist orthodoxy? Do they exist as
- 2:50Speaker 2: you know, if you just swap the genders. Are they
- 2:52Speaker 2: basically things that feminists assert and even base policy and
- 2:57Speaker 2: expectations and what they say about the on. So the
- 3:01Speaker 2: real question here is are these supposed toxic menisphere assertions
- 3:08Speaker 2: about women when you switch the genders and you find
- 3:12Speaker 2: out that this is actually a very common feminist assertion
- 3:14Speaker 2: and a very common assertion about men by women online,
- 3:19Speaker 2: are they still toxic? Are they still seen as toxic?
- 3:22Speaker 2: Are they more toxic on a fundamental level? And then
- 3:26Speaker 2: the other thing I'm going to we're going to look
- 3:28Speaker 2: at is how much when you when you switch the
- 3:31Speaker 2: genders and map this on to feminist orthodoxy, how much
- 3:35Speaker 2: are these attitudes towards the opposite sex worth in real money?
- 3:39Speaker 2: I give you, guys approximation of how much feminism is
- 3:42Speaker 2: making off of the reverse gendered truth these beliefs about
- 3:47Speaker 2: men that these represent. Am I am I conveying what
- 3:51Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm saying that we're gonna switch the genders
- 3:53Speaker 2: and look at what's actually being said about men, not
- 3:55Speaker 2: just what the manosphere is allegedly saying about women. And
- 3:59Speaker 2: then look at the each of these and look at
- 4:03Speaker 2: the actual thing that normal people say, and whether like,
- 4:10Speaker 2: we'll take these straw men and we'll turn them into
- 4:14Speaker 2: the things that are actually being said, and we'll look
- 4:17Speaker 2: at how reasonable those things are. So those are the
- 4:19Speaker 2: three things that I plan, hopefully you'll enjoy that. I
- 4:24Speaker 2: really get a kick out out of finding how much
- 4:27Speaker 2: each of these feminist misinterest statements about men is worth
- 4:32Speaker 2: in the in the greater economy. That always, that always
- 4:35Speaker 2: is very illuminating. But yeah, let's say, do you want
- 4:38Speaker 2: to start with the first one?
- 4:39Speaker 1: Sure, well, this is the introduction, so this is not
- 4:42Speaker 1: the first list. This is introducing the list. So let's introduced.
- 4:46Speaker 1: It's a thirteen slide. So do you guys remember when
- 4:49Speaker 1: you were in well no, you're probably all too young
- 4:51Speaker 1: when the teacher will bring out the slide machine and
- 4:55Speaker 1: you had to watch slides, but you were excited, likelies
- 4:58Speaker 1: that would go with the record. They play like a record,
- 5:02Speaker 1: and then he would like hit the slides when there
- 5:04Speaker 1: would be like a sound. You just remember that. I
- 5:06Speaker 1: remember that anyway.
- 5:09Speaker 2: I think I was. I just remember them popping a
- 5:12Speaker 2: vvc R tape in the VCR player, and then we'd
- 5:16Speaker 2: watch something that. Yeah, that was when I got hold right, Okay,
- 5:19Speaker 2: so the slides came first.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they would do the slide machine and there
- 5:24Speaker 1: would be like a record or a cassette tape that
- 5:26Speaker 1: would accompany it if you were like reading or we
- 5:30Speaker 1: were looking at a story or something, right, Like I
- 5:33Speaker 1: remember I read Frankenstein, but I also watched Frankenstein on
- 5:37Speaker 1: like a slide machine. But anyway, I digress. Okay, So
- 5:42Speaker 1: we're gonna look at thirteen slides. Slide number one The
- 5:46Speaker 1: manusphere picture related. The manisphere has become a bit of
- 5:49Speaker 1: a digital rabbit hole, and it's remarkably easy for men
- 5:53Speaker 1: to fall down it without realizing how much it's warping
- 5:56Speaker 1: their view of the world. You've likely I've seen the
- 6:00Speaker 1: clips of men in expensive suits talking about high value
- 6:03Speaker 1: individuals and female nature, as if they've cracked some secret
- 6:06Speaker 1: code to life. On the surface, it's often sold to
- 6:09Speaker 1: self improvement or harsh truths, but underneath the gym talk
- 6:13Speaker 1: and the financial advice, there's a steady drip of ideas
- 6:16Speaker 1: that turn women into opponents rather than partners. Do you
- 6:20Speaker 1: want to say anything to that before I get in
- 6:21Speaker 1: another paragraph of the.
- 6:22Speaker 2: Intro opponents rather than partners. Okay, so what what where
- 6:29Speaker 2: does do Where do we situate that whole men oppress
- 6:32Speaker 2: women for their own benefit? Where do we situate that
- 6:36Speaker 2: narrative in the promoting men and women as partners versus
- 6:42Speaker 2: mortal enemies? Where do we situate that? Right? And I
- 6:46Speaker 2: know people are like, well, but that's the truth, though
- 6:48Speaker 2: it isn't. It's never been proven. There is no science
- 6:51Speaker 2: that supports the feminist assertion that men oppress women for
- 6:55Speaker 2: their own benefit. None. And they will say, well, there
- 6:59Speaker 2: are men in yeah, but those men in charge don't
- 7:02Speaker 2: use the power that they have to protect and provide
- 7:05Speaker 2: for other men. See see how that works. So that's
- 7:08Speaker 2: never been proven. So we have this narrative, this ubiquitous narrative, right,
- 7:14Speaker 2: men oppress women for their own benefit? And I don't
- 7:18Speaker 2: know about you, but I think that creates a lot
- 7:21Speaker 2: of resentment between men and women, perhaps even an attitude
- 7:25Speaker 2: that men are women's enemies. Hey, yeah, and now we're
- 7:29Speaker 2: talking about how men are embracing attitudes that make women
- 7:35Speaker 2: enemies of them. Well, wasn't that already established? Like why
- 7:39Speaker 2: didn't we already establish that seventy five years ago with
- 7:42Speaker 2: women's studies programs, We've already we're living in the post
- 7:46Speaker 2: men and women are mortal enemies era. And it wasn't
- 7:50Speaker 2: men online that established this because there was no online
- 7:55Speaker 2: seventy five years ago. So how how could the there
- 7:58Speaker 2: was no there was no all line men isphere seventy
- 8:01Speaker 2: five years ago when academia collectively decided that men and
- 8:06Speaker 2: women were Sorry men like, women are never men's enemies,
- 8:10Speaker 2: of course, They're just angels constantly being crushed by the
- 8:16Speaker 2: forces of male malfeasance. So but men are definitely the
- 8:21Speaker 2: enemies of women. I think we established that. Yeah, but
- 8:24Speaker 2: now now we're going to be talking about how men
- 8:26Speaker 2: did that? All right, Yeah, let's go.
- 8:31Speaker 1: If anything, the manisphere are just essentially informed men that
- 8:36Speaker 1: women can see them as their enemy and that they
- 8:40Speaker 1: should like prepare themselves. Yeah, because men are most men
- 8:45Speaker 1: are going into encounters and relationships with women, assuming that
- 8:51Speaker 1: women don't like that. They haven't been propagandized for seventy
- 8:56Speaker 1: five years to fear and hate them. And it doesn't
- 8:58Speaker 1: mean that every woman's effective by those things. But the
- 9:01Speaker 1: manispeer is just letting them know. You know, these people
- 9:06Speaker 1: have been conditioned to hate you and fear you, and
- 9:09Speaker 1: they may they may not, but they may.
- 9:12Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I mean, and I mean honestly, the women
- 9:15Speaker 2: who who evade this probably are outliers of particularly stout disposition,
- 9:23Speaker 2: shall we say, because this is this is I mean,
- 9:27Speaker 2: you don't have to even talk to the manisphere. Just
- 9:31Speaker 2: look at how women talk about men on Twitter, like
- 9:37Speaker 2: it's rare to find women, it's rarely. We're actually supportive
- 9:43Speaker 2: rather than overtly hostile. Okay, all right.
- 9:47Speaker 1: The problem is that these beliefs aren't just harmless opinions,
- 9:50Speaker 1: they're toxic scripts that make real, healthy connection almost impossible.
- 9:55Speaker 1: Instead of learning how to build a life with someone,
- 9:58Speaker 1: men are being taught how to manage or outsmart them,
- 10:01Speaker 1: which only leads to a cycle of loneliness and resentment.
- 10:05Speaker 1: These twelve beliefs on how the manisphere, bit by bit
- 10:09Speaker 1: completely destroys a man's ability to see women as actual
- 10:11Speaker 1: human beings, proving that the red pill is often just
- 10:16Speaker 1: a recipe for ay a very bitter and isolated life.
- 10:20Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Like Brian was saying, the manisphere is making
- 10:28Speaker 2: men aware, and I think actually the next the latest
- 10:31Speaker 2: generation is very much aware that women regard men as
- 10:35Speaker 2: their enemy. I think there's no pretense in that generation anymore.
- 10:40Speaker 2: They're aware of that, like the young men of Generation Z.
- 10:44Speaker 2: And if they're not, they're not really paying attention. But
- 10:48Speaker 2: the manisphere is simply saying that, it's simply saying, this
- 10:52Speaker 2: is the effects of this narrative on women, right, that
- 10:56Speaker 2: they are going to regard you as something that needs
- 10:59Speaker 2: to be managed as a man like that. Women need
- 11:02Speaker 2: to manage you because you are inherently evil, because you
- 11:06Speaker 2: are inherently going to oppress her, so she needs to
- 11:09Speaker 2: be constantly on guard in a relationship with you. And
- 11:13Speaker 2: the manosphere is saying, well, this is the likely outcome
- 11:15Speaker 2: of these messages on women and their behavior towards you,
- 11:19Speaker 2: and maybe don't take it personally. Yeah, when she implodes
- 11:24Speaker 2: your relationship because she's constantly assumed the worst about your
- 11:29Speaker 2: behavior and your expectations, maybe don't take it so personally
- 11:33Speaker 2: that you regard yourself as a burden that needs to
- 11:36Speaker 2: be removed off the earth. Right, that kind of messaging.
- 11:40Speaker 2: But no, that's not allowed. We can continue, we can
- 11:44Speaker 2: continue to promote the idea that men are women's enemies.
- 11:47Speaker 2: But we can't recognize that promoting the idea that men
- 11:50Speaker 2: are women's enemies causes women to treat men like their enemy.
- 11:56Speaker 2: That's evil manisphere talk. I'm just okay. I know this
- 12:01Speaker 2: is a bit of an aside, but I just recently
- 12:04Speaker 2: learned that there is a hen house of feminist academics
- 12:09Speaker 2: who are writing papers about me. I'm probably you too, Brian, Yeah, yeah,
- 12:15Speaker 2: they're writing papers about how I am a representation of
- 12:18Speaker 2: how patriarchy captures women. Of course, just there's just one, like,
- 12:23Speaker 2: the only one woman, so patriarchy is not very effective.
- 12:26Speaker 2: But you know that that's I'm evidence that patriarchy is
- 12:31Speaker 2: a backlash. Apparently, I know that there's plenty more, Like
- 12:34Speaker 2: there's other people who are probably being written about as well.
- 12:37Speaker 2: It's just a real startling to realize that, no, they
- 12:40Speaker 2: have a you could have a syllabus on me about
- 12:44Speaker 2: how I am captured by patriarchy and have no thoughts
- 12:46Speaker 2: of my own and I'm simply a parrot of someone
- 12:50Speaker 2: I don't know who.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I just thought you, how could you believe
- 12:54Speaker 1: what you believe? Why would you go up against your
- 12:57Speaker 1: own best self interest? Blah blah, blah.
- 13:00Speaker 2: You know, you know, I don't think it's in my
- 13:04Speaker 2: self interest any of this. Like, I mean, I didn't
- 13:07Speaker 2: go into it because I was pure. I was like
- 13:09Speaker 2: motivated by self interest. But I just at the end
- 13:11Speaker 2: of like twenty years looking at this stuff, I don't
- 13:14Speaker 2: think it benefits women. Definitely doesn't benefit men. But you know,
- 13:18Speaker 2: let's continue, let's I just wanted to point it out because.
- 13:21Speaker 1: This is just me. It's just like laying setting the stage,
- 13:24Speaker 1: all right. I will say this though, when we started
- 13:29Speaker 1: doing this in twenty fifteen twelve, I mean, you guys
- 13:32Speaker 1: were doing longer, but I got involved in twenty fifteen.
- 13:37Speaker 1: The mainstream websites, this is MSN dot com, they would
- 13:42Speaker 1: do anything to avoid talking about us, or they didn't
- 13:45Speaker 1: know about us at all. Now they realized they can't
- 13:49Speaker 1: ignore us anymore. So now they're trying to attack us.
- 13:52Speaker 1: And you know how the saying goes, right, First they
- 13:55Speaker 1: first they laugh at you, then they I don't know
- 13:58Speaker 1: how it goes exactly, but then they attack you. Then
- 14:00Speaker 1: you win. They ignore you, they laugh at you, they
- 14:02Speaker 1: attack you, than the then you win, right. Yeah, So
- 14:06Speaker 1: I think they're at the attacking part, which means that
- 14:08Speaker 1: they are losing. And you're right, Generation Z, the young
- 14:11Speaker 1: men growing up, they're coming up. Now I'm not saying
- 14:15Speaker 1: it's all of them. I know somebody in the chat's
- 14:17Speaker 1: gonna be like, but they're just as cooked. Shut up.
- 14:20Speaker 1: They are. There's more of them that are waking up
- 14:23Speaker 1: to this stuff than previous generations. And you know, yeah,
- 14:27Speaker 1: I mean could look look at my generation. Generation X
- 14:29Speaker 1: is probably like a lot of white knights, So I
- 14:33Speaker 1: think that that's definitely changing. They have to put out
- 14:36Speaker 1: this propaganda to try to counter the messaging when they're
- 14:40Speaker 1: these this these media apparatus are dying. Like there's a
- 14:45Speaker 1: chart I was gonna get that showed where legacy media
- 14:49Speaker 1: like you know, the MSN and and these websites are
- 14:52Speaker 1: actually like the least visited. And it's more the people
- 14:55Speaker 1: on social media, the influencers and such that are getting
- 15:00Speaker 1: the most reach and their and their panics. So that's
- 15:03Speaker 1: what I think that this is. This is desperation, like
- 15:07Speaker 1: they're trying to like put out whatever to try to
- 15:10Speaker 1: stop this from spreading, and there's no stopping it, like
- 15:14Speaker 1: it no stopping it. So all right anyway, Yeah, number one,
- 15:22Speaker 1: and the fact that they put this in listic goals
- 15:24Speaker 1: tells you too how out of touch they are. Nobody
- 15:27Speaker 1: really likes these this is BuzzFeed ship. But anyway, Number one,
- 15:31Speaker 1: women are fundamentally less intelligent and rational than men. Okay, okay,
- 15:41Speaker 1: or do you want to say something about it?
- 15:42Speaker 2: Right? What if it's true?
- 15:44Speaker 1: Like?
- 15:44Speaker 2: What if? What if that is actually true? And in fact,
- 15:47Speaker 2: creating an entire narrative in which women can shift blame
- 15:51Speaker 2: for the consequences of their own actions onto men has
- 15:54Speaker 2: actually made this a thing.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 15:59Speaker 2: I've seen I've seen studies on public perception of women's agency.
- 16:04Speaker 2: It's declined since nineteen forty. We see women as less agentic,
- 16:11Speaker 2: like less that their actions have less consequences now than
- 16:14Speaker 2: we did in nineteen forty. Is this like progress? So
- 16:17Speaker 2: what if it's true? Like this is my question? What
- 16:19Speaker 2: if it's true? What if that is a thing that's happening?
- 16:24Speaker 2: What if when I go on the on the twitters
- 16:27Speaker 2: and I ask groc to look at a feminist's Twitter
- 16:33Speaker 2: history and determine how much she reduces women's agency so
- 16:37Speaker 2: the recognition of the consequences of her actions relative to men,
- 16:41Speaker 2: And then I say, groc estimate what she's soft lobotomizing
- 16:46Speaker 2: out of her brain by doing that, and Groc says, ah,
- 16:48Speaker 2: our entire suprebral cortex. Maybe I'm onto something. Maybe teaching
- 16:53Speaker 2: women to do this is making them less intelligent and
- 16:59Speaker 2: more irrational. Feminism is making women less intelligent and more irrational.
- 17:06Speaker 2: But we can we have well, well, of course we
- 17:08Speaker 2: can have that discussion, you and me, Brian. Yeah, maybe
- 17:12Speaker 2: not anywhere else, but certainly here among the uh with
- 17:16Speaker 2: the woman who apparently is so so stupid. All she
- 17:19Speaker 2: can do is parrot things that men have told her
- 17:24Speaker 2: by some kind of thought transference. You know, it's not
- 17:27Speaker 2: it's not me waking up at three am and then
- 17:30Speaker 2: just like being like, oh my god, I've figured it out. No,
- 17:32Speaker 2: it's it's somehow pat well, maybe that is patriarchy. Maybe
- 17:35Speaker 2: it's the fathership beaming it into my head, you know,
- 17:39Speaker 2: in the middle of the night.
- 17:40Speaker 1: Could be all right, yep, could be all right. So
- 17:43Speaker 1: I'm gonna read while I read this. Should you want
- 17:45Speaker 1: me to read this or no?
- 17:46Speaker 2: Just go to just go to the night, all right.
- 17:48Speaker 1: The matosphere pushes the idea that women are emotional, irrational
- 17:52Speaker 1: creatures incapable of logic, and men are rational thinkers who
- 17:55Speaker 1: shouldn't listen to women's perspectives. Believing this allows men to
- 17:59Speaker 1: dismiss any criticism or feedback from women as emotional without
- 18:03Speaker 1: actually engaging with what's being said. It creates relationships where
- 18:06Speaker 1: men don't respect their partner's judgment, ignore their input on decisions,
- 18:11Speaker 1: and treat them like children needing some male guidance.
- 18:16Speaker 2: Because when a man come when a woman comes out
- 18:18Speaker 2: and says that I don't know, I think that now,
- 18:23Speaker 2: I'll let you finish that, but I have, it isn't
- 18:27Speaker 2: based on reality.
- 18:28Speaker 1: It's just a convenient way to avoid accountability when women
- 18:31Speaker 1: point out problematic behavior. So it's just a way. This
- 18:34Speaker 1: is like the the it's just a way for men
- 18:39Speaker 1: to avoid accountability when women, correctly, I guess, point out
- 18:44Speaker 1: problematic behavior.
- 18:45Speaker 2: And that problematic behavior is basically that.
- 18:49Speaker 1: Existing as a man, we existing.
- 18:51Speaker 2: As a man, but also that women are they're making
- 18:54Speaker 2: women feel bad, right, So I mean, here's the thing
- 18:58Speaker 2: if this assumes that this occurs when women, okay, but
- 19:05Speaker 2: here's the okay, when women are pointing out problematic behavior,
- 19:09Speaker 2: So what is what is the problematic behavior that women
- 19:11Speaker 2: point out?
- 19:13Speaker 1: Right?
- 19:15Speaker 2: Wanting to go to the pub with your friends, wanting
- 19:19Speaker 2: to play a game when you're unwinding, like what what
- 19:22Speaker 2: is the problem?
- 19:22Speaker 1: Act room talk? Voting the wrong way? Yeah, asking questions
- 19:29Speaker 1: that essentially, you know, potentially frame women as responsible adults,
- 19:33Speaker 1: like you know, why why did you do these things
- 19:37Speaker 1: that made you more vulnerable, which, of course they just
- 19:39Speaker 1: call victim blaming. I don't know, not not simply worshiping
- 19:44Speaker 1: them for existing. Uh, that There's a number of things.
- 19:49Speaker 1: There's there's like basically you can just go on TikTok
- 19:53Speaker 1: and put in men and you'll get like endless videos.
- 19:56Speaker 2: Okay, but what how about how about this is a question?
- 19:58Speaker 2: All right, So it goes to this, some that women
- 20:01Speaker 2: are in a position to point out problematic behavior in men.
- 20:05Speaker 2: What if they aren't hmm, what what if that isn't
- 20:11Speaker 2: we can't assume that what if women aren't constantly correct
- 20:18Speaker 2: about their judgments of men's behavior? Okay, so what what
- 20:23Speaker 2: is the what is the thing that this is assuming
- 20:25Speaker 2: it's assuming that women's emotions are convictions about men's behavior,
- 20:31Speaker 2: and then it's saying if men are like, well maybe
- 20:34Speaker 2: your emotions are wrong, It's like, no, that's not allowed.
- 20:38Speaker 2: Don't you understand that a woman's emotions are convictions of
- 20:42Speaker 2: your behavior. You have engaged in felony upsetting. That's there's
- 20:50Speaker 2: there's an assumption at the heart of this that women
- 20:53Speaker 2: are to stand in judgment of men's behavior. Is there
- 20:56Speaker 2: an equivalent thing for men? Can they stand in judgment
- 20:59Speaker 2: of women's behavior? And if it's women's emotions that give
- 21:02Speaker 2: them the wherewithal to do this, why can't men be like,
- 21:05Speaker 2: I mean, you have accused me of felony upsetting. Perhaps
- 21:09Speaker 2: I am innocent. Let's look at what made you upset
- 21:12Speaker 2: and see if it's reasonable. That's not allowed. No, that
- 21:15Speaker 2: is just more misogyny heaped on the felony upsetting. Okay,
- 21:20Speaker 2: I'm gonna look at my I'm gonna look at my chart,
- 21:24Speaker 2: all right, So this is the feminist reframing gender reversed
- 21:29Speaker 2: mainstream framing about men. So this isn't just like this.
- 21:33Speaker 2: These beliefs don't just come out of nowhere. They come
- 21:37Speaker 2: out and they are direct, symmetrical like remapping of feminist
- 21:45Speaker 2: and women in general. I guess we can say that
- 21:48Speaker 2: now belief about men. Men are emotionally stunted, lack empathy,
- 21:53Speaker 2: cannot communicate, and need women to civilize them, make socialization.
- 21:58Speaker 2: Male socialization makes men less safe and less relationally competent.
- 22:04Speaker 2: That is a very common attitude towards men, and yet
- 22:08Speaker 2: it is almost the direct reverse of what they are
- 22:11Speaker 2: calling out and attributing to the manosphere. So at worst,
- 22:15Speaker 2: what they've said is, well, you see these attitudes that
- 22:18Speaker 2: we've expressed about men for seventy five years, the manosphere
- 22:22Speaker 2: has turned them around and expressed them about women. That
- 22:26Speaker 2: isn't cricket? Yeah, all right? So what okay? So what's
- 22:33Speaker 2: the reasonable observation underneath? Sex linked averages and temperament and
- 22:39Speaker 2: interests exist, but intelligence and rationality overlap heavily. Not at
- 22:44Speaker 2: the tails though, guys. There tend to be more men
- 22:48Speaker 2: who are not as intelligent and more men who are
- 22:51Speaker 2: much more intelligent. And I actually think the average women
- 22:55Speaker 2: are lower.
- 22:56Speaker 1: On the average too, there are more male geniuses and
- 23:02Speaker 1: there are more male morons towards the center of the curve.
- 23:06Speaker 2: Right, Yes, And women's risk assessment is one more sensitive
- 23:13Speaker 2: than men's. Yes, So sometimes they are going to be
- 23:17Speaker 2: wrong when they charge a man with felony. Upset right,
- 23:21Speaker 2: that nobody's According to this, men are not allowed to
- 23:24Speaker 2: question both sexes misperceive each other's strengths and blind spots. Well, yes,
- 23:30Speaker 2: because you know, two sexes aren't necessarily completely understand what's
- 23:36Speaker 2: going on with the other one. So this has a
- 23:40Speaker 2: direct correlate among feminist misondery feminist orthodoxy. So essentially what
- 23:46Speaker 2: they're saying is manosphere has reversed an element of feminist
- 23:50Speaker 2: orthodoxy and applied it to women, and we don't like that.
- 23:53Speaker 2: That's that's wrong. We got to have laws. There's got
- 23:55Speaker 2: to be a law, right, okay, next one.
- 24:00Speaker 1: All right? Number two, all women. And notice too that
- 24:06Speaker 1: all of these like talking points are bringing up are
- 24:10Speaker 1: they're sort of like presented as like gross generalizations, like
- 24:15Speaker 1: all women everywhere always just like be on the lookout
- 24:19Speaker 1: for these emotional words of the use to frame their
- 24:23Speaker 1: the case, because I don't think anyone is saying all
- 24:26Speaker 1: all the time, right, and then like the whole thing
- 24:29Speaker 1: superior inferior, like this previous thing where women are fundamentally
- 24:34Speaker 1: less intelligent, like this is like the same emotional language.
- 24:38Speaker 1: The purpose of it is to get people upset, and
- 24:40Speaker 1: it works on women, by the way, because they are
- 24:42Speaker 1: you know, generally less rational, so they're gonna see something
- 24:45Speaker 1: like this, just something that makes the generalization and they're
- 24:48Speaker 1: gonna lose it and they're gonna get angry. And that's
- 24:50Speaker 1: what MSN wants, because if they can't like make men
- 24:55Speaker 1: essentially get back on the plantation and fall in line,
- 24:58Speaker 1: then they can at least make the women angrier at
- 25:01Speaker 1: those men. So and then they'll just let the women
- 25:04Speaker 1: do it and that and I think that is an
- 25:06Speaker 1: effective tactic. I did get a super chow. I should
- 25:09Speaker 1: read before I get into number two. Richard Bierre gave
- 25:12Speaker 1: us five dollars and says, is it time to start
- 25:15Speaker 1: a fundraiser to cover the expenses of Alison confronting this
- 25:18Speaker 1: Henhouse feminist in person to bikini jello wrestle her into submission?
- 25:23Speaker 1: Thank you, Richard, very tasty.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Why would you want to put something so you.
- 25:27Speaker 1: Don't want to see that you don't know, we don't
- 25:31Speaker 1: know the other person.
- 25:33Speaker 2: No, no, I don't want to see that. I'm no,
- 25:37Speaker 2: thank you. Well, I mean we could do fully clothed
- 25:40Speaker 2: jello wrestling. Oh it's bikini Well, we could do bikini
- 25:43Speaker 2: over fully clothed jello wrestling. But then, like who knows
- 25:47Speaker 2: that she could be like a ham beast right, and
- 25:50Speaker 2: there's no purchase to be had even without the jello.
- 25:54Speaker 2: So there's like, how do you wrestle a hamd beast?
- 25:57Speaker 2: You just get out of the way falls, all right,
- 26:01Speaker 2: let's keep going, all right.
- 26:02Speaker 1: Number two, All women, everywhere, for all time are hypergamous
- 26:08Speaker 1: gold diggers chasing resources. Mans fair ideology claims women only
- 26:14Speaker 1: care about money and status, always trading up to richer,
- 26:18Speaker 1: more powerful men while lying about their true motivations. This
- 26:22Speaker 1: poisons men's ability to trust that anyone could genuinely care
- 26:25Speaker 1: about them rather than what they provide. Every interaction with
- 26:28Speaker 1: women gets viewed through suspicion and transactional thinking. Men who
- 26:32Speaker 1: believe this become bitter and resentful, treating relationships as economic
- 26:36Speaker 1: exchanges rather than emotional connections. The irony is these beliefs
- 26:40Speaker 1: make them terrible partners, which then confirms their worldview when
- 26:44Speaker 1: relationships inevitably fail. Haha, jokes on you, men. Let women
- 26:49Speaker 1: be however they want, all right, So yeah about that.
- 26:55Speaker 2: All right. So the single biggest causal factor to whether
- 26:59Speaker 2: or not a man married as if he makes twice
- 27:01Speaker 2: as much as at the average salary, and around the world,
- 27:06Speaker 2: one of the biggest factors to divorce is lose a
- 27:10Speaker 2: man losing his job. So this is this is actually
- 27:13Speaker 2: one rue. Women are hypergamus. They have not released men
- 27:18Speaker 2: from their traditional expectations at all whatsoever. So on average,
- 27:24Speaker 2: women wait status, resources more, and men weight, youth, looks
- 27:28Speaker 2: more in maate choice Okay, and both sexes can act
- 27:33Speaker 2: opportunistically under certain incentives, so that's not we're not like
- 27:36Speaker 2: denying that, right. However, this narrative, let's reverse it. Let
- 27:45Speaker 2: us let us reverse the genders and see if it
- 27:48Speaker 2: maps onto any kind of feminist narratives. Men only care
- 27:53Speaker 2: about youth and beauty, this is the feminist narrative and sex.
- 27:56Speaker 2: They disregard women as they age and replace them with
- 27:59Speaker 2: you younger models, male gaze and trophy wife culture. So
- 28:03Speaker 2: we've already got a feminist condemnation of men that maps
- 28:08Speaker 2: one to one with what they're saying the manisphere says
- 28:12Speaker 2: about women. Okay, So yeah, that's ah. Once again, they're
- 28:22Speaker 2: just basically accusing the manisphere of what they are guilty.
- 28:27Speaker 2: And also, while there is evidence that men like want
- 28:33Speaker 2: youth and beauty, and there's definitely evidence that women want
- 28:39Speaker 2: status and resources, right, at least the manisphere is like,
- 28:44Speaker 2: just that's a thing, Okay. This is this is basically
- 28:47Speaker 2: saying you can't say that women are hypergamous while condemning
- 28:53Speaker 2: men for their own what what they prefer in a mate.
- 28:58Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. It's like, so you can't
- 29:00Speaker 2: just be honest about what men and women prefer. You
- 29:03Speaker 2: cannot actually say that women still hold men to a
- 29:08Speaker 2: traditional standard of providership, even though that is factually true
- 29:12Speaker 2: based on the statistics, Like that women are hypergamas. Okay,
- 29:16Speaker 2: that is a thing, but we can't say that because
- 29:22Speaker 2: I guess it's insulting to women, but we can say
- 29:24Speaker 2: the equivalent to men. That's okay, all right, let's uh
- 29:28Speaker 2: move on to the next one.
- 29:32Speaker 1: I was gonna say something else about this too when
- 29:34Speaker 1: they call it right, No, it's okay. The first two
- 29:37Speaker 1: words manisphere ideology. So you notice they use the word
- 29:41Speaker 1: ideology to describe the manisphere. I don't think the manisphere
- 29:45Speaker 1: is an ideology. An ideology is a set of beliefs
- 29:48Speaker 1: that give you, like a fairly coherent framework for understanding
- 29:52Speaker 1: the world, like how society, economy, whatever it is works.
- 29:56Speaker 1: But it also includes a guide to political social action,
- 30:01Speaker 1: like it's basically implied a bunch of aughts to come
- 30:03Speaker 1: with an ideology like you know, I believe this, therefore
- 30:06Speaker 1: we should do these things. Right. The thing is, the
- 30:10Speaker 1: red Pill is not an ideology or the manisphere. It's
- 30:13Speaker 1: a toolkit. It's a it's an understanding, and what you
- 30:17Speaker 1: do with that knowledge. It's a set of tools that
- 30:21Speaker 1: you get. What you do with them is up to you,
- 30:23Speaker 1: which is why we have different like solutions. Right, you
- 30:27Speaker 1: have the red pill pick up guys like the PUAs.
- 30:31Speaker 1: They're not called pas anymore. But you got like your PUAs,
- 30:34Speaker 1: you got like your MiG taw, you got your MRAs
- 30:38Speaker 1: like us that are trying to like you know, address
- 30:40Speaker 1: the legal issues that are a problem. And then you've
- 30:44Speaker 1: got lots of other little like offshoots. You got pro natalists,
- 30:47Speaker 1: you got all these other groups, you know, people who
- 30:49Speaker 1: are just focused on the fitness, people are just focused
- 30:51Speaker 1: on the building of wealth. So I'm just saying, like
- 30:56Speaker 1: when they say manispeer ideology, they're trying to make it
- 30:59Speaker 1: sound like a cult by attributing a set of not
- 31:03Speaker 1: just like ideas with it, but like a mission, right,
- 31:07Speaker 1: and that's not what it is. Like what you take.
- 31:10Speaker 1: What you do with that knowledge is up to you.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Some people just go on with life as normal. They
- 31:15Speaker 1: don't even do anything. They just go with that understanding
- 31:18Speaker 1: and they use those tools to navigate that, you know,
- 31:21Speaker 1: that environment. Like I have a friend who is with
- 31:25Speaker 1: someone and he knows all the red pill stuff. He
- 31:28Speaker 1: was a big follower of Kevin Samuels. But he's not
- 31:32Speaker 1: like he didn't plant his flag in like Mick Tawer
- 31:36Speaker 1: or Pua or anything. He's just using the knowledge to
- 31:40Speaker 1: like help himself, you know, navigate his relationships. So I
- 31:44Speaker 1: think it's important to point out that when they say
- 31:47Speaker 1: menisphere ideology, they're trying to do this more of this emotional,
- 31:51Speaker 1: scary language to make women think, oh my god, it's
- 31:53Speaker 1: a cult. But it's not so.
- 31:55Speaker 2: No, it's just a recognition that men sort of have
- 31:58Speaker 2: their own approach to life. Really because think about how
- 32:02Speaker 2: it keeps expanding, Like look at it. Like there's a
- 32:05Speaker 2: document about the manisphere that we read like a couple
- 32:09Speaker 2: I think a week ago, and they literally put everything
- 32:13Speaker 2: in it, right, They everything related to a man having
- 32:19Speaker 2: an opinion or wanting to pursue an aim. I'm surprised
- 32:24Speaker 2: they didn't put therapy in it. Oh, all these men,
- 32:28Speaker 2: they're man therapy izing. You know, I guess that's that's
- 32:32Speaker 2: so female coded that it's always going to be okay,
- 32:37Speaker 2: But I'm sure eventually we will see an article on
- 32:40Speaker 2: man therapy and why it's bad and why men go
- 32:43Speaker 2: to the same therapists as women go to and they
- 32:46Speaker 2: shouldn't have therapists that recognize they might have different pressures
- 32:50Speaker 2: or different expectations or different ways of approaching things like grief. No,
- 32:55Speaker 2: that's not acceptable. I'm I'm predicting it. Okay, I'm gonna market.
- 32:59Speaker 2: So let's say it's January sixteenth, twenty twenty six. Oh god,
- 33:04Speaker 2: January sixteenth. Alison predicts that eventually they'll go after men therapy,
- 33:09Speaker 2: which is therapists who actually recognize that men are different
- 33:13Speaker 2: than women or have their own attitudes or pressures or
- 33:16Speaker 2: expectations or goals. And that's perfectly fine. They don't just say, well,
- 33:20Speaker 2: you know, everything that you face, women have it worse
- 33:23Speaker 2: and you're to blame for everything. Okay, all right?
- 33:29Speaker 1: Next number three, women's value decreases dramatically with age, while
- 33:36Speaker 1: men's increases. The manosphere obsessed obsesses, so it's another one
- 33:42Speaker 1: of these buzzwords. Right, they are obsessed, like they don't sleep,
- 33:45Speaker 1: They're like whyd eyed have three in the morning thinking
- 33:49Speaker 1: about women in the wall, Like nobody does that. But
- 33:52Speaker 1: they got to tell you this. They got to make
- 33:54Speaker 1: it sound like they're crazy people that are irrational. The
- 33:57Speaker 1: manisphere obsesses over the idea that women hit the wall
- 34:01Speaker 1: around thirty and become worthless more of this language, but
- 34:05Speaker 1: men become more valuable as they age. It's deeply rooted
- 34:09Speaker 1: in reducing women to their reproductive capacity and physical appearance,
- 34:13Speaker 1: while valuing men for their things that genuinely do improve
- 34:16Speaker 1: with age, like career success. It encourages men to pursue
- 34:19Speaker 1: much younger women and discard partners who've aged alongside them.
- 34:23Speaker 1: The cruelty becomes obvious when you realize it's justifying abandoning
- 34:27Speaker 1: women who've invested years in relationships once they're deemed past
- 34:31Speaker 1: their prime.
- 34:35Speaker 2: Okay, well, why is it that when women do sex
- 34:43Speaker 2: tourism they always go after like the sixteen year old
- 34:46Speaker 2: Jamaican boys? You know, because I think that youth is yeah, yeah,
- 34:53Speaker 2: I think youth is equal opportunity here and it's I
- 34:56Speaker 2: mean and you know, yes, it hits women harder because
- 35:00Speaker 2: they have something called menopause, which is the end of
- 35:03Speaker 2: their reproductive life span, and men don't have that as starkly,
- 35:09Speaker 2: But why would something like, yes, men prefer women of
- 35:16Speaker 2: a certain age. That doesn't mean they're leaving their wives
- 35:19Speaker 2: as far as I can tell. In fact, it's women
- 35:22Speaker 2: leaving their like it's when it's sixty. When you see
- 35:25Speaker 2: six year olds divorcing, it's initiated by the women almost invariably.
- 35:31Speaker 2: So obviously men are staying with their wives. So what
- 35:36Speaker 2: is even okay that? What is this even all right?
- 35:42Speaker 2: So the okay, okay, So women's value decreases dramatically with age.
- 35:50Speaker 2: Men become less desirable with age if they don't actually achieve,
- 35:56Speaker 2: so they go from being maybe somebody with potential to
- 36:00Speaker 2: uh immature, stuck or Peter pants. So there is also
- 36:04Speaker 2: like an ageism quality for this, yeah, failure to launch.
- 36:09Speaker 2: So depending, men are also judged for their age and
- 36:13Speaker 2: their achievement corresponding to that age. So yeah, that's I mean,
- 36:19Speaker 2: it's not quite a one to one. But then there's
- 36:22Speaker 2: also all of the feminist celebration of women going after
- 36:27Speaker 2: younger men. Is that like this is this is well
- 36:31Speaker 2: This is celebrated now in in in female culture, right,
- 36:37Speaker 2: So they're they're taking a biological reality and they're blaming
- 36:40Speaker 2: it on men, and there's not really an equivalent one
- 36:43Speaker 2: for men. So there's there's no real one to one reversal.
- 36:49Speaker 2: But here's the Here is the the less straw end.
- 36:53Speaker 2: Physical attractiveness and fertility declined with age for women, income status,
- 36:57Speaker 2: and some competencies right with age for men. Both both
- 37:02Speaker 2: sexes face trade offs as they age, And the honest
- 37:05Speaker 2: to god thing is that this isn't even in play anymore.
- 37:09Speaker 2: Women want a man who looks like he's twenty five,
- 37:14Speaker 2: has the money of a fifty five year old and
- 37:17Speaker 2: the wisdom of a seventy five year old. Right, They're
- 37:20Speaker 2: they're they don't even they're not even tolerating age in men.
- 37:25Speaker 2: The standards have gotten so high. So this seems to be,
- 37:29Speaker 2: this seems to be behind the curve. Shall we move on?
- 37:34Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 37:35Speaker 2: Uh.
- 37:35Speaker 1: The other thing I will I want to add to
- 37:37Speaker 1: this too is that even if even though all these
- 37:41Speaker 1: things are true, well in terms of like the wall
- 37:45Speaker 1: and this and all that they there, there's also some
- 37:48Speaker 1: claims in here that men would be really irrational because
- 37:51Speaker 1: that they would just like leave their partners for a
- 37:54Speaker 1: younger woman. Only a certain class of men can do that.
- 37:58Speaker 1: Most men, like the overwhelming majority, can't do that, and
- 38:01Speaker 1: they know it, so they're not stupid. Leonardo Dicabrio gets
- 38:05Speaker 1: away with it because he's Leonardo DiCaprio, okay, And these
- 38:09Speaker 1: women are still butt hurt over that, by the way.
- 38:12Speaker 1: So it just tells you that when they talk about
- 38:15Speaker 1: what they don't like that men, you know, like this
- 38:18Speaker 1: idea that as a man gets older, his sexual market
- 38:21Speaker 1: value goes up, assuming that he like follows through on
- 38:24Speaker 1: everything in the same way that a woman's sexual market
- 38:27Speaker 1: value is good when she's younger, assuming that she takes
- 38:30Speaker 1: care of herself. Because you can have like somebody who's
- 38:33Speaker 1: unattractive that's very young as well because they didn't take
- 38:36Speaker 1: care of themselves because they weren't maintaining themselves right while
- 38:41Speaker 1: also investing. And but the thing is is that even
- 38:46Speaker 1: if you were a man who did that, that doesn't
- 38:49Speaker 1: mean you're going to have the same access that like
- 38:52Speaker 1: a guy in the one percent, the top one percent has,
- 38:55Speaker 1: which is often what these things refer to when they say, well,
- 38:58Speaker 1: these men are just doing this to women. They're talking
- 39:00Speaker 1: about the men at the top that can do that
- 39:02Speaker 1: because they have women lined up, so you know, like
- 39:07Speaker 1: that's not the average man is aware of it. This
- 39:11Speaker 1: is so that they understand the way the world works.
- 39:14Speaker 1: That's all this is, you know.
- 39:16Speaker 2: And I'm still and honestly I still think like if
- 39:18Speaker 2: you age matched men and women even into your seventies,
- 39:23Speaker 2: I think women would probably still have that premium on
- 39:26Speaker 2: being able to get sex. Yeah, I mean maybe not
- 39:29Speaker 2: once you hit the point where you know, widow widows
- 39:32Speaker 2: outnumber widowers like five to one. But think about it
- 39:36Speaker 2: like this is this is basically women complaining about getting
- 39:39Speaker 2: a huge bonus at the beginning that declines over time, right,
- 39:47Speaker 2: and then you know, they have to move into a
- 39:49Speaker 2: different stage in their life. They have to become a mother,
- 39:51Speaker 2: they have to become you know, a matron. They have
- 39:54Speaker 2: to start thinking about raising something else and investing in
- 39:58Speaker 2: something else, not just being you know, available for a
- 40:01Speaker 2: few more grabs on the marketplace. And that's just so petty.
- 40:08Speaker 2: And if men were complaining about something like that, if
- 40:11Speaker 2: men got a huge bonus at the bei beginning of
- 40:13Speaker 2: their lives, feminist wouldn't tolerate it for a second. But
- 40:16Speaker 2: here's some additional stuff industries around empowering older women's dating
- 40:23Speaker 2: and sexuality, plus narratives that older single men are creepy
- 40:26Speaker 2: or dangerous. Okay, so this is like that. There is
- 40:33Speaker 2: also this undercurrent that older men are creepy, right, and predatory.
- 40:40Speaker 2: We don't see that with women. If a woman is dating,
- 40:42Speaker 2: like a fifty year old woman is dating a twenty
- 40:44Speaker 2: two year old man, they don't think of it as predatory.
- 40:48Speaker 2: But think about a man doing that, he's automatically cast
- 40:52Speaker 2: as predatory. But anyway, I think that this is, like
- 40:55Speaker 2: I said, there's not a really good one to one here.
- 40:57Speaker 2: This is just basically griping about being ha and a
- 41:00Speaker 2: gigantic bonus at the beginning of your reproductive life and
- 41:04Speaker 2: then frittering it away on nonsense. Okay, let's keep yep.
- 41:07Speaker 1: That's what it is, all right. Number four. Women are
- 41:12Speaker 1: naturally manipulative and deceptive according to manuspeer logic, separate from
- 41:20Speaker 1: normal logic. Again, note the language. All women are mass manipulators,
- 41:25Speaker 1: using crying emotions and sexuality to control and exploit men.
- 41:29Speaker 1: This frames normal human behavior like expressing feelings as calculated manipulation.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Designed to get something from men. It makes what.
- 41:39Speaker 2: No finish the sentence, sorry, makes.
- 41:42Speaker 1: Of genuine emotion, treating vulnerability as a weapon rather than
- 41:45Speaker 1: human connection. Do you want me to finish the paragraph?
- 41:50Speaker 2: So I just learned today that Manifestel is part of
- 41:53Speaker 2: the manosphere. Yeah, Like what do all the dating strategy
- 41:59Speaker 2: women say use sexuality and manipulation to get that bag?
- 42:06Speaker 2: Like I'm watching this come out of the mouths of
- 42:09Speaker 2: what I presume our women, Right, Sheira looks like a woman,
- 42:13Speaker 2: Manifestel looks like a woman. Byrony and Rainbow Shite seem
- 42:17Speaker 2: to be more on the political end of all this.
- 42:19Speaker 2: But but all of the dating strategy women, this is
- 42:23Speaker 2: exactly what they say to do to men. And then
- 42:27Speaker 2: I've heard just regular women discuss dealing with men, and
- 42:32Speaker 2: they just they discuss relationships like with men the way
- 42:38Speaker 2: I don't know intelligence analysts during the Cold War would
- 42:42Speaker 2: have discussed the Soviet industrial complex. It's like, oh, well,
- 42:48Speaker 2: if we move our missile base, if I move my
- 42:50Speaker 2: missile base into the into the bathroom, then I think
- 42:55Speaker 2: I'll have a good strategic you know, leverage over him.
- 42:59Speaker 2: And like this is not coming from men, If anything
- 43:04Speaker 2: from my experience, and I'm coming from the side of
- 43:07Speaker 2: the possibly the most paranoid men. Yeah, men are not
- 43:11Speaker 2: paranoid enough. Women are like they're just like I said,
- 43:17Speaker 2: they've been propagandazed, as Brian would say, for seventy five
- 43:20Speaker 2: years into this narrative that men are their dire enemies,
- 43:24Speaker 2: which is why you get these female dating strategists to
- 43:28Speaker 2: talk about relationships the way you would expect of someone talking,
- 43:33Speaker 2: you know, in like I don't know the French court
- 43:36Speaker 2: about deadly intrigue. You know, I gotta, I gotta make
- 43:40Speaker 2: sure that I don't I don't reveal any of my vulnerabilities,
- 43:43Speaker 2: and I gotta, I gotta, I gotta go quickly, you know, quickly,
- 43:46Speaker 2: And I don't don't look, don't look frightening, frightened because
- 43:50Speaker 2: he might strike. And this is like coming from women,
- 43:54Speaker 2: it's psychotic. I mean, like I said, this is this
- 43:58Speaker 2: particular woman I'm thinking about, right, She had that particular
- 44:03Speaker 2: affect where they do with a really low voice and
- 44:05Speaker 2: then the very stone face, right, And she was talking
- 44:10Speaker 2: about this relationship like she was angling for position in
- 44:16Speaker 2: a Cold war. And I'm why would you be in
- 44:20Speaker 2: a relationship with someone who you think is your geopolitical enemy.
- 44:27Speaker 2: Why would you do that? And this is what this
- 44:31Speaker 2: is the end result of feminism saying that basically women
- 44:34Speaker 2: think this is normal, and men, on the other hand,
- 44:38Speaker 2: are just like blindsided by this. They get into the
- 44:41Speaker 2: relationships with women like this and they don't know where
- 44:43Speaker 2: that came from because they're they're get a different message.
- 44:46Speaker 2: There's like, oh, yeah, being in a relationship with a
- 44:48Speaker 2: woman is gonna be so wonderful. She's gonna listen to
- 44:51Speaker 2: what I have to say. She's gonna care about my interests,
- 44:54Speaker 2: she's gonna care about my feelings. We're gonna build a
- 44:57Speaker 2: life together. It's gonna be an adventure. And then you
- 45:00Speaker 2: find out that the woman that you're with is treating
- 45:05Speaker 2: you like a I don't know, a foreign power that
- 45:11Speaker 2: is at any moment poised to engage in nuclear and
- 45:15Speaker 2: lliolation against her, I don't know, continuous states or something right,
- 45:21Speaker 2: And men are just blindsided by that, and also that
- 45:25Speaker 2: this woman, who has been primed to regard you as
- 45:28Speaker 2: an enemy, has one foot out the door all the time.
- 45:32Speaker 2: And the manosphere is like, well, this is how you
- 45:34Speaker 2: deal with it, but what are we done with.
- 45:38Speaker 1: Well, if this is how you avoid these consequences.
- 45:41Speaker 2: Yeah, this is how you avoid these.
- 45:43Speaker 1: A friend or something like that.
- 45:44Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, So let's did you finish this treating this?
- 45:50Speaker 1: Uh, there's a little bit more. When you view every
- 45:52Speaker 1: woman as fundamentally dishonest, again, more of this, you know,
- 45:57Speaker 1: broad strokes stuff. You can't form trusting relationships because you're
- 46:01Speaker 1: constantly looking for hidden agendas. It also conveniently absolves men
- 46:06Speaker 1: of responsibility. They're just innocent victims of women's schemes.
- 46:09Speaker 2: Wow.
- 46:09Speaker 1: The projection on that that is uh and it's.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Convictions of women's schemes. So yeah, that that projection on
- 46:17Speaker 2: that is incredible.
- 46:18Speaker 1: Okay, Should I go to the next one?
- 46:22Speaker 2: Uh? No, I have to. I have to.
- 46:24Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you gotta get your things out.
- 46:26Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I just I navigated away from it, which
- 46:29Speaker 2: was a mistake. Okay. So here is the gender reversed
- 46:34Speaker 2: item that slots into feminist orthodoxy. Men are manipulative, coercive, predatory,
- 46:41Speaker 2: gas lighting, coercive control as frame are is framed as
- 46:48Speaker 2: male typical tools to dominate partners. Okay, So we have
- 46:54Speaker 2: this one that that women are naturally manipulative and deceptive,
- 46:58Speaker 2: But the feminist framework is that men essentially use intimate
- 47:03Speaker 2: relationships as a staging ground for rape and beating in
- 47:08Speaker 2: order to maintain patriarchy. So which of these, which of
- 47:13Speaker 2: these is worse fundamentally, which of these is more hateful
- 47:17Speaker 2: towards the opposite sex. So again we have a situation
- 47:20Speaker 2: where the menosphere has hasn't even reversed that right. They
- 47:25Speaker 2: aren't alleging that women use manipulation and deception to uphold
- 47:30Speaker 2: a gigantic sister oppressive sisterhood. They just say that this
- 47:34Speaker 2: is something that they're inclined towards, which science also says
- 47:37Speaker 2: because women use indirect aggression more, and they use narrative
- 47:42Speaker 2: making more right, and they use false accusations more to
- 47:45Speaker 2: get what they want because in part they are not
- 47:49Speaker 2: as strong, and also because in some ways they do
- 47:53Speaker 2: have more social skills when it comes to motivating others
- 47:56Speaker 2: to do things for them. So, yes, there's a little
- 47:59Speaker 2: bit of there's a kernel of truth to this, But
- 48:02Speaker 2: then if you compare it to what feminists say about men,
- 48:04Speaker 2: it's it's trivial. First of all, I don't think man like.
- 48:09Speaker 2: Let's see, both sexes can and do manipulate. So this
- 48:12Speaker 2: is the actual problem statement Some relational strategies. Crying, charm, intimidation,
- 48:16Speaker 2: stonewalling are sex type, but dishonesty is not exclusive to
- 48:19Speaker 2: one sex. So that's the the AI like neutral analysis.
- 48:23Speaker 2: But let's let's bring it down to what actually is true.
- 48:28Speaker 2: Women do use more narrative framing, more social tactics in
- 48:35Speaker 2: order to get what they want. This is factual. There's
- 48:39Speaker 2: no argument about this. And if you want to really
- 48:44Speaker 2: play a game of whose narrative, sex based narrative is worse,
- 48:49Speaker 2: feminists win hands down in this because they aren't just
- 48:54Speaker 2: saying that men's stone wall or they tend to just
- 48:58Speaker 2: internalize things. They are literally saying that men use intimate
- 49:02Speaker 2: relationships to pursue a program of rape and domestic violence
- 49:06Speaker 2: against women to uphold patriarchy. So they're literally saying that
- 49:11Speaker 2: men regard relationships in terms of doing war crimes against
- 49:16Speaker 2: the enemy. Okay, do you see how these things are
- 49:21Speaker 2: not really comparable? Menisphere, Yeah, women can. They can be
- 49:27Speaker 2: deceptive and lie, you know, they tend to do that
- 49:31Speaker 2: a bit more because they use more social tactics. Feminism,
- 49:36Speaker 2: He's going to rape and beat you to uphold his
- 49:39Speaker 2: friendship with other men.
- 49:43Speaker 1: Although again another reason why women are they they're more
- 49:47Speaker 1: They might do it more is because we kind of
- 49:50Speaker 1: like incentivize that. We incentivize that, so they do it.
- 49:54Speaker 1: If you want to discourage bad behavior, then you have
- 49:57Speaker 1: to discourage We have to disincentivize it exactly. So like
- 50:02Speaker 1: we incentivize it, we support it, we promote it socially, culturally, financially,
- 50:08Speaker 1: so women do it.
- 50:10Speaker 2: Mm hmm, all right, shall we do.
- 50:14Speaker 1: The next number of five? Or yeah, number five. High
- 50:20Speaker 1: value men deserve multiple women, but women should be monogamous.
- 50:25Speaker 1: The manisphere promotes the idea that successful men should have
- 50:28Speaker 1: access to multiple women, but those same women should remain
- 50:31Speaker 1: loyal and exclusive. It's a massive double standard that gets
- 50:35Speaker 1: justified through evolutionary psychology arguments that are basically just post
- 50:39Speaker 1: hoc rationalization for wanting to cheat without consequences. Men are
- 50:45Speaker 1: encouraged to view monogamy as limiting their potential while demanding
- 50:48Speaker 1: absolute loyalty from women. The entitlement here is staggering. Women
- 50:52Speaker 1: get treated as rewards for male success rather than autonomous
- 50:55Speaker 1: people with their own desires and boundaries. I'll let you
- 51:00Speaker 1: have that one if you want.
- 51:02Speaker 2: All right. So the reverse is high value women are
- 51:05Speaker 2: told never to settle, keep options open, date up, and
- 51:08Speaker 2: leave men who don't meet standards. Male reluctance to commit
- 51:12Speaker 2: is demonized, while female serial monogamy is framed as growth.
- 51:16Speaker 2: And also there is quite a bit of a push
- 51:18Speaker 2: towards female polyandre polygamy, polygamy. So I don't know, Like again,
- 51:26Speaker 2: I think this is behind the curve. And also there
- 51:30Speaker 2: is a there is a beloved religion that sort of
- 51:35Speaker 2: promotes this exact thing, that high status men should have
- 51:39Speaker 2: multiple wives. And not only does it promote it, it
- 51:42Speaker 2: creates an entire religious framework that accepts and justifies it.
- 51:47Speaker 2: You know. So, I don't know, I feel like this
- 51:49Speaker 2: one might be a little bit islamophobic. Hm, okay, yeah,
- 51:59Speaker 2: it's all right.
- 52:00Speaker 1: Let's move on again. This is another thing where they
- 52:03Speaker 1: think that there's a double standard going on. But the
- 52:07Speaker 1: problem with this is that women are willing to share
- 52:11Speaker 1: a high status man, ye, but also the high status man.
- 52:16Speaker 1: It's not even because those men demanded or expected. It's
- 52:19Speaker 1: because women actually go along with it, like they do
- 52:23Speaker 1: this all the time, like and without knowing it. Sometimes
- 52:27Speaker 1: where there's like you know, you have like in in
- 52:32Speaker 1: uh in the let's say the urban monoculture. Like in
- 52:36Speaker 1: the big urban centers like Chicago or New York or
- 52:39Speaker 1: LA or Compton or whatever, you'll have like a bunch
- 52:42Speaker 1: of women dating the same drug dealer or the same
- 52:44Speaker 1: gang leader or the same whatever. Right, there's a high
- 52:48Speaker 1: status man, whether it's because he has a lot of
- 52:52Speaker 1: finances or he's but you know, like basically got control
- 52:56Speaker 1: over all. He's got a monopoly on the violence, which
- 53:00Speaker 1: is another way of getting resources, and those women there
- 53:02Speaker 1: will be all the women in the neighborhood could be sharing
- 53:04Speaker 1: the same guy. There's a whole reddit, isn't it, like
- 53:07Speaker 1: are we dating the same guy? That's an example of that.
- 53:10Speaker 1: So women are doing this, it's not men are expecting
- 53:13Speaker 1: this as women are doing this because they want to
- 53:16Speaker 1: be the one. They want to be the exclusive and
- 53:19Speaker 1: they think they deserve that. But the man is just like, well,
- 53:22Speaker 1: I guess I'll just take all of this, right, why not? Yeah?
- 53:26Speaker 2: Yeah, Well literally, it's because if a man has multiple women,
- 53:31Speaker 2: that's social proof that women are drawn to, right, because
- 53:35Speaker 2: they want they want to win. Right, he's going to
- 53:38Speaker 2: get more women. When a woman has multiple men, men
- 53:41Speaker 2: aren't drawn to a lot of this stuff is a
- 53:45Speaker 2: problem of how women ex stack their desire. Women like
- 53:51Speaker 2: men with social proof. They like men who are desired
- 53:53Speaker 2: by other women. Well what happens, what are those men doing? Well,
- 53:56Speaker 2: they have options and they often because of the way
- 54:00Speaker 2: that the dating culture is organized now, it almost is
- 54:06Speaker 2: like men have to present this this attitude that he
- 54:11Speaker 2: can walk away at any point because she because she's
- 54:16Speaker 2: you know, at the end of three generations of being
- 54:18Speaker 2: taught that men are oppressors and any kind of wanted
- 54:23Speaker 2: trust in a relationship is just a platform that he's
- 54:25Speaker 2: going to use to abuse her, and her he's always,
- 54:28Speaker 2: always has a foot out the door, and she regards
- 54:31Speaker 2: her social value in terms of rejecting men. It's almost
- 54:35Speaker 2: like that incentivizes men to keep their options open, even
- 54:39Speaker 2: to just stabilize a one relationship. So this whole incentive
- 54:44Speaker 2: structure is put in place by women by what they
- 54:46Speaker 2: choose to believe about men, what they choose to value
- 54:50Speaker 2: in men that they want to have. They want to
- 54:52Speaker 2: see men with social proof. Men aren't the same. They
- 54:54Speaker 2: don't you know that if they like that woman, they
- 54:57Speaker 2: like that woman. They don't need to know unless they're French.
- 54:59Speaker 2: That another a whole bunch of other men are orbiting
- 55:01Speaker 2: them her, right, m m. The French are different, but
- 55:05Speaker 2: we're not. We don't have to talk about that right now.
- 55:09Speaker 2: I'm just saying that they are. They are an exception
- 55:11Speaker 2: that proves the rule generally, if you're not a Frenchman.
- 55:16Speaker 2: A woman being more attractive to other men, or even
- 55:19Speaker 2: being in relationships with other men, doesn't make her more
- 55:21Speaker 2: attractive to men. Okay, So this is a this is
- 55:24Speaker 2: a thing that women are doing. They don't have this standard,
- 55:28Speaker 2: and then they blame men for having the standard that
- 55:31Speaker 2: they don't have, Like, they don't have the standard that says, well,
- 55:35Speaker 2: if there's a whole bunch of other opposite sex members
- 55:38Speaker 2: orbiting this person, they're actually less attractive. No, instead, it's
- 55:41Speaker 2: more so. Again, this is just women doing this to themselves.
- 55:45Speaker 2: Oh wait, I just did a felony upset. Okay, okay, next, yeah,
- 55:53Speaker 2: well let me see what I got here. Oh yeah,
- 55:55Speaker 2: go ahead, let's see. Okay, let's let's go to the
- 56:07Speaker 2: next one.
- 56:08Speaker 1: Okay, going to the next one. Feminism has destroyed women
- 56:13Speaker 1: and society. I mean, oh oh and check this out.
- 56:19Speaker 1: This right here, I think is with the real talking point.
- 56:25Speaker 1: So all the other stuff is building to this. Now,
- 56:27Speaker 1: this isn't like the final point on the slides, but
- 56:30Speaker 1: I think this is the real thing that's being preserved here.
- 56:33Speaker 1: This is what they're trying to salvage. So the menisphere
- 56:37Speaker 1: blames feminism for everything from divorce rates to male loneliness,
- 56:42Speaker 1: claiming women were happier when they had fewer rights and options.
- 56:45Speaker 1: It romanticizes the past where women were economically dependent on
- 56:49Speaker 1: men and had limited choices, framing coercion as natural order.
- 56:53Speaker 1: It suggests women having autonomy and equality has somehow broken society,
- 56:57Speaker 1: rather than exposed that many relationships were base some women
- 57:00Speaker 1: having no better options. Okay, then believe this want to
- 57:03Speaker 1: return to systems where women needed them for survival rather
- 57:07Speaker 1: than choosing them freely.
- 57:09Speaker 2: Well, they don't choose them freely. They still hold them
- 57:11Speaker 2: to the same standards they've always been holding, like women
- 57:14Speaker 2: still hold men to the same traditional standards, while basically
- 57:18Speaker 2: increasing the bar for when women regard them as fulfilling
- 57:24Speaker 2: those traditional standards. You know, seventy five years ago, a
- 57:30Speaker 2: man could be a decent family man and bread winner
- 57:33Speaker 2: if he was working as a gas station attendant, right
- 57:37Speaker 2: there would probably be a woman who would wife that up,
- 57:40Speaker 2: but or sorry, husband, that up. I guess it could
- 57:45Speaker 2: go either way. But yeah, but that's not the case anymore. Okay,
- 57:48Speaker 2: So the standards have just increased, they haven't gone away.
- 57:52Speaker 2: And what's happened is feminism has refused to acknowledge that,
- 57:57Speaker 2: and then it's blamed men for the fact that they've
- 58:01Speaker 2: realized that women are not letting them leave their traditional roles.
- 58:06Speaker 2: That's not going away. And maybe they would like women
- 58:10Speaker 2: to have a corresponding expectation towards them in a relationship.
- 58:15Speaker 2: That's it. And then they're like, oh my god, they
- 58:17Speaker 2: want them to go. And here's the other thing. Men
- 58:21Speaker 2: were dependent on women in the past too, materially, Like
- 58:25Speaker 2: I mean, the further back you go prior to the
- 58:27Speaker 2: Industrial Revolution, the more true that is, right, you know,
- 58:32Speaker 2: if you like, if you wanted anything close to a
- 58:34Speaker 2: comfortable life. And in the past, it was even more
- 58:37Speaker 2: difficult for men to just sort of go out on
- 58:40Speaker 2: their own and be hermits because they didn't have the
- 58:43Speaker 2: kind of technology that we have now or post industrial
- 58:46Speaker 2: technology that even makes that more possible. So in the past,
- 58:50Speaker 2: men were materially dependent on women. That's never put in
- 58:53Speaker 2: this analysis. It's always women were reliant on men. You
- 58:57Speaker 2: know what I think this really is that all of
- 59:00Speaker 2: this insecurity in women is because men are no longer
- 59:04Speaker 2: reliant on them, right, So there's no longer this physical
- 59:09Speaker 2: and material exchange in marriage. Now they are reliant on.
- 59:13Speaker 3: Men or the jobs that men mostly create, really, right,
- 59:19Speaker 3: And it's created a massive insecurity in women, and feminism
- 59:25Speaker 3: just keeps feeding that black hole by misdiagnosing where the
- 59:30Speaker 3: security insecurity is coming from.
- 59:32Speaker 2: And again, men who believe that they want to return
- 59:36Speaker 2: to systems where women needed them. Okay, well, if women
- 59:40Speaker 2: were choosing them freely, why would men even care about
- 59:43Speaker 2: returning to systems where women needed them? Huh? Because that's
- 59:47Speaker 2: the point. The point is that they see that women
- 59:52Speaker 2: don't choose them freely. They choose them based on how
- 59:55Speaker 2: well they have assumed the traditional role. And they are
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: in a society that heavily penalizes them and prevents them
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: from assuming the role that makes them attractive to women.
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: And feminism is I mean, I don't think there's another
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: social force that's more behind that particular situation for men, right,
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: Because if men actually attain the level of success required
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: to be attractive to women, Feminism will say that they
- 1:00:27Speaker 2: did that unfairly and then put in a whole bunch
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: of roadblocks to prevent it, right, but will not. Feminism
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: will not take women to task for continuing to expect
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: men to occupy traditional gender roles. So, yeah, feminism, I'm sorry,
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: Like you keep flinching every time I hit the the
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: I guess I need to be more careful about that.
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: I'm sorry, buds. Okay, shall we keep going?
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: Wait, wait, I have reversals. I didn't even get to
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: the point of reading my reversal. We we're doing pretty good.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: We're on.
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: I want to yeah, I just want to add just
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: real quick. They it says here that women are like
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: they want to into a return of system where women
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: needed them for survival, rather than choosing them freely. Like women,
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: even independent women that don't need no man today are
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: relying on men though like they're they're maybe not like
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: men that are like close in their lives, but like
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: the places where men women work are very likely companies
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: that were built by men. The all of the conveniences
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: and advantages they have. We're built by men. They're not
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: escaping like the need for men. They just they just don't.
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: They want to pretend like they don't, but they but
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: they're still living in that. Like if you just left
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: them out, like if the men just quit for a day,
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: it would be over. Like they wouldn't have electricity, they
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: wouldn't have their avocado toast, they wouldn't have they're made
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: up job titles to go to because a lot of
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: like women's work is like made up. Or they work
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: for the government, which is also basically just made up.
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: So like, yeah, they're they're they're dependency on men hasn't
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: really changed. They just don't have a man close to
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: them in their life that they can like actually trust,
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: and so instead they're depending on some abstract system that
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: doesn't need them and can replace them with somebody else.
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: They're just a widget now instead of like an you know,
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: they're more of an object now working for like faceless
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: corporations than when they were like in marriages with men,
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: even if they were in like a more supportive role.
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: But yeah, but they allow extremely they the men who
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: control those corporations, to feel really good about themselves that
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: they are.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: Because the men corporations will have like a day for
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: the women, and they put it on the calendar and
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: and they'll like, they'll virtue signal and the women were like, well,
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: they love me now because they put a pink a
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: pink ribbon you know on the uh.
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: You know what they should call those days. They should
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: call them my harem days. Yeah, and they'll have like
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: the CEO be like, yeah, this is my harem day.
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: Come out, ladies, let's celebrate you. Okay, a dollar just.
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: Now and then we'll move on to the next page
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: or you can do your thing. Yeah.
- 1:03:15Speaker 2: So the reverse, well, let.
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: Me just read the rumble ramp. Sorry, feminists hated is
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: a dollar. Feminists hated the past because they couldn't do
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: whatever they want. Feminists hate the present because men aren't
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: pandering to women like men used to. All right, thank you,
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: all right, go ahead, all right.
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: So this is the reversal. Patriarchy has destroyed women in society.
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: Male power is the core structural harm that must be dismantled.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: Male privilege is toxic by default, and men are toxic
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: by default. That's the feminist reversal. And they like they
- 1:03:49Speaker 2: they have literally said that men are the enemy of
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: women in society. And then men are like, you know,
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: I don't like that. Maybe feminism. You know, that's not good.
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: And then feminists are like, see, that's why they're the enemy.
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: That's why men are the enemy. They don't like being
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: said that they are the enemy. That makes them even
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: more of the enemy. Right, And again feminism no proof,
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: no proof of any of their assertions that, in fact,
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: it's never even nobody's even thought. You know, maybe we
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: should solve maybe we should prove that this actually exists,
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: that men actually do no, no, no, no, okay, miss
- 1:04:28Speaker 2: seven yeah.
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: Number seven. Women are biologically programmed to be submissive man's
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: fear ideology. There goes that term again claims women naturally
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: want to be dominated and led by strong men, and
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: modern women are just fighting their biology by wanting equality.
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: It justifies controlling behavior as giving women what they secretly
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: want despite what they say. It's used to dismiss women's
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: state of preferences as lies or confusion about their own desires.
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: The reality is that some people of all genders for
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: more traditional dynamics, but framing it as biological inevitability is
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: just a way to avoid respecting women's actual choices and autonomy.
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well I'm gonna do one genu.
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: As far as I understand it. Yeah, you have vampire
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: assassins or.
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: A tale, they'll take it. Horns are a tail, okay?
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: Or thangs? Yeah, there you go that those are the trifacta.
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: That's what you need men. This, this is how you
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: deal with with this with women today. You need horns.
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: You heard it here, horns, tail, thangs, Go for it,
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: go get them all right? So one reversal. Actually, this
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: isn't even reversal. It's just an analysis of what feminists
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: are saying. Okay. Feminism itself refuses to make the connection
- 1:05:57Speaker 2: between women's actions and their consequences right, So it will
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: frame things like stereotype threat or some kind of lingering
- 1:06:06Speaker 2: patriarchal influences why women make the choices they make, instead
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: of actually recognizing that women are making the choices that
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: they make. So when you take their entire framework to
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: its logical conclusion, women don't think independently of men, right,
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: I mean a woman A Bible's admonition for a woman
- 1:06:29Speaker 2: to be submission submissive to a man is probably more like, hey,
- 1:06:33Speaker 2: he might know things that you don't give him a chance,
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: and please trust him that he cares about you and
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: wants to do the best by you. Like, that's but
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: feminist submission is like, ladies, men write your thoughts for you.
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: It's like, how much more submissive? So feminism wants the
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: framework and which women are absolutely and utterly submissive to
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: men to the complete incapacity inability to recognize women as
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: having any kind of autonomous identity outside of men unless
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: they adhere to feminism like a barnacle to a boat. Right,
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: they want to see women as just being reflections of men,
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: so submissive, like they're basically just shadows of men's thoughts.
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: And yet say that women are not submissive to men. Well,
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: which is it feminism? Why don't you decide before you
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: complain that menace your men are? Like, I think feminism
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: is saying women are submissive to men. And if it
- 1:07:35Speaker 2: says that women are submissive to men, then men, I
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: guess have to take charge and make sure that she's
- 1:07:41Speaker 2: taken care of herpaderp Like, this is just just responding
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: to the thing that you've asserted about women, feminists. But
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: that's not the reversal, that's just following the logic. Sorry,
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: this keeps turning on. I don't know if you're hearing that. No,
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: it's like a gong. Sound okay, al right, next, no biologue,
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: men are biologically aggressive, dominance orientating, orientated, and risk taking,
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: which is used to explain violence and justify re engineering masculinity.
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: So these feminist women think that men need to be
- 1:08:23Speaker 2: re engineered, either socially or otherwise, to not be what
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: they are. And they explain that because men are aggressive
- 1:08:31Speaker 2: and dominant, so they need to be stopped from that.
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: So while complaining that men recognize that, feminists say that
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: women are incredibly submissive, they also say that men's dominance,
- 1:08:46Speaker 2: which they've got, that's a biotruth. Now the feminists is
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: reason why men need to be controlled by feminists, all right, okay,
- 1:08:59Speaker 2: all right, So essentially the manosphere has said women are submissed. Allegedly,
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: women are submissive, therefore they want to be controlled by men.
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: They want to be led by men, okay, and feminists
- 1:09:15Speaker 2: say men are aggressive, therefore they need to be controlled
- 1:09:20Speaker 2: by feminism. And honestly, I think that the manosphere one
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: is less offensive because feminists also say that women are
- 1:09:29Speaker 2: so submissive that they're basically just reflections of men, but
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: they don't allow that men could lead them. That women
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: are so submissive, but men could actually lead them to
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: their benefit. Did you see the difference? So men's dominance
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: must be controlled and curtailed by feminism. I'll I'll let
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: you comment on that, Brian. There's something that that doesn't
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: make sense in what I'm saying.
- 1:09:59Speaker 1: Would you reach please? All right?
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: Feminist's framework, if you take it to its logical conclusion,
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: says that women are so submissive that they are basically
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: shadows of men's thoughts. Yes, right, But feminist framework also
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: says that men are so aggressive and dominant that they
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: need to be continuously controlled or they will be violent
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: oppressors of women. The manosphere is saying that, yes, women
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: are submissive, but that means that men should lead them
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: in positive ways. So the difference is that it's exactly
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: the same thing. The difference is the manosphere acknowledges that
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: men's leadership can be of benefit to women, and feminists
- 1:10:43Speaker 2: says that is never true unless we have complete control
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: over everything. Yes, So basically they're just saying the same things,
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: except one is more an acknowledgment that this can you
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: can create a relationship out of this, you know, right,
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: And the other is is a political position in which
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: everybody gets controlled by this faction. But it's essentially the
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: same thing. Yes, okay, so I mean yeah, and then
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: the manosphere is basically saying, but what if what if
- 1:11:15Speaker 2: feminists are right and women are really really submissive, because
- 1:11:19Speaker 2: that's what feminists are saying, that women are just shadows
- 1:11:22Speaker 2: of men's thoughts by definition based on their theories or conjecture.
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: But what if that's true, but men could be a
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: good thing for women, And feminists are like, oh my god,
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: that's that's terrible, that's all that's that's the worst thing
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: I've ever heard, of course, because they think that men
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: are the worst thing that ever existed. Yeah, all right,
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: let's move on to number eight.
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: All right, yeah, number eight. Women use physical intimacy as
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: a weapon and manipulation tool. The manosphere teaches that women
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: deliberately withhold or provide physical timacy to control men's behavior,
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: making intimacy transactional rather than mutual. This makes men view
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: their partners as adversaries and a power struggle rather than
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: people they share affection with. It also frames women's natural
- 1:12:13Speaker 1: fluctuations and desire as calculated manipulation rather than normal human sexuality.
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: When intimacy becomes a battlefield. Healthy intimacy dies. Everything gets
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: viewed through suspicion and resentment rather than genuine connection.
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: Oh good lord, Oh you are going to totally be
- 1:12:30Speaker 2: slammed in this one. Feminism. Okay, women use and what
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: they mean is women can use. Women can use physical
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: intimacy as a weapon and a manipulation.
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: Tools of what women actually do are simply the reality
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: is that it's simply a thing that they can do.
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, device to do yeah, and incentivized in the
- 1:12:54Speaker 2: current narrative that treats men as their dire enemies, which
- 1:12:58Speaker 2: isn't beneficial to women. It's only beneficial to corporations, governments, NGOs, media,
- 1:13:04Speaker 2: big media, and bureaucratic graft and that kind of stuff.
- 1:13:12Speaker 2: Men are women. I know, this might come as a shock.
- 1:13:15Speaker 2: Women are most benefited by having a healthy relationship with
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: a man. That's that if she if a woman wants
- 1:13:22Speaker 2: to invest in her future happiness, that's what she does.
- 1:13:27Speaker 2: But if she wants to invest in corporate or government
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: or bureaucratic graphs future happiness, she becomes a feminist. Okay,
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: so uh men, this is the feminist reframe. Like this
- 1:13:41Speaker 2: is we flip the genders, and we look and see
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: if there's any feminist orthodoxy that that matches it. And
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: here it is, men weaponize sex and relationships, using coercion, cheating, withdrawal,
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: and even rape as tools of patriarchy. Relationships are sites
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: of male violence. That's the feminist framing of relationships. It's
- 1:14:04Speaker 2: all over feminism. It's all over the people who are
- 1:14:06Speaker 2: currently writing policy about how men and women are supposed
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: to relate legally and socially. Okay, So which is worse? Here?
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: Women can use physical intimacy as a weapon and manipulation tool,
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: and men weaponize sex and relationships and even use rape
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: as tools of patriarchy, and relationships themselves just relationships, right,
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: Not a relationship with a toxic woman, just a relationship
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: with a man is a site of male violence. Yeah,
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: I think, I think. I think feminism blows the menisphere
- 1:14:40Speaker 2: right out of the water in terms of hatred, contempt,
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: demonization of the opposite sex. You know, manasphere, guys, you
- 1:14:48Speaker 2: got to really step up your game. You're lagging. Get good, okay, ye,
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: get good?
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: Scrubs nice all right? Single mothers are damaged goods, isn't it? No?
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: This is this is oh, you're a number nine rad
- 1:15:08Speaker 1: It's it's the tenth slide but it's number nine. Yeah,
- 1:15:12Speaker 1: single mother. Oh I got some rumble rants. Let me
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: read those first, I forgot. Nova Fan twenty one gave
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: us a dollar and says, depending on whether the future
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: where the future takes us, the women not able to
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: work a job will be living in a world worse
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: than what they imagine the patriarchy would be, as men
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: would have AI chatbots rather than them. Well, they can
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: only need to use AI chatbots now technically. Nova Fan
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: then gives another dollar and says, request, can you let
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: me know if the slide show acknowledges the women who
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: openly say they want a traditional man while she refuses
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: to be a traditional woman. No, of course not, no,
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: of course not.
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: That's all, none of this.
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: The thing about these these articles and listicles that are
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: going after like people who are critical of feminism, the manisphere,
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: the red pill, all this other stuff. You know, people
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: who are sure with dating in cells. They never ever, ever, ever,
- 1:16:04Speaker 1: ever ever actually try to figure out what women want.
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: They because they don't care. It's about widening the chasm
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: between men and women. And if they ask what women
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: what they want, they might get an answer they don't like.
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: In fact, they're most they're probably going to get an
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: answer that they don't like, because it's it's going to
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: expose what the red pill is talking about. That like,
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: there's a mismatch on what women say they want and
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: what they really want. And part of that is because
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: women are being told what they're supposed to want by
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: this kind of like social approval that's heightened and exaggerated
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: by academia and the corporations and the government, et cetera,
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: that basically tell them this is what a good man is,
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: and this is what a bad man is, in which
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: case there are very very few good men. Most men
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: are bad. So women are encouraged to, you know, marry
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: the government or work for the government and become a
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: tax slave just like the men, and see the men
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: as their enemies. And so when you have a woman
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: that's like, well, you know, I kind of want I'd
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: like to get married, I think I want kids. I
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: think I just want to be a stay at home mom.
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: They then that's probably a lot more women than you think.
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: But feminists will never, ever, ever, ever admit that, because
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: it would in fact completely shatter everything, so instead they
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: just pretend they know what women want, never ask them,
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: and then they use that to gaslight women, the thinking
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: that's what women are supposed to want, because women are
- 1:17:32Speaker 1: usually looking at what the popular consensus is and they
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: go along with consensus and they say, well, I guess
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: this is what everybody else is doing, so I'm gonna
- 1:17:40Speaker 1: do it, even though it's not really what's going on.
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: You understand, Like it's like the silent majority is being
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: excluded from this and the men are just being like
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: framed in isolation. So anyway, okay, let me see So, yeah,
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: you're not gonna see that slide nova pen, It's not
- 1:17:58Speaker 1: going to happen. Number nine. Single mothers are damage goods
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: and bad partners. Manisphere communities viciously attack single mothers more
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: emotional language, like they're stalking them on their pages instead
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: of just calling them what they are I guess like,
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: which is probably the worst thing you might get, claiming
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: their poor choices for relationships and that their children are burdens.
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: No man should accept this dehumanizing belief, ignores their circumstances
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: that lead to single parenthood, and treats women's worth as
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: permanently damaged by having children with someone else. It's particularly
- 1:18:30Speaker 1: cruel because it punishes women for relationship failures, but the
- 1:18:33Speaker 1: fathers of those children face no similar stigma. The belief
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: stems from possessiveness and the idea that women with children
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: have been used by other men.
- 1:18:43Speaker 2: You wanted the power to decide whether or not you
- 1:18:46Speaker 2: are a parent, and the men you had sex with
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: as a parent. So now that you have that power,
- 1:18:52Speaker 2: it is your responsibility that those children exist, not the
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: men yours, because you wanted that power and the exercise
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: of that power only exists with women. Okay, I know
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: have said, you know, if you were a woman who
- 1:19:08Speaker 2: had a child with a man who was one hundred
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: percent on board, got married everything, and then just screwed
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: off however long into the relationship. Yes, you know that
- 1:19:20Speaker 2: this this doesn't apply to you. That is not the
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: majority of single mothers, right, That is not the majority
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: of single mothers. The majority of single mothers are having
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: sex with men who have multiple baby daddies. They are women, yeah,
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: baby mamas. Yeah, they probably have multiple baby daddies too,
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: all right, And they are women who decided to leave
- 1:19:44Speaker 2: their partner. And incidentally, if their partner has a relationship
- 1:19:49Speaker 2: with his children, which he should. They aren't single mothers,
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: they are co parenting mothers. So the only thing left
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: is women who have decided to exclude men from their
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: relationship with their children, and women who had children with
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: men that it was probably obvious they shouldn't have had
- 1:20:12Speaker 2: children with okay, and they have made the unilateral decision
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: because they asked for it. Literally, women are like, we
- 1:20:20Speaker 2: want the unilateral decision decide if a child is brought
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: into the world. Good, great, you've got it. Oh, we're
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: not responsible for the unilateral decision to decide if a
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: child and enters the world. Yes you are, And with
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: that gets all you get a lot more criticism and
- 1:20:40Speaker 2: scrutiny for when and where you make these choices because
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: you asked for them, And of course you're not gonna
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: get that anywhere but here, because you know us, right,
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: because I'm fine with being apparently a misogynist or whatever,
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: because I say that women make choice and the consequences
- 1:21:01Speaker 2: of those choices are their consequences, and in this case,
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: single mothers usually choose that. Almost most single mothers have
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: chosen that they either had children with men who are
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: marginal and it was obvious, or they removed a man
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: from his child's life. Right now, let's look at the
- 1:21:26Speaker 2: situation where men are judging this. If a woman already
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: once has removed the children of her ex from his
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: life and from their lives, why would a man sign
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: up for that. It's like, you know how a woman
- 1:21:44Speaker 2: if a man said, you know, I've been uh, I've
- 1:21:48Speaker 2: been accused of rape a couple of times. Yeah, I've
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: even been arrested. In fact, i'm currently I'm currently out
- 1:21:57Speaker 2: on bail.
- 1:21:58Speaker 1: I'm on a sex offender register tree.
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: Unfortunately, reason there's a real good explanation for it. Would
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: you have a problem with a woman being like hmm, well,
- 1:22:11Speaker 2: I would like to hear that explanation, and I may
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: do a little bit of investigating myself, But until then,
- 1:22:15Speaker 2: I don't think I'm going to be alone with you
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: or pursue a relationship with you. No, that's what a
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: single Now, it's not exactly the same level of threat,
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: but it's potential threat if a man pursues a relationship, Yeah,
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: it's a red flag. If a man pursues a relationship
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: with a single mother, he is inviting the possibility that
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: he will lose contact with any child that he has
- 1:22:41Speaker 2: with her in the future. Okay, And men who are
- 1:22:46Speaker 2: biparental mammals, they're part of a biparental mammal species find
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: that intimidating. And that is a good thing. That is
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: an absolutely good thing. In fact, you want men to
- 1:22:59Speaker 2: find that intimating. You want men to avoid women who
- 1:23:02Speaker 2: give even the hint of suspicion that if they have
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: a child with this woman, that that woman will take
- 1:23:10Speaker 2: that child away from them. And why do you want
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: men like that? Because men like that are highly invested
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: in their children, and men like that produce a society
- 1:23:19Speaker 2: that's worth living in. So don't you dare stigmatize men
- 1:23:25Speaker 2: for disliking women who give a whiff of the possibility
- 1:23:30Speaker 2: of taking future children away from them. That's exactly the
- 1:23:33Speaker 2: way men should be, exactly the way men should be. Now,
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: the other the other thing that I've heard is that
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: men don't want to get involved in single mothers. This
- 1:23:44Speaker 2: is this is one actually really part wrenching reason. There
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: was a man on a comment that I read once
- 1:23:51Speaker 2: who said that he was the kid of a single
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: mother and he remembered having a man come into his life.
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: And you know, initially be like, oh, it's like this
- 1:24:00Speaker 2: great thing because he's got a sort of a father
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: figure now. But as soon as the woman gets bored
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: but two out go BN, I'm not interested in you anymore.
- 1:24:11Speaker 2: And his relationship with his new father figure was broken,
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: and it happened over and over and over again. And
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: he doesn't date single mothers now because he doesn't want
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: to do that to their children. Okay, nobody is talking
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: here about the situation for the children. Says single mothers
- 1:24:34Speaker 2: are damaged goods. Yes, they're damaged goods, but even more so,
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: their children are damaged by their choices, and nobody talks
- 1:24:42Speaker 2: about that. Nobody talks about that. And why would a
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: man who understands that children get attached want to do
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: that to the child of a single mother If he's
- 1:24:55Speaker 2: a decent man, why would he? Heay, so, yeah, single
- 1:25:02Speaker 2: mothers are damaged goods. Now you might have a single
- 1:25:05Speaker 2: mother again who who had a man who was invested
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: and then suddenly just poof gone fine, it's not really
- 1:25:12Speaker 2: her fault, or maybe it is a situation of genuine abuse,
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: not really her fault, or maybe or he died not
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: really her fault, or he wasn't like he wasn't willing
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: to at least partially pay for the family, so she
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: had to leave because of economic reasons understandable. You can't
- 1:25:32Speaker 2: let your kids sarve, right, there are factors, but this
- 1:25:36Speaker 2: isn't true about most single mothers. Most single mothers are
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: single because they are selfish and contempt They are contemptuous
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: and they do not know how to keep an adult
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: relationship right, that's why. And they don't they don't actually
- 1:25:58Speaker 2: care to be with a man who will invest in
- 1:26:02Speaker 2: his children. And look for those kinds of men, right
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: and make sure that they are signaling to those kinds
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: of men that they aren't going to just on a
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: whim decide to break his relationship with his kids. And again,
- 1:26:17Speaker 2: this is exactly what we want from men. We want
- 1:26:19Speaker 2: them to stay away from women when they have a
- 1:26:23Speaker 2: hint that those women might not allow them to be
- 1:26:28Speaker 2: in the lives of their future children, because those men
- 1:26:30Speaker 2: are pair bonders and they are men who invest in
- 1:26:33Speaker 2: their children. That's what we want. We want men who
- 1:26:37Speaker 2: think twice about entering the life life of a child
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: when the mother can just remove him at any point,
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: causing even more strain and stress to the child because
- 1:26:48Speaker 2: those are men who are thinking about the child's situation, right,
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: And there's one other category of single mom. Maybe you
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: realize your mistake and you're trying to be better, okay,
- 1:27:01Speaker 2: because lots of you. We all make mistakes, right, and
- 1:27:04Speaker 2: we can try to be better in our lives, and
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: that's what's important. But if you are trying to be better,
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: you're listening to me and you're saying, yes, that's true, that, yeah,
- 1:27:14Speaker 2: that is actually true.
- 1:27:16Speaker 1: I was you understand that you are going to have
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: a hard time, yes, finding a new partner base based
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: on your past behave You're approaching these any future potential
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: relationship with humility, so that like, you know, you understand
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: that you're not in the best bargaining position, and uh, yeah,
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: you'll You're gonna have to.
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: A lot of work.
- 1:27:42Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to work on yourself exactly, because.
- 1:27:44Speaker 2: They don't don't get me wrong. People can make mistakes
- 1:27:48Speaker 2: and then they can go on the path of redeeming
- 1:27:50Speaker 2: their mistakes. And the situations where step children see any
- 1:27:57Speaker 2: kind of better outcome so that they're raised by a
- 1:28:01Speaker 2: man who isn't their father is when the woman says
- 1:28:06Speaker 2: I made a mistake, but I got a second chance
- 1:28:09Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna fuck this up and she sticks
- 1:28:13Speaker 2: to that man like white on rice. Okay, all right, wait,
- 1:28:23Speaker 2: no single this is the reversal. Yeah, Single fathers are absent,
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: dangerous or incompetent men abandoned families and leave women to
- 1:28:32Speaker 2: pick up the pieces deadbeat dad narrative, right, except fathers
- 1:28:37Speaker 2: don't have like literally, we gave women the unilateral right
- 1:28:41Speaker 2: to determine whether or not a child is born. Fathers
- 1:28:44Speaker 2: don't have that right. So you're already looking at a
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: situation where they're trailing a woman's decisions. But I would
- 1:28:52Speaker 2: say that this isn't even strong enough. Feminists regard fathers
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: as toxins and dangers to their children, just fathers like
- 1:29:01Speaker 2: involved fathers. Now, I'm on multiple feminist created projects that
- 1:29:08Speaker 2: suggest that a boy with a father in his life
- 1:29:12Speaker 2: is the worst outcome, that causes the worst outcomes, which
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: is not statistically true at all. But they are saying
- 1:29:21Speaker 2: that a father, even an involved father, is a problem.
- 1:29:24Speaker 2: That's what feminist rhetoric is saying. Look at adolescents, right,
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: an involved father is a suspect person. So they're saying, well,
- 1:29:35Speaker 2: this is how dare man of spere. Men say that
- 1:29:38Speaker 2: single mothers are damaged goods, but they turn around and
- 1:29:44Speaker 2: say that all fathers are bad news, are potential bad news,
- 1:29:49Speaker 2: most likely bad news. Well, of course they're bad news
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: because you know, relationships and fatherhoods are sites of male violence. Okay, eleven.
- 1:29:59Speaker 1: Number oh ten Women can't be trusted with power or leadership.
- 1:30:07Speaker 1: The manisphere claims that women are unsuited for leadership, too
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: emotional for important decisions, and will prioritize feelings over logic
- 1:30:15Speaker 1: when given authority. It gets used to justify keeping women
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: out of positions where they might have power over men.
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: It conveniently ignores all evidence of successful female leaders while
- 1:30:26Speaker 1: treating any female failure as proof of women's general incompetence.
- 1:30:30Speaker 1: Men who all this believe feel threatened by women in
- 1:30:33Speaker 1: authority and can't handle reporting to or being led by
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: women without resentment.
- 1:30:41Speaker 2: Yes, but women can't be trusted with power leadership because
- 1:30:44Speaker 2: they can't because, and I'll be really honest, this is why.
- 1:30:50Speaker 2: Because what I see women doing with their influence is
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: not recognizing that they are their brother's keeper, and they
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: need to use their power and influence to turn around
- 1:31:01Speaker 2: and protect men and to make sure that men aren't exploited. Instead,
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: they're using their power and influence for selfish reasons to
- 1:31:11Speaker 2: promote a narrative of continuous male blame and to take
- 1:31:15Speaker 2: away men's rights. Right, And this is what I'm seeing now.
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: If women had stepped up and said, you know, there
- 1:31:23Speaker 2: are some problems that men face that we should use
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: our political power to ameliorate, to change, I wouldn't be
- 1:31:32Speaker 2: saying that. I wouldn't even say that. I wouldn't even
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: say that women shouldn't have the vote because they don't,
- 1:31:39Speaker 2: you know, have service to the state in wartime. If
- 1:31:42Speaker 2: they genuinely use their power to protect men when men
- 1:31:47Speaker 2: need it, I wouldn't say that women can't be trusted
- 1:31:51Speaker 2: with power leadership. But the truth is, if women in
- 1:31:53Speaker 2: power and women in leadership positions think they don't have
- 1:31:58Speaker 2: to care about half the human race, then they shouldn't
- 1:32:01Speaker 2: be in them. And that is a hard that's a
- 1:32:06Speaker 2: hard no for me, Like that's a hard line. Right
- 1:32:10Speaker 2: on one side is women who manifestly don't look like,
- 1:32:15Speaker 2: don't act or talk like they care about men, despite
- 1:32:19Speaker 2: the fact that men when they are in positions in
- 1:32:21Speaker 2: power and leadership by definition men are vulnerable to them, Okay,
- 1:32:26Speaker 2: and I see women not recognizing that fact, continuing to
- 1:32:31Speaker 2: operate on a narrative that anything that they do to
- 1:32:33Speaker 2: men is just just deserts. And this is my hard
- 1:32:36Speaker 2: line in the stand. If women cannot learn that they're
- 1:32:41Speaker 2: their brother's keeper, then they do not deserve any position
- 1:32:45Speaker 2: of power period. That is my hard line in the stand. Okay,
- 1:32:51Speaker 2: you can quote that as the mano sphere. No, I'm not.
- 1:32:56Speaker 2: I could hear like Rollo being like, what fucking this
- 1:32:59Speaker 2: woman is not manosphere?
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: I invented it, I invented you.
- 1:33:07Speaker 2: Well apparently I'm.
- 1:33:08Speaker 1: Thinking you disappear when I go to sleep, you don't exist.
- 1:33:14Speaker 2: Well, that's that's.
- 1:33:17Speaker 1: Like he's got like the the infinity Gauntlet of the manisphere,
- 1:33:21Speaker 1: migtow or p U as m R as the red pill,
- 1:33:24Speaker 1: you know, like it's.
- 1:33:25Speaker 2: All yea fourth from Rollo's loins.
- 1:33:32Speaker 1: Yeah, I coined the term man all right, but uh
- 1:33:43Speaker 1: is this it for this? Or did you? Yes?
- 1:33:45Speaker 2: I should do the I should do the Okay, this
- 1:33:49Speaker 2: is the feminist reversal, and it does fit quite nicely
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: into feminist orthodoxy. Male power and male dominated leadership are
- 1:33:57Speaker 2: inherently oppressive. Any male led institution is suspect, that is patriarchy.
- 1:34:01Speaker 2: It must be fixed with gender quotas and oversight. Which
- 1:34:04Speaker 2: is what's really interesting is because feminists recognize that when
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: men are in positions of power, how they treat women
- 1:34:11Speaker 2: and deal with women's issues is important, and that should
- 1:34:15Speaker 2: be a dividing line between men who are in power
- 1:34:20Speaker 2: legitimately and men who are in power not legitimately, is
- 1:34:24Speaker 2: how they treat women. Right, And yet that's basically my
- 1:34:28Speaker 2: dividing line too. Women should not be in power if
- 1:34:33Speaker 2: they cannot step into the role of realizing that they
- 1:34:38Speaker 2: need to protect men too, that men are now half
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: their constituency, They are now half of the people that
- 1:34:44Speaker 2: they instruct in their jobs, et cetera, et cetera. Right, So,
- 1:34:48Speaker 2: isn't that interesting. It's sort of like a it's a
- 1:34:51Speaker 2: standard for men. But feminists are like, no, if you
- 1:34:53Speaker 2: apply that standard for women, that's misogyny as usual, as
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: per usual. It's not really interesting. My surprise, My surprise
- 1:35:01Speaker 2: meter is very low, right now, not that surprised.
- 1:35:05Speaker 1: Imagine my shock, visualize my surprise. Okay, let's move on
- 1:35:16Speaker 1: to the next one. Yep, all right, Number eleven women's
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: accusations are usually false and should be doubted. The manuspect
- 1:35:26Speaker 1: had convinced men that false accusations are rampant, and that
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: women routinely lie about harassment, assault, or abuse for attention
- 1:35:35Speaker 1: or revenge. It makes men dismiss women's experiences and side
- 1:35:39Speaker 1: with accused men automatically. Statistic show false accusations are actually rare.
- 1:35:44Speaker 1: So you know, statistic show science suggests according to the
- 1:35:49Speaker 1: people who have a stake in perpetuating this myth, they
- 1:35:53Speaker 1: said they've investigated themselves and found themselves not guilty of
- 1:35:56Speaker 1: any crime. It's actually men that are the problem. Anyways,
- 1:36:00Speaker 1: what does it show that false accusations are actually rare?
- 1:36:02Speaker 1: But the manisphere amplifies every example to create fear and paranoia.
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: Plus it protects abuse of men by creating an environment
- 1:36:09Speaker 1: where victims know they won't be believed. It makes men
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: view any accusation as probably a lie.
- 1:36:16Speaker 2: Okay, but here's the thing.
- 1:36:17Speaker 1: This is why they have a picture of a black
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: guy on here, by the way, because that's.
- 1:36:22Speaker 2: The demographic that is most hit by false accusations. There
- 1:36:28Speaker 2: you go, I mean, why wouldn't you illustrate how false
- 1:36:31Speaker 2: accusations are meaningless with the dude, black dude, who tends
- 1:36:36Speaker 2: to be subject to most of them, at least according
- 1:36:39Speaker 2: to the Innocence Projects roster of cases. Shall we say,
- 1:36:44Speaker 2: all right, so there's lots of things happening here as usual.
- 1:36:48Speaker 2: The manosphere has convinced men that false accusations are rampant,
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: Yes they are, and that women routinely lie about harassment, assault,
- 1:36:56Speaker 2: or abuse for attention or revenge. Yes they do. It
- 1:37:01Speaker 2: makes men dismiss women's experiences and side with accused men automatically.
- 1:37:05Speaker 2: That's due process. You don't have to side with an
- 1:37:08Speaker 2: accused man, but you have to suspend judgment if you
- 1:37:10Speaker 2: are in a position to harm him. That is due process.
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: This is the funny thing. Like due process exists, feminists
- 1:37:19Speaker 2: most affected. That's what this is. Statistics shows false accusations
- 1:37:25Speaker 2: are actually rare. No, if you compare like to like,
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: that is, proven false accusations to proven convictions, they are
- 1:37:35Speaker 2: about one to two, so too, one false accusation to
- 1:37:41Speaker 2: maybe two convictions something like that. So you know, it's
- 1:37:46Speaker 2: not that rare if you compare like to like. But
- 1:37:49Speaker 2: what feminists do is they lump in all accusations period
- 1:37:57Speaker 2: and only look at the ones that are proven false. Right,
- 1:38:00Speaker 2: so there's this huge gray area that they say, oh,
- 1:38:03Speaker 2: of course this is true, but it's a huge gray
- 1:38:05Speaker 2: area where you don't know, and they don't compare the
- 1:38:09Speaker 2: ones that are proven false to the ones that are
- 1:38:11Speaker 2: proven true, because those numbers are actually pretty scary. You're
- 1:38:16Speaker 2: looking at for every two convictions, you get one false accusation.
- 1:38:22Speaker 2: This isn't that a little bit different of a thought?
- 1:38:25Speaker 2: Hey know how much they talk about rape constantly, about
- 1:38:30Speaker 2: how women are in fear of it, and yet when
- 1:38:32Speaker 2: you look at it this way, false accusations are well,
- 1:38:36Speaker 2: they're in the same order of magnitude of possibility for men.
- 1:38:43Speaker 2: You know, that's isn't that interesting? Okay, But the statistics
- 1:38:48Speaker 2: show but the manosphere amplifies every example to create fear
- 1:38:51Speaker 2: of paranoia. I don't think it's the manosphere of doing that,
- 1:38:54Speaker 2: And in particular, I don't think that many manusphere content
- 1:38:58Speaker 2: creators really do that. Like I'm trying to think of
- 1:39:02Speaker 2: anyone who does. I mean, we talk about I don't. Yeah,
- 1:39:07Speaker 2: that's the other thing. Yeah, well, we're really creating fear
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: and paranoia in men, and you are not doing the
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: same for women.
- 1:39:15Speaker 1: And I mean, like I don't. I mean, I know
- 1:39:18Speaker 1: it's anecdotal, but I've had on like several men in
- 1:39:21Speaker 1: the military who have experienced false allegations, and the way
- 1:39:26Speaker 1: that we set up the system again, it incentivizes false allegations,
- 1:39:31Speaker 1: like there's no there's no consequence to it. Women can
- 1:39:34Speaker 1: just do it. They're there. What's the penalty to get
- 1:39:38Speaker 1: caught on that? Maybe a fine? Maybe, I mean like yeah,
- 1:39:42Speaker 1: in general, it's like, well, it can even be dismissed
- 1:39:46Speaker 1: as a mistaken identity, like well, I guess I guess
- 1:39:48Speaker 1: he was not the guy, or I guess I didn't
- 1:39:50Speaker 1: get raped, but not like an intentional false allegation, even
- 1:39:54Speaker 1: though it could have started that way. There's literally like
- 1:39:57Speaker 1: no reason for them not to do it, even if
- 1:39:59Speaker 1: there were yea, even if you couldn't show me like
- 1:40:02Speaker 1: I even if you could show me that these things
- 1:40:05Speaker 1: are rare. The fact that there's legal uh there, the rules,
- 1:40:09Speaker 1: the laws are not set up to protect men from
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: false allegations is enough of a reason to talk about
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: trying to get the suppressed. Even if it didn't happen
- 1:40:18Speaker 1: that often, but it does. It's usually women protecting, not
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: not women that are trying to get revenge or attention.
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: Although those things happened too, I think most of the
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: time it's to protect their reputations. So Rock Turner was
- 1:40:33Speaker 1: falsely accused because the woman who accused him didn't want
- 1:40:37Speaker 1: to be seen as a slut. A lot of the
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: guys in the military that I've talked to got accused
- 1:40:43Speaker 1: because the women that accused them were cheating on their
- 1:40:47Speaker 1: own husbands with these men, and so because they didn't
- 1:40:50Speaker 1: want to look like cheaters, they didn't want to get
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: busted for adultery, they claimed that they were sexually assaulted instead,
- 1:40:56Speaker 1: because now it's it's not just they're no longer a cheater.
- 1:41:00Speaker 1: Now they're like more of a victim than the guy
- 1:41:03Speaker 1: who they initially scept with. And again we incentivize that,
- 1:41:07Speaker 1: we put things in place that allow that. It's like
- 1:41:11Speaker 1: Title nine in high school in colleges, right, same thing.
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: What happened to the to the the case, the Rolling
- 1:41:17Speaker 1: Stone case? Right? Yeah, what about Amber her and Johnny Depp?
- 1:41:21Speaker 1: She falsely accused him of like not not just sexual violence,
- 1:41:26Speaker 1: but just violence. So like this is I mean, like
- 1:41:30Speaker 1: it's it's ridiculous that we have to even talk about
- 1:41:33Speaker 1: this like, it's obviously happens, it's everywhere, and it's incentivized.
- 1:41:39Speaker 2: Yes, well in some places literally with money incentives, I
- 1:41:44Speaker 2: think in the UK and Australia. But does it amplifies
- 1:41:48Speaker 2: every example to create fear and paranoria. No, What creates
- 1:41:51Speaker 2: fear and paranoia is the fact that men have no recourse.
- 1:41:55Speaker 2: Like if you protect like literally, if you protected men
- 1:42:00Speaker 2: from false allegations the way you protect women, well maybe
- 1:42:04Speaker 2: not that much. The wait wait, wait, wait wait wait,
- 1:42:06Speaker 2: let me walk that back. I don't think men need
- 1:42:09Speaker 2: to be protected from allegations the way women are. Right
- 1:42:13Speaker 2: that that basically means that would be carte blanche for
- 1:42:15Speaker 2: everybody to be rapement up in here. But if you
- 1:42:19Speaker 2: protected men's innocence when they go through this, when they're
- 1:42:22Speaker 2: being accused of something right until it's proven that they
- 1:42:26Speaker 2: did it, nobody would be doing this, Okay. I mean
- 1:42:31Speaker 2: there would be concern over maybe the the ease at
- 1:42:35Speaker 2: which women could do it, but at the very least,
- 1:42:38Speaker 2: men wouldn't be being destroyed by these accusations alone. Right,
- 1:42:42Speaker 2: And it's not us that's doing this. All we're doing
- 1:42:45Speaker 2: is saying that this isn't right. It's the accusations that
- 1:42:49Speaker 2: men see destroying men's lives. That are may creating the
- 1:42:52Speaker 2: fear and paranoia. Good lord. Plus, it protects abusive men
- 1:42:59Speaker 2: by creating an environ where victims know they won't be believed.
- 1:43:03Speaker 2: Are victims only women see? They're really telling, aren't they?
- 1:43:10Speaker 2: It makes men view any accusation is probably a lie.
- 1:43:13Speaker 2: Well they probably that, well they should view every accusation
- 1:43:16Speaker 2: is possibly a lie. Right, that seems reasonable. Okay, let
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: me go for the reverse. Aru okay, okay, most men
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: are trash. Oh no, sorry, believe women believe survivors. In practice,
- 1:43:32Speaker 2: men's denials are treated as suspect, and male guilt is
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: often presumed in sexual and domestic violence contexts. That's not
- 1:43:38Speaker 2: actually reverse. A reverse is more what feminists are doing
- 1:43:44Speaker 2: to minimize the sexual abuse of men by women. Because
- 1:43:49Speaker 2: what's interesting is what this crossed a desk recently. The
- 1:43:53Speaker 2: CDC has its new numbers out for twenty twenty five
- 1:43:56Speaker 2: twenty twenty six, and guess what they quietly draw from
- 1:44:01Speaker 2: their statistics the last year numbers for maid to penetrate
- 1:44:05Speaker 2: so women in sexual violence against men. They just dropped it.
- 1:44:10Speaker 2: And the way that they managed to do it is
- 1:44:11Speaker 2: they rechanged the methodology to reduce male reporting. It even
- 1:44:17Speaker 2: significantly reduced the number of men even responded, and they
- 1:44:21Speaker 2: changed the wording of the statements to focus on capturing
- 1:44:27Speaker 2: female victimhood versus male victimhood, so they moved away from
- 1:44:31Speaker 2: behavioral questions done by interviewers who were trained to actually
- 1:44:36Speaker 2: make people comfortable revealing this kind of stuff, which is
- 1:44:40Speaker 2: better for men because it takes men time to be
- 1:44:45Speaker 2: able to explain things. Women can narrativize things that happened
- 1:44:50Speaker 2: to them more easily than men can so, and especially
- 1:44:53Speaker 2: when you're talking about something that doesn't have a ready
- 1:44:56Speaker 2: narrative to attach to, like a woman raping a man.
- 1:45:00Speaker 2: So they did all of this, and now they've managed
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: to get the numbers for MAIDE to penetrate under a
- 1:45:07Speaker 2: certain amount, not because they're less proportionately, but because they
- 1:45:11Speaker 2: had less men answering the survey, so now they don't
- 1:45:15Speaker 2: have to report on it at all. Congratulations feminists, once again,
- 1:45:21Speaker 2: you have engaged in a campaign of marginalizing male victims
- 1:45:26Speaker 2: of sexual assault. Don't forget. We're not even at the
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: state of saying that male victims can't be believed. We're
- 1:45:34Speaker 2: at rendering them invisible in the first place. That's what's
- 1:45:38Speaker 2: feminists are doing to male victims, rendering them invisible in
- 1:45:41Speaker 2: the first place. They don't even exist. They're not even
- 1:45:44Speaker 2: there to be believed. They just disappear poof gone feminist
- 1:45:49Speaker 2: magic trick. And then they have the audacity to turn
- 1:45:52Speaker 2: around and complain about men being withdraw you know, withholding
- 1:45:58Speaker 2: any kind of conclusion about any particular accusation, you know,
- 1:46:03Speaker 2: adhering to due process. You know, literally, they've they've caused
- 1:46:08Speaker 2: male victims to disappear entirely through statistical chicanery, and they
- 1:46:13Speaker 2: turn around and blame men for wanting to process. Astounding,
- 1:46:18Speaker 2: isn't it like again? Manisphere, guys, you really need to
- 1:46:22Speaker 2: step up your hatred game and your rhetoric around stripping
- 1:46:28Speaker 2: recognition of female victims and stripping women's rights, because you're
- 1:46:32Speaker 2: feminists are really really out gaming you on this, right.
- 1:46:36Speaker 2: It's just that they're just, I don't know, they're just
- 1:46:39Speaker 2: like the superstars of contempt towards opposite sex victims. You
- 1:46:45Speaker 2: gotta step your game up.
- 1:46:47Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we're not both sides, right, all right? Number
- 1:46:52Speaker 1: twelve right the last one, yep, modern the.
- 1:46:59Speaker 2: Word last Oh shit, I used it. What it means
- 1:47:03Speaker 2: everybody tunes out? Don't tune out, guys, We're not done yet.
- 1:47:07Speaker 1: Oh Alison, you're you're only making it worse when you
- 1:47:10Speaker 1: obsess over that. Nova fan twenty one gave us a
- 1:47:13Speaker 1: rumble rant for a dollar and says, I can't remember
- 1:47:16Speaker 1: the TV show or movie it's from, but there's a
- 1:47:18Speaker 1: guy that's a straw man of a masculine man saying
- 1:47:21Speaker 1: there's a female. I'm gonna talk to it. Oh, I
- 1:47:24Speaker 1: don't know. It sounds like maybe like Mary with children
- 1:47:28Speaker 1: or something, but I don't know. I could be wrong,
- 1:47:32Speaker 1: or or maybe a futurama thing. I don't know. All right,
- 1:47:36Speaker 1: So number twelve. Modern women aren't worth commitment or marriage.
- 1:47:42Speaker 1: The manosphere teaches that marriage is a trap where men
- 1:47:45Speaker 1: risk losing everything in divorce, and modern women aren't good
- 1:47:48Speaker 1: enough to justify that risk.
- 1:47:49Speaker 2: We just invented that. We just invented it. We just
- 1:47:53Speaker 2: invented family law, Like, yeah.
- 1:47:56Speaker 1: Yeah, you are making up statistics, Yeah, we're making up
- 1:48:01Speaker 1: and alimony.
- 1:48:02Speaker 2: And oh, guys who've experienced family court and divorce and
- 1:48:09Speaker 2: have seen your male relatives and friends go through family
- 1:48:11Speaker 2: court and divorce, No, that wasn't real. I was just
- 1:48:15Speaker 2: mean projecting things into your brain. There you go. Okay,
- 1:48:19Speaker 2: all right?
- 1:48:21Speaker 1: Uh, and modern women aren't good enough to justify that risk.
- 1:48:25Speaker 1: This frame's commitment as something men give women rather than
- 1:48:28Speaker 1: mutual partnership. That's interesting. Can I just say that's really
- 1:48:33Speaker 1: interesting right there? Because I well, I would say that
- 1:48:37Speaker 1: women are the gig keepers of sex and men are
- 1:48:39Speaker 1: the giate, but men are the gig keepers of commitment.
- 1:48:42Speaker 1: But apparently this is sort of exposing that. It's what
- 1:48:46Speaker 1: I'm saying is true. If it's true that men gatekeep
- 1:48:49Speaker 1: commitment historically, this is trying to claim that they should
- 1:48:54Speaker 1: never have that power and that it should be they
- 1:48:57Speaker 1: call it mutual, but they're trying to take away from
- 1:49:00Speaker 1: men and give it to women. Yes, Ultimately, they want
- 1:49:02Speaker 1: to give women all of the authority and none of
- 1:49:05Speaker 1: the responsibility. Men have all the responsibility and none of
- 1:49:08Speaker 1: the authority.
- 1:49:10Speaker 2: Even if you don't frame it as men or the
- 1:49:11Speaker 2: gatekeepers of commitment, they are the gatekeepers of their commitment.
- 1:49:16Speaker 1: Yes, right at the very least right.
- 1:49:18Speaker 2: Yeah, So this this is saying, yeah, this frame commitment
- 1:49:22Speaker 2: is something men give. Yes, it is something men give
- 1:49:25Speaker 2: women because men have the right to consent. Like, do
- 1:49:28Speaker 2: you have an issue with men consenting to things? It's feminists,
- 1:49:31Speaker 2: of course you do. Okay, okay.
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: It encourages men to use women for physical intimacy without
- 1:49:38Speaker 1: offering relationships stability.
- 1:49:40Speaker 2: Well they don't have.
- 1:49:41Speaker 1: It's often paired with the idea that men should focus
- 1:49:43Speaker 1: on wealth and sleep around while women desperately seek commitment
- 1:49:46Speaker 1: they don't deserve.
- 1:49:48Speaker 2: Well it's not true, then, ok But here's the thing.
- 1:49:50Speaker 2: If women aren't desperately seeking commitment, then they're just having
- 1:49:54Speaker 2: casual sex with men who also want casual sex. What's
- 1:49:57Speaker 2: the problem. Why are you manufacturing a problem here? Like,
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: you're basically saying that the manosphere is inventing men are
- 1:50:07Speaker 2: saying men shouldn't commit to women, but the manosphere is
- 1:50:11Speaker 2: also inventing women wanting men to commit to them. Uh okay, Well,
- 1:50:17Speaker 2: then the problem solved. Men don't commit to women and
- 1:50:23Speaker 2: women don't want them to commit to them. Like, do
- 1:50:25Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying if they want two things
- 1:50:28Speaker 2: that are incompatible? Right here? They want men to be
- 1:50:32Speaker 2: denying women's commitment. They want me the manosphere be telling
- 1:50:37Speaker 2: men to deny women commitment, but they also want it
- 1:50:42Speaker 2: to be not true that women want men's commitment, in
- 1:50:45Speaker 2: which case, what's the moral problem with men denying women
- 1:50:49Speaker 2: something they don't want in the first place? And it's
- 1:50:52Speaker 2: all to blame on the manosphere, all this gobbledy goop
- 1:50:55Speaker 2: double think. Okay, all right.
- 1:50:58Speaker 1: The deep dist respect here makes healthy relationships impossible because
- 1:51:03Speaker 1: you can't build partnership with someone you view as fundamentally
- 1:51:07Speaker 1: unworthy of commitment.
- 1:51:08Speaker 2: But they don't. Of course you can't because you just
- 1:51:11Speaker 2: said I'm not interested.
- 1:51:16Speaker 1: You can't.
- 1:51:17Speaker 2: Guys, you can't shovel my walk if you don't want
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: to shovel my walk. Do you see how ridiculous that is? Yeah,
- 1:51:27Speaker 2: men don't want commitment with women, and this is going
- 1:51:30Speaker 2: to result in men not having commitment with women. So
- 1:51:34Speaker 2: men should commit to women that they don't want to
- 1:51:37Speaker 2: commit to, otherwise there will be no commitment. And don't
- 1:51:41Speaker 2: you you don't want fat men? This must have been
- 1:51:48Speaker 2: written by Ai.
- 1:51:50Speaker 1: No. I think it's I think it's real. You think it's.
- 1:51:54Speaker 1: The talking points are all the same ones too, Like
- 1:51:57Speaker 1: people need new material.
- 1:52:00Speaker 2: Well, if they had new material that they'd be talking
- 1:52:03Speaker 2: our stuff.
- 1:52:04Speaker 1: Yeah, there's really nowhere else they can go except there's
- 1:52:07Speaker 1: nowhere else.
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: They can go, like they they've gotten to the absolute
- 1:52:13Speaker 2: state of denying men the legitimacy of male autonomy period.
- 1:52:18Speaker 2: Like men don't have the right to withdraw consent to commitment, right,
- 1:52:23Speaker 2: and men don't have the right to presume innocence, you know,
- 1:52:27Speaker 2: Like this is all basically just saying men, you shouldn't
- 1:52:30Speaker 2: be allowed to judge things. You should just have our opinions,
- 1:52:35Speaker 2: and that's it, all right. So the the switcheroo is
- 1:52:41Speaker 2: modern women aren't worth committing, worth commitment or marriage. Now,
- 1:52:46Speaker 2: before I do the switcheroo, I just want to point
- 1:52:47Speaker 2: out that I have data that indicates that the current
- 1:52:53Speaker 2: generations of women are the most sexually violent generation of
- 1:52:58Speaker 2: women or people in history. So if men had these numbers,
- 1:53:06Speaker 2: you better believe that feminists would be screaming about it
- 1:53:09Speaker 2: from every mountaintop and they would be saying how Generation
- 1:53:14Speaker 2: Z is just that they aren't worthy of relationships, they
- 1:53:18Speaker 2: aren't worthy of women, that women should should just boycott
- 1:53:22Speaker 2: Generation Z because they are the rapist generation out there.
- 1:53:26Speaker 2: That's what feminists would be saying. So I have a
- 1:53:30Speaker 2: lot of sympathy towards the men who say we need
- 1:53:32Speaker 2: to boycott these current generations of women because they're rape.
- 1:53:38Speaker 2: They have a real issue with the idea that men
- 1:53:41Speaker 2: can say no. I wonder where they got that from.
- 1:53:45Speaker 2: Maybe it's something they picked up on from this entire
- 1:53:50Speaker 2: social movement that seems to really struggle with the idea
- 1:53:54Speaker 2: that men have the right to things like their own mind,
- 1:53:57Speaker 2: their own bodies, their own own judgments of things, right
- 1:54:02Speaker 2: they did. Feminists seem to really struggle with the fact
- 1:54:05Speaker 2: that men exist separately from their approval. You know, maybe
- 1:54:10Speaker 2: maybe that attitude sort of filtered down to the younger
- 1:54:13Speaker 2: generation of women, and now they think that a man
- 1:54:16Speaker 2: saying no to them is some kind of affront to
- 1:54:20Speaker 2: their very existence and they and they gotta they gotta
- 1:54:24Speaker 2: correct that shit. And I'm not talking like I don't know,
- 1:54:28Speaker 2: uh tying up or uh like just like pushing weapons.
- 1:54:34Speaker 2: Millennial women, gen Z women use weapons more often than
- 1:54:39Speaker 2: any other group or generation. It's freaking astounding that that
- 1:54:44Speaker 2: would just be everywhere. You gotta know that that would
- 1:54:46Speaker 2: be everywhere. And gen Z men would never hear the
- 1:54:49Speaker 2: end of how they are not worthy of women's attention
- 1:54:53Speaker 2: and relationships and anything because of that behavior. But of
- 1:54:57Speaker 2: course the re is not true, all right, So this
- 1:55:02Speaker 2: is the actual reverse statement for feminists. Most men are trash, unsafe,
- 1:55:07Speaker 2: or emotionally unavailable. Marriage relationships with men are a bad
- 1:55:10Speaker 2: deal unless heavily vetted or state constrained, because again, relationships
- 1:55:15Speaker 2: with men are the site of patriarchal violence against women.
- 1:55:20Speaker 2: So yeah, modern women aren't worth commitment or marriage. You
- 1:55:26Speaker 2: got to up your game, Manisphere people, they are men,
- 1:55:31Speaker 2: because not only you're lagging again, because the feminists not
- 1:55:36Speaker 2: only say that men are trash and unsafe and emotionally unavailable,
- 1:55:40Speaker 2: they also construct an entire hypothesis around that that gives
- 1:55:46Speaker 2: them incredible power over policy and HR departments and everything.
- 1:55:52Speaker 2: And you don't have that. You don't like, Manisphere men,
- 1:55:57Speaker 2: you need to get on that patriarchy and up your
- 1:55:59Speaker 2: game to compete with the level of influence. And speaking
- 1:56:05Speaker 2: of the level of influence, I don't know I can
- 1:56:07Speaker 2: go through how much money each of these are. Gender
- 1:56:10Speaker 2: reverse feminist mainstream framing about men makes makes people because this,
- 1:56:15Speaker 2: I mean, like this isn't this stuff makes money. Guys
- 1:56:19Speaker 2: like these narratives that I just talked about, the gender
- 1:56:22Speaker 2: reversed feminist framing, they make money. They make people money.
- 1:56:28Speaker 2: So let's maybe let's go through that so find out why. Yeah, okay,
- 1:56:33Speaker 2: So men are emotionally stunted, lack empathy, cannot communicate, and
- 1:56:36Speaker 2: need women to civilize them. Male socialization makes men less
- 1:56:40Speaker 2: safe and less relationally competent. That's number one. How much
- 1:56:44Speaker 2: does that make the average feminist or just feminism in
- 1:56:48Speaker 2: generally five to ten billion tied to toxic masculinity, Male socialization,
- 1:56:56Speaker 2: DVSA prevention, and gender education work focusing on men and boys.
- 1:57:02Speaker 2: That's what that narrative supports. A five to ten billion
- 1:57:06Speaker 2: dollar industry just focused on educating boys about how awful
- 1:57:10Speaker 2: they are. Okay, men are okay. Number two, Men only
- 1:57:15Speaker 2: care about youth, beauty and sex. They discard women as
- 1:57:18Speaker 2: they age and replace them with younger models, male gaze
- 1:57:21Speaker 2: and trophy wife culture. All right, let's see if that
- 1:57:24Speaker 2: one to two billion in grants, campaigns, research, and media
- 1:57:27Speaker 2: work on objectification, body image, male gaze, and related dating
- 1:57:32Speaker 2: relationship narratives. So that's one to two billion in basically
- 1:57:38Speaker 2: anti lookism, fat positivity, and that kind of stuff. So
- 1:57:42Speaker 2: that's the real that's I mean, it's not as good
- 1:57:44Speaker 2: as the toxic masculinity in terms of being a money spinner.
- 1:57:47Speaker 2: But it's not bad. You know. Can you imagine just
- 1:57:50Speaker 2: getting getting something like that as a check in the mail, Brian.
- 1:57:55Speaker 1: I, you know, that would be nice.
- 1:58:00Speaker 2: I have a lot of things.
- 1:58:01Speaker 1: I'm surprised I'm not. This is why I'm surprised people
- 1:58:05Speaker 1: call it scripters.
- 1:58:07Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
- 1:58:08Speaker 1: If I really wanted to make money, I just and
- 1:58:10Speaker 1: I know they're talking points. I can do them better
- 1:58:12Speaker 1: than they can.
- 1:58:13Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like if you're a smart person, oh my soul. Yeah,
- 1:58:17Speaker 2: if you're willing to kill your soul and you're a
- 1:58:18Speaker 2: smart person who's got the gifted gab, you could you
- 1:58:21Speaker 2: could really make bank with this. Okay. So number three,
- 1:58:24Speaker 2: men become less desirable with age because they are immature,
- 1:58:28Speaker 2: stuck or Peter pans. Women peak later as they gain
- 1:58:31Speaker 2: confidence career in sexual agency. So if men fail to launch,
- 1:58:36Speaker 2: then they lose value. Basically three zero point five to
- 1:58:41Speaker 2: one billion around empowering over older women, anti agism, media narratives,
- 1:58:46Speaker 2: and associated relationship mental health sectors. You know, it seems
- 1:58:50Speaker 2: like feminism actually probably should be giving kickbacks to the
- 1:58:54Speaker 2: manosphere because the manosphere is maintaining these victim narratives that
- 1:58:58Speaker 2: make them so much money.
- 1:59:00Speaker 1: That's true.
- 1:59:01Speaker 2: You know you mentioned, yeah, you should be getting your cut.
- 1:59:07Speaker 2: Four women are men are manipulative? Coercive, predatory, gas letting
- 1:59:12Speaker 2: and coercive control is framed as male typical tools to
- 1:59:16Speaker 2: dominate partners. What's number four worth? That's the feminist framework.
- 1:59:20Speaker 2: Five to ten billion in DV coercive control services, training courts,
- 1:59:27Speaker 2: and therapeutic programs that frame male manipulation as structural. Wow,
- 1:59:33Speaker 2: that's a lot these narratives, these feminist narratives, they really Wow.
- 1:59:41Speaker 2: That's for nothing, for an invented framework that bears no
- 1:59:46Speaker 2: relation to reality. This sum oppressive, okay, high value women.
- 1:59:54Speaker 2: High value women are told never to settle, keep options open,
- 1:59:57Speaker 2: and that's a lot of cat food, date up and
- 2:00:01Speaker 2: leave men who don't meet standards. Male reluctance to commit
- 2:00:05Speaker 2: is demonized, while female serial monogamy is framed as growth.
- 2:00:09Speaker 2: That is number five. Let's see what's what that's worth
- 2:00:11Speaker 2: to the feminist industrial complex. Sorry, it's just opening argument,
- 2:00:15Speaker 2: all right. One to three billion in relationship advice, coaching,
- 2:00:19Speaker 2: media and NGIO messaging pushing never settle, date up, empowerment frames.
- 2:00:24Speaker 2: So that's all the big dating strategy gurus, the women
- 2:00:30Speaker 2: like Shira who tell them a woman who's got the
- 2:00:33Speaker 2: commitment of a man who's about to graduate with a
- 2:00:35Speaker 2: degree in engineering, that why should she wait? Why should
- 2:00:39Speaker 2: she wait the two weeks before he graduates. I wouldn't
- 2:00:42Speaker 2: do that. I'd want an engineer who's already practicing, you know, like,
- 2:00:49Speaker 2: that's that's that's some pretty amazing that women will pay
- 2:00:54Speaker 2: other women to destroy their relationship prospects. Yeah, okay, six.
- 2:01:01Speaker 2: Patriarchy has destroyed women in society. Mail power is this
- 2:01:04Speaker 2: core structural harm that must be dismantled. Male privilege is
- 2:01:08Speaker 2: toxic by default? What's that one? Worth twenty to forty billion?
- 2:01:14Speaker 2: Forty billion for the for the core feminist NGO academic
- 2:01:19Speaker 2: policy complex. So this is the epicenter you and women,
- 2:01:24Speaker 2: gender ministries, shelters, research institutions, advocacy networks built on patriarchy theory.
- 2:01:31Speaker 2: I you know what, I'm starting to suspect that these
- 2:01:33Speaker 2: people just don't want the manosphere to hone in on
- 2:01:36Speaker 2: their turf.
- 2:01:41Speaker 1: Oh for sure, for sure. Yeah, they see them as
- 2:01:44Speaker 1: as financial competition. Although the manisphere, even though there are
- 2:01:49Speaker 1: some that have a lot of money, I don't think
- 2:01:51Speaker 1: they made their money doing a lot of it doing this.
- 2:01:53Speaker 1: But it's a dropping a bucket compared to this, it's
- 2:01:56Speaker 1: a dropping a bucket.
- 2:01:57Speaker 2: It's like Coca Cola or Pepsi coller.
- 2:02:02Speaker 1: I mean, patriarchy's slipping, guys, Yeah, slipping all. Yeah, Why
- 2:02:06Speaker 1: isn't it just raking it in? I mean.
- 2:02:10Speaker 2: Patriarchy is not very effective? No, okay. So it's like
- 2:02:17Speaker 2: that that Pepsi co, like the the whatever owns pepsi
- 2:02:21Speaker 2: thinking that a kid with a lemonade stand is competition.
- 2:02:25Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're just putting out article after article about
- 2:02:28Speaker 1: the lemonade stand. Yeah, and like how you shouldn't go
- 2:02:31Speaker 1: there and buy their lemonade.
- 2:02:34Speaker 2: Don't go to Little Timmy's lemonade stand. Oh man, Men
- 2:02:40Speaker 2: are biologically This is another feminist narrative. Men are biologically aggressive,
- 2:02:44Speaker 2: dominance orientated, and risk taking, which is used to explain
- 2:02:48Speaker 2: violence and justify re engineering masculinity. It's number seven. Let's see,
- 2:02:52Speaker 2: let's see what it's worth. Well, it's not a bad.
- 2:02:55Speaker 2: One five to ten billion for violence prevention, masculine retraining
- 2:03:01Speaker 2: in school campaigns that treat male biology norms as a
- 2:03:04Speaker 2: risk to be managed. Wow, that that must be pretty
- 2:03:07Speaker 2: lucrative for those bureaucrats, you know, just being the uh
- 2:03:13Speaker 2: head bureaucrat in charge of whipping little boys behinds until
- 2:03:17Speaker 2: they learn to not be toxically masculine. Yeah, okay. Number eight,
- 2:03:25Speaker 2: men weaponize sex and relationships using coercion, cheating, withdrawal, and
- 2:03:31Speaker 2: even rape as tools of patriarchy. Relationships are sites of
- 2:03:35Speaker 2: male violence. Wow, that's a big kohuna. I wonder that
- 2:03:38Speaker 2: that's worth ten to twenty billion. Not as much as
- 2:03:42Speaker 2: the core, but that's doing pretty well. Like it's a
- 2:03:45Speaker 2: front runner off in violence against women, rape culture, and
- 2:03:49Speaker 2: consent education infrastructures that conceptualize relationships as sites of male
- 2:03:54Speaker 2: sexual danger. Gosh, guys, maybe you guys, like, maybe men
- 2:03:59Speaker 2: should be asking for a cut of this. They're being
- 2:04:04Speaker 2: they're starring in these narratives and they aren't even getting
- 2:04:07Speaker 2: any royalties. Nine singing are absent, dangerous, or incompetent. Men
- 2:04:16Speaker 2: abandon families and leave women to pick up the pieces.
- 2:04:19Speaker 2: Deadbeat dad narrative. All right, what's that one? Ten to
- 2:04:25Speaker 2: thirty billion?
- 2:04:26Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say, the dead be Dad narrative
- 2:04:27Speaker 1: has got to be big.
- 2:04:28Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's a whopper that's big money in welfare,
- 2:04:33Speaker 2: social work, and NGO systems orientated to single mother households
- 2:04:37Speaker 2: and promised on failing abusive fathers. I'm pretty sure that
- 2:04:41Speaker 2: complex is worth while more than thirty ten to thirty billion.
- 2:04:44Speaker 2: I think I'm going to challenge perplexity on that one,
- 2:04:47Speaker 2: but I'll get through this first. Okay, So ten, men
- 2:04:53Speaker 2: can't Male power and male dominated leadership are inherently oppressive.
- 2:04:58Speaker 2: Any male led institution is s respect is patriarchy. You
- 2:05:01Speaker 2: must be fixed with gender quoteras and oversight. Okay. Number ten,
- 2:05:05Speaker 2: twenty ten to twenty five billion in DEI, gender parity,
- 2:05:10Speaker 2: quota enforcement, leadership, training and compliance justified by toxic male leadership. Now,
- 2:05:15Speaker 2: just just to clarify, guys, these are approximates.
- 2:05:18Speaker 1: It's like ballparks.
- 2:05:20Speaker 2: But you got you know that this is this is
- 2:05:23Speaker 2: probably undercounts, massive undercounts, especially when it comes to DEI.
- 2:05:29Speaker 2: I think that like twenty five billion is like one
- 2:05:31Speaker 2: black rock contract, all right. Number eleven believe women believe survivors.
- 2:05:39Speaker 2: In practice, men's denials are treated as suspect, and male
- 2:05:42Speaker 2: guilt is often presumed in sexual DV contexts. It's number
- 2:05:46Speaker 2: eleven on the top twelve reversed feminist reversing manosphere toxic
- 2:05:54Speaker 2: attitudes towards women to reverse engineer their feminist counterparts. Okay,
- 2:05:59Speaker 2: ten twenty billion across Title nine style bureaucracies, hir compliance systems.
- 2:06:05Speaker 2: Essay is sexual violence and domestic violence, non governmental organizations cathods,
- 2:06:11Speaker 2: processes and legal reforms centered on believe women. Whoo, that's
- 2:06:15Speaker 2: a big one too. I Actually, as we're going down,
- 2:06:18Speaker 2: they're getting a little bit. No, no, this one isn't okay.
- 2:06:21Speaker 2: Number twelve modern Okay, modern women aren't worth commitment, which
- 2:06:26Speaker 2: is mapped onto most men are trash, unsafe, or emotionally unavailable.
- 2:06:31Speaker 2: Marriage relationships with men are a bad idea unless heavily
- 2:06:34Speaker 2: vetted or state constrained. States got to get its fingers
- 2:06:38Speaker 2: in there, ladies. Twelve five to fifteen billion for services,
- 2:06:45Speaker 2: content and policy normalizing female independence for men and single
- 2:06:49Speaker 2: mother family structures often sidelining fathers. Well, there you go.
- 2:06:54Speaker 2: Those are the twelve. So we mapped the manosphere content
- 2:06:58Speaker 2: the manosphere. Are these what they described as the top
- 2:07:01Speaker 2: twelve most toxic manosphere talking points reverse the genders. Mapped
- 2:07:07Speaker 2: them onto feminist orthodoxy, and the first thing we found,
- 2:07:10Speaker 2: of course, was when we mapped it onto feminist orthodoxy.
- 2:07:13Speaker 2: Feminist orthodoxy was several orders of magnitude more hateful, contemptuous, universalizing,
- 2:07:20Speaker 2: and uh and also influential and normal normal, and more
- 2:07:26Speaker 2: money and a lot more money, way more, a lot
- 2:07:29Speaker 2: more money, way more money. So there you go, folks,
- 2:07:33Speaker 2: the manosphere really should stop honing in on feminism's territory.
- 2:07:39Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, that's the lesson.
- 2:07:43Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the lesson here. Get off the get off
- 2:07:46Speaker 2: their turf. It's their protection racket, and they don't like you,
- 2:07:50Speaker 2: then you know it'd be nice, uh nice, nice YouTube
- 2:07:56Speaker 2: channel you got. There be a shame if uh if
- 2:08:01Speaker 2: YouTube were too de boo deep de boost you in
- 2:08:05Speaker 2: the algorithm. Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tally it up. I
- 2:08:15Speaker 2: just got perplexity to tally it up. I'm probably gonna
- 2:08:18Speaker 2: I think that I think that single Mother one is
- 2:08:21Speaker 2: a blow all right, low end eighty two point five
- 2:08:29Speaker 2: billion per year that they're making off of missingry, high
- 2:08:34Speaker 2: end eighteen points eight oh boy one and eighty six
- 2:08:40Speaker 2: billion per year that they're making off of Missonry. And
- 2:08:45Speaker 2: they have the flipping audacity to complain about little Timmy's
- 2:08:49Speaker 2: lemonade stand. Can you imagine how many actual services could
- 2:09:02Speaker 2: be funded with this?
- 2:09:04Speaker 1: Like, yeah, could you imagine shelters for men? You can
- 2:09:07Speaker 1: give them, you can, you can build schlters for.
- 2:09:12Speaker 2: You can actually a domestic violence that actually addresses the issues,
- 2:09:19Speaker 2: doesn't deny half the data, and really affects real change
- 2:09:24Speaker 2: because you could pursue interventions not based on whether they
- 2:09:27Speaker 2: are ideologically convenient for feminists, but whether or not they work.
- 2:09:31Speaker 2: Could you imagine justin Tracia would never have to worry ever? Again? Yeah,
- 2:09:38Speaker 2: people could be saved.
- 2:09:41Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. But then you can't get the government
- 2:09:43Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, I mean that's that's what they want.
- 2:09:49Speaker 2: Well, a lot of this is corporate funds too, but.
- 2:09:53Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, but I mean, like they want the redistribution
- 2:09:56Speaker 1: of men's money into women's money. And that's the like,
- 2:09:59Speaker 1: why even if they're like what I'm saying, if they're
- 2:10:02Speaker 1: riaking in most you know, tens of billions of dollars
- 2:10:05Speaker 1: and they're not building any shelters, it's because they want
- 2:10:07Speaker 1: the tax burden of building the shelters. They want the
- 2:10:11Speaker 1: men to build them with their money while they keep
- 2:10:14Speaker 1: the tens of billions it's reparations or something, that's all.
- 2:10:19Speaker 2: It's amazing how justice lucrative. It's amazing how lucrative the this, Like,
- 2:10:25Speaker 2: you know, in a patriarchy that puts men's benefit first,
- 2:10:31Speaker 2: you would think that this would not be so lucrative.
- 2:10:37Speaker 2: Denying men the right to any benefit would be so lucrative,
- 2:10:42Speaker 2: Denying men even the right to think, to have opinions,
- 2:10:48Speaker 2: to have lifestyle coaches for them, for them that recognize
- 2:10:53Speaker 2: that men might have their own particular approach to life,
- 2:10:56Speaker 2: for goals like you think the patriarchy you would be
- 2:11:00Speaker 2: okay with. Apparently not. Apparently patriarchy puts a lot of
- 2:11:04Speaker 2: money into proving that men shouldn't exist unless they're completely
- 2:11:08Speaker 2: controlled by women or feminists. Anyway, Okay, I am. My
- 2:11:16Speaker 2: surprise has reached an all time low. I don't think
- 2:11:20Speaker 2: I could be less surprised until I'm actually dead. We
- 2:11:25Speaker 2: got another super.
- 2:11:26Speaker 1: Child, Yeah, I got two super I got a super
- 2:11:28Speaker 1: Chat and a super Child. So Frank Rizzo gave us
- 2:11:32Speaker 1: a super Chat for twenty dollars. Thank you, thank you
- 2:11:35Speaker 1: so much, really appreciate it. And he says, thanks, that's it.
- 2:11:40Speaker 1: And then I got a super Chow from Meredith g
- 2:11:43Speaker 1: thank you, Meredith, let me see what I can get,
- 2:11:48Speaker 1: and she gives us five dollars and says twelve toxic.
- 2:11:53Speaker 1: So recently heard a victim advocate state that false allegations
- 2:11:58Speaker 1: are rare, then turn around that there is this lie
- 2:12:02Speaker 1: because eighty percent of accuser statements are to police are withdrawn,
- 2:12:06Speaker 1: which doesn't mean the victims are lying. I'm going to
- 2:12:10Speaker 1: point out that as far as the courts are concerned,
- 2:12:12Speaker 1: an accuser doesn't get multiple bites at the apple to
- 2:12:15Speaker 1: bring charges because of due process. While so while the
- 2:12:19Speaker 1: court deemed the accusation is false, it isn't because a
- 2:12:22Speaker 1: trial proved them false, but because the withdrawal renders the
- 2:12:24Speaker 1: original statements as false. Guess what when you withdraw a
- 2:12:28Speaker 1: statements or saying that it's false evidence, No, that's not.
- 2:12:31Speaker 2: What's going on.
- 2:12:32Speaker 1: What's going on.
- 2:12:35Speaker 2: This has proven false allegations. So the standard of evidence
- 2:12:40Speaker 2: is higher than just cleared or no crimed or whatever.
- 2:12:47Speaker 2: This is like, this is when you compare when when
- 2:12:51Speaker 2: they talk about two to eight percent that has proven
- 2:12:54Speaker 2: false accusations, So it's not this, it's not the gray area.
- 2:12:58Speaker 1: And then they compare that to yeah, but he's saying here,
- 2:13:02Speaker 1: eighty percent of accusers are staments police are withdrawn. I
- 2:13:09Speaker 1: don't know.
- 2:13:09Speaker 2: If you're doesn't mean they're not lying.
- 2:13:11Speaker 1: You understand her posts.
- 2:13:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand it. Like it doesn't mean that they're
- 2:13:16Speaker 2: not lying, right, It doesn't like you can't tell anything
- 2:13:21Speaker 2: they're withdrawn.
- 2:13:23Speaker 1: No, I know, But I'm not sure that Meredith is
- 2:13:25Speaker 1: claiming that they are.
- 2:13:26Speaker 2: No, no, no, I know she's saying. She's saying that
- 2:13:29Speaker 2: this is what a victim advocate stated, And I think
- 2:13:32Speaker 2: she just wants is to get our opinion on it.
- 2:13:35Speaker 2: And my opinion is one, when you compare like to like,
- 2:13:38Speaker 2: the ratio is not like two to ninety eight, it's
- 2:13:42Speaker 2: two to like four, right, and if and in this case,
- 2:13:47Speaker 2: you don't know what's going on, so there's no point
- 2:13:50Speaker 2: conjecturing about it like that. She has a data point.
- 2:13:53Speaker 2: Eighty percent of accuser statements are to police are withdrawn. Right,
- 2:13:59Speaker 2: she has a data point, and she's reading into that,
- 2:14:02Speaker 2: and she's reading in her own impressional it's because the
- 2:14:05Speaker 2: police aren't going to help them, or they're afraid, or
- 2:14:08Speaker 2: they're they're intimidated, or or they're not going to get
- 2:14:11Speaker 2: a fair trial. Right. But that's reading into it. You
- 2:14:16Speaker 2: can't read anything into it. Really, that's not a statement
- 2:14:20Speaker 2: you can say anything about.
- 2:14:23Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand.
- 2:14:28Speaker 2: So while the court deemed the caccusation is false, it
- 2:14:30Speaker 2: isn't because the trial proved them false, but because the
- 2:14:32Speaker 2: withdrawal renders the original statements is false. No, that's not
- 2:14:36Speaker 2: where that is put. Okay, and that's not what's informing
- 2:14:42Speaker 2: the verified false versus the verified true. Like this is
- 2:14:46Speaker 2: just something that's coming out of left field. Yeah, but
- 2:14:53Speaker 2: it is true. Yeah. Guess what when you withdraw a statement,
- 2:14:56Speaker 2: you are saying that it is false evidence. Yeah, but
- 2:14:58Speaker 2: I think that the cop will allow that you maybe
- 2:15:02Speaker 2: you're mistaken or you updated your impression or something like
- 2:15:06Speaker 2: I'm unless you end up really wasting their time or
- 2:15:11Speaker 2: harming someone. I don't think you're gonna end up with
- 2:15:14Speaker 2: a false accusation accusation. So anyway, I'll go check the
- 2:15:23Speaker 2: I'll check the things and see if there's any further
- 2:15:28Speaker 2: No wait, no, no, that was Meredith. All right, So
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- 2:15:50Speaker 2: a narrative. Sorry, It's not the easiest reality to keep
- 2:15:53Speaker 2: recognizing year after year after year. But we keep doing
- 2:15:57Speaker 2: it in part because you allow us to be able
- 2:15:59Speaker 2: to do it, and because, well, at least on my part,
- 2:16:01Speaker 2: I can't just walk away from this. I can't walk
- 2:16:04Speaker 2: away from the fact that men are suffering, women are suffering.
- 2:16:09Speaker 2: There's a gigantic, pompous ideology that's continuing the suffering and
- 2:16:15Speaker 2: making lots of money doing it. So if you would
- 2:16:18Speaker 2: like to help fight back against that, feed the Badger,
- 2:16:21Speaker 2: I'll calm slash support. And if you'd like to send
- 2:16:23Speaker 2: a message feed the Badgert, I'll calm slash just the
- 2:16:25Speaker 2: tip with the tip and I'll hand it back to
- 2:16:29Speaker 2: you Brian for final thoughts and whatever else.
- 2:16:33Speaker 1: No, I think we covered it pretty well, so I'll
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