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DLHS Hour 2 | Men with money are expected to share · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: The question we're asking. So a woman, she says, this.
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  Speaker 2: Man with money is expected to share, but a woman
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  Speaker 2: with money is told she doesn't need a man, same income,
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  Speaker 2: totally different rules. Let me explain before you get mad.
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  Speaker 2: In our culture, men are taught from day one that
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  Speaker 2: if they're not earning, they're failing. If they can't provide,
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  Speaker 2: they're not real men. If they don't pick up the check,
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  Speaker 2: they're broker stingy. A man's value is often reduced to
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  Speaker 2: his financial output. Now flip the script. When women become successful,
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  Speaker 2: we don't expect them to carry anybody. In fact, we
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  Speaker 2: celebrate it as a form of freedom. Yes, queen, you're independent.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't need a man.
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  Speaker 1: I think that there's something to be said. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: not in a disrespectful way at all, But I think
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  Speaker 1: if the most insulting thing you could do who a
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  Speaker 1: woman is as for you to change back, I think they
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  Speaker 1: get insulted by that. I think if you anything financial,
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  Speaker 1: there is an inherent bent toward it being the purview
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  Speaker 1: and responsibility of the man.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think you guys make it that way.
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  Speaker 1: No, we didn't make it.
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  Speaker 3: You want with that, you want right along.
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  Speaker 1: With indoctrinated, just like you were indoctrinated. We were too.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure I benefit from everybody the rules. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: I'm not casting blame here, Darling sounds like just not
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  Speaker 1: at all. I'm trying to be more reasonable because y'all
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  Speaker 1: call white women here, call police team in here. So fast, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Not quite down yet.
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  Speaker 1: You're safe. You won't you won't get me. So, uh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think that there's some merit to it. I do.
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  Speaker 1: I think that, you know, culturally, I think that societally,
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  Speaker 1: uh yeah, But there are a lot of dudes I
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  Speaker 1: know who live off women too.
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  Speaker 3: Now, no for sure, but okay, let me let me
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  Speaker 3: just say this, I know without a doubt that more.
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  Speaker 3: But if your daughter called you and said that I'm
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  Speaker 3: taking care of this dude, that right.
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  Speaker 1: There a blow gun, a high power.
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  Speaker 4: Five.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah we have.
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  Speaker 5: We have blow gun.
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  Speaker 1: So to your point on the frog, you know, yes,
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  Speaker 1: that that would be an issue for me.
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  Speaker 6: Of course, this is a difference between taking care of
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  Speaker 6: a man and contributing to the households.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, like like where he's from, they hunt and
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  Speaker 1: then women go to the river and beat clothes against rocks.
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  Speaker 3: So it's not they're called gatherers, hunters.
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  Speaker 1: Sweep out the hut. You know important, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: know that. But it's true, it's it's it's true.
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  Speaker 3: And then skip, I'm sure you tell the same thing
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  Speaker 3: to your daughter, because I think there is a certain
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  Speaker 3: kind of I don't know, kind of opinion that goes
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  Speaker 3: with it that if you have to depend on a man,
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  Speaker 3: whether not not not speaking about marriage, but in a relationship,
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  Speaker 3: some men will hold that over you and you like
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  Speaker 3: you owe them something.
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  Speaker 1: If you have to depend on a man in my
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  Speaker 1: in my house, or if you have to depend on
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  Speaker 1: the man, you're a horrible lesbian. I'm just telling you
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  Speaker 1: that that's you're doing it all wrong. It's a little
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  Speaker 1: close to home. I think, yes, you speak your truth,
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  Speaker 1: brother speak. Skip, what do you think a man?
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  Speaker 6: I think we all talked taught that it was you know, docrinette,
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  Speaker 6: you got a son, or you take care of your woman,
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  Speaker 6: and if you got a daughter, hey, you a man
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  Speaker 6: supposed to take care of you in that day you
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  Speaker 6: pocket your money in case of this is an emergency
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  Speaker 6: rainy day, you should be able to take care of yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And so, yeah, it's some truth to that. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I agree. All right, So we're gonna find out what
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  Speaker 1: you say. Does you have a point. So this is
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  Speaker 1: the question we're asking.
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  Speaker 2: Man with money is expected to share, but a woman
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  Speaker 2: with money is told she doesn't need a man. Same income,
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  Speaker 2: totally different rules. Let me explain before you get mad.
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  Speaker 2: In our culture, man are talk day one that if
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  Speaker 2: they're not earning, they're failing. If they can't provide, they're
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  Speaker 2: not real men. If they don't pick up the check,
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  Speaker 2: they're broker stingy. A man's value is often reduced to
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  Speaker 2: his financial output. Now flip the script. When women become successful,
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  Speaker 2: we don't expect them to carry anybody. In fact, we
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  Speaker 2: celebrate it as a form of freedom. Yes, queen, you're independent.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't need a man. He's expected to provide, but
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  Speaker 2: she's expected to escape. Because if we really want partnership,
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  Speaker 2: then we need to stop placing all the financial burden
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  Speaker 2: on one side, well celebrating freedom on the other.
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  Speaker 1: Do she have we we'll go right their phones.
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  Speaker 7: I think she is so right.
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  Speaker 8: I think women are not act like women.
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  Speaker 7: I do believe that men are supposed.
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  Speaker 8: To, you know, beat ahead, not the tail.
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  Speaker 9: But you know, eventually when women get up into a
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  Speaker 9: life and get their money right, and they are.
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  Speaker 7: They're like, okay, queen to.
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  Speaker 8: No, you always need a man.
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  Speaker 9: That's why God made man made women so we can
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  Speaker 9: be with a man.
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  Speaker 8: But you know, it is what it is.
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  Speaker 4: First of all, from a man's perspective, a woman should
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  Speaker 4: not think she needs a man.
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  Speaker 7: A woman should want a man. The other thing is
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  Speaker 7: what other people think about you ain't none of your business.
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  Speaker 7: So if they think you cheat, they're gonna change your mind.
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  Speaker 10: I totally disagree with that because throughout my marriage with
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  Speaker 10: my husband, we've been married for over thirty eight years,
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  Speaker 10: and I have always been the I guess, I don't
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  Speaker 10: know what you call it, the majority income provider or whatever,
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  Speaker 10: but I've never expected him to match my income because
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  Speaker 10: he can't match my education, he can't match my experience.
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  Speaker 10: All I ever expected from him was that he provides
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  Speaker 10: some sort of support in our household. But I have
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  Speaker 10: always been the majority earner and he's never had a
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  Speaker 10: problem with that, and so it's never been, you know,
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  Speaker 10: in my household, it's never been understood that if he
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  Speaker 10: makes more money, he pays more bills. If I make
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  Speaker 10: more money, then I keep my money.
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  Speaker 4: That's not how it works. I agree with what she
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  Speaker 4: said in theory, but a woman should be taught to
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  Speaker 4: want a man, to want his companionship, to want his love.
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  Speaker 4: When you start talking about you don't need a man.
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  Speaker 4: Needs can be water there and when your needs are
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  Speaker 4: not met, your first thing you do is look for
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  Speaker 4: a way.
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  Speaker 7: To go and get the things that you need.
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  Speaker 4: You don't need a man. You should want a man.
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  Speaker 4: You should want him because he's a man.
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  Speaker 1: A question where asking Lenjilm, she's a woman, said this
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  Speaker 1: bandwidth money is expected to share. But a woman with
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  Speaker 1: money until she doesn't need a man, what do you
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  Speaker 1: think does yet? Boy, we'll go write to their phones.
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  Speaker 8: I did.
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  Speaker 11: That's a difference between a woman and a good woman.
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  Speaker 7: A good woman it's not gonna.
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  Speaker 8: Keep some money to herself.
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  Speaker 11: They gonna make sure that the house is taking care of.
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  Speaker 7: And there's a big difference in a woman and a
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  Speaker 7: good woman.
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  Speaker 12: Now, I said, if you're.
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  Speaker 11: Something a man, a man is supposed to make sure
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  Speaker 11: that needs admit at the house. But people, all short,
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  Speaker 11: a good woman gonna step up and help him and
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  Speaker 11: a household to run on like it's supposed to run out.
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  Speaker 8: Well, first of all, I agree, but I'm not particularly
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  Speaker 8: mad at it because if you think about it, it's
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  Speaker 8: always been transactional. Remember the dowry, remember the goats and
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  Speaker 8: the cattle. But it actually works that way because that
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  Speaker 8: way you don't get your feelings hurt and think there's
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  Speaker 8: love got anything to do with it. Hell, if you
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  Speaker 8: do it in Vegas, you can write it off on
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  Speaker 8: your text.
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  Speaker 1: It's the truth.
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  Speaker 8: The older you get, the sooner you the easier it
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  Speaker 8: is to realize it. You know what, then Chris Rock
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  Speaker 8: say about the transaction with nature of the relationship, so
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  Speaker 8: soon you get used to it, the easier it is
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  Speaker 8: to get used to.
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  Speaker 13: Society has done a job on everyone, and it's called
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  Speaker 13: conditioning because once we're together, we are attained. So all
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  Speaker 13: that who making the most money and who's expected to
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  Speaker 13: do this, it's conditioning and they have done a job
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  Speaker 13: for everyone.
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  Speaker 1: The man shouldn't feel any type of way.
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  Speaker 13: As a matter of fact, I made more money than
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  Speaker 13: my ex husband. But in those I said the word X,
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  Speaker 13: his ego couldn't take it.
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  Speaker 10: So is that my issue?
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  Speaker 8: No, that's his issue.
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  Speaker 13: But am I affected by his issue? Like I say,
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  Speaker 13: social libation and it's alive and will once we become
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  Speaker 13: a team with together, so none of that should even matter.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I think it's fine for a woman and the
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  Speaker 5: man to share financial responsibilities. For me, Biblically speaking, I
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  Speaker 5: think the owners is on the man to be the provider.
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  Speaker 5: Doesn't mean that a woman can't.
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  Speaker 14: Provide and be the bread winner, but I think in
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  Speaker 14: terms of again I say this from a biblical perspective,
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  Speaker 14: I think it's solely, not solely, but the owners is
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  Speaker 14: definitely on the man.
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  Speaker 9: I think that a lot of people speak things and
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  Speaker 9: don't really do their research or don't come from a
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  Speaker 9: point of fact. What she's talking about is pure fallacy.
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  Speaker 9: There are many women who earn, but they earn less
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  Speaker 9: than men, and satistically, we all know that women earn
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  Speaker 9: less than men in many cases, and there are many
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  Speaker 9: women such as myself who have and we're all willing
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  Speaker 9: to take on the financial responsibility of the provider and
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  Speaker 9: the family and do row reversals.
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  Speaker 8: I've been married and I have done it.
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  Speaker 1: So that's a fallacy.
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  Speaker 8: She wasn't she speaking on the few people that she know.
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  Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying, like, what research did she
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  Speaker 9: do to back this up?
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  Speaker 13: Where did she put that from?
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  Speaker 9: Like women don't take their money and just escape and
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  Speaker 9: women or not like you know, I don't know, it's
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  Speaker 9: just to me a fallacy.
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