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The Advice I Give My Clients and Their Dates! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  The advice I give my clients or the women that are going out on
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  dates with my clients before the date is this.
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  Go. Have fun.
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  Do not talk about future. Do not talk about doing anything
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  in the future together. Why?
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  Because people mislead people when they are on the spot.
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  Men do it for women to women when they feel obligated, like,
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  oh, they sense that you like them.
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  Ladies, they'll say things they may or may not mean.
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  And you ladies do the same thing, especially if the guy
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  puts you on the spot and says, hey, want to get together next
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  weekend, you'll go OK, And you may or may not mean it.
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  So never talk about future stuff on a first date.
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  And if somebody's trying to just say, hey, wait, let's just both
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  go and think about this. It seems great.
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  I'm having a good time now, but let's think about it and then
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  circle back to me, you know what I mean?
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  And keep people on a slower pace because it also will give them
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  the space to be honest with you instead of misleading you on the
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  date. Now in my world, when people go
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  out and they don't talk about future, both of them come back
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  to me and they tell me whether or not they want to see each
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  other again. If they do, then I exchange
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  phone numbers, OK, because I also coordinate all the details
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  of the first date. So just go on these dates, have
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  fun with no expectation of future, no talk of the future.
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  Be in the present moment. Don't talk about the past.
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  Don't talk about the future. Stay in the present.
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  All right. I hope it helps.