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Unveiling the Truth: Does Size Really Matter? · The Diva Details

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  Welcome to the Diva Details. Welcome to the Diva Details.
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  Welcome to the Diva Details. I'm Diva Mia. I'm Diva Kat. Buckle in and enjoy the ride.
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  So Kat, what do you think about men's penis sizes? Let's just jump right in.
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  Penis size is really important. Really important.
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  Especially as a woman in this day and age, it has to be just like shoe size. So Kat, how old are you?
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  60. You're 60. So I'm going to be 52.
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  And recently divorced. And you're married still, yeah? I'm married,
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  yes. But dick size matters.
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  Yes, definitely is. You know, it's funny because I used to think that dick size didn't matter so much.
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  I was married for a long time with the same guy for 28 years.
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  And he was a little bit above normal or maybe a little bit above average.
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  We probably shouldn't go too far into that detail.
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  But, and I was like, okay, it can't matter. But then after I got divorced,
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  I had someone that was smaller.
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  Wow. It really does matter. It definitely does.
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  I mean, I've been with my husband for 25 years and prior to that,
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  you know, you, you just have to try it on, just as shoes on.
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  It has to be It doesn't have to be like a certain type of shoes, right?
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  You wear platform, you have to wear a little bit bigger. You have to go a side up.
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  If you wear flat, it has to be true to size. If you wear heels, you need a cushion.
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  So all that goes into, come down to the dick size. Wonderful.
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  And why is that, do you think? Because it has to be comfortable for both parties, not just you.
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  So I've also, I also dated a guy who was huge.
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  And we didn't have sex. And he was huge.
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  And it was so big that it scared the hell out of me.
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  And so that matters, too. People think, oh, the bigger is better. It's not. It's not.
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  No, you got to think about your health. You got to think that thing going to
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  choke you. You might be dead. No.
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  And you've got to think about, I love shoes, so you have to always come down to shoes.
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  Oh, okay. If your shoes are too big, give you a calluses.
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  Yeah. That cannot be comfortable. Yeah.
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  If your shoe is too small, it's also going to give you calluses.
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  And then if your shoe is too loose, you're going to leave your shoes behind.
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  Same goes with a big time.
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  I'm telling you you you i
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  mean i've also came from like different cultures but tell us a little bit more
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  about your background so i'm like have laos have a lot of things but i grew
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  up in the asian community that very judgmental everything is always behind I closed the door.
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  They don't talk openly. I grew up that way.
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  I'm kind of like cracked on the other side of the fence. You know? You don't allow to date.
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  You don't allow to. You got to be married or engaged to move out.
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  Yeah. Those kind of stuff. Yeah. But the reality is you all have needs.
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  Yeah. That's what happened when they started to lie. Yeah. I lied to my parents
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  to get out. Oh, my goodness. It's hard to talk to other women, I think, sometimes.
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  It's like a faux pas. People don't want to talk about this stuff.
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  People, some people feel offended.
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  So we really like, if you're going to bring up this conversation.
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  Yeah. It's a conversation between close friends. Yeah. As two divas, you know.
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  If, you know, in the long run, if people start to listen to us,
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  if you guys want welcome and enjoy, talk about it, come on right in.
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  We don't have to, like, identify your identity, you know? Yeah.
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  So I think it would be good to talk about. Yeah. You talk about everything. Yeah.
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  And sex. I think it's easier to talk at our age, too.
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  I think when we were younger, I mean, when we were younger, it was more about,
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  I don't know, girls did talk about it a little bit, but it was different.
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  And now as Gen Xers, we're like, we talk about it, but we talk about it on a meaningful reason.
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  Like for me, if they're too small, when you get really excited,
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  you don't really feel much.
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  It's important to make sure that the dick size works for you,
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  because if you're not going to feel it, what's the point?
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  And then when they're too big, it's kind of scary, too.
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  It's like I kind of want somebody right in the middle or maybe a little bit above average again.
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  Yeah, I think that's super important. Or what about you? You have to find the
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  one that might fit for you. The right fit?
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  The right fit. Just like the shoe size. Just like the shoe size. Yeah. You know?
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  I mean, I can talk more about, but because I've been with the same,
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  my husband for the past 25 years, you know?
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  But I heard a lot about all my single woman friends.
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  Yeah. You know, that we talked about it. And some people just don't.
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  They never get there because it's not the right size.
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  And some people got scared because it's not the right sign and it's very important
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  for you to be able to feel your needs yeah and know your needs and know your needs,
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  Growing up, I have to tell you the truth, growing up, we're not allowed to talk
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  about any of that. We're not even allowed to see it.
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  And in Asian community, it's very, very hard.
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  They look at you, they're judging you.
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  That's why a lot of kids at my age, a lot of, well, we like to go out, to do stuff.
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  And then the parents still think like, we are picture perfect.
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  That's really important that's why a lot of women do you
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  know up till today because of that like
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  people in my generation they stay married
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  just because to keep perfect picture perfect regardless
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  that they are not happy and you
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  know people say it's not the the size of
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  the ship it's the motion of the ocean i guarantee you a man
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  came up with that saying because it's both and it's
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  it's you got to have both and at our age i mean honestly i'm
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  thinking of dating younger because i don't know some
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  of the guys out there you just don't know but it's i
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  think whoever to fit your energy the energy as well as yeah yeah you have to
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  find a comparable fit energy regardless what age yeah i'm not gonna say how
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  you know yeah like for me my energy yeah i do not fit with older men Yeah. Yeah.
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  You're married younger. Yeah. Yeah. My husband is seven years younger.
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  And we work out perfectly fine. And there is men out there, people older women.
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  You believe in that? Well, that's going to be a whole other conversation.
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  We'll leave it for the next session. We'll leave that for the next session.
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  And this one, this time, let's talk just about sizes.
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  Yeah. Yeah. So let's talk about sizes to be accurate.
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  So I was reading, and the average, just for the ladies out there,
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  so you know, is between 4.1 and 4.3 inches. That's the average.
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  And I'm like, that is small.
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  Now, let me double check those numbers. Talk about low maintenance.
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  Talk about what? Low maintenance.
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  Like, no expectation at all for that age. I know. For that size, no?
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  Well, and here's the thing, ladies. The dick size shrinks as they get older.
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  Because as their testosterone decreases, their penis is going to get smaller.
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  So realize that what you got is going to get smaller as you age.
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  It's kind of important to start with something a little bigger.
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  So, okay, I'm sorry, it was 5.1 and 5.5. Okay, that's better. But that's erect.
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  Okay. So erect penises average is 5.1 to 5.5.
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  Okay. Yeah. If you've got a six inch or above, you're, you're, you're pretty normal.
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  And remember ladies, I mean, at three inches, I've seen them three to four inches.
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  You're not going to, you're not going to have much fun with that.
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  Well, you might, it depends on the woman for a three to four inches. They're out there.
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  And I did talk to a nurse once and she said there, as they get older,
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  they just get It's smaller and smaller.
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  And the penis, eventually, when it's soft, doesn't even extend much past the
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  scrotum. So it's like, oh.
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  From an average perspective, you need to realize that we're looking at,
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  you know, 5.1 to 5.5 as average. So if you're going to find a man that's below.
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  Now, there are things men can do. There's different shots and injections they
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  can do nowadays to actually extend their penis, make it bigger.
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  Same goes with women, too. At our age, our teeth are very low.
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  So a man should know how to take care of themselves, too, to fulfill their movement.
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  And a man should look into testosterone potential replacement therapy because
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  that does help their penis size.
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  So from a penis size perspective, we're looking at 5.1 to 5.5 inches. Yeah.
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  And that's average. And certain gender or certain races may have smaller. It is.
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  Yeah. Than others. So you have to remember that. And I'm kind of thinking maybe
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  the women match. I just don't know.
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  But, you know, there's Indian people have been not American,
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  but Indian from India, India, have been known to have smaller than average.
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  And they do studies like this, ladies, for condom companies.
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  So the condom companies, they come up with plans and they look into the penis
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  size and they say, OK, this is a certain size. Right.
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  And we need to market more and more. And there's a whole study of that on Indian penises.
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  So if you like a special type of guy, like if you like an African-American,
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  if you like an Indian guy, they actually do studies. So you can actually go
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  out there and look and see what the penis sizes are based off of a race.
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  Not only that, and you know how you go, I'm a gym brat.
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  So when you go to the gym, you see all these guys with the flexing almost.
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  So there's not always defined their size. There's not, but a lot of times they
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  are pretty good. Yeah. Because it depends.
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  The steroids sometimes can shrink it or shrink their sacs.
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  But the testosterone, if they're on testosterone, a lot of times it'll increase it too.
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  So I kind of like the build-out boys. Build-out boys. You do.
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  Yeah, the ones that are in shape. Here's the other thing.
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  So let's say you're married to or you're dating a man that's hefty,
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  meaning he's got a big old belly. No.
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  You got to be prepared to do all the work yourself. Well.
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  That's a whole other issue. I'm serious about that.
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  You had to be prepared to do all the work you said. Here's the thing.
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  When they're chubby like that, we'll just call them chubby.
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  We'll be nice. We'll be nice. We'll be nice. When they're chubby or a little
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  on the heavy overweight obese side, they lose a couple inches,
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  ladies, because what happens is their crotch area gets fatty.
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  And so then you lose an inch to two inches of the scrotum into their body.
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  Because of all the fat yeah and sometimes men
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  can't even look down and see it you know you're too big if you can't see
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  your penis guys just let you know if there's any men listening if
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  you can't see your penis when you're standing up
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  and you look down you got to lose something your belly
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  fat and hopefully gain your penis back once you lose the belly
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  fat yeah let's go by if you simple you
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  know shower and you cannot see your toe it's time
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  to do something you gotta be able to see
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  your big toes you know we talk a lot
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  in society about mental health and and physical
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  health and and financial well-being but
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  we never talk about sexual health and it is so important i
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  think that's number one in marriage in marriage and relationships it matters
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  or everything i think things in the bedroom people don't talk about it but it's
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  definitely number one issue and It's a very important key to your happy life and healthy life.
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  Happy wife, happy life. That is so true.
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  And healthy, healthy life.
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  Yes. Yes. I think that's so important.
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  I don't know about you, but for me, sex is extremely important now,
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  probably more so than ever.
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  And, oh, yeah, my hormones are just like, hello.
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  And so for me, I want more sex, but I want sex with a fun partner.
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  And the dick size is one of the most important things.
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  How about the thing? Even my dick is small, but I have a technique.
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  I haven't found those yet, but I haven't been with a lot.
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  You're the single one, so you explore. I'm the single one, so I'll let you know
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  how it goes, ladies. This is, you know, I'll have to sacrifice myself to the men.
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  You've got to keep testing it and you've got to figure it out and be creative.
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  That's what they said. It's all about creation.
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  Yes. And another important thing is like there are women out there and they
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  get divorced or they lose a spouse that want to wait for sex.
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  Oh, yeah. And that is a thing.
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  And some women just give up. Here's the thing, ladies. If you don't know the
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  size of their dick by the fourth or fifth date, run.
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  You'll run. Because I don't care if you just brush up against it,
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  but if they're tiny and you need something bigger, you're not going to be happy
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  if you're waiting for marriage.
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  And that's your choice, and that's fine, but it's going to matter.
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  But here's a question for you, right? After the fifth date, if you still don't
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  see the sign, you still don't.
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  Is that the guy insecure to show you his sign? It could be. Do you know what I mean? It could be.
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  Oh is it he insecure about his performance well
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  here's the thing there are men out there that want to wait as
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  well so it's not just the ladies that want to wait there are men out there that
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  want to wait oh i've been meeting several of them that want to wait until they're
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  they're engaged or married oh wow this is not it's not just a religious thing
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  sometimes it's a spiritual thing sometimes they've been burned in the past and
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  i know one guy for sure that i talked to,
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  he's well endowed and but he's waiting
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  for the work because he's been divorced twice maybe and he's and he's a good
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  in shape guy and he's only 28 so you haven't seen his digging no but you can
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  tell and i asked him i asked him i go aren't you afraid you're sexually not
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  going to be compatible he's like i know i've got to,
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  I'm well-endowed is what he told me. That's my question to you. Yeah.
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  You can ask, ladies. You can ask. You can ask, right. Does shoe size define?
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  No. See? I was shocked. Neither does hand size.
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  Now, they always say that two thumbs together actually is the length of a man's
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  penis if you put them next to each other.
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  So, like, I'd have a really short penis if I was a man.
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  But I if you put them like this they're supposed to be
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  the length of the penis so I would have about a four and
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  a half to five inch penis right yeah you would
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  you got bigger thumbs than me so you're you're almost a five inch penis so you're
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  maybe a little bit more than five so you would have a decent length penis if
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  I was a man if you were a man you'd have a decent length penis because your
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  thumbs are a little longer than me but it doesn't matter because there have
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  been men with big hands and small penises.
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  Right. And it doesn't matter. I think it's a combination. So if they're tall,
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  they could still have a small penis.
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  If they're short, they could have a huge penis. So height doesn't matter.
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  No. Thumb size doesn't matter. Shoe size doesn't matter.
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  Weight does impact it though. So if they're overweight, they're losing a couple inches there.
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  So if you got a small penis guy, just get them on a diet, ladies,
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  and get them to lose some weight so that The penis size comes back because that
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  will be more enjoyable for you.
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  So it's beneficial to you as well.
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  Right. I just think like us as a woman, we take care of ourselves.
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  Why can't men do the same? I agree. I mean, there's a lot of men out there.
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  They do, though. They're willing to do the same, stay healthy and healthy life,
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  healthy sex life, healthy everything else.
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  But the bottom line is I think you have to test it out. Don't judge the book by the cover.
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  Yeah. So you can't define them by the hand side, the feet side.
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  The only way, you just have to look at it.
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  You just have to look at it. You just have to see it in the person.
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  Okay, so we're talking about sign-ups.
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  Some guys are very confident about theirs. Yeah.
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  Oh, some of them are very cocky about it. They're like, I'm well-endowed.
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  Oh, here's the thing, ladies.
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  A lot of men send dick pics, but the only ones I find that send the dick pics are above average.
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  I'm not into seeing dick pics, personally. I don't know why guys think it's
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  a thing to send them on dating apps and stuff now.
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  But the ones that are small, just because they don't send a dick pic doesn't mean they're small.
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  It just means they're respectful. Honestly, that's the way I look at it.
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  But I have had some guys send me pictures of themselves in boxers and underwear.
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  And if it's a tighter underwear, you can tell, ladies.
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  Now, there is the whole idea of shower versus grower, right? Are they a shower?
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  Meaning, are they big and then they just don't grow very much? Or are they...
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  Smaller but then they grow really big or are
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  they medium you never know and get
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  they could photoshop it too they could expand it so don't
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  don't believe it don't believe it with all those dick pics
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  no i would as soon as if i
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  would if i were single and on the
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  dating app anyone that send a dick pic let's cross
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  it out yeah to me it's disrespectful although
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  sometimes it's kind of fun to play with not the dick
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  but the conversation yeah so
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  you kind of like had to be out there yeah get yourself out there and just you
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  know well and here's the thing you don't have to see the dick right away i just
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  think it's important to know the size before you get further before you waste
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  a lot of time with someone that's just not gonna work especially at this age At this age. Yeah.
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  Yeah, it's important. It's important. I mean, at this age, it's really important
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  to be happy. So shower versus grower.
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  So the one I was with was a shower and a little grower.
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  I mean, he didn't grow huge, but I've seen some that are really small and then they get really big.
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  That tends to be younger people, though, I will say. I don't think. Voila.
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  Yeah. You know? Yeah. Sorry for the older men out there. So stick with what
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  you have. But if you're younger, you have more chances.
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  Yeah, and now we've been talking a lot about length, but let's talk about girth,
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  okay? So the width of the penis.
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  So length is one thing.
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  So it depends on kind of what you're looking for, six inches,
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  seven inches, eight inches. I have seen a foot long, ladies,
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  and that's a scary thing.
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  And when they're that big, they're also wide. So as far as girth goes,
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  let's talk about that for a little bit.
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  So, like, if you put your finger and your thumb and you're pointing your finger
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  together, that's probably above average.
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  So true. So that... It depends on what size of your finger.
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  Yeah, and then do you want it where you can't touch your finger and your thumb,
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  or do you want it smaller than that? And that's going to be a personal choice, too.
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  I would... So here's the average. So we were talking about length before,
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  and the ultimate average is 5.6 inches, which is also 14.2 centimeters,
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  for those of you that like metric. Oh, my God. Is it really?
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  That's the length. Okay. But the width, okay, of a flaccid penis is 3.6 inches
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  around, or 9.3 centimeters. Good to know. Mm-hmm.
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  It's good to know when... It's good to know your anatomy.
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  Okay, and here's the erect penis girth. it's 4.59 inches
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  so that's about your finger maybe this
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  much it's about your finger and your thumb touching no no it's about yeah where
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  they almost touch so that's a decent that's a decent girth i think what do you
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  think that's a half dollar sign yeah it's about a half dollar yeah it's not
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  bad not bad at all i like this i know so you know that matters too so.
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  If you have an 8-inch or a 9-inch penis size, guys, you got your lucky lady.
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  But here's the thing. The positions are going to matter, too,
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  because they're not going to fit in all the different positions,
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  right? Let's talk about that.
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  Because if a guy's too small, believe it or not, doing it sideways,
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  and I'm just going to go sideways, if they're too small, it doesn't usually work.
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  Or if you're packing in the backside, it doesn't work. It doesn't work.
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  Because they're too small. but if they're
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  super long and you're packing in the back side or
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  you're laying sideways it works yeah that
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  is true because if they're too short they slip out just saying but i think to
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  me if you you find the position that you like and you find the size that you
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  like you should keep it oh yeah well there's more things of course than dick
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  size but dick size does matter,
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  and if you find a guy that you really like and
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  you don't know how much you're really going to give
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  up because sex life is just as important as health and
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  finances and and appearance
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  and everything else and there may be a guy that's short that you
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  think oh he's going to have a small penis then he surprises you
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  and he has this huge monstrosity so it's you know a lot of it's genetics i'm
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  actually watching second cd one of the episodes yeah the guy was so handsome
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  and tall and if you are Sex and the City fan this girl Samantha one of the characters
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  in there she's all about sex and all about penis size she took him home.
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  He's so tall and handsome and he was so.
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  Chunky dick she was so livid yeah he's thinking of work and she's the one who
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  do all the work by herself and she said it's way too exhausting for her yeah
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  so you have to be you have to keep it in mind which one that you have to do the work
• 23:10
  And each one has to do, I mean, we all have to do the work, but you have to
• 23:13
  compromise each other. Yeah.
• 23:15
  I agree. I agree. I think the penis size girth-wise is important.
• 23:22
  I think the length is important. Yes. Yeah. Definitely.
• 23:26
  All right. So what about ball sack? Really careful ball sack.
• 23:30
  So ball sacs, I think, decrease as they get older, too, with the testosterone,
• 23:33
  and they're less fertile, too.
• 23:35
  Yeah. I'm older now, and the ball sac is like, just remember,
• 23:41
  if you get older, the sac gets longer.
• 23:43
  Yeah. It's just like our chin.
• 23:46
  When you get older, the sacs get longer. But there is some men,
• 23:51
  though, there's the plastic surgeon out there that actually lift up the ball sac.
• 23:55
  That's the procedure to do it. but yeah, I don't, I don't think I want to see
• 24:00
  the second boss. Like do you?
• 24:02
  Here's the other idea is I know about 10% of women are actually into anal.
• 24:07
  So it's a very small percentage of women that actually like anal.
• 24:11
  But if the guy's big, you're not doing anal.
• 24:15
  If the guy's small, maybe they like to do anal because they're so small.
• 24:19
  Was he safe though? Was he safe to do anal?
• 24:22
  I don't know. I've never tried it. So, but there are women out there and there's men out there.
• 24:27
  And I have been on, talked to men and some men want to do it.
• 24:30
  But I will tell you, every man that's wanted to do anal, I have never done it,
• 24:34
  but every man has been really small.
• 24:37
  That's why they want to do anal.
• 24:42
  So, because I'm not a big person down there, not to be too personal on the podcast,
• 24:48
  but for someone to do anal, it's like, it's because they're small, I think.
• 24:53
  I think so. I don't know. They want to feel the titan.
• 24:57
  Yeah, no. I think he just goes to anal.
• 25:00
  Yeah. Well, there's a whole process involved. Some men are into anal.
• 25:03
  Some men aren't. But I have.
• 25:06
  I don't know. Well, that's a whole other conversation, too. But if the guy's
• 25:10
  too large, anal's just not going to work for most people.
• 25:13
  I mean, there are some women that have done it enough that, yeah.
• 25:17
  So we've got girth. We've got length. And anal.
• 25:21
  And anal so let's talk about the look of the penis again so some of them are
• 25:28
  bigger at the bottom and thinner at the top some of them are thick all the way through,
• 25:33
  Some of them are actually thick at the top and smaller at the bottom.
• 25:37
  And I always worry we're going to break them off.
• 25:39
  Some of them don't believe in circumcised. Some of them are uncircumcised, but that's not size.
• 25:45
  Yeah. That is true.
• 25:48
  The look of the peanuts. Yeah, that's the whole circumcised issue,
• 25:52
  ladies. We'll have a whole podcast on that one.
• 25:55
  Just talking about circumcision because circumcision is such an important point, too.
• 26:00
  I prefer them circumcised, but I don't know if everyone does.
• 26:03
  And some people like it that way. And supposedly it's supposed to be more sensitive
• 26:07
  for the guy, but it's also, you know, it can cause infections and stuff.
• 26:11
  That's a whole new, we'll talk about the next session. That's a whole other thing.
• 26:15
  So basically what we're looking at is five and a half inches long.
• 26:20
  About a dollar sign. About 4.7 inches around when they're hard. Yes.
• 26:27
  And it can be an enjoyable thing. it's it's
• 26:30
  but it so if that side the sex ball
• 26:33
  is always going to be fit right no the
• 26:36
  sex of the ball ball sack yeah the
• 26:39
  ball sack i don't know you see more like i said i've been
• 26:42
  i like to you know play with those
• 26:45
  so you know i don't know many women
• 26:48
  that find a men's man's penis attractive when
• 26:51
  they look at it no matter what size it is but i
• 26:54
  like to play with the ball sack a little bit it's kind of fun but
• 26:57
  as far as penis goes it had
• 27:00
  to be pretty looking and clean up it does have to be clean ladies oh god oh
• 27:07
  my god that has to be cleaned up nice and if men if you're listening to this
• 27:11
  you better freaking shower that thing and wash it three different ways because
• 27:15
  it needs yes it needs to be clean if you actually want oral sex ever.
• 27:21
  It better not be stinky, just like a woman has to take care of her private parts
• 27:25
  down there and not be stinky.
• 27:26
  And a man does too. And not all the hair, none of that stuff.
• 27:29
  Yeah, we never did talk about the hair.
• 27:32
  No, it has to be look pretty and clean.
• 27:37
  So women are definitely... We take care of so. We're waxing more.
• 27:42
  Some do a landing strip still. Most people are, you know, I think most people
• 27:46
  now are going Brazilian. but
• 27:47
  I will say that I do not like choking on hair. It's gross. It is gross.
• 27:54
  You see hair and your plate, you send it back, right? We hope it's not from down there.
• 28:01
  Right? Yeah. It's the same thing. Oh yeah.
• 28:08
  Well, for me, I don't like to choke on hair. So that's a whole nother thing.
• 28:12
  Oh, let's talk about size and oral sex.
• 28:15
  So if they're too big, it's not so comfortable having oral sex with a man, right?
• 28:20
  Right. It will choke you. It will choke you. And if they're too short,
• 28:24
  you don't have to worry about being choked anymore. So maybe there are people that like that too.
• 28:29
  No, if they're too short, it will buy your lip was shrinking,
• 28:32
  just like people smoking, try to squeeze it in.
• 28:34
  You don't want that light on your lips. No, you're not going to get wrinkles
• 28:38
  from a small penis. You're not sucking on them that much, I hope. Oh, my God.
• 28:42
  You didn't even know. That's a full-time job, then.
• 28:45
  This is talking about, like, the whole general thing. Yeah. You know what I mean?
• 28:49
  If your partner side too small, the oral side, you really have to squeeze your lip.
• 28:56
  And, you know, look at you. Look like I created the lines.
• 28:59
  I'm pursing my lips together right now thinking about it. And I'm like,
• 29:03
  no, my mouth is not that big. It's okay.
• 29:06
  I think that part's okay. I think that's okay. But...
• 29:10
  Yeah, at least you don't have to choke, but there's ways to not choke, too.
• 29:14
  We have a whole oral sex conversation, but size matters, too,
• 29:18
  when they go on your mouth.
• 29:20
  Yeah. So, and there are people, here's the other thing, there are people that
• 29:23
  want to wait till marriage or wait till later to have sex, but some of them
• 29:28
  will have oral sex. That's what I'm saying.
• 29:31
  So, sex means they want to wait till they marry, till they have intercourse.
• 29:38
  That's right. That's a better word. but i just think i think i think bill i
• 29:43
  think bill clinton kind of screwed that one up,
• 29:47
  what is sex what is is that the cuban cigars or is that.
• 29:56
  Does oral sex count well i don't know it depends on the person some people say
• 30:01
  oral sex is sex and some people say what is is that's what i'm saying so some
• 30:07
  people just think without the intercourse is not a sex.
• 30:10
  But to me, if you do oral sex, you're having sex. If you're touching, you're having sex.
• 30:15
  I don't believe that. No, if anything could get you off, that mean you're having sex.
• 30:20
  Oh, so you're saying touching is having sex too. Because if anything could get
• 30:25
  you off, you are having sex, ladies.
• 30:27
  Even regardless, you're going to pretend yourself like you're a virgin angel,
• 30:31
  whatever, without intercourse is.
• 30:33
  But if anything that could make
• 30:36
  you get off you are having sex okay so
• 30:39
  for me intercourse is a different kind of
• 30:42
  sex but nonetheless if you're having oral sex
• 30:45
  or even giving somebody a handjob you can actually get the size pretty figured
• 30:48
  out from that yeah so you don't if you don't have to have intercourse if you
• 30:52
  don't want to to figure out the size so that's something too yeah so what do
• 30:57
  you think about comparing different men's penis sizes now i know ladies there's
• 31:03
  more to love and there's more to relationships and penis size,
• 31:07
  but it is still important.
• 31:08
  Have you ever compared like different guys' penises?
• 31:11
  You know what they were saying, the guys' penises?
• 31:14
  You are always going to compare if you have multiple.
• 31:19
  That's just human nature, right? Yeah. If you have multiple sex partners,
• 31:23
  you're all going to compare the sizes.
• 31:25
  That's why there's an old saying, when you go black, you don't go bad.
• 31:29
  There's another thing, but that's a lie, by the way, ladies.
• 31:32
  So, yeah, because there's some black men that aren't so big, too. Right.
• 31:36
  It's you know, here's the thing. There's Indian men that are from India that are huge.
• 31:41
  Right. And but then that the reality is, is that they tend to trend smaller.
• 31:46
  But that's not necessarily true.
• 31:48
  I'm picking on the people from India, but even in Central American countries,
• 31:52
  depending on the country, they trend a certain way because of hereditary,
• 31:56
  but it depends on the individual.
• 31:58
  So you can't stereotype this because the reality is that you never know. You never know.
• 32:05
  It could be from the gene. You don't know the grandparent mixed with Mediterranean.
• 32:10
  It could be they had extra testosterone when they were developing. Right. Right?
• 32:15
  I mean, I don't know exactly how the penis size comes about, but yeah.
• 32:19
  You have to, I just think you cannot be, just like I said, you cannot judge
• 32:25
  the book by the color. Yeah.
• 32:27
  You have to see it. It doesn't matter what race, what size they are.
• 32:30
  But to me, the infection, I come with how you look first, right?
• 32:34
  And then you go down to what the size is. But those are combinations.
• 32:38
  So it's like you have to sample merchandise.
• 32:40
  You have to try it on just like the shoes. Yeah. You have to open the box.
• 32:44
  You got to be truthful the other thing is you have to be truthful to
• 32:47
  yourself yeah you have to be
• 32:50
  truthful yourself and ladies do not settle
• 32:53
  for less you're worth more than that yeah that's
• 32:56
  well and some women i think penis sizes and is important
• 32:59
  but for me and you know i'm i'm still
• 33:02
  very sexually active or at least i want to be
• 33:05
  and for me for the next 15 20
• 33:08
  years i want to still have some fun mama wants
• 33:11
  to get her groove on for me sex is gonna be
• 33:14
  huge so penis size is gonna matter for
• 33:17
  me you are yeah i can't say for much
• 33:20
  because i'm you know i'm married i've been i've been seeing the same thing for
• 33:24
  the 25 years but i think whatever that makes you happy they talk about because
• 33:30
  now you you're 52 i'm 60 right so you already accomplished you already have
• 33:35
  a kid You already have a house. Nice career, hopefully.
• 33:40
  So sex, that's what it comes down to. Yes. You have to be able to enjoy that.
• 33:45
  Yes. And a lot of people our age also, they're empty nesters. Right.
• 33:49
  So their kids are gone. So you're not looking for a man to be a good father,
• 33:52
  although it is always good to have a man that's a good male role model or a
• 33:56
  good man. Always get a good man first.
• 33:59
  You know dick size if they have a cute perfect size
• 34:02
  dick and they're bad to you you got to dump them anyway size sometimes
• 34:05
  size matters but sometimes it's worse if they have a bad personality
• 34:09
  that's what it comes down to you want to have young
• 34:12
  healthy sex life for at least till you at
• 34:15
  least i'm thinking six how many more years you think you
• 34:17
  got i think i have at least another 20 years that's
• 34:21
  what i want okay so i need to find somebody who's going to be good sexually with
• 34:24
  a decent penis size for the next 30 years that's
• 34:27
  what i'm saying so for you it will be 30 years look at dr roach
• 34:30
  she's happy she's 90 yes and
• 34:34
  there are people in you know nursing homes getting sexually transmitted diseases
• 34:38
  from each other they are they are so they're still having sex still having sex
• 34:45
  i'm telling you it might i don't know what kind of sex but they still wanted it to This is the time.
• 34:52
  Some people think like you're 50, you're 60, you're ending of your life.
• 34:56
  No, this is the time that you are blooming because all the responsibility,
• 35:01
  all of those you accomplished.
• 35:03
  Like I said, you kid up to college, this is time for you.
• 35:07
  You need to be bloomed. So this is just another checklist on a list of things
• 35:11
  that you want on your, this is your want list.
• 35:13
  So this is a, ooh, I want a guy that's tall. I want a guy that's got dark hair.
• 35:17
  I want a guy with a decent penis size.
• 35:19
  Yeah, so same goes with men too. It's like with the men at this age,
• 35:24
  they already well accomplished.
• 35:26
  So the only thing you have is just you between you and your partner and your
• 35:30
  sex life. You have to be happy.
• 35:33
  This is your time to bloom. That's it.
• 35:36
  Let's talk about the races. So the races don't really matter.
• 35:38
  We just said because everybody's a little individual.
• 35:41
  Yeah. I will say, though, that black men tend to trend a little larger than what I do.
• 35:45
  From the few I have seen, they tend to trend a little larger.
• 35:49
  There was a Swedish man that I got a penis from. I don't know if it was Photoshop,
• 35:53
  but that man was huge, too.
• 35:55
  So I just don't even know anymore. You just have to put yourself out there.
• 35:59
  You got to test. You got to test it. You got to feel it out.
• 36:03
  You got to feel it. You got to test it. Do not be afraid. Just make sure.
• 36:07
  If you see a fashionist, then go for it. No time to waste. Not at this age.
• 36:10
  Yeah. That's just my personal opinion.
• 36:13
  Yeah. Yeah. There's so many things that are important as far as dick size goes
• 36:17
  to. Now, if you don't want to feel them out, there is another way.
• 36:21
  How? So if they do have condoms and they're nightstand, you can always check the size.
• 36:28
  So if they're a magnum or a super magnum, I don't know if that exists,
• 36:32
  but you would know that that's so
• 36:35
  true you should know their size you should know that is unless they're
• 36:38
  not fitting themselves correctly which is a bad thing too but do you know that's
• 36:42
  the most famous adjar testing condoms is it doesn't for different dick sizes
• 36:47
  yes now some of these the the thing is is some of these testing companies don't
• 36:53
  actually test the men they let the men measure themselves.
• 36:57
  Which here's the other problem, ladies.
• 37:00
  Sometimes men measure from below the penis where the scrotum is,
• 37:05
  where they can feel the beginning of the penis all the way up to the tip.
• 37:08
  And that's not right. Women look at penis size from wherever it protrudes from the hip out.
• 37:15
  Yeah. So if a man's telling you six inches and then you see it, it looks like it's four.
• 37:19
  It's because he's thinking, well, if he's being honest and he's like,
• 37:22
  oh, I measured it. Well, it's probably because he measured below the penis in the scrotum area out.
• 37:27
  Yeah. And that happens too. I see your point. Yeah.
• 37:31
  So it does matter. And so that's the other problem with some of these penis
• 37:34
  statistics. I need to go home to check it out.
• 37:36
  I never thought of that. I think you should go measure your husband tonight.
• 37:40
  Say, honey, this is for research.
• 37:43
  This is research for my podcast.
• 37:47
  This is research. We have to know. We have to know. We have to do this.
• 37:51
  This is responsibility.
• 37:53
  I'm telling you. This has to be a big job.
• 37:56
  All these sizes, all these, how you're going to fulfill your needs.
• 38:03
  Side does matter. And it's long-term, too.
• 38:06
  It's a long term fulfilling needs because it's here's the thing,
• 38:09
  ladies, if you marry someone in your 20s and they're small and they are not
• 38:14
  fulfilling you, then just realize as time goes on, it's going to get smaller.
• 38:19
  And now this is not to, you know, to kill all the men with small penises.
• 38:24
  There are women out there that like them very small.
• 38:26
  So realize that, too. But over time, they just get smaller and you're going
• 38:32
  to have to realize it's not going to be the same as when you got married.
• 38:35
  You have to be prepared. You have to be prepared.
• 38:38
  And the more they use it, I think it helps with size too. It helps them.
• 38:42
  It's just like exercise.
• 38:43
  Yeah. If they don't use it, you lose your muscle. Well, they lose their muscle.
• 38:47
  And as they get older, they need Viagra. All of that stuff. Yeah.
• 38:50
  So, yeah, they have to take care of themselves. They have to take care.
• 38:54
  And here's the thing too.
• 38:56
  If you go younger, they're going to be larger and less likely to need Viagra.
• 39:01
  Yeah. But then if you look at the, yeah, that's a lot of women.
• 39:05
  Look at Cher. Her boyfriend's only 25.
• 39:07
  I think he's older than that now. But yeah, Madonna went way younger too.
• 39:11
  Yeah. And you got to say, hmm, method to the madness.
• 39:15
  That's what I'm saying. So that's, like I said, at the end of the day,
• 39:18
  at this age, it's pretty much just all you need. Look at Chris.
• 39:21
  You get a Chris Jenner, the Kardashian.
• 39:24
  She said herself, she don't need any more money. She just needs somebody to
• 39:27
  please her in the bedroom.
• 39:28
  Yeah. And look at her boyfriend. And he is a lot way younger than her. Yeah.
• 39:33
  Well, then they can keep up, too. Right. Yeah, because the motion of the ocean
• 39:37
  does matter, not just the size. We will go back to that.
• 39:40
  The motion of the ocean does matter, too, because if a guy has a really big
• 39:44
  penis and he doesn't know how to use it, it doesn't matter.
• 39:47
  That's, yeah, that's go hand in hand, though, the techniques and the size.
• 39:51
  The techniques, yeah. And if he's super small and he can use the heck out of
• 39:54
  it, that might help as well if you're dealing with somebody that's a little bit smaller.
• 39:57
  They also need to keep up with the energy, too.
• 40:00
  Yes, the energy is definitely important. Definitely important.
• 40:03
  You don't want to know, like, one minute, maybe two minutes.
• 40:06
  Yeah, so comment, ladies, on our podcast, what size your man is.
• 40:11
  We'll do our own little research study and let us know what the length is and what the girth is.
• 40:17
  I don't care if it's in inches or centimeters. It would be great to know what
• 40:21
  you're, but make sure you tell us if it's in inches and centimeters.
• 40:24
  Yes. Tell us what size your man is and how. How would you prefer?
• 40:30
  And how would you prefer?
• 40:32
  And remember, this is just a friendly conversation. It is.
• 40:35
  But here's the thing. If your man checks your podcast or your comments,
• 40:39
  you may not want to publish that. So go under a pseudonym if you want to.
• 40:43
  But yeah, you can say whether or not they're too big or they're too small.
• 40:46
  Because there's women out there that are with men that are just too big.
• 40:49
  And here's the thing, ladies. As we get older, we get a little smaller down there, too. So we can.
• 40:56
  And it can tighten up. So you may get smaller.
• 40:59
  You may get bigger. it depends on the woman again
• 41:02
  and it's how much you use it and your
• 41:05
  hormones so hormones is play a big hormones is big and that's a whole nother
• 41:10
  podcast too but the the reality is is the guys if they're not on testosterone
• 41:15
  they're gonna start shrinking because their testosterone is gonna start dropping
• 41:18
  off after 40 45 and they're not gonna want it that they they're gonna lose the.
• 41:24
  Yeah, let me tell you what age the men's testosterone drops off. I've got that here.
• 41:28
  Yeah, if they start losing interest, then you're going to be like,
• 41:32
  so in their mid-30s, men's testosterone starts to decrease in their mid-30s
• 41:38
  and greatly decreases by their late 40s.
• 41:42
  So probably by the time they're 50-something, you know what their dick size
• 41:46
  is going to be unless they're just not using it.
• 41:49
  Weightlifting will help, but they may also have to go on some,
• 41:52
  you know, replacement testosterone.
• 41:55
  So they have to exercise. Those are body parts. They have to exercise.
• 41:59
  I will say that. I will say that.
• 42:02
  A man that's in shape tends to be, sex is way better. And I'm talking cardio.
• 42:10
  I'm talking cardio. A lot of men stay away from cardio thinking they can just
• 42:13
  lift weights. If they're not doing cardio, their penis size shrinks and gets softer.
• 42:18
  I'm telling you, it doesn't last as long. The hard-on is not as good. No.
• 42:23
  And don't forget cardio. That's all. Cardio is important to make sure they maintain the penis size.
• 42:30
  And the testosterone is important with weightlifting. So you're going to generate testosterone, right?
• 42:35
  So weightlifting is important too so that they can keep the size.
• 42:39
  So it's both. Nutrition is very important. Lots of protein.
• 42:44
  And I think men let themselves go worse than women these days.
• 42:47
  I think so, too. That I agree. And a lot of women come.
• 42:51
  Okay, we have this. A lot of men complain like, oh, you're married because you
• 42:56
  have your wife take care of you. No, you could take care of yourself, too. Mm-hmm.
• 42:59
  You know? It doesn't matter. Yeah. Well, seeing all these men with these big
• 43:04
  old pot bellies, I'm thinking going, you guys just lost two inches.
• 43:08
  Yeah. And you just lost two inches and you just lost interest of taking care of yourself.
• 43:12
  And I think once you lost your interest, you might lose interest in having sex.
• 43:16
  Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. You have to keep up with things.
• 43:20
  Keep up? Keep it up? Yeah. Keep it up.
• 43:25
  The maintenance program is very important, just like a car. Yeah.
• 43:29
  That's, I totally agree, the maintenance.
• 43:33
  We need all maintenance. So as far as, let's say you're with a man and he's
• 43:39
  got a small penis and you want to stay with the man because you love him completely
• 43:43
  or whatever it is. There are alternatives.
• 43:46
  There are penis extenders out there you can buy. There are vibrator cock rings
• 43:51
  that can help you with sex. I don't know if ladies know this.
• 43:55
  There are toys out there. I can actually post those later, too.
• 43:58
  There are toys out there that will help with sex with a small penis man.
• 44:05
  I even saw one the other day that's a vibrator with a penis extender and a girth extender.
• 44:11
  So it actually makes it thicker as well.
• 44:15
  And it's more actually ladies are like, oh my gosh, I don't want to have a vibrator
• 44:18
  cock ring penis extender on my, whoever.
• 44:21
  Here's the thing. It makes it more pleasurable for them too.
• 44:24
  For them too and for us. For them too. Yeah. So it's if you're having or,
• 44:28
  you know, you're not having orgasms from internal sex, because I know most women
• 44:32
  need an external stimulation first or to get off completely externally before they have sex.
• 44:38
  If you're not having orgasm, the penis extender.
• 44:41
  Cock ring vibrator may be the way to go.
• 44:44
  And if you put the vibrator in the right spot, if you know what I mean, that helps too.
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  So if you find a man that doesn't want to go on testosterone,
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  that doesn't want to, you know.
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  Lose the way you lost a couple inches, there are alternatives to keep the man
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  even with the smaller penis. So I did need to bring that up.
• 45:04
  You're right. Yeah, you have to. So if you're happily married, right?
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  If you're happily with this man regardless what sign
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  he is there is help out there there is help we live
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  in a wonderful time when you can buy everything on
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  amazon amazon and everything is out open but anyway amazon has everything you
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  need yes amazon has it you can also go to a sex store ladies and just check
• 45:33
  things out differently there's a lot of it's it used to be they were always
• 45:36
  in shady neighborhoods and
• 45:38
  and dark windows. Now it's actually kind of fun.
• 45:42
  I think Fifty Shades of Grey kind of reopened the door to that, too.
• 45:46
  Yeah, it is. And then after that movie, I have to say, after the movie,
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  there's so many stores that just pop up open.
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  So I think that the sex stores are an alternative if you are dealing with a
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  man with a small penis, but he's the one.
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  Because I do realize, ladies, penis size is not everything.
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  Even if it's not a good fit, like we were talking about
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  the shoes earlier at least you can find
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  the guy with the right everything else and then supplement
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  but make sure he's willing to supplement don't force
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  it just have the discussion have a conversation say look i'd like to try this
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  now here's the other thing telling a man he has a small penis is a really tough
• 46:24
  thing to do now it kind of depends on where you're at in your relationship don't
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  you think yes it has it it could be very very sensitive subject because men are very,
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  now you can't do it in front of anyone. Right.
• 46:37
  That's a bedroom talk. That's a bedroom talk. Not in front of the kids, private.
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  Close the door. And you have to think all your bases covered before you bring that up.
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  And you might want to bring up the size thing and say, look,
• 46:49
  let's try something new.
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  And just buy the toy and have the toy and say, hey, let's have some fun.
• 46:56
  And maybe not even talk about the penis size because that's so sensitive for man.
• 47:00
  I think so too and that's another thing is you never
• 47:03
  know he may feel the same way you know i mean he
• 47:06
  might but be sensitive be sensitive don't create
• 47:09
  a fight over there wise you just have to have a
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  open conversation yeah do it in a
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  loving way loving way yes that way you say hey let's have some new fun i got
• 47:20
  something that we could try out and buy what you think would work and if one
• 47:24
  of them doesn't work try something else something else there is there is alternatives
• 47:29
  alternatives and there is so many out there. There are.
• 47:33
  Remember, it's a sensitive subject.
• 47:37
  Yeah, so that's all it is. Comment, ladies, as well, if you've had any toys
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  that worked really well for you that you want us to kind of feature or talk about.
• 47:45
  We might, I might try them out. Oh, you could try them out, too.
• 47:48
  Yeah, why not? Why not? Why not? It's research. It's research.
• 47:52
  This is the research. This is like trial run. So, hey, whatever that you have
• 47:57
  on your, you know, let's bring it on.
• 47:59
  And, you know, it's kind of like, it's kind of like vibrators and dildos and things like that.
• 48:03
  They come in all different shapes and sizes. And some women like them smaller
• 48:07
  and some women like them bigger.
• 48:08
  That's true. Some of them even had two heads. Yeah. And women also,
• 48:12
  we tend to get drier if we're not on hormone therapy as we get older.
• 48:15
  There's lubricants and stuff. I use it. Oh, yeah, yeah.
• 48:19
  There's lubricants. And hormones help with that too. And there's like an O shot
• 48:23
  out there we can talk about later.
• 48:24
  But it's not such a big deal if they're smaller when they get older.
• 48:27
  But the thing is, is that you've got to make sure that you're happy.
• 48:30
  You're happy. That's the bottom line.
• 48:32
  You have to be happy. Yeah, the sex life has to be integral to your overall
• 48:37
  health. It has to be integral to your mental health.
• 48:40
  It has to be integral to your physical health. It's part of it all.
• 48:43
  If the shoe doesn't fit, you're not going to be wearing it very long,
• 48:47
  is all my thought process is, because it will get miserable.
• 48:50
  It'll get mundane. In every relationship, it gets mundane, unless you keep it feisty.
• 48:55
  You have to. You have to keep it feisty, and you have to keep it openly.
• 48:59
  You have to let your partner know this is not your fulfilling.
• 49:03
  If the partner is willing to work it out with you, then you'll be fine.
• 49:06
  Yeah. And there is, like I said, there is some stuff that could help you.
• 49:09
  Yeah, but just be careful with the penis discussion. You don't want to emasculate a man either.
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  That is part of their manhood.
• 49:17
  And some men just, you know, they rolled the dice and they didn't win.
• 49:21
  And some men overwon. And that might be a problem too. Some men will be openly
• 49:26
  too accepted. Some men don't. Some men don't.
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