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GIRLS MAKE THE RULES!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 2: I have a feeling girls subconsciously have been told it's
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  Speaker 2: just this thing online where boyfriends suck are taken photos. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: and girls are way better at taking photos, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: over it.
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  Speaker 1: I want to start a petition. The Relatables podcast is
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  Speaker 1: hosted by myself, Addie Clark aka Mummy and my partner
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  Speaker 1: in crime, mister J. Craig aka Daddy. What crimes have
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  Speaker 1: we committed? What crimes? Why are we saying that because
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  Speaker 1: we say partner in crime? Oh, partner in crime? Playing words?
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  Speaker 1: What crimes have I committed? I don't know. I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna say something so cringe. Was also about to say
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  Speaker 1: something too cute, Stop handsome. Let's just guess what's it called?
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  Speaker 1: Lightly gas? Yeah? Yeah, we're lightly gassing, Jake. We haven't
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  Speaker 1: been doing very well lately in the game.
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  Speaker 2: Make them say no, I think we fucking suck man?
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  Speaker 1: Where one and up to down? So this is this
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  Speaker 1: series where we call a lovely listener, tell them they
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  Speaker 1: want a hat, and if we make them say the
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  Speaker 1: word from the random word generator, they don't get to
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  Speaker 1: win the hat. So today we need redemption. I just
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  Speaker 1: want to get one and they'll give away ten hats.
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  Speaker 1: We get one. So the contest that we are calling
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  Speaker 1: today is jazz. We're going to tell us she's one
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  Speaker 1: a hat and what's the random word? We're going to
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  Speaker 1: try and make us say, Okay, live bag, let's go. Bag?
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  Speaker 1: Is good bag? Any approach or shipping bags? We've got
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  Speaker 1: so many approaches here, We've got to get this one.
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, hopefully she's shopping. If it's written in the stars,
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  Speaker 1: what have you got your hands? That's cool, let's cool.
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  Speaker 1: I've got an approach. I've got heaps of approaches. Hi, Jazz,
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  Speaker 1: this is Jake and Ody from the Relatables. Hi, this
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  Speaker 1: is going to be a print call. No, I'm walking
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  Speaker 1: out of car. Good timing, great timing. When you need
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  Speaker 1: to you go do I go to Woongong big one.
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  Speaker 1: But are you studying? I study electrical engineering. That's impressive.
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  Speaker 1: That is very impressive. Good to say. Jesus, How sorry
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  Speaker 1: to it are you? I'm in third you, it's four years,
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  Speaker 1: third four you. You're almost done? And then I show yeah,
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  Speaker 1: almost once you're done, you're going to be an electrical engineer. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: graduate engineer. I don't know about. I don't think that
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  Speaker 1: will let me do anything properly, So you can't.
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  Speaker 2: Do so you have to go like get experience on
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  Speaker 2: the job before you becoming Yeah, i'd.
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  Speaker 1: Probably following a around. I'm like an experience engineer. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: far out. Yeah, I've got a question for you. You
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  Speaker 1: need to settle a debate between me and Jacob and
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  Speaker 1: have been having. Okay, I can do this. I'm about
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  Speaker 1: to go to Bali, right, and I am going to
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  Speaker 1: be using what when you go traveling and use big bag? Right,
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  Speaker 1: it's called luggage. When you use your carry on? What
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  Speaker 1: do you call that? What do I call my carry on? Baggage?
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  Speaker 1: My carry on? Fair enough? Fair enough, We've got a
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  Speaker 1: confession to make. We we we would like let you
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  Speaker 1: know you want to hat, because we were trying to
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  Speaker 1: get you to say the word bag. But what you
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  Speaker 1: literally said, oh, when you go away, you've got a
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  Speaker 1: big bag and a small bag. So he said the words,
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  Speaker 1: so he's ruined. I don't even realize I did that.
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  Speaker 1: So what actually has happened is you've want a hat? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you want to hat? Yeah? What colors are there? Blue
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  Speaker 1: and pink? Well, I'm actually currently wearing a blue hat,
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  Speaker 1: so maybe pink out you need a pink one. Sure,
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  Speaker 1: too easy, We'll say it up too. Oh, thank you
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  Speaker 1: so much, thank you for listening, Thanks for playing. All right,
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  Speaker 1: you guys have good day too. I'm sorry. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: My brain farted as soon as I, like the pressure
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  Speaker 1: got to me. I was thinking about my bag, like
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  Speaker 1: luggage going overseas the Bali, and then like I stumbled
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  Speaker 1: when I had to think of it, and then I
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  Speaker 1: like spat something out and said bags a hard game.
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  Speaker 1: Hard when you dumb now, and you said, I looked
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  Speaker 1: at you took my head and I was like, fuck,
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  Speaker 1: we lost it. I feel so dumb now. I had
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  Speaker 1: a little thing in my head that was working. I
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  Speaker 1: couldn't spit it out. I was like the UNI route
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  Speaker 1: because I do ask her. I wanted to like do it.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to have an actual conversation with her and
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  Speaker 1: not just like go, we've got a question for you
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  Speaker 1: every time because we could get them every time. I
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  Speaker 1: reckon yeah, yeah. And so with the UNI route, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm gonna ask a couple of questions
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  Speaker 1: about work, about UNI, and I'm going to be like
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  Speaker 1: got anything on your back or like we gotta be
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  Speaker 1: on the same page, because I was thinking you weren't
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  Speaker 1: for me to like chime in because you had nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Well I knew because like you're like electrical engineer. Oh
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I can't believe you're starting
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  Speaker 1: to try and blame me for You're trying to blame
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  Speaker 1: me for taking too long. You said back No, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't think you blame me. I just think you didn't
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  Speaker 1: have it. I just thought you didn't have anything right worse,
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  Speaker 1: what's on your back? What girl was backpacked? I was
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  Speaker 1: going to be like I was going to try and
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  Speaker 1: be like initially I was going to say, like Addie
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  Speaker 1: and I have a like maybe a debate of the
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  Speaker 1: best place for a girl to store her phone, and
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  Speaker 1: so girls put it in their bag. You didn't say
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  Speaker 1: you didn't have that you didn't have, but I didn't
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  Speaker 1: say no. You know before when we had the way back,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I could do that, but I
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  Speaker 1: just feel bad, like we got to try and get
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  Speaker 1: a conversation and into the way anyway. Sorry, I'll take
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  Speaker 1: the one. Sorry, all right.
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  Speaker 2: Weeks ago, a couple of weeks ago, now you hit
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  Speaker 2: me with a question and it was.
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  Speaker 1: The one where it was a scenario.
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  Speaker 2: And it was the one where it was like, you're
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  Speaker 2: away all right, you could you said, get into the
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  Speaker 2: mind of a girl, and you said, if you if
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  Speaker 2: your partner went missing?
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  Speaker 1: All right? And it was two am, and yeah, would
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  Speaker 1: you yeah? Would you do?
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  Speaker 2: You kinn caret You guys haven't listened to it. It's
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  Speaker 2: a couple of weeks back and go catch up. But my, my,
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  Speaker 2: my lovely girlfriend didn't listen to that episode. So I
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  Speaker 2: decided to. I just decided to play a little game
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  Speaker 2: with her. And so yesterday I just hit her with
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  Speaker 2: I have a question for you, poopy.
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  Speaker 1: Poopy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I call her poopy, said I have a question
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  Speaker 2: for you, poopy. She said yes. I said, if you
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  Speaker 2: and I went on a holiday to a foreign place
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  Speaker 2: and for some reason I went missing and you and
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  Speaker 2: the police were looking for me well into the night,
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  Speaker 2: and they said they need to and they said, like,
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  Speaker 2: we need to call it off until tomorrow when you
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  Speaker 2: go back to the hotel. Would you still do your
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  Speaker 2: skincare routine? She goes, um, yeah, I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: be depressed and ugly.
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  Speaker 1: Good answer, to be fair, great response. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you could get a better response. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be depressed. I just thought it was a great I
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  Speaker 1: laughter that response. I don't think you can answer any better.
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  Speaker 1: And and then we just like stopped talking about it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then later on in the night, I we we
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  Speaker 1: facetimed and we do like there's like you know, like
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  Speaker 1: the word all. There's like there's like four different games
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  Speaker 1: we play. There's like word all, connections, strands, and like
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  Speaker 1: a mini crossword, and we just do them on FaceTime
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  Speaker 1: together every night, a little ritual and it's fun. Look
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  Speaker 1: forward to it. And did she pay you? She got
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  Speaker 1: like a guandi your head. Yeah, it's fine. I love it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I love it. I actually do.
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  Speaker 2: And then on that phone call, she was like, why
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  Speaker 2: did you ask me that question earlier? And I was like, oh, actually,
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  Speaker 2: like you didn't listen to this episode, and I explained
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  Speaker 2: what it was, and then she said, like to be fair,
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  Speaker 2: like would you want me to be depressed and then
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  Speaker 2: wake up and look at myself with pimples from not
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  Speaker 2: taking my makeup on the night before, and then be
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  Speaker 2: more depress because I'm ugly tell you what's even worse,
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  Speaker 2: like imagine we found you.
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  Speaker 1: And then I'm all like pimply and stuff. You want
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  Speaker 1: me to look like a million bucks when you know,
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  Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Here's a question for you. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's say.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you're on you're on your honeymoon, yeah, with your
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  Speaker 2: now wife. Okay, you guys go to a foreign place.
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  Speaker 2: You are kidnapped. Okay, Oh, this is going to be
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  Speaker 2: good to ask the girls to Okay, you're kidnapped. They're
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  Speaker 2: looking for you. Okay, they can't find you. They give
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  Speaker 2: up that night. Okay, the next day, you've been in this.
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  Speaker 1: Warehouse all night, kidnapped.
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  Speaker 2: They want ransom money.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: They finally get in contact with the police and your
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  Speaker 2: now new wife. Yeah, and they say the ransom money
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  Speaker 2: is whatever mount they give it to the people. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: spare your life, ransom mind. They get the ransom money,
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  Speaker 2: they're off. Okay, you're tied to a chair. Big garage
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  Speaker 2: door opens, your girl, your new wife with the police,
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  Speaker 2: runs in signed it full.
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  Speaker 1: Face and makeup. She got a full face face and
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  Speaker 1: makeup on, right, And so you're like, where did you
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  Speaker 1: find the time in all the stressing to get this makeup?
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  Speaker 1: Are you pissed? Or are you just happy to be alive?
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  Speaker 1: Initially happy to be alive. Yeah, but like, as I've
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  Speaker 1: had time to process the situation and like I've come back,
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  Speaker 1: had a shower, and I think, at that moment again
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  Speaker 1: when I see my lovely wife, she's there again and
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  Speaker 1: still got that makeup on. I wait a minute, I
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  Speaker 1: was I there extra ten minutes, so that I had.
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  Speaker 2: To be like, yeah, did you know there was gonna
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  Speaker 2: be cameras there, the news.
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  Speaker 1: There, and how do you feel your boyfriend's Yeah, it
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  Speaker 1: was a tough experience, guys, I'm glad he's back. Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: i'd be pissed after, but initially I wouldn't even say anying.
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  Speaker 1: I'd just be happy to be like, yeah, you'd be
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  Speaker 1: happy to be like but you would be like, it
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  Speaker 1: didn't look like you slept in that makeer. So that
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  Speaker 1: wasn't the day from the day before. She's been living
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  Speaker 1: her best life. She's been using all her honeymoon honeymoon plans.
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  Speaker 1: You guys had you got like a massage books that
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  Speaker 1: before and they were like, we've got a close search.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I got a massage anyway, I got to
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  Speaker 1: do something to relieve distressed. Perfect. Yeah, at least the
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  Speaker 1: pressure on the back far so I'm gonna I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to ask another question. You say, Okay, I've been kidnapped.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to text it to her. I've been kidnapped. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: send voice messages next time. Keep them. Yeah, I'll keep him.
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  Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, scenario. She's gotta knows for the
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  Speaker 1: plot this time. Now though she will know it's for
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  Speaker 1: the It started to be like I was thinking about scenario.
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  Speaker 1: Gave you that. I've got another one, just ridom I do. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: good idea. If people want to send in scenarios, I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure we don't. We have a link to do it. Nah,
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  Speaker 1: we never released No, No, we do, yeah, we do.
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  Speaker 1: I never. We've only done it once. Though we only
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  Speaker 1: did it once. We've only done scenarios once. Can we
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  Speaker 1: put it in? Is it easy to pusription? Yeah? You
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  Speaker 1: guys have like a funny scenario to give us. Put it.
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  Speaker 2: It's in the link of the just description of this
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  Speaker 2: video or this episode on Spotify and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Go send it a scenario. It's funny. They see different
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  Speaker 1: answers from guys and girls. Yeah, I think they're fine. Ass.
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  Speaker 2: You can even say like what your boyfriend or girlfriend answered.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, Jack, and I actually wanted to
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  Speaker 1: bring something up as well. Yeah, I want to be
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  Speaker 1: Do you know those people who like start petitions and
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  Speaker 1: like try and get stuff changed. Yeah, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how to do that, but I want to be one
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  Speaker 1: of those people.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay. I was going to say,
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  Speaker 2: how do they do it?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, never do I but I can look into it.
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  Speaker 1: But tell me if my idea is worth starting a petition. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just like have a bad tolerance or something
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  Speaker 1: like that, But I think I should start a petition,
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  Speaker 1: and I think all of our listeners would sign it
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  Speaker 1: and everyone in the world would sign it too. So
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: the petition, I don't have quite the right name for it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but the petition is basically basically going to be a
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  Speaker 1: brief outline of anyone who moves in slow motion, has
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  Speaker 1: a kid and doesn't know where special awareness is, or
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  Speaker 1: goes under the speed limit gets fined. Fine, yeah, do
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  Speaker 1: you police. I'll be the police officer. You will be
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  Speaker 1: the police officer. Yea. Yeah, So you'll be making a
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  Speaker 1: wage in this petition as well. Fifty dollars fine, fifty buck.
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  Speaker 1: So I've talked about this before where people just don't
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  Speaker 1: know you that. Yesterday I had to go to kmart, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm there walking through the aisle. One lady has a
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  Speaker 1: pram and a kid. Yeah, And I was like, oh, yep, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: doing a thing looking at like hats. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: fair enough. This other lady walks in front of me
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  Speaker 1: with a trolley. See we lock eye contact. She walks
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  Speaker 1: in front of me and walking right behind her, she
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  Speaker 1: just stops next to this kid in the toddler and
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  Speaker 1: just blocks the whole thing, doesn't even acknowledge my existence.
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  Speaker 1: And I literally can't get pasted because I was holding
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  Speaker 1: an item and I had to go around them and
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  Speaker 1: to another aisle and exit it. And I'm like, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: are you see You knew I was there and you
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  Speaker 1: just stopped And I was like, this can't be real life.
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  Speaker 1: And it happens all the time to me. I first
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  Speaker 1: question is would you sign the petition?
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  Speaker 2: I actually would sign that petition for you because I
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  Speaker 2: think I have really good special I think.
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  Speaker 1: Young people do have good special awen it. I do
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  Speaker 1: think she saw me, looked me in the eyes, and
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  Speaker 1: then stopped and I'm like, do you just not care
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  Speaker 1: that I'm here at least like pull your trolley over
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  Speaker 1: the side so there's enough room for me to get by.
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  Speaker 1: I was like I was full pissed. Sometimes do you
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  Speaker 1: think like I feel like sometimes people can be like
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  Speaker 1: are we nice? Are we like too nice in public?
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  Speaker 1: Like to a fault? Maybe should be like assert ourt
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  Speaker 1: dominance and just not move? Yeah, do you reckon?
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  Speaker 2: There's some sort of joy and just like maybe some
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  Speaker 2: power into some asserting of dominance, like if you instead
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  Speaker 2: of like so she stopped there right and she tried
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  Speaker 2: to she obviously blocked the lane and then what if
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  Speaker 2: you instead of turning around and just like avoiding saying
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  Speaker 2: something to her, just want to be like gotta get past.
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  Speaker 1: Say excuse me, just like got to get past. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I just like it's like two hour sohols talking
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  Speaker 1: to each other. She get it mate, Yeah, but you
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  Speaker 1: should get it? Yeah? Is that what they want? Though?
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  Speaker 1: Like or did? She does not knows? There? Is that
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  Speaker 1: what I gotta do? Like she had to know you
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  Speaker 1: were there? Are you walking to the left? Yes? I
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  Speaker 1: was walking were you in? It was just like about
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  Speaker 1: to pay the last hour before you can pay? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and she just stopped like before you turn left to
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  Speaker 1: get in there where the hats are on stuff and
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  Speaker 1: came up. It's not gonna help for any listeners. But no,
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  Speaker 1: I know you're talking about it. Yeah, just there that one,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, you can't be serious. And then
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  Speaker 1: it's even like ah, just driving and stuff and you
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: get behind someone going fifteen to seventy.
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  Speaker 2: Though, my biggest pet peeve is is when someone is
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  Speaker 2: because in the towns we live in, everyone listening in
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  Speaker 2: the town you live in, you know the roads you
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: can get away with a little bit quicker. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 2: you can tell when someone's not from here and they're
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  Speaker 2: either looking for a house to turn into because we
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  Speaker 2: want to visit someone, but they just call over a stroll, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: not for a drive, and you're like, fuck, like one
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  Speaker 2: hundred meters away from my house, I'm still like, you're going.
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  Speaker 1: So slow, Like I just fucking get over. I would
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  Speaker 1: just be like boys. But it's even worse, Like I
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  Speaker 1: feel like where I live just full of old people.
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  Speaker 1: So every time I go there, it's just like the
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  Speaker 1: slow as possible and I take it next a couple
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  Speaker 1: of minutes to get home. Yeah. I feel like such
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  Speaker 1: a wankum right now. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I Like I beat myself up a bit when I
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  Speaker 2: get pissed off about One of my least favorite things
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  Speaker 2: is being in a busy shopping center right bustling, you
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  Speaker 2: know people. For some reason, when I'm at the shops,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, just I just don't want to get to
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  Speaker 2: every place. I need to go quick and get out.
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  Speaker 2: I don't surely everyone wants to do that. Nah, they
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  Speaker 2: love it in there. Oh that's fucking crazy to me, man,
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  Speaker 2: because one of my biggest pet peeves is getting stuck
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  Speaker 2: behind someone walking slow but like there's not enough space
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  Speaker 2: to get around them, and then there's heaps of space
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  Speaker 2: in front of them because everyone in front of them
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  Speaker 2: is walking really quick and you're behind them, and you're like,
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't it be nice to just be right in front
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  Speaker 2: of them, and they're just fucking and you've gotta wait
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: for like space to open up so you can, like, like,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: I'll walk around them aggressively to let them know I
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: was pissed off they were going fucking slow, and they beat.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Myself up because I'm like, oh, they're just chilling, going
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: about their day, you know, going with the Yeah, are
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: we the problem? Yeah? Are we the problem? Maybe we're
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: the problem. They're just going with your situation. You weren't
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: the problem. Yeah, in my situation, I think I could
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: be there and like driving, I get angry for no reason,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: like the go I'm going to save three minutes? What
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: am I the problem? Yeah? Maybe we are the problem.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: But what did they even think about it?
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: The other day you went to go post something at
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: the post office and you left early because there was
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: a guy that was taken. There was like three people
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: or four people in front of you, so that was ridiculous.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: And then the guy was taking ten minutes for the
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: guy that was first in lance. You were thinking ten
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: minutes for every I'm here for an hour.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck it, that was ridiculous. It's got something to
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: do with age. Honestly, I reckon. I don't mean oh
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I reckon. I could have done his job quicker. No,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: what happened was I wanted to go ship this one
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: of these hats. Actually yeah, so sorry for someone who
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: hasn't got it yet. There was two people in front
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: of me. This guy had to ship two envelopes that
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: were slightly bigger than a non envelope, and the guy
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: weighs it and goes ten dollars please, and took him
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: about eight minutes to do that, and then he had
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: to do the other one, and then this other lady
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: came over and go, so, what are you doing? It's
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: like and he's just like, oh, it's like that, you
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: just need to stick it for that. It's only like
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: it's only like two dollars fifty. And then then the
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: guy's like, oh, so only got to pay two dollars
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: fifty for this one, not eleven. And I will say
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: like I'm going on, oh my god, oh I just
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: I can't stann that shit. But I think maybe we
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: need to practice out what's the word patience? Yeah, being
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: zen a little bit. I think a little bit more
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Zambi what this episode could be being zen? Practice said, Okay,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: how do you I play this? My girlfriend and I
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: play this little game. Will be like we don't text
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: all throughout the day. Sometimes we'll text like in the morning,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: and then maybe at like mid day, I'll say like, oh,
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: how's work going?
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. And sometimes not every day, but sometimes
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: if like we send a text just like hey, how's
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: it going, Like how's yourday going? And then one of
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: us might be like, oh, I miss you, and then
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: and then one of us will say, send me a
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: pickup you right now, like right now, and then always
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: it's like if Beth sends a picture of her to me,
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, stop, it should be illegal
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: to look like good. Like we have just like a
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: bit of a lightly gassing, and she does the same
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: to me, and so it's just like a little thing
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: we do where like we send a pick and then
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: let's do some light gassing. And so maybe think of
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: things girls do that should be illegal but they aren't.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: This before we have it was good long time ago.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: So and you came up with this list. Yeah, yeah,
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: this is good. So things girls do that should be
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: illegal but they aren't. When I'm taking a photo, she
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: likes the very first one and doesn't get me to
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: take anymore.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: Imagine that happened encouraged, but should be illegal. That's illegal
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: in there.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Once I got a bone to pick, I said it
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: to her face. Okay, Bethany, Bethany, come full name right, Okay,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: I take photos of her. She wants me to take
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: photos of.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Her of course.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I know how to take a good photo now, Okay,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I know it. I know the I know the distance,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: I know the angles. I know what she will like,
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: and I won't know what she won't like. Okay, no
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: matter what, Like I'm telling you, no matter what. The
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: first fifty, like I take heats just fifty like but
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: like it's like two seconds, but like I take so many,
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: just like be like, okay, which one?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Which one do I replicate? No matter what the first yeah,
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: ten to fifty whatever. She doesn't like them, she has
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: something to say about it. Be closer, be further, different angles,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I height this, that the other okay, and I'm like, okay, cool.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Try again.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Takes a wall to get when she likes, but usually
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: it ends up being a couple.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: The other day she shows me these photos. She goes
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: her best friend name's Casey. She was with her friend
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Casey to get lunch one day, had Henry Ono lap yeah,
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: and she goes, look at these good photos. Casey took it,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: just random photos Casey took of me. There's three photos
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: and I'm like instantly, I was.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Like, that's bullshit. A If I took it, you'd fucking
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: hate me. I swear to God, if I took him,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: she would hate I'm genuinely. She'd be mad at me
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: for taking them, because of the angle, because of the
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: way she was sitting, she'd be she'd be mad at me.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: She'd be like, don't take photos of me like that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Wait till I'm fucking like, have a good photo. I
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: think this is time to deploy my strategy. Mate.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, you have to say. I'm not
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: saying that. I'm not saying that. But here's where my
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: here's where my bone is to pick is. I've always
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: known I have a feeling girls subconsciously have been told
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: it's just this thing online where boyfriends sucker taken photos. Okay,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: and girls are way better at taking photos.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: What do you think I was gonna say? I thought
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you were gonna say, this is what you look like? Yeah, yeah,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the same way. But it's you look good.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I don't say it like I think they look great.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: But and so and she even posted the photos that
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: her best friends took, and I'm telling you, I'm telling
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: you that it's because a girl took them that she
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: liked them, and I'm over it.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I want to start a petition.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, boyfriends take good ten photos.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: That's all you get, Okay, bullshit ten photos. I like
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: that outsign that petition to fucking hell. You're passionate about that.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: I've even said it to my said I was like,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: you posted that. Fucking if I took that, you would
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: have heard it. Bla bla blah. She's like, no, I
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have. Like they like, but look they're good, like
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: like fuck off. You's like, don't think of look good?
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, obviously, I think you look. You just
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: reckon to start taking ten and be like, I think
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: you look like a ten in all of these. That's
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: all I'm taking. Put your foot down, mate, put your
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: foot down. Troubles in Paradise.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Drinking from the edge of the cup with no straw. Oh,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: like actually sipping a cup.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I've never ever seen do that. In the while. Bet
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: has like fifty straws in a drawer for even which
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: has like a glass. If we go out and I
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: go get drinks and I don't come back with a straw,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I've got to go back up. You got a second trip, Yeah,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: go to go back and get them. I'm like, oh, sick,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Like get what you give it. Things girls do that
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: should be illegal. But they aren't wearing ugs as normal shoes. Yeah.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I hate it. I don't
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: like it either out of the house. I don't think
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: you should wear hug They're slippers. Yeah, they are. Ugs
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: are slippers, and they're like most of the girls wear
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: those platform ones that are good for your ankles. You're
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: going to roll an ankle here or there the more
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: shopping you do with them. I saw someone rock up
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: through the gym in some the other day. That was
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: my line, that was your line. Yeah, no, I agree, yea,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I fully agree. I think that.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Also, they're slippers and they're made to make your feet warm.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: Your feet get warm and a bit sweaty, and normal shoes.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: When those things stink, they have to smell like absolute.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: As they got those those hogs in on my air.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I say, fucking stops match if they were't wearing socks.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Let you cook and just say nothing that no tips,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: nothing that would be nice. Things girls do that should
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: be illegal, but they aren't. Kill spiders. No, you can't
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: talk either, mate, You just wish all the spiders would die. Mate,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: You're more scared than most girls I've ever met. I
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I fucking hate them. Oh do you come get this spider?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I fucking hate them. Is your sister just as bad
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: as you? Worse, really worse.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: One time she called me, so it's inherited. She face
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: timed me.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: All right. She was at the wool Worst Errana parking lot.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: She opened her back door to put her groceries in there,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: and there was a Huntsman member of this big Yeah.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: It was like in in like not in the car,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: but in where the door closes, right, And she facetimed
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: me and she's like, Jake, there's a spider like right here.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: What do I do? And I was like kill it?
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: And she's like no, I'm not. I can't get hear it.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I can't go near it.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: And then she said like people are just walking passed
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: and not helping me. And I was like I wouldn't
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: help anyone either, seriously, and so like I.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Look like she's got a broken leg or something.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I was like, it's just and so I saw where
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: it was and I was like, look, if you slammed
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: the door shut quickly right now, it's going to close
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: and seal and the spider because it wasn't inside the seal.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: So I said, close it and it'll just it'll still.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Be there when you get home.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: And so when she got home, she called me, and
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: I went up to the driveway and I opened it
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: and it was there.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: And so I killed it for her. And so I
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: did do it like I was okay, like because she
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: was more scared than me. But like, if you were there,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I would have made you. But she was shipping her
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: pants things girls do that should be illegal. But I
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: aren't go a full year without getting something done to
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: their hair. No, I can't have them, no way. My
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: girlfriend's at the hair dresses right now. Yeah, yeah, always
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: getting a tint, Say should I get a haircut? Should
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I do this? Should I do that? They can't live
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: with the hair they have for a full year, not
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: at all. Get bobs in at the moment. Who wants
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: a bob front fringes were in last thing about The
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: thing about getting haircut short is like the commitment to
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: if you don't like it, you're fucked for like eight months.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: It is pretty bad. It's crazy. It's being a girl.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Like we get a bad haircut, two three weeks, we're back,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: We're back, to normal. They get a bad haircut two
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: three months.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, is like, just don't play risky
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: games with your hair because if you hate it, I.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Don't want it to be my problem. Okay, my last one.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Things girls do that should be illegal, but they aren't
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: going a full week without asking us a hypothetical question
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: to test our love for them. The girls like have
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: like this unwritten rule that they have to do that.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: It's a good question. They must because they all do it.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: It's just universal for some reason. It's weird and all
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: the questions are like tricks and they're good. They all
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: like they have like they must have a community group
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: on Facebook or something, or there's one you're like asking
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: my question, my both a new question.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: There's a group on Facebook called Tea Time and I've
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: tried to enter it, I think four times, but I
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: get denied because I'm a guy.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: What if you change your status on Facebook? He's that
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: bad to do? Well, here's the thing is Time? What
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: is it? It's like I think it's Australia.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And basically they just like a lot of people
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: send in anonymous like confessions and Beth's in it and
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: just read me some and they're fucking brilliant.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Trying to join four times.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: I've tried to join, like at least four times. Yeah,
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: and every time it just like nothing happens. And then
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: I go to join again and I can join again.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: So that means obviously they've denied me. So I don't
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: think any dudes are allowed to be in it.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I want to make an alien's account. I sort to
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: say that I did it because I was like, content
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: is so funny. Yeah, so I might in the group
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: listening send us some good ones. Oh yeah, wonder if
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: anyone listening to this is it's got like hundreds of
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: thousands of people in the back they have to be
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Why won't they just let me be in? We love
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: the tea. Yeah, don't you have to write like a
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: brief description when you're into it? Just be like, hey, guys,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I'm Jake from the Reliable Podcasts. I love to learn
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: about all the tea and gos's going on. I bet
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: you that's one reason not to have me across my
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: fingers not to tell anyone.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: I swear, I swear I won't put it on my podcast,
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: all right, Jake.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: We often talk about like mood and actually in the
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: intro we talked about the things that were affecting my
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: mood and other people sort of out of my control,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: and I thought it was an interesting thing to sort
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: of bring up and learn how to be more conscious
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: of your surroundings to get better at like your mood
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: so you get less unhappy and angry. I obviously need
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: to work on a little bit, evidently from all the
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: things going on in the environment. So I've come to
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: you with a couple of things that sort of subconsciously
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: affect your mood and you might not be knowing about it.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, cool, yep. So the first one is a
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: big one that I think most people sleep on, which
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: is food. True. Yeah, even subconsciously, I just do it,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Just eat some food and think I'm gonna have energy
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: throughout the day, and then an hour later, I'll be
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: like angry or unhappy and I'll be like, fuck, why
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Mom's such a shit day, and then I ate like
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: a pack of chips an hour ago. That's actually such
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: a good point. And even also like quality of food, Yeah,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: it is like quality goes a long way, like quality
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: of meat, quality of vegetables that you're not buying like
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: that does some come come something not buying the worst
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: quality food?
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's an interesting one. Actually, I've never even like
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: once thought if I've been in a bad mood and
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I haven't eaten anything, I've obviously been like, oh's because
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: I haven't eaten. Yeah, But if i've been if I
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: can't put my finger on why something's wrong with me,
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: I don't like ever think maybe it's.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I've been catching myself out recently, Like I take I
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: walk because I got sick a little bit, like with
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: weird things going on my body. So it'd stripped back
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: my dig a little bit, and like what's making me
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: feel this way? And why am I feeling lethargic and sad? Yeah? Yeah,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: And it was like carbs and stuff. Carves do that too,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Like you get too many carbs and you says it's weird.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, having a good balance of just yeah the main
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: you know, carbs, fat, proteins. Yeah, having the main balance
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: is like crazy.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: And so the first one is obviously food. I've got three,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: and the last one is probably the one that affects
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: me the most. The next one is like sort of
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: out of your control. So it's sort of like learning
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: to go of the flow, which is the environment. Yep, people, jobs,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: even the weather, yeah, affects you without you knowing, and
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: you're just like can't figure out why you're sad or
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: anything out of everything.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: I do think I'm pretty good at going with the flow.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: You are pretty good, Like if some like like even
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: like a bad driver on the road, Like I'm pissed
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: off for the second, and then as soon as they're gone,
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: like I'm fine. Like nothing really affects my mood throughout,
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: like a full day, but weather, rainy weather. We've had
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: rain for like a week, I know. I mean, I'm
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: over it.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I actually do. This is like
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: a little game I play with myself. When it's a
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: really bad overcast day, I call them dirty days. That's
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: why my brother used to call them as a kid.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I'll purposely wear bright and colorful clothes. Ooh, it's not
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: a bad idea, just to brighten on my day. Because
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: I was. I always say them.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: That's not a bad idea actually, because so the weather.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: My house has terrible lighting, and so when there's a
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: nice sunny day, it feels great in there, I think.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: But when there's shitty weather and it's not a nice
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: sunny day, no matter. I could put every light on
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: in the house and.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: It just doesn't feel good. Yeah, he literally feels like shit. Ah,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: And these things affect your mood, simple things like lighting it. Yeah. Yeah, Actually,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: yesterday morning I was having like.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: A little bout of anxiety, and I don't know what
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: I did to fix it, but it did eventually go away.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: But I remember it was like from probably like.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: What time did you come over yesterday, or like a
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: little bit before that it went away, like a bit
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: before that it went away. But for a while there,
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: I was just like I was like trying to like edit,
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I was trying to like fucking get into it, and
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: I couldn't like bring myself to to watch the footage,
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: and and I was like hating it, Like I was
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: hating the footage.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: I was. I was like, you know, I was hating
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: it too. I wonder if it was actually the footage
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: or the weather, because it's been such a bad way.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I hated the episode. I was probably editing at the
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: same time.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Because I was I was like, and I was like,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: didn't really was any of that.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Good that we didn't hit And and then but after
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: the feeling went away, I did like it, so I
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: don't know. Interesting. I wonder if it is an environmental factor,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: like cause it's been terrible. It's been so overclass. It
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: feels like we're in England for last week. I know. Yeah,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: and it's just like it's kind of like stepping away
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: like you did and thinking like, fuck, is it actually
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: bad or is it my surroundings that's making me think
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: it's bad.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: That's a good question because it also makes you think
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: like if something like that, like if we aren't enjoying
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: something that we love, because like we we love our job, Yeah,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: if we aren't enjoying it, and like I'm like, ugh,
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: I wonder what does it feel like? I remember waking
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: up on days where I wasn't in a great mood
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: to go be a carpenter.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: Fuck, wouldn't want to have been around me that day. God,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: it was shit. I know exactly what you mean. Even
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: when you're doing like little task ren house or something
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: like that, and you're like, does someone to do that
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: you give become in such a bad mood if you
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: have to go shopping or something.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, everything seems like such a big ask. Like I
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: was like, this is debilitating. I was like I can't
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: physically watch this. It was like, what the fuck is this?
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: It's funny stepping away and realizing it was so weird.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: And my last one, I actually have a it's actually
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: a diagnosis. It can be. It's called have you heard
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: of emotional contagion? No, this is actually why I think
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: we get along so well. So it's the tendency to
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: catch another person's feelings or to stress catch with someone's
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: negative mood that's affecting you.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: Fuck.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so if we're both in a bad mood one day,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: episode's gonna be shit. Yeah. No, But I think I
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: think we work well because we sort of like get
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: each other and we vibe on the same energies. But
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I've definitely been around people. It happened in like workplaces
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: where there's a lot of people like someone's energy like
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: you just like ugh, like you don't want it?
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: God, I feel you there is like if there is
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: people that I do, I kind of don't like being around. Yeah, Sam,
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: to be honest, like someone that is ah just kind
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: of I guess a little bit pessimistic.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah about the world. I think the world's out to
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: get them or something. Yeah, I don't know. That's a
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: funny one. Actually, I actually had a funny experience. It's
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: a bit holistic. When I was on mushrooms. Oh yeah,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: so one of the things that happened. Don't condone doing mushrooms,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: but if you want to do it, need your own
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: safety to research as you will. But I was doing them,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: and I was in like a big group setting. It
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: was actually ended up being a party setting. But what
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: happened was I could see people's Some people were very
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: bright and vibrant, heaps of nice colors coming off and
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: red's yellows, everything like that. And then other people who
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: looked kind of sad were really dark and showing like
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: blues and blacks, really dark navy blues and blacks. And
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: when I was kind of scared when I was on mushrooms,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not gone near them. But it, honestly,
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it was true or not, but
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like the mushrooms made me see that those
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: persons mood or vibe was a very good, so I
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: stayed away from them, which is sort of this emotional
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: contagion what we're talking about. You could see their aura, Yeah,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: you can see the aura around that, Yeah, exactly, I've
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: seen a thing where so our hearts they beat and
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: they we can't hear them, like we've zone everything out.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: We're good at that, Like, yeah, that's what our brains do.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: But but they do make a noise and so they
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: beat and they like cause vibrations, and so like around us,
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: around you and myself is like a little I guess
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: zone of vibrations. I don't know, really, I saw this
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: thing and it was like breaking it down. It made
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: sense to me, and and someone goes, and this could
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: be They didn't say this is, but they were like,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: and this could be the reason why some people when
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: you're next to them, if you meet a new person
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: straight away, you know if you're gonna gel with them,
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: or because you're like sometimes your vibes are beating at
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: the same rate. It's yeah, like so you and me
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: could have a vibe that beats to like a very
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: similar rate, and then sometimes someone else could come into play.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: You meet a new person and yours just doesn't and
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: it doesn't match up with theirs at all, like it
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: doesn't even attempt it or something like that.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, and so that's.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Why you don't know or that's why you just like
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: don't gel with that person, and you know straight away.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: You don't click. How weird is that? A I foind
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: that very interesting. That makes sense to me too, And
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, that honestly does make sense because you
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: come away from talking to people like fuck, I didn't
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: like that person or I didn't jail with them at all,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: and then you come away over it like that was
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: a really nice person. Yeah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's like, I'm sure I've
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: met people when I'm not in a great mood and
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: just like not giving them the time.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Your vibrations are probably bad.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so my vibrations might be bad that day, and
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: then maybe if they meet me a second time, I'm
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: a better mood.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my vibrations are better. But growing up I never vibration.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Growing up, I never realized like how much like your
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: mood affects like everything going on in your life and stuff.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just thought it was like so
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: such smooth sailing, and it was just like funny different
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: things that affect and there's way more than the list
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I just had. Oh fuck, yeah, yeah, I'm also I'm
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty lucky. I I find it
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: easier to be happy, then I find it to be upset.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: But some people are the complete opposite. They find it
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: easier to be upset than they do to be happy,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: which is tough, which is fuck. I feel a bit
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: bad man, Yeah, and that's that's what everyone has, like
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: sad times, but it's just so much easier to be
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: sad and depressed. It feels like so much effort to
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: be happy. Yeah, your body's just like funck. I want
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: to do anything. I just want to lay down watching
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: Netflix on my phone. I just want to be sad,
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: which is relatable, but that's like something maybe I was
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: naive growing up, bro, I just thought everyone was such
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: rainbow smooth sailing sometimes. Yeah, it's just it's funny realizing it.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: It's weird, all right, Jake, I know you've been putting
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: on a brave face this whole episode. It's okay to
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: let it out now, fortunately for him, but fortunately for me.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm going on a holiday, yes, back to Bali.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: But what that means for everyone listening is after this
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: episode there's going to be a two week break on
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Spotify and Apple podcasts. But you might be thinking, how
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: do I get my fix of Addie and Jake on
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: the Relatable. You mean you're not posting for two weeks.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: We're still posting on Patreon every single Thursday. So for
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: five dollars a month, you can still get our sweet
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: voices in your ears. Yep. And otherwise I'm going on
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: holiday Jack, You're gonna be okay.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: I don't actually know yet.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I am not sure. I haven't fully thought about it,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: and I have been trying not to think about it bad.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be a tough time, but I hope you
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: have fun. Thanks man, But thank you guys so very
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: much for listening. So, yeah, get over to Patreon and
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: listen over there, or go catch up.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, catch so many episodes over there if you need
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: to hit two. There's like other than us posting every
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: single week. There's got to be like close to fifty
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: episodes over there. Now. I think there's like a year's worth. Yeah,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: I think so. I think we've been doing it for
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: right over there. Yeah, we love you even more if
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: you're over there, give us your money. We don't do
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: it for the money. We love you all right. So