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Reality Cheque feat. Juawana Colbert · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, a production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically Black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 2: talk back.
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  Speaker 3: What's up, y'all boys? Your girl AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam?
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  Speaker 2: What up, y'all boy?
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  Speaker 4: That don't even sound right coming out of my mouth.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Thank y'all for coming back again.
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  Speaker 4: This sweet.
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  Speaker 2: Am I going to ask you about your weekend?
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  Speaker 4: I guess.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't do much. It was Labor Day weekend. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't even realize it initially. I bought a new bicycle.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. Oh, I saw you was riding.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not circulating. No more money this month, y'all. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I spent a lot of money on this bike. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: And I still got to get out of little bells
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  Speaker 1: and whistles, like literal bells and shit like that for.
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  Speaker 3: When I'm riding. But I love riding bike. And I
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  Speaker 3: learned that my.
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  Speaker 1: Old bike was stolen by maintenance around this motherfucker. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was in storage all this time.
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  Speaker 3: They moved it and said they stored it. And then
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  Speaker 3: when I went to go store the new bike.
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  Speaker 2: It was gone.
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  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 2: So what, are they going to reimburse you for it?
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to see.
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  Speaker 1: I hadn't been over there yet. But I haven't ridden
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  Speaker 1: my bike in like a year. So I wanted a
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  Speaker 1: new bike anyway. But still now, my boyfriend don't have
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  Speaker 1: a bike to ride when he come. We got to
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  Speaker 1: get him a bike. Y'all, riding bike really brings out
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  Speaker 1: your inner child. Same with like flying the kites and
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  Speaker 1: shit like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's just so fun, man.
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  Speaker 4: I like it too.
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  Speaker 3: It's so fun. Like I rode the Whole Foods. It's
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  Speaker 3: like five miles one way. And then coming back. So
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  Speaker 3: I rode like maybe like 11 miles or something like that.
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  Speaker 3: It was just so fun. It started raining on me.
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  Speaker 3: I felt like a kid. But that's all I did.
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  Speaker 3: Did anybody even cook out? Did anyone you know cook out?
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  Speaker 2: I did hear that some people were cooking out, but
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  Speaker 2: I didn't go. And the only reason I had every
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  Speaker 2: intention to go, but me and Janae, shout out to
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  Speaker 2: my bestie Janae. We just like bad for each other
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  Speaker 2: in a way because we be getting drunk together.
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  Speaker 4: That's a good time. We be bad influences. Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: let's do one another.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll take another.
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  Speaker 4: And then it just before you know. Yes, before you know,
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  Speaker 4: we fucked up.
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  Speaker 2: So on Monday, I was like, stayed in bed all
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  Speaker 2: day because I couldn't function. It take a whole day
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  Speaker 2: to recover after you drink. That's the part that sucks.
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  Speaker 2: And we always say we're not going to do it
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  Speaker 2: no more.
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  Speaker 4: And then we do it again.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I don't drink like that, man.
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  Speaker 1: Like very few and far in between do I actually drink.
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  Speaker 1: And I have a good time when I'm drunk, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't enjoy ruining my next day.
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  Speaker 2: It's the next day. But it wasn't always this way.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe our liver and shit ain't that good no more.
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  Speaker 3: We got to drunk it out when I'm young.
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  Speaker 1: I used to get so fucked up living in Columbia.
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  Speaker 1: I never understood it. I never understood why I was
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  Speaker 1: so drunk in college and shit.
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  Speaker 4: Because everybody's drunk in college for the most part.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how I got home. Who the fuck
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  Speaker 3: drove me? It was God. Yeah, every time.
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  Speaker 2: Every time.
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  Speaker 4: Bitch, I could have been dead.
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  Speaker 2: I just think about some of the choices I made.
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  Speaker 2: And that's why we be trying to give y'all some game,
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  Speaker 2: y'all young girls that's listening to the show, because some
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  Speaker 2: of the shit is just a blessing I'm still here,
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  Speaker 2: you know?
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  Speaker 1: And that's a helpless feeling speaking to the younger generation
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  Speaker 1: because I already know y'all ass gonna still do the
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  Speaker 1: dumb shit cause most people gonna have to learn from
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  Speaker 1: their own experience you can't tell them they can't learn
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  Speaker 1: vicariously through us they gotta go actually do all the dumb.
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  Speaker 3: Bitch shit we done told you about right.
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  Speaker 1: Just recently on Lil Duval page, this girl posted a,
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  Speaker 1: she was like twerking in a bathing suit, posting all
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  Speaker 1: these different men, like, and talking shit about them. And
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  Speaker 1: I commented, I said, who going to tell her that
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  Speaker 1: this is like, this makes her look bad more than
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  Speaker 1: it does them. Right. So I guess she didn't, she
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  Speaker 1: didn't appreciate that. So then she started coming for my
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  Speaker 1: old ass in the comments. Meanwhile, I look way younger
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  Speaker 1: than this 20 something year old little girl.
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  Speaker 4: That's how they always love to do. That's the first. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: And you trying to publicly shame these men without taking accountability.
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  Speaker 3: You are who you beat. There is an aspect of
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  Speaker 3: these niggas in you, little bitch.
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  Speaker 4: That is how you attracted them. I'm sorry to this man.
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  Speaker 3: I do not know this.
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  Speaker 4: Once it's over, I've never seen you a day in
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  Speaker 4: my life.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, because you changed, right?
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  Speaker 1: So the version of you that would even fuck with
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  Speaker 1: him no longer exists. You would not be twerking on
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  Speaker 1: the internet publicly trying to shame them when you still
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  Speaker 1: look like them.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Your energy signature still look like them niggas you're trying
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  Speaker 1: to shame.
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  Speaker 4: Me, I'm like, what niggas? I've never seen them niggas
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  Speaker 4: a day in my life.
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  Speaker 3: There would be no evidence.
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  Speaker 1: One thing black men be right about is that black
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  Speaker 1: women do not like to take accountability.
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  Speaker 2: I've never seen a man a day in my life.
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  Speaker 1: But the difference, I think, between us and men is
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  Speaker 1: that we understand that about women, right? Because we are
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  Speaker 1: friends with women. Women show up the same way in
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  Speaker 1: their friendships as they show up in these relationships. Men
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  Speaker 1: don't know how these niggas be bitch ass niggas at
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  Speaker 1: home because they be completely different to their friends versus.
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  Speaker 3: How they are in their relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: But yes, I know the bitches because the bitches is
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  Speaker 1: still the bitches.
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  Speaker 3: And the friendships.
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  Speaker 2: I saw this video where this nigga was laid up
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  Speaker 2: with his girl.
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  Speaker 4: He was like... I'm scared of the thunder and the lightning.
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  Speaker 2: She said, oh, my baby's scared. He said, mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 4: It went boom, boom.
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  Speaker 2: And then he turned and saw that the camera was
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  Speaker 2: on him.
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  Speaker 4: He's like, man, get that fucking camera out of my face, man.
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  Speaker 4: You fucking playing too much. Oh, now you tough.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Because you was just in here scared of thunder.
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  Speaker 4: Talking about this boom, boom. Right, man.
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  Speaker 1: So, yeah, we know women retarded. Y'all be trying to
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  Speaker 1: gaslight us. If you're a heterosexual man, you don't know
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  Speaker 1: how these men are in relationships.
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  Speaker 3: You'll never know. They'll never show you that side of them.
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  Speaker 2: I be feeling like niggas, and I might be wrong,
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  Speaker 2: but I feel like men relationships are very superficial anyway.
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  Speaker 2: And that's how they stay friends so long. Because y'all
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  Speaker 2: don't even know each other for real.
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  Speaker 3: They don't.
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  Speaker 1: They don't ask any questions. One of my homeboys, Ken,
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  Speaker 1: he be telling me stuff sometimes. I'm like, okay, did
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  Speaker 1: you ask such a... They don't even ask questions. They
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  Speaker 1: really don't give a fuck about each other, dog.
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  Speaker 3: They really don't.
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  Speaker 1: Even like their close cousins and stuff like that, they
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  Speaker 1: don't really care. They don't ask enough questions to understand...
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  Speaker 1: the dynamic in these people's lives.
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  Speaker 4: Who they are. They know what team they like and
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  Speaker 4: maybe what liquor they drink. That's it.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: I had a friend, like, him and his best friend
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  Speaker 1: stopped talking for, like, two years.
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  Speaker 3: And maybe he's lying to me, but I'm like, what happened?
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  Speaker 3: What happened? And, like, why did y'all stop talking? Like,
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  Speaker 3: y'all never... Y'all just... Started back hanging out and y'all
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  Speaker 3: back cool? No. I need closure.
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  Speaker 2: I need to understand.
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  Speaker 4: I need clarity on what is going on.
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  Speaker 1: Before, I stopped being friends with a bitch and I
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  Speaker 1: really can't start being friends with you ever again in life.
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  Speaker 1: Because now I'm not comfortable telling you my secrets no more.
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  Speaker 1: The whole dynamic of the relationship has changed.
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  Speaker 4: It's over.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Like, I don't even know how to converse with you
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  Speaker 3: no more for real. Like, hey, hi. That's all I
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  Speaker 3: got for you. Right.
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  Speaker 4: It is silent.
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  Speaker 3: Men are weird.
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  Speaker 4: Men are weird.
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  Speaker 3: We love y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Cause you know, they be getting mad at us.
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  Speaker 2: Anytime we say anything about them, they be so angry.
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  Speaker 4: We love y'all. We don't want to live without y'all.
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  Speaker 1: But my thing is, this is a female podcast. This
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  Speaker 1: is a woman's podcast. So most of our perspectives, It's
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  Speaker 1: going to be coming from a woman. Just about every perspective.
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  Speaker 3: Yes. It's our perspective on whatever the thing is.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody commented, and I know it's actually one of my friends.
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  Speaker 1: He commented and was like, can I throw a monkey
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  Speaker 1: wrench in this?
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  Speaker 2: No, you can't.
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  Speaker 1: We're women, and it's our perspective. Go get your own
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  Speaker 1: platform and throw a monkey wrench over there. I don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like conversing with you niggas in 200 to 300.
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  Speaker 3: 300 characters on Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Like, how you mad because I don't think it's a
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  Speaker 2: date if we're both paying?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not a date. It's not a date. Why
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  Speaker 4: are you mad about that?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not a date. It's just not.
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Now, I mean, to each his own, right? I wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: mind paying.
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  Speaker 1: If I... Somebody commented and said, what if the day
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  Speaker 1: $ 460 and you ask this person to pay $ 76, which
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  Speaker 1: would probably be like around a tip or something for
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  Speaker 1: that amount. First of all, $ 460 for a dinner is
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  Speaker 1: excessive as fuck. I don't know any place food is
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  Speaker 1: that good that I need $ 460 worth of it.
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  Speaker 3: We could have went to Whole Foods, my boy.
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  Speaker 4: Got me some groceries for my house. But I've had
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  Speaker 4: that happen.
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  Speaker 2: Me and Janae getting drunk at Del Frisco. Bill came
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  Speaker 2: back $ 560. He's like, God damn.
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  Speaker 3: Did y'all flinch? Did you say, bitch, you going to
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  Speaker 3: eat my ass for half of this?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 4: I wanted to.
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  Speaker 3: They be wanting us to pay. I'm going to tell Janae.
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  Speaker 3: Don't tell her. They be wanting us to pay for
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  Speaker 3: dinner and head.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You want me to, like, pay half? Like, you want
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  Speaker 3: me to pay half and possibly still suck your dick tonight? No, sir.
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  Speaker 4: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 3: If I put my card on this table.
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  Speaker 2: We two bad bitches having dinner, like me and Janae.
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  Speaker 2: It might as well have been me and Janae at dinner.
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  Speaker 2: That's it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like, no.
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  Speaker 1: So if that's what you want, you know, we're friends.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be looking at me. You just got a discount
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  Speaker 1: on dinner and discount pussy.
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  Speaker 3: No. No.
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  Speaker 4: Get out of here.
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  Speaker 3: This is not a bargain box. What the fuck?
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  Speaker 4: This ain't no rollback pussy.
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  Speaker 3: This ain't no fucking bogo hoe. Fuck out of here.
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  Speaker 4: Girl, let's get into sins.
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  Speaker 2: We just talked 10 minutes. They did a single sin.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 3: What do we got? What do we got?
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  Speaker 2: What do we got?
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: What do we got?
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  Speaker 3: All right, so you were in Charlotte. This weekend was
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  Speaker 3: Labor Day. Did you not go to, what's it called?
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  Speaker 4: No Knife.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to go to No Knife. Why? Why didn't
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  Speaker 2: I go? Because I knew it was going to be
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  Speaker 2: stupid crowded. The line was wrapped around the building. I
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  Speaker 2: want my waffle, when I go for my waffle, I
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  Speaker 2: want my waffle to be fresh and not, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want it to be super busy. So I'm
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: going to wait a little while before I go. And
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  Speaker 2: I need them to iron out all the kinks.
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  Speaker 4: Before I get there.
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  Speaker 1: So the baby has the internet uh well maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: just the charlotte people um up in arms all right
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  Speaker 1: it says oop the baby repost uh supporters 40 a
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  Speaker 1: seed for banana pudding and chicken amid backlash over his
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  Speaker 1: charlotte restaurant charging 45 for a loaded waffle and six
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  Speaker 1: dollars for bottled water y'all just cheap as hell that's
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  Speaker 1: what he said So, yeah, so you have all the
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte residents. They are complaining about the prices at No Knife,
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  Speaker 1: the baby's new restaurant in Charlotte, North Carolina.
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  Speaker 3: And, I mean, let's look at a couple of the
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  Speaker 3: prices here.
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  Speaker 1: So he has this innovative, okay, soul food cornbread waffle menu.
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  Speaker 1: that has collard greens. I mean, I wouldn't order it
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  Speaker 1: because it got meat all up in there. It might
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  Speaker 1: be smoked turkey or something.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Collard greens, candy yams, and mac and cheese on a
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  Speaker 1: cornbread waffle. And that is $ 45. I think that's the
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  Speaker 1: highest ticket item on the menu. He has a nine
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: ounce lobster tail, but then it says $ 40, but then
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  Speaker 1: it also says market price. So that could actually be
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: more than $ 40 at some point, I guess.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because the price on meat just be changing every day.
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  Speaker 2: It's like the stock market now.
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  Speaker 3: It's like gas.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 1: So one waffle, plain Jane waffle is $ 15. Banana pudding
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  Speaker 1: is $ 25.
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  Speaker 3: Is that a waffle?
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  Speaker 4: Banana pudding waffle.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 4: So this is all like waffles right here.
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  Speaker 1: Different flavors of, okay, sweet potato waffle, $ 25.
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  Speaker 4: Now, I saw a picture.
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  Speaker 1: DJ Chuck T posted, the baby actually brought his plate
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  Speaker 1: to the table.
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  Speaker 3: I doubt all y'all would get that type of service.
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  Speaker 1: The baby probably won't be serving you your food, but
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  Speaker 1: he served DJ Chuck T.
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  Speaker 3: And the fucking waffle was like in a pizza box.
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  Speaker 3: It was just that big.
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  Speaker 4: It's big. And, you know, you don't have to go here.
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: You don't have to eat here.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even go here.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 4: You don't have to eat here. You know, the prices.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I don't get because y'all go to
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: these restaurants, you'll go to Ruth Chris and pay $ 40
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  Speaker 2: for a piece of chicken stuffed with cheese and won't
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: bat an eye and won't complain about anything because you
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  Speaker 2: know that this is their price. So why you go
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: to his shit and do that? You don't have to go.
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  Speaker 2: If you like Waffle House prices, go get your waffle
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: from Waffle House.
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  Speaker 4: It's not a problem. He won't be mad at you.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I don't like.
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  Speaker 2: And I hate that black people do that, that they
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  Speaker 2: feel like because it's black-owned, it needs to be discounted. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean, so I guess most black people
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  Speaker 1: like the experience, right? Ruth Chris, to me, is not
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  Speaker 1: like that spectacular of an experience.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that no restaurant is.
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: I finally ate at STK in Vegas. Just so underwhelming.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? The food was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I could have made this at the house. It was
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: just not that great. What's the restaurant, the steakhouse we
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: ate at the other day where I had that bronzini?
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  Speaker 4: We was at Dean's.
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  Speaker 3: Now, Dean's was busting.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that was good.
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  Speaker 3: Dean's was busting.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: The check was busting to $ 300- some dollars at our ass. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm willing to pay for quality because I don't
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  Speaker 1: fuck around with food.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not eating it. This shit is trash. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: the type of person to leave a review.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: I just won't come back, and I'll probably word of
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  Speaker 1: mouth tell people your shit is trash. But I'm never
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: like going to make a post about people's prices. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I do feel like black people do be price gouging
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  Speaker 1: their people sometimes because white people really don't frequent black
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: establishments like that. So your clients, your customers is usually
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: going to be another black person. And if I can
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  Speaker 1: go to another place that's comparable to yours owned by
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: another ethnicity and get cheaper prices, I am then questioning
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  Speaker 1: why are you charging.
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: $ 50 for a double shot? Of liquor. Yeah. Y'all are. Yeah,
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: I get it. Something to get your price gouging on.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: But the waffle was the size of a steering wheel, though.
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: That's the thing.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: No, I'm going to go there. I'm going to eat there.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: I love me a good-ass fucking waffle.
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: I won't get chicken, but I definitely would throw a
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: lobster tail on there or some crab cakes or something
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: like that if he has it.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: I'll probably pay the $ 45 for that.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: It's a place in Vegas I just went to a
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: couple months ago, and it's like a famous chicken and
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: waffle type spot. And the meal that my people had,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: that one plate was $ 95.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: I didn't even realize it.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: It had all the different meats, lobster tails, shrimp, all
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: that shit on the waffle.
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm. $ 95.
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but you got all that meat.
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: And it's a black-owned restaurant.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: But y'all, first of all, shit, everything is expensive right now.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: Name one thing that ain't. Everything is expensive. We can't
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: get nothing cheap right now. So why you think you
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: gonna come to his shit and get something cheap? Exactly.
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: You know? I don't know.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Stay your ass at the house, man. That's the cheapest
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: place you could be. But if you anything like me,
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: you under them covers is still spending money.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: In the dark.
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, man.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you. It's my mama birthday. When y'all
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: hear this, it'll be my mom's birthday. Happy birthday to
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: my mom. We plan her birthday. My sister baby shower
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: next month. We planning that. One of my friends is
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: another one that's having a baby. She's expecting a good
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: gift from me and I got to get her something nice.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Then I got another bridal shower to go to. Baby,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: I got a can of sardines and crackers. That I'm
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: in this bitch eating tonight. Just so I can show
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: up for everybody.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: I made some pasta last night. You know how long
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: that'll last?
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: Shit, a couple days.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: You can at least get two meals out of that
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: for $ 30.
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: Listen, stay your ass in the house and stop breathing.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: If you're concerned about... The place in Vegas is called
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: Stuff My Turkey. You ever eat there?
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: Mm-mm. Is it black-owned?
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: Black-owned, yes.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: Food bussin', though. Bussin', bussin'. But it's not cheap. You know,
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: I really don't want cheap food.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. If the quality is good, I'll
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: wait for it.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I don't mind waiting a while for my food because
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I understand good food takes a while to cook.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: I don't want shit fast. Yeah, me too.
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: That's the thing.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: If you putting out bullshit for $ 45, then that's a problem.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: But if it's good, Big Mama gone. What you got
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: built for Big Mama for real?
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Shame. What else we got going on the stupid internet
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: news this week, Chai?
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: Okay, let's look at this.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: So, a mother who previously shared footage, y'all probably saw this,
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: of her son's behavior issues shares this video where she
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: called the police after he attacked her and pulled her
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: hair out. And it's a video of this woman trying
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: to practice some restraint and not kill her little baby
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: boy in that house. Because he's about 10 or so.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: He getting big. He ain't no little, he ain't no small,
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: small child.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: I think he's a teenager. I think he's like 13
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: years old.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Oh, really?
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because he looked like he a little older. He
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: ain't no small child. Like, he can hurt her. You know,
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: he at an age where he can physically hurt her.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: And he is, like, for real crashing out. And she's
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: on the phone with the police. And they're having... I mean,
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: with the operator. And the operator was pissing me off
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: in the video, y'all.
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: I feel like the.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Operator was trying to get her in trouble for child
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: abuse instead of, like.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounded like something to me. Mm-hmm.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: You know, like treat her like the victim.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: And a lot of people were suggesting that this is
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: what happens when a father is not in the home.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: And we don't have any proof that the father is
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: not in the home.
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: It doesn't say that.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: He might not just be home for all we know.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: But what it seems to me is this child has
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: like some mental illness.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he definitely has some behavioral issues, right? And there's
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: a lot of men who were raised by black women,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: single black women who came out.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: So I, that narrative kind of absolutely does rub me
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: the wrong way.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: Okay. And it's like, they say it to, to, to
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: be like a slight.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: To women.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: To women.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Instead of the men.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: The men, you know, they, they basically, they aren't exempt
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: because they weren't there.
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: They chose they, and most men, cases, they are choosing
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: not to be in the children's lives.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: So why are the.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Women being blamed once again for the decisions of men?
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: It's disgusting.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: And I wish people were really stopping. But I don't
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: blame her for recording him. Now, the internet is ink,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: it's not pencil. You can't erase it. I don't blame
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: her for recording him, but posting that shit online is whack. Okay,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: your son, he might be having a manic episode of
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: some sort, possibly. To me, he just looks like a
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: spoiled brat. She started taking things away from him and
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: then he started acting out.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: Even more.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: And he clearly watched baddies.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: You need to cancel his Zeus network account because he.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: Act like a baddie.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: He act just like, just all his behavior is giving baddies. Yeah,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: she's on the phone with dispatch and he's attacking her. Initially,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: he started trying to fake cry and then he hopped
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: on her again. Now, recently, it's a 39-year-old mother, Kimberly King, Milwaukee.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Her 21-year-old daughter stabbed her.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: 12 times in a Chick-fil-A parking lot two days ago.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: With her child and her grandchild in the car.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: No, it didn't kill her. She had to get out
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: the car. She pulled over.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Because they got into an argument. They were driving from
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Florida to Milwaukee or some shit like that.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: They were on the highway.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: And she got out the car. She ran into the Chick-fil-A.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: And they had to help stop the bleeding. She stabbed
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: her mom 12 times in her head. All over black
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: people also. So it is not bad that she's recording
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: him because children do kill their parents.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: It seems like she's been trying to show restraint and
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: not hurt him.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: That's what I gave. That's what it gave. She trying
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: not to kill this little boy in this house.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: That's what it seemed like.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Because I'm pretty sure she could.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because he ain't that big where he can't get,
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: you know, the business. And all this with a lot
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: of people were in the comments like he would have
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: touched every wall in that building.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: No, I definitely would clean the fucking house with him. Yeah.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I promise.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I don't believe in really hitting little people. When they
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: get that age right there, you got to beat them up.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: You fail somewhere and you got to course correct this
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: little motherfucker at some point.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: But he definitely needs to go get evaluated.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would have went to jail behind that
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: that day because he was like pulling her hair and
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: doing all that.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: I'm about to take you up out.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: But maybe sometime in a facility we'll correct that behavior.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: That's why they have programs like Scared Street and things
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: like that. And also because he does seem to be,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people had choice words, right?
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: He does seem to probably be gay to me, right?
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: She needs to explore that too. Because he's a young boy.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: What happened? Did something happen?
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, discover what, if anything happened.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Is he angry? Yeah, is he angry for a reason?
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: As a mom, you will never want to fail your kid.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Right now, they both failing.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm. It is a sad state of affairs, but she.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Taking it to the internet and creating content off of
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: it is disgusting.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: So that's what I didn't understand. Like, why did you
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: take it to the internet? Like, are you just, like,
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: trying to get help and this is the only way
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: you know how? Like, have you tried all the things
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: locally and you just feel like you're not getting any results?
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: So now you're taking it to a broader audience to
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: see who can assist? Because what was the purpose of
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: showing us all of that?
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: She seemed a little bit off to me, too, posting
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: that online.
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because... A little bit.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: Because even just how she communicate with him just sound like,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: you know. But I mean, he was acting like a
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: nigga off the street. So sometimes you got to talk
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: to him like that nigga off the street.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: So, hold on. I have a question real quick before
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: we go on to the next scene. Because I'm trying
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: to work on my communication and how I talk to
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: people and how I respond to things. And I said to,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: on the phone with this guy, I said, nigga, yeah,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: I like flowers, nigga.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Like that, right?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: And he took it, he said that nigga to him
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: was the same thing as if he called me a bitch.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, so he, I mean, he doesn't like to be
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: called nigga, so note taken. Yeah.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, note taken.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: But he said that was across the board for men.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: If it was another man calling him a nigga, that
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: it would be okay. But if it was a woman, when.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: A woman called him a nigga. Not nigga.
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: That's how I felt. We are niggas.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: That's what I said.
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: I didn't feel.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: I was like, well, I said it as a term
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: of endearment. He was like, yeah, just like how women
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: say bitch to each other as a term of endearment.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: But if I say it to them, it's a problem.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: That's how men feel about a nigga, and I ain't
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: never heard that before.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: Never ever in my life have I heard that. Okay,
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: I thought I was crying.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: No.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Boy, he was trying to start a debate about nothing.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Black people, nigga is not exclusive to black men. Yeah. Boy. What?
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: Oh, excuse me. Let me not call him a boy.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Then that would also be a problem.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. You know, what?
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what he said.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I'd never heard that before. But I was like, you
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: know what? I won't call you a nigga anymore. And then, like,
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: literally two sentences later, I was like, nigga, please.
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: And I was like, you know what? My bad.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, if it was a situation where he doesn't
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: use the term at all, and he's saying that, understandable.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: But you use nigga, and you think.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: That women aren't supposed to say nigga because it's like
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: a man saying bitch?
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: That don't make any sense to me. Come on.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: I never heard that.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: Y'all tell me if y'all ever heard that before.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: I never heard that. Ever, ever, ever. Which one are these?
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: What are we doing? I feel like I left something
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: off here. Hold on a second.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: On the boat.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Hold on.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on. Do y'all follow this Muppet Kiki? Who?
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: This Muppet. Kiki on Instagram. Do you follow her?
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: No, I've never heard of her.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: Man, I want to get Kiki on the podcast. She's
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: a Muppet.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: And you know, I had the idea to get a
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Muppet created once before and then somebody popped up on
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Instagram with the Muppet and child, she be having her
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: lace laid.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: She got a son.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Anyway y'all so uh man gets confronted on cruise after
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: allegedly scamming a woman out of $ 1, 100 and taking her
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: name off the reservation actual cost of the trip was
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: only $ 500.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: Carnival cruising right out of Charleston.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: At that probably right I want my motherfucking money back
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: period So she pulls up on him and his friends
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: and they are in the jacuzzi, child.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: She's like, oh, you thought I wasn't going to get
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: on this boat, huh? Yeah.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Woman says she thought she was booking an MSC cruise
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: from August 30th through September 6th with the former associate
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: she met abroad, another MSC cruise in December 2025. According
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: to her, the two made plans and she sent nearly
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: $ 1, 100 after receiving what she claims were fake itineraries, booking
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: numbers and invoices. But while traveling to Galveston to board
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: the MSC Seascape cruise, She says the man suddenly stopped responding.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: That is so fucked up.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: She's traveling to get on a cruise. The man suddenly
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: stops responding to her text and blocked her number. After
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: calling the cruise line, she claimed she learned he had
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: only paid $ 524 for the cruise, which left her wondering
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: where the rest of the money went.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: Instead of turning around and going home, the woman.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Says she purchased a completely separate reservation aboard the same
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: ship departing that day. Once on board, she says another
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: passenger spotted the man on a hookup app.
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: Girl, ew.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: His face just popped up on the screen with him
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: doing that.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: That nigga lip was quivering.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: He was scared.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Yes! He's like, he's going to put hands on me.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: And helped him arrange a surprise meeting. Helped her arrange
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: the surprise meeting. She recorded the confrontation and said she
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: never intended to physically harm him, but she wanted him
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: to admit what allegedly happened so she could report the
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: matter to the crew of security and law enforcement.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That's messed up.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: He's a thief. He in there with a brassiere on.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: A little tiny ass brassiere.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: In the jacuzzi with that girl money.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: And then talk about somebody said, yeah, I think I
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: want to move to Charlotte.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: I don't come to Charlotte with that bullshit y'all on.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: That's what he said?
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Uh-uh. Don't come over here. That bullshit.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: That's terrible, man.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: People be thieves, man.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: People will take advantage of you and use you. And
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: I want to know where y'all went for that many
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: days for $ 500.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like the one time in my life that
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I have been on a cruise and I hate them. Um,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: It was on a carnival cruise out of Charleston. And
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: that shit was around about 500 something dollars. It was
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: like a three, four day cruise.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Four days?
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah. But it was an interior room. It was terrible.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: We didn't have no, we had like the little hole
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: in the wall because I booked it last minute. No balcony.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: Oh my God. I feel like I was in a
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: cheap motel on the ocean.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That's why I don't like, I don't like cruises.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: It just made me feel poor.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: And then you realize like we on a boat in
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: the middle of the fucking ocean for an extended period
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: of time this is not safe yeah eating this fucking
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: same cardboard pizza every day and unlimited ice cream.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: Like, that shit is trash, actually.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: I hate it.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: But you know, I just went on a cruise and
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: I had a ball.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: And I typically don't.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Like, that's why I was like, it was like our Christmas,
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: like we do a Christmas thing every year. And last
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: year we did a cruise and I hated it. Like,
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: I hated the idea of it. But because it was
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: the group, I was like, okay, I'm down. And when
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: I tell you I had, we went to Coco Cay
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: and I cut up at Coco Cay so bad. And
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: I kept saying, I don't have my fucking kids. So
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: that could be my excuse for acting, behaving the way
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: You don't got your kids.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I think any trip is fun when you got a
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: bunch of people. Because when you're ready to lay down,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: somebody ready to go.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Like, it's just fun when you got a bunch of people.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: You can make anything pop into it. But I don't know.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I'll pass on the cruises. I'd rather take the flight
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: to wherever island or wherever I want to go at.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: Me too.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Now, my daddy wife, she worked for like a luxury.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Well, it's a logistics company she works for, but they
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: own like a cruise line. So they have like all
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: these like discounts, international cruises. You just fly to Europe, whatever,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: all over. It might be MSC. It might be MSC.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: I got to ask her again.
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, find out.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: What's up?
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: What's good with that?
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Look, actually at the live show this year, We've met
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: this young lady before. She's the avid listener of the show,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: and I cannot remember her name.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, Sweet Pea. But she pulled up on
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: me again this year. We took a picture. She takes
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: a picture with us every year. I don't know if
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: you remember her. She was with her mom the first year.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was like, y'all should do a cruise.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you think people are going to book it?
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: You think people are really going to come if we
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: do a trip or a cruise or something like that?
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Like if we talk back something?
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that would be fun.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: Holler at your people and see if we can get, like,
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: something set up. Because that would be good.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: After we just finished talking about how we hate it.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: And it's poor.
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: No, but it would be something, okay, kind of affordable.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: We can get a group of people together. It would
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: be a good trip. You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: I'm down for that.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: Just a thought. We still got to do.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Listen, I literally was thinking, like, really jotting down ideas
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: for campings.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: I'm with it, too.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: I'm kind of scared of that, but I'm with it.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: If we're going to do it, we need to do
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: it soon before it gets too cold. Mm-hmm.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: Y'all, because it ain't no such thing as I don't
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: need no nigga in the woods.
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, fuck that.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Yes, I do.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: And so I have another, like, I'll tell you about
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: it when we get off here.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: Anyway.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: But I want it to be like some funny Blair
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Witch type shit.
• 32:30
  Speaker 4: Oh, girl, fuck out of here. See, I ain't got
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: time for that. Funny Blair Witch. Bitch, ain't shit funny
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: about that? What the fuck you talking about?
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: But I wanted to talk about Todd Tucker, but we'll
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: talk about.
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: That on Patreon. Y'all come on over to Patreon.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: We gonna get on to Todd-ass and talk about that. Shame.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Alright, so this week, y'all. This is reality check.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Like the other check, the British spelling of check. We
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: have Joanna Colbert on We Talk Back this week. And
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: we're talking about, you know, a reality show type shit
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: because your girl right here is doing a reality show.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I am.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: We'll be right back. We got a guest this week.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: Yes, we have a very special guest on We Talk Back.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: We have Joanna Colbert. She is a reality star personality
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: from selling Tampa. And we want to talk about the
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: transition from reality to reality.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: Right. That part. That part.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: I would agree. It's a transition.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: So you're in Charlotte now.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I'm in Charlotte.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: And Tampa.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: Back and forth. Tampa has my heart too.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Okay. What brought you back to Charlotte?
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Family, more so family. But I used to live in
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: Charlotte years ago.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: A lot of people, I don't know, they may know that,
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: know that about me. But I love Charlotte. It always
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: was something that was in my heart.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: I love the weather here. I love the people.
• 34:03
  Speaker 5: And so, yeah, it was it was time for me.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: It was an easy transition.
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: It was easy.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Listen, I left Charlotte and I was like, fuck Charlotte, right?
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: Oh, no. 2024, I left.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm never coming back to Charlotte. Went
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: to L.A., broke my foot, left L.A., went to New York.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: And then I like New York. I just don't like
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: New York in the wintertime.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: It was just miserable.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: And the noise pollution in New York, I don't know
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: how y'all do it.
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: I don't sleep.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: We would be recording.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: I'm like, girl, we got to wait for the train
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: to go by.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: And Tammy plays.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: So true. Yes.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: It was just bad. And then I realized like, Charlotte
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: is not that bad. Charlotte is a great city. So
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: it's just, sometimes you have to leave where you at
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: to appreciate where you at. That's so true.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: It's like relationships. Sometimes you leave them, then you back
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: in them.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: I never, I used to live here for a while too.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: I never hated Charlotte. I think Charlotte is a good
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: place to raise kids.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: It's just neutral. You know what I'm saying?
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: It's just a good, it's not like, nothing super bad
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: or super good, it's just a growing still also. So
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I think it was a good place for black people
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: to get money too.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: I would agree.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Always something to do.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Always.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Something to eat.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: Now that's the thing. It's so many restaurants. You could
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: try a different restaurant in Charlotte every day and not
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: go to the same place.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: That's what I've been doing.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: Charlotte Chamber of Commerce. So, okay.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Tell us who was Joanna before reality TV?
• 35:26
  Speaker 5: Joanna was really living in reality.
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: That's what it is. I worked.
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: I was in economic development. I raised my son. I
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: was just enjoying life. I was eating like I still do,
• 35:39
  Speaker 5: going to restaurants, enjoying my family. And When we had
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: the opportunity to do the show, obviously my life changed
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: a little bit. But in general, I'm the same person,
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: always have been, and always will be.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: So you were already living in Tampa when you joined
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: the show?
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: I moved to Tampa in 2017, because at the time
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: I was married, And my husband got stationed in McDeal.
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: So it's an Air Force base in Tampa. That's how
• 36:05
  Speaker 5: I got to Tampa.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: OK. Yeah. OK.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: And then how did you decide that you wanted to
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: participate in a reality show?
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: Because it's not easy to do.
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: I didn't choose it. It chose me. I can't say
• 36:17
  Speaker 5: that I did anything other than just be at the
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: right place at the right time. I got my real
• 36:21
  Speaker 5: estate license. I end up going to work for a brokerage.
• 36:25
  Speaker 5: We went. What happened was we did a photo shoot
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: for Women's History Month. And it was all women and
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: were decent looking women. And it just got a lot
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: of publicity. And at the time, Selling Sunset was looking
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: at doing another concept of reality docuseries on real estate.
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: And they wanted minority women.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: So they reached out to us.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, nice.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: And so that's how it happened.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: So let me ask you this. Do you feel like
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: your reality... difference differs from reality TV like what we
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: saw on reality TV versus your real life uh-huh like
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: was it dramatized yeah like was it extremely different or
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: was it that reality I can only speak for me
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: okay because a little bit just okay don't move it
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: too much because it's special.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: Okay hold on no no no don't move the mic
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: I mean don't.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Move the stand but oh what about this yeah that's
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: good is it okay you hear her good right Okay, sorry.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, cool. No problem. We don't have to edit. Just go. No, no. Sorry.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: That's fine.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: We're going to work it out.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: I would say for me personally, that was really who
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: I am. I didn't try to put on for a show.
• 37:33
  Speaker 5: I was myself and I can stand proud in that.
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: Do I think some of the other ladies put on?
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: But I have no issues with that. Some people just...
• 37:44
  Speaker 5: want to be more extra.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: And that's okay.
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: But for me, it was, it was my reality.
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: I remember crying on there and I couldn't believe that
• 37:54
  Speaker 5: I cried.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I want to know.
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: I'm a Capricorn.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: Until I'm not. Capricorns be mean to men. Like the
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: female Capricorns, they be mean to men. Sometimes. I'm not
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: going to say me. I could be a little bit cold.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: I can be very not understanding. That's what it is. Okay. Okay.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: What was the question?
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: What were you crying about?
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: Oh, I was crying because I was sharing at the
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: time with my friend at the time that I was
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: going through a divorce and I hadn't told anybody.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: And it was just very, it was a tough time
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: for me. And the producers knew that. I didn't want
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: to talk about it.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's what I was about to ask.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: But they kind of like pushed me to talk about it.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: So you shared that on reality TV and then the
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: world got to see you very vulnerable.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Did you feel like remorse for sharing that on reality TV?
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: Was there any like backlash or people saying shit to
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: you like, bitch, you don't know my life? No.
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: None of that? No, none of that.
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: I would say I probably was kind of relieved a
• 39:09
  Speaker 5: little bit. But no, I think people were even more understanding.
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: I think a friend to this day saw that episode
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: and she was going through a divorce and she reached
• 39:20
  Speaker 5: out to.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: Me and we ended up speaking and became friends. Yeah,
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: I think people resonated with it.
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: Do you ever go back and watch episodes? No. I
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: did not want to see me, hear me.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: I do not. You didn't like it?
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: It's not that I didn't like it. It's just weird
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: looking at yourself. It's like the podcast. Do you really?
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I do because I be looking at to
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: see like edits and stuff, but. I don't really, like,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I'm just now starting to like my voice for real.
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: I always feel like I sound like a fat ass man.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: So I know what you mean.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: I'm like, God damn, my voice deep as hell. And
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: then especially with my hair like this, when that outfit
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I just took off, it was cute. I was like
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: asking her, do I look like a stem?
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: No, it was cute. What's a stem?
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: It's like a feminine stud.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: Only the gays know.
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not gay.
• 40:15
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Got it. I learned a new word today.
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: So do you feel like.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: So I just actually was cast to do a reality
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: show here in Charlotte called Drama Queens.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: And we're filming right now. We're still filming. And sometimes
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: I feel like production is messy. Oh. Do you feel like...
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: And I was not prepared for that. So... I had
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: to learn like, uh-huh. Y'all dragging the bones. Y'all the
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: one dragging the bones.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they are.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: So was that your experience? Like, did it cause friction
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: for you as a cast member because of the bones
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: that were being dragged by production?
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: Not for me because nobody is going to make me
• 40:52
  Speaker 5: or intimidate me or push me to do something that
• 40:55
  Speaker 5: I don't want to do.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Am I fully aware of it?
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: And will I feed into it when I want to? Yes.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: But in general, that is their role. I mean, what'd
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: you say the name? It's drama.
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: Reality TV and drama, they want to see friction. And
• 41:11
  Speaker 5: they're going to pull it out anyway. It could be true.
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: It could not be true. But they want to see
• 41:15
  Speaker 5: some friction. Now, do they necessarily want to see you fight? No,
• 41:19
  Speaker 5: probably not. But they want to see friction. And they
• 41:22
  Speaker 5: keep the drinks flowing. Drinks are flowing.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: So spirits on the set.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like there were parts of your
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: personality that was highlighted that maybe you didn't want or
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: were there parts that you might have wanted that was not?
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: That's a good question.
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: And I think in general, I was pretty happy with
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: how I was portrayed or what I shared and what
• 41:47
  Speaker 5: I showed.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: It was very authentic. It was it was me.
• 41:52
  Speaker 5: And no, I think I was able to share with
• 41:57
  Speaker 5: with people what I wanted to share.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:00
  Speaker 5: In general, I was happy with it.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: See, I'm nervous because, you know, obviously the show that
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: I'm filming now isn't out yet. And I'm just scared
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: about how, like, because I feel like they can, They
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: posted some clips. Oh, yeah. And I said, I don't
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: give a fuck. The camera was not even supposed to
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: be rolling when I said that.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: If the mic is hot, it's hot. You have no control.
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm learning.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm learning. The mic is on.
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: You had a mean face while you said it?
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: I was like, I don't give a fuck.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: And it was in the clip, and I was like,
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: I was horrified. Even though I will say that on here, obviously.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: The context, there was no context with it, right? So
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: what I was saying is, you know, like how sometimes
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: production will have you talking about things that you don't
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: really give a fuck about. Yeah. And that's what I
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: was saying to her. Like, I don't give, like, I'm
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: about to talk to you about something that I really
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about. Yeah.
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: You know, and then all they.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: Have is, I don't give a fuck.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: And it just was like, I'm scared about how I
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: may be presented on the show.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: You should be. Because editing is something serious. Yes, it is.
• 43:09
  Speaker 5: If they can edit in a way that makes it
• 43:11
  Speaker 5: look like you said something, even though you may have
• 43:13
  Speaker 5: said it, but not related to what they're saying it's
• 43:16
  Speaker 5: related to. And they have what they call carte blanche.
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: They can edit it the way they want. Like, especially
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: with new series, you have no control with how they
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: edit it.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: Period.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: So that means like, do you try to stay on
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: production's good side so you, they are happy to present
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: a good front of you?
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: No, they don't care. They don't care if your friends
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: are not. That's what you be doing?
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: They ain't going to do that.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: No, because you're not paying them. You're not paying them.
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: You're there as a drama.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: They need, they're going to do what they feel is
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: best to you.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Market the show.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: That's it. So don't try to fake friendship.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: No. If you want to stay on the show, you
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: got to be the drummer. But I'm not, though.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: I think, you know, I'm more funny. Like, I'll come
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: in with the one-liners real quick and say some funny shit.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: So you're quick. I'm not that quick.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: That's me.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: I'm not trying to argue with bitches.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: Because I'm going to knock all this shit over. Okay.
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: You're going to take it serious.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, I can't play around like that. Okay.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: And I'm just laughing and joking. But I don't have
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: no drama. Like, I'm single.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: I don't have kids.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: But they create the drama, right? So now you got
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: beef with somebody you didn't even create that drama with. Exactly.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: That you didn't even know you had.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: Well, right now, I don't know that. Maybe at the reunion,
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: I'll see that somebody might have been saying some shit
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: that I didn't know.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: But right now... You were knocked off over?
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: No, I'm over 40 years old.
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: You're not knocking nothing over. You're going to smile. You
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: might fall.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: I just got my foot back.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: You know she had a leg incident. She had God
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: knocking over it.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I fell at the port-a-potty at a wedding the other
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: day and my whole body was hurting the next day.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: We're too old to be.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: That's why when I agreed to do the show, I
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: was like, is this one of them fighting shows for
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Zeus Network? Because That's not my ministry. So that brings
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: me to the ministry.
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Aesthetic. Fighting bitches.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: The show didn't have a lot of seasons in comparison to...
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: the other shows similar selling, what was their selling? Sunset. Sunset.
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: And do you feel like that is associated with the
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: cast being all black? Because I had concerns with that.
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: Like, why is it this?
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: Because the show was this, it was good. Yeah.
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: And we were watching.
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: We enjoyed it. It was number one for like several weeks.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: So what happened?
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: I don't really know.
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: What we were told was the numbers weren't where they
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: needed to be. And it was very difficult to find like,
• 45:47
  Speaker 5: so like, Think about it. In selling Sunset, they have
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: homes that are very luxurious, beautiful. The price point is
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: at a level where you're typically not going to have
• 45:58
  Speaker 5: that in Tampa. They're so far and few between. So
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: the markets are different. And I think they had a
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: concept of more luxury.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: And it's just not.
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: Maybe now it's changed a little bit.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: I really don't. I think because of us.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: It was more so because of us. But I think
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: it's a combination. They said it was difficult to work
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: with some. When you're filming, you have to work with restaurants.
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: You have to work with locations. You have to secure things.
• 46:28
  Speaker 5: You can't film everything in one spot.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 46:31
  Speaker 5: And so I think that was a little bit of
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: a challenge for them. And on top of the real estate,
• 46:36
  Speaker 5: I don't really know if it had to do with.
• 46:39
  Speaker 5: Us being black, I don't think so. But it could
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: have been a little bit. I mean, everything goes through
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: your head, right? When they say you're not getting a
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: season two. So yes, did we talk about it? Did
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: we think that could have been a reason? Of course, but-
• 46:54
  Speaker 5: I was disappointed.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah. A lot of people were. We were. Yeah.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: I wanted to see more of that. So I just like,
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: why they do the black women like that? Y'all were
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: just as entertaining as any other season, if not more,
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: for me.
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: Were you a fan favorite? Or like, who was the
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: fan favorite from Tampa? Selling Tampa?
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: I think really, honestly, I think all of us, but
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: maybe more so Sherelle at the time.
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: Because she was dating Chad.
• 47:20
  Speaker 5: So maybe her, but I think we all had different
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: fans yeah and and for different reasons we all had
• 47:27
  Speaker 5: different personalities right we.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: So we have a little mean girl yeah.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: But I don't know if that's just like I said
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: production can portray you in a way how they want
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: yeah so it gave mean girl a little bit to
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: me next question so can a friendship survive when everybody
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: like because I mean with the show you want to
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: be interesting. You want to have things to say that
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: people align with and that they want you to come
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: back for season two. Do you feel like a friendship
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: can survive when everybody's trying to be interesting?
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.
• 48:02
  Speaker 5: I think if you have the mutual respect and you
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: have a mutual understanding of what the priority is and
• 48:10
  Speaker 5: where we're trying to be, absolutely. I think it could
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: sustain and And relationships, I think, can still be fine.
• 48:16
  Speaker 5: It's all about the person. And so I don't blame
• 48:20
  Speaker 5: anything on like TV or social media.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: I think that's a cop out. Yeah. I think you
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: as a person should be able to control you. Yeah.
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: And that's what I think.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: So when the things happened, did you feel like compelled
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: to overly explain anything on social media that happened on
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: the show?
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: No, I don't care.
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: Than any of the classmates.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Like, you know, like sometimes court of public opinion be
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: killing people.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: So I will tell you when we before the show
• 48:45
  Speaker 5: first came out, like none of us had experience.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: With TV and with people.
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: You know, knowing us with us not really knowing them.
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: They told us do not comment on the comments. Don't
• 48:58
  Speaker 5: look at the comments because everyone's going to have an opinion.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: Some may be good, bad.
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: Or indifferent, whatever it is. You know what you represent
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: and what who you are. So I never really paid
• 49:08
  Speaker 5: attention to the comments. Do I see them?
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: And you ignored it?
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. Oh, I'm good at ignoring.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: I'm so bad at that. Like, that's something that I
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: got to learn because, baby, if I got some free time.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: Don't do it, man. Listen, I will... I think that comes.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I feel like it just comes from just knowing yourself.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: And then the people who really know and love you,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: fuck what you like. Fuck them people who don't really
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: know you.
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: But sometimes you want to be petty. You can call
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: me back. Sometimes you want to be petty.
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: But sometimes some people take it to heart.
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah. You had time that day.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I had time that day. And now let me
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: go look at your page and see what you got
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: going on since you know so fucking much. And that's
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: the energy.
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: But.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: Cash Doll did that shit recently. It was.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: a guy, you know, one of the ones who be
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: having the wigs and beards. And she did her little
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: clap back, but she had her like the beard emoji.
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: Clapping back at her.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Because she had time that day. And you never,
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: like you never responded to no one.
• 50:07
  Speaker 5: No, I'm not going to say that.
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to say that.
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: But not very often. I probably could count on one hand.
• 50:15
  Speaker 5: Maybe I said something, but not really that slick.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: Maybe just responded. I don't, Yeah, I don't really get
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: into comments.
• 50:22
  Speaker 5: When I post on my page to this day, I
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: very rarely even like say thank you or heart it.
• 50:27
  Speaker 5: I just post and I move about my business. I
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: don't really comment. Even if it's a beautiful, you know,
• 50:32
  Speaker 5: nice comment, I really just don't do it.
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: You just avoid it.
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: Listen, I want to grow up like you one day.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: Are you friends with anybody like from the cast now?
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: Do you guys keep in contact? No.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: No. And see, that's why I say I feel like
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: it's hard. You might have been able to maintain.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: These are co-workers, that's it.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: They were.
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, they were. Yeah, we just strictly real estate at
• 50:58
  Speaker 5: the time. But everyone kind of left Allure. I don't
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: think anyone is there. Maybe like one person. Everyone like
• 51:06
  Speaker 5: went to other brokerages.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: Okay. Which would suggest something else.
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: That they all work.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: And nobody there no more.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: That's okay. Y'all need to watch it.
• 51:16
  Speaker 5: I'm not getting paid from it.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: Period.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: No streams.
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah. All right.
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: So what does reality.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: TV give you and what does it take from you?
• 51:30
  Speaker 5: It, it, What did it do or what could it?
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: So those are different questions, right? So for some.
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: People, it can give you more business.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: What did it do for you specifically?
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: Nothing.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: Nothing?
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: Absolutely nothing?
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: Not even a check? No, we got paid. No, we
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: got paid.
• 51:47
  Speaker 5: So that's valid.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: We did get money. We got paid. Was it a
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: lot of money? No.
• 51:53
  Speaker 5: And a lot of times in your first season of anything,
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: you don't have really much very... You don't have very
• 51:59
  Speaker 5: much negotiation power. You can't... You're not getting paid a lot.
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: You're not getting paid a lot. In fact, we didn't even...
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: The only time we had our hair and makeup covered
• 52:10
  Speaker 5: is during confessionals.
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: Like, we had to.
• 52:12
  Speaker 5: Pay for our clothing, pay for our hair and makeup
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: other than during the confessionals. So think about, yeah, you're
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: making money, but you're also putting money out. And you're
• 52:21
  Speaker 5: taking away from the actual business because you have to
• 52:24
  Speaker 5: be on their schedule.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: So.
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: I may be filming, so I can't be out here
• 52:28
  Speaker 5: doing real estate. So there's a little bit of a trade-off.
• 52:33
  Speaker 5: But do I think it gave me more opportunities to
• 52:37
  Speaker 5: do things I might not have otherwise done?
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: Absolutely. Do I think it resulted in more business? No,
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 52:45
  Speaker 5: And I also think it made you more open and
• 52:48
  Speaker 5: susceptible to people to judge you and to think that
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: they know you and they really don't because they see
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: a few minutes of your life on TV. But overall,
• 52:58
  Speaker 5: am I happy?
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: I did it. Absolutely.
• 52:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 53:00
  Speaker 5: So I think it was a good experience.
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like people took you less serious as
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: an industry professional for being on a reality show with
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: real estate?
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: I've been told that no. Again, I was truly me.
• 53:13
  Speaker 5: I don't think I'm I'm more in general a professional person. Now,
• 53:18
  Speaker 5: being on a show with people that aren't acting professional
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: can still affect you. It's almost like birds of a
• 53:24
  Speaker 5: feather flock together. Right. That sort of concept. But in general, no,
• 53:28
  Speaker 5: I don't think it was negative. Do I think maybe
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: some people shy away from people who have been on
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: TV because they don't know? you know, maybe they don't
• 53:37
  Speaker 5: trust you or they feel like you're going to do
• 53:39
  Speaker 5: something just because you want people to, you want more attention,
• 53:42
  Speaker 5: then I think it makes a little, some people more
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: hesitant to trust you or to want to do business
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: with you.
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: But in general, I think it was fine. Would you
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: do some more reality TV? No, I don't know. It's
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: not really my thing. And no, I don't.
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: No, I actually was approached to do a dating show
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: that was on another network.
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: Pop the Balloon? No, no, no. It was before Pop
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: the Balloon. Oh, okay.
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: But I couldn't do it because even though we weren't
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: filming the show, when you signed, I was under a contract.
• 54:14
  Speaker 5: So I couldn't do a dating show because they had
• 54:17
  Speaker 5: a dating show.
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: So, yeah.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, wow. So I didn't know it would be like
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: that because they have a dating show on their network. Correct.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: You can't do a dating show for another network, even
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: though the show you're on is not.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: How long was it? Known for a couple of years. Wow.
• 54:32
  Speaker 5: Like it started when we first signed the deal and
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: maybe it went on. They had first asked me to
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: be on that dating show, maybe, maybe about a year,
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: maybe six months after the show came out, but I
• 54:43
  Speaker 5: was still under. And they were going to be filming
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: it like soon. So it's not like I could say,
• 54:48
  Speaker 5: wait till I get out of my agreement.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I would think that NeNe Leakes would have done another,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: like she's so entertaining, right? Like maybe she's under some
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: shit that's like lifelong damn near.
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: She didn't go to another network. She probably had some
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: type of something.
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: NeNe's getting paid. She's not about to jeopardize. She's not
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: going to jeopardize. A judge and stuff like that. But again,
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: After you have so many episodes and you are a
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: personality that brings in ratings and money, you have more
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: negotiation power. So maybe she's.
• 55:19
  Speaker 5: Like, hey, if you don't let me do this season
• 55:21
  Speaker 5: and do this, then I'm not doing this. Like there's
• 55:24
  Speaker 5: there's different things that can happen.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: Did you ever see anything like in a reunion episode? Like,
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: I can't believe that bitch said that shit about me
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: and her confessional.
• 55:33
  Speaker 5: So we didn't have any reunion shows. We didn't do
• 55:35
  Speaker 5: any reunion, but we did have confessionals.
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: And did you see someone say something?
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: I was like, where'd that come from? Right.
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: I didn't know that way.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: And like, you could have said that to me.
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: Well, I think they were boosted to say some things,
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: you know, you, yeah. Yeah, I was a little shocked
• 55:53
  Speaker 5: at some. So what happened before the show came out,
• 55:55
  Speaker 5: we all flew out to L.A. together to watch the
• 55:59
  Speaker 5: series together.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: The entire series.
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: The entire series together. The production company covered that. We
• 56:04
  Speaker 5: were all we had a movie theater to ourselves. And
• 56:06
  Speaker 5: so we were able to see it before it came out.
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: And so, yeah, some of the things are mine.
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: So y'all walk down the theater like, bitch, y'all slacking.
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, don't smile at me. Girl, just for TV. Yeah.
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, this is not just for TV. That's how
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: you really feel.
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: So what are some things you want, like, people to
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: know about you outside of television?
• 56:32
  Speaker 5: I want people to know that I, okay, number one,
• 56:34
  Speaker 5: I really do do real estate. I'm licensed in Florida
• 56:39
  Speaker 5: and in North Carolina.
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: And I.
• 56:43
  Speaker 5: Enjoy, I really do love real estate. It's something that
• 56:47
  Speaker 5: has always been near and dear to my heart. So
• 56:49
  Speaker 5: that's something that I love. I also am a part
• 56:52
  Speaker 5: owner of a wine and champagne bar in Fayetteville, North
• 56:54
  Speaker 5: Carolina called The Sip Room.
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: And we opened that. Okay.
• 56:58
  Speaker 5: So when I, The little money that I did get,
• 57:01
  Speaker 5: I was like, what can I do other than just
• 57:04
  Speaker 5: go spend it on clothes or shoes or a car
• 57:06
  Speaker 5: or something? So I invested, my business partner and I,
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: we did a wine and champagne bar in Fayetteville, North Carolina.
• 57:15
  Speaker 5: We've been open almost four years now. Yeah, she does
• 57:18
  Speaker 5: a great job. She runs everything. Yes, she's in Fayetteville.
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: So if you're in Fayetteville or know anyone, go to
• 57:24
  Speaker 5: the Sip Room. And then I also am doing a
• 57:29
  Speaker 5: business venture with my other business partner. She does it
• 57:32
  Speaker 5: in Fayetteville. It's called Pilates and Pretty Vibes. So I've
• 57:35
  Speaker 5: always been a workout person. Like I've always cared about
• 57:40
  Speaker 5: fitness and staying active. I ran track all through high school.
• 57:43
  Speaker 5: I got a track scholarship.
• 57:44
  Speaker 4: But.
• 57:46
  Speaker 5: It's called Pilates and Pretty Vibes Charlotte. And so we
• 57:50
  Speaker 5: are really making, I think, a good impact. I had
• 57:52
  Speaker 5: a class today.
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you said that.
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: We had to push, you know, time because you had
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: a class.
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: So I'm really excited about that. I want to come
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: try it.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: Yes, I want you to. I've only gone to one
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: Pilates class and I about fucking died.
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: And it's mat Pilates, not reformer.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I don't know. Yeah, that's what I did.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: The mat Pilates.
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: That shit is way harder than the reformer. You got
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: to use your own body weight. Yeah. Yeah, they're both challenging.
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I want to try again. I don't want
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: to be in the front. They had me up in
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: the front of the class. Don't fucking do that to me.
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: Wait, did you go to the front?
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: So what happened was, I did.
• 58:25
  Speaker 4: But here's the thing.
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: I was in another class before that and the instructor
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: was like, stay for the next class. You'll love it.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: And I was already in the front and that was
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: like hit and I.
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: Can lift the weight.
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: But when we got to that Pilates bitch, I almost
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: threw up.
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: It's serious. It's different, man.
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's different, but I do want to try it.
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: Yes. You're going to come.
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm coming. Tell me when the next event or
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: class is.
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: There's several of them. So I'm going to send it
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: to you.
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: Yes, please.
• 58:49
  Speaker 5: So those are kind of things I'm working on and just.
• 58:52
  Speaker 5: Really doing some recruitment to the brokerage that I'm with.
• 58:56
  Speaker 5: I'm really passionate about people in real estate going to
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: the right brokerage that fit their business model and what's
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: going to work for them. So those are some of
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  Speaker 5: the things that I'm doing.
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  Speaker 3: Are you a broker? I am not a broker.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 5: I'm a provisional broker in North Carolina, but in Florida,
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  Speaker 5: I'm a sales, I'm just a realtor. I can't open
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  Speaker 5: my own brokerage in Florida.
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  Speaker 3: Right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Are you dating here?
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: No. Let's get into it. I don't want to. OK,
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  Speaker 3: so dating. Number one, I am a relationship person. I
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: was married. I enjoy being in a relationship and I
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: want to get married again.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm dating.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So to answer your question, I am.
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  Speaker 2: So you're not taking.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that's a loaded question. Uh, I'm not like Capricorn.
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: No, like guys go watch the show and they go
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: and see you and they might be like ready to
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: slide in the DMs. But if you're taken, we're not
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: going to see them.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not taking, I thought I was taken, but like
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 5: recently I don't feel like I am.
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  Speaker 1: Period so fly guys we must get the dumb bitch
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  Speaker 1: story shot.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no we don't oh we haven't been doing we
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: didn't do one with taylor but we're gonna do one
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: with you what is that so we have a segment
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  Speaker 2: and real quick a segment of our show is called
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: dumb bitch story okay and it's where you share a
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: time where you got played by the opposite sex because
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: we've all been there and we just want to be
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: relatable with our audience oh that's.
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  Speaker 3: A good one i'm gonna think about that.
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  Speaker 5: Like play like Like they played in my face or
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 5: I found out they played like it wasn't directly in
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 5: my face.
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  Speaker 3: Either way.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: Either way.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: And really the dumb bitch part comes in when you
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: continue to fuck with them.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't do that. I don't do that.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: She a Capricorn.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 3: I don't do that. Remember I told you the cold part.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: She probably got Virgo in her eye placement somewhere. Virgo's
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: gonna never get played, Jess.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: You look like Virgo a little bit, too.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: What is the cutoff? I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, no, like the dates.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: I thought Virgo was like September.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 5: We run a strict program. But I run a strict program. Like,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: you're not about to play with me. Because I have two,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: I don't have the time and there's too many other options.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm not, I'm not doing that.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: No, I done definitely like circled back. When somebody like,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: I'm over it now. Have you ever been like, you've
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: never been like that? Like some shit was kind of
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: bad and then you were mad as hell and then
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: you got over it and then went back a little bit.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: I mean, only if I was mad, but something petty.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 5: Like it was something for real, no. But if it
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 5: was something petty, I'm like, oh, I was just being extra.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: Share your story, girl.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: We waiting. Okay.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: Look, I was, no, I don't have that. The, the
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 5: dumb bitch one, but is that what it's called?
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: Okay. Okay.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: I don't have that one. You ain't never been a
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: dumb bitch.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: Never in life. Never. We've all been a dumb bitch.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: I ended it.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: I ended it. I ended it just because. So he
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: a dumb bitch. Got it. Yeah. He got it. Yeah.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: We're friends.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: I mean, I say that because we're cool. I still, yeah.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 5: He's a great person in general. Just didn't work out.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: I think we need to change the name of a
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: segment because people hear dumb bitch and be like, I
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: ain't never been a dumb bitch. But it's not about
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: like really stupid. It's just like about loving somebody or
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: caring for someone. And then, you know, you get a
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: little egg on your face, you know, because.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: Well, then that's probably in every relationship I've been in
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: or I would still be with a person. But I
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: think sometimes personalities, you just you once you get to
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 5: know someone, you just figure out it's not a good fit.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 5: You get to know them a little bit better and
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 5: they get to know you and whatever reason just didn't
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: work out. But once I have seen something that I
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: know that is not going to work.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: For me, I'm gone. Like there's no.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Give us an example.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 5: There's no working it out.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: Like there's no. You ain't got no story for us.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: Give me a story, girl.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 3: I'm not really good at stories. High school. Oh, I
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: was a dummy in high school.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: Everybody. I was a dummy.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: My son's father.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 5: So I started dating my son's father when I was like,
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: 13 or 14, I was young.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 3: He lived across the street from me. Oh, I was dumb.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 5: The only fights I've gotten in in my life was
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 5: because of him. I've only been in two fights in
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 5: my whole life and they were both behind him.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: I told you she looked straight.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: She tried to sue me. They took me to court.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: And I was only in high school. I'm like, calm down.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: One ass whooping up. You're going to get more.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 5: But I would say definitely in high school, I knew
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 5: he was cheating on me.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: And I still was like, oh, I love him. He's
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: going to be, you know, we're going to be married.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: He's going to grow out of this. Oh, yeah. I
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: did that for years.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: And then y'all had a kid together.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: We had a kid together. But that is your ex-husband? No.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 5: That was just my son's father. No, my ex-husband is
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 5: in Florida.
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  Speaker 2: Military?
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, ex-military.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: He retired out of the military.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, nice.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. So I was in an Air Force military relationship.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, nice.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: He deployed half the year, and that was my happiest
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: time of the year. Like, I felt like we stayed
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: together as long as we did because of deployment. And
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: I feel like military families, even though, like, you have
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: this idea of, like, this perfect structure, like, everything is
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: aligned in the military, kind of make sure, like, oh,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: you have housing, you have this allowance, you have that allowance.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: It's really not what it seems like. It's hard to
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: stay in a military marriage. It's hard to stay in
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: a military family because, one, they can be taken— and
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: shipped off to Guam real fast. And them motherfuckers be
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: having outside lives.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 5: They got a lot of opposite sex friends.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: And like when they deploy, It's like they're not even married,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: they ain't in a relationship no more. They in their
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: own thing. So that happens a lot. Got a whole
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: deployment wife.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah. That's true.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: Y'all intentionally getting deployed together so y'all can be together.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: And when them motherfuckers go to Osan and Kusan, I
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: see y'all. I know what y'all be doing out there.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: What is that? Korea?
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Korea.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: When they go to Korea for a year, because they
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: can't take their family with them to Korea.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: There's a lot of boy girls out there.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: Don't they call them like lady boys?
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: I know that term.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 4: The juju girls, the jujus.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 3: I didn't know jujus. And passport bros and military bros.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: Alright, so if you wanted to leave our audience with
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: one thing about Juana, Say it to them for right now. Okay.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 5: I want everyone to know about me that if you
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 5: have any real estate needs, of course, if you know anyone,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: always contact me. And just in general, I love people.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: I love supporting women. I'm really a good time, to
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 5: be honest. I'm super laid back. I just enjoy life.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 5: And I just want to do whatever I can while
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: I'm here on this earth. We don't have a long time,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 5: in my opinion, on earth. So we should enjoy it
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 5: and do things that we love, spend time. spend our
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 5: time with people that we truly care for and value.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: And, um, that's all.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: Thank you, girl. I appreciate you for coming.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: Listen, cause I'm going through this reality world. I'm entering it.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: Call me anytime.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 5: It may not be the same, but, There's a lot
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 5: of similarities.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: It's black women, so we're going to have some similar.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: And I hope my experience is that we all get along.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: But I imagine it's called drama queen.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: And if you don't, you don't. Yeah. That's okay, too.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 5: We're not going to get along. Everyone doesn't click with everyone.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 5: It's just how you handle it.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: All right, girl. Thank you.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: All right, y'all. If you enjoy it. Oh, wait, wait.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: You want to plug all your things. Sorry. Oh, okay.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: Plug all your social media.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: All of that.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: So they can buy some fucking houses. Okay. Buy, rent.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: Sale.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: I'm your girl.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 5: So on social media, on Instagram, it's Juana Colbert. J-U-A-W-A-N-A-C-O-L-B-E-R-T.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 5: That's on Facebook and Instagram. And then Pilates and Pretty
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: Vibes is Pilatesandprettyvibes.com. Charlotte on Instagram. And then on TikTok
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: is Pilates and Pretty Vibes CLT. And then the sip
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 5: room is just the sip room.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely coming to sip and I'm definitely going to
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: Pilates because you have one.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: Coming up soon.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 4: I'm coming.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: I'm serious. I'm serious, girl. I'm coming. Perfect.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: All right. Thank you, Joanna. Thank you. All right, y'all.
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• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: Oh, was I supposed to say something?
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: No, she was trying to.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 2: Find a way. So I always say click now and
• 1:08:31
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• 1:08:34
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