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- 0:00[SPEAKER_00]: What is intelligence?
- 0:02[SPEAKER_00]: This will probably open up a bunch of different opinions and answers.
- 0:06[SPEAKER_00]: So the experts have boiled it down to the three basic types that make up intelligence as a whole.
- 0:11[SPEAKER_00]: There are fluid intelligence, where one can detect meaningful patterns, grasp, abstract concepts, and apply it all to problems solving.
- 0:19[SPEAKER_00]: Crystalized intelligence.
- 0:21[SPEAKER_00]: You might know it as booksmarts.
- 0:23[SPEAKER_00]: The stuff taught in classes and the dictionary.
- 0:26[SPEAKER_00]: An emotional intelligence.
- 0:28[SPEAKER_00]: being able to read people and yourself.
- 0:30[SPEAKER_00]: When thinking about an intelligent individual, we tend to think of people who change the world as we know it.
- 0:36[SPEAKER_00]: We think of greatness.
- 0:38[SPEAKER_00]: And who isn't at least a little curious about whether there is a seed of that greatness within them?
- 0:43[SPEAKER_00]: Let's look at some traits that may give you a clue.
- 0:46[SPEAKER_00]: Number one, you understand how much you don't know.
- 0:50[SPEAKER_00]: Socrates, so we meet again.
- 0:52[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, the only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.
- 0:57[SPEAKER_00]: The intelligent person is intelligent because they know things, but it follows that they want to know more things, so they're very open and accepting that they really don't know everything, not even close.
- 1:10[SPEAKER_00]: There's so much more out there.
- 1:12[SPEAKER_00]: They understand that at times, they don't know what they don't know.
- 1:16[SPEAKER_00]: If someone does the opposite, considering themselves more intelligent or proficient than they are, thus already knowing more than anyone else,
- 1:26[SPEAKER_00]: If the blogger is extreme, it's known as the Dunning Kruger Effect, and we tend to see those individuals as exactly the opposite of intelligent.
- 1:34[SPEAKER_00]: 2.
- 1:35[SPEAKER_00]: You are insatiably curious Einstein knew this, and perhaps you felt this too.
- 1:41[SPEAKER_00]: Hand in hand with knowing you don't know it all.
- 1:44[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean you're not doing your darnedest to try to learn it all.
- 1:48[SPEAKER_00]: The vastness of knowledge, the yet unlearned or yet undiscovered, is that your resistable compelling pool your drawn to.
- 1:56[SPEAKER_00]: You ask questions because you just need to know or have come up with an idea and go down the information rabbit hole to fill in all the blanks on how to realize it.
- 2:05[SPEAKER_00]: Perhaps you observe others, knowing the experience things completely different and are just pitching to learn about them.
- 2:12[SPEAKER_00]: Some explanations aren't enough for you.
- 2:15[SPEAKER_00]: If someone says, this food is good for you.
- 2:18[SPEAKER_00]: You have to know why.
- 2:21[SPEAKER_00]: Hearing the person simply say over and over, it just is, drives you up the wall.
- 2:27[SPEAKER_00]: In fact, engaging in meaningful questions stimulates your mind, encouraging it to stay alert and think of other things that may branch from that question.
- 2:36[SPEAKER_00]: New possibilities arise and thus new discoveries in new theorems.
- 2:40[SPEAKER_00]: Curiosity has shaped our world.
- 2:43[SPEAKER_00]: For those who say, but Curiosity killed the cat.
- 2:46[SPEAKER_00]: Please remember that the whole quote is Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.
- 2:53[SPEAKER_00]: Number three, you are highly adaptable.
- 2:56[SPEAKER_00]: You likely have made plans of some sort in your life, and, like, the rest of us, those plans often go right.
- 3:03[SPEAKER_00]: Let's face it.
- 3:03[SPEAKER_00]: We live in a small state of chaos.
- 3:06[SPEAKER_00]: The traits of the intelligent person is what happens when that plan goes sideways.
- 3:11[SPEAKER_00]: While many get overwhelmed, freeze up, or run around aimlessly, the intelligent remains calm, and lets their brain get to work.
- 3:19[SPEAKER_00]: They understand that there's usually more than one pathway to get to a goal.
- 3:22[SPEAKER_00]: They'll find or create another pathway.
- 3:25[SPEAKER_00]: In other words, they adapt.
- 3:27[SPEAKER_00]: It's been found that the behaviors that lend themselves to adaptability are closely linked to EQ and, as we all know, many plans tend to go off the rails to you to a human impetus.
- 3:37[SPEAKER_00]: 4.
- 3:40[SPEAKER_00]: you are a verocious reader.
- 3:42[SPEAKER_00]: Did you just think I books were breakfast?
- 3:45[SPEAKER_00]: Well, we just hope you didn't meet that literally.
- 3:48[SPEAKER_00]: Reading has been found to encourage a type of brain tissues growth that allows for improved communication within.
- 3:54[SPEAKER_00]: The flourishing of this information leads to an increase in all three types of intelligence.
- 4:00[SPEAKER_00]: Booksmart, aka, crystallized intelligence, increases when reading non-fiction or textbook.
- 4:06[SPEAKER_00]: Leave its fiction, following and tracking a story narrative, and all of its themes and being able to apply them to the whole, increases fluid intelligence.
- 4:14[SPEAKER_00]: Books also provide a point of view and expression of someone else, helping you to understand other people which boosts your emotional intelligence.
- 4:22[SPEAKER_00]: Number 5
- 4:23[SPEAKER_00]: you have high self control.
- 4:26[SPEAKER_00]: This trait is often demonstrated when a person is described as responsible.
- 4:31[SPEAKER_00]: That person gets things done, avoids temptations, and sees the big picture.
- 4:36[SPEAKER_00]: They can go against the impulsive desire for instant gratification, knowing that if they just
- 4:46[SPEAKER_00]: Naturally, this isn't an absolute.
- 4:48[SPEAKER_00]: Whether it be due to a medical condition that's poorly controlled or simply a one-off, really rough day, whom you've all gotten distracted before.
- 4:56[SPEAKER_00]: Overall, though, if you're a person who's things that need doing get done, where people trust you to do what you say and to not drop the ball, it's likely that there's a solid core of willpower and self-control at play.
- 5:09[SPEAKER_00]: The number six, you have a sense of humor.
- 5:12[SPEAKER_00]: Do you have great comedic timing?
- 5:14[SPEAKER_00]: When you tell a joke, or make a witty remark, is it usually a shirt to land well, increasing the smiles and laughter in the room?
- 5:22[SPEAKER_00]: It's no wonder that some of the best and most legendary comedians are also considered highly intelligent people.
- 5:28[SPEAKER_00]: That act of ability is rare, and is usually a sign of an intelligent person.
- 5:33[SPEAKER_00]: This person has enough knowledge from their crystallized intelligence to create the substance of the humor.
- 5:38[SPEAKER_00]: The ability to weave the tapestry of the joke with their fluid intelligence and able to read others to know what will be funny, appreciated, and not harmful with their emotional intelligence.
- 5:50[SPEAKER_00]: The debate rages on regards to holistic definitions of intelligence.
- 5:55[SPEAKER_00]: Some argue that intelligence is a generalized ability with a hazy feel to it, while others insist that it can be clinically measured via particular talents or skills.
- 6:04[SPEAKER_00]: Some also think genetic factors have a massive impact, while others believe nurture takes the lion's share.
- 6:10[SPEAKER_00]: And the fact we argue this at all is uniquely human.
- 6:14[SPEAKER_00]: So, how do you feel about these points?
- 6:16[SPEAKER_00]: Do you see anything of them in yourself or others?
- 6:20[SPEAKER_00]: As we wrap this up, we wanted to mention that there has been a huge decline in mental health around the world, which is why we're so committed to creating more content than we ever have.
- 6:28[SPEAKER_00]: Thanks for being a part of our journey.
- 6:29[SPEAKER_00]: Thanks for watching and we'll catch you again soon.