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Tramp Stamp...or Cake Topper? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: Take take cake, Take cake cake, Take cake, cake tig.
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  Speaker 2: Take that lower back tattoo when you were in your
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  Speaker 2: teenage years, late teens.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe your mom signed off on it and you got
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  Speaker 3: it when you were mom signed.
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  Speaker 2: I knew a couple girls whose mom signed off on this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you got.
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  Speaker 2: That lower back tattoo and you thought it was super cute.
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  Speaker 2: But then they started calling it the tramp stamp, and
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  Speaker 2: it had a stigma attached to it.
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  Speaker 1: Could tell us in detail.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: If you know, you know, and you started to feel
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  Speaker 2: embarrassed that you had this quote unquote tramp stamp and
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  Speaker 2: you thought, you know what, I'm never gonna wear low
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  Speaker 2: rise jeans ever.
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  Speaker 3: Again, Well, don't worry.
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  Speaker 2: Gen Z has actually made it all okay, because wow, it's.
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  Speaker 3: No longer called the tram stamp.
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  Speaker 2: It is now called the ca caketopper.
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  Speaker 1: And can you fill it fill it in for me?
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Your cakes, your booty cheeks, oh cake topper?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, now we're back tattoo right above the buns.
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  Speaker 2: It's called the cake topper now. Yeah, yeah, thanks gen Z.
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  Speaker 2: We really appreciate you. Because now if you look over
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  Speaker 2: at your mom, she might have a cake topper, and
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  Speaker 2: you didn't know this whole time. So you need to
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  Speaker 2: look over at mom and ask her, mom, do you
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  Speaker 2: have a cake topper? Because it was a whole thing
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  Speaker 2: in the early two thousands. All the celebrity, all the
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  Speaker 2: pop stars had cake toppers.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm glad that.
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  Speaker 2: We don't call it a tramp stemp anymore. That was
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  Speaker 2: very negative. That is sounds very shamey. I I don't
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  Speaker 2: like it, and so I like that it's a cake
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  Speaker 2: topper now, And now I'm thinking, do I get a
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  Speaker 2: cake topper? Nah, it'd be a flapjack topper. I don't
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  Speaker 2: really have anything back there.
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  Speaker 5: If you are, if you are writing with your kids
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  Speaker 5: in the car right now, and they just said, hey, Mom,
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  Speaker 5: do you have a cake topper? Could you call us
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  Speaker 5: and let us get them on the phone at seven
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  Speaker 5: oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven. And
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  Speaker 5: you know what, I'm not gonna just shame mom. Their
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  Speaker 5: dad's out there with some cake toppers too. Okay, there
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  Speaker 5: are one thousand percent.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like, oh, should I even say this?
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  Speaker 2: I heard a rumor that someone in our building who
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  Speaker 2: is a fella has a cake topper. Really, we need
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  Speaker 2: to do some independent research and find out if this
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  Speaker 2: is true.
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  Speaker 5: All right, well, if you have a cake topper, we
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  Speaker 5: want to hear from you this morning.
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  Speaker 1: What is the tattoo? When did you get it?
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  Speaker 5: When the term tramp stamp was getting thrown around all negative,
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  Speaker 5: rec did it make you feel a way? Let us
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  Speaker 5: know this morning. Seven oh one two eight zero one
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  Speaker 5: nine eight seven. Now we can throw away the term
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  Speaker 5: tramp stamp and go a cake topper, which is a
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  Speaker 5: lot more friendly. Today's riety big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 5: It's gave it to Angie. We get some sunshine today
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  Speaker 5: in a high of eighty five. Before we dive on
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  Speaker 5: into the tee, I had to share these texts. Angie
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  Speaker 5: has taught us a new term that has popularized amongst
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  Speaker 5: gen z.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Yes, it is no longer the tramp stamp, the
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  Speaker 2: lower back tattoo.
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  Speaker 3: It is now the cake topper.
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  Speaker 1: That's right.
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  Speaker 5: And Jamie right here in Fargo said, Okay, I have
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  Speaker 5: a tramp stamp and I am all for calling it
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  Speaker 5: a cake topper instead. I got a little butterfly on
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  Speaker 5: my lower back when I was nineteen, and honestly I
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  Speaker 5: still love it. Cake topper makes it sound way classier.
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  Speaker 5: Than it actually is. Sarah out of Moorehead said I
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  Speaker 5: have one, and I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a little embarrassed by it now.
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  Speaker 5: I got it when I was eighteen, because apparently eighteen
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  Speaker 5: year old me thought making permanent decisions was a great idea.
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  Speaker 5: It's like this tribalish design and I haven't seen it
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  Speaker 5: in years. I haven't seen it in years because I
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  Speaker 5: refuse to turn around that far in the mirror. And
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  Speaker 5: then one more from Melissa, who said cake topper is amazing.
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  Speaker 5: This is Melissa out of West Fargo. I have one
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  Speaker 5: from my early twenties. It's this Celtic style design that
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  Speaker 5: I was absolutely convinced was going to look sophisticated forever.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just happy it's officially been promoted from tramp stamp
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  Speaker 5: to cake topp or look at you changing lives this morning, Agie.
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to say, at no point did that
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  Speaker 2: look sophisticated?
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  Speaker 1: Girl?
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  Speaker 2: But I am happy for you celebrating life's little victories.
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  Speaker 6: Victory every morning we practice gratitude on Big ninety eight
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  Speaker 6: point seven. If I could, I would keep this feeling
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  Speaker 6: in a past job busted out when it was someone's
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  Speaker 6: acting hard I just really needed to win. You know,
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  Speaker 6: sure your little victories with us at seven oh one,
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  Speaker 6: two one, eight seven.
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  Speaker 1: You know the voice in that Angie where it's like
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  Speaker 1: I just needed a win, you know?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: You ever just feel that in your Yes, you never
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  Speaker 5: just feel like, God, I just needed a w.
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  Speaker 1: Angie. Do you have a little victory for us today?
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  Speaker 2: My kids are back from their summer vacation with their dad.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's wonderful.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, but that's not the little victory.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I am obviously happy that they're back, but
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  Speaker 2: I had a moment yesterday where I'm officially the old
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  Speaker 2: parent who needs help with technology. Aiden, who is about
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  Speaker 2: to be sixteen, He helped me reset my MacBook.
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  Speaker 3: It was not working.
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  Speaker 2: And it was, yeah, it was a lot. I couldn't
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  Speaker 2: log into my iclad it was it was glitching. It
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  Speaker 2: was doing the most and I was like, I need
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  Speaker 2: to reset this whole thing. And I was a whiny
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, please help me, aid In and
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  Speaker 2: he was like, okay, fine, and so all he did,
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  Speaker 2: which I could have done, but.
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  Speaker 3: It's better when someone else does it.
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  Speaker 2: And so he, you know, Google searched all the steps
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  Speaker 2: I need to take, and he was right next to
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  Speaker 2: me every step of the way, and I said, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, I'm officially old. I'm a parent who had
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  Speaker 2: to ask my child for help with technology.
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  Speaker 3: And he said, yeah, you're reminding me of Grandma right now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And so while that didn't feel like a victory, it
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  Speaker 2: did feel great that now I could restart my MacBook
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  Speaker 2: and I can bring my MacBook to work, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: a real functioning adult with technology thanks to my almost
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  Speaker 2: sixteen year old son.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, don't worry, Aiden, that is something that I guess
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  Speaker 5: Uncle Gabe would deal with on a daily basis. Here
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  Speaker 5: at big ninety eight points Gabe. Hellay, all right, well
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  Speaker 5: my little victory, I'll tell you what. It's almost going
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  Speaker 5: to bring a tear to my eye, Angie, not really,
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  Speaker 5: because I don't have a soul. But my my daughter
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  Speaker 5: is one month old today. She was officially, not officially,
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  Speaker 5: but she was born on July seventeenth. Today is August seventeenth.
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  Speaker 5: My wife and I have successfully kept this little girl
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  Speaker 5: alive for one month. And that right there, that's not
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  Speaker 5: even a little victory. I'd probably chalk that up as
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  Speaker 5: a victory. But it was interesting. She was having kind
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  Speaker 5: of a fussy evening yesterday. And there's a point where
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  Speaker 5: I was laying with her and we were hanging out,
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  Speaker 5: and it's just the tiny little things realized, like, oh God,
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  Speaker 5: you are getting older. She has so much more control
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  Speaker 5: of her neck now. She can like kind of hold
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  Speaker 5: her head up for chunks of time by herself, which
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  Speaker 5: when she has full control over that, I will be jacked.
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  Speaker 3: And then she got the next chapter of your life.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she could stop growing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: So I want her to get to control her next status.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it's gonna go by in a blink.
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  Speaker 2: We did get a text from Lynda who said, my
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  Speaker 2: little victory was we went to Below zero wrestling at
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  Speaker 2: the Lights on Saturday night and the sound system wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: play the national anthem, so the audience stepped in and
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  Speaker 2: we all sung it before the matches started.
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  Speaker 3: Yay us.
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  Speaker 1: That is so good.
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  Speaker 3: That's so beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: If there's if anybody took video of this, can you
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  Speaker 2: send it to We.
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  Speaker 1: Would love to hear it. See it however, we can
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  Speaker 1: get our hands out.
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  Speaker 3: That is so heartening. Gives me chills. Thanks for texting us, Linda.
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  Speaker 5: It's kind of it's never great, obviously, I'm sure for
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  Speaker 5: the singer, but when there's audio or technical issues at
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  Speaker 5: a sports game and the whole crowd has to get
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  Speaker 5: in and sing the national anthem, or in hockey, this
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  Speaker 5: happens frequently where they have to start singing the Canadian
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  Speaker 5: national anthem to help out the Canadian hockey teams. And
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  Speaker 5: it's pretty cool to watch a bunch of Americans help
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  Speaker 5: out the Canadians and sing their national anthem. There's like
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  Speaker 5: enough hockey fans who know the words to That's so fun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: very cool, so awesome story, Linda. See that right there
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  Speaker 5: is an example of a little victory that if that
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  Speaker 5: doesn't just put a smile on your face and help
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  Speaker 5: get your day started, I don't know what with at me.
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  Speaker 5: We also have to give a big giant shout out
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  Speaker 5: this morning to Linda. If you're just tuning in right
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  Speaker 5: now and maybe you've never been able to turn on
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  Speaker 5: the radio at six' ten or six eleven because you're,
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  Speaker 5: asleep well. Played we do this thing every single morning
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  Speaker 5: to start the day off on a positive, note especially
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  Speaker 5: on A. Monday there's nothing better that set your week
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  Speaker 5: up for success than being, grateful, happy, thankful appreciative about.
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  Speaker 2: Something, yeah we call it little, victories and we always
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  Speaker 2: encourage you to send us your little victories because even
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  Speaker 2: if it's something super, small we want to hype you
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  Speaker 2: up about. It And linda sent us this awesome video
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  Speaker 2: over the. Weekend she went to the below Wrestling.
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  Speaker 1: Ulow zero wrestling.
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  Speaker 2: Zero, yes below zero wrestling and there was some like
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  Speaker 2: technical issues and they couldn't get the national anthem to
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  Speaker 2: play over the.
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  Speaker 3: Speakers but what can we always count on in.
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  Speaker 2: THE fm area community coming together to get the job?
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  Speaker 3: Done take a, listen.
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  Speaker 5: All? Right there is something about when a collective group
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  Speaker 5: of individuals singing the national, anthem it. Keeps it just
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  Speaker 5: makes you want to start singing. It there is something,
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  Speaker 5: about you, know country pride when the entire, audience an
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  Speaker 5: entire group of people is singing the national. Anthem have
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  Speaker 5: you ever been in a game where they had some
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  Speaker 5: technical errors like?
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  Speaker 1: That? NO i, Haven't OH i have.
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  Speaker 5: IT i don't Think i've got to be a part
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  Speaker 5: of you, know the eighteen thousand or the two thousand
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  Speaker 5: or that and sing.
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  Speaker 2: It so shout out to the person who, decided, no
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  Speaker 2: we're doing this together and started singing because there's all
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  Speaker 2: it's got to take the one person. First it's like
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  Speaker 2: starting a slow, clap you know WHAT i, mean plays
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  Speaker 2: the one. Person so shout out to, Them shout out
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  Speaker 2: to everybody for singing it.
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  Speaker 3: Together that was just such a great way to start the.
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  Speaker 5: Day and it's such a great, reminder you, know at six,
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  Speaker 5: ten six, eleven when we do little, victories if something
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  Speaker 5: ever happens to you at any point throughout the day
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  Speaker 5: and it makes you, excited you're happy about, it it's,
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  Speaker 5: cool whatever words you want to, use and you think
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  Speaker 5: no one cares about, it but you, well that is not,
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  Speaker 5: true Because angie AND i we do care here At
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  Speaker 5: big ninety eight point. Seven so always let us know
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  Speaker 5: about those little. Victories for, example we would never probably
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  Speaker 5: have known about this unless maybe we found it on social,
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  Speaker 5: media but we would have never, known And linda not
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  Speaker 5: texted it to us.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly so seven oh one two eight oh one nine eight.
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  Speaker 2: Seven always share your little victories with us whenever they.
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  Speaker 3: Happen you can text us all day.
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  Speaker 1: Long you had a pretty weird, wild not, wild but
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  Speaker 1: just weird.
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  Speaker 2: Weekend and, YES i do want to know what is
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  Speaker 2: the most disgusting behavior you've ever witnessed on a Plane
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  Speaker 2: over the, WEEKEND i was picking my kids up from
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  Speaker 2: the where they spent the summer because they were visiting their,
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  Speaker 2: dad and SO i left at four am From Hector International,
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  Speaker 2: airport had a layover am AN, msp got To, seattle
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  Speaker 2: grabbed my, kiddles then flew right on.
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  Speaker 1: Back that's so. Crazy you had to fly east to go.
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  Speaker 2: West, yes and, so you know, What that's, fine the
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  Speaker 2: things we do for. Love it's, fine except for there
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  Speaker 2: was one of THE i ended up on four planes
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  Speaker 2: in one, day and on the third, plane.
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  Speaker 3: This is where things went.
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  Speaker 2: AWRY i was seated in the very last row of
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  Speaker 2: the plane and so by the back, back and so
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  Speaker 2: IF i looked to my, left the. LAVATORIES i don't
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  Speaker 2: know what these people were drinking or, eating but no
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  Speaker 2: less than thirty five people had to use the restroom
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  Speaker 2: during this three, hour twenty one minute.
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  Speaker 5: Flight, okay maybe they thought they were going To, VEGAS
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  Speaker 5: i don't, know.
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  Speaker 2: But they were going back and, forth back and. Forth
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  Speaker 2: not my favorite to have to sit next to the.
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  Speaker 2: Laboratories gross doesn't smell.
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  Speaker 1: Wonderful, yeah the toilet, concert, yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah but the thing THAT i noticed is that nine
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  Speaker 2: times out of ten these people were not washing.
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  Speaker 1: Their, hands nine out of.
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  Speaker 2: Ten nine out of ten times they were not washing their.
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  Speaker 2: Hands AND i knew because you could hear it. Flush
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  Speaker 2: and then the people who did wash their, hands it.
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  Speaker 3: Took a little. Time there was you could kind of
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  Speaker 3: hear and you could hear them the, water, yeah a little,
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  Speaker 3: bit and then you, know then they'd.
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  Speaker 2: Leave but there were several who would go in toilet flush,
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  Speaker 2: immediately almost like right as the toilet, flush they'd come
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  Speaker 2: out of the bathroom and it's, like, oh you didn't
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  Speaker 2: wash your, hands you did.
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  Speaker 1: Ust or even like rinse them.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing, no it was just Like i'm ready with my dirty,
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  Speaker 2: hands waving them around.
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  Speaker 1: The plane as they rubbed their hands on all the.
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  Speaker 2: Seat it was gross AND i was so, concerned like
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  Speaker 2: if somebody he like touches me or is like oh excuse,
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  Speaker 2: Me LIKE I i will be the reason the plane
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  Speaker 2: diverts BECAUSE i would not be able to handle. THAT
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  Speaker 2: I AS i am getting, Older i'm more of a
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  Speaker 2: germophobe THAN i ever, was and so this was NOT
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  Speaker 2: i was really grossed out sitting next and then at
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  Speaker 2: one Point aiden had to use the restroom AND i
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  Speaker 2: didn't tell him to wash his. HANDS i like to
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  Speaker 2: THINK i raised my kids to wash their. Hands AND
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  Speaker 2: i was, Like i'm gonna. Listen, Yeah i'm gonna see what.
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  Speaker 2: Happens i'm testing. Him he, went and sure enough he
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  Speaker 2: did wash his, hands AND i was, like oh my,
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  Speaker 2: gosh thank GOD i did.
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  Speaker 3: One thing right in this. Life BUT i just think
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  Speaker 3: that's so.
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  Speaker 2: Gross AND i know that that's not the only gross
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  Speaker 2: thing that happens on. Planes what is the most disgusting
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  Speaker 2: thing you've ever seen while on a? FLY i want
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  Speaker 2: to know seven oh one two eight zho one nine eight.
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  Speaker 2: SEVEN i that shook me for as soon AS i got,
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  Speaker 2: HOME i was, LIKE i have to immediately jump in
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  Speaker 2: THE i try to shower after being on planes all day,
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  Speaker 2: anyway BUT i just felt LIKE i just had.
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  Speaker 3: Bathroom on me as a.
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  Speaker 5: Fi, NO i know exactly what you mean that.
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  Speaker 1: Is it's here's What i'll.
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  Speaker 5: Say, right if you were at home and you don't
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  Speaker 5: wash your, HANDS i guess whatever you're in your own,
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  Speaker 5: HOME i.
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  Speaker 1: CAN'T i don't, KNOW i don't. Know it doesn't hurt.
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  Speaker 3: Me, Yeah, Philly germany's time to not wash your.
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  Speaker 5: Hands when you're like you, know at a restaurant or
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  Speaker 5: on a, plane or in a public space at the very,
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  Speaker 5: least fake it For angie's well?
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  Speaker 1: Being will you all?
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  Speaker 5: Right seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight
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  Speaker 5: seven grossest behavior on a. PLANE i have partaken in
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  Speaker 5: some gross plane behavior. Before you've like you've done the gross?
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  Speaker 3: Behavior?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: What? No? What?
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  Speaker 5: OKAY i was on a plane, once AND i will
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  Speaker 5: tell YOU i made a grave, error BUT i don't
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  Speaker 5: regret it BECAUSE i was sure. COMFY i was on a.
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  Speaker 5: PLANE i had sandals. On, NO i did have, socks
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  Speaker 5: BUT i, was you, know kind of rocking the. Slides,
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  Speaker 5: look and what do you do when you're on a.
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  Speaker 5: Plane you're trying to get. Comfy you're on a nice
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  Speaker 5: little four or five hour, flight and no one's sitting
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  Speaker 5: to the.
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  Speaker 1: Right you get the old feet kind of tucked up
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  Speaker 1: to the.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: There the good news is there was no one to
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  Speaker 5: my right and no one on the front, right SO
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  Speaker 5: i WAS i was mid. Right there was someone to
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  Speaker 5: my left who Was it was this nice lady who
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  Speaker 5: was listening to whatever on her, headphone.
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  Speaker 2: Seven, woof this is a parenting.
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  Speaker 3: One, hi this Is.
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  Speaker 2: Natalie AM i too old school for telling my kids
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  Speaker 2: she can hit someone back if they hit. Her my
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: daughter got back from camp last week and told me
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: there was a girl who picked on her the whole
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: time and even shoved her. DOWN i asked her if
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: she shoved the girl, back and she said. No she
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: told the. COUNSELOR i told her if that ever happens,
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: again she needs to put hands on the person right
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: back so they know she is not one to be.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Bullied she and my husband seemed horrified at the, suggestion
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: but that's HOW i was, raised and it helped me
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: growing up in a rough. Neighborhood my husband, said that's
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: not how parenting works in twenty twenty, six and we
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: need to focus on problem solving without resorting to.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Violence in, THEORY i, agree but let's be.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Real teaching my kid to fight back is probably gonna
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: shut things down before they really, start AND i think
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  Speaker 2: that's a. Win what do you and your listeners? Think
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  Speaker 2: we have this posted on The big ninety eight, Points
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  Speaker 2: nine eight. Seven Let natalie know if she's too old
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: school or if she's got it just. Right i'll tell
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: you right. Now in my, house we don't start, fights
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: but we finish. THEM i have always thought you should
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: be able to hit the person.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: Back this is my personal.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Opinion i'm not condoning violence in, general BUT i just
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: know HOW i grew up and How i've taught my
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: kids is that if someone hits, you you can hit.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Back you're allowed to defend.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Yourself don't start, fights don't hit, first, obviously but, like,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: yeah sock them, back, like don't become anybody's punching.
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  Speaker 3: Bag AND i.
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  Speaker 2: Don't think that any child psychologist would agree with. ME
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  Speaker 2: i don't, know but this is just HOW i was,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: raised and that's How i'm raising my. Kids and Maybe
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: i'm too old, school but to, me that just makes.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Sense in my. Head, sure what do you, Think? Gabe
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: how were you? Raised what's your? Vibe?
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: Well, yeah obviously you know if you're having a physical,
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: altercation no ONE i think should expect their kids to
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  Speaker 5: just sit there and get beat.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Up, right you know What i'm.
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: Saying you gotta do something to defend, yourself and maybe
• 19:35
  Speaker 5: defending yourself is running. AWAY i have thought about. This
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: what WOULD i tell my? DAUGHTER i would, Say, kayley
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: can you beat her up or? Not if you, cannot
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: then you. Run but if it's gonna be a fair,
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: square you, know even sized, fight you gotta defend.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Yourself you do what you gotta.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: Do but if you can't take, her, Run, okay get.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: Going your dad when he was a freshman in high,
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  Speaker 4: school it was four or eleven and weigh ninety. POUNDS
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  Speaker 4: i didn't even weigh one hundred pounds WHEN i got
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: to high.
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: School you know WHAT i learned how to? DO angi two.
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: Things one be really, funny and two run, okay get
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: out the, way so there aren't any. Problems but, NO
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  Speaker 5: i don't think you should expect your kid to just
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: sit there and get beat. Up, obviously you gotta do
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  Speaker 5: something in that.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Moment, YEAH i think it's.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Fine, obviously yes we want a problem, solved BUT i
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: think you got to get this person off your back
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: first and then go tell the. Counselor but then the
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: issue is that both kids always end up getting like
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: in trouble the person who fights back, too AND i
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: don't think that's.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Fair, well it kind of is what it.
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  Speaker 5: IS i guess it's just it's one of those the
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  Speaker 5: problem solving skill is gonna Be is this gonna be
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: a big problem for you if you fight back because
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: they're way, bigger way, stronger or they know how to.
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: Fight SO i think it's one of those. Scenarios, hey
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: daughter of, MINE i don't expect you to just get beat. Up,
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: yeah but if someone pushes, you, NO i don't want
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: you to just go start wailing on, them all. RIGHT
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: i don't think that's necessarily the right answer.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Either, WELL i just think tit for, Tat like if
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: she shoves me, down Then i'm gonna shove her. DOWN
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: i feel like that's that's always WHAT i tell my.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Kids AM i a bad? Parent are me And natalie
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: alone on an? Island let us know your thoughts seven
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  Speaker 2: oh one two eight oho one nine eight Seven and
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: we do have this up on The facebook page.
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  Speaker 4: On the.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Problem natalie and her husband have differing. Opinions she told her, Daughter,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: hey if someone hits, you you hit them, back and husband, said,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: no we don't do. That in twenty twenty, six we
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: search for a problem solving way to get through.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: IT i don't know how to. Talk we look for.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Solutions there you. GO i was gonna let you sit
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: in that one For so what do you?
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  Speaker 3: Think Is natalie too old school for saying?
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: That or does she have a. Point i'm a. Team
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: if someone hits, you you hit them. Back But i'm
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: also aware THAT i was raised in the nineties and
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: maybe that's not how we do things.
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: Now, Yeah i'm kind of on. Team you gotta use
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: your best. Judgment is this a fight you were gonna
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: lose and lose? Bad a daughter of. Mine if you're
• 22:15
  Speaker 5: gonna lose, bad run find yourself an, Adult. Angie WHEN
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: i was in ninth, GRADE i was four eleven and
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: weigh ninety. Pounds if you would have got some fishing
• 22:26
  Speaker 5: line and some parachute, PANTS i would have probably been
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: the most active kite in the sky that. Day, OKAY
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: i am not expecting this daughter from mine to have
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: any type of size or mass. Adults, okay SO i
• 22:39
  Speaker 5: don't think there's gonna be a whole lot of beating
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: up anybody For. KAYLEY i actually would probably tell her
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: What misty has On. Facebook misty, SAYS i teach my
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: kids to go and seek help. First that is probably
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: WHAT i would tell my daughter as. Well second, time
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: if nothing, happens you, know then obviously you gotta defend.
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: Yourself you gotta do so and, bite, scratch, claw whatever
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: you have to. DO i don't expect you just sit
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: there and get beat. Up But i'm also not expecting
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: my daughter to be very, big. Right, WELL i don't
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: hope there's gonna be a whole lot of beating up
• 23:12
  Speaker 5: from her.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: End, Ever that's so.
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  Speaker 2: FUNNY i thought this was gonna be more on the
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  Speaker 2: side of.
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  Speaker 3: YOU i, yeah hit.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Back But sarah also said our rule has always been
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: you ask for help the first time or, two find
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: an adult explain what, happened et. Cetera if it, continues
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: then nothing is. Done then the rule is you do
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: not throw the first, punch, slash put hands on someone.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Whatever if they throw a, punch you. Can you have
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: every right to defend.
• 23:36
  Speaker 5: Yourself and that's pretty much what everyone Really.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: Okay well, GOSH i really skip that. Part i'm, like
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: not just hit her, back, first hit her, back don't
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: go find.
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: Out, yeah Like liz, said my kids will never be
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: taught to stand there and let someone hit. Them don start.
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: Fights but if someone puts their hand on, you defend.
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: Yourself angela, said bullying isn't stopped in schools. ANYMORE i
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: teach my kids to defend. Themselves if the school doesn't like,
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: it maybe they need to figure out a better punishment
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: for the. Bullies and that might, be you, know true in,
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: school that's not the only place you might deal with, bullies,
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: however is the only Thing i'd add to.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: That AND i like What katrina. Said she actually took some.
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: Action she, said best THING i ever did was teach
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: my daughter self defense moves from. YouTube there was a
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: girl randomly jumping girls on the bus by grabbing their.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: Hair we practiced the moves randomly at home for three.
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: Days thankfully she never had to deal with, this but
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: she she's used the moves on her friends that play too,
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: much and she set clear. Boundaries SO i actually like
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: that there was an action taken here instead of the
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: age old like if someone, hits you hit them. BACK
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: i kind of like, That, hey if this, Happens.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah if this, happens here's what you. Do.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah and THEN i get if they get in trouble at, school,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: like that's that's not on.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: You.
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Finally, destiny she's kind of in the lines OF
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: i guess WHAT i would tell my, daughter she, SAID
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: i tell my daughter to tell them to stop. Twice
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: if it doesn't, stop it's free hands and she needs
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: to offend. Herself SO i think a lot of parents
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  Speaker 5: are on the same wavelength.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Here no one expects their kid just to get beat.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: Up some parents are a little quicker on the trigger
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: of saying you hit them right, back and MAYBE i would.
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: Be i'm trigger happy now if my daughter grows up
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: to be like six feet and As amanda Noon az
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: of THE, ufc you're probably not getting really messed with
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: that much.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Anyway but if you, ARE i know you know how
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  Speaker 1: to end.
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  Speaker 3: IT i developed a really good sense of.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: HUMOR i tried to disarm with my humor because this
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: fist can't do anything.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: That's, right either be real funny or really.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Nice This, saturday my wife AND i took our Dog
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: wanona and are now one month old daughter to The
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: Red River. Trail there's a dog park along this. Trail
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: we Let wanona run in for a little while and
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: then just kind of walked, around literally just strolling away
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: quite little, white literally with a. Stroller, well it's funny
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: you say. That as we were walking, ALONG i had
• 26:05
  Speaker 5: this tiny moment WHERE i was, Like, god are we,
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: like are we like that annoying yuppie looking. Couple we're
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: out here with a? Stroller we got the, dog and,
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: like our dog is kind of a unique. Color so
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: do people think we like purchased this expensive? Dog and
• 26:24
  Speaker 5: we were just Why and we both kind of laughed
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: at it because we were, like, well, yeah kind of
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  Speaker 5: you do.
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  Speaker 3: Look very like average, television.
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  Speaker 5: Very. Basic but then very quickly we had to laugh at.
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: THAT i had to kind of change my attitude BECAUSE
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: i had this, realization, like, MAN i don't know if
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: there's anything more on Earth i've ever wanted.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Ever we're just walking along this.
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: River we got our lovely dog that we care about so,
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: much we have this brand new, baby and we're just
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: enjoying an eighty degree. Day it's a tiny bit, cloudy
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: but Mostly, sonny what more could you really ever? NEED
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: i was, like you, know IF i won The, POWERBALL
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: i don't know IF i would still need more than
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: just this walk This.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: Saturday this is why you could never be a bad.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Boy you want to be a bad boy so, badly.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: And yet you can't be a bad boy if you're
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: over here loving your wholesome life with your, wife dog and.
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  Speaker 1: Kid.
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: WELL i just remember growing, up you, know and you
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: would see a couple like walking and they had the
• 27:31
  Speaker 5: stroller and they had a, dog and you just when
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: you're in your twenties or whatever and you don't have
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: any money and, married you don't have.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Any kids or.
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: WHATEVER i just remember thinking, like, oh, yeah IF i
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: ever got to, THAT i would THINK i made.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: IT i, mean you could be on a brochure for
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: a realtor or.
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: Something but it was just such a funny kind of
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: moment of, Going, WOW i finally have this thing that
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: not everyone gets to Have, yeah And i'm sitting here, going,
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: man do we look like a bunch of yup be
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: just jerks wogging around with their dog and me get
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: the key both and yeah.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Right but it was, very very.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: Nice it felt like a tiny moment THAT i had
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  Speaker 5: been trying to achieve my entire, life AND i got
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: to have that On, saturday just walking along The Red.
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  Speaker 1: River trail downhill from.
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  Speaker 4: Here.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah wait till the.
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: Kid can start walking on The Red River, trail then
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: we're in big. Trouble BUT i just wanted to share
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: that because it's so. Funny so many times people want this,
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: thing they have this, goal and then they get it
• 28:31
  Speaker 5: and then they're kind of, Looking, okay what's.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: NEXT i got to do this next.
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: Thing got to live in the, moment AND i did try, To,
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: yeah take thirty seconds WHERE i was, like, actually this is.
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  Speaker 5: It this is the only Thing i've ever, wanted you,
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: know for the past ten years or.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: So this is so.
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  Speaker 2: Sweet gabe absolutely not a bad boy.
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  Speaker 5: sweetest already sassiest little baby girl at least in my.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah SO i just wanted to give a big thank
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