Latest / Day Drinking With Dog / Mark C. Daniel joins the show!
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Viva Tequila Seltzer, the number one hard Seltzer in the world,
- 0:05Speaker 1: and the official heart Seltzer of Day Drinking with Dog.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Ditch them all, add tequila Welcome Back Day Drinking with Dog. Oh,
- 0:12Speaker 1: it is another heat box out there today. It is
- 0:14Speaker 1: August first. I always say July fourth is Summer's over,
- 0:18Speaker 1: and shit, it's almost over. I got a couple of
- 0:21Speaker 1: vacations coming up, and then it's back to the real
- 0:23Speaker 1: world of the fall, which is actually my favorite month.
- 0:27Speaker 1: Today I have a very special guest on whose birthday
- 0:30Speaker 1: I just found out is at midnight tonight. We won't
- 0:33Speaker 1: say how old you're gonna be. That's yeah, it doesn't matter,
- 0:36Speaker 1: It doesn't matter, Mark Daniel, what's going on, my friend?
- 0:39Speaker 2: Hello? Hello everyone, Thanks.
- 0:41Speaker 1: For coming man, thanks for reaching out. I actually said,
- 0:44Speaker 1: I don't know if you listened to last week's episode,
- 0:47Speaker 1: but at the end I always say who I got
- 0:49Speaker 1: coming next week and I and this is God's honest truth.
- 0:56Speaker 1: You are literally the most polite, pleasant person I've ever
- 1:00Speaker 1: met in my life. You made that mark on me
- 1:03Speaker 1: the day I met you at Daniel Street, and it's
- 1:06Speaker 1: it's not a lie, like you were just so kind
- 1:09Speaker 1: and I just it's it's just always stuck with me
- 1:12Speaker 1: over the years. This is not the first time I've
- 1:14Speaker 1: said this about you either.
- 1:15Speaker 2: You so very much.
- 1:16Speaker 1: You're welcome.
- 1:16Speaker 2: It's easy to love you, Jerry.
- 1:18Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, and it's not a hard thing to do.
- 1:21Speaker 1: And unfortunately a lot of people in this world don't
- 1:24Speaker 1: have that decency. I think I have it, not to
- 1:26Speaker 1: your degree, but you really are a gentleman and obviously
- 1:31Speaker 1: a scholar. So thanks again for coming, and we're gonna
- 1:36Speaker 1: we're gonna talk music today. We're gonna talk some current events,
- 1:38Speaker 1: We're gonna talk some of our beliefs in political views.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know what we're going to get into,
- 1:45Speaker 1: but we're both not drinking. We both have responsibilities today unfortunately,
- 1:50Speaker 1: So okay, anyway, so welcome, and let's get right into
- 1:55Speaker 1: the music side of it. I met you back in
- 1:58Speaker 1: you know, this seems to come up a lot of
- 2:00Speaker 1: here is the Daniel Street days, and you were in
- 2:02Speaker 1: a band called The Limit. Yes, right, that's when I
- 2:05Speaker 1: first met you. And I remember that band. They were
- 2:07Speaker 1: you guys were fucking awesome, loud were everything was loud
- 2:12Speaker 1: in Daniel Street though. Yeah, I mean that was just
- 2:14Speaker 1: a loud Place, special place. Yeah, I miss it to
- 2:18Speaker 1: this day. I think that was one of the probably
- 2:22Speaker 1: one of the top small music venues in the state.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Is not the like the region. I mean, there's some
- 2:28Speaker 1: cool spots in New York, but Daniel Street was pretty cool.
- 2:31Speaker 2: There's no doubt looking back thinking about the bands that
- 2:34Speaker 2: you guys brought in with a guitar Wolf from Japan,
- 2:38Speaker 2: a band came from Japan and played yeah, and then
- 2:42Speaker 2: you had Local Age, which are just nineties icons. I mean,
- 2:45Speaker 2: it's amazing what you guys.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Had there, Dinosaur Junior, Phudos. You know, it's just it
- 2:51Speaker 1: was which we had Edgar Winter, not Johnny It's crazy
- 2:55Speaker 1: Edgar Winter. We had Tim Uh, Tim Uh, the guy from.
- 3:01Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, that's right, Yeah, Tim Rend Tim Reynolds.
- 3:04Speaker 1: Yea. I think just the laundry List that got people
- 3:06Speaker 1: that came through that place was and then we did
- 3:08Speaker 1: the eighties thing, so we.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Had like Docin was there that show too, Yeah, going there,
- 3:13Speaker 2: yeah with those dudes. Yeah, it's it's crazy to look
- 3:16Speaker 2: back and say that that was actually happening in Milford,
- 3:19Speaker 2: but Milford really is incredibly cool. Yeah, so uh, I
- 3:23Speaker 2: guess it makes a little bit of sense we miss it,
- 3:25Speaker 2: but it was wonderful.
- 3:26Speaker 1: It was wonderful and the sound quality there was was
- 3:30Speaker 1: top notch. And John John he put it all together.
- 3:34Speaker 1: Incredible talent. Yeah, and uh, I don't know much about
- 3:38Speaker 1: music as far as listening to it. Uh, but every
- 3:41Speaker 1: musician that kind of walked off that stage was like, Oh,
- 3:44Speaker 1: that's fucking a really good system.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, John knows this stuff.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Many Just so let's start. You know, you're growing up
- 3:52Speaker 1: what you're obviously guitarist vocalist. Uh, what are some of
- 3:55Speaker 1: your inspirations? What? What? What got you into music? And
- 4:00Speaker 1: you've been doing it a long time?
- 4:01Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I've been playing music ever since I could remember, really,
- 4:08Speaker 2: and it started to click when I was about sixteen,
- 4:11Speaker 2: which is a little bit later. But then at around sixteen,
- 4:15Speaker 2: I was hell bent on going to Berkeley. So I
- 4:18Speaker 2: realized that I had two years.
- 4:21Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 4:21Speaker 2: Yeah, so I realized I had two years basically to
- 4:25Speaker 2: just kick it up and get to where I need
- 4:29Speaker 2: to be to get in there.
- 4:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 4:30Speaker 2: I knew if I was to go to Berkeley, the
- 4:33Speaker 2: chances of being able to make a life in music
- 4:36Speaker 2: would would increase, would be possible. So really, I think
- 4:39Speaker 2: that's where my caffeine addiction started. Because I'm about five
- 4:43Speaker 2: six cups a day. I just like, really, yeah, totally
- 4:47Speaker 2: love it. But yeah, so really I'll go to high school.
- 4:50Speaker 2: I would work out a little Caesars, remember a little Seasons? Yeah, yeah,
- 4:53Speaker 2: so cool. I was in the back, yeah yeah, and
- 4:57Speaker 2: then come home and just and do homework in practice,
- 5:00Speaker 2: and every chance I could, I would just practice practice
- 5:02Speaker 2: and also listening, so I'd listen to vast amounts of
- 5:07Speaker 2: it and see how it affected me as well. Because
- 5:10Speaker 2: in order to be able to play music or play
- 5:12Speaker 2: it to some reasonable degree, you have to be able
- 5:15Speaker 2: to listen to it in a certain way. I usually
- 5:18Speaker 2: equate that to somebody wanted to be a short story
- 5:21Speaker 2: writer or a novelist. Is their ability to be able
- 5:24Speaker 2: to read the arc of a storyline?
- 5:26Speaker 1: Right.
- 5:26Speaker 2: The same thing applies to musicians, where they have to
- 5:29Speaker 2: be able to hear songs in a certain way. So
- 5:32Speaker 2: lots of listening and lots of playing, and then thankfully, yeah,
- 5:36Speaker 2: the Berkeley, you know, ambition happened.
- 5:39Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. My brother tried to get in there,
- 5:42Speaker 1: but he was a drummer, but he couldn't read music.
- 5:45Speaker 1: He just drummed off of and that was I believe
- 5:48Speaker 1: I could be messing this story. Yep, but he'll text me,
- 5:51Speaker 1: oh no, you fuck that one up. But I think
- 5:53Speaker 1: like he didn't get in because he couldn't read music back then,
- 5:55Speaker 1: and that was a requirement to.
- 5:56Speaker 2: Well, you know, BB King couldn't read music. And there's
- 5:59Speaker 2: a drum we're out there named Dennis Chambers who's all
- 6:01Speaker 2: self taught. Yeah, he plays with a band called the
- 6:04Speaker 2: Brecker Brothers, along with a number of other kind of
- 6:06Speaker 2: proggy seventies more like eighties now too, nineties fusion stuff
- 6:12Speaker 2: that's complex to play in other words, but he's all
- 6:14Speaker 2: self taught and what he does is absolutely off the charts.
- 6:20Speaker 2: So there's a positive and a negative to being able
- 6:24Speaker 2: to read music. Do people have to No, not at all.
- 6:28Speaker 2: It's there's many ways to get to the top of
- 6:31Speaker 2: the mountain if we want to use that.
- 6:32Speaker 1: Yeah, So your what years were you there? I don't
- 6:36Speaker 1: want to date you here all you were there in
- 6:38Speaker 1: the from mid nineties.
- 6:40Speaker 2: Right, yeah, totally, and I don't feel aging.
- 6:42Speaker 1: So you're Boston in the mid nineties.
- 6:44Speaker 2: Yeah, so ninety seven, two thousand and one.
- 6:47Speaker 1: All right, so late late nineties. What were some of
- 6:50Speaker 1: the bands like that. I'm trying to think, like we're
- 6:53Speaker 1: almost through the grunge phase that late and we're getting
- 6:56Speaker 1: more into the I call it rap rock, the lymp
- 6:59Speaker 1: Discuits and corn of the World and in my in
- 7:01Speaker 1: my world, uh, what was what was some of the
- 7:05Speaker 1: music that inspired you or you listened to back then
- 7:07Speaker 1: when you were just a young kid in college.
- 7:09Speaker 2: And so leading up to Berkeley, I I was listening
- 7:15Speaker 2: to a lot of classic rock, blues and the nineties.
- 7:20Speaker 2: Stuff started to click a little bit right, not just
- 7:24Speaker 2: entirely yet, I was I was more gravitating towards like Santana, Zeppelin, yes,
- 7:30Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. But but STP some type of
- 7:32Speaker 2: Pilots is just they've always connected with me. I've always
- 7:35Speaker 2: loved them. So they started to kind of kick in
- 7:37Speaker 2: a little bit. And my friend Corey uh was always
- 7:41Speaker 2: on the cutting edge of what was coming out, So
- 7:43Speaker 2: every time we would hang out, he'd bet he'd have
- 7:45Speaker 2: U CDs that came out that week. So he always
- 7:48Speaker 2: kind of kept me in and check with that. So
- 7:51Speaker 2: those uh, some of.
- 7:53Speaker 1: Them were yeah, yeah, minimal thing. Yeah, it was just
- 7:59Speaker 1: like it had like the you know, they were basically
- 8:02Speaker 1: sent to radio stations, and those are the songs they
- 8:04Speaker 1: could play. I knew with DJ at the Trumble Marriott
- 8:07Speaker 1: and I was one of the bar managers and he
- 8:09Speaker 1: used to give me the hard rock one cool and
- 8:10Speaker 1: I'll never forget when I her first heard Stained Just
- 8:14Speaker 1: Go was their first release ever in nineteen got almost
- 8:17Speaker 1: ninety four. I would think, no, it would be later
- 8:20Speaker 1: than that, ninety six, maybe because I didn't start there
- 8:22Speaker 1: till ninety five. So but yeah, I remember those little
- 8:24Speaker 1: promos and like, yeah, I used to steal in from them.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like a physical CD.
- 8:27Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a CDC all the new bands on
- 8:30Speaker 1: the list and their new songs, and I just fucking
- 8:32Speaker 1: pop them in my car.
- 8:33Speaker 2: And yeah, that's good stuff, man. So that stuff stuck
- 8:38Speaker 2: around when I was at Berkeley, but I wasn't listening
- 8:40Speaker 2: to it as much. I did expand on Pearl Jam
- 8:45Speaker 2: a lot at Berkeley and song Garden when I was
- 8:47Speaker 2: up there. Ye, But while I was up there, I
- 8:50Speaker 2: was just completely immersed in rock, for sure, but fusion, jazz, blues.
- 8:59Speaker 2: It was a constantly a constant I could probably swear right, yeah,
- 9:03Speaker 2: fuck yeah it was. It was a constant what the
- 9:06Speaker 2: fuck experience? Every which way you turn. So I heard
- 9:10Speaker 2: everything and I got exposed to everything, but not only
- 9:12Speaker 2: just in bits and pieces. I was flooded with everything.
- 9:15Speaker 2: So when I heard somebody play samba, it wasn't like, hey,
- 9:18Speaker 2: it's a little bit of samba. It was like, Okay,
- 9:20Speaker 2: so I'm gonna listening to this for the next two
- 9:22Speaker 2: hours and when to actually break everything down, and I'm
- 9:24Speaker 2: going to probably see some samba bands today, tomorrow, next week.
- 9:28Speaker 2: And so it was on all the time, which is
- 9:31Speaker 2: great because I like to think I'm still on all
- 9:32Speaker 2: the time with that.
- 9:33Speaker 1: Now you're you're like, who do you equate your guitar
- 9:36Speaker 1: style to? I mean, if it's not just one person,
- 9:39Speaker 1: like no, I.
- 9:42Speaker 2: Take from It depends on what I'm doing, because some
- 9:47Speaker 2: songs that I want to have a little bit more
- 9:49Speaker 2: of a blues edge to it, while some songs might
- 9:52Speaker 2: have a little bit more of a technique drive to it.
- 9:55Speaker 2: So the range really varies, so it could be a
- 10:00Speaker 2: anything from like a hard rock to a blues to
- 10:02Speaker 2: maybe some jazz in there too, So I kind of
- 10:04Speaker 2: throw it all in there. But it's got to serve
- 10:06Speaker 2: the song though.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Right, The song is the most important thing, Right, so
- 10:09Speaker 1: you do all the writing I do. Yeah. So your
- 10:12Speaker 1: band now is called well, it's just solo solo Mark
- 10:16Speaker 1: issue yep, okay.
- 10:17Speaker 2: And I have a number of musicians that I work
- 10:19Speaker 2: with that I just I'm so deeply thankful for. I
- 10:25Speaker 2: just saw one of my roommates from Berkeley this past Sunday,
- 10:28Speaker 2: Mark Kycox. He's a remarkable bassist. He just opened up
- 10:32Speaker 2: for the Rolling Stones.
- 10:33Speaker 1: Wow.
- 10:34Speaker 2: So we had a good hang in Boston, had a
- 10:36Speaker 2: couple of beers. I've been working with him and recording
- 10:38Speaker 2: with him for about seven eight years now. Mickey Curry
- 10:42Speaker 2: is also the drummer for Brian Adams Hall Notes the Cult.
- 10:48Speaker 2: He's played with George Harrison, Brian may So, it's members
- 10:53Speaker 2: of Queen. So he's been So I think with Mickey's playing,
- 10:57Speaker 2: I mean, just wait anywhere for ten minutes and you're
- 11:00Speaker 2: going to hear him playing out with somebody. That's how
- 11:02Speaker 2: many people he's played with and how many recordings he's on.
- 11:05Speaker 2: And he's really changed how I write and what I
- 11:09Speaker 2: do because he's allowed me a chance to go ahead
- 11:13Speaker 2: and develop as a songwriter as opposed to just writing
- 11:17Speaker 2: guitar driven songs, which that so happens. It's really expanded
- 11:22Speaker 2: a lot larger, and I have the privilege of playing
- 11:28Speaker 2: I say privileged because I've always wanted to play with
- 11:31Speaker 2: with this one drummer, Arnie Kuzzo is the drummer.
- 11:34Speaker 1: You know Arnie.
- 11:36Speaker 2: Yeah, he's amazing. He's going to be the drummer.
- 11:38Speaker 1: Actually, Arnie did actually the big banner out in the
- 11:41Speaker 1: other room.
- 11:42Speaker 2: Cool. Yeah, a stellar guy, an incredible drummer. And so
- 11:46Speaker 2: he's going to be the drummer for the show coming
- 11:49Speaker 2: up August seventeenth. And this is a fantastic thing to
- 11:53Speaker 2: be able to say that I have Todd Grosberg on bass,
- 11:59Speaker 2: supposed that you guys opening. So not only does that
- 12:02Speaker 2: warm my heart and soul, I think that's somewhere along
- 12:04Speaker 2: the way that is just one of those beautiful things
- 12:06Speaker 2: that the universe has to give you and I accept entirely,
- 12:10Speaker 2: and I'm so glad that Todd did say yes, and
- 12:13Speaker 2: Arnie says yes, and that Mickey say yes and Mark
- 12:16Speaker 2: says yes, and so awesome. Lots of thanks.
- 12:19Speaker 1: So that's August seventeenth at the uh.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Space Spaceball YEP spaceball Room and.
- 12:26Speaker 1: Damed the Connecticut and the band you are opening for
- 12:29Speaker 1: is none under than Sponge that if you don't know Sponge,
- 12:33Speaker 1: I'm just gonna play a little cup of sponge because
- 12:34Speaker 1: I think this song, everyone's gonna go, oh, that's Sponge.
- 12:38Speaker 2: Yeah, this is almost like.
- 12:48Speaker 1: This is almost like like a like a college anthem
- 12:51Speaker 1: for me because it's nineteen ninety four, thirty fucking years ago.
- 12:55Speaker 1: Thirty years ago. Yeah, that's a great song came out
- 12:57Speaker 1: and that's one of those songs too. I feel that
- 12:58Speaker 1: it carries through generationally, you know a lot of a lot.
- 13:02Speaker 1: I'm like, I grew up on rock. You know, eighties
- 13:05Speaker 1: was the hair and bands, nineties was grunge. Two thousands,
- 13:07Speaker 1: like I said, was the Olympiscuit stuff. And now I
- 13:10Speaker 1: listen to you know, octane and all the new bands
- 13:13Speaker 1: out now that I think are just as phenomenal. But
- 13:15Speaker 1: for whatever reason, rock doesn't get the accolades that deserves anymore,
- 13:21Speaker 1: the new bands or yeah, buy new bands. Yeah, Like
- 13:24Speaker 1: I just don't. I just don't think you know, who
- 13:27Speaker 1: plays rock, so like it's classic rock is PLR one
- 13:32Speaker 1: O six nine and one O four to one. Back
- 13:34Speaker 1: in the day used to play what they call modern rock,
- 13:36Speaker 1: but like actually hard rock bands today you got.
- 13:42Speaker 2: To search them out almost So then is the issue
- 13:47Speaker 2: not necessarily with the lack in the market or presence
- 13:50Speaker 2: of a market? Uh, is the issue potentially maybe the
- 13:54Speaker 2: artistry that maybe perhaps people aren't studying the craft as
- 13:57Speaker 2: much as they used to and we might have.
- 14:00Speaker 1: I think a lot of it is how how it's consumed. Okay,
- 14:04Speaker 1: So yeah, I think, you know, I think everything is now.
- 14:07Speaker 1: It's still like hip hop, R and B and country
- 14:11Speaker 1: rock or country I think dominates everything, and pop music obviously,
- 14:14Speaker 1: but that can kind of I just think rock music out.
- 14:18Speaker 1: You know, I'm always like, I love classic rock, but
- 14:21Speaker 1: like I would still rather listen to modern rock, like
- 14:25Speaker 1: now rock than classic I think. I just like, I
- 14:27Speaker 1: just like, yeah just now, yeah, it's now, you know.
- 14:31Speaker 1: And I'm fifty, so you know, I think I always like,
- 14:36Speaker 1: I've always listened to music my whole life. And you know,
- 14:39Speaker 1: when we grew up, we got the you know, we've
- 14:41Speaker 1: got the tapes first, but when the CDs came out,
- 14:43Speaker 1: like we would you know, they would come out Tuesdays
- 14:45Speaker 1: at fucking Strawberries and we'd be down there and waiting
- 14:48Speaker 1: for you know, I don't know who you would go
- 14:50Speaker 1: to go to see but or go to get but
- 14:53Speaker 1: you know, I would get the new Stained album or
- 14:55Speaker 1: the new whatever album, and you know it came with
- 14:58Speaker 1: the graphic art cover and then the lyrics were in there,
- 15:01Speaker 1: and you just you know, you put on your headphones,
- 15:03Speaker 1: you listen to it like I would spend nights. I
- 15:05Speaker 1: can't really believe I never really got into playing any music,
- 15:07Speaker 1: Like I just my fingers were not good enough for
- 15:09Speaker 1: a guitar, so yeah yeah, and I don't have the
- 15:13Speaker 1: voice to sing, so that was pretty much shut out.
- 15:17Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, right, yeah, So I mean I just, you know,
- 15:20Speaker 1: just today's rock I find is just it sits on satellite,
- 15:25Speaker 1: and you know, I mean these guys play, they tour,
- 15:27Speaker 1: they you know, they make money. But I just there's
- 15:29Speaker 1: no van Halen nowadays, there's no.
- 15:32Speaker 2: Was there ever one before van Halen? And was there
- 15:34Speaker 2: everyone after? Because after Hendrix you only had any that
- 15:39Speaker 2: ripple effect that happened.
- 15:40Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good point.
- 15:42Speaker 3: Uh.
- 15:43Speaker 1: I don't know, I have to have to think about it,
- 15:46Speaker 1: like van Halen maybe a far you know, like they'll
- 15:50Speaker 1: to try to fucking conquer, but you know, Stone Temple
- 15:55Speaker 1: and those guys granted that was you know, nineties, nobody's
- 15:58Speaker 1: every now.
- 16:00Speaker 2: Because because how what they brought to the table was
- 16:03Speaker 2: so unique and different. Chains like the band, and so
- 16:07Speaker 2: if I were to say, maybe something that Jerry Cantrell
- 16:12Speaker 2: did with Alison Chains that it's not necessarily derivative but
- 16:15Speaker 2: inspired by, is that you got got you have? He's
- 16:18Speaker 2: my proper English here. Some hints of Black Sabbath in there,
- 16:24Speaker 2: some hints and someone like the Gnarly Bens. But those
- 16:27Speaker 2: harmonies and how the songs are constructed and how they played.
- 16:29Speaker 2: That's so perhaps maybe those avenues have been explored, and
- 16:36Speaker 2: maybe there are some avenues that haven't been that could
- 16:38Speaker 2: galvanized rock again to maybe do something.
- 16:41Speaker 1: I don't know, And do you think it's a cyclical
- 16:44Speaker 1: thing that you think it'll you know, it comes in
- 16:46Speaker 1: waves because I don't see like hip hop, I don't
- 16:52Speaker 1: see that going anywhere ever. Most it's it's it's it's
- 16:55Speaker 1: you know, it's a cultural thing as well.
- 16:57Speaker 2: Well. It morphs though, right, That's the thing is that
- 16:59Speaker 2: hip from the nineties to the two thousand and twenties,
- 17:03Speaker 2: it's so different.
- 17:04Speaker 1: I love how these guys are fucking morphine with each
- 17:07Speaker 1: other though. I think it's great the collaborations are awesome.
- 17:10Speaker 2: It has to survive, so it takes on these new characteristics.
- 17:15Speaker 2: What rock did is that it hits the wall after
- 17:19Speaker 2: a certain point. So we take bands as proper nouns
- 17:22Speaker 2: because that's what we know. So let's just say, let's
- 17:25Speaker 2: just talk about a big gorilla here. Let's talk about
- 17:27Speaker 2: led zeppein for a minute.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Right.
- 17:28Speaker 2: It's easy to listen to led Zeppelin, say that's led
- 17:31Speaker 2: Zeppelin and take that as a proper noun, but we
- 17:33Speaker 2: might be missing everything that happened before led Zeppelin and
- 17:37Speaker 2: what inspired led Zeppelin be what they are. But if
- 17:40Speaker 2: all we listen to is just led Zeppelin, I'm talking
- 17:42Speaker 2: specifically towards artists that are trying to figure out who
- 17:46Speaker 2: they are, perhaps you know, or maybe get some idea,
- 17:49Speaker 2: because it's maybe not a good idea to over identify yourself.
- 17:53Speaker 2: Led Zeppelin was everything blue eyed soul, blues, a touch
- 17:59Speaker 2: of folk, right Irish folks specifically. Then they brought in
- 18:03Speaker 2: some Delta blues in there as well. All of that
- 18:06Speaker 2: became led Zeppelin. But when we put it in a
- 18:08Speaker 2: package and after a few years look at it, it's
- 18:10Speaker 2: it's proper noun. So now it's easy to say, hey,
- 18:13Speaker 2: you know what, I want to play rock and I
- 18:15Speaker 2: like led zeppelins, I'm gonna sound like fuckings led Zeppelin.
- 18:17Speaker 2: Well no, that's not it. Led zeppel didn't wake up
- 18:21Speaker 2: every morning and say, let's sound like led Zeppelin. But
- 18:23Speaker 2: they may have said, you know what, let's sound like
- 18:25Speaker 2: led Belly today. Let's try out that lead Belly group
- 18:28Speaker 2: and see what we have. Well guess well, for guys
- 18:30Speaker 2: from England, are not going to sound like lead Belly,
- 18:32Speaker 2: are they? They're gonna do something else with it. There
- 18:35Speaker 2: you go. The prism was led Zeppa, the influence was
- 18:38Speaker 2: whatever inspired them. That might be what's missing in some
- 18:42Speaker 2: music today. But then again, I don't know.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Well, like we just mentioned Stone Temple, I think their
- 18:47Speaker 1: first album to their second was two completely different bands
- 18:52Speaker 1: to completely like I almost I didn't like the second
- 18:54Speaker 1: album at first. It took me a while to grow,
- 18:56Speaker 1: like it grew on me.
- 18:57Speaker 2: It's such a dry mix, right, it was.
- 18:59Speaker 1: It was insane. I'm like, whoa, like, these guys are
- 19:01Speaker 1: just there's one super talented. But I just I just
- 19:05Speaker 1: remember that those two albums stuck out to me. I'm like, oh,
- 19:07Speaker 1: this is really different than you know. And then as
- 19:10Speaker 1: a kid, you just kind of you're, you know, you're
- 19:12Speaker 1: not really developed yet in your mind of what you want,
- 19:15Speaker 1: and you like familiarity, you know, and that was not
- 19:18Speaker 1: familiar to the first album, right, So I was kind
- 19:20Speaker 1: of stunned by it. But then as I realized how
- 19:23Speaker 1: good it was, I'm like, wow, these guys are really
- 19:25Speaker 1: and then then I was so anxious to see their
- 19:27Speaker 1: next work, you know, like are they going to go
- 19:29Speaker 1: back revert to album one style or are they going to
- 19:33Speaker 1: do a completely third different style.
- 19:35Speaker 2: I had a bit of a reckoning artistically in twenty
- 19:40Speaker 2: and twenty one with STP. So I find myself watching
- 19:46Speaker 2: battle bots and I get a message on Instagram from
- 19:54Speaker 2: what looks like a pr asient manager peer Asian Emily's
- 19:58Speaker 2: somewhere in between there, and she goes, hey, Mark, could
- 20:01Speaker 2: I have your phone number? And I said, okay, I
- 20:05Speaker 2: see what she does. She STP's the one band that
- 20:08Speaker 2: she works with, so I said, of course. She said, well,
- 20:12Speaker 2: somebody wants to call you, and I'm like, yeah, all right, dude.
- 20:15Speaker 2: So I told my wife Claire. I said, Claire, all right,
- 20:17Speaker 2: so somebody wants to call me from Stone Top of
- 20:21Speaker 2: Pilot's haha, said I might sleep with my phone on tonight.
- 20:25Speaker 2: Literally at ten pm, Den Delio calls me, right and
- 20:29Speaker 2: he says, if you could believe this, thank you for
- 20:35Speaker 2: talking about his guitar work. This what was a very
- 20:39Speaker 2: small post that I posted, but apparently, I mean it
- 20:43Speaker 2: was heartfelt because I really do love what they do,
- 20:45Speaker 2: and he's just, you know, he's very unique. And we
- 20:49Speaker 2: ended up chatting on the phone for maybe a cool
- 20:52Speaker 2: half hour about stuff. I didn't ask him necessarily at
- 20:57Speaker 2: that point anyways, I didn't ask him about what he
- 20:58Speaker 2: was doing, but we talked about the guys that we loved,
- 21:00Speaker 2: you know, Claptain, Jimmy Page, you know. And then we
- 21:03Speaker 2: talked about a ridiculous guitar player out in Nashville called
- 21:06Speaker 2: Tom Bokovac, which he introduced me to and I was like, wow,
- 21:09Speaker 2: that's you know, that's a great find. So after that conversation,
- 21:14Speaker 2: I found myself going, Fuck, Dean's gonna be listening to
- 21:18Speaker 2: my stuff now? Is it gonna sound like me? Or
- 21:22Speaker 2: me sounding like Dean?
- 21:24Speaker 1: Right? All right?
- 21:27Speaker 2: That changed how I saw music right there, because nowhere
- 21:31Speaker 2: before twenty twenty one did I ever think that I'd
- 21:34Speaker 2: be actually talking to the guy right and actually him
- 21:38Speaker 2: listening to my stuff and then having some sort of
- 21:41Speaker 2: back and forth about it. And I didn't know what
- 21:45Speaker 2: the hell I was going to do next, but I
- 21:47Speaker 2: knew I wasn't going to stay so close to my
- 21:50Speaker 2: influences anymore, because all of that was a bit of
- 21:54Speaker 2: an illusion and was leading me down the wrong path.
- 21:57Speaker 2: So anything that you're you're listening to now, anything that's
- 22:00Speaker 2: been coming out since twenty twenty one, is a bit
- 22:05Speaker 2: of a different ball game. But that Dean has I
- 22:08Speaker 2: got to thank him entirely for that, and thankfully we
- 22:11Speaker 2: still chattering now and again.
- 22:12Speaker 1: And he Sanders did it unintentionally or like like you
- 22:15Speaker 1: put that idea in your head, like oh shit, I
- 22:17Speaker 1: don't want him to think I'm just like.
- 22:19Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, dude, I'm someone to send you some
- 22:21Speaker 2: of my stuff, man, and you know, just a and
- 22:23Speaker 2: I'm like, oh fuck, I'm like, I hope he doesn't
- 22:27Speaker 2: think that riff is to Dan Delio, you know. But
- 22:29Speaker 2: I did tell him you are one of my guys.
- 22:31Speaker 2: I said, you cheat, you one of my guys, you know.
- 22:33Speaker 2: So it's like, well we all got guys. And then
- 22:34Speaker 2: we talked about our guys, which is really cool. But
- 22:37Speaker 2: that was a turning moment not just in what I
- 22:40Speaker 2: was moving doing with music, but literally how I was
- 22:44Speaker 2: thinking about it and how we think about these things
- 22:49Speaker 2: and whether it's with a confirmation bias or whether it's
- 22:52Speaker 2: a completely open minded this that affects what that potential
- 22:58Speaker 2: future might be, and because we kind of infuse it
- 23:02Speaker 2: with that intention of either being derivative or with something
- 23:06Speaker 2: that we don't know. And when led Zeppelin was blazing
- 23:10Speaker 2: the trail, they weren't doing confirmation bias. They didn't know
- 23:15Speaker 2: what the hell it was going to sound like. And
- 23:17Speaker 2: people forget that Van Halen didn't know that either, you know.
- 23:20Speaker 2: And if we were to compare a Vanlin as Easy
- 23:22Speaker 2: Top to Van Halen, like you know, first three albums,
- 23:25Speaker 2: when you listen to Alex van Halen's grooves, it's basically
- 23:28Speaker 2: his Zzy Top groove with James you know, Jimmy Beard
- 23:30Speaker 2: there just but it's just amped up like a motherfucker,
- 23:33Speaker 2: you know. So they're coming from a similar place too,
- 23:36Speaker 2: right with that shuffle, But how it was interpreted it
- 23:39Speaker 2: was so completely different. So nowhere along the way did
- 23:42Speaker 2: Alex van Halen wake up and say, hey, I'm going
- 23:45Speaker 2: to be proper now, And Alex van Halen probably said,
- 23:47Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck this is going to
- 23:48Speaker 2: sound like, let's give it a try. Perhaps maybe not
- 23:51Speaker 2: only in rock, but I think jazz could probably use
- 23:53Speaker 2: a little kick in the ass too, maybe even blues
- 23:56Speaker 2: at this point. Even having the open mindedness of not
- 24:00Speaker 2: knowing is where the power comes in, and vulnerability is
- 24:02Speaker 2: an important part of it too.
- 24:04Speaker 1: Right when it comes to rock or all the genres,
- 24:08Speaker 1: like you know, a lot of the pop music, I
- 24:10Speaker 1: don't really get into it, but I feel they just
- 24:14Speaker 1: find somebody and they annoint them and they write them
- 24:17Speaker 1: their music. And I could be completely wrong, but that's
- 24:19Speaker 1: you know, like with a kit with like a Katy
- 24:21Speaker 1: Perry or you know, a Lady Gaga. I'm not I'm
- 24:26Speaker 1: not crying their talent, like they're talented, you know, but
- 24:32Speaker 1: I read I just I just deep dive into a
- 24:34Speaker 1: lot of shit and I just read a lot of
- 24:35Speaker 1: shit and it's just like I just feel like these
- 24:38Speaker 1: people were produced from the world of music instead of
- 24:43Speaker 1: the opposite where they cut their you know, they cut
- 24:49Speaker 1: their own way to the top, and with their talent,
- 24:51Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean that's just the way I
- 24:53Speaker 1: look at that kind of music, where like if you
- 24:55Speaker 1: look at rock or chat, I mean, you have to
- 24:57Speaker 1: be extremely talented. A lot of things have to go
- 25:00Speaker 1: your way. Like I think you're talented enough to thank
- 25:02Speaker 1: you to be you know, like if you've got to
- 25:04Speaker 1: break here, break there, you know. I agree. You know
- 25:06Speaker 1: Keith Carroll, you know, group with those.
- 25:08Speaker 2: Guys, and they had a really special thing going there too.
- 25:12Speaker 1: They live in trust. Yeah, and I thought, you know,
- 25:15Speaker 1: and that kind of showed me. I don't know the
- 25:18Speaker 1: business anyway the way you do, but it kind of
- 25:20Speaker 1: showed me, like how really hard it is. Maybe it's not,
- 25:24Speaker 1: maybe it isn't, but I mean, I those guys had
- 25:27Speaker 1: different issues. Is probably the reason why they didn't make it.
- 25:30Speaker 1: But but they were you know, they were played on ESPN,
- 25:34Speaker 1: they were you know, they had some that.
- 25:36Speaker 2: Was the market ready of that stuff.
- 25:37Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was when.
- 25:38Speaker 2: I first heard, I was like, well, what, there's nothing else.
- 25:41Speaker 2: I mean, it's right there, Yeah, it's all complete, you know,
- 25:44Speaker 2: now go ahead and right through the market. So I'm
- 25:48Speaker 2: surprised that it didn't get put through the market.
- 25:51Speaker 1: You listen to any pop music. Do you listen to
- 25:54Speaker 1: everything I'm assuming, Yeah, name it.
- 25:55Speaker 2: I have no prejudic yet prejudice against anything, particularly if
- 26:00Speaker 2: somebody brings me something, which I'm insanely thankful for people
- 26:04Speaker 2: bringing me stuff. So this happens on like seven days
- 26:09Speaker 2: a week. People bring me music and I just I
- 26:12Speaker 2: can't get enough of it. I listen to it with
- 26:16Speaker 2: what I think my point of view might be, and there,
- 26:18Speaker 2: if I do that, that kind of kills everything entirely.
- 26:21Speaker 2: It's better not to have a point of view or
- 26:22Speaker 2: an opinion, just accept it and then be there with
- 26:26Speaker 2: it in that present moment and see where it goes.
- 26:29Speaker 2: Having the person in the room put a little bit
- 26:33Speaker 2: of their emotional energy into the room as well, Yeah,
- 26:36Speaker 2: makes it human in that. Okay, this affected this person
- 26:40Speaker 2: this way, so now it's an opportunity to learn on
- 26:44Speaker 2: how to connect with people on a deeper level. So no,
- 26:48Speaker 2: I don't have any prejudice against any of that, But
- 26:50Speaker 2: I see your point of view on well, you you're
- 26:53Speaker 2: listening to so and so seventeen year old pretty girl
- 26:56Speaker 2: who's you know that looks great didn't write a look
- 26:59Speaker 2: in her life. But a producer is doing this and
- 27:02Speaker 2: puts her to a market. Right, So then let me
- 27:05Speaker 2: pose this question too. Let me know what what your
- 27:07Speaker 2: response is. Is it okay for music to be completely
- 27:12Speaker 2: shallow with no meaning whatsoever besides entertainment like a perhaps
- 27:18Speaker 2: popcorn and the movie theater?
- 27:20Speaker 1: Right?
- 27:20Speaker 2: Is that is that okay?
- 27:24Speaker 1: Is it okay to me like a morally in the
- 27:26Speaker 1: music business. No?
- 27:27Speaker 2: Okay? So then let me respond, Okay, you just robbed
- 27:30Speaker 2: a thirteen or fourteen year old girl of her influences
- 27:35Speaker 2: that are going to be the song of her summer.
- 27:37Speaker 1: How much does AI scare you in that in that field,
- 27:40Speaker 1: because I think AI is going to have a play
- 27:42Speaker 1: a big part of music where there is no there's
- 27:46Speaker 1: no songwriting, there's no emotion behind the songwriting. It may
- 27:49Speaker 1: it may do you think that it may hit a
- 27:52Speaker 1: chord with a young person and that's how their life
- 27:55Speaker 1: might be going, whether it's a relationship song or or
- 27:58Speaker 1: you know, they could But I'd rather listen to you
- 28:03Speaker 1: write a song that's you, you know, and you're you know,
- 28:08Speaker 1: we're gonna play your song later, you know. Actually I
- 28:11Speaker 1: was reading the lyrics and you know, I have some
- 28:14Speaker 1: questions of how you wrote that song, you know, But
- 28:18Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think. I think when it
- 28:20Speaker 1: comes to thirteen year old girls and robbing them of that,
- 28:23Speaker 1: I think they they'll just go on to the next
- 28:24Speaker 1: thing because their attention spans are so fucking short. I mean,
- 28:27Speaker 1: I see Braden, he's fourteen, Thank god, he's at football
- 28:30Speaker 1: practice today, his first one ever. He was nervous. Yeah,
- 28:33Speaker 1: oh yeah. And you know these kids just scroll and
- 28:36Speaker 1: scroll and scroll and scroll and scroll and scroll, and
- 28:38Speaker 1: that's it. It's like NonStop. Like they don't he wouldn't
- 28:41Speaker 1: listen to a song fucking from front to end, no way, Okay,
- 28:45Speaker 1: he doesn't really listen to music and only the what
- 28:47Speaker 1: pops up on his TikTok Okay. So as far as
- 28:50Speaker 1: robbing our thirteen year old girl, I just think they'll
- 28:52Speaker 1: go on to the next song. Okay. So then could
- 28:56Speaker 1: a and how do you quantify that? How do you
- 28:58Speaker 1: even know if you did? Like, there's no like reason
- 29:00Speaker 1: church behind it. I get what you're saying.
- 29:01Speaker 2: But so then let's just say we eliminate everybody.
- 29:07Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I don't mean it like that. Okay,
- 29:09Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want anything eliminated, Okay, I just
- 29:11Speaker 1: I just I just would choose not to listen to
- 29:13Speaker 1: something that's generated, a factory generated.
- 29:17Speaker 2: Yeah for me, gotcha, gotcha cool, because.
- 29:20Speaker 1: I have I've grown up on the thing when you
- 29:21Speaker 1: listen to what you want. I think music is one
- 29:23Speaker 1: of those things where you cannot laugh at me for
- 29:25Speaker 1: what I listen to, and I cannot laugh at you
- 29:27Speaker 1: for what you listen to. It's all it's all personal.
- 29:30Speaker 2: You nailed it without yeah, yeah, Well, whether we know
- 29:35Speaker 2: it or not, we always look for something that's relatable
- 29:37Speaker 2: right totally. Being a songwriter and a musician, I can't
- 29:45Speaker 2: I can't say to myself, this is what I'm doing,
- 29:47Speaker 2: and this is what I am, because at that moment,
- 29:50Speaker 2: I overidentify what it is that I'm doing, and then
- 29:52Speaker 2: I try to make myself a proper noun without knowing
- 29:55Speaker 2: the craft, the skill, the history, and then potentially where
- 30:00Speaker 2: we are and where we're going with it in the future. So,
- 30:05Speaker 2: and that's a difficult thing to do because the first
- 30:08Speaker 2: thing when somebody asks you is what's your favorite like
- 30:10Speaker 2: music or your favorite band, your favorite song. That's not
- 30:13Speaker 2: just a question about would you like to listen to?
- 30:17Speaker 2: The reply, somewhere in our back of our mind is
- 30:20Speaker 2: usually my answer is going to lead this person to
- 30:23Speaker 2: identify me as something cool. Right, That's how personal this
- 30:28Speaker 2: shit can get. I don't know how to change that.
- 30:32Speaker 2: Don't have an interest in changing that because it's been
- 30:34Speaker 2: that way forever. But I know that doing what I do,
- 30:38Speaker 2: I can't do that. Yeah, I can't pigeonhole it, right, Yeah.
- 30:42Speaker 1: But like I relate a lot with Like some of
- 30:45Speaker 1: my favorite bands are Stained and you know Shine Down,
- 30:48Speaker 1: I love I love it. They changed a lot too,
- 30:51Speaker 1: they have and well obviously you know Aaron Lewis my
- 30:54Speaker 1: country for a while, and how did that go for him?
- 30:57Speaker 1: He loves doing it more than the rock shows. I
- 30:59Speaker 1: know that personally.
- 31:01Speaker 2: From Godsmack is doing a country song now too, is he? Yeah,
- 31:05Speaker 2: better noise artist Corey Marks, he's doing something.
- 31:08Speaker 1: They're actually coming to Mohegan. I think I'm gonna go
- 31:10Speaker 1: to that one. Cool. Yeah, yeah, I mean I I
- 31:14Speaker 1: I just don't listen to country, so, you know, I
- 31:17Speaker 1: was I'll never forget this interview I read in one
- 31:19Speaker 1: of those music magazines and they were interviewing Aaron Lewis
- 31:22Speaker 1: about moving the country, and then the last line from
- 31:25Speaker 1: the reporter was, you know, what do you have to
- 31:27Speaker 1: say to your fans of rock, you know, fans have stained.
- 31:30Speaker 1: And he was just like, fuck it, I don't know this,
- 31:34Speaker 1: this is me, you know. And then yeah, he.
- 31:37Speaker 2: Loves he's probably doesn't give much of a shit about No, I.
- 31:39Speaker 1: Don't think he does, you know. And he's you know,
- 31:43Speaker 1: very political too. Yeah, but and I just never listened
- 31:49Speaker 1: like he actually had some crossover songs that he would
- 31:51Speaker 1: actually see him doing when he was still instane and
- 31:53Speaker 1: he didn't leave. He did solo shows the Mohican Son
- 31:56Speaker 1: a lot, and I would go. He did like ten
- 31:58Speaker 1: in a Row in the cabaret was all. It was
- 32:00Speaker 1: only like a five hundred seat theater. It was a show,
- 32:03Speaker 1: and it was a solo show, and he did all
- 32:04Speaker 1: his you know, like he's got the ballads and then
- 32:06Speaker 1: he had added some new songs and it was gone
- 32:08Speaker 1: called Massachusetts and all this stuff. Yeah yeah, and it
- 32:11Speaker 1: was great. But then when he went a full country,
- 32:14Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm whatever kind of done. And
- 32:16Speaker 1: then they came back that stained. But then he said,
- 32:19Speaker 1: he said last year, he's like he's like, I just
- 32:22Speaker 1: love doing the solo shit better because I don't have
- 32:24Speaker 1: to worry about three other guys and uh, you know,
- 32:26Speaker 1: and doing all this crap. I just just me and uh,
- 32:29Speaker 1: you know, he usually brings like one other guitar stuff
- 32:31Speaker 1: with him, but it's just me and my tour bus
- 32:34Speaker 1: and my wife.
- 32:34Speaker 2: And he's got the sound though, like so, yeah, so
- 32:37Speaker 2: he's got his dynamics and a sounddown to do that.
- 32:40Speaker 2: Get his point of view on that one. Do you
- 32:42Speaker 2: think that Stained were I don't want to say self plagiarizing,
- 32:48Speaker 2: but do you think that Stained really kind of hit
- 32:50Speaker 2: a wall with how far they could push their sound
- 32:52Speaker 2: up to a point?
- 32:53Speaker 1: Uh? I I think so? And then there so they
- 32:57Speaker 1: just had an album come out. It's fine.
- 32:59Speaker 2: Is it the derivative of their other sounds?
- 33:02Speaker 1: Yeah? You know, I think they're one of those bands
- 33:04Speaker 1: that didn't you know, they're not at STP where they
- 33:06Speaker 1: could change their style in a heartbeat, you know. There
- 33:10Speaker 1: they're heavy riffs, they're you know, screaming, you know.
- 33:13Speaker 2: It's a halftime and everything. But they do it so great,
- 33:18Speaker 2: and they've done it so well that they're able to
- 33:20Speaker 2: put their through college and right, and and here we
- 33:24Speaker 2: are talking about a band that's affected you in such
- 33:26Speaker 2: a positive way. So there's there's nothing negative about that
- 33:29Speaker 2: whole experience at all. It seems like they really did
- 33:32Speaker 2: a lot of positive.
- 33:33Speaker 1: Things they did, you know, and Shine Down was another
- 33:35Speaker 1: one for me. Uh. Their guitar is Zach Myers, right, Zach.
- 33:41Speaker 1: He was he was at he was at Daniel Street.
- 33:44Speaker 2: Yeah, what was that?
- 33:45Speaker 1: D was Zach And he was by himself that because
- 33:48Speaker 1: they were they were going from like New York to Boston,
- 33:51Speaker 1: so he just you know, they had three days off
- 33:52Speaker 1: in between and Phil got him to come in and
- 33:55Speaker 1: incredible and it was like nobody there because no. Like
- 33:58Speaker 1: the funny thing about like music and is like I'm
- 34:00Speaker 1: guilty as sin of it is I can't some of
- 34:03Speaker 1: my favorite bands, I can't name all the fucking people
- 34:05Speaker 1: in it. It's usually the lead singer and then maybe
- 34:07Speaker 1: the you know, like an Eddie van Halen or you
- 34:09Speaker 1: know Johnny Wassaki who just passed the drummer of Stained
- 34:13Speaker 1: Well he was the original. But so shine Down, I
- 34:17Speaker 1: remember seeing them a concert, and I'm sure you could
- 34:19Speaker 1: attest to this when when you were not the headliner,
- 34:22Speaker 1: it's it's it's a shame because like the sound like
- 34:26Speaker 1: it's just I saw Shine Down twice before they became
- 34:29Speaker 1: a headliner. And when they became a headliner, holy fuck,
- 34:32Speaker 1: what a difference. Like, you know, you get the pyrotechnics,
- 34:35Speaker 1: you get the you know, you're on the front stage,
- 34:37Speaker 1: you got you got everything going. And I remember seeing
- 34:40Speaker 1: Incubus the only time I ever saw him, and they
- 34:42Speaker 1: were one of my favorite bands. They opened for Lincoln
- 34:45Speaker 1: Park up in Mansfield, mass And I was just disappointed.
- 34:50Speaker 1: And then Lincoln Park came out and it's just the
- 34:53Speaker 1: sound is completely different. I don't understand why. I don't
- 34:56Speaker 1: know if you've noticed that when you go to concerts, like.
- 34:59Speaker 2: You know, well it's a long, long, long time ago.
- 35:03Speaker 1: I well, not that long. I'm not that old.
- 35:06Speaker 2: Tomorrow you are tomorrow stroke Gremlin, right, So it's uh,
- 35:14Speaker 2: I used to think that there was like a button,
- 35:17Speaker 2: you know, let's get that set up going for the sound.
- 35:20Speaker 2: That's not necessarily that's I've never seen that though. I
- 35:24Speaker 2: think that one's happening. Is is that somewhere along the
- 35:26Speaker 2: way maybe perhaps the opening band did headline at a
- 35:30Speaker 2: certain point or something. I inkeep it, I'm sure did.
- 35:34Speaker 1: Yeah, small this was well, this was the outdoor ving.
- 35:36Speaker 1: I mean, this is I mean, they weren't going to
- 35:38Speaker 1: be above Lincoln Park. I met was at their hype
- 35:41Speaker 1: back then.
- 35:41Speaker 2: It's which they're still massive, right, So it's you have
- 35:46Speaker 2: to be able to adjust how you perform and how
- 35:48Speaker 2: you play, specifically with your dynamics if you are going
- 35:52Speaker 2: from a headline act somewhere to actually being the opening act, right,
- 35:57Speaker 2: And dare I say you need to play less and
- 35:59Speaker 2: maybe not as much as far as loudness goes, so
- 36:03Speaker 2: because there are some opportunities and there is more space
- 36:07Speaker 2: for somebody to do more when you're headlining. You don't
- 36:09Speaker 2: have that when you're opening. So it has to be
- 36:11Speaker 2: really a succinct set with just everybody knowing when not
- 36:16Speaker 2: to play, right. That's the key.
- 36:18Speaker 1: Is this a true story? We were talking about Led Zeppelin.
- 36:21Speaker 1: I've read this and I could have it all wrong,
- 36:23Speaker 1: but I read that their first show they obviously opened
- 36:26Speaker 1: for somebody and they were so good that the other
- 36:29Speaker 1: band never came on stage and that was it. And
- 36:31Speaker 1: I've never heard it, never heard that it could be
- 36:33Speaker 1: a complete story.
- 36:35Speaker 2: Well, Zeppelin was interesting, especially in the early days though too,
- 36:38Speaker 2: and say it's true for anybody in that era. It's uh,
- 36:42Speaker 2: they weren't legends the moment they hit the stage, right,
- 36:45Speaker 2: they had to do what they had to do, and
- 36:46Speaker 2: then eventually, you know, popularity turns into mass popularity, popularity
- 36:51Speaker 2: turns into uh some more iconography, I'll use that word.
- 36:58Speaker 2: And then eventually iconography can turn into legendary status.
- 37:02Speaker 1: Right.
- 37:02Speaker 2: But you know they didn'thit the station become that a
- 37:04Speaker 2: lot of times. They really slopped through a lot of
- 37:06Speaker 2: stuff in those early days. When you check them out,
- 37:08Speaker 2: I mean, just like the early days and confused performances.
- 37:12Speaker 2: It's just like and it's it's beautiful when I say
- 37:15Speaker 2: when I say this, so it's in a superlative sense,
- 37:18Speaker 2: nobody knows what the fuck is going on, but everybody's
- 37:21Speaker 2: listening to one another and they're never going to do
- 37:22Speaker 2: it the same way twice. So, and it wasn't clean
- 37:28Speaker 2: necessarily either. There was a lot of sound and energy
- 37:32Speaker 2: being thrown around stage. So whether that intimidated another band,
- 37:37Speaker 2: I don't know. It could have it could have. Could
- 37:40Speaker 2: the other band that was supposed to go on before
- 37:41Speaker 2: them got drunken stoned and couldn't.
- 37:43Speaker 1: Performial back then? Yeah?
- 37:46Speaker 2: I know, right, dude, isn't that crazy to think? I
- 37:49Speaker 2: can't get enough of thinking about Jim Morrison getting blasted
- 37:53Speaker 2: drunk on stage and then going out there and doing
- 37:56Speaker 2: that shit, right, you know, it's a In my like
- 37:59Speaker 2: mid twenties, I would romanticize doing that kind of stuff.
- 38:02Speaker 2: I'll look back at it right now and I'm like, yo, no.
- 38:05Speaker 1: But what's crazy too, is like all these like eighties
- 38:08Speaker 1: bands and like they're all sober now, Yeah, they don't
- 38:10Speaker 1: know one drinks anymore. Like you watch the Motley Crue
- 38:13Speaker 1: doc and these guys are guzzling, you know, handles of
- 38:16Speaker 1: Jack Daniels before and after show. Funny, dude, how do
- 38:19Speaker 1: they how do they get out of that era alive?
- 38:22Speaker 2: Yes?
- 38:22Speaker 1: You know, like I mean, holy shit, this stuff business.
- 38:25Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a yeah, it's a And maybe for that reason,
- 38:30Speaker 2: I mean not really specifically talking about the drinking part,
- 38:33Speaker 2: but maybe perhaps some of the heart has been sacrificed.
- 38:36Speaker 2: Because if everybody's showing up on their own bus, with
- 38:39Speaker 2: their own lawyer, with their own entourage, your ability to
- 38:42Speaker 2: connect with your bandmates, you have all these walls around you,
- 38:45Speaker 2: it's just shut down, right, And that's that's happened with
- 38:48Speaker 2: a lot of bands because the brand becomes much bigger. Yeah,
- 38:52Speaker 2: it's it's then maybe perhaps you should let it.
- 38:55Speaker 1: Like I wonder like if this like this, you know,
- 38:58Speaker 1: you're the kids in their twenties now that are in
- 39:00Speaker 1: these big rock bands or whatever. Are are just doing
- 39:04Speaker 1: what the guys did in the eighties or are they
- 39:05Speaker 1: just more aware of what sex still though I'm sure some.
- 39:09Speaker 1: I mean, I know they're drinking, probably, but yeah, like,
- 39:11Speaker 1: the eighties was a different fucking thing. Like I'm glad
- 39:14Speaker 1: I didn't. I'm glad I grew up when I did.
- 39:16Speaker 1: Like I'm glad I was too young in the eighties
- 39:18Speaker 1: to like, I've never done cocaine in my life, and
- 39:21Speaker 1: I'm so happy for it. Like I but I just
- 39:23Speaker 1: know myself, if I was born in like the mid
- 39:25Speaker 1: sixties instead of the mid seventies, I probably would have
- 39:28Speaker 1: been involved in it because it was just everywhere. It
- 39:31Speaker 1: was everywhere everywhere. You know, it was like it was
- 39:33Speaker 1: just fucking candy. Yeah that's what you did. Yeah, you know,
- 39:36Speaker 1: it wasn't even taboo. It was out in the open.
- 39:39Speaker 2: There's an interesting thing happened in LA right now. It
- 39:42Speaker 2: might be sort of on the downturn right now at
- 39:44Speaker 2: this point, but it kind of started around twenty nineteen.
- 39:47Speaker 2: I saw it in twenty twenty when I was out
- 39:50Speaker 2: there and it was bands. Okay, do you remember that
- 39:55Speaker 2: that movie that Motley Cream made was called Dirt or Somebody?
- 39:57Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well.
- 39:58Speaker 2: That inspired a lot of folks we're in their late
- 40:02Speaker 2: twenties and thirties to do what Motley Cruze did. Not
- 40:06Speaker 2: necessarily playing in the genre, of course they did, but
- 40:10Speaker 2: also we want to do sleeves. We want to go
- 40:13Speaker 2: ahead and drink and act obnoxious. And here's the thing.
- 40:17Speaker 2: It's like, West Hollywood is not what the fuck it
- 40:20Speaker 2: was in the eighties. Yeah, I mean, it's like the rents,
- 40:23Speaker 2: the neighborhood is this is not it, right, So it's
- 40:26Speaker 2: interesting to try to transplant that kind of ego back
- 40:31Speaker 2: into something where no longer exists. It's basically like me
- 40:34Speaker 2: going down to the Lower East Side and doing coke
- 40:38Speaker 2: and trying to play ramone.
- 40:39Speaker 1: Stuff, you know what I mean.
- 40:40Speaker 2: It's CBGB's is gone. Man, too bad, it's gone, right,
- 40:44Speaker 2: but the Viper Room is still there. It's probably gonna
- 40:46Speaker 2: be there forever. Let's hope cool Place and Whiskey is
- 40:49Speaker 2: still there.
- 40:50Speaker 1: I've never been out to La you know. Hey, it's different.
- 40:54Speaker 2: It's very different. So don't get chicken because down my
- 41:01Speaker 2: only get beef for fish because I've I got chicken
- 41:04Speaker 2: there once and it was it wasn't crazy with a
- 41:07Speaker 2: chicken wrap and it wasn't don Yeah, yeah it was crazy.
- 41:11Speaker 1: Oh they've probably cooked midray out there. They're fucking weird.
- 41:15Speaker 2: Let's try something progressive.
- 41:17Speaker 1: Let's get a chicken sushi.
- 41:20Speaker 2: So yeah, it's it was weird because like, I had
- 41:22Speaker 2: this stomach bug that lasted for like a month until
- 41:26Speaker 2: one day I woke up and.
- 41:29Speaker 1: Reading chicken every day out there. What well, So, like.
- 41:33Speaker 2: My show was, I had two shows. One of them
- 41:36Speaker 2: was like a showcasey thing and then the one was
- 41:38Speaker 2: like a show show. So I got there and the
- 41:40Speaker 2: day got there, that's when I got the chicken sandwich.
- 41:42Speaker 2: The day of the show, I'm like, oh shit, my
- 41:45Speaker 2: stomach is completely fucked up. And not only that, but
- 41:48Speaker 2: I'm convinced the viper room is completely haunted because he
- 41:53Speaker 2: felt that too. I show up early to shows, so
- 41:56Speaker 2: it's like next to the guy putting the lights on
- 41:58Speaker 2: in the place, and I'm like right behind him. So
- 42:00Speaker 2: I had a chance to vibe out in there, and
- 42:02Speaker 2: I don't have any you know, special spiritual powers or
- 42:06Speaker 2: anything like that. But it's hard to sit there and
- 42:09Speaker 2: be still and not be like, what the fuck is that?
- 42:11Speaker 1: All right?
- 42:12Speaker 2: So so anyways, it took me a month to go
- 42:15Speaker 2: ahead and actually let this thing completely hit and my
- 42:18Speaker 2: wife Claire took me to the emergency room, right and
- 42:21Speaker 2: I'm just completely knocked out, and the doctor asks me,
- 42:24Speaker 2: He's like, hey, have you traveled out of the country recently?
- 42:27Speaker 2: And you know, truthfully, I'm like, well, lash, they got
- 42:34Speaker 2: so so in lo and behold. Everything kind of pointed
- 42:38Speaker 2: to that being the source.
- 42:39Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow. I mean, so I have stomach issues like
- 42:43Speaker 1: you wouldn't believe. I was actually in the hospital last
- 42:45Speaker 1: week for it, and we can't get to the bottom
- 42:47Speaker 1: of it yet. So I have some like breath tests
- 42:49Speaker 1: coming up. Damn cut out gluten and I cut out dairy.
- 42:53Speaker 2: Uh.
- 42:54Speaker 1: I should probably cut out alcohol. Actually I did last week.
- 42:56Speaker 1: Didn't even drink last week.
- 42:57Speaker 2: I'm just like, did you get an endoscopy?
- 42:59Speaker 1: I had that. I had the colonoscopy a leidoscopy about
- 43:03Speaker 1: two months ago. For us about yes, yes, men's health,
- 43:08Speaker 1: men's health. Men's health is very important. My grandfather died
- 43:12Speaker 1: of colon cancer. And never met him, and he was
- 43:15Speaker 1: very late to be detected, so you know, he didn't
- 43:18Speaker 1: have a chance back in you know, the seventies early seventies.
- 43:22Speaker 1: But yeah, I know, you know Mike Dicka, Yeah, obviously,
- 43:27Speaker 1: I remember. It always stuck out to me. He was
- 43:29Speaker 1: on Mike and the mad Dog one day that, you know,
- 43:31Speaker 1: the sports radio show that was you know, out of
- 43:34Speaker 1: New York, and they had him on. He was doing
- 43:36Speaker 1: some book tour thing and it was all about men's health,
- 43:40Speaker 1: and like, I don't know what the exact number was,
- 43:43Speaker 1: but it was like, well over seventy percent of men
- 43:46Speaker 1: just don't do the necessary pre screening stuff they need
- 43:50Speaker 1: to do, you know, whether it's a colonoscopy or even
- 43:54Speaker 1: an endoscopy or whatever. Like they just they just think
- 43:56Speaker 1: they're you know, invincible. You know, you're not, you know.
- 44:01Speaker 1: And I was cleared for seven years with my colonoscopy,
- 44:04Speaker 1: you know, and they cut out a little poll up
- 44:06Speaker 1: because everything was non cancerous. So knock on wood there,
- 44:08Speaker 1: which is standard.
- 44:09Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're you're you're in like the green you're young.
- 44:12Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, come back in seven years, we'll do
- 44:14Speaker 1: another one.
- 44:14Speaker 2: Cool.
- 44:15Speaker 1: Okay, cool, But there's a lot of things you can do,
- 44:17Speaker 1: you know, for pre screening of a lot of stuff.
- 44:19Speaker 1: And I think that's what happens with men, is they
- 44:22Speaker 1: just they're too macho or they're just too inconvenienced. And
- 44:26Speaker 1: you've been there myself.
- 44:28Speaker 2: Yeah around they need to be you know.
- 44:32Speaker 1: But yeah, it's a it's a actually know what you
- 44:35Speaker 1: said that I'd be a great topic for a whole
- 44:36Speaker 1: show is just talk about men's.
- 44:38Speaker 2: Health absolutely, you know, you know, and and bringing that
- 44:41Speaker 2: to some sponsors and saying this is a thing. You know, Uh,
- 44:45Speaker 2: it's okay if people are uncomfortable about it, that's okay.
- 44:48Speaker 1: I have my doctor on you know that.
- 44:50Speaker 2: You know incredible you could save a life literally. Isn't
- 44:54Speaker 2: that amazing that you actually do that?
- 44:56Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow Yeah all right, so let's change change gears
- 45:01Speaker 1: a little bit. But before we do, I know you're
- 45:03Speaker 1: a big beer guy. Uh you're always trying. I mean
- 45:07Speaker 1: we're not like we don't have too many fancy stuff
- 45:09Speaker 1: at stone Bridge, you know, but we got the locals.
- 45:11Speaker 1: But what are some of your favorite breweries locally in
- 45:16Speaker 1: New England or nationally? Like, what's your like? I gotta
- 45:20Speaker 1: have that beer if this bar has it what is it?
- 45:22Speaker 1: Are you an I p a guy? Yeah?
- 45:25Speaker 2: Like summers as well. Thankfully my wife is equally into injury.
- 45:31Speaker 2: Really good beers too. We were up in Boston this
- 45:34Speaker 2: past weekend and we went to Democracy Brewing, which that
- 45:40Speaker 2: is across on a side street from Boston Common. Okay,
- 45:44Speaker 2: so a little further on in North Boston there. Incredible place. Yeah,
- 45:49Speaker 2: it's just everything we had was really great. Did the
- 45:51Speaker 2: flights and then we really just kind of enjoyed it.
- 45:54Speaker 1: Did they have like a conservative and a liberal beer?
- 45:58Speaker 1: That so nice?
- 46:00Speaker 2: A way to break down the wall, right, red beer
- 46:03Speaker 2: and bluer? Yeah, right, Jeremy, you have the answer right there.
- 46:08Speaker 1: Yeah, that might be a Democracy brewing, My god.
- 46:11Speaker 2: Absolutely, just bring people together.
- 46:13Speaker 1: And then they can have like a Trump one. It's
- 46:15Speaker 1: called the End of Democracy. Threat, threat to Democracy. Sorry,
- 46:20Speaker 1: threat to democracy sounds like a movie with yeah, yeah yeah.
- 46:26Speaker 1: Remember all his movies were three words, you know, like
- 46:28Speaker 1: above the law whatever, like.
- 46:31Speaker 2: His name is in between the titles. They were perfect
- 46:35Speaker 2: is above the law is marked for.
- 46:39Speaker 1: God. Those are some good movies growing up. Oh my
- 46:42Speaker 1: god was the best. He got a little wacky though, too,
- 46:46Speaker 1: so Democracy Brewing locally. Are you a fan of love it.
- 46:50Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, those guys are those guys are awesome, totally.
- 46:54Speaker 2: Two Roads is fantastic too. We had a couple of
- 46:57Speaker 2: smaller ones that were around for a little while. It
- 46:59Speaker 2: seems like maybe that kind of died out a little bit.
- 47:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the survival of these places had they
- 47:03Speaker 1: have to have a beer garden. Like if you're going
- 47:05Speaker 1: to be smaller, like, you just have to. You have to.
- 47:08Speaker 1: You have to generate your money through selling it retail. Yeah,
- 47:12Speaker 1: you know, not all sale.
- 47:13Speaker 2: It's true things.
- 47:14Speaker 1: Why a lot of these guys went away.
- 47:15Speaker 2: Yeah, they Elaborates just closed and I was upstate and
- 47:19Speaker 2: they were really good. I really like them. So from Milford,
- 47:25Speaker 2: it's I'm proud to say that we have tribes here
- 47:28Speaker 2: like they're just they make such great stuff and what
- 47:30Speaker 2: a great vibe and been a witchcraft. I haven't been
- 47:35Speaker 2: a witchcraft.
- 47:36Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is uh. I had the guitars from
- 47:38Speaker 1: Hate Breed on. Yeah, he was one of my first
- 47:40Speaker 1: big catches.
- 47:41Speaker 2: Cool.
- 47:42Speaker 1: Yeah, so we autographed a bunch of cans. I drove
- 47:44Speaker 1: up there and picked up a case and it's actually,
- 47:47Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not a huge beer guy, but they're
- 47:49Speaker 1: they're still around. I'm pretty sure right that was. They
- 47:51Speaker 1: had a big they had a big thing going. They
- 47:53Speaker 1: had a beer a they actually did have a beer garden.
- 47:55Speaker 1: This is like right around COVID too, so we kind
- 47:57Speaker 1: of had that.
- 47:57Speaker 2: Yeah. See that's the bitch of it right there. I mean,
- 48:00Speaker 2: it's like it's unfortunate that some of these places took
- 48:03Speaker 2: such a hit that they weren't able to recover, right,
- 48:05Speaker 2: And that's that's a shame. But if they love it,
- 48:08Speaker 2: hopefully they'll find their way back. To me.
- 48:10Speaker 1: Trivis was was pretty new when COVID hit. Yeah, it's it's.
- 48:14Speaker 2: Year or two at that point.
- 48:16Speaker 1: It's so wacky to think just just four years ago,
- 48:19Speaker 1: just four years ago as well.
- 48:21Speaker 2: I gotta gotta mention.
- 48:23Speaker 1: And I mean, you get the good pizza with the beer,
- 48:26Speaker 1: perfect combo.
- 48:27Speaker 2: The Jeff Browning is great, a stellar brewmeister, and.
- 48:31Speaker 1: You go right to a nice show. Yeah, you know
- 48:34Speaker 1: over at the one of the two arenas there.
- 48:36Speaker 2: Yeah, incredible place.
- 48:38Speaker 1: I think Trivis is probably, like, you know, my heart
- 48:40Speaker 1: is with Trivis and Matt and those guys like I
- 48:43Speaker 1: just you know, I worked with Map for years at Stonebridge.
- 48:45Speaker 1: He was he was our sous chef before he went
- 48:47Speaker 1: off to brew school. Nice. Yeah, and I think he was.
- 48:51Speaker 1: I don't know if he invented Sea Hag, but he
- 48:54Speaker 1: was one of the head brewers for Sea Hag and amazing.
- 48:58Speaker 1: Yeah and uh and him and the two other guys,
- 49:01Speaker 1: uh farm Travis.
- 49:02Speaker 2: Do you remember Cast Republic and New Haven?
- 49:04Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 49:05Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like is that not there anymore? Sadly?
- 49:09Speaker 1: The place was huge though. I can't imagine what the
- 49:11Speaker 1: rent was there. It was it took you a half
- 49:14Speaker 1: hour walk back to the bathroom.
- 49:17Speaker 2: It was. It was long as hell.
- 49:18Speaker 1: And I'd stopped and look at all the wine and yeah, right,
- 49:21Speaker 1: I had all this really ship. Yeah.
- 49:23Speaker 2: So that's what got my wife and I into craft beers.
- 49:28Speaker 2: That was on the recommendation of a friend that we
- 49:29Speaker 2: should go. And we went there and they had main
- 49:32Speaker 2: lunch on tap and uh we.
- 49:35Speaker 1: Had that at Stonemas now just you know, incredible inside
- 49:38Speaker 1: inside weekend for sure.
- 49:40Speaker 2: Hell im, I'd even go later.
- 49:42Speaker 1: So that's your birthday, pre birthday?
- 49:44Speaker 2: Why not?
- 49:45Speaker 1: Right it? Girls get a month at least get a
- 49:46Speaker 1: couple of days, right, I got yeah, yeah, absolutely, give.
- 49:49Speaker 2: The men a hand. So it's uh so we had
- 49:52Speaker 2: that and it was like, what the hell is this?
- 49:55Speaker 1: Uh?
- 49:56Speaker 2: And how do we get more of it? Up to
- 49:58Speaker 2: that point, so this this had to have been like
- 50:02Speaker 2: twenty fifteen. I'm guessing I was strictly into German and
- 50:07Speaker 2: Belgian beers.
- 50:08Speaker 1: So was that a phase of your life?
- 50:11Speaker 2: It was like two years I got it. I got
- 50:13Speaker 2: a journal and I journaled all of this stuff. Yeah,
- 50:16Speaker 2: And I was like, these Europeans just know the ship,
- 50:19Speaker 2: and they do so when it comes to like the Donkels,
- 50:21Speaker 2: when it comes to the Heffies and the whip Beers,
- 50:23Speaker 2: he just that's the spot. Uh so uh or the
- 50:27Speaker 2: Saisons even they're just really great. But this whole movement,
- 50:32Speaker 2: like an American craft beer just we've got an identity. Yeah,
- 50:36Speaker 2: you know, we could actually hang with the big guys
- 50:38Speaker 2: right now because what we have and we're putting out
- 50:40Speaker 2: is pretty serious shit, right.
- 50:42Speaker 1: You know. They're getting the ingredients, they're good ingredients.
- 50:44Speaker 2: They need to Yeah, people care. Yeah, it's a it's
- 50:46Speaker 2: a craft.
- 50:47Speaker 1: Actually a lot of the equipment is coming from overseas too,
- 50:49Speaker 1: like that they all use over there. Cool. A lot
- 50:51Speaker 1: of these guys are getting it from Europe and Germany
- 50:53Speaker 1: and nice all all this Stuffy didn't Dan Zeke you
- 50:56Speaker 1: know damn. Yeah, he's been on the show.
- 50:58Speaker 2: Who doesn't know Dan, right, I mean, he's just he's
- 51:00Speaker 2: like Kevin Baker.
- 51:01Speaker 1: I think he's in Thailand and the year but yeah
- 51:04Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, he's eating pad tie or something and
- 51:09Speaker 1: he must have a wife over there he hasn't told
- 51:11Speaker 1: us about yet.
- 51:12Speaker 2: Yeah, God bless. Yeah, so I saw that he He
- 51:16Speaker 2: did like a beer trail some time ago when he
- 51:19Speaker 2: was working one of the local brewers. He went out
- 51:21Speaker 2: there and it was like, that's that's it. You know,
- 51:23Speaker 2: you know what you're doing here. You're gonna go ahead
- 51:25Speaker 2: and see what the masters did back then somehow put
- 51:28Speaker 2: this together and whatever which way, Yeah, bam, here we are.
- 51:31Speaker 1: Yeah, now Dan's Dan's I remember him well. I met
- 51:35Speaker 1: him a while back, but I remember he was two
- 51:36Speaker 1: roads and yeah two roads now, I don't I don't
- 51:39Speaker 1: know if he was working for a distributor. Last I
- 51:43Speaker 1: saw him a couple of years ago, he was at
- 51:45Speaker 1: the casino. I'm not sure if he's I think it
- 51:48Speaker 1: was with maybe Breast and Bartman or something. I think
- 51:51Speaker 1: he was guy and then the in the beer, the
- 51:53Speaker 1: beer division of it. Yeah, the guy knows his stuff,
- 51:55Speaker 1: and actually a little shout out to Dan he does.
- 51:57Speaker 1: He does a food you tube channel where he does
- 52:01Speaker 1: he does these food reviews and a lot of them
- 52:03Speaker 1: happened to be in Thailand because guy's always there. But
- 52:08Speaker 1: I got to get to Thailand. I think your dollar
- 52:10Speaker 1: stretches pretty well out there.
- 52:11Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, yeah.
- 52:15Speaker 1: I mean, your marriage should probably keep to sit that
- 52:17Speaker 1: one out. But if you're single, I'd go to Thailand.
- 52:20Speaker 2: The lawlessness of Thailand.
- 52:21Speaker 1: What's what one more music question? What's one of the craziest,
- 52:24Speaker 1: coolest places you ever played? Like outside of the Viper
- 52:28Speaker 1: from I would say that's probably was a pretty sick
- 52:30Speaker 1: place to play.
- 52:31Speaker 2: You know. It's the Viper Room. If I could draw
- 52:33Speaker 2: a comparison, is not that different looking inside than Daniel Street.
- 52:37Speaker 1: Really just the same kind of setup.
- 52:39Speaker 2: It's a similar south.
- 52:40Speaker 1: The stage isn't like Mass is younger.
- 52:42Speaker 2: It might I be a little bit smaller, really wild
- 52:45Speaker 2: to think, right, yeah, yeah, And here's the big difference
- 52:47Speaker 2: between I'm gonna share with it, between La and anything
- 52:50Speaker 2: on the East coast. Right, So now imagine Daniel Street, right,
- 52:53Speaker 2: you got your stage, you have your bar, right, then
- 52:56Speaker 2: you have your boots that kind of go along the side, right, Yeah,
- 52:58Speaker 2: Now the viper room has boots. But what makes it,
- 53:01Speaker 2: what reminds you that you're in LA, is that there's
- 53:04Speaker 2: a little placard on each boot that says two thousand
- 53:08Speaker 2: dollars reservation. Yeah, three thousand dollars reservation. Right, So if
- 53:12Speaker 2: you want to stay in these boots and hang out, hey,
- 53:14Speaker 2: you gotta drop some.
- 53:15Speaker 1: Dope, right, which, well, I mean all the stars go there, right,
- 53:18Speaker 1: they have their own private tables.
- 53:20Speaker 2: I suppose. So what's what's wacky about it though, is
- 53:23Speaker 2: that everybody is so close together that you could be
- 53:26Speaker 2: in your booth, but you're like an arm's length away
- 53:30Speaker 2: from like the next person standing next to you. So
- 53:32Speaker 2: it's it's totally just like a weird LA thing.
- 53:35Speaker 1: I guess.
- 53:35Speaker 2: You know, people if they have the money, maybe they
- 53:38Speaker 2: just like to spend it. You know.
- 53:40Speaker 1: It's it's insane, every buddy. It was just in mon
- 53:42Speaker 1: Talk and it was like fifty thousand dollars cover charge
- 53:45Speaker 1: to get in because fifty cent was there. It's a
- 53:47Speaker 1: lot that's just to get in.
- 53:48Speaker 2: I get the fifty part.
- 53:50Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, fifty bucks a couple. I'm like what.
- 53:56Speaker 1: It's just there's just some really dumb money out there,
- 53:58Speaker 1: dumb money, just people just fucking don't care good when
- 54:02Speaker 1: they spend it on my fifty dollars I'm putting down
- 54:05Speaker 1: on a house signing I spend it. No, no, no,
- 54:11Speaker 1: all right, So, uh, we're gonna we're gonna wrap this
- 54:14Speaker 1: up the second part a little quicker because that was
- 54:17Speaker 1: a great conversation. Mark, that was awesome. I love, I love. Now.
- 54:20Speaker 1: It's fine. That's what you're here, that's why you're here.
- 54:25Speaker 1: So they did a prisoner swap today, Okay, Uh it
- 54:28Speaker 1: was the Wall Street Journal reporter that was this is
- 54:30Speaker 1: Russia and the United States. It was the Wall Street Journal, uh,
- 54:35Speaker 1: reporter and then another guy forget who it was that
- 54:37Speaker 1: was supposed to be in like the Britney grinder deal
- 54:39Speaker 1: a year ago.
- 54:40Speaker 2: Oh I remember that.
- 54:41Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't really have too much to say
- 54:45Speaker 1: on it. But what I do know is is that
- 54:47Speaker 1: we haven't released on what we swapped, and so we
- 54:51Speaker 1: don't know if it was, you know, another fucking wacky
- 54:54Speaker 1: arms dealer. We don't know, if it was some terrorists,
- 54:57Speaker 1: we don't know. They just the White House is not
- 54:59Speaker 1: reporting on who we swapped to get these two people back.
- 55:02Speaker 1: I'm glad they're home, but I feel like this is
- 55:05Speaker 1: the problem, Like this we we become such a weak
- 55:08Speaker 1: country because we like we we literally gave the butcher
- 55:12Speaker 1: of bad Yeah yeah, yeah, like for a basketball player,
- 55:17Speaker 1: like like now, now we did the world know. It's
- 55:19Speaker 1: like all right, if we capture some you know, old hostage,
- 55:22Speaker 1: some higher ups over in America, we're gonna get our
- 55:25Speaker 1: guys back, and so it's free game. Like I would
- 55:28Speaker 1: not recommend going to Russia right now, No, no, no,
- 55:32Speaker 1: it is. It's a I mean from you know, beautiful
- 55:34Speaker 1: area of Moscow and all that, but I just that
- 55:38Speaker 1: would not stay.
- 55:38Speaker 2: Away, Yes, yeah, that would stay away definitely.
- 55:43Speaker 1: And this this one really got to me today. There's
- 55:45Speaker 1: a lot of news today, so I'm gonna get you
- 55:46Speaker 1: caught up here with me, please.
- 55:48Speaker 2: Yeah. I was telling Jeremy before we started that I
- 55:51Speaker 2: did not watch or listen to any news, maybe more
- 55:54Speaker 2: than just today. Uh so, so these will be genuine reactions.
- 55:58Speaker 1: Okay, perfect. The three guys that are in Guantanamo, Obey,
- 56:03Speaker 1: that were the masterminds of nine to eleven, have the
- 56:07Speaker 1: US has come to a plea deal with them so
- 56:10Speaker 1: they will not face the death penalty. Now, these three
- 56:13Speaker 1: are responsible for three thousand deaths on nine to eleven
- 56:17Speaker 1: and probably a million more do the wars that it caused.
- 56:23Speaker 1: They've been on trial since two thousand and three, jeez,
- 56:26Speaker 1: twenty one fucking years. What are we doing here? Like
- 56:31Speaker 1: what the fuck are we doing? Like we can.
- 56:33Speaker 3: Fucking bring Trump to trial and fucking get him convicted
- 56:37Speaker 3: in less than fucking four months, and these guys have
- 56:41Speaker 3: been on trial for twenty one years. We've fed them,
- 56:43Speaker 3: we've housed them, and now we're gonna continue to do so.
- 56:48Speaker 3: Like I'm not here or there on a death penalty,
- 56:51Speaker 3: but I'm sorry, you're the mastermind of nine to eleven.
- 56:55Speaker 1: I don't think we need to pay for you to live.
- 56:58Speaker 2: I just I see what what?
- 57:00Speaker 1: What? What? What took so long? Like why why is
- 57:03Speaker 1: why are these guys sitting here for twenty one years?
- 57:05Speaker 2: There might be a lot of stuff we don't know.
- 57:07Speaker 1: Right, Like the police and the George Floyd trial, they
- 57:10Speaker 1: were just bump gone, see you you're going You're own
- 57:12Speaker 1: a prison. These three, like these three are fucking still
- 57:16Speaker 1: running the system. I thought Obama got rid of fucking Guantanamo.
- 57:21Speaker 2: To Actually it was one of his things.
- 57:23Speaker 1: Apparently, I guess not, but I don't guess.
- 57:25Speaker 2: We're kind of hanging around.
- 57:26Speaker 1: Yeah, they're hanging around intad they're getting released, he said, No,
- 57:29Speaker 1: they're not getting released. They're just not getting the death penalty.
- 57:32Speaker 1: So we get some taxpayers get to pay for them
- 57:34Speaker 1: to live the rest of their lives out in prison. No,
- 57:37Speaker 1: they're not getting out, but they were going to be
- 57:40Speaker 1: put to death, and they reached what's the plea deal?
- 57:44Speaker 1: What were they gonna admit to? What are they gonna
- 57:46Speaker 1: admit to? Like what? Man?
- 57:48Speaker 2: I have no idea.
- 57:49Speaker 1: I just did like a whole nine to eleven fucking
- 57:50Speaker 1: thing a couple like a month ago. And it's just
- 57:52Speaker 1: like just infuriated me when I read it today, Like
- 57:55Speaker 1: what is really going on here? What is really going on?
- 57:58Speaker 2: Asks a great question?
- 57:59Speaker 1: What's going on? Like I I don't understand it? Uh,
- 58:04Speaker 1: it is what it is? I guess, I don't know.
- 58:05Speaker 1: I mean, you're asking a question.
- 58:07Speaker 2: If it doesn't make sense, then there's likely submiss I thought.
- 58:10Speaker 1: I thought, like like like bush in you know, right
- 58:14Speaker 1: after nine to eleven, you know, think about all the
- 58:17Speaker 1: all the laws that were pasted that are intrusive on
- 58:20Speaker 1: our lives because of nine to eleven. You know, the
- 58:23Speaker 1: homeland security was developed. Uh you know, basically we gotta
- 58:28Speaker 1: what one guys say, we got to take off her
- 58:30Speaker 1: shoes and do a dance just to get on an airplane.
- 58:33Speaker 1: You know, you know there's a long realist of ship.
- 58:36Speaker 1: You know, they basically spy on us.
- 58:37Speaker 2: You know, I can't imagine the world otherwise now without
- 58:40Speaker 2: getting checked in the airport like we do, and to
- 58:43Speaker 2: think that yeah, all.
- 58:43Speaker 1: Right, yeah, there we go, yeah with a cigarette, with
- 58:47Speaker 1: a cigarette and oh yeah that happened. Yeah, that was
- 58:49Speaker 1: the that was the thing. Actually, we used to we
- 58:51Speaker 1: used to be able to. My parents were divorced, so
- 58:53Speaker 1: I lived when I was really young, so I lived
- 58:55Speaker 1: in Pennsylvania for a while. So I used to take
- 58:57Speaker 1: this little puddle jumper back and forth in Massachusetts to
- 58:59Speaker 1: see my They're cool. And you used to like you
- 59:02Speaker 1: used to be able to walk your friend, your wife,
- 59:06Speaker 1: your kid, whatever, all the way to the gate. Like
- 59:09Speaker 1: you used to be able to walk to the gate
- 59:11Speaker 1: and say goodbye or meet than at the gate as
- 59:14Speaker 1: they get off. Now it's you gotta wait on the
- 59:17Speaker 1: other side of security.
- 59:18Speaker 2: Yeah, but it wasn't the big thing.
- 59:20Speaker 1: We don't negotiate with terrorists. Whatever happened to that?
- 59:22Speaker 2: Who said that? I said, yeah, yeah, I did hearing that.
- 59:28Speaker 1: I just don't understand what we what do we plead
- 59:30Speaker 1: dealing there.
- 59:31Speaker 2: I'm not defending anybody by saying I suppose I.
- 59:34Speaker 1: Didn't say it never. Yeah, I think. I think this
- 59:37Speaker 1: is just a lot of political moves in Biden's last
- 59:40Speaker 1: far five months or whatever he's got left, and I
- 59:42Speaker 1: just there's.
- 59:42Speaker 2: A lot going on. We don't not going on. Yeah, yeah,
- 59:44Speaker 2: it seems I tried to think of it too much.
- 59:47Speaker 2: I have a couple of friends that really spend a
- 59:50Speaker 2: lot of time thinking about it, and you could tell
- 59:52Speaker 2: the weight of the world is on their shoulders every
- 59:54Speaker 2: time you see them.
- 59:54Speaker 1: Yeah. So, no, there's there's a There is definitely some
- 59:59Speaker 1: I don't want to call it ignoran, but there's there
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: is bliss and some ignorance. You know. Uh, I wish
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: I didn't read some of the ship I do. I
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: probably just go out with my life a little easier.
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: You have a family and kids, Uh, well I have
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: a girlfriend and her son, so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: so I got that, and.
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: Uh, you have an investment.
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: I worry about him. In other words, you know, I
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: worry about him more than you know, anything else really,
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: because you know, he's fourteen, he's he's going to be
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: a freshman at platte, he's gonna be playing football, and
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: I just I just worry about everyone his age or
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: kids just growing up now.
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: But he's got you, you know.
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: Yeah, but I can't always watch them. I can't always
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck he's watching on TikTok
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: and Instagram.
- 1:00:36Speaker 2: Yeah that does change things a little bit, right, Yeah, Yeah.
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: I mean when you when you and I were growing up,
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: we'd actually have to call the girl's house talk to
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: the mom to talk to the girl we wanted to
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: go out a date with. I.
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: I really didn't like talking to the father I was.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: I was tough, Yeah, it was really tough.
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: My high school girlfriend, her father was a fucking mean
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: old dan, was he.
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: I tend to fucking soften everybody up, but yeah, he was.
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: He was rough in the beginning. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: respectful what they want to hear? All Right, So I've
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: been on this topic since I started this podcast almost
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: got three and a half years ago, and it really
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: came to a head. Today in the Olympics, there's a
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: women's boxing there was an Italian boxer, Angela Karini, she's
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: obviously a women's Italian boxer, and she was going up
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: against Amani Khalif. I'm probably botching that name. Amani Khalif
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: was suspended from boxing last year in the World Championships
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: because she tested too high on Testostero. So this person
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: is a man and they had a match today or
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: late last night, and I think it kind of kind
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: of made the mainstream earlier today. And she punched her
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: so hard that she gave up this the Angela, the
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: Italian boxer, she gave up threw in the towel forty
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: six seconds into the fight. Oh, she said, I've never
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: been hit that hard ever before.
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: Wow.
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: I've trained my whole life for this.
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: And twenty six seconds forty six seconds, Wow, that's wild.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like.
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: The fight literally started to.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: Get at most and she fucking said she feared for
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: her life and she refused to shake hands with the person.
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: I don't blame her. And it has started by the
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: way it's went through she the week. This has started
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: a fire storm on the internet. It's really insane. And
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: I have been on trans or men in women's sports
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: since day one. I have defended women. I don't know
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: where the women's rights activists are in this. They don't.
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: They seem to cower when these topics come up. I
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: think it's just the most common sensical thing that if
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: you are a man and you cannot compete at a
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: level that is competitive with other men, and you need
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: to become a woman to compete with women in a
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: sport of boxing. There is such mental health questions here
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: and how it is allowed at the Olympic level is
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: a mockery to women's sports in my opinion, and should
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: never be allowed. It shouldn't even I don't understand why
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: it's even a fucking thing. And the outpouring for this
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: lady is unbelievable though, like literally like or the Italian
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: the actual woman who got beat I think to the
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: through in the towel, because she got punched, her nose
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: almost got broken, she got punched in the face twice,
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: and she was like, I've you know, she boxes with
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: women and now she's boxing with a biological male. And
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: she said she'd never gotten hit so hard in her life.
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: In the Olympics, and the outpouring on the internet is crazy,
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: like there's there's somebody started to go on me page
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: to try to raise money for her if she had
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: won gold, like she was derailed by a man to
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: get to her lifelong dream of competing for a gold
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: Mellaling Olympics. And she was the name of the other
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: boxer uh Amani Khalif Amani Amani a money okay? Cool?
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: So I when I refer to Amani, then I'll say Amani.
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: And with the Italian girl, what's her name?
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: Her name is Angela Karini, Angela yes versus Angela yes? Yeah?
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: So uh, Like I said, I've been talking about this
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: topic for a long time. You know, it hits home
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: in Connecticut. There was the famous uh Trands that was
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: competing in track and field in high school and was
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: beaten girls and girls went to the Supreme Court of
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: Connecticut and tried to I think they I think they won.
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: I think the band in the band is in Connecticut.
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: I do believe in a lot of inclusivity with with
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: with everything in the world, but you have to draw
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: a line in something like this. I just don't. I
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: just again, like there's UFC fight well not UFC. There
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: are MMA fighters that are biological men in women's brackets,
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: that are putting girls in stretchers. You know, like imagine
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: training for the Olympics your whole life. You're a woman,
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: and you get you get the call you're the best
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: Italian boxer, women's boxer, you get the Olympics and your
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: first opponent is a biological mail and pummels the fuck
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: out of you.
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: Ideally, it'd be nice if she beats the ship on them.
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: That would have been awesome. But this isn't you know,
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: Billy Jean and King versus whatever that guy was back
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: in the day. You know what I mean? You know,
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: so this is I don't know that's I mean this
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: person there's so I do Douche of the week. This
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: is on a multi level. It's not just this person
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: that is the box or she was allowed to box,
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: so I can't put it all on her. This goes
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: into the IOC, This goes into the people that govern
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: this ship. How do you let this happen?
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: So you women respec Yeah, if you don't, you don't
- 1:06:01Speaker 2: have to.
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: You want to stay out of this topic, feel free?
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: Does amani and I have I have no answers here,
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: So I really I have more questions than anything. Yeah, uh,
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: I know someone who's trands and them actually telling me
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: they were was. I mean, it didn't bother me either way,
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: and it's just because you know, I care for the
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: individual and which way, So I never really saw like
- 1:06:31Speaker 2: or what wasn't looking for a transition to me, this
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: person was always cool, always will be cool, and that's
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: you know. And I received a letter from her parent
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: after she told me that she she is female, and
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: it was it was a long letter of like, this
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: person was in an incredible amount of pain and suffering
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: being in a body that didn't deserve or didn't want.
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: We'll say, you know, I don't know what it's like
- 1:07:04Speaker 2: to be trance, and I don't know what it's barely
- 1:07:07Speaker 2: like to be anyone else except you know, compassion goes
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: a long way in space. Space and compassion. Now we
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: pose this question, does Amani And this whether it's yes
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: or no, is irrelevant almost, but it could lead us
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: down a different path. Does Amani actually think truthfully heart
- 1:07:27Speaker 2: and soul and his or her entirety? However you want
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: to use your prono on there, uh that she is
- 1:07:35Speaker 2: a he or she is a woman. Does she actually
- 1:07:38Speaker 2: believe this completely?
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: Well, I can't get into that person's head, right, So
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: I don't.
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: Know, right, But that's that's the start of it, right
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: And I agree with that. How we react to it
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: and is very individual and very different with the organization.
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: I can say this, that person probably has it in
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: her head that they are female.
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: Completely and totally right, just like I believe that, Jeremy.
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: But they also know that they were born a male
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: and they wanted out of that body, right, they wanted
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: out of that Okay, Okay, you can't tell me that
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: they are competing in a sport where she is a
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: biological male beating up a woman and it's cheered upon
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: in the stickings. Is the fucking wacky world we live
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: in right now?
- 1:08:29Speaker 2: But does she believe I don't buy it.
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: I believe she believes she's a woman.
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So does Amani also believe then that she
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: is strong enough or at the level of a woman
- 1:08:43Speaker 2: wholeheartedly too? In other words, is the intention to I
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: have more power because I'm a man, so that I'm
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: not going to beat up a woman? Is that there?
- 1:08:56Speaker 2: Or is it ignorance on potential ignorance that I do
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: believe that I should be competing with a woman, because
- 1:09:03Speaker 2: that's really at the level that I'm at. See, the
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: question of intent is could change how these well, okay
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: or guidelines might work.
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: Right. Well, let's look at Lea Thomas. So Lea Thomas
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: was a male swimmer for the University of Pennsylvania. Okay, okay,
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: he was average at best, never won shit, transitions in
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: the off season to a woman and starts beating and
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: winning gold medals and was eventually not allowed to go
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: to the Olympics. A person like that, to me on
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: the outside looking in, says to me they know exactly
- 1:09:37Speaker 1: what they're fucking doing. And in the sport of boxing boxing,
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: like were you a man transitioning to a woman to
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: become a boxer? We female boxer? That is a niche sport.
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: But even though you and I share a similar common
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: sense because of our background, not everybody shares the same
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: common sense and how they actually view the world themselves
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: and themselves in it. So when we look at this situation,
- 1:10:14Speaker 2: we can't help it to look at it from a
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: conditioned point of view. Same for them, they have a
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: different conditioning because they came up in a different environment
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: with different people. Now, I'm not saying it's right or wrong,
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: or they should or shouldn't compete or not compete. That's
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: not even that's the result. The confusion that happens when
- 1:10:33Speaker 2: I'm actually doing this is the result of us not
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: having a meeting of the minds, because nowhere along the way,
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: no individuals can you know, I'll tell you this, I'm
- 1:10:43Speaker 2: lucky if you want to call it lucky, you want
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: to call it synchronicity, that's great. I like that one
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: to be able to come across a lot of people
- 1:10:52Speaker 2: that are very different from myself. And the difference is
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: in you know, flesh and blood. The difference is condition
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: and behavior and what would be a developed common sense
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: right morals. I mean, that's you know, that's that's also
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: a separate issue that we could talk about. But everybody
- 1:11:09Speaker 2: seems to be living within the realm of relative morals.
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: But if we could figure out a way to have
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: meeting of the minds here and see what the intent is,
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: to see how we could accommodate somehow, I mean, I know, accommodation.
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: Why not just make the trans division.
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: That sounds like maybe perhaps that could work I think that,
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: and I don't. Again, I don't follow the news, so
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: I don't know how this came across. But you know
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: what it came across, because I'm supposed to know this
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: piece of information right now. Otherwise I don't know why
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: I know it. I because again I barely watched the
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: news anymore. But Caitlyn Jenner, right, Bruce Jenner, Yeah, right,
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: so here sheet. However you choose to identify.
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: Make sure you use your pronouns. You know, a.
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: Smile goes a long way. You know, I'm a big
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: fan of a smile.
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: And coc and a smile.
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: So I believe that she the he was championing a
- 1:12:08Speaker 2: trans league in Jersey. So it's so some of those folks,
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: some of those folks.
- 1:12:13Speaker 1: Well, she is conservative as well. She is also she's
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: on Fox News all the time. She she rails against
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: this stuff, being an Olympic athlete as well.
- 1:12:23Speaker 2: Perhaps maybe that Caitlyn Jenner could be some sort of
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: conduit between these two completely different parties.
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: Now, should Lebron James go put on a dress and
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: play against the women, well, well, I mean big dress.
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: Well he's got big Aaron judging person is huge monster.
- 1:12:42Speaker 2: He is it looks really cool to see because I
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: saw some really cool and I'm a Red Sox fan.
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: But it's not Yeah you're beautiful, Red Sox.
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: Amazing game.
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: Back to your back to your your original question you
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: posed back to me about like does does the person know? See?
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: This is where I get into like the mental health
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: part of this, because, as you say, they were born
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: like your friend right yes, was born was born a male? Yes,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: and was in the wrong body right yes. Okay, Now
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: this is going to sound cynical and more comedic than
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: anything else, but like I want to be six or
- 1:13:16Speaker 1: five chiseled and fucking play football, you know what I mean? Like,
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: this is the hand I was dealt. This is what
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: I got it. So when trans people need to change
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: their sexual identity, I'm fine with it. I really am.
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: I could care less. It's when you push it upon
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: other people and is it. Let's say she thinks she's
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: okay in that ring with that lady, right MONI is
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: in the ring with Angela today and she thinks she
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: belongs there, she should be there. That to me is
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: where the mental health issue comes in, because if she
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: truly believes that something's wrong in my world in my world.
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: You have a good point on that, and I think
- 1:13:58Speaker 2: that's where the meeting in the mind is because what
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: we have to do is is that, first off, it'd's
- 1:14:04Speaker 2: so fucking cool if everybody dropped every fucking label.
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: And just was right.
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: That's not gonna happen, sadly anytime soon, because it seems
- 1:14:12Speaker 2: as if there's just more labels on top of labels,
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: because when you look deep inside the person, it's not
- 1:14:17Speaker 2: what you see, it's what you don't see that really matters,
- 1:14:20Speaker 2: and that's really what never goes away. I know that
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: everybody fucking say it in this term. Everybody, a lot
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: of folks seem to right now have a boner for
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: really just using lots of labels to describe themselves.
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: The first time boner I think it has ever been
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: fucking said on this show.
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: Put her in the books, but it's a I don't
- 1:14:40Speaker 2: see that being a good thing. But that doesn't matter
- 1:14:43Speaker 2: what my opinion is, because it's just an opinion. But
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: the one thing that could change things is maybe as
- 1:14:52Speaker 2: hard as it could be because it goes against our
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: conditioning behavior and what we view as our own common sense,
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: which common sense a lot of times is a very
- 1:14:59Speaker 2: per personal point of view as well. If we don't
- 1:15:05Speaker 2: judge it, which is so fucking hard to do sometimes,
- 1:15:09Speaker 2: and actually give it the space to work itself out somehow,
- 1:15:14Speaker 2: we might not get the answer in our lifetime. I'm
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: okay with that. If we don't, if we die with
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: more questions than answers, right, you and I, that's okay,
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: as long as we could look at each other in
- 1:15:27Speaker 2: the eye and maybe give a fuck for a moment,
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: no matter how different we think we are, and actually
- 1:15:35Speaker 2: come to realization that we're actually not. But you're talking
- 1:15:38Speaker 2: about brass tax though you're talking about in this boxing match,
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: this person has more power than this person, and whether
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: they identify as whatever doesn't matter. This person has more
- 1:15:48Speaker 2: power than this one. Therefore they shouldn't be battling it
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: off for whatever reason. That's okay.
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: Because of genetics, okay, not because of training.
- 1:15:58Speaker 2: Cool.
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure there's some involved.
- 1:16:00Speaker 2: But some people are genetically predisposed male, female or whatever
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: to be able to be.
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: Better at chromosomes.
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: It's chromosomes, okay, It could be right. Could be that
- 1:16:09Speaker 2: I'm giving very general answers because I don't have any.
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: You and Claire have a daughter, right, Okay, Okay, if
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: we did yes, and she makes the Olympic team and
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: boxing and this happens to her, how do you feel.
- 1:16:24Speaker 2: Well, that's interesting because I would have to go through
- 1:16:27Speaker 2: an entire lifetime of being a father to go ahead
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: and be able to give you an answer on that.
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: I can't because I haven't been there.
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: Hypothetically.
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: Hypothetical is just as good as me writing a story
- 1:16:39Speaker 2: about being a father of a kid.
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: I never had write a song about it, so I
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: could write those and I.
- 1:16:46Speaker 2: And thankfully I am in deep love. So but yeah,
- 1:16:49Speaker 2: so back to the writing. And that's exactly why the
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: song our your song finished the show up gotta be
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: from a place, you know.
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you just talk so much about common
- 1:17:04Speaker 1: sense though, and that's where I think this would come in, Like,
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't, I didn't, you know, I'm not
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: Braden's father been with him for six years since he
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: was eight and now he's fourteen. And you know, it's
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: crazy because you don't see men trying to be I'm sorry,
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: you don't see women becoming men to compete in men's sports,
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: like it only goes one way. Why because they classify
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: sports between men and women. And there's a reason why
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: women's golfers are teeing off fucking forty yards ahead of
- 1:17:33Speaker 1: a male golfer. There's reasons in a lot of sports
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: why they're categorized as men versus women.
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: And our system isn't set up to accommodate the current
- 1:17:45Speaker 2: demands of what's happening right right That is probably a
- 1:17:50Speaker 2: good way to get the conversation started.
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: I don't even think there's enough trans athletes to start
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: a vision. Is it is such a it is such
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: a small personage of athletes in the world, you know,
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: like we're hand picking them, you know, like the swimmer
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: and Riley gains with Kentucki's was against the swimmer Lee
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: of Thomas and the track and field people. And now
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: there's some ma A fighters and and there's this boxer.
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: I don't even think they have I mean, if they
- 1:18:16Speaker 1: made one, would more people compete? But again, how do
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: you maybe like, are you still going to test for
- 1:18:22Speaker 1: a testosterone? Is there still going to be I mean,
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: is it is there two divisions in this Is there
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: a men's trans league and a women's trans.
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: You have amazing questions, you really really do that would
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: quite literally, I wouldn't be able to sleep at night
- 1:18:37Speaker 2: if I was asking that I swear to God, yeah,
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: and I care for you, and that my God go
- 1:18:44Speaker 2: sleep at night.
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: Because for the first of all, you know anything about
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: this ship because I can't sleep.
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: Well, okay, so.
- 1:18:49Speaker 1: It's not because of this, it's of these devices vice versa.
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: Because I can't sleep.
- 1:18:54Speaker 2: Is why I saw a special on a guy that
- 1:18:57Speaker 2: became whatever you've ever tried, no tone and everything.
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: I tried it all. Actually I do. I prescribed one.
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: The problem is like, if I really need to sleep,
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: I'll take a whole one. But there's like a fucking hangover,
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it's it sucks.
- 1:19:12Speaker 2: There was a guy I saw on a documentary or
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: a special somewhere that had severe insomna, and what he
- 1:19:17Speaker 2: decided to do is is to paint paintings on the
- 1:19:21Speaker 2: head of a pin. He would recreate like van Go
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: and Monaque, just the top.
- 1:19:27Speaker 1: Of a little pill on the top of a pin.
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: And he knew that it was just that was his
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: talent somehow. The way he's like, I can't sleep, What
- 1:19:34Speaker 2: am I going to do? Right, I'm going to go
- 1:19:35Speaker 2: ahead and recreate Starry Night on the head of a pin.
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: I can't sleep worrying about transit. No, no, no, maybe
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: maybe you could use well, you know what this this
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: whole show was because I couldn't sleep. I was just
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: tossing a tournament bed. It was right. It was during COVID.
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: I wasn't working, you know, the restaurant was shut down,
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know what, We'd been drinking a
- 1:19:56Speaker 1: lot because what else was there to do in those
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: six eight weeks we were shut down, and I.
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: Actually had fun. I'm like, yeah, it was affected very negatively.
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: Yes, there is a small part of me that misses it. Yeah,
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: the world shut down, Like the roads were clear. I
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: would literally go and I'd buy a six pack of
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: something and I would just drive the beach from Milford
- 1:20:16Speaker 1: to west even not a comping site, no one bothering me,
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: just just and just go with my thoughts. So whatever,
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: you know, so I started the show and do.
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: A special thing with the show, and you have a
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: very special base here in Milford.
- 1:20:28Speaker 1: Yea.
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: And whatever I refer to your name on the show,
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: that was to the listeners listening, just to let you know.
- 1:20:34Speaker 2: So it's not like you know, I didn't know you
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: were here, like, hey, Jeremy, but I think that everybody
- 1:20:40Speaker 2: that's listening right now we should all throw a nice, big,
- 1:20:43Speaker 2: huge party and celebrate Jeremy's show and.
- 1:20:48Speaker 1: Do something we'll do. We'll do. This is what we'll do.
- 1:20:50Speaker 1: We'll do a four year anniversary show at Trivis in January.
- 1:20:53Speaker 2: My god, that'd be great.
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what we'll do. Just like I'll talk to
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: Matt and we'll set your I'll invite all my former
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: guests and who ever can make it can make it
- 1:21:01Speaker 1: just a rock. I'm just going to fucking enjoy.
- 1:21:03Speaker 2: It absolutely that that sounds like just what a great idea,
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: you know what.
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: Thank you, Mark, Yeah, I love that idea. Forty people
- 1:21:10Speaker 1: aroun here.
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: I really love you man, and this is like, you know,
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: this is really an opportunity for us all to come together.
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: Awesome. Thank you so much for coming on the show today.
- 1:21:19Speaker 1: You're a great conversation with your music, KNOWLOGI. Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: So we're going to end the show playing gasoline fires.
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: This was released. How long ago this one was It
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: was twenty nineteen. Yeah, so this one was a little older. Okay,
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: I like this one. I had a little more I'm
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: just going to read the first lyrics before.
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: I play it, and it's about how any typos?
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: No, it says, crashing down, I'm a river breaking stones,
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: six feet very deep, but not alone breaking. Oh excuse me,
- 1:21:47Speaker 1: breathing out, setting chills right through your bones. Set my
- 1:21:50Speaker 1: prayers for these sins. I can't atone. I'm a gasoline fire.
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: Not much that you can do. I'm a gasoline fire,
- 1:21:56Speaker 1: and baby, I've burned for you. Wow. That's pretty that's
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: pretty deep. Thanks. I like that.
- 1:22:01Speaker 2: Wow that was yeah, well, you know it felt right.
- 1:22:04Speaker 2: It felt the times.
- 1:22:06Speaker 1: Well I think it feels right now too.
- 1:22:07Speaker 2: Yeah. Well yeah, yeah.
- 1:22:08Speaker 1: Can you elaborate a little bit of where that came from?
- 1:22:11Speaker 1: Or it's just something personal?
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: No, it's uh well, I mean what what is it?
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: What does that mean?
- 1:22:19Speaker 2: It's like, I mean a strong desire, right, yeah, it's
- 1:22:22Speaker 2: something that seems to be uh indestructible, you know. So
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: within that there is this burning, burning desire for Oh
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: was it recognition for?
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: Is it love?
- 1:22:34Speaker 2: That that could be up to you. I think within
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: the song maybe verse two maybe takes it to the
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: other place, but either way, it's that, you know, it's
- 1:22:42Speaker 2: just desire and wanting to be noticed. I suppose by
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: either a love or by whomever.
- 1:22:46Speaker 1: By the way, the graphic art on that is awesome.
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: Mike Parker, Mike Parker, Mike.
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: Parker, Milford, I is he Yes, W went to foreign
- 1:22:53Speaker 2: high school with Mike Parker and uh he is into
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: animation and does a great His company is called low
- 1:23:01Speaker 2: Brow Studios.
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: Okay, rings a Bell Yeah, I'm sure.
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, because we're all kind of connected somehow. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:23:09Speaker 2: that's the point, and then we all connected to it.
- 1:23:11Speaker 2: But it wasn't amazing how much talent is in this
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: town remarkable.
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: I'm not from here and I'm just astounded by it.
- 1:23:17Speaker 2: Yeah, and any opportunity to work with anybody from Milford
- 1:23:21Speaker 2: is just a joy.
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, awesome. So we're gonna end the show on
- 1:23:25Speaker 1: the song and we'll hang out for a little bit.
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: I know, we got stuff to do. So this is
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: Gasoline Fire by Mark set Daniel. I like you, thank
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: you so much. You're welcome Mark.
- 1:23:39Speaker 2: Hey, that was good man. Yeah. H what does the
- 1:24:43Speaker 2: coach of the Italian boxers saying this happened today? Everyone's
- 1:24:50Speaker 2: played last night. Yeah, something might as well be today
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: then yeah, yeah, they're they're so far this is that's
- 1:24:55Speaker 2: heavy ship. Yeah, no, that's going to bring up all
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: kinds of stuff. Did you think that