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- 0:00Speaker 1: It's John Jay and Rich. Let's get ready to Second
- 0:02Speaker 1: Aid Update is powered by the perfect Valentine's Date movie
- 0:05Speaker 1: Wuthering Heights from Warner Brothers Pictures and filmmaker Emerald Finel
- 0:09Speaker 1: comes Wuthering Heights, Sorry, Margot, Robbie Jacob Alrdi, a bold
- 0:13Speaker 1: reimagining of Emily Bronte's classic novel, Following Kathy Heathcliffe as
- 0:17Speaker 1: There Forbidden Love for one Another turns from romantic to intoxicating.
- 0:21Speaker 1: Only in theaters this Friday experience it in Imax rated R.
- 0:25Speaker 2: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
- 0:27Speaker 2: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
- 0:30Speaker 2: get and that's what the bit is called.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
- 0:35Speaker 1: Ridge one zero four seven Kiss FM. It's John Jayne Rich.
- 0:40Speaker 1: It's time for Second Ight Update. By the way, Disney
- 0:42Speaker 1: tickets coming up in less than twenty minutes, so keep listening.
- 0:45Speaker 1: But right now we kick off Second Aight Update. You
- 0:47Speaker 1: meet somebody, you've gone on a date, you expect there
- 0:49Speaker 1: to be a second date. Let's say hello to Julian. Julian.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Good morning, h right, good morning, Gab, good morning. What's
- 0:56Speaker 1: your story what's your situation.
- 0:59Speaker 3: Yeah, So, honestly, I think I blew it with this
- 1:02Speaker 3: girl that I actually really really like. Okay, yeah, we
- 1:07Speaker 3: we went on a date, just like, got a couple
- 1:10Speaker 3: of drinks, really hit it off, honestly, and you know,
- 1:15Speaker 3: we were bent back to my place, so I thought,
- 1:17Speaker 3: you know, it was going, you know, in that direction,
- 1:22Speaker 3: and then we turned on a movie and it's just
- 1:26Speaker 3: like I just felt the like energy like totally shift.
- 1:29Speaker 3: She got like super quiet, and like it's just like
- 1:36Speaker 3: got really weird. And I think I maybe just like
- 1:41Speaker 3: made her too uncomfortable honestly, and she ended up leaving
- 1:46Speaker 3: like in the middle of the movie, which was like
- 1:48Speaker 3: really caught me off guard.
- 1:50Speaker 1: Wow, movie made her uncomfortable. Oh yeah, good point.
- 1:57Speaker 3: No, I mean it was like a comedy. But I
- 2:01Speaker 3: think I think, like I can come on kind of
- 2:05Speaker 3: strong sometimes because like I'm a bit of a germaphobe,
- 2:10Speaker 3: and I did like ask her to brush her teeth
- 2:14Speaker 3: and they got back to my place.
- 2:16Speaker 4: Oh dear God, because.
- 2:20Speaker 1: I think that's right there. I wasn't gonna say maybe
- 2:23Speaker 1: the comedy was offensive to her, but if you said, hey,
- 2:25Speaker 1: thank come to my house, brush your teeth, did you
- 2:28Speaker 1: give her a brand new toothbrush to open in front
- 2:30Speaker 1: of her.
- 2:31Speaker 3: I did have a brand new toothbrush for her.
- 2:35Speaker 1: Wait, wait, if you just stop right there for a second,
- 2:38Speaker 1: there's so many things that that does. It means you're
- 2:40Speaker 1: telling her that a she she might have bad breath.
- 2:43Speaker 1: You're telling her that you're WEIRDO.
- 2:47Speaker 3: I fully get like how it comes off. I want
- 2:51Speaker 3: to I want to, like I wish I had to
- 2:53Speaker 3: do over because, like, you know, we had a really
- 2:55Speaker 3: strong connection.
- 2:56Speaker 4: Well, what would you if your germophobe? What would you
- 2:58Speaker 4: have done? Just let her not brush your teeth and
- 3:00Speaker 4: then go for a kiss and freak out?
- 3:03Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I guess it's just like playing it cooler.
- 3:08Speaker 2: You probably wouldn't kiss her. So when you asked her
- 3:10Speaker 2: to brush your teeth, did she like happily take the
- 3:13Speaker 2: toothbrush or was she side eyeing you? Did she brush
- 3:16Speaker 2: your teeth?
- 3:16Speaker 1: Like what she do?
- 3:19Speaker 3: I mean she was like cool about it in the moment,
- 3:22Speaker 3: but like after that, like you could feel her like
- 3:26Speaker 3: being really weird.
- 3:27Speaker 1: I mean, you're also implying that you're going to have
- 3:29Speaker 1: a makeout session too. You're also you know, you're actually
- 3:32Speaker 1: kind of also gonna be scaring her as she watching
- 3:33Speaker 1: your place, so many different things assumptive. Yeah, that's so crazy,
- 3:39Speaker 1: But I mean, do you have more to your story?
- 3:41Speaker 1: Because I think that's it. We can call her and
- 3:42Speaker 1: be like all right, hey, by the way, has that
- 3:45Speaker 1: ever worked for you before? Where a girl comes over
- 3:47Speaker 1: and you're like, hey, you might brush your teeth. There's
- 3:49Speaker 1: a brand new toothbrush.
- 3:51Speaker 3: It's maybe fifty fifty on that one.
- 3:54Speaker 1: I think if you're dating stuff, if you go on
- 3:56Speaker 1: a date and you prep them for that, maybe hey,
- 3:58Speaker 1: can i'm a germophobe, Like I'm not. Oh you want
- 4:02Speaker 1: to go back to my house, I'll tell you I'm
- 4:03Speaker 1: a german phobe. We go back to my house? But
- 4:05Speaker 1: I do we do mind? I have brush your tea,
- 4:07Speaker 1: take your shoes off of the door, all this stuff, Like.
- 4:09Speaker 4: Well, we know the answer. We just want to hear
- 4:11Speaker 4: how weird she thought it was. So we're just calling
- 4:13Speaker 4: for us for closure.
- 4:14Speaker 1: Yeah? Is that? Is that? There?
- 4:15Speaker 5: More?
- 4:15Speaker 1: Is that? That's pretty much it?
- 4:16Speaker 3: Right, that's basically it.
- 4:18Speaker 4: No kiss good night, no kiss good night, no no
- 4:21Speaker 4: fresh breast kiss.
- 4:22Speaker 1: Okay, all right, what's her name?
- 4:24Speaker 3: Her name is Claire?
- 4:25Speaker 1: All Right, we really get Claire on the phone and
- 4:26Speaker 1: to find out why she's blown you off. How long
- 4:27Speaker 1: ago was his date?
- 4:28Speaker 3: By the way, this is like we go a little
- 4:32Speaker 3: a little less than a week maybe.
- 4:33Speaker 1: Okay, And the reason we went back to your house
- 4:35Speaker 1: things were going well, I take it right.
- 4:37Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, like the vibes are all there. It
- 4:39Speaker 3: was all winding up and then yeah, yeah, okay, greet
- 4:43Speaker 3: it up.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Okay, dude, we will get Claire on the phone and
- 4:46Speaker 1: see why she's blowing you off. Second ate update continues
- 4:49Speaker 1: next with John Jaye Rich John Jaye Rich, Julian is
- 4:55Speaker 1: getting blown off by Claire.
- 4:56Speaker 4: Well, his first date with Claire was great. It even
- 4:59Speaker 4: ended up back in his place where they were sitting
- 5:02Speaker 4: down to watch a movie. But then Julian said he
- 5:05Speaker 4: was a germophobe and asked Claire to go brush her
- 5:09Speaker 4: teeth with a brand new toothbrush that he bought. The Well,
- 5:12Speaker 4: the evening totally ended when he asked her to wrap
- 5:14Speaker 4: herself in plastic before they made love.
- 5:16Speaker 1: That was awful too, well, ayway, it.
- 5:18Speaker 4: Ended like a bad movie, no plot closure battle.
- 5:21Speaker 1: She left the movie. She left in the middle of
- 5:23Speaker 1: the movie. All right, Julian, that was a good recap. Rich.
- 5:26Speaker 1: We're gonna get Claire on the phone find out why
- 5:28Speaker 1: she's blowing you off. I mean, think about it. Actually,
- 5:30Speaker 1: you know what, Wait a second, let me let me
- 5:32Speaker 1: analyze this. Fir a second, please. He asked her to
- 5:35Speaker 1: brush your teeth. She does, she sits down. Something happened
- 5:40Speaker 1: she left in the middle of the movie. There might
- 5:42Speaker 1: be more to this story. There might be perhaps, All right, Julian, you.
- 5:47Speaker 6: Ready, All right, let's get Claire on the phone.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, is Claire available?
- 6:08Speaker 7: Oh yeah, this is her.
- 6:09Speaker 2: Hi. My name's Peyton. I'm with John Jaye Rich and
- 6:12Speaker 2: we just wanted to talk to you on the radio
- 6:13Speaker 2: really quickly this morning.
- 6:14Speaker 7: If you're down, Oh uh, sure, Claire.
- 6:19Speaker 1: So you're on the radio. And here's why. We got
- 6:21Speaker 1: a call from a guy that says he went out
- 6:23Speaker 1: with this girl that was amazing. He thought you're the
- 6:25Speaker 1: girl by the way. He said, you were amazing. He
- 6:29Speaker 1: got some of the details of the date, and then
- 6:31Speaker 1: he said that you just left abruptly in the middle
- 6:33Speaker 1: of the movie. And we were trying to figure out why.
- 6:35Speaker 1: But as you started telling us some of the details
- 6:37Speaker 1: were like, jeez, well that's why. That's why that's why.
- 6:43Speaker 1: So but now as I analyze the story, I think
- 6:48Speaker 1: there's more to it. Can you tell us a little
- 6:51Speaker 1: bit about your David Julian and while you're blowing him off?
- 6:54Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I'm glad that he told you a
- 6:59Speaker 7: little bit all because, honestly, like the dude was just
- 7:03Speaker 7: weird as hell. I mean, the date itself was fine.
- 7:07Speaker 7: I was kind of into him at first, you know,
- 7:10Speaker 7: but then like once we got back to his place,
- 7:12Speaker 7: the vibe just got immediately uncomfortable.
- 7:15Speaker 2: Like in what way, Like he told us about him
- 7:18Speaker 2: asking you to like brush her to you?
- 7:21Speaker 3: Oh is that good?
- 7:22Speaker 7: Yeah, he told you all that already. Okay, so well
- 7:26Speaker 7: that's not where it stopped. He straight up asked me
- 7:30Speaker 7: if I would take one of those at home STD
- 7:33Speaker 7: tests before we hooked up. I get being safe, because obviously, yes,
- 7:38Speaker 7: I want to be safe, but just the way that
- 7:41Speaker 7: he brought it up was so intense and awkward, and
- 7:44Speaker 7: it just completely killed the mood.
- 7:46Speaker 4: Honestly, I wonder if there's a friendly way to approach
- 7:50Speaker 4: that where you'll be like, yeah, no problem. This seems
- 7:53Speaker 4: so strong.
- 7:53Speaker 8: I mean, it seems like he presented that without even
- 7:56Speaker 8: knowing if they were going to hook up at that time,
- 7:58Speaker 8: you know, like you don't throw that out there. That's
- 8:01Speaker 8: something that like, Hey, if we're gonna get to this point,
- 8:05Speaker 8: would you be comfortable with doing something like this, and
- 8:07Speaker 8: then you bring it out not just like hey, you're
- 8:09Speaker 8: coming over my house, ticket a STD test test.
- 8:16Speaker 1: You make it, take a shower, do you do that?
- 8:18Speaker 1: DoD He present both those to you at the same time.
- 8:20Speaker 7: Like, I mean, it just felt super clinical the whole thing, right,
- 8:25Speaker 7: But like he he said them not necessarily at the
- 8:29Speaker 7: same time, but pretty close in conversation, right, So like
- 8:32Speaker 7: it just felt not text you at all, and honestly
- 8:35Speaker 7: a little bit alarming because I didn't feel super relaxed.
- 8:39Speaker 7: And I mean it was literally like putting me on
- 8:42Speaker 7: the spot in the middle of our movie.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you this. He asked you to
- 8:46Speaker 1: brush your teeth when you when you come in the house, right,
- 8:48Speaker 1: So you say, yes, you do it, right?
- 8:50Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm like, okay, okay.
- 8:52Speaker 1: So at that point, I mean, obviously you're you're into him.
- 8:55Speaker 1: You're when he says can you brush your teeth, you're
- 8:58Speaker 1: expecting a makeout session, right, So are you making out
- 9:00Speaker 1: at the time where he actually to take the STD test.
- 9:04Speaker 7: It wasn't full blown making out, but it was like
- 9:07Speaker 7: right after a kiss and he pulled away.
- 9:09Speaker 1: Okay, because that you would think it would be so insecure,
- 9:11Speaker 1: you would think that maybe if you're him, you get
- 9:15Speaker 1: a little bit further. You already got her to agree
- 9:17Speaker 1: to the toothbrush, so she's in on that. So you're
- 9:19Speaker 1: making out, there'd be a full makeout and things are
- 9:22Speaker 1: starting to go further. Then you'd be like, hey, would
- 9:24Speaker 1: you mind this? Like just to do it after the
- 9:26Speaker 1: first kiss seems so weird. So is that when you bolted?
- 9:30Speaker 7: Yeah, Like I just left right there in the middle
- 9:32Speaker 7: of the movie, Like I'm not trying to be dramatic,
- 9:34Speaker 7: but I really trust my gut. And the whole thing
- 9:37Speaker 7: was just so bizarre.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Right right, Okay, when you say trust your gut, if
- 9:41Speaker 1: he would have gone, would you mind if we test
- 9:43Speaker 1: your gut? Biomes, I have a we have we have
- 9:47Speaker 1: Julian on the line listening. Julian, you didn't tell us
- 9:50Speaker 1: that part. Dude failed to mention that one.
- 9:53Speaker 5: Wow, Yeah, I.
- 9:53Speaker 3: Was really hoping it was something else.
- 9:58Speaker 4: Well, he's not tapped into reality.
- 10:01Speaker 7: I mean, I'm sorry. First of all, Julian, Hi didn't
- 10:05Speaker 7: know you're on the line, but like, I'm sorry, but
- 10:07Speaker 7: it was just weird. It was just weird, Like why
- 10:11Speaker 7: would you even invite someone back on a first date
- 10:13Speaker 7: if you're going to turn it into this full medical
- 10:15Speaker 7: intake form. It was it was so invasive.
- 10:17Speaker 3: Honestly, that's not like the intention behind it, like I was,
- 10:22Speaker 3: I was really just trying to be responsible, like it's okay.
- 10:25Speaker 7: Well, here's where I got alarming, because in my mind,
- 10:30Speaker 7: I'm like, why would you just hook up with anyone
- 10:32Speaker 7: as long as they passed it? Like is that what
- 10:34Speaker 7: you were doing? Because that's definitely how it came off,
- 10:37Speaker 7: and I just that's a no for me.
- 10:43Speaker 5: That's that's not what it wasn't on Like I wasn't
- 10:46Speaker 5: saying you were anyone, Like I really liked you. That's
- 10:50Speaker 5: that's why I brought it up, Like Okay, that's why
- 10:52Speaker 5: I like, you know, I wanted you to take the test.
- 10:55Speaker 5: It is because I felt like, you know, this was
- 10:58Speaker 5: actually something.
- 11:00Speaker 7: Well that's not how you said it, because you literally
- 11:02Speaker 7: dropped it out of nowhere. I mean, like I said it,
- 11:06Speaker 7: just the vibe went from oh this is fun to
- 11:08Speaker 7: oh my god, I'm uncomfortable. Is he about to ask
- 11:10Speaker 7: for some of my DNA for like?
- 11:11Speaker 2: Literally, can I take a blessed test?
- 11:14Speaker 8: Like what?
- 11:16Speaker 4: I don't know what's happening with dating nowadays, but if
- 11:19Speaker 4: second date update is any indication is get weird out there,
- 11:23Speaker 4: people be careful.
- 11:24Speaker 1: So Claire, do you want to see him again?
- 11:27Speaker 3: No?
- 11:27Speaker 7: I mean once, I just feel weird. I'm out. Like
- 11:29Speaker 7: I said, I completely trust my gut.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Let me tell you. I got to tell you something.
- 11:34Speaker 1: This whole second ad triggered me with something that happened once.
- 11:37Speaker 1: I remember my parents. My parents split up. They weren't
- 11:40Speaker 1: divorced yet, they split up, and I remember I was
- 11:42Speaker 1: hanging out with my dad one time and he goes,
- 11:45Speaker 1: it was like when you hear that your parent is
- 11:47Speaker 1: dating somebody or something. There's like shot can't remember. He goes,
- 11:50Speaker 1: it was you know, it was like towards the end
- 11:53Speaker 1: of the AIDS epidemic, and he's like, what's with all
- 11:56Speaker 1: these ladies always wanted me to take I always want
- 11:58Speaker 1: did you take an AIDS test? Did you take an
- 12:00Speaker 1: AIDE test? And I was like, oh, you know, I
- 12:02Speaker 1: don't know. And then I was just like so traumatized
- 12:04Speaker 1: that my dad's like meeting women and they're asking to
- 12:06Speaker 1: take an aide test, you know what I mean. It
- 12:08Speaker 1: was so like traumatic for me that I don't hear
- 12:11Speaker 1: my dad's a player and he's hooking up with people. No,
- 12:13Speaker 1: I never told anybody that story. I never even told
- 12:15Speaker 1: my sister that story. And then I remember when I
- 12:17Speaker 1: was like thirty three and he told me he got engaged.
- 12:19Speaker 1: Started crying. I don't hear my mom when you back together.
- 12:24Speaker 2: No, I feel I would be that same way too.
- 12:26Speaker 2: Like my mom and dad ever separated, I don't think
- 12:28Speaker 2: I would accept whoever they decided to.
- 12:29Speaker 1: Oh, it was tough for me.
- 12:31Speaker 2: I know that might be childish, but I don't care
- 12:34Speaker 2: for my mom.
- 12:35Speaker 1: Every time the guy I called for my mom, I
- 12:36Speaker 1: would say, what's would you when I hang up with
- 12:39Speaker 1: the guy that was brutal? To the guys that are
- 12:44Speaker 1: hitting on my mom anyway? Uh, Claire, Julian, thanks for
- 12:47Speaker 1: being on the show. Sorry, it's not going to work
- 12:49Speaker 1: out for you.
- 12:50Speaker 3: Julian, Well, I guess I understand.
- 12:53Speaker 1: Yeah, listen up a little bit. There should be a
- 12:56Speaker 1: there should be a dating site for that where you
- 12:58Speaker 1: can do OCD dating or not a bad idea for
- 13:02Speaker 1: germanphobe dating anyway, Thank you guys both That's second and
- 13:05Speaker 1: update with John Jay Rich on one O four to
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- 13:10Speaker 1: Wuthering Heights is almost here from Warner Brothers Pictures and
- 13:13Speaker 1: filmmaker Emerald Fennel comes Wuthering Heights Storry, Margot, Robbie and
- 13:17Speaker 1: Jacob Olordi. The bold reimagining of Emily Bronte's classic novel,
- 13:21Speaker 1: following Kathy and Heathcliff as their forbidden love for one
- 13:24Speaker 1: another turns from romantic to intoxicating. Only in theaters this
- 13:27Speaker 1: Friday Experience it in Imax Righted r