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Align with your Divine · Authentic Living

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Welcome to authentic living with Roxanne, a place where we have conscious conversations
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about things that really matter in our lives.
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And now here's your host, Roxanne Derhodge.
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Hi, everyone.
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It's, Roxanne Doorhart.
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Thanks so much for tuning in yet again this week.
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Today, I have a friend, naturally, love that's here with us today.
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And, Natalie brings, wealth of things that I know I love to hear about, and naturally and I,
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I think it's almost close to a year now, have shared some space at a as a at a wellness
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center here in Saint Catherine's.
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And, you know, it's that's one of the girls that she she does, but she does so many other
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things.
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So welcome, Natalie.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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It's a pleasure to be here.
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Thanks for coming.
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So we're gonna talk.
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I'm gonna read a little bit about her background, which is actually quite diverse.
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There's so many things that she does.
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And she recently published a book which is we're gonna talk a lot more about.
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So I'm gonna just read her bio.
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She's She's has over a 15 years experience in self development and body, mind, and spirit
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world.
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She's a metaphysical teacher.
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Spiritual life coach and holistic healer.
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She's discovered her gifts as a teen and made her her life mission to help others.
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She's a re reiki master certified in 2010.
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Sorry.
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Oh, 3.
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No therapist in 2004.
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A metaphil physical minister in 2009, and she's been hosting the monthly goddess circles in
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Ontario, Canada for over 10 years.
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She loves empowering inspiring and assisting women to step into their power and embrace
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their divine feminine essence.
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Wow.
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That's amazing.
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I I can honestly say I don't know a lot about the medical metaphysical ministry, so I'm very,
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very interested.
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In in that part of things, but, so, Natalie, you've been you've been helping people a long
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time, but you said you started as a teenager.
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So tell me kind of what what brought you to that place that made you think, you know, as a
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teenager, I you know, at that point, you're not a hypnotherapist.
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You're not, you're not a minister.
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I'm gonna assume you probably start to help people What was your path that as a team made
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you think?
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This is this is what I I need to show the world that I do.
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Well, thank you.
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That's a very deep question.
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So I grew up in a household that didn't feel safe.
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My mother was physically abused by my stepfather who was an alcoholic I was bullied.
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So I didn't have a lot of confidence.
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I was like a a broken child.
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A very scared and secure.
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Witnessing my mother be abused for 10 years with my stepfather.
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That was all in my program and I always felt connected to something higher.
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I was a spiritual seeker going to different churches trying to find my purpose, asking
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creator universe, why am I here?
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Why am I suffering like this?
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What is my calling?
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And seeing that, I realized that I don't want that.
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I don't wanna have that pain.
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I don't wanna manifest that kind of love in my life.
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So I wasn't allowed to go place some mother was very controlling as a Latin American female.
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So I was stuck at home a lot.
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Couldn't do all the things other teenagers could do.
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So what happened was late at night when I'm doing homework and other teenagers are out
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partying.
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I was watching them from her show and who is on an infomercial at that time?
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I'm 1718 and there's Tony Robbins with his big smile.
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Talking and inspiring people and I just felt this like connection and I thought, wow.
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Whatever he has I need to learn about.
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I want to dive deep in that.
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And that's how I started working within myself and unraveling the pain, unraveling and
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emerging into the goddess I am.
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So everything I studied, I studied first to heal myself, heal my inner child.
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So that's why I started the reiki 2003 at a Hippo therapy in 2004 because I really had a
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lot of my own things in security, fears.
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I even had a fear of about 10 men because my grandfather said, that's a man.
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I had a fear of separation to my greatness.
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So that's why I do what I do.
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So I knew my calling at a early age because I wanted to help women so they do not put up with
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abuse.
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I wanted to help empower women so they can feel stronger and realize their truth that they
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don't need to dim their light anymore.
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Wow.
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Wow.
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What a what a what a story, like, I'm not unlike really our parallels in some way, me
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witnessing, violence when I was a kid also, you know, so which I wrote in about in my book and,
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talked a little bit about some of my choices, that I made, which was completely opposite
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because I recognized like you as a young, a girl, I found my gifts and then I said, I will
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never live that kind of life because nobody should ever endure pain, like I saw my mother
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endure, and I know I wanted to to, you know, something different from myself in the world
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and then in turn, wanted to to teach people what I had learned when I had gone to school,
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you know, for psychology.
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Wow.
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I love that that we have that connection.
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I'm gonna read your book.
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I just got it, so I'm gonna read it for sure.
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Thank you.
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And I also haven't read your.
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So so you obviously touch people in different ways.
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You you do reiki.
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You do hypnotherapy in St.
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Catherine's.
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Those are the two areas that you do it in.
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You do goddess circles, which I'd I'd know I've not you've invited me multiple times, and I
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haven't been and you also are you marry people.
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Like, I see that's, on your Instagram all the time.
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So tell me let's talk a little bit about the metaphysical because I think that's, you know,
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you're right.
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Like when things are dark, you know, we we try to to find something.
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I remember when, you know, something I'll tell you naturally that I did when I was having a
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tough time.
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I would walk for 4 hours.
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I would I live close to the parkway.
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I would literally get out and walk and walk.
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And walk.
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Like, you know, I say, okay.
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I'd go 2 hours up, and I'd walk 2 hours down.
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And I was like, it was like something bigger than me telling me, okay.
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This pain is deep.
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But you can endure this.
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And, I mean, walking had been something I'd done, but not to the extent that I'd done.
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And I did that for probably months when I was having a tough time.
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So, you know, when you talk about the metaphysical part, how is it that you help
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people, that come to you spiritually that are maybe lost?
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Well, that's a good question.
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The first to touch on you walk in healing.
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That is so important because you're connecting with the elements with the energies of mother
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nature and the fresh air and that all helps you energize.
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So that's healing.
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So thank you for sharing.
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So metaphysical means beyond the physical which means it's more than what you see with your
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physical eyes.
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We are more than this physical body here.
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And I believe we are spiritual beings in this physical body and Wayne Dyer, that's what he
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says.
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We're spiritual beings in this physical form and I honestly believe that a 100%.
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So sometimes when you're out and you meet someone, and intuitively inside your body
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energetically, you feel a strong desire connection to communicate with them.
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That is metaphysical experience.
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It's it's not in the physical.
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You just have his connection and vice versa.
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I walk in rooms and I could see someone and I have a strong connection or I walk in another
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room and I know, oh, stay away from that person because energy cords are not aligned.
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So when you're open to the metaphysical sections of our human is.
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It helps you to make better decisions and clears your mind to practice mindfulness
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techniques and realizing that the situation is happening right now.
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If you take yourself out of it, it's not going to it's like this too shall pass.
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It's not the end of the world.
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Like what am I learning from this experience right now?
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That's when you live, metaphysically, you know It's not just what you're seeing right here in
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front of you.
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Why is this painful experience happening to me?
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What are the lessons that the universe is trying to teach me and how can I assist myself
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so then I can assist other people?
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And that to me is practicing metaphysical spirituality is it's not something you turn off
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or on.
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It's something that you connect to all the time.
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Makes a lot of sense, right?
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So from my perspective, when I coach or see people, I try to slow their mind.
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I try to have them understand what's happening for them, and you do it.
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Basically, it sounds parallel.
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So I'm I'm curious because I have a question, and I wonder people listening might have the
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same.
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So sometimes, you might have those feelings of what people that are close to you.
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So what what what guidance would you give someone like that that comes to you
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metaphysically?
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Let's, you know, say It's a sibling.
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It's parents.
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Those types of things.
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What what how do you kind of work with someone like that?
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To kind of use the energy or understand the energy, and, you know, what step would that
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person kind of expect from you?
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Okay.
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So if if that person like a family member is like more like negative or you don't feel
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connected to, Right.
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Right.
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That happens a lot in my gutter circles and even with my one on one sessions and I have to
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really empower their client, the person who's in front of me to be authentic and do what they
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could call to do without having to be a people pleaser without having to rescue everyone
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because it's not our job to change people.
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Our job is not to try to pull people out of the gutter.
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Our job is to shine our light and assist in love, but also being in our power to know Hey,
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I need to put up a healthy boundary here because I'm not going to tolerate this negative
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complaint every single day or this native of judgment every day and be authentic.
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Be real.
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So something I talk about my goddess circles is called authentic communication.
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So if you're having a a conversation with one of those people in the family, trust me.
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I have them too.
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And then you feel like, okay, there's that negative cord and it's like, to me, I'm a very
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visual.
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So it feels like a a jab in my heart sensor, my heart chakra.
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So then I would feel that feeling, and I can't deny that feeling.
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That's my body telling me, hey, hey, there's something here not aligned.
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So then I pause, and I've teach this in my circles and then I acknowledge my feelings
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right now I'm feeling hurt like I'm feeling I'm not blaming you.
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I'm feeling hurt.
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When you said this to me, what was your intention?
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What was your intention?
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When you ask them that it takes them out of their whole autopilots complaint complaint
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negativity mindset.
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They're like, oh, what's my intention?
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And then say, I don't have benefited from this experience right now, so I'm gonna choose to
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change a topic, or please do not talk like this to me because I'm, you know, whenever it comes
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up like I'm working on healthy boundaries or I'm not gonna accept this anymore.
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If you said this a hundred times, I'm done here in this story I have other things to do and it
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takes time.
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It takes practice.
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The first step is being honest with yourself.
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How much are you tolerate it?
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So One is how you benefited from this experience right now.
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How are you benefiting from allowing them to throw this toxic energy into your being?
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If it's not benefiting you, then you need to stand up for yourself.
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So I teach that a lot.
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That's why I love the goddess empowerment movement because it's time for all of us to
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shine without having to be doormats
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You know, and that's so what an amazing thing.
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Right?
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Because people, some haphazardly, will go through the world that are negative, be it
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family members or coworkers or, you know, you know, suppliers, business partners, and and
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they willy nilly just kinda dispense this negativity right, where to your point, you have
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to decide.
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It's almost like you have to siphon.
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I'm gonna take this in.
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No.
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I'm not gonna take this.
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I'm I'm I'm gonna repel this out.
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And it becomes a constant thing that you have to do because you may be in a good frame and
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then you go to work, let's say, and we, by all, we have lovely environments that we're in,
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which is healthy and and happy.
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But you I'm sure people listening go into environments and they have to deal with people.
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So they really have to, I'm gonna use the use the word inoculate or protect themselves almost
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like a bit of a barrier of positivity.
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Would you say that in order to go into some of those environments?
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I agree a 100%.
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Because sometimes your people may not be able to step up into their greatness and speak up to
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the manager boss because their life is on the line.
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They could potentially get fired.
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So of course, in certain situations, you have to, you know, watch and see how much of
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yourself are you going to stand up for and how much are you gonna really realize to let that
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go.
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Let it go completely and know that it's not you.
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It's them and practice not taking anything personally and having some tools Maybe it's
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meditation.
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Maybe it's Ricky.
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Maybe it's mindfulness.
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Maybe it's some tools that you teach your clients or what I teach my clients at anchoring
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where you surround yourself with this field of protection and don't own it.
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Let us slip away.
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I like to visualize a a purple garbage bag on my left.
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Anytime negativity comes away, I just gather it and I visualize that.
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And that's the metaphysical.
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That's like, you know, it's beyond my physical, but I know there's something there.
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And just clear it, and then you send it off to the universe.
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But I mean, I'm sorry.
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No.
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No.
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No.
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So sorry.
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I didn't want to stop your thought because it's I know you're finishing what you were saying.
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Oh, no.
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So I was gonna say that I made an acronym.
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I don't know if you heard about the acronym ring which is very popular in that mind for
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this community.
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So when there's emotions coming up to practice rain and that means recognize the feeling that
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you're having a allow it to be there and I investigate where in my body and my holding
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this maybe it's for my deep wound as a child and and non identifying with it.
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Detaching from it.
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So I made an acronym to go along with that and it's called shine.
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So you have the vein and then you have the shine and I never shared this except for in my
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my secret dotted circle.
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So as the spaciousness, you have to create the spaciousness of around you.
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You open this so you can be vulnerable.
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Because shared vulnerability is really important to do inner healing.
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H honesty.
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Always be aligned with yourself.
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Aligned with your, not someone else's version of how you should handle it.
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I integrity and that goes the same with honestly what what are you truly feeling?
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Because a lot of women feel the need to people, please.
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So we need to stand up for yourself and nourishing and nurturing your divine essence.
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Maybe you need to get a massage a manicure, a pedicure, talk to someone, or go walk in nature
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like you shared, and an e is that existence or the essence realizing that we are more than
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this physical body that our existence is the collective field that we are all connected.
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So that's my shine that goes along with the rain.
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So I just wanted to share that.
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Wow.
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And we're privileged.
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Did it?
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We get we're not even in the goddess circle.
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We get
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it.
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Yes.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Not gonna definitely have to come and, experience that.
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So Is there a metaphysical school you got went to?
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Like, how do you become a metaphysical minister?
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So I did all my training at the metaphysical School of Sedona which is awesome because you
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could do it long distance and you do it at your pace Some people finish it in 1 year.
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For me, it took me 2 years and it's really good because it has so much information.
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It talks about the chakras.
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It talks about yoga.
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It talks about mindfulness and meditation and hypnosis, and it talks about Christ
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consciousness.
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So I'm a non denominational minister, which means that I believe in a the the positive
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energy and a consciousness of goodness versus a religion.
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So that's where I got my training to be able to perform all the weddings that you see on
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Instagram.
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Okay.
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Because that's why I thought I thought I was doing metaphysical school somewhere.
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Wow.
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Amazing.
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Of course.
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And, of course, it's Sedona.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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Exactly.
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I need to go there one day.
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We had the best
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Tell everyone about Volley.
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And and then I stopped because I know we're gonna talk a little bit about manifestation.
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So you are the ultimate manifester.
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And, you know, I've for I've been privileged.
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Obviously, I see Natalie a lot and, our lives are into find in our practices and stuff like
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that in various ways.
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And, actually, another thing she's doing, she's She works.
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She's going to the Tony Robbins, and she's part of the, big event tomorrow.
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She's there for 2 days, but Let's talk about manifesting because I think that is something
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that we hear, and I believe truly.
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I understand it.
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I'm sure you understand.
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I'm sure a lot of people listening.
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Understand it, but when you actually talk about the steps, right, and something.
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Let's use Bali.
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Bali's quantifiable.
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We can say, oh my goodness.
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In in a month, you're going to Bali.
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Right?
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That you manifested that.
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And I want you to tell that story because I think that's something real that any of us to
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learn from And I actually, you know what?
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I don't even know that I know the actual steps that you took, but I I know this probably would
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be a fantastic thing for people listening to to hear what it took to manifest something like
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Valley, which I'm jealous.
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Oh, thank
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you.
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I I can't contain my stuff.
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I'm like, oh my god.
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I love sharing that story.
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Okay.
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So I'll tell you my story and then I'll tell you the steps and how to manifest.
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So even as early as last year and the committee years, I've been always drawn to Volley.
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But this year, since January, I've been watching another sister of Miley.
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Someone who teaches god in circles, and she's gonna embody.
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So Jen February March.
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I've been watching her live videos.
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So I've been watching, and I've been feeling calm even more.
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I need to go to Pali So there was this energy, like, I have to go.
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The possibility of me being there opened up this year.
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This year's like, talking to my husband.
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You know what?
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I really wanna go visit my friend in Bali.
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She said it could come.
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Stay in her place.
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It's very affordable.
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Limander.
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And I've been, like, really, really feeling and visualizing it happening.
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Like, I'm gonna see her.
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Maybe at the end of this year, I'm going to Bali.
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And then she came here to Canada because she's originally from Grimsby and she gave me this
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little president which was this oil only found in Volley made by the special flowers only
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found in Volley.
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So she said put in your hair and when you put in your hair, you could feel Volley to you.
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And so I put in my hair one day and I was doing those ceremony for myself because I I love to
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take time to divine feminine.
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So I wear essential oils I smudged myself and then I put the oil in my hair and when I put in
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my hair, I felt the essence of body.
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It was just this huge open and entrust the universe.
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If this is for my highest good, please allow me to go there.
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So I did that, but then I just let it go.
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I let it go completely.
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I wasn't obsessed with it.
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I just I believe if it's winter happened, it will happen.
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Then I follow this other goddess sister community and they're just having a 1 week
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fully paid for trip that includes a goddess retreat and all the foods and and manicures and
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pedicures and bats and rose petals, all that in a monkey sanctuary.
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For, like, free.
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If, you know, for one lucky winner, if you fill up this one question and the question was, why
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do you want to win the Goddess retreats?
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So, of course, I'm like, I'm just open.
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We'll see.
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And I was offending.
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I would share my wife, and I shared from a place of presence and leadership The reason why
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is because I teach gutter circles in my community in Niagara region, and I'll be
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honored to go and learn from you so I could bring your teachings into my community because
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when you raise your community, you raise the world one sister at a time.
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That's basically what I wrote.
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It wasn't poor me.
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I'm a mother for.
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I needed to rip it.
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No.
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I was authentic and I was strong in my power and then I released it.
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I completely forgot about it.
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Then 2 months later, I saw her live and she was announcing the winner and I've assumed that I
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didn't win because she would have emailed me and let me know that I won.
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So I assumed that her video was announced to the winner and it wasn't me.
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Of course, you shouldn't make assumptions, but anyway, so when I was watching the video, I was
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in total gratitude for the winner, and I Honestly, I was watching it right before bed.
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It was 1 o'clock in the morning, and I'm like, oh, let me see.
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I need to see.
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And she's like, you know, this is the winner and if it wasn't you, it's not that you weren't
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worthy.
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I just was feeling hard to call for this person.
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So at that time, I was like, I'm grateful for that winner.
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Whoever want, I'm so grateful for them because they need it.
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They deserve it.
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Total gratitude, nothing else and she said my name.
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And when she said my name, I started crying.
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I had to watch a video, like, 5 or 6 times.
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I shared it on Facebook.
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I made a video of that whole story on Facebook, like, with my my joy, like, just I could not,
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of course, I could believe it, but I I just it was so surreal.
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And then I told my husband, I told him, I'm going to Valley.
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I'm going to Valley.
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And then he was like, what?
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Where?
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You have 4 kids?
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How?
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Because that's what the universe wants.
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I want it.
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I'm going.
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It's happening, and I'm leaving it on October 18th.
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So I believe everyone needs a time to fill up your love tank.
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And we as leaders in our community need to also fill up our love tank.
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So that's my time to unplug from serving the community and to start receiving all of that
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divine feminine energy that I always you know, shine, but it's also time for me to just be me
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and learn and get a break.
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But, you know, I'm gonna bother.
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I'm gonna be happy.
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I'm gonna be bliss.
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And I will come back, though.
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Don't worry.
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I will.
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You got those 4 kids.
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Wait.
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Do you remember?
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Yes.
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Exactly.
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Know, I'm just thinking about what you're gonna gain to be able to bring back to to Niagara,
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and we're so lucky to have you here to be able to continue to give to women, right, because
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you are so right.
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I mean, nothing and, you know, are men of the world, like, and I can say that there are are
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you know, and you have boys.
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I have a I have a boy, a young man, I should say.
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And, you know, they learn from us.
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Right?
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So and you going and giving more to the mothers, which are generally the keepers of the
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family still, they're gonna learn, right?
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They're gonna learn what it's like be a better man in the world because of their mothers who
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are so much more connected, you know, and then in turn, they're gonna treat their partners
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with time or their daughters or whatever with the same, love and kindness that they're gonna
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be exposed to.
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Right?
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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I believe that 100%.
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So I know I was gonna say the steps of a manufacturer.
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Sure.
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So people are watching over, like, What are the steps?
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Okay.
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So the first one is you your, visualization, visualizing, believing it's possible, like,
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seeing yourself at your goal or whatever it is you want to do.
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For that experience, it was Volley.
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So visualizing, believing, having faith and knowing that yes, I am worthy of this.
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Why not me?
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You have to really work with any doubts because if you have doubts, you sabotage that
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manifestation process.
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And then the third one is letting it go letting it go.
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So it's like ordering from the universe in the menu.
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I like this.
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Yeah.
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I believe it's good for me.
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And I let it go.
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Let the way to go get it.
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And and trust trust that's gonna come to you.
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And I well, I took in another step and I felt it.
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I felt it because I'm a very visual person.
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So I visual.
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I love to use my senses so I can smell it.
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I can hear it by watching the videos and so on.
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So you create that environment that you know that, yes, it's possible, and then you have to
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surrender.
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Yeah.
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They definitely let it go, but the last that the people don't realize is taking action.
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So I can't just close my eyes and wish for a $1,000,000 to come on my door front and, hey,
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come on, universe.
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Like, I'm a good person.
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Like, where is it?
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No.
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You didn't take the action.
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Maybe you get the ideas, the inspiration from, you know, books in your mind and things.
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You need to take action and follow it and take you.
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So my action was applying.
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I couldn't just manifest it without applying to win it and that was just the universe's way of
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gifting it to me.
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You have to detach from the how?
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How is it possible for me to manifest this?
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How?
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But where is this extra money coming from?
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Well, where's this new job?
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Well, where's this new lover in my life, a new relationship, a new car, and so on.
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And then that's how you manifest it.
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Wow.
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Amazing.
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Right?
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So I think you're so right.
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Right?
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Cause a lot of people say, well, if I meditate and all those things, But at some point, you
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gotta you gotta take this action step, whatever it is, right, like to pick up the phone or you
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know, meet the new person if someone introduces you or, you know, you know, go go to the gym if
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you want a different body or if you want a different workplace or maybe different
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interaction, you're gonna have to risk.
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You can envision it, you know, and a lot of people I think Like, I have I do vision boards.
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I don't know if you do.
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Yeah.
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You know, so but at at the end of the day, the vision board reminds you and embodies what you
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want, but those steps have to be taken daily to be able to achieve those goals.
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Exactly.
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They have to be taken because we have free will.
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We have free will, so we have to take the action.
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We had to ask for things.
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We had to push herself out there Like, I can't get 40 weddings in 1 year, and I'm sitting at
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home in Obama bombs or watching Netflix all day.
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I had to take the action.
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I had to put myself social media.
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I had to post every single day.
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I gotta use my hashtags.
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I gotta put myself out there, and that's how they find me.
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So you definitely need to take action in anything.
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In order to have a life that you desire.
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Absolutely.
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And and, you know, so let's talk.
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So we know about metaphysically what that means.
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You do a lot of weddings.
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So if ever, but anybody ever wants to get married, you can find naturally.
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And, you know, she can take care of you.
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And I know you do wedding in Toronto, Ontario.
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Right?
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Yes.
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Well, you know, my my furthest I would go to will say is Toronto because the way the Niagara
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region, there's so much abundance of love and weddings here.
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So I went to Cambridge this weekend, which was like the furthest in Milton, which was furthest
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for me so far.
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But yeah, so I would go to
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the beachfront area.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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So let's now talk about busyness.
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I I know everybody men included that are listening, but women understand what it is to
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be busy if you you have jobs.
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You have you have 4 children.
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I I I need to enunciate 4.
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I have 1, and I know how busy my life gets.
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Right?
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And in there, we talked a little bit about, obviously, you said manifestation.
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We talk about action.
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I want them I want you to tell them, do you have a copy of your book
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there handy?
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I do.
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I do have it.
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Let's see where Hold on.
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Right back.
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So what Natalie's been able to do is she's been able to produce a book in the last little while
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and, you know, thinking about context, you know, I'm a goddess, and here it is.
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And, I know she's gonna be able to tell you guys where to get it.
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She was able to do all those things.
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Be a minister, do her reiki, do do her hypnotherapy, and then now she's put out of
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this book along with her goddess circle.
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So I want her to talk just a little bit a little bit about the inspiration for the book
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and how you made it happen with the time, or should I see the the lack of time that you have
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in your on your weeks and your months?
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So
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Let us know.
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Let us know how you created that book, which I was I know I was there when it was all done.
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Thank you so much.
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Well, I'm a strong believer that if you have ideas that you have to listen to it because I
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believe in dying without regrets, and this seed of this book was planted in my mind since 2009
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and I didn't wanna be my deathbed and my a d c.
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Oh, I wonder what would have happened.
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So I just said, okay.
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I'm gonna dedicate some time every day because this book is calling me.
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So of course, I have 4 children.
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Of course, I have, like, so many different things to do, but If I don't make the time for
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me to write this, I will not feel satisfied with my purpose.
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They came to me, so it's my purpose.
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So what I did was I put time slot 20 minutes aside every day.
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Just write.
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And sometimes they, what am I gonna write about?
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So what came to me was had an acronym.
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I'm an acronym goddess.
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I I just love that.
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So I made an acronym for the word goddess.
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So every single letter is a chapter of my book.
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Greatness.
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I talk about manifestations.
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I talk about the universe to with gratitude and love.
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Oh, overcome it.
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I do share a story about witnessing physical abuse and also overcoming all the limiting
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beliefs and fears I had.
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D, divine.
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I talk about having the divine connections with the metaphysical outside beings like angels and
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past lives and our truth essence.
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The deserving and that's all filled with inspiration that you are deserving of love and
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made an acronym to know which means new opportunities and I mean, I can offer yes,
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which is you embracing source.
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So if you feel like saying no, remember, you're giving yourself a new opportunity to be
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authentic with yourself.
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And then, an e embracing.
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I talk about embracing peace, embracing finances, embracing love, and embracing health
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and so on and then sensuality and strength.
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And centrality is all about the sacredness of the divine feminine and I do talk about sacred
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sexuality because it is important not to be shy about that part of our humanness because, you
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know, we're supposed to experience pleasure and then the strength is full of inspiration again.
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So what I did was I have 20 minutes a day to write and I gave myself 20 minutes just to
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start the channel process.
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So I would clear my space, when the kids all asleep in, I would say, okay, what did I wanna
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write about with the greatness?
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So you have a little sketch.
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This is my topic to each of this.
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So what does this mean to me?
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It's a bulletin and I bulletin point form list went to sentences and went to sentences to a
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point where some days I wrote 20 minutes and that was it because, you know, I I'm that's all
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I was feeling called 2 and other days I wrote for 5 hours and I couldn't stop.
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So just allowing yourself to start is the biggest thing.
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Even if it's 10 minutes.
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That's all you have to do.
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Whatever it takes for you to follow your heart and create anything you have in your mind.
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Just allow them the time and my biggest thing is no excuses.
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Live life.
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You're way without excuses.
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Let me say what I'm a mother for.
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So I can't do this.
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No.
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No.
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No.
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No.
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I'm not saying that being a mother and only being a mother is not a good thing.
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I know a lot of friends that that's their role, and they're have to be a homemaker and mother
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and cook and do everything.
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And that's perfect and it's so beautiful to witness but I know my role was more than just
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being a mother.
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I that's why I talk about archetypes.
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I own a lot of different archetypes the warrior, the lover, the mother, the nun, and so
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on.
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So that's the steps I chose to make it happen.
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And then of course, how, how of idea to create space, which is also for self publishing, and
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that way I could put on demand.
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So if anyone wants a copy of the book.
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They could just go to amazon.ca, and then they search I am Goddess or Reverend Natalie here,
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and they'll find it.
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Wow.
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Wow.
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It's amazing.
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Right?
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Because time is such a commodity, and we're always chasing it, but really, you know, it's
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about you know,
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I often say when I wrote my book, I felt like it was a spiritual download myself because I
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had so much going on in my life, which was, you know, separation and all those things.
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But within within 6 months, it was done.
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And I kept saying, this was bigger than me.
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I kept saying, you know, like, and I had said, I remember 10 years prior, Nancy.
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I had said to someone, you know, I'm gonna write a book 1, and he and and he looked at me
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and he goes, what?
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I think it was just a fleeting thought.
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I never truly said that I was gonna write a book.
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And then, you know, 10 years later, the time, the space.
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I, you know, I was in between jobs.
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I was separating, those types of things.
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And then within 6 months, boom, the book was there.
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And, you know, so it's it's you're so right.
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You can have these ideas.
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Yeah, you know, like like you said, we all have roles and I think what happens to a lot of
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women is they judge each other.
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Oh, you're judging me because you're an entrepreneur.
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You're judging me because I'm a stay at home It's not it's about recognizing what what
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essence am I wanting in the world and what what do I what legacy do I want to leave behind?
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Like you said, you know, you have a bigger purpose, right, to be able to give the world
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those these gifts that you have.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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And it's true.
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And that's the one thing that a lot of females need to let go of.
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It's a need for competition and their ego mentality and and realize that being
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supportive, being happy for the people, is actually a good thing for you because when you
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clear yourself out, that's how you can manifest to greatness.
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If you're secretly watching someone's profile and and spying and whatever they call it.
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And you're like, oh, I can't believe that's what they're doing.
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And you're actually building up this repeller.
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It's like people and also opportunities are gonna be like, oh, not for her, not for her.
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So it's for your benefit not to be jealous and have that ego mindset.
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Of course, humans do that is something that we were taught as a child to be competitive in
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sports and so on, but within our work and unraveling that ego mindset, we realize, okay.
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Something I got from Wayne Dyer who was also one of my heroes Tony Robbins Wayne Dyer.
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I call myself the Goddess version of Tony Robbins.
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Okay?
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And Wayne Dyer, he was, like, my father figure because I didn't grow up with a good father.
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So I attached to those 2 males because I needed male energy in my life.
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So me taking action is me owning that masculine energy that we all have.
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And the divine feminine energy is a loving essential in this and it created my book and
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creating everything else.
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So what I was getting at was what Wayne Dyer shared was if you had the eagle mind, like, I
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wish I had that new car.
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I wish I had that trip to Bali.
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Is acknowledging it.
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So I'm not saying to pretend it's not there because then you're still sabotaging yourself.
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So you acknowledge that.
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Okay.
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There I go.
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Doing that thing I do.
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That's all.
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That's all he says.
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There I go.
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Doing that thing I do.
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Yeah.
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So you're not judging yourself because it's just a thing that the human mind does, but then
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you redirect It's like, you know what?
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I'm grateful for their experience, and I know that it's possible for them.
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It's possible for me.
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What should I do?
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Maybe I should work on myself.
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Maybe I need a Ricky session.
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Maybe I really need to, you know, do something for me.
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Well, of course, she won that trip because look at all the good process that she's doing.
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Hey, I'm gonna start doing good stuff.
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Maybe I might volunteer in my community or or learn about this stuff like that.
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So acknowledging it Thank you for sharing but not giving it his power and redirecting and
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that's how we work with the ego mind because we cannot judge each other anymore.
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This is time for to support each other and uplift each other.
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And and I want to help women feel that secret container, and that's why I do got the circles.
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So we can all feel supported and hold that space because we need to open up and be
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vulnerable
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for sure and and about safety.
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I was watching something on Quincy Jones last night, and he said the ego mind is the insecure
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mind dressed up.
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Who I like that.
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And I love that, you know, because here's a man like that that has done.
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I mean, he's an icon in the world and He said when he sees ego, that's what he thinks
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insecurity dressed up.
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I love that.
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Here's something like that.
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That's done.
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The pinnacle and and and it's an icon in in the music industry, and he's eighty two years old,
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and he's talking about his path, which was, you know, a pretty, rough path growing out in the
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south side of Chicago.
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You know, mentally ill mom, those types of things, you know, so it shows you that.
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I'm gonna
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use that in my circle.
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That's so true.
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It is.
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It is.
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It's actually a show on on his life, which just really struck me when I listen to his path and
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and how positive he is and, you know, all those things.
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So it shows you.
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So it's really empowering people to drop their guard because that's something that, you know,
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we go out in the world Right?
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And, you know, we have to put on a certain amount of masks to some degree.
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Right?
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In our in our worlds, we can go walk around and show who we are but a lot of different
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environments.
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People grew up being told.
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I have to be a certain way as a child.
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Like you said, I have to be like this at church.
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I have to be like this at school.
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I have to be like this at sports.
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I have to be like this at at music, those types of things, and people kinda get more
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disconnected as they go to who their authentic self is.
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So then you put, you know, a bunch of women in a in a group.
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Yes.
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And then
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the rule is do not give advice.
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That's one of the rules.
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When people share, you you cannot try to fix each other.
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Your job is not to give advice.
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So I say straight up, the rules of this circle is to hold space and allow accept the shine
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love.
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And if you hear someone share it, your job is not to try to fix it.
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Your job is not to give advice.
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Your job is just to hold space and listen.
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And then we do lots of different interactive activities.
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Some may include eye gaze in, some may include writing lists, and some may include physical
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touch and someone in in massaging.
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It all depends on the topic.
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And, it is so important to share our vulnerabilities because If not, we create
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disease in our own bodies because we don't feel safe.
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Of course, having the card up helped us back in the day when we were being hunted by lines, but
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now we're not being hunted by lines.
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So we had to realize, like, we're k, we're safe to share vulnerabilities.
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You can witness the animal kingdom.
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They have, like, the butterflies with their eyes on the wings and the fishes with the eyes
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on the belly.
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So predators don't catch them.
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So even in our animal kingdom, they are designed to ward our predators and a human mind
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and the human action that we do, we're designed to wear mask, wear mask, word off the the
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people that wanna hurt us.
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But this time in right now in 2018 and beyond, it is a time to just open up all that masks you
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know, of course, you have to be aware, but at the same time, it's okay to shine your truth
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without having to wear a mask.
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I know some people that there are different people for every different group, but then they
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make themselves crazy having to pretend the best way to shine is by being you and their
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story and if people can't handle your greatness and people are put off because what?
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Find the big tribe for you.
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That's it.
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Not everyone has to be your best friend.
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Not everyone has to like you.
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Just that you don't have to like everyone.
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Absolutely.
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Because they always the more connected you get and I'm, you know, I know I can speak to my
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life, the more connected I became to the core of who I was, the people that needed to stay
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stayed, the people that needed to be clear, clear, and the people that I needed to attract
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naturally, I attracted because I said years ago, you know, kind of when I made my shift and
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wrote my book and stuff, I said I wanted to be connected to like minded.
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I said women, that were spiritually connected, and to run-in those circles.
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And, you know, it's now I look back and talk about manifestation you know, I hadn't thought
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about in those terms, but now I look at it and, you know, I'm around speakers and I'm around
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authors and around spiritually connected people, like, you know, you know, speaking,
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traveling, all those things.
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The things that I was just a thought in my mind.
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I thought oh, I'm gonna write this book.
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That was the extent of it.
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Wow.
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And then, you know, years later, you know, 3, 4 years later, not without a lot of hard work as
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you know what it takes.
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But now I'm like looking around going, interesting.
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Isn't this kind of what I thought I would like?
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You know, and then not just writing it down, but you know, and did I like you, did I refer
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back to it often?
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No.
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But now I look back and then I go, wow, you know, a couple years ago, this was just a
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thought for me.
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It's true.
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And then because you trusted it and you took the action, It all involves entrusting yourself
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and taking the action knowing that you're worthy of this.
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Because a lot of people, when they found out I was writing a book was like, well, who are you
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and why do people wanna I'm like, it doesn't matter.
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If one person loves it or a hundred people love it, then it's not the point.
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The point is it's a story of my heart and I need to share with others.
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And that's where your intention is just to be real insurance and support others.
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So, yes, and look at you, and I don't know what we did.
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You created that platform and then you go to New York and you were working with less Brown.
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That's fantastic.
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Sure.
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Yeah.
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The opportunities come and now, you know, and then speaking professionally as a Canadian
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professional speaker, that was another thing.
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And, you know, so before you know it, you know, and, you know, you're just you're just putting
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one foot in front of each other, not unlike you 20 minutes a day and saying, okay.
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Well, what am I gonna do today?
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Right?
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Like, Violet you did that a bit at a time.
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Sometimes I wouldn't write for 20 minutes.
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You know, one time I went to the beach with some friends and I took my laptop And the
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universe said, you know what?
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The I wrote for 40 minutes and the locked laptop shut down.
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Oh, wow.
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And I said, you know, what I said to myself, I'm not meant to be writing.
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I'm meant to be enjoying my friends and my son.
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At the beach.
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And I said never never knew what those forty pages were.
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Lost it, and I just I just shut the laptop and I said to myself, I'm not meant to be doing
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this right now.
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Thank you.
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And then I rewrote it at some other point.
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Right?
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So I think it's you're so you're so right when you say it.
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Right?
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So, you know, what?
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For people listening and, you know, That said, I've been in a I know I've been through a lot
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in my life and and I've made a lot of changes.
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I know you've seen stuff.
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I've seen stuff as children we both have not, you know, not recognized because you and I had
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already never shared each other's stories.
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For someone out there that's kinda, you know, they're stuck.
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Like, you know, they're they're like, yeah, Natalia, I get what you're saying, blah blah
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blah, yeah, Roxanne, whatever.
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What kind of words would you reach out to someone like that right now?
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Oh,
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so they know that they're not alone.
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The biggest is fine support.
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And maybe it's not gonna circle for you because you may not feel comfortable.
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Maybe it's going to a counselor, a therapist, a healer, psychologist, I need some support to
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assist you from being that state of mind.
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If you're feeling stuck or unworthy or unlovable or or sad and so on.
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It's okay.
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Don't judge yourself, but always support yourself with other people around you shared
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Don't be alone because you're not alone.
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You're meant to be supported.
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So find a connection that you feel a safe person to support yourself with it starts
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small.
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Like, maybe you start with baby steps up.
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I'm gonna try meditating.
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There's so many apps I love Insight timer and I use it all the time.
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What's it called?
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Insights timer.
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Inside?
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Yeah.
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Like, I n s I g h t.
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Insights timer.
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Single day, and you can click 15 to 20 minutes, 30 to 40 minutes, 5 to 10 minutes, and start
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with that.
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Being at past states, pausing And then that's how you start getting unstuck.
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You need to pause.
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What am I feeling right now?
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And also the mindfulness and that a journey or meditating and counts in your breaths.
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People think meditation is so hard, but no.
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We're born meditating.
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You know, you just to breathe.
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We get birthmeditated.
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I get birth with my son at home on my back doing my self hypnosis, breathing deeply.
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So a meditation is just being mindful of what's happening right now and breathe in deeply.
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And I also created a platform online because there's a lot people that are writing me
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because I'm very social.
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I belong to many different groups and I've got messages from people from Australia, from
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India, writing me asking for my spiritual wisdom and questions about Reiki and angels and
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so on.
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So I knew that that was the year of just this way of telling me I need to create a platform
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and I am a creature.
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I create all the time so I don't stop and I just launched like literally last week a new
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platform so people all around the world can have access to my guidance and support.
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So it's called the goddess utopia and it's a monthly fee, a monthly fee of CAD50 and they
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get every week 1 hour live session with me and I answer all the questions.
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You have the whole week to ask questions and I answer it all.
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And it's always based on a different thing.
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And then we use like 10 minutes to meditate at the end and then so every week, we'll have a
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live session.
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And in every month of Ricky healing because energy can travel just like pre travels energy
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travels.
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That's how we can bless the sisters in the world and give blessings to other parts of the
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world that need it.
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So we're all energetically able to do that.
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It's like a frequency.
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So You get that 1 healing a month weekly support daily guidance and worksheets to
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process on your own time because some people like the visuals then some people need to write
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it down as well.
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So only for $50, which is amazing because 1 hour session with me is at least $80 or above
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for, like, the Ricky and so on.
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I want to be able to touch people that can't come to seeing cafes.
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And for a monthly fee, you'll it's like having a Goddess coach in your pocket.
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So if you can't catch the live, it's so fine because you can watch watch the replay.
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You can watch the replay next week.
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You don't have to be there on the live.
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Cause your questions are gonna be answered.
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So you just watch it when you can.
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And, so my goal was having 10 ladies and I have 15 ladies and I'm just so honored because I
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believe when you built it, it will come.
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And it's true.
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You have to be able to support people and There's so many other different coaching
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groups.
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Like, I know people that paid $7000 for 3 months of mentorship.
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I didn't wanna be that person that was so unattainable.
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I I didn't want you at this point in my life saying $7000.
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I wanted to reach the people that really can't invest $7000 and, you know, they wanna come see
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me for a 1 hour session, but instead of paying $8 an hour, they're okay with paying 50 bucks
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for the month because I've been motivating them every single week.
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I wanted to reach the mothers or the busy people that don't have time to go for 1 hour
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session, but they can still work on themselves.
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Right.
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So that's why I created the goddess, utopia.
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So I believe that if you feel the idea to do it, That means that you have to take action
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because there are people that need you.
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And if if my group stays at 15, that's amazing.
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And if it grows, that's even amazing too.
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I'm not attached to the outcome, I just listen to the calling.
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Awesome.
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Awesome.
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What a nice, what what a nice gift to be giving out there to women that would probably love to
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come and see you in person.
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But, you know, like you said, or even even if they are in the region, it you know, that might
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be a bit much for people, and I recognize that.
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That you can give such a gift and be able to, you know, go online, you know, if you're their
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life, like you said, or to be able to hear the replays or just to be able to get the wisdom,
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you know, like that, like, that pep talk that we all need.
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We all need accountability.
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Right?
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We all need that check-in.
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We need, am I doing okay?
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And, you know, I I the one I was watching something with Oprah, and she said, the one
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question, the one statement she hears every time someone was on her show is the first thing
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they said, said whether they it was Obama or my aunt Angela was, how did I do?
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How did I do?
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She said they would the camera would click off and the first thing they would say so, like,
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how did I do?
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And that is such an you know, a powerful thing that someone of that, you know, magnitude still
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wanted the feedback about how they did.
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It's so true.
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That's so powerful.
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It is true.
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Everyone wants to feel validated.
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Everyone's their trips in the date of approval.
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And, Yeah.
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Everyone wants to know, hey.
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Did I get the gold star today?
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And and it's okay.
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It's one of the love languages.
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Right?
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And we could go on and on, but Yeah.
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One of my favorite is words of affirmations, and that's from Gary Chapman, the love
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languages.
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So of course, giving praise is important.
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Because when they get faced with other people, you give them that love that they desire and
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they seek, and we all wanna feel loved.
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So when the even experts say how did I do?
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Is that always that they're insecure?
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It's just that they want to feel the love.
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It's like, you did fantastic.
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There's a gold star in high 5.
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But you embody that, though.
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Right?
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Like, I mean, I've I obviously know you.
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So you it love comes off you, and you can feel that.
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So I can imagine in your goddess circles, what people experience, you know, they they feel
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that love from you in person or even online.
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I mean, even us doing this.
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It's I'm experiencing here, but I know it's exactly who you are.
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So this has been such a such a gift you know, I've I've learned so much about you.
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It's so interesting that we've known each other for so long, and I've learned so much more
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today.
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And I'm and I feel privileged to be, you know, in your in your space and your path.
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So what I want you to do is to tell everybody how they can get a hold of you because I'm sure
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people are gonna wanna reach out and get to know more about if they wanted to join the the
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goddess, utopia, or coach, or whatever.
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So where where can everybody reach you?
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Okay.
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So I have 3 different websites because I do so much, and I didn't wanna confuse everyone.
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So the one the goddess youtopia is for the mentorship opportunity.
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And I actually have someone from New Jersey.
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I have someone and yet and even Australia in there.
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So, I feel very honored that I'm reaching that parts of the world one sister at a time.
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So, the goddess to children us for that the Reverend or some reverend Natalie hate dotca is
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for the ministry work because my biggest biggest mission is amplifying love.
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Amplifying love.
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My god is circles.
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I amplify my love in the wedding ceremony.
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And I provide my love in my holistic practice, which is called sacred breakthroughs.
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So on Instagram, I use secrets for breakthrough because I've been with sacred breakthroughs for
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15 years.
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Sacred means that sacred place within the essence of who you are and breakthroughs means
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I'm assisting you in breaking through all that self sabotage limiting beliefs, body, mind, and
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spirit with the rekey hypnosis and reflexology.
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So to find me the quickest would be on Instagram, sacred breakthroughs, or on
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Facebook, sacred breakthroughs.
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And then those 3 platforms depending on what you're seeking.
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Okay.
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So if they just went, online also and just put your name in Natalie Hague.
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Yes.
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There would be a fight.
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Everything.
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Okay.
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I
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even had a LinkedIn page, and I always love that, but I just had to do it because everyone
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said I needed it.
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They're like, Okay.
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I'm not gonna close the opportunity.
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I'll put it everywhere and see what happens.
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Right?
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You gotta plant the season, open the doors.
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For things who walk in.
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Well, naturally, this has been a pleasure.
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So what what did I gain today?
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I gained a sense that be authentic, which, you know, obviously, that you know that's my brand
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is the only way to face the world.
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It's the only way to face the world.
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We all have a story.
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We can rewrite that story.
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And, we rewrite that story by just listening to the universe but at the end of the day, we
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gotta get up and do.
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Whether it's 5 minutes a day, a minute a day, or, and you build a bit at a time.
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And once you do that, small steps, you know, whether, like Natalie said, seeing a
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psychotherapist or, psychologists at first, and then you start to build that tribe around you
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that starts to reflect back that they they they are in alignments, with where you are Then
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before you know it, that attraction brings the people that you need, the right people show up.
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It's just about recognizing you gotta throw the nets because if if you keep the net all kind of
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bundled up in your garage, by literally, it's gonna stay there.
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You have to risk a bit at a time and we've only got one go around it like I often say.
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So, take that risk, pick up the phone, reach out, reach out, to myself or to naturally for
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any of your needs.
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If you're needing any more on, information on me, you can go to Roxanne forward slash
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blueprint where you have a free course, and, we look forward to staying connected with you.
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And thanks again, Natalie, for being on
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Thank you for this opportunity.
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It truly was a pleasure.
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I know we were meaning to do this for the summer, but today was the right time to do it.
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It always happens in the right time.
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So thank you for your patience and opportunity to share and your tribe.
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You're welcome.
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Okay.
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Take care, everyone.
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We'll chat with you soon.
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Have a
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good day.
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Okay.
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Bye.
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