Latest / From the Coach's Mouth / Re-Release: Lauren Haeger
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- 0:00The higher levels and not even everyone in Division One.
- 0:02Like it's not normal to throw 65.
- 0:04Like that's not super common. I think that social media can
- 0:07make it feel super common but it's not like.
- 0:09And what's your game speed? It's probably different from
- 0:11what you just posted on Twitter anyway.
- 0:13But changing speeds and hitting your spots literally will keep
- 0:16you successful every single time at.
- 0:18The field in your car or on the couch.
- 0:24Get your basket from the coach's mouth.
- 0:39Welcome to the From the Coach's Mouth podcast with your hosts
- 0:44Jay Bolden and Ken Krause. Welcome everybody.
- 1:02Thanks for tuning in today again.
- 1:04Once again joined by my man, my good buddy Ken Krause.
- 1:08Ken, how you been doing? Doing great Jay, how you been
- 1:11doing? Not too bad, not too bad.
- 1:14Just got back this Sunday from Iowa.
- 1:15Had games all weekend. Excited to do this podcast here
- 1:19from the coach's mouth. So again, thanks from for
- 1:21everybody tuning in today. We've got an awesome guest
- 1:23today. Cannot wait to get and talk some
- 1:25pitching today. So Ken, how was your weekend?
- 1:28Pretty good. Yeah, it was pretty good.
- 1:30It was real busy, a lot of lessons.
- 1:32I was pretty tired. And then on top of it, my wife
- 1:35and I, I had to run like right from lessons.
- 1:38I got changed there, ran over to a thing called Whine About
- 1:41Winter, which was, it's a thing in the neighboring town of
- 1:45Libertyville where you go in, you get a little glass and then
- 1:50you go from shop to shop. You know, these, all these
- 1:52little shops and stuff, each one of them will give you a little
- 1:55pour of different wines and you kind of walk around the shop.
- 2:00As you can imagine, there weren't a lot of XY chromosome
- 2:04people there, so that was kind of funny.
- 2:07It was mostly, mostly women, but I managed to get through it.
- 2:12You know, you get enough of the wine going, it feels pretty
- 2:14good. And then we joined up.
- 2:15Just the wine alone sounds like a good time.
- 2:18Yep. And then we joined up with a
- 2:19couple of other couples. So, you know, it made it a
- 2:22little bit easier. So at one point we were walking
- 2:24around and the guys and I, you know, we're all going like, you
- 2:27know, woodworking, you know, bow hunting, just same manly things.
- 2:33OK, awesome times right there buddy.
- 2:37So do you want to do us a favor and give some background on our
- 2:40awesome guest today? I sure do, all right.
- 2:44Well, we feel fortunate to have the opportunity to speak to
- 2:47today's guest. A native of Peoria, AZ, she was
- 2:51a 2011 NFCA First Team All American and ESPN Rise Under
- 2:56Armour All American in high school who accumulated 413
- 3:00strikeouts and an .044 ERA her senior year, while also tying
- 3:06the Arizona career home run record.
- 3:09She went on to have a stellar career, playing for Florida for
- 3:11four years as a pitcher and a first baseman, culminating in a
- 3:15Women's College World Series title in 2015.
- 3:19In that same year, she earned many individual accolades
- 3:22including being named the Honda Award winner for Softball, the
- 3:25USA Softball National Collegiate Player of the Year, the SEC
- 3:29Female Athlete of the Year, the Women's College World Series
- 3:33Most Outstanding Player, the SEC Pitcher of the Year, and All SEC
- 3:37First Team. She's also a two time NFCA First
- 3:40Team All American and was twice nominated for an ESPY Award.
- 3:46Additionally, our guest holds the distinction of being the
- 3:48only NCAA fast pitch player to win 70 games as a pitcher and
- 3:53hit seventy home runs, a feat equalled by only one athlete in
- 3:58history, a guy you might have heard of by the name of Babe
- 4:01Ruth. After college, she played in the
- 4:03National Pro Fast Pitch League for four years as a pitcher and
- 4:071st baseman with the Dallas Charge and later the Scrap Yard
- 4:11Dogs, earning all NPF honors for three of those four years.
- 4:16She is currently a private coach in South Carolina with her own
- 4:19business, The Softball Project, where she offers pitching and
- 4:23hitting instruction, and as a travel team coach.
- 4:26I could go on and on about her many awards and accomplishments,
- 4:29but then we'd never get to speak with her.
- 4:31Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome Lauren Hager to From the
- 4:34Coach's Mouth. Hello.
- 4:38And North Carolina, not South Carolina, but that's.
- 4:42OK. Charlotte.
- 4:44Charlotte, Yeah, we're real close to South Carolina, but
- 4:47it's about 10 minutes from the border.
- 4:49But. OK, see Charlotte.
- 4:51North Carolina. That's what I get for looking at
- 4:54Google Maps. Or Wikipedia.
- 4:58No, I think it was on Google Maps.
- 4:59Just the way it was showing up. The must.
- 5:01I must have seen the South Carolina part instead of the
- 5:03part literally right? It's 10 minutes away at the
- 5:05border is so that makes sense my.
- 5:07Favorite part is that you took offense to that, Lauren, that's
- 5:10fantastic. I love that.
- 5:12I love that listen. Listen, don't put me there.
- 5:14I love Charlotte. I found love this city six years
- 5:17ago and I haven't left yet. So yeah, I do love it here.
- 5:21How'd you wind up in in Charlotte?
- 5:24So I was playing professionally and when I stopped playing
- 5:30professionally, so actually the owner of the facility is Kelsey
- 5:34Bruder. So she played at Florida as
- 5:37well, but she played four years before me.
- 5:40And so she had moved here randomly years ago, like years
- 5:44before I did, started giving lessons and then opened up the
- 5:47softball project. She had asked me, you know, what
- 5:50I was going to do. And I was like, well, I'm, I was
- 5:52working for scrap yard at the time when I was playing for
- 5:55them. So a year later when I stopped
- 5:57playing, I reached back out to her and I was like, can I give
- 6:01lessons at your facility? And I just randomly moved to
- 6:04Charlotte. And I have fallen in love with
- 6:06it here. All right, Lauren, we're going
- 6:08to get into it. Are you ready?
- 6:10I'm ready. Awesome.
- 6:11So if you can, can you give us a little bit of of background on
- 6:15like where your softball journey began, what age did you start,
- 6:19those kinds of things? Give us a little bit of your
- 6:21journey. I think it started, you know, my
- 6:23journey started just like everyone else's.
- 6:25I was a little kid who just loved sports.
- 6:27I had an older brother, so whatever.
- 6:30We're only 15 months apart, so I wasn't too far behind him, but
- 6:32whatever he was doing, I wanted to do my my parents both played
- 6:36college sports. My dad played college football
- 6:39and my mom played college volleyball and tennis, so no
- 6:42softball in there and no baseball in there.
- 6:44So when my brother was playing T-ball, all I wanted to do was
- 6:47play on his team and I would practice with them and stuff,
- 6:50but I obviously was too little to play.
- 6:53And then eventually I got into my own T-ball coach pitch
- 6:56situation and ever since then, I think I was 7 or so when I got
- 7:01on my first real team. And ever since then I haven't
- 7:04stopped playing. I played a couple years of Wreck
- 7:06and then, you know, started travel ball when I was 10 and I
- 7:10just never looked back. Awesome.
- 7:12What, what high school did you play for?
- 7:14Because you're, you're out in Arizona, correct?
- 7:16Is that where you grew up? So like what high school did you
- 7:18play for out there? Or maybe some travel teams that
- 7:20you started out along with when they were around back then?
- 7:23Yeah, there. I went to Deer Valley High
- 7:26School. My dad, I wasn't actually zoned
- 7:29to go to Deer Valley High School, but my dad had taught at
- 7:31Deer Valley High School since I was born, so I was going to go
- 7:35there. And so I got to be around that
- 7:38school all the time and all I wanted to do was play varsity
- 7:40sports at Deer Valley. I thought it was like the
- 7:42coolest thing ever. My dad coached football there
- 7:44and coached so many sports and so many of those coaches I had
- 7:48known since I was literally three days old.
- 7:50They induced me so he would have missed his football game on a
- 7:53Friday night. And I went to the football game
- 7:56at my high school three days later.
- 7:57So when I was born, so that's kind of a funny story, is all I
- 8:02wanted to do was play varsity, you know, sports at Deer Valley.
- 8:05I thought that was the coolest thing ever.
- 8:07And so I played for a couple of travel ball teams, but I ended
- 8:12my last four years of travel ball with the Arizona Hotshots.
- 8:15Nice nice. So what when did you when did
- 8:18the pitching thing start? Did you start at 10 U and just
- 8:21stay with it the whole way or was it like actually?
- 8:24No, I was a catcher and I was really short and I was going
- 8:30through my growth spurt and all the things.
- 8:31So when I was 10, I was a catcher and I started having
- 8:34some like foot problems. It's a knee problems and I had
- 8:37to be on crutches and I had stress fractures because I was
- 8:40growing all the things and my dad and my mom and dad were
- 8:43like, no, we're not doing this. You got to pick something else.
- 8:46So of course I picked pitching the other.
- 8:48I just wanted to be involved every pitch.
- 8:50So I was like, let's do pitching.
- 8:51And so I was actually really late.
- 8:53I feel like to pitching. I took started taking it serious
- 8:57around right before I turned 12 probably.
- 9:00So I mean, I was pretty late to the game.
- 9:03And when I told people that they're like, oh, and I'm like,
- 9:05yeah, your daughter's 10. It's not a big deal.
- 9:07Like it's not a big deal. She's way ahead of where I was.
- 9:10So that's I think a little bit shocking to people is that I
- 9:14was, I was really 12 when I really started pitching in games
- 9:17and stuff like that. It's.
- 9:18Probably shocking to people, too, to hear that you were late
- 9:20to the game at 12. You think, you know, most of the
- 9:23time for activities like that, you know, kids aren't really
- 9:26going to find their way until a little bit older.
- 9:28But yeah, these days a lot of kids start at 8 so.
- 9:31Right, especially pitching, I would say like people really,
- 9:34you know, think that oh, she's just starting out and they're 11
- 9:38and I'm like that's normal. It's not normal.
- 9:40But they have kid pitch now at 8 U and so I think that that's
- 9:44they didn't have that when I was younger.
- 9:46So that's good for our game, but it's also like stresses people
- 9:49out sometimes and I'm like it's OK.
- 9:51Yep. What about some instructors out
- 9:53there in Arizona? Who did you, who did you see for
- 9:56pitching out there or, or some of the ones that really had a
- 9:59big influence on you when you did get into pitching?
- 10:02So I actually started taking lessons from a gentleman named
- 10:08Dallas Coleman. He had given lessons to a few of
- 10:12the girls that I used to play with, but he was the pitching
- 10:15coach at Phoenix College for a while.
- 10:18He was older. So towards the end of my
- 10:21pitching career and only a few years after I left for college,
- 10:24he retired and he had a farm in Kansas and stuff.
- 10:27So he kind of moved back there. But to be honest, I didn't take
- 10:30a ton of lessons. I was a really athletic kid.
- 10:36I think that that was really helpful.
- 10:37I played club volleyball, 3 varsity sports in high school,
- 10:40like I really my whole life was sports.
- 10:44And so I think that really helped me a lot, but I actually
- 10:48didn't, it wasn't very successful as a pitcher early
- 10:51on. I had a lot of people cut me
- 10:54from travel ball teams because I was, I wanted to pitch and
- 10:56they're like, you're going to be our 4th pitcher.
- 10:58All the things, you know, she's just not going to pitch here.
- 11:01So I really had to work hard on my own.
- 11:04And my dad, obviously, he invested so much time on the
- 11:07bucket, it's not even funny as most pitcher dads do.
- 11:10I've hit him so many times I can't even count.
- 11:13But I think that I just worked really hard and I had my
- 11:17lessons, you know, every once in a while with Dallas and he would
- 11:20teach me new things and I would go and I would actually practice
- 11:23them, which is crazy. But what a concept, right?
- 11:27What a concept. So just 1/2 an hour a week is
- 11:31not going to do it. No, it's not.
- 11:34Anyway, so that's kind of like my little bit of a pitching
- 11:37background, but I did get cut a lot because I wanted to pitch
- 11:40and they were like, she's not going to pitch here, but I
- 11:43wanted to do, it's like I'm doing it.
- 11:45I think that that's that's a great message though, too.
- 11:47I think this is really important for people to hear that you
- 11:51didn't start out being Lauren Hager.
- 11:53You know, you were just, you know, this girl that wanted to
- 11:56pitch and that there were so many people who weren't willing
- 11:59to say, give you the opportunity because perhaps they thought,
- 12:03well, we can win more games if we use this kid.
- 12:05We're not going to take the time to develop somebody who's a
- 12:08beginner. Yeah, I also just, I also feel
- 12:12like I had genetics on my side a little bit.
- 12:16My dad was an offensive lineman and my mom played college
- 12:18volleyball, so I at some point you knew I was going to grow.
- 12:21I was like 5-2 in 7th grade with huge feet.
- 12:25It was a really weird time in my life, but I think me growing 8
- 12:30inches until freshman year really helped me out that I feel
- 12:34like pitching kind of like came to me a little bit easier just
- 12:37because I was a bigger, stronger kid.
- 12:40So I think that that really helped my development and gave
- 12:43me more chances than I think it would have if I just kind of
- 12:47stayed the same. Any any, any great memories that
- 12:52you might have from playing in your younger days, maybe even
- 12:54high school or travel that just kind of still stick with you and
- 12:57resonate with you through even even now?
- 13:00Yeah, absolutely. I was lucky enough to play in
- 13:03three state championships in high school, 2 for softball and
- 13:06one for volleyball. Women's sports at my school are
- 13:09very good and I will never forget those.
- 13:13You know those times I lost the state championship in softball
- 13:16and then I won my senior year. It was kind of a really big
- 13:20storybook ending. But to be honest, I don't, I
- 13:23don't even feel like we were the best team all the time, but I
- 13:26had so much fun. My I when I was a freshman in
- 13:31high school, I, I made varsity and at my school at Deer Valley,
- 13:36that wasn't super normal. We had a full freshman team, a
- 13:39full JV team and a full varsity team with cuts at all three
- 13:42levels. And in North Carolina, that's
- 13:44not a thing. And so when I, when I talk about
- 13:47that, it's kind of crazy to think it was normal to me just
- 13:50being from Arizona. So when I made varsity as a
- 13:53freshman, I, I really wasn't treated very well.
- 13:55So I made sure that when I was a senior that I, that wasn't going
- 13:59to happen to anybody else. And we just had so much fun.
- 14:01We were all best friends. It was such a fun time in my
- 14:06life and it was such a fun year. So I'll never forget like just
- 14:11high school sports in general. I loved my high school
- 14:14experience. I was really, really lucky.
- 14:16My travel ball coach my last couple years and was my high
- 14:19school coach. So that kind of made it easier
- 14:21too. So just winning the state
- 14:24championship my senior year was kind of like a storybook ending
- 14:27to my entire career there. Yeah, that must have been
- 14:31exciting. And I would imagine, you know,
- 14:33there's always that cliche thing or the meme thing that goes
- 14:36around that you won't remember the games, but you'll remember
- 14:39the people. I mean, do you feel that way or
- 14:40do you still have the memories of some of those games, good or
- 14:43bad? I don't recall any of the games
- 14:46my freshman year, actually. I just remember, you know, kind
- 14:50of like how people made me feel. So it is so true when people say
- 14:54that. I think when I, you know,
- 14:56started to turn into my 30s, those kind of things really
- 14:59stand out in your mind because you can't remember the games you
- 15:01played when you were a freshman. That was 15 years ago at this
- 15:04point. But I do remember there is a
- 15:09personal story from that game my senior year was that I hadn't
- 15:13given up a home run all year. Like that was just not something
- 15:16that I that happened to me. But we were playing a team from
- 15:19Tucson and I didn't really know any of the girls on the team.
- 15:22But I remember this girl came up to bat.
- 15:25Apparently she was committed to Baylor.
- 15:27So there's that. And I had no idea.
- 15:29She took me hard. So we were down 3, nothing in
- 15:32the state championship and we didn't score a ton of runs.
- 15:34Like I told you, we weren't, you know, the most talented group of
- 15:37girls that were just like mashing and stuff like that.
- 15:41But whatever reason, for whatever reason, we crawled our
- 15:43way back to making it 33. I don't know how we did, but we
- 15:47did in the top of the 7th inning, I LED off the inning and
- 15:52I hit a home run to take us up 4:00 to 3:00 and then I struck
- 15:55out the side in the bottom of the 7th.
- 15:57So it just made it even sweeter coming back to win that game
- 16:01because I was like, Oh my God, did that just happen?
- 16:03Like I didn't. I really didn't think we were
- 16:05going to come back and win, but I'm so happy my team had my back
- 16:08at that moment. That's great.
- 16:11You know, those are, again, always fun stories to hear.
- 16:15So what would your recruiting experience like?
- 16:18Were you heavily recruited, given that you were doing so
- 16:21well? Or, you know, Yeah, it was
- 16:24really. It was a really fast process for
- 16:28me. I did play on a really
- 16:30competitive travel ball team in Arizona and so that was easier
- 16:36for me. But you know, we did the
- 16:37Colorado trip, we did nationals and back then their PGF didn't
- 16:40exist. So it was just ASA nationals
- 16:42that we went to. And I think it was like first
- 16:46year 16 new nationals, I think we're playing in the middle of,
- 16:51Oh my gosh, I don't even know Tennessee or I don't know,
- 16:54somewhere so random in the middle of a cornfield, to be
- 16:57honest. And I was, you know, getting the
- 17:02start of a game that where we were playing a team called the
- 17:05Southern Force in Illinois and the Renfro sisters were the
- 17:09pitchers of that team. Jerry and Glasgow was on that
- 17:13team. Like it was loaded, right?
- 17:14So this is going to be a really big game and I'm just some girl
- 17:17for I didn't really, to be honest, I never even knew who we
- 17:21were playing. I just was like so excited to
- 17:23play and I'm so competitive, so it didn't really matter.
- 17:27But I remember looking up into the stands and looking to see
- 17:32that there was not a single seat for like a regular person.
- 17:35It was full of college coaches and I'll never forget looking up
- 17:39and seeing that. And we ended up winning 3
- 17:41nothing. And I remember at the end of
- 17:43that game, my coach just had a stack of business cards because
- 17:47business cards was a thing. And emails really just started
- 17:51to be a thing, to be honest. And so we took that stack of
- 17:54business cards and we talked as a family and I called some
- 17:57schools. I ended up, you know, going to
- 18:00visit 5 schools, which was Florida, Georgia, Tennessee,
- 18:05Texas A&M, and Oklahoma State. I, my family's a huge college
- 18:11football family. My grandma had tickets to ASU
- 18:13football games for 40 years or something crazy.
- 18:17I've been growing up going to college football games.
- 18:19So college football was a big part of what I wanted my college
- 18:22experience to be. So with those five schools, I
- 18:25thought I could probably make that happen as well.
- 18:28Texas A&M had just been in the national championship with
- 18:31Amanda Scarborough at Texas A&M that year, and Florida had just
- 18:37made it to the World Series the first time that year.
- 18:40So I kind of narrowed it down. We talked to them all on the
- 18:44phone. They had all offered the same
- 18:46amount of money. And so we just took my college
- 18:49fund that my parents had, you know, saved for me and we went
- 18:52and took unofficial visits to all 5 schools.
- 18:55And yeah, it just happened. I think, you know, they saw me
- 18:58in the summer of my freshman year going into my sophomore
- 19:01year, and then I was committed by March of my sophomore year.
- 19:04So it really went really fast. That's not everyone's story.
- 19:10Yeah, that's that's right. That was back in the day when
- 19:12they were recruiting 8th graders.
- 19:14True. Not quite yet.
- 19:16I think I was right before the 8th grade, but I mean, in high
- 19:20school, yes, like an eighth grader hadn't committee, I don't
- 19:23think. But like 9th grade, like even
- 19:26sophomore year was kind of early.
- 19:27People were like, oh, he committed as a sophomore like
- 19:30back then. And I was like, yeah, but I
- 19:32think pitchers were always a little bit more early than
- 19:34everybody else. Pitchers, catchers, shortstops,
- 19:37that kind of thing. But then it then it got crazy.
- 19:41The 6th grade thing as well. So are you glad that they
- 19:44changed the rules that you know, that you know, at least at the
- 19:48D1 level, they can't recruit you till September 1st of your
- 19:52junior year. Do you think that's a good?
- 19:54Thing so I I think I've seen more I think I've seen benefits
- 19:59and where it's just allowed the girls to develop more if we if I
- 20:02was getting recruited so I didn't even pitch some 12 like I
- 20:04feel like you know I feel like I have been left behind so far if
- 20:08it had gone to that stage when I was getting recruited but.
- 20:12I do feel like now it kind of creates a panic sometimes where
- 20:15people have feel like they have to because they're almost done
- 20:18with their junior year and they're not committed somewhere.
- 20:20So I think there's really good things of it.
- 20:22But I see a lot of stress from it too, from the coaching side.
- 20:26But I do just think it's a better way of, you know, these
- 20:30girls maturing mentally. They know what they want more.
- 20:33They're looking into schools more as an adult than they are
- 20:36just as a softball player. And I kind of appreciate that
- 20:39more. Yeah, for.
- 20:40Sure, definitely is. Yeah, I would agree with you.
- 20:42I think just, you know, I would. I almost felt like when they
- 20:46were recruiting, you know, 7th and 8th graders, that's more of
- 20:48the parents decision instead of the player's decision.
- 20:51And I didn't know. What I wanted 7th grade, I was
- 20:53like, what do I I I was so all over the place.
- 20:56No 7th grade girl. Who's that?
- 20:58True. Yeah, true.
- 20:59Oh yeah. Well, I mean, Jay still doesn't
- 21:00know what he wants to be when he grows up, so.
- 21:02This is true, I'm still working fine.
- 21:04I still don't know there, so it's all good.
- 21:07OK, so so you pick Florida, you play 4 years at Florida, you win
- 21:11the national championship in 2015.
- 21:14Can you share some memories from, you know, that special run
- 21:17in 2015 or even prior to that, some of the things, the UPS and
- 21:20the downs and how did it start for you there?
- 21:23Did you pitch every game your freshman year or did you have
- 21:25to, you know, work and wait and wait and work?
- 21:28Yeah, it was. It was quite a journey, I would
- 21:32say. When I got there my freshman
- 21:35year, I think they were expecting more out of me than I
- 21:38was ready for. When it came to the pitching
- 21:40part, I had always thrown really hard.
- 21:43So the pitching aspect of being a college pitcher, I was not
- 21:48ready. Like I was just not.
- 21:50I threw really hard growing up, so it really didn't matter if I
- 21:53missed. You mean you're throwing 70 at
- 21:5416? Like it doesn't really matter
- 21:57where you throw the ball at times, but when you get to that
- 21:59next level, it really matters where you throw the ball when
- 22:02you throw that hard. So I think I I was good, but I
- 22:06wasn't great. I couldn't get through a line of
- 22:09three times. I didn't have a really great
- 22:10change up. But luckily we had Hannah Rogers
- 22:14in front of me who really kind of stepped into that role of
- 22:16being the number one pitcher. And I would start Saturday, she
- 22:20would start Friday, I would start Saturday, she would start
- 22:24Sunday. We pitched a lot by staff my
- 22:28whole entire career there, to be honest, right up until the end
- 22:31of my senior year. I feel like we pretty much had a
- 22:35really good rotation going on. That was kind of unusual then,
- 22:38too, wasn't it? I mean, didn't a lot of teams at
- 22:41that point still kind of rely on one arm to get them through the
- 22:45entire season? I would say yes, I think people
- 22:48had two, but people didn't have three or four.
- 22:52People didn't couldn't rely on three or four arms, but we
- 22:54definitely had three at least all the time, which is kind of
- 22:58nice. And we were all really
- 22:59different, which I also liked. So my journey up until my junior
- 23:04year was I hit a lot. I played first a lot and I
- 23:08pitched when they needed me to. That's how I kind of felt how it
- 23:11was, but I felt like I was really bouncing around all the
- 23:15time. When I'm early to practice for
- 23:17my bullpen, I'm, you know, now I'm now I have to switch to be
- 23:22defense and like have all the defenses in my head.
- 23:25Not that first base is super complicated, but with Coach
- 23:28Walton's defense, it's very structured, it's very clean.
- 23:31It's very the way that he wants it.
- 23:33So you do have to remember more than what I was used to at first
- 23:35base. And then we'd go to hitting and
- 23:38during hitting, the pitchers probably could leave early, but
- 23:40not me. I was there having to do the
- 23:42whole, you know, hitting thing. So that's kind of how our
- 23:46practices were structured. And I felt like I was being
- 23:48pulled a lot in different directions.
- 23:50And I, I did whatever I was told.
- 23:53I did the amount of reps that I was told.
- 23:54But it was hard for me to like do more and I needed more at
- 23:58pitching for sure to really get it together.
- 24:01But then my junior year comes around and we were OK.
- 24:06We were doing OK. I mean, we didn't lose a lot of
- 24:09games. So when I say we're doing OK, I
- 24:11look back at like all the rings that I have in our, in our, our
- 24:15records are on there. And I'm like, we only lost nine
- 24:17games the whole year. Like, that's insane to me.
- 24:21But like, my junior year, we got swept for the first time in my
- 24:24in my career. Tennessee just whooped our butt
- 24:27three games in a row. I've never seen Coach Rocha
- 24:29break a clipboard like she did in my whole life.
- 24:32No pitcher could keep it in the yard.
- 24:33And from that moment on, our Hannah Rogers just like turned
- 24:37into a different human being. And she worked so hard.
- 24:41So we ended up, you know, winning in 2014.
- 24:43And I started a lot of those games, but not the big ones, you
- 24:48know, and Hannah did. But then this is just such a
- 24:53there's so much detail that could go into these stories.
- 24:55But four years feels like it feels like a lifetime when
- 24:59you're in it, to be honest. But, you know, I go into my
- 25:02senior year and I'm supposed to be, you know, I just, I guess I
- 25:05just assume that I'm going to be the one, right?
- 25:07All the things. And I go into Coach Walton's
- 25:09office December, our exit meetings into Christmas break.
- 25:13And at that point, our staff was me, Alicia Ocasio and Delaney
- 25:16Gorley. And he's like, yeah, I see you,
- 25:19you know, as our kind of like our third string right now.
- 25:22And I was like, what? Like I I was very taken aback by
- 25:27that. But when I look back and I think
- 25:30about that conversation as a coach now, I'm like, he's right.
- 25:34Like I couldn't get through a line of three times.
- 25:36Like I just couldn't. My change up was so average.
- 25:40It was not great. And without my off speed, the
- 25:43third time through the lineup I was just, you know, getting hit.
- 25:46He's like, I just can't give you the ball every Friday and know
- 25:48we're coming up with a win every time.
- 25:50And I was like, bet. So I, you know, I went home and
- 25:55I thought about it. And then in January, we talked
- 25:57about it again and we decided that first base, we're just
- 26:00going to take it out because I just needed to.
- 26:03We had a better first baseman than me.
- 26:06She was a lefty. She didn't hit as well as me,
- 26:08but she was a she loved infield and I did it.
- 26:10To be honest, it was fine. But pitching and hitting, I
- 26:14mean, I ended up letting that be my career.
- 26:15But if I could have just done that for my whole life, that
- 26:17have been so nice. Anyway, so January of my senior
- 26:22year, Coach Rocha and I hit the bullpen and we try 47 different
- 26:26change UPS, probably 147 to be honest.
- 26:29Like every way we could think about slowing the ball down
- 26:32because I just went so hard. I did not know how to do that.
- 26:37And so we figured it out. January, I got a change up.
- 26:41February season started and it literally changed my whole life.
- 26:44So. If I can, Lauren, what change up
- 26:47did you end up going with? It's just like a variation of a
- 26:51flip change. Like I think that I'm, I'm
- 26:54flipping my hand over and I'm spinning the ball backwards.
- 26:56Like that's really all it ended up being.
- 26:58It was something I didn't have to slow down for.
- 27:00It was something that with how fast and how powerful I was
- 27:02going, I had really good control over.
- 27:05So I just ended up being like turning my hand over really flat
- 27:09fast, flipping it and using my fingers to spin it.
- 27:12And so all of that work to go back to something like that.
- 27:15It's kind of funny, but it, it really ended up changing my, the
- 27:19trajectory of my entire senior year.
- 27:21I, I can't even stress enough how much I'm passionate about
- 27:24change UPS after that. So.
- 27:25Well, that's a funny thing. Yeah, that's a funny thing too,
- 27:28because of course, everybody's obsessed with speed, speed,
- 27:30speed. And I certainly, you know, like
- 27:33to promote my kids. And you know, I've got had a
- 27:36couple kids hit a new personal best last night and all excited
- 27:39to tell their stories. But you know, it's, it's funny
- 27:43just to hear that for you, the life changing thing wasn't
- 27:45throwing 70 miles an hour. It was being able to not throw
- 27:4870 miles an hour and look like you were doing it. 100% I also
- 27:53like there's nothing wrong with people wanting to get the most
- 27:55out of their speed like and reach their ceiling of what
- 27:58their body and everything is capable of.
- 28:01But at the end of the day, when you're watching these college
- 28:03softball games, to me, the the girls that are, if you're not a
- 28:06Nigeri Kennedy, if you're not a Geordie ball, so many of these
- 28:10programs, they're best pitchers who are getting the best people
- 28:12out are pitchers who change speeds, who are not hitting the
- 28:1664. Like it's incredible what these
- 28:19spin, these spinny pitchers are doing right now.
- 28:22And I'm just so envious of them and how much people are really
- 28:25are going to their Staffs and like changing because at the end
- 28:28of the day, So everyone Division One, right, like the higher
- 28:31levels and not even everyone in Division One, like it's not
- 28:34normal to throw 65. Like that's not super common.
- 28:36I think that social media can make it feel super common but
- 28:39it's not like. And what's your game speed?
- 28:41It's probably different from what you just posted on Twitter
- 28:43anyway, but changing speeds and hitting your spots literally
- 28:47will keep you successful every single time.
- 28:49I don't. I don't.
- 28:51I have no room to argue it. That argument to me is just what
- 28:54it is. You can throw as hard as you
- 28:55want, but if you cannot put it where you want and you can not
- 28:58throw a change up, you won't be the best pitcher you could be.
- 29:01You will not get an argument from Ken or I on that.
- 29:04That is absolutely for sure. We are 100% in line with you
- 29:07there. So that's why I was so excited
- 29:09to have you on this podcast. I know you've been doing lessons
- 29:11and I want to get into some mechanics here shortly.
- 29:14I just, I do want to ask you a little bit though about your
- 29:17experience in the National Pro Fast Pitch.
- 29:19Give us a little bit of it doesn't have to be super long or
- 29:22it could be as long as you want, but tell us.
- 29:24Tell us what you know, your experience there, and how are
- 29:27the hitters there compared to even, you know, college.
- 29:29Well, I flew to Dallas three days after the national
- 29:33championship, so hey, I was probably exhausted.
- 29:37Let's be real. I pitched so much like my senior
- 29:39year and that season is so long, and I literally made it to the
- 29:43very end. It could ever like possibly be.
- 29:46And so when I got there, we were playing the Pride for my first
- 29:50game and they really promoted the whole like Lauren Hager.
- 29:52But the other pitcher that was pitching was Kat Osterman.
- 29:55So my whole life, obviously there was so many of these girls
- 29:58I had looked up to. Kat Osterman was still playing
- 30:00for Pride. Natasha Watley was still playing
- 30:02for Pride. Kelly Kretchman, Andrea Duran,
- 30:05like all these names is just insane.
- 30:07Like, and I'm, you know, a 22 year old who thinks her crap
- 30:11don't stink because she just got done with the national
- 30:13championship and being on the highest of high and now she has
- 30:16to pitch against, you know, these girls in the MPF where
- 30:19there's no bat rules. There's no like, nothing like
- 30:21that anyway. So I'm pitching in my first.
- 30:25I go up to bat against Kat Osterman for the first time.
- 30:28I think I struck out on three pitches.
- 30:29I had never in my life seen a ball do that ever.
- 30:33Never. Not once.
- 30:35And so that was my experience. So I think Andrea Duran hit a
- 30:39home run off me. I was like, that's awesome,
- 30:41thanks. And then I don't know, we ended
- 30:43up losing like 6 to 3, but I got a hit off cat later on in the
- 30:46game, which was really cool for me when I joined the league, USA
- 30:50softball, like you softball wasn't in the Olympics.
- 30:53You couldn't play both like they did not have a good situation.
- 30:57So I denied my USA tryout because I I I can't play USA and
- 31:02not make any money like I I had my family didn't have like that
- 31:06either. So I had to make sure that I was
- 31:08doing something to make money. So I.
- 31:11Changed the NPF. Not that the NPF was paying big
- 31:13bucks by any means, but it was more than nothing.
- 31:16It was enough, you're right, Like it was enough for the
- 31:18summer and then I could, I had to go back to Florida anyway, so
- 31:20it was a summer thing. I can't say that I I enjoyed my
- 31:26softball time in the MPFA ton like going I have a back injury.
- 31:32I you just don't have the resources and stuff that you had
- 31:35in college. Could I have done it better?
- 31:39Yes. Could I have worked out more and
- 31:41all that kind of stuff because I kind of stopped.
- 31:43I just, I could have done better with taking care of myself, yes.
- 31:48But I do think that the league as a as a whole just wasn't good
- 31:53when it came to all of that stuff.
- 31:54So that really hurt me. The structure of it was OK.
- 32:00Like I was, you know, stretching behind a dugout on A4 Field
- 32:04Complex. People are coming up and
- 32:06touching me like it is the the highest high of like who I was.
- 32:10I was getting recognized and we go out to dinner and because my
- 32:12stuff was just getting played on ESPN over and over again.
- 32:15And so there was just no boundaries either.
- 32:18It was really weird. I with people following me to
- 32:20the bathroom to change before the game, like that kind of
- 32:24stuff was weird. I didn't love that very much.
- 32:27But I will say that the people that I got to play with and the
- 32:32the fun times that we had in the MPF are 100% like irreplaceable.
- 32:37Like I met some of my best friends in the MPF who playing
- 32:41in college, I hated their guts and I got to be on the same team
- 32:43with them and love them dearly to this day.
- 32:46So and I got to play with some some of my idols.
- 32:49I played against Monica Abbott all four years.
- 32:51Like all these things I've gotten to do travel everywhere
- 32:54to play. So my experience in the MPF was
- 32:57worth it. But I'm glad I stopped when I
- 33:00did. AI was hurt but BI just.
- 33:04It was my time to be done. What do you what do you think
- 33:07about the Athletes Unlimited? How do you feel about that?
- 33:10I. Think it's awesome.
- 33:11I think that any professional softball league I'm a fan of, I
- 33:16sometimes just get discouraged when there's so many
- 33:19professional softball. Really, I want to be the biggest
- 33:23fan, but I just feel like it's just who's going to be the head
- 33:27honcho all the time. Like this league, this league,
- 33:29and over all these years. I'm not even just talking about
- 33:30the ones now, just there's a hundred different leagues, 100
- 33:34different people running the leagues and I'm just like,
- 33:38what's it going to give to where we just get to 1?
- 33:40Because when the MPF stopped, it was heartbreaking.
- 33:43You know, when the racers are done and all these teams with
- 33:46such history playing a professional softball, like all
- 33:49that stuff, it made me sad. But hopefully one day we in my
- 33:54lifetime, I see a league that I can, you know, look at and be
- 33:57really proud of and be excited to watch.
- 34:01I, I, it's so exciting to watch now still because there's so
- 34:03many girls I still know and play and it's just fun to watch them
- 34:06do their thing. But as a whole, it's just, I
- 34:08just wish we could just come together as one and just really
- 34:12make one that does everybody good well.
- 34:15I think one of the smartest things that Athletes Unlimited
- 34:17did was they recognized, I'm going to get my soapbox a little
- 34:21bit here, but I always felt like NPF, the biggest problem they
- 34:24had was their most, you know, their best audience or their
- 34:30most natural audience was always playing at the same time that
- 34:34the NPF was playing. So you've got these kids that
- 34:37are going to tournaments, especially, you know how it got
- 34:39to be every weekend playing tournaments every weekend.
- 34:42They're they are, you know, sometimes starting Thursday or
- 34:45Friday, they go all the way through Sunday.
- 34:48And so they're not available to go to the NPF games.
- 34:51And then even if there's a Sunday evening game, by that
- 34:54time, the families are tired, parents have to get ready to go
- 34:57back to work and all that kind of thing.
- 34:59So you're leaving out your biggest potential audience most
- 35:03of the time. And I think that Athletes
- 35:05Unlimited, I think they kind of finally recognize that and tried
- 35:08to more work around the summer travel season so that they
- 35:13could, you know, draw the kids that are most likely to want to
- 35:16come to see a game to begin with and build that audience.
- 35:19Absolutely, I the TV like they get ESPN now and all that kind
- 35:24of stuff. That obviously makes a huge
- 35:25difference just getting, you know, so people can actually
- 35:29follow the players they followed in college.
- 35:32Like there's that too. And continue that, you know,
- 35:36audience following these players that they fell in love with in
- 35:40the MPF. We did, you know, do a couple
- 35:42times in the summer, go to some bigger tournaments and play just
- 35:46like we went to Colorado and played there.
- 35:48We played a bunch of games in Colorado.
- 35:50We played some in Kansas City. So the last couple years I was
- 35:53in, we had full stadiums of girls, which was cool.
- 35:56But you're right in that perspective.
- 35:59I'm not like a business lady by any means.
- 36:02So when it comes to strategy and stuff like that of that, I don't
- 36:05know. I that's not for me.
- 36:07That's someone else's job, but I just, I just think that the more
- 36:13eyes you can get on it, obviously the better.
- 36:14And TV's the best way to do that right now because that's what
- 36:18everybody watches anyway. So whatever their strategy is, I
- 36:21hope it works because I'm ready to be a full on fan.
- 36:26Absolutely. I think we all are.
- 36:27So after your playing days, if we can talk about your
- 36:32transition into coaching, now you're doing both.
- 36:34You are a travel ball coach and you are an instructor, So what
- 36:38were some of the challenges when you first started out as you
- 36:41know, travel ball coach and instructor?
- 36:44Challenges for me when I first started coaching.
- 36:47So when I was done playing, I was still giving lessons in the
- 36:50offseason. So I started giving lessons.
- 36:52I mean, now it's almost been a decade probably, but at first it
- 36:57was hard because I just didn't understand why you couldn't do
- 37:00that after I told you to do it. There's that like you're because
- 37:03you're an elite athlete and it's something I was always able to
- 37:06do. And then I was like, you need to
- 37:08get your leg up higher. And then she couldn't do it.
- 37:10I'll never forget it. And she was like, well, do you
- 37:13have like a drill to like get my leg up higher?
- 37:15And I was like, no, just like get your Lego higher, right.
- 37:17So I didn't really, that was hard like to learn how to, you
- 37:21know, teach those things to people who can't feel them was
- 37:24hard for me. But over time, just be getting
- 37:29to be creative and learning how each kid learns has been such a
- 37:33fun, creative thing for me. But it there's that part of
- 37:39giving lessons that was kind of hard for me.
- 37:42You know, dealing with parents at first was hard for me just
- 37:45because you're younger, you're a young woman in this, you know,
- 37:49this field. And so there's a lot of dads and
- 37:51everything that I think take advantage of that and you're
- 37:55kind of scared to kind of stand your ground.
- 37:57But it took me a couple years, but once my ground has been,
- 38:00it's there like we're not going to talk about this.
- 38:03You didn't do this, I did. So it is what it is and not in a
- 38:06way that's crazy, but you do have to be firm with the things
- 38:11you're talking about sometimes. That was hard at first.
- 38:14It's hard for every girl, I think entering into this.
- 38:16And then the travel ball aspect of it was just, you can't talk
- 38:20to these kids how maybe your college coach talked to you.
- 38:23And so I think that was a little, I'm just like, I don't
- 38:26go to it. Like, why do you not want to win
- 38:28every time? Like I, that was really hard for
- 38:30me, but then I kind of had to step back and realize kids are
- 38:34different than the kids that I was and, and I played with and
- 38:38all that kind of stuff. So you kind of have to grow and
- 38:40change when it comes to the generations that are coming
- 38:43through too. So I'd say those are three
- 38:44challenges that I went through for sure.
- 38:46Are you coaching elite level travel or a level B level?
- 38:52Yeah, so I've coached with the same head coach Kevin Hind on
- 38:55team and C Hind for five years. So I've coached with him only in
- 39:00travel ball. He is the most calm, positive,
- 39:05kind human and coach ever. Like he's the best man ever and
- 39:12I wouldn't be able to coach child well anyone else.
- 39:14So he's really helped balance me out.
- 39:16I think I've helped him and he's helped me in so many different
- 39:18ways as people. He's also just turned into like
- 39:21one of my greatest friends. But I the team that I play net
- 39:26like coach it's I started when they were for first year
- 39:30fourteens and it's taken a long time to get to this elite level
- 39:34that we are. But yes, we're all of our girls
- 39:36are committed to Division One schools.
- 39:38I think we have 5 committed to North UNCLSU, Florida State.
- 39:44Like we have some, you know, really big programs.
- 39:47There's so many I just can't even think about right now.
- 39:49We just graduated from to Tennessee and to, you know,
- 39:52Louisiana Tech and all these schools.
- 39:55So I think that it's taken a while to get here, but we're
- 39:59here now and it's it's been really fun.
- 40:01So it sounds like they weren't always an elite thing.
- 40:04You kind of had to grow them. Yeah, I mean, we started out
- 40:08with the team. Most of the girls were 2020
- 40:10threes and and when we were 14, but the head coach's daughter
- 40:14was a 2025. So we had a full team of 2020
- 40:18threes and then Anna. And so we had to, we got the
- 40:21girls through the 2020 threes, all the thing.
- 40:23And then we had Anna. And so we kind of had to build
- 40:27over the last two years like a roster that's going to, you
- 40:30know, keep the level of travel ball that we want to around
- 40:33Anaheim. She's going to Florida State.
- 40:35So she's very, very good. And so we kind of have to build
- 40:38a team around that level to keep going.
- 40:41And so she's a senior this year. So as the end of her travel ball
- 40:45career and we'll see what happens next.
- 40:48How how important do you think it is as a coach to continue to
- 40:52learn? I mean, it'd be very easy to
- 40:54say, hey, I want a national title.
- 40:56I did all of these wonderful things, so I know what I'm doing
- 41:00and I'm just going to teach what I was taught.
- 41:02I don't think that's a definition of a good coach at
- 41:04all. Like I, if you're not evolving
- 41:07with the times, then you're just someone who's stuck where you
- 41:10were. I just never want to be that.
- 41:13I feel like I've, you know, coached around this area with
- 41:15people that are that way. And I'm like when you turn on TV
- 41:19and you see her pitching like that, like and you're paying
- 41:23someone to teach you something and that's not that.
- 41:25Like, I don't get how you can't evolve.
- 41:27And we don't have slow motion video back in the day, but now
- 41:30we do. Like it's right in front of your
- 41:31eyes. So try to feel like you can
- 41:33evolve a little bit with it. I think if any elite college
- 41:37coaches had to say the same thing, if you know coach Walton
- 41:40or coach you know Patty 517, Natty Patty is coaching the same
- 41:45wish he was like back in the day.
- 41:47They wouldn't have been so successful all these times.
- 41:49But you, you have to evolve. I think great coaches do that
- 41:53so. Awesome.
- 41:55Keep up. I couldn't agree with you more.
- 41:57I mean, we're going to get into the mechanic side now if you
- 42:00don't mind, Lauren, because you I want to talk to you about a
- 42:03post that you made in February of 2019.
- 42:05It is absolutely resonated with me and some of the other
- 42:07pitching coaches that Ken and I collaborate with and it's stuff
- 42:11that we see when we still like you just talked about it.
- 42:14We have slow MO video, but yet we're still seeing things that
- 42:17are being thought. They think that they or they're
- 42:20teaching the way that they think they're doing things.
- 42:23Do you remember that post that you made?
- 42:24It was more feel versus real. You post yourself can explain
- 42:28that to to some people like wrist flicks, things like that.
- 42:32Why should the ball be facing second base and snapping up?
- 42:34Can you get into that a little bit for us?
- 42:36Yeah, I just like didn't under because I mean, these are things
- 42:40when I was taught when I was 10 and that was 22 years ago.
- 42:44Like we have got to realize that softball is evolving every five
- 42:49years. It's so different and it goes
- 42:52through trends and phases of like, we'll call it trends of
- 42:56like what's popular at the time. But at the end of the day, like
- 42:59we have this resource of slow motion video and you have a girl
- 43:03who's warming up a certain way and I'll watch her warm up and
- 43:06I'm like, but then she goes to throw and she doesn't do any of
- 43:09those things. And so I'm just kind of like,
- 43:11you know that you don't even do that, right?
- 43:13And she's like, what? And just because it's been a
- 43:15routine that's been there for years and years and years, and
- 43:18it's like we can adjust our warm up and our K's and our snaps and
- 43:23all those kinds of things to kind of match what we're doing
- 43:25because that can only help you, right?
- 43:26So I guess when I started coaching in, you know, giving
- 43:31lessons and stuff and moving here specifically, I made that
- 43:34post a year after I moved here. Pitching was 10 years behind
- 43:39here when I moved here. It was, I mean, this isn't no
- 43:43offense to anyone in the room, but there was like an old man,
- 43:4689 year old man, you know, still giving pitching lessons a couple
- 43:50hours away, which is great. Like I'm so, but I at the end of
- 43:55the day, like there are some things that were being taught
- 43:57that I was like, he's 89, you know, like we got to turn or
- 44:01just like you turn the TV on, you watch your favorite girl
- 44:03pitching and then you're going to pitching lessons and you're
- 44:05not doing that. It doesn't make sense to me.
- 44:08But then there was like a couple other pitching instructors in
- 44:10that they never even, you know, they didn't pitch in college,
- 44:12that kind of thing. So it's not a knockout.
- 44:15I'm so happy that they were, you know, coaching.
- 44:17That's I hope there's always girls coaching in this, in this,
- 44:21you know, sport and all the things.
- 44:24But that kind of really inspired that post just because of where
- 44:28I was at the time and how far behind pitching was.
- 44:31And every time someone came to lessons, it's almost like they
- 44:33looked at me like what, because they were so used to a certain
- 44:37way and there's a few that I think scared away.
- 44:40They always they came back and I had them for six years and now
- 44:43we joke about it now, but at first it was shocking because I
- 44:45was basically like everything you're doing is not right, you
- 44:47know, but I and the easiest in trying to be, you know, ease on
- 44:51to that as much as possible. But that's what kind of inspired
- 44:53that post. Well, and it's funny that you
- 44:55tell that story because not too long ago I had a girl that was
- 45:00starting with me. She had been taking lessons from
- 45:03someone who had attended AD. One local D1 school had been in
- 45:08the Women's College World Series.
- 45:09Actually the year I happened to go there for the NFCA Coaches
- 45:12College for the, you know, analysis and all that stuff.
- 45:16So I actually had video of her former instructor who decided
- 45:20not to give lessons anymore. So I asked, you know, what did
- 45:23you learn? And, you know, it was the usual
- 45:24wrist flicks and turn the ball towards second base and pull
- 45:28your hand up and all those other things.
- 45:30And I said, OK, well, let's take a look at what your pitching
- 45:33coach actually did. And I just kind of went through
- 45:36the video and said she didn't do any of those things.
- 45:39You know, so this is what I want to teach you is I want to teach
- 45:42you what she was doing. And, you know, kind of how that
- 45:45works. But it always shocks me that
- 45:48there are so many who don't never go back and apparently
- 45:51look at a video of themselves and how they're pitching.
- 45:54So I think that that's really great for you to be able to say,
- 45:57yeah, well, I was taught this. But, you know, really, when I
- 46:00look at it, I didn't use any of it.
- 46:02And yeah, I want to teach what worked rather than just kind of
- 46:07blindly repeat whatever I was told when I was 10 years old.
- 46:11I'm grateful for my athleticism in that way too, because what I
- 46:14was taught when I was 10 would not have given me the foundation
- 46:19to be who I was in college. And I think that your body
- 46:23pitching, I, I always say this, this is like pitching is hard,
- 46:27but it should never feel hard. Like nothing you're doing should
- 46:31ever feel like you're going against what feels good or feels
- 46:35like it should feel easy. Like it's not emotion that
- 46:38should hurt. It's not emotion that should you
- 46:41know everything you do should feel good.
- 46:43So. Shouldn't feel forced.
- 46:45No, nothing should. And so and, and when you're
- 46:48pitching and going, it doesn't even look like you're trying to
- 46:51be honest. Like so many of these pictures,
- 46:53they don't even look like they're trying because
- 46:54everything's just so in sequence and it just looks so pretty,
- 46:57right anyway. And so I think I'm so grateful
- 47:01for my athleticism that just kind of did that.
- 47:04But that's not the case for everybody.
- 47:06There's things that I have to teach all the time that I'm
- 47:08like, I never had to learn that because my body just did it.
- 47:11So that's been kind of fun, but it's also been challenging at
- 47:14times. I feel like too sometimes, you
- 47:17know, these coaches are teaching the teaching the athlete out out
- 47:22of them with some of the things that they're forcing them to do.
- 47:25And I feel like they're so restrictive in, in some of the
- 47:28movements that they're making these kids do.
- 47:32And so I feel like what you're talking about letting the body
- 47:34move and, and, and letting it be efficient and transferring
- 47:38energy, things like that. Like I feel like I'll get some
- 47:40of these kids that come in. I'm sure Ken will tell you the
- 47:42same thing, that they've just coached the athlete out of these
- 47:45kids and, and it's like we got to let things move the way
- 47:48they're supposed to move and your body do the things that
- 47:50they're supposed to be doing. That that a lot of times for me,
- 47:52I'm I the first thing I asked him is how did that feel?
- 47:56Like? I feel like if if that doesn't
- 47:57feel good, it's probably not going to be something that we
- 48:00want to continue to do. So I feel like, you know, so
- 48:03it's just we got to stop coaching the athlete out of some
- 48:05of these kids. So.
- 48:07Yeah. And I think there's, there's
- 48:09obviously levels to that, like when they're so young, like they
- 48:12don't know what they're doing anyway.
- 48:13So there's a lot more structure and a foundation.
- 48:15I think that. But as they get older, once
- 48:18they, you know, hit those absolutes that kind of have to
- 48:21happen in a pitching motion. And those things that are
- 48:23important to keep you safe, important to keep you efficient,
- 48:27like those little movements when they're younger, once they hit
- 48:30high school, I'd give them more freedom.
- 48:32Like it's not like you have to be in this cookie cutter thing,
- 48:36but there are some things, things that we need to have
- 48:38control over. But at the end of the day, like
- 48:40once they get older, it's really just maintaining those things
- 48:44and then learning new things to go along with it.
- 48:47Yeah, We tend to call those core principles, you know, just the
- 48:50things that you really need to do.
- 48:52But even within that, there's a range.
- 48:54It doesn't have to be exactly one way.
- 48:56Yeah. It's funny, when I see a girl
- 48:58who's stiff, a lot of times I just look at her and I go, I am
- 49:01a robot. Jokes left and right here.
- 49:07No doubt they they only get better.
- 49:08Let me tell you, they only get better real quick.
- 49:14What do you how do you feel about some of these instructors
- 49:16teaching the full on leap right now?
- 49:18And I'm I'm not talking about, you know, the being airborne
- 49:22right and landing on the front foot and throwing the ball.
- 49:24I'm talking about jumping off both feet in the air, landing on
- 49:27the back foot, getting possibly a secondary push or replant if
- 49:30you will. There are people that are having
- 49:32kids jump off of boxes. How do you how do you feel about
- 49:36that? So my personal experience when I
- 49:40went into the league I was like this thing is legal.
- 49:43Now I want to try because internationally crow hopping was
- 49:47legal, which is 100% different than the Leap in my opinion.
- 49:52But, and so I tried it once. I literally almost tore my ACL.
- 49:55It was a horrible idea. So I tried it once and I said
- 49:58never mind, everything's fine. So there's my personal
- 50:00experience with trying it. And at the end of the day, once
- 50:05I turn the TV on and you have the best pitcher in the nation
- 50:09doing that, that's when I'll give it a chance.
- 50:12But until that day, the Leap rule was not put in for that.
- 50:17The leap rule was put in. So if a girl's back foot
- 50:20literally left the ground this much, it wasn't a legal pitch,
- 50:23right? Once you start changing the
- 50:25mechanics and jumping and all that kind of stuff, like I can't
- 50:31even get girls to like drag me straight.
- 50:34Like I could not even imagine trying to teach a young girl
- 50:38something like that and not expecting them to get hurt or
- 50:42whatever. But at the end of the day, that
- 50:44rule was not put in for that. That's not what it was for.
- 50:47I now don't have a single issue with if a girl's back foot and
- 50:51mechanically look right, but she leaves the air a little bit like
- 50:54it's legal, like fine, but we're not going to turn our hips and
- 50:57turn our foot and land like this, like we're not changing
- 51:00that. So I that's kind of my opinion
- 51:03on it. I don't think that it's, it's
- 51:07there to what people think it is yet like in college softball,
- 51:09like where are those girls at? I don't see them.
- 51:11They're not there. So I, I'm not going to change
- 51:14unless the whole world changes at this point.
- 51:17And I, I talked to some of my pitching friends that are very,
- 51:20you know, well known in the pitching world and we send, we
- 51:22send things to each other all the time.
- 51:24And we're like, what is that like?
- 51:27Can't you throw strike or no, like at some point it's like,
- 51:31what's more important here? But anyway, I think everyone
- 51:34could kind of go on and on about it.
- 51:36Yeah, yeah. That pitching coach group that
- 51:38Jay and I are a part of, we do a lot of that, too.
- 51:41You know, we'll see either a, you know, crazy drill being done
- 51:44that seems to have no purpose, or you see something in game.
- 51:48Yeah, yeah. It's just, you know, to get
- 51:51TikTok clicks and all of that. I always say the internet's a
- 51:54hungry beast and you have to keep feeding and stuff and
- 51:57pretty soon you're feeding it junk.
- 51:59Truth. So yeah, here's like kind of a
- 52:03controversial question as well. I think that there's, you know,
- 52:06I certainly hear about pitching coaches and I'm sure you do too,
- 52:08that who claim to be teaching 8 pitches to a 10 year old.
- 52:13I mean, how many pitches did you use in college and how many do
- 52:17you think a pitcher really needs are?
- 52:19There 8 pitches in pitch in softball.
- 52:20I don't even think there is. It's not controversial to me at
- 52:25all because I am very passionate about this question in my
- 52:28lessons and everything. And it's this is one of those
- 52:31things that I at the beginning when I started giving lessons
- 52:34that I had to be really firm on and learn how to be really firm
- 52:38on and just say that is not my style.
- 52:40Like that's not what you're going to get from me.
- 52:43If you want a solid foundation and to understand that this is a
- 52:45marathon and not a Sprint, like I'm your girl.
- 52:48If that's not what you want, like it's, it's just not going
- 52:51to work. But I had four pitches.
- 52:55I had a back door, I had a curveball, I had a rise ball and
- 52:58I had a change up and that was it.
- 53:00I, that's all I threw. I could put them wherever I
- 53:03wanted, which makes it look like it's all these other pitches
- 53:05when it's literally not. You're just hitting different
- 53:08targets with it a little bit. I think I had a really great
- 53:12pitching coach in college, Coach Rocha, Obviously Jen Rocha,
- 53:15she's a pitching coach at Oklahoma now.
- 53:17But even Coach Walton with his pitching experience, he was
- 53:20like, at the end of the day, I need you to throw to the area
- 53:23that I give you like that is called like it's not that crazy.
- 53:27Like we have to, you know, hit our spots and all that kind of
- 53:30stuff. But I, the way that I kind of
- 53:34structure it is like, you know, when, if I get him at 10.
- 53:37So now that I've been doing this long enough, I've had girls from
- 53:39literally 10 and now they are committed to play in college.
- 53:42So like we've gone through the whole process together of
- 53:45learning these pitches. And at once our foundation is
- 53:49set and we can throw a fastball to every location and we can
- 53:54throw a change up in any count that is consistent.
- 53:58And I don't have to tell you anything anymore.
- 54:01Then I know it's time and I'm not opposed to teaching 10 year
- 54:05old like people who are still 35 feet with a small ball pitches,
- 54:08but I just feel like it all has to change anyway when you move
- 54:11back 5 feet with a big ball. So I have probably taught 210
- 54:16year olds the start of a curveball ever in my entire like
- 54:20once we get back to 12 you and you're getting used to the big
- 54:23ball and you're getting used to 40 feet and you're still able to
- 54:26hit your spots and you're still able to throw your change up,
- 54:29which probably needs to be adjusted with the big ball
- 54:30anyway because it's a whole thing.
- 54:32Because some of them are still really small, you know, like
- 54:36then we talk about our first pitch and you know, people give
- 54:39me a hard time about it. And they're like, we want it.
- 54:41And I'm like, how can I, I feel like I'm doing you a disservice
- 54:46if I'm giving you this thing that I know in my heart you're
- 54:49not ready for. And my goal is a pitching
- 54:52instructor is to make your life easier, not harder.
- 54:55This will make your life harder if we try to do this right now.
- 54:57And you will get more frustrated.
- 54:59So it's just not time. Yeah, and I'm just curious about
- 55:03it because I know I, I get this, I'm sure Jay gets it as well,
- 55:06where you've got a kid who's 10 or 11 and, you know, the parents
- 55:09come in and say, well, you know, this other girl on her team, you
- 55:14know, she's, she can throw a screwball and she can throw a, a
- 55:17rise ball and she's throwing this and throwing that.
- 55:20And I mean my reaction to it always is let me see the spin.
- 55:24Well, it's just do the I said they all just do the same thing.
- 55:27They're just basketballs at all these patients.
- 55:29They're not real. They don't even know to use
- 55:30their fingers yet. Like I you just the connection
- 55:33with their brain and their fingers isn't even there yet.
- 55:36Like they don't know and they're not putting in enough practice
- 55:39in to even learn a spin and they're just not ready and
- 55:43pitching is such a marathon. So I would say on average it's
- 55:47between six months and a year with the girls that I'm like
- 55:52working with. Were they even learn another?
- 55:56It's like almost they're working on something for six months to a
- 55:59year depending on their athleticism and how much they're
- 56:02practicing because that's obvious.
- 56:04You come into lessons like if you practice that week, but till
- 56:08they even learn another one. Like it is such on the pace of
- 56:12all the girls I've been giving lessons to like by 8th grade
- 56:15they have everything probably but their rise ball because at
- 56:19the end of the day, sometimes like it's just they don't have
- 56:21enough speed to like really make it for real, for real.
- 56:24So, you know, moving into high school, they probably have one
- 56:27more pitch to learn and it's only four.
- 56:29Like it's not 7. I don't even know what those
- 56:31seven are. I don't even know how to teach
- 56:33those. Like I don't you can't even hit
- 56:35your spot. So like why?
- 56:36Why? Anyway, I could really say with
- 56:40y'all kind of go on and on, but I've found that finding a group
- 56:44of people who actually like believe in that and the ones
- 56:47that have are so thankful now that they've been with me for so
- 56:50long. And we joke about it all the
- 56:52time. And it's just it's been really
- 56:55fun to see those people who've bought into that process instead
- 56:57of just like wanting, wanting, wanting so fast comparing
- 57:01themselves to others. All the things I said, but do
- 57:03they hit their spots? No.
- 57:04Do they actually spin it right? No.
- 57:05Do they have a good change up? No.
- 57:06So then I'm like, why are you comparing yourself to her
- 57:08anyway? Like whatever.
- 57:10Right. That's so good though, Lauren,
- 57:12and people need to hear that more, right?
- 57:14I think, again, it's like it's the great race.
- 57:17And I feel like sometimes, you know, people are doing these
- 57:20kids a disservice by trying to just keep them there and teach
- 57:24them 8 pitches that none of them spin correctly at all.
- 57:27And, and I think that's what really separates, you know,
- 57:30really good coaches like you've talked about is like really
- 57:32being able to break it down. Is the ball spinning correctly,
- 57:36right? Are, you know, are we being
- 57:37loose? Are, are, are we being
- 57:39resistant? Like is our, like you talked
- 57:41about your, your core, your stability, your foundation, Is
- 57:44that their first? Because without that foundation,
- 57:47those pitches aren't going to move the right way anyway.
- 57:49Nothing. 'S going to work anyway, so I
- 57:51yeah. And the other part of that, that
- 57:53I talk about them too, is like when I get these girls, I kid
- 57:57you not, I had somebody come to me that said they had 11
- 58:00pitches. She was 15.
- 58:02That's a record. Backdoor dropped, I got off
- 58:06speed backdoor drop and they all just look like dropping and now
- 58:10like it wasn't. And I like with in the nicest
- 58:13way possible was just like, please do not walk into a
- 58:16college camp and say that like just I, I want you to be taken
- 58:21seriously when you walk in there.
- 58:22When you say you have that, that's not real and they all
- 58:25look the same, that's not real. I want you to throw a curveball
- 58:27and the coach be like that's a curveball.
- 58:29And then you say I have a drop ball and they watch her drop
- 58:31ball and it's a drop ball and a change up and all these things.
- 58:36Because we go in there and if you say you have 6 pitches in
- 58:39your 12, like they're not going to take you seriously.
- 58:41They're just not because they know that that's not usually a
- 58:44thing anyway. So I can't say it's impossible
- 58:47because I'm there's some freaky girls out there that can do some
- 58:51things. Like there's just some
- 58:52tremendous athletes out there that learn things quickly and
- 58:55all the things, but it is not normal to have that.
- 58:58Yeah, I remember being at a tryout, you know, with the
- 59:02program I was at and they were measuring, gosh, I think it was
- 59:07about a 16 year old measuring her with a Rev fire and they
- 59:11were all ooing and eyeing about how fast her curveball was
- 59:14spinning. She was getting these tremendous
- 59:16spin rates and I just looked at these guys and I, you know, I
- 59:20didn't know them that well, but you know, I looked at them.
- 59:22I go, has anybody actually watched the ball?
- 59:25That thing is spinning over the top.
- 59:27It's not a curveball. Doesn't matter how fast it's
- 59:29spinning. You know, if you're trying to
- 59:31throw a curveball and spinning 12:00 to 6:00, that's not a
- 59:34curveball. That's not a curve.
- 59:35Yeah, I like did that teaching them even how to recognize that
- 59:39on their own. I'm like, did you watch it spin?
- 59:42And they're like, I can't see that.
- 59:43And I said pay attention. Like you can watch and be able
- 59:47to adjust on your own just by looking at the ball that after
- 59:50you threw it. Like there's so much of that.
- 59:52I don't even feel like they even look at that, right.
- 59:55So we have to talk about that too.
- 59:58And it just helps them when, you know, I'm not standing there.
- 1:00:00Like I want to give them all the tools that they know when I'm
- 1:00:03not there. I don't even want to be there.
- 1:00:04Like I just. Want you to be able to do all of
- 1:00:07this on your own too. Yep.
- 1:00:08Be your own pitching coach. So my dog is.
- 1:00:11No, you're fine. You're fine.
- 1:00:13He's like getting antsy. He's like, so.
- 1:00:15I don't want to take up any more of your time because we could
- 1:00:18This could go on for days and I can't.
- 1:00:20I, I can't thank you enough for being on here today.
- 1:00:23This is amazing. I definitely wanted to pick your
- 1:00:25brain. Just if you can, what what's
- 1:00:28some future plans? Is college coaching something
- 1:00:31you're thinking about? Are you still doing clinics with
- 1:00:34with Amanda Scarborough? I know she's had had you with
- 1:00:37her a couple times I believe doing some clinics.
- 1:00:41Tell us what the future holds for you.
- 1:00:44So I'm kind of in that point in my life where I am kind of like,
- 1:00:46what do I want to do when I grow up?
- 1:00:48I know that lessons aren't going to last a lifetime, but I, I
- 1:00:55don't know about the college thing.
- 1:00:57I really love living in Charlotte and to be honest, you
- 1:01:00know, when you're a college coach, you move around every
- 1:01:03year like you're always trying to up and get do something
- 1:01:06better for your career and that kind of thing.
- 1:01:08And I just, I don't know if that's the life I want to live
- 1:01:11right now, But so I'm not really sure.
- 1:01:15But I love like teaching younger kids like I really do the 10 U
- 1:01:22to middle school. I love middle schoolers.
- 1:01:24They're my favorite age that I coach.
- 1:01:26They they don't get enough credit.
- 1:01:27I think they're hilarious. They don't know everything yet,
- 1:01:30but they know things so you can kind of talk to them and they're
- 1:01:33just funny. They're still innocent, almost,
- 1:01:35but. But they're still, they're
- 1:01:36starting to get that little bit of sass to them, you know, Oh.
- 1:01:39They're hilarious. They are hilarious.
- 1:01:42I I just love them so much anyway.
- 1:01:45I was just going to share. I, I have a couple of, you know,
- 1:01:47a couple of girls that started with them when they were
- 1:01:50probably about 12 or so, 11 or 12.
- 1:01:53And, you know, at that point the parents kind of dominated and
- 1:01:55told them what to do. Well, now they're, you know, 16
- 1:01:58and the parents says something and they just snap back and it's
- 1:02:01so funny. Don't listen to it's.
- 1:02:03Yeah, they're, I have a couple that are sassy, but they're
- 1:02:06they're fast. I'm like, how do you come up
- 1:02:08with that? You're so fast?
- 1:02:09How are you're like 11? Like, how do you even know how
- 1:02:11to say that to me? And I genuinely just die
- 1:02:13laughing. They're they're hilarious.
- 1:02:16But I definitely want to stay in youth sports.
- 1:02:19Where am I going to be for the rest of my life?
- 1:02:21I don't know, I love Charlotte, but my whole family's in Phoenix
- 1:02:23still, so who knows in 10 years we'll end up.
- 1:02:26But I think working in youth sports is kind of where I want
- 1:02:29to stay. I love it.
- 1:02:32I don't know if I'm going to coach travel ball for the rest
- 1:02:34of my life either, but as of now, I really like where I am
- 1:02:38and I do feel like a new chapter is probably coming at some point
- 1:02:42soon in the next 5 years, but we'll kind of see where that
- 1:02:45goes or what that looks like or where I am.
- 1:02:48I don't even know, unfortunately.
- 1:02:51I wish I knew, but like, do we ever know?
- 1:02:53No, no. You know, entering my 30s, I've
- 1:02:56had a really interesting entrance to my 30s where I've
- 1:02:59had to change a lot of things about my life.
- 1:03:02A lot of tragedies have happened as of lately in the last three
- 1:03:05years. Not to like take it down, but
- 1:03:07like my parents passed away, my grandma passed away last week.
- 1:03:11Like I just have a lot of things happening in my life where who
- 1:03:15knows where my next shift is going to be.
- 1:03:17So I don't know. Do does anybody know?
- 1:03:21No, no. No, no, no.
- 1:03:23No, you know, I'm, I'm pretty old and I'm still taking it, you
- 1:03:26know, day-to-day, week to week. Just see where the wind blows
- 1:03:29me. We're still trying to figure.
- 1:03:31Out quotations equals no disappointment.
- 1:03:32So here you are. Yeah.
- 1:03:36Awesome. So go ahead, Ken.
- 1:03:38Oh, I was just going to probably ask the same question you were,
- 1:03:40which is so people who are, you know, in that Charlotte area,
- 1:03:44people who listening or maybe they want to, you know, travel
- 1:03:47to see you now and then where can they get information about
- 1:03:50you and getting lessons set up and all of that?
- 1:03:53So you can visit thesoftballproject.com where
- 1:03:57you'll be able to sign up for lessons and that kind of thing.
- 1:04:00My social media is something that you know, anyone can follow
- 1:04:04at L Hagar 17 on Instagram, on Tiktok, on Twitter, and then any
- 1:04:14DMS or anything about lessons or online lessons or not.
- 1:04:17A lot of people ask because I guess they just don't assume.
- 1:04:20But when people ask, I very much say yes, a lot.
- 1:04:22That's how I started coaching travel ball and but and all of
- 1:04:26those platforms, you can get a hold of me.
- 1:04:28Awesome, Lauren, thank you again so much for your time today.
- 1:04:31We absolutely appreciate all the wisdom and and information you
- 1:04:35shared with us from your career on to the instructional stuff.
- 1:04:38Is there anything you want to close with or give any anybody a
- 1:04:41shout out or anything like that? I mean, no, I just want to close
- 1:04:47with it's, thank you so much for having me.
- 1:04:49I love getting to talk about this stuff.
- 1:04:51Transitioning from player to coach is something that, you
- 1:04:54know, you don't really realize it's happening, but when it
- 1:04:56happens, you look back on playing and have such a
- 1:04:58different perspective. So that's been really fun.
- 1:05:00So thank you for letting me talk about some things I'm passionate
- 1:05:03about on a platform where hopefully it reaches some folks.
- 1:05:07Well, we really appreciate it for sure.
- 1:05:10And yeah, it's that transition from player to coach.
- 1:05:13You go back, I always think everything is reversed in life.
- 1:05:16You know you should really be a coach 1st and think of how much
- 1:05:19better of a player you would have been if you knew what you
- 1:05:22know now as a coach I. Didn't know anything.
- 1:05:26I thought I knew everything. You don't know anything.
- 1:05:28There's that. And they really can tell if you
- 1:05:30practiced or not. I thought that was a hoax.
- 1:05:32I thought that was fake. I say they don't know.
- 1:05:35Yeah, they do. Yeah.
- 1:05:38That's all fake. All righty, Jay, you want to
- 1:05:41take us out? Ken, I'm going to let you take
- 1:05:43us out. You got the radio voice, buddy.
- 1:05:47All right, Well, I at least I take it pretty well.
- 1:05:49So anyway, yes, Lauren, thank you so much on behalf of the
- 1:05:53From the Coach's Mouth podcast. We appreciate everybody
- 1:05:56listening. If you have questions, put them
- 1:05:58in the comments. You have thoughts, you want to
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