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Did Abby get "Irish Goodbye'd" by this man on Hinge?!?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Goodby's best music is made.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: This is the first time in a long time we
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  Speaker 2: haven't had a guest in the studio with.
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  Speaker 1: Us, right, I know, we've had so many friends in recently.
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  Speaker 2: So what has been going on with you, Abby? What's
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  Speaker 2: happening in your life? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Just everything, so much. I had an insane experience this
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  Speaker 1: weekend that made me realize that men in Tampa Bay
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  Speaker 1: are actually evil.
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  Speaker 2: Oh God, do you want to talk about Yeah, I'll
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  Speaker 2: tell you what happened.
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  Speaker 1: So I decided to go visit my friend in Nashville
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  Speaker 1: this weekend. My therapist is like, you've got to get
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  Speaker 1: out of Tampa. You've got to like go visit friends.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to reconnect with nature, go touch grass. And
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  Speaker 1: so naturally I went to Broadway and on Friday, I
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  Speaker 1: did like an early bedtime because you know, I'd be
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  Speaker 1: like wake up, get ready to like go fly out
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  Speaker 1: to Nashville. And I ended up matching with this guy
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  Speaker 1: on Saturday morning that I had seen a couple of
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  Speaker 1: times on the app before, Like I had seen him
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  Speaker 1: once or twice and he had never liked me, and
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  Speaker 1: I try not to like like a bunch of guys,
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  Speaker 1: especially if I've seen them where I'm just like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you're obviously seeing my profile, and so if you're not
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  Speaker 1: liking me, I'm just kind of not interested.
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  Speaker 2: Correct, So he likes me.
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  Speaker 1: We ended up having this very casual conversation that honestly
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  Speaker 1: was just keeping me company while I was flying to Nashville,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of the stuff that he said was
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  Speaker 1: just like really nice, very normal. He's cute. So I'm like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this guy just seems like a normal, good dude. I'll
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  Speaker 1: read some of the messages.
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  Speaker 2: I already hate this. I don't know if anybody else like.
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  Speaker 2: I just got chills because I'm like, yeah, here we go,
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  Speaker 2: Like all right, go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: So Saturday, two fifteen pm we match. He says, that
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  Speaker 1: was the longest wait of my life, Abby, And I said,
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  Speaker 1: and yet you survived and he said just about. He said,
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  Speaker 1: how's the Tampa Hinge experience going, which is going to
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  Speaker 1: foreshadow the ending of the story. I said, mmmm, it's
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  Speaker 1: like three stars. It could be better. I said, are
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  Speaker 1: you here to improve the experience? And he said, tell
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  Speaker 1: me the horror stories? Oh okay, I can definitely improve
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  Speaker 1: the experience, and I said, they're definitely more entertaining a person,
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  Speaker 1: that's for sure. So I said that I'm on the plane,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like in the uber to my friend's house, Like
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  Speaker 1: this is just kind of us going back and forth.
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  Speaker 2: It's flirty so far, like I'm actually very impressed with
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  Speaker 2: y'all flirting getting yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Very normal, very flirty. And so then right as I'm
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  Speaker 1: going out to happy hour with my friends, he sends
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  Speaker 1: me a voice memo, which I kind of rolled my
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  Speaker 1: eyes at because this guy's Irish. So I'm like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, he probably does this all the girls because
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  Speaker 1: they know girls love an accent or whatever. And so
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  Speaker 1: I'm out and about with my friends and so I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't just like listen to this voice memo. It's
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  Speaker 1: like loud out, Like I'd love to listen to it,
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  Speaker 1: but like the music is blasting. We're in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of some other side conversation. So we go out. We
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  Speaker 1: have a great time on Broadway. My friend Taylor and
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  Speaker 1: I go back to her apartment. It's like three am.
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  Speaker 1: We're eating pizza, we're hammered, and I go, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: I forgot I got this voice memo from this guy
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  Speaker 1: I've been talking to. He's like this cute irishman, Like,
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  Speaker 1: let's see what he said. So I listened to the
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  Speaker 1: voice memo and we're both just like giddy. He has
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  Speaker 1: a great voice. The accent is just the right amount
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  Speaker 1: of Irish. It's not like it's not giving Leprechaun, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's giving. It's it's just giving, like cute Irish. And
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  Speaker 1: what's crazy is he said, Hey, Abby, so good to
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  Speaker 1: connect with you. Big voice memo guy, I'd love to
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  Speaker 1: take you out sometime this week. I'm actually really busy
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  Speaker 1: this weekend. I'm actually in Nashville. And I go, that's
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  Speaker 1: kind of crazy because I hadn't been public about me
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  Speaker 1: being in Nashville. So I'm like, this guy's obviously in
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  Speaker 1: Nashville because I didn't really post anything. I posted something
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  Speaker 1: later that night, but he had sent this voice memo
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  Speaker 1: before yes, And so I'm like, that's so crazy. Like
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  Speaker 1: we're both in Nashville and me and my friend are
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  Speaker 1: both sitting here like so freaking giddy. We're like, this
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  Speaker 1: is fay. This is the cutest thing. I wish I
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  Speaker 1: had listened to it earlier. We totally could have met
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  Speaker 1: this guy out and so me and I message him
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  Speaker 1: back and I say, that's so crazy. I'm actually in Nashville.
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  Speaker 2: Lol.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I fly out a BNA tomorrow to Tampa.
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  Speaker 1: And he goes, haha, no way, what flight. Not sure,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a good state to see you on a plane.
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  Speaker 1: And I said same. Lol. This is the next day.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I'm barely holding it together at brunch right now,
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  Speaker 1: which kind of a lie. Look outly fun, But I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the American Airlines two pm flight, and he goes,
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  Speaker 1: for fuck's sake, we can have our first date on
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  Speaker 1: the plane, And I said, you're kidding.
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  Speaker 2: Lol.
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  Speaker 1: So then he sends another voice memo and he just
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  Speaker 1: sounds like just so normal. He's like, this is so crazy,
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  Speaker 1: Like I how cool would it be if we could
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  Speaker 1: like have our first date on the plane. We can
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  Speaker 1: like sit with each other. But if not, like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to send you some snacks or whatever. And me
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  Speaker 1: and Me and Taylor are literally sitting in twelve South Nashville.
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  Speaker 1: We had just gone to La La Land, this cool
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  Speaker 1: coffee shop. We had some banana cloud lattes and we're
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  Speaker 1: just having like the best day. I was like, Taylor.
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  Speaker 1: Life is worth living. Because one of the reasons that
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  Speaker 1: I'm in Nashville is because my therapist had given me
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  Speaker 1: this advice that she's like, you just need to go
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  Speaker 1: hang out with your friends that know and love you,
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  Speaker 1: Like you just need to go see your friends, go
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  Speaker 1: to your favorite places. You love your best friend Virginia.
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  Speaker 1: So we went to go to five Sauce this week
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  Speaker 1: to go see a big concert that I love, and
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  Speaker 1: then I made plans to see Taylor in Nashville. Nashville
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  Speaker 1: is one of my favorite places. And I said, you
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  Speaker 1: know what, like Veronica was right, like I just needed
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  Speaker 1: to like reconnect with nature. Don't kill yourself. You don't
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  Speaker 1: need lexapro. You just need an irishman to tell you
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  Speaker 1: that he wants to hang out with you. Yes, so
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  Speaker 1: fix he says all these things, and I said, that's
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  Speaker 1: so wild. I'm in fourteen f I'm a big window
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  Speaker 1: seat gal. And he says, I love an aisle seat.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm in row twenty two And I said,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, it's a long distance relationship. And he said,
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  Speaker 1: I'll send ask them to send you some snacks. What
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  Speaker 1: flight did you get over? I said, well, Chivalry's not dead.
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  Speaker 1: I actually flew up yesterday, just a quick jaunt on Southwest,
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  Speaker 1: and then he just quickly jumped over and said, where
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  Speaker 1: do you live in Tampa? Which I thought was a
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  Speaker 1: little weird because I'm like, you can see it in
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  Speaker 1: my profile that I live on blah blah blah blah blah,
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  Speaker 1: and he goes, I would die for a coffee at
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  Speaker 1: the coffee shop there right now. And I had waited
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  Speaker 1: a couple hours after this, because Taylor was like, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta get to chill out for a second, like give
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  Speaker 1: some space, let me yearn a little bit, and so about.
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  Speaker 1: He sent that at eleven fifty one, and then at
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  Speaker 1: one fifteen, I'm like, all on the way to the airport,
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  Speaker 1: I say, haha, yeah, it always hits after a rowdy weekend.
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  Speaker 1: And then I to the airport and he hasn't texted me,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, maybe I'll see him at the gate,
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  Speaker 1: Like maybe I'll I'll see him and he'll be like hey,
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  Speaker 1: or maybe he'll text me when he gets to the gate.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm at the gate, I'm charging my phone. I'm
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  Speaker 1: waiting for him to text me, and in the back
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  Speaker 1: of my mind, I go, you know, I kind of
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  Speaker 1: knew he was probably lying about this, but it would
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  Speaker 1: just be so crazy if he did. And so I'm
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  Speaker 1: sitting at the airport gate and then I get I
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  Speaker 1: don't see him at the airport gate. I get on
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  Speaker 1: the plane. I don't really see him on the plane.
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  Speaker 1: Granted he's ten rows back, so maybe I just don't
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  Speaker 1: see him. And I'm sitting in my row and I
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  Speaker 1: decide to text him and I just said, fourteen f
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  Speaker 1: is seriously lacking snacks for real, And he immediately responded, like,
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  Speaker 1: I send that at like three forty five. He sends it.
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  Speaker 1: Two minutes later. He goes, and I hate, this is
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  Speaker 1: so dumb, but he goes, you are the snack abby.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, shut up, literally, like where are you? And
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  Speaker 1: he said, I paid for them to give you some
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  Speaker 1: pretzels and a drink. Don't say I don't look after you,
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  Speaker 1: and I said, damn. Getting wined and dined already, just
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  Speaker 1: kind of trying to open up the conversation, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: we're both on this plane allegedly, like allegedly we're both
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  Speaker 1: on this plane. And the plane lands, I look back
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  Speaker 1: and I'm trying to like just sort of casually see
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  Speaker 1: I'm just sort of like just trying to like look
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  Speaker 1: back to see if he's back there. I don't see anything.
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  Speaker 1: Granted again, there's a lot of people on this flight.
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  Speaker 1: I get off the plane, and I'm like, surely if
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  Speaker 1: he was on this flight, he would say something to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna bump into him on the train because you
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  Speaker 1: have to take a shuttle from the airport terminal to
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  Speaker 1: baggage flame or whatever at TPA. I'm like, surely I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna see him on the shuttle. He's gonna see me.
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  Speaker 1: I have not heard from this man since the flight,
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  Speaker 1: and which for me is confirmation that he was not
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  Speaker 1: on the plane. And I'm just like, what was the reason, Like, really,
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  Speaker 1: what was the point? You didn't I already told you
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna go out with you. You didn't have to
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  Speaker 1: lie that you were on this plane. You knew I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna be on the plane, So why would you
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  Speaker 1: lie knowing you were gonna get caught? Now you just
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  Speaker 1: look like a shady motherfucker. Yeah, it's just to make
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  Speaker 1: like did you just want me to feel stupid? Did
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  Speaker 1: you want me to feel And then I was like,
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  Speaker 1: did he know I was in Nashville somehow, like I
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  Speaker 1: hadn't posted about it, but like, I don't know, maybe
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  Speaker 1: he's a Magic ninety four nine listener. I went to
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  Speaker 1: go see if we had any mutuals. We have like
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  Speaker 1: one mutual. I'm like, maybe he knows that girl and
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  Speaker 1: she said something. It was just the most bizarre experience,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just me and Taylor are literally texting back
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  Speaker 1: and forth. We're like, he did all of that for what? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what's what's the.
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  Speaker 2: Get out of all that thing?
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  Speaker 1: That's what I don't get. What is the get? I
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  Speaker 1: don't get what the get is.
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  Speaker 2: The only way I could look at it is well,
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  Speaker 2: and this is not the only way. This is a
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  Speaker 2: couple ways. But the first one is if he was
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  Speaker 2: trying to be slowly I don't know, like really stupidly flirty. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: thinking that you knew obviously that he wasn't on the plane,
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, we're just playing along this game.
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  Speaker 2: But I think what a lot of guys forget is
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  Speaker 2: the other side is so human, Like your response to
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  Speaker 2: that is so human. You get excited. You're like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if I'm gonna see this person. You kind
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  Speaker 2: of look down you're like, well, I don't know. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: I could see him on the terminal, may or I
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  Speaker 2: could see him on the plane. And to put somebody
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  Speaker 2: through those games, m hmm is quite honestly, and just
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  Speaker 2: explicits are in the podcast, So I will go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: It's fucked up. It's so messed up because that messes
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  Speaker 2: with somebody's psyche like you may and again, nobody else knows,
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  Speaker 2: but in your head you feel like I'm the biggest fool. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like an idiot for even getting excited or
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  Speaker 2: getting my hopes up. And it's like what I hate
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  Speaker 2: about that is and it's you're not alone in this feeling,
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  Speaker 2: but like a lot of us get you get your
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  Speaker 2: hopes up so many times that eventually like, well fuck it,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get my hopes up anymore because every
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  Speaker 2: time I do, I always have this feeling of I
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  Speaker 2: feel like shit, Like you've made me feel like shit?
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  Speaker 2: So why am I even gonna go ahead and entertain
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  Speaker 2: somebody that might be the right one? Yeah, and then
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  Speaker 2: after that, you haven't heard anything like literally as we're
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  Speaker 2: in it.
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  Speaker 1: The next day, Yeah, it's eight thirty four, and I thought, okay,
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  Speaker 1: maybe he'll text me and be like, oh I finally
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  Speaker 1: got home. Maybe he was on a different plight. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. It's just bizarre, Like it's actually just weirdo
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  Speaker 1: behavior correct, And I think what you said is so
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  Speaker 1: spot on in the sense that it's like it's so
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  Speaker 1: hard and it's so annoying to constantly put yourself out
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  Speaker 1: there and get excited about things for people just to
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  Speaker 1: to almost go out of their way to let you down,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's not like I was
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  Speaker 1: clinging and like I really like this guy and I
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  Speaker 1: really wanted to work out and it didn't. It's like
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  Speaker 1: you literally just lied to me overhinge for hours for
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  Speaker 1: no reason. And I'm like, are you entertained by this?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think this is funny? Like did you think
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  Speaker 1: this was being flirty? It just makes no sense to
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  Speaker 1: me to the point where I'm like, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: Like it's not even so much that like dating is hard,
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  Speaker 1: it's just like the men are actually evil. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I like as when you first said that in the beginning,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh God, I don't know what that
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  Speaker 2: actually is evil, Like if your intentions and I'd be
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  Speaker 2: so curious and never will happen but to hear that
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  Speaker 2: perspective of like you're just playing a game.
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  Speaker 1: You did all this for what? And I was so
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  Speaker 1: mad because I had like no airport outfits. So we
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  Speaker 1: were in twelve South and Taylor and I were like,
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  Speaker 1: this is so fun, Like you're gonna go on a
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  Speaker 1: day later, Like you gotta figure out what you're gonna wear. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: we had to like find so I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: need like a T shirt or a sweatshirt or somebody
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  Speaker 1: to wear or my leggings because literally I was ready
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  Speaker 1: to go on this plane like full gremlin mode, like hungover,
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  Speaker 1: like just ready to like sleep on the plane and
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  Speaker 1: call it a day. And so now I'm like in
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  Speaker 1: these thrift stores trying to be like I just need
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  Speaker 1: like a jacket to put on over this, spend money
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  Speaker 1: on a jacket, show up, Like I wouldn't put on
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  Speaker 1: makeup if I didn't think I was meeting somebody there.
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  Speaker 1: I now I'm sitting there feeling like a fool in
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  Speaker 1: my head dress, being like what the hell is going on?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? And I think that's like you know you've seen
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  Speaker 2: in movies all the time. It's like you get already, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you have the music going, you have that feeling you're excited,
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  Speaker 2: and then like literally never get the goal, You never
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  Speaker 2: get the text, nobody comes up to the door and knocks.
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  Speaker 2: And I think when you see somebody go through that,
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  Speaker 2: or you go through that yourself, you never want that
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  Speaker 2: feeling to be on somebody else. Yeah, And I think
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  Speaker 2: that's just I don't know who this dude is and
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  Speaker 2: who he thinks he is to be able to do
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  Speaker 2: that to somebody. But that's the part that's so messed up.
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  Speaker 2: Like at the end of the day, if you're there
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  Speaker 2: for games like you were effing up other people's psyche,
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  Speaker 2: like you're providing trauma and that and itself is.
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  Speaker 1: Emil I got to traumatize them back. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta put this man on blast on Instagram or something.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, look, I'm not against the idea because at
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  Speaker 2: a certain point you have to face the music, you
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  Speaker 2: have to face the consequence. Yeah, because how many other
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  Speaker 2: people are you gonna do that too?
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  Speaker 1: Because it's just malicious at this point, And that's weird.
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  Speaker 1: I think as I had seen him on Hinge before,
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  Speaker 1: I wondered, I was like, Okay, this guy's got to
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  Speaker 1: be a little weird. If he's still on the apps
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  Speaker 1: after all this time, because if you're like a normal,
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  Speaker 1: well adjusted dude, you'll probably find some girl to date
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  Speaker 1: you for two or three months. So when I see
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  Speaker 1: guys consistently on the apps, I'm like, Okay, I got
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  Speaker 1: to check the Facebook pages. I got to see if
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  Speaker 1: somebody said something about him. Yet he's not on on
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  Speaker 1: any of the Facebook pages. So I'm like, I want
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  Speaker 1: to post and be like, what other teas on this guy?
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  Speaker 1: Like I matched this guy. I just had the most
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  Speaker 1: bizarre experience. Am I alone here? Like this is this
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  Speaker 1: guy like purposely just trying to piss me off? Or
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  Speaker 1: has he been a menace to other girls in Tampa?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're honestly looking out for them at the
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  Speaker 2: end of the day, Like I'm protecting you from just
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  Speaker 2: going through what like the I just I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: like my heart that does actually make my heart hurt. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Like to think of the excitement that's built, the conversations
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  Speaker 2: that are have and then you're just like on the
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  Speaker 2: other end of it, like hah, I'm just growing around
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  Speaker 2: under a couple of messages like, dude, grow up at
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  Speaker 2: a certain point. How old is he? Can I ask oh,
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  Speaker 2: let's see.
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  Speaker 1: I think he's my age, Like, I don't remember there
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  Speaker 1: being like a weird age gap. Okay, he's twenty nine,
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: grow up, normal looking dude. The voice notes were very
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: normal sounding, and I was like, oh, it's like a
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: normal human. He sounds very like well adjusted, normal jobs.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: It's weird that he like again, like, I guess that's
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: the evil part too, Like it would be flirty if
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: it was like, yeah, no way, I'm on ste twenty two. Nah,
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: that'd be crazy just joking, but like I acknowledge the
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: joke if it's a joke, acknowledge that you're flirting, if
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: it's flirting, but literally don't he like never mentioned any
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: of it.
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: No, it sounded so real, like literally, I'm reading the
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: conversation verbatim. That's crazy, Because I said, that's crazy. I'm
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: also in Nashville, so I'm like, I checked the time stamps.
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: He sent me the voice memo at five to twenty.
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: I didn't post that I was in Nashville until six thirty,
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, I don't think there's any way he
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: could have known I was in Nashville to like make
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: up a lie.
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, it's like because you said, he said
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: he was in Nashville first, before you.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: Said yeah, he sent me a voice memoy.
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: It would make it even worse if if he knew,
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: If he did know, I don't know, And maybe he
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: is a big listener, that's right.
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: That's when I'm wondering him, like was this some big
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: like there's no way that it wasn't some big like scheme.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: Now that I think about it, Oh.
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: God, that is so gross. I know.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: But I also wasn't on the apps until Friday, so
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not like this was some kind of
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: premeditated thing. He could have just sent me a DM
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: on Instagram and be like, hey, fool you and I
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: saw it, you're in Nashville or whatever.
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: I wish there's answers, like I really wish, because those
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: are those moments where you're like, what is your get?
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: What is your game here?
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: And I didn't play that much into it. He said
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: when he said what what flighter you want? I'm not
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: sure I'm in a good state to see you on
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: the plane. I said, I'm on the American Airlines flight
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: two PM. And he said, for fuck's sake, we got
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: to have the first date on the plane. I said,
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: you're kidding, Aloel, just kind of being like you're kidding, right,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: like hah, like this is funny, And then he sent
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: me a voice memo being like no, I'm literally on
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: that flight, Like wouldn't that be funny if we sat
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: next to each other? And I'm like, yeah, yeah, it
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: would be, it would be. It's actually the most magical
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: thing I've ever been.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: A part, Like why are you continuing to go down
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: this role?
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I hate men from the UK. They're just constantly
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: traumatizing me.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: Honestly. What's so crazy is like we've had multiple stories
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: on here about that, and I know you have more
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: before even this.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't understand what the UK has against me,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Like this is the UK's plot trying to get back
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: at American women. They're like, you pour tea and our harbor,
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: and now we have to make sure that women experience
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: this humiliation ritual of constantly just I'm just looking for
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: someone to be nice to me, and like, just be
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: nice to me. I mean obviously you want more than that,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: but like it's so hard to just not be a dick.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: It's one thing if you don't like me, you're not
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: attracting me, fine, but leave me alone. Otherwise, correct, leave
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: me alone. It is not that hard.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: Don't be out of your way to be a dick,
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: Like that was out of your way to be a dick. Yeah.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: So anyway, I don't know what the end game is.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm going to say something to him.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: I kind of want to post something online just being like,
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: what the fuck is wrong with this guy. I'm not
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: gonna put him on blast. I might post him in
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: one of those are we dating the same guy things?
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: I think you should, just because like at the end
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: of the day, like, sure, you need to have some accountability.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is ridicus. I'm just wondering if he's done
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: this to other women.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Probably I can't imagine that you would be the first. Yeah,
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: and what I think I mean, to be honest, my
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: thought goes, I'm like, I feel so bad for the
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: person that he ends up being in a relationship with,
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: because if those are the head games that he's playing
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: with people just online, what are the head games that
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: he plays with somebody that he actually quote unquote falls
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: for that's beyond psychological.
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's what happens is like they're just dicks to
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: all the women they don't care about, and then when
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: they find someone they fall in love with, they're like, oh,
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: it'll be nice. Now.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know because at a certain point, like I
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: can understand and very loosely understand, Like you if you're
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: twenty two or twenty one, you're in college and you're like,
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: you just haven't figured out that, you know, that's asshole behavior.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: You're twenty nine, like, you should probably be well adjusted
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: into a job. You probably have women in your life
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: that are friends. You definitely have, you know, a family
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: member that's a woman. Yeah, why would you put somebody
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: through that?
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't you rather go on a date with, like a
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: normal girl that's also into you? Like, why do you
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: want to what do you want to kamikaze bomb yourself
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: in the middle A banj I was like, India, we
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: were chatting, I was gonna go out with you. We're
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: having a great time, and then you just decided to
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: completely blow this shit up over like a random lie.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: That wasn't even fun. I mean, it was fun when
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: it was real, but it's not that fun of a lie.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, It's not something that you could come back on
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: and be like aha, got it. Yeah, so it's not
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: funny at.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: All anyway, now that the horse has been beat seven
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: several times over.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Well, beside that, on the trip, does like okay? Because
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: I really do like I like the part that you said,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: you know, with your therapists sending you on these trips
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: because you did go to five Sauce that's cool down
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: in Miami. You did go to Nashville. I do understand obviously,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Like I was thinking about this, that's been It's been
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: a lot of moves for you over the past eight months.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Have you felt like these trips have like helped, Like,
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: is it like all right, you got something to look
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: forward to, changing things up, re sparking with friends, like
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: coming back to it when you sit down with your therapist,
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: is it like that actually helps?
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean I just like seeing my friend. I
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: always feel like travel can be very healing. That's why
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: I put together my girl trips. I have the Tampa
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Bay getaway coming up this weekend. So I'm always a
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: proponent of like putting yourself out there, making new friends,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: giving yourself new experiences, like you never know what's on
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: the other side of saying yes, which is exactly how
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I felt when I was in Nashville. I was like,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: oh my god, Like I wasn't even going to come
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: here this weekend, and here I am on the same
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: plane as some dude of match with unhinge. Granted it
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: was a lie, but you never know what kind of
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: adventures you're going to stumble into when you put yourself
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: in a new environment. So I'm excited for the Tampa
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Bay getaway this weekend, and then in a couple of
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: weeks I'm going to Italy, and then the weekend after
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: that and going to Austin.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Like it, I mean, it's a last to look forward to.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: That's a lot of cool things going on your radar,
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: and I think for you know, the part of it
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: that's I could kind of relate to is having uncomfortable
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: conversations with people or at least just getting your honest
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: truth out there, Like for you going on these trips
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: and acknowledging Okay, I need this, I'm gonna give it
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: to me. There's things that I've and we talked about
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: this on the podcast weeks ago, of like I've had
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: these crazy dreams that have dealt with conflict and people
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: intruding my house and being flooded by water and being killed,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: and I've had to connect it of like it's also
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: acknowledging a big part of that piece, like protecting your piece,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: is having the conversations that you know you need to
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: have with friends. And I casually mentioned it on the
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: show today but kind of jokingly, but like having a
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: friend's wedding come up in a couple months and then
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: I have another friend's wedding in January, and both of
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: those friends, I'm like facing the music right now that
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm actually invited to those weddings. Oh no,
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: because I have the date at least. I literally have
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: a saved the date for one in November, and I
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: saw it and I was like, wait a second, that's
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: kind of interesting. I haven't talked to this friend in
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: a long time. I grew up with them, like we
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: were super close, so then obviously it moved and distance happens.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: They have a family, they have other things in their life.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: So I do have those friends where's like you talk
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: to once a year, once every couple of years. But
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: as I'm looking at it, I'm like, I feel uncomfortable,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: but I need to make the call probably soon to
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: see if I'm actually invited, or if the wedding's still ang.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Do you have to travel for these weddings.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Back home back to bureau. So it's at least a
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: day that I'll be away from here. But as I'm
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: looking at the months coming up ahead, those are considerations
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: of like is that an open weekend? I feel like
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: it would be on the person. And this is where
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: it gets uncomfortable. I feel like it would be on
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: the person who's actually hosting the event to let me
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: know that I'm not invited.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't think they're gonna text you and be like, hey,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: by the way, you're not coming to the wedding.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: But even if I have a safe like, that's where
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: it gets weird because you're told to save the date.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: I saved the date. Now what am I doing with
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: that date? Yeah?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know the date has been saved confirmed.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm good. Well, I'm just gonna wait up
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: till the week and just never get an invitation. And
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: I also have literally the same situation with another friend
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: in January where it's we were told verbally that we
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: would be invited, never got to save the date. We're
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: now four months away, from it. Okay, havn't gotten an invitation.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's happening.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of when my brother and his
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: fiance gave me the actual wedding invitations, and it was
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: definitely when I lived in Tampa, so it would have
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: been somewhat close to the wedding, like it would have
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: been less than six months out, like maybe April. Yeah,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I would say April, So that was like what one
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: to three months before the.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Wedding was the actual invitation, the.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Actual invitation, So I got that in April, let's say,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: ninety days before the wedding. So the November one is
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: the only one I'd be like concerned concerned about. But
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: in January, I would say, give it a little bit
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: more time, given until maybe October before you're kind of like,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I'm going to this wedding. But yeah,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't freak out right now, but it's definitely coming
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: down to the wire.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because November looks like the one that I'm like,
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: all right, I'm gonna send a text this week. I'm
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: just gonna shoot a text and just see where we're
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: at with it. Yeah, and just open the conversation because
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: I'm cool of being told like, hey, you know what,
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: we had to cut numbers down. That's fine, and that's.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: For sure what they're gonna tell you. They're gonna say, oh,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: budgets blah blah blah blah blah.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. The January one, I'm like, I
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: haven't even gotten to save the date. I just have
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: verbal confirmation in my head of what date Tuesday.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: When did they give you the verbal confirmation?
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: This was back in gosh, probably April. Oh no, no,
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: this was back in verbal confirmation was back in like January,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: and then another conversation happened over the summer, probably in June.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like maybe, especially if that person
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: hasn't sent you an actual save of the day and
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: getting the vibe they're not very organized, and so maybe
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: it's one of those things where, like two months before
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: the wedding, you're going to get the invitation, they'll be like,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: come if.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: You can gosh yeah, And I think that might be
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: it because as we were like talking, they were mentioning
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: all the things that they're like realizing they have to do,
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: and so I felt like, oh wow, I didn't realize
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: all this went into a wedding, whereas you know, some
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: of us have gone to a couple and it's like, well, yeah,
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: we kind of got to know when it is, where
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: it's happening, and if we're actually invited, because there's a
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: lot that goes into it. Yeah, I've got a couple
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: uncomfortable textas send this week. But I like facing the conflict.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: I guess do you No, not at all. I'm very
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: averse to conflict.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: But well, on the bright side, you won't have to
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: go to weddings you don't want to go to.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: I mean I want to go. I like celebrating them.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: I just I would rather know if I'm invited or not.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: That's kind of it.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like something happen in your relationships to
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: where you wouldn't be invited, Like is there something lingering
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: where it's like, oh that happened, or like we've kind
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: of grown apart.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: I think that's the girl apart part. Like I think
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: when I could look at friendships, I'm like, Okay, I
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: got to understand if we haven't talked in years and
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: we've just been brought together over just a couple reunions, understandable.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I don't need to be invited, but we were also
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: given purple kind of cues that we were invited. So
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: I'm like, huh, well are we are we not? Because
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: either way, I would understand. I would love to be
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: there to support you, still love you as a person,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: still love you as a friend. But I also understand
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: that this is a weird part of life, where like
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: just friendships literally close their chapter m naturally, and when
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: you see each other there's no ill feelings toward each other.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: You just don't hang around the same friend groups anymore.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: You have outgrown each other or that part of that life.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: I think that's both of these friendships. I think they're
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: going to always be a part of my life in
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: some capacity. But I just don't think if I were them,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I would understand we haven't talked in years, So why
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: am I inviting you to my wedding? Understandable, That's a
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: good point.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: So I think maybe just send the text to the
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: person who's getting married in November, double check with them.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: But I wouldn't freak out about the January one.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Just shit, okay, January, I hold off. I'm gonna hold
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: off till you said, like three months before.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: So I would say maybe like late September, early October,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: just being like, hey, is your wedding happening?
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like is this the date? And that's why it's
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: like I want to open up the conversation so they
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: don't feel awkward of like no worries. But should I
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: save the date? Yeah? Because if so, then I got
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: to tell work. I got to give the heads up
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: that oh it's like a Friday wedding. I don't know.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: I think it's like I don't know, I have no idea.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: So you didn't.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Save the date. It was not saved.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I was told the weekend, so I think it's a
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Saturday wedding, okay, but I think I would have to
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: travel for it. So it's one of those of like
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: come in when you can, but I would like to
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: just know instead of being the awkward one out.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: That's like, fully get that.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: That's all I got. I just have awkward friendships going
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: on right now.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry, I'm I hope they resolved themselves.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: I hope so too. I hope that so hinge is
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: no longer a thing on your phone.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Hinge, Well, I'm keeping it on my phone because I
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: do want to see if he's going to say something.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I don't think he is. But I'm going back and
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: forth between whether or not I want to either not
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: confront him because I think he's just gonna feed me
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: a bunch of eyes, Like what do I want from
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: him at this point? Because I don't want to date
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: somebody who's like an actual psychopath and like messes with women. Nope,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: because it's like that's just like psycho behavior, yes actually
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: is yes, actually weird behavior. And then I also kind
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: of want to post on one of those Facebook pages
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: and just be like, has anybody else experienced like that?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: That's just like a weird It's so far beyond weird,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: because now I feel like, did he know I was
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: in Nashville? Is that why he said it? Because he
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: kind of like went out of his way to like
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: say it on hinge. So I just don't It's just
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: a very weird, weird experience to me, and I would
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: love to know what's going on the other side.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: I honestly feel like and I don't. Yeah, like you said,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I don't think you're gonna get any answers, but I
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: would be very curious on if you just kind of
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: let off a little bit like you just popped off
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: just in the like what what was your game here?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: No, because I think that's what I think they get
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: off on that, Like I think they love knowing they've
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: affected you. And I'm not even that bothered by it's
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: just more of like the principle. I'm really bothered by
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: the fact that, like somebody just decided to just like
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: fuck with me. I'm like, that's so random, Like it's
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: just weird.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. I mean, it's just it's
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: so gross behavior. And what's I think more upsetting is
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: that it's like happening so much like it was a
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: joke of like Tampa dating is so bad, but damn yeah,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: it's everywhere.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Dating's not bad. I think the men are just awful.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: They're just bad people. You could just date with me, Well,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: good luck. If you do get any answers, or if
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: you do put it let.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Us know, thank you, Thank you. Very curious on that.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: If you do ever listen to the podcast and you're like,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: wait a second, I want to jump into this conversation.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Hop in the comments you could comment on I know
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Spotify has the comments that way every now and then
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: we read also leaving the ratings goes a long way,
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: so you can continue to bring you more And if
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: this is your first time listening in a while, catch
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: up on the previous answers. Because speaking of dating, if
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: you have not yet listened to the episode with Jake
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: and Jake came into Florida, it's almost just as bad.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: Poor Jake flew into Tampa was expecting to meet somebody.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: That's also evil behavior. So it's not even just the men.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: The women here are able to do.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: People just want to be single.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: For life, have really sinister energy happening.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Some episodes to catch up on there. We'll be back
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: tomorrow