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What Successful Women Can Learn From TheWizardLiz Cheating Scandal | Masculine and Feminine Dynamics · Mindful Success Path

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  If you are a successful high-earning woman who is on the dating scene, I really need you to pay attention to this video because I'm going to be breaking down the latest scandal in the spiritual community relationship dynamics world, which is the wizard Liz announcing that her husband, baby daddy.
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  I'm not sure which one it is.
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  Is cheating on her while she is four months pregnant, and it came just two days after they did this Interesting, uh, q and a video together.
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  Hi, my name is Amanda Abya.
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  Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you desire in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to.
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  If you are interested in that, then please make sure to subscribe to this channel and hit the notification bell.
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  Lately, we've been talking a lot about relationship dynamics, um, and the spiritual community has got me busy this week, okay.
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  Between Aubrey Marcus and that whole cosmic throuple disaster, and now the Wizard Liz scandal breaking out.
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  There's been a lot to talk about lately, and there will be more so that you, as successful women know what healthy relationship dynamics are versus.
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  What they are not.
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  And if you would like to find, free resources, ways that you can work with me, courses that I'm gonna have available and all those types of things, you can find them all in the description below, including a new guide that I just put together, which is all about how you can get more into empowered feminine energy so that you start attracting better men.
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  Because a big part of this is that we have to start learning what healthy men do.
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  And start becoming attracted to healthy men versus attracted to unhealthy men and understanding what attracts us, uh, to, to unhealthy men.
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  So we can start, uh, healing that.
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  So a couple of caveats.
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  Let me first give context for those who don't know what is going on.
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  So the Wizard, Liz is a very successful woman.
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  I think she's got tens of millions of followers on social media where she talks about manifestation relationships.
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  Uh, how to have a better life.
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  Her content's actually pretty good.
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  I mean, obviously I've seen, uh, some of her stuff throughout the years and we have this scandal that broke out that her husband named Landon, uh, in this case, she found out that he was cheating on her while she is four months pregnant.
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  And the internet is, a lot of women on the internet are like, oh my God, if she got cheated on, if Beyonce got cheated on, if Brianna got cheated on.
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  Uh, what, what hope is there for me?
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  So that's one of the things that I want to address first.
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  And the second thing that I want to address is red flags that successful women need to be aware of when they are dating because there were some major red flags in this situation.
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  And number three, some successful dating tips for women who are successful.
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  I had two successful businesses before I met my husband.
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  So it, it is possible to be in healthy, uh, dynamics.
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  Not to say that we're perfect.
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  I'm never gonna parade perfection in any way, shape or form because we're all human.
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  But I don't believe in a lot of the commentary that is coming out about this situation, uh, from the feminine empowerment spaces particularly, that are basically saying all men are trash.
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  Uh, men aren't good.
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  They're always out to get you.
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  I don't believe in that.
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  In this space, if you watch this channel, you probably don't either, so you're not going to hear any man bashing here.
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  We are simply going to talk about what is healthy behavior in relationships versus what is not healthy behavior.
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  In relationships, and I'm gonna tell you why.
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  When I was going around saying all men are trash, guess what happened?
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  I would attract men that were trash and would not treat me well.
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  However, when I changed that narrative and I said, no, there's healthy men out here.
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  Let me learn how healthy men behave.
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  Let me work on my own triggers and my own.
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  Um, you know, internal dialogue and my own beliefs in terms of why I believe I cannot have a healthy man.
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  Then guess what happened?
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  I started attracting a lot healthier men and I ended up manifesting my husband in four months.
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  So I really believe that what you say and what you believe can create your reality and what I'm finding in this particular situation is that there are a lot of women out here in the femininity space and the women empowerment space who are miserable single women.
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  Uh, who want you to be miserable and single like them.
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  Okay?
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  And so we are, we're not gonna hear the man bashing or any of that going on here.
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  A lot of those women did bring up some interesting points, which I'm gonna bring up a lot of those points that are based in truth, in terms of how these dynamics work and the psychology.
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  Uh, but because they think all men are trash, then, you know, they're miserable spinsters basically.
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  And I have two theories on this.
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  Either they want you to be just as miserable as them, and they do give off a lot of miserable energy.
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  Or, um, they're trying to get you to believe that all men are trash, so then they can go after the men that are not trash, but then you're not their competition.
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  So you have to be very careful, um, with a lot of the femininity content on the internet as well, because there's also a lot of manipulation and deception going on there, and I'm seeing it a lot.
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  Uh, when it comes to the commentary On this particular situation, I was only able to find one very healthy, uh, measured response.
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  Uh, out of the hundreds of videos that have been done on this, which I found very interesting, and it's one of the reasons I'm doing this video, so we can talk about a, a more measured healthy response.
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  So I wanted to leave that caveat, right, because I do not believe that all men are trash, uh, not at all.
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  And I don't believe that you should believe that all men are trash.
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  However, uh, and this is where even the toxic women have it, right?
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  We do need to understand, uh, relationship dynamics and male psychology, but on this channel, we're doing it from a perspective of this dynamic and these dynamics, and this psychology has been shown to work over and over and over and over again, whereas this particular dynamic has been shown not to work over and over and over again.
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  And also, I believe that men and women, or the masculine and the feminine, whichever way you wanna look at it, are meant to come together.
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  Right to create some beautiful things in the world.
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  But you do need to understand the psychology of how these things work.
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  And that's what even the toxic women have right on the internet.
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  So let's get into it, right?
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  Let's go into the red flags that were, that stood out to me.
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  So I went to go watch this q and a with my husband.
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  Uh, we lasted even less on this one than on the Aubrey Marcus one, because at least with the Aubrey Marcus, it was almost like.
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  It's gonna sound terrible, but it's almost like watching a bad car accident and you're like, whoa.
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  Right.
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  Um, so that one we lasted about halfway through with the cringey Q and a.
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  The wizard Liz did with her husband, baby daddy, fiance.
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  Still not sure, uh, what that situation is.
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  There seems to be some confusion on the internet about the status of their relationship.
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  Um, we got through even less of it, uh, so I had to go.
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  Uh, find clips and commentary, but I did get through enough of it.
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  We both did, where we were both like, oh yeah, no, there's red flags here of deception and manipulation from the, the, the guy's perspective.
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  So one of the differences here between the Aubrey Marcus situation and the Wizard Liz situation is that in the Aubrey Marcus situation, the man is the one that has the money and the influence.
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  Uh, and in this situation, it's a woman who has the money.
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  And the influence which changes things and does change some of the psychology because unfortunately, yes, there are unhealthy men out here who are going to fanboy over you.
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  Um, and that's not real.
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  That's not love.
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  So we're gonna talk about that in a second.
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  And there are also unhealthy men out here who are jealous of women, and they will do things like Baby Trap, successful women.
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  We've actually seen it over and over again with celebrities and a lot of people are thinking that that's basically what happened in this particular situation.
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  So we're gonna be talking about that as well.
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  If you would like to check out a video that I recently did about the types of feminized men and how they manipulate women, I will leave that below because many of you have found that very helpful.
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  So just consider this another part of the series, uh, in what we've been talking about a lot lately, which is how men are out here, or I should say unhealthy men are out here manipulating women.
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  Okay, so the first red flag that I saw with this guy, uh, wizard, Liz's husband, Landon, that's his name, is that he was, he was fanboying over her.
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  So the story goes that he had been following her on social media for a while, uh, and then eventually DMed her with a book recommendation, and then they mysteriously met at an airport, uh, three years later.
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  In a very odd, bizarre.
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  Uh, kind of a situation where they happen to be in the same airport in Greece.
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  So red flags are going off here for a couple reasons.
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  Number one, especially if you are a successful single woman, you need to be really careful about showing too much of yourself on social media.
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  It's just a safety thing.
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  Uh, really at the end of the day, like I don't actually post that much on my own personal social media anymore.
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  Like my husband and I have business social medias, but like personal stuff, I don't really post.
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  If I do post a location or something, it would've been long after, uh, we were there.
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  Because what a lot of these fanboy men will do, right, is they will study you, right?
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  And a lot of narcissists, and I'm not saying this guy's a narcissist, although my husband seemed to think he had some tendencies, um, they will study you, right?
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  And they will start using the same language that you do, which we also saw as a red flag.
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  In this particular situation is how he was using a lot of the same language and terminology that she does in a lot of her videos.
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  My husband also pointed out that even in some of the ways he talked about like God or spirituality, and we'll get to that part too in a second, he kind of sounded a bit like Andrew Tate.
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  So it was almost like parroting, um, a lot of people on social media.
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  So a lot of people are saying that he actually had a, a parasocial relationship, uh, with Liz.
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  And women who are out here and who are very successful, they have to be careful about this because if you're putting way too much of your stuff out on the internet, there are men out here who will be stalking you on social media all the time.
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  This is all allegedly.
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  Um, the stalking, the cheating is not allegedly that has been proven, but the other part.
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  Are allegedly, uh, because they will study you and then they will use that to kind of lure you in.
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  And you're gonna notice some similarities in this particular situation as what I was talking about as warning signs as feminized men who don't actually hear about you in the last video that I did.
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  The second thing that I want to bring up is that.
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  A lot of high achieving provider men, masculine men, they're working right?
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  So they don't really have time to be on social media and looking at all your stuff and sending you dms and all this kind of stuff.
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  'cause they're out building shit all day long.
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  I mean, most of the, the men that I have surrounded myself with, who I would like to think are pretty healthy masculine, um, they work.
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  And they work a lot in order to bring in money and build.
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  And one of the things that I found so interesting about this guy was a, the amount of time he had to be on social media and number two, like, does this guy have a job?
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  Does he make money?
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  Like, that's still unclear to me.
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  Um, because I guess he was like a YouTuber who was a gamer and a streamer, and then he wasn't doing that anymore.
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  Um, so I'm like, does this dude work or is she like paying for.
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  His life basically.
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  So that one is still unclear to me.
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  If you know more about that, just leave it in the comments below.
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  But this is one of the important lessons that successful women need to understand.
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  And this isn't just successful women.
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  This is just all women, period.
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  Um, it has been shown over and over and over again that a woman has more successful relationships when she dates or marries across or up.
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  So what does that mean?
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  Either they have the same socioeconomic status as you, or they are above.
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  Your social socioeconomic status, that is what works for women.
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  So what happens with a lot of successful women is that they settle and they date down.
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  Uh, meaning they start getting with the men who are like, Hey, baby, can you invest in my business?
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  Hey baby, can you pay for me to go to college?
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  Hey baby, can you, and they start doing that kind of stuff.
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  Like they start asking her for money and she starts to think, well, you know, I make a lot more money.
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  This isn't a big deal to me.
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  You know, let me just, uh, give him what he's asking for.
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  Don't do that.
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  Don't ever give a man money, okay?
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  You are emasculating him every time he does that.
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  And it's just gonna get worse and worse and worse.
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  So women need to either date across or up.
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  And one of the mistakes that Liz made is she dated down, or at least it seems like it.
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  'cause I'm like, does he work?
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  Like I, I'm still not really clear on whether or not he works and I'm still confused about the amount of time he had to be on social media to study her so much.
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  Uh,'cause men who work don't have that kind of time, uh, to be on social media like that.
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  So here's the thing, right?
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  When women date down, to put it bluntly, um, they end up financially taking care of a man only for him to leave her later.
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  For other women, which is part of what we're seeing here, he started chatting with some other woman, right?
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  Um, and the thing then the worst of situations, she will invest in his business.
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  She will build this man up.
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  She will pay bills.
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  While this man starts building himself up, he will build himself up and then he will leave her usually for another woman.
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  And with that woman, he's gonna pay all her bills because the other woman is not going to tolerate that kind of foolery, uh, from a man, right?
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  This happens over and over and over again.
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  The other thing that happens is when women date down, to put it that way, it flips a polarity in the relationship because it automatically puts her in more of a masculine role, um, and her and more stress on her nervous system.
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  Now in the case of Wizard Liz, she makes tons and tons and tons of money.
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  Uh, but I have seen women who make tons and tons and tons of money.
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  It's easy for them to make money, but then they end up literally taking care of a man who's like, I don't even have money for a light bill.
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  Right?
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  Which.
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  Puts it doesn't matter how much money a woman makes, that puts a lot of stress on her and she doesn't necessarily feel safe.
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  Um, so that's, that's an important thing to know as well.
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  The other thing is, this is known as hypergo me, right?
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  And hypergo me is not necessarily a bad thing because women are quote unquote, the more vulnerable ones.
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  And what I mean by that is women are the ones who can get pregnant, and women are the ones who raise kids.
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  And because of that, women are always looking for safety and security because that is a reality, right?
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  Of being a woman.
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  So women are better off partnering with men who can afford that.
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  Um, you know, and you can, you might be saying, well, I don't wanna get pregnant, I don't wanna have kids.
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  That's great.
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  But if you're having sex, you might get pregnant.
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  Right?
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  So that's always gonna be, uh, in the back of your head.
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  Um, and it's important that you get with men again to cross or up, right?
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  Who are okay with you not working.
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  If you decide to have children, um, not working, if you decide that you just don't want to work anymore, like for example with me, uh, before I met my husband, I'd had like two successful businesses.
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  We got to, he'd also had his own successful businesses, uh, before we got together because I made sure to choose a man who had already proven he could be successful.
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  My husband had already proven in the past that he could be successful by the time that I met him.
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  And I was like, okay, that's a good sign, right?
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  Um, but a lot of women are out here.
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  Uh, choosing men who make a lot less money than them.
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  They're choosing men who, um, you know, they're, I've literally heard stories from women who are like, yeah, I've freshened up his resume and I, I did the applications for him.
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  Girl, get outta here.
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  He's a grown man.
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  We don't need to be doing that.
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  Um, and it's not, sometimes the men are just too young.
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  So part of what I got from this guy, and I don't know how old he is, but I got very young, immature energy from him.
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  Um, a lot of the times.
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  Um, so sometimes they're just too young and you're dating too young.
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  Not to say that you can't date men that are younger than you.
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  It can work, uh, in certain situations, it's, it's not even necess, it just so happens, right?
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  General rule here, generalizing that if they're too young right then they are not in a position where they would be able to take care of you, um, if you get pregnant, right?
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  So that's one of the reasons why women need to date across or up.
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  Um, and then in addition to that, women need to stop dating men in 50 50 situations.
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  I don't know, I don't think this was a 50 50 situation.
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  I think this may have been of Liz is paying all the bills, uh, situation, which is worse because again, I don't know if this guy had a job, right.
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  I said I still don't know.
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  Um, if he did, please let me know.
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  The only thing I know is that he used to be like a YouTube streamer gamer guy.
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  That's all I know.
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  Um.
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  And the final thing, and I said this before, is the reason women need to date a cross or up is because there are men out here who are not doing well in life, who are jealous of women, particularly high achieving women, and they will study her.
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  They will get with her, they will get her pregnant.
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  They will humiliate her publicly, and they will knock her down a few pegs.
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  That is a thing, and it happens.
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  We have seen it with celebrities over and over and over again.
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  We saw it with Rihanna.
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  We saw it with, um, oh, what was her name?
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  Is it, is it Hailey Bailey?
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  The, uh, the sisters, the, the Bailey sisters Hailey.
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  Hailey was the one.
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  She was a Disney princess.
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  She had her, her whole career out in front of her.
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  She got with a dude who was way below her league.
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  And this has happened with a few Disney princes, uh, Disney actresses lately.
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  Uh, doing really well in life.
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  Um.
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  And he gets her pregnant.
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  And now it's like, girl, what happened to you?
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  And now it's like some major drama onto the internet where he's just humiliating her over and over and over again.
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  So if you are a successful, high achieving woman, yes, you are a target to these kinds of men.
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  So you need to, uh, be aware of what this behavior is and you need to avoid these men.
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  And the way that you avoid those men is by dating a cross or up.
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  That's how you will avoid it.
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  That's also how you avoid your nervous system getting shot, uh, later on because you're doing too damn much because you're working, you're pregnant, you're having kids, you're taking care of kids, and you're taking care of a grown man.
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  That's how we avoid, uh, that scenario.
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  And then in addition to that, it's also how you avoid later on in life, after you've built him up, him leaving you for another woman and paying all her bills, uh, because she's not going to tolerate.
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  Um, she won't have to lift a finger, but you would've had to lift a finger.
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  Okay, next thing.
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  Um, my husband's the one who noticed this red flag, which is, uh, he is an incongruent man.
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  Okay.
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  So in one sentence he says things like he's idolizing her.
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  She's the perfect woman for him.
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  We'll get to that in a second as well, because that's also been a common theme we've been seeing lately with these feminized men.
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  Um, and, and so he'll say that, but then in the q and a, when they're going through the story of how they, we oddly met in an airport, uh, you know, go figure that they happen to be in the same airport.
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  Uh, he was probably, my husband says he was definitely checking her out on social media and where her moves are and all that kind of stuff.
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  That's my husband's vibe because the chances of randomly meeting at a very busy airport in Athens, uh, is.
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  Close to zero, right?
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  So, um, he's like, I just go with the most logical conclusion in these situations.
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  And the most logical conclusion is he was probably paying very close attention to what she was posting on social media, where she would be, all that kind of stuff.
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  Okay?
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  So anyway, in one sentence, they're going through this story and in one sentence he says that he's idolizing her.
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  He love bombed the shit out of her.
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  We'll get to that in a second.
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  She's the perfect woman.
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  She's always thinking about, he's always thinking about her.
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  Uh, she sent him a voice note one time through the dms, by the way, while he was seeing somebody else, right?
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  And, um, we'll get to that in a second too.
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  And she, he just could never stop thinking about her and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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  But then in the next sentence, uh, when he says that they meet, he's like, yeah, I just wanted to be friends.
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  So my husband was like, that's an incongruent man.
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  Like, this doesn't make any sense at all what is coming out of this man's mouth, uh, which is a red flag in this situation.
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  Next thing, hyper spiritual, flowery love bombing language.
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  Uh, we saw that with Aubrey in the videos, which I've noticed.
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  I was listening back to some of those and I realized that I keep accidentally calling Aubrey Marcus, Audrey.
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  I'm not doing it on purpose.
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  It's a Freudian slip, but if the shoe fit.
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  Um, but anyway, this guy was doing the same thing, right, where he's doing very flowery language, very spiritual.
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  Uh, he was using a lot of the same language that she uses, uh, on videos and things like that.
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  And again, it's giving like very fan boy, uh, kind of energy, right?
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  It's given a, I studied you kind of energy and I remember many, many years ago before I met my husband and I was dating, I met this guy on a dating app.
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  And I lasted three dates with this man before I cut it off.
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  And one of the reasons why was because I got the feeling based on what he was telling me.
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  He's like, oh my God, I Googled you.
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  You're so successful.
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  Um, you, you've done so much.
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  You wrote a book, you did this, you did that.
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  I've seen all your videos.
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  I'm like, this is weird.
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  It's creeping me out.
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  I lasted three dates and I was out of there.
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  Uh, what what happens is, um.
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  In the case of Liz, right?
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  The guy was doing the exact same thing.
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  I mean, she said in the video, this guy just wrote a book about how much he loves me.
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  And I'm like, oh girl, what do I tell you guys on this channel all the time?
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  Do not pay attention to what a man says.
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  Pay attention to what he does.
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  Pay attention to the incongruencies because healthy men are congruent.
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  Uh, they're not perfect because they're human, but they're congruent.
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  Um, so, uh, but anyway, there was a whole lot of that love bombing stuff going on.
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  Um, and I'll get more into the love bombing in a second.
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  Next thing we need to talk about here is that he was talking to her and sending her dms about read this book.
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  I love this content.
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  I love this social media thing.
• 24:51
  While he was in another relationship, I don't, and apparently she knew that he was in another relationship because they both had gone on to date other people.
• 25:00
  And I was like, red flag.
• 25:02
  Red flag.
• 25:03
  Because if he's.
• 25:05
  Dating somebody else and DMing you and sending you messages.
• 25:09
  Girl, he's gonna do that same shit to you, uh, in two or three years, which is exactly what we're seeing, uh, right now.
• 25:15
  There's an old saying, it says something along the lines of, uh, how you get him is how you lose him.
• 25:23
  Meaning, you know, don't go after married men.
• 25:25
  Don't go after men who are already in relationships.
• 25:28
  'cause that's how you're gonna lose him.
• 25:30
  That's exactly how you're gonna lose him.
• 25:32
  Uh, later on.
• 25:33
  I don't know where that comes from, but that is a saying that gets said, uh, a lot.
• 25:38
  But anyway, what we're seeing is what he was doing.
• 25:40
  He was in another relationship while he was messaging her back and forth.
• 25:44
  Well, now he just did the same thing to her while she's four months pregnant.
• 25:49
  Okay, next Red flag, Ry, and we see this in the video, Ry is she seemed to be a lot more into him than he was into her.
• 25:59
  Okay.
• 26:00
  He was actually like, very nonchalant, didn't care.
• 26:03
  The guy kept looking at himself in the camera going like this with his hair.
• 26:08
  Um, and she was the pursuer in this situation.
• 26:12
  It might seem like she, she, he, she was being pursued because he was messaging her all the time and he was love bombing her all the time.
• 26:21
  But she definitely wasn't the pursuer.
• 26:23
  And there's two ways that I'm seeing this.
• 26:26
  So number one.
• 26:27
  While they were saying the story of how, you know, how they met in the airport.
• 26:32
  And on in one sentence he says, she's the love of my life.
• 26:36
  I couldn't stop thinking about her.
• 26:37
  She's the perfect woman for me.
• 26:38
  But in the next sentence says, oh, I told her in the airport, I just wanted to be friends.
• 26:43
  Make it make sense.
• 26:44
  Right.
• 26:44
  Um, but her response to that was like, oh no, we're, we are not gonna be friends.
• 26:48
  Right.
• 26:49
  Automatically putting her in the pursuer position.
• 26:52
  The other thing that I realized is in the video that they were doing together, she kept looking at him like she was really into him.
• 26:59
  He barely looked at her, barely uh, looked at her.
• 27:04
  And what happens when the, this is that what happens when a man becomes the prize and you start idolizing a man too much?
• 27:11
  Is that the polarity in the relationship flips?
• 27:13
  There's another old saying, and I've heard this said in many different cultures.
• 27:17
  I don't even know where it comes from, but I've heard women from.
• 27:21
  Eastern Europe.
• 27:22
  Say this.
• 27:22
  I've heard women from Latin America say this.
• 27:24
  I've heard women from Asia say this.
• 27:26
  I've heard women from, you know, the Southern United States say this.
• 27:29
  And they're like, my grandma always told me that he needs to be more into you than you are into him.
• 27:36
  Not because you don't love him, but because you love yourself more.
• 27:40
  And what happens is when you love yourself more.
• 27:43
  Uh, it puts you in the position of you are being the prize.
• 27:47
  It's actually good for polarity because the masculine is the one who's supposed to be the pursuer.
• 27:52
  A lot of times what's going on out here, especially with successful women, they're so used to pursuing in their careers that they also pursue in their relationships, and the thing is, right, pursuing in your career is fine and it's warranted sometimes.
• 28:07
  Um, but I also did another video on, um, you know, how to run a business more from feminine energy.
• 28:13
  So you don't have to be constant, constantly hustling.
• 28:15
  That's, I'll leave that below as well.
• 28:17
  But a lot of times what happens is they're so accustomed to pursuing in their, in their careers and getting shit done and making it happen, that they start doing the same thing with men in relationships.
• 28:27
  And what it does is that it flips, uh, the polarity and then the final red flag here is they moved way too fast and there was.
• 28:35
  Uh, a lot of love bombing that went on here.
• 28:38
  Apparently, you know, they met up the airport three months later.
• 28:41
  They were engaged in that time.
• 28:43
  There was a lot of extravagance, a lot of romance, a lot of, um, you know, just grand gestures.
• 28:51
  It's all bullshit, especially if they're doing it very early on.
• 28:56
  This is what the toxic feminine coaches actually do have, right?
• 29:00
  Uh, in a lot of their videos, is that when men start doing those things, especially really early on in a relationship, it means absolutely nothing.
• 29:08
  It means nothing, right?
• 29:10
  They are trying to create emotional dependence, uh, on them.
• 29:15
  That's what they're trying to do.
• 29:17
  That part they got right where they lose me is when they start saying, all men are trash.
• 29:21
  I'm like, well, then you're gonna keep attracting men who are trash.
• 29:25
  That's what's going to happen.
• 29:27
  Um, but again, I have my theories as to why they keep telling women that, uh, that are not, that are, you know, I think many of them are being quite deceptive, uh, when they do that.
• 29:37
  And I already expressed why I believe that now.
• 29:39
  So where are we at now with this situation?
• 29:42
  She did that weird q and a video.
• 29:45
  Uh, where they didn't seem like lovers.
• 29:46
  They seemed like friends.
• 29:48
  Uh, my husband thought this guy was full of shit.
• 29:51
  He's got a really good bullshit meter.
• 29:53
  That's why I'm like, Hey, can you like tell me what's going on here?
• 29:56
  Um, he's like, no.
• 29:57
  That guy's, especially when it comes to men, right?
• 29:59
  He's like, that guy's full of shit.
• 30:01
  Right?
• 30:02
  Um, but the other thing is I got like very immature, almost like feminine kind of energy from the guy.
• 30:08
  Again, very like night of cups kind of energy I got from him, similar to how I got that.
• 30:13
  With, uh, Aubrey Marcus.
• 30:16
  I got that vibe while I was watching it.
• 30:18
  I noticed she was way more into him than he was into her.
• 30:20
  That comes out earlier this week.
• 30:22
  Two days later, she drops the bomb that he cheated on her.
• 30:25
  He comes out with a whole video apologizing, but not really taking responsibility for anything.
• 30:30
  The good news here is that she's leaving him.
• 30:33
  At least that's what she said, right?
• 30:35
  I guess we'll see.
• 30:36
  Uh, what, what ends up becoming of this and, and the good news about being a successful woman is that you can leave.
• 30:42
  Because you have the money to leave.
• 30:44
  Uh, I think part of the situation that we're seeing with Aubrey Marcus, uh, in the cosmic throuple with those two women is they're either relying on him for the lifestyle and the money, or they don't think that they can make money on their own, which then leads you to, uh, a whole other messed up kind of situation.
• 31:02
  But I did a whole other video on that in case, um, you haven't seen it.
• 31:06
  So in the case of the Wizard, Liz, it looks like she is leaving.
• 31:09
  She is respecting herself.
• 31:10
  She is leaving.
• 31:12
  Uh, as soon as she found out that he cheated, which is great, she's putting a condition and a limit.
• 31:17
  Uh, she's like, I pretty much, I would rather be a single mom than keep dealing with this, and to a lot of the women who are single and successful, I want you to be clear about something.
• 31:27
  It is better for you to be single and childless, okay for a longer period of time than it is for you to end up being someone's baby mama or get knocked down a few pegs by a jealous man.
• 31:40
  Right.
• 31:40
  So even if it takes you longer to find a man who is either equal to you or doing better than you, even if it takes you longer, okay, it's better to be single longer than to end up someone's baby mama and get knocked down a few pegs and then have to deal with that idiot for the rest of your life.
• 31:58
  So hang in there, make sure to subscribe to this channel because I'm going to keep putting you on game, uh, like I said, and also remember that.
• 32:07
  You know, number one, anybody could get cheated on.
• 32:10
  I think that's number one number.
• 32:12
  I don't wanna end on this note because so many women feel like, oh, if, if she got cheated on, there's no hope for me basically.
• 32:18
  So like anybody could get cheated on.
• 32:20
  That's number one.
• 32:21
  Uh, number two, um, you know, it's ob the red flags were there in the situation and that's why I'm doing a lot of these red flag videos lately.
• 32:30
  'cause they were there.
• 32:31
  Uh, there were things that were suspect.
• 32:33
  There were things.
• 32:35
  That were a little off.
• 32:36
  There were things that were a little weird, uh, and the polarity was definitely off as well In this situation, and in case you don't know, like when a woman is more in a masculine pole and a masculine energy, and a man is more in a feminine pole and a feminine energy, it doesn't have a very good track record for creating long lasting relationships.
• 32:57
  Doesn't have a good track record at all.
• 32:59
  Uh, when it's flipped and the woman is more in her feminine energy, the man is more in his masculine energy, then it does have a much longer track record.
• 33:07
  Um, in terms of this is what tends to work out in long term relationships and partnerships.
• 33:14
  This is what, this tends to be an ingredient for success in the long haul.
• 33:18
  Doesn't mean that shit doesn't happen, of course it happens, but what we're doing here is we're we're setting the cards up in our favor to have the most likely outcome of success, knowing that we cannot control.
• 33:29
  Everything because you know, for example, the Wizard Liz, I mean, she didn't, she got played right is essentially what happened.
• 33:36
  She's admitted that she got played.
• 33:38
  Um, and there's something that we can learn from all of this.
• 33:41
  And at the, and I'm actually really glad that she's giving the example of she's just leaving because now her eyes are open and she's seeing what's going on and she's getting, uh, herself outta there.
• 33:50
  Unlike the other situation that I talked about this week with the cosmic throuple, uh, where the women just keep putting up with more bullshit.
• 33:58
  Uh, in other words, because they've been gaslit or who have lower self-esteem or who knows what is, uh, going on there, but, uh, there are good men out here, right?
• 34:09
  Just follow the principles that have been shown to work over and over and over again when it comes to longer lasting relationships.
• 34:16
  Even if it means that you're going to be single longer, it's okay.
• 34:19
  Believe me, you would rather be single longer and you would rather be childless than to end up being a baby mama to one of these idiots.
• 34:26
  Okay.
• 34:27
  Um, so that's number two.
• 34:29
  Number three, don't go around thinking that all men are trash.
• 34:32
  I know that there's a lot of that, um, dialogue happening right now.
• 34:36
  Uh, my audience is smarter than that.
• 34:38
  They know that not all men are trash.
• 34:40
  I don't believe that all men are trash, uh, but I do believe, again, you need to understand what healthy behavior is versus unhealthy behavior.
• 34:49
  And I do believe that unfortunately, most men.
• 34:52
  And even most women, because I could do tons of videos on the toxic behavior, women do in relationships as well, are not necessarily functioning from their healthiest place.
• 35:01
  Um, so we have to learn how to become healthy as men and women so we can have healthy relationships.
• 35:08
  Hope you guys found this helpful.
• 35:10
  This spiritual community has been keeping me busy this week.
• 35:14
  This is like the third or fourth video, um, I put out this week.
• 35:17
  'cause it's just one thing after another.
• 35:19
  I don't know what is going on.
• 35:21
  Um, and if you want to work with me, I still have some one-on-one sessions available to troubleshoot your specific situation.
• 35:28
  They're first come, first serve and as they are available.
• 35:31
  Um, and then I'm gonna be having, you know, courses, programs, those kinds of things, uh, coming out.
• 35:37
  I'm in the middle of a move right now, so we'll have to wait until we're on the other side of the move.
• 35:41
  And thank you for the comments that you've been leaving because it's, it's given me a lot of data and a lot of stuff to work with, so I can make sure to serve you guys to the best of my ability.
• 35:51
  So you'll find all the resources and things I've been working on in the description, uh, below and probably for this video, the best resource is the, uh, feminine Embodiment Guide, so learning how to be more in empowered feminine energy, and you will find the link to that below.
• 36:10
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• 36:11
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• 36:16
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• 36:21
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• 36:32
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