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From Hollywood to Reinvention: Sasha Alexander on Midlife Power, Identity & What’s Next · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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We
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always
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thought
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that,
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like,
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you
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know,
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menopause
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is
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like
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in
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your
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60s,
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not
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in
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your
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40s.
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Right.
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Like
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later.
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Later.
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I
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just
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had
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a
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40th
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birthday.
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I
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was
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really
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excited.
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What
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is
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this?
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It's
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also
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weird
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to
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be
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this
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age
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because
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I
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don't
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feel
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this
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age.
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Like,
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I
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feel
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like
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I'm
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20.
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I
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honestly
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think,
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like,
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we
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are
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where
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we're
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supposed
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to
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be.
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Youth
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is
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beautiful,
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but
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it's
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just
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as
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beautiful
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as
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other
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stages
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of
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our
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life.
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The
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hard
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part
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about
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aging
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is
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accepting
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where
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we're
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at.
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But
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the
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easy
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part
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is
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if
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you
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can
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literally
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look
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at
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it
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and
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go,
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it's
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beautiful.
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As
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we
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know,
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when
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you're
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an
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entrepreneur,
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one
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day
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you're
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marketing,
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the
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next
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day
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you're
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doing
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some
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back
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end
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stuff.
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Yes.
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Or
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all
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in
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the
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same
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half
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hour.
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Yes,
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yes.
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Literally
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in
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the
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same
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half
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hour.
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I'm
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like,
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oh,
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my
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goodness.
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How
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does
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female
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friendship
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look
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to
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you?
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Now
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all
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of
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a
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sudden
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you
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graduate
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to
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a
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space
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where
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you
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feel
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like
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speaking
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to
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other
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women.
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Feels
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like
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really
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like
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a
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comfort
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place.
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And
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going
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back
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to
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even
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you
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and
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I
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in
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college,
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I
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mean.
1:01
I
1:01
guess
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we
1:02
should
1:02
start
1:02
from
1:02
the
1:03
beginning.
1:05
Or
1:05
not.
1:12
Some
1:12
people
1:12
come
1:12
into
1:13
your
1:13
life
1:13
for
1:13
a
1:14
moment
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and
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some
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stay
1:15
through
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every
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reinvention.
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Today's
1:17
guest
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is
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one
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of
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those
1:18
people.
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For
1:19
me.
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Sasha
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Alexander
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is
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the
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kind
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of
1:21
woman
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who
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defies
1:22
categories.
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You've
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seen
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her
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anchor
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massive
1:25
television
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hits.
1:26
You've
1:27
seen
1:27
her
1:27
disappear
1:27
into
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characters
1:28
that
1:28
became
1:29
cultural
1:29
icons.
1:30
And
1:31
now
1:31
you're
1:31
watching
1:32
her
1:32
build
1:32
an
1:32
entirely
1:33
new
1:33
chapter
1:34
as
1:34
the
1:35
founder
1:35
of
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the
1:35
real
1:36
life
1:36
co,
1:37
a
1:37
mission
1:37
driven
1:37
business
1:38
helping
1:38
young
1:39
adults
1:39
step
1:39
into
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their
1:40
futures
1:40
with
1:41
clarity
1:41
and
1:42
confidence.
1:43
But
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before
1:43
all
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of
1:44
that,
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Sasha
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and
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I
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were
1:45
two
1:45
kids
1:46
walking
1:46
around
1:47
USC
1:48
dreaming
1:48
big
1:48
dreams
1:49
we
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couldn't
1:49
even
1:49
articulate.
1:50
Yet
1:51
we
1:51
grew
1:51
up
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side
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by
1:52
side
1:52
in
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different
1:53
corners
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of
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Hollywood
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through
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all
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of
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the
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messy,
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beautiful,
1:56
very
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real
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chapters
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of
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adulthood,
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careers,
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marriage,
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motherhood,
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heartbreak,
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reinvention.
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And
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because
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of
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that
2:03
history,
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she's
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sitting
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in
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this
2:05
conversation
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with
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the
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guard
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all
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the
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way
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down.
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This
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isn't
2:08
the
2:09
surface
2:09
level
2:09
stuff
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you
2:10
heard
2:10
before.
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This
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is
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Sasha
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talking
2:12
about
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identity,
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aging,
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ambition,
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friendship,
2:15
the
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industry,
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motherhood,
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and
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what
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it
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really
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takes
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to
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launch
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a
2:19
business
2:19
in
2:20
midlife
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when
2:21
the
2:21
world
2:21
thinks
2:21
you
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should
2:22
already
2:22
have
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it
2:23
figured
2:23
out.
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If
2:24
you
2:24
love
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smart,
2:25
honest
2:26
conversations
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with
2:27
women
2:28
who
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have
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lived
2:29
lifetimes
2:29
inside
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of
2:30
a
2:30
lifetime
2:31
hit,
2:31
follow
2:32
on
2:32
the
2:32
iconic
2:32
midlife.
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Leave
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a
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five
2:34
star
2:34
rating
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and
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share
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this
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episode
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with
2:36
someone
2:37
who
2:37
needs
2:37
this
2:37
kind
2:38
of
2:38
truth
2:38
today.
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Okay,
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let's
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get
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into
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it.
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Here
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is
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my
2:41
friend,
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the
2:42
incomparable
2:43
Sasha
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Alexander.
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Welcome
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to
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the
2:46
iconic
2:46
midlife
2:47
Sasha
2:47
Alexander.
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Iconic
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Yeah,
2:50
I
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don't
2:50
know.
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You'd
2:51
have
2:51
to
2:51
think
2:51
about
2:51
that
2:52
word,
2:52
iconic.
2:52
What
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do
2:53
we
2:53
think
2:53
about
2:53
the
2:53
word?
2:54
What
2:54
does
2:54
iconic
2:55
represent?
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In
2:56
some
2:56
ways,
2:56
you're
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right,
2:57
though.
2:57
It
2:57
is
2:57
kind
2:57
of
2:58
an
2:58
iconic
2:59
midlife.
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It
3:00
is.
3:00
It
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is,
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because
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we're.
3:01
I
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think,
3:02
especially
3:02
with
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our
3:03
generation,
3:03
we're
3:04
kind
3:04
of
3:04
doing
3:05
it
3:05
our
3:05
way
3:06
as
3:06
opposed
3:06
to,
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like,
3:07
when
3:07
I
3:08
look
3:08
back
3:08
at,
3:08
like,
3:08
my
3:09
mom
3:09
and,
3:10
like,
3:10
even
3:10
farther
3:10
back
3:11
from
3:11
that,
3:11
I
3:11
feel
3:11
like
3:12
there
3:12
was
3:12
no
3:13
way
3:13
they
3:13
weren't
3:14
able
3:14
to,
3:14
like,
3:14
express
3:15
themselves
3:15
the
3:15
way
3:16
we
3:16
are
3:16
and,
3:16
like,
3:17
have
3:17
these
3:17
shared
3:17
conversations.
3:19
So
3:19
I
3:19
think
3:19
it's
3:19
pretty
3:20
fucking
3:20
iconic,
3:20
that.
3:21
But
3:21
we.
3:22
We're
3:22
able
3:22
to
3:22
do
3:22
this,
3:23
you
3:23
know?
3:24
Yeah,
3:24
you're
3:24
right.
3:24
Are
3:24
we
3:25
jumping
3:25
in
3:25
right
3:25
now?
3:26
We're
3:26
just
3:26
jumping
3:26
right
3:27
in.
3:27
We
3:27
are.
3:27
Okay.
3:30
We
3:30
sure
3:30
are.
3:31
Well,
3:31
first
3:32
of
3:32
all,
3:32
can
3:32
we
3:32
just
3:33
start
3:33
by
3:33
saying
3:34
that
3:34
we've
3:35
known
3:35
each
3:35
other
3:35
since
3:35
college?
3:36
Yes.
3:37
So
3:37
when
3:37
we
3:37
talk
3:37
about
3:38
midlife,
3:39
it's
3:40
so
3:40
weird,
3:41
because
3:42
we've
3:42
known
3:42
each
3:43
other
3:43
since
3:43
our
3:43
20s,
3:45
and
3:46
so
3:47
it's
3:47
just
3:47
such
3:47
a.
3:48
And
3:48
we're
3:48
both
3:49
mothers
3:49
of
3:49
girls,
3:51
and
3:51
so
3:51
when
3:51
we
3:52
talk
3:52
about
3:52
sort
3:53
of,
3:53
you
3:53
know,
3:54
the
3:54
growth
3:54
that
3:54
we
3:54
have
3:55
as
3:55
women
3:55
at
3:56
different
3:56
stages
3:56
in
3:56
our
3:57
life
3:57
and
3:57
how
3:57
we
3:57
evolve
3:58
in
3:59
relationships
3:59
and
4:00
friendships
4:00
and,
4:01
you
4:01
know,
4:02
choosing
4:02
partners,
4:03
like,
4:03
so
4:03
many
4:03
things
4:03
happen
4:04
to
4:04
us
4:05
that
4:06
it's
4:06
really
4:06
kind
4:06
of
4:07
remarkable
4:07
being
4:07
a
4:08
woman.
4:09
It
4:09
really
4:10
is.
4:10
But
4:11
I
4:11
do
4:11
think
4:11
that
4:12
at
4:12
this
4:12
stage
4:12
right
4:12
now,
4:13
we
4:13
are
4:13
at
4:14
a
4:14
unique
4:14
spot
4:14
because
4:15
our
4:15
generation
4:16
is
4:17
talking
4:17
about
4:17
it.
4:18
And,
4:18
you
4:18
know,
4:18
thank
4:19
you
4:19
for
4:19
talking
4:20
about
4:20
it
4:20
for
4:20
a
4:20
long
4:20
time.
4:21
Even
4:21
before
4:21
this
4:21
podcast,
4:22
you
4:22
were
4:22
talking
4:22
about
4:23
it
4:23
on
4:23
your
4:23
previous
4:23
podcast,
4:25
and.
4:25
And
4:26
you
4:26
were
4:26
always
4:27
sort
4:27
of.
4:27
You
4:27
were
4:27
always
4:28
embracing
4:28
this
4:29
idea
4:29
of
4:29
speaking
4:30
openly
4:31
about
4:32
what
4:32
we
4:33
were
4:33
going
4:33
through
4:33
collectively
4:34
as
4:34
women,
4:35
connecting
4:35
on,
4:36
you
4:36
know,
4:36
having
4:37
babies
4:37
and
4:38
our
4:38
marriages
4:39
and,
4:40
like,
4:40
you
4:40
know,
4:41
or
4:41
relationships
4:42
in
4:42
general.
4:42
And
4:43
so
4:43
yay
4:44
to
4:44
you,
4:44
Roxy.
4:45
Thank
4:45
you.
4:45
Thank
4:45
you
4:45
for
4:46
always
4:47
continuing
4:47
this
4:47
conversation.
4:49
Oh,
4:49
thank
4:50
you.
4:50
Thank
4:50
you.
4:50
I
4:50
love
4:51
that,
4:51
you
4:51
know,
4:51
just
4:52
piggybacking
4:52
on
4:52
what
4:52
you're
4:53
saying.
4:53
You
4:53
know,
4:53
I
4:53
feel
4:53
like
4:54
it's
4:54
just
4:54
so
4:54
important
4:55
to
4:55
get
4:55
out
4:56
there
4:56
and
4:56
just
4:57
to
4:57
kind
4:57
of
4:57
open
4:57
up
4:58
the
4:58
dialogue
4:58
and
4:59
really
4:59
make
4:59
people
5:00
feel
5:00
comfortable,
5:01
because
5:01
the
5:02
best
5:02
thing
5:02
and
5:03
that
5:03
can
5:03
happen
5:04
is
5:04
that
5:04
we
5:05
have
5:05
all
5:05
these
5:05
shared
5:06
stories
5:07
and
5:07
we
5:07
learn
5:08
from
5:08
each
5:08
other
5:08
and
5:08
we
5:08
support
5:09
each
5:09
other.
5:09
You
5:10
know,
5:10
like,
5:10
there's
5:10
no
5:11
reason
5:11
why
5:13
we
5:13
should
5:14
not
5:14
all
5:14
be
5:14
supportive
5:15
of
5:15
one
5:15
another.
5:16
There's
5:16
space
5:16
for
5:16
all
5:17
of
5:17
us.
5:18
Yeah,
5:18
for
5:18
sure.
5:19
Right.
5:19
I
5:20
just
5:20
feel
5:20
like
5:20
there
5:20
is
5:21
no
5:21
reason
5:21
that
5:22
we
5:22
should
5:23
not
5:23
stand
5:23
by
5:24
our
5:24
fellow,
5:24
especially
5:25
midlife.
5:26
You
5:26
know,
5:26
midlifers.
5:27
Because,
5:27
you
5:28
know,
5:28
we
5:28
need.
5:29
Collectively,
5:29
we're
5:30
so
5:30
much
5:30
stronger
5:31
when
5:31
we're
5:31
all
5:31
together.
5:32
So,
5:33
yeah,
5:34
right
5:34
When
5:34
I
5:34
think,
5:35
you
5:35
know,
5:35
think
5:36
back
5:36
to
5:36
that,
5:36
like,
5:37
and
5:37
going
5:38
back
5:38
to
5:38
even
5:38
you
5:38
and
5:38
I
5:39
in
5:39
college.
5:39
I
5:39
mean.
5:41
I
5:42
guess
5:42
we
5:42
should
5:42
start
5:42
from
5:42
the
5:43
beginning.
5:45
Or
5:45
not.
5:48
Oh,
5:48
my
5:48
God,
5:49
it
5:49
was
5:49
so
5:49
funny.
5:50
I
5:50
was,
5:50
like,
5:50
just
5:51
thinking
5:51
yesterday.
5:52
I'm
5:52
like,
5:52
when
5:53
was
5:53
the
5:53
first
5:53
time
5:54
I
5:54
met
5:54
Sasha?
5:54
And
5:55
I
5:55
think
5:55
I
5:56
remember,
5:57
if
5:57
memory
5:57
serves,
5:58
which.
5:59
Which
5:59
could
5:59
be
5:59
a
5:59
blur
6:00
still,
6:00
because
6:00
we
6:01
did,
6:01
you
6:01
know,
6:01
at
6:01
a
6:02
party.
6:02
At
6:02
a
6:02
theme
6:02
party
6:03
at
6:03
a
6:03
college
6:04
theme
6:04
party.
6:05
Could
6:05
have
6:05
been
6:05
a
6:05
theme.
6:06
You
6:06
know
6:06
what
6:06
it
6:07
was?
6:07
I
6:08
think
6:08
it
6:08
was
6:08
when
6:09
Tracy
6:10
and
6:10
I
6:10
came
6:10
to
6:10
pick
6:11
you
6:11
up
6:11
to
6:11
go.
6:11
And
6:12
Joey
6:12
came
6:12
to
6:13
pick
6:13
you
6:13
up
6:13
to
6:13
go
6:14
out
6:14
for
6:14
the
6:14
night
6:15
when
6:15
you
6:15
lived
6:16
with
6:16
Autumn.
6:18
Oh,
6:18
yeah.
6:18
Okay.
6:19
Yeah,
6:19
sure.
6:20
Was
6:20
that
6:20
our.
6:21
Our
6:21
freshman.
6:22
That
6:22
was
6:22
our
6:22
freshman
6:23
year.
6:23
I
6:24
didn't.
6:24
I
6:24
didn't
6:24
live
6:24
with
6:25
Autumn
6:25
till
6:25
junior
6:26
year.
6:26
Senior
6:27
year.
6:28
Senior
6:28
year.
6:28
Oh,
6:29
but
6:29
it
6:29
was.
6:29
But
6:29
okay,
6:30
you
6:30
know
6:30
what?
6:30
It
6:30
was
6:31
our.
6:31
I
6:31
think
6:31
it
6:32
was
6:32
our
6:32
freshman
6:32
year,
6:33
maybe.
6:33
But
6:33
we
6:33
lived
6:33
with
6:34
Tracy
6:34
in
6:34
autumn
6:34
the
6:35
first
6:35
year,
6:35
so
6:36
maybe.
6:37
Oh,
6:37
wait,
6:37
then
6:37
that
6:37
was.
6:38
Okay.
6:38
Wait,
6:38
that's
6:38
right.
6:38
Freshman
6:39
year.
6:39
Then
6:40
that
6:40
was
6:40
it.
6:40
Freshman
6:41
year.
6:41
Okay,
6:41
that
6:41
was
6:42
it.
6:42
I
6:42
remember
6:43
us
6:43
all
6:43
going
6:43
out.
6:44
Joey
6:44
was
6:44
trained
6:44
around
6:45
our
6:45
gay
6:45
friend.
6:45
Joey,
6:46
for
6:47
those
6:47
who
6:47
don't
6:47
know,
6:48
was
6:48
trying
6:48
to
6:49
round
6:49
us
6:49
all
6:49
up.
6:49
And
6:50
the
6:50
shenanigans
6:51
that
6:51
always.
6:51
They
6:52
don't
6:52
know
6:52
Joey.
6:53
Everyone
6:53
knows
6:53
Joey.
6:54
What
6:54
do
6:54
you
6:54
mean?
6:56
Hold
6:56
on.
6:57
I
6:57
have
6:57
to
6:57
take
6:57
a
6:57
beat
6:57
and
6:57
just
6:58
tell
6:58
you
6:58
I'm
6:58
being
6:58
distracted
6:59
because
6:59
I
6:59
cut
7:00
my
7:00
own
7:00
hair
7:00
the
7:00
other
7:00
day.
7:01
I
7:02
felt
7:02
empowered
7:02
to
7:03
come.
7:03
So
7:03
I
7:03
think
7:04
I
7:04
did
7:04
this.
7:04
I
7:04
used
7:04
to
7:04
do
7:05
this
7:05
in
7:05
college.
7:05
And
7:05
now,
7:06
all
7:06
of
7:06
a
7:06
sudden,
7:06
in
7:06
midlife,
7:07
I'm
7:07
cutting
7:07
my
7:07
own
7:07
hair.
7:08
I
7:08
literally
7:08
cut
7:08
my
7:09
bangs.
7:09
They
7:09
were
7:09
down
7:09
to
7:09
here,
7:10
and
7:10
I
7:10
cut
7:10
them
7:10
to
7:10
here.
7:12
I
7:12
cut
7:12
Leonardo's
7:13
hair.
7:13
He
7:13
likes
7:14
me
7:14
to
7:14
cut
7:14
his
7:14
hair.
7:14
I
7:15
did
7:15
it
7:15
once,
7:16
and
7:16
for
7:16
some
7:16
reason,
7:16
it
7:17
was,
7:17
like,
7:17
the
7:17
best
7:17
haircut
7:18
he
7:18
ever
7:18
had.
7:18
So
7:18
now
7:18
I
7:19
cut
7:19
his
7:19
hair
7:19
all
7:19
the
7:19
time,
7:20
which
7:20
is
7:20
really
7:20
cute.
7:21
But
7:22
I
7:22
felt
7:22
empowered
7:23
to
7:23
do
7:23
my
7:23
own
7:23
hair.
7:23
Now
7:23
I'm
7:24
looking
7:24
at
7:24
it
7:24
going,
7:24
I'm
7:24
not
7:25
sure.
7:25
I
7:26
might
7:26
need
7:26
to
7:26
have
7:26
a
7:26
professional
7:27
to
7:27
go,
7:27
look
7:28
at
7:28
this.
7:29
I
7:29
am
7:30
obsessed
7:30
with
7:30
it.
7:31
You
7:31
can
7:31
see
7:31
the
7:32
layers.
7:33
Lots
7:33
of
7:33
layers.
7:34
There's
7:34
a
7:35
lot
7:35
of
7:35
layers.
7:36
I
7:36
think
7:36
I'm
7:37
gonna
7:37
book
7:37
an
7:37
appointment.
7:38
Slash.
7:38
I
7:38
mean,
7:38
you
7:38
are
7:39
onto
7:39
something.
7:40
I'm
7:40
here.
7:41
I'm
7:41
here.
7:42
Matchas
7:42
and
7:42
a
7:42
hairc.
7:45
Exactly.
7:45
Sorry.
7:46
I
7:46
just
7:46
was
7:46
looking
7:47
at
7:47
myself
7:47
in
7:47
the
7:47
thing,
7:47
and
7:48
I'm
7:48
like,
7:48
Whose
7:48
hair
7:48
is
7:49
that?
7:49
What's
7:49
happening?
7:50
Okay,
7:50
Anyway,
7:51
you
7:51
do
7:51
it.
7:51
You
7:51
just
7:52
look
7:52
in
7:52
the
7:52
mirror
7:52
and
7:53
you
7:53
just.
7:53
With
7:53
the
7:53
scissors
7:54
here.
7:54
I
7:54
was
7:54
drunk.
7:55
I
7:55
was
7:55
very
7:55
drunk.
7:56
Oh,
7:57
there
7:57
we
7:57
go.
7:57
Here
7:57
we
7:58
go.
7:59
I'm
7:59
like.
7:59
I'm
8:00
literally
8:00
like
8:00
this.
8:02
That's
8:03
what
8:03
I
8:03
do.
8:03
I
8:03
just
8:03
go
8:03
like
8:04
that.
8:04
And
8:04
I
8:04
also
8:04
kind
8:05
of
8:05
think
8:05
I
8:05
do
8:05
that
8:05
with
8:06
Leonardo's
8:06
hair.
8:06
I
8:06
kind
8:07
of
8:07
look
8:07
at
8:07
the
8:07
way
8:08
the
8:08
flow
8:08
of
8:08
the
8:08
hair
8:09
goes,
8:09
and
8:09
I
8:09
kind
8:09
of
8:10
just
8:10
shape
8:10
it.
8:11
Like,
8:11
I
8:11
would
8:12
implant
8:13
and
8:14
don't.
8:14
Like,
8:14
all
8:14
those
8:15
boys
8:15
love
8:15
to
8:15
have,
8:16
like,
8:16
the
8:16
hair
8:16
in
8:17
the
8:17
face.
8:17
Like,
8:17
not
8:18
anymore.
8:18
He's
8:19
past
8:19
that
8:19
stage.
8:20
Thank
8:20
goodness.
8:21
I
8:21
love
8:22
hearing
8:22
about,
8:22
like,
8:22
the
8:22
boy
8:23
mom
8:23
side
8:23
of
8:24
things,
8:24
like,
8:24
because
8:25
I
8:25
just
8:25
have
8:25
the
8:26
girl,
8:26
so
8:27
I
8:27
feel
8:27
like
8:27
it's
8:27
a
8:27
totally
8:28
different
8:28
experience.
8:29
And
8:29
here
8:29
you
8:30
are.
8:30
You've
8:31
had
8:31
both.
8:31
I
8:32
mean,
8:32
yeah,
8:33
it's
8:33
different.
8:33
Which
8:34
one
8:34
is
8:34
harder?
8:35
Which
8:35
is
8:35
there
8:35
one
8:36
that's.
8:36
Girls
8:37
were
8:37
so
8:37
difficult.
8:39
There's
8:39
no.
8:39
I
8:39
don't
8:40
even
8:40
have
8:40
to
8:40
take
8:40
a
8:40
breath.
8:41
I
8:41
can
8:41
literally
8:42
cut
8:42
your
8:42
sentence
8:42
off.
8:43
Which
8:43
one's
8:43
harder?
8:43
Girls.
8:45
Girls.
8:46
Girls
8:46
are
8:46
harder.
8:49
Listen,
8:49
that's
8:50
what
8:50
makes
8:50
us
8:50
magical
8:52
creatures,
8:53
because
8:53
we
8:54
are
8:54
complicated
8:54
and
8:55
we
8:55
have
8:55
many
8:55
sides
8:56
and
8:56
we
8:56
can
8:56
handle
8:56
a
8:57
million
8:57
things
8:57
at
8:57
once.
8:58
And
8:58
we
8:58
have
8:58
big
8:58
brains
8:59
and
8:59
big
8:59
hearts
8:59
and
9:00
we
9:00
lead
9:01
with
9:01
emotions
9:02
because
9:02
we
9:03
have
9:03
cycles.
9:05
And
9:05
I
9:05
don't
9:05
think
9:05
that
9:05
we
9:05
should,
9:06
like,
9:06
not
9:06
think
9:06
that
9:07
our
9:07
cycles
9:09
affect
9:10
our
9:10
emotional
9:11
being.
9:12
We
9:12
give
9:12
birth.
9:14
Like,
9:15
there's
9:16
a
9:16
lot
9:16
going
9:16
on.
9:17
And
9:17
so,
9:17
you
9:18
know,
9:18
I
9:18
think
9:18
that.
9:19
I
9:19
think
9:19
that
9:19
all
9:20
those
9:20
things,
9:20
especially
9:20
when
9:21
you're
9:21
growing
9:22
and
9:22
you
9:22
have,
9:22
you
9:23
know,
9:23
a
9:23
young
9:23
girl
9:24
entering
9:24
into,
9:25
you
9:25
know,
9:26
the
9:26
teens
9:26
and
9:26
then
9:27
young
9:27
adulthood,
9:27
it
9:28
just
9:28
is
9:28
a
9:28
lot
9:29
to
9:29
navigate,
9:30
you
9:30
know,
9:30
and
9:30
also,
9:31
they're
9:31
different
9:31
than
9:32
we
9:32
are.
9:32
Oh.
9:33
I
9:33
also
9:33
think
9:34
that
9:34
having
9:35
a
9:35
girl
9:35
is
9:36
hard
9:36
for
9:36
us
9:36
because
9:37
as
9:37
girls,
9:38
we've
9:38
definitely
9:39
been
9:39
in
9:39
positions
9:39
that
9:39
we
9:40
didn't
9:40
feel.
9:41
We
9:41
felt
9:42
insecure,
9:43
we
9:43
didn't
9:43
feel
9:43
good
9:43
about
9:44
ourselves.
9:44
We
9:44
didn't
9:44
maybe
9:45
find
9:45
our
9:45
people
9:45
or
9:46
our
9:46
friend
9:46
group
9:46
or
9:47
we
9:47
were
9:47
excluded,
9:48
or
9:48
we
9:48
didn't
9:48
feel
9:48
pretty
9:49
enough,
9:49
or
9:49
we
9:49
didn't.
9:50
The
9:50
boy
9:50
didn't
9:50
like
9:51
us.
9:51
We
9:51
have
9:51
all
9:52
these
9:52
things
9:52
that
9:52
happen
9:53
to
9:53
us.
9:53
And
9:54
then
9:54
you
9:54
watch
9:54
your
9:54
daughter
9:55
go
9:55
through
9:55
the
9:55
same
9:56
thing
9:56
and
9:56
you're
9:56
like,
9:57
oh,
9:57
oh,
9:58
yeah,
9:58
I'm
9:58
gutted.
9:59
I'm
9:59
gutted.
9:59
How
9:59
do
9:59
I.
10:00
What
10:00
do
10:00
I
10:00
do?
10:00
How
10:00
do
10:01
I.
10:01
How
10:01
do
10:01
I
10:01
help
10:01
her
10:02
navigate
10:02
this?
10:02
And.
10:03
And
10:03
you
10:03
can't.
10:04
You
10:04
can
10:05
do
10:05
the
10:05
best
10:06
that
10:06
you
10:06
can,
10:06
but
10:06
the
10:07
truth
10:07
is,
10:07
is
10:07
that
10:08
we're
10:08
all
10:09
individual
10:10
and
10:10
she's
10:10
her
10:10
own
10:11
person.
10:11
And
10:11
so
10:11
she
10:12
has
10:12
to
10:12
learn
10:12
the
10:12
hard
10:13
way
10:13
and
10:13
as
10:14
we
10:14
all
10:14
do.
10:14
So
10:14
it's.
10:15
It's
10:15
really.
10:16
I
10:16
just
10:16
find
10:16
it
10:16
more
10:17
difficult,
10:17
I
10:17
think,
10:17
because
10:18
we
10:18
feel
10:18
their
10:19
pain
10:19
in
10:19
a
10:19
different
10:19
way.
10:20
Boys
10:21
are
10:21
like,
10:21
ugh.
10:22
Like,
10:22
I
10:22
mean,
10:22
literally.
10:23
Leo
10:23
had
10:24
something
10:24
happen
10:25
the
10:25
other
10:25
day
10:25
that.
10:26
That
10:27
would
10:27
have,
10:28
for
10:28
maybe
10:28
my
10:29
daughter,
10:29
been
10:30
like,
10:30
a
10:30
bigger
10:31
deal,
10:32
but
10:32
for
10:32
him,
10:33
he
10:33
just
10:33
sort
10:33
of
10:33
said,
10:34
this
10:34
is
10:34
what
10:34
happened.
10:35
It
10:35
hurt
10:35
my
10:35
feelings.
10:37
And
10:37
we
10:37
were
10:37
like,
10:37
yeah,
10:38
that
10:38
sucks.
10:39
And
10:39
he
10:39
was
10:39
like,
10:39
yeah,
10:40
all
10:40
right.
10:41
Can
10:41
I
10:41
go
10:41
get
10:42
an
10:42
Asyl?
10:43
Yeah.
10:43
Okay.
10:44
And
10:44
it
10:44
was
10:45
over.
10:45
Like,
10:45
there
10:45
was
10:46
no
10:46
prolonging
10:47
it.
10:48
There
10:48
was
10:49
no.
10:49
I'm
10:49
not
10:50
saying
10:50
that
10:50
they
10:50
don't
10:51
feel
10:51
as
10:51
deeply
10:52
or
10:52
see
10:52
it.
10:52
I
10:53
just
10:53
think
10:53
that
10:53
it's
10:54
different.
10:54
They
10:54
let
10:55
it
10:55
go
10:55
very
10:55
fast.
10:56
It
10:56
seems
10:57
like
10:57
the
10:57
bounce
10:57
back
10:57
is
10:58
quicker.
10:58
Girls
10:59
seem
10:59
to
10:59
be
10:59
a
10:59
little
10:59
more
11:00
emotional
11:00
about
11:01
it.
11:01
It's
11:01
like,
11:01
you
11:02
really
11:02
have
11:02
to
11:02
go
11:03
through
11:03
the
11:04
process.
11:04
Yes.
11:05
Right.
11:05
With
11:06
them.
11:06
Yeah.
11:06
Okay.
11:07
What
11:07
kind
11:07
of
11:07
advice
11:08
can
11:08
you
11:08
give
11:08
me?
11:08
Because,
11:09
as
11:09
you
11:09
know,
11:09
my
11:09
daughter
11:10
has
11:10
entered
11:10
middle
11:11
school
11:11
now,
11:11
and
11:12
I'm
11:13
a
11:13
little.
11:13
I'm
11:14
a
11:14
little
11:14
shook,
11:14
you
11:15
know,
11:15
with
11:15
all
11:15
the.
11:16
The
11:16
things,
11:17
you
11:17
know,
11:17
with
11:17
all
11:17
the
11:18
emotions
11:18
and
11:18
the
11:19
hormones
11:19
and
11:19
like,
11:20
you
11:20
know,
11:20
it's
11:21
one
11:21
thing
11:21
sometimes
11:22
one
11:22
way
11:23
one
11:23
day,
11:23
and
11:23
then
11:23
it's,
11:24
you
11:24
know,
11:24
a
11:24
180
11:25
the
11:25
next.
11:25
It's.
11:26
There's
11:26
a
11:27
lot
11:27
going
11:27
on
11:27
in
11:28
these
11:28
little
11:28
brains
11:29
and
11:29
bodies.
11:30
So,
11:30
like,
11:30
what.
11:31
What
11:31
advice
11:31
for
11:32
these
11:32
middle
11:32
school
11:32
moms
11:33
would
11:33
you
11:33
give?
11:34
I,
11:35
you
11:35
know,
11:35
I
11:35
have
11:35
a
11:36
lot
11:36
of
11:36
empathy
11:36
for
11:37
it
11:37
because
11:37
I
11:37
went
11:38
through
11:38
it
11:38
and
11:38
I
11:38
really
11:39
like.
11:39
I
11:40
like,
11:40
I
11:40
love
11:40
all.
11:41
Like,
11:41
I
11:41
love
11:41
all
11:42
kids.
11:42
Like,
11:42
there's
11:42
a
11:43
part
11:43
of
11:43
me
11:43
that
11:44
really
11:44
always
11:44
wanted
11:45
to
11:45
and
11:45
still
11:45
sometimes
11:46
wants
11:46
to
11:46
be
11:46
a
11:46
teacher
11:47
or,
11:47
like,
11:47
work
11:48
with
11:48
children
11:48
because
11:49
I
11:49
really
11:49
do
11:50
feel
11:51
for
11:51
them.
11:51
And
11:52
very
11:52
often
11:52
I
11:52
say
11:52
to
11:53
parents,
11:53
like,
11:53
you
11:54
know,
11:54
just
11:54
chill
11:54
out.
11:55
Like,
11:55
you
11:55
have
11:55
no
11:55
idea
11:56
what
11:56
they're
11:56
like,
11:56
what
11:57
it
11:57
was
11:57
like
11:57
at
11:57
school
11:58
or
11:58
what
11:58
they
11:58
went
11:58
through.
11:59
And
11:59
my.
12:00
And
12:00
two
12:01
other
12:02
piece
12:02
of
12:02
advice
12:02
is
12:02
like,
12:03
don't
12:03
believe
12:03
everything
12:03
they
12:04
tell
12:04
you.
12:05
It's
12:05
just
12:05
their
12:06
perspective.
12:06
You
12:06
have
12:07
no
12:07
idea
12:07
what
12:07
they
12:08
contributed
12:08
to
12:09
the
12:10
dynamic,
12:11
the
12:11
friend
12:11
group,
12:12
what
12:12
they
12:12
brought
12:12
to
12:12
the
12:12
table,
12:13
what
12:13
they
12:13
didn't.
12:14
They
12:14
don't
12:14
know
12:14
who
12:15
they
12:15
are.
12:15
They're
12:15
testing
12:16
things
12:16
out.
12:16
They're
12:17
trying
12:17
on
12:17
different
12:17
jackets
12:18
of
12:18
personalities
12:19
and
12:19
behaviors.
12:19
And
12:20
one
12:20
day
12:20
they
12:20
might
12:20
be
12:21
the
12:21
mean
12:21
girl,
12:21
and
12:21
the
12:21
next
12:22
day
12:22
they
12:22
might
12:22
be
12:22
the
12:22
girl
12:23
that
12:23
helped
12:23
somebody,
12:23
and
12:24
they
12:24
might
12:24
be.
12:24
You
12:25
don't
12:25
know.
12:25
They
12:26
don't
12:26
know.
12:27
So
12:27
don't
12:28
be
12:28
too
12:28
quick
12:28
to
12:28
jump
12:29
on
12:29
the
12:29
bandwagon.
12:30
Of
12:31
enabling
12:31
them
12:32
or
12:33
believing
12:33
them
12:34
because.
12:35
And
12:35
also,
12:36
like,
12:36
I'm
12:36
always
12:36
just
12:37
like,
12:37
well,
12:38
that
12:38
sounds
12:38
hurtful,
12:39
but
12:39
I'm.
12:39
I
12:40
know
12:40
that,
12:40
you
12:40
know,
12:41
you're
12:41
going
12:41
to
12:41
figure
12:42
out,
12:42
like,
12:42
basically
12:43
just
12:43
having
12:43
patience
12:44
on
12:44
it,
12:45
not
12:45
all
12:45
of
12:45
a
12:45
sudden
12:46
villainizing
12:46
other
12:47
people.
12:48
I
12:48
think
12:48
that
12:48
that's
12:49
like
12:49
a
12:49
place
12:49
that
12:49
girls
12:50
go
12:50
really
12:50
quickly,
12:51
and
12:51
I
12:51
think
12:52
that
12:52
that's
12:52
like,
12:53
not.
12:54
Not
12:54
the
12:54
true
12:54
story
12:55
necessarily.
12:56
So.
12:57
So
12:57
just
12:57
minimize,
12:58
like,
12:58
not
12:58
minimize
12:59
it.
12:59
Hear
12:59
them,
13:00
listen,
13:00
be
13:00
there
13:01
for
13:01
them,
13:01
but
13:02
don't
13:02
believe
13:03
every
13:03
single
13:04
thing
13:04
that
13:04
they
13:04
tell
13:04
you
13:04
as,
13:05
like,
13:05
gospel,
13:06
because
13:06
it's
13:06
not.
13:07
And
13:07
the
13:08
other
13:08
one
13:08
is
13:08
Lisa
13:09
d'
13:09
Amore
13:09
wrote
13:09
an
13:10
amazing
13:10
book
13:10
called
13:11
Entangled.
13:12
And
13:12
if
13:12
you
13:12
haven't
13:13
read
13:13
it,
13:13
it's
13:13
a
13:13
must
13:14
read.
13:15
Must,
13:15
must,
13:15
must.
13:16
Like,
13:16
you
13:16
need
13:16
to
13:16
read
13:16
it
13:16
today.
13:17
And
13:17
then
13:17
you
13:17
need
13:17
to.
13:18
You
13:18
know,
13:18
she
13:18
was
13:19
on
13:19
my
13:19
podcast
13:20
and
13:20
I.
13:21
I
13:21
love
13:22
her.
13:22
She
13:22
came.
13:23
I
13:23
met
13:24
her
13:24
in
13:24
person
13:24
first,
13:25
and
13:26
I
13:26
just
13:26
think
13:26
that
13:27
she
13:27
has
13:27
a
13:27
really
13:28
beautiful,
13:28
kind
13:29
way
13:29
of
13:30
approaching
13:31
these
13:31
years
13:32
and
13:32
particularly
13:33
with
13:33
girls.
13:33
She
13:34
has
13:34
two
13:34
girls
13:34
herself,
13:35
she
13:35
raised.
13:35
I
13:36
just,
13:36
I
13:37
like
13:37
the
13:37
way
13:37
she
13:37
speaks
13:38
about
13:38
it
13:38
and
13:38
all
13:39
the
13:39
different
13:39
stages,
13:40
and
13:40
she
13:40
was
13:40
literally
13:41
right
13:41
about
13:41
everything.
13:43
So
13:43
when
13:43
you
13:43
read
13:43
her
13:44
book,
13:44
you
13:44
can
13:44
look
13:44
at
13:45
that
13:45
section
13:45
that
13:45
your
13:46
daughter
13:46
is.
13:46
But
13:47
it's
13:47
great
13:47
to
13:47
read
13:47
the
13:48
chapter
13:48
ahead
13:48
because
13:49
then
13:49
you
13:49
kind
13:49
of
13:50
know
13:50
it's
13:51
coming
13:51
and
13:51
you're
13:52
a
13:52
little
13:52
bit
13:52
more
13:53
like,
13:53
when
13:53
it
13:53
does
13:53
happen,
13:54
you're
13:54
like,
13:55
oh,
13:55
my
13:55
goodness.
13:55
Wait,
13:55
wait,
13:56
wait.
13:56
I.
13:56
Somebody
13:57
told
13:57
me
13:57
that
13:57
was
13:57
going
13:57
to
13:57
happen.
13:58
Now
13:58
it's
13:58
happening.
13:59
You
13:59
know,
13:59
like,
13:59
you
14:00
never
14:00
think
14:00
your
14:00
little
14:00
girl
14:00
is
14:01
going
14:01
to
14:01
be
14:01
so
14:01
sassy.
14:02
You
14:03
never
14:03
think
14:03
that
14:03
they're
14:03
going
14:04
to.
14:04
And
14:04
then
14:04
they
14:04
are.
14:05
And
14:05
then
14:05
you're,
14:06
oh,
14:06
my
14:06
God,
14:06
what
14:06
happened
14:06
to
14:06
my
14:06
little
14:07
girl?
14:07
She
14:07
loved
14:07
me
14:08
so
14:08
much
14:08
and
14:08
now
14:08
she's
14:09
like,
14:09
talking
14:09
back.
14:11
So
14:12
I
14:12
think
14:12
it's.
14:12
It's
14:13
all
14:13
part
14:13
of
14:13
it.
14:13
I.
14:14
I
14:14
think
14:14
I
14:14
was
14:14
pretty
14:15
difficult
14:15
on
14:15
my
14:15
mom,
14:16
too.
14:17
Like,
14:17
I
14:17
think
14:17
I
14:17
was
14:18
definitely
14:18
right
14:18
here.
14:19
Yeah.
14:20
Yeah,
14:20
I
14:21
was
14:21
really
14:21
difficult
14:22
on
14:22
my
14:22
mom,
14:22
for
14:23
sure.
14:23
I
14:23
mean,
14:23
I.
14:24
I
14:24
felt
14:24
like.
14:25
I
14:25
felt
14:25
like
14:26
misunderstood.
14:27
I
14:27
felt
14:28
like
14:28
I
14:28
didn't
14:28
know
14:28
my
14:29
place,
14:29
even
14:29
though
14:29
I
14:29
had
14:30
a
14:30
lot
14:30
of,
14:30
like,
14:30
I
14:31
had
14:31
a
14:31
lot
14:31
of
14:31
friends
14:31
and
14:32
really
14:32
good
14:32
friends
14:33
growing
14:33
up.
14:33
So
14:34
I
14:34
didn't
14:34
have
14:34
like
14:34
a.
14:35
So
14:35
I.
14:35
I
14:36
didn't.
14:36
I
14:36
wasn't
14:36
a
14:36
kid
14:37
that
14:37
had
14:37
like
14:37
a
14:37
social.
14:40
Big
14:40
social
14:41
issues.
14:42
But
14:42
I
14:42
do
14:43
think
14:43
we
14:43
all.
14:44
Doesn't
14:44
matter.
14:44
We
14:45
all
14:45
feel
14:46
like
14:47
finding
14:48
friends
14:48
and
14:48
finding
14:49
your
14:49
people
14:49
and
14:49
the
14:50
people
14:50
that
14:50
understand
14:50
you
14:50
and
14:51
fully
14:51
see
14:51
you.
14:52
That's
14:52
a
14:52
process
14:54
at
14:54
every
14:54
stage.
14:55
In
14:55
our
14:55
life.
14:55
I
14:55
don't.
14:55
I
14:55
don't
14:56
even
14:56
think
14:56
it's
14:56
something
14:56
that
14:56
you
14:57
just,
14:57
like,
14:57
all
14:57
of
14:57
a
14:57
sudden
14:58
you're
14:58
like,
14:58
I'm
14:59
here.
14:59
And,
15:00
you
15:00
know,
15:00
because
15:00
sometimes
15:01
you
15:01
can.
15:01
You
15:02
can
15:02
be
15:02
friends
15:02
with
15:02
people
15:03
for
15:03
years
15:03
and
15:03
then
15:04
reach
15:04
a
15:04
certain
15:04
age,
15:05
and
15:05
you
15:05
guys
15:05
just
15:05
don't
15:06
have
15:06
anything
15:06
in
15:06
common,
15:07
or
15:07
their
15:07
life
15:07
went
15:07
in
15:08
a
15:08
direction
15:08
that
15:09
doesn't
15:09
align
15:10
with
15:10
yours
15:10
anymore
15:11
or
15:11
whatever
15:12
it
15:12
is.
15:13
So
15:13
we're
15:13
always
15:14
having
15:14
to
15:15
navigate
15:16
that,
15:16
right?
15:17
Yeah,
15:18
absolutely.
15:18
You
15:18
know,
15:18
I
15:19
think
15:19
I
15:20
was
15:20
just
15:20
thinking
15:20
back
15:20
to
15:21
our,
15:21
like,
15:21
larger
15:22
Finn
15:22
group,
15:22
too,
15:23
from
15:23
college,
15:23
and
15:24
we
15:24
are
15:24
actually
15:25
also
15:25
very
15:25
lucky
15:26
that
15:27
we've
15:27
all
15:27
stayed
15:28
in
15:28
touch
15:28
for
15:29
so
15:29
long
15:29
through
15:29
the
15:30
decades,
15:30
you
15:30
know,
15:31
and
15:31
that
15:31
everybody
15:32
has,
15:33
like,
15:33
is
15:34
so
15:34
individual.
15:34
You
15:35
know,
15:35
people
15:35
have
15:35
different
15:36
goals,
15:36
different,
15:37
you
15:37
know,
15:38
different
15:38
accomplishments.
15:39
They're
15:39
driven.
15:40
I
15:40
mean,
15:40
they're
15:40
all.
15:41
All
15:41
badasses.
15:42
You
15:42
know,
15:42
they.
15:42
Everybody.
15:43
Every
15:43
single
15:44
one
15:44
of
15:44
them.
15:45
Very
15:45
impressive.
15:46
But,
15:46
you
15:46
know,
15:46
we're
15:47
really
15:47
lucky
15:48
to
15:48
sort
15:48
of
15:49
have
15:49
that
15:49
still,
15:49
that
15:50
anchor
15:51
from,
15:51
you
15:51
know,
15:52
our
15:52
early
15:52
20s
15:53
and
15:53
even
15:53
our
15:53
late
15:54
teens.
15:54
I
15:54
mean,
15:54
really.
15:56
So
15:56
now,
15:56
as
15:57
you're
15:57
looking
15:57
at
15:57
female
15:58
friendships
15:58
here
15:59
in
15:59
midlife,
16:00
do
16:00
you
16:01
go
16:01
back
16:01
to
16:02
some
16:02
of
16:02
those
16:03
older
16:03
friendships,
16:04
you
16:04
know,
16:04
to
16:05
kind
16:05
of
16:05
go
16:05
back
16:06
to
16:06
those,
16:07
or
16:07
do
16:07
you
16:07
find
16:08
that
16:08
it's
16:08
easier
16:09
to
16:09
make
16:09
friends
16:10
at
16:10
this
16:10
time
16:10
of
16:10
life?
16:11
Like,
16:11
how
16:11
does
16:12
female
16:12
friendship
16:13
look
16:13
to
16:13
you
16:13
now?
16:14
It's
16:15
a
16:15
great
16:15
question.
16:16
Just
16:16
the
16:16
other
16:16
day,
16:17
a
16:17
friend
16:17
of
16:17
mine
16:17
was
16:18
saying
16:18
how
16:18
they
16:19
wanted
16:19
to
16:19
plan
16:19
this
16:19
trip
16:20
and
16:20
all
16:20
girls.
16:21
And
16:21
my
16:21
husband
16:22
lately
16:22
has
16:22
been
16:22
like,
16:22
what's
16:23
with
16:23
all
16:23
this
16:23
all
16:23
girl
16:24
stuff?
16:24
Like,
16:24
you
16:25
got
16:25
a
16:25
trip
16:25
with
16:25
all
16:25
girls,
16:26
you
16:26
go
16:26
to
16:26
a
16:26
dinner
16:26
with
16:26
all
16:27
girls,
16:27
It's
16:27
a
16:27
birthday
16:28
party
16:28
with
16:28
just
16:28
girls.
16:29
And
16:29
we
16:30
realize
16:30
that
16:30
at
16:31
this
16:31
age,
16:32
we
16:32
really
16:32
like
16:32
to
16:32
be
16:33
around
16:33
other
16:33
women.
16:35
Right?
16:35
We
16:35
really
16:36
do.
16:36
So
16:36
even
16:37
as
16:37
we're
16:37
talking
16:37
about
16:38
being
16:38
a
16:38
teen,
16:38
when
16:39
you're
16:39
like
16:40
this
16:40
drama
16:40
with
16:41
other
16:41
girls
16:43
and
16:43
women,
16:43
all
16:44
of
16:44
a
16:44
sudden,
16:44
you.
16:45
You
16:45
graduate
16:46
to
16:46
a
16:46
space
16:47
where
16:47
you
16:47
feel
16:48
like
16:48
speaking
16:48
to
16:49
other
16:49
women
16:50
is.
16:50
Feels
16:51
like
16:51
a
16:51
really.
16:51
Like
16:51
a
16:52
comfort
16:52
place.
16:53
So
16:54
I
16:55
have
16:55
always
16:55
had
16:56
a
16:56
lot
16:56
of
16:56
female
16:56
friends.
16:57
I
16:57
was
16:57
raised
16:57
with
16:57
two
16:58
women.
16:58
My
16:59
parents
16:59
were
16:59
divorced.
17:00
My
17:00
aunt
17:00
lived
17:01
with
17:01
us.
17:01
I
17:01
had
17:01
two
17:02
women
17:02
in
17:02
the
17:02
house.
17:03
So
17:03
I'm
17:04
very
17:04
comfortable
17:05
with
17:05
women.
17:06
I
17:06
love
17:06
all
17:07
sorts
17:07
of
17:07
women.
17:07
I
17:07
have
17:08
friends
17:08
that
17:08
are
17:08
very,
17:08
very
17:09
colorful
17:09
and
17:10
wacky
17:10
and
17:10
all
17:10
over
17:11
the
17:11
place.
17:11
And.
17:12
And,
17:12
you
17:12
know,
17:12
some
17:13
people
17:13
go,
17:13
how
17:13
are
17:13
you
17:13
friends
17:13
with
17:14
that
17:14
person?
17:14
I'm
17:14
like,
17:15
you
17:15
know,
17:15
they
17:16
are
17:16
nuts,
17:16
but
17:16
I
17:17
love
17:17
them.
17:17
I
17:17
think
17:18
that
17:18
they're.
17:18
They're
17:19
really
17:19
great
17:19
at
17:20
that
17:20
thing
17:20
that
17:20
they
17:21
do.
17:21
And
17:22
so
17:22
I've
17:22
always
17:22
kind
17:23
of
17:23
been
17:23
a
17:23
person
17:23
that
17:24
went
17:24
in
17:24
different
17:24
groups.
17:25
I
17:25
think,
17:25
you
17:25
know
17:25
that.
17:26
And
17:27
was
17:27
inspired
17:28
by.
17:28
By
17:29
different
17:29
people.
17:29
And.
17:31
And
17:31
so
17:32
I
17:32
do
17:33
think
17:33
that.
17:35
I
17:36
do
17:36
think
17:36
that
17:36
we.
17:37
We
17:37
have
17:37
a
17:38
lot
17:38
of
17:38
women
17:39
we
17:39
know
17:40
who
17:40
are
17:41
all
17:41
doing
17:41
a
17:41
lot
17:42
of
17:42
stuff.
17:42
We
17:43
see
17:43
our
17:43
friends,
17:44
you
17:44
know,
17:45
go
17:45
through
17:45
their
17:45
20s
17:45
and
17:46
go
17:46
through
17:46
their
17:46
30s,
17:47
and
17:47
then
17:47
they,
17:47
you
17:47
know,
17:47
marriages
17:48
and
17:48
relationships
17:49
and
17:49
sometimes
17:50
children,
17:50
sometimes
17:51
not,
17:52
but
17:52
whatever
17:52
that
17:53
is.
17:53
And
17:53
as
17:53
you
17:53
watch
17:54
that
17:54
process,
17:55
we
17:55
see
17:55
all
17:56
the
17:56
growth,
17:56
we
17:56
see
17:56
all
17:57
the
17:57
changes,
17:57
and.
17:58
And
17:58
then
17:58
all
17:58
of
17:58
a
17:59
sudden,
17:59
you
17:59
get
17:59
to
17:59
this
17:59
midlife
18:00
place
18:00
where
18:01
you.
18:02
You're
18:03
looking
18:03
at
18:03
the
18:03
perspective
18:04
of
18:04
everything.
18:05
And
18:05
lately
18:06
I've
18:06
been
18:06
thinking
18:06
a
18:06
lot
18:07
about
18:07
perspective.
18:08
Just
18:08
the
18:08
perspective
18:09
of
18:10
being
18:11
in
18:11
a
18:11
situation
18:11
where
18:12
you
18:12
feel
18:12
stuck
18:13
and
18:13
then
18:13
going,
18:14
how
18:14
do
18:14
I
18:15
feel
18:15
better
18:15
about
18:16
this?
18:16
What
18:16
do
18:16
I
18:16
do
18:17
about
18:17
this?
18:17
And
18:17
I
18:17
always
18:18
think
18:18
that
18:19
finding
18:19
a
18:19
way
18:19
to
18:19
meditate
18:20
your
18:20
way
18:20
into
18:21
perspective
18:23
allows
18:23
you
18:23
to
18:24
look
18:24
at
18:24
the
18:24
whole
18:24
thing
18:25
and
18:25
really
18:26
evaluate
18:26
the
18:27
good
18:27
and
18:27
whatever
18:28
is
18:28
not
18:28
good
18:29
or
18:29
bad
18:29
for
18:29
you.
18:30
Figuring
18:31
out,
18:31
like,
18:31
okay,
18:31
these
18:31
are
18:32
the
18:32
things
18:32
that
18:32
don't
18:32
work.
18:32
It's
18:33
not
18:33
the.
18:33
I'm
18:33
not
18:33
going
18:33
to
18:33
color
18:34
the
18:34
whole
18:34
thing
18:34
with
18:34
this.
18:35
With
18:35
this.
18:36
I'm
18:36
not
18:36
going
18:36
to.
18:37
Yeah,
18:37
I'm
18:37
not
18:37
going
18:37
to
18:37
paint
18:38
the
18:38
whole
18:38
picture
18:39
with
18:39
the
18:39
same
18:40
color.
18:40
I'm
18:41
going
18:41
to
18:41
step
18:41
away,
18:41
and
18:41
I'm
18:42
going
18:42
to
18:42
look
18:42
at
18:42
it.
18:42
And
18:43
I
18:43
think
18:43
that
18:44
we
18:44
gain
18:45
that
18:45
perspective
18:46
with
18:46
age
18:46
and
18:46
with
18:47
wisdom
18:47
and
18:48
experience,
18:49
and
18:49
so
18:49
our
18:49
relationships
18:50
at
18:50
this
18:51
age
18:51
are.
18:52
I
18:52
just
18:52
don't
18:53
find
18:53
myself
18:53
as,
18:54
like.
18:54
Like,
18:56
I
18:56
just
18:56
feel
18:56
like
18:56
to
18:57
each
18:57
their
18:57
own.
18:57
Like,
18:57
if
18:58
you're
18:58
happy
18:58
and
18:58
that's
18:59
what
18:59
you
18:59
feel
18:59
like,
19:00
who
19:00
am
19:00
I
19:00
to
19:01
tell
19:01
you
19:01
to
19:02
judge
19:02
you
19:02
about
19:03
your
19:03
choice?
19:04
You
19:04
know,
19:04
whether
19:05
that's
19:06
staying
19:06
in
19:06
your
19:06
marriage
19:07
or
19:07
not
19:08
or,
19:08
you
19:09
know,
19:09
I
19:09
don't
19:10
know
19:10
how
19:10
you
19:10
live
19:10
your
19:10
life.
19:11
Like,
19:11
right
19:11
now,
19:11
I
19:12
feel
19:12
like
19:12
there's
19:13
a
19:13
lot
19:13
of
19:13
judgment
19:14
around
19:14
women
19:14
our
19:15
age
19:15
who
19:16
are.
19:18
Living
19:18
their
19:19
life
19:19
as
19:20
they
19:20
were
19:20
in
19:20
their
19:20
20s.
19:21
Like,
19:21
some
19:21
people
19:21
are
19:22
just,
19:22
like,
19:22
going,
19:23
I'm
19:23
gonna
19:23
have
19:24
fun
19:24
now.
19:24
I'm
19:24
gonna
19:25
look
19:25
how
19:25
I
19:25
want.
19:25
I'm
19:25
gonna
19:25
dress
19:26
how
19:26
I
19:26
want.
19:26
I'm
19:26
gonna
19:27
do
19:27
what
19:27
I
19:27
want.
19:27
I'm
19:28
gonna
19:28
attack
19:28
that
19:28
business
19:29
the
19:29
way
19:29
I
19:29
always
19:30
wanted
19:30
to,
19:30
and
19:31
I'm
19:31
gonna
19:31
go
19:31
for
19:32
it.
19:32
There's
19:33
so
19:33
many
19:33
ways
19:33
to
19:34
look
19:34
at
19:34
people,
19:34
and
19:34
I
19:35
think
19:35
sometimes
19:35
women
19:36
feel,
19:36
like,
19:37
intimidated
19:38
by
19:38
that.
19:38
Like,
19:38
you
19:39
can
19:39
look
19:39
at
19:39
someone
19:39
go,
19:39
wow,
19:40
I'm
19:40
not
19:40
doing
19:41
as
19:41
much
19:41
as
19:41
that
19:41
person's
19:42
doing,
19:43
or
19:43
I'm
19:43
not.
19:44
But
19:45
I
19:45
feel
19:46
like
19:47
even
19:47
though
19:47
I
19:47
can
19:47
sometimes
19:48
feel
19:48
that
19:48
way.
19:48
I
19:48
feel
19:49
in
19:49
general,
19:49
very
19:49
inspired
19:50
by
19:50
other
19:50
women
19:52
who
19:52
are
19:53
doing
19:54
the
19:54
best
19:54
that
19:54
they
19:54
can
19:55
at
19:55
whatever
19:55
they're
19:55
doing.
19:56
Absolutely.
19:57
You
19:57
know,
19:57
and
19:58
I
19:58
think
19:58
too,
19:58
like,
19:59
at
19:59
our
19:59
age,
19:59
I
19:59
think
20:00
it's
20:00
really
20:00
quality
20:01
over
20:01
quantity.
20:01
Now
20:02
it's
20:03
deeper
20:03
relationships,
20:04
you
20:04
know,
20:05
it's.
20:05
Our
20:05
time
20:05
is
20:06
shorter,
20:07
so
20:07
the
20:07
time
20:07
that
20:08
we
20:08
do
20:08
spend
20:08
together
20:09
really
20:09
has
20:10
to
20:10
mean
20:10
something,
20:10
you
20:11
know,
20:11
and
20:11
it
20:11
really.
20:12
It
20:12
really
20:12
is
20:13
a
20:13
beautiful
20:13
and
20:13
profound
20:15
and
20:15
in
20:15
a
20:15
way
20:15
that
20:15
I
20:16
feel
20:16
like,
20:16
you
20:16
know,
20:17
my
20:17
husband
20:17
has
20:17
good
20:18
guy
20:18
friends
20:18
and
20:18
they
20:19
do
20:19
things
20:19
too.
20:19
But
20:20
it's
20:21
different
20:21
with
20:22
all
20:22
of
20:22
us,
20:23
right?
20:23
I
20:23
mean,
20:23
it's
20:24
sit
20:24
there
20:25
and
20:25
talk
20:25
and
20:25
like,
20:26
really
20:26
hash
20:26
things
20:27
out,
20:27
you
20:27
know,
20:27
I
20:28
mean,
20:28
with
20:28
my
20:29
husband,
20:29
it's
20:29
more
20:29
of
20:29
like
20:29
they
20:30
do
20:30
an
20:30
activity.
20:31
We
20:31
can
20:31
literally
20:32
sit
20:32
on
20:32
the
20:32
phone
20:32
and,
20:33
like,
20:33
talk
20:34
for
20:34
an
20:34
hour
20:35
and,
20:35
you
20:35
know,
20:35
have
20:36
a
20:36
full
20:36
conversation
20:37
about
20:38
really
20:38
important
20:38
things.
20:39
So
20:39
I
20:39
think
20:40
that
20:40
especially
20:41
now,
20:41
I
20:42
mean,
20:42
we
20:42
need
20:42
these
20:43
relationships.
20:44
I
20:44
love
20:45
it
20:45
too,
20:45
because
20:45
I
20:45
think
20:46
that
20:46
we
20:46
can
20:46
talk
20:46
about
20:47
things
20:47
that
20:47
we're
20:47
all
20:48
interested
20:48
in,
20:48
whether
20:49
that's
20:49
raising
20:49
our
20:50
kids,
20:50
whether
20:50
that's
20:51
going
20:51
through
20:51
menopause,
20:52
whether
20:52
that's,
20:53
you
20:53
know,
20:53
what's.
20:53
What
20:54
are
20:54
you
20:54
into
20:54
right
20:55
now
20:55
to
20:55
take
20:55
care
20:56
of
20:56
yourself?
20:56
Like,
20:56
what
20:56
sports
20:57
or
20:57
what
20:57
activities
20:58
or
20:58
what
20:58
are
20:58
you
20:58
doing
20:58
to
20:59
take
20:59
care
20:59
of
20:59
your
20:59
skin?
20:59
There's
21:00
so
21:00
many
21:00
things
21:01
that
21:01
we
21:01
talk
21:01
about
21:01
as
21:02
women
21:02
that
21:02
men
21:02
are
21:02
not
21:02
talking
21:03
about
21:03
their
21:03
skin.
21:03
They're
21:04
not
21:04
actually
21:04
sitting
21:05
around
21:05
going,
21:05
hey,
21:05
I
21:06
mean,
21:06
maybe
21:06
they're
21:06
talking
21:06
about
21:07
their
21:07
fitness.
21:07
That's
21:08
possible.
21:08
But
21:09
in
21:09
general,
21:09
we
21:10
have,
21:10
like,
21:10
a
21:10
lot
21:10
of
21:11
different
21:11
things
21:11
that
21:11
we
21:12
can
21:12
connect
21:12
on
21:12
our
21:12
fashion.
21:13
What
21:13
are
21:13
we
21:13
going
21:13
to
21:14
wear?
21:14
What
21:14
are
21:14
we
21:14
going
21:14
to
21:14
buy
21:15
for
21:15
the
21:15
holidays
21:15
for
21:15
gifts?
21:16
What
21:16
are
21:16
we
21:16
going
21:16
to.
21:17
There's
21:17
so
21:18
many
21:18
things
21:18
that
21:19
we
21:19
can
21:19
kind
21:19
of
21:19
dive
21:20
into.
21:21
And
21:21
how
21:22
are
21:22
we
21:22
setting
21:23
our
21:23
holiday
21:23
tables?
21:24
How
21:24
are
21:24
we
21:25
decorating
21:25
the
21:25
tree?
21:26
What
21:26
things
21:27
are
21:27
we
21:27
doing?
21:27
Where
21:27
are
21:27
we
21:28
traveling?
21:28
These
21:29
are
21:29
like,
21:30
conversations
21:31
that
21:31
we
21:32
are
21:32
always
21:32
having
21:33
and
21:34
we
21:34
like
21:34
to
21:34
have
21:34
with
21:34
other
21:35
people
21:35
that
21:35
we
21:35
connect
21:36
with
21:36
on
21:36
to
21:37
get
21:37
ideas,
21:38
to
21:38
share
21:38
ideas,
21:39
to
21:39
share
21:39
stories,
21:40
to
21:40
share
21:40
inspiration.
21:42
And
21:42
so
21:42
for
21:43
me,
21:43
it's.
21:43
For
21:44
me,
21:44
my
21:44
female
21:44
friendships
21:45
are
21:45
everything.
21:46
And
21:46
I
21:47
feel
21:47
very
21:47
inspired
21:48
by
21:48
women.
21:48
I
21:49
feel
21:49
very.
21:51
Rah
21:51
rah
21:52
for.
21:52
For
21:52
women.
21:53
Like,
21:53
I
21:53
really
21:54
do.
21:54
I'm
21:55
like,
21:55
you
21:55
go,
21:55
girl.
21:56
Like,
21:56
I
21:56
see
21:56
some
21:56
people
21:57
that
21:57
are
21:57
just
21:57
kicking
21:58
ass
21:58
at
21:58
what
21:58
they're
21:59
doing
21:59
and.
22:00
And
22:01
I
22:01
want
22:01
to
22:01
learn
22:01
from
22:02
them.
22:03
But
22:03
I
22:03
also
22:04
really
22:05
value
22:05
people
22:06
who
22:07
know
22:08
how
22:08
to
22:08
slow
22:08
down,
22:09
who
22:10
know
22:10
how
22:10
to
22:11
really,
22:12
like,
22:13
do
22:13
things
22:14
at
22:14
a
22:14
pace
22:14
that
22:15
feels
22:15
good
22:15
for
22:15
them.
22:16
So
22:16
I
22:17
feel
22:17
like
22:18
you
22:18
know,
22:19
I
22:19
don't
22:19
know.
22:19
I
22:20
really
22:20
value
22:20
my
22:21
friendships,
22:21
but
22:21
I
22:21
think
22:21
that
22:22
women,
22:22
women
22:23
at
22:23
our
22:23
age
22:23
are
22:23
really
22:24
like,
22:24
like
22:25
at
22:25
a
22:26
very
22:26
special
22:26
and
22:26
powerful
22:27
time.
22:28
Absolutely.
22:28
We're
22:29
not
22:29
building
22:30
so
22:30
much.
22:30
Right.
22:31
We're
22:31
more
22:32
figuring
22:32
out
22:33
what
22:33
feels
22:33
good
22:34
for
22:34
us.
22:34
Yes.
22:35
And
22:35
as
22:35
we
22:35
should.
22:36
And
22:36
we
22:36
probably,
22:36
to
22:37
be
22:37
honest,
22:37
we
22:37
probably
22:38
should
22:38
have
22:38
done
22:38
that
22:39
years
22:39
ago.
22:39
You
22:40
know,
22:40
really
22:41
like,
22:41
felt
22:41
like,
22:42
listen,
22:42
tuned
22:42
in
22:43
and
22:43
said,
22:43
you
22:43
know,
22:43
what
22:44
feels
22:44
good
22:44
for
22:44
us
22:44
right
22:45
now?
22:45
And
22:45
like
22:46
settling
22:47
in
22:47
and
22:47
just
22:47
being
22:47
okay
22:48
with
22:48
that.
22:48
Like,
22:49
for
22:49
some
22:49
reason
22:49
it's
22:50
always
22:50
been
22:51
like
22:51
a
22:51
race
22:51
or
22:52
I
22:52
need
22:52
to
22:52
do
22:52
this
22:52
or
22:53
like
22:53
you
22:53
were
22:53
saying
22:53
before,
22:54
the
22:54
comparison
22:55
factor,
22:55
where
22:55
it's
22:56
like,
22:56
why
22:56
do
22:57
I
22:57
care
22:57
what
22:58
somebody
22:58
else
22:58
is
22:58
doing?
22:59
You
22:59
know?
23:00
I
23:00
know,
23:01
I
23:01
know.
23:01
And
23:01
it's
23:02
still
23:02
hard,
23:02
like,
23:03
even
23:03
though.
23:03
And
23:04
imagine
23:04
like
23:04
our
23:04
young
23:05
daughters,
23:06
like,
23:06
you
23:06
know,
23:07
with
23:07
social
23:07
media
23:07
and
23:08
everything,
23:08
it's
23:08
really,
23:08
really
23:09
challenging.
23:09
Like,
23:10
you
23:10
know,
23:10
there
23:11
are
23:11
times
23:11
when
23:11
I
23:11
have
23:11
had,
23:12
you
23:12
know,
23:12
I
23:12
pick
23:12
something
23:12
up
23:13
and
23:13
I
23:13
look
23:13
at
23:13
something
23:13
and
23:13
I'm
23:14
like,
23:14
gosh,
23:14
I.
23:15
I
23:15
wish
23:15
I
23:15
was
23:15
good
23:15
at
23:16
that.
23:16
Like,
23:16
I
23:16
was,
23:16
I
23:17
was
23:17
able
23:17
to
23:17
handle
23:18
those
23:18
many,
23:19
that
23:19
many
23:19
things
23:20
or
23:20
I
23:20
was
23:21
able
23:21
to
23:21
juggle
23:22
so
23:22
much.
23:22
I
23:23
realize
23:23
now,
23:23
like,
23:24
one
23:25
of
23:25
the
23:25
hardest
23:25
things
23:26
that
23:26
I'm
23:26
grappling
23:27
with
23:27
is
23:28
that
23:28
ever
23:28
since
23:29
COVID.
23:31
It
23:31
has
23:31
really.
23:32
And
23:32
that
23:32
for
23:32
me
23:33
has
23:33
been,
23:33
you
23:33
know,
23:33
between
23:34
45
23:34
and
23:34
50.
23:35
Like,
23:35
like
23:36
I,
23:37
I
23:37
started
23:38
going
23:38
into
23:38
perimenopause
23:39
hitting
23:40
Covid.
23:40
Having
23:41
to
23:41
be,
23:41
not
23:41
having
23:42
to.
23:42
But
23:42
like,
23:42
yeah,
23:42
we
23:43
were
23:43
all
23:43
home.
23:44
Work
23:44
slows
23:45
down,
23:46
you're
23:46
full
23:46
on
23:48
parenting
23:48
mode.
23:49
To
23:49
children
23:49
who
23:49
are,
23:50
you
23:51
know,
23:51
being
23:51
homeschooled.
23:52
Like,
23:53
our
23:53
lives
23:53
went
23:54
like,
23:54
really,
23:55
really
23:55
insular.
23:56
And
23:56
that
23:57
did
23:57
a
23:57
number
23:58
on
23:58
me.
23:58
Like,
23:58
I
23:59
think
23:59
in
23:59
the
23:59
moment
23:59
I'm
24:00
one
24:00
of
24:00
those
24:00
people
24:00
that
24:01
like,
24:02
dives
24:03
in
24:03
and
24:03
gives
24:03
myself
24:04
entirely
24:05
to
24:05
it.
24:06
But
24:06
then
24:06
all
24:06
of
24:07
a
24:07
sudden
24:07
when
24:07
the
24:07
dust
24:08
settles,
24:08
I
24:09
like,
24:09
whoa,
24:09
whoa,
24:09
whoa,
24:09
whoa,
24:10
whoa.
24:10
Like,
24:10
I
24:10
need
24:11
to
24:11
step
24:11
back
24:11
and
24:11
just
24:12
do
24:12
a
24:12
little
24:12
self
24:12
care
24:13
and
24:13
a
24:13
little
24:13
bit
24:13
of
24:13
reflection
24:14
on,
24:16
you
24:16
know,
24:17
we
24:18
all
24:18
have
24:18
to
24:18
kind
24:18
of
24:19
take,
24:19
learn
24:19
to
24:19
take
24:19
care
24:20
of
24:20
ourselves.
24:20
And
24:21
I
24:21
think
24:21
that's
24:21
something
24:22
for
24:22
women
24:22
that
24:23
is
24:23
definitely
24:23
harder
24:23
than
24:24
for
24:24
men,
24:24
100%.
24:25
I
24:26
think
24:26
women
24:27
are
24:27
taking
24:27
care
24:27
of
24:28
so
24:28
many
24:28
things
24:29
that
24:29
self
24:30
care
24:30
is
24:30
essential
24:32
to
24:33
their
24:33
well
24:34
being,
24:35
their
24:35
nervous
24:35
system.
24:36
We're
24:36
the
24:37
ones
24:37
that
24:37
get,
24:38
you
24:38
know,
24:39
the
24:39
Alzheimer's,
24:39
the
24:39
dementia,
24:40
the
24:40
heart
24:40
disease,
24:41
all
24:41
these
24:41
things
24:42
at
24:43
record
24:43
numbers
24:44
because
24:44
of
24:45
what's
24:45
happening
24:46
at
24:46
a
24:46
time
24:46
when
24:46
we
24:46
are
24:47
juggling
24:47
so
24:48
much.
24:48
And
24:48
if
24:48
you
24:48
have
24:49
women
24:49
that
24:49
are
24:49
working
24:49
and
24:50
raising
24:50
their
24:51
children
24:51
and
24:51
Keeping
24:52
their
24:52
family
24:52
together.
24:53
It's
24:53
like
24:54
it's
24:54
much
24:54
more
24:55
than
24:57
we
24:57
think
24:57
it
24:57
is
24:58
on
24:58
our
24:58
body.
24:59
It
24:59
really
25:00
is.
25:00
It
25:00
really
25:01
is.
25:01
You
25:01
know
25:01
what
25:01
I
25:01
just
25:01
have
25:02
dipped
25:02
my
25:02
toe
25:02
into
25:03
now?
25:03
HRTS
25:05
just
25:05
started.
25:06
Yeah.
25:07
I
25:07
am
25:08
so
25:08
excited.
25:09
Life
25:09
changing,
25:09
right?
25:10
Yeah,
25:10
life
25:11
changing.
25:12
I'm
25:12
so
25:12
excited
25:13
for
25:13
what
25:13
the
25:14
process
25:15
is
25:15
going
25:15
to
25:15
unfold
25:16
into,
25:16
you
25:16
know,
25:17
become.
25:17
Because
25:18
I
25:18
was
25:18
kind
25:18
of
25:19
hesitant.
25:19
You
25:19
know,
25:19
we
25:20
were
25:20
hearing
25:20
all
25:21
these
25:21
mixed
25:21
reports.
25:22
I
25:22
had
25:22
doctors
25:23
saying
25:23
one
25:23
thing
25:23
or
25:23
the
25:24
other.
25:24
You
25:24
know,
25:24
it's,
25:25
it's
25:25
getting
25:26
mixed
25:26
messaging.
25:27
But
25:27
then
25:28
lately
25:28
with
25:28
like
25:28
the
25:29
studies
25:29
that
25:29
have
25:29
come
25:30
out,
25:30
you
25:31
know,
25:31
saying
25:31
that
25:31
they
25:32
were
25:32
moving
25:32
the
25:32
black
25:33
box
25:33
labels
25:33
and
25:34
things
25:34
like
25:34
that,
25:34
I
25:34
was
25:34
like,
25:35
you
25:35
know,
25:35
now's
25:35
the
25:35
time.
25:35
I
25:36
really
25:36
want
25:36
to
25:36
do
25:36
this.
25:37
So
25:38
I
25:38
think
25:38
that
25:38
that
25:38
is
25:39
a
25:39
form
25:39
of
25:39
self
25:39
care.
25:40
Why
25:40
shouldn't
25:41
we
25:41
take
25:41
care
25:42
of
25:42
our
25:42
health
25:42
in
25:42
that
25:43
way
25:43
if
25:43
that's
25:44
the
25:44
choice
25:44
that
25:45
we
25:45
want
25:45
to
25:45
make?
25:46
Yeah,
25:46
I
25:47
think
25:47
two
25:47
things
25:47
on
25:47
that.
25:48
Like,
25:48
I
25:48
was
25:48
working
25:48
on
25:49
a
25:49
documentary
25:49
some
25:50
years
25:50
ago,
25:51
just,
25:51
just
25:52
before,
25:52
like
25:52
all
25:53
just
25:53
as
25:53
like
25:53
the
25:54
whole
25:54
boom
25:54
of,
25:55
of
25:55
just
25:56
the
25:56
talk
25:56
of
25:56
menopause
25:57
was
25:57
happening.
25:58
And
25:59
one
26:00
of
26:00
the
26:00
things
26:00
I
26:00
learned
26:01
was
26:01
just
26:01
how,
26:02
how
26:03
this
26:03
time
26:03
in
26:03
a
26:03
woman's
26:04
life
26:04
was
26:04
so
26:04
discarded.
26:05
I
26:05
mean,
26:05
we
26:05
read
26:05
a
26:06
lot
26:06
about
26:06
it
26:06
now
26:06
in
26:07
a
26:07
lot
26:07
of,
26:07
you
26:07
know,
26:08
conversations,
26:08
and
26:09
people
26:09
like
26:09
Oprah
26:09
and
26:09
Maria
26:10
Shriver
26:10
have
26:10
like,
26:11
really
26:11
done
26:11
incredible
26:12
things
26:12
to
26:12
open
26:13
that
26:13
conversation.
26:14
And,
26:15
but.
26:15
And
26:15
so
26:16
many
26:16
other
26:16
people.
26:16
But
26:17
I,
26:17
I
26:18
think
26:18
what
26:18
I
26:18
learned
26:18
was
26:19
that
26:19
how
26:19
they
26:19
just
26:20
discarded
26:20
us
26:20
after
26:20
having
26:21
children,
26:21
it's
26:21
like
26:22
our
26:22
health
26:22
sort
26:23
of
26:23
didn't
26:24
matter.
26:25
And
26:25
in
26:25
fact,
26:26
it
26:26
matters
26:26
so
26:27
much
26:27
because
26:28
learning
26:28
to
26:29
understand
26:29
that
26:29
our
26:30
hormones
26:30
begin
26:30
to
26:31
drop
26:31
in
26:31
our
26:31
late
26:31
30s,
26:32
early
26:32
40s.
26:33
And
26:34
the
26:34
problem
26:34
with
26:34
that
26:35
drop
26:35
is
26:36
that
26:36
you
26:36
just
26:36
want
26:37
it
26:37
to
26:37
be
26:37
gradual.
26:38
You
26:38
don't
26:38
want
26:38
it
26:39
to
26:39
be
26:39
a
26:39
fast
26:39
drop.
26:40
The
26:40
fast
26:41
drop
26:41
leads
26:41
to
26:43
mood
26:44
and
26:45
fatigue
26:46
and
26:47
like
26:47
so
26:48
many
26:48
awful
26:48
things
26:49
that
26:49
we
26:49
don't
26:50
feel
26:50
like
26:50
ourselves.
26:51
And
26:51
then
26:51
all
26:52
of
26:52
a
26:52
sudden
26:52
you
26:52
have
26:52
to
26:52
kind
26:53
of
26:53
regulate
26:53
that.
26:55
So
26:55
knowing
26:55
that
26:56
you
26:56
can,
26:57
that
26:57
it
26:57
has
26:58
to
26:58
be
26:58
like
26:58
this
26:58
allows
26:59
you.
26:59
I
27:00
feel
27:00
every
27:00
woman
27:00
should
27:01
understand
27:02
that
27:02
you
27:03
do
27:03
need
27:03
to
27:03
do
27:04
blood
27:04
work.
27:04
You
27:04
do
27:04
need
27:05
to
27:05
take
27:05
a
27:05
look
27:05
at
27:05
sort
27:06
of
27:06
where
27:06
you're
27:06
at
27:06
hormonally
27:07
and
27:08
find
27:08
a
27:09
way
27:09
whether
27:09
that's
27:09
HRT
27:10
or
27:10
not.
27:10
There's
27:11
supplements
27:11
that
27:11
help
27:12
now,
27:13
but
27:13
if
27:14
HRT
27:14
works
27:15
for
27:15
you,
27:16
then
27:17
you
27:17
are
27:17
allowed
27:17
to
27:18
do
27:18
it
27:18
for
27:18
a
27:18
little
27:18
while.
27:18
You
27:19
can
27:19
do
27:19
smaller
27:19
doses
27:20
now.
27:20
They
27:20
have
27:20
creams
27:21
and
27:21
things.
27:21
It's
27:21
not
27:22
like
27:22
this.
27:23
It
27:23
works
27:23
for
27:23
some
27:24
and
27:24
not
27:24
for
27:24
others.
27:24
But
27:25
still,
27:25
it's
27:25
a
27:25
point
27:26
of
27:26
getting
27:26
it
27:26
to
27:26
go
27:27
gradual
27:28
instead
27:28
of
27:28
all
27:28
at
27:29
once.
27:29
And
27:29
so
27:29
for
27:29
me,
27:30
I
27:30
did
27:30
get
27:30
on
27:31
hrt
27:31
and
27:32
it
27:32
worked
27:32
for
27:32
me
27:32
because
27:33
it
27:33
just
27:33
made
27:34
me
27:34
feel
27:34
like
27:35
more
27:36
gradual.
27:37
When
27:37
I
27:37
got
27:37
hit
27:38
with
27:38
perimenopausal
27:39
symptoms
27:39
in
27:40
my
27:40
early
27:40
40s,
27:40
actually,
27:41
I
27:41
didn't
27:42
know
27:42
it,
27:43
and
27:43
I
27:44
did
27:44
not
27:44
know
27:44
that's
27:45
what
27:45
it
27:45
was.
27:45
I
27:45
was
27:45
working
27:45
on
27:46
resolian
27:46
aisles.
27:47
I
27:47
was
27:47
exhausted.
27:48
I
27:48
really,
27:48
really
27:49
felt
27:51
like
27:51
it
27:51
was
27:51
just
27:51
the
27:51
exhaustion.
27:53
And
27:54
then
27:54
when
27:55
I
27:55
learned
27:55
that
27:55
it
27:55
was
27:56
more.
27:57
It
27:57
just
27:58
felt
27:58
so
27:58
weird
27:58
to
27:58
me
27:59
because
28:00
we
28:00
always
28:00
thought
28:00
that
28:01
menopause
28:02
is
28:02
in
28:02
your
28:02
60s,
28:03
not
28:03
in
28:03
your
28:04
40s,
28:04
right?
28:04
Like,
28:05
later,
28:05
later.
28:06
I
28:06
just
28:06
had
28:07
a
28:07
40th
28:07
birthday.
28:07
I
28:08
was
28:08
really
28:08
excited.
28:08
What
28:08
is
28:09
this?
28:09
And
28:09
then
28:10
now
28:10
all
28:10
of
28:10
a
28:10
sudden,
28:11
yeah,
28:11
it
28:11
was
28:11
like,
28:11
later,
28:12
later.
28:12
And
28:12
now
28:12
you're
28:13
inching
28:13
closer
28:14
to
28:14
that
28:14
later.
28:15
And
28:16
I
28:16
didn't
28:16
know
28:17
that.
28:17
And
28:17
so.
28:19
Then
28:19
it
28:20
opened
28:20
the
28:20
conversations
28:20
with
28:21
my
28:21
mother,
28:22
and
28:22
I'm
28:22
just
28:22
like,
28:23
when
28:23
did
28:23
it
28:23
happen
28:23
for
28:23
you?
28:24
What
28:24
did
28:24
this?
28:24
And
28:25
I
28:25
think
28:25
that
28:26
now
28:26
it's
28:26
happening
28:27
earlier
28:27
also,
28:28
just
28:28
because
28:28
of
28:28
all
28:28
the
28:28
hormones
28:29
and
28:29
food
28:29
and
28:30
how
28:30
our
28:30
eating
28:31
is.
28:31
And
28:31
so,
28:33
yeah,
28:33
it's
28:33
a
28:33
lot.
28:34
But
28:34
I
28:34
think
28:34
that
28:34
we
28:35
have
28:35
to
28:35
take.
28:36
We
28:36
have
28:36
to
28:37
now.
28:37
I
28:37
think
28:37
the
28:38
generations
28:38
are
28:38
going
28:39
to.
28:40
After
28:40
us,
28:40
are
28:40
going
28:41
to
28:41
really
28:41
benefit
28:42
from
28:42
our
28:43
work
28:44
of
28:44
speaking
28:44
out
28:45
about
28:45
this
28:45
and
28:46
not
28:46
making
28:46
it
28:46
taboo
28:47
and
28:47
understanding
28:48
that
28:48
all
28:48
of
28:48
those
28:49
things
28:49
that
28:49
we
28:49
manage
28:50
now
28:50
benefit
28:51
us
28:51
later.
28:51
Because
28:52
later,
28:53
post
28:53
60s
28:54
and
28:54
70s,
28:55
those
28:56
diseases
28:56
I
28:56
was
28:56
talking
28:57
about
28:57
are
28:57
coming
28:58
from
28:58
a
28:59
big
28:59
drop
28:59
in
29:00
our.
29:00
In
29:00
our
29:01
estrogen
29:01
and
29:02
our
29:02
levels.
29:03
So
29:03
there's
29:03
a
29:03
cor.
29:04
Direct
29:04
correlation
29:05
between
29:05
the
29:05
two,
29:06
which
29:06
was
29:06
ignored
29:07
for
29:07
decades,
29:08
which
29:08
is
29:09
wild
29:09
to
29:09
me.
29:10
Like,
29:10
crazy,
29:11
crazy,
29:11
crazy,
29:12
crazy.
29:12
Like,
29:13
why
29:13
was
29:13
that
29:13
ignored?
29:14
I
29:14
don't
29:15
understand.
29:17
But,
29:17
you
29:17
know,
29:17
here
29:18
we
29:18
are.
29:18
And
29:20
I
29:20
think
29:20
it's
29:20
definitely
29:21
helping
29:21
women
29:21
feel
29:22
better
29:22
and
29:22
move
29:23
through
29:23
this
29:23
in
29:23
a
29:23
much
29:24
more
29:24
peaceful
29:25
way.
29:26
So
29:27
thank
29:27
goodness
29:27
for
29:27
that.
29:28
Thank
29:29
goodness.
29:29
You
29:29
know,
29:29
I
29:29
do
29:30
think
29:30
about
29:30
the
29:30
generation
29:31
before
29:31
us.
29:31
A
29:31
lot
29:32
of
29:32
our
29:32
moms
29:33
and
29:33
aunts
29:33
and
29:33
cousins
29:34
and
29:34
who
29:35
suffered
29:35
in
29:35
silence,
29:36
you
29:36
know,
29:36
they
29:36
didn't.
29:36
Oh,
29:36
my
29:37
goodness.
29:37
Can
29:37
you
29:38
imagine?
29:38
Like,
29:38
just
29:39
raw
29:39
dogging
29:40
it?
29:41
No,
29:41
no.
29:41
That's
29:42
what
29:42
my
29:42
mom.
29:42
My
29:42
mom
29:42
did.
29:43
My
29:43
mom
29:43
was
29:43
just
29:43
like,
29:43
oh,
29:44
it's
29:44
fine.
29:44
Like,
29:44
it
29:45
was
29:45
bad
29:45
for
29:45
this
29:45
many
29:46
years.
29:46
And
29:46
then
29:46
it
29:46
passed.
29:47
And
29:47
I.
29:47
I
29:48
just
29:48
thought,
29:49
okay,
29:49
but,
29:49
like,
29:50
I
29:50
work
29:51
and
29:51
I.
29:51
Like,
29:52
I.
29:52
Like,
29:52
we're
29:53
not
29:53
living.
29:54
I
29:54
don't
29:54
know.
29:54
I
29:55
just.
29:55
Why
29:55
do.
29:55
Why
29:56
do
29:56
we
29:56
have
29:56
to
29:56
suffer
29:57
through
29:57
it
29:57
if
29:57
there
29:57
is
29:58
some
29:58
kind
29:58
of
29:58
a
29:58
solution
29:59
or
29:59
something
29:59
to
29:59
make
29:59
us
30:00
feel
30:00
better.
30:00
Better.
30:01
So,
30:02
yeah,
30:03
that's
30:03
tricky.
30:04
Yeah.
30:04
We
30:04
should
30:05
have
30:05
a
30:05
quality
30:05
of
30:05
life,
30:06
right?
30:06
And
30:06
I'm
30:06
sure
30:07
you
30:07
know
30:07
this,
30:07
but,
30:07
like,
30:08
with
30:08
so
30:08
many
30:08
friends
30:08
and
30:09
women.
30:09
I
30:09
know,
30:09
I
30:09
keep
30:10
saying
30:10
to
30:10
everybody,
30:10
now,
30:11
have
30:11
grace
30:12
with
30:12
every
30:13
woman
30:13
that's
30:13
over.
30:14
Over
30:14
40.
30:14
You
30:14
just
30:15
don't
30:15
know
30:16
what
30:16
they're
30:16
going
30:17
through.
30:17
They
30:18
may
30:18
not
30:18
be
30:18
themselves
30:19
that
30:19
day.
30:19
They
30:19
may
30:20
say
30:20
something
30:20
they
30:20
don't
30:21
mean.
30:21
They
30:21
may
30:21
behave
30:22
in
30:22
a
30:22
way
30:22
that's
30:22
irrational.
30:23
They
30:23
may
30:24
do
30:24
something
30:24
to
30:24
just
30:25
give
30:25
it
30:25
space,
30:26
be
30:26
kind.
30:26
Like,
30:27
you
30:27
just
30:27
don't
30:28
know.
30:28
And
30:29
before
30:29
you're
30:29
quick
30:29
to
30:29
jump
30:30
at
30:30
something.
30:31
I
30:31
just
30:31
feel
30:31
like
30:31
a
30:32
lot
30:32
of
30:32
people
30:32
are
30:32
moving
30:33
through
30:33
a
30:33
lot
30:33
of
30:33
feelings
30:34
and
30:35
a
30:35
lot
30:35
of
30:36
different
30:36
emotional
30:37
sort
30:37
of
30:37
places,
30:37
and
30:38
that
30:38
could
30:38
do
30:38
with
30:38
our
30:39
hormones.
30:39
For
30:39
sure.
30:40
For
30:40
sure.
30:41
And
30:41
I
30:41
think
30:41
about
30:41
the
30:42
partners,
30:42
too.
30:42
I
30:42
mean,
30:43
they
30:43
too
30:43
are
30:44
in
30:44
this.
30:44
This
30:44
boat
30:45
with
30:45
us.
30:45
And
30:46
fortunately
30:47
for
30:47
that,
30:49
my
30:49
boy's
30:49
like.
30:49
Sorry,
30:50
David.
30:52
Do
30:52
you
30:52
really
30:53
want
30:53
to
30:53
go
30:53
on
30:53
that
30:53
old
30:54
girl
30:54
trip?
30:54
Haven't
30:54
you
30:54
had
30:55
enough
30:55
of
30:55
me?
30:55
Because
30:55
I've
30:56
been
30:56
riding
30:56
for
30:56
the
30:56
last,
30:57
like,
30:57
two
30:57
weeks.
30:58
Like,
30:58
yeah,
30:59
I
30:59
mean,
31:00
I
31:00
know.
31:01
Walk
31:01
out
31:01
of
31:02
here.
31:02
Walk
31:02
out
31:03
of
31:03
here.
31:03
Take
31:03
a
31:03
break,
31:04
girl.
31:05
Totally.
31:06
Totally.
31:07
I
31:07
mean,
31:07
as
31:08
they
31:08
say,
31:09
it's
31:09
a
31:09
lot
31:09
makes
31:10
the
31:10
house
31:10
happier.
31:11
I
31:12
remember
31:12
I
31:12
was
31:13
like
31:13
in
31:13
my.
31:14
I
31:14
was
31:14
in
31:14
my,
31:15
like,
31:15
early
31:16
30s
31:16
or
31:17
something,
31:17
and
31:17
I.
31:17
We
31:18
had
31:18
some
31:19
neighbor
31:19
friends,
31:20
and
31:20
the
31:21
wife
31:21
was
31:21
going
31:22
through
31:22
menopause.
31:23
She
31:23
was
31:23
in
31:23
her
31:23
mid-40s.
31:24
And
31:25
one
31:25
day
31:25
the
31:26
husband
31:26
came
31:26
in
31:26
and
31:27
he
31:27
was
31:27
just
31:27
like,
31:28
I
31:29
think
31:29
she
31:29
wants
31:29
to
31:29
leave
31:30
me.
31:30
Like,
31:30
she
31:31
hates
31:31
me.
31:31
She's
31:32
so
31:32
angry,
31:33
and
31:33
I
31:33
don't
31:33
know
31:33
why.
31:34
I
31:34
don't
31:34
know
31:34
what
31:34
to
31:34
do.
31:35
I
31:35
don't
31:35
know
31:35
what's
31:35
happening.
31:36
Because
31:36
she
31:36
was
31:37
young.
31:37
Like,
31:37
no
31:37
one
31:37
thought
31:38
it
31:38
was
31:38
menopause.
31:38
And
31:39
he
31:39
was
31:39
just
31:39
like,
31:39
she's
31:40
so
31:40
mad
31:40
bad.
31:41
And
31:41
she
31:42
was.
31:42
She
31:42
was
31:42
going
31:43
through
31:43
all
31:43
this,
31:43
and
31:44
one
31:44
day
31:44
when
31:45
she
31:45
discovered
31:46
that
31:46
she
31:46
was
31:46
going
31:46
through
31:46
perimenopause,
31:47
she
31:47
was
31:47
like,
31:47
oh.
31:48
And
31:48
so
31:48
she,
31:49
like,
31:49
helped
31:49
herself
31:50
and
31:50
she
31:50
was,
31:50
like,
31:50
switched
31:51
up
31:51
and
31:52
he
31:52
came
31:52
over.
31:52
How
31:53
is
31:53
she
31:53
doing?
31:53
Much
31:54
better.
31:54
Like,
31:55
but
31:56
it
31:56
just.
31:57
I
31:57
just
31:57
remember
31:57
seeing
31:58
it
31:58
and
31:58
thinking,
31:59
wow.
31:59
Like.
32:00
Like,
32:01
I
32:01
didn't
32:01
know
32:01
that
32:01
there
32:02
was
32:02
that
32:02
big
32:02
of
32:02
a
32:03
potential
32:03
switch
32:03
up.
32:04
You
32:04
know,
32:04
it's
32:04
like,
32:04
bms.
32:05
Yes.
32:05
We
32:05
can
32:06
get
32:06
a
32:06
little
32:06
wacky.
32:07
We
32:07
can
32:07
get
32:08
wacky.
32:09
Get
32:09
a
32:09
little
32:09
crazy
32:09
around
32:10
these
32:10
little
32:10
crazy.
32:13
I
32:13
know.
32:13
I
32:13
was
32:14
telling
32:14
my
32:14
husband,
32:14
I
32:14
was
32:15
like,
32:15
david,
32:15
I
32:16
bet
32:16
you're
32:16
excited
32:16
for
32:17
when
32:17
my
32:17
daughter.
32:18
Because
32:18
she's
32:18
11
32:18
now,
32:19
she's
32:19
probably
32:20
going
32:20
to
32:20
get
32:20
her
32:20
period
32:20
in
32:20
the
32:21
next,
32:21
you
32:21
know,
32:21
couple
32:22
years
32:22
and
32:22
I'll
32:23
probably
32:23
be
32:23
in
32:23
full
32:23
blown
32:24
menopause
32:24
by
32:24
that
32:25
time.
32:25
Oh
32:25
my
32:25
gosh.
32:25
I'm
32:26
like,
32:26
it's
32:26
going
32:27
to
32:27
be
32:27
a
32:28
household
32:28
of,
32:29
you
32:29
know,
32:29
it'll
32:30
be
32:30
like
32:30
a
32:30
seesaw.
32:31
It's
32:32
a
32:32
seesaw.
32:32
Oh
32:33
my
32:33
gosh.
32:33
It's
32:34
a
32:34
lot.
32:35
It's
32:35
a
32:35
lot.
32:35
One
32:36
of
32:36
the
32:36
other
32:36
things
32:36
I,
32:37
I
32:37
will
32:37
say
32:38
that
32:38
I
32:38
think.
32:41
I
32:41
think
32:42
the
32:42
health
32:42
with
32:42
the
32:43
HRT
32:43
and
32:43
all
32:44
that
32:44
is
32:44
super
32:44
important.
32:45
And
32:45
I
32:45
also
32:45
think
32:46
that.
32:48
Really
32:48
finding
32:49
stuff
32:49
to
32:50
do,
32:50
giving
32:50
yourself,
32:51
like,
32:52
I
32:52
think
32:52
our
32:53
purpose
32:54
is
32:54
something
32:54
this
32:55
past
32:55
year
32:56
has
32:56
really,
32:58
has
32:58
been.
32:58
My
32:59
thing
32:59
is
32:59
like
32:59
really
32:59
leaning
33:00
into
33:00
my
33:00
purpose,
33:01
really
33:01
feeling
33:02
like
33:03
not
33:03
waiting
33:03
around
33:04
for
33:04
things.
33:05
You
33:05
know,
33:06
in
33:06
my
33:06
industry,
33:06
it's
33:07
like
33:07
you're
33:07
always
33:07
waiting
33:07
on
33:07
a
33:08
job,
33:08
you're
33:08
always
33:08
waiting
33:09
on
33:09
a
33:09
phone
33:09
call,
33:09
you're
33:10
always
33:10
waiting
33:10
on
33:10
this
33:10
thing.
33:11
And
33:11
I
33:12
just,
33:12
at
33:12
this
33:12
stage
33:13
of
33:13
my
33:13
life,
33:13
didn't
33:14
want
33:14
that.
33:14
I
33:15
wanted
33:15
to
33:15
be
33:15
proactive
33:16
in
33:16
what
33:16
I
33:17
was
33:17
doing
33:17
every
33:17
day.
33:18
You
33:18
know,
33:19
I
33:19
wanted
33:19
an
33:19
office,
33:19
I
33:20
wanted
33:20
to
33:20
go
33:20
somewhere,
33:21
I
33:21
wanted
33:21
to
33:21
create.
33:22
I
33:22
wanted
33:22
to
33:22
be
33:23
around
33:23
creative
33:24
people
33:25
and
33:25
kind
33:25
of
33:25
working
33:26
on
33:26
my
33:26
projects
33:27
and
33:27
the
33:27
things
33:27
that
33:27
inspired
33:28
me.
33:28
And
33:28
I
33:28
feel
33:29
like,
33:30
you
33:30
know,
33:31
that's
33:31
a
33:31
really
33:31
important
33:32
piece
33:32
for
33:32
some
33:33
women.
33:33
I
33:33
know
33:33
it's
33:33
pickleball.
33:34
You
33:34
know,
33:34
it's
33:35
literally
33:35
waking
33:35
up
33:36
and
33:37
having
33:37
stuff
33:37
to
33:37
do,
33:38
going
33:38
to
33:39
exercise,
33:40
playing
33:40
pickleball
33:41
or
33:42
meeting
33:42
up
33:42
with
33:42
their
33:42
girlfriends
33:43
to
33:43
do
33:43
something
33:44
fun
33:44
or
33:44
picking
33:44
a
33:45
project,
33:45
a
33:45
passion
33:46
project,
33:47
or
33:47
if
33:47
you're
33:48
working
33:48
like
33:49
whatever
33:49
it
33:50
is,
33:50
just
33:51
give
33:51
yourself
33:52
like
33:53
recognize
33:54
that
33:54
this
33:54
is
33:54
a
33:55
sensitive
33:55
period
33:56
and
33:56
give
33:56
yourself
33:56
self
33:57
care
33:58
and
33:58
find
33:59
things
33:59
in
33:59
your
33:59
life
34:00
that
34:00
continue
34:00
to
34:00
make
34:01
you
34:01
feel
34:01
good.
34:01
Be
34:02
around
34:02
people
34:02
that
34:03
make
34:03
you
34:03
feel
34:03
good.
34:04
You
34:04
know,
34:04
when
34:05
you
34:05
talk
34:05
about
34:05
friends,
34:06
Roxy,
34:06
I
34:06
think
34:07
like
34:07
another
34:07
big
34:07
thing
34:08
is
34:08
being
34:08
around
34:08
people
34:09
that
34:09
also
34:10
fill
34:10
our
34:10
buckets
34:11
and
34:11
make
34:11
us
34:12
feel
34:12
good.
34:12
You
34:12
know,
34:13
I
34:13
mean,
34:13
sometimes
34:14
we
34:14
can
34:14
have
34:15
friends
34:15
for
34:15
long
34:15
times
34:15
when
34:16
we're
34:16
around
34:16
them.
34:17
Maybe
34:17
we're
34:17
just
34:18
not
34:18
in
34:18
the
34:18
same
34:18
place
34:18
and
34:19
we
34:19
just
34:19
don't
34:19
feel
34:19
good
34:19
around
34:20
them.
34:20
I
34:20
think
34:20
it,
34:20
I
34:20
think
34:21
it's
34:21
important
34:21
to
34:21
be
34:21
around
34:22
people
34:23
who.
34:25
Who
34:25
we
34:25
can
34:25
focus
34:25
on
34:26
the
34:26
things
34:26
that
34:26
make
34:26
us
34:27
feel
34:27
good.
34:28
As
34:28
a
34:28
creative
34:28
person,
34:29
I
34:29
like
34:29
to
34:30
talk
34:30
about
34:30
creative
34:31
things.
34:32
The
34:32
people
34:32
who
34:33
fill
34:33
my
34:33
bucket
34:33
tend
34:33
to
34:34
be
34:34
people
34:34
who
34:34
are
34:35
creative
34:35
and
34:36
thinking
34:36
about
34:37
doing
34:37
stuff.
34:38
I
34:39
don't
34:39
want
34:39
to
34:39
sit
34:39
around
34:39
and
34:40
talk
34:40
about
34:40
what
34:41
my
34:41
spring
34:41
wardrobe
34:42
is
34:42
going
34:42
to
34:42
be.
34:42
I'm
34:42
not
34:43
interested,
34:44
really.
34:44
You
34:45
know
34:45
what
34:45
I
34:45
mean?
34:45
I
34:46
don't
34:46
mean
34:46
that.
34:46
I
34:46
don't
34:46
care
34:46
about
34:47
that.
34:47
But
34:47
I
34:47
just
34:47
mean
34:48
some
34:48
things
34:48
are.
34:49
Or
34:49
gossip
34:50
about
34:50
getting
34:50
too
34:51
involved
34:51
in
34:51
the
34:51
kids
34:52
stuff
34:52
or
34:53
whatever
34:54
it
34:54
feels
34:54
like
34:54
too
34:55
not
34:56
productive
34:56
to
34:57
me.
34:57
Right.
34:58
Well,
34:58
I
34:58
think
34:58
you
34:58
bring
34:59
up
34:59
an
34:59
interesting
34:59
point,
35:00
too,
35:00
because
35:00
I
35:00
think
35:01
we're
35:01
also
35:01
at
35:01
a
35:01
point
35:01
right
35:02
now
35:02
where
35:03
it's
35:03
okay
35:04
to
35:04
let
35:04
friendships
35:05
go.
35:05
Like,
35:05
it's
35:05
okay
35:06
to
35:06
say,
35:06
you
35:07
know,
35:07
this
35:07
friendship
35:08
doesn't
35:08
serve
35:09
me
35:09
anymore.
35:09
You
35:09
know,
35:10
it's
35:10
not
35:10
necessarily
35:11
a
35:11
bad
35:11
thing
35:12
to
35:12
protect
35:13
your
35:13
peace
35:13
and
35:13
to
35:14
protect
35:14
your
35:14
energy.
35:14
You
35:15
know,
35:15
it's
35:15
like,
35:16
there's
35:16
only
35:16
so
35:16
much
35:16
of
35:17
us
35:17
to
35:17
go
35:17
around.
35:17
So
35:18
if
35:18
it's
35:19
not,
35:19
you
35:19
know,
35:20
something
35:20
where
35:21
it's
35:21
making
35:21
you
35:21
feel
35:21
better
35:22
about
35:22
yourself,
35:22
you
35:23
know,
35:23
or,
35:23
you
35:24
know,
35:24
it's
35:24
a
35:24
quality
35:25
friendship,
35:26
there's
35:26
no.
35:27
I
35:27
don't
35:27
think
35:27
we
35:27
should
35:28
be
35:28
stigmatized
35:29
to,
35:29
like,
35:30
let
35:30
a
35:30
friendship
35:30
go,
35:31
you
35:31
know?
35:32
No.
35:32
And
35:33
I
35:33
think
35:33
the
35:33
mature
35:33
thing,
35:34
too,
35:34
is
35:34
to
35:34
also.
35:35
Which
35:35
I
35:35
don't
35:35
know
35:35
that
35:35
it
35:36
always
35:36
works,
35:36
but
35:36
I
35:37
do
35:37
think
35:37
that
35:38
it's
35:38
okay
35:39
to
35:39
love
35:39
and
35:39
care
35:40
for
35:40
somebody,
35:41
but
35:41
not,
35:42
like,
35:42
be
35:43
with
35:43
them
35:43
all
35:43
the
35:43
time.
35:43
Time.
35:44
Like,
35:44
it's
35:45
okay
35:45
to.
35:46
To
35:46
just
35:46
be.
35:46
Like,
35:47
it's
35:47
not.
35:48
It's
35:48
not
35:48
something
35:48
that
35:49
serves
35:49
me,
35:49
but
35:50
I
35:50
wish
35:50
them
35:51
well.
35:51
Like,
35:52
it's
35:52
fine.
35:53
Like,
35:53
doesn't
35:54
have
35:54
to
35:54
be
35:54
weird.
35:55
It
35:55
doesn't
35:55
have
35:55
to
35:55
be
35:56
anything.
35:56
Like,
35:56
we're
35:57
all
35:57
on
35:58
another
35:58
side
35:58
of
35:59
this
35:59
time
35:59
of
35:59
our
35:59
life
36:00
where
36:00
we
36:00
should
36:00
all
36:00
have
36:01
the
36:01
right
36:01
to
36:01
be
36:01
around
36:01
people
36:02
that
36:02
are.
36:03
That
36:03
make
36:04
us
36:04
feel
36:04
good
36:04
and
36:04
that
36:04
we
36:05
feel
36:05
close
36:05
to.
36:05
You
36:06
know,
36:06
I
36:06
have
36:06
so
36:06
many
36:07
groups
36:07
of
36:07
friends,
36:07
and
36:08
oftentimes
36:08
I'm
36:08
not
36:08
invited
36:09
to
36:09
every
36:10
dinner
36:10
or
36:10
everything,
36:11
and
36:11
I
36:11
see
36:11
other
36:12
people
36:12
I
36:12
know
36:12
or
36:13
whatever,
36:13
and
36:13
it's
36:14
fine.
36:14
I
36:14
don't
36:14
care.
36:14
I'm
36:15
happy
36:15
they're
36:15
all
36:15
together,
36:15
having
36:16
a
36:16
good
36:16
time.
36:16
Like,
36:16
I
36:17
don't
36:17
take
36:17
it
36:17
personally.
36:18
I
36:18
don't.
36:19
Like,
36:19
I
36:20
don't
36:20
know.
36:20
Doesn't
36:20
matter.
36:21
I'd
36:21
rather,
36:21
you
36:22
know,
36:22
gives
36:23
me
36:23
an
36:23
excuse
36:23
to
36:23
be
36:24
home
36:24
early
36:24
in
36:24
bed.
36:25
I
36:26
know.
36:26
There's
36:27
something
36:27
so
36:27
nice,
36:28
too,
36:28
about
36:28
when
36:29
plans
36:29
get
36:29
canceled.
36:30
Yes,
36:30
I
36:31
want
36:31
to
36:31
sleep.
36:32
The
36:32
best.
36:32
The
36:33
best.
36:33
You're
36:33
like,
36:34
okay,
36:34
I
36:34
can
36:35
just
36:35
get
36:35
back
36:36
into
36:36
it.
36:36
Like,
36:37
chill
36:37
on
36:37
the
36:37
couch.
36:38
Yeah,
36:38
it's.
36:38
It's
36:39
amazing.
36:40
So,
36:41
purpose,
36:41
lady.
36:42
Let's
36:42
talk
36:42
purpose.
36:43
Because
36:44
you've
36:44
had
36:44
a
36:44
big
36:44
launch
36:45
this
36:45
year
36:45
with
36:46
the
36:46
Real
36:46
Life
36:47
Company,
36:48
your
36:48
new
36:49
baby.
36:50
So
36:50
launching
36:51
a
36:51
business
36:52
in
36:52
midlife.
36:53
Tell
36:53
me
36:53
all
36:54
about
36:54
that.
36:54
Like,
36:54
how
36:55
has
36:55
it
36:55
been?
36:56
What
36:56
was
36:56
sort
36:57
of,
36:57
like,
36:57
the
36:58
impetus
36:58
behind
36:59
it?
36:59
Give
36:59
it
36:59
to
37:00
me,
37:00
lady.
37:00
Well,
37:01
I
37:01
think,
37:01
you
37:01
know,
37:02
I
37:02
took
37:02
Lucia
37:02
to
37:03
college,
37:03
and
37:04
I
37:04
was
37:04
just
37:04
really
37:05
Surprised
37:05
by,
37:05
like,
37:06
how
37:06
there
37:06
was
37:06
no,
37:06
like,
37:07
space
37:07
to
37:07
go
37:08
to
37:08
one
37:08
place
37:08
to
37:08
know
37:08
what
37:09
do
37:09
to.
37:09
To
37:09
get
37:09
her
37:10
for
37:10
her
37:10
dorm,
37:10
for
37:11
school.
37:11
Like,
37:12
there
37:12
was
37:12
no
37:12
place
37:13
the
37:13
bookstore
37:13
is
37:13
at
37:14
all.
37:14
These
37:14
universities
37:14
don't
37:15
have
37:15
like
37:15
a
37:15
checklist
37:16
or
37:16
a
37:16
place
37:16
for
37:17
you
37:17
to
37:17
understand
37:17
exactly
37:18
what
37:18
you
37:18
need.
37:19
And
37:19
I
37:19
just
37:20
was
37:20
really
37:20
surprised.
37:21
You
37:21
know,
37:21
19
37:21
million
37:22
kids
37:22
a
37:22
year
37:22
go
37:22
to
37:22
university
37:23
and
37:23
every
37:23
nine
37:24
months
37:24
they
37:24
have
37:24
to
37:24
replenish
37:25
their
37:25
rooms
37:26
or
37:26
their
37:26
apartments
37:27
and
37:27
everything.
37:28
And
37:28
I
37:28
just
37:28
couldn't
37:29
believe
37:29
that
37:29
I
37:29
was
37:29
like
37:29
hunting
37:30
through
37:30
Amazon
37:32
to
37:32
find
37:32
what
37:32
I
37:33
needed.
37:34
And
37:34
so
37:35
this
37:35
idea
37:36
sparked
37:37
and
37:37
it
37:37
stayed
37:38
with
37:38
me
37:38
for
37:38
like
37:39
six
37:39
months
37:39
and
37:39
I
37:39
couldn't
37:40
get
37:40
rid
37:40
of
37:40
it.
37:40
And
37:41
I
37:41
kept
37:41
thinking
37:41
of
37:42
this
37:42
idea
37:42
of
37:43
school
37:43
of
37:43
life.
37:43
Like
37:44
it
37:44
had
37:44
combined
37:45
two
37:45
other
37:45
ideas
37:46
I'd
37:46
had
37:46
in
37:46
my
37:46
life.
37:47
One
37:47
was
37:48
my
37:48
frustration
37:49
after
37:49
graduating
37:49
college
37:50
about
37:50
not
37:50
really
37:51
learning
37:51
about
37:51
finances
37:52
and
37:53
enough
37:54
and
37:54
not
37:54
having
37:55
sort
37:55
of
37:55
preparation
37:56
as
37:56
a
37:56
young
37:56
adult.
37:57
And
37:57
so
37:58
basically
37:59
these
37:59
ideas
38:00
came
38:00
together
38:00
for
38:00
me,
38:01
which
38:01
is
38:01
like
38:01
having
38:02
a
38:02
platform
38:03
that
38:03
combines
38:04
everything
38:04
that
38:04
you
38:05
need
38:05
for
38:05
young
38:05
adulthood.
38:06
So
38:06
from
38:06
18
38:07
to
38:07
28,
38:07
whether
38:08
that's
38:08
something
38:08
that
38:08
you
38:08
need
38:08
for
38:09
your
38:09
dorm
38:09
or
38:09
first
38:09
apartment
38:10
or
38:10
living,
38:11
but
38:11
it's
38:11
a
38:11
lifestyle
38:12
brand
38:12
that
38:13
is
38:13
just
38:14
any
38:14
conversation
38:15
you
38:15
also
38:15
need
38:15
to
38:15
have
38:16
about
38:16
what's
38:16
going
38:17
on.
38:17
I
38:17
do
38:18
think
38:18
we
38:18
haven't
38:18
given
38:19
much
38:19
love
38:19
to
38:20
that
38:20
period
38:21
of
38:21
your
38:21
life.
38:22
Like,
38:22
you
38:22
know,
38:22
20
38:23
somethings
38:23
now
38:23
are
38:24
going.
38:24
They're
38:24
not
38:25
like
38:25
saving
38:25
up
38:25
for
38:25
a
38:26
house
38:26
as
38:26
much
38:26
as
38:27
they
38:27
are
38:27
like,
38:27
you
38:27
know,
38:27
buying
38:28
like
38:28
a,
38:28
a
38:29
$20
38:29
smoothie
38:30
or
38:30
a
38:30
perfect
38:31
candle
38:31
or
38:31
a
38:31
perfect
38:32
bag.
38:32
Like,
38:32
they're
38:33
very
38:33
invested
38:34
in
38:34
your
38:34
daily
38:35
luxuries
38:35
of
38:36
things
38:36
that
38:36
bring
38:36
you
38:36
peace.
38:37
And
38:37
so
38:39
I
38:39
just
38:40
wanted
38:41
to
38:41
do
38:41
that.
38:41
And
38:41
so
38:42
anyway,
38:42
Real
38:42
Life
38:43
Co
38:43
was
38:43
named
38:44
that
38:44
because
38:44
whenever
38:45
I
38:45
complained
38:45
to
38:46
my
38:46
mom
38:46
about
38:46
anything
38:47
that
38:47
was
38:47
like
38:48
real
38:48
Life
38:48
related
38:49
taxes
38:49
or
38:49
she'd
38:50
be
38:50
like,
38:50
it's
38:50
real
38:50
life,
38:51
baby.
38:51
It's
38:51
real
38:51
life.
38:52
And
38:53
so
38:53
that's
38:54
our
38:54
tag
38:54
is
38:54
Real
38:55
Life
38:55
baby.
38:55
And
38:56
so
38:56
it
38:56
is
38:56
things
38:57
that
38:57
I
38:57
think
38:57
it's
38:57
like,
38:58
no
38:58
matter
38:58
how
38:58
much
38:58
technology
38:59
we
38:59
have
39:00
or,
39:01
you
39:01
know,
39:01
whatever,
39:01
whatever,
39:02
your
39:02
parents
39:02
were
39:03
like,
39:03
great
39:03
parents
39:04
that
39:04
were
39:04
involved,
39:05
parents
39:05
that
39:06
were
39:06
less
39:06
involved.
39:07
You
39:07
need
39:07
to
39:08
learn
39:08
for
39:08
yourself
39:09
how
39:09
to
39:09
function,
39:10
how
39:10
to
39:10
schedule
39:11
yourself,
39:12
how
39:12
to
39:12
make
39:13
your
39:13
bed,
39:13
do
39:13
your
39:14
laundry,
39:14
figure
39:15
stuff
39:15
out,
39:15
and
39:16
there
39:17
has
39:17
to
39:17
be
39:17
some
39:17
place
39:17
that,
39:18
that
39:18
you
39:18
can
39:18
go
39:19
to
39:19
for
39:19
that.
39:19
So.
39:21
So
39:21
that's
39:21
what
39:21
it
39:21
is.
39:22
So
39:22
Real
39:22
Life
39:22
Co
39:23
launched
39:23
in
39:23
June.
39:24
And
39:26
listen,
39:26
I
39:27
think
39:27
it's
39:28
really,
39:29
it's
39:29
really
39:30
fun.
39:30
I've
39:30
learned
39:31
a
39:31
lot.
39:32
I
39:32
like
39:32
working
39:33
in
39:33
this
39:33
generation
39:34
and
39:34
learning
39:35
like
39:35
how
39:35
they
39:36
think
39:36
and
39:36
how
39:37
they,
39:38
you
39:38
know,
39:40
what
39:40
they're
39:40
interested
39:41
in.
39:41
So
39:41
I've
39:42
been
39:42
learning
39:42
a
39:42
lot,
39:42
but
39:43
it's
39:43
also
39:43
really
39:43
hard
39:44
because
39:44
sometimes
39:44
I
39:45
feel
39:45
very
39:45
alone
39:45
in
39:47
figuring
39:48
stuff
39:48
out.
39:48
It's
39:48
like
39:49
not
39:49
something
39:49
I've
39:49
done
39:49
my
39:49
whole
39:50
life.
39:50
You
39:50
know,
39:50
in
39:51
the
39:51
film
39:51
business,
39:51
we
39:51
didn't.
39:52
This
39:52
is
39:52
a
39:52
different,
39:53
totally
39:53
different
39:54
animal.
39:54
And
39:55
so
39:55
it's,
39:56
it's
39:56
just
39:56
the
39:56
beginning.
39:57
But
39:57
I
39:57
do
39:58
really
39:58
love
39:58
where
39:58
we're
39:58
at
39:59
and
39:59
I
39:59
like
39:59
doing
39:59
it.
40:00
As
40:00
we
40:00
know,
40:01
when
40:01
you're
40:01
an
40:01
entrepreneur,
40:02
you're
40:02
wearing,
40:02
you
40:03
know,
40:03
all
40:03
these
40:03
different
40:04
hats.
40:04
I
40:04
mean,
40:04
yeah,
40:05
one
40:05
day
40:05
you're
40:05
marketing,
40:06
the
40:06
next
40:06
day
40:07
you're
40:07
doing
40:07
some
40:07
back
40:07
end
40:08
stuff.
40:08
Yes.
40:09
The
40:09
third,
40:09
you
40:09
know,
40:09
you're
40:10
in
40:10
front
40:10
of.
40:10
We're
40:11
all
40:11
in
40:11
the
40:11
same
40:12
half
40:12
hour.
40:12
Yes,
40:13
yes,
40:14
exactly.
40:15
Literally
40:15
in
40:16
the
40:16
same
40:16
half
40:16
hour.
40:17
I'm
40:17
like,
40:18
oh
40:18
my
40:18
goodness,
40:19
you're
40:19
jumping
40:19
from
40:19
one
40:20
thing
40:20
to
40:20
the
40:20
next.
40:20
And
40:21
then
40:21
at
40:21
the
40:22
end
40:22
of
40:22
some
40:22
days
40:22
that
40:23
I've
40:23
been
40:23
listening
40:23
to
40:23
podcasts
40:24
and
40:24
listening
40:24
to
40:24
a
40:24
lot
40:25
of
40:25
female
40:25
founders
40:26
and
40:26
so
40:26
forth
40:26
and
40:27
everyone
40:27
says
40:27
the
40:27
same
40:28
thing.
40:28
So
40:28
I
40:28
was
40:28
like,
40:28
okay,
40:28
I'm
40:28
not
40:29
crazy.
40:29
This
40:29
is
40:30
actually
40:30
just
40:30
what
40:30
it
40:31
is.
40:31
You're
40:31
literally
40:32
jumping.
40:33
I
40:33
did
40:33
all
40:33
my
40:34
own
40:34
marketing
40:34
and
40:34
branding.
40:35
We
40:35
did
40:36
all.
40:36
I
40:36
loved
40:37
it
40:37
because
40:37
I'm
40:37
a
40:38
storyteller.
40:38
I
40:38
knew
40:39
how
40:39
to
40:39
do
40:39
that
40:39
and
40:39
produce
40:40
that.
40:40
I
40:41
love
40:41
all
40:41
that.
40:41
But
40:41
I'm
40:41
learning
40:42
a
40:42
lot
40:42
about
40:42
e
40:42
commerce,
40:43
a
40:43
lot
40:43
about
40:43
how
40:44
people
40:44
shop,
40:45
what
40:45
they
40:45
look
40:45
for,
40:46
how,
40:47
you
40:47
know,
40:47
how
40:47
do
40:48
you
40:48
reach
40:48
an
40:48
audience,
40:49
how
40:49
do
40:49
you
40:49
get
40:49
to
40:50
people?
40:51
And
40:51
so
40:51
figuring
40:52
all
40:52
that
40:52
stuff
40:53
out
40:53
is
40:53
really,
40:54
really
40:54
interesting.
40:54
It's
40:54
a
40:55
totally
40:55
different
40:55
world.
40:56
Yeah,
40:56
it's
40:56
very
40:57
psychological.
40:57
I
40:57
mean,
40:58
you're
40:58
really
40:58
getting
40:58
into
40:59
people's
40:59
minds
40:59
and
41:00
trying
41:00
to
41:00
figure
41:00
out
41:01
what
41:01
makes
41:01
them
41:01
tech,
41:02
what's
41:02
going
41:02
to
41:02
make
41:02
them
41:03
interested
41:03
in
41:03
your
41:04
business,
41:04
you
41:04
know,
41:04
like,
41:05
why
41:05
would
41:05
they
41:06
come
41:06
back?
41:06
You
41:06
know,
41:07
it
41:07
is.
41:07
And
41:07
I,
41:08
I
41:08
don't
41:08
know
41:08
if
41:08
you
41:08
have
41:09
found
41:09
this,
41:09
but
41:09
I
41:10
also
41:11
have
41:11
moments
41:12
of,
41:12
you
41:12
know,
41:13
frustration
41:14
where
41:14
I'm
41:14
like,
41:14
okay,
41:15
this
41:15
is
41:16
it,
41:16
Like
41:16
I'm
41:16
done,
41:16
I'm
41:17
done.
41:17
But
41:17
just
41:18
when
41:18
I
41:18
say
41:18
that
41:19
there's
41:19
like
41:19
a
41:19
little
41:20
ting,
41:20
a
41:21
little
41:21
sign,
41:22
something
41:22
that
41:22
comes
41:23
up
41:23
that's
41:23
like,
41:24
gives
41:24
me
41:25
motivation.
41:26
Like,
41:26
it
41:26
kind
41:26
of
41:27
keeps
41:27
me
41:27
going
41:28
a
41:28
bit.
41:30
So
41:30
I
41:31
find
41:32
that,
41:32
you
41:32
know,
41:33
that
41:33
kind
41:33
of
41:33
keeps
41:33
me
41:33
on
41:34
the
41:34
path
41:34
because
41:35
the
41:35
entrepreneurial
41:36
preneurial
41:36
life
41:37
is
41:37
not
41:37
easy.
41:38
You
41:38
know,
41:38
it's
41:39
hard.
41:40
Yeah,
41:40
it
41:40
is.
41:40
It's
41:41
really,
41:41
it
41:41
is
41:41
really
41:42
hard
41:42
because
41:42
I
41:42
think
41:43
that,
41:44
you
41:44
know,
41:44
you're
41:44
not
41:44
making
41:45
money
41:45
in
41:45
the
41:45
beginning
41:46
and
41:46
so
41:46
you
41:46
don't
41:47
have
41:47
this
41:47
kind
41:47
of
41:47
reward
41:48
coming
41:48
back
41:48
at
41:48
you
41:49
and
41:49
giving
41:49
you
41:49
a
41:49
validation
41:50
that
41:50
you're
41:50
moving
41:50
in
41:50
the
41:50
right
41:51
direction.
41:52
But
41:52
that
41:52
said,
41:53
I
41:54
do
41:54
think
41:54
that,
41:55
you
41:55
know,
41:56
it
41:56
relies
41:57
more
41:57
on
41:57
data
41:58
and
41:58
analytics
41:58
and
41:59
certain.
41:59
Your.
41:59
Certain
42:00
your
42:00
belief
42:01
and
42:01
knowing,
42:02
because
42:02
it
42:02
is
42:02
a
42:03
need.
42:03
If
42:04
I
42:04
needed
42:04
it,
42:05
I
42:06
know
42:06
that
42:06
there's
42:06
a
42:07
lot
42:07
of
42:07
people
42:07
that
42:07
needed
42:07
it.
42:08
I'm
42:08
a
42:08
resourceful
42:08
person,
42:09
and
42:09
it
42:09
was
42:10
not
42:10
there.
42:11
So
42:11
I.
42:12
I
42:12
definitely
42:13
know,
42:13
and
42:14
given
42:14
our
42:14
data
42:15
and
42:15
what
42:15
we've
42:15
been
42:15
doing,
42:16
that
42:16
it's
42:16
needed,
42:17
and
42:17
it.
42:17
We
42:17
are
42:17
filling
42:18
a
42:18
problem.
42:18
Not
42:19
a
42:19
problem,
42:19
but
42:19
a
42:19
need.
42:20
And
42:20
I
42:20
know
42:20
the
42:21
solution.
42:23
So
42:23
that
42:23
keeps
42:24
you
42:24
going.
42:24
But
42:25
I
42:25
definitely
42:25
do
42:25
think
42:26
that.
42:26
I
42:27
think
42:27
one
42:27
of
42:27
the
42:27
other
42:27
hard
42:28
things
42:28
is
42:28
just
42:28
like,
42:29
being.
42:31
Is
42:31
leadership
42:32
and
42:33
managing.
42:34
Managing
42:34
different
42:35
people
42:35
doing
42:36
their
42:36
jobs.
42:36
Like
42:36
you're
42:36
overseeing
42:37
so
42:37
much
42:38
as
42:38
an
42:38
actor.
42:39
I
42:39
was
42:39
overseeing
42:40
myself.
42:41
And
42:41
then
42:41
I
42:41
definitely.
42:42
On
42:42
certain
42:42
days,
42:42
when
42:43
you're
42:43
producing
42:43
and
42:43
directing,
42:44
you're
42:44
seeing
42:44
a
42:44
lot
42:44
of
42:44
people.
42:44
I
42:45
definitely
42:45
was
42:45
overseeing
42:46
people.
42:46
But
42:46
in
42:47
general,
42:47
there
42:47
was
42:47
a
42:48
lot
42:48
about
42:48
me,
42:48
me,
42:48
me.
42:49
And
42:49
I
42:50
actually
42:50
never
42:50
really
42:51
liked
42:51
that,
42:51
Roxy.
42:52
Like,
42:52
that
42:52
actually
42:53
wasn't
42:53
the
42:53
part
42:54
of
42:54
the
42:54
business
42:54
that
42:54
was
42:55
my
42:55
favorite.
42:57
I
42:57
kind
42:57
of,
42:57
like,
42:57
magically
42:58
wanted
42:58
everyone
42:59
to
42:59
read
42:59
my
42:59
mind
43:00
and
43:00
know
43:01
what
43:02
I
43:02
needed
43:02
in
43:02
that
43:02
moment,
43:03
which
43:03
is
43:03
completely
43:04
insane.
43:06
But
43:06
that's
43:07
not
43:07
how
43:07
life
43:07
is.
43:08
You
43:08
have
43:08
to
43:08
learn
43:09
to
43:09
collaborate
43:10
and
43:10
to
43:10
communicate
43:13
and
43:13
to
43:13
really.
43:15
Bring
43:15
people
43:16
together.
43:17
And
43:18
what
43:18
I
43:18
like
43:19
is
43:19
that
43:19
I
43:20
have
43:20
more
43:21
control
43:21
over
43:22
my
43:22
environment.
43:23
Like,
43:24
I
43:24
like
43:24
that
43:24
I
43:25
come
43:25
to
43:25
an
43:25
office
43:26
that's
43:26
close
43:26
to
43:26
my
43:26
son's
43:27
school.
43:27
I
43:27
like
43:28
that
43:28
I
43:28
get
43:28
to
43:28
choose
43:28
who's
43:29
around
43:29
me
43:30
and
43:30
who
43:30
I'm
43:30
working
43:30
with.
43:31
People
43:31
that
43:31
inspire
43:32
me,
43:32
people
43:32
I
43:32
think
43:32
are
43:33
really
43:33
talented
43:34
and
43:34
have
43:34
great
43:34
ideas.
43:36
I
43:36
like
43:36
that
43:36
I
43:36
get
43:36
to
43:37
leave
43:37
and
43:37
go
43:37
see
43:37
his
43:38
soccer
43:38
game
43:38
if
43:38
I
43:38
want
43:39
to
43:39
and
43:39
come
43:39
back.
43:40
These
43:40
are
43:40
not
43:40
things
43:41
that
43:41
I
43:41
was
43:41
afforded
43:42
in
43:42
the
43:42
film
43:42
business,
43:43
like,
43:43
ever.
43:44
You're
43:44
just
43:45
always
43:45
in
43:45
everyone
43:45
else's
43:46
time.
43:46
They
43:47
own
43:47
you,
43:47
and
43:47
you
43:47
just
43:48
show
43:48
up
43:48
when
43:48
you
43:48
need
43:48
to,
43:49
and
43:49
you
43:49
stand
43:49
and
43:49
you.
43:49
And
43:50
you
43:50
perform
43:50
when
43:50
you
43:50
need
43:50
to.
43:51
And
43:51
that
43:51
is
43:52
wonderful,
43:52
but
43:52
it's
43:52
a
43:53
different
43:53
thing.
43:54
So
43:54
this
43:55
is
43:55
inspiring
43:56
me
43:56
because
43:58
it's
43:58
just
43:58
different.
43:58
And
43:59
I
43:59
think
43:59
at
43:59
this
43:59
stage
44:00
in
44:00
one's
44:00
life
44:01
also,
44:01
learning
44:02
is
44:02
a
44:02
really,
44:02
really,
44:03
really
44:04
big
44:05
thing.
44:05
Learning
44:06
something
44:06
new
44:08
so
44:08
that
44:08
you
44:08
don't
44:09
get
44:09
in
44:09
this
44:09
hamster
44:10
wheel
44:10
of,
44:10
like,
44:10
the
44:11
same
44:11
thing
44:11
over
44:11
and
44:11
over
44:11
again.
44:12
Right?
44:13
So,
44:14
yeah,
44:14
yeah.
44:15
No,
44:15
I
44:15
agree
44:15
with
44:15
you.
44:16
I
44:16
think
44:16
it's.
44:17
We
44:17
have
44:17
the
44:17
time
44:17
now.
44:18
You
44:18
know,
44:18
the
44:18
kids
44:18
are
44:19
older.
44:19
You
44:20
know,
44:20
we're
44:20
settled
44:20
in
44:21
Our
44:21
relationships,
44:22
it's.
44:22
It's
44:23
a
44:23
great
44:23
time
44:23
to
44:24
learn
44:24
something
44:24
new.
44:25
And
44:25
I
44:26
feel
44:26
like,
44:27
you
44:27
know,
44:27
of
44:27
women
44:28
that
44:28
I've
44:28
spoken
44:28
with
44:29
in
44:29
our
44:29
age
44:30
group,
44:30
I
44:31
think
44:31
a
44:31
lot
44:31
of
44:31
times
44:31
women
44:32
can
44:32
feel
44:32
stuck,
44:32
like
44:33
they
44:33
don't
44:33
know
44:34
how
44:34
do
44:34
I
44:35
start
44:35
something
44:35
or
44:35
like,
44:36
how
44:36
do
44:36
I,
44:36
you
44:36
know,
44:36
move
44:37
forward,
44:37
how
44:37
do
44:38
I
44:38
try
44:39
something
44:39
different?
44:40
So
44:40
I
44:41
think,
44:41
like,
44:41
from
44:42
your
44:42
perspective,
44:43
it's
44:43
interesting
44:43
because,
44:44
yes,
44:44
you
44:44
come
44:44
from
44:45
the
44:45
entertainment
44:45
world.
44:46
You're,
44:47
you
44:47
know,
44:47
a
44:47
very
44:47
well
44:48
known
44:48
person
44:48
in
44:48
that
44:49
world,
44:49
but
44:49
you
44:49
did
44:50
something
44:50
and
44:50
pivoted
44:51
and
44:51
did
44:51
something
44:51
completely
44:52
different.
44:53
So
44:54
what
44:54
was
44:54
that?
44:55
I
44:55
mean,
44:55
was
44:55
that
44:55
just
44:56
you
44:56
kind
44:56
of
44:56
knew?
44:57
Because
44:57
I
44:58
also
44:58
have
44:59
always
44:59
known
44:59
you
45:00
to
45:00
be
45:00
somebody
45:00
who
45:00
takes
45:01
chances,
45:01
who
45:01
will
45:02
like
45:02
put
45:02
themselves
45:02
out
45:03
there,
45:03
you
45:03
know.
45:04
So
45:04
what
45:04
was
45:05
that
45:05
like,
45:05
kind
45:05
of
45:05
just
45:06
even
45:06
the
45:06
pivot
45:07
from
45:07
entertainment
45:08
into
45:08
this.
45:08
Was
45:08
it.
45:09
Did
45:09
you
45:09
ever
45:09
have
45:09
a
45:09
reservation
45:10
or,
45:11
you
45:11
know,
45:11
say
45:11
to
45:12
yourself,
45:13
you
45:13
know,
45:13
second
45:13
guess?
45:14
Or
45:14
like,
45:14
how
45:14
was
45:14
it
45:15
just
45:15
to
45:15
go?
45:16
I
45:16
don't
45:16
know,
45:16
Roxy,
45:17
It's
45:17
a
45:17
good
45:17
question.
45:17
I'm
45:18
totally
45:18
nuts.
45:18
I
45:18
don't
45:19
know
45:19
what
45:19
I.
45:20
What
45:21
possessed
45:21
me.
45:22
I
45:22
literally
45:22
was
45:22
possessed
45:23
by
45:23
like
45:23
waking
45:23
up
45:24
at
45:24
night
45:24
and
45:24
knowing
45:25
it
45:25
was
45:25
a
45:25
really
45:25
good
45:25
idea,
45:26
like,
45:26
knowing
45:27
that
45:27
I
45:27
had
45:28
something
45:28
and
45:29
that.
45:29
That
45:30
stimulated
45:31
purpose
45:32
and
45:32
like
45:33
a
45:33
direction
45:33
of
45:33
like,
45:34
how
45:34
do
45:34
I
45:34
do
45:34
this?
45:35
And
45:36
I
45:36
just
45:37
saw
45:37
it,
45:37
like,
45:38
it's,
45:38
it's
45:38
a
45:38
weird
45:39
thing.
45:39
Like
45:39
when
45:39
you're,
45:40
you
45:40
know,
45:40
when
45:40
you're
45:41
producing
45:42
something,
45:43
story
45:43
or
45:43
TV
45:44
or
45:44
whatever,
45:44
you
45:45
see
45:45
like,
45:45
I
45:45
see
45:46
a
45:46
poster,
45:46
I
45:46
see
45:46
it,
45:47
I
45:47
see
45:47
the
45:47
actors,
45:47
I
45:47
see
45:48
the
45:48
story
45:48
unfolding.
45:49
I
45:49
saw
45:49
this
45:50
story
45:50
unfolding
45:51
and
45:52
it
45:52
felt
45:52
to
45:53
me
45:53
like
45:53
a
45:54
really
45:54
wonderful
45:55
thing
45:56
to
45:56
embark
45:56
on
45:56
at
45:57
a
45:57
stage
45:57
where
45:57
my
45:58
son
45:58
is
45:58
in
45:58
high
45:58
school.
45:59
He's
46:00
here
46:00
for
46:00
four
46:01
more
46:01
years.
46:02
Then
46:02
I'm
46:02
going
46:02
into
46:03
being,
46:03
you
46:03
know,
46:03
a
46:03
free
46:04
bird
46:04
and
46:05
who
46:05
knows
46:05
what
46:05
that
46:05
will
46:05
look
46:06
like.
46:06
And
46:06
I
46:06
felt
46:07
like,
46:08
what
46:08
a
46:08
great
46:08
thing
46:09
to
46:09
be
46:09
able
46:09
to
46:09
do,
46:09
to
46:10
be
46:10
here
46:10
for,
46:11
you
46:11
know,
46:11
a
46:11
lot
46:12
of
46:12
stuff
46:12
in
46:12
the
46:13
business
46:13
is,
46:14
in
46:14
the
46:14
film
46:14
business
46:14
is
46:15
like
46:15
leaving,
46:15
you
46:16
know,
46:16
leave
46:16
for
46:17
Toronto
46:18
for
46:18
nine
46:18
months
46:18
and
46:19
leave
46:19
for
46:19
here
46:19
for
46:20
this
46:20
long.
46:20
And
46:20
I
46:21
just,
46:21
for
46:21
me,
46:22
that
46:22
wasn't
46:22
going
46:22
to
46:23
work.
46:24
I'd
46:24
like,
46:24
I
46:25
like
46:25
to
46:25
continue.
46:26
I
46:26
just
46:26
did
46:26
a
46:26
TV
46:26
show
46:27
called
46:27
Lincoln
46:27
Lawyer
46:28
for
46:29
Netflix,
46:29
but
46:29
it
46:29
shot
46:30
in
46:30
la,
46:30
so
46:31
I
46:31
was
46:31
really
46:31
able
46:31
to
46:32
go
46:32
from
46:32
the
46:32
office
46:32
to
46:33
there.
46:33
And
46:33
it
46:33
was
46:33
very
46:34
seamless
46:34
and
46:34
it
46:34
was
46:35
great.
46:35
Like,
46:36
I,
46:36
I'm.
46:36
I
46:37
have
46:37
a
46:37
lot
46:37
of
46:37
TV
46:38
and
46:38
film
46:38
projects
46:39
that
46:39
I'm
46:39
working
46:40
on
46:40
and
46:40
producing
46:41
that
46:41
I
46:41
love
46:41
and
46:41
I
46:41
can't
46:42
wait
46:42
to
46:42
do.
46:43
But
46:43
in
46:43
the
46:43
meantime,
46:44
I
46:44
felt
46:44
like
46:45
there
46:45
was
46:45
this
46:45
really
46:45
wonderful
46:46
thing
46:46
that
46:46
I
46:46
could
46:47
grow
46:48
and.
46:48
Yeah,
46:49
do
46:49
I
46:49
have
46:49
doubts?
46:49
Absolutely.
46:50
I
46:50
had
46:50
a
46:50
couple.
46:51
I
46:52
only
46:52
had,
46:52
like,
46:52
one
46:53
day
46:53
where
46:53
I
46:53
really
46:53
felt,
46:54
like,
46:54
overwhelmed
46:55
by
46:55
it.
46:57
I
46:57
felt
46:57
overwhelmed.
46:58
I
46:58
definitely
46:58
found
46:58
myself
46:59
laying
46:59
on
46:59
my
46:59
couch
47:00
in
47:00
my
47:00
office
47:00
going,
47:01
oh,
47:01
my
47:01
gosh.
47:01
Why
47:01
did
47:02
I
47:02
take
47:02
this
47:02
on?
47:02
What
47:03
is
47:03
wrong
47:03
with
47:03
me?
47:04
I'm
47:04
crazy.
47:05
Why
47:05
did
47:05
I
47:06
do
47:06
this?
47:07
But
47:08
then
47:08
it
47:08
was
47:08
immediately,
47:10
immediately.
47:13
Interrupted
47:14
with,
47:14
oh,
47:15
I
47:15
know
47:15
exactly
47:15
why
47:15
I
47:16
did
47:16
it.
47:16
Like,
47:17
this
47:17
is
47:17
really
47:17
fun.
47:18
This
47:18
is
47:18
really
47:18
cool.
47:18
I
47:19
really
47:19
like
47:19
it.
47:19
There's
47:19
a
47:20
lot
47:20
of
47:20
different
47:20
creative
47:20
ways
47:21
to
47:21
storytelling
47:22
and
47:22
ways
47:23
to
47:23
create
47:24
things
47:25
that
47:25
are
47:25
for
47:25
a
47:25
different
47:26
demographic.
47:26
It's
47:27
not
47:27
about
47:27
me.
47:27
It's
47:28
about
47:28
them.
47:31
I
47:32
don't
47:32
know,
47:32
you
47:32
know,
47:33
but
47:34
I
47:34
think
47:34
I've
47:35
had
47:35
more
47:35
times
47:36
where
47:36
it's
47:36
just
47:36
more
47:37
of,
47:37
like,
47:37
you
47:38
learning
47:38
how
47:39
to
47:40
navigate
47:40
these
47:41
new
47:41
business
47:41
tools
47:42
that
47:42
I'm
47:43
getting
47:43
and
47:43
learning
47:44
more
47:44
than
47:44
it
47:45
was
47:45
questioning
47:46
whether
47:46
it
47:46
was
47:46
the
47:46
right
47:46
thing
47:46
to
47:47
do.
47:48
I
47:48
think.
47:49
And
47:50
I'll
47:50
add
47:50
one
47:50
other
47:50
thing.
47:51
We're
47:51
living
47:52
in
47:52
a
47:52
really
47:52
special
47:52
time
47:53
where
47:53
people
47:53
can
47:53
do
47:53
different
47:54
things.
47:54
You
47:55
know,
47:55
we
47:55
are
47:55
seeing
47:55
so
47:55
many
47:56
people
47:56
that
47:57
have
47:57
been
47:57
known
47:57
in
47:57
one
47:57
profession,
47:58
and
47:58
then
47:58
they
47:58
turn
47:59
around
47:59
and
47:59
they
47:59
have
47:59
a
47:59
side
47:59
business
48:00
doing
48:00
something
48:00
else.
48:01
They
48:01
have
48:01
their
48:01
side
48:01
hustle.
48:02
They
48:02
have
48:02
their
48:03
businesses,
48:03
that
48:04
huge
48:04
businesses.
48:05
They've
48:05
grown.
48:06
I
48:06
think
48:06
we're
48:06
living
48:07
in
48:07
a
48:07
time
48:07
where
48:07
you
48:08
don't
48:08
have
48:08
to
48:08
be
48:09
just
48:09
that
48:09
one
48:10
thing.
48:10
You
48:11
are
48:11
allowed
48:11
to
48:11
be
48:12
multiple
48:12
things
48:12
if
48:13
it
48:13
works
48:13
for
48:13
you
48:14
and
48:14
it.
48:14
And
48:14
you
48:14
make
48:14
it
48:15
work.
48:15
So
48:16
I
48:17
feel
48:17
really
48:17
grateful
48:18
that
48:18
we
48:18
live
48:18
in
48:18
that
48:18
time.
48:18
I
48:19
actually
48:19
feel
48:19
super
48:19
inspired
48:21
by
48:21
all
48:21
the
48:21
women
48:22
that
48:22
I
48:22
see
48:23
that
48:23
are
48:23
able
48:24
to
48:24
do
48:24
different
48:24
things.
48:25
And
48:25
so
48:25
that's
48:26
definitely
48:27
allowed
48:27
me
48:27
to
48:28
think
48:28
that
48:28
I
48:28
could
48:28
do
48:29
it.
48:29
Otherwise,
48:30
I
48:30
don't
48:30
think
48:30
that
48:30
I
48:31
would
48:31
have
48:31
ever
48:31
thought
48:31
that
48:32
I
48:32
could
48:32
do
48:32
it
48:33
ever.
48:34
What
48:34
would
48:34
you
48:34
say
48:34
to,
48:35
like,
48:35
a
48:35
woman
48:35
who
48:35
might
48:36
be
48:36
listening
48:36
right
48:36
now,
48:36
who
48:37
feels
48:38
stuck
48:38
or
48:39
has
48:39
a
48:39
great
48:40
idea
48:40
and
48:40
is
48:40
like,
48:41
gosh,
48:41
how
48:41
do
48:41
I.
48:41
How
48:42
do
48:42
I
48:42
start
48:42
to
48:42
execute
48:43
this?
48:43
Like,
48:43
how
48:44
do
48:44
I
48:44
put
48:44
the
48:44
pen
48:44
to
48:44
paper?
48:45
How
48:45
do
48:45
I,
48:45
you
48:45
know,
48:46
reach
48:46
out
48:46
to
48:47
the
48:47
contact
48:48
and
48:48
kind
48:48
of
48:48
get
48:48
things
48:49
going?
48:49
Like,
48:49
what
48:49
do
48:49
you
48:49
say
48:50
to
48:50
that
48:50
woman?
48:51
Well,
48:51
I
48:51
just
48:51
had
48:52
a
48:52
friend
48:52
actually
48:52
reach
48:53
out
48:53
to
48:53
me,
48:53
and
48:54
she
48:54
has
48:54
an
48:54
idea,
48:55
a
48:55
really
48:55
great
48:55
idea
48:56
for
48:56
something,
48:56
and
48:56
she
48:57
wanted
48:57
my
48:57
help
48:57
with
48:58
it.
48:58
And
48:59
what
48:59
I
48:59
said
48:59
to
48:59
her
49:00
was
49:00
this.
49:00
Like,
49:00
I
49:01
think
49:01
that
49:02
the
49:02
idea
49:02
was
49:03
great.
49:04
I
49:04
think
49:04
that
49:06
it's
49:06
really
49:06
a
49:06
question
49:07
of
49:07
really
49:07
doing
49:07
a
49:08
little
49:08
research
49:08
and
49:08
understanding
49:09
how
49:09
much
49:09
of
49:10
what
49:10
it
49:10
requires
49:11
of
49:11
you
49:11
and
49:11
whether
49:12
you
49:12
really
49:12
are
49:12
in
49:13
for
49:13
the
49:13
big
49:13
picture
49:14
of
49:14
it
49:15
and,
49:16
and
49:16
knowing
49:17
what
49:17
that
49:17
will
49:17
mean.
49:18
And
49:18
also,
49:18
like,
49:19
so
49:19
let's
49:19
say
49:20
you
49:20
are
49:20
into
49:20
it,
49:21
right?
49:22
Asking
49:22
a
49:22
lot
49:22
of
49:22
questions.
49:23
I
49:23
meet
49:23
with
49:23
a
49:24
lot
49:24
of
49:24
people
49:24
and
49:24
I
49:25
just
49:25
really
49:25
try
49:26
to
49:26
pick
49:26
their
49:26
brain
49:26
and
49:27
have
49:27
as
49:27
many
49:27
advisors
49:28
as
49:28
possible
49:29
leading
49:29
me,
49:30
you
49:30
know,
49:30
into
49:30
things
49:31
that
49:31
like,
49:31
I
49:31
don't
49:31
know
49:32
about.
49:32
So
49:33
whether
49:33
they're
49:33
giving
49:33
me
49:34
little
49:34
nuggets
49:34
of
49:35
advice
49:35
that
49:35
they've
49:36
gone
49:36
through
49:36
and
49:36
they
49:37
would
49:37
recommend
49:37
not
49:37
doing
49:38
or
49:38
whatever
49:39
it
49:39
is,
49:39
and
49:39
I
49:40
take
49:40
out
49:41
of
49:41
those
49:41
things
49:42
the
49:42
stuff
49:42
that
49:43
I
49:43
think
49:43
works
49:43
for
49:43
me
49:44
and
49:44
then
49:44
I
49:44
leave
49:45
the
49:45
things
49:45
that
49:45
don't
49:46
work
49:46
for
49:46
me.
49:47
I
49:47
think
49:47
it's
49:48
really
49:48
important
49:48
to
49:48
sit
49:49
with
49:49
people.
49:50
So
49:50
when
49:51
I
49:51
feel
49:51
stuck
49:52
sometimes,
49:52
you
49:53
know,
49:53
setting
49:53
a
49:53
lunch
49:54
with
49:54
a
49:54
person
49:54
that
49:54
inspires
49:55
you
49:55
that
49:55
you're
49:55
like,
49:55
how
49:56
did
49:56
you
49:56
do
49:56
this?
49:56
Or
49:57
what
49:57
do
49:57
you
49:57
recommend
49:58
on
49:58
this?
49:58
Or
49:58
I
49:59
have
49:59
this,
49:59
you
49:59
know,
50:00
idea
50:01
that
50:01
I
50:01
want
50:01
to
50:01
kind
50:02
of
50:02
figure
50:02
out
50:02
what,
50:02
what
50:03
pieces
50:03
would
50:03
I
50:03
need
50:04
to
50:04
bring
50:04
that
50:04
together.
50:05
So
50:06
I
50:06
do
50:06
find,
50:07
like,
50:07
now
50:08
we
50:08
have
50:08
access
50:08
to
50:08
so
50:09
many
50:09
great
50:09
podcasts
50:10
and
50:10
so
50:11
like,
50:11
you
50:11
know,
50:12
we
50:12
can,
50:12
we
50:12
can
50:13
listen
50:13
to
50:13
people,
50:13
have
50:14
these
50:14
conversations
50:15
and
50:15
feel
50:15
inspired
50:16
by
50:16
it
50:17
and,
50:18
and
50:18
learn
50:19
from
50:19
it.
50:19
So
50:20
I
50:20
also
50:20
have
50:20
listened
50:21
to
50:21
so
50:21
many
50:22
people,
50:23
you
50:23
know,
50:24
talk
50:24
about
50:26
different
50:26
things
50:26
that
50:26
they've
50:27
learned
50:27
and
50:27
their
50:27
journeys.
50:28
And
50:29
if
50:29
that
50:29
spoke
50:30
to
50:30
me,
50:30
then
50:31
I
50:32
use
50:32
it.
50:33
So
50:33
I
50:33
would
50:34
suggest.
50:36
Really
50:37
doing
50:37
also
50:37
research
50:38
on
50:38
whatever
50:38
idea
50:39
you
50:39
have.
50:41
About
50:41
like,
50:42
what's
50:42
out
50:42
there,
50:43
right?
50:44
What
50:44
did
50:44
it
50:44
take
50:45
those
50:45
companies
50:45
or
50:46
that
50:46
product
50:47
or
50:47
whatever
50:48
it
50:48
is
50:48
your
50:48
idea
50:49
is,
50:49
what
50:50
do
50:50
all
50:50
the
50:50
research.
50:50
You
50:51
can
50:51
go
50:51
in,
50:52
go
50:52
online
50:52
and
50:53
like
50:53
research
50:55
what
50:55
it
50:55
took
50:56
that
50:56
company
50:56
to
50:56
get
50:56
to
50:57
where
50:57
they're
50:57
at.
50:58
What
50:58
is
50:58
that
50:59
market?
50:59
Like,
51:00
you
51:00
know,
51:00
how
51:00
much
51:01
money
51:01
does
51:01
that
51:01
marketplace
51:02
or
51:02
not?
51:02
I
51:02
mean
51:02
there's
51:03
so
51:03
many
51:03
things,
51:04
things
51:04
to,
51:05
to
51:05
evaluate
51:06
before
51:06
you
51:06
really
51:07
can
51:07
sort
51:07
of
51:07
go,
51:07
okay,
51:08
I
51:08
have
51:08
a
51:08
great
51:08
idea
51:09
for,
51:09
you
51:09
know,
51:10
a
51:10
soda
51:10
brand.
51:11
But
51:11
what
51:11
does
51:12
that
51:12
mean?
51:12
What
51:12
does
51:12
it
51:13
mean
51:13
to
51:13
make
51:13
a
51:13
soda
51:13
brand?
51:14
Like,
51:14
I
51:15
have
51:15
to
51:15
distribute
51:16
it,
51:16
I
51:16
have
51:16
to
51:16
create
51:17
it,
51:17
I
51:17
have
51:17
to
51:17
like,
51:18
what
51:18
does
51:18
that
51:18
mean?
51:19
So
51:19
I
51:20
think
51:20
because
51:20
I
51:21
have
51:21
done
51:21
so
51:21
much
51:22
with
51:22
like
51:22
online
51:23
kind
51:23
of
51:24
like
51:24
fashion
51:25
related
51:25
stuff,
51:25
I
51:26
unders.
51:26
I
51:27
had
51:27
a
51:27
certain
51:28
understanding
51:28
of
51:28
E
51:29
commerce
51:29
that
51:29
I
51:29
was
51:30
seeing
51:30
that
51:30
I
51:30
think,
51:31
think
51:31
helped
51:32
me
51:32
see
51:32
how
51:32
I
51:32
could
51:33
bring
51:33
together
51:34
product
51:34
and
51:34
curate
51:36
rooms
51:36
and
51:36
things
51:37
and
51:37
so
51:37
forth.
51:37
And
51:38
I
51:38
knew
51:38
the
51:39
process
51:39
of
51:39
that.
51:40
But
51:40
I
51:40
think
51:41
you.
51:41
Yeah,
51:41
does
51:42
that
51:42
make
51:42
sense?
51:42
Am
51:42
I
51:42
saying
51:43
it
51:43
totally
51:44
makes
51:44
sense?
51:44
And
51:44
hallelujah
51:45
for
51:45
ChatGPT.
51:46
I
51:46
mean,
51:47
I
51:47
was
51:47
gonna
51:47
say,
51:48
yeah.
51:48
Go
51:48
to
51:48
ChatGPT
51:50
yes.
51:50
Yeah,
51:51
I
51:51
am
51:51
totally
51:52
in.
51:52
I
51:52
mean
51:52
research
51:53
is
51:53
so
51:53
much
51:53
easier
51:54
now.
51:54
Research
51:55
is
51:55
so
51:55
much
51:55
easier.
51:55
Go
51:56
am
51:56
look
51:57
at
51:57
these
51:57
companies
51:57
ask
51:58
how
51:58
did
51:58
this
51:58
company
51:58
come
51:59
to
51:59
be?
52:00
What
52:00
was
52:00
their
52:00
process?
52:00
How
52:01
much
52:01
money
52:01
did
52:01
they
52:01
raise?
52:01
How
52:02
much
52:02
money
52:02
did
52:02
it
52:02
take
52:02
to
52:03
do
52:03
it?
52:03
How
52:03
many
52:04
years
52:04
did
52:04
it
52:05
take
52:05
to
52:05
do
52:05
it?
52:06
Are
52:06
you
52:06
into
52:07
that?
52:07
Right?
52:08
Is
52:08
that
52:08
what
52:09
you
52:09
want
52:09
to
52:09
do?
52:10
I
52:10
know
52:10
a
52:10
woman
52:11
has
52:11
started
52:11
a
52:11
candle
52:12
line
52:12
just
52:12
now
52:13
and
52:13
she
52:14
never
52:14
run
52:14
a
52:14
business
52:15
and
52:15
now
52:15
she's
52:16
doing
52:16
this
52:16
candle
52:17
line
52:17
and
52:17
she
52:17
started
52:18
with
52:18
a
52:18
very
52:18
small
52:19
idea,
52:20
but
52:20
a
52:20
really
52:21
pretty
52:21
idea
52:21
and
52:21
it
52:22
sort
52:22
of
52:22
started
52:22
to
52:22
grow
52:23
and
52:23
now
52:24
all
52:24
of
52:24
a
52:24
sudden
52:25
the
52:25
way
52:25
that
52:26
she's
52:26
aesthetically
52:27
built
52:27
this
52:27
line,
52:27
it's
52:28
like
52:28
getting
52:28
traction.
52:29
But
52:29
now
52:30
the
52:30
next
52:30
phase
52:30
is
52:31
how
52:31
do
52:31
you
52:31
then
52:31
scale
52:32
that,
52:32
right?
52:32
How
52:32
do
52:33
you
52:33
then
52:33
build
52:34
more?
52:34
How
52:34
do
52:34
you
52:35
not
52:35
do
52:35
that
52:35
out
52:35
of
52:35
your
52:35
garage?
52:36
What
52:36
do
52:37
you
52:37
do?
52:37
So
52:37
there's
52:38
always
52:38
something
52:38
to
52:39
learn
52:39
in
52:39
a
52:39
business.
52:42
I
52:42
find
52:42
it
52:42
really
52:42
cool.
52:43
I
52:43
really
52:43
like
52:43
it.
52:44
It's
52:44
exciting.
52:45
You're
52:45
right.
52:45
And
52:45
it's
52:46
like
52:46
different
52:46
every
52:47
day.
52:47
I
52:47
mean
52:47
there's
52:48
something
52:48
different
52:49
happening,
52:49
right?
52:49
It's
52:50
kind
52:50
of
52:50
like
52:50
fly
52:50
by
52:51
the
52:51
seat
52:51
of
52:51
your
52:51
pants
52:51
a
52:52
little
52:52
bit.
52:53
I
52:53
forgot
52:53
who
52:54
said
52:54
this,
52:54
but
52:55
I
52:55
was
52:56
listening
52:56
to
52:56
somebody,
52:56
it
52:57
was
52:57
some,
52:57
somebody
52:57
very
52:58
successful
52:58
in
52:58
business
52:59
and
52:59
they
52:59
said
52:59
the
53:00
team
53:00
that
53:00
surrounds
53:01
you
53:02
is
53:02
oftentimes
53:03
more
53:03
important
53:04
than
53:04
the
53:04
product
53:05
that
53:05
you're
53:05
putting
53:05
out.
53:06
Like
53:06
that.
53:07
Having
53:07
a
53:07
team
53:07
around
53:08
you
53:08
is
53:08
so
53:09
key.
53:09
Yeah,
53:10
I
53:10
agree.
53:10
And
53:11
that's
53:11
what
53:11
I
53:11
mean
53:11
by
53:12
like
53:12
the
53:13
people
53:13
that
53:13
you're
53:14
bringing
53:14
in,
53:14
the
53:14
people
53:15
you're
53:15
working
53:15
with
53:15
daily,
53:16
how
53:16
you're
53:16
choosing
53:17
that
53:17
it
53:18
to
53:18
be
53:18
very
53:18
careful
53:19
also
53:19
choosing
53:20
like
53:20
who
53:20
you're
53:20
going
53:20
to
53:21
co
53:21
collaborate
53:21
with,
53:22
right?
53:22
Like,
53:23
like
53:23
it's
53:24
not
53:24
just
53:24
who
53:24
you're
53:24
hiring
53:24
as
53:25
an
53:25
employee,
53:25
but
53:25
if
53:25
you're
53:26
bringing
53:26
in
53:26
somebody
53:26
that
53:26
you're
53:27
co
53:27
creating
53:27
something
53:28
with,
53:28
what
53:29
are
53:29
your
53:29
shared,
53:30
what's
53:30
your
53:30
shared
53:31
vision
53:31
for
53:31
it?
53:32
What
53:32
like,
53:33
you
53:33
know,
53:34
what
53:34
do
53:34
you
53:34
both
53:34
want
53:35
out
53:35
of
53:35
it?
53:35
What
53:35
are
53:35
your
53:36
strengths?
53:36
What
53:37
are
53:37
not
53:37
your
53:37
strengths?
53:38
I
53:39
think
53:39
I'm,
53:40
I
53:40
think
53:40
one
53:40
of
53:40
my
53:41
strengths
53:41
is
53:42
that
53:42
I
53:42
came
53:43
from,
53:43
you
53:44
know,
53:44
a
53:44
storytelling
53:45
background
53:46
so
53:46
I
53:46
understand
53:46
how
53:47
to
53:47
produce
53:47
things.
53:48
But
53:48
also
53:48
I'm
53:49
not
53:49
a
53:49
person
53:49
that
53:49
thinks
53:49
I
53:50
know
53:50
everything.
53:51
Like
53:51
I
53:51
really,
53:52
really
53:52
don't.
53:52
I
53:53
genuinely
53:54
am
53:54
like,
53:54
oh
53:54
wait,
53:54
how
53:54
do
53:55
I
53:55
find
53:55
a
53:55
person
53:55
that
53:55
really
53:56
knows
53:56
that
53:56
really
53:56
well?
53:57
We
53:57
have
53:57
a
53:58
company
53:58
that
53:58
a
53:59
man
53:59
that
53:59
I
53:59
work
53:59
with
53:59
for
54:00
our
54:00
website,
54:00
analytics
54:01
and
54:01
who
54:02
helps
54:02
us
54:02
guide
54:03
certain
54:03
things.
54:04
The
54:04
stuff
54:04
I've
54:04
learned
54:05
from
54:05
him
54:05
is
54:05
incredible.
54:06
Like
54:06
he,
54:07
this
54:07
is
54:07
what
54:07
he
54:08
does.
54:08
He
54:08
sits
54:09
there
54:09
and
54:09
he
54:10
watches
54:11
how
54:12
our
54:12
digital
54:12
market
54:13
space,
54:13
like
54:13
what
54:14
things
54:14
work
54:14
and
54:14
what,
54:15
how
54:15
they
54:15
don't,
54:16
and
54:16
how
54:16
you
54:16
can
54:16
take
54:17
one
54:17
product
54:18
and
54:18
reach
54:18
an
54:19
audience.
54:19
It's
54:20
incredible.
54:21
But
54:21
I
54:21
don't
54:21
do
54:22
that.
54:22
Right.
54:23
I
54:23
needed
54:23
to
54:24
find
54:24
that
54:24
right
54:25
person
54:25
that's
54:26
passionate
54:26
about
54:27
my
54:27
project
54:27
as
54:28
much
54:28
as
54:28
I
54:28
am,
54:29
and
54:29
then
54:30
we
54:30
work
54:30
together
54:30
to
54:31
figure
54:31
it
54:31
out.
54:31
But
54:32
I'm
54:32
quite
54:32
excited
54:33
by
54:33
all
54:34
of
54:34
learning
54:34
all
54:34
of
54:35
it.
54:35
It's
54:35
really
54:35
fun.
54:36
It's
54:36
really
54:37
fun.
54:38
You're
54:38
smart
54:38
enough
54:38
to
54:39
know
54:39
when
54:40
you
54:40
have
54:40
somebody
54:41
else
54:41
fill
54:41
that
54:42
space.
54:42
Like
54:43
that's,
54:43
that's
54:44
part
54:44
of
54:44
being
54:44
a
54:44
good
54:45
manager
54:46
and
54:46
a
54:46
good,
54:47
you
54:47
know,
54:47
like,
54:47
overseer
54:48
of
54:48
the
54:48
company
54:48
is
54:49
you
54:49
got
54:49
to
54:49
know
54:49
when
54:49
to
54:50
bring
54:50
people
54:51
in,
54:51
you
54:51
know,
54:51
for
54:51
different
54:52
things.
54:52
I
54:52
mean,
54:52
there's
54:53
plenty
54:53
of
54:54
things
54:54
that
54:54
I,
54:55
you
54:55
know,
54:55
I
54:56
need
54:56
to
54:56
outsource
54:56
because
54:57
I
54:58
just.
54:58
You
54:58
can't
54:58
be
54:58
good
54:59
at
54:59
everything,
54:59
you
54:59
know,
55:00
you
55:00
can't.
55:01
And
55:01
I
55:01
think
55:01
the
55:01
people
55:01
that
55:02
think
55:02
that
55:02
they
55:02
are
55:02
there,
55:03
I
55:03
think
55:03
don't
55:04
bomb
55:04
at
55:04
some
55:05
point
55:05
because
55:06
you
55:06
can't
55:07
be
55:07
a
55:07
solo
55:07
player
55:08
in
55:08
such
55:08
a
55:08
big,
55:09
such
55:09
a
55:09
big
55:09
industry.
55:10
You
55:10
know,
55:10
you're
55:11
dealing
55:11
with
55:11
a
55:11
lot
55:11
of
55:12
different
55:12
pieces
55:12
and
55:13
moving
55:13
pieces,
55:13
and
55:14
you
55:14
have
55:14
to
55:14
kind
55:14
of
55:14
know
55:15
what
55:15
are
55:15
your
55:16
strengths
55:16
and
55:17
what
55:17
does
55:17
that
55:17
mean?
55:17
I'm
55:18
a
55:18
creative
55:18
at
55:18
the
55:19
end
55:19
of
55:19
the
55:19
day.
55:19
And
55:20
so
55:20
for
55:20
me,
55:21
it's,
55:21
yes,
55:21
I
55:22
can,
55:22
I
55:22
can
55:22
visualize
55:23
certain
55:23
stuff
55:24
and
55:24
so
55:24
forth,
55:24
but
55:24
there's
55:25
so
55:25
much
55:25
that
55:25
I
55:26
don't
55:26
know
55:26
and
55:27
I
55:27
have
55:27
to
55:27
get
55:28
people
55:28
around
55:28
me
55:28
that
55:29
do
55:29
know
55:29
and,
55:29
and
55:30
feel
55:30
like,
55:30
you
55:31
know,
55:31
we
55:31
can
55:32
create
55:32
something
55:33
together.
55:33
But
55:33
I
55:33
think
55:33
that's
55:34
every
55:34
business.
55:34
Like,
55:35
I
55:35
don't
55:35
think
55:35
anything's
55:35
by
55:36
yourself,
55:36
you
55:37
know,
55:37
nothing.
55:38
Nothing.
55:38
You've
55:39
got
55:39
to
55:39
be
55:39
able
55:39
to
55:39
share
55:39
it
55:40
with
55:40
people
55:40
and
55:40
share
55:40
it
55:40
with
55:41
the
55:41
right
55:41
people,
55:41
you
55:41
know.
55:43
So
55:44
what
55:44
does
55:44
the
55:44
next,
55:44
like,
55:45
five
55:45
years
55:45
look
55:46
like
55:46
for
55:46
you?
55:46
Are
55:46
you.
55:46
So
55:47
you
55:47
said
55:47
you've
55:47
got
55:47
some
55:48
projects,
55:48
some
55:49
TV
55:49
and
55:49
film
55:50
things
55:50
you're
55:50
working
55:51
on,
55:51
and
55:51
then
55:52
of
55:52
course,
55:52
the
55:53
business.
55:53
So
55:54
you're
55:54
also
55:54
going
55:54
to
55:54
be
55:55
an
55:55
empty
55:55
nester
55:56
in
55:56
five
55:56
years.
55:57
Totally.
55:57
Right.
55:58
By
55:58
the
55:58
way,
55:59
how
55:59
was
55:59
that
55:59
sending
55:59
Lucia
56:00
to
56:00
college
56:01
this
56:01
last
56:01
year?
56:02
Hard.
56:03
Really
56:04
hard.
56:04
Hard,
56:05
yeah.
56:05
It's
56:05
very
56:05
emotional
56:06
because
56:06
you
56:06
feel
56:06
like
56:07
as
56:07
a
56:07
parent
56:07
that
56:08
you
56:08
did
56:08
so
56:08
much
56:09
work
56:10
and
56:10
then
56:10
all
56:10
of
56:10
a
56:11
sudden
56:11
they're
56:11
out
56:12
there,
56:12
you
56:13
know,
56:13
on
56:13
their
56:13
own.
56:14
And
56:15
it's
56:15
hard.
56:15
It's
56:16
very
56:16
emotional.
56:17
But.
56:20
It'S
56:20
also
56:21
know
56:23
it's
56:23
very
56:23
hard,
56:24
but
56:24
it's
56:24
also
56:26
not
56:26
hard.
56:26
I
56:26
don't
56:27
know.
56:27
Like,
56:27
I.
56:27
I
56:27
do
56:28
think
56:28
that
56:28
Once
56:28
your
56:29
child
56:29
gets
56:29
to
56:29
18
56:30
years
56:30
old
56:30
and
56:31
you've
56:31
spent
56:31
18
56:32
years
56:32
raising
56:33
them,
56:33
there
56:33
is
56:33
a
56:33
moment
56:34
where
56:34
you're
56:34
like,
56:34
okay,
56:34
baby,
56:35
time
56:35
to
56:35
fly.
56:37
Bye.
56:39
You
56:39
know,
56:39
like,
56:40
let's
56:40
go.
56:41
So
56:41
it's
56:41
a
56:42
little
56:42
bit
56:42
of
56:42
both,
56:43
but
56:43
initially
56:44
it's
56:44
very
56:44
heart
56:45
wrenching.
56:46
Initially,
56:47
it's
56:47
like
56:47
I
56:48
was
56:48
like,
56:48
oh,
56:48
like,
56:49
gutted.
56:50
But
56:50
luckily
56:50
I
56:51
had
56:51
some
56:51
wonderful
56:51
moms
56:52
next
56:52
to
56:52
me.
56:53
Eduardo.
56:54
And
56:54
people
56:55
that,
56:55
you
56:55
know,
56:55
my
56:55
mom,
56:56
like,
56:56
people
56:56
that
56:56
just
56:56
like,
56:57
were
56:57
there
56:57
for
56:57
me
56:58
to
56:58
just
56:58
kind
56:58
of
56:58
roll
56:59
past
56:59
the
56:59
initial
57:00
shock
57:01
and
57:01
then.
57:02
And
57:02
then
57:02
it's
57:02
okay,
57:03
you
57:04
know,
57:04
but
57:04
it
57:04
never
57:04
stops.
57:05
Like,
57:05
honestly,
57:06
parenting
57:06
never
57:07
stops.
57:07
It's
57:07
not
57:07
like
57:07
they're
57:08
gone
57:08
out
57:09
of
57:09
the
57:09
house
57:09
and
57:09
you're
57:09
somehow
57:10
not
57:10
getting
57:10
calls
57:11
to
57:11
put
57:11
out
57:11
some
57:11
fire.
57:12
There's
57:12
always
57:12
something.
57:13
Always.
57:14
I
57:14
mean,
57:14
even
57:14
for
57:15
me,
57:15
I
57:15
feel
57:15
like
57:15
I
57:15
still
57:16
look
57:16
to
57:16
my
57:16
parents
57:16
for
57:17
advice
57:17
and,
57:18
you
57:18
know,
57:19
things
57:19
like
57:19
that.
57:19
There.
57:20
You
57:20
never
57:20
stop
57:20
being
57:21
a
57:21
parent,
57:21
I
57:21
don't
57:22
think.
57:22
You
57:22
know,
57:23
you
57:23
don't.
57:23
You
57:24
know,
57:24
you
57:24
don't.
57:24
No,
57:25
you
57:25
don't.
57:25
So
57:26
how
57:26
is.
57:27
How's
57:27
midlife
57:28
treating
57:28
Eduardo,
57:28
by
57:29
the
57:29
way?
57:29
Fine.
57:30
He's.
57:31
Yeah,
57:31
he's
57:31
happy
57:31
as
57:31
a
57:32
clam.
57:32
He's
57:32
fine.
57:33
I
57:33
mean,
57:33
listen,
57:33
he's.
57:33
Sometimes
57:34
he's
57:34
a
57:34
hypochondriac
57:35
about
57:35
like
57:35
a
57:35
cold
57:36
or
57:36
something.
57:36
Like,
57:37
is
57:37
it
57:37
Covid?
57:37
Do
57:37
you
57:37
think
57:37
it's
57:38
this?
57:38
Do
57:38
you
57:38
think
57:38
it's
57:38
that?
57:39
But,
57:39
like,
57:39
aside
57:40
from
57:40
that,
57:40
he's,
57:41
you
57:41
know,
57:41
he
57:41
really
57:42
takes
57:42
care
57:42
of
57:42
his
57:42
fitness.
57:43
He
57:43
eats
57:43
well.
57:43
We
57:44
both
57:44
do.
57:44
And
57:44
like,
57:44
we,
57:45
we're,
57:45
you
57:45
know,
57:45
we
57:45
exercise
57:46
and
57:46
we,
57:47
we.
57:47
We
57:48
try
57:48
to,
57:49
you
57:49
know,
57:49
we
57:49
eat
57:49
well
57:50
and
57:51
we,
57:51
you
57:51
know,
57:52
we
57:52
try
57:52
to
57:52
take
57:53
care
57:53
of,
57:53
again,
57:53
our
57:54
nervous
57:54
systems
57:54
in
57:54
a
57:55
way
57:55
that
57:55
keeps
57:55
things
57:55
calm
57:56
and
57:57
we
57:57
rest
57:57
and
57:58
the
57:59
things
57:59
that
57:59
I
57:59
think
57:59
you
58:00
need
58:00
to
58:00
do
58:00
to
58:01
kind
58:01
of.
58:02
So,
58:02
yeah,
58:02
he's
58:03
good.
58:03
Listen,
58:03
he's
58:03
a
58:04
guy
58:04
that's
58:04
like
58:04
the
58:04
glasses
58:05
half
58:05
full
58:05
always.
58:07
So
58:07
even
58:07
if
58:07
things
58:07
aren't
58:08
going
58:08
well,
58:08
it's
58:08
very
58:09
rare
58:09
that
58:09
you
58:09
find
58:09
him
58:10
in,
58:10
like,
58:10
a
58:10
moment
58:11
of,
58:11
like,
58:11
complete
58:12
distress.
58:12
He
58:13
always
58:13
sort
58:13
of
58:14
looks
58:14
for
58:14
solutions
58:15
and
58:15
he
58:15
always
58:16
looks
58:16
at
58:16
the
58:16
bright
58:16
side.
58:17
So
58:18
he's
58:18
definitely
58:19
better
58:19
than
58:19
me.
58:20
I'm
58:20
the
58:20
one
58:21
that
58:21
could
58:21
be
58:22
more
58:23
like
58:23
doom
58:24
and
58:24
gloom
58:24
on
58:24
sometimes,
58:25
not
58:25
always.
58:26
I'm
58:26
better
58:26
at
58:26
it
58:27
now,
58:27
but
58:27
I
58:27
definitely,
58:28
you
58:28
know.
58:29
Oh,
58:29
my
58:29
God.
58:30
Yeah.
58:30
Yeah.
58:30
Well,
58:31
that's
58:31
why
58:31
they're
58:32
with
58:32
us,
58:32
right?
58:32
They're
58:32
like
58:33
the
58:33
more
58:33
stabilizing
58:34
forces.
58:34
It's,
58:35
it's,
58:35
you
58:35
know,
58:36
we're
58:36
the
58:36
more
58:37
emotional
58:37
ones.
58:38
I
58:38
mean,
58:38
I
58:38
think
58:38
for
58:38
you
58:39
and
58:39
I
58:39
especially
58:40
you
58:40
know,
58:40
it's
58:40
like.
58:41
It's.
58:41
You
58:41
need
58:41
that
58:42
balance,
58:42
you
58:42
know?
58:43
Yeah.
58:43
Yeah.
58:43
I
58:44
mean,
58:44
otherwise,
58:45
this
58:45
midlife
58:46
would
58:46
not
58:46
be.
58:47
You
58:47
know,
58:47
this
58:48
transition
58:48
time
58:49
is
58:49
not
58:49
so
58:49
easy.
58:50
Not
58:50
at
58:50
all.
58:50
It's
58:51
hard.
58:51
And
58:51
it's
58:52
also.
58:52
It's
58:52
also
58:53
weird
58:53
to
58:53
be
58:54
this
58:54
age,
58:54
because
58:55
I
58:55
don't
58:55
feel
58:55
this
58:56
age.
58:56
Like,
58:56
I
58:56
feel
58:57
like
58:57
I'm
58:57
20.
58:58
Like,
58:58
I
58:58
don't
58:59
feel.
59:00
So.
59:00
It's.
59:00
It's
59:00
strange
59:01
when
59:01
you
59:01
sort
59:01
of
59:01
look
59:01
at
59:02
your
59:02
life
59:02
and
59:02
kind
59:02
of
59:02
go,
59:03
how
59:03
did
59:03
I
59:03
get
59:03
here?
59:04
Like,
59:04
lately,
59:05
I've
59:05
been,
59:05
like,
59:06
so
59:06
much,
59:07
like,
59:07
connecting
59:08
dots
59:08
of,
59:08
like,
59:09
experiences
59:10
or
59:10
memories
59:10
that
59:11
I
59:11
have
59:11
of
59:11
myself
59:12
at
59:12
a
59:12
certain
59:12
age.
59:12
I'm
59:13
like,
59:13
oh,
59:13
that's
59:13
me.
59:14
Like,
59:14
you
59:14
forget
59:15
that
59:16
was
59:16
your
59:16
life.
59:17
You.
59:18
You
59:18
know,
59:18
whatever
59:19
that
59:19
may
59:19
be.
59:20
And
59:20
also
59:21
why.
59:22
Who
59:23
you
59:23
were
59:23
at
59:23
that
59:24
certain
59:24
age
59:24
and
59:24
why
59:24
you
59:25
made
59:25
certain
59:25
choices
59:26
at
59:26
that
59:26
age.
59:27
I
59:27
just
59:28
believe
59:28
we
59:28
all
59:28
are
59:29
doing
59:29
the
59:29
best
59:29
that
59:29
we
59:29
can
59:30
given
59:30
our.
59:31
Who
59:31
we
59:31
are
59:31
and
59:31
our
59:32
personal
59:32
experiences.
59:33
And
59:33
so
59:34
when
59:34
you
59:34
get
59:34
to
59:35
now,
59:35
it's
59:35
kind
59:36
of
59:36
like
59:36
going,
59:36
as
59:36
you
59:37
said,
59:37
we're
59:38
on
59:38
this
59:38
other
59:38
side
59:38
of
59:39
time.
59:40
And
59:40
so
59:40
if
59:41
that's
59:41
your
59:41
time
59:41
and
59:42
you're
59:42
looking
59:42
at
59:42
it,
59:43
you're
59:43
like,
59:43
how
59:44
do
59:44
you
59:44
want
59:44
to
59:44
live
59:45
and
59:45
be
59:45
and
59:46
what
59:46
things
59:46
are
59:46
your
59:46
priorities
59:47
and
59:47
matter
59:47
to
59:48
you?
59:48
You
59:48
know,
59:49
like,
59:49
for
59:49
me,
59:49
it
59:49
just
59:50
doesn't.
59:50
I'm
59:51
not
59:51
as
59:51
interested
59:51
in,
59:52
you
59:52
know,
59:52
when
59:52
we're
59:52
younger,
59:52
it's
59:53
like,
59:53
you
59:53
want
59:53
to
59:53
be
59:53
part
59:54
of
59:54
certain
59:54
things.
59:54
And
59:55
now
59:55
I.
59:55
I
59:55
don't
59:56
know
59:56
that
59:56
I
59:56
care,
59:57
you
59:57
know,
59:58
so
59:58
much.
59:59
I.
59:59
I
1:00:00
want.
1:00:00
I'm.
1:00:00
I'm
1:00:01
choosing
1:00:01
peace
1:00:01
over
1:00:02
anything,
1:00:03
for
1:00:03
sure.
1:00:05
But
1:00:05
I
1:00:06
also.
1:00:06
I
1:00:06
also
1:00:07
am,
1:00:08
like,
1:00:08
grappling
1:00:09
a
1:00:09
lot
1:00:09
with.
1:00:10
It's
1:00:11
not
1:00:11
really
1:00:11
regret,
1:00:12
but
1:00:12
it's
1:00:12
sort
1:00:13
of
1:00:13
looking
1:00:13
at
1:00:13
life
1:00:13
in
1:00:14
some
1:00:14
ways
1:00:14
and
1:00:14
kind
1:00:14
of
1:00:14
going,
1:00:16
oh,
1:00:16
had
1:00:17
those
1:00:17
things.
1:00:17
Had
1:00:17
I
1:00:17
done
1:00:18
those
1:00:18
things
1:00:18
or
1:00:18
that
1:00:19
thing
1:00:19
or
1:00:19
that?
1:00:19
But
1:00:19
then
1:00:20
I
1:00:20
go,
1:00:20
no,
1:00:21
I
1:00:21
would
1:00:21
have
1:00:21
never
1:00:21
done
1:00:21
that
1:00:22
because
1:00:22
that's
1:00:22
not
1:00:22
what
1:00:22
I
1:00:22
chose
1:00:23
at
1:00:23
that
1:00:23
moment
1:00:23
in
1:00:24
my
1:00:24
life.
1:00:24
You
1:00:25
wouldn't
1:00:25
be
1:00:25
where
1:00:25
you
1:00:25
are
1:00:26
now.
1:00:26
Yeah.
1:00:26
Yeah.
1:00:27
There's
1:00:27
definitely
1:00:28
things
1:00:28
like,
1:00:29
you
1:00:29
know,
1:00:29
in
1:00:29
my
1:00:29
career
1:00:30
that
1:00:30
would
1:00:30
have
1:00:30
gone
1:00:30
differently
1:00:31
if
1:00:31
I.
1:00:31
If
1:00:31
I
1:00:32
chose
1:00:32
that.
1:00:33
But
1:00:33
I
1:00:33
chose
1:00:33
my
1:00:33
family,
1:00:34
and
1:00:34
that
1:00:34
was
1:00:34
right
1:00:35
for
1:00:35
me.
1:00:36
And.
1:00:37
And.
1:00:37
And
1:00:38
I
1:00:38
definitely
1:00:39
put
1:00:39
me
1:00:40
where
1:00:40
I
1:00:40
am
1:00:40
today,
1:00:41
and
1:00:41
I'm
1:00:41
happy.
1:00:42
So
1:00:42
if
1:00:43
I'm
1:00:43
happy,
1:00:43
then
1:00:44
I
1:00:44
must
1:00:44
have
1:00:44
made
1:00:44
the
1:00:45
right
1:00:45
decision,
1:00:45
even
1:00:46
if
1:00:46
other
1:00:46
things
1:00:47
did
1:00:48
not
1:00:49
go
1:00:49
the
1:00:49
way
1:00:50
maybe
1:00:50
they
1:00:51
would
1:00:51
have
1:00:51
gone,
1:00:52
but
1:00:52
who
1:00:53
knows
1:00:53
if
1:00:53
they
1:00:53
would
1:00:53
have
1:00:54
gone
1:00:54
that
1:00:54
way.
1:00:54
You
1:00:55
don't
1:00:55
know.
1:00:55
Yeah.
1:00:56
You
1:00:56
don't
1:00:57
now.
1:00:57
Right.
1:00:58
And
1:00:58
so
1:01:00
I
1:01:00
think
1:01:00
all
1:01:00
we
1:01:00
have
1:01:01
is,
1:01:01
like,
1:01:01
instinct
1:01:02
right
1:01:03
about
1:01:03
it,
1:01:03
and
1:01:03
we
1:01:04
have
1:01:04
to
1:01:04
support
1:01:04
ourselves
1:01:05
in
1:01:05
that.
1:01:05
I
1:01:05
think
1:01:06
sometimes,
1:01:06
if
1:01:06
there's
1:01:06
anything
1:01:07
that
1:01:07
I
1:01:07
might
1:01:07
get
1:01:08
down
1:01:08
about
1:01:09
is
1:01:09
this
1:01:09
idea
1:01:10
of
1:01:10
going,
1:01:10
oh,
1:01:10
my
1:01:11
gosh,
1:01:11
I
1:01:11
got
1:01:11
to
1:01:11
this
1:01:12
place
1:01:12
and
1:01:12
this
1:01:13
time
1:01:13
passed.
1:01:14
And,
1:01:14
you
1:01:15
know,
1:01:15
as
1:01:15
you
1:01:15
said,
1:01:15
you're.
1:01:16
You're
1:01:16
working
1:01:16
towards
1:01:17
it,
1:01:17
you're
1:01:17
climbing
1:01:17
at
1:01:17
it,
1:01:18
and
1:01:18
then
1:01:18
you.
1:01:19
You're
1:01:19
here
1:01:20
and
1:01:20
you're
1:01:20
looking
1:01:20
around
1:01:21
going,
1:01:21
wait,
1:01:21
how
1:01:21
did
1:01:21
I
1:01:21
get
1:01:21
here?
1:01:23
What
1:01:23
choices
1:01:23
did
1:01:23
I
1:01:24
make
1:01:24
to
1:01:24
get
1:01:24
here?
1:01:25
And
1:01:25
I
1:01:25
think
1:01:25
just
1:01:26
reconnecting
1:01:27
to
1:01:27
how
1:01:28
do
1:01:28
I
1:01:28
feel
1:01:28
right
1:01:28
now,
1:01:30
where
1:01:30
I'm
1:01:30
at.
1:01:31
If
1:01:31
you
1:01:31
look
1:01:32
at
1:01:32
the
1:01:32
pie
1:01:32
of
1:01:32
your
1:01:33
life
1:01:33
and
1:01:33
the
1:01:33
little
1:01:34
sections
1:01:34
that
1:01:35
you.
1:01:35
That
1:01:35
you
1:01:35
want,
1:01:36
whether
1:01:36
it's
1:01:36
your
1:01:36
family
1:01:37
or
1:01:37
your
1:01:37
children
1:01:38
or
1:01:38
your
1:01:38
career
1:01:39
or
1:01:39
your
1:01:40
wellbeing,
1:01:40
whatever
1:01:41
things
1:01:41
matter
1:01:41
to
1:01:41
you.
1:01:42
I
1:01:42
think
1:01:42
it's
1:01:42
just
1:01:43
looking
1:01:43
at
1:01:43
those
1:01:43
things
1:01:43
and
1:01:44
making
1:01:44
sure
1:01:44
that
1:01:44
they're.
1:01:45
That
1:01:45
they're
1:01:46
all
1:01:46
in
1:01:46
alignment
1:01:47
and
1:01:48
so
1:01:48
we're
1:01:48
all
1:01:48
different.
1:01:49
What
1:01:50
matters
1:01:50
to
1:01:51
you
1:01:52
might
1:01:52
not
1:01:52
exactly
1:01:53
matter
1:01:53
to
1:01:53
me
1:01:53
entirely.
1:01:54
And.
1:01:56
And
1:01:56
so,
1:01:56
I
1:01:56
don't
1:01:57
know.
1:01:57
I
1:01:57
think
1:01:57
that
1:01:57
for
1:01:58
me,
1:01:58
it's
1:01:58
been
1:01:58
a
1:01:58
lot
1:01:59
of
1:01:59
that.
1:01:59
This
1:01:59
year
1:01:59
has
1:02:00
been
1:02:00
a
1:02:01
very
1:02:01
big
1:02:01
year.
1:02:02
And
1:02:02
my
1:02:02
personal
1:02:03
growth
1:02:04
of
1:02:05
accepting
1:02:05
where
1:02:06
I'm
1:02:06
at
1:02:06
and
1:02:07
just
1:02:07
honoring
1:02:08
it
1:02:08
and
1:02:08
having
1:02:08
a
1:02:08
really
1:02:09
good
1:02:09
time
1:02:09
creating
1:02:10
within
1:02:10
it,
1:02:11
wherever
1:02:11
that
1:02:11
takes
1:02:11
me,
1:02:12
if
1:02:12
that
1:02:12
takes
1:02:12
me
1:02:12
to
1:02:12
real
1:02:13
life,
1:02:13
co
1:02:13
fantastic
1:02:14
if
1:02:14
I
1:02:14
get
1:02:15
to
1:02:15
go
1:02:15
and
1:02:15
do
1:02:15
a
1:02:15
show,
1:02:15
because
1:02:16
it
1:02:16
fits
1:02:16
in
1:02:16
great.
1:02:17
Like.
1:02:17
Like
1:02:17
I'm
1:02:18
saying
1:02:18
yes
1:02:18
to
1:02:18
the
1:02:18
things
1:02:19
that.
1:02:20
That
1:02:20
turn
1:02:20
me
1:02:21
on.
1:02:21
And
1:02:21
I
1:02:21
feel
1:02:22
kind
1:02:22
of
1:02:22
like,
1:02:22
okay,
1:02:23
and
1:02:23
I'm
1:02:23
really
1:02:23
lucky
1:02:24
that
1:02:24
I
1:02:24
am
1:02:24
in
1:02:24
a
1:02:25
position
1:02:25
to
1:02:25
be
1:02:25
able
1:02:25
to
1:02:26
do
1:02:26
that.
1:02:26
Yeah,
1:02:27
that
1:02:27
is
1:02:27
a
1:02:27
great
1:02:27
way
1:02:28
of
1:02:28
looking
1:02:28
at
1:02:28
it.
1:02:28
Yes.
1:02:29
It
1:02:30
really
1:02:30
frames
1:02:30
it.
1:02:31
Yeah,
1:02:32
absolutely.
1:02:33
Absolutely.
1:02:34
You
1:02:34
know,
1:02:34
and
1:02:34
it,
1:02:35
like
1:02:35
you're
1:02:35
saying,
1:02:35
it's
1:02:35
like
1:02:36
a
1:02:36
series
1:02:36
of
1:02:37
decisions
1:02:37
that
1:02:38
we
1:02:38
make
1:02:38
in
1:02:38
our
1:02:38
life,
1:02:38
and
1:02:39
sometimes
1:02:39
we
1:02:39
look
1:02:39
around
1:02:40
and
1:02:40
we're
1:02:40
like,
1:02:41
what's
1:02:41
going
1:02:41
on?
1:02:42
Like,
1:02:42
how
1:02:42
did
1:02:42
we
1:02:42
get
1:02:42
here?
1:02:42
But
1:02:43
ultimately,
1:02:44
I
1:02:44
honestly
1:02:45
think,
1:02:45
like.
1:02:45
Like,
1:02:45
we
1:02:46
are
1:02:46
where
1:02:47
we're
1:02:47
supposed
1:02:47
to
1:02:47
be.
1:02:48
You
1:02:48
know,
1:02:48
like,
1:02:48
this
1:02:48
is
1:02:49
where
1:02:49
we're
1:02:50
supposed
1:02:50
to
1:02:50
be.
1:02:50
And
1:02:51
I
1:02:51
look
1:02:51
around
1:02:51
too,
1:02:52
when
1:02:52
I,
1:02:52
you
1:02:53
know,
1:02:53
see
1:02:53
people
1:02:54
I've
1:02:54
worked
1:02:54
with
1:02:55
or,
1:02:55
you
1:02:55
know,
1:02:55
that
1:02:55
have
1:02:56
come
1:02:56
up
1:02:56
in
1:02:56
different
1:02:56
ways,
1:02:57
and
1:02:57
maybe
1:02:58
they
1:02:59
had
1:02:59
something
1:02:59
that
1:02:59
I
1:02:59
had
1:03:00
wanted
1:03:00
or,
1:03:00
you
1:03:01
know,
1:03:01
like,
1:03:01
they
1:03:01
did
1:03:02
a
1:03:02
job
1:03:02
and.
1:03:02
And
1:03:02
this
1:03:03
and
1:03:03
that.
1:03:03
But
1:03:04
honestly,
1:03:04
like,
1:03:05
are
1:03:05
they
1:03:05
that
1:03:05
much
1:03:05
happier?
1:03:06
Yeah.
1:03:08
So
1:03:08
I
1:03:08
think,
1:03:08
like,
1:03:08
that.
1:03:09
Because
1:03:09
comparison
1:03:10
can
1:03:10
get
1:03:11
in
1:03:11
the
1:03:11
way
1:03:11
of
1:03:11
things,
1:03:12
but
1:03:12
I
1:03:12
try
1:03:12
to,
1:03:12
like.
1:03:13
Like,
1:03:13
frame
1:03:14
it
1:03:14
that
1:03:14
way
1:03:14
and
1:03:14
just
1:03:15
remind
1:03:15
myself
1:03:16
that
1:03:16
we
1:03:16
have
1:03:17
no
1:03:17
idea
1:03:17
what's
1:03:17
going
1:03:17
on
1:03:18
behind,
1:03:18
like,
1:03:19
you
1:03:19
know,
1:03:19
their
1:03:19
closed
1:03:20
doors.
1:03:20
Or
1:03:20
no,
1:03:21
you
1:03:21
don't.
1:03:21
I,
1:03:22
no.
1:03:22
And
1:03:22
I,
1:03:22
I
1:03:23
used
1:03:23
to
1:03:23
say
1:03:23
when
1:03:24
my,
1:03:24
when
1:03:24
I
1:03:24
remember
1:03:25
when
1:03:25
my
1:03:25
daughter
1:03:25
would
1:03:26
like
1:03:26
go
1:03:26
to
1:03:26
somebody's
1:03:27
house
1:03:27
and
1:03:27
they
1:03:28
would
1:03:28
have
1:03:28
a
1:03:28
bigger
1:03:28
house
1:03:28
so
1:03:29
they'd
1:03:29
have
1:03:29
more
1:03:29
stuff
1:03:29
or
1:03:30
they
1:03:30
would.
1:03:30
Whatever
1:03:31
she
1:03:31
perceived.
1:03:32
And
1:03:32
I
1:03:32
remember
1:03:33
she
1:03:33
would
1:03:33
be
1:03:33
like,
1:03:33
I
1:03:33
want
1:03:34
that.
1:03:34
I
1:03:34
want
1:03:34
one
1:03:35
day,
1:03:35
I
1:03:35
want
1:03:35
to
1:03:35
have
1:03:35
these.
1:03:35
And
1:03:36
I
1:03:36
would
1:03:36
just
1:03:36
look
1:03:36
at
1:03:36
her
1:03:36
and
1:03:36
say,
1:03:36
you
1:03:37
know,
1:03:37
honey,
1:03:37
that
1:03:37
doesn't
1:03:38
mean
1:03:38
you'd
1:03:39
be
1:03:39
happy.
1:03:40
Like,
1:03:40
like
1:03:41
stuff
1:03:41
doesn't
1:03:42
make
1:03:42
us
1:03:42
happy.
1:03:43
We
1:03:44
inside
1:03:45
have
1:03:45
to
1:03:45
be
1:03:45
happy.
1:03:46
If
1:03:46
we're
1:03:46
happy,
1:03:47
you
1:03:47
can
1:03:47
put
1:03:47
us
1:03:48
anywhere
1:03:49
and
1:03:49
we're
1:03:49
going
1:03:49
to
1:03:50
find
1:03:50
some
1:03:50
kind
1:03:51
of
1:03:51
peace
1:03:51
and
1:03:51
joy
1:03:52
with
1:03:52
that
1:03:52
no
1:03:52
matter
1:03:52
what
1:03:52
we
1:03:53
have.
1:03:53
And
1:03:54
I
1:03:54
think
1:03:54
that,
1:03:55
I
1:03:55
think
1:03:56
that
1:03:56
that's
1:03:56
definitely
1:03:56
something
1:03:57
that
1:03:57
I've
1:03:57
learned
1:03:57
is
1:03:58
like
1:03:58
that
1:03:58
people
1:03:58
that
1:03:59
you
1:03:59
perceive
1:04:01
have
1:04:01
certain
1:04:02
things.
1:04:02
You
1:04:02
have
1:04:02
no
1:04:03
idea.
1:04:03
And
1:04:03
I
1:04:04
definitely
1:04:04
think
1:04:04
that
1:04:04
social
1:04:05
media
1:04:05
is
1:04:05
totally
1:04:06
full
1:04:06
of
1:04:06
crap
1:04:06
because
1:04:06
that's,
1:04:07
that's
1:04:07
not,
1:04:08
that's
1:04:08
not
1:04:09
real.
1:04:10
Like,
1:04:10
like
1:04:11
our
1:04:11
perception
1:04:12
of
1:04:12
how
1:04:12
somebody
1:04:13
presents
1:04:13
or
1:04:13
whatever
1:04:14
is
1:04:14
not
1:04:14
actually
1:04:15
what's
1:04:15
going
1:04:15
on
1:04:15
inside
1:04:16
of
1:04:16
them.
1:04:17
You
1:04:17
know,
1:04:17
I
1:04:17
see
1:04:17
so
1:04:18
many
1:04:18
people
1:04:18
that
1:04:18
I
1:04:19
know
1:04:19
that
1:04:19
their
1:04:19
lives
1:04:19
are
1:04:19
a
1:04:20
total
1:04:20
disaster.
1:04:21
Their
1:04:21
children
1:04:22
hate
1:04:22
them,
1:04:23
their
1:04:23
marriages
1:04:24
are
1:04:24
awful,
1:04:24
the
1:04:24
relationships
1:04:25
suck.
1:04:25
And
1:04:26
then
1:04:26
you
1:04:26
see
1:04:26
them
1:04:27
on
1:04:27
social
1:04:28
and
1:04:28
you
1:04:28
think
1:04:28
that
1:04:28
they
1:04:28
have
1:04:29
the
1:04:29
most
1:04:29
glorious
1:04:30
life
1:04:30
in
1:04:30
the
1:04:30
world.
1:04:31
And
1:04:33
okay,
1:04:34
like
1:04:35
that
1:04:36
makes
1:04:36
you
1:04:36
happy
1:04:36
to
1:04:36
do,
1:04:37
but
1:04:37
like,
1:04:38
you
1:04:38
know,
1:04:38
it's
1:04:39
not
1:04:39
truth.
1:04:41
So
1:04:41
the
1:04:42
only
1:04:42
truth
1:04:42
we
1:04:43
have
1:04:43
is
1:04:43
the
1:04:43
one
1:04:44
in
1:04:44
our
1:04:44
heart.
1:04:44
And
1:04:45
so
1:04:45
we
1:04:45
have
1:04:45
to,
1:04:46
you
1:04:46
know,
1:04:46
when
1:04:47
we're
1:04:47
at
1:04:47
this
1:04:47
age,
1:04:48
I
1:04:48
think
1:04:48
look
1:04:49
at
1:04:49
us
1:04:49
in
1:04:50
20
1:04:50
years
1:04:50
and
1:04:50
25
1:04:51
years
1:04:51
and
1:04:51
sort
1:04:52
of
1:04:52
go,
1:04:52
what
1:04:52
kind
1:04:52
of
1:04:52
things
1:04:53
in
1:04:53
that
1:04:53
pie
1:04:54
mattered?
1:04:55
Right?
1:04:56
What
1:04:56
mattered?
1:04:57
And
1:04:58
hopeful.
1:04:59
Hopefully
1:04:59
we've
1:05:00
knocked
1:05:00
off
1:05:00
some
1:05:00
things
1:05:00
that
1:05:01
like,
1:05:01
you
1:05:02
know,
1:05:02
that
1:05:03
we're
1:05:03
proud
1:05:03
of.
1:05:04
I
1:05:04
guess.
1:05:04
Yes.
1:05:04
I
1:05:05
don't,
1:05:05
I
1:05:05
don't
1:05:05
know.
1:05:06
I
1:05:07
hope
1:05:07
you
1:05:08
know,
1:05:08
less
1:05:09
of
1:05:09
the
1:05:09
things
1:05:09
we're
1:05:09
not
1:05:10
proud
1:05:10
of
1:05:10
and
1:05:10
things,
1:05:11
some
1:05:11
things
1:05:11
that
1:05:11
we
1:05:11
are
1:05:12
really
1:05:12
proud
1:05:12
of,
1:05:13
I
1:05:13
don't
1:05:13
know
1:05:14
totally
1:05:14
well.
1:05:15
And
1:05:15
what's
1:05:15
so
1:05:15
exciting
1:05:15
is
1:05:16
we
1:05:16
still
1:05:16
have
1:05:16
more
1:05:16
to
1:05:17
go.
1:05:17
I
1:05:17
mean
1:05:17
they're
1:05:17
just
1:05:18
because
1:05:18
we're
1:05:18
in
1:05:18
midlife,
1:05:19
you
1:05:19
know,
1:05:19
I
1:05:19
mean,
1:05:20
we
1:05:20
can
1:05:20
keep
1:05:20
going,
1:05:21
which
1:05:21
is
1:05:21
amazing.
1:05:22
Well,
1:05:23
we
1:05:23
hope
1:05:23
so.
1:05:23
Listen,
1:05:24
I
1:05:24
have
1:05:24
a
1:05:24
lot
1:05:24
of
1:05:24
friends
1:05:25
that
1:05:25
we're
1:05:25
reaching
1:05:25
an
1:05:25
age
1:05:26
where
1:05:26
people
1:05:26
are
1:05:26
going
1:05:26
through
1:05:26
a
1:05:27
lot
1:05:27
of
1:05:27
very
1:05:27
difficult
1:05:27
things,
1:05:28
health
1:05:28
wise
1:05:28
and
1:05:29
so
1:05:29
forth.
1:05:29
And
1:05:30
when
1:05:30
that
1:05:30
starts
1:05:30
to
1:05:30
happen,
1:05:31
I
1:05:31
think
1:05:31
you
1:05:32
also
1:05:32
take
1:05:32
things
1:05:32
into
1:05:32
perspective
1:05:33
of
1:05:33
like,
1:05:34
you
1:05:34
know,
1:05:35
enjoy
1:05:35
it,
1:05:35
enjoy
1:05:36
life.
1:05:36
I
1:05:37
tell
1:05:37
my
1:05:37
kids
1:05:37
all
1:05:37
the
1:05:37
time
1:05:38
to
1:05:38
just
1:05:38
enjoy
1:05:39
this
1:05:39
moment
1:05:39
right
1:05:40
now.
1:05:40
This
1:05:41
moment
1:05:41
right
1:05:41
now.
1:05:41
You're
1:05:41
never
1:05:42
going
1:05:42
to
1:05:42
be
1:05:42
in
1:05:42
the
1:05:42
same
1:05:42
moment
1:05:43
again.
1:05:43
You're
1:05:43
never
1:05:44
going
1:05:44
to
1:05:44
be
1:05:44
a
1:05:45
sophomore
1:05:45
in
1:05:45
college.
1:05:46
You're
1:05:46
never
1:05:46
going
1:05:46
to
1:05:47
be
1:05:47
that.
1:05:47
And,
1:05:47
like,
1:05:48
I
1:05:48
wish
1:05:48
someone
1:05:49
had
1:05:49
kind
1:05:49
of
1:05:49
really
1:05:50
helped
1:05:50
me
1:05:50
understand
1:05:51
that
1:05:51
more,
1:05:52
because
1:05:53
when
1:05:53
we're
1:05:53
young,
1:05:54
we're
1:05:54
kind
1:05:54
of
1:05:54
like,
1:05:54
racing
1:05:55
through
1:05:55
it
1:05:55
all,
1:05:56
which
1:05:56
is
1:05:56
what
1:05:56
we're
1:05:56
supposed
1:05:57
to
1:05:57
do.
1:05:57
And
1:05:57
we're
1:05:57
like,
1:05:58
yeah,
1:05:58
like,
1:05:58
you're
1:05:58
indestructible.
1:05:59
But
1:06:00
then,
1:06:00
you
1:06:01
know,
1:06:01
it
1:06:01
begins
1:06:02
to
1:06:02
slow
1:06:02
down,
1:06:03
as
1:06:03
it
1:06:03
should.
1:06:03
Good.
1:06:04
You
1:06:04
know,
1:06:05
I.
1:06:05
I
1:06:05
personally
1:06:06
have
1:06:06
a
1:06:06
very,
1:06:07
like,
1:06:07
European
1:06:08
approach
1:06:09
to
1:06:09
aging,
1:06:10
which
1:06:10
is
1:06:11
just
1:06:11
a
1:06:11
quality
1:06:12
of
1:06:12
life.
1:06:13
And
1:06:13
the
1:06:13
quality
1:06:14
of
1:06:14
life
1:06:14
embodies
1:06:15
everything.
1:06:15
It's
1:06:15
from
1:06:16
how
1:06:16
you
1:06:16
feel
1:06:16
about
1:06:16
yourself,
1:06:17
which
1:06:17
is,
1:06:18
you
1:06:18
know,
1:06:19
want
1:06:19
to
1:06:19
cut
1:06:19
your
1:06:20
own
1:06:20
hair,
1:06:20
you
1:06:20
want
1:06:21
to
1:06:21
do
1:06:21
your
1:06:21
skin,
1:06:21
like,
1:06:21
how
1:06:22
you
1:06:22
want
1:06:22
to
1:06:22
dress,
1:06:22
how
1:06:22
you
1:06:22
want
1:06:23
to
1:06:23
feel
1:06:23
in
1:06:23
your
1:06:23
own
1:06:23
body
1:06:24
and
1:06:24
your
1:06:24
mind
1:06:24
and
1:06:25
your
1:06:25
soul,
1:06:26
but
1:06:26
also,
1:06:26
like,
1:06:26
how
1:06:27
you
1:06:27
want
1:06:27
to
1:06:27
live.
1:06:28
And
1:06:28
I
1:06:28
think
1:06:29
that
1:06:29
they
1:06:29
have
1:06:29
just
1:06:29
a
1:06:30
much
1:06:30
more
1:06:31
like,
1:06:31
positive
1:06:32
approach
1:06:32
to
1:06:33
aging.
1:06:33
You
1:06:34
know,
1:06:34
there
1:06:34
is
1:06:34
a
1:06:34
respect
1:06:35
in
1:06:35
society
1:06:36
to
1:06:36
elders.
1:06:36
There's
1:06:37
a
1:06:37
respect
1:06:37
to
1:06:38
people
1:06:38
that
1:06:38
have
1:06:38
reached
1:06:38
a
1:06:39
certain
1:06:39
age.
1:06:39
You
1:06:39
don't
1:06:39
look
1:06:40
at
1:06:40
people
1:06:40
in
1:06:40
their
1:06:41
40s
1:06:41
and
1:06:41
50s,
1:06:41
and
1:06:42
certainly
1:06:42
you
1:06:42
look
1:06:42
at
1:06:42
them
1:06:42
and
1:06:43
sort
1:06:43
of
1:06:43
go,
1:06:43
wow.
1:06:43
Like,
1:06:43
they're
1:06:44
like.
1:06:44
They've
1:06:45
got,
1:06:46
you
1:06:46
know,
1:06:46
they've
1:06:47
got
1:06:47
more
1:06:47
confidence.
1:06:48
They've
1:06:48
got
1:06:48
more
1:06:49
experience.
1:06:49
They
1:06:50
know
1:06:50
what's
1:06:50
up.
1:06:50
There's
1:06:51
just
1:06:51
a
1:06:51
different
1:06:51
way.
1:06:53
And
1:06:53
I
1:06:53
think
1:06:54
that.
1:06:55
I
1:06:55
think
1:06:55
sometimes
1:06:56
we
1:06:56
get
1:06:56
caught
1:06:56
up,
1:06:56
particularly
1:06:57
in
1:06:57
entertainment
1:06:58
or
1:06:58
socials,
1:06:58
whatever,
1:06:59
with
1:06:59
this
1:06:59
idea
1:07:00
of
1:07:00
youth.
1:07:01
Youth
1:07:01
is
1:07:01
beautiful,
1:07:03
but
1:07:03
it's
1:07:03
just
1:07:03
as
1:07:03
beautiful
1:07:04
as
1:07:04
other
1:07:04
stages
1:07:04
of
1:07:05
our
1:07:05
life.
1:07:06
And
1:07:06
so
1:07:07
the
1:07:07
hard
1:07:07
part
1:07:08
about
1:07:08
aging
1:07:08
is
1:07:08
accepted
1:07:09
where
1:07:09
we're
1:07:09
at.
1:07:10
But
1:07:10
the
1:07:10
easy
1:07:10
part
1:07:11
is
1:07:11
if
1:07:11
you
1:07:11
can
1:07:11
literally
1:07:12
look
1:07:12
at
1:07:12
and
1:07:12
go,
1:07:13
it's
1:07:13
beautiful.
1:07:14
Like,
1:07:15
it's.
1:07:15
It's
1:07:15
a
1:07:15
beautiful
1:07:16
time.
1:07:16
It's
1:07:17
just
1:07:17
as
1:07:17
beautiful
1:07:17
as
1:07:18
when
1:07:18
I
1:07:18
was
1:07:18
22
1:07:19
and
1:07:19
didn't
1:07:19
know,
1:07:20
you
1:07:20
know,
1:07:21
running
1:07:21
around
1:07:21
the
1:07:22
chicken
1:07:22
with
1:07:22
my
1:07:22
head
1:07:22
cut
1:07:22
off,
1:07:23
not
1:07:23
knowing,
1:07:23
do
1:07:24
I
1:07:24
want
1:07:24
to
1:07:24
be
1:07:24
an
1:07:24
actor?
1:07:24
Do
1:07:25
I
1:07:25
not?
1:07:25
I
1:07:25
had,
1:07:25
like,
1:07:25
clothes
1:07:25
in
1:07:26
my
1:07:26
back.
1:07:26
Yeah,
1:07:26
I'm
1:07:26
in
1:07:26
my
1:07:27
trunk.
1:07:27
And
1:07:27
I'm
1:07:27
auditioning
1:07:28
for
1:07:28
things,
1:07:28
and
1:07:28
I'm,
1:07:29
you
1:07:29
know,
1:07:29
trying
1:07:29
to
1:07:30
make
1:07:30
pay
1:07:30
off
1:07:30
my
1:07:31
student
1:07:31
loans.
1:07:31
And.
1:07:32
And
1:07:32
I
1:07:33
mean,
1:07:33
it's
1:07:33
like,
1:07:33
in
1:07:34
between
1:07:34
boyfriends.
1:07:35
I
1:07:35
mean,
1:07:35
you
1:07:35
don't
1:07:35
know
1:07:36
anything
1:07:36
about
1:07:37
yourself,
1:07:37
like,
1:07:38
at
1:07:38
all.
1:07:39
So
1:07:40
it's
1:07:41
both.
1:07:41
They're
1:07:41
both
1:07:41
beautiful.
1:07:42
They're
1:07:43
both
1:07:43
beautiful.
1:07:44
What
1:07:44
advice
1:07:44
would
1:07:44
you
1:07:45
give
1:07:45
to
1:07:45
that
1:07:45
young
1:07:46
Sasha,
1:07:46
the
1:07:47
USC
1:07:47
Sasha?
1:07:48
You
1:07:49
know,
1:07:49
I
1:07:49
just
1:07:49
said
1:07:50
this
1:07:50
to
1:07:50
Eduardo.
1:07:51
Frankly,
1:07:51
I
1:07:52
actually
1:07:52
had
1:07:52
the
1:07:52
greatest
1:07:53
time
1:07:53
ever
1:07:54
of
1:07:54
my
1:07:54
life
1:07:55
at
1:07:55
that
1:07:55
time.
1:07:55
And
1:07:56
there's
1:07:56
nothing
1:07:56
That
1:07:56
I
1:07:56
would
1:07:57
do
1:07:57
differently,
1:07:58
like,
1:07:58
at
1:07:58
all.
1:07:58
Like,
1:07:58
I
1:07:59
actually.
1:07:59
If
1:08:00
there
1:08:00
was
1:08:00
anything,
1:08:01
it
1:08:01
would
1:08:01
just
1:08:01
be
1:08:01
maybe
1:08:02
leaning
1:08:02
into.
1:08:04
And
1:08:04
this
1:08:04
sounds
1:08:05
so
1:08:05
nerdy,
1:08:05
but
1:08:06
it's
1:08:06
just
1:08:06
true.
1:08:07
I
1:08:07
think
1:08:08
I
1:08:08
would
1:08:08
have.
1:08:08
But
1:08:08
I
1:08:09
did.
1:08:09
I
1:08:10
think
1:08:10
I
1:08:10
would
1:08:10
have
1:08:10
just.
1:08:11
Instead
1:08:12
of,
1:08:12
like,
1:08:12
you
1:08:12
know,
1:08:13
I
1:08:13
was
1:08:13
very
1:08:13
social,
1:08:14
I
1:08:14
would
1:08:15
have
1:08:15
maybe
1:08:15
wanted
1:08:16
to
1:08:16
just
1:08:16
learn,
1:08:17
like,
1:08:17
lean
1:08:17
into
1:08:17
some
1:08:18
learning
1:08:18
stuff
1:08:19
more.
1:08:19
Like,
1:08:19
I
1:08:19
would.
1:08:19
And
1:08:19
that
1:08:20
means
1:08:20
maybe
1:08:20
I
1:08:20
would
1:08:20
have,
1:08:21
like,
1:08:21
gotten
1:08:21
my
1:08:22
master's
1:08:22
degree
1:08:22
or
1:08:22
something.
1:08:23
I
1:08:23
would
1:08:23
have,
1:08:24
like,
1:08:24
took
1:08:24
to
1:08:24
learn
1:08:24
more
1:08:25
instead
1:08:25
of
1:08:25
jump
1:08:25
right
1:08:26
into
1:08:26
the
1:08:26
workplace
1:08:28
with
1:08:28
this.
1:08:28
Like,
1:08:29
you
1:08:29
know,
1:08:30
I.
1:08:31
I
1:08:32
really
1:08:32
liked
1:08:32
learning.
1:08:33
And
1:08:33
I
1:08:33
feel
1:08:34
like.
1:08:36
You
1:08:36
know,
1:08:36
you're
1:08:37
so
1:08:37
young
1:08:37
and
1:08:37
so
1:08:38
you're
1:08:38
all
1:08:38
into
1:08:38
the
1:08:39
social
1:08:39
and
1:08:39
you're
1:08:39
mixing
1:08:40
that
1:08:40
with
1:08:40
your
1:08:40
learning.
1:08:41
So
1:08:41
it's
1:08:41
a
1:08:41
lot
1:08:41
of
1:08:41
things,
1:08:42
but
1:08:42
I
1:08:42
had
1:08:42
the
1:08:43
best
1:08:43
time
1:08:43
ever.
1:08:44
I
1:08:44
met
1:08:44
great
1:08:44
people.
1:08:45
I
1:08:45
grew.
1:08:46
Like,
1:08:46
I
1:08:47
would
1:08:47
never
1:08:47
take
1:08:48
a
1:08:48
moment
1:08:48
back.
1:08:48
Like,
1:08:49
I
1:08:49
loved
1:08:49
it.
1:08:49
It
1:08:50
so.
1:08:51
But
1:08:51
I
1:08:51
think
1:08:51
in
1:08:51
my
1:08:52
20s,
1:08:52
maybe
1:08:53
after
1:08:53
college,
1:08:53
I
1:08:54
would
1:08:54
say.
1:08:56
Just
1:08:56
continue
1:08:58
to.
1:08:59
To.
1:09:00
Yeah.
1:09:00
Like,
1:09:01
learn
1:09:01
and
1:09:01
be
1:09:01
around
1:09:01
people
1:09:02
who
1:09:02
inspire
1:09:02
you
1:09:03
and.
1:09:04
Which
1:09:05
I
1:09:05
did.
1:09:06
Maybe
1:09:06
I
1:09:06
would
1:09:06
have
1:09:06
just
1:09:07
been
1:09:07
kinder
1:09:07
to
1:09:07
myself
1:09:09
at
1:09:09
that
1:09:09
age
1:09:09
of
1:09:10
just,
1:09:10
like,
1:09:11
like,
1:09:11
loving
1:09:12
yourself
1:09:12
more,
1:09:13
you
1:09:14
know,
1:09:14
I
1:09:14
don't
1:09:14
know
1:09:15
that
1:09:15
I,
1:09:15
like,
1:09:15
ever
1:09:16
really
1:09:16
was
1:09:16
just
1:09:17
like,
1:09:17
like,
1:09:19
like.
1:09:19
I
1:09:19
don't
1:09:20
know.
1:09:20
I
1:09:20
don't
1:09:20
know
1:09:20
that
1:09:20
I
1:09:20
was
1:09:21
ever
1:09:21
taught
1:09:21
to,
1:09:21
like,
1:09:21
love
1:09:22
myself
1:09:23
fully.
1:09:24
That's
1:09:24
something
1:09:25
that
1:09:25
I
1:09:25
had
1:09:25
to
1:09:25
come
1:09:26
to.
1:09:27
Do
1:09:27
you
1:09:27
think
1:09:27
that
1:09:27
that
1:09:28
was
1:09:28
more,
1:09:28
like,
1:09:29
how
1:09:29
you
1:09:29
grew
1:09:29
up
1:09:29
and,
1:09:30
like,
1:09:30
you
1:09:31
as
1:09:31
a
1:09:31
person
1:09:32
versus,
1:09:32
like,
1:09:32
environment,
1:09:33
like,
1:09:33
entertainment
1:09:34
world?
1:09:35
No,
1:09:36
I
1:09:36
think
1:09:36
it
1:09:36
was
1:09:36
how
1:09:36
I
1:09:36
was
1:09:37
raised.
1:09:37
I
1:09:37
just
1:09:37
think
1:09:38
it's
1:09:38
like.
1:09:38
I
1:09:38
do
1:09:39
think
1:09:39
part
1:09:39
of
1:09:39
it
1:09:39
is
1:09:39
your
1:09:39
character
1:09:40
and
1:09:40
part
1:09:40
of
1:09:40
it
1:09:40
is,
1:09:41
like,
1:09:41
how
1:09:41
you're
1:09:41
raised.
1:09:42
Like,
1:09:42
I
1:09:42
do
1:09:42
think
1:09:42
that.
1:09:43
That
1:09:43
as
1:09:43
a
1:09:43
parent,
1:09:44
giving
1:09:45
positive
1:09:45
feedback
1:09:46
in
1:09:46
terms
1:09:46
of,
1:09:47
you
1:09:47
know,
1:09:47
not
1:09:47
telling
1:09:47
your
1:09:48
kid
1:09:48
that
1:09:48
they're
1:09:48
great,
1:09:48
but
1:09:49
telling
1:09:49
your
1:09:49
child
1:09:49
that
1:09:50
they're.
1:09:50
That
1:09:51
they
1:09:51
are
1:09:51
good
1:09:51
at
1:09:52
something,
1:09:52
that
1:09:52
they're.
1:09:52
That
1:09:53
they're.
1:09:53
That
1:09:53
they
1:09:53
are
1:09:54
smart,
1:09:54
that
1:09:55
they,
1:09:55
you
1:09:55
know,
1:09:56
that
1:09:56
they
1:09:56
have
1:09:56
a
1:09:56
value,
1:09:56
they
1:09:57
have
1:09:57
a
1:09:57
skill
1:09:57
or
1:09:58
working
1:09:58
towards
1:09:59
something.
1:09:59
I
1:10:00
just
1:10:00
don't
1:10:00
think
1:10:00
that
1:10:00
my
1:10:01
parents
1:10:01
knew
1:10:01
that
1:10:02
they
1:10:02
weren't
1:10:02
given
1:10:02
that.
1:10:03
And
1:10:03
so
1:10:03
they
1:10:04
didn't.
1:10:04
It's
1:10:05
not
1:10:05
that
1:10:05
I
1:10:05
didn't
1:10:05
have
1:10:05
a
1:10:06
wonderful,
1:10:07
supportive
1:10:07
household,
1:10:08
but
1:10:09
I
1:10:09
don't
1:10:09
think
1:10:09
the
1:10:09
creative
1:10:10
part
1:10:10
of
1:10:10
me
1:10:11
was
1:10:11
nurtured.
1:10:12
None
1:10:13
of
1:10:13
them
1:10:13
did
1:10:13
this.
1:10:14
Even
1:10:14
though
1:10:14
my
1:10:14
mom's,
1:10:15
like,
1:10:15
a
1:10:15
very
1:10:15
creative
1:10:16
person,
1:10:17
they
1:10:17
didn't
1:10:17
do
1:10:18
this.
1:10:18
So
1:10:20
I
1:10:20
don't
1:10:20
know
1:10:20
that
1:10:20
they
1:10:21
knew
1:10:21
that
1:10:21
form
1:10:21
of
1:10:22
expression,
1:10:22
how
1:10:22
important
1:10:23
that
1:10:23
was
1:10:23
to
1:10:24
me
1:10:25
as
1:10:25
a
1:10:25
young
1:10:25
person.
1:10:28
I
1:10:28
don't
1:10:29
know.
1:10:29
And
1:10:29
maybe
1:10:29
Loving
1:10:29
yourself
1:10:30
is
1:10:30
something
1:10:30
that
1:10:30
we
1:10:31
all
1:10:31
need
1:10:31
to
1:10:31
come
1:10:31
to
1:10:32
with
1:10:32
our
1:10:32
own
1:10:32
growth.
1:10:33
I
1:10:34
don't
1:10:34
know.
1:10:34
Yeah,
1:10:35
it's
1:10:35
a
1:10:35
little
1:10:35
bit
1:10:35
of
1:10:36
both.
1:10:36
I
1:10:36
just
1:10:36
see
1:10:37
some
1:10:37
people
1:10:37
and
1:10:37
then
1:10:37
I'm
1:10:38
like,
1:10:38
wow,
1:10:38
they
1:10:38
like,
1:10:38
really
1:10:39
like
1:10:39
themselves.
1:10:40
Like,
1:10:40
they
1:10:41
like,
1:10:41
think
1:10:41
that
1:10:42
they're
1:10:42
like
1:10:42
everything.
1:10:43
And
1:10:43
I
1:10:43
don't
1:10:43
know
1:10:43
if
1:10:43
that's
1:10:44
just
1:10:44
like
1:10:44
a
1:10:45
complete
1:10:45
sense
1:10:46
of
1:10:46
like,
1:10:47
egocentricity
1:10:48
or
1:10:49
what
1:10:49
it
1:10:49
is
1:10:50
or
1:10:52
I,
1:10:53
A
1:10:53
confidence.
1:10:54
I,
1:10:54
I'm
1:10:54
not
1:10:54
sure
1:10:54
where
1:10:55
it
1:10:55
comes
1:10:55
from.
1:10:55
People
1:10:55
like,
1:10:56
kudos
1:10:56
to
1:10:57
them,
1:10:57
but
1:10:57
I
1:10:57
don't
1:10:57
know
1:10:58
that
1:10:58
I,
1:10:58
I
1:10:59
was
1:10:59
a
1:10:59
bit
1:10:59
of
1:10:59
both.
1:10:59
Like,
1:11:00
on
1:11:00
one
1:11:00
hand,
1:11:00
I'm
1:11:01
a
1:11:01
total
1:11:01
risk
1:11:01
taker.
1:11:03
I
1:11:03
have
1:11:03
confidence
1:11:03
in
1:11:04
my
1:11:04
choices
1:11:04
is.
1:11:05
I
1:11:05
believe
1:11:06
my
1:11:07
instincts.
1:11:07
I
1:11:07
believe
1:11:08
in
1:11:08
my
1:11:08
instincts.
1:11:09
But
1:11:09
then
1:11:10
in
1:11:10
another
1:11:10
hand,
1:11:11
I
1:11:11
definitely
1:11:11
think
1:11:12
I,
1:11:12
I
1:11:13
could
1:11:13
have
1:11:13
leaned
1:11:13
in
1:11:14
more.
1:11:15
That's
1:11:15
a
1:11:15
good
1:11:15
point.
1:11:16
So
1:11:16
it's
1:11:16
a
1:11:16
little
1:11:16
bit
1:11:16
of
1:11:16
both.
1:11:17
It's
1:11:18
just
1:11:18
varying
1:11:18
degrees
1:11:19
of
1:11:19
people.
1:11:19
Right.
1:11:20
So
1:11:20
it's,
1:11:20
it's.
1:11:21
But
1:11:21
it's
1:11:21
interesting
1:11:22
to
1:11:22
have
1:11:22
all
1:11:23
of
1:11:23
these
1:11:23
people
1:11:23
around
1:11:24
us
1:11:24
because
1:11:24
I
1:11:25
do
1:11:25
think
1:11:25
they
1:11:25
make
1:11:25
us
1:11:25
grow,
1:11:26
you
1:11:26
know,
1:11:27
they
1:11:27
really
1:11:27
do.
1:11:28
A
1:11:28
hundred
1:11:28
percent,
1:11:29
right?
1:11:30
One
1:11:30
hundred
1:11:30
percent.
1:11:31
Yeah.
1:11:31
Yeah.
1:11:31
How
1:11:32
are
1:11:32
you
1:11:32
living
1:11:33
iconically
1:11:33
right
1:11:34
now,
1:11:34
Ms.
1:11:34
Sasha?
1:11:35
You
1:11:36
know,
1:11:36
you
1:11:36
know,
1:11:36
what
1:11:36
feels
1:11:37
iconic
1:11:37
to
1:11:37
me
1:11:38
is
1:11:38
maybe
1:11:38
just
1:11:39
that
1:11:39
this
1:11:39
year
1:11:39
has
1:11:39
been
1:11:40
a
1:11:40
lot
1:11:40
of
1:11:40
travel
1:11:40
and
1:11:41
new
1:11:41
experiences.
1:11:42
And
1:11:43
so,
1:11:43
like,
1:11:43
I've
1:11:43
always
1:11:43
loved
1:11:44
to
1:11:44
travel
1:11:44
and
1:11:44
I
1:11:44
always
1:11:45
love,
1:11:45
like,
1:11:45
doing
1:11:45
things
1:11:46
that
1:11:46
I,
1:11:46
you
1:11:47
know,
1:11:47
have
1:11:47
never
1:11:47
done
1:11:48
before.
1:11:48
And
1:11:48
I
1:11:48
think
1:11:49
that
1:11:49
I
1:11:50
said
1:11:50
yes
1:11:50
to
1:11:50
some
1:11:50
trips
1:11:51
this
1:11:51
year
1:11:52
that
1:11:53
felt
1:11:53
iconic
1:11:54
to
1:11:54
me.
1:11:54
Like
1:11:55
going
1:11:55
to
1:11:55
France
1:11:55
with
1:11:56
a
1:11:56
bunch
1:11:56
of
1:11:56
women
1:11:56
or
1:11:56
I
1:11:57
went
1:11:57
to
1:11:57
Normandy
1:11:57
on
1:11:57
this
1:11:58
trip
1:11:59
felt
1:11:59
iconic
1:11:59
to
1:12:00
me.
1:12:00
Going
1:12:00
to
1:12:00
Italy
1:12:01
for
1:12:01
literally
1:12:02
48
1:12:02
hours
1:12:02
to
1:12:03
meet
1:12:03
this
1:12:04
famous
1:12:04
pizza
1:12:05
chef
1:12:05
with
1:12:05
Eduardo
1:12:06
and
1:12:06
eat
1:12:06
at
1:12:06
his
1:12:07
restaurant
1:12:07
and
1:12:07
whatever,
1:12:08
it
1:12:08
felt
1:12:08
iconic
1:12:09
to
1:12:09
me.
1:12:09
It
1:12:09
felt
1:12:10
like
1:12:10
I
1:12:10
had
1:12:10
graduated
1:12:11
to
1:12:11
a
1:12:11
stage
1:12:11
in
1:12:12
my
1:12:12
life.
1:12:12
Like,
1:12:12
I
1:12:12
don't
1:12:13
think
1:12:13
there's
1:12:13
any
1:12:13
age
1:12:14
for
1:12:14
this.
1:12:14
I
1:12:14
believe
1:12:15
that,
1:12:15
like,
1:12:15
experiences
1:12:16
are
1:12:16
everything.
1:12:17
Say
1:12:17
yes.
1:12:18
If
1:12:18
you
1:12:18
Talk
1:12:18
about
1:12:19
like
1:12:19
20
1:12:20
year
1:12:20
old
1:12:20
Sasha,
1:12:20
I
1:12:21
would
1:12:21
say,
1:12:21
like,
1:12:21
say
1:12:21
yes.
1:12:22
You
1:12:22
get
1:12:22
invited
1:12:22
to
1:12:22
something,
1:12:23
you
1:12:23
just
1:12:23
go,
1:12:23
say
1:12:24
yes.
1:12:24
Say
1:12:24
yes.
1:12:24
Say
1:12:24
yes.
1:12:25
Just
1:12:25
find
1:12:25
a
1:12:26
way.
1:12:26
Don't
1:12:26
get,
1:12:27
don't
1:12:27
get
1:12:27
oppressed
1:12:28
by
1:12:29
this
1:12:29
need
1:12:30
to,
1:12:30
like.
1:12:30
I
1:12:30
feel
1:12:30
like
1:12:31
there's
1:12:31
a
1:12:31
lot
1:12:31
of
1:12:31
kids
1:12:31
now
1:12:32
and
1:12:32
I
1:12:32
see
1:12:32
it
1:12:32
in
1:12:32
my
1:12:33
daughter
1:12:33
and
1:12:33
her
1:12:33
friends.
1:12:34
They're
1:12:34
just
1:12:34
so
1:12:35
driven
1:12:35
to
1:12:36
that
1:12:36
next
1:12:36
step
1:12:37
that
1:12:37
they're
1:12:38
just
1:12:38
like,
1:12:38
be
1:12:38
in
1:12:38
the
1:12:39
moment,
1:12:39
you
1:12:39
know,
1:12:40
And
1:12:40
I
1:12:40
feel
1:12:40
like
1:12:40
I've
1:12:41
graduated
1:12:41
to
1:12:42
a
1:12:42
place
1:12:42
where,
1:12:42
like,
1:12:44
living
1:12:44
iconically
1:12:45
to
1:12:45
me
1:12:45
means,
1:12:46
like,
1:12:46
really
1:12:47
embracing
1:12:47
something
1:12:48
where
1:12:48
you're
1:12:48
at
1:12:49
and
1:12:49
like,
1:12:50
doing
1:12:50
things
1:12:50
that
1:12:51
you
1:12:51
don't
1:12:51
you
1:12:52
wouldn't
1:12:52
have
1:12:52
done
1:12:53
or
1:12:53
said
1:12:53
yes
1:12:53
to.
1:12:54
And
1:12:54
maybe
1:12:54
I
1:12:54
couldn't
1:12:55
before
1:12:55
because
1:12:55
I.
1:12:55
With
1:12:56
work
1:12:56
and
1:12:56
family,
1:12:57
I
1:12:57
couldn't.
1:12:58
But
1:12:58
now
1:12:58
I'm
1:12:58
saying
1:12:58
yes
1:12:59
to
1:12:59
a
1:12:59
lot
1:12:59
more,
1:13:00
and
1:13:00
that
1:13:00
feels
1:13:00
kind
1:13:00
of
1:13:00
iconic
1:13:01
to
1:13:01
me.
1:13:02
Yeah.
1:13:02
Living
1:13:02
in
1:13:02
the
1:13:03
moment,
1:13:03
too.
1:13:03
Oh,
1:13:04
yeah,
1:13:04
for
1:13:04
sure.
1:13:05
For
1:13:06
sure.
1:13:06
We're
1:13:06
not.
1:13:06
And
1:13:06
we.
1:13:07
You
1:13:07
know,
1:13:07
I
1:13:07
feel
1:13:07
like
1:13:08
we
1:13:08
second
1:13:08
guess
1:13:09
ourselves
1:13:09
less
1:13:10
now
1:13:11
than
1:13:11
before,
1:13:12
you
1:13:12
know,
1:13:12
and.
1:13:12
And
1:13:12
the
1:13:13
choice,
1:13:13
like,
1:13:13
it's
1:13:13
a.
1:13:14
It's
1:13:14
more
1:13:14
freeing
1:13:15
being
1:13:15
older
1:13:16
in
1:13:16
a
1:13:16
way.
1:13:17
Oh,
1:13:17
for
1:13:17
sure.
1:13:17
Yeah.
1:13:18
I
1:13:18
would.
1:13:18
I
1:13:18
wouldn't
1:13:19
go
1:13:19
back.
1:13:20
Like,
1:13:20
actually
1:13:21
in
1:13:21
the
1:13:21
weirdest
1:13:22
way.
1:13:22
Like,
1:13:22
I
1:13:22
wouldn't.
1:13:23
You
1:13:23
know,
1:13:24
I
1:13:24
wouldn't
1:13:24
go
1:13:24
back.
1:13:25
I
1:13:25
actually
1:13:25
think
1:13:25
that
1:13:26
that
1:13:26
was
1:13:26
really,
1:13:26
really
1:13:26
great.
1:13:27
But,
1:13:27
like,
1:13:27
I
1:13:28
don't
1:13:28
feel
1:13:28
I.
1:13:29
I
1:13:29
would
1:13:29
only
1:13:29
go
1:13:30
back
1:13:30
if
1:13:30
I.
1:13:30
Knowing
1:13:31
what
1:13:31
I
1:13:31
know
1:13:31
now.
1:13:32
Yeah.
1:13:32
Having
1:13:33
that,
1:13:33
like,
1:13:33
knowledge.
1:13:34
Right.
1:13:34
That
1:13:34
wisdom.
1:13:35
Although
1:13:36
you
1:13:36
did
1:13:36
go
1:13:36
back.
1:13:37
I
1:13:37
saw
1:13:37
you.
1:13:37
You
1:13:37
went
1:13:38
back
1:13:38
to
1:13:38
USC
1:13:38
for
1:13:38
the
1:13:39
reunion.
1:13:39
That
1:13:39
looked
1:13:39
fun.
1:13:40
Oh,
1:13:40
yes,
1:13:41
it
1:13:42
was
1:13:42
fun.
1:13:42
It
1:13:42
was
1:13:42
fun.
1:13:43
There
1:13:43
was.
1:13:43
It
1:13:44
was
1:13:44
really
1:13:44
fun.
1:13:45
The
1:13:46
house.
1:13:46
Yeah.
1:13:46
Everything
1:13:46
looked
1:13:47
great
1:13:47
at
1:13:47
Theta.
1:13:48
It
1:13:48
was
1:13:48
wild.
1:13:48
I
1:13:49
mean,
1:13:49
everybody
1:13:49
was
1:13:49
just
1:13:50
like.
1:13:50
Like,
1:13:50
it
1:13:50
was
1:13:50
like
1:13:51
a
1:13:51
party
1:13:51
central.
1:13:52
So
1:13:52
many
1:13:52
people.
1:13:53
Oh,
1:13:53
my
1:13:53
gosh.
1:13:54
It
1:13:54
was
1:13:54
wild.
1:13:54
I
1:13:55
love
1:13:55
that.
1:13:55
All
1:13:55
the
1:13:56
girls
1:13:56
and
1:13:56
all
1:13:56
the
1:13:56
guys
1:13:56
and,
1:13:57
like,
1:13:57
seeing
1:13:57
people
1:13:57
you
1:13:58
haven't
1:13:58
seen
1:13:58
in
1:13:58
so
1:13:59
long,
1:13:59
that's
1:13:59
always
1:14:00
fun.
1:14:00
I
1:14:00
feel
1:14:00
like
1:14:00
it
1:14:01
was
1:14:01
really
1:14:01
funny.
1:14:01
There
1:14:01
was
1:14:01
a.
1:14:01
There
1:14:02
was
1:14:02
a
1:14:02
girl
1:14:02
that
1:14:02
came
1:14:03
in,
1:14:03
and
1:14:03
she
1:14:03
was
1:14:03
wearing,
1:14:04
like,
1:14:04
this,
1:14:04
like,
1:14:04
bikini
1:14:05
top
1:14:05
that
1:14:05
said,
1:14:06
like,
1:14:06
USC
1:14:07
on
1:14:07
it.
1:14:07
But
1:14:07
it
1:14:07
was
1:14:08
literally.
1:14:08
And
1:14:08
it
1:14:08
was
1:14:08
pouring
1:14:09
rain,
1:14:09
and
1:14:10
most
1:14:10
people
1:14:10
were
1:14:10
in
1:14:11
ponchos
1:14:11
and
1:14:12
whatever,
1:14:12
this
1:14:12
bikini
1:14:13
job.
1:14:13
And
1:14:13
she
1:14:13
walked
1:14:14
in,
1:14:14
and
1:14:14
we
1:14:14
were
1:14:14
in
1:14:15
the
1:14:15
theater
1:14:15
house,
1:14:15
and
1:14:15
there
1:14:15
was.
1:14:17
A
1:14:17
group
1:14:17
of
1:14:18
women.
1:14:18
I
1:14:18
didn't
1:14:18
know
1:14:18
them.
1:14:19
They
1:14:19
were,
1:14:19
like,
1:14:19
10
1:14:19
years
1:14:19
older
1:14:20
than
1:14:20
us.
1:14:21
But
1:14:21
one
1:14:21
of
1:14:21
them
1:14:22
said
1:14:22
to
1:14:22
the
1:14:22
girl,
1:14:22
like,
1:14:23
oh,
1:14:23
my
1:14:23
gosh,
1:14:23
honey.
1:14:23
She
1:14:24
goes,
1:14:24
you
1:14:24
must
1:14:24
be
1:14:24
so
1:14:25
cold.
1:14:26
And
1:14:26
the
1:14:26
other
1:14:26
woman
1:14:26
hit
1:14:27
her,
1:14:27
and
1:14:27
she's
1:14:27
like,
1:14:27
shut
1:14:28
up.
1:14:28
You
1:14:28
sound
1:14:29
so
1:14:29
old
1:14:29
right
1:14:29
now.
1:14:30
Of
1:14:30
course
1:14:30
she's
1:14:30
not
1:14:30
cold.
1:14:31
She
1:14:31
chose
1:14:31
to
1:14:31
wear
1:14:32
that
1:14:32
bikini
1:14:32
top.
1:14:33
Homecoming
1:14:34
in
1:14:34
the
1:14:34
rain.
1:14:35
It
1:14:35
was
1:14:36
so
1:14:36
funny.
1:14:38
That's
1:14:38
hilarious.
1:14:39
Remember,
1:14:39
we'd
1:14:39
freeze
1:14:39
our
1:14:40
asses
1:14:40
off.
1:14:40
We
1:14:40
didn't
1:14:41
give
1:14:41
a.
1:14:41
Yeah.
1:14:41
And
1:14:42
nobody
1:14:42
give
1:14:42
a
1:14:42
shit
1:14:42
like
1:14:43
she
1:14:43
did.
1:14:43
The
1:14:43
girl
1:14:43
looked
1:14:44
at
1:14:44
her
1:14:44
like,
1:14:44
okay,
1:14:45
it
1:14:45
was
1:14:45
really
1:14:46
funny.
1:14:46
But
1:14:47
I
1:14:47
had
1:14:47
a
1:14:47
great
1:14:47
time.
1:14:48
And
1:14:48
again,
1:14:48
it
1:14:49
reminded
1:14:49
me
1:14:49
of
1:14:49
the
1:14:50
power
1:14:50
of
1:14:50
women
1:14:50
and
1:14:50
the
1:14:51
power
1:14:51
of,
1:14:51
like,
1:14:52
being
1:14:52
in
1:14:52
that
1:14:53
stage
1:14:53
in
1:14:53
our
1:14:53
life.
1:14:53
I
1:14:54
was
1:14:54
so
1:14:54
grateful
1:14:54
for
1:14:55
that
1:14:55
experience.
1:14:56
Being
1:14:56
in
1:14:56
a
1:14:56
sorority
1:14:57
was
1:14:57
so
1:14:57
much
1:14:58
fun
1:14:59
and
1:14:59
so
1:14:59
many
1:15:00
great,
1:15:00
great
1:15:01
girls
1:15:01
and
1:15:02
ladies
1:15:02
and
1:15:02
such
1:15:03
fun
1:15:03
experiences.
1:15:04
Like,
1:15:04
I
1:15:05
had
1:15:05
a
1:15:05
ball.
1:15:05
Like,
1:15:06
I
1:15:06
Had
1:15:06
an
1:15:07
absolute
1:15:07
ball.
1:15:08
I
1:15:08
didn't
1:15:08
have
1:15:08
sisters,
1:15:09
so
1:15:09
like,
1:15:09
growing
1:15:09
up
1:15:10
and
1:15:10
being
1:15:10
able
1:15:10
to
1:15:10
do
1:15:11
that
1:15:11
was
1:15:12
like
1:15:12
such
1:15:12
a
1:15:12
fun
1:15:12
experience.
1:15:13
I
1:15:13
loved
1:15:13
it.
1:15:14
Loved
1:15:14
it.
1:15:14
It
1:15:15
was
1:15:15
like
1:15:15
a.
1:15:15
A
1:15:16
moment
1:15:16
in
1:15:16
time
1:15:16
for
1:15:16
us.
1:15:17
It's
1:15:17
like
1:15:17
a
1:15:17
magic
1:15:18
capsule
1:15:18
of
1:15:19
time
1:15:19
that,
1:15:20
like,
1:15:20
that.
1:15:20
It
1:15:21
was
1:15:21
also
1:15:21
like
1:15:21
pre
1:15:22
social
1:15:22
media,
1:15:22
so
1:15:23
it
1:15:23
was
1:15:23
like
1:15:23
just
1:15:24
magic.
1:15:24
We
1:15:24
did
1:15:25
what
1:15:25
we
1:15:25
wanted.
1:15:25
Right.
1:15:26
It
1:15:26
was
1:15:26
so
1:15:26
fun.
1:15:27
So
1:15:28
fun.
1:15:28
And
1:15:29
it's.
1:15:29
It
1:15:29
just.
1:15:29
It'll
1:15:30
just
1:15:30
never
1:15:30
be
1:15:30
like
1:15:30
that
1:15:30
again.
1:15:31
I
1:15:32
know.
1:15:32
We
1:15:32
have
1:15:32
to
1:15:32
recreate
1:15:33
it.
1:15:33
That
1:15:33
creative.
1:15:34
Yes.
1:15:35
The
1:15:35
midlife
1:15:35
version.
1:15:36
The
1:15:36
midlife
1:15:37
version.
1:15:38
But
1:15:38
I'm
1:15:38
not
1:15:38
wearing
1:15:39
a
1:15:39
bikini
1:15:39
top.
1:15:40
Not
1:15:40
happy.
1:15:41
Not
1:15:42
ready
1:15:42
to
1:15:42
run.
1:15:42
Cut
1:15:42
off
1:15:43
shorts
1:15:43
and
1:15:43
a
1:15:43
bikini
1:15:44
top.
1:15:44
Yeah,
1:15:44
not
1:15:44
happening.
1:15:47
Also,
1:15:48
I
1:15:48
don't
1:15:48
think
1:15:48
my
1:15:48
body
1:15:49
suits
1:15:49
a
1:15:49
bikini
1:15:50
top
1:15:50
and
1:15:50
cut
1:15:51
off
1:15:51
shorts
1:15:51
at
1:15:51
this
1:15:52
point.
1:15:52
Maybe,
1:15:52
though.
1:15:52
I
1:15:52
don't
1:15:53
know.
1:15:53
I
1:15:53
don't
1:15:53
know.
1:15:53
No,
1:15:53
not
1:15:54
necessary
1:15:54
at
1:15:55
all.
1:15:55
No
1:15:56
way.
1:15:56
No,
1:15:57
I
1:15:57
know.
1:15:57
No
1:15:58
way.
1:15:58
No
1:15:58
way.
1:15:59
All
1:15:59
right,
1:15:59
my
1:15:59
dear,
1:15:59
what
1:16:00
is
1:16:00
next?
1:16:00
What
1:16:00
is
1:16:01
next?
1:16:01
What
1:16:01
are
1:16:01
we
1:16:01
going
1:16:01
to
1:16:02
see?
1:16:03
Well,
1:16:03
Lincoln
1:16:03
Lawyers
1:16:04
coming
1:16:04
out
1:16:04
on
1:16:04
Netflix.
1:16:05
I
1:16:05
don't
1:16:05
have
1:16:05
the
1:16:05
exact
1:16:05
date
1:16:06
and.
1:16:08
Yeah,
1:16:08
that's.
1:16:09
That's
1:16:09
it
1:16:09
for
1:16:09
the
1:16:10
moment.
1:16:10
I
1:16:10
mean,
1:16:11
just
1:16:11
working
1:16:11
on
1:16:12
my
1:16:12
stuff,
1:16:12
so.
1:16:13
And
1:16:13
if
1:16:13
people
1:16:13
want
1:16:14
to
1:16:14
go
1:16:14
shop.
1:16:15
You
1:16:15
go
1:16:15
to
1:16:15
reallifeco.com
1:16:17
reallifeco.com
1:16:18
or
1:16:18
you
1:16:18
can
1:16:18
go
1:16:18
to
1:16:19
real
1:16:19
life
1:16:19
co
1:16:19
official
1:16:19
on
1:16:20
Instagram
1:16:21
and
1:16:21
check
1:16:22
out
1:16:22
the.
1:16:23
Check
1:16:24
out
1:16:24
the
1:16:24
site.
1:16:25
We
1:16:25
have
1:16:25
lots
1:16:25
of
1:16:25
new
1:16:25
things
1:16:26
coming
1:16:26
all
1:16:26
the
1:16:26
time,
1:16:27
depending
1:16:27
on
1:16:27
the
1:16:27
season
1:16:28
and.
1:16:28
And
1:16:29
yeah,
1:16:29
and
1:16:29
check
1:16:29
out
1:16:30
the
1:16:30
website
1:16:31
as
1:16:31
well.
1:16:31
I
1:16:31
mean,
1:16:31
I.
1:16:32
The.
1:16:32
We
1:16:33
have
1:16:33
like
1:16:33
a
1:16:33
lot
1:16:33
of
1:16:33
great
1:16:34
blogs
1:16:34
for
1:16:35
young
1:16:35
adults.
1:16:36
If
1:16:36
you
1:16:36
know
1:16:37
parents
1:16:37
that
1:16:38
are
1:16:38
in
1:16:38
their
1:16:38
senior
1:16:38
year,
1:16:39
their
1:16:39
kids
1:16:39
are
1:16:39
going
1:16:40
off,
1:16:40
they're
1:16:40
looking
1:16:40
for
1:16:41
things
1:16:41
where.
1:16:41
Your
1:16:42
place.
1:16:42
Oh
1:16:43
my
1:16:43
gosh,
1:16:43
that's
1:16:43
so
1:16:43
exciting.
1:16:44
And
1:16:44
with
1:16:44
the
1:16:44
holidays
1:16:45
coming
1:16:45
up,
1:16:45
it's
1:16:45
a
1:16:45
perfect
1:16:46
time
1:16:46
to
1:16:46
shop.
1:16:46
Yeah.
1:16:47
We
1:16:47
also
1:16:47
have
1:16:47
great
1:16:47
gifts,
1:16:48
so
1:16:49
lots
1:16:49
of
1:16:49
gift
1:16:49
ideas.
1:16:49
So
1:16:50
anybody
1:16:50
in
1:16:50
your
1:16:50
life
1:16:50
that
1:16:51
you
1:16:51
know
1:16:51
that's
1:16:51
at
1:16:51
that
1:16:51
age
1:16:52
group.
1:16:52
Age
1:16:52
group.
1:16:53
We've
1:16:53
kind
1:16:53
of
1:16:53
got
1:16:53
that
1:16:54
of
1:16:54
kind
1:16:54
covered.
1:16:54
So
1:16:54
you
1:16:54
can
1:16:54
go
1:16:55
in
1:16:55
there
1:16:55
and
1:16:55
we
1:16:55
have
1:16:55
a
1:16:55
lot
1:16:55
of
1:16:56
gift
1:16:56
ideas
1:16:57
for.
1:16:58
For
1:16:59
that
1:16:59
time
1:16:59
in
1:16:59
your
1:16:59
life.
1:17:00
Yeah.
1:17:01
And
1:17:01
gift
1:17:02
cards
1:17:02
and
1:17:02
registry
1:17:03
and
1:17:03
wish
1:17:04
list
1:17:04
and
1:17:04
that
1:17:04
kind
1:17:04
of
1:17:04
stuff.
1:17:05
Yeah,
1:17:05
that's
1:17:05
probably
1:17:06
one
1:17:06
of
1:17:06
the
1:17:06
more
1:17:06
fun
1:17:07
parts
1:17:07
too,
1:17:07
is
1:17:08
curating
1:17:08
all
1:17:08
the
1:17:09
things.
1:17:09
Right?
1:17:09
Like
1:17:10
super
1:17:10
fun.
1:17:11
Super
1:17:11
fun.
1:17:12
Yeah.
1:17:12
So
1:17:12
fun.
1:17:12
I
1:17:13
love
1:17:13
it.
1:17:13
I
1:17:13
love
1:17:13
it.
1:17:14
So
1:17:14
everyone
1:17:15
can
1:17:15
find
1:17:15
you
1:17:15
on
1:17:16
social
1:17:16
at
1:17:17
Sash
1:17:17
Alexander.
1:17:18
You're
1:17:18
all
1:17:18
over
1:17:18
the
1:17:19
place.
1:17:19
That's
1:17:20
me.
1:17:20
All
1:17:20
over
1:17:20
the
1:17:21
place.
1:17:22
I
1:17:22
love,
1:17:23
I
1:17:23
love
1:17:23
that.
1:17:24
That's
1:17:24
why
1:17:24
we
1:17:24
love
1:17:25
it.
1:17:25
We're
1:17:25
like,
1:17:25
like
1:17:25
more
1:17:25
Sasha.
1:17:26
I
1:17:27
love,
1:17:28
especially
1:17:28
talking
1:17:29
to
1:17:29
like
1:17:29
my
1:17:29
friends
1:17:30
like
1:17:30
you,
1:17:30
Sasha.
1:17:31
It
1:17:31
just
1:17:31
feels
1:17:31
like
1:17:32
we're
1:17:32
back
1:17:32
in
1:17:32
college,
1:17:33
you
1:17:33
know.
1:17:33
I
1:17:33
know.
1:17:33
It's
1:17:34
like
1:17:34
a.
1:17:34
I
1:17:34
know.
1:17:34
It's
1:17:34
like
1:17:35
a
1:17:35
girl's
1:17:35
night
1:17:35
out.
1:17:35
I'm
1:17:36
super
1:17:36
grateful
1:17:37
for
1:17:37
it.
1:17:37
You're
1:17:38
the
1:17:38
best.
1:17:38
Big
1:17:38
kisses
1:17:38
to
1:17:39
your
1:17:39
fam.
1:17:39
And
1:17:39
thank
1:17:40
you
1:17:40
honey.
1:17:40
Same.
1:17:42
Every
1:17:42
time
1:17:42
I
1:17:42
talk
1:17:43
to
1:17:43
Sasha,
1:17:43
I'm
1:17:44
reminded
1:17:44
that
1:17:44
reinvention
1:17:45
isn't
1:17:45
a
1:17:45
one
1:17:46
time
1:17:46
event,
1:17:47
it's
1:17:47
a
1:17:47
life
1:17:47
skill.
1:17:48
She's
1:17:49
lived
1:17:49
boldly
1:17:49
in
1:17:50
every
1:17:50
chapter
1:17:51
from
1:17:51
the
1:17:51
soundstage
1:17:52
to
1:17:52
the
1:17:52
startup
1:17:53
world,
1:17:53
from
1:17:54
young
1:17:54
adult
1:17:54
dreams
1:17:55
to
1:17:55
midlife
1:17:55
clarity.
1:17:56
And
1:17:56
I
1:17:57
hope
1:17:57
her
1:17:57
honesty
1:17:58
today
1:17:58
gave
1:17:58
you
1:17:58
permission
1:17:59
to
1:17:59
rewrite
1:18:00
something
1:18:00
in
1:18:00
your
1:18:00
own
1:18:01
story.
1:18:01
If
1:18:02
this
1:18:02
episode
1:18:02
resonated,
1:18:03
tap
1:18:04
follow
1:18:04
wherever
1:18:05
you
1:18:05
get
1:18:05
your
1:18:06
podcasts
1:18:07
so
1:18:07
you
1:18:07
never
1:18:07
miss
1:18:08
an
1:18:08
episode.
1:18:09
Leave
1:18:09
a
1:18:09
five
1:18:09
star
1:18:10
rating
1:18:10
and
1:18:10
share
1:18:11
it
1:18:11
with
1:18:11
the
1:18:11
most
1:18:11
iconic
1:18:12
women
1:18:12
in
1:18:12
your
1:18:13
life
1:18:13
and
1:18:13
come
1:18:14
hang
1:18:14
out
1:18:14
with
1:18:14
us
1:18:14
on
1:18:15
social
1:18:15
media.
1:18:15
Hecon,
1:18:16
Iconic
1:18:16
Midlife
1:18:17
and
1:18:17
edcarpetroxy
1:18:19
for
1:18:19
behind
1:18:19
the
1:18:20
scenes
1:18:20
midlife
1:18:21
magic
1:18:21
and
1:18:22
the
1:18:22
conversations.
1:18:22
We
1:18:23
keep
1:18:23
going
1:18:23
off
1:18:24
mic
1:18:25
until
1:18:25
next
1:18:26
time.
1:18:26
Stay
1:18:26
bold,
1:18:27
stay
1:18:27
curious
1:18:28
and
1:18:28
always
1:18:29
stay
1:18:29
iconic.