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PAMOJA MINISTRY — REFINED FOR A PURPOSE CONVERSATION XIV — THE WEIGHT OF WHAT YOU PRAYED FOR · PAMOJA PODCAST | PAMOJA MINISTRY, A LIFE OF CHRIST INTERNATIONAL MINISTRIES

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  Welcome back to our continuing conversation on
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  Refine for a Purpose. In our last conversation,
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  we talked about when failure doesn't cancel purpose.
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  We discovered that failure does not have to become
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  the final definition of a surrendered life. Repentance
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  matters. Consequences matter. Accountability
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  matters. Transformation matters. But mercy also
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  matters. Peter failed. but Jesus restored him.
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  David failed, but God did not abandon his work
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  in him. John Mark walked away, but later became
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  useful again. Paul carried a painful past, yet
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  could say, by the grace of God, I am what I am.
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  And we ended with an important truth. Sometimes
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  God does not restore you by returning everything
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  exactly to the way it was. Sometimes God restores
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  you first, your character, your humility, your
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  discipline, your dependence upon Him, your ability
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  to carry responsibility differently. And that
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  brings us to another question. What happens when
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  the door finally opens? What happens when the
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  prayer is answered? What happens when the opportunity
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  comes? When the promotion comes? When the relationship
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  comes? When the resources increase? when the
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  ministry grows, when influence expands, when
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  the thing you spent years asking God for finally
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  arrives. We spend a lot of time talking about
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  how to survive difficult seasons, but perhaps
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  we don't talk enough about how to survive successful
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  ones, because adversity is not the only thing
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  that tests character. Blessing tests character
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  too. And sometimes the blessing carries weight.
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  So today I want us to talk about the weight of
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  what you prayed for. Because character must become
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  strong enough to carry the blessing. Sometimes
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  we pray for things we are still becoming ready
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  to carry. Think about some of the things we ask
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  God for. God, increase me. God, promote me. God,
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  enlarge my territory. God, Give me influence.
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  God, bless my family. God, grow the ministry.
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  God, open the door. God, give me financial abundance.
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  God, give me leadership. God, give me the opportunity.
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  Those prayers are not necessarily wrong, but
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  every blessing carries responsibility. If you
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  ask for leadership, you are also asking for responsibility.
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  If you ask for influence, you are asking for
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  accountability. If you ask for resources, you
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  are asking for stewardship. If you ask for a
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  family, you are asking for sacrifice. If you
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  ask for ministry, you are asking to carry people.
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  If you ask for promotion, you may also be asking
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  for pressure. If you ask for greater visibility,
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  you are also asking for greater scrutiny. Sometimes
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  we ask God for the blessing while imagining only
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  the enjoyment. God may be looking at the weight,
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  and perhaps that explains some seasons of preparation.
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  Maybe God is not simply asking, do you want it?
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  Maybe the deeper question is, can you carry it?
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  Joseph didn't just need to survive the pit. He
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  had to be ready for the palace. We have talked
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  about Joseph throughout this season, but look
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  at his story again from another angle. Joseph
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  received the dream when he was young, but he
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  did not immediately receive the responsibility
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  represented by that dream. Between the dream
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  and the palace, there was a pit. There was slavery.
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  There was Potiphar's house. There was temptation.
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  There was false accusation. There was prison.
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  There was waiting. And eventually, there was
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  Pharaoh. Genesis 41 tells us Pharaoh placed Joseph
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  over Egypt. Think about the responsibility. Joseph
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  was no longer managing Potiphar's household.
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  He was helping manage the resources of a nation.
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  A famine was coming. Lives would depend upon
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  decisions made under his leadership. The dream
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  was not merely about Joseph being elevated. The
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  dream was about Joseph becoming capable of carrying
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  responsibility. And suddenly the years begin
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  to look different. Potiphar's house taught stewardship.
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  Temptation tested integrity. Prison developed
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  endurance. Waiting confronted impatience. Managing
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  prisoners developed leadership. Interpreting
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  dreams prepared him to stand before Pharaoh.
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  The places that looked disconnected were developing
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  capacities he would eventually need. Maybe God
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  was not delaying Joseph. Maybe God was developing
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  Joseph. Because Pharaoh could give Joseph a position
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  in one day. But position was not the only thing
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  Joseph needed. He needed the character to survive
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  what came with it. Sometimes God can open the
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  door faster than your character can develop.
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  This is why preparation matters. A door can open
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  suddenly. A promotion can happen in one conversation.
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  A business can grow rapidly. A ministry can become
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  visible quickly. Money can arrive unexpectedly.
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  Influence can expand through one viral moment.
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  But character usually develops slowly. Discipline
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  develops through repetition. Wisdom develops
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  through experience. Humility develops through
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  surrender. Self -control develops through practice.
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  Faithfulness develops over time. And if opportunity
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  grows faster than character, the blessing can
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  expose what preparation should have corrected.
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  We sometimes say, God opened the door. But perhaps
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  another prayer should be, God, prepare me before
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  you open it, because an open door without preparation
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  can become another kind of fire. The blessing
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  can expose what the battle never could. There
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  are things you discover about yourself when you
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  suffer, but there are other things you discover
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  about yourself when you succeed. Poverty can
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  test your faith. Money can test your heart. Rejection
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  can test your identity. Popularity can test your
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  humility. Weakness can test your dependence upon
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  God. Power can test whether you still believe
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  you need Him. Waiting can test your patience.
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  Arrival can test your memory. And perhaps one
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  of the most dangerous moments in life is when
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  you finally have enough power to do what was
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  once only a temptation. When you had no money,
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  some choices were impossible. When you had no
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  influence, certain doors were closed. When nobody
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  knew your name, pride had fewer opportunities.
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  When you had no authority, nobody had to fear
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  your decisions. But what happens when you have
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  options? What happens when people begin listening?
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  What happens when people begin agreeing with
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  you because of your position? What happens when
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  money removes limitations? What happens when
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  nobody around you wants to tell you no, that
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  is another test. Adversity reveals whether you
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  can endure without quitting. Abundance reveals
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  whether you can receive without forgetting. Moses
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  warned Israel about this. Deuteronomy 8 contains
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  one of scripture's strongest warnings about prosperity.
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  Moses tells Israel to remember God when they
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  enter the land. He warns them that they will
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  eat and become satisfied. Their houses will become
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  good. Their herds will multiply. Their silver
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  and gold will increase. Everything will increase.
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  Then Moses warns, your heart will become proud
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  and you will forget the Lord your God. Notice
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  the danger. The wilderness made them cry to God.
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  But prosperity could make them forget Him. Sometimes
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  trouble keeps us praying. Need keeps us humble.
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  Uncertainty keeps us dependent. Then God answers
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  the prayer. The pressure changes. The income
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  increases. The door opens. And suddenly the disciplines
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  that carried us through the wilderness begin
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  disappearing. Prayer becomes shorter. Scripture
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  becomes occasional. becomes convenient, dependence
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  becomes confidence in ourselves, and eventually
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  we begin enjoying the blessing while drifting
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  from the one who gave us the ability to carry
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  it. Moses says later, you may say to yourself,
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  my power and the strength of my hands have produced
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  this wealth for me. Then he says, remember the
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  Lord your God, for it is he who gives you the
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  ability to produce wealth. The warning is simple.
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  Don't let the blessing make you forget the God
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  you needed before you had it. Maybe the real
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  test is whether you will still pray after the
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  prayer is answered. Think about that. You prayed
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  while waiting. Will you pray after receiving?
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  You fasted when the door was closed. Will you
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  still seek God when it opens? You cried when
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  nobody recognized you. Will you remain humble
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  When everybody knows you, you depended upon God
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  when resources were limited. Will you still depend
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  upon Him when the account is full? You asked
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  everybody to pray for you when you were struggling.
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  Will anybody still be allowed to correct you
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  when you become successful? Sometimes we become
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  very spiritual while we need something from God.
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  The deeper test may come after we receive it.
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  Can the blessing enter your hands without replacing
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  God in your heart? David survived Saul, but then
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  he had to survive being king. David knew how
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  to depend upon God while running from Saul. He
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  knew caves. He knew danger. He knew rejection.
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  He knew waiting. He knew what it meant to refuse
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  to seize the throne through violence when opportunities
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  appeared to kill Saul. That season revealed remarkable
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  restraint, but eventually David became king.
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  Now David had authority, servants, soldiers,
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  a palace, influence, power. And in 2 Samuel 11,
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  the man who once had to run from another king's
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  power now possessed power himself. And he misused
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  it. Bathsheba, Uriah, the cover up, the tragedy.
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  David survived the wilderness. But the palace
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  introduced another test. Listen carefully. Sometimes
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  the place you prayed to reach contains temptations
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  that did not exist where you started. That is
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  why character must continue developing after
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  promotion. You don't graduate from discipline
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  because God blessed you. You need discipline
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  more. You don't need less accountability because
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  you have authority. You may need more. You don't
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  need fewer boundaries because you have matured.
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  Greater access may require stronger boundaries.
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  The higher the responsibility, the more seriously
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  integrity must be guarded. Solomon shows us that
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  having wisdom does not remove the need for obedience.
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  Solomon began remarkably. When God offered him
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  what he wanted, Solomon asked for wisdom. God
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  gave him wisdom. And scripture describes extraordinary
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  prosperity, influence, and reputation. People
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  came from distant places to hear him. But later,
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  1 Kings 11 tells us Solomon's heart turned away.
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  The issue wasn't that Solomon lacked information.
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  He had wisdom. But wisdom known is not always
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  wisdom obeyed. And this is important. You can
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  know what is right and still need discipline
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  to do it. You can preach boundaries and still
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  need boundaries. You can teach integrity and
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  still need accountability. You can understand
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  scripture and still need to obey scripture. Knowledge
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  cannot replace obedience. Anointing cannot replace
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  discipline. Success cannot replace sanctification.
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  And yesterday's wisdom does not guarantee tomorrow's
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  faithfulness. You must keep choosing God. The
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  thing you prayed for can become the thing that
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  pulls you away from God. That sounds strange,
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  but it happens. You pray for a business. Then
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  the business becomes so demanding you no longer
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  have time for God. You pray for a relationship.
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  Then the relationship becomes more important
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  than obedience. You pray for children. Then family
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  becomes so busy that spiritual life disappears.
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  You pray for ministry growth. Then numbers become
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  more important than people. You pray for influence.
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  Then approval becomes addictive. You pray for
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  financial abundance. Then possessions begin possessing
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  you. You pray for promotion. Then position becomes
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  identity. The blessing was not necessarily the
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  problem. Disordered affection was. The gift quietly
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  occupied the place of the giver. So perhaps we
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  need to add another prayer to our lives. God
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  bless me, but never allow your blessing to become
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  my idol. And this is why stewardship matters.
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  Jesus says in Luke 16 10, whoever can be trusted
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  with very little can also be trusted with much.
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  Notice the language. Trust it. Sometimes we think
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  increase is primarily about desire. Jesus speaks
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  about faithfulness. What are you doing with what
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  is already in your hands? You are praying for
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  more money. How are you managing what you have?
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  You are praying for a larger ministry. How are
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  you serving the people already there? You are
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  praying for promotion. How are you handling your
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  current responsibility? You are praying for greater
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  influence. How are you treating people who cannot
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  do anything for you? You are praying for a platform.
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  How are you behaving when nobody is watching?
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  Maybe the small place isn't irrelevant. Maybe
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  it is training. Maybe God is watching what you
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  do with 10 before entrusting you with 100. Not
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  because every promotion is a direct reward for
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  spiritual performance. Life is more complicated
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  than that. Faithful people sometimes wait. Unfaithful
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  people sometimes prosper. But the spiritual principle
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  remains. Whatever God places in our hands should
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  be handled faithfully. Faithfulness. In little
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  things builds capacity for weight. There is something
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  about small responsibilities. They reveal habits.
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  How do you handle time? How do you handle money?
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  How do you keep your word? How do you respond
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  when nobody praises you? How do you treat small
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  assignments? How do you behave toward people
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  beneath your authority? How do you work when
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  the supervisor is not present? How do you handle
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  somebody else's property? How do you handle confidential
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  information? How do you respond when you could
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  take a shortcut and nobody would know? These
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  things may appear small, but character is often
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  developed in places that look insignificant.
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  David learned faithfulness with sheep before
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  leading Israel. Joseph managed a household and
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  a prison before managing Egypt. Moses spent years
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  in the wilderness before leading a nation. Sometimes
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  the small assignment is teaching your shoulders
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  how to carry weight. Don't despise the place
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  where God is building your capacity. Some blessings
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  require a stronger version of you. This is where
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  refined for a purpose becomes deeply practical.
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  Maybe the version of you who prayed the prayer
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  is not yet the version of you who can responsibly
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  carry the answer. Maybe the blessing requires
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  greater patience, greater wisdom, greater discipline,
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  greater emotional maturity, greater financial
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  stewardship, greater self -control, greater humility,
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  greater ability to forgive, greater ability to
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  handle criticism, greater ability to manage people.
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  greater ability to say no greater ability to
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  walk away from temptation greater ability to
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  remain quiet when provoked greater ability to
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  stay grounded when praised so perhaps while you
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  are praying God Change my circumstances. God
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  is working on the person who will eventually
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  live inside those changed circumstances. That
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  does not mean every delay is God withholding
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  something until you become perfect. We should
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  be careful with that theology. Some things simply
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  take time. Some doors depend upon other people.
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  Some prayers are answered differently than we
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  expect. Some waiting remains mysterious. But
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  scripture repeatedly shows God forming people
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  before entrusting them with significant responsibility.
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  And perhaps that is happening in some areas of
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  your life. Stop measuring preparation only by
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  what you can see. Joseph could have looked at
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  prison and said, this has nothing to do with
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  my dream. David could have looked at sheep and
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  said, This has nothing to do with becoming king.
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  Moses could have looked at 40 years in Midian
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  and said, this has nothing to do with Egypt.
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  But later, the connections become clearer. Maybe
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  the difficult supervisor is teaching you how
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  to lead without becoming what hurt you. Maybe
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  limited resources are teaching you stewardship.
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  Maybe raising children is teaching you patience.
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  Maybe marriage is exposing selfishness that success
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  would magnify. Maybe serving without recognition
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  is confronting your need for applause. Maybe
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  waiting is developing endurance. Maybe correction
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  is teaching humility. Maybe failure taught you
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  boundaries. Maybe disappointment is teaching
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  you where your identity truly rests. You may
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  not understand everything God is producing right
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  now. But don't assume nothing is happening simply
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  because the blessing hasn't arrived. Preparation
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  is also progress. The blessing should expand
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  your purpose, not shrink your soul. When God
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  gives more, our capacity to serve should grow.
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  More resources should create greater generosity.
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  More influence should create greater responsibility.
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  More wisdom should create greater humility. More
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  authority should create greater concern for justice.
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  More opportunity should create greater stewardship.
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  More visibility should create greater awareness
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  that people are watching how we live. Jesus says,
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  from everyone who has been given much, much will
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  be demanded. The blessing is not simply, look
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  what I have. The blessing asks, what will I do
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  with what has been entrusted to me? Joseph's
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  elevation wasn't only for Joseph. His position
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  helped preserve lives. Esther's position wasn't
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  only about becoming queen. It placed her where
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  courage would eventually be required. Abraham's
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  blessing carried the promise that others would
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  be blessed through him. Biblical blessing repeatedly
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  moves outward, so maybe what you are asking God
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  for is bigger than your comfort. Maybe somebody
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  else is connected to your faithfulness. Be careful
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  when people begin celebrating you. There is another
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  weight that comes with blessing, praise. People
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  begin recognizing you, complimenting you, calling
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  your name, seeking your advice. inviting you
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  into rooms, and praise can become intoxicating.
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  You begin believing your own publicity. You stop
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  listening. You become offended when someone disagrees.
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  You interpret correction as disrespect. You begin
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  needing applause to feel significant. That is
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  dangerous. Remember, the people celebrating you
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  today are still people, and you are still human.
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  Stay grounded. Stay accountable. Stay teachable.
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  Stay prayerful. Stay close to people who knew
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  you before the title. And most importantly, stay
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  close to God. Don't let public elevation create
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  private distance from God. Maybe God is preparing
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  you for the wait, not just the gift. There are
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  prayers we ask repeatedly. God, when? When will
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  the door open? When will things change? When
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  will I finally receive what you promised? And
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  sometimes we need faith to keep asking, but perhaps
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  another prayer belongs beside it. God, who must
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  I become to carry what I am asking for? If I
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  am asking for more develop greater stewardship.
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  If I am asking for leadership develop greater
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  humility. If I am asking for influence develop
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  greater integrity. If I am asking for resources,
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  develop greater generosity. If I am asking for
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  marriage, teach me covenant. If I am asking for
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  family, teach me sacrifice. If I am asking for
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  ministry, teach me to love people more than platforms.
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  If I am asking for success, teach me how to remain
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  faithful when success arrives, because I don't
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  simply want to receive the blessing. I want to
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  survive it. I don't simply want to enter the
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  room. I want to remain who God called me to be
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  while I am there. I don't simply want God to
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  put something in my hands. I want my character
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  to be strong enough to carry its weight. And
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  perhaps that is why the fire had to touch some
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  things. Maybe the fire exposed your pride because
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  pride could not survive where God has taken you.
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  Maybe the fire exposed your anger because greater
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  authority would magnify it. Maybe the fire exposed
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  your need for approval because greater visibility
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  would feed it. Maybe the fire exposed weak boundaries
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  because greater access would test them. Maybe
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  the fire exposed poor discipline. because greater
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  responsibility would overwhelm you. Maybe the
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  fire exposed financial irresponsibility because
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  increase without stewardship could destroy you.
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  Maybe the fire exposed your inability to receive
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  correction because leadership without accountability
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  can become dangerous. What felt like God was
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  taking something from you. May have been God
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  removing something that could not safely travel
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  with you. God doesn't waste the fire. Sometimes
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  the fire is preparing your shoulders for weight.
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  But remember, the blessing is not proof that
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  God loves you more. We need this guardrail. Prosperity
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  is not proof that somebody has more faith. Money
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  is not proof of spiritual maturity. Promotion
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  is not proof that God prefers you. A large ministry
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  is not proof of greater holiness. And difficulty
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  is not proof that somebody has failed. Jesus
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  loved people who suffered. The apostles experienced
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  hardship. Paul knew abundance and need. So this
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  conversation is not about creating a formula.
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  Become good enough and God will make you rich
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  or successful. No, the gospel is not a transaction.
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  We are talking about stewardship. Whatever God
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  allows into your hands, little or much, carry
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  it faithfully. Whatever season you are in, remain
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  faithful. And if increase comes, don't let increase
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  decrease your dependence upon God. Paul learned
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  how to carry both. Philippians 4 is often quoted
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  because Paul says, I can do all things through
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  Christ who strengthens me. But look at the context.
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  Paul says he learned how to live with little
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  and he learned how to live with plenty. He knew
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  hunger and he knew abundance. He says I have
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  learned the secret of being content in any and
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  every situation. Then I can do all this through
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  him who gives me strength. Paul needed Christ.
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  when he had little. Paul needed Christ when he
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  had much. Maybe maturity is not simply learning
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  how to survive lack. Maybe maturity is learning
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  how to remain faithful in either condition. If
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  I have little, Christ is enough. If I have much,
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  Christ is still Lord. If the door is closed,
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  I worship. If the door opens, I worship. If nobody
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  knows my name, I serve. If people recognize me,
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  I serve. If I am waiting, I belong to God. If
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  I receive what I prayed for, I still belong to
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  God. So maybe the prayer needs to change. Instead
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  of only praying, God, give me more. Maybe pray.
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  God, make me trustworthy with more. Instead of
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  only, God, open the door. Pray. Prepare my character
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  for what is behind the door. Instead of only,
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  God increase my influence, pray. Increase my
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  integrity before you increase my influence. Instead
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  of only, God bless me, pray. Never let the blessing
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  become more important than the one who blessed
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  me. And instead of asking only, when will it
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  happen? Ask God, what are you developing in me
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  while I wait? Because maybe the waiting room
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  is also a training room. Maybe the small assignment
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  is strengthening your shoulders. Maybe correction
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  is protecting your future. Maybe discipline is
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  increasing your capacity. Maybe the fire is removing
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  what cannot carry the weight. And this brings
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  us to our next conversation. Because if the fire
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  is preparing us for what comes next, There is
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  one more question we must ask. What are we still
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  carrying that cannot come with us? What habits?
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  What attitudes? What relationships? What compromises?
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  What ways of thinking? What bitterness? What
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  pride? What fear? What version of ourselves belongs
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  to an old season? Because there are things God
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  may forgive, but still tell you. Don't take that
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  with you. There are things that helped you survive
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  one season, but cannot lead you into another.
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  There are patterns that must end here. And perhaps
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  the greatest tragedy would be to survive the
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  fire, and then carry the impurities the fire
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  was meant to remove into the next season. So
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  our next continuing conversation will be, don't
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  waste the fire. what must not follow you into
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  the next season. Because eventually the question
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  becomes, what was the fire supposed to remove?
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  And once God reveals it, are you willing to leave
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  it behind? Before we close, I want to speak to
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  the person who has been asking God for something
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  for a long time. Keep praying, keep believing,
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  keep trusting. But while you wait, Keep becoming.
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  Don't become so focused on receiving the answer
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  that you miss what God may be developing in you.
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  Let him strengthen your character. Let him deepen
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  your discipline. Let him teach you stewardship.
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  Let him confront your pride. Let him strengthen
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  your boundaries. Let him develop your self -control.
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  Let him teach you how to handle little faithfully.
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  Let Him teach you how to receive correction.
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  Let Him teach you how to remain humble. Because
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  maybe you are not simply waiting for the blessing.
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  Maybe you are being prepared for its weight.
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  And when it comes, remember the wilderness. Remember
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  the prayers. Remember the tears. Remember the
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  lessons. Remember the people who stood with you.
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  Remember who you were. When nobody knew your
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  name, remember the God who carried you when you
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  had nothing else to hold on to. And when you
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  finally stand in the place you prayed for, don't
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  stop praying. When you receive more, don't become
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  less dependent. When God expands your influence,
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  expand your humility. When God increases your
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  resources, increase your generosity. When God
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  gives you responsibility, increase your integrity.
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  When God opens the door, take your character
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  with you. Because the greatest testimony is not
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  simply, God brought me there. The greater testimony
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  may become, God prepared me to remain faithful
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  when I arrived. Don't just pray for the blessing,
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  pray for the character to carry it. Don't just
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  pray for the door. Pray for the wisdom to walk
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  through it. Don't just pray for increase. Pray
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  for the discipline to steward it. And don't just
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  ask God, when will you give it to me? Sometimes
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  ask, God, who must I become to carry what I am
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  asking you for? Maybe that is part of what the
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  fire has been doing all along, preparing your
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  shoulders. strengthening your character, deepening
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  your roots, teaching you stewardship. Because
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  God is not only concerned with getting you somewhere,
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  he is concerned with who you become when you
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  arrive. And even while you wait, you are being
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  refined for a purpose.