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No Itch, Hitch? · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: Scrub Dub dub and the tub tub tub.
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  Speaker 2: Do you sleep on the end of your brain or something?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, my hair, I slept with it wet. I have
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  Speaker 1: like completely let myself go, And.
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  Speaker 2: She said, I am alife. I can relax right now.
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  Speaker 1: The best part is is I'm getting this week. I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting less. I'm getting my hair extensions taken out and
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  Speaker 1: only doing like one row versus two. Whoa, And I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna do my nails anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: I did notice when you came in the day, it's like, oh, cash,
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  Speaker 3: very cash for the podcast. But we do lots of
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  Speaker 3: social media videos and she's.
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  Speaker 2: Just where this every day, she literally does. It's a uniform,
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  Speaker 2: just in different colors.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, sure, I look more cash today than usual.
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  Speaker 3: You look very cash.
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  Speaker 1: Today's not a bad thing, but more than usual.
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  Speaker 3: Little more than.
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  Speaker 2: Usual, I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it looked like pretty much the same Thingay.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a navy instead of.
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  Speaker 3: Seas.
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  Speaker 2: That should be more in rotation.
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  Speaker 4: Tanya hasn't been in our videos though lately she's skipping
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  Speaker 4: out and with them.
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  Speaker 1: Every single week on this podcast.
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  Speaker 4: There's been two no no no, and our additional videos
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  Speaker 4: are TikTok oh.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I get filmed on this every single week
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  Speaker 1: and I'm wearing the exact same thing that Yes, I.
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  Speaker 3: Look worse today, worse he did.
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  Speaker 2: You can't say worse.
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  Speaker 4: I think you look beautiful and natural and cozy.
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  Speaker 1: As always, these are not nice adjectives.
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  Speaker 2: So it's gonna beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good one.
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  Speaker 2: Natural, absolutely, cozy, perfect? What's negative about this?
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  Speaker 1: Not looking good for me today?
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  Speaker 2: You don't think you're beautiful?
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  Speaker 1: It's okay, though, It's okay. I'm on the mend. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just on the mend right now.
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  Speaker 2: You don't feel beautiful?
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  Speaker 1: Not right now?
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  Speaker 2: Are you cozy?
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  Speaker 3: Not?
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  Speaker 1: Really? I have like a sports brawn or that's like
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  Speaker 1: so tight and I'm getting my period and I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, why would you wear restricting?
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  Speaker 1: Because I want to do my steps after the podcast today,
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  Speaker 1: so I want to go straight into it. So it
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  Speaker 1: was like trying to be.
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  Speaker 2: You don't have a cozy sports stop?
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  Speaker 1: What sports bra is cozy?
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  Speaker 2: The beyond yoga ones? Oh? Really, yes, they're the best.
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  Speaker 2: Oh look into it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the more you know.
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  Speaker 2: Anyways, you look gorgeous.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you as always. Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing to scuttle about.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I just want to say, oh, wow,
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  Speaker 1: I have been on No, I'm not even gonna say it.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna drink me. I'm gonna drink myself. I have
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  Speaker 1: been on eight airplanes. I've been in eight airports in
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  Speaker 1: the last three and a half weeks. Okay, I think
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  Speaker 1: it's sick ones.
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  Speaker 3: Do you mask up on airplanes?
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  Speaker 2: No? Wow, but taking your stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I'm taking all the lots of things I'm taking because no,
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  Speaker 1: nothing out my nose, nothing covering my face, a lot
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  Speaker 1: of purel, a lot of like quick defense things. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was pretty stoked on that. Thank you, DM me
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  Speaker 1: for my tips and.
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  Speaker 2: Tricks for you all these moments.
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  Speaker 1: But I was thinking about that when I was playing
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  Speaker 1: home on Saturday. I was like, damn, this was my
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  Speaker 1: eighth plane and your girl's feeling good. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, it's impressive.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: It's been a very go go, go go season for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Are you able to be home for a minute, yes.
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  Speaker 5: My decompression era, wow, yeah, coming down from all the hype.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, what are you planning to do on your weekend's home?
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  Speaker 1: Uh, what am I planning to do? This weekend's passover?
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  Speaker 1: So I plan on doing that?
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  Speaker 2: Are you all hosting?
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  Speaker 1: No, his my mother in law's house. My parents are
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  Speaker 1: coming up, so it's going to be like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: a family affair. Yeah. And then the night before we're
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  Speaker 1: doing a double date with Brad and Gary.
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  Speaker 2: The people have been wondering where Brad is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So Brad was supposed to come to my wedding
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  Speaker 1: and they had to cancel last minute because like a
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  Speaker 1: work thing came up for him. And if anybody understands
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  Speaker 1: work stuff, it's me. But I was like, obviously, I
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  Speaker 1: was like heartbroken. It was so sad. He's one of
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  Speaker 1: my best friends and obviously I wanted him to be there,
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  Speaker 1: but I also understood. So they're taking us out on Friday.
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  Speaker 3: So that's so fun lovely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Can I ask how Houston went?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: It was crazy. Yeah, it was so crazy and it
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  Speaker 1: was so fun.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I really you know what I realized, I like,
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  Speaker 1: I get so in my head about these things. I
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  Speaker 1: was so stressed and nervous on Thursday and Friday and
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  Speaker 1: like the morning of Saturday.
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  Speaker 3: But honestly, it's an hour long talk. Yes, with some
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  Speaker 3: Q and A. But yeah, I understand the nervousness.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Like I was like, how am I going to
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  Speaker 1: fill this time? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: But I did. I like, I like you're dancing.
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  Speaker 1: It was I ran out to a song because I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I can't just like step out. I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to come out like a bumping songs. It was a
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  Speaker 1: fifth harmony. That's my girl. Oh that's my because I
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  Speaker 1: love that.
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  Speaker 2: What you want, what you waited for? You could have
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  Speaker 2: given me a list of twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Really, do you want to guess what my second option was?
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  Speaker 1: This one's more like.
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  Speaker 3: No, why not visual? That's your song?
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to say like girls or like girl blewis flame.
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  Speaker 3: No, girls run the world?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, thank you run the world Beyonce girls. Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: was my second option. If they didn't have any.
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  Speaker 4: I probably would have guessed yeah yeah, yeah, wow. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: so you run out your Oprah literally Oprah.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I felt it. You run into the crowd.
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  Speaker 1: But I needed that. I needed that to get me going.
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  Speaker 1: And then I was like in, I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's go pens up, let's go, let's take a crowd
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  Speaker 1: for a while yes, how many people not really good gauge, you.
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  Speaker 2: Don't know, but it's sold out.
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  Speaker 1: Though it did set up, but all the seats were full,
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  Speaker 1: so I think people like signed up and didn't end
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  Speaker 1: up coming rude. I know, so rude, But it was
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  Speaker 1: a really really great like crowd and they like wrote
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  Speaker 1: me letters and like brought my books to sign after.
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  Speaker 1: It was like really cute.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I love about the Scrubbers. They always bring gifts. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: they always like have meaningful conversations. It's not just like
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  Speaker 4: throw a camera in your face take a picture.
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  Speaker 1: They want to have A girl came up to me
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  Speaker 1: after and she said she was pregnant, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if this is inappropriate or not, but she was
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  Speaker 1: like wishing me good luck on my journey. And I
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  Speaker 1: literally like took my belly and like rubbed it against
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  Speaker 1: hers for like. She was so excited.
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  Speaker 2: She loved it.
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  Speaker 1: So it wasn't like I didn't feel like I have
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  Speaker 1: no idea. I was like, oh, I like.
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  Speaker 2: Just you asked for consent. I was like, she was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I wonder she knew what you were about to do.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think she knew what I was doing in
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  Speaker 1: the moment, because I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: What i'd expect a belly to belly from.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was all.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not inhuman inhumane?
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  Speaker 1: In humane?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what it is? I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't think either one works, but I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Is there some tradition to that the ju juice?
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  Speaker 1: Sure?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so a lot of people feel it felt like
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  Speaker 2: we were hinting that you were pregnant on our last podcast, talking.
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  Speaker 1: About how you were and hungry. I was like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just taking it like that.
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  Speaker 4: We were like subtly alluding to the fact that unless
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  Speaker 4: you have something to tell me.
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  Speaker 1: You're not, We're not even trying yet. But I am
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  Speaker 1: starting the process of like getting myself.
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  Speaker 2: Ready, asking questions, prepping the prep. Yeah, yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Was Marshall's happy with what you did? Will they be
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  Speaker 3: using you again, getting of a new part of your life?
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  Speaker 2: I hope.
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  Speaker 1: So I really liked.
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  Speaker 3: It, motivational speaker. I feel like it's kind of your
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  Speaker 3: weird Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like loved it. So I hope that they
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed me. It's hard. It's really hard when it's like you,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like I couldn't. I was like, was that
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  Speaker 1: good that people like it? You know, but I hope so.
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  Speaker 1: I think so.
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  Speaker 3: Also, it was your first time, it was my first time.
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  Speaker 3: It liked it or not, it's just going to get
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  Speaker 3: better and better.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 4: I can't imagine giving a speech that long, because I
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  Speaker 4: was thinking about how nervous I was at your wedding
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  Speaker 4: to give like a I don't even know how long.
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  Speaker 2: My seet was like two minutes.
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  Speaker 1: It was perfect length.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I was so memorized it. No, I did it?
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  Speaker 1: You read it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: She read it?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you know, looking up at the crowd. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I like you were very connect with people. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't read off of my cards at all. I
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  Speaker 1: had them there so that I like had like a
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  Speaker 1: flow in case I got lost, and I looked at
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  Speaker 1: them like maybe twice throughout just to kind of be
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  Speaker 1: like what am I doing next? But I never use them.
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  Speaker 2: Next I run through the crowd.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, then hold on, let me get
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  Speaker 1: my cute cards.
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  Speaker 2: That's so fun. I'm so happy I went well, it was.
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  Speaker 2: It's fun when you're doing something for work like that
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  Speaker 2: with a brand and it also goes well and it's
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  Speaker 2: fun for you because like that's the best of both
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  Speaker 2: worlds for everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I felt this. I literally felt that. I was like
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  Speaker 1: what Marshall's is doing through this this uh it's called
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  Speaker 1: like the Good Stuff Social Club. It lines up with
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  Speaker 1: like literally my brand and everything that I believe in.
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  Speaker 1: So it was just like very synergistic.
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  Speaker 2: She's scissoring her fingers, so just a little.
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  Speaker 1: It's sexual, very synergistic, and.
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  Speaker 2: The LGBTQ that's that motion is.
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  Speaker 1: But I was like feeling good Saturday, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna fly home and I'm gonna head straight to
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  Speaker 1: the park to Haley's birthday party.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew that wasn't gonna happen.
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  Speaker 4: You knew, yeah, because I know how I feel and
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  Speaker 4: I know how much you've been going. And I really
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  Speaker 4: appreciated the intention of trying to get to the park.
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  Speaker 2: But I was like, it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not one to like pooh pooh. Any airline I've drive, driven, drive,
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  Speaker 1: rode a lot of airplanes. United seems to have very
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  Speaker 1: small seats. I felt very tightly squeezed into my chair
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  Speaker 1: on the way home, and like the one in the
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  Speaker 1: chair in front of me was like very close to
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  Speaker 1: my face. I felt so and I'm not like a
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  Speaker 1: claustrophobic person, but I felt very sardined in on that.
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  Speaker 2: Did the did the person? Were they leaning back or
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  Speaker 2: was that just Yes, that's a controversial. There's been some
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  Speaker 2: fights on airlines recently of like people leaning back their seats.
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  Speaker 2: Do you are you a seat leaner?
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  Speaker 1: I usually don't. I usually don't. I have a dabble,
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  Speaker 1: but like for three and a half hour flight and
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  Speaker 1: I'll keep myself right up. But I got so clusophobic
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  Speaker 1: and then I was like hot, and then I was
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  Speaker 1: just like sweaty, and then I was like getting nauseous,
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  Speaker 1: and so I was like I can't. I gotta go home. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can't go to a birthday party right now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would have brought the mood down.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We did a park birthday for Haley because she wanted
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  Speaker 4: to play like.
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  Speaker 1: Game field game so fun like adult field.
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  Speaker 2: You know. We didn't do that much running.
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  Speaker 4: There's a one relay race, but it was more like
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  Speaker 4: flip cup, tic tac toe stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: How many games did you play?
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  Speaker 2: Quite a few? Actually, like I would say five or six. Dang,
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  Speaker 2: I know, and to get like keeping the thirty The
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  Speaker 2: Wiener Games. I saw this on TikTok and I just
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  Speaker 2: added it to the list and I was like, if
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  Speaker 2: we want to do it, we'll see.
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  Speaker 4: It was the funniest game. Everyone loved the Wiener game.
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  Speaker 4: That was like their favorite game.
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  Speaker 2: So you basically tie a string to your waist and
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  Speaker 2: then on the other end, you tie a hot dog.
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  Speaker 4: And it's in between your legs and you're supposed to
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  Speaker 4: swing it into your mouth without using your hands.
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  Speaker 1: This mean we should have played on my bachelorette party.
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  Speaker 2: I know that's what people said. I saw it after
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  Speaker 2: the fact.
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  Speaker 1: Dang, we can get the.
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  Speaker 2: Girls together and play again though in your backyard or mine? Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Taco Tuesday, Yeah yeah, yes, great Taco Tuesday activity.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: People loved it. So that was like the hit Hailey goes.
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  Speaker 4: I thought this was gonna be so stupid, and it
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  Speaker 4: was everyone's favorite. I never got it the hot dog, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: never got it in my mouth.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody get it in their mouth.
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  Speaker 2: Haley's brother got it like within two tries.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, should we know about.
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  Speaker 4: But everyone was trying different techniques. It was chaos, but
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  Speaker 4: it was so fun.
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  Speaker 2: And then I hired Emily, who's done a bunch of
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  Speaker 2: your events. Emily did our We.
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  Speaker 1: Love Emily, independent modern woman doing her own thing.
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  Speaker 2: She's amazing. She set up our table and so I
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  Speaker 2: did a long table, and then I hired like a
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  Speaker 2: taco guy to come and and he was able to
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  Speaker 2: make They were able to make everything without garlic or onion.
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  Speaker 2: So Hailey got to eat everything.
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  Speaker 1: That's so nice.
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  Speaker 4: And we all sat down and it was the most
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  Speaker 4: beautiful day. The weather was incredible, and.
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  Speaker 2: This weekend was it was insanely gorgeous.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was only here one day of the weekend,
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  Speaker 1: but it was beautiful yesterday but.
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  Speaker 2: The whole time.
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  Speaker 4: So when we were planning her birthday, we were going
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  Speaker 4: to rent a house that had like a pool and
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  Speaker 4: do like a pool day. But she goes, it's never
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  Speaker 4: sunny on my birthday, so I don't want to like
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  Speaker 4: have the intention of a pool day and then it'd
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  Speaker 4: be cloudy. Yeah, So she was like, if we do
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  Speaker 4: the park and games, even if it's cloudy, it'll still
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  Speaker 4: be an activity that we can enjoy. And it turned
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  Speaker 4: out to be like the sunniest, most beautiful, gorgeous pool day.
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  Speaker 4: But the park was wonderful.
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  Speaker 2: And also that day is seven years since we met,
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  Speaker 2: so we always celebrate our anniversary kind of like based
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  Speaker 2: on the day we met because that was everything happened
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  Speaker 2: so fast. Yeah, you know, so it's been seven years.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Crazy.
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  Speaker 1: People have been like married and divorced faster than that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of people.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no.
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  Speaker 1: Itch for seven years?
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  Speaker 3: Seven year?
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  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: Like, is this for me? Is it not for me?
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  Speaker 2: That's that's what it hits this year? Or will this
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  Speaker 2: be our eighth year?
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: Though?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like she would have already hit it
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  Speaker 1: by now.
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  Speaker 2: That would have been our last year.
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  Speaker 1: So no itch, no itch, just full speed ahead, no itch.
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  Speaker 2: Just love. Yeah. I was trying to think of something
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  Speaker 2: wormed itch, but there's nothing hitch.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we won't know about that until it happened.
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  Speaker 4: Speaking of there was a lot of like, you know
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: what I love about our listeners? Is there such a nice,
• 14:40
  Speaker 4: healthy divide of people who agree with you and people
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: who agree with me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's just lovely.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: Why where are you going with this?
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: Our conversation about time and oh no that that but
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  Speaker 4: also like the time, the me being late and looking
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  Speaker 4: at my location again, she goes, I'm I'm at the party.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like hosting the party. I'm doing all the games everything.
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: Tanya text me, are y'all still at the park? I'm like,
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: my location, it's back on. It's back on. You didn't
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: even check.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: I was off of her location. She took me off
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: of her location.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: I turned no, I turned all my locations off because
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: of Haley's Park. I was like trying to do things.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: But you would can imagine after last week's episode, while
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting at the hair salon and our hairstylist was like, oh,
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting for Becca, and I go, let me see
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: how far far away she is. I have her location
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: and I go to check her location and it says
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: no location found. I was like, oh, she really did it.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: And I was like, she said she was going to
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: remove me, and she freaking did it.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was funny timing. Interesting. So it was interesting timing.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: But when I see if you.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: Were sol at the park, I met like, are you
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: still going to be there? I'm on the plane like
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: gonna land. It might take me like an hour ticket
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: to Studio City. Like I was looking for more of
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: like how long are you going to be there?
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Interesting? That's not what you said though.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, who knew Becca was such like a
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Harry Yeah, Harriet the spy, analyzing every little word I say.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: No, I just looked at it like an hour later
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: and was like, oh, hope she checked my location after
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: I didn't answer.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Do you know what makes me so happy? What I'll
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: tell you when we come back. So this was just like,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: this is like a little aside. I just noticed it
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: because you're still wearing them in your ears. But I
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: for my wedding gift for my bridesmaids, I gave them
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: all these like butterfly earrings. Selfishly, I wanted butterflies incorporated
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: somewhere in my wedding, and I thought i'd be really
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: cute since they were all wearing like the same color.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: I thought like gold butterfly earrings, and the ones that
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I found I just thought were like so cute, But like,
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: none of my friends love butterflies as much as I do,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: so I was like, it feels like I want to
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: get them something that they love, but also something that's
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: like meaningful. So I went with it, not thinking that
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: you guys, like Beca is still wearing hers to this
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: day's earrings and it makes me so happy. Yeah, because
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: I haven't said too. It's like you can take them
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: out off of the ceremony if you don't wear them
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: for the reception, Like, I just really want you guys
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: to wear them for the ceremony.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Do you think in the state I was in that
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: I was going to think about changing my ear yes?
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Sober, not sober, sober, hungover?
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Unwell yeah, uh no, I love them.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: And also what's funny is that I wouldn't say I'm
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: a big butterfly person, and Hayley's not a big butterfly person,
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: and she's always like, I just love those earrings that
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: Tonya got all it makes me so happy.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, I wanted to get a pair for myself.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: If you're gonna keep wearing them all the time.
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: What if I gave you one and we each it
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: was like a best friend nearing.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Why wouldn't want you to lose out on being able
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: to have two? Right, I'll just buy one for myself.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: Great?
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, white Lotus. Let's get into it because spoiler alert,
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: we are going to be talking about the finale, So
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: if you haven't watched it, should we though?
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just saying it's been less than twenty
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: four hours. We're not giving people a lot of time
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: to watch.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Them if we don't talk about it now, what's the
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: point you're talking about it.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: A week like it's all over Instagram. Yeah, if you
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: have managed to we'll just give a fair warning. We're
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: going to talk about the White Loadus and we're going
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: to talk about it now.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: And there might be there's gonna be spoilers.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Yes, lots of spoilers.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: So zoom zoom, skippity skip come back in about ten.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Let's do that. Let's set a timer. Okay, the timer, So,
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: how much time should we spend on.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: White Lotus, like ten minutes?
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if you have not seen it yet, skip ahead
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: ten minutes from this part of the podcast starting now.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: But also you'd have to stay off social media to
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: really avoid Well, that's true, and some people could do that. Okay.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: So my prediction was that Muke, who was Lisa from
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Black Pink, killed Saxon Patrick Swortzinger, which couldn't have been
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: more irrelevant.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Mluke was like not even.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: A surprisingly so for such an enormous global star to
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: have such a minor role. I kept waiting for her
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: to be the key behind the robberies.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: That were me too. Yeah. I thought they set her
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: up to be super sketch, Like I was like, she's like,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: she's like distracting him from doing his job. She's getting
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: on it with like the robbers.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Like, I wonder if she was in they edited that
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: out or something.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: Something happened, because when she came up to him and
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: said something like and she was kind of kind of like,
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: oh yeah, it felt like, oh no, he's onto, he's
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: on to us. Yeah yeah yeah, and then nothing happened.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: Nothing happened.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: That was weird anyway, So my prediction was wrong.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Tanya's is on the page prior.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, my page, my page, My thing was really wrong.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: So I thought the killer was going to be the
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: third friend on the trip.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: And she to lose it for a while.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I thought she was going to be the
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: killer with the gun. She in fact was not, but
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: gave an Emmy winning speech that's going to.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Be for something should be given every award for what
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: it was amazing.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought the person I was going to be
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: killed was going to be the kid's mom, Natasha Rothwell,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Bye Laurie Bye.
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: Carrie Kun's character he thought, yes, yes, did they even
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: speak the whole No?
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: And I honestly was so convinced that Natasha Rothwell was
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: going to be killed Towards the end, I thought she
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: was going to be killed by Gary, but I was
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: like so convinced that she was going to be killed
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: the whole time I was watching the episode last night,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: I literally had anxiety and I'm not like an anxiety person,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm having anxiety, like if Natasha
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Rothwell dies, I'm going to be so sad. And I
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: kept looking at Robbie is like I just can't watch
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: her die. Like I was still very convinced.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Well, we knew someone was going to die. We didn't
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: want anyone to die.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: And I also thought that the pill popping mom could
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: be killed Parker Posey, she in fact almost.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Was killed, almost almost. And then Easton thought killer Lachlan
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: was going to kill Saxon who is Patrick Schorsninger, which
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: did not happen.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: And then Mark, thank you very much. Yeah, by the way,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: when I made the prediction, I had seen not one
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: second of this season. Wow, I knew nothing of the season.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Now I'm completely washed, And so I was very surprised
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: when when Sam said this, if was like, oh my gosh,
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I was right.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: Well, you haven't watched anything.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: No watch I mean we made our predictions.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I hadn't seen a second Oh you were just throw
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: it out there, just threw it out there.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: So you predicted that the killer was Rick who was
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: Walton Goggins killed Chelsea Amy lou Wood.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, he didn't directly kill her, but beyond that,
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: I'm clear it was her.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Love for him that killed her. So proxy.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: By the way, speaking of Emmy's what she did with
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: her face when he when they're at the table and
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: he and she says, you know, we're gonna spend our
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: lives together whatever, and he goes, that's the plan. Her
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: reaction to that was so warm and heart felt and beautiful,
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: and it like started off a little confused and a
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: little not sure, and then she just beamed like she
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: is an amazing actress, amazing this show is going to
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: explode her career.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: Yes, wait, can you do me a little Google search
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: or maybe like a chat GPT search. I had heard
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: somewhere that all the actors on the White Lotus get
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: paid the same amount.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, when it showed her, which.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Is interesting because it's quite the ensemble.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: When she got shot and was laying there and it
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: showed the side profile and there was a tear rolling
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: down her cheek. Ye oh, my gosh. I hated that
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: she died and me too, And I like, I just
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: at the beginning of the show, like, I started to think,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: like it could be her, but I was like no,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Like I was so like did not want it to
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: be her.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: It's like, let's not kill the hopeful love romantic girlie, Like,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: why does it always have to be the hopeful love,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: love struck puppy dog, sweet girl. Yeah, let's kill the
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: like losers.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's gotta be some drama. It can't
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: always be the person you want to die is going
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: to die.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Well. I couldn't have been further off with my prediction.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: This was a non issue the whole show. But I
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: loved is it? Guy Talk? Was that his name? Guie Talk?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: The security guard?
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: I love him. I think he's not.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: His character kind of bugged me, but he is so cute.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: Every time I see interviews of them, I'm just like,
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: I love him.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: By the way, Also, everybody was like predicting that the
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: owners of the White lotus. The husband was going to
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: be Walter Goggins's dad. Yeah, and I'm like, how about
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: the hell? I was like, that would never cross my mind.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I guess that too.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Never once did I have that thought. And so when
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: he said I was like, whoa, Like, Luke, I am
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: your father.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: I was thinking that, but only because people a TikTok
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: put it in my head. The only reason I.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Was like, I've never seen it.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: I just I just threw it out there. But my
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: throes were sporadic.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I'm also so happy that the young brother didn't die.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: That was gonna make me very dark. I thought, me too,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: me too, and that whole arc, like that whole like
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: when he put this like the poison in the blunder, Yeah,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, he's that smart. He's gonna kill
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: himself with like a smoothie. And then when he like
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: ordered the the pinacolatas to the room for all of them,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I was like, he's gonna kill his family.
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: But not Locky because Locky live without money.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I was like wow, Like the emotions that that took
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: me through was very up and down. And then then
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: then the little boy ends up dying. I was like Oh,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I can't.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: What did you think of the season overall compared to
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: the others.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: I love that show man. I'll keep watching that show
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: as long as they want to.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: You know, what's so weird? They'll like think about the
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: season like what happened?
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Nothing?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Literally nothing happened, Like there was like a weird moment
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: between two brothers and says Schule, moments a weird brave
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: that they went to they like swam on a boat
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: and then like someone died and.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Yet I was captivated me too, And like the storyline
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: with the three friends who their journey they came as
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: like frenemies and then left with this bond. And it's like,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: what is this?
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: Is it an eight day journey that we're on because
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: it's eight episodes.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a stint.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I know, it's nice.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: It's like a vacation stint. Do you know why is
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: that so?
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: We'll get to that in a second. So I'm the same.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: I actually haven't watched one or two.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Oh I hear this.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I hear the second ones, like the or is it
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: the first ones? About one of.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Well, Sidney Sweeney is a big deal In the first
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: one that floaded her career.
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: I love the first one personally, Okay, I like this
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: anxiety because I had COVID and the music and how
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: it was shot gave me anxiety when I was watching it,
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: So I think I can return back.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: I love all of them, did. I think the real
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: art of these shows is the character development, how well
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: we get to know these characters.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Like I don't like any of the characters, Like Chelsea
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: is the only character I liked this season, Like I
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: didn't like any and and any of the season's past,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Like they're all kind of like well, annoying, annoying or
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: like stuck up or something. There's like something I don't
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: like about every single one, and yet I'm so fascinated
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: by the whole.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: So all the regulars and the White Lotus are paid
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: the same, regardless what their roles of their star status.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: That means veterans like Parker Posey, Jason Isaac's Walton Goggins
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: got paid the same as newcomers like Sam Nivola, who
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: played Lockey. Reportedly, the amount is forty grand an episode,
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: so A three twenty for an eight episode season three
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: hundred and twenty thousand dollars.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, but I mean it's such a like it's such
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: a honor, Like it's such an amazing, huge show. So
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: it gives your career this no matter who you are.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: But also it's great because the gender gap in Hollywood
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: is a very real thing. Yeah, White Lotus, it doesn't exist.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: It's the same like Walter Goggins and Amy whatever and
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Amy Lou are getting paid the same. Yeah, you know,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I would like to have Mike White on the podcast.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Mike White's great. He was on Survivor.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: That's what I would love to really just kind of
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: dig into, like how did you go from Survivor to
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the White Look.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: A bunch of his tribe mates in his projects, like
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: little Tiny Roles.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I would love a little Yeah, speaking of shows that
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: we wanted, Tiny Little Role.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: Ninety Seconds Left and White Leah.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Wow, the fact that we were so spot on with
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: that is amazing.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: Any other plot lines that we haven't discussed?
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Do we know when season four comes out?
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think they've announced that yet, but I'm
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: sure they'll do one, and I'm sure it'll be a
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: big deal.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Where do you think it'll be? Where do you think
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: it'll be?
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I hope it's like in the mountain somewhere like snowy Oh.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: I was reading another story that a lot of actors
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: passed up the roles of the brothers because they didn't
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: want to play the incest.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: That's fair.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: I want to know who to pass it up. I'm like,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: really wanting to know who passed up the roles? How
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: can we find that out through Mike White?
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Maybe Patrick Schortzinger, maybe he knows.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he's gonna divulge, no or divulge.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: But Mike White didn't give any details. Nobody t season
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: four might not be at one of the hotels that
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: like we'd expect. Cast members have warned that Mike White
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: hates the cold. Do not expect a ski season.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: What if he did the fall like uh on Chateau.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Also, I was like, they did like this huge white
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: lotus event in La somewhere at like the Georgian they like.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I saw that go over, and I'm like, how do
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: I get invited to stuff like that?
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: We gotta get a little bit bigger. We're gonna get
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: a little our names a little bit bigger. Really, yeah?
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Or should like? I was like, we were watching it
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: all season published I should have been like more proactive about.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: Did anyone that you know go Victoria? Oh she did?
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like that looked so fun and like
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: the cast was there and they all watched it together.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: I was like, I would love to do that.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know that people other people other than the.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Cast went oh yeah yah yah yea yeah.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: No has confirmed a four season, probably somewhere in Europe.
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: Scouting will be this summer three to one and we're
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: done with my life?
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Do you know what show I want to start watching?
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Grace and No, The Residency. It's kind of like a
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: who Died on Netflix. Yeah, everybody's telling me it's like amazing.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Oh really, it's just oh yeah, I said, The Residency.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: The Residence.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: It was a show called The Resident. I think a
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: medical show.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I watched it. Oh, it was fantastic, Okay, and then
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: what happened? They jumped the ship a little bit, jump shark, shark,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: jump the shark a little bit. I think season Jenna
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Duan started like coming on after she came on, not
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: because of her, like I loved her character, but it
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: was like around that time when it started to just
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: kind of.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Well, Mark and I are still caught up, caught up,
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: on great, but I took some time off, but I'm
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: back for the sake of finishing something that I started.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's coming back for a twenty second season.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Somehow, we still are going for another season. All in?
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Okay, absolutely, I can't say I'm all in, but I'm in.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? Another oiler?
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: We'll give you a much shorter one on this.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is there's not much to say three minutes. Sure, okay,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: here we go.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Who dies?
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: No one, nobody died. But so Owen and Teddy decided
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: they're going to have an open relationship. Yes, And so
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: Teddy goes to this conference and let Sophia Bush know
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: green light.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: They go back to the hotel room. They're getting it on,
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: and Teddy's like, you know what I can't do.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: They're making out, they're like laying on the bed, they're
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: about to have sex, and then Teddy's like, I can't
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: do this, like I feel like I'm cheating on my
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: hus And she asked Sophia, like her character, did you
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: feel like you were cheating on your husband when you
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: opened your relationship?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: And she was like, no, it made me.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: Feel free because I felt like I was suffocating, and
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Teddy's like, I feel like I'm cheating on Owen.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: I can't do this, Okay.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: So then Teddy texts Owen, Hey, hope you're doing well,
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: I love you or whatever. Cut to Owen. You know,
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: his phone's beaving. Meanwhile, he is just going to town.
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: With his high school sister's friend friend's sister that he's
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: had all this like chemistry with.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: Of course Owen just goes. I mean, listen, they.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Wanted to open that relationship. Did not put the blame
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: on Kevin mckitt. Okay, it was not his idea, Yeah.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: But he's certainly waiting for it.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: He had feel like he was cheating on Teddy.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't know what's going to happen.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: This is a life lesson. Yes, sometimes you think the
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: grass is greener, but the grass is actually green where
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: you water.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: I have always said, if you ever bring a third
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: person into your relationship in any way, it's over. Your
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: relationship is over. Yeah that's my opinion.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: But some people, some people do it. I could not.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: I personally could not.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: I would be more on the Teddy Owen range of
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: things in that or Teddy things of that. I would
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: never go there personally, if if Haley was like I
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: want to open our relationship, I be then goodbye.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, open the door, goodbye.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: And then we'd cry.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like devastated. But there's no way I
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna do it.
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: But neither So we'll see what happens, because the whole
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: thing was like there. They weren't going to talk about it,
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: and they weren't going to develop feelings.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: It was just physical.
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: But Owen seems quite emotional over this woman that he
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: is in the bed with, so.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Like just like screaming her name.
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: No, Grans hasn't become born.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Sorry white lotus in my head.
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: No, he just he just like anytime she's been around
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: or on the show, that the girl that he sleeps,
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: there's like he's always seeking her out and there's this
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: emotional thing that goes beyond wanting to just have sex.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: So I think that's going to come to a head
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: and they're going to have to He's gonna be like
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: you open, you chose this, and I've fallen for someone else.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: I don't remember anything else in that episode, to be honest, but.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: The same something about Meredith trying to get Alzheimer's.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: For me, I.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Thought that would never gotten. I'm with you, Scrubber if
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: you fast forwarded through that spoiler alert, I'm with you.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Dang. That's tough, tough, tough to hear.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: But you know, I am like, now that I'm in
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: my decompression era, I do want to get back into
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: like a good show. I want to get like I
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: want to be in like I enjoyed last night that
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: like everybody was felt at least it felt like to
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: me everybody was watching the White Lotus in that moment.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: That was cool.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I like that.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: This is why I love a week by week episode
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: drop because when you binge it, everyone's on a different
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: level of what episode they're on, and when it's once
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: a week, everyone for the most part is watching at
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: the same time. There's something really unified about that.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I love everybody else. I was like posting
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: like Who's going to die tonight? I was like, and.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: I'm coming around because Severance. I felt the same way
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: about this week. I felt each week it got more
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: tense and exciting Severance and it got more of a
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: must see moment every single Friday.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm with you.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: On that you didn't you didn't like Severance?
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: No, there was a couple episodes in the middle of that.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: I was like, why am I watching this?
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: What did you make it through the season?
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: I did?
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the finale was great.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Did y'all want to get into that? And I'll tell Okay, Well.
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: I do want to talk about there's a new dating
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: app and you match without showing the face. So it's
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: basically like, uh, love is blind dating as the voice
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: is there a voice?
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: Like the voice? The singing that.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Like the voice. But I want to talk about that,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: but first we're going to take a break, all right.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: So there's a new dating app. It's called Tribal. It's
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: created by a psychologist, Rachel Harker, that's trying to get
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: people to focus on things other than looks. But I'm
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: curious how this is gonna work because it's I guess
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: it's like love is blind. It would be like if
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: you were scrolling Hinge and you just saw Robbie's profile
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: no pictures. Do you remember things that were on the
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: Darius for baby cows or.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Something Darius for raby cows, And then do you remember
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: the picture of him, like laying on a lounger with
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: like his Yeah. I was like, that is the one
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: photo that made me almost swipe away from you. I
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: thought I was like borderline douchey. And he was like,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: if you thought that was bad, if you, he goes,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: if you would have seen me on the dating app
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: two months before we matched, you would have scrolled right
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: past me because he was like in a different phase
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: of life. He wasn't looking for like love, he was
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: looking for you know, fun, and so his page was
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: like douchey.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, wow, I did not know this information.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I know it's like so it's so fun for me
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: to like think about him in that because he was like, literally,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: I met you at the exact time that I like
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: finally opened up my heart to like find something real.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Well, so on tribal users are based on shared values,
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: interests in communication styles, and you answer forty four questions
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: for tribal dating and then thirty three questions for tribal friendship,
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: so it's not just dating relationships, and it blurs the
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: profile photos for seventy two hours. So I guess like
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: once you talk for a couple of days, a few days,
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: you get access to the photos.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: If you're interested.
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: I think this would be humiliating. Yeah, you get a
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: real good bond going okay, sevent two hours, here we go,
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: and then they'd never respond to you.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: That there should never be a photo reveal.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: You just meet and then that's when you see them.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: I would never join the.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Scary I guess, like, because how do you go into
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: a bar and you're like, who am I meeting?
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I'm the guy with the pink rose
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: like on my table or like whatever.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, and then you can hear their voice. Uh so
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: you like can feel like.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: He has that Like I don't know if other dating
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: apps have that, but they has the abilities where you
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: can answer the questions with like your voice. I find
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: it so awkward.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: I'm fascinated by this because if I would love if scrubbers,
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: if we all coulda someone get on tribal, let me
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: know what it's like, and if there's a lot of connection,
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: please report back.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I met a couple of girls in Houston this weekend
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: that are like in the dating trenches, and I did
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: my normal thing that I suggest, which is no calling
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: in the one yes, And I thought to myself, should
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I write my own calling in the one oh my gosh,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: any reaction would you? I said, my god, oh my gosh,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: in silence.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. The scrubbers, but eat it up. They
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: would be all in. But like what married? So I know,
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: but calling in the One worked for you? So what
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: would you do different that? Like? Would you just take
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: some of the ideas from Calling in the One and
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: then put it in your own little Tanya twists?
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: And what if those changes you make were important? And
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: then it doesn't work anymore? Like I feel like there's
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: a psychological component to Calling in the One, Like this
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: person who wrote it is probably a doctor of some
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: sort and knew exact film. Man, I'm getting a skat.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Honestly, though, I think, Yeah, what if you collabed with
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: her or a love psychology, relationship psychologist, someone who could
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: give you a little more like in depth information, and
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: y'all did like a collab.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I don't need anybody else.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: Catherin Woodward Thomas is a licensed marriage and family therapist,
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: a transformative educator, and an internationally recognized relationship expert who
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: has trained and certified hundreds of people as coaches of
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: her transformative works.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I wouldn't say I'm an expert.
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: Do you think Meredith Gray's going to cure Alzheimer's on
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: her own?
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't claim it to be like an experts
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: guide to calling in the One. I would call it
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: calling in the One for dummies or something. Do you
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? So it's like, you know what
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: you're getting this idea.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Maybe just referring calling in the One is is great.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: And then I think, Wow, if you want to write
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: your own book and collab with someone who has done
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: the studying on relationships and how the brain works when
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: you're in love and when you're connecting with someone, I
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: think you could do something really amazing.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: But it's not even about this before the connection. It's
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: opening yourself up to be.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Able to have a psychologist.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Your dad, Well, this conversation did not go the way
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: that I hadn't.
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: Tonia, you and your dad collab and write a dating
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: book for Calling in One?
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: Part two.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: My dad hasn't called in the One since like nineteen He.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Called back the one.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: He called the one and I called her back.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: That's something. There's something there. Oh man, all right, it's
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: so it's something to think, it's.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Something to think about. Yeah, because I feel like, now
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: that my wedding has passed, and now that all my
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: traveling is done, I'm feeling a little stagnant.
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, but that book was written and is done. Why
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: don't you come up with a new idea?
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: But you get what I'm saying. Like, I'm feeling like
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: my wedding was like my focus for like a year,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: at least the last six months it was like my
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: frontal lobe. Then I had all this like travel, so
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: that kept me like busy. Now I feel like I
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: need something to like put in the place of my wedding.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Oh why can't Why can't you just rest and enjoy
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: it just exists?
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't just exist.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Writing another book's a great idea. Writing somebody else's book
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: is not.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: I feel like you could start. Have you thought of
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: baby names?
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: No, I feel like that's something I should do with Robbie, though.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Now you don't have any baby names.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Well okay, no, but I thought about using a finding
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: a name that starts with a y because his niece
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: his name. His niece's name is yell yah Ya, and
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: I love the name ya Ya Yadaghar. I think it's
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: so cute. So I kind of think like I want
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: to use a y name.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: That's limited.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: That's as far as I got Yasmin.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: No offense to any Yasmin's, but.
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: Yaz Yolanda yo yo yo yo.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Yo yo is kind of cute.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: Yo yo No. I mean for her name is Yolanda
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: and you call it yoyo.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: All right, sure yo yo YadA.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, okay. Speaking of baby names, so Caitlin Bristow.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: On her podcast excellent transition back that always impressed.
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: On her podcast, she was talking about how she had
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: a baby name that she was like, this is I'm
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: going to name my baby this one day.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: It was at the top of her.
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: List and that name was well, Jason adopts the dog
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: and names it Teddy, which was the name at the
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: top of her list. So dark, it's so petty, it is, well,
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: yeah it is.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: And and some people are like, maybe that was the
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: dog's name before, Like that was just the dog's name.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: How he got him adopted? You know, Jason needs to
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: step up.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: And share to clarify you that was the dog's name,
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: because I have questions it.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Was the dog's name when he got the dog, like
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: it was the dog's name that he adopted and he
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: just kept the name. Then he needs to come out
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: and say that because he's looking pretty not great, it's
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: like looking good for him.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: But yeah, she the Scrubbers.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Named their dog yo Yo Yadagar, right, and I'm going
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: to be upset.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Well, No, it wouldn't be that. It would be like
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: if I named it would be.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Like if you got another dog and named it yo
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Yo Yadagar Robbie's name to dogg Yo. Yeah, it would
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: be Yeah, it would be dark.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's like one thing if if
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: it wasn't a discussion they had had. But I assume,
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: and I don't know she talked about this in the podcast.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: I assume she shared with him those names. They were engaged,
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: Brutal, she gets, don't name a kid Teddy, catchy.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: No, she doesn't know anymore.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: Tainted, you know, kind of tainted.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I think it's tainted.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: It's tainted.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: We've had a lot of conversation about Teddy in this podcast.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Different a lot of Teddies.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's our last name?
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Teddy swims.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: No, we haven't talked about him. No, like someone that
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: I never want to.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I was like thinking about it, I couldn't think of
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: it to save my life.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: But anyways, we are gonna have Caitlyn's give Me on
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: the podcast soon, so we'll do it deep.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Good tea, Yeah, we'll do We'll just deep dive into that,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: like but before we have Caitlyn burs.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: So we do have a Dear Bonia this this week
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: on Thursday, So that's not this is not the last
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: you're hearing from us on this Monday afternoon.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, we will be.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Back on Thursday. We love you so much.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: I love you to be continued