Latest / Crime Stories with Nancy Grace / Killers Amongst US: Bride sends out 'Save-the-Dates,' found stabbed 20 times, RULED SUICIDE! (episode 3)
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- 0:04Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Nancy Grace here, welcome back to Killers amongst Us,
- 0:08Speaker 1: a production of iHeartMedia and Crime Online. You go in
- 0:14Speaker 1: and out of your home, your garage, your front or
- 0:17Speaker 1: back door. You see the neighbors, You see people going
- 0:20Speaker 1: by on the street, or in your apartment building. You
- 0:24Speaker 1: see people in the parking lot going in and out
- 0:27Speaker 1: all the time. Do you ever stop and notice them? Today,
- 0:31Speaker 1: Killers amongst Us, I'm Nancy Grace. We're talking about the
- 0:39Speaker 1: story of a beautiful young Philly teacher, beautiful on the
- 0:43Speaker 1: inside and the outside. Ellen Greenberg, just twenty seven years old,
- 0:48Speaker 1: had just sent out her Saved the date announcements for
- 0:52Speaker 1: her wedding. She had the world by the tail of
- 0:55Speaker 1: what happened. Listen to this. Twenty seven year old Nollenberg
- 1:00Speaker 1: was a first grade teacher in Philadelphia. She and her
- 1:03Speaker 1: boyfriend of three years he had just become engaged and
- 1:07Speaker 1: began planning their wedding. January twenty six, two thleven, Ellen
- 1:12Speaker 1: school let out early due to an oncoming blizzard. On
- 1:15Speaker 1: her way home, she filled up her guesting She was
- 1:19Speaker 1: at home with her fiance until four forty five pm,
- 1:22Speaker 1: when he reportedly went to the gym in their apartment competence.
- 1:25Speaker 1: When he arrived back to the apartment less than an
- 1:28Speaker 1: hour later, he says he found the apartment locked from
- 1:31Speaker 1: the inside. He claims he banged on the door and
- 1:34Speaker 1: received no response. Over the next twenty two minutes, he
- 1:37Speaker 1: would try to convince Helen to open the door through
- 1:40Speaker 1: text messages. So what happened? Why wouldn't Ellen come to
- 1:45Speaker 1: the door? According to the fiance, take a listen to
- 1:48Speaker 1: our friend doctor Oz. At six thirty three pm, her
- 1:52Speaker 1: fiance says he forced open the door to find Ellen
- 1:55Speaker 1: dead on the floor of the kitchen. He stabbed twenty
- 1:58Speaker 1: times in the chest, neck, and head. It was a
- 2:01Speaker 1: knife still lodged in her chest. Ellen was pronounced dead
- 2:05Speaker 1: at six forty pm. Investigators evaluating the scene and her
- 2:10Speaker 1: autopsy ultimately stated that she died by suicide. There were
- 2:14Speaker 1: no obvious signs of an intruder or evidence of a struggle.
- 2:18Speaker 1: There was no suicide. I still don't understand how you
- 2:22Speaker 1: can stab yourself twenty plus times, including to the side
- 2:27Speaker 1: of your head and the back of your neck with
- 2:30Speaker 1: me and All Star panel. Stephanie Farr, reporter, Philadelphia Inquirer.
- 2:35Speaker 1: You can find her on Twitter at far Away. Far
- 2:39Speaker 1: R Professor Forensics, Jacksonville State University. Author of Blood Beneath
- 2:43Speaker 1: My Feet on Amazon, star of a brand new hit
- 2:46Speaker 1: series on True Crime Network, Poisonous Liaisons, Private investigator on
- 2:52Speaker 1: Team Greenberg, Tom Brennan, renowned psychiatrists joining me out of
- 2:57Speaker 1: the Atlanta area. Doctor Angela Arnold, you can find her
- 3:00Speaker 1: at Angela Arnold MD dot com. Veteran trial lawyer, former
- 3:05Speaker 1: prosecutor turned defense attorney. Daryl Cohen, attorney with Cohen Cooper, Estep,
- 3:11Speaker 1: and Allen and special guests joining me Allen's dad, Josh
- 3:16Speaker 1: Greenberg and her mother, Sandy Greenberg. You know, Sandy, we
- 3:22Speaker 1: were talking earlier about getting that phone call from the
- 3:26Speaker 1: fiancee asking about Ellen. Do you remember that. Yes, Sam
- 3:32Speaker 1: called on our landline, which was kind of surprising because
- 3:36Speaker 1: we only used the cell phones. I picked it up,
- 3:40Speaker 1: and he wanted to know if I had heard from
- 3:42Speaker 1: Ellen because he was locked out of the apartment. And
- 3:47Speaker 1: I said, oh, she's probably drying her hair. Give it
- 3:52Speaker 1: a couple of minutes and you know, shouldn't be a problem.
- 3:55Speaker 1: And the you know, the call was brief and we
- 4:00Speaker 1: didn't hear anything till we got to call later that
- 4:03Speaker 1: evening from Richard Goldberg saying that something terrible happened. Actual
- 4:08Speaker 1: immediate reaction when you heard quote something terrible, what's happened
- 4:12Speaker 1: to Alex? Where's the where's the ambulance? And trying to
- 4:16Speaker 1: find my voice to scream from my husband? You know,
- 4:21Speaker 1: I didn't had he called for an ambulance? I don't.
- 4:24Speaker 1: I don't know, Josh Greenberg, do you know if the
- 4:26Speaker 1: fiance called for an ambulance? We have no way of knowing.
- 4:31Speaker 1: I don't know. Find that really odd, jo Scott Morgan,
- 4:33Speaker 1: You've been on many a scene. Wouldn't there be records
- 4:37Speaker 1: of who called for the ambulance? Yeah? Yeah, there would,
- 4:41Speaker 1: And it would seem as though that the initial finder,
- 4:45Speaker 1: who in this case is this boyfriend, would have been
- 4:51Speaker 1: the individual to have, you know, taken up the mantle
- 4:54Speaker 1: here and merely dialed nine one one, but at the
- 4:59Speaker 1: bottom one when the police arrived. I don't understand why
- 5:04Speaker 1: an ambulance would not have come out to the scene
- 5:07Speaker 1: at least to do an initial assessment, even if it's
- 5:11Speaker 1: just to walk up to the door and the police say,
- 5:13Speaker 1: now she's gone, you guys need to back out. This
- 5:16Speaker 1: is now crime scene. Is to go ahead, jump in,
- 5:19Speaker 1: mister Goldberg. V Goldberg did, in fact, when he made
- 5:23Speaker 1: entry into the apartment, did call nine one one. We
- 5:29Speaker 1: do have that nine one one call, that's right, And
- 5:32Speaker 1: the operator explained to him about doing CPR. Yeah, And
- 5:37Speaker 1: that's when he approached the victims. He was wait a minute,
- 5:43Speaker 1: wait a minute. He had not approached her yet. No,
- 5:47Speaker 1: I'm gonna jump in also here, so we're all jumping in.
- 5:50Speaker 1: I believe that. He said to the nine one one operator,
- 5:53Speaker 1: do I have to No, now, wait a minute, Josh,
- 5:57Speaker 1: let's get it straight. Okay, okay, Tom. He approached the victim,
- 6:02Speaker 1: the operator asked him if he knew how to administer CPR.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Sam Goldberg said that he didn't. She said, I'll basically
- 6:12Speaker 1: walk you through it. He knelt down beside her and
- 6:15Speaker 1: he said, oh my god, she's got a knife in
- 6:19Speaker 1: her chest. She must have fell out a knife. And
- 6:23Speaker 1: she said, don't touch anything. Don't touch anything. Stop right there.
- 6:28Speaker 1: And when he knelt down, he said, do I have
- 6:31Speaker 1: to do this? And she said yeah, And he said, ah,
- 6:36Speaker 1: so he's the one that didn't in fact make the
- 6:39Speaker 1: nine one one call. We do have video security video
- 6:45Speaker 1: when the emf R Department personnel arrived at the scene
- 6:52Speaker 1: and were escorted to the elevator by the concierge. What
- 6:56Speaker 1: I find amazing is that the individual EMS person from
- 7:02Speaker 1: the fire department that pronounced Ellan at six forty pm
- 7:08Speaker 1: and his lieutenant, we're never interviewed by the homicide investigator.
- 7:15Speaker 1: Straight out to Stephanie Farr, reporter with the Philadelphia Inquirer. Stephanie,
- 7:20Speaker 1: thank you for being with us. As I recall, the
- 7:23Speaker 1: Philadelphia inquire A release a front page report that went
- 7:28Speaker 1: over the circumstances surrounding Allen's death, and we learned that
- 7:33Speaker 1: we're now pathologists. Cyril Wecked you recalled challenge at John
- 7:39Speaker 1: FK Single person Assassination reviewed the case and say that
- 7:44Speaker 1: it was strongly suspicious of homicide. Anne also say I
- 7:49Speaker 1: don't know how they wrote this off as a suicide. Also,
- 7:52Speaker 1: a man that I respect greatly, Henry Lee, as you
- 7:57Speaker 1: recall from O. J. Simpson Fame, reviewed the case and
- 8:01Speaker 1: he also concluded the number and types of wounds and
- 8:04Speaker 1: bloodstained patterns observed are consistent with a homicide, saying what
- 8:10Speaker 1: else was in the Philadelphia Inquirer's front page report Stephanie.
- 8:16Speaker 1: We went from the beginning when when Sandy and Josh
- 8:20Speaker 1: got the call that night, through the investigation that occurred
- 8:25Speaker 1: in my interviews with police when they arrived on scene.
- 8:28Speaker 1: Initially it was treated as a suicide that night for
- 8:33Speaker 1: several reasons. The apartment door lock was a big factor
- 8:37Speaker 1: of the case for police. The fact that Sam Goldberg
- 8:42Speaker 1: had remained on scene and was cooperative was also one,
- 8:45Speaker 1: and that there were no signs of an intruder or
- 8:47Speaker 1: in the lack of defensive factored heavily in their determination. Also,
- 8:53Speaker 1: it's my understanding the police did not realize how many
- 8:56Speaker 1: times she had been stabbed at the scene that night,
- 8:58Speaker 1: while they didn't see the nice in her chest. It
- 9:01Speaker 1: was only the next day at autopsy that all twenty
- 9:04Speaker 1: of the wounds were discovered. Joe scot Way in, if
- 9:08Speaker 1: I could just go back to what as far was
- 9:11Speaker 1: saying just a moment ago about the nature of these
- 9:14Speaker 1: wounds and not being able to assess them at the scene,
- 9:18Speaker 1: that's that's certainly part of the course. That's not anything
- 9:22Speaker 1: that is unusual because there's such a copious amount of
- 9:26Speaker 1: blood in these cases, and that goes to a bigger issue.
- 9:30Speaker 1: She had lost a tremendous amount of blood in this
- 9:34Speaker 1: particular case, So you can't you can't assess the body
- 9:38Speaker 1: at the scene and really know what's going on. So
- 9:41Speaker 1: you know, when you look at this in total, is
- 9:44Speaker 1: it possible at the scene, at that moment time to
- 9:47Speaker 1: contextualize what's going on. I think that just because these
- 9:51Speaker 1: cases where you have quote unquote self inflicted stab wounds
- 9:57Speaker 1: are rare, I mean very rare. I think over the
- 10:01Speaker 1: course of a twenty plus year career at the Emmy
- 10:04Speaker 1: in Atlanta and New Orleans, UM, I may have worked,
- 10:08Speaker 1: I may have worked a total of five self inflicted
- 10:13Speaker 1: suicide cases. You just don't come along because there's so
- 10:17Speaker 1: much pain involved. You mean suicide by knife? Yes, yes,
- 10:21Speaker 1: self inflicted knife wounds. And I'm not I'm not talking
- 10:25Speaker 1: about an individual. Let's see, I'd say that I have one,
- 10:33Speaker 1: uh that was in fact a woman that I know
- 10:37Speaker 1: of the other men, but this is the one thing
- 10:39Speaker 1: they all had had in common. Single stab. No, no,
- 10:43Speaker 1: I would have multiple stab but this is the one
- 10:45Speaker 1: thing they all had in common. Uh. They were being
- 10:49Speaker 1: treated I think probably uh probably four were all being
- 10:55Speaker 1: treated for uh some type of severe mental illness. That
- 11:01Speaker 1: brought on manic phases or delusional phases, and I just
- 11:05Speaker 1: don't I don't see evidence of that here. I want
- 11:07Speaker 1: to circle back to what we know about the injuries
- 11:12Speaker 1: to Ellen, because it's my understanding that there was one
- 11:17Speaker 1: particular stab wound that penetrated Ellen's brain, and we know
- 11:23Speaker 1: that was not the last stab wound because the knife
- 11:26Speaker 1: was found in her chest. And I want to apologize
- 11:30Speaker 1: to mister and missus Greenberg for discussing her wounds so
- 11:36Speaker 1: oh gosh, surgically. But the significance of this one stab
- 11:45Speaker 1: to her brain. I don't understand how a stab to
- 11:50Speaker 1: the brain and the spinal cord a would not have
- 11:54Speaker 1: caused incredible pain and nerve dysfunction if you're stabbed in
- 12:00Speaker 1: the brain, traumatic brain injuries, So how could you then
- 12:06Speaker 1: go ahead and distab yourself in the chest after that?
- 12:11Speaker 1: That's let me go to Tom Brennan on that. What
- 12:13Speaker 1: do you make of that? Um If you take a
- 12:16Speaker 1: look at it, one particular wound um the wound track,
- 12:20Speaker 1: it penetrates the spinal cord and goes in an upward
- 12:25Speaker 1: upward direction into the brain and causing causes hemorrhaging in
- 12:30Speaker 1: the brain. So that one will loan Um would have
- 12:35Speaker 1: totally incapacitated the victim or would have caused them. And
- 12:42Speaker 1: that is exactly what you told, doctor oz Listen. We
- 12:47Speaker 1: engaged a neuro forensic pathologist who I had worked worked
- 12:52Speaker 1: with in the past, and um he studied all of
- 12:56Speaker 1: the information that I had and it was his opinion
- 12:59Speaker 1: that this was a homicide and not a suicide. And
- 13:03Speaker 1: he said the wounds would have severed the nerves in
- 13:06Speaker 1: the spinal cord. And if you take if you look
- 13:10Speaker 1: at the wound track, the wound track goes in and
- 13:12Speaker 1: up direction into the brain and causes a hemorrhage in
- 13:16Speaker 1: the brain. So following that that wound itself, the victim
- 13:22Speaker 1: could no longer self hard Do you just got Morgan?
- 13:25Speaker 1: What do you make of that? Yeah, Nancy, this is
- 13:28Speaker 1: what I make of it. Just like Tom is saying,
- 13:31Speaker 1: this wound track itself would penetrate into an area that
- 13:35Speaker 1: involves a primal brain that you know kind of controls
- 13:38Speaker 1: our autonomic nervous system. You know, there's things that you know,
- 13:43Speaker 1: we don't think obviously about our heart beating. We want
- 13:45Speaker 1: to tell our heart to be It's not like picking
- 13:47Speaker 1: up a can of soda. So these are primal brain functions,
- 13:52Speaker 1: and you know, you couple that with the injuries that
- 13:57Speaker 1: she sustained with her there's a nick to her a order.
- 14:02Speaker 1: I believe there's injury to to her the lobe of
- 14:07Speaker 1: one of her lungs. And that means what that's saying
- 14:10Speaker 1: is that there would have been just a tremendous amount
- 14:14Speaker 1: of internal blood loss. So that coupled with the insult
- 14:18Speaker 1: to uh to uh, this insult to the brain would
- 14:23Speaker 1: have been it's it's a it's a double whammy. I
- 14:26Speaker 1: don't see how you get past this as an investigator
- 14:30Speaker 1: or in as a forensic pathologist being able to frame
- 14:34Speaker 1: this like they are. Let's talk about the scene itself. UM,
- 14:44Speaker 1: I want to talk about the layout of the apartment.
- 14:47Speaker 1: What can you tell me, Josh and Sandy about the
- 14:50Speaker 1: layout of her apartment? Was that what level? Was it on? First? Second, third?
- 14:55Speaker 1: It was on the sixth floor, and I think that
- 15:00Speaker 1: was pretty sure that, yeah, was on the sixth floor.
- 15:04Speaker 1: And there were no cameras in the hallways correct. I
- 15:08Speaker 1: don't know, but I could tell you that when you
- 15:10Speaker 1: walk down the hallway, I could hear Ellen talking in
- 15:13Speaker 1: her kitchen, which is the room that when the door
- 15:16Speaker 1: opens up, that's what you enter into. Do we know,
- 15:19Speaker 1: Tom Brennan, if there was any stairway that led to
- 15:25Speaker 1: the top of the building or emergency stairs that led down.
- 15:31Speaker 1: There are stairs that you made down from the sixth floor,
- 15:36Speaker 1: and according to the concierge, there are there were entryways
- 15:42Speaker 1: at that time that could be accessed and the individual
- 15:47Speaker 1: or individuals could avoid being detected with the security cameras. Okay,
- 15:54Speaker 1: so there were emergency stairs and you could access them
- 15:58Speaker 1: without being detected by cameras. Was the trash collected, Tom Brennan?
- 16:04Speaker 1: And was the dumpster searched Tom Brennan that serviced the
- 16:10Speaker 1: apartment and the trash shoot. So the trash in the apartment,
- 16:16Speaker 1: the trash shoot and the outside dumpster was his, the
- 16:20Speaker 1: fiance's car and trunk searched. Were the door knobs to
- 16:26Speaker 1: the access the emergency stairway printed? And was the shower
- 16:34Speaker 1: recently used? Do we know any of those answers? None
- 16:37Speaker 1: of that was done by the police that said even
- 16:40Speaker 1: that night. So bottom line to that, Daryl Cohen, you
- 16:45Speaker 1: and I have seen a lot of murders. Darryl. It
- 16:48Speaker 1: would have been so easy given the circumstances. I'm hearing
- 16:53Speaker 1: for a purp to murder Ellen, to take a shower,
- 16:59Speaker 1: to leave the apartment, to go down the emergency stairwell,
- 17:03Speaker 1: to dump bloody clothing or whatever the case may be
- 17:10Speaker 1: evidence in a dumpster or in a car trunk, and
- 17:15Speaker 1: it was never searched. Would you agree that's possible? I
- 17:20Speaker 1: absolutely agree, But I also have questions these other access points.
- 17:25Speaker 1: Did they require a fob? Did they require a key?
- 17:29Speaker 1: I know they were about under camera surveillance, but could
- 17:33Speaker 1: someone have entered because it was open? And the other part,
- 17:38Speaker 1: of course, is that when the perp, if there was one.
- 17:41Speaker 1: And I'm very concerned with the stab wound to the head,
- 17:45Speaker 1: which brings up another question to the brain. Was Joe
- 17:49Speaker 1: was that instantaneous when the stab woud went to the brain?
- 17:53Speaker 1: Was she could no longer? Now what? I'm not an MD,
- 17:56Speaker 1: I'm in JD, but I can tell you this, When
- 17:58Speaker 1: you get a stab to the brain, it's instant darryl Okay, well,
- 18:03Speaker 1: I mean really no offense or where did you go
- 18:06Speaker 1: to law school? Mercer or Nyffy. I got to say,
- 18:11Speaker 1: you know a reference to what Daryl's Darrel's comment is
- 18:14Speaker 1: and this is something that's kind of troubling from me.
- 18:17Speaker 1: Please put it in a nutshell, Okay, all right, she
- 18:21Speaker 1: had she had an insult to her spinal cord that
- 18:26Speaker 1: was examined by the neuropathologist. There's no indication the autopsy
- 18:30Speaker 1: report that forgive me parents, that they took her brain
- 18:37Speaker 1: and sent it to to a neurologist neuropath to examine
- 18:45Speaker 1: the brain. It's the forensic pathologist that is making the
- 18:49Speaker 1: assessment on the brain. Why not take the extra step
- 18:52Speaker 1: and include a spinal cord as well as the brain,
- 18:56Speaker 1: because right now I'm not seeing it. I'm not seeing
- 18:58Speaker 1: it in any of the reports that I've read in
- 19:00Speaker 1: that again, is troubling to me as someone that looks
- 19:04Speaker 1: at cases involving death exactly. You know, I said I
- 19:09Speaker 1: wasn't an MD, but we actually have an MD on
- 19:11Speaker 1: the panel, doctor Angela. Arnold. Psychiatrists, you have to be
- 19:15Speaker 1: an MD before you become a psychiatrist's right, Doctor Angie.
- 19:19Speaker 1: I just find it really hard to believe that you
- 19:20Speaker 1: could take a knife on into the brain and it
- 19:23Speaker 1: not be instant, and you still have the wherewithal to
- 19:25Speaker 1: plunge a knife into your chest. That is total b yes,
- 19:28Speaker 1: this is total Yes, Nancy, you can't do it. And
- 19:32Speaker 1: also to do something like that to yourself, you would
- 19:36Speaker 1: you would have Typically when women do things like that
- 19:40Speaker 1: to themselves, like it's women kill themselves. They have such
- 19:43Speaker 1: a hatred for themselves, okay, and they almost they would
- 19:48Speaker 1: almost associate and do this. But there is no way
- 19:52Speaker 1: that after stabbing yourself in the brain, that you could
- 19:55Speaker 1: pull the knife out and stab yourself again. Ridiculous, ridiculous.
- 20:04Speaker 1: I want to again try to get back to the
- 20:06Speaker 1: layout of the apartment, Sandy Greenberg Tolmy. It was the
- 20:09Speaker 1: sixth floor, and then we went down the rabbit hole
- 20:12Speaker 1: of the emergency exit stairwell. Was there a balcony, Sandy, No,
- 20:23Speaker 1: there was. You could open up the wind I don't
- 20:28Speaker 1: actually remember, but it looks like a faux balcony, but
- 20:33Speaker 1: you couldn't really go out those little attachment things. But
- 20:36Speaker 1: you can't really go out there. So there's no other exit.
- 20:41Speaker 1: There's no other way down except the elevator and the
- 20:45Speaker 1: emergency stairwell. There's no sign of an intruder. But again,
- 20:49Speaker 1: I want to go over very carefully, Tom Brennan, the
- 20:52Speaker 1: condition of that lock, the lot that was a lot
- 20:57Speaker 1: from the inside, and the fiance he said he couldn't
- 21:01Speaker 1: he couldn't get in because she alleged to him locked
- 21:04Speaker 1: it on the end's high. Did you ever get to
- 21:07Speaker 1: see or were there photos taken off the lock to
- 21:10Speaker 1: show it had been splintered open when the fiance says
- 21:12Speaker 1: he broke the door down. When I first got involved,
- 21:17Speaker 1: I didn't go through the over the seame photographs and
- 21:20Speaker 1: there are very good photographs of the condition of this
- 21:24Speaker 1: sliding bar lock. Okay, And if you take a look
- 21:28Speaker 1: at it, and I have been trained in lock picking.
- 21:31Speaker 1: I did surreptitious entries when I was the law enforcement,
- 21:36Speaker 1: so I'm very familiar with lock If you take a
- 21:39Speaker 1: look at the lock, the one pieces mounted on the door,
- 21:44Speaker 1: the other pieces mounted on the door down. The piece
- 21:47Speaker 1: mounted on the door is mounted for its four screws.
- 21:52Speaker 1: The door is a particle board door, so there's damage
- 21:58Speaker 1: to that piece and it's uh, there is one screw missing,
- 22:05Speaker 1: and there are pieces of the particle board door that
- 22:09Speaker 1: should be on the floor. Well, if you take a
- 22:11Speaker 1: look at the photographs, that screw is that missing is
- 22:15Speaker 1: not visible, that fell out, and the that would particles
- 22:22Speaker 1: that came from as a result of damaging that that
- 22:26Speaker 1: mounting are not there either. The lock on the door,
- 22:33Speaker 1: the fiance said, precluded him from getting in. He had
- 22:37Speaker 1: to break the door down. Part of it was still on,
- 22:42Speaker 1: still attached. It had four screws. One screw was missing
- 22:49Speaker 1: and never found, as if it had been unscrewed right,
- 22:54Speaker 1: not broken down. The screw went flying. It was missing
- 22:58Speaker 1: right and particles from breaking the door down. We're not
- 23:04Speaker 1: on the floor according to these photos. Very curious, Very curious.
- 23:11Speaker 1: Another thing in the home. Was the home ransacked in
- 23:16Speaker 1: any way? Tom Brennan's No, not at all. She was
- 23:20Speaker 1: in the kitchen with her sitting up in the kitchen
- 23:24Speaker 1: floor with her back as if she were leaning against
- 23:29Speaker 1: one of the counters. What had she been doing prior
- 23:34Speaker 1: to her death, Josh Greenberg? I believe she was claying
- 23:38Speaker 1: up fruit and making fruit salad. So this is a
- 23:41Speaker 1: woman who speaks to her mom that day. Everything's fine,
- 23:45Speaker 1: She's preparing for her wedding. She leaves school early. She
- 23:49Speaker 1: calls all the parents, your children coming home early, get ready.
- 23:52Speaker 1: She comes home, she starts making she feels up her
- 23:58Speaker 1: gas tank so she won't go in empty the next day.
- 24:02Speaker 1: WHI should I find highly significant. If I were going
- 24:06Speaker 1: to kill myself, the last thing I'd worry about was
- 24:09Speaker 1: having an empty tank in the car. Last thing. And
- 24:13Speaker 1: then starts making a fruit salad, and somewhere in chopping
- 24:17Speaker 1: the apples and the oranges and the bananas, she decides
- 24:21Speaker 1: to kill herself. It's all wrong, doctor, Angela Arnold, you're
- 24:27Speaker 1: the shrink. I'm a lawyer, but I can tell you
- 24:30Speaker 1: that's not right. No, it's not Nancy. And that's why
- 24:33Speaker 1: we do study patterns of behavior. And you know, typically
- 24:37Speaker 1: also when somebody's going to kill themselves, they they sort
- 24:42Speaker 1: of start telling people goodbye, they give things away, their
- 24:46Speaker 1: mood changes a little bit, and they're very and they're
- 24:49Speaker 1: very overcome with a good feeling about getting out of
- 24:54Speaker 1: their pain. There's been no indication that this woman was
- 24:58Speaker 1: in any pain, like there's psychiatric pain. There's no indication
- 25:03Speaker 1: that she was in any kind of pain. The woman
- 25:05Speaker 1: had just sent out her saved the dates. And I
- 25:08Speaker 1: completely agree with you. Who fills up their car with
- 25:11Speaker 1: gas prior to committing suicide? Angela? This is Darryl. Is
- 25:15Speaker 1: it unusual for someone to instantaneously decide I'm going to
- 25:20Speaker 1: convince to it. I'm chopping apples, I'm chopping all the fruit,
- 25:23Speaker 1: and then oh my god, I can't handle and this anymore,
- 25:27Speaker 1: and I've done yes. That is completely unusual. People that
- 25:32Speaker 1: typically people that commit suicide have thought about it for
- 25:35Speaker 1: a very long time, as long as as they are,
- 25:40Speaker 1: and they are so depressed that finally they start feeling
- 25:43Speaker 1: a little bit better and they have the energy to
- 25:45Speaker 1: commit suicide and it puts them out of their misery.
- 25:54Speaker 1: Twenty stab wounds tend to the back of the net,
- 25:58Speaker 1: one to the scalp, to her chest, horrible slash across
- 26:04Speaker 1: her abdomen. Then I still lodged in her chest. I've
- 26:07Speaker 1: never heard anything like it. And her parents, Sandy and
- 26:11Speaker 1: Josh Greenberg and says, there is no way she would
- 26:15Speaker 1: have committed suicide. What about it, Josh? Things were not
- 26:19Speaker 1: totally right with Ellen. She wanted to come home, which
- 26:23Speaker 1: is very unusual. If you send out save the date
- 26:26Speaker 1: cards and you're happy and you're gonna have a wedding.
- 26:29Speaker 1: So at the time I was very concerned about Ellen
- 26:33Speaker 1: because I didn't know what was going on, But I
- 26:35Speaker 1: was also being a father. I didn't want her to
- 26:38Speaker 1: walk away from a very good job. So Ellen and
- 26:43Speaker 1: I made a deal that I would hire Sandy and
- 26:45Speaker 1: I would hire a psychiatrist, Ellen Burman, very well known,
- 26:50Speaker 1: very excellent credentials for Ellen to talk to. And if
- 26:54Speaker 1: she said Ellen could come home, she could doctor Burman
- 26:58Speaker 1: and her notes, Siphily says, not suicidal. We had a
- 27:04Speaker 1: forensic psychologists look at doctor Bourbon's notes. The diagnosis was
- 27:10Speaker 1: adjustment disorder with anxiety. Anxiety is the type of thing
- 27:15Speaker 1: you're on the Pennsylvania Turnpike and a big truck comes
- 27:18Speaker 1: alongside you. You feel anxious. You don't feel suicidal, but
- 27:23Speaker 1: you're anxious. Your heartbeats faster, and you're not so happy.
- 27:28Speaker 1: Ellen was not suicidal by an expert, not by me.
- 27:33Speaker 1: Tell me about Ellen's funeral, Sandy, Oh boy, well we
- 27:45Speaker 1: fit was you know. Obviously there were FLTs of snow.
- 27:47Speaker 1: So we had it in our synagogue rather than the
- 27:52Speaker 1: chapel at the cemetery, and it was filled to capacity.
- 28:00Speaker 1: People were standing around all the margins of the funeral,
- 28:04Speaker 1: and Josh spoke and I, I don't know how I
- 28:14Speaker 1: got through it, but I did somehow a lot of
- 28:17Speaker 1: what's happening immediately after Ellen's death for both of us
- 28:22Speaker 1: was a blank. We just didn't know what was going on.
- 28:25Speaker 1: I did speak. I managed to come up with the
- 28:31Speaker 1: concept that if we all closed our eyes, Ellen would
- 28:36Speaker 1: be all around us in our minds, and that's how
- 28:38Speaker 1: we should remember Ellen. It was also an important announcement
- 28:42Speaker 1: I made that day. That's when the medical examiners said
- 28:47Speaker 1: this was a homicide, not a suicide. How I found
- 28:53Speaker 1: that out was by people telling me. The medical examina
- 28:58Speaker 1: never called me, the Philadelphia Last never spoke to me,
- 29:02Speaker 1: and that's announce that I made. I can't tell you
- 29:07Speaker 1: any more about the eulogy I made, except to think
- 29:12Speaker 1: of Ellen will always be around us in spirit. And
- 29:16Speaker 1: if you read some of the writings by her students
- 29:21Speaker 1: and parents, with the students in the memorialization book or
- 29:24Speaker 1: whatever you call it a funeral home, they think of
- 29:28Speaker 1: Ellen and some of them even have done that years
- 29:31Speaker 1: after her death, her homicide. Did the fiance come to
- 29:36Speaker 1: the funeral? Yes? Yes? Did he speak? Now? What was
- 29:42Speaker 1: his demeanor? His parents were holding him up and he
- 29:45Speaker 1: was You know, we had people who suspected or they
- 29:54Speaker 1: didn't like his behavior, were very sympathetic to us. That's
- 29:58Speaker 1: all I can say. But there was a show going on,
- 30:01Speaker 1: why did you say that the room was filled? He
- 30:04Speaker 1: couldn't speak because father had to hold up a man
- 30:07Speaker 1: as opposed to somebody who was a future husband, who's
- 30:11Speaker 1: justin lost his fiancee to a brutal suicide or whatever,
- 30:17Speaker 1: and he couldn't speak. He couldn't he couldn't bring himself
- 30:21Speaker 1: to what I would say, to be a man and
- 30:26Speaker 1: show how much he cared. Ellen Greenberg loses her life
- 30:31Speaker 1: at age twenty seven and still no justice. Nancy Grace
- 30:38Speaker 1: killers amongst us. Goodbye friend,