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Dirty Little Secret: An Upset Lady Is Thinking About Doing Something To Her Bestie Right Before Her Wedding · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 3: Right if you got one, bring it. Dirty Little Secret
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  Speaker 3: is on. It's makes one or two point nine a
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  Speaker 3: bill at a kid Candi Slowpez producer poo and wow,
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  Speaker 3: this secret right here.
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  Speaker 4: So what's going on? This is not just a secret,
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  Speaker 4: but it's a situation.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm pretty sure I'm about to uninvite someone and
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  Speaker 2: pretty much tell them I can't or that they can't
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  Speaker 2: come to my wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, uninvite someone to your way. That's a new one
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  Speaker 3: to me. Uninvite.
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  Speaker 2: And it's one of my friends that I've known for
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  Speaker 2: years now. I mean we've been friends before the diet,
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  Speaker 2: before her journey, before hashtags and self love and all
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  Speaker 2: that stuff, Like we used to cry over boys and yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like talk about the kind of people we've become someday,
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  Speaker 2: and like I thought that she was like my person,
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  Speaker 2: like that we would become those people together.
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  Speaker 4: So what happened? Though?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she's lost a ton of weight, like she's
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  Speaker 2: she's lost over one hundred pounds. Wow. And first, like
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  Speaker 2: I cheered her on. I was so excited for her, Like,
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  Speaker 2: I mean she dropped but then like she just completely
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  Speaker 2: started acting differently and she's like a totally different person now,
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  Speaker 2: Like I don't know who this chick is anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Really, and just because the weight, you think like a
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  Speaker 3: new almost acting like a new person.
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  Speaker 2: She's a totally different person. She's dating all these new
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  Speaker 2: people every week. She stopped coming to church with me
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  Speaker 2: because she's too involved with dates and keeping up with people,
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  Speaker 2: and like she's become super arrogant and full of herself
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  Speaker 2: and I just can't stand it. And like I know
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  Speaker 2: that she's going to say that, like I'm jealous because
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I too am a bigger person
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  Speaker 2: in size, and she's going to say that I'm jealous
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  Speaker 2: that I didn't lose the weight, but like that's not it.
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  Speaker 2: I just don't like the person she's become really, even
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  Speaker 2: like the other day, Like it's little things too, Like
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  Speaker 2: the other day she we were taking a selfie, she
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  Speaker 2: like was correcting my posture in like a picture. Boy,
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  Speaker 2: I can't imagine my wedding without her, Like I said,
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  Speaker 2: She's been like my best day forever. But I don't
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  Speaker 2: This new person like is really getting all my nerves
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  Speaker 2: and I don't want that kind of energy at my wedding, right,
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  Speaker 2: I mean.
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  Speaker 4: So, I mean, but you're mad at her self confidence.
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  Speaker 5: I mean obviously when she was bigger, she probably didn't
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  Speaker 5: even It's more than that though.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this sounds deeper.
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  Speaker 3: I know where you're coming from because and I'm not
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  Speaker 3: saying it's a bad thing, but I've seen people lose
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  Speaker 3: a dramatic amount of weight and you do notice a
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  Speaker 3: personality shift.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean confidence changes people.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's confidence in.
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  Speaker 3: The best sometimes, right, That's what I'm saying, that good confidence,
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  Speaker 3: and then there's bad confidence. There's confidence and then there's yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And I've seen people lose weight and act different and
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  Speaker 3: then guess what, everything settles down and they don't really
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  Speaker 3: even like the person they are, or they.
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  Speaker 4: Gain the weight back.
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  Speaker 2: We would joke, we would joke like before, like because
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  Speaker 2: like I said, I'm also bigger too. We would always
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  Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, when I lose the weight,
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  Speaker 2: like I'm gonna be you know, such hutch and people
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  Speaker 2: let her watch out. But like we were joking and
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  Speaker 2: like that really is who she used to come.
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  Speaker 4: That's sad. It's sad because this is your wedding.
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  Speaker 3: She sounds like a special friend that you spent a
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  Speaker 3: lot of time with and you know you're close to,
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  Speaker 3: but you don't feel close to her now. Will this
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  Speaker 3: settle down eventually? And will this kind of you know,
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  Speaker 3: calm down when she gets used to.
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  Speaker 4: The new r.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to regret like on inviting her.
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  Speaker 3: You know, either people change and there's people that I
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  Speaker 3: grew up with that are the same person they are now.
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  Speaker 4: And for sure we're.
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  Speaker 3: Definitely not as close because of whatever reasons. It might
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  Speaker 3: not be weight, but it's other things.
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  Speaker 5: Busy, they've been friends that long. I'm gonna be like, look, girl,
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  Speaker 5: I'm happy you lost all the.
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  Speaker 3: Weight, but you sound like a hater immediately. No, you
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  Speaker 3: sound jealous. Yeah, you sound like you're now you're the
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  Speaker 3: bigger girl. No, and you're you're hating on the skinny.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not listen. I'm glad you lost all the weight,
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  Speaker 4: but you're changed, do you know me?
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  Speaker 5: And I want the person that I had before she
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  Speaker 5: lost the weight that I can hang out with right now,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know this.
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  Speaker 4: Person, and try to put it in that way.
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  Speaker 5: You gotta talk to him because if you just kick
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  Speaker 5: her out the wedding, then that's going to open up
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  Speaker 5: a whole can of worms, and then you lose a friend.
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  Speaker 1: You're not really gonna hang out with her at the wedding,
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  Speaker 1: like the bride talks to everybody for like two seconds.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean, that's your day.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe I'll take a quick poll and see what people
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  Speaker 3: think and whether she should be uninvited or not. Now
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  Speaker 3: that's the problemse You've already invited. Even if you didn't
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  Speaker 3: invite her yet, you didn't send out the invites yet,
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  Speaker 3: and then you're like, okay, well I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: I want to send her one.
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  Speaker 4: But now you have to take it.
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  Speaker 1: Back, like yeah, if she did something malicious to you
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  Speaker 1: or like, you know, something that you could just couldn't
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  Speaker 1: get over, like an incident happened.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes this leads me to just go, just
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  Speaker 3: have her go and just don't talk to her much.
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  Speaker 1: And right, you're probably not going to anyways.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, but let us know what you do and
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  Speaker 3: what you decide if you can. Okay, yeah, thanks and congratulations.
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  Speaker 3: And I know sounds like this is kind of being
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  Speaker 3: it's a good moment you should be happy about, not,
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  Speaker 3: you know, deal with all this drama exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 4: Well, let us know what happens. Dirty little secret. There
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  Speaker 4: you go.
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  Speaker 3: If you got one, bring it, If you want a
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  Speaker 3: thousand dollars, listen up right now,