Latest / sids.campfire / Episode 4 - Madi Ambrose
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- 0:00I'm going to begin. Welcome.
- 0:01Welcome aboard Maddie. Maddie Ambrose.
- 0:04That is it. Well, Madison, Lee, Ambrose, if
- 0:06you want to go. Madison.
- 0:07Specific Madison Lee Madison. OK, ladies and gentlemen,
- 0:12welcome back to episode 4. Congratulations.
- 0:18This week is it's a bit different and this kind of I'm
- 0:20going to give a couple of Segways here, Maddie.
- 0:24One of them is the fact that when I thought about this
- 0:26podcast originally, I wanted to have people from, you know, like
- 0:30Rangers and scientists and, you know, people involved in natural
- 0:34science, history and culture. And then it wasn't too long
- 0:38after that and we're talking like a year ago, I thought it'd
- 0:41be really cool to do kind of like a side podcast projects
- 0:46where I talked to tour guides because A, they've got more
- 0:50entertainment and information and like stories, you know, and
- 0:56they're all talkers and I've got easy access to so many of them.
- 1:00So I thought that would be a really good thing to have a side
- 1:02kind of thing called Guide to guide, which essentially this is
- 1:05the first one of. And on top of that, to give a
- 1:10bit of a back story, I'd worked with Maddie out in the desert.
- 1:15And the first tour that I did after COVID, I think it was
- 1:20April 2021, and I ran into you at ulara and you that was.
- 1:26So I was just doing a random trip up there.
- 1:28I think I was three months into my content creation.
- 1:30I had a few 100,000 followers on TikTok and I ran into you and
- 1:35you had just started your own company so I started picking
- 1:38your brains and you basically told me how easy it was to start
- 1:42your own company and that I should probably do the same.
- 1:44Well. That was before you started.
- 1:45Since Ventures. Yeah.
- 1:46Well, I'd started the videos, but I hadn't started the
- 1:48touring. Yeah.
- 1:49Yeah. So you were one of the main kind
- 1:53of influences that made me believe starting my own Tour
- 1:55Company was really easy. And as that was going through
- 1:58the processes, and I remember picking your brains on tour, and
- 2:02then just as I was finishing my video trip around Australia, one
- 2:06of the last things I did before I left Tasmania with a
- 2:09completion of all of the filming was I was sitting on the beach
- 2:13talking to you, asking you about websites and business structure
- 2:16and how to actually get it up and running.
- 2:19So you were a big yeah, part of me getting my tours.
- 2:21I think that would have happened eventually, but you definitely
- 2:23speed the whole process up. So I think it's quite fitting
- 2:27that you are here. Yeah, on this.
- 2:31Start of the podcast well. That's it.
- 2:33Yeah. So, Maddie, you run a Tour
- 2:36Company. Started.
- 2:36You run a Tour Company seemingly out of thin air overnight called
- 2:40Wild Women Journeys. Yeah, Wild Women Journeys.
- 2:44You've gone international and you're running a very successful
- 2:47and positive business. And on top of that, you're
- 2:50Outback touring legend. So where do we begin?
- 2:55Gosh, yeah. Well, that was 2021.
- 2:58That was very early in wild women journeys as well.
- 3:02I think I would have only I did 2 trips at the end of 2020 and
- 3:07then that would have been, yes, early into 2021.
- 3:11And that was when I was really just realising, oh, this is the
- 3:14thing, this could really, this could really work.
- 3:17It could keep going. Yeah.
- 3:20And yeah, it was, it was during the COVID time.
- 3:23So it was very tumultuous in the beginning, very all over the
- 3:26shop. Yeah.
- 3:29But I, I'd guided out here for a few years before I started out
- 3:33here in 2017 guiding with different companies.
- 3:37And I just loved it. I fell in love with this place
- 3:40immediately fell in love with like, you know, we have 3 minute
- 3:44drive outside of Alice Springs where we live just on the other
- 3:47side of those ranges. And you have beautiful spots
- 3:50like this so close to town and there's no one here that is
- 3:53just, it's, it's such a special place.
- 3:57So yeah, I always loved the Outback and especially taking
- 4:01people around here. I love to like facilitating the
- 4:04journeys for people. But yeah, I think I always found
- 4:08that the regular tour companies were much more fast paced than I
- 4:12liked to be. And, you know, they didn't go
- 4:16off the beaten track. They stayed at all the major
- 4:18caravan parks and campsites and very, very busy places.
- 4:23So I just knew there was so many more secret gems out here.
- 4:26And like, if you just venture a little bit off the main path,
- 4:30it's just it it'll touch you even more, you know.
- 4:33So yeah, I guess that was where it like the sort of passion
- 4:38behind it came from. And then in COVID, there was
- 4:41just no work. So all the companies were shut
- 4:43down from 2020. Some of them didn't start up
- 4:47till 2022, and some of them never started up again,
- 4:50unfortunately. But yeah, there was no work for
- 4:53gods. So I was just pottering around
- 4:57on Centrelink out here. Out here in Alice.
- 5:01Yeah. Well, I, I was, I was overseas
- 5:05when it all first happened. So then I flew back to
- 5:07Australia, quarantined at my parents in Newcastle, and then
- 5:11pretty quickly bought a car and drove back to the Territory.
- 5:14So I had to quarantine again when I got here.
- 5:17And yeah, and then, but there was no work.
- 5:20So I was in Alice. And then I did go up to Darwin
- 5:24and yeah, just there was a bit more going on up there.
- 5:27But that was also another thing was it was so nice to be here
- 5:31during the COVID years in the territory when there was not a
- 5:35lot of people here. Like I went to Uluru, absolute
- 5:38ghost town, no one, no, no one. But the whole park was open.
- 5:41You know, you could go everywhere.
- 5:43It's just that there was no tourists because they couldn't
- 5:46get here. So especially all the
- 5:49international tourism was gone so.
- 5:51Yeah, I remember that day. Yeah, that one day where
- 5:55everyone basically flew out of the rock.
- 5:57Yeah. And then it was just empty and.
- 6:00It was, it was like a ghost town.
- 6:01Coming back. Yeah.
- 6:03Yeah, it was so cool. Like you could go to Uluru.
- 6:05What, go to the famous sunset car park where there's normally
- 6:081000 people a night. And it was no one, you know.
- 6:11So that was, I had seen that. I'd seen the glimpse of like
- 6:14there's no one out here. All these famous spots are just
- 6:17empty. Yeah.
- 6:20And I had no work. And I went up to Darwin.
- 6:22And then I actually had a good friend up there who was an
- 6:27inspiration to me. Shout out to Ringer.
- 6:31Ringer. Yeah.
- 6:31And I kind of just said to him, like, I'd love to take just a
- 6:36group of women down to Uluru. And I just started practising
- 6:41yoga and getting into some mindful activities.
- 6:43You know, everyone found their COVID hobby baking bread or
- 6:47crocheting. Yeah, I know for me, it was yoga
- 6:51and going to those kind of classes were still going on in
- 6:53Darwin. So I was just very in this head
- 6:56space of like, oh, so beautiful to take these mindful activities
- 7:01to Uluru, which is just this, you know, centre of energy, but
- 7:07also just such a beautiful country.
- 7:09And I just thought that'd be so nice to bring that down there
- 7:12and take a group of girls, women who want to go and connect to
- 7:16country. And also everyone was so
- 7:19housebound at the time that, you know, people were really itching
- 7:23to get out on country or just go anywhere.
- 7:25Literally couldn't go anywhere. So yeah, people wanted to go
- 7:29somewhere. And yeah, it all kind of came
- 7:31together. And then I just, I put my idea
- 7:34to ring her and I said, what do you think?
- 7:36You know, how could I even start this?
- 7:39How could I? What about there's so much
- 7:41paperwork, There's so much, you know, permanent.
- 7:44Tape and all. Yeah, red tape and and he
- 7:48already had an established business, so he was, he just
- 7:51sort of walked me through it real simply and just told me
- 7:54there's absolutely no way you couldn't do it.
- 7:56Like, of course you can do it. Of course, you know.
- 7:58So I was like, oh, OK, all right.
- 8:01Yeah. And that, that was the beginning
- 8:03of wild women journey. So I was just around the first
- 8:05trip. I made posters on Canva on the
- 8:09free version of everything was the free versions.
- 8:12And yeah, just put a picture of a girl doing yoga at Uluru and,
- 8:17and put them up around, mainly around the yoga studios in
- 8:21Darwin and just various community halls and stuff.
- 8:24And within a day I'd sold out 16 spots.
- 8:28Like 16 girls had called me saying yeah, I want to, I want
- 8:31to go. That's insane.
- 8:32Yeah, and it was insane for me as well.
- 8:34And yeah, I just was like, wow, OK, cool.
- 8:37They all. Want to come?
- 8:38There's a market. Yeah, and I literally just had
- 8:40my mobile number down the bottom, like call me, and then
- 8:43my phone was just going off and yeah, I had a 16 seater bus, so
- 8:46that was full. And so I was like, Oh well we'll
- 8:49just turn the bus around and go again straight after.
- 8:52So I ended up doing 2 trips back to back.
- 8:54Yeah, great. Yeah.
- 8:55And those first trips were from Darwin because I was up there
- 8:58with the bus. So we did two days driving down
- 9:00the highway, 6 days around the Red centre and then two days
- 9:03back up. So it's a 10 day trip and yeah,
- 9:06it just went really well. And well, it went better than
- 9:09really well. Like those girls just loved it
- 9:12and I could see how rewarding it was for them.
- 9:17Like they just got so much out of it.
- 9:19And for me, it was just, it felt so special to be doing what I'd
- 9:25always done, like what I'd been doing with other tour companies,
- 9:28but then to actually do it my way.
- 9:30Yeah, yeah. Do exactly how I want it.
- 9:33And I didn't have a uniform, so I wasn't in a uniform.
- 9:36And I had no time schedule. Well, a little bit.
- 9:39This is it. It's just a T-shirt with the
- 9:41logo on the back, not a fancy uniform.
- 9:44I still don't wear shoes as much as I should on tours, but yeah,
- 9:49I just was like, wow, it's really like just travelling with
- 9:51friends because they were all, you know what they were mixed
- 9:55ages, but 18 to 45 year old Australian women, you know, so
- 10:00pretty much my demographic. And I just felt like, oh, I'm
- 10:03just taking a bunch of my friends out, you know, and doing
- 10:06what I would do with them if they were to come and visit me
- 10:10here. As, you know, just do this.
- 10:12Go sit in the riverbeds, go camp and have a fire and cook on the
- 10:15fire and then, oh, in the morning, go for a hike.
- 10:18It's not like 6:30 on the bus 640 where off and 6:50 where I
- 10:23was starting to hike. Like I was like, no way we're
- 10:25doing that. And so every tour was a bit
- 10:28different as well. I picked different campsites and
- 10:30just really went with the flow. And yeah, and it was just
- 10:34really, really fun. And yeah, and that's pretty much
- 10:37what what started it. And then and then it was there.
- 10:41I just I made the Instagram account.
- 10:43Even still, I have like 100 followers in the beginning.
- 10:46And then I posted the first few dates for the next year and they
- 10:51just started booking out instantly, you know?
- 10:53And I was like, whoa, OK, I never really wanted to be a
- 10:58business owner or like, that wasn't.
- 11:01I wasn't attracted to like, entrepreneurial ideas really.
- 11:05I just wanted to take people out to central Australia and go do
- 11:10yoga in the riverbeds with a bunch of women, you know?
- 11:14So yeah. That's fantastic.
- 11:17And that's and you've expanded that into like four or five
- 11:21countries now. Yeah, even a little bit more.
- 11:25Yeah, it after about the first year of just doing Uluru trips
- 11:31and sort of adapting that itinerary and finding a really
- 11:34perfect flow of a trip here, then it was it was a lot of the
- 11:40guests that were coming on the trips that were telling me how
- 11:43great the experience was. And them saying, oh, I wish
- 11:45there was tours like this in in Tasmania.
- 11:48I wish there was tours like this in Kakadu and other places.
- 11:51Like they loved this style of touring, I think especially
- 11:55because they were Australians and Australians don't normally
- 11:57book tours in Australia, right? Like you just go and do it
- 12:00yourself. But there is some hard to access
- 12:03places like Central Australia, the Kimberley's, Kakadu where
- 12:07you need a four wheel drive, you need, you know, logistics is a
- 12:10bit more tricky. So those are the places I
- 12:13focused on and that's what the girls were saying.
- 12:16I'd love to go to Kakadu, you know, but I don't want to book
- 12:19on one of those big bus coaches that takes 100 people around.
- 12:24Like, oh, I don't want to do that.
- 12:25And oh, but I don't have my own 4 wheel drive and all my friends
- 12:29not into camping or like, oh, my partner wouldn't want to do
- 12:32that. So they, yeah, they were just so
- 12:34like, oh, if you could offer this in other places, we'd love
- 12:38to come done. So yeah, that's what was me
- 12:40started ticking OK. And it was like, where do I want
- 12:43to go next? You know, where would I like to
- 12:45take people? And yeah.
- 12:46And I had been, I'd guided in Kakadu before.
- 12:49So that was the easy, logical next step was Kakadu.
- 12:54And then so I did a few Kakadu trips and then the next one was
- 12:57the Whitsundays sailing adventure that we started,
- 13:00remember? That that was nice.
- 13:01I wasn't there, but I saw I saw the photos.
- 13:04I hope not. Yeah, that was one of our really
- 13:07popular trips as well. And that kind of came about
- 13:11because there was a yoga teacher girl that came to work on one of
- 13:16my trips and she loved the whole vibe of it as well.
- 13:19And then she said to me, Oh, my brother runs a boat company, a
- 13:22charter boats in Airlie Beach. If you wanted to take a group of
- 13:26girls out to the islands, that'd be a great destination.
- 13:30You want to move this way. Yeah, it's it's on and off the
- 13:33smoke. It's got a bit of a few tears
- 13:35going on. You want it?
- 13:36Is it? There no, it's.
- 13:37You're right, I'm. All right, I'll, I'll.
- 13:39It's. A emotional story, isn't it?
- 13:40Just keep going, let it out. See Safe space.
- 13:46Is does that happen a lot on your tours?
- 13:48Yeah. Because even I'm sure the
- 13:49dynamic with yours is, I'm sure it's completely unique being
- 13:53just women. Yeah.
- 13:54But I've found from my experience of trying to provide
- 13:57that same kind of, you know, the time, giving people the time and
- 14:01the space, which they don't get. And I find people get so
- 14:04emotional. They do.
- 14:05Yeah. And that just people go through
- 14:08things they've been holding on to for years, if my last tour.
- 14:11So everyone's got their own story of what they're going
- 14:13through. Do you find that?
- 14:16Quite. A lot here.
- 14:17And how does that compare in the Outback to the trips overseas?
- 14:20Is there that emotional aspect as well?
- 14:23Yeah, I would say I think that just kind of it does happen
- 14:26naturally. Like you say, when people step
- 14:29outside of their usual life and their busy life and just their
- 14:33set routine and they go somewhere.
- 14:36It immediately gives you this reflection where you can see
- 14:39your life from the outside more, you know, and see how you what
- 14:42does your day to day normally look like and who are the people
- 14:44you hang out with normally? And and so you can reflect on
- 14:48yourself and then it's, yeah, if whatever, it just gives you
- 14:53space for that. And whatever's in your mind, it
- 14:54can come up, you know, and some people will keep that to
- 14:58themselves more. And you can see if people are
- 15:01just processing things on their own and some people are more
- 15:05wanting to share it. And yeah, I think that is really
- 15:07nice about the women's trips is women are we're we're very vocal
- 15:12where we communicate a lot, you know, girls pretty easy or not
- 15:16all girls, but definitely women will talk quite gladly.
- 15:19I think probably a lot more natural talking comes out on
- 15:22women's trips than does on men's trips.
- 15:24Like, yeah, especially if there is that space being held where
- 15:29someone does start to touch on, Oh yeah, I'm not really happy
- 15:32with my job. Or then the other girls will be
- 15:35like, why not, you know, they'll, they'll go into that,
- 15:39you know, whereas depending on the space and the people and the
- 15:43intention, they're just some spaces will like hold that, you
- 15:48know, and, and so, yeah, I see it a lot on the women's trips
- 15:52that that does happen and being away from your phone, we don't
- 15:56have reception a lot, you know, we're just going back to basic
- 15:59so much that it it definitely does hold that space.
- 16:03And yeah, I wouldn't say that's like my main intention with
- 16:07trips is to it definitely wasn't in the beginning.
- 16:11Like it wasn't to these. They're not personal development
- 16:16trips. They're not like mindset camps
- 16:18or anything like that. There is that as well, which is
- 16:20another thing. But I guess yeah, it's it just,
- 16:25it just happens. And I actually, I love it.
- 16:28Like I think, man, if I can create this space to help the
- 16:31girls even more to come home, Like, wow, I'm, I'm a changed
- 16:36person after that trip. I've just changed.
- 16:38That's why they're coming back for 23478 tours.
- 16:41Yeah, yeah. Cheaper than therapy?
- 16:43Yeah, so and I, I think Central Australia is the strongest trip
- 16:47for. That yeah, that's what I wanted
- 16:48to get into as well. More than other places.
- 16:50I really feel, because even, you know, tours that I've run around
- 16:54the country, nowhere has the effect that this part of the
- 16:58world does. Yeah.
- 16:59Just feel like there's something out here that just is.
- 17:01It's like the great level of. It is.
- 17:03It's like a a blank canvas. In a way.
- 17:06Yeah. Yeah, there's nothing to fill it
- 17:09with but yourself and the people you're with, you know?
- 17:12Yeah. Yeah, and it's probably because
- 17:13it is one of the trips that has the least interruptions.
- 17:18Like I like to make it feel like we're in a bubble and we're
- 17:21leaving society and we're going out into the Bush.
- 17:25And I don't want anyone to pop that bubble.
- 17:26Like, I really hate that I have to go fuel up at service
- 17:30stations and go into the Isles of Lollies and Chocolates and
- 17:36cell service comes on when you get close to El Dundo.
- 17:39And, you know, I wish we could just bypass that to keep the
- 17:41bubble even more. But yeah, the more you like, the
- 17:46less interruptions, the more we just get in our own flow state,
- 17:49you know? And the group connected with the
- 17:52group. So, well, yeah, yeah.
- 17:54And a lot of the other trips that we do in other places, like
- 17:59we'd run Nepal hikes and India, like North India cultural
- 18:04immersion trip. And you know, there it's a
- 18:08totally different intention with the trip.
- 18:11Like we're there to more learn about the local people, the
- 18:14villages, the culture and be there and witness and learn from
- 18:19that. So we're more of like, we're
- 18:21more focused on the outside world.
- 18:23You know, we still have our little bubble of safety and that
- 18:26like we're a group together. We're women, we're supporting
- 18:29each other, We're here experiencing this together.
- 18:33So there will still be those connections, forms and people
- 18:36opening up. And yeah, but it's, it's less,
- 18:41yeah. We're meeting so many other
- 18:42people throughout the day. You're walking through cities
- 18:45and towns and you're going to markets and villages.
- 18:48And it's more like we're going to come home and debrief about
- 18:50our day rather than talk about what's going on at home, you
- 18:54know, whereas here it's, it's like we're still in Australia.
- 18:58We're we're just here to reset kind of and to.
- 19:01Be in. Nature.
- 19:03Yeah, yeah, a little bit for sure.
- 19:05I actually, you know, I I've had some topics like it was, you
- 19:10know, every time we chat, you know, there's a million things
- 19:12to talk about. And given this situation, we can
- 19:15go off from a lot of angles. But I thought, oh, you know,
- 19:17I'll quickly Google Maddie. Yeah, you know, before.
- 19:20So I had a quit ChatGPT all that came up was from the website but
- 19:24it did mention something about you having like having a
- 19:29certificate in Group leading and what was it?
- 19:35NLP new listing and you wrote logistic programming no?
- 19:41I think chat JB needs to let you go ahead, no?
- 19:45We can just cut that out I. Haven't done any I've never done
- 19:48any like counselling or mindset courses at all.
- 19:50OK. And it's something that I
- 19:51actually would like. I've thought about it,
- 19:53especially after the first few trips when I did start to see,
- 19:58wow, girls are really opening up here and they're sharing a lot
- 20:01and. Like, like they're sharing
- 20:03traumas, past traumas, they're sharing like relationships that
- 20:07they're not. So that's not healthy.
- 20:10And then I was kind of either witnessing this between people
- 20:13or I was part of the conversations.
- 20:15And then I was like, I don't know if I'm equipped to deal
- 20:17with this. I'll be in the bus I.
- 20:20Like I I can, I can definitely support and console, but then I
- 20:26was like, it just started happening so much that I was
- 20:29like, oh, should I do a quick crash course in counselling?
- 20:34But no, I haven't ever done it. The thought crossed my mind a
- 20:37few times, but no, the only qualifications that I've done is
- 20:41science, Bachelors of science in ecology.
- 20:43Oh cool. Yeah.
- 20:44And there's. Something we can talk about as
- 20:46well. Yeah.
- 20:47Yeah, I was actually thinking when I was thinking about this
- 20:49during meeting you for this today.
- 20:51I thought your boyfriend would be great to have on the actual
- 20:54SIDS Ventures podcast. He was, he sounds.
- 20:56Love to be a part of it. Absolutely.
- 20:58If I thought that, you know, if I thought of that a couple of
- 21:01weeks ago, I would have tried to organise it.
- 21:02Yeah. But I would love to get Jono.
- 21:04Yeah, Johnny. Yeah, Jonathan.
- 21:06Johnny, yeah, I would love to get him on next.
- 21:08I'll be back down in. Oh, he would.
- 21:10He would be the perfect person for it.
- 21:12Like he. Yeah.
- 21:13Anthropology. Anthropology and human evolution
- 21:17and cultural knowledge is his passion, but also he he could do
- 21:21a star talk that would wow everyone.
- 21:24You know, I think he's just started guiding out here and I
- 21:28think he was born to be a tour guide.
- 21:29Like he just he's got the entertainer, the host and the
- 21:34education down pat, you know, Yeah, cool.
- 21:37Yeah, definitely. He could.
- 21:38And he actually wants to start. Yeah, he wants to start making
- 21:41videos kind of like yours, like educational things and maybe do
- 21:45multi part series along from he doesn't know yet.
- 21:48He's figuring it out, but. Yeah, we should definitely cross
- 21:51paths next time. Yeah.
- 21:53And just to backtrack for the listeners, you mentioned Ringer
- 21:56before. Yes, I'm leaving Alice in 2
- 21:58days, driving straight up, going straight to ring his house.
- 22:03Ah, so I'm actually gonna. He's gonna be.
- 22:05He's gonna be. There you go.
- 22:06Teaser. Yeah, told you a little I.
- 22:09Think it'll be a 3 or 4 hour. Oh my gosh.
- 22:11Yeah, yeah, yeah. He can talk the air off anyone.
- 22:15Let's. Get some battery packs and.
- 22:17Tangents will go on and on. You'll have to rope him back
- 22:21into line. But yeah, he, he's been an
- 22:24inspiration for me. I met him pretty much when I
- 22:27started guiding just briefly, just through crossing paths here
- 22:31and there back in 20/17/18. And then, and then we really
- 22:37became friends through the COVID years.
- 22:38And he, yeah, inspired me with starting my business.
- 22:40But he used to guide in South America for the big overland
- 22:45companies that do like six month tours starting in Rio, drop off
- 22:52in Lima. And it's just one truck.
- 22:56You got 16 people and it's a bit hop on, hop off.
- 22:58So they'll do some people will be there for certain segments.
- 23:01But him and his ex partner used to do the two of them driving
- 23:04around this big truck. And I heard his stories when I
- 23:08was I was 19 when I started guiding here.
- 23:10So I was hearing his stories of like, yeah, we were in Colombia.
- 23:14And then the, like, people came on with guns and we had to floor
- 23:18it out of there. And then we got to the border
- 23:20and we didn't have visas. And so we had to bribe our way
- 23:23through. And, and I was like, wow.
- 23:26And this is all on a tool. Like you're getting paid to do
- 23:30this kind of adventure. I was just absolutely
- 23:33gobsmacked. So yeah, he was one of the
- 23:35people that inspired me just to start travelling on my own and,
- 23:39and start really going to wild places and.
- 23:44You were working as a guide when you met him.
- 23:46Yeah, yeah. And then you went solo
- 23:48travelling after that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 23:52I think it was around those years.
- 23:53Yeah. I would have.
- 23:54I started guiding and I just started meeting lots of guides
- 23:57as well. Who had done like mad adventures
- 24:00overseas. But yeah, I reckon I would have
- 24:02met him. And then he told me about
- 24:04overland guiding and I wrote that down in my notebook because
- 24:07like dream job one day. Absolutely.
- 24:11And I've literally written a resume to send to them a million
- 24:14times and I've just never sent it because I know like the
- 24:18commitment. Now you've got people setting
- 24:19your resumes. Yeah, well, yeah.
- 24:21And now I'm like, I'm already running my own tours everywhere
- 24:25now. So as fun as it would be to do
- 24:28these like 6 month big overland tours where the responsibility
- 24:33is, my level is only the guiding part and not the not the admin
- 24:38part. That would be really really nice
- 24:40to do that one day. But wild women journeys is too
- 24:44good to give up on now. So I'm going to stick this out.
- 24:47It's like 1 dream, the dream and the next dream.
- 24:50I'm looking at the next dream before I'm even finished with
- 24:53this dream, you know? And I have to remind myself the
- 24:56grass isn't greener on the other side.
- 24:58Just enjoy this current journey. Yeah, I think you got a pretty
- 25:00good thing going on. Yeah, but yeah, so that was how
- 25:04that was my connection with Ringer.
- 25:06And yeah. And then I always wanted to do
- 25:08overland guiding. And then he started his own
- 25:11company in Australia, Overland Odds, which is school charters.
- 25:15They're all school group camping, cultural immersion
- 25:18trips up in Kakadu. So, yeah, he started that and
- 25:22then, yeah, now he does that full time and he's got a wife
- 25:25and a little Kitty and another one on the way and yeah, well, I
- 25:29hope that was public knowledge. We can, we can.
- 25:32I think it's far enough. Yeah.
- 25:35Few years in, you'll hear about that.
- 25:36More to come. Yeah, teaser, you got to ask the
- 25:41South America stories. Yeah.
- 25:43We'll and he did an African stint as well.
- 25:46Cool. Yeah.
- 25:48I can't wait to listen to that ask around for everyone that
- 25:50knows him say what should I ask Ringer?
- 25:52Yeah. Everyone will know something.
- 25:53Oh my God, yeah. Something about something, yeah,
- 25:56might not potentially come out. Ask him about the story when me
- 26:00and him were canoeing in Kosciusko National Park and with
- 26:05Niall as well, and someone fell off a water Cliff, off a
- 26:09waterfall. Yeah, OK with a canoe.
- 26:11And it was all yeah, that's the story.
- 26:12Ask him about. So did your background in
- 26:18ecology and your interests in that through school, Was that a
- 26:20part of what brought you out here in the first place?
- 26:26Not really. So I the ecology sort of came
- 26:30after Central Australia, after I moved here, yeah.
- 26:33I had started a Bachelors of Science straight after high
- 26:38school, so when I was 18 in Sydney and I did it for one year
- 26:45and I was very uninspired by it. So I don't know, just the
- 26:49classroom setting was really not for me.
- 26:51So after I did the first year and then I was like, I did enrol
- 26:58in the second year and I was sitting in the very first day's
- 27:00classes in the big lecture hall with 800 people and I was just
- 27:04like, take me anywhere that. Year I.
- 27:07Don't want to be here. Yeah.
- 27:10And so my first thought was just defer uni.
- 27:14I was like, I don't care, I'll come back to this.
- 27:16I don't want to be here. And I knew because I was also
- 27:18like, I would failed a few subjects from my first year and
- 27:22I just wasn't that committed. And I almost felt bad, like I'm
- 27:26getting really bad marks. But it's not because I'm dumb,
- 27:29it's just because I don't want to be here, you know.
- 27:31So I was like, oh, I'm just going to defer for a year.
- 27:35And then essentially I took a gap year, just have a break.
- 27:39Well, now the sun's gone, we can just rotate this way a little.
- 27:42Bit I haven't been breathing oxygen for a while.
- 27:46Probably look baked. You don't look that bad, it's OK
- 27:50or sit there. Woof.
- 27:57It's an emotional day. It's.
- 27:59Been a long one. That's pretty.
- 28:02We can clip this bit out. No.
- 28:05The authentic. Yeah, gotta keep the thing,
- 28:08which for those of you not watching, I'm just getting out
- 28:11of a bit of an onslaught of smoke, smoke.
- 28:15And it's been a bit intense. So I've done some shuffling.
- 28:18We've done some shuffling. Yeah, it's nice.
- 28:22Good for the sinuses. It clears you out.
- 28:25Yeah. Yeah.
- 28:27So yeah, I started a science degree.
- 28:30Didn't love it. I took a gap year and then I
- 28:33came here and that was when I during my gap year, I was
- 28:36looking on seek.com. You know what jobs are out
- 28:40there, Something to take me far away from the city.
- 28:43And. Go do something crazy and wild
- 28:46that I'd have stories to tell from.
- 28:47So yeah, actually Outback tour guide and I was like.
- 28:49That's exactly how I found. It it's how everyone finds it, I
- 28:52think just. Like, just need some things like
- 28:54be a tour guide and Alice Springs.
- 28:56All right, Yeah. OK, 2.
- 28:58Weeks 2 weeks later Alice Springs.
- 28:59Yeah, and, and it's actually there.
- 29:02There's always a deficit of tour guides out here.
- 29:04The companies pretty much have continual advertisements on the
- 29:08computer running and literally anyone who sends a resume.
- 29:12Unless you have some very worried.
- 29:15Criminal record. And even if you do.
- 29:17Yeah, they will give you at least a trial.
- 29:21They call. Everyone and then everyone,
- 29:24they'll pretty much say, Yep, fly out here and we'll put you
- 29:28on a familial trip and then we'll put you on a training trip
- 29:31and we'll see how you go. And I, I've noticed that they
- 29:35almost never have to fire people because people will fly out here
- 29:40and then they will do the first few trips and if it's not for
- 29:42them, they won't be able to bear it.
- 29:44They'll be like, I couldn't think of anything worse than
- 29:46doing this and I'll get there. There we go.
- 29:51Yeah, you're. Still in Bluetooth range.
- 29:54Yeah, yeah, I could walk 100 metres away, it'd be fine.
- 29:58Yeah. So they're always hiring.
- 30:01They'll always take anyone. And then, yeah, if you're not
- 30:08right for the job, you yourself will be like, oh, I don't want
- 30:11to do this. Yeah, exactly.
- 30:12It's it's like running a marathon.
- 30:14It's, it's hard work for sure. It's long.
- 30:17You start at 4:00 AM. This is for commercial tours, by
- 30:20the way, not SIDS adventures and wild women journeys.
- 30:23Well, we do have a lot. Of there's a few early mornings,
- 30:26but we don't yeah, bust it like. Yeah, they do.
- 30:28Yeah. Yeah, there's.
- 30:29It's not. Limits to human ability.
- 30:32Yeah, it's not the three day compact.
- 30:34Wow, wow, wow. There's nothing worse than that
- 30:36trip. Yeah, well, I, I, I think
- 30:39there's a place for it, but it's for international tourists who
- 30:42are here, here being Australia for three weeks and they want to
- 30:46hit Sydney, Melbourne, Darwin cans, Great Barrier Reef, Great
- 30:50Ocean Road and Uluru. You know, then it's like, OK,
- 30:53well you can only do 3 days and we will try and fit in
- 30:56everything we can. Yeah, exactly.
- 30:57But yeah, it's wake up at 4:00 AM and then cook the breakfast.
- 31:03You go for a hike, drive 600 kilometres.
- 31:07You cook the. Change a tyre.
- 31:09You change a tyre, you're on your own, you got 25 people with
- 31:12you, whatever. It's very hard, yakka.
- 31:15So yeah. And also just being centre of
- 31:18attention. You're the guide, you're the
- 31:20leader. You talk the talks.
- 31:21You have to repeat the spills and learn the knowledge and.
- 31:25Be responsible for be responsible health and safety I.
- 31:28Don't think guides are that responsible.
- 31:30Yeah, there's different. Levels take on the
- 31:32responsibility at least. You might not be responsible,
- 31:34but yeah, yeah, it's a big job. So people will just, a lot of
- 31:40people, I'd say 50% of guides that turn up here to start the
- 31:44job don't stick with it. Or they will just get through
- 31:47six months and then they'll be like, yeah, I'm out of here.
- 31:50Done. So yeah, that's pretty much how
- 31:52the job intake works and. It's just a random lottery,
- 31:56right? Yeah.
- 31:57And and that's. How it was for me, I guess
- 31:59that's how it was for you. You were started in Adelaide
- 32:01though, right? Or I started up here.
- 32:03Oh, you did start? Yeah.
- 32:04I flew into Alice and started running those three day tours.
- 32:07For adventure tours. For the rock tour.
- 32:09Oh, you started with rock. Tour I started in the deep.
- 32:12End I started at the bottom, now we're here.
- 32:13Yeah, sorry. No, I'm glad I've never worked
- 32:17for adventure tours. I always it was always been a
- 32:19bit of a code of mine to only work for family businesses.
- 32:23Oh. That's nice.
- 32:23And especially in the touring industry because the big, the
- 32:29big companies, you know, they run like you have to write
- 32:32everything. You know, how many KS you've
- 32:34done, how many litres, how many there's like it's everything is
- 32:37so structured and kind of it's like a mctour for me.
- 32:41But to run when I've worked with like Kimberly Venture Tours or
- 32:44Groovy Grape, like all these, you know, or even the rock tour
- 32:47to start with, it's a different kind of family.
- 32:52Yeah. You just have a lot more freedom
- 32:54to, you know, run it rather than to be a cog in the wheel of it.
- 32:59Yeah. So I was running three day tours
- 33:01with the Rock Tour. I kept crossing Groovy grape
- 33:04trips at the rock. They were so much happier.
- 33:08Their groups were so happy, like, and on top of that, like
- 33:11I've, I grew up on the coast. So after three months of just
- 33:15doing circles in the desert and crossing these guys who were
- 33:18going to the beach, you know, going back to the coast every
- 33:21two weeks, you know, I just, I ended up basically quitting,
- 33:25jumping on a Groovy Grape bus and going down to Adelaide and
- 33:28worked with them for about 10 years.
- 33:30Yeah, I can totally see why the Adelaide to Alice is one of my
- 33:33favourite routes for sure in Australia, yeah.
- 33:38You have a trip and the timing and to have like 6 days instead
- 33:42of three just. A little bit longer.
- 33:45And yeah, I feel like it's only night 3 for groups that don't
- 33:49know each other. Generally I find it takes about
- 33:513 days to open up. And then so for that to keep
- 33:54happening, like just get to know them, they go, just get to know
- 33:56them, they go. To actually connect with people
- 33:59on those longer trips was really cool.
- 34:01And from the tour guide perspective, it takes them three
- 34:03days to learn where everything. Goes in the.
- 34:05Camper trailer. Sometimes.
- 34:08How to? Roll a swag.
- 34:10Where Where do I get a teacup from the teacup box?
- 34:13Where do the pots and pans go? Yeah, with the other pots and
- 34:16pans. Yeah.
- 34:17Shout out to my last tour group. How do I chop this carrot?
- 34:22I don't know. How do you chop a carrot at
- 34:24home? So yeah, it takes three days for
- 34:26them to get to a point where it's like comfortably flowing
- 34:29and and then if it's a three day tour, well, goodbye and now
- 34:32start again and another 20 people and you repeat yourself
- 34:35again and again. So yeah, longer tours are great
- 34:39and even. Well, that's something you can
- 34:41talk to Ringer about because he taught me a lot about group
- 34:45dynamics. Because when he said six month
- 34:48tour with the same 15 people, I was like, what if you get?
- 34:52That's a commitment. What if you get a few like, you
- 34:55know, people clashing personalities in there and
- 34:57you're on a tour for six months together, How do you get around
- 35:00that, you know? And he said at all, there's
- 35:01ways, you know, and he said there's there's a three day
- 35:05meltdown and then there's the 17 day meltdown and then there's
- 35:08the 35 day meltdown. And just through each of those
- 35:11you have to like bring the group back together.
- 35:14And he said by the end, it's like a family.
- 35:16And it's like, you know, you've got the weird auntie and you've
- 35:19got the annoying bratty teenager and you've got the grandpa that
- 35:23complaints about everything. And but that's a family dynamic.
- 35:27It's like you can't be surrounded by people you you
- 35:30connect with beautifully all the time, all the time.
- 35:32You know, same in a company. If you've got colleagues, you'll
- 35:35have some colleagues get along with and some you don't.
- 35:37And you just have to learn to work together still.
- 35:40So yeah, that's what he taught me about group dynamics is
- 35:44doesn't matter if you have a few people that are different or
- 35:47just don't get along as well like you, you find your way
- 35:51through it. So yeah, exactly.
- 35:52And you learn something. Yeah, everyone learn something.
- 35:55I think tour guides, good tour guides are very diplomatic
- 35:59people. You know, we can literally
- 36:02change our tone to talk to anyone.
- 36:05Like some people, some customers will want all the knowledge.
- 36:09And so you put on your best like, educated voice with them
- 36:12and you just flood their ears with facts and everything.
- 36:15And then other people will just want you to be funny and, or
- 36:20just like they just want to talk shit and they don't want to
- 36:23listen to any of your spiel. They just want the, they just
- 36:26want the banter, you know, So you'll be banterful with them
- 36:28and then you'll, you know, adapt to the different personalities
- 36:33all the way. Yeah, 100%.
- 36:36Yeah, yeah, As you would know, I guess your groups are with Sid's
- 36:43Ventures. What you you get all types of
- 36:45people from all around the world or.
- 36:47Yeah. All ages and.
- 36:50In terms of demographics, like, you know, 18 to 80 and, you
- 36:55know, all different people from all walks of life.
- 36:58I think the connecting thread is that they're all mad.
- 37:02Yeah, yeah, that's the best. Yeah.
- 37:05And they all just get on and they just click.
- 37:07And I think, you know, because there's, you know, people come
- 37:11for the trip and whatever, but you know, there's an element of
- 37:14my kind of character and humour that, you know, attracts a
- 37:18certain breed of people. So it's, it's, I haven't had
- 37:24many problems. I've had a couple of, you know,
- 37:26because you get them just people that come with the wrong
- 37:29intention or the wrong attitude. But generally speaking, like
- 37:32they're all just, you know, like family on the 1st morning, which
- 37:35is so much fun. And that's one of my favourite
- 37:38things apart from designing my own itinerary.
- 37:40You know, must be the same with you.
- 37:41Like instead of having a random group of people coming in
- 37:44through a travel agency that half of them don't even know
- 37:47what they're doing, to have people knowing what they're
- 37:49getting and having that intention just changes the whole
- 37:53experience. Definitely.
- 37:55I found that massively wild women journeys as well.
- 37:57It's like because we do our own marketing, it's it's us through
- 38:02Instagram, just sharing the day to day.
- 38:05And so that you naturally attract a much more like minded
- 38:10audience than if someone's Googling Uluru two or three day
- 38:16adventure or something like how many people everyone's Googling
- 38:19Uluru tour. So you you will get all types of
- 38:22characters on a standard tour. But yeah, ours are much more
- 38:25like, yeah, I definitely see that attracting similar people
- 38:29and then they get along even better.
- 38:31And, and I also think our we really mean you both advertise
- 38:37what you get. What you see is what you get,
- 38:39you know, so I do, I do say there's going to be days without
- 38:44toilets, you know, there's going to be like we are sleeping in
- 38:47swags the whole time. There's no option of upgrading.
- 38:50There's no like, you know, I'm very upfront about what the
- 38:55experience is and therefore you don't get unmet expectations.
- 39:00Like, whereas other tool companies can really ramp up to,
- 39:04to try and get that broader audience and just get more and
- 39:07more bookings. They will, they do options of
- 39:10upgrades and downgrade more like standards.
- 39:12And, and then the camp, they, they show how flashy the camps
- 39:16are. And then sometimes they're not
- 39:18that flashy when you get there or like, you know, there's a lot
- 39:21more discrepancies with what people are expecting and how is
- 39:26it advertised, Whereas a small business is just.
- 39:29Yeah, just got this is. We share what it is.
- 39:32Yeah, exactly. I had AI was working for the
- 39:34Kimberly Adventure Tour years ago and a woman came on and it
- 39:37was a very similar situation. They say like we do it
- 39:40authentically, we do it rough. Like this is how we do it.
- 39:43Like, you know, there's there was no secret about it.
- 39:47And a woman came on, left a really bad Google review, and
- 39:50the owner of the company jumped on.
- 39:52And this, the metaphor was stuck in my mind that he was basically
- 39:56saying, look, you know, you've basically come in to order a
- 39:59hamburger with no cheese. And we've very clearly said that
- 40:03we have lots of cheese. And every, every one of our
- 40:07hamburgers is full of cheese. And you've basically just
- 40:09complained that you've got a hamburger with cheese and we're
- 40:11all about the cheese. Yeah, that was it.
- 40:14That was like. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 40:16Oh. That's brilliant.
- 40:18Yeah. Google reviews.
- 40:24Yeah, yeah. I had a really good question.
- 40:26I can't remember what it was because I was just getting
- 40:28carried away. I think that's another thing
- 40:36that I learnt very early with Guiding, especially with those
- 40:40big companies, is that you can't please everyone you know.
- 40:44And when you when you start dealing with hundreds of people
- 40:47in a month and a lot of them are leaving Google reviews of you,
- 40:50like, do you remember your first bad review?
- 40:53That was, Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
- 40:56Me too. And it's like such a knife to
- 41:00the gut, especially when you're you're 20 years old and you're
- 41:03out there putting your heart and soul into this business and
- 41:06you're just being so authentic. And you're like nervously
- 41:09stepping into this leader role. And then someone just shoots you
- 41:12down in a Google review and said Maddie was this and this and she
- 41:16was not the right guy for this role.
- 41:18Wherever, whatever they say, and.
- 41:22You're like, oh God, that's. A bit so heartbreaking.
- 41:25We used to with Groovy Grape, they used to have written forms
- 41:29and we were supposed to get them back to the group.
- 41:30They would write on them, put them in a folder, and then like
- 41:34you'd just look at them at the end of the tour.
- 41:35And it got to the point where I know a lot of tour guys just
- 41:38refused to hand them out anymore because it's just so
- 41:40heartbreaking. It is, as you say, like when
- 41:42you're a bit younger and you like put everything into.
- 41:45It Yeah. It's like, oh.
- 41:46Fragile ego and personality, putting it on the line here and
- 41:50then. Yeah.
- 41:51Yeah, for sure. But then I think you, you do get
- 41:55a thick skin to that pretty quickly.
- 41:57And even though like, our job is to be a people pleaser.
- 42:00Eventually you'd see them like kettle and it doesn't matter at
- 42:02all like you know, to some to some extent like on those.
- 42:05Kind of. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 42:08It does start to become numbers. But yeah, I think you just
- 42:11realise as well as you don't like personally, every single
- 42:15guest that comes on your tour, then every single guest is going
- 42:18to like you. You know, I like your
- 42:20personality is what it is. And the thing about humans is
- 42:23we're all different. So some people will just not
- 42:26like you, you know, And and you then see that in your Google
- 42:30review and then I guess you just learn after a while, like can't
- 42:33please everyone. You know, they wanted a six foot
- 42:37tall man with a knife on his belt and someone to crack a whip
- 42:41on top of the Canyon. And I wasn't that so whatever.
- 42:45And then that 6 foot tour guide over there, he's going to get a
- 42:48good. Review.
- 42:48You know, whatever it is, yeah, yeah, you do get a thick skin
- 42:54from it. Yeah, yeah, eventually.
- 42:57Yeah. So what's your what's your next
- 43:01plan with touring and your business and life in general?
- 43:06Life in general. Well, I just bought a house here
- 43:11in Alice Springs, so yeah, that's my current focus of this
- 43:16year is renovations. I think I bought the cheapest
- 43:21house in Alice Springs so it's. Definitely not the worst.
- 43:26So yeah, it's needs. It's been a fixer wrapper.
- 43:29So I kind of dedicated this six month season of, of doing that
- 43:35and doing and still running wild women journeys, of course.
- 43:39And then probably come September, October, I'll be
- 43:45leaving Alice again as it starts to warm up and I don't know what
- 43:49this summer's got in hold for me.
- 43:51I've definitely got a few Nepal trips that I'm going to be
- 43:56hosting in October, November. And then, yeah, so there'll be
- 44:01some international travel and keep.
- 44:05I want to start building some new itineraries, scouting out
- 44:07some new locations for wild women.
- 44:12Yeah, yeah. But I reckon, Yep, this season
- 44:17is is pretty committed to here in Alice.
- 44:19And. And just with wild women
- 44:22journeys, I'm just trying to, I'm not trying to grow it
- 44:26necessarily. I really don't want to be doing
- 44:29more trips than what we're doing right now.
- 44:31I just want to make it even better, you know?
- 44:34So just working on where we're at now with everything, with
- 44:39what we share on social media and we're our little team of
- 44:44Girl Guides is amazing. And I just want us to keep, keep
- 44:47running the trips we're running now and just get them even more
- 44:51solid and flowing well. And yeah, cool.
- 44:54Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's nice when it gets cleaned
- 44:57up and runs. Yeah, efficiency, yeah.
- 45:01So I'm. Just learning what that would.
- 45:03Mean, but let's not go into business.
- 45:07That's a whole other podcast. You need a different a different
- 45:11one, yeah. On the way over here, we're
- 45:12talking reservation systems. Yeah, like what's the pros?
- 45:16And cons software, yeah, GST, yeah, I'm.
- 45:23Just learning about that as well.
- 45:24Yeah, Yeah, that was that was definitely a shock moment for me
- 45:29in my first year or two. I didn't know anything about
- 45:32business. I still don't.
- 45:33Yeah. And and then you find yourself
- 45:36running a business. Yeah.
- 45:37It's like, Oh my God. Yeah, it's accounting.
- 45:39I said this to Gus W the other day.
- 45:43He was referring to equity and something else and something
- 45:45else. I was like, dude, I don't even
- 45:47know what that means. Yeah.
- 45:48And he looked at me a bit strange.
- 45:49And I was like, to be honest with you, like, until I was 36,
- 45:53I didn't use the word capital to refer to anything but a city,
- 45:57like a little literally. And he's like, whoa.
- 45:59I still wouldn't use capital for any.
- 46:01But you just used the word capital to refer to finances.
- 46:03Yeah, I never, literally never. I knew it, but I'd literally had
- 46:07never come out my mouth when I actually referred to capital
- 46:10involving. And I was like, should I be
- 46:13starting a business? Just see what happens.
- 46:16Yeah, go for the artistic angle. So we might start to wrap it up.
- 46:22But what I might do, this just kind of popped into my head for
- 46:27me personally, like I've just learnt every tour.
- 46:30It was kind of like Groundhog Day in.
- 46:33You've seen the movie. OK, great movie, you should
- 46:36watch it. But this guy basically lives the
- 46:38same day again and again and again.
- 46:40But instead of getting, you know, frustrated with it, he
- 46:43realises that he can learn from, you know, what is happening and
- 46:47better himself. And I found that on tours that
- 46:51after every trip I would learn something about my limitations
- 46:54or I'd learn something about people or, you know, I would,
- 46:57you know, get a lot of lessons out of the experience.
- 47:00So I'm wondering if there's one thing in particular that you've
- 47:04learnt from touring that has had a huge effect on your life for
- 47:09the way you see the world. Biggest lesson from touring?
- 47:21Could be one of the top 10 doesn't have.
- 47:23To be yeah, I think it's probably just that when things
- 47:27go wrong, it's not really wrong, you know, like like in one sense
- 47:37that there will always be a solution always like what
- 47:40problem has ever not had a solution?
- 47:42You know, it will always or it'll just become not a problem
- 47:45anymore. You know, that's fine and people
- 47:52enjoy a problem, a challenge. Like when we get a flat tyre,
- 47:56that's often the memory that people take home and tell the
- 47:59story to the most of. We were stuck on the side of the
- 48:02highway for like 2 hours and the guide couldn't figure out how to
- 48:06change the tyre and the flies were crazy.
- 48:10You know, like that's part of the story when things go wrong
- 48:13and even like when new passengers come on the tour, the
- 48:16first thing they'll ask us is, oh, what's the wildest thing
- 48:20that's ever happened on a tour? What's the biggest injury that's
- 48:22ever happened? Whatever.
- 48:23So like it's I I secretly love when things go wrong.
- 48:28You. Know.
- 48:29It's a new story to tell around the campfire.
- 48:34Cool. Is there anything else you want
- 48:35to add before we wrap it up? I'll put all your details and
- 48:40like links and stuff down in the description below so people can
- 48:45track you down through socials of the website.
- 48:47Yeah, no, that's not it, man. That's all.
- 48:51I guess if anyone ever wants a change of career, become a tour
- 48:55guide. Even if it's just the three
- 48:58weeks, Yeah. Go on seek.com and type in our
- 49:00back tour guide. Yeah, it's a it's a great change
- 49:06in your life. I think everyone should do it,
- 49:08like mandatory military service. Yeah, everyone should.
- 49:12Maybe not everyone, but I think it's just such a rewarding
- 49:15experience you learn so much about.
- 49:18It teaches you leadership skills, your personal skills.
- 49:22It's just mechanic, first aid stuff, everything.
- 49:25Social dynamics problems, when to say something and when to say
- 49:29nothing. Yeah, yeah, Just to back this is
- 49:33something I remembered before when you were getting advice
- 49:37about like how to deal with groups.
- 49:39I think from Ringer when I first started out here, like I was
- 49:43obsessed with perfecting, perfecting tour guiding, you
- 49:47know, and I just to me, like, you know, there's the knowledge
- 49:51and there's there's all these things which you can study and
- 49:54perfect over time. But it was the social dynamics
- 49:57that was really that was the mind bending lesson.
- 50:01So I used to pick all like all tour guides brains about, you
- 50:05know, their experiences or how they deal with particular group
- 50:08dynamics. And I used to just sometimes
- 50:11just get there. Like one major piece of advice.
- 50:14And did you ever meet Tom Hanson Bushy?
- 50:17No, I asked him. I was like, like, what's like,
- 50:21tell me about group dynamics? He's like, shit.
- 50:23There's only one thing you should never do.
- 50:25Never get angry with a group as a whole, otherwise you've lost
- 50:29them forever. Like if you know, if there's a
- 50:31few stuff UPS, if you ever, like display, you know, anger towards
- 50:37a group, he's like, that is the worst thing you can do.
- 50:39You will never recover from that.
- 50:40And I'm not an angry kind of guy anyway.
- 50:42Yeah, Yeah. But it was just interesting to
- 50:44see and to learn, you know? But yeah.
- 50:47Because there are times eventually when, like, you know
- 50:50something, you get frustrated and you want to vent it, but
- 50:53it's like, OK, like, yeah, like you said.
- 50:55Oh, I've seen it on tours like just.
- 50:56Yeah, I've seen other guides that just get so frustrated and
- 51:00then lose it at the group. And it's like, Oh yeah.
- 51:04And it's those guides that, well, they often get fired from
- 51:07that at somewhere and it doesn't take long like a few reviews
- 51:10like that and. Or they just drive the bus to
- 51:12the airport and leave the bus. I think that story.
- 51:16Is that a true story? I think it is.
- 51:18I think it is. I really think it is.
- 51:19I can't remember because this was going around back in 2012
- 51:23and it I feel like it too long before that.
- 51:26I think it happened again in 2018 or 19.
- 51:29Oh really? Yeah, a tour guide.
- 51:31There's people listening, like people like tour guides just got
- 51:34so frustrated that they basically drove to the Alice
- 51:37Springs air of the was at the ASRock Airport and just left the
- 51:41bus said and said I'll go and do some paperwork.
- 51:45It never came back. Got on a fly.
- 51:48And that's kind of where it does lead you, because if you're
- 51:52doing those back to backs and losing your mind, yeah, it's the
- 51:55lesser of a few evils. Yeah, yeah.
- 51:59So do you have a biggest life lesson from guiding?
- 52:07I think it's like it's a real all encompassing kind of thing
- 52:10with I guess it similar to yours in the terms of like everything
- 52:18will be OK. But for me and like one of my
- 52:22like root kind of, you know, like mental nuances is like I
- 52:29get frustrated with timing. Like I like to have things done
- 52:35by a certain time. And I think what I learnt was
- 52:39that eventually, like at the end of the day, timing doesn't
- 52:41matter. Like it doesn't matter.
- 52:44So, and that was a big, obviously it happens a lot with
- 52:48tours because you've got to be somewhere at a certain time.
- 52:50And but I used to get really kind of, you know, internally
- 52:53like, you know, the cortisol was pumping.
- 52:56Freaking out. So I, I just learnt to and that
- 52:59was pretty early in my tour guiding career.
- 53:01I started taking a deck chair like that one out on tours.
- 53:06And if it ever got to the point, I'm pretty sure this, this must
- 53:09have been with Groovy Grape. It was pretty early on in the
- 53:11piece, but if, if it got to the time where we're supposed to
- 53:16leave and everyone was still faffing about, I would get my
- 53:19chair and I would sit down, you know, instead of like rushing
- 53:22around. Because I just realised like I
- 53:23was in such a a panic. And not just in tour, but in
- 53:27life, you know, I just, I've got one of those kind of mindsets
- 53:31where if I don't do everything, I can do it on time.
- 53:35Like everything's a waste. Just a bit of a Sid Madness kind
- 53:38of thing. But that's been really good for
- 53:40that kind of therapy and I guess just, you know, on the whole,
- 53:44just having a lot more freedom and just knowing things will
- 53:46work out. I guess it's the similar kind.
- 53:48Yeah, that's been my. That's been flexible.
- 53:50Yeah, and just knowing that everything's going to be fine
- 53:53and the things happen at the right time and as long as
- 53:56everyone's safe, there's no problem.
- 53:59Yeah, so it's just been a lot of bad.
- 54:01Not stressing letting the the flow flow.
- 54:06And I think the more of connected with the country and
- 54:08people out here as well because that's such a part of, you know,
- 54:12the vibe here and the culture. Yeah, there's no rush.
- 54:15It's the same NT time. It's not today, not tomorrow,
- 54:18not Tuesday, not Thursday. Yeah.
- 54:22It's like I had these. I had a couple of indigenous
- 54:25friends come for my birthday when I was staying in our Karola
- 54:30and they knew that my birthday was on the Saturday and there
- 54:34was a bit of a party and you know, I was looking forward to
- 54:36them rocking up. Anyway, Saturday came, Saturday
- 54:39went, Sunday came, Sunday went on Monday.
- 54:43I saw this big cloud of dust coming up the driveway and then
- 54:47it pulls up in front of me. You know, the cool tards are all
- 54:49there in the car with a big bowl of punch.
- 54:51I'm like, Siri, we're here for your birthday.
- 54:53I'm like, like Don, Don, it was 2 days ago.
- 54:56I'm just like, yeah, but we're here now, you know?
- 54:58And then that ends up being better than my actual birthday.
- 55:01So it's. Yeah, just very much.
- 55:03Things happen when they happen. Yeah, exactly.
- 55:07Time. Time is not a.
- 55:11Big. Thing their culture, hey.
- 55:12Yeah, yeah. And it really doesn't exist.
- 55:15There's seasons and sun goes up and down.
- 55:18Yeah, a little bit older. On that note, we don't have
- 55:24alcohol so we can't continue this.
- 55:26Conversation. Time's up.
- 55:28Yeah. Yeah, cool.
- 55:30Thanks, Maddie. That was awesome.
- 55:32No problem. Ladies and gentlemen, Maddie
- 55:36Ambrose of Wild Women's Wild Women Journeys.
- 55:39Wild women journeys. I will link it all down below.
- 55:42Thanks. For listening to my rambles.
- 55:45Yeah, help us. Let's do it again.