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Unlock the Power of Purpose in Your Life. · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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Speaker 1: You've got to have your own list of whys.
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Speaker 2: One of the big thrust for success is to come
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Speaker 2: up with a strong enough why.
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Speaker 1: He who has a why can bear almost anyhow.
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Speaker 2: It's time for you to look inward and begin asking
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Speaker 2: yourself the big questions, who are you?
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Speaker 1: And what do you want? Work on your list of whys.
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Speaker 1: Here's what we learn.
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Speaker 2: If the why is powerful, the how is easy.
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Speaker 3: You're going to realize it one day that happiness was
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Speaker 3: never about your job, or your degree, or being in
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Speaker 3: a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps
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Speaker 3: of all of those who came before you. It was
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Speaker 3: never about being like the others. One day you're going
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Speaker 3: to see it that happiness was always about the discovery,
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Speaker 3: the hope, the listening to your heart and following it
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Speaker 3: wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being
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Speaker 3: kinder to yourself. It was always about embracing the person
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Speaker 3: you were becoming. One day you will understand that happiness
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Speaker 3: was always about learning how to live with yourself, that
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Speaker 3: your happiness was never in the hands of others. One
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Speaker 3: day you will realize that true happiness comes from within
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Speaker 3: and no external factors can define it. It was always
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Speaker 3: about you. It was always about you.
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Speaker 4: I say, chase your dreams, man, Do that thing, man
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Speaker 4: that keeps you up at night, that thing that bothers you,
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Speaker 4: man that makes you trip.
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Speaker 5: You can't quit thinking about it.
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Speaker 4: You always that that thing, man, that you wake up
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Speaker 4: in the middle of the night. You got a new idea.
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Speaker 4: That's what you got to chase, because anything else, you're
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Speaker 4: gonna forever be sad. Man. If you don't chase that dream,
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Speaker 4: you're gonna forever be miserable man.
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Speaker 6: To get anything of value, you have to sacrifice.
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Speaker 1: Oh, what is your purpose? Why are you here?
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Speaker 5: It's just too hard?
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Speaker 6: Do you know that the hardest thing to do than
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Speaker 6: the right thing to do are usually the same thing.
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Speaker 1: Nothing that has meaning?
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Speaker 5: It's easy.
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Speaker 7: You asked for strength, and you receive challenges to become stronger.
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Speaker 7: You asked for a positive mind, and you were thrown
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Speaker 7: into darkness to find your own light.
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Speaker 8: You see, everything has.
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Speaker 7: Its purpose, So only focus on improving yourself.
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Speaker 8: That's all you can ever do.
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Speaker 6: Figure out what you want, ignore the opinions of others.
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Speaker 6: Do so much work. It would be unreasonable that you
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Speaker 6: fail realize it never mattered to begin with help others.
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Speaker 6: Once you get there, you've already achieved the things you
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Speaker 6: said would make you successful.
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Speaker 8: You did all you have. You're gonna get massed potential back,
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Speaker 8: and then who knows what could come. That's a beautiful thing.
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Speaker 8: If you don't show up, guys, you know the outcome.
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Speaker 9: You never get the job, never get the part, small
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Speaker 9: down payment, and you're willing to pay every day to
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Speaker 9: the large investment of a greater life.
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Speaker 8: You only got one life, Guys. Again, if you work
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Speaker 8: it right, you only need one, he.
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Speaker 2: Said, Jim, if you had enough reasons, you could do
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Speaker 2: the most incredible things.
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Speaker 1: I never forgot how you put that.
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Speaker 2: If you have enough reasons, see reasons will change your
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Speaker 2: whole life, mister Shelf said to me, he said, mister Own,
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Speaker 2: I think you've got plenty of intelligence. You've got plenty
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Speaker 2: of talent, You've got plenty of ability. Probably what you
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Speaker 2: lack is plenty of reasons.
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Speaker 6: Bascha said, I know of no better life purpose than
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Speaker 6: to perish in attempting the great and impossible. The fact
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Speaker 6: that something seems impossible shouldn't be a reason to not
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Speaker 6: pursue it. That's exactly what makes it worth pursuing. Why
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Speaker 6: would the courage and greatness be if success was certain
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Speaker 6: and there was no risk. The only true failure is
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Speaker 6: shrinking away from life's challenges.
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Speaker 10: I don't really understand what my life's task as I
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Speaker 10: call that a master your life's task. Please help me, Robert.
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Speaker 10: You have to be patient. It's not going to come
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Speaker 10: like a light bulb in your head.
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Speaker 11: Ah.
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Speaker 10: I was meant to do this. I was meant to
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Speaker 10: write the forty eight Lass of Power. That's not how
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Speaker 10: it works. So I like to tell people to go
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Speaker 10: back to their early childhood memories of things that really
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Speaker 10: excited them before they got mixed up with parents and
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Speaker 10: teachers and all that other people telling them stuff.
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Speaker 12: Because what people don't get is one day that thing's
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Speaker 12: going to come up. But we don't take a second
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Speaker 12: to realize. The purpose is always there. The purpose never
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Speaker 12: leaves us, because the very purpose is you.
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Speaker 2: But if the why isn't strong, if your goals aren't powerful,
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Speaker 2: if the vision isn't clear, the old prophet said, without
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Speaker 2: a vision, we die without a vision, we perish without
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Speaker 2: a dream.
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Speaker 1: Or nothing. Now is the best time to start, Not tomorrow,
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Speaker 1: not next week, not until next month, not next year.
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Speaker 5: Do you have to start right now.
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Speaker 2: Get out there and chase your dreams, find a venture, fall.
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Speaker 1: In love, Take rich because trust me, worth it our problems.
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Speaker 8: You could have anything you want if you want it
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Speaker 8: badly enough.
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Speaker 1: You can be anything you want, to be anything you.
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Speaker 9: Said eld to accomplished if you hold that desire with
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Speaker 9: singleness of purpose.
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Speaker 2: How come you're up so early? Say, if you were
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Speaker 2: headed where I'm at it, you'd be up early too.
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Speaker 2: If you were going to meet who I'm going.
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Speaker 1: To meet, you'd be up early.
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Speaker 2: If it was going to stack up for you, like
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Speaker 2: it's stacking up for me, you'd be getting that early.
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Speaker 6: You should basically be that the person that your youngest
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Speaker 6: self wanted as a role model. Brave, courageous, earnest, honest,
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Speaker 6: virtuous like on fire. Does this quote from the ancient
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Speaker 6: Greeks that says, live as though all your ancestors were
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Speaker 6: living a gain through you.
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Speaker 8: You got to find your why. And your why is
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Speaker 8: what's going to start you.
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Speaker 13: And so for a lot of you, you're not doing
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Speaker 13: nothing because you don't have any purpose right now.
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Speaker 8: You don't have a sense of purpose.
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Speaker 13: You're not waking up for nobody, And I need you
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Speaker 13: to get that engine.
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Speaker 5: I need that.
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Speaker 13: Dry because you know what to do, you're the right
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Speaker 13: person to do it, but you just can't seem to
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Speaker 13: get out of it. You can't seem to do what
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Speaker 13: you're supposed to do. Every time you come up against
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Speaker 13: a trial or a tribulation, you let it stop.
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Speaker 1: What is the antidote to worry?
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Speaker 14: What do you think it is, Well, it's simply this.
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Speaker 14: It is purposeful action. The only real antidote to worry
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Speaker 14: is purposeful action. Everything that gets you to the point
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Speaker 14: where you can take purposeful action, where you can move and,
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Speaker 14: as Shakespeare says, take arms against the sea of troubles,
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Speaker 14: and by so doing in them. Anything that gets you
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Speaker 14: to the point where you can take purposeful action will
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Speaker 14: eliminate the worry. Why, because of what we call the
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Speaker 14: law of substitution.
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Speaker 15: When you had this day, when you have reached the
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Speaker 15: hell top, deciding on next jobs, next steps, careers, further education,
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Speaker 15: you would rather find purpose than a job or a career.
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Speaker 15: Purpose crosses disciplines. Purpose is an essential element of you.
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Speaker 15: It is the reason you are on the planet at
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Speaker 15: this particular time in history. Your very existence is wrapped
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Speaker 15: up in the things you are here to fulfill whatever
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Speaker 15: you choose for a career path. Remember the struggles along
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Speaker 15: the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose.
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Speaker 16: The only way to discover what your wires or what
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Speaker 16: you love is you must experience as many different things
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Speaker 16: as you can.
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Speaker 8: You can't just read about something.
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Speaker 16: You can't just hear someone's talk about something.
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Speaker 8: You must experience.
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Speaker 16: As many different things as you can.
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Speaker 8: That is the only way.
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Speaker 16: Otherwise you fall into the trap of doing something you
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Speaker 16: don't love because you ever actually tried it beforehand.
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Speaker 12: So if you wake up in the morning and you
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Speaker 12: don't want to do something, you don't care enough about yourself?
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Speaker 5: Man, why am I not doing this for myself?
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Speaker 12: Because that is the number one purpose in life is
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Speaker 12: to better oneself.
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Speaker 16: The great line, it's the you know, if you want
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Speaker 16: to find out what you should do in life, what
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Speaker 16: do you think about all the time?
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Speaker 5: That's your God.
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Speaker 1: See, you can do anything.
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Speaker 2: You can get up any hour, read any book, take
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Speaker 2: any class, make any change, develop any skill, do any discipline.
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Speaker 2: And my personal question to you is why not you?
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Speaker 9: You might think that bed's warm, it feels all comfortable.
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Speaker 9: You come here, you kill it, give it everything you have,
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Speaker 9: leave it, all here.
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Speaker 8: The warmth you feel after that.
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Speaker 9: Second to none man, second to none, No, she can
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Speaker 9: provide that comfort for you. When you give it all here, guys,
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Speaker 9: and you leave it all here, you are your weakest states,
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Speaker 9: bottom of the barrel. What's about to happen? Your greatest triumph?
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Speaker 9: You kill yourself on pride in here, leave nothing spared.
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Speaker 9: What's gonna come? The growth of opportunity.
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Speaker 17: I have never met anybody who became incredibly successful in
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Speaker 17: any area of their life until they had suffered, had sweated,
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Speaker 17: had sacrificed, had kept their focus, had through tears and
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Speaker 17: trials and tests. And if you have a dream and
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Speaker 17: you commit to it, and well, come to pash.
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Speaker 8: What's your why?
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Speaker 5: Hey?
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Speaker 8: If I don't give y'all nothing else, you better start that.
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Speaker 8: What's your why? You know why? I do what I do,
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Speaker 8: and I do it.
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Speaker 11: So passionate because my grandfather was a high school dropout.
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Speaker 11: My father was a high school dropout. I was a
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Speaker 11: high school dropout, and were about to break the cycle.
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Speaker 11: I do what I do so my son won't have
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Speaker 11: to go through what I went through.
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Speaker 8: I'm about to give everything I got and I won't know. Oh,
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Speaker 8: if I'll get another gig. It won't happy to do
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Speaker 8: with the fact that and put everything.
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Speaker 18: On the field.
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Speaker 8: What's your wah, Why don't you wake up in the morning.
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Speaker 19: Problem with the pursuit of happiness is that when life
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Speaker 19: storms come along, happiness disappears and then you're left with nothing.
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Speaker 19: So you need to pursue something that's deeper than happiness.
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Speaker 19: And if happiness comes along, well, then hooray for you.
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Speaker 19: You don't want to despise it because it's fleeting, but
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Speaker 19: it's much better to pursue things that are meaningful than
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Speaker 19: things that make you happy. It's deeper, and it orients
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Speaker 19: you more appropriately in it, and it keeps you centered
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Speaker 19: in your own life. It makes you more useful for
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Speaker 19: your family and your community. And it's a relief to
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Speaker 19: young people to know that the baseline conditions of life
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Speaker 19: are difficult, but then you can still prevail.
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Speaker 10: Your purpose in life is something that you're born with.
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Speaker 10: It's like your destiny. This is what you are meant
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Speaker 10: to accomplish. So we humans are not born with that
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Speaker 10: purpose engraved in our heads. You know, animals don't wake
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Speaker 10: up and go what am I going to do today?
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Speaker 10: I can go here, I can hunt for this down.
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Speaker 10: I'm I can hun for that, anam I can eat this? No,
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Speaker 10: they don't. They operate by instinct. They have a purpose,
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Speaker 10: it's automatic almost. We have to find our purpose and
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Speaker 10: because it's so deepen and so important that if we
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Speaker 10: don't find it'll find it somewhere else. It needs something
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Speaker 10: to live forward.
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Speaker 20: You know what I want you to understand. Everything you
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Speaker 20: say yes to is you saying no to something else.
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Speaker 20: There is nothing that you say yes to that doesn't
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Speaker 20: cost you something. And you need to pay attention to
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Speaker 20: what you're saying yes to because you may actually be
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Speaker 20: saying no.
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Speaker 5: To your future.
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Speaker 1: Because people who achieve greatness.
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Speaker 20: Make a decision to live a life that is self
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Speaker 20: sacrificing and that has deferred gratification. Just because it brings
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Speaker 20: you pleasure doesn't mean.
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Speaker 5: It gives you purpose.
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Speaker 20: If you keep living your life for what you want today,
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Speaker 20: you will not be creating the life you want tomorrow.
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Speaker 2: One of the major reasons for setting goals is for
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Speaker 2: what they make of you in achieving them.
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Speaker 21: Hey, you know, sometimes you gotta go why, You've got
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Speaker 21: to go far and you have to do something crazy
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Speaker 21: to get somewhere new or do something special It's just life.
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Speaker 8: The best things, the best things.
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Speaker 21: They're not easy, and hey, you might feel improbable, it
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Speaker 21: might feel impossible, but you gotta do Trust me on
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Speaker 21: this one.
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Speaker 8: I think it'll work out. Give it a try, all.
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Speaker 22: Right, And I want to talk to you about discovering
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Speaker 22: your purpose. Do you know when you discovering your purpose,
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Speaker 22: that's when your life really begins. Think about it. You
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Speaker 22: know it's been said there's two important days in your life.
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Speaker 22: The day you're born and the day you discover what
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Speaker 22: you are born. That's why are you out of bed
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Speaker 22: in the morning. It's why you get up and get going.
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Speaker 22: You have a purpose in life. Now without a purpose,
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Speaker 22: you're just wandering around no direction. See, I honestly believe
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Speaker 22: every one of us are hardwired to do something. If
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Speaker 22: there's something we've got a talent and ability within us
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Speaker 22: that will just blossom when we find.
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Speaker 1: It, you know you should risk it, do some crazy
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Speaker 1: take a chance.
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Speaker 23: Because I know that tumfort is great, and the couch
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Speaker 23: is great, and your bed is great. But I promise
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Speaker 23: you somewhere, somewhere far, some more wild, somewhere you feel lost,
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Speaker 23: you might find yourself.
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Speaker 24: I don't know, Shu what's the one question you can
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Speaker 24: ask yourself to help you find your purpose? The one
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Speaker 24: question to ask yourself right now, the only time to
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Speaker 24: ask it is right now that will find your purpose
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Speaker 24: in life?
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Speaker 1: Is what is the next right thing in front of me?
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Speaker 18: Now?
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Speaker 24: We do not figure out our purpose and by trying
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Speaker 24: to project ourselves into the future and coming up with
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Speaker 24: some grandiose.
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Speaker 1: Plan, that's not how it's done.
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Speaker 24: You have to understand that is constantly orchestrating everything perfectly.
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Speaker 1: To put you on the path that will lead to
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Speaker 1: that ultimate goal.
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Speaker 24: But the way that you get there is step by step,
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Speaker 24: the next step, the step in front of you. So
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Speaker 24: don't ask yourself what am I meant to be doing
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Speaker 24: five ten years from now?
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Speaker 1: Ask yourself, what can I do to be useful at.
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Speaker 24: This very moment, as small as it seems, as mundane
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Speaker 24: as it seems, But that is the direction. That's the
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Speaker 24: step that will get you to the end goal where
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Speaker 24: you will be able to look back in retrospect and
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Speaker 24: see that you've lived a life of purpose.
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Speaker 1: Is there a version of yourself that's better than you
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Speaker 1: are right now?
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Speaker 25: And most people hopefully would say yes, it's like great,
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Speaker 25: accept that person to me. When we talk about the authenticity,
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Speaker 25: accepting yourself is accepting the ideal that we can live
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Speaker 25: up to, and that's that is what we accept, not
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Speaker 25: the shitty version of that that we are today.
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Speaker 13: I need you to confront you because you don't want
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Speaker 13: holding you up. I need you to confront you. I
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Speaker 13: need you to look in.
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Speaker 8: The mirror and tell you are not gonna do me
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Speaker 8: like this no more. You're not gonna continue to sabotage me.
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Speaker 8: You're not. You're not gonna keep procrastinating.
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Speaker 17: I need you.
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Speaker 8: You're not.
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Speaker 2: But if you don't get busy and work on it,
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Speaker 2: sure enough the time will pass, and sure enough, five
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Speaker 2: years from now, you will wind up where you don't
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Speaker 2: want to be, wearing what you don't want to wear,
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Speaker 2: driving what.
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Speaker 1: You don't want to drive, being what you don't want
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Speaker 1: to be. Now's the time to fix it.
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Speaker 8: You must be able to see it, mister Anderson. You
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Speaker 8: must know it by now. You can't win. It's pointless
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Speaker 8: to keep fighting. Why mister Anderson, Why why do you persist?
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Speaker 5: Because I'm chust him.
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Speaker 26: In twenty seventeen, char Leclair lost his father, and in
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Speaker 26: these final days he told his father a white lie
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Speaker 26: that he'd made it to Formula one, signed the contract.
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Speaker 8: He wasn't true then, but.
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Speaker 26: He's driving has made it true now.
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Speaker 8: And look what he's done with the opportunity.
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Speaker 26: The grandstance he saw built as a kids growing up
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Speaker 26: now rise for him. And for the first time in
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Speaker 26: ninety three years, this fabled.
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Speaker 8: Race is won by one of their own.
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Speaker 26: Chao LaClair wins the Monaco Grand Prix.
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Speaker 8: We want it finally.
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Speaker 6: There's that quote about a the ironic tragedy is that
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Speaker 6: life has to be lived forward but only makes sense
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Speaker 6: and reverse.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, ironic tragedy. Who said that you can't quit?
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Speaker 2: Man?
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Speaker 8: You got to stay with it.
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Speaker 5: Somebody having it way harder than you, and they didn't
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Speaker 5: give up.
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Speaker 8: We all think about quitting.
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Speaker 27: It's hard.
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Speaker 19: There's gonna be days when you're aching and tired and sore,
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Speaker 19: and there's people in your family that are and you're
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Speaker 19: cynical and bitter and you need a reason to get off.
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Speaker 5: The purpose is always there. The purpose never leaves us
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Speaker 5: because the very purpose is you. You are always the purpose.
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Speaker 1: I don't really care what you do. It doesn't matter
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Speaker 1: what you're doing. It's you that counts.
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Speaker 22: And the more you understand you, the better your results
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Speaker 22: you're going to get.
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Speaker 1: You have to be crazy enough to think that it's possible.
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Speaker 28: Sometimes you have to create a delusion, even if you
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Speaker 28: got to lie yourself into believing.
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Speaker 1: That's how you do something worthwhile.
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Speaker 8: You have to believe it's possible, complete delusion.
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Speaker 18: You got to believe the delusion because it's only delusional
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Speaker 18: until it works.
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Speaker 1: Your mind is designed to help you.
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Speaker 8: Get what you want.
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Speaker 14: You just have to be willing to believe it's possible.
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Speaker 28: And when you believe something is possible, everything else will
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Speaker 28: figure itself out.
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Speaker 14: Now we come to the final question, what is the
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Speaker 14: purpose of life? What is the purpose of your life?
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Speaker 14: Why are you here? Why do you exist at all?
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Speaker 14: Why do you get up in the morning, Why do
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Speaker 14: you have a life? Why are you on the earth?
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Speaker 14: Is it simply to be born, to grow up, to work,
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Speaker 14: to reproduce, to die or is there something else? In
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Speaker 14: my estimation, there is something else, something far more important.
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Speaker 14: In this session, I want to talk to you about
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Speaker 14: my discoveries and my thoughts about what the true purpose.
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Speaker 1: Of life is.
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Speaker 8: The two purpose of.
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Speaker 14: Life in my estimation, is to find a mission. Some
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Speaker 14: of the wisest men and women of this century and
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Speaker 14: of previous centuries have looked at this whole idea of
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Speaker 14: why a human being is put on this earth, and
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Speaker 14: they've come to the conclusion that we have put on
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Speaker 14: this earth to fulfill our potential by finding our true
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Speaker 14: mission in life. Amid Fox calls this your heart's desire.
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Speaker 10: If you don't know where you want to go, who
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Speaker 10: you want to be, you eventually just float around.
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Speaker 18: Then you eventually crash.
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Speaker 28: Most people walk around with no goals, no ambition. They
18:56
Speaker 28: don't know where they're going. It's like a ship with
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Speaker 28: no destination. If you don't know where you're going, you'll
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Speaker 28: never get there.
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Speaker 8: Ask yourself this.
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Speaker 29: If I had a gun to your head and I said,
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Speaker 29: pick the one thing that you want to do in
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Speaker 29: life that would just make you absolutely happy, would give
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Speaker 29: you a sense of fulfillment and peace of mind. Never
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Speaker 29: mind it it's not going to make you money. The
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Speaker 29: thing that you would do if money was not an.
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Speaker 8: Issue, what is it?
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Speaker 28: Once you know where you want to go, then you
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Speaker 28: direct your time, your energy, and your attention to the
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Speaker 28: execution and the achievement of that goal. It's all about intention.
19:26
Speaker 28: But most people walk around in life thinking that life
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Speaker 28: is just a big.
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Speaker 1: Fat lottery and it's just not that case.
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Speaker 28: Those that live by the lottery of life most likely
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Speaker 28: end up losing.
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Speaker 1: Now here's the next exercise.
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Speaker 2: Now I want you to answer this question, what kind
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Speaker 2: of person must I become to achieve all I want?
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Speaker 1: And I'll give you time to write that down.
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Speaker 2: Then what kind of person must I become to achieve
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Speaker 2: all I want? What you become helps you to achieve,
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Speaker 2: and what you achieve helped.
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Speaker 1: You to become.
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Speaker 2: And the more you become, the more you can achieve,
19:57
Speaker 2: and the more you achieve, the more you can become.
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Speaker 1: Who knows which affects the other the most?
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Speaker 2: So now just write this exercise, start with a few
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Speaker 2: sentences your concept of the person you think you must
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Speaker 2: become to achieve what you want. Time for a little
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Speaker 2: truth here. Maybe you need to become much wiser than
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Speaker 2: you are at the moment. You need to become stronger,
20:17
Speaker 2: you need to have better health. Maybe you need a
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Speaker 2: little coaching to really become the person I want to become.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to have to have some coaching.
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Speaker 2: Physical coaching, spiritual coaching, developing skills coaching to be the
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Speaker 2: influence you want to be.
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Speaker 1: You got to build an incredible reputation.
20:32
Speaker 2: What kind of person must I be to attract all
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Speaker 2: that I want in my life and the people that
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Speaker 2: I want and the opportunities that I want.
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Speaker 6: Jimmy Cobb broke my brain with this one. Everyone is
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Speaker 6: jealous of what you've got, No one is jealous of
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Speaker 6: how you got it.
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Speaker 1: The man says, I will climb the mountain.
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Speaker 2: They've told me it's too high, it's too far, it's
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Speaker 2: too rocky, it's too difficult, it's never been done. But
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Speaker 2: it's my mountain. I will climb it pretty soon. You'll
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Speaker 2: see me waiting from the top. Or did it on
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Speaker 2: the side because I ain't coming back?
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Speaker 1: That is the definition promise yourself.
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Speaker 27: You really did.
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Speaker 2: I asked the kids how long should a baby try
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Speaker 2: to learn how to walk?
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Speaker 8: How long?
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Speaker 2: How long would you give your average baby before you
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Speaker 2: shut them off?
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Speaker 1: How long? See any of mines in the world would say,
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Speaker 1: you're crazy. My baby's going to keep trying until it learns.
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Speaker 5: How to walk.
21:37
Speaker 1: What imagining for you?
21:41
Speaker 30: What if you did it? What if you actually did it?
21:44
Speaker 30: How do you think you'd feel? I mean, just for
21:46
Speaker 30: a minute, think about what your life would look like?
21:49
Speaker 30: If you hit every goal that you have, if you
21:51
Speaker 30: actually went out into everything you said you were going
21:56
Speaker 30: to do, what would your life look like when you'll
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Speaker 30: get to the.
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Speaker 13: Point where it hurt real bad, when you get to
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Speaker 13: the point you can't take it no more. When you
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Speaker 13: get to that point, you cannot quit doing the process.
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Speaker 8: You cannot give up.
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Speaker 31: But once you realize you're not gonna be around for
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Speaker 31: our life, I think that's what makes life so much
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Speaker 31: a gold. One day you'll eat your last meal, smell
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Speaker 31: your last flower, hug your friend for the very last time.
22:22
Speaker 31: You might not notice the last time. So that's why you
22:24
Speaker 31: should do everything you love with passion. You know, treasure
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Speaker 31: is a few years you've got because that's all there is.
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Speaker 8: Inside.
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Speaker 1: We grow, We start from here.
22:35
Speaker 8: And it comes out.
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Speaker 9: This workout is called victorial pride, chess work.
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Speaker 1: Out the private within.
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Speaker 8: It's gonna give birth to.
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Speaker 9: The strength and the capability of the fundamental structure that
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Speaker 9: we're gonna achieve this stuff. And from within, we're not
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Speaker 9: worried about the sun, the clouds, the fucking people in
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Speaker 9: the parking lots.
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Speaker 8: Worry about our mission.
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Speaker 5: At hand, and we're gonna achieve that mission.
22:56
Speaker 8: I believe you are purpose. I believe you are purpose.
22:59
Speaker 8: You're it for a purpose.
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Speaker 32: Like we know the statistics, it's like a zero percent
23:03
Speaker 32: chance of you being you.
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Speaker 8: You are that.
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Speaker 32: So when you operate from maryth it gives you that
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Speaker 32: confidence that I am that It's not something I've search for.
23:11
Speaker 32: You can take your life wherever you want to take it.
23:13
Speaker 32: What you're looking for is placement, right. It's like, so
23:16
Speaker 32: for me, rehab time is not my purpose, it's my placement.
23:21
Speaker 32: I can take Trent to down the street and go
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Speaker 32: impact lives because I am purpose right football. If my
23:29
Speaker 32: mom is right back, then I could use that platform
23:32
Speaker 32: to be who I am.
23:33
Speaker 8: So you can take your life anywhere.
23:35
Speaker 32: And I want people to know that because some people
23:36
Speaker 32: think when you lose your dream or you lose something,
23:38
Speaker 32: that it's over.
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Speaker 8: But you didn't lose who you are.
23:41
Speaker 32: You lost that thing, that placement.
23:44
Speaker 1: What shall I do well for progress? You must decide.
23:52
Speaker 2: The best advice I can give you came from a
23:53
Speaker 2: wealthy friend of mine who said.
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Speaker 1: If it's easy, do it easy.
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Speaker 2: If it's hard, do it are, just get it done.
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Speaker 2: If you went home tonight and in the next few
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Speaker 2: days cleaned up a whole list of decisions that might furnish.
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Speaker 1: Enough inspiration for the next ten years.
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Speaker 2: I found this out many times, after you've decided, getting
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Speaker 2: on with it is easier than deciding. Sometimes decision is
24:20
Speaker 2: the tempest one. Here's the next emotion, desire wanting too
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Speaker 2: bad enough, And I don't know how to tell you
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Speaker 2: to want to.
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Speaker 1: That's something you've got to come up with. There's two
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Speaker 1: things I know about desire. Number One, it comes from inside,
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Speaker 1: not outside. You don't send off for it.
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Speaker 14: Your heart's desire is something that is placed deep down
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Speaker 14: inside you, maybe even before you're born, and it's something
24:50
Speaker 14: that calls to you and sings to you and lures
24:52
Speaker 14: you on throughout your life. And the reason that we
24:54
Speaker 14: say that only one or two or five out of
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Speaker 14: one hundred people fulfill their potential in any given generations
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Speaker 14: is because most people ignore the callings of his heart's desire.
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Speaker 14: They push it aside, they ignore it, They pretend it
25:07
Speaker 14: isn't there. They get involved in bills and families and
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Speaker 14: business and careers, and this tugs at them. Sometimes they
25:13
Speaker 14: don't get into it until later on in life. That
25:15
Speaker 14: every single person has the ability to establish for themselves
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Speaker 14: a mission.
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Speaker 1: And on my list of things.
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Speaker 2: Now I put everything, little things as well as major things.
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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how small it is, it goes on
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Speaker 2: my list. I used to just put major things, cars, homes.
25:29
Speaker 2: I don't do that anymore. I now looked my list
25:32
Speaker 2: with everything everything. See, we all grow from two experiences.
25:38
Speaker 2: One is called the pain of losing. The other one
25:40
Speaker 2: is called the joy of winning.
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Speaker 8: My coach told me.
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Speaker 33: Coach Smith told me, I'll never be nothing from that
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Speaker 33: day forward. I made a promise that I will give
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Speaker 33: it everything I got. I'm ready to die for what
25:54
Speaker 33: I had to I had to succeed. I have to
25:56
Speaker 33: give it everything I got. That way, I'm a winner,
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Speaker 33: no matter.
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Speaker 1: What they say.
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Speaker 9: The Gray's achievement of somebody comes right after their worst defeat.
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Speaker 8: When they hit rock bottom, hit the bottom of the barrel.
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Speaker 8: They had nothing left. Everyone's giving up on them.
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Speaker 9: They've lost all their worldly possessions, the dead broken on
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Speaker 9: their back. It's at that point, guys, when everything's lost,
26:20
Speaker 9: that everything can be gained. There's no more ego there
26:23
Speaker 9: is there they let go of you.
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Speaker 8: Know the you know what if I fail?
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Speaker 9: What if it doesn't work, what if I don't like
26:29
Speaker 9: where this person rejects me, the animosity, the pressures of society,
26:33
Speaker 9: let it all go, because they've lost it all. They're
26:35
Speaker 9: just now left with the intestinal fortitude.
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Speaker 8: The pride within.
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Speaker 9: Do I want to stay on the bottomless barrel or
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Speaker 9: I climb the fuck out of his hole?
26:43
Speaker 2: Check the size of your goals and the kinds of goals,
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Speaker 2: how big they are, what kind they are, affects you.
26:55
Speaker 2: And here's one of the important phrases of the evening.
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Speaker 2: Your goals are affecting you whatever they are.
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Speaker 1: Your goals affect your attitude, personality.
27:04
Speaker 2: Your goals affect the way you walk, the way you talk,
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Speaker 2: the way you dress. All day long. We're being affected
27:12
Speaker 2: by our goals. Now, some people have goals, but they
27:16
Speaker 2: have such lousy goal. I ask a guy one time,
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Speaker 2: what are your goals for this month? The guy said, look,
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Speaker 2: if I could just scrape up enough money to pay
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Speaker 2: these lousy bills, that was this goal. I'm not saying
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Speaker 2: it isn't the goal. It's a goal, but it's such
27:31
Speaker 2: a lousy goal. The effect is bad.
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Speaker 8: So what is it?
27:35
Speaker 1: We say?
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Speaker 34: We're all trying to achieve in life, what are we pursuing?
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Speaker 1: Happiness is usually the word.
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Speaker 34: I propose this forget happiness, how about go for joy.
27:48
Speaker 34: Happiness is usually a destination, a place we think if
27:51
Speaker 34: we get there, then I will be happy.
27:54
Speaker 1: But joy is different. It's not a destination. It's the
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Speaker 1: process of living, of.
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Speaker 34: Finding joy and what we're fashioned to do, and when
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Speaker 34: we do it well, it's more joyful.
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Speaker 1: If we don't do it well, we can find joy
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Speaker 1: and going.
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Speaker 34: Well, I'm going to try it next time. Joy is
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Speaker 34: a process. Happiness is a destination. I think we'd all
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Speaker 34: be a lot cooler and better and truer people if
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Speaker 34: we found the joy in the process and didn't keep
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Speaker 34: trying to pursue the result of destination that we call happiness,
28:21
Speaker 34: which is really unattainable.
28:24
Speaker 35: I think we look down now to sixteen year olds
28:28
Speaker 35: and say where are you going to go to college?
28:30
Speaker 35: What are you going to do for the rest of
28:31
Speaker 35: your life? And it's like they're not fully baked yet.
28:37
Speaker 35: How do they know? Give them a break, just say look,
28:41
Speaker 35: I think after high school, take a year off, take
28:45
Speaker 35: two years off, join the Peace Corps, travel, go figure
28:49
Speaker 35: things out, or just enjoy yourself for the first time
28:52
Speaker 35: in their lives. They're adults and they don't have to
28:56
Speaker 35: be somewhere. They're not told to be somewhere. Get you
29:00
Speaker 35: to that freedom, get used to having the need to
29:04
Speaker 35: self govern yourself. You know, to be able to employ
29:09
Speaker 35: self discipline.
29:10
Speaker 36: You just have to live. You just have to live.
29:16
Speaker 36: You just have to act your age. If you're twenty six,
29:20
Speaker 36: be twenty six. Stop trying to be fifty six. It's
29:25
Speaker 36: not expected, and it's a burden that you don't have
29:27
Speaker 36: to carry. You will not be the man that you
29:30
Speaker 36: want to be until you grow into it.
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Speaker 1: You have to grow into it.
29:37
Speaker 2: Probably what you lack is plenty of reasons. You've got
29:41
Speaker 2: enough intelligence, but not enough reasons. Here's what else I
29:45
Speaker 2: found out. Reasons come first, answers come second. You don't
29:50
Speaker 2: get the answers to do well till you get the reasons.
29:54
Speaker 2: Life has a mysterious way of hanging on to all
29:56
Speaker 2: the answers and only gives them.
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Speaker 1: Up to the people that are in fired by reasons.
30:01
Speaker 37: When you concentrate and work intensely on an important task,
30:05
Speaker 37: it gives you a feeling of energy and enthusiasm. When
30:08
Speaker 37: you complete an important task, your self esteem goes up.
30:10
Speaker 37: You feel like a winner, You feel great about yourself.
30:13
Speaker 5: If you have a list of.
30:13
Speaker 38: Tasks to do and you choose to do your most
30:17
Speaker 38: important task and you complete it, you get a rush.
30:20
Speaker 38: It's called an endorphin rush, and your brain releases endorphins
30:23
Speaker 38: just flood your system and make you actually feel exhilarated.
30:27
Speaker 5: You almost laugh out loud.
30:29
Speaker 38: You're happy, your heartbreat goes up, you're smiling. Sometimes you
30:33
Speaker 38: will stay or work late at night to complete a task,
30:36
Speaker 38: and you get it done at two or three in
30:38
Speaker 38: the morning, and you finish it, and even though you
30:40
Speaker 38: should be exhausted, you're happy. You can't sleep, You walk
30:44
Speaker 38: it around, you watch television. I mean, because you feel great.
30:47
Speaker 39: But if you work away on low priority tasks, even
30:50
Speaker 39: if you complete them and do them well, you don't
30:51
Speaker 39: get any excitement or thrill from doing something that's not important.
30:55
Speaker 39: The very worst thing in the world is to do
30:57
Speaker 39: very well with what need not be done at all.
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Speaker 18: Because we're I'm meant to grow. If you ask people,
31:03
Speaker 18: ask me what does it take to be happy? You
31:05
Speaker 18: met millions of people as a taken, so many people unhappy.
31:08
Speaker 5: Well.
31:08
Speaker 18: Relationships are one of the keys to that. But there
31:10
Speaker 18: is one key even within relationship progress progress equals happiness.
31:14
Speaker 18: If you go and achieve some huge goal. You know,
31:17
Speaker 18: if you've ever done this and then chieve it, you
31:18
Speaker 18: have one or two experiences. Either go is this all
31:20
Speaker 18: there is after you achieved it, which is horrible feels
31:23
Speaker 18: worse than failing, or you go, Wow, this is amazing
31:26
Speaker 18: and you celebrate. But how long do you feel good
31:28
Speaker 18: for after achieving some great goal? Five years, the year,
31:32
Speaker 18: six months? Right?
31:34
Speaker 8: Why?
31:35
Speaker 18: Because we're not meant to just sit at the table
31:37
Speaker 18: success and get fat, you sepport, We're meant to grow.
31:40
Speaker 18: And when we grow, when we make progress, we few alive.
31:42
Speaker 18: And what makes us feel most alive? Right when you're
31:44
Speaker 18: a life and a mind too. Knowing you as a
31:46
Speaker 18: person is when you grow you have something to give.
31:48
Speaker 18: And what makes life meaningful is not just a happy
31:50
Speaker 18: life is not always happening, But a meaningful life is
31:52
Speaker 18: a life where you served something more than yourself, something
31:54
Speaker 18: that einging the energy insite wil to be serving your
31:57
Speaker 18: kids and family, or your business or something in your
31:59
Speaker 18: communit hear something.
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Speaker 8: In the wall.
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Speaker 40: Your laziness is something that has to do with you.
32:03
Speaker 40: You're not connected to something deep enough. You don't feel
32:07
Speaker 40: the necessity you don't feel the devil at your heels.
32:11
Speaker 40: You don't feel the fact that you could very well
32:13
Speaker 40: die tomorrow. It will impel you to get something done.
32:17
Speaker 40: There's no necessity behind it. And the healan animal that
32:20
Speaker 40: we will created is when we feel pressure, we feel
32:24
Speaker 40: the necessity to get things done, we can mountains. But
32:28
Speaker 40: when there're pressure releases and we don't feel the need
32:31
Speaker 40: to get something done, we could become incredibly lazy because
32:36
Speaker 40: there's no necessity. So you have to create necessity in
32:40
Speaker 40: your life. You have to create the need to get
32:42
Speaker 40: things done.
32:44
Speaker 41: Unhappiness is when your expectations of how life is meant
32:47
Speaker 41: to be going go unmad. And this explains why a
32:51
Speaker 41: kid in Africa who gets rice, I was born in Africa.
32:54
Speaker 41: I was born in Byflorida. Kid in Africa who gets
32:56
Speaker 41: rice can be euphoric. But a billionaire and a Minchin
32:59
Speaker 41: star restaurant in West London, his three Michelin star steak
33:04
Speaker 41: comes without the sprinkle of dust or whatever shit they
33:07
Speaker 41: put on it, he will be visibly pissed off and
33:11
Speaker 41: complain because his expectations of the world and how life
33:14
Speaker 41: should be going going there. So one of the ways
33:18
Speaker 41: that you can make sure you're happy. It's not line beginnings.
33:20
Speaker 41: It's just like having better expectations.
33:22
Speaker 42: But society becomes great when old men plant trees under
33:28
Speaker 42: the shade of which they know they'll never sit.
33:31
Speaker 8: You gotta do something.
33:33
Speaker 42: There's gonna leave something for somebody else's enjoyment that you
33:37
Speaker 42: know you won't even be there to enjoy.
33:38
Speaker 5: I know I won't be under that shade.
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Speaker 42: I know I won't, but I planted them so my
33:45
Speaker 42: grandkids will be.
33:47
Speaker 5: Walking through their forms and need some big trees. That
33:51
Speaker 5: tree fifty years old. Your granddad, Papa Hardt put through
33:55
Speaker 5: trees there.
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Speaker 27: How do I just keep getting up and going and
34:01
Speaker 27: going and going. But I had a purpose before everybody
34:04
Speaker 27: had an opinion. It's not about anybody else. It's not
34:08
Speaker 27: about anybody else. It's just about going to do it
34:10
Speaker 27: because that's what you want. That's what you said out there.
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Speaker 18: To go do.
34:13
Speaker 27: So I've always been my biggest critic that you continue
34:16
Speaker 27: to stay that way.
34:17
Speaker 43: Maybe your purpose in life isn't related to your job.
34:22
Speaker 43: Maybe your job is your job, and the job is
34:25
Speaker 43: the thing that supports you, and then the rest of
34:29
Speaker 43: your waking hours are devoted to your purpose, whatever that is.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, and a lot of us are trying to make
34:34
Speaker 5: it the same thing.
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Speaker 43: Yeah, and it's beautiful when it happens, but it doesn't
34:38
Speaker 43: always happen, and it's out of our control. Also, we
34:41
Speaker 43: can decide. I would say, if you need to have
34:46
Speaker 43: a job to support yourself, that's great, that's a noble
34:49
Speaker 43: thing to do. And follow your dreams, but I'm not
34:55
Speaker 43: saying they're one thing. They don't have to be one thing,
34:58
Speaker 43: and don't let following your dream undermine your ability to
35:02
Speaker 43: support yourself. It could do it could actually do the
35:05
Speaker 43: opposite