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(#12) Magnetism Over Hustle: The Energetic Secrets That Change Everything · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello, hello, my friends. Oh my gosh, I'm so happy to be
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  here with you this evening. To set the scene, it is a Sunday
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  evening. I just bought some fresh Peony
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  flowers and they're so fragrant. And I lit a candle and I have my
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  Himalayan pink salt lamp on and I have this nice fuzzy blanket.
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  So we are cozy. We are cozy.
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  And I'm so excited to talk to you this evening and share with
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  you about many of the things that I have discovered
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  throughout my journey of studying Manifest and also
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  helping many, many women manifest the things that they
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  want in their lives. And I think the thing that I
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  often see is that people are looking for a method.
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  They're looking for a tip or a trick, or they're looking for
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  that one thing that they're doing wrong.
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  And the truth is that fortunately or unfortunately, I
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  don't really know, kind of depends on your perspective.
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  You manifestation does not hinge on one thing.
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  It is about who you are. It is about who you are being
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  and it is about the energy that you are carrying with yourself
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  in every single moment. And so this evening, well, could
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  be any time of day for you, but for me, it's the evening.
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  This evening we're going to talk about how you manifest the
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  things that you want. And I'd really like to give you
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  some of the secrets that I have gained over the years that
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  really have made a big difference in my understanding
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  of manifestation. And I've never actually done
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  this before where I've kind of brought a lot of these secrets
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  together. I've done it.
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  You know, if you're in my programs, you'll hear me mention
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  them often or you may have heard me mention them in some of my
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  smaller programs or in my content, but I've never kind of
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  brought. And this is obviously not all of
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  them, right? Like it takes four months for us
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  to even scratch the surface of what's available to you and
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  learning within this topic. But this is a lot of the key
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  things that I really think are super valuable.
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  So I hope you are as excited for this episode as I am because I
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  oftentimes find that when people come to me, they are typically
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  either newer on their path or they've been on the path for a
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  while, but they are stuck. They're like, you know, I really
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  want this thing, but I'm not quite sure what it is that's
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  preventing me from having it. And then they go through my
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  program and it's like their entire life changes.
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  Because honestly, my job is really easy.
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  I'm going to tell you that it's it's really easy.
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  And the reason why it's so easy for me to help you create
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  changes is because oftentimes it's not like we need to change
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  a million different things. It's we need a subtle shift in
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  just the way we are viewing a situation or we need to shift
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  our energy or we need to clear a block and things start to
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  unfold. And the coolest part about this
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  manifestation journey is the longer that you stay on it, the
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  more that you just not only become at peace with what is and
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  what is available to you in your life, knowing that everything
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  always works out for you. Like I say that.
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  And when I used to say that to myself as an affirmation, I
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  didn't believe it. But now at this point, I firmly
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  believe it. Like, I can't think of an area
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  in my life where I don't think things will work out for me.
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  Does that mean that I think I will always get what I want?
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  No, absolutely not. I don't always want.
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  I truly don't want what I always want.
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  I want what the universe thinks is best for me.
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  And I know that that will always happen.
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  So it gives me this deep sense of peace.
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  But also as you go through this process, what happens is you are
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  able to create changes in your life so much more rapidly than
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  without this wisdom and this knowledge.
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  Because what most people are doing is they are solely focused
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  on the 3D. They are solely focused on doing
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  the things on their To Do List, doing more, creating more,
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  getting out there more, right, hustling, pushing.
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  They're mostly focused on that. And I do think that is
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  important. I think hard work is insanely
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  valuable for many, many, many reasons.
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  And I also think that if you are doing the hard work from a place
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  of fear, of lack of insecurity, of Gimme, Gimme, Gimme energy of
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  taking energy, you're not going to get nearly as powerful
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  results as you could get if you do it from a more aligned energy
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  and energy of peace, of trust, of faith, of I will find a way
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  or I will make a way of I know everything is working out for
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  me. I know that the universe has my
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  back and always will. So it's go either going to be
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  what I want or something even better.
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  And when you operate from that perspective, that is the reality
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  that is created for you because your beliefs are created your
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  reality in every single moment. Your beliefs are unrolling the
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  red carpet for you as you are walking down the red carpet.
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  OK, so let's talk about some of the key pieces behind this
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  manifesting, the things that we want.
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  And I want to start off with answering this question of why I
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  believe that. Well, I want to actually, I want
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  to give you a framework. So this is a framework that I
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  have shared a few different times in my content, and it's
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  the tier manifestation method. Tier is spelled TEAR, like a
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  tier rolling down your face. And what it stands for is
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  thoughts create emotions. TE a actions are results.
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  So thoughts create your emotions, which create your
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  actions, which create your results.
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  OK, that's really the base of manifestation is that our
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  thoughts are the generative force of our emotions and our
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  emotions are going to fuel what kind of actions we take and what
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  kind of actions we take are going to fuel the results that
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  we get. And the thing about this though,
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  about this tier manifestation method is most people always
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  start with the A. They're like, OK, if I want to
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  lose 10 lbs, I'm going to start going to the gym.
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  I'm going to start, you know, working with a personal trainer.
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  I'm going to start eating healthier.
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  And they may do it for a week and then they fall off.
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  Why is that? Because the T and the A, excuse
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  me, The T and the E, the thoughts and the emotions are
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  not in the right alignment. And this is what everyone
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  misses. And the truth is that before
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  tear, there's actually an S. So it's steer.
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  I don't know why. I think that's really funny.
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  The S is actually what's going on in your subconscious mind.
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  So the thoughts that you are aware of are only a very small
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  fraction of the thoughts that you are actually thinking.
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  I call them our whisper thoughts.
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  There are these thoughts that most of us are operating off of
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  that are not as loud and they're very subtle and you have to be
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  very aware to notice them. You have to have quite a calm
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  mind and these whisper thoughts are this lower layer of thoughts
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  that and you, if you really start to pay attention to
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  yourself, what you'll notice is that you might all of a sudden
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  feel kind of crappy, right? Like you're like, man, I don't
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  know why, but I just, I just feel sad or I don't know why,
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  but I feel really irritated or I feel kind of angry or I feel
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  just like off. And what you will notice if you
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  really start to tune in is you'll notice that there was
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  likely a whisper thought that happened before that.
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  And it's a very, very, very subtle thought that happens that
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  it's almost so habitual, so automatic that we don't even
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  notice it. And then we'll have, you know,
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  our more common thoughts, the thoughts that we're more aware
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  of and we think that that's what's creating our EAR, but
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  it's not. It's more of these whisper
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  thoughts and more of these subconscious programs.
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  So I have a previous episode all in the subconscious, so I'm not
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  going to get a ton into it today, but we'll talk about it a
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  bit. And the idea is that your
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  subconscious mind truly is running the show.
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  So your subconscious mind is this aspect of your mind that is
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  responsible for essentially everything.
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  It is the supercomputer that is running the show.
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  It's controlling your heart rate, your breathing, your body
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  temperature, but it's also filtering and controlling
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  everything you experience in your reality.
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  So the words that I am saying right now, you are absorbing a
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  certain percentage of those words.
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  But then Anna Maria over there, she's going to absorb a
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  different percentage of those words and a different formation
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  and she's going to draw a different meaning from it,
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  right? It's why a couple can get into
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  an argument and then they both have completely different
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  versions of what happened because they are filtering it
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  completely differently. And that's what your
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  subconscious mind does, is it takes in massive, like billions
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  of pieces of information every single second.
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  And then it goes through this filtration process and it
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  distills it down to only 126 pieces of information that
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  you're aware of every single second.
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  So let's say that I had $2,000,000 and I was like, or $2
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  billion. And I was like, you can have
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  $126. You'd be like, thanks for
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  nothing cheapo, right? Because that's very small amount
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  of money compared to the whole huge ginormous sum of 2 billion.
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  It's not even 1%. It's much less than 1%.
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  And that's what you are actually aware of in your reality.
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  What is going on is not the truth.
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  The perception that you have is not the truth.
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  I'm sorry to tell you, but you can't be right like you can't
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  we. It's really like we just do not
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  have a true accurate perception. As we become more spiritually
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  advanced, yeah, it gets more accurate, but it's still not.
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  We're still in our human form. We're still filtering based off
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  of our past experiences, our memories, things that people
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  said, the time of day, how we're feeling, our mood determines how
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  we filter things. The time of the month, right
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  When I'm on my period, I filter things very differently than
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  when I'm feeling amazing and ovulating.
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  So it's really important for you to recognize that you are not
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  filtering your reality factually.
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  You are filtering it based off of everything in the past that
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  has happened. And that's why why we can
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  struggle to manifest the things that we want because oftentimes
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  what we are filtering by is not super helpful.
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  And what I call this is our subconscious blueprints.
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  So we all have different subconscious blueprints.
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  So we have a blueprint for our relationship with money and how
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  we view money. We have a blueprint for our
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  love, how we view love, relationships, intimate
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  relationships, how we view friendships, how we experience
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  ourselves. We have an entire mess the
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  blueprints all about how we view ourselves, about what we think
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  is possible for us, about our own self worth.
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  And a lot of these blueprints are really out of date.
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  Honestly, they're very, very out of date.
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  They're based off of things that happened to us when we were very
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  young and things that were not necessarily super helpful,
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  right. I'll give you an example of
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  this. So when I was in high school, I
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  when I was a freshman in high school, I went on a date with
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  this guy. His name was Connor and he was
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  so cute. He was like a junior and I felt
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  so, so cool because dated the other like the actual popular
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  girls that was not a popular girl.
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  He dated the popular girls and I was like, Oh my God, he's gonna
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  go out with me. Like must be so cool, right?
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  Like freaking out. And anyway, we go On this date
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  to the movies and I was nervous. So I invited my best friend to
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  come too. I don't know why I did that.
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  So I invited my best friend to go On this date with us and
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  we're in the movie theater and I'm so awkward and so nervous.
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  And so I'm talking to my best friend the whole time.
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  I'm not talking to him. I am like making all these
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  awkward jokes like it was it was a mess.
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  It was probably not my finest moment.
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  And anyway, after this date, he said I texted him and I was
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  like, like, I had so much fun. I'd love to go out with you
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  again. And he was like, yeah, you know,
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  I really don't think the juice is worth the squeeze.
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  That's the exact phrasing he used.
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  And now I look back and I'm like, yeah, I see why.
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  Like I've behaved like a, a crazy woman.
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  And so. But in my mind that stuck.
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  And I had that belief in relationship for many years.
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  I don't now, but for many years that I wasn't worth it, right?
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  I wasn't worth the squeeze. I wasn't worth the effort.
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  So I'd always overdue, I'd always over give in relationship
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  and that was because of this very innocent thing that
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  happened to me. Very innocent, right?
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  Connor didn't mean to affect me and so I recognize that now,
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  right? But at the time, it took me a
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  long time to even understand that that was a principle and a
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  belief that I was operating off of that was filtering my
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  reality. So then later on when I was was
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  dating one of my long term boyfriends, I was always had
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  this fear and I would filter things that he said to me
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  because I was afraid that I wasn't going to be enough for
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  him, right? I was so afraid of it.
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  So I was always over giving and overdoing and blah, blah, blah,
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  blah, blah. And that's kind of how these
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  subconscious blueprints play out.
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  It's very, very, very below our awareness.
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  Oftentimes they're just playing out, playing out, playing out
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  until we get to this point where we're like, holy cow, I have had
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  enough. I'm done.
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  I don't want to keep repeating these same cycles.
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  I don't want to keep dating the same toxic men.
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  I don't want to always have the same financial ceiling.
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  I don't want to always feel like I am not speaking up for myself
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  or I'm always sabotaging myself. I don't want to feel that way
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  because our subconscious minds challenges and blueprints show
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  up in many different ways and oftentimes they are most
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  prevalent. The blueprints that don't work
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  for us are most prevalent in the areas of our life where we find
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  the most challenge. The areas where we feel stuck,
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  where we feel like we're not making progress, where we feel
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  like we keep hitting the same roadblocks and looping the same
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  patterns. And that's because most people
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  when they want to manifest something new, they start with
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  the action step when we know that there's the everything
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  thing that's happening before it, right?
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  There's our subconscious blueprints which are creating
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  our thoughts, which are creating our emotions, which are either
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  fueling positive action or deterring us from positive
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  action. And so then we get the result
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  and we're like, oh crap, this is not the result I want, right?
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  I kind of figured this out. So if you send me a message on
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  Instagram with the word tier TEAR, I'll send you a little
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  workbook that I created to help guide you through this tier
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  manifestation method. So that is a really, really,
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  really important aspect of this is understanding that you can't
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  start your manifestation journey from saying affirmations or
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  visualizing or it's helpful, but it's like very lightly helpful.
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  It's like if I gave you $126 out of $2 billion, you'd be like,
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  that's helpful. But like that's really lightly
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  helpful. That's how affirmations and
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  visualization and those kinds of things are.
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  And not that they're not helpful, they're great
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  practices. I use them as well.
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  But they're the lighter tools, right?
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  They're much lighter. They're not really getting to
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  the root and the core. If we want to get to the root
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  and the core, we need to work with the subconscious.
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  We need to use tools that really dig deep and create changes.
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  And also we need to do it fairly consistently.
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  The thing that I have seen with my program is that my clients
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  get really incredible results and their results like expand
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  outward, like they get better and better and better and better
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  and better. And the reason for that is
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  because we're working at this deep level, but we're not doing
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  it once, right. You're not going to go and have
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  A1 therapy session. We're doing it every single week
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  consistently for four months. So at the end of those four
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  months, you so much of that junk, that old junk, those old
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  junkie blueprints have been cleared out that you feel feel
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  like a completely different person.
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  You think like a completely different person.
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  The T and the S are totally different.
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  So your emotions, your actions, your results are totally
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  different. So that's kind of 1 aspect of
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  what I really love for you to understand is that you really
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  need to create that fluidity, that fluidity between your
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  thoughts, your emotions, your actions and your results.
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  And the biggest mistake that I always see people make is that
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  they start with either the action or they start with very
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  light manifestation methods when they're not doing that deeper
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  work to clear out the old gunk. So that's kind of the first
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  secret that I really want to share with you.
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  And I think I'm going to to do 2 today.
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  The second one I want to share with you is something that is
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  not ever talked about. People don't talk about this.
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  And is part of what I mean by living in alignment is living in
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  alignment with the highest version of yourself is also
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  about how you show up as a person.
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  And what I'm talking about really is your moral character
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  and your integrity. And I know people never talk
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  about that, right, about manifestation.
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  It's like, oh, if you do this method, then you can have
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  whatever you want, right? No, that's not how it works.
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  You actually have to really show up and be a good person, a
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  quality person. And I'm not saying that though
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  you have to never make mistakes, but the universe supports what
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  supports life. Life supports what supports
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  life. And so if you are a person who
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  is constantly gossiping, who is breaking your commitments to
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  people, who is shortchanging people or stealing or doing any
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  of these kinds of things, you are creating a lot of negative
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  energy around yourself. And that is creating negative
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  energy in those areas of your life.
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  And so the more that you can live in alignment and live in
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  integrity, the more that you are going to manifest things much
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  more easily in your life. And I want to give an example
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  some I had this agreement with somebody and it was they were
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  going to pay me a certain amount of money to do some work for
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  them. And I did the work for them.
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  And then they didn't pay me. They paid me like a fraction of
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  what they owed me. And it's not that big of a deal
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  to me. It's not that much money.
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  But I reached out to them and I basically explained this to them
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  that like you, it's really the idea of negative karma.
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  It's generating negative karma when you take something or you
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  do something that harms another person or you go back on your
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  word or you gossip about people. If you're generating this
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  negative, negative energy. And that negative energy is
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  something that you actually have to overcome and counteract in
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  order to manifest the things that you want.
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  And you can say, well, like, oh, but like there's lots of,
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  there's really wealthy people. Like I'm thinking of what's his
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  name, like Jeffrey Epstein, right, who got super, super
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  wealthy and he was a horrible person, right?
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  Well, look at how it ended for him.
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  It didn't end well, you know, and what happens is, you know,
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  on this negative energy, living out of integrity with the
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  highest version of yourself makes it more difficult for you
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  to create the things that you want in your life.
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  And I know nobody ever talks about this, but one of the
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  biggest things that you can do to help yourself manifest more
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  quickly and manifest more powerfully in your life is to
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  stop gossiping, to stop talking about other people.
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  And I mean really as much as you possibly can.
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  Yes, there might be times where maybe you vent to one person,
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  you vent about something that happened or you get advice, but
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  it's not a good idea to be talking about other people
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  because you're spreading all this negative energy and that's
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  going to come back to you. So if you're finding that, it's
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  also with complaining, right? If you're constantly
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  complaining, think about the things that you do and they
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  don't really make you feel good on a soul level.
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  Those are the things that are kind of creating this negative
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  energy. Now you're probably thinking,
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  well, I've talked, I've gossiped a lot in my life and I have too,
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  like my teenage years and even in my college years, like I
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  talked about people a lot, not like horribly, but like I did
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  right. And The thing is, is that you
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  can counteract negative karma by doing more positive things in
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  the world. And it's actually a really
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  powerful way to also speed up your manifestations.
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  So some things that you can do, there's different ways to
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  generate positive karma. Some are by doing acts of
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  service. So going and volunteering
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  somewhere, helping people even when you get nothing from it
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  actually, especially when you get nothing from it, donating
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  money, donating money on a monthly basis.
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  That is a really powerful way. What I find for myself
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  personally is the more that I donate money, the more money I
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  make. Isn't it funny how that works?
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  Life supports what supports life.
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  So I encourage you to think about that.
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  Think about the areas of your life where you can show up more
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  fully. You can be more kind, you can be
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  more loving, you can live in alignment with the highest
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  version of your soul. And it means you know what?
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  I think it means thinking about how you would want to be
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  treated, right? And I think that there's always
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  another level. I think we can easily be like,
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  Oh yeah, of course, like I'm a good person, check.
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  But there's always another level to that even.
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  Like I consider myself to be a very good person.
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  I really always try to do what's an integrity always.
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  And I still know there's so much I can do, so much more I can do.
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  And that's true for every person on the planet.
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  And so think about ways where you can show up a little bit
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  more kindly, where you can give a little bit more and you will
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  be very, very surprised by how positively this impacts your
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  manifesting ability. So I hope you have loved this
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  episode. If you would like support
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  clearing out those old subconscious programs, if you
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  would like support and should go much deeper into the
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  manifestation process with me as your guide, message me the Word
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  podcast and I will get you hooked up with a 5 minute video
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  about my programs and you can see if they're for you.
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  OK. I have thoroughly enjoyed being
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  with you on this Sunday evening and I will see you in the next
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  podcast. Bye.