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Will Compton’s Weekend Solo Parenting Playbook + 4th Grade Powderpuff Hype | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 3: Doing good?
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  Speaker 5: We're doing great, doing great, House Seeming Team six going,
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  Speaker 5: We're doing just fine.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So Shepp was telling me right before this episode started,
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  Speaker 1: his old man he's now fully bought in.
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  Speaker 2: He's he listened to a couple. He's went all the
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  Speaker 2: way back.
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  Speaker 1: He's listened to all the episodes now and his old
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  Speaker 1: man's bought all the way in.
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  Speaker 3: He's mom o GP mom.
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  Speaker 5: My mom listens on the day we launched. She'll go
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  Speaker 5: work out at like five, like six am.
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  Speaker 1: She loves to hear a boy on the mic that
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  Speaker 1: that's what that is. That's a that's a that's a
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  Speaker 1: very proud mom. That's a that's a stoked mom. Right,
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  Speaker 1: she does I come home.
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  Speaker 5: She makes sometimes some comments that some of the jokes that.
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  Speaker 6: She does, it's funny. Yeah, oh jack, you boys, what's
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  Speaker 6: the show jack mom? It's a roller coaster.
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  Speaker 1: And Chef was telling me too, you like, my dad
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  Speaker 1: was like, I went back and listened to an early
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  Speaker 1: one in that situation in New York where you know,
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  Speaker 1: the friends are offering to watch the kid, offer to
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  Speaker 1: watch the kids, and you kind of took them back.
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  Speaker 1: He's like I'm taking that ten times out of ten.
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  Speaker 1: He's that we're selfless most of the time, like we do.
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  Speaker 1: We do our work most of the time. But you
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  Speaker 1: get that opportunity, you gotta let the you gotta let
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  Speaker 1: the kids rock with your friends. And I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that's wrong at all. Yeah, we have a question for
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  Speaker 1: the audience. Actually, is it out of line? Oh, ask
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  Speaker 1: your friends if they have kids just like you do
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  Speaker 1: or more kids. Is it a big no note to
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  Speaker 1: ask those friends to watch your kids. That's kind of
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  Speaker 1: a question that we repose. You know, there's some situations
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  Speaker 1: going on behind the scenes. I won't fully you know,
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  Speaker 1: if Shirm feels comfortable bringing it.
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  Speaker 3: Up, I'll bring it up.
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  Speaker 2: So mission this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I'm on a mission.
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  Speaker 2: Sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a bet six mission right here, A big one,
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  Speaker 1: A big one one for you to knock out of
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  Speaker 1: the park truly and go down and give give the
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  Speaker 1: audience some context.
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  Speaker 2: We mentioned it a couple of weeks ago.
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  Speaker 3: True. Okay, So Jill is on a bachelorette party in
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  Speaker 3: Miami currently we are recording on Friday right now.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, she get rowdy, mama, letting the hair down. You
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  Speaker 1: tell her, hey, you let your hair down. Your boys
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  Speaker 1: got you let your hair down.
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  Speaker 3: Get get some mc lobes and listen to that by
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  Speaker 3: Bunnie on the Beach.
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  Speaker 1: She's in Bad Bonnie on the Beach Swift album. That's
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  Speaker 1: probably not beach mode, however, that is out.
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  Speaker 3: I could get down with some Tea Swift.
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  Speaker 2: I can get down some with some Tea Swift.
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  Speaker 3: But she she's having a good time. Well, actually she's
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  Speaker 3: been crying a lot. I've been getting a lot of
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  Speaker 3: texts this morning that she's crying a lot and she
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  Speaker 3: just misses her girl.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so this isn't. This isn't. I'm a little I've
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  Speaker 2: had a few, a few beverages.
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  Speaker 1: In no get emotional. This is like, I'm separation anxiety.
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  Speaker 3: Unless you yeah, unless she's listening to a Bad Bonnie
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  Speaker 3: at the airport and getting some brew Whall's at the airport,
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  Speaker 3: she's sober. Little separation anxiety, dude, I gotta show you
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  Speaker 3: a picture now that I'm bringing this up. I'm sending
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  Speaker 3: this to you immediately. Chef uh full on schedule layout
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  Speaker 3: on the kitchen Island for me as if I was
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  Speaker 3: three years old. And it doesn't offend, It doesn't offend me.
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  Speaker 3: It does not offend me.
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  Speaker 2: You better than me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh had some fun with it. It took it out
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  Speaker 1: and ripped it up. Don't ever disrespect me again. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to hear from you unless we do our
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  Speaker 1: FaceTime check ins. And when you gotta see you gotta
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  Speaker 1: see Scarscar and you gotta see the girls, we'll get
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  Speaker 1: on FaceTime. But this is hey, this is I'm telling you,
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  Speaker 1: this is PT six game right here. When you have
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  Speaker 1: the opportunity to watch the kid, kid or kids solo,
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  Speaker 1: you make sure your wife feels as comfortable as possible.
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  Speaker 2: Leaving the nest.
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  Speaker 3: Leaving the nest, I saw the note you left for
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  Speaker 3: your parents. I think, but your parents are coming on
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  Speaker 3: to come watch the kid. I'm watching the kids. Yeah, yeah, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I was just a little confused.
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  Speaker 1: I think you forgot I'm not getting any sitters outside
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  Speaker 1: of when we're doing the for the Dad's podcast.
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  Speaker 2: But that's it. I'm running this ship. What is this?
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  Speaker 1: I saw that I got my own notes. You just
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  Speaker 1: lift up like a little sticky note.
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  Speaker 3: Got my own notes, and it just says I got it.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta give context here she has I mean, this
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  Speaker 5: is like will It's instructions for building a chair. Yes,
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  Speaker 5: she has, it's what instructions it will she? Uh get
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  Speaker 5: good on, Jill, I mean, this is this give this
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  Speaker 5: is the ultimate. You have no excuse, oh if it
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  Speaker 5: goes wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Zero excuse. She she could run a small country, my
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  Speaker 3: wife like truly. She has outfits in zip hoc baggies
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  Speaker 3: labeled for each day Friday, Saturday, Sunday. Like.
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  Speaker 5: She has phone numbers written now, phone health info. She
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  Speaker 5: has at everything, she has taught nighttime routine. She has
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  Speaker 5: a two a time schedule.
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  Speaker 3: Two a time schedule, has eight emergency contact listenings. Now
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  Speaker 3: I will I'll add some bonus context to it. She
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  Speaker 3: has been meaning to do that for like any babysitter,
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  Speaker 3: or like any any.
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  Speaker 1: You're right right, so, because I'm enjoying thinking of the
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  Speaker 1: couple's watching right now, and the old man PT. Six
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  Speaker 1: is sitting over there looking at like that's you, what
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  Speaker 1: they talking about? That's you, that's your every day. But
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  Speaker 1: I feel that though so almost like a like a
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  Speaker 1: playbook for if anybody. She she's got the process, the
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  Speaker 1: systems written out for if she needs a delegate at
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  Speaker 1: any moment in time.
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  Speaker 2: This is the this is the formula.
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  Speaker 1: It just so happens that she laid it out or
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  Speaker 1: got it done, like right as she goes on dispatcheorette party,
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  Speaker 1: and it seems like it's for you, but really it's
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  Speaker 1: just this is the general this.
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  Speaker 2: Is the Bible.
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  Speaker 3: This is the Bible. This is the baby Bible writing.
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  Speaker 3: But I will say I like got her roll belly
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  Speaker 3: laughed when I saw it because I I feel like
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  Speaker 3: I'm twelve years old.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, when I said you handled it
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  Speaker 1: better than me, I would have ripped it up, said
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  Speaker 1: don't ever disrespect me. The minute she walks out the door,
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  Speaker 1: I'm piecing it back together. I'm daping and got a second,
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  Speaker 1: let me see what we got. Oh yeah, I did
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  Speaker 1: forget about that part by the funk that. But one
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  Speaker 1: thing I would do, which I would encourage, this would
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  Speaker 1: be a nice one. It's just like, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: keep scarscar like in her. You know, I'll like if
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  Speaker 1: Charles's gone and it's me and say it's Scottie. Ru's
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  Speaker 1: different roos three years. I'll get her dress, I'll get
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  Speaker 1: her going for Scotty. I'll leave in the PJS all
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  Speaker 1: day long. But since she has the outfits in a
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  Speaker 1: ziplock bag. It's almost like you have you have scarscar
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  Speaker 1: just in her pjs and you just take a photo
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  Speaker 1: with her on zip block, like got her got her
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  Speaker 1: outfits for Sunday. Look, yeah, just like holding the ziplock bag.
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  Speaker 3: I ran into that this morning because she had not
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  Speaker 3: a full blowout, but she leaked out of one of
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  Speaker 3: her legs and I was like, well, I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to dig into the ziploc like, I'll just get a
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  Speaker 3: one sie. So I threw a.
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  Speaker 7: Don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even really know why, but I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: why dig into the ziplock What if I just didn't
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  Speaker 3: use the zip blocks at all? Just kind of showed her.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, hey, listen, would the sticky not say I
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  Speaker 2: got it? You got this? I got it? So Jill's
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  Speaker 2: gone for the weekend.
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  Speaker 3: She's gone for the weekend. I am being left at
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  Speaker 3: home with Scarlett all weekend. This this is truly my
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  Speaker 3: dad loss, my the trenches, and my cracker coal one
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  Speaker 3: this week you already have in this story. And by
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  Speaker 3: the way, we're filming on this is It's Friday Friday,
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  Speaker 3: So this is day one for you, Yes, Day one, Well,
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  Speaker 3: you got a three day weekend. I will say this
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  Speaker 3: is day one, but the report card came out two
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  Speaker 3: weeks ago, when like the idea of this, of Sherman
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  Speaker 3: being here because I'm and Jill will take no offense
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  Speaker 3: of this. Her mom coming in town, got brought up
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  Speaker 3: a couple times a night, nurse got brought up a
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  Speaker 3: couple of times.
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  Speaker 1: And give game, just the BT sixers, like this isn't
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  Speaker 1: this isn't uncommon. That's uncommon the way like the generations
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  Speaker 1: and everything has went just for the for the mail, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: for the male brain, for the dad brain, all of it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this isn't uncommon. So these are opportunities, gentlemen, for you
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  Speaker 1: to This is why it's such a big opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: knock it out of the park, to add points points
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  Speaker 1: to the scoreboard, not to hold over their head, but
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  Speaker 1: just to let them know, Hey, you want to go
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  Speaker 1: on that. I can operate just as well as you can,
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  Speaker 1: just as well the same as well.
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  Speaker 3: And guess why I do it as well because you
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  Speaker 3: leave me zip hoc bags. Man, you leave me instructions. Man,
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  Speaker 3: you're the best.
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  Speaker 2: So she's bringing this stuff up.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm going out of town for two days,
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  Speaker 1: like Should I get my parents in town?
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  Speaker 2: Should we get some baby? Can you handle? How old
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  Speaker 2: is Scarlet? Three months?
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  Speaker 1: Can you handle a three month old by yourself for
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  Speaker 1: seventy two hours?
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  Speaker 3: Are you sure? Because I have to shake you awake
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  Speaker 3: at night when she's crying.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you do a good job.
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  Speaker 3: Once I get you awake, you do get out of
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  Speaker 3: bed and you go help her. But I have to
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  Speaker 3: shake you awake. How are you gonna wake up?
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  Speaker 2: Baby?
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  Speaker 3: It's fine because my brain's gonna know, Oh, Jill's not here,
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  Speaker 3: and I'll be hearing the crying. Blah blah blah. Well,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I just don't think you can wake up.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm being on this podcast. I was like, I
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  Speaker 3: can't be a co host on this podcast and cop
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  Speaker 3: out and not take this head on and look Reilly
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  Speaker 3: seeing in the eyes and be like, hey, I'm crushing
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  Speaker 3: it as a dad. So I'm when she's bringing up
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  Speaker 3: those things like, oh, I don't think you can wake up,
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  Speaker 3: blah blah. It's fine.
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  Speaker 1: I'll get an air mattress, I'll sleep in the nursery.
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  Speaker 1: There's gotta be an internal fire brewing. Oh yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: was kind of getting this doubt. Yeah, I was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: can't I handle this.
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  Speaker 3: I'll sleep on the ground on the air mattress. Then
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  Speaker 3: I'll wake up. There ain't no way I ain't waking up.
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  Speaker 3: I'll need a monitor. I'm on the front lines. I'll
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  Speaker 3: be there. That's what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm fired up for you.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be good, dude, I'm fired up for you.
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  Speaker 3: This morning was incredible. It like, actually was incredible. It
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  Speaker 3: was sick.
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  Speaker 2: No, we are filming it is. It's eleven right now.
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  Speaker 3: It's eleven right now.
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  Speaker 2: Jill's out, she's in Miami.
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  Speaker 3: She go Auntie Hillary aka Hillary Cox is watching Scarlet.
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  Speaker 3: That's my boy, Brian I've told you about.
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  Speaker 2: That's his wife.
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  Speaker 3: They were sweet enough. She came over. She's watching Scarlett
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  Speaker 3: and she's crushing it. As soon as she walked in,
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  Speaker 3: she was like, Hey, I think I'm gonna listen to
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  Speaker 3: some Taylor's. Truly, I'm gonna listen to some Taylor Swift
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  Speaker 3: with her introduce her to the new album. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: that sounds like a game plan. Yeah, Scarlett just got
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  Speaker 3: brand new sparkly pink shoes, so she's gonna be showing
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  Speaker 3: those off to Aunti Hillary. Yeah, she napped like a
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  Speaker 3: champ this morning, and she's has not been napping well.
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  Speaker 3: The Merlin, dude, I didn't even put the Merlin down
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  Speaker 3: on my sheet. Do you know what the merlin is?
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  Speaker 3: The quarterback for Ohiose State last year, what's his name?
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  Speaker 3: Will Howard? His family invented this sleepsack thing that's called
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  Speaker 3: a Merlin and it basically just turns your baby into
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  Speaker 3: the Michelin man, the tire logo guy, and they sleep
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  Speaker 3: flat on their back with their arms out wide and
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: their legs out straight, and they love it. It's crazy, dude.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: I sent it to the PT six social thing. I
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: was like, we need to make a quote graphic that
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: Will Howard was the very first Merlin baby. Steelers future
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: Hall of Fame quarterback Will Howard's family.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, wishing well a healthy, healthy recovery with the injuries
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: got going on right now.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but a survival kit. Survival kit the Merlin.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: But yeah, dude, I mean Scarlett was like crushing the
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: nap this morning. She's smiling a whole lot, and she's
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: starting to like, instead of cooing, she's actually like you
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: can tell she wants to talk so bad, and so
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: whenever I'm like coming over the crib or like putting
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: her in her playpen. It's like, I know, mom, ya
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: ya ya, And I'm like, oh my gosh, you said
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: I love you Dad.
• 16:16
  Speaker 8: I know you did.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: I know you're trying to say it, but you have
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: a sitter until twelve thirty twelve.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Got to keep it. You got to keep this one
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: under an hour.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Literally have to keep it under an hour, okay, or
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Jill will skin me alive.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: But there was also so if we go all the
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: way back to what started all of this conversation, it was.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: Easy over the line to have your friend.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: Who has the same amount of kids or more kids
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: watch your kid, in this case scarscar three month old
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: m you had a situation or Professor Clump.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Professor Clump and his wife Lindsay God.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Bless her, who made some banana bread and wrote a
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: really sweet note to Jill for her birthday. So thank you, Lindsay.
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: Shout out. It was off that they could watch Scarlett
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: here at the shop. They have two boys, one of
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: which is four and some change, and another one's like two
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: and some change. Shout out JJ, shout out JJ, shout
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: out Brady. But they're I mean, they're a handful in themselves,
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: like they got their own stuff going on.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: And because we were trying to figure out, okay, we
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: can we can rip this pod on Friday. Jill's out
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: of town. How can we figure out how can we
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: help out? The boys shirm yes, so we can rip
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: this pod.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: And Jill was like, go the avenue of Hillary first
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: to see if she has availability before we reach out
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: to Jeremy and his wife because they already got their
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: kid no kids, Hillary registered nurse, very close friend of
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: ours or newfound friends three work that we are close with,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: but newer friends and they have two kids. It was like, yep,
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: that's for sure the pecking order. Yeah, go this avenue first.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: We're not going that avenue first. And so I felt bad.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: I kind of said it to Jeremy like they weren't
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: an option. I would have felt bad if we came
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: to them first and then like hey, Yoki watch our
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: kids blah blah blah.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: But so what gets set Like there's also a thought too,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: like it's a big no no to ask to ask
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: somebody that have that have more kids to watch your
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: kids watch, which I'm calling bs. That's that's new York
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: all over again. If you get offered and they're offering it,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: like let's say you're not seeking them out. If they're
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: offering it, I think that is an option that's very
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: much on the table. Okay, I would sit here and
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: say I don't care what my wife says, but she obviously,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: like we all know how New York went, Like, my
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: wife won that battle. We had to take kids home
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: at like two in the morning, and you apologize, You
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: called her and apologized. Yeah, I apologize because I was
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: saying as I was saying some very hurtful things that
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: night when I was sideways, remember when I was sideways.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: But I do like it's like if that is one thing,
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: it's like no, like.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: If they're offering that offer is a is a justified option,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Like they're giving you that opportunity, and to me, that's
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: an opportunity that if it is the only opportunity, you
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: take the opportunity.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: What we need to I need to be better at that.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: You don't feel bad and you don't feel bad. I
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: need to get better at that, and Jill needs to
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: get better like us together, we need to not have guilt.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Like that's a very serious, like real take is like,
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: we do not need to have guilt for somebody to
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: watch our kids as much guilt.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: As well, I think we put on ourselves because I
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: think there's gonna be guilt no matter what. Yeah, there's
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: gonna be like damn you kind of like just letting
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: out the little kiddos.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Okay, you better be on your best folking gear, you understand, Yeah,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: what the.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: Fuck are gonna be? When Hillary came over, she legitimately
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: was so excited, and I was like, in a real
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: frantic not super frankid, but I was kind of moving around,
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: Do you have snacks, you need water, do you need anything?
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Blah blah blah, trying to make sure everything was perfect
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: for her. And she was like, I mean, you just
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: gave me a Roku remote and the play pin's right here,
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: and here's a burp cloth. I'm good, Like go go
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: yeah stuff.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like hey, Scar, are you sure you're good? You
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: can just all you gotta dude, really just look at
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: her for the next couple of.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: Hours for real.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: She makes noise if she needs a burp or need
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: a feed feet her at this time, but then that
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Saturday and you just look at her.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: You can look at her. You put her in the
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: plate thing, you can do the two she's loving the
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: two feet right now where you're just tuning her, you're
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: flipping her. Yeah, it's chef. I'm sorry you were you
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: were gonna say something.
• 20:29
  Speaker 8: Oh, no, you're good.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: I was just saying shiming in.
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: Maybe it's like a good karma thing, like what goes
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: around comes around, So you need to pay it forward
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: if if you take that, if you're offered, and maybe
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: it's one of those things where it's kind of with
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: the knowledge of like hey, we owe you, we owe
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: you one, whatever that may be.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you do that, you definitely you're in the camp. Hey,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: we we'll get you on the back end. All I'm
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: saying is if I am telling you, hey, I'll watch
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: scar scar and even though I got two kiddos and
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: let's say I'm alone and I'm just like, hey, i'll
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: watch I'll watch Scarlett for you, and you'd be feeling bad.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I back, bro, she's three months old. Like, I'll be
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: able to handle it, and you trusted me to do it.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, if I am offering you, like there should
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: be zero guilt, Like if I'm in the man, I
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: kind of don't want to watch her, then I wouldn't
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: you know that it was fair shooting offer at all.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: But if I'm offering you, I'm thinking, bro, like your
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: boy can handle this. You either trust me or you don't.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: I think you should maybe you don't. Would you trust me?
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: A hundred d? And hey that was when I got
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: a pretty nice compliment this morning from Hillary. She was
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: like I just want be cause I was like running
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: through all this stuff with her and she was like, Hey,
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I just want to let you know, working in a hospital,
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: I'm used to that to being like yeah, I don't
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: know their allergies, like go talk to mom, Yeah, go
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: talk to mom.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: So she was like.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: You're you're on it, like you everything seems great. Like
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: I was almost like performative to her when she like
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: showed up in a way of like and this is
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: right here, and this is right here.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: It's just let you know, just hand on the shoulder. Okay.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: So like first off, Sherman, we're in your house. Yeah, yeah,
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: you can do whatever the hell you want.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I'm a nurse.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: I'm a nurse. I'm just gonna watch your kid, like
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: you don't have to prem anything. I'm sitting there like okay,
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: but everything's like it's all good. If you need it,
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: it's it's your here. But yeah, dude, huge weight off
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: my chest. When I walked out the front.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Door was good.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh dude, that felt good.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: But got to be home soon.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Got to be home.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Got to keep this one under an hour.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: Got to keep it under an hour.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: You go ahead.
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: I was just gonna say, and gotta kick ass, dude,
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: And I'm off to the hottest start ever. Knock on
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: wood Yeah, knock on wood by Sorry, off hot.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: You're gonna crush it. Thank you, You're gonna crush it.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Because when those conversations or questions was coming up, it's like, hey,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: real opportunity here.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: Of course I would trust you with Scarlett. I appreciate that.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: Of course I would. I would rip bro. And that
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: was to the point that I was trying to make
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: earlier where Hillary paid that compliment was like most dads
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: you know don't even know what they're allergic to or
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: their social Security number. I'm like, I think of you
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: as a dad that's on it.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know their social Security numbers, but you've been
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: but I'm on it, beyond it. So I watched Time
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Concern I be on You've seen a blowout or too. Yeah, yeah,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you got this easy money. Ru would crush it too.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Because because some of those you see, you know, your
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: boy's like holding your kid and it starts crying even
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: a little bit, and it's like almost an instant reaction
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: of yo yo yeah.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Your anxiety will really build whenever, like say you and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Jill do a date night, or you're like letting the
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: babysitter do whatever with Scarlet. She's a little older to
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: where she's aware or has they'll have their own separation anxiety,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: and it's kind of crippling.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: Bro.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: You kind of just feel bad leaving the house. First
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: time Charle and I left the house to go on
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: a date, and Rue was like aware that we were leaving,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: and she was starting she was getting old, she was
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: getting at that age to where you know, she's like
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: reaching or crying and doesn't seem like they're gonna have
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: fun with the babysitter, and you kind of just feel
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: like you're leaving them there to get tortured. You're driving
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: away from the driveway just thinking in their mind, they're
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: probably they probably got like an animal brain they probably
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: think we don't We're not coming back like this is there.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: It's the saddest thing in the world. You kind of
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: just don't know what you and your wife sitting there
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: and all you're doing is talking about the kid. To
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: get to dinner, and you have to like tell yourself like, hey,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: we have to enjoy this meal. Yes, then you eat
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: kind of faster. Are we gonna get dessert? Oh wait,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: we got to get home. We'll skip dessert. And you're
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: kind of just racing home. You just feel so bad
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: leaving them. That'll come to dude, that's guy that will hit.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it Thankfully I didn't feed Scarlett. I gave
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Hillary the bottle and I was like, I think this
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: will help in the long run if you actually kick
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: off this wild babysit two hour sash with like a
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: feeding with.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: A dub with the dub quick game quarterbacks, a little
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: nervous Yeah, Like, let's just get a quick one out there,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: quick out, quick slant, something to the flats, maybe a screen.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Maybe let's just hand the ball off. Here's the ball,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: it's a bottle.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Maybe you know block block bark, Oh yeahart you off
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: with a quick win, quick when and I was like,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: Scarlett's going to be like, Oh that's formula lady that
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: fed me and now she's playing me. Te Swift. Hillary
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: kind of ribs, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, let's not
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: We got a lot of stuff to covert. We have
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: a lot of comments, and I do I was writing
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: down a lot of I was writing down a lot
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: of comments and more so just names to shout out
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: because last week's episode was obviously very emotional. At one
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: point when I was talking about when Garrett shot over
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: an awesome comment talking about how you listened to the voicemail,
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: it really struck your boy as empathizing with somebody who
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: lost their parent, understanding that their parent won't really get
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: to know your kid. It's just something my mom passing
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: away before was born, when Charli, my wife was pregnant,
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: really hit your boy hard. Ye kind of got off
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: the rails for a moment.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: It was an obvious emotional state that I needed to
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: live in lean into. I do appreciate you guys for
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: sitting with your boy during that during that moment, because
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: it was very awkward and different for me in that moment.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: But all of the comments, all of the messages, everybody
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: that's been engaging, everybody that's been talking about how they
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: lost somebody close to them, they lost a parent, or
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: just putting their arm around me. In the comments section,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I shout out a lot of names. I'm gonna just
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: read a list because there were so many. I'm doing
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: my best to shout out everybody. Sumner, Darlington, Ian Natch,
• 26:31
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  Speaker 1: the Planet, Danny Cerno, Clifton Jones, Evan Snyder, Life of
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  Speaker 1: Siah Hambonius, Rex Andres, Sorry about this, brother Schaidez Chadez
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Chadees Avenged, Nick Bemo fifty four, Paul Johnson, Flat River
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Boy grew up in Park Hills. He said he watched
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: me back when I played in RGFL. So this is
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: a young Oh Thundercat fourth fifth, sixth grade. He says
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: he now has thirteen kids. Didn't that that was not
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: a type of Yes, three three sets of twins. You
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: got three sets of twins after the second clip, Buddy,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: you got it.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: You gotta shut it down.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Uh, Noah Adams, Tanner, Stevens, Andre Cady, Kim Hickey, Nathaniel Sachs.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: There were a bunch also that I was reading in
• 27:23
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• 27:33
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• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a he's a big timer. He's a big timer.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: The for the She's a tier one across the board,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: busting with the boys for the Dads. Everything but Jake Ballman,
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Jade and Biby Bennett. I'm reading the uh the Spotify
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: comments right now. Boss uh, Dijon Uh Yeah, zane A,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Matt Notreman, just everybody man. Honestly, it's it was really cool.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I got a FaceTime last week from a buddy of mine,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: a shout Out logan who logan. We were kind of
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: talking about the episode at first, and I was like,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: have you listened to this week's because he was like, Hey,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I've been loving the for the Dad stuff. I've been
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: seeing buddies of mine that are following and like, like
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: your channel that.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I haven't spoken to in a long time.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: It's just really cool to see what the brand's doing
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: and the episodes have been have been great. I'm like,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: have you listened to this week's And he was like, oh,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: tell me about this weeks. I was like, I was
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: starting to tell him. I was honestly starting to get
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: emotional again as I'm trying to tell him last week.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Last week we'll go down as the most emotional.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Week that Willie c had reading comments, seeing the clip
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: that you guys made and kind of like seeing it
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: again and reliving it. But he calls me like ten
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: minutes later on FaceTime and he's just in the middle
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: of crying and it was.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Kind of like a.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Kind of like I wasn't in the state of crying anymore.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Tried popping a joke to make it light and everybody
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: has just been super cool and it's cool to see
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: everybody in the community rally around just each other, share
• 29:01
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• 29:03
  Speaker 2: So thank you guys.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: We do have comments here that we're gonna rip some
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: more fun comments this week. We have we can't just
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: be uh just over and over up tempo crying offense.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Crying is fucking cool. By the way, that Hey, pt sickos,
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for can I can I interject one quick quote?
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  Speaker 3: I want to thank you for sharing what you did.
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  Speaker 3: And I thought it was really cool and just how
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  Speaker 3: I personally affected me. Called my mom instantly after the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Dude cried with my mom and it was fucking sick.
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  Speaker 3: And what you did was was incredible, your legend.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to add I truly, it's like if
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  Speaker 1: I add talking about again, it'll feel you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean it feel Just say the marri and stuff
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  Speaker 1: the mom stuff, just the all of it.
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  Speaker 3: Bro feel feel Willy C has never done this in
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: the history of Busting. After that episode, you took an
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  Speaker 3: hour nap in the shop.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: An emotional nap, and I do.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: When I woke up, I appreciated that the doors were shut,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: because they weren't at first. I kind of was sitting
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  Speaker 1: there and I was like, I'm gonna watch forget what
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  Speaker 1: it was either like it's Friday. It's on a Friday,
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  Speaker 1: so it's either like make some posts or like watch
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: some film on the NFL, like watch the All twenty two,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: like dive into some of that stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And I kind of just got to where I was.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I was starting to be a sleepy boy, yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: so I just kind of put the hat over the
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  Speaker 1: face and the lazy boy that we got, and I
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: was just hopeful my hopefully guys don't come in and
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: like mess with me or do a joke or come
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: up and take a photo and post it.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Like I was like, I'm just gonna get a quick now,
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a nap.
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  Speaker 9: Hopefully, Derek and I Derek you saying, I was just
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  Speaker 9: gonna say it was kind of like when Dad falls asleep.
• 32:36
  Speaker 9: And you're like, oh, we should change your hand on.
• 32:38
  Speaker 9: My Mom's like, don't mess with that. Like people were
• 32:40
  Speaker 9: like trying to go and we're like, don't go in
• 32:42
  Speaker 9: there yet. Like people are like, hey, is Will in there?
• 32:43
  Speaker 9: We're like, don't.
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  Speaker 3: Don't open the door, Like, don't open the door the
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  Speaker 3: boy a second.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was truly an hour nap. Like I
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: woke up the door. You guys had shut the doors.
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  Speaker 1: It was me was who is one of the last
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: ones in here? Maybe clump, yeah, because most most everybody
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  Speaker 1: was gone.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: Ryan was here.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I was kind of bum that I didn't get said
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  Speaker 2: by to you guys. I did wake up.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I was say, man, everybody, it was a much it
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: was a much needed nap. It was the week of
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: travel and everything else. And then that that emotion was
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: because we shaped out. I didn't watch that moment on YouTube.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I know when we got done, I was kind of
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: up in the air about cutting a lot of stuff
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: out because I was just I was feeling very awkward
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  Speaker 1: and I hate the way my voice cracks and doing
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: no pod and then I was just kind of like, hey,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: you guys, listen to it.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: I trust you guys.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Whatever you want to cut out if you think it's necessary,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: if you feel like it'll be people you know connect
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: with it and it'll be helpful. You guys do your
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: thing with it. Yeah, but I know, how did you
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: did you edit out stuff?
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, uh yeah, I edited a decent bit, but
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: nothing like dialogue wise. I really think that there's maybe
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: like three or four words that cut, and that was
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: kind of like what you guys don't see is like
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: producer talk, where will I go like you might want
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: to cut this or something like. That's all that was,
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: But pretty much everything is said. I cap because I
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: thought it was really important. I thought that there was
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: like a lot that resonates with the people who watch this,
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: and I think it's important that they, you know.
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  Speaker 8: See that. And I did speak from my side. I
• 34:18
  Speaker 8: don't think it was awkward at all.
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  Speaker 5: I think you're having a moment that's universal and I'll,
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: you know, eventually pretty much everyone will understand.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, for sure some one of those where
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm I'm driving afterwards or thinking about it afterwards,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: and usually like when a moment like that's happening, not
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: say like I'm usually alone and I want to be
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: alone because I think like, Okay, I'm usually alone when
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: that happens, and it's like, oh, it's always good to
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: have somebody there with you.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Or whatever the case, like support system around.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: But usually, like as as anybody who has like a
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: tough moment like that, usually you feel much more comfortable
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: it's happening, whether it's in your car, at home alone,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, and for it to be happening in
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: front of you guys when it's see the moment where
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I had to kind of just sit this side and
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, this is I gotta basically I
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: have to have this moment.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: I can't like get out of this moment.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: And then to look up and see see.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: That you guys were, you know, being the way you were,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: and thank you for being a good friend both all
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: you guys, All you guys much appreciate it.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Should we get into some some fun comments.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready, all right, I'll kick it off Coach Web
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  Speaker 1: on YouTube Coach Web ninety nine to zero three. Best
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: part of the pod is the tears. Crying is cool
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Coach Web. So glad I have a scheduled time to
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  Speaker 1: cry each week. Another one, another fun one. Josh Thompson's
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  Speaker 1: to this year. Will I totally felt that emotion, Josh.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate the comment. Brother Junior le Bk on YouTube.
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  Speaker 1: I fucking love this podcast. So many lessons in here
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: for everyone. This might be for the dad's at its core,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: but in my opinion it's Ooh, I like this for
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: the soul.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for speaking from the hard boys, dude. Thank you, Junior.
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  Speaker 3: Snap Snap Snaps. Lindy Roker fifty five thirty five on YouTube.
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  Speaker 3: Set just wanted to say how much I love this podcast.
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  Speaker 3: My fiance put me on it and I've been hooked
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  Speaker 3: from the beginning. We aren't parents yet, but I can't
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: tell you how much more excited you guys have made
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: us to become members of Empty six and PT six
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: one day. You have given all of us listeners a
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: refreshing and realistic perspective on parenting. I'm all in for
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: the rollercoaster of emotions I experienced listening to this show too,
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: laughing one minute and then crying the next. Real men
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: in parentheses and women cry and crying is totally cool.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Thank you so much for sharing your lives, your hearts
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: with us and making this podcast incredible.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I love that comment. It is it's like when you're
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: sitting there, like what clips do I want to post?
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: It's like you got the emotional one. There's someone I've
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: seen in the comments that are alluding to this, like
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: the speech of the moment last week after you know,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: my man got himself out of the trenches. And then
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: there's like I got the bane mask on you do
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: you think this bottle is your alle we lially crying
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: motivational speeches, like all right, how are we going to
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: approach this week on the internet.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Yes, we have a clip that it took me a
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: day and a half to edit because it's a funny
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: part of the podcast. But my eyes look like I
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: just got pepper spray, so I had to add the
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: context of us reading sad comments at the beginning of it.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Then transitions to you, yeah, I'm out of underwear. I'm
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: wearing a European swimsuit. That's the joke. There you go,
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: and like my eyes just look awfully, But yeah, the
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  Speaker 3: pod is sick. DUDEJ for the Dad's pt Sika that's
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: his full handle pt sic. Oh please let me read
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: that again because this is official handle kJ for the dads.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's somebody too, that's probably on that's probably you know,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: we haven't I haven't looked or we haven't circled back
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: on it. But the Reddit page we talked about, we
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: need to tea. We need the squad out there to
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: make that you know, he this is somebody that's kJ
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: on the front line.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah he's got the light machine gun. He's not carrying
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: around the submachine gun. Uh, he said, cried ordered for
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  Speaker 3: the dad's merch. Cried again, Love you boys. We are
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: never hitting on the odds of not crying. Thank you kJ,
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: Thank you kJ. Another one or yeah, I got Katie
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: Katie Joson Hans. What a cool name. As a mom
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: who grew up in a family where we are, we're
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: proud of our last name. It was sad to think
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: my kids wouldn't have that as part of theirs. When
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: I got married, I moved my maiden name to my
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: middle name, and now I plan to give my kids
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: that name as their middle name too. That way we
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: can all say that we are a part of the
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: Cash family. You heard that right, from Katie Cash to
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: Katie josen Hans. But my boys and I'm so sorry
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: if I'm just absolutely is it Josen Hans Usually, however,
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  Speaker 3: you say it's cool man, You'll send Hans.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: You can't expect us to just be dialed in on
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: some of the names Katie joson Hans. But yeah, Katie
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Cash and Katie jos and Hans.
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: But my boys will always be a part of the
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: Cash clan. And I am so damn proud of that.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: As far's that's a subtle parenthack right there. That's a
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: mom hack. That's a mom yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: mom hack right there. Want Patino nine five six on YouTube,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: longtime listener to the bus and have to say four
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: of the dads is the best new member of step
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Papa Team six of two wonderful kids five and six.
• 39:46
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• 39:50
  Speaker 1: the good work. Boys, love step Papa.
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  Speaker 3: Team six, Step Papa Team six.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: If you're a good one. And it sounds like he's
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: setting a good example for step dad's life. So Saiah,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: somebody I shout it out with a great comment. This
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: is Sia's comment. This pod has been a huge help
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: with the day to day of dad life. A place
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: to feel like I can just hang out and vent
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and say the things that we all have on our minds,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: both the deep and not so deep stuff, the things
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: that we go through.
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  Speaker 2: Shout out you.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: And one more from Nuke fifty on YouTube, Willie one
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Sholf make me cry on a damn construction site. Just
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: another reason why I love you guys and love this show.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Wednesdays can't come soon enough. No they can't, Brother and
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: come on, no they can't.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Gaming Riot one oh one says was up. I'm new
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: to the channel that I'm expecting my first child. He
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: is a boy and his name is River. I'm only
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: twenty one. Shout out River, Shout out River, and I'm
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: nervous about We have a great I am nervous about it,
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: but we have a great support system. I'd like to
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: hear from some of you guys, so sorry, let me
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: regrape here. I would like to hear some of your
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: guy's hardest and best moments about being a first time dad.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: My name is Austin Witchmand. By the way, I'm in
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: Papa Team six officially.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Now what Smarcus of emotion for you?
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: Hardest and best moments of being a first time dad?
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: I would say hardest moments is getting into the rhythm
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: of the infancy stage, like the newborn stage. That was
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: the hardest part for me. It was a definite learning curve.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: But once I got it down, I got it down.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: It's a lot of people talk about like skiing is
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: very hard to master, but it's like very easy to
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: pick up, whereas snowboarding is a little bit harder to
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: pick up but a lot easier to master. I feel
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: like bringing up a newborn is like snowboarding. It's kind
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: of hard to pick up, but once you get the
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: hang of it, you're you're gonna start ripping.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: Good to go.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah dude, I could not imagine being a father at
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: twenty one.
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah dude. Well, I mean, like, well done to him
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: for being locked in at the age. The thought of
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: a twenty one year old Sherman being a dad is
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: a scary one.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: I know it's hard for a lot of young parents
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: that have kids that young. And whether it was planned
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: or unplanned, I think the most important thing that this
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: young man can do is accept whatever the reality is
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: of a situation. And I'm not saying it wasn't planned.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying he didn't want this. I'm just almost
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: assumpting because he's twenty one, But accept.
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: Whatever reality you have, and dude, it's got.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: To be the number one priority in your life on
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: nailing down fatherhood.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: It just does.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: It does with all the And there's a there's honestly
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: a sick lesson that I came across, or sick like
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: philosophy that I think is going to be like a
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: new found thing like in my life and world.
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: There's like a.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: North Star Mount rushmore philosophies that I'll hit later in
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: the episode. But man, write down what your priorities are,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: what you want to be as a father. Write it
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: down and be as clear as possible. Who do I
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: want to be as a dad, especially as a young man. Bro,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: because you're very young, I don't know everything you have
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: going on in your life. I'm sure you're trying to
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: balance what you want to do in this world. Well
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: kind of dad you want to be? And I would
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: say give yourself some grace and not feeling urgent and
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: rushed into figuring out whether it's career, school, whatever is
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: going on in your world. You're going to have a
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: lot of pressure and a lot of stress being a
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: young dad being at twenty one.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: But bro, get as clear as you possibly can.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: If this podcast is something you enjoy listening to and
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: feel like you get help from, stay glued to it
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: because you're there's gonna be a lot of trials and
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: tribulations in your relationship, in in fatherhood, in all of it.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I thought you had. I thought you had
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: great advice.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: It's like, man, it's gonna feel overwhelming with a newborn,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: your first one.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Once you get it down, you're gonna get it down.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: But make sure you keep your the main thing, the
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: main thing when it comes to fatherhood, bro, and prioritize.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: It because it's it's it's it's difficult.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: And I'm speaking as somebody who is a dad at
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: RHO is three, So thirty three, thirty four years old, yeah,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: thirty two for myself, yeah yeah, so I feel like
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: it was helpful for me. I guess like later to
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: become a dad. I truly I couldn't imagine. But Dude,
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: if I give you advice, it's it's the same kind
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: of things that we talk about. I say to myself
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: out all the time, like nobody's coming to save you.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Focus be as clear as you possibly can, and stay
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: glued to whatever that clearity is, whatever you have written down,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: stay glued to it, because that's what you're gonna need
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: to look at and lean on and constantly think about
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: the self talk all the time with all the pressure
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: that you'll have in this world.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: But good on you for right in. I appreciate you
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: right in, bro, Yes, appreciate you right now.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in. And if it is one
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: of those situations where you are trying to do school,
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: balance that. There was a guy that I went to
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: Baylor with shout out Jimmy, that he had an accident
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: child or a surprise child his senior year of high
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: school and he absolutely rinted as a dad and was
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: a full on college student, like living on campus, co
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: parenting with mom. They were I mean, it was like
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: truly something special to get to watch. It's really cool
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: when like people are kind of thrust into responsibility and
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: how they can handle that. Yeah, because twenty one year
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: old Sherman that was shirtless with a Pikachu mask on
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: during on a reof top was not ready to be
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: a dad at twenty one. But Jimmy absolutely mastered it,
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: handled it. And I still follow him on Instagram. I
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: see pictures of him and his little girl and he rips.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: He's an awesome dad.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: I have an email here from Zach Zeke Zach Zigzag,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Hey boys, big fans of the podcast. Love listening to
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: you guys. Every week. We are gonna call this shitty.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: We're gonna call this a shitty situation story. I have
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: two boys aged one and two, two hundred two boys who.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: But how you know? Rude soccer?
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: Each week, bro, please keep on taking more and more
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: videos of Oh yeah yeah.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I posted on my story like all the boy like
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: being boys and Rus just locked in foot on the ball.
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: She's in a ready.
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: Position staring the coach down.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Bro. The boys, man are just different animals. That's why
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: I sit there on my girls.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Girls run the world. Yeah, like these boys are idiots.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: I don't think it good on. We gotta find the
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: killer instinct a little bit.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, but I'm sitting back there like a
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: proud pappy just and just watching these boys like wrestle,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: pick up the ball, like do all the things get
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: upset at each other?
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Like boys? They just feel like a different animal.
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: It was last year on a Saturday I believe Nebraska
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: was playing Ohio State that week. Both the boys are
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: already down for their morning nap. Huskers are on. Life
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: is good, right, Boy?
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Was I wrong?
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: The boys started waking up from their nap right around
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: the two minute warning.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: I told the wife and.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: This is this is when we had little hole state
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: on their heels. The Huskers had a hot state on
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: their heels. At was it at Columbus?
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: It was? It was pre Holgerson. Imagine if we get
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: out that one.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: I told the wife I would go get them. At halftime.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I walk into the room and the stench that hit
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: my nose quite literally knocked my dick in the dirt.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: It was the worst smelling shit I have smelt in
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: my life. I thought that was the end of the
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: shitty situation. But once I regained consciousness, I look up
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: and see they both smeared their diarrhea diapers over all
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: over everything, the wall, the crib, the sheets, anything you
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: could think of, there was shit on it. They were
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: also covered in ship head to toe. I was deep
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: in the trenches. That was just a little story from
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: a family that has two boys. We're adding a little
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: girl here at the end of October go Big Red,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: Love you guys.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Sent from my iPhone. The little from out.
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: The front of the bottom was actually.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: They got the little tag at the bottom, go Big
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Red having a little spook tober girl at the end
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: at the end of the month.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Congratulations to you. That's a good laugh.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: Hey good. Good for him and Iowa fans refraining from
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: any nasty comments of leave it to some huskers to
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: rub poopball over them.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, leaves to let it get out of hand in
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: such a situ in such a way that there's ship
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: all over the place like that.
• 48:55
  Speaker 8: To me is.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: That's code of red. That's get the boys.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Get the boys out, except that you're about to smell
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: and be shitty, or take him outside, get the hose,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: get the hose, water him down, and say to yourself,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: this is worse than the time the raccoons got stuck
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: in the copier. Yeah, chuckle about the Anchorman old Anchorman movie,
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: and pray to god, wife's up there, clean up the room.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I know, I wouldn't want to clean the room.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Oh, they had sex fanther in the room. Yes, that's
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: essentially what was going on. Yeah, damn, hey good. What
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: was his name again? Zach zach Zig zach Ze, thank
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: you for that email. That was hilarious, Vincent. Vincent writes
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: in on YouTube. He says, seeing the end of the
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: road in sight. Wife is thirty seven weeks pregnant with
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: our first and it's a baby boy, and we're getting
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: induced in three days. Everything is finally starting to kick in.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: All the feelings, emotions and thoughts are running through my
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: mind faster than I can understand. So many worries I
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: keep thinking about. But I know I've got this podc
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: as to watch every Wednesday, and you boys have got
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: me ready to tackle anything coming my way. Appreciate what
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: you guys are doing. Shout out the boy, man, Shout
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: out the boy. Thank you for the comment that gets
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: me so dead, like somebody's going into something with confidence.
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: Because I will say this week, like this weekend, I
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: would not be going into it with the confidence I
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: have if it wasn't for this show. And I mean
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: that I to man. So I'm feeling with Vincent's feeling.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: This was from Waylon Ransom. This is this comes from
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: the social media platform x ah.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: Nice gentlemen. I've been given the honor and.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: Privileged to coach my daughter's fourth grade powder puff flag
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: football team. What an honor. We will be playing the
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: third grade squad. It's eight v eight. This is my
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: coaching debut. Any advice for coaching or pregame speech advice
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: would be appreciated.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: This game will be.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: October twelfth, around three pm. I can update y'all after
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: the huge win. What's the date right now? It's a
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: third so he'll get to listen to this before before
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: the game kicks off.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: This is this is a deep water conversation. This is
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: a deep water spid.
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: Are they the underdogs in this?
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: This is a fourth grade team, they're playing the third grade.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: They're playing the third grade team. So this should be bullied.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: This should be bullyball.
• 51:21
  Speaker 8: Bully ball, establish the run.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there you yet.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: I didn't know if you had anything else.
• 51:30
  Speaker 5: You started just let's first drive, just power gap scheme
• 51:35
  Speaker 5: the whole time. Does this third three get a year
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: advantage on them?
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Do you think this third grade team understands what it's
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: like when fourth graders put their paws on them? This
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: is a deep water situation. We're gonna take this team.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: We're gonna run the football. I don't know if you
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: can blitz I doubt you can blitz. However, Reroute, get
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: your hand on these little fucking third graders, because what
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do in this ball game is we're gonna
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: take them one foot at a time in the deeper
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: and deeper water until we can hold them underwater and
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: the bubbles stop. That's the kind of game we're about
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: to have. And if you have any doubt in your mind,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: go sit with your parents. I don't know if that's
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: you know, you got to make sure you're the only
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: adult in the room telling them this kind of speech,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: because we're talking about like hold third graders underwater, which,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: by the way, this is also fun humorous podcast for
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: any you know, Karen, somebody be sitting there like, oh shit,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: why is he saying that? Now, this is the kind
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: of football game. We're trying to win a football game.
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: We're trying to motivate however we can. I do have
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: some there you go, Shuham, he's getting ready for this
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: football game right now.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: I do have some as somebody who like when I
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: was in high.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: School, it was my junior year all state wide receiver,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: you know, safety from Notre Dame.
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, something like that.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: That's not what we're talking about in my free time
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: after practice. High school, I coached. I was a head
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: coach of a fourth grade team tackle football. I was
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: a head coach, which I go to the RGFL fields.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: We practiced twice a week. Did we go undefeated or
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: did we go five and one? We might have lost
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: the game. We might have lost the game. But having
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: experience in this mode you have there's some plays out
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: there to be made. If you can get these fourth
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: graders understanding some jet sweep handing the ball, getting to
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: the edge, because I'm telling you these third graders, their
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: eyes are gonna be in the backfield if you can
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: hit the perimeter with.
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: Some jet sweeps. And I'm talking.
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: I made a halftime adjustment that I still think about
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: to this day because I would get in a power
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: eye for me because you're not throwing the ball very
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: much in fourth grade.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: You're not You're not throwing the ball.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: You might like lob one up if you catch them,
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: you get the tight end down the seam, but you're
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: playing power football. This is man on man. Like they
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: got it. They're gonna feel you. I would get in
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: a power eye and I'll be running, you know. Twenty
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: six power I'll be doing, you know, sweeps, everything else.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: And I realize as I'm sitting back there as the
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: head man in the OC watching the defense perform, their
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: eyes are in the backfield. They're gonna go with whatever
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: way the flow feels. They're gonna over pursue, right, especially
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: when they're getting gashed up the middle or getting gashed
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: on the perimeter. The coordinator, the defensive coordinator in the
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: back is gonna be telling his second level, his backers,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: I gotta see you take off once you see this happen,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: that's where the ball's going.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: That's where you gotta go.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: I would get in the power rider where you line
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: up three running backs right, And what I halftime adjustment
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I made is we be hitting the twenty eight sweeps
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: on them, twenty seven sweeps on them to where you
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: get the second level over pursuing. And what I ended
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: the adjustment, I ended up making, Hey, I want a
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: full twenty eight sweep. That's the optics I want. Everybody else,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: you're twenty eight sweep. I told the quarterback and the
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: running back, here's what you're gonna do. You're gonna jab
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: step like it's twenty eight and you're gonna go the
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: back side and at the seven hole, and you're gonna
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: be running scott free.
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: That's called a counter, baby, Yeah, that's called a counter. However,
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: this is no.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: The only one that needs counter footwork is the running
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: back and the the quarterback who knows he's faking it
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: this way and then dishing it out to him on
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: the left and he gone, yeah, he going, I don't
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: need you by pulling backside, this is gonna be wide open.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: So one jab step.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: Once you get him over pursuing in the first half,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: you come back in the second half they over pursue.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Boom foot in the ground. You're out the back door
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: the other way. Yep, eighty eight out the gate. And
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: we're talking.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: This is girls flag football, correct, this powder puff? Okay,
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: shirts need to be tucked in. No ponies, You need
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: French braids. Ponies are gonna come loose. Hair's gonna get
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: in the face. All the girls need to show up
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: in French braids. Yeah, no ponies, and get the eye black.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: Get the eye black out.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: If you don't want to use the deep water analogy,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: this is the eye black game.
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: This is the eye black game. But hey, make it
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: fun for him. Because the little ones, when they're having fun,
• 55:48
  Speaker 3: that's that's when the magic happens. So keep it fun,
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: keep it light. But we also need to end some
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: lives tonight.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: And you know what's fun, sure, winning, winning, imposing your will. Hey,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing the other team not have fun anymore.
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: I met this guy the other day. He was having
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: so much fun. Guess what he wasn't a loser. You
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: ever met a loser having a lot of fun? Will?
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: No? I haven't.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: Hey, I will say this to you. Get a running
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: back that is the shortest girl on your team, because
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: there is something very strange with flag football with the
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: younger generation of leaning down and pulling a flag. Doesn't
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: matter if she has a whole lot of speed. If
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: she's down low and people are having to reach down
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: for her flags, they will miss her.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: Because at that age they're not as good as dropping
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: their hips to balance.
• 56:34
  Speaker 5: No.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: And so if you have a back with a low
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: center of gravity, even if it's not the shiftiest person
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: on your team but has some good speed, tote the rock.
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: Tote the rock. Tote the rock.
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to go into that game, and before
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you walk on the field, you need to know that
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: your team. There is no smiling happening. No, it's a
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: focused bunch. This is hey, we drop this game right here.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: There are no snow cones postgame.
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And if hey, and if anybody's giggling back of
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: the line, back of the line, you see another one
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: giggling back of the line. Because the third graders all
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: they need to see is the mean mugs of the
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: fourth graders, because there will be some giggling. Let's not
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: fool ourselves. These are fourth grade girls. There's gonna be
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: some giggling. Hey, girls, get out there, mean mugget ball.
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: There's gonna be some good back of the line.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah you're not.
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: You're not leading this team out. You're gonna be giggling.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd stop practice.
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, you're running labs.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: We wouldn't run laps, but I beg Do you want
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: to tell everybody else to joke? Because we're trying to
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: run a twenty six counter right now and your footwork
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: is awful?
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: Hey, Will's got something funny for everybody? Will? What do
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: you got? It looks funny when you're telling Johnny.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Oh, you're done telling the joke, all right? Can we
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: get back to work?
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: And walk out the scrilla obviously the kids bop kids,
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: Bob scrill.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you for shooting us that comment. Whalen,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: we are excited to hear football game?
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: Went where is it being played?
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Does not say, However, it's on October twelfth around three pm.
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, I was gonna say, I'm free the twelfth.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: So if you want to make a halftime adjustment or
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: you hit a jet sweep on the perimeter, I do
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: expect a phone.
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: I expect the video.
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we gotta have video and the walkout to the kids, bobscrilla.
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: That would go hard.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm thinking ball right now.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking how I can you know it's eight v
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: eight so you're not gonna have you can stack your
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: line of scrimmage. You get a jet sweep person going.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: You gotta see what the defense is doing on the
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: jet sweep because let's just say you're jetting to the right.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah even numbers, that's the right side. Yeah, say you're
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: jetting to the right, but you're running a twenty seven,
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: a twenty five, you're running something to the left side.
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: You want to see what the second level is doing.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: Are they pursuing the jet sweep or are they moving
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: with the line of scrimmage in the backfield? That right
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: there is going to tell you how you can open
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: them up game.
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: The only thing I'm worried about is that corner that
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: she the third grade corner. She's out there. She hasn't
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: been paying attention all game. She's sleeping, she's picking flowers,
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: she's doing whatever.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that that right there is you got a challenge.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: You're tight end or your tackle. You win on the
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: first step because I need you to capture that outside arm.
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, at the playground rocking with my classmates. But yeah,
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: lesson less know how it goes.
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: You get in some dad wins and losses. Yes, eleven
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: forty eight right now. Got to keep it under an out.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I got to keep it under it out. I have
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: a dad loss. I need you to say it because
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: what's going on. I'm trying hard to find it that long.
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, okay.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: You had a good you had a good week. It
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: just I feel like we're we my wife and I
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: like we're very busy. Yeah, we're dialed. Yeah, and against
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: more of like not necessarily dead losses.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: It's just you know, when my wife's got to run
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: double duty.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all are filling a lot of gaps, so like
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: if there are any misses, it's like, hey, yea, they're
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: filling gaps, so like I'm you know.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's more just about the support I can
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: provide around, like provide for Charrow, around Charrow, intentional time
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: for us. One thing that we are doing, staycation tonight.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: It's Friday night. Oh, Mom and Daddy got a staycation.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: We're downtown Nashville. Four seasons, four seasons. Yeah, Ao, we
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: got a little spa set up. Massages happening around four
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: thirty today, Little dinner reservation, keep it under an hour,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: mill of the afternoon, go early, check in, rest of
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: the day together, Tomorrow morning.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: Together, servant. What's you getting for dinner at Shockway? Alright
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 3: in I was gonna make a joke on steak preparation,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: but it didn't feel right, did not feel right. But yeah,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: I'm very fired up about that. That's all.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: Very fired up.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: Y'all deserve that. Y'all both been going and blowing and
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: I feel like Jill same, come on, come on, but
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: I feel you going and blowing.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: Five seconds later.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, repetition, sweet are you I'm not as
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: good as I once was.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: Maybe next time we can like go on an actual vacation.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: This is the same thing we already did. We should
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: catch up on some sleep, right, a big day tomorrow, Husks,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 3: What was I even gonna say? Oh, dad loss?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: It uh, that fires me up that you don't really
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: have a dad loss. I don't really have a dad
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 3: loss either, except for last night. I told you the
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: report card was out. The last two weeks, Jill's been
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: grading me strict because she's about to go out of town.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: And I fowed up last night and I fed Scarlett
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: thirty minutes earlier than what she actually feeds at which
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: then turned into a conversation of do you even know
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: our daughter's schedule? What are we doing? Sherman? She never
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: takes her basket at six thirty? Why are you taking Why?
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: Why did you put her in a bath at six thirty?
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: She has a bottle in her mouth before seven. She's
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 3: not even in bed till seven thirty. This is gonna
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: mess up the whole sleep schedule. And I'm like, honey,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 3: it's fine, it's gonna be great. Blah blah blah. Last
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: night was miserable. Scarlet slept terrible. Jill was right. We
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 3: got her off her schedule and she had a terrible
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 3: night's sleep, but Jill did before she leaves before she
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: but Jill did apologize to me. She was like, hey,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 3: I came down on you too hard.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: It's not lack of effort, thank you. It's not lack
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: of vester.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 3: She was like, I know where your head was at
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: because she told me before she was going to go
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: get her nails done all that stuff for the Bacherette party.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: And she was like, hey, she cannot fall asleep right
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: before bedtime or she won't go to bed. And so
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: I'm playing with her. I'm keeping her awake. She's starting
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: to doze off, and I'm like, oh, well, she loves
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 3: like when I change her, So I go to go
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: change her because I'll keep her awake. And now I'm like, oh, well,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 3: you know already got her naked. Let's do bathtime because
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: it's probably close to the battime right now. Didn't check
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: my phone, put her in the back. I was in
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: the right headspace, but it just it didn't translate.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: Well, just for the just for the moms out there,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: you can you can coach technique. You can't coach effort
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: if your man's got the effort going. Like if you
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: were thirty minutes late. To me, that's a that's more
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: of a hammer down. Yeah, conversation. Yeah, we're thirty minutes early.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: Let's coach the technique. Yeah, let's understand that you are
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: playing fast, and you're playing with a lot of effort,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: you care, and you're on it.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: It a little early and you should have seen me
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: doing bad time.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: Dude, I like truly was operating for anybody that's never
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: given a newborn a bath. I mean, it's like, you
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: gotta have one hand on the towel because you can't
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 3: do two hands on the baby and then be reaching
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 3: for the towel because they're wet and slippery and they're
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: gonna get cold and they're gonna start crying, so you
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: gotta have the towel quick.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: What's operating?
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of crushed it, except for the fact
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 3: that I did everything like forty five to thirty minutes.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: Do you were so prepared? You just you guessed a
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: little bit before the play started.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, And coach came back around, like Jill came
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 3: back around and totally was like she really did.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: But she was like, hey, right here, use your eyes. Yeah,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: the entire formation.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: All it's all good. The lines move in that way.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 3: Your eyes are on the back. Yeah, case of the counter.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you took what we did in individual period and
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: you are applying it. I'm not trying to slow you down.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: Keep playing with that much effort. It's showing up every week,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: your preparation, the speed you're playing at. Let's widen the
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: vision a little bit.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it because because the game made like the
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: individual drills, anything can happen.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: My dad loss. It wasn't that big of a dablo,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: not that bad. We're kind of operating, but that doesn't
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: mean we're kind of due for a big one this
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: week for sure.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: I meant for you.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: I know you meant for me, I said, but I
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 3: was due for Dad loss, and you said this weekend.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: I thought you meant a big one, like big win,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: like I saw it as minor setback, major comeboun Okay, Okay, okay,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: that I fully Yeah death, I'll be I'll be tapping
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: in it. I'll be tapping in each day. Yeah, tapping, tapping,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: I'll tapping because I'm I'll need it. That scared me
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: for a second. I was like, by the way, spootober,
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: you know one of the rules embracing the spook. Yeah,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: once a weekend. Yeah, we will be going to a
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: uh a park, some pumpkin patch, pumpkin patch type of
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: a little Halloween theme park. If you do want to
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: join when, I'll tell you after all, right, right, I'll
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: tell you after.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: I think it would be fun as well. No, it
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: would be fun.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: I'm just like a smaller scale one, not one where
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: it's like we're talking gentry farms and stuff. And I'm
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: like you, hey, sure you could tag along, but I
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: know Jill would want to be part of that too,
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: So a wait for Jill to get home.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a smaller one that I do. It's like,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: this is one where you get out of the house
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: and may get a couple of photos. Shoot him too,
• 1:06:42
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• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: Hunting trip all but confirmed for later this year.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: This is one you go to and you could go
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: to this one every weekend. Oh if I It's just
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: a good little out, a little fun yeah, good little outing.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, well that's perfect. Also, I might be playing pub
• 1:07:00
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• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Coo, no staycation one night.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: I can tomorrow, Okay, I can tomorrow. Okay, I forgot
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I saw Mom and Dad times. I forgot about staycation.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 3: That is on me.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that is on me. But well, I'll be back
• 1:07:16
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• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: go to our sitter taught rule a little game. But
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 3: it's like a like a gratitude game. It's called rosen Thorn,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: Like what was your rose of the day? What was
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: your thorn of the day? Oh so your rose of
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  Speaker 3: the day is like something you were grateful for, something
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  Speaker 3: you had fun with, something that made.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: You really happy.
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  Speaker 1: Your thorn thorn of the day is something that that
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: potentially bothered you or something that made you upset. I
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: thought it was a really good way. Like Ruth's bringing
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: this game up to me. She's like, that day, let's
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: play rosen Thorn, roseen Thorn. I'm like, all right, well,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: what's rosen Thorn?
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: What I missed? I was going for twenty four hours?
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she starts naming her rosen Thorne to where
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: I'm getting what she's I'm understanding what she's saying.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 3: She's rattling off an entire list for her rose.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Like playing with dad Dad, like Scottie making her laugh,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: like getting to play with mama, seeing mom in the morning,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: things that she might have done at school m uh
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: like students that made her laugh, or getting to play
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: a game outside for She's like ratt on.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: Off a list.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, her thorn was mama not getting to see her play.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: Oh what about that that didn't get to be at
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: school either? That again, get see me play either? All right,
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: all right, I needed that one thorn. I get that. Yeah, Scotty,
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: Like if Ruth's playing and Scotty goes and like, you know,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: just being scott Zilla, like we will be trying to
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: build this little foam robot where like magnetizes and Scotty
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: comes over and she just, you know, and she just
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: starts like screaming. Rue starts screaming, and Scotty just got
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: a smile and like grabbing at the phone. Robot, come
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: play over here, like play over in this spot, Scotti here.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: Try to give her the remote so Scotty's occupied, so
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: roo can build this robot. Yeah, and then then you'll
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: hear you should drop the robot lean and get on
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: the ground.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: And then you hear it's ma Scotty. I'll make Scott.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: And then when I'm like yelling like that Scotty, Scotty know,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: and Ruth just gets in like she just got through
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: into the ocean type of scream like a horror movie's happening.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: Because Scotty's getting close to her.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: I kind of I can't help as I'm going over
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: there like laughing, and sweetheart, Scotty's just she thinks she's
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: just playing with you.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: She doesn't know. She's kind of like waffle.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: She doesn't know what's going on right now. But uh,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: rosen Thorne is a cracker cole one I really like
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: because it also gets rude talking about what upset her
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: in the day so we can talk through that. Talks
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: about what she's grateful for, which I love. And then
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: another cracker call one is just Embracing the Spook. Rue
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: went to Charlie took Rue. They went to the library
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: yesterday and Rue came home with the book Wicked. Oh
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: Richy's so excited to show me, like, you know, for
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: like Halloween and everything else. Yes, so embracing the Spook.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: When your kiddo's embrace the Spook. Those are my crack
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: of cold ones.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: Is that Wicked like the musical? I believe?
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 4: So.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: I think it's like Wizard of Oz.
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  Speaker 8: I'll be fully.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: I got dragged there when it released in theaters by
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 5: the girlfriend.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 8: It was fucking awesome. That's that's one that I will.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 8: I put hands out.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: We were walking out of there and go, she goes,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 5: that was incredible, and I go, that was incredible.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 3: I forgot.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 2: You know, Shuram was a jack chef.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: He was like, why are we going to this dude,
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: fucking musical musical?
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: We were named off we were naming off movies over there.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: I totally forgot. I'm so glad you brought this up. Uh,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 3: you were naming movies too, Derek. Weren't you over there? Yes,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 3: I couldn't remember it if you, but we're all.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: Is probably over there.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: That is where my desk is.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 3: He I do, sit right next to you, Sherman. But
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 3: we were naming off all these movies. It's like La confidential. Uh,
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 3: just like all these like dude films. And then Chef's like, hey,
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. It's same story he just told
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: and I'm behind my computer started laughing so hard. But
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 3: I was like, Wicked was good.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 8: I gotta give it. I gotta give the nod.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 5: We were talking about how like maybe it was Crazy
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 5: Rich Asians, which is another one that like date in
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 5: their right mind, you're going to theater. You're not thinking,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 5: let's go watch Crazy Rich Asians, but then you go
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 5: watching You're fuck incredible, incredible.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 3: But I still need to get on that too. You
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: have to get on this weekend would be perfect? Yeah,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: that was it would it.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: Wouldn't be It wouldn't be perfect. Has Jill seen it?
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 3: Well, I feel like Jill probably has seen it. If
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: I confirm with Jill and she's like, I have seen it.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: I love it, and I'm great thing for you to
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: do during a nap time this weekend. Okay, legitimately perfect.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: I really want that.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: She'll she'll be She'll love that movie. She'll be obsessed
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: with it.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 3: And we need a good movie night. We've been looking
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: for a good show and slash good movie. The other
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 3: thing I gonna bring, oh bonus krackical one for me.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: Jill is really embracing Spooktober with our daughter, and it's
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 3: kind of sick to see like she has. It's not
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 3: a webinga, but it's kind of like a webbingu, but
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 3: instead of a passy attached to it, it's a blanky
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 3: attached to it. I don't know the name of it. Yeah,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 3: but Jill got one with a ghost ye little ghosty.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: And then she dressed up Scarlett for October first, for
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: the kickoff of Spooktober, and she had what they are
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 3: now calling a boo basket. So it's like an Easter basket,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 3: but for little babies on Halloween, you get them their
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 3: little boo basket.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: Bro, there's nothing that gets the parents because you know,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: you get in this lull of Halloween right like you
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: grow up loving Halloween. Did you get to do the costume? Yeah,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: you dress up. You have a stint in college and
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: stuff where you're younger where you enjoy Halloween because the
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: party scene and everything else.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: The women.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: Then you get like, you know, like the young adulthood
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: where it's like a Halloween, like it's another holiday. But
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: then you have kids, brom and holiday or Halloween juices
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: you out because you get to get them in these
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: cute outfits. You're embracing the theme of the month because
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: or Halloween's right around the corner.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: Some great shows and movies out there too. By the way,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: since we're on, since we're talking about please Halloween, and
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: I will say are my survival kit this week is
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: just Spootober merch and one get the Four the Dads
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• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: I love that true Poetobra Merch.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 3: I do love that shirt.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: BWTV dot com.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: We do have a lot of other like if you're
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: a fan of Busting with the Boys, or you don't
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: have kids and you're looking for Spootober merch or things
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: to kind of uh to embrace Spootober with us. We
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: do have a lot of cool Spooktober merch on the
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: site bwtv dot com. Surem's holding it up right now.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: You've got Spootober. You got nothing, just chilling killing. We
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: have another cool uh Spootober shirt on there, but you
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: can go there and get that. That could be that's
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: a survival kit. But since we're on the theme of Spootober,
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: I do have a list. I have a list because again,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: a rule of Spootober is embracing the spook once a
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: weekend by going to something in uh being being festive,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: say a pumpkin patch, a hay ride, whether it's.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: What I'm drawing a blink right now, like.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: A Jill and I went to a wildflower picking farm
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 3: that had like pumpkins and stuff.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 2: Get outside, get.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Around some pumpkins, get around the theme of spoopt Obra,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: haunted house, whatever it is. You're doing something to embrace
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: the spook outside for sure. Another rule is watching a
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: Halloween themed show or movie per day. And you can
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: either have it on and it can be quick hitters,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: it can be you have it on for ten minutes.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: Whatever it is.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: You're just you're you're bringing the spook alive. Yeah yeah, uh.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: And when you have kids, you got to get creative,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: because not everything can be horror movie number one of
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: my wife She's got you know, if things get too stressful,
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: like we can't do it over No, I personally can't
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: do it over and overall. I call the scary, gory, ghosts,
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: paranormal activity.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: Stuff every day.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've enjoyed getting to relive some nostalgic things
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: that grew up on because now we have kids and
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: now it's like, okay, if I'm gonna embrace the spook,
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  Speaker 1: I want to have find some movies and some shows
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: that rou can swap out our TV coupon for.
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  Speaker 2: But I have a list of your movies.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 3: Hocus Pocus, hocus Pocus one and two, one in two, Casper.
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  Speaker 1: Casper is so good, Casper bro one of my That
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  Speaker 1: was a Yeah, that was one of my first I
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: was back in nineteen ninety five. Your boy was six
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: six seven years old. Your boy was two friendly ghost,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: heartwarming story. Check out Casper. They do have some TV
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  Speaker 1: show with it two like on Disney they do.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: First Crush was the Girl.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: There you Go, Adam's Family Hotel, Transylvania. All four movies
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  Speaker 1: come on Mons Transylvania Two Monsters reimagine for kids, funny
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  Speaker 1: and lighthearted monster House, franken Weenie. Yeah, this is Tim
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  Speaker 1: Burton's take on Frankenstein with a boy and his dog,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: The Nightmare before Christmas. It's Halloween Christmas crossover classics. So good.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: Goose Bumps.
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  Speaker 1: This this isn't This isn't a roue age, This isn't
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: three year olds. But if I'm thinking your parents out
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: there that have some some older kids, maybe in that
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: what seven range seven and up? Goosebumps, Buddy, Goosebumps was
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: the one where the mask gets stuck on the face.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: That haunted me for a very long time.
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  Speaker 3: Oh dude, I hated because I loved how scary they were.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: I hated those movies.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so scary, yeah, spooky. The Square Pumpkin perfect for
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: the little ones.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'll even this is.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: Good for the audience to figure out finding ways to
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  Speaker 1: kind of embrace it.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, square pumps, Spookley's that's older, right.
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  Speaker 2: Two thousand and five.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that's right when I was growing up.
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  Speaker 1: I love that too, because we're talking five and I'm
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: just pulling Casper from nineteen ninety five.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: You are a classic throwbacks.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: Adams Family nineteen ninety one, hocus Pocus nineteen ninety.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: Three, but Monsters Inc.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: And Monsters University, Coco more of a Day of the
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: Dead than Halloween.
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  Speaker 2: But a great family watch.
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  Speaker 3: It's a good one.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: It's The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown nineteen sixty six, nineteen
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  Speaker 1: sixty six.
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  Speaker 8: Chef seen that one too, Who hasn't.
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  Speaker 2: That's one.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: That's where if you're in school, you're getting the old
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: TV rolled in and you're watching some Charlie Brown, The
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: Great Pumpkin. Some TV shows and specials out there. I'll
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  Speaker 1: rattle through these. Scooby Doo, Where are you Scooby Doo
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  Speaker 1: in The Witch's Ghost?
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: Are you afraid of the Dark? That's some nineties Nickelodeon
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: spooky but not too scary.
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  Speaker 3: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: Goosebumps does have a series outside of outside of the movie.
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  Speaker 1: So you got the nineteen ninety series, and you also
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: have a twenty twenty three Disney Plus series for Goosebumps,
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  Speaker 1: The Simpsons, tree House of Horror episodes. That's family friendly
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: if the kids are older. Yeah, yeah, Wizards of Waverley Place,
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  Speaker 1: that's Disney Channel, Magical Halloween episodes, Girl Verus Monster a
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  Speaker 1: Disney Channel original.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: Come on Halloween Town, Halloween, Come on.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 3: A lot of Disney Channel originals on Disney Plus. Jill
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  Speaker 3: and I were rocking those last year.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, same bro. I got roue on Halloween Town
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: last year when she was two. Halloween Town is that's
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: that's a fun one.
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 3: The Phantom at the Multiplex or whatever it's called.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, those cheesy, cheesy horror movies, and they're so good.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: The Phantom and the skeleton would kind of spook a
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: little bit and you kind of talk her off the ledge.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: They're they're good, They're you know, it's going to turn around.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: It's going to turn around. The Worst Witch, Curious Georgia, Halloween, Boofest,
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: Mickey Mouse's of Villains, and Mickey mouse Mickey's Monster Musical.
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  Speaker 2: Those are good.
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: Those are Disney Junior Room on the Broom, a twenty
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: twenty animated short, very sweet for younger kids. But those
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: are some movies and shows for various a just to
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: embrace Ootober.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 3: Those are some great recommendations I would also throw out
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 3: for the older kid crowd. Goonies. It's not a true
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 3: Halloween movie, but it does take place in the fall.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 3: There are skeletons in it. It's just a great adventure flick,
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 3: great adventure flick.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 9: I would be remiss and everybody in my life would
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 9: come me fraud if I didn't bring up QB Halloween
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 9: Adam Sandler.
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  Speaker 3: It's on Netflix.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 9: I have watched that movie probably over a thousand times
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 9: on watch every day in October so far already this month.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: Yes, my favorite movie. You were watching it. It was
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 3: on your story.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 9: I always tag the same group of guys from my
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 9: like like our old days, just and they get so
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 9: angry about it. I watch it probably once a month
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 9: throughout the year. I think it's it's such a stupid movie.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 3: It's my favorite movie. I did enjoy Hubie. I did
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 3: enjoy Hube Halloween.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 9: It's so hard to make a Halloween movie that hits
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 9: like Halloween Town and hocus Pocus, Like it's a hard
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 9: holiday to get into without it being hory, gory or
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 9: kind of campy.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 3: And I thought it did well. It did do well
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 3: and it and it did have a lot of callback.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 3: If you're a big Adam Sandler fan, there are of
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 3: all of his movies that one has like the most
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 3: callbacks that I thought were actually done well. And we're
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 3: like tasteful with like the sheet in the front yard,
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 3: like Callback the water Boy. Yeah yeah, I like hub Halloween.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 3: The The other one, dude, I have to bring up
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 3: with Casper is that priest that shows up when they're
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 3: doing the Exorcism of the House and he's got like
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 3: the flat brim hat and he's got the sick. They're like, wait,
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 3: you're a priest. He's like, yeah, I'm a priest, I said.
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 3: They're like, you think you can do this. He's like,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 3: it'll be cake, It'll be crumb cake. I got it.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 3: And then he just comes back with his head completely Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 3: oh my god, dude, Casper is such a good.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: Meeting, good one. That's a good throwback. That's that's right.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: There's a rollodex, a lot of family a lot of
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: family friendly shows and movies. Add them to the survival kit.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: Embracing October, Embracing Speotober. I can't wait to get dialed
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: in on a movie.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 3: Honestly, tonight, I wish I had a list more like
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 3: down the avenue of this weekend. The crack of cold
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 3: one was just basically me being able to talk my
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 3: wife into no babysitters, no night nurses.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: I got this.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 3: That is my crack of cool one. It's just Jill
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: trusting me and being like, hey, you got this, and bonus,
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 3: this is breaking because it happened this morning when Hillary
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 3: showed up. Because Hillary is my best friend from high
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 3: school's wife, Like she is just as much Jill's friend
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 3: as she is my friend, if that makes sense, whereas Brian,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 3: her husband, would very much be like closer to me. Yeah, however,
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 3: Hillary shows up, I'm kind of giving her the rundown
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 3: of the house. And then I think to myself, Jill's
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 3: probably already calder and like gave her a full rundown,
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 3: like I need to chill out, and I go I'm
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 3: sure Jill's already called you and blah blah, and she goes, no,
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 3: she didn't call me.
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: And I was like like, that's dumb.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 3: That's a dumb I was like, dude, that's cool. That
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 3: means like Jill was pending that responsibility in my court
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 3: to be like sherman can prep pillary, he's got it.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 3: I was like, hey, you can leave some zipaw bags
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: with clothes in it, but like the fact you didn't
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 3: game prep pillary before she came over cheers, do you thank.
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 2: You, dude.
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: Wife didn't wife didn't call the friend.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 2: Before she came over to the house.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 3: It was kind of sick.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dad hacks, Dad hacks.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 3: Oh, I do have a what are the odds?
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: Tyler Schiller wrote in the water the odds shout out
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 3: fanduled this week is we were talking about writing in journals.
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 3: Tyler has been writing in a journal to his daughter.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 3: I just wanted to read a little bit about that
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 3: Tyler Schiller here out of that rougely you know, and
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 3: he literally wrote, I said go tigers to be funny.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: He actually wrote go tigers, abu.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: I'm impressed he understands how to write down there in
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: baton rouge lady, and.
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: Well he spelled at geaux, which they say is the
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 3: correct tigers go dogger. Great pod this week had to
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 3: do the email because I don't have Instagram or Twitter.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 3: I'm a proud member of PT Sichos with the thirteen
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 3: month old boy. He's been the best thing that's ever
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 3: happened to me and my wife in a mentor of mine,
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 3: gave me some good advice when he was born. Y'all
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 3: touched up on it this episode, so figured i'd share.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 3: He said, keep a journal and write to him whenever
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 3: something you want to remember for him happens. I address
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 3: each journal entry to Shepherd, our son's name with the date.
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 3: I'll tell him about the day, or what he did
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 3: that was hilarious, or something we are proud of, and
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 3: just write till I feel like stopping. For example, the
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 3: most recent one was him stealing all the cookies during
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 3: naptime at daycare while everybody else was sleeping, and eating
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 3: every single one. That earned him the nickname cookie Monster.
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 3: Memories like that is what I write about. Adaptive to
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 3: make it easier to remember to write it in is
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 3: to keep the journal right next to your bed, on
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 3: your night's sand It's as much for us as it
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 3: is for him to look back on when he's older. Anyway,
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 3: feel free to share this or not up to y'all.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 3: We just did. Just wanted to pass it along that
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 3: it is something I've really enjoyed doing, and I recommend
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 3: it to any of my friends who are expecting God
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 3: bless looking forward to the next pod. Take the trash
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 3: out send by my iPhone.
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 2: Love that that is awesome. What's the what are the odds?
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 3: What are the odds is he was doing it before
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 3: we even brought it up on the show. That's crazy.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 3: What are the odds of that?
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what are the odds of that? I don't know
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 2: what those odds are. Shut Out, shut outvandul. Come on,
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 2: let's do fifty.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 3: Plus do fifty.
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: Survival kid, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well my SUPERVIOV kid was
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: Pootober Mergers.
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 3: That's right, all the shows and movies. I have a
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 3: good survival kid. A playpin. We have a playpin for
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 3: Scarlet now in the living room, and it's like fully
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 3: fenced off. Jill, I believe bought it at Target. This
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 3: is not like some crazy brand. It's affordable. It's pretty big,
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 3: I would say, like the size of like an area rug.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 3: In Scarlet, she loved playing in her nursery. But in
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 3: that playpin, dude, I don't know what it is, but
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 3: it's like she knows that that's like her little world.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 3: And we have like different play mats like laid out
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 3: in there. We have like a little tint playing that.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 3: We got her little unicorns and butterflies hanging from stuff,
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 3: and I set her down. This morning, I was in
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 3: the kitchen making breakfast, moving operating, cleaning, bottles making bottles.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 3: I did not have to touch her a single time
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 3: for like thirty minutes. She just that in there and
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 3: was like, ah, it was awesome.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 3: Highly advised, highly advised.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: I want to get a playpin. Wife won't let me
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 2: get one.
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: Oh really, just because there's a lot of stuff in
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: the house and she just you know, y'all's living love.
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: I grew up on the road, grass bro, they had
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: the playpin.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 3: Yes, dude, y'all's living room is very similar to ours. Yeah,
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 3: we had like we don't have the coffee table in
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 3: there anymore. We had to move all of our furniture out,
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 3: like it. It has taken over our living room right
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 3: right to Toro's point, Like, I get that because.
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: That's why I got a barricade ship up dude.
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you could get one up in the upstairs.
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we got that, like uh my
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: brother God bless him, love the gift. Rude loved it.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: But the little ball pit, but the balls get everywhere.
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: So we we got enough stuff up there. Yea.
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: So it's like we got those those cushions.
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: It's like they're like cushions, but you can like build
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: forts and stuff with these cushions.
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 3: Those are the ones that Reve's always jumping on, right.
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's small.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 1: When she's small enough, she thinks it's a slide or
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: supposed to be putting the slide for him. But yeah,
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: she's like jumping all around on it. We got the
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: bean bag up there. We got a lot of like
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: the Monassory toys, and she's got like the work bench,
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 1: like she's got a lot of stuff up there. Yeah,
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 1: like she's got the thing that we bought. It's like
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: a it's like a tent set, but you can build
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 1: it into a lot of different things. Like you can
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: build into like a puppet show. You can build it
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: into like a restaurant. You can build it into just
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 1: like a tent, like a long little tent thing. Sounds sick. Yeah,
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: it's fun and we you know, we have we have
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: enough stuff to war. When you're up in that bonus room,
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 1: you know, I can just like slide the door shut,
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 1: and that's like the play area.
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 3: It's the main cave until Waffle comes out. I don't
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 3: know how Waffle slides that door open.
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 2: She does. We're actual He's banging on it until it
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 2: opens it up.
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: Bulldog it's like we don't have it locked in where
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: it's on the bottom, like that part broke, so it's
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: like one of those slide doors, but it can like
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: come out, you know what I mean and waffle just
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 1: like run her head on it until they're like wiggles
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: to where she can get a little snout and like
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: move it to get in there.
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 3: This is my first time hanging out at Will's house.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 3: I just see the door in the crowd just as
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 3: he's like talking to me and I'm trying to like
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 3: keep my I'm like, dude, there's a ghost up here.
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 3: It's your doors just going ewing.
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 2: That's a good. That's a good.
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 1: That's a good tip like building on that survival kit
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 1: for like what you know for young parents or if
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: you're expecting. The reason I like love I love that
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: idea is because routine is so crucial for kids and
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: then like getting understanding what they're gonna be getting into
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: like each different time of the day. Uh So that
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 1: play area, that little playpin area is like she knows
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 1: it's playtime when you're keeping them on routine where you
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 1: feed them, you burp them, if you're gonna give them
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 1: either tummy time, or playtime. They know putting them in
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: the pin or putting them in their area of play.
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: They know it's playtime. Or like when you're going for
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 1: the nighttime routine and you know, you close the curtains,
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: you put the little sound machine on, or if it's
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: a little night light, whatever it is. You're getting them
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: their PJS on first, Like for us, it's getting their
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: pjs off, or you change them, get their pjs on first.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: You got the little you got the little noise playing
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 1: like you're getting them ready for bedtime. They know they're
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: locking in okay, this is the part of the day
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: where they're, you know, expected training me to sleep through
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 1: the night. You're getting them prep for bedtime. Same with
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: nap time. You're getting them in the mode of whatever
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 1: the routine is or the habits are around that time.
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 1: Same with again your survival kit, the playpin area. Their
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 1: brain is getting prepped for. It is playtime. This is
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: where I go. They set me down, They play with
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 1: me dad, Her mama's doing stuff like I have enough
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: things to occupy me.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: It's time to play.
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 3: Yes, Her eyes start moving as soon as her back
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 3: touches that play matt. Her her eyes are moving she's
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 3: smiling because she's like, Oh, this is when y'all roll
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 3: me around and do the calls it the rotisserie chicken
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 3: where you push your legs in and we kind of
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 3: move her side to side and we make our hands
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 3: and her feet touch on you know, the sides.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: You get the little I forget what it's called, but
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 1: the like the player where it's like it's almost like
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: it's like a matt and it's got the things hanging
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: up top of it and they're just on and kind
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 1: of looking and.
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 8: And it rips.
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she loves the one that we got from Kiwi Ko.
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it ribs.
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 3: She got her daddy's bows too. When I'm doing those
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 3: little rotisserie chicken, she.
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: Got her daddy's bout daddy's boughs. Got his daddy's boughs
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: because you'd be walking. You've got the bag of Chick
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 1: fil a in different fast food.
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 3: She got her daddy Like all the time when we're
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 3: doing this, I have a I have a fun dad hack.
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 2: What's your dad? Fun dad hack?
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 1: For parents that struggle getting their kids to eat, uh,
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 1: using fun at dinner time because I'll get at the
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 1: age where it's always a negotiation, always a battle to
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: get her eating food because we'll always finish first, and
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: you're kind of sitting there, real, please, for the love
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 1: of God, eat your chicken, eat your broccol eat this,
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: eat that's he's just a minute. Anything you put in
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: front of her, she's letting you know. She's putting it down.
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: She like sure, but a fun thing I came across,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: like last night as I'm sitting there, We're trying to
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: get Root eat her food because it was kind of
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 1: like a like a coconut chicken that we had had
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 1: and she didn't want to eat it. And I start
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 1: bothering her, like, you know, rue can't eat your food.
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: She know I don't want to eat my food.
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: And then I get to where I'm tickling her, but
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: she's not in the mood to have fun and play.
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 1: She's like stop, stop, and she's like putting her hand
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: pushing me away. In the minute, she like put her
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: hand up to keep me away from going at her
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: to where it's like, oh, here comes the tickle monster
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: if you don't eat your food, and she's getting to
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: w her She's not into that anymore. Where it's like
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: that's not gonna get me to eat my food, like, oh,
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: tickle monster's gonna get you. Better eat you food for
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: the tickle monster gets you. She would when she's younger,
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: she would eat before the tickle monster would get her.
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: That was one fun way of using dinner time to
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 1: get her to eat your food. Now it's turned into
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: like tickle monster come to get you, and she's like
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: she starts getting pissy with me, like, no, Dad, I'm.
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 2: Not gonna eat my food. I don't want to eat
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 2: my food. I'm like, all right.
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 1: So when she put her hand up to stop me
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: from coming and I went into Darth Vader choke, I
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: went into dark bag. She puts her hand up choking.
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, and you know, she kind of like
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 1: her face starts to break. And once she puts her
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: hand on stof, I'm like, oh, you can't be doing that,
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: or you're gonna you're gonna force choke me. And Scottie
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 1: goes over there and starts reaching it because she's like
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: laughing or playing and she just like puts her hands
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: up just to reach randomly. You know. When she does,
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, Roof starts to get a
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: crack of a smile and then she puts her hand
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 1: on my here comes go on.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 2: She puts it up and I'm like until she puts
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 2: it down, I'm like, oh, oh.
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: That got us in the mode of play to where
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: I would grab her hand up back. You can't put
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: your hand up or Dad is gonna choke again, Like, please,
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: just eat it bout of it before you do it again.
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: Just eat it out of your food. You can choke
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: me again. She eat a bout of her food and
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: then it's boom and then I'm like, I'm like, I'm
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: lifting myselful out of the chair and she puts out like,
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: oh all right, we can keep doing this. Dad is
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: starting to get tired because it's really starting to hurt.
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: But we can keep doing this. You just eat a
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: bit of your food. She eats it bity of her food,
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: and it's like, all right, you're onto something. So that's
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 1: a way to make dinner time fun that you eat
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: your food, because as a parent, you'll start getting it
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: appens to us more often than not. But you get
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 1: frustrated and then I'll leverage your cookie, y'all. I've gotten
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: that down to a t.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 3: Hey good.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 2: You don't have to eat your food.
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: You just you know what time it is if you
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: don't eat your food, CPC, CPC, And I'll hit her
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: with that. I'll be like, sweetheart, it's okay, she don't
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 1: have to eat your food. And I'm like, you can
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: go over there and so on the couch, do whatever
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 1: you want. You don't have to teach your food and
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: kind of a cookie. You know, you know you don't
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: get a cookie. You eat your food, you get a cookie. Yeah,
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 1: so it's you, it's your choice. You don't have to eat.
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 1: And that's I mean, that is that works. But the
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: way to have fun, to kind of get your impatience
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: out of it, or to turn it into a fun game,
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: that's a new one I found is getting force choked.
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 3: I cannot wait for here. In like two months, she's
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 3: gonna be at soccer practice. One of those boys is
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 3: got a rough houser bump into her. You're just gonna
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 3: be walked and watching from afar and you're just gonna
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 3: see her go the kids.
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 1: Well, what's funny is at first she thought it was
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: really happening.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like she thought she had the power.
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 1: And then Scotty was you know when she randomly like
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: lifts her arms up like, oh, rouh, Scotty's doing it
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: to you, and Rude just like looks at me and
• 1:36:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, is it not working? She's like no, I'm like,
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 1: you gotta pretend. You have to pretend. And then Ruth
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: started like pretending. H kind of get her sense of
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: humor going a little bit. He come on, boy, to
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: make dinner fun as a dad hack to get your
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 1: kids to eat.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 3: I love that dad hack. You made me do a
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 3: different dad hack than what I had written down. This
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 3: actually happened yesterday when JJ was here, which is Jeremy's son.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: They asked him five or six times if he needed
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 3: to go potty, because he kept on kind of you know,
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 3: putting his legs together, putting his hands down there, showing
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 3: all signs that he did indeed need to body. But
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 3: his answer remained, no, do not need to potty. So
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 3: finally they asked someone last time, hey, do you need
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 3: to potty? And I abruptly interrupted. I said, no, JJ,
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 3: you can't go party. I'm going potty first. You can
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 3: go after me, and he was like no, I cant
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 3: get Oh you better beat me, Yeah, you better beat me. Competition. Yeah,
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 3: they ain't going.
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 1: Because as dads as parents, because dads are more often
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 1: seen as like the fun one. You gotta continue to
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 1: create because you're I'm already feeling that the times were
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 1: rus not into things I used to do, and I'll
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 1: annoy her, and then I see it as a challenge
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm gonna figure you out at some point,
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 1: and yesterday tap it into the forest choke.
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 2: I'm I almost see if this one works.
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: Because I'm not able to break her wall of like
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 1: having fun when I'm like tickle mass or I'm gonna
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: get it, get you or whatever it is.
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 2: Like, all right, she seems to be over that.
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: How can I continue to make this fun?
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 2: Dads have to continue to create? Bro, Yes dude.
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 3: Also reminds me of oh yeah, we are. We are
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 3: running it. We're not out of time, but we are
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 3: cutting it close. We are cutting it close.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, gotta keep it under an hour.
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 3: Gotta keep onder an hour. I'll sho. I'll save the
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 3: story that I was gonna tell for another.
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 2: Sude, you don't want to tell it.
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 3: My mom used to when we were leaving for school.
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 3: We had really bad attitudes in the morning, and so
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 3: to make us excited for school, we weren't allowed to
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 3: drive out of the driveway until she made a shot
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 3: in the driveway basket like basketball hoop. And it was
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 3: really it did make like mornings really fun because she
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 3: would like purposely miss like the first three times. We'd
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 3: be like, Mom, make it, we're gonna be late to school,
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 3: so I'm trying. I'm trying. It's fun. It was. It
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 3: was a good little like you guys, uh huh to.
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 2: Get her going a motivator. You know we're gonna be late.
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we do it.
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 1: Mom, shut up, shut up, Mama, shut up, Mama, sure, shut.
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 3: Out, Miss Amy. This okay. So six on one the Dads.
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 2: Yes, we had the dads one, the Dad's.
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 3: Six on one the Dads. Make sure you call in.
• 1:39:03
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• 1:39:07
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• 1:39:09
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• 1:39:12
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• 1:39:17
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• 1:39:19
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• 1:39:23
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• 1:39:26
  Speaker 3: Us email, And that's where these emails have been coming from.
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 9: Have been coming from that, just to call out to
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 9: for everybody. I got a DM on X from a
• 1:39:33
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• 1:39:36
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• 1:39:37
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• 1:39:39
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• 1:39:41
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• 1:39:43
  Speaker 9: to email. For local but international, Yes, six on one,
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 9: I like that.
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 3: That's a good call. All right, here's our first caller. Uh,
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 3: this one's bleeped out. It looks like it says sleeping motherfucker.
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 7: So what's our boys?
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 1: Will?
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 7: I love the show, Papa Team six remember here. Just
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 7: call it T dubs from from Oregon. I've got a
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 7: motherfuck story for you guys, from the birthing of my daughter.
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 7: Kind of keep it short and sweet. We'd had a
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 7: long delivery process. She was induced at like noon, and
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 7: we didn't sleep the night before. We'd been up all
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 7: night and it was like two in the morning and
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 7: I had just gone down to the vending.
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 3: Machine to get some snacks.
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 7: I came back, had my snacks, and I was on
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 7: the couch where I actually earned my my my couch stripes,
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 7: laying on the couch. I dozed off and I was
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 7: awoken by the nurses telling my wife to remember to
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 7: breathe and push, breathe and push, and I woke up
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 7: like I was getting shot at.
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 2: I woke up.
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 7: I jumped up and I ran over there, and the
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 7: nurses were fucking with me because I had fallen asleep
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 7: on the couch for like an hour. And I, needless
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 7: to say, I was up until like five fifty when
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 7: my daughter was born. I was up the next day
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 7: until by eight o'clock that night. But I love the show, guys.
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 7: I appreciate all the tips. You guys are really hitting
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 7: home on some of these, So just keep up the
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 7: good work and remember to take the trash out.
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, I love that. That is funny.
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 1: That Yeah, that's tough for tea, but totally fair.
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 2: That's awesome, dude.
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 3: Those nurses are hilarious.
• 1:41:42
  Speaker 1: Nurses your wife like, let's fuck with him. Look at
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 1: him over there, snoozing.
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 3: Sleep and motherfucker, he thinks he has it hard.
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 2: That's funny.
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 3: Do we have time for one more? Yeah? Yeah, it's
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 3: hit his se Uh. This is oh solo mission trial run.
• 1:42:04
  Speaker 3: It's applicable for this week.
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 4: Hey boys, it's Stu pop a Team six coming this Friday.
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 4: Just listening to the pod. Yeah, got a dad hack.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 4: So I'm a private in training and I made a mistake.
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 4: I was ready, bags packed, car seat installed, all that.
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 4: Mama's carrying a little extra amnionic fluid, so we monitor
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 4: it multiple times a week.
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 3: Baby is good, So good. Had a scare earlier this.
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 4: Week though, thought it was the time, so we rushed
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 4: to the hospital. To my surprise, parking garage under construction
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 4: and closed.
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 2: It's midnight.
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 4: Oh second, parking garage required you to go across this
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 4: stupid skydeck through a maze of elevators up, one elevator down,
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 4: a all down an elevator. So once across the sky deck,
• 1:43:04
  Speaker 4: certain hallways close.
• 1:43:06
  Speaker 3: At eleven pm.
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 2: Oh good.
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 4: Finally ended up making it to the maternity ward. But
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 4: my dad hack is do a trial run, yes, specifically
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 4: a solo.
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 10: Mission if you want to look like a true hero,
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 10: so you don't deal with amazing issues before the big moment.
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 10: He's no idea that this hospital is under construction.
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 4: But don't want any dads to have to go through
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 4: what I went through. But everything is good.
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 2: Love y'all, Love the pod. What was his name, Stu, Stu,
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 2: shout out Stu for that. That's that's real game.
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 1: If I was, if I had hit buds training and
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 1: I'm becoming a PT sixer, yeah in due time.
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 1: If I were to have heard that Dad hack that
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 1: is one that you are locking that one in the chamber,
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: and I would have been running a.
• 1:44:01
  Speaker 2: Solo Dad mission. I had no clue.
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 1: Yes, I wouldn't even been aware to do something like
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 1: that if not for a phone call like that. So
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 1: any expecting father's dad is PT six game right their
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 1: shoutout Stu.
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 3: Stu just set the bar for privates. By the way,
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 3: he's not even PT six yet. Yeah, Stu's kind of
• 1:44:20
  Speaker 3: locked in.
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 1: He's locked in because he's already given game learning from
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 1: mistakes when he's not even a PT sixer, you know
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 1: what I mean, He's giving his younger self game. Yeah, like, hey,
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 1: this is important enough. I want to share this with
• 1:44:33
  Speaker 1: some some incoming fathers.
• 1:44:35
  Speaker 3: Into Stu's point. Vandy here in Nashville parking Garage is
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 3: also under construction.
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 3: Thankfully Jill works at Vandy and was aware of that,
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 3: and we actually did a trial run as well of
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 3: Jill kind of you know, we drove by there. Hey,
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 3: we're gonna be parking here. Those are the doors we
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 3: walk in. Highly advise it.
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, great games.
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 3: Do great games? Dou lesson topic or quote of the week.
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 2: I have one.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 3: I have one as well. Mine's really shortened quote do
• 1:45:06
  Speaker 3: it Okay. I'm stealing this one directly from my therapist
• 1:45:11
  Speaker 3: because I thought it was an incredible metaphor. He was
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 3: talking about life as a plate at Thanksgiving dinner and
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 3: that you never want your plate at Thanksgiving dinner as
• 1:45:24
  Speaker 3: you're walking to the table to have food falling off
• 1:45:27
  Speaker 3: of it. Or let's say you go to the table
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 3: and you set your plate down and all you have
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 3: is turkey. There's no gravy, there's no mashed potatoes, there's
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 3: no green beans, sweet potato casserole. What's this guy doing?
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 3: Or maybe you just have a little bit on your plate.
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 3: It's like yo, it's Thanksgiving, like eat, like fill your
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 3: plate up. He was talking about that perfect balance of
• 1:45:50
  Speaker 3: all things that you have in your life. So like
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 3: you got your social life, which is like your green beans.
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 3: You got your let's say you're married or have a girlfriend,
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 3: that's your turkey. You got your mashed potatoes with your
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 3: kids and maybe some gravy. You have all these different
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 3: things you have your work life, which is like the
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 3: dinner roll. Yeah, you're gonna have everything on your plate,
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 3: but you want to have the right amount and if
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 3: you have too much of something, maybe cut back on
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 3: it a little bit. Just make sure we have everything
• 1:46:17
  Speaker 3: on our plate, but still have a full plate. Thanksgiving
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 3: by God. I just love that metaphor.
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, butter roll enough or get the gravy going enough.
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 2: That's a good one.
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 3: It's a good one. As soon as I heard it,
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 3: I was like, dude, that's so easy just to apply
• 1:46:35
  Speaker 3: to like anything in life. But I just love that
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 3: illustration of it.
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  Speaker 2: So this.
• 1:46:42
  Speaker 1: Lesson topic whatever, This is a philosophy I came across.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 1: Great to stack on top of what you just said
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 1: as far as balance in your life.
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 2: Have you ever heard of the the.
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 1: Anchor before sales philosophy or the anchor in sales?
• 1:46:56
  Speaker 2: No, okay, this is great.
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 3: This was sales as in sailing or selling somebody.
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 2: Sales as in sailing. Say it sailing as aye out.
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 1: So the metaphor of the anchor and sale, this is
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 1: a This is a powerful framework.
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  Speaker 2: So It's like two essential forces.
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 1: Right governing governing your principles, your personal values like keeping
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 1: everything in check, keeping everything.
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 2: Sturdy before you get the sea.
• 1:47:21
  Speaker 1: The anchor symbolizes governing principles, so self evident truth that
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 1: ground us during times of turmoil, while the sale represents
• 1:47:29
  Speaker 1: our personal values or the things we esteemed to be
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 1: of worth, which guide our actions and enable us to
• 1:47:35
  Speaker 1: adapt and grow in the face of change. So if
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 1: I formulate this around family life like for the dads,
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 1: like dads, because there'll be career mixed in there, you
• 1:47:46
  Speaker 1: can formulate this around anything in your life, but as
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 1: far as the for the Dad's brand pop a team
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 1: six family. Think of your life as a ship. The
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 1: sales are the opportunities, the career move, the career moves,
• 1:47:58
  Speaker 1: the yeses that propel you forward. Those are your sales.
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 1: They catch the wind and move you fast. But the
• 1:48:03
  Speaker 1: anchors the things that you've already chosen as your highest priorities,
• 1:48:08
  Speaker 1: like your wife, your kids, your family, your career, the
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 1: things that keep you steady. Without anchoring first, no amount
• 1:48:15
  Speaker 1: of wind will keep you from drifting off course. The
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 1: danger that a lot of us face is that many
• 1:48:21
  Speaker 1: of us raise every sale without checking the anchors. We
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 1: say yes to everything in career, hobbies, and obligations, thinking
• 1:48:29
  Speaker 1: it's all for the family. But if the anchors aren't
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 1: set first, if your wife doesn't feel seen, if your
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 1: kids only get the leftovers of your time, they don't
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 1: feel seen, your family doesn't feel seen, then all that
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 1: progress is just drifting. So the philosophy around this metaphor
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 1: becomes anchor.
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 2: First.
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 1: Schedule family time and wifetime as the non negotiables before
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 1: anything else goes on the calendar sail with intention. Every
• 1:48:55
  Speaker 1: career or outside commitment that you say yes to must
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 1: be weighed against those anchors. Does this opportunity strengthen or
• 1:49:02
  Speaker 1: train or strain what I've already chosen as the most important?
• 1:49:07
  Speaker 1: Live by the subtraction. So true priorities show up more
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 1: in what you say no to than what you say
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 1: yes to. A man who says yes to everything spreads
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 1: himself thin. A man who protects his no has the
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 1: strength to show up fully where it matters. This doesn't
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 1: mean you neglect your ambition or growth.
• 1:49:27
  Speaker 2: It doesn't.
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 1: It just means that your definition of success shifts if
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: the world praises you, but your wife and kids feel unseen.
• 1:49:35
  Speaker 1: You've lost the only scoreboard that matters. And anybody can
• 1:49:41
  Speaker 1: listen to this or think about this in a way.
• 1:49:43
  Speaker 1: If you have it for the Dad's brand, you're somebody
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 1: who's successful or ambitious, all of those things I have
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 1: an interest in, like I guess pushing a philosophy or
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 1: something that interests me that I think is correct. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 1: going back to the only scoreboard that matters. Reference and
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 1: to me, I sit there and think about anybody that
• 1:50:03
  Speaker 1: I latch onto admire in the world of success, hustle, grit, ambitious,
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 1: anything that has touched me indirectly or directly that I've
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 1: admired that I've taken bits and pieces from to apply
• 1:50:16
  Speaker 1: to my life and career and ambition. But everybody, bro
• 1:50:20
  Speaker 1: who gets to the end of their life that reflects
• 1:50:23
  Speaker 1: back on things that they wish they did more of.
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 1: It is across the board family time. Yeah, it is
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 1: across the board. They reflect on that scoreboard of things
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 1: that they sacrificed for this goal that they did achieve.
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 1: And everybody bro that you sit there and read about
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 1: or listen to that is reflecting on their success along
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 1: the way early in life where they're at now. The
• 1:50:50
  Speaker 1: thing that they always that they always talk about that
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 1: is such a common denominator is I wish I would
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 1: have played catch more. I wish I would I wish
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 1: I would not have complained about you know, my kids
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 1: wanting me to do X, Y and Z and I
• 1:51:06
  Speaker 1: kind of said no to him during that time. They
• 1:51:08
  Speaker 1: always talk about those moments, and that's something that I
• 1:51:11
  Speaker 1: very much have latched onto in recent years and something
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 1: that you know, as we've talked about lessons, topics, life
• 1:51:18
  Speaker 1: outside of podcasting, like all those things, I feel like
• 1:51:21
  Speaker 1: it's such a constant thing that I keep on at
• 1:51:24
  Speaker 1: the top of my mind on what to say yes to,
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 1: what to say no to, all of those things. Like again,
• 1:51:29
  Speaker 1: a great example where this weekend was a weekend in
• 1:51:34
  Speaker 1: the calendar when we were about to get in football
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 1: season and we're kind of, you know, juggling what our
• 1:51:39
  Speaker 1: routine is going to look like throughout the week, and
• 1:51:41
  Speaker 1: this weekend had popped up as like an open weekend.
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 1: We've talked about it on four the Dads on like
• 1:51:47
  Speaker 1: looking ahead, whether it's family photos, shooting our shooting, our wives,
• 1:51:50
  Speaker 1: a message, Hey go get a latte, venmoing the money,
• 1:51:54
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, that we've done something that we wanted
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 1: to do. Is like, hey, where is a weekend to
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 1: where we can get away, whether it's for you know,
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 1: we're only doing it for what like not even twenty
• 1:52:05
  Speaker 1: four hours, Yeah, about eighteen hours to where it's like, hey,
• 1:52:08
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have mom and dad time because we feel
• 1:52:10
  Speaker 1: like two ships passing in the night a lot of times.
• 1:52:13
  Speaker 1: So how can we circle this weekend as like, all right,
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 1: we're going to build around this weekend. Anything that comes
• 1:52:18
  Speaker 1: up that could happen this weekend we're going to say
• 1:52:20
  Speaker 1: no to because we're going to spend time with each other.
• 1:52:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:52:22
  Speaker 1: So I came across this, this metaphor in philosophy, like
• 1:52:28
  Speaker 1: as I was doing some you know, scrolling around on
• 1:52:31
  Speaker 1: the Internet and everything else, this the anchor and sale
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 1: caught my eye, and then I broke it down to
• 1:52:36
  Speaker 1: like how can this apply family wise? Cause again you
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 1: can use this anchor and sale philosophy for everything.
• 1:52:42
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 1: It's like, if you want to go accomplish anything in life,
• 1:52:46
  Speaker 1: you want to first start at like who am I?
• 1:52:48
  Speaker 2: What am I?
• 1:52:49
  Speaker 1: What do I want to value? What am I going
• 1:52:51
  Speaker 1: to a prioritize? Like who do I want to become
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 1: those essentially are your anchors. So that way, when you
• 1:52:57
  Speaker 1: do set sail everywhere, you're able to weigh it down
• 1:52:59
  Speaker 1: and start first where your anchors are. So I thought
• 1:53:01
  Speaker 1: this anchor and sale philosophy was fucking all time, and
• 1:53:04
  Speaker 1: I was fired up to share when it comes to family,
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 1: the family stuff, because again it's somebody who is very ambitious,
• 1:53:11
  Speaker 1: who very much wants to achieve and accomplish, and somebody
• 1:53:15
  Speaker 1: who also very much wants to I don't want to
• 1:53:18
  Speaker 1: just say, you know the cliche of football, like growing
• 1:53:22
  Speaker 1: up with football is like faith family football. It's like, okay,
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 1: family and faith and all this stuff is in there.
• 1:53:27
  Speaker 1: But really I'm always dialed in your boys, always dialed
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 1: into football. That's what I'm saying, Yes to everything football,
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 1: and not really I'm telling myself that all of this
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 1: is for family. All my ambition and everything that I'm
• 1:53:39
  Speaker 1: doing is for my kids, my wife, Like I go
• 1:53:42
  Speaker 1: and do all this and so we can have this
• 1:53:44
  Speaker 1: life everything else. But if you're truly going to be
• 1:53:47
  Speaker 1: intentional and prioritize, it's how do you spend time to
• 1:53:50
  Speaker 1: actually look at how family and kids and your wife
• 1:53:53
  Speaker 1: are a true anchor in your life, so that way
• 1:53:55
  Speaker 1: you do, you are protecting your nose when those do
• 1:54:00
  Speaker 1: come up. So I was obsessed with this philosophy. I
• 1:54:03
  Speaker 1: couldn't wait to share it.
• 1:54:05
  Speaker 3: I love everything that you just said, and you pretty
• 1:54:08
  Speaker 3: much just described like what I told my therapist my
• 1:54:13
  Speaker 3: very first time I met with him, this new one
• 1:54:15
  Speaker 3: here in Nashville. Of my goal yea, of like I
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 3: am meeting with you once every two weeks because I
• 1:54:24
  Speaker 3: want to I want the main thing to remain the
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 3: main thing, and I want to have this balance in
• 1:54:30
  Speaker 3: my life. I know that nobody has the perfect life,
• 1:54:33
  Speaker 3: but I want that accountability coach, somebody that I'm able
• 1:54:38
  Speaker 3: to like run these things by. And I love that philosophy.
• 1:54:43
  Speaker 3: Love that philosophy because my dad would be right there
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 3: with you with saying, you know, his biggest regret not
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 3: doing more family time. And I say that because he'd
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 3: be willing to share it, and I can see it
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 3: in the way that he interacts with Scarlett. He's just like,
• 1:55:00
  Speaker 3: oh man, uh so, yeah, dude. That gets me fired up.
• 1:55:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, because because you're right, there's no you can
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 1: talk about balance, but there's no such thing. It's balance,
• 1:55:13
  Speaker 1: is all right? How can you compartmentalize your mind to hey,
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 1: what is fucking.
• 1:55:18
  Speaker 2: Important to you?
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you dial in on each of those anchors,
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 1: each of those principles, each of those values, and how
• 1:55:25
  Speaker 1: do you get so clear to where you know what
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 1: you're going to reach out to go for on your
• 1:55:32
  Speaker 1: next move, or you know what to say no to. Yeah,
• 1:55:35
  Speaker 1: it's god, it's so crucial. That's that's truly, like it's
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 1: a constant conversation in my head.
• 1:55:41
  Speaker 3: And a good illustration of that to add on to
• 1:55:44
  Speaker 3: that picture. I was just having this conversation about like,
• 1:55:48
  Speaker 3: what what is it like being a dad chairman? What's
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 3: the question that was asked to me? And life really
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 3: is like a plate being balanced on a stick, where
• 1:55:57
  Speaker 3: like you're never going to achieve that perfect balance where
• 1:56:00
  Speaker 3: the plate stops completely and it's flat and everything's good.
• 1:56:05
  Speaker 3: There's always this just got at it. Now Scarlet can
• 1:56:08
  Speaker 3: walk and talk deal with that. Now she can reach
• 1:56:11
  Speaker 3: up and open doors, and we got to tell her
• 1:56:13
  Speaker 3: to stay out of certain rooms. My best friend just
• 1:56:16
  Speaker 3: did something that you know, betrayed our friendship. My boss
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 3: at work is a psychopath. Like I'm just making up examples,
• 1:56:25
  Speaker 3: but like the plate is always it's just like, how
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 3: are you going to react to those things to achieve
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 3: some semblance of balance, some semblance of like an even
• 1:56:37
  Speaker 3: keel to keep it on sailing.
• 1:56:39
  Speaker 1: Turn amen, bro, And to me, it's about you take
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 1: all the accountability and control that you are going to
• 1:56:45
  Speaker 1: find the balance of that plate. Yes, it's not the
• 1:56:48
  Speaker 1: external things that are happening, because that's that's constant. Happiness
• 1:56:51
  Speaker 1: is so fucking fleeting, bro, it's so fleeting. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:56:54
  Speaker 1: you're looking for things to make you happy, like it's
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 1: it's dude, it's you, Yeah, it's us, it's myself, it's disciplines,
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 1: it's things that are fucking hard. But in those moments
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 1: when you do find that balance, it's like how do
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 1: you again, taste it for a moment, but know that
• 1:57:09
  Speaker 1: that unbalanced, that something's gonna happen.
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 2: It's truly, it's all about It's all about how you
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 2: react to it.
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 3: And don't you don't have to be like this isn't
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 3: like a you got to be proactive, not reactive, like
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 3: you got to be perfect. You gotta have it absolutely. Yeah,
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 3: it's just like just be aware that things are always
• 1:57:25
  Speaker 3: going to be changing, and that your actions and reactions
• 1:57:30
  Speaker 3: are gonna tell the people in your life how important
• 1:57:33
  Speaker 3: they are to you, or the things in your life
• 1:57:35
  Speaker 3: how important they are to you.
• 1:57:36
  Speaker 1: Right in reconnecting, Yes, just constantly recredit reconnecting, because again,
• 1:57:41
  Speaker 1: where we all get off the rails, we constantly get
• 1:57:43
  Speaker 1: off the rails.
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 2: How do you get back to center? Yeah? It fires
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 2: me up, dude.
• 1:57:49
  Speaker 3: I love that philosophy.
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 1: Who was that a quote or so the art the
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 1: article I read, I'll have to find the article, but
• 1:57:55
  Speaker 1: it was talking about the anchor. It was talking about
• 1:57:57
  Speaker 1: like the anchor and the sale, and it was kind
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 1: of talking more like career based. And then I came
• 1:58:02
  Speaker 1: across one with like, you know, I'm looking in like, uh,
• 1:58:05
  Speaker 1: like the power of no. I always love the power
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 1: of no stuff. Ryan Holiday talks about that with like
• 1:58:10
  Speaker 1: family and everything else. So it was like a combination
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 1: of things that I'm like, you know, I was trying
• 1:58:14
  Speaker 1: to because it truly is a constant conversation in my
• 1:58:17
  Speaker 1: head to where I'll like struggle with it every time
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like tapping in, I'm like, all right, things feel
• 1:58:22
  Speaker 1: a little overwhelming right now. How can I lock how
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 1: can I you know, what's this bucket with my wife,
• 1:58:28
  Speaker 1: look like, what's this bucket?
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 2: With my kids? Look like?
• 1:58:30
  Speaker 1: Am I satisfied? Am I happy with what I'm doing
• 1:58:33
  Speaker 1: as much as I'm doing like with my kids? So
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 1: I need to be a little more intentional. Do I
• 1:58:36
  Speaker 1: need to take an hour or two? And it's just
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 1: me and Rue. We get out of the house and
• 1:58:39
  Speaker 1: go do somewhether it's a trip to target. You and
• 1:58:42
  Speaker 1: Charles going to the library yesterday with Rue and she's like,
• 1:58:45
  Speaker 1: do you mind if I pick room for school.
• 1:58:46
  Speaker 2: And we go to the library. Yeah, oh oh yeah,
• 1:58:49
  Speaker 2: Charles All Public Library. Yeah.
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 1: The library's got a lot of cool stuff for kiddos too,
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 1: like as far as like advance or story time, yeah,
• 1:58:56
  Speaker 1: things like that.
• 1:58:58
  Speaker 2: And she like, do you mind, you know, rocking with Scotty?
• 1:59:00
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, dude, absolutely, Like Scotty's a piece
• 1:59:03
  Speaker 1: of cake, especially if you're one on one with her,
• 1:59:05
  Speaker 1: Like she's a little ten eleven month old, She's just
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 1: a lot of fun. But I'm sitting there playing with Scotty.
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 1: It's like this is one on one time I'm getting
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 1: with Scotti. Yeah, because a lot of times it'll be
• 1:59:12
  Speaker 1: two on two, got the whole family together.
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 2: You can tell when we're.
• 1:59:15
  Speaker 1: All ready to pull each other's hair out at times,
• 1:59:17
  Speaker 1: and it's like it's just re checking in, like, Okay,
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 1: what is because I know I do a lot of
• 1:59:22
  Speaker 1: We do a lot of stuff here at the shop,
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff at work. I'm constantly thinking about
• 1:59:25
  Speaker 1: busting with the boys and career and everything else. But
• 1:59:28
  Speaker 1: it's it's one of those things that where it's a
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 1: constant conversation with myself. Uh. One thing I wanted to ask,
• 1:59:33
  Speaker 1: how uh, how discombobulated do you get your mind when
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 1: somebody just randomly hit you with like what's fatherhood?
• 1:59:40
  Speaker 3: Like I do did? It's a fun question to answer
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: with people that knew me very well when I was
• 1:59:47
  Speaker 3: young because I was a absolute goofball, absolute menace, like
• 1:59:52
  Speaker 3: Sherman Young is a dad? What the fuck? Which I'm
• 1:59:55
  Speaker 3: sure you have friends there are like Will Compton's a dad. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:59:59
  Speaker 3: it loves it like what in the world? And so
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 3: I like answering that question. It is a hard question
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 3: to answer. But like we joked about when we started
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 3: this podcast of like your life is over, bro yea
• 2:00:12
  Speaker 3: life is over? It does feel like that because like
• 2:00:15
  Speaker 3: this morning completely revolved around Scarlet Sterling young. I did
• 2:00:21
  Speaker 3: not matter for the dads didn't matter. It was how
• 2:00:24
  Speaker 3: do we make sure Scarlett is safe for a two
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 3: hour window so that Sherman then can do his job
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 3: because we got to make sure Scarlet's safe. It's just
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 3: like having this thing in your life that is just
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 3: like I FaceTime my mom this morning and the camera
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 3: is on me for three seconds and it was like
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 3: a thirty minute call. She just wanted to look at
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 3: Scarlet and like I was my mom's whole world, and
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 3: now it's like Scarlet's her whole world, and I love it.
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 3: I take no offense, but it really is just kind
• 2:00:55
  Speaker 3: of like a death of self, I guess in a way,
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 3: which you your point as well to like bring it
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 3: back to your philosophy. That's what I'm really trying to
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 3: work on right now, aside from being a good dad,
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 3: good husband. It's like, hey, what are some selfish things
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 3: I can pour into myself that I do enjoy? So
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to like get back to my roots of
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 3: like hunting. I really enjoyed that soccer I grew up
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  Speaker 3: playing that, I played it in high school. Want to
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  Speaker 3: try and find like a men's league or something, so
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just like this constantly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more so asked the question because if that,
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  Speaker 1: if that question were to come at me, I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I would get into a very uh, just talking
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  Speaker 1: mode because it's not just right right, it's not. And
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  Speaker 1: then like I'm driving afterwards, I'm like, man, what is
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  Speaker 1: fatherhood like to me? And it's something like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we had the first the very first episode we did
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  Speaker 1: on being a girl dad and everything else. It's like
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  Speaker 1: things like that you think you think about it, It's like, yeah, dude,
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  Speaker 1: it would be cool to have like a just a
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  Speaker 1: foundational thing that I know I go to because it
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  Speaker 1: feels so to explain until you're in it, you're like
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  Speaker 1: death of self, but just it's like new life in
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  Speaker 1: the best way.
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  Speaker 3: Also new life that yes, it is a death of self. Right,
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  Speaker 3: it's like this new chapter that's being written. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 3: I was so scared.
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  Speaker 2: I was terrified going into it.
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  Speaker 3: I truly was. I was terrified. And now that I'm
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  Speaker 3: in it, Jill's bringing up like let's have another blah blah,
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  Speaker 3: and a part of me is like, oh shit, and
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  Speaker 3: then the other part of me is like, oh dude,
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  Speaker 3: we get to do this again. This is gonna be awesome.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna have to Yeah. So so Charle on the
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  Speaker 3: two note Charo at the end of this month, she's
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  Speaker 3: had a wild hair to want to take Rude of London.
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  Speaker 3: She's taking Rud of London for like four or five days.
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  Speaker 1: What yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so sick. Yeah, she's been
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  Speaker 1: wanting to take Rud of London and do like a
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  Speaker 1: mommy daughter girls trip. It was so funny when Rue
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  Speaker 1: was kind of asking me about it. I was feeding
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  Speaker 1: Rude dinner, Mom was mom was working, Scotty was playing
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  Speaker 1: in the living room, had the barricade up on the
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  Speaker 1: stair stairs, and I'm sitting there getting us some dinner
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  Speaker 1: or roos eating a snackers. Something's going on to where
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting up there. Maybe it was breakfast in the
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  Speaker 1: morning and Charli had left early for work and h
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  Speaker 1: Ruth sitting there and she kind of like asking me
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  Speaker 1: how I feel about She's like that, how you feel
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  Speaker 1: about mama going to the airport? But Mama, Mama and
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  Speaker 1: Rue get on the plane and dead dad Scottie stay home.
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  Speaker 1: And she's like, because you're a boy, so you can't
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  Speaker 1: you can't go now, I can tell she's like actually
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  Speaker 1: trying to feel me out and see how I felt
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  Speaker 1: about it. And I'm like, oh, are you talking about
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  Speaker 1: a little girls trip? And then she's like thinking in
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  Speaker 1: her head, She's like, oh, Scotty would come with us too,
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  Speaker 1: because Scotti's a girl.
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  Speaker 4: Dad.
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  Speaker 2: Dad would stay home, though, how would that be okay?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, of course that would be okay. You
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  Speaker 1: going on a little girls trip. You'd have so much fun.
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  Speaker 2: Would Rue come back? You know?
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  Speaker 1: If that would make me sad if Rue and Mama
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  Speaker 1: and everybody don't come back. She's like, yeah, we will
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  Speaker 1: always come back, because we always tell her, like when
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  Speaker 1: we leave, whether it's for date night or on a
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  Speaker 1: trip or whatever it is, Dad and Mama we always
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  Speaker 1: come back home. We'd always come back. And I'm like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: of course, you'd have so much fun. That would be
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  Speaker 1: be so much fun. I think it's just you and Mama,
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  Speaker 1: she said, with Scotty's a girl too. I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: maybe Scotty's going. I don't know to talk to because
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  Speaker 1: scharl and I talked about it, and I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: just dude, it makes me a little uneasy.
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  Speaker 2: You guys traveling Uh.
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  Speaker 1: Being that far away, I'm thinking, what you know, you
• 2:04:26
  Speaker 1: just think like Liam Neeson quod if something happened. But uh,
• 2:04:31
  Speaker 1: but anyway, she's taking Rue at the end of the
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  Speaker 1: month to London for four five days.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, would that be cool?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I feel like we have we have
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  Speaker 1: the capabilities where I can be flexible and go do
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  Speaker 1: a trip like this.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: I've wanted to do it for so long, and I
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  Speaker 1: feel like you can't do it because you got football
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  Speaker 1: season and everything else. I'm like, dude, go if you
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  Speaker 1: want to go and you feel like that would feel
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  Speaker 1: fill your soul up and going with Rue like that'd
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  Speaker 1: be so many awesome memories and you'd be able to
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  Speaker 1: journal every day about it and have these core memories
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  Speaker 1: with Rue like that'd be so sick and obviously of
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  Speaker 1: rock with Scotti, like but my mindset having too and
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  Speaker 1: knowing I'm staying home with Scotti. It's gonna be funny
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  Speaker 1: when you have your second one and then you're on
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  Speaker 1: a spot to where she's taking scarscar and you're rocking
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  Speaker 1: back with the youngest. Your mindset because Scarlett's three months
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  Speaker 1: old and you're talking about all these things. It's a
• 2:05:20
  Speaker 1: big fox whole moment and scoreboard everything else. But I
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  Speaker 1: think about me rocking Scotty. I'm like, this is gonna
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  Speaker 1: be the easiest. Oh, it's gonna be the easiest session
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  Speaker 1: of my life because Scotty she's just you know, she's
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  Speaker 1: just a little pup. Yeah, somebody told me the eleven
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  Speaker 1: months old, Like, you know she'll be She'll have so
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  Speaker 1: much fun with Ru's gonna be a blast to travel with.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like being one on one with Scotty.
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  Speaker 1: I just think of it in such a way to
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  Speaker 1: where whenever it was one on one with me and
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  Speaker 1: Rue the first time when Rue was young. I'm thinking
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  Speaker 1: of this overwhelming, like all right, I'm gonna handle it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna handle this. I'm gonna do that. And now
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, since we have too, she's taking the oldest one,
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  Speaker 1: I got the youngest one. Like, it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 1: piece of cake with Scotti. But how sick is that
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  Speaker 1: going to? Uh doing a little trip to London.
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  Speaker 3: That's gonna be so yeah, I'm so sorry that I
• 2:06:02
  Speaker 3: checked out there at the end. Jill just texted me,
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  Speaker 3: she said, are you home yet?
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  Speaker 2: Twelfy three. You told her, you said twelfifty.
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  Speaker 3: Five, right, twelve fifty five. So I'm gonna be there.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be there on time.
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  Speaker 1: Did you take photos, selfie photos before you left the house.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, man, come on, man, you know I'm at home.
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  Speaker 3: Shake me out on Hillary. She loved Auntie Hillary. Oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, send that. I'll send her a picture.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, I'm home. Of course I'm home.
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  Speaker 3: I'll send her a picture right now. I'll say, hey,
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  Speaker 3: I took that earlier when we were recording.
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  Speaker 1: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: We love our wives, man, we do. We love our wives. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: good sowed great?
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  Speaker 3: So great, so.
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