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Ep. 47 What is a Manifesting Generator in Human Design? (with special guest Carmen Tuleta) · Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design

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  Erin Gray: You're listening to Generate a Life Well-Lived podcast.
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  Erin Gray: I'm your friend and confidant, erin Gray.
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  Erin Gray: I'm a former certified financial planner, turned human design, financial mentor and guide to entrepreneurs.
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  Erin Gray: I believe our money and our business can only thrive at the level of our emotional wellbeing.
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  Erin Gray: I empower entrepreneurs to feel confident with their money and in their business so that they can have fun now and in the future.
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  Erin Gray: On this podcast, we will explore all things money, business and self-development, including human design.
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  Erin Gray: I hope you enjoy the journey where I share everything that I know and am continuing to learn along the way, as I honor my heart's desires while inspiring and encouraging you to do the same.
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  Erin Gray: Hey, hey, my friends, how are we today?
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  Erin Gray: So, on today's podcast, well, actually, let's just be real, upfront and honest.
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  Erin Gray: We're going to have like five podcasts.
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  Erin Gray: We're going to break it up.
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  Erin Gray: So I've got my good friend, carmen Toledo on the podcast human design extraordinaire and we're going to talk about all things.
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  Erin Gray: We're going to talk about all things.
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  Erin Gray: We're going to break down each type.
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  Erin Gray: Um, and then how?
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  Erin Gray: I believe and I think Carmen agrees with this too like how it the power of the pause.
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  Erin Gray: Like, no matter what type you are, we all need to pause in life and in business.
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  Erin Gray: So first of all, thank you, carmen, for coming on and sharing all your knowledge with us.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Thank you so much for inviting me.
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  Carmen Tuleta: I am so pumped to be here and geek out on human design Like this is like my jam.
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  Erin Gray: I was when I told Carmen.
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  Erin Gray: I was like Carmen, will you just come on and we can just talk about human design, cause it's a lot more fun to talk about it with someone that like knows about it, and then like, well, I think you know way more than I do and I'm like it's just going to be fun to talk about it and like dive in.
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  Erin Gray: And also to those of you that are listening or watching the thing that I want to, because I think a lot of people I've noticed this, carmen, I would love your take on this too A lot of people like learn about human design and then they just want to go down the rabbit hole.
• 1:54
  Erin Gray: And we're trying to keep it very simple, very like foundational, because what I have seen is we learn all of these things and sometimes we don't embody them, and also we can get like go down the rabbit hole and then or we don't do anything, and so I always come back to like strategy type authority profile, right.
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  Erin Gray: So, okay, my friends, we're back with Carmen.
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  Erin Gray: So on last week's podcast, we talked about manifestors.
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  Erin Gray: Now we're going to talk about manifesting generators and we're going to talk about and even if this isn't your type, what I would like to encourage you to do if it fills a line, if it feels good is to listen to it.
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  Erin Gray: Because if you have people in your life that have this type of energy, like I used to be, like oh, I'm a generator, so I'm only going to focus on generators, and then I'm like, wait a second, like I've got my children, you know, my kid, my husband, like so many people in my life.
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  Erin Gray: So like understanding how our energy moves might be helpful, um, if it's aligned, if it feels good for you.
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  Erin Gray: So let's talk about manifesting generators today.
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  Erin Gray: Carmen's back to share all of her wisdom, so let's dive in.
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  Carmen Tuleta: So I'm going to just start with what type is.
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  Carmen Tuleta: We talked a little bit in the last podcast about it and I, just in case someone doesn't listen to the first one type is kind of our foundation.
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  Carmen Tuleta: It is how we energetically move through the world.
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  Carmen Tuleta: It has part of our decision making strategy within it and it is basically our part of our North star.
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  Erin Gray: Yeah, yeah, how we move, how our energy is.
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  Erin Gray: Yeah, honoring that Right.
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  Erin Gray: So talk a little bit about manifesting generators, how they're a little bit of blend of both and how they kind of oscillate back and forth.
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  Erin Gray: Um, my understanding has always been like we're kind of more in the generator.
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  Erin Gray: Um, my brain is like Erin.
• 3:51
  Erin Gray: You should have talked about generators first, cause how are they going to remember?
• 3:54
  Erin Gray: But this is where my brain goes.
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  Erin Gray: Um, but they're a little bit of like generators and then they, they oscillate into being manifestors.
• 4:04
  Carmen Tuleta: So, yeah, so manifesting generators are an offset of a generator, and generators and manifesting generators, who are energy beings, make up the biggest percentage of our population.
• 4:17
  Carmen Tuleta: Um, we live in an energy being world, in an energy being world.
• 4:29
  Carmen Tuleta: So for those of us that don't have all the energy, they kind of amp it up for us, so, which is amazing.
• 4:31
  Carmen Tuleta: So, like Aaron said, manifesting generators are a hybrid, in a sense, of the manifester and the manifesting generator, so they get the best of both worlds.
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  Carmen Tuleta: They get to be able to initiate and they get to have all the energy to do all the things they love.
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  Carmen Tuleta: So their strategy is to visualize, wait to respond, initiate and then inform.
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  Carmen Tuleta: So they get the whole gamut of the two types together.
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  Carmen Tuleta: And, yeah, so whenever they want to enter into something, that's what they got to do.
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  Erin Gray: And the thing I think you know we talked about this on the last podcast because it's important, because people think they hear something, they think, but there's always a pause, right, and so for the manifesting generators, how it shows up is you might have an idea, right, and also you need to kind of pause and be like and there's, there's so much intricacies, I guess is the word you know, like there's so much in your chart, but we're just trying to be very simplistic and like okay, if you're new to human design, you know what is your type and how does this show up.
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  Erin Gray: And but the pausing of like you know responding, and like is this, you know, is this what I want to do?
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  Erin Gray: Because a lot of times we might have an idea right, but it doesn't necessarily mean that ideas for us, and so kind of using it from a responding like outside world issue, you know, like generator wise, and then going and initiating when the time is right.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Right that pause to shows up in the visualization, right Cause you have this and, I think, because manifesting generators are in the generator aura, a lot of times they forget that visualization piece, so they don't pause to see what it's going to look like.
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  Carmen Tuleta: If they do this thing, my daughter's a manifesting generator and she is one that I've actually unintentionally taught her how to visualize and she's really good at looking at what something looks like before she enters into it.
• 6:44
  Carmen Tuleta: So that pause is huge for a manifesting generator.
• 6:49
  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah, and I think whether it's to sorry, whether it's to visualize or to wait for that thing to respond to so that they can initiate.
• 7:01
  Erin Gray: Yeah, I think also too.
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  Erin Gray: Like, no matter what type you are, are you in a rush?
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  Erin Gray: Like asking yourself, like are you in a rush?
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  Erin Gray: Right?
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  Erin Gray: There's one thing, like we talked about in the last episode of like manifestors they just get to go and initiate, right, and that is true.
• 7:17
  Erin Gray: But like, if you are rushing, if you are feeling pressured, like this is all about, like, what I want each of you to to really bring home is like, how does it feel in your body?
• 7:28
  Erin Gray: Right, like we're talking about human design, but really, when I and we want to start something, we want to go do it right, depending on our type, because we think that it's going to bring us a feeling right, and so that's where the rush gets, takes place, versus the slowing down and allowing, like, where's this pressure coming from?
• 7:56
  Erin Gray: Why am I feeling so rushed, asking yourself some questions, and so that's why you know, like the pause, like every single type, all of us need to pause before we just start getting into action.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Right, and from a manifesting generator perspective as well, they move a little bit more swiftly than the rest of the types.
• 8:17
  Carmen Tuleta: So, and that again depends on their configuration there's caveats to everything, but because they're always looking for that shortcut, yeah, I find that they get kind of stuck in that rush and then they don't take that pause.
• 8:39
  Erin Gray: Yeah, my kid is a manifesting generator and she has the channel directly, like 3420.
• 8:45
  Erin Gray: Right, and so I?
• 8:46
  Erin Gray: I did not understand it until we started homeschooling her and she would skip pages and a lot of what manifestors, manifesting generators do, right, is they skip steps and then they go back.
• 8:58
  Erin Gray: Right, and that's their actual process, right, that's how they learn and that's how they do it.
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  Erin Gray: And I saw it and I was just like Holy smokes, she's doing this naturally, right, like I, I'm a generator, so I'm like, take your time, read all of the things you know.
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  Erin Gray: She's like you're slowing me down, mom, and and she's like I'm skipping to the next, like I'm skipping four, four lessons in.
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  Erin Gray: And I'm like, what are you doing?
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  Erin Gray: You haven't done?
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  Erin Gray: You know one, two, three or four, and but that's how she learns.
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  Erin Gray: And then she realizes and she gets into something and she's like, oh, I don't, I don't know that, let me go back and learn.
• 9:31
  Erin Gray: You know steps one, two, three or four or whatever it might be.
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  Erin Gray: And if you have employees like I wish I would have known this with my family's construction business, because it's like I saw, like, looking back now, now I know who the manifesting generators were, right, like this is part of your process, nothing's wrong with you.
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  Erin Gray: You're not doing it wrong.
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  Erin Gray: Like you will skip steps and you will have to go back, and you will need to to go back and you know, learn or figure out or complete or whatever it might be.
• 10:03
  Erin Gray: And so just allowing that and knowing that about yourself from a gift perspective, versus ah, this is something that's wrong with me.
• 10:11
  Erin Gray: Like why don't I do this Like everyone else does?
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  Carmen Tuleta: Well, right, and because of the conditioning of the world around us, because you're only supposed to be doing one thing, you're only you're supposed to do things in steps and methodical, right, because we do live in a generator world.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah, so that can bring up a lot of stuff for a manifesting generator.
• 10:33
  Erin Gray: Yeah, and I see it in my daughter too yeah, so, in terms of, because they are part manifestor, part generator, right, so they do experience the anger and then, from the generator standpoint, they experience the frustration, and then it's the peace, which is the opposite of, you know, of the anger, and then it's like satisfaction, right.
• 10:53
  Erin Gray: So just, and and the thing about our feelings and our emotions are like we're going to experience all of the range of emotions all throughout the day, or whatever, right?
• 11:04
  Erin Gray: And also, if you ask yourself, like is frustration or is anger some of my baseline emotions that I'm feeling on a consistent basis, that might be your key to be like, hey, something might be off, right, like that's that's what I use that for of like, what are you feeling on a consistent basis, so that you know like, are you in alignment or are you not?
• 11:28
  Carmen Tuleta: And with that frustration and anger as well, much like the generator, when you get to a point, when you're working on something, whatever it may be, and you feel that anger and frustration come up, it's kind of like that flag to say is it time to dig a little bit deeper and really do I want to do this thing?
• 11:48
  Carmen Tuleta: Do I want to really dig and learn more about this thing or move forward anymore with this thing, or is it time to pivot?
• 11:56
  Carmen Tuleta: And it's really funny because I have both generators and manifesting generators in my life who have completely changed their lives because they've been in that place and people have have looked at them in a not so great light or judge them for it, because they've made that change, but it lit them up to make that change.
• 12:20
  Carmen Tuleta: So, knowing that, pivot Right, and so really, here we go back to pausing, going slow, like you've got to really check in with yourself.
• 12:36
  Erin Gray: And so, from a from a manifesting generator standpoint, like checking in with your sacral, asking yourself questions, getting connected to your body, because it could just be that it's frustration, right, and you're done with it, or it could actually be like no, I am frustrated, but I really care about this thing.
• 12:55
  Erin Gray: I really want to continue and getting clear, and that only happens when there's pausing, stillness, asking yourself questions, getting connected again, you know.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah, the pause is huge for all of us.
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  Carmen Tuleta: It's all of us.
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  Erin Gray: Yeah, anything else you want to say about manifesting generators?
• 13:13
  Erin Gray: Oh, I could go on and on.
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  Carmen Tuleta: I find that a lot of manifesting generators can lose that connection to their safer response or and you've talked about this in past podcasts about finding your interview, intuition and understanding what that feeling is in your body.
• 13:36
  Carmen Tuleta: And some ways for them to do that is through yes, no questions.
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  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah, and finding someone in your life that can ask you those yes, no questions, without any kind of judgment, so that you can reconnect to that is huge for a manifesting generator.
• 13:54
  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah.
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  Erin Gray: And I would say also too, of like starting small.
• 13:58
  Erin Gray: Like I always tell my husband, it's like I'm getting, I've gotten a lot better, but in the beginning I was like start me off small.
• 14:05
  Erin Gray: And what I mean by that is like, are you sitting down, are your fingernails painted, is the sky blue, is it daylight outside, like stuff that you could be, like you know, and or even body you know, and so really tapping in, and I want to say to the sacral beings, manifesting generators and generators, right, like and for all of us actually, but it's like we have been conditioned to be out of our body, right, like there was a time, multiple times probably, right Like growing up up we knew we sensed something, we felt something, and we didn't have the language to explain it or we just didn't even couldn't right, and we were expected to give reasons, and so we have become detached from use your head yeah, yep, living in our living in our heads, and detached from our bodies.
• 14:54
  Erin Gray: So this takes some effort, it takes time, it takes patience, right, it's okay, it's a skill, um, but just that is some of the.
• 15:03
  Erin Gray: I'm so glad you said that, because I know a lot of manifesting generators that know a lot about human design and I'm like have you asked your sacral?
• 15:10
  Erin Gray: They're like no, didn't even think of it.
• 15:11
  Erin Gray: It's like that is like full stop, right, like that's what we, that's what we start with.
• 15:24
  Carmen Tuleta: And again that comes back to how they're designed to be to just go, to be able to just I have the energy, it's the thing I want to do, and just go.
• 15:27
  Carmen Tuleta: And it comes back to that too.
• 15:29
  Carmen Tuleta: Right, they're there.
• 15:30
  Carmen Tuleta: I'm not sure, and you can answer this question for me a manifesting generator versus a generator, like, is it easier for one or the other to get back into their body?
• 15:42
  Carmen Tuleta: I don't know, I think it depends on the person and all of that.
• 15:44
  Carmen Tuleta: But I do know, from a human design standpoint, that because manifesting generators are a little bit faster, there's a possibility that they don't think about their body as much as someone else might.
• 15:56
  Carmen Tuleta: Another type might, potentially.
• 15:59
  Erin Gray: Yeah, yeah, I think it.
• 16:00
  Erin Gray: I think it all just depends on the person, right, like, in how, and I think, um, yeah, it's just like so fast, like, literally, from a.
• 16:08
  Erin Gray: I have a lot of manifesting generators in my life and the speed at which they move compared to which I move is vastly different.
• 16:17
  Erin Gray: Like they could be on step 10 and I'm still over here at step one, right, right, and so it's just a.
• 16:22
  Erin Gray: It's that practice of like asking yourself like, do I want to do this?
• 16:26
  Erin Gray: Like, because so often we get suggested to do something right, and that's that responding.
• 16:31
  Erin Gray: Right, Like we're responding to something, but it's like wait a second, slow down.
• 16:35
  Erin Gray: Do I want to do it?
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  Erin Gray: Do I have the energy to do it?
• 16:38
  Erin Gray: Does this light me up?
• 16:39
  Erin Gray: Or is this just like and it and that?
• 16:42
  Erin Gray: And that takes some getting used to of like asking yourself those questions and getting into it.
• 16:46
  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah, it's again.
• 16:47
  Carmen Tuleta: Comes back to the pause.
• 16:48
  Carmen Tuleta: Yeah Right, it's just so important it is.
• 16:51
  Carmen Tuleta: It is so important for all of us and I think it.
• 16:55
  Carmen Tuleta: I don't think it again.
• 16:56
  Carmen Tuleta: It doesn't matter what type you are.
• 16:59
  Erin Gray: Yeah, thank you so much, carmen, for all of your time, your wisdom, your knowledge, for sharing all of that with us.
• 17:04
  Erin Gray: Where can people find you, learn more about you?
• 17:06
  Erin Gray: All of the things Well.
• 17:08
  Carmen Tuleta: Right now, my website's on an overhaul, so that's that's coming, but I do have a link to book a session with me, so I'll.
• 17:19
  Carmen Tuleta: I can give that to you and you can pop it in the show notes, and I do have an Instagram account.
• 17:25
  Carmen Tuleta: I'm also doing an overhaul there, but I'm still there and I'm still showing up there with a little bit of a twist on my how I look at human design and how I help people, and I have so much fun over there.
• 17:38
  Carmen Tuleta: I was like you gotta go.
• 17:40
  Erin Gray: You gotta go watch Carmen, cause she's so fun.
• 17:43
  Erin Gray: She like throws twists on things and she's just yeah, it's.
• 17:46
  Erin Gray: It's fun to like talk about things in such a fun, easeful, like not serious way, and Carmen does a great job at that, yeah.
• 17:54
  Carmen Tuleta: We have enough serious in life.
• 17:56
  Carmen Tuleta: Oh my gosh, have some fun.
• 17:57
  Carmen Tuleta: Let's have some fun.
• 17:58
  Erin Gray: Yeah, yeah.
• 17:59
  Erin Gray: So thank you everybody for listening, thank you for watching and thank you, carmen Again.
• 18:04
  Erin Gray: I appreciate it.
• 18:05
  Erin Gray: Thank you, thank you for tuning in today.
• 18:09
  Erin Gray: I appreciate you spending your time with me.
• 18:11
  Erin Gray: I created grow the CEO cohort for the entrepreneur that wants to be in a community with other heart-based entrepreneurs.
• 18:19
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• 18:32
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• 18:38
  Erin Gray: And, as always, from my soul to yours,