Latest / The Manifestation Station / Ep 83. Ask for Guidance Instead of Signs: This Might Change Your Life
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- 0:07You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
- 0:11I'm your host, Holly Edwards, and together we can help create your magic.
- 0:22Hello and welcome back to another episode of the Manifestation Station.
- 0:28Welcome back. Thank you for joining. We've got a load of new listeners. I can't believe it.
- 0:35I jumped on the other day to have a look at the stats.
- 0:38I actually get sent the statistics for the podcast and it's actually really
- 0:43nice. You guys are phenomenal.
- 0:46It just creeps up every week, a few more listeners, but We've had a burst recently
- 0:51and I just think it's so nice, so lovely, this wonderful manifesting community that we have.
- 1:00And just all of you guys for reaching out and just going, hey,
- 1:04because I sometimes, right, I kind of sit there and I think,
- 1:09I can't believe there are people out there in the world, in the universe,
- 1:16listening to the manifestation station who I've never met before.
- 1:19And I'll get the odd message every now and again going, hiya,
- 1:22I love this episode. I listen to it.
- 1:25I listen to your podcast every week. And I'm like, wow, I've never met you.
- 1:29And you're following along or you're getting something from this podcast.
- 1:35Now, I am reaching out to every single one of you and just giving you a little
- 1:40bit of love, a little bit of sunshine today, sending you a little bit of positivity.
- 1:45However we're feeling whatever we're dealing with whatever we're surviving right
- 1:50now maybe you're thriving I'm just sending you a lovely manifestation hug,
- 1:56a lovely thank you and a bit of gratitude from me and just to tell you all you
- 2:01are smashing it you are smashing it even if you feel like you are swamped.
- 2:09Swamped with a to-do list, swamped with bills or swamped with just things where
- 2:15you think, how am I going to get out of this? If you're getting up each day,
- 2:20Even if you're in your PJs, you're surviving. And actually, I have to say,
- 2:24I can't remember if I said this last week or not, I must have baby brain because,
- 2:29one is pregnant at the moment, but I've actually even forgotten what I was going to say.
- 2:34Does that mean I have got baby brain? I'm assuming it does.
- 2:38Oh my God, I'll come back to that. Anyway, it was something really great.
- 2:41Oh, it was about surviving.
- 2:42I think I did mention it, but anyway, I've been quite, quite sicky quite sicky
- 2:48with my pregnancy that's an understatement but I'm being positive today so I'm
- 2:52not going to bore you with it,
- 2:54but I do feel like I've been a bit in survival mode and I think it's really
- 2:58interesting because with everything that I do it's giving gratitude it's trying
- 3:02to be positive and it's journaling and it's,
- 3:04manifesting and you know doing all of these things to improve your life I think
- 3:08it's really important about the fact,
- 3:10that we talk about there There are times in life, there are seasons in life
- 3:15where we just have to simply ride out these storms.
- 3:18And I have very much...
- 3:20Been left in a state of just survival mode getting through each day feeling very poorly,
- 3:26and it's very hard to feel very grateful in one sense and to feel very poorly
- 3:31in the other and I have been in survival mode and I think this is something
- 3:35we should speak about because in fact why am I not doing an episode on this must do it next week.
- 3:40But yeah there are times when you're not going to feel very inspired and it's
- 3:46easy to manifest isn't it when everything's going well,
- 3:49but also real life hits and no matter how good of a manifester you are real
- 3:54life still hits and there might be times where you have to really dig deep and
- 3:58all you can do is actually get through each day.
- 4:01And if that's you at the moment I just want to let you know that one that is very normal,
- 4:07two you are human that is life even if you are the most positive person ever
- 4:12life will still throw things at you where you feel like all you can do is just,
- 4:16I don't know barely put one foot in front of the other, but we just survive.
- 4:20And that's where I found it really, really positive to dig out some of my kind
- 4:29of manifesting and positivity tools, because all I've been able to do is almost like the bare minimum.
- 4:35What can I do today to make myself smile?
- 4:38What can I do to be kind on myself today?
- 4:41And those times you're not going to be able to maybe journal and do your vision
- 4:44boards and be really proactive,
- 4:47but it's really important not to beat yourself up in those moments not to feel
- 4:53like you're lazy or you're not being successful or that you're not enough,
- 4:58that is my opening intro today that has come from the heart that is not in my
- 5:03notes at all for today's episode it's kind of got nothing to do with today's
- 5:06episode however it has got to do with everything right now because I like to bring you
- 5:11all the news from the present where I'm at what I'm doing, what you guys are doing.
- 5:16So that's a little update from me.
- 5:18But today, on to today's episode, we're talking about.
- 5:23A little bit of an extension from when we ask for signs. Now,
- 5:29this is one about, I mean, I love signs.
- 5:33I love signs and synchronicities. I feel like I ask for signs.
- 5:37I receive signs all the time. Signs and synchronicities show us that the kind
- 5:43of, like the universe kind of shows us we're on the right path.
- 5:47We're in tune. We're synchronized with the universe. we're synchronized with
- 5:51our goals and our dreams and our manifestations but there's something more that
- 5:56you can do and that's what we're talking about today and it's kind of to say,
- 6:00either stop asking for signs or maybe let's just say don't only ask for signs
- 6:05but actually start asking for specific guidance and this is why I wanted to
- 6:11talk about something today because I'm.
- 6:14So many of us including me like I say I love the signs and we say I don't know
- 6:19maybe we say out loud universe,
- 6:21if this is meant for me show me a sign let me hear this song or show me 11 11
- 6:27on the clock or let me see a butterfly show me a yellow car,
- 6:31and I do think asking for signs is great it's just that little nod from the
- 6:36universe to say yep we're listening you're on the right track.
- 6:39And I think those little synchronicities, they feel so magical.
- 6:44But I want to take it one step further today, because instead of constantly asking, is this a sign?
- 6:52Because sometimes what we do is we ask for a sign and then we go,
- 6:55okay, cool. We've got that sign and we have a moment of kind of like endorphins
- 6:59and dopamine and we go, yeah, we've got a sign. That's great. And then what do we do?
- 7:03We just carry on doing the same old thing we've been doing all the time.
- 7:07And actually we can do more now I hear from a lot of people that they say,
- 7:12they've kind of got a bit of a dilemma or they're stuck on something in particular,
- 7:17and so instead of asking for a sign we can actually ask like can you guide me
- 7:21so instead of saying is this a sign,
- 7:24we can start asking out loud can you guide me instead and I think it's such a.
- 7:30Beautiful shift because yes a sign can reassure you but guidance can actually
- 7:37move you move you forward move you into helping get yourself some answers it can help,
- 7:44show you what to do next so it can help you see something maybe you weren't
- 7:49seeing before it can help you,
- 7:52perhaps like release something you've been holding back and it can help you,
- 7:57to really like notice the magic that is already happening around you.
- 8:02So instead of just asking for a sign, yes, it's actually opening up our eyes
- 8:06and going, actually, I'm noticing magic because I am being guided.
- 8:12And that's why today I'm going to give you four simple things that you can start asking for.
- 8:19So these are kind of simple guidance affirmations, which will help you to kind
- 8:26of get some answers get some guidance and help to,
- 8:31those steps to appear so rather than you know you're on the staircase one step
- 8:35at a time but just helps you just to create those next steps.
- 8:40This is not complicated. It's not complicated. Just four simple steps.
- 8:44I'm not going to help you at the end. We'll do a kind of ritual together.
- 8:47And you can just pick one if you want.
- 8:50Pick one, whichever one feels relevant to you. You can save this episode,
- 8:54come back to it, do one of the other ones, re-listen to it.
- 8:58I am always here. This podcast episode will be forever in the podcast universe.
- 9:05Will it? I don't know. Will it ever delete? I don't know. hopefully not hopefully
- 9:08you'll be listening to this in like 100 years time thinking who is this crazy
- 9:12woman on this podcast anyway,
- 9:15let's get into it number one is to specifically ask to be guided so this is
- 9:20so simple you can't get this one wrong and actually it might be just the only one that you ever need,
- 9:29so in the morning you can say this.
- 9:34I give my guides full permission to work in every area of my life today.
- 9:41Show me what I need to guide me towards the next right step.
- 9:45Now, I'm going to repeat that because you might be going, ah,
- 9:48Holly, I can't remember it. Or I'm driving or I'm walking.
- 9:51You can say something along these lines. But, you know, it's known whether you
- 9:55believe in spirit guides or you believe in the universe or if you're religious,
- 10:00there's this idea that we're being guided.
- 10:02Whether you believe you're being guided by guardian angels or people from,
- 10:07you know, relatives who have passed, we are being guided.
- 10:12This is why I say I give my guides. Imagine you're being guided.
- 10:15So whether that's the universe or someone or a guardian angel,
- 10:18I'm going to say it again.
- 10:20I give my guides full permission to work in every area of my life today.
- 10:26Show me what I need to guide me towards my next right step.
- 10:33Now, what I love about this is you are opening up your mind to possibility.
- 10:41We're not just saying, give me a sign that everything's okay today.
- 10:44I'm giving my guides full permission to work in every area of my life today.
- 10:50Show me what I need to know and guide me towards my next right step.
- 10:56Show me. It's like, show me the way. Rather than just a sign,
- 11:00a yellow car, a butterfly, show me the way. And that's it.
- 11:05You could just say, you know, if guides aren't your thing, you don't believe
- 11:09in guardian angels or people guiding you, you could just say,
- 11:11universe, guide me today.
- 11:14Higher self, guide me today. Life, show me what I need to know.
- 11:18Whatever feels natural to you that is kind of along the lines of that first statement.
- 11:24The important thing with it is actually the intention behind it.
- 11:28You're basically saying to yourself, to your brain, to your mindset,
- 11:32to your subconscious and to the universe, I am open.
- 11:36I am open to ideas. I'm open to opportunities, to conversations.
- 11:42I am open to things changing. I am open to being redirected.
- 11:48Or maybe just I am open to seeing something differently.
- 11:52And then all you have to do is not look for your yellow car not look for your
- 11:57butterfly not look for your feather all you need to do is get on with your day it's that simple,
- 12:03and this is the bit I think sometimes we can go wrong we ask for guidance and
- 12:07then we spend the next next six hours going oh my god where is it what was that
- 12:12it was that the sign is this the thing like come on universe where are you and actually,
- 12:17what happens is we're honing so much,
- 12:21on the sign or the thing that actually what we're not doing is broadening our,
- 12:27horizons and opening up our eyes to the guidance that may be kind of landing into our laps,
- 12:35the ideas that might come to you the people that may be around you rather than
- 12:40closing off everything and looking for this sign,
- 12:43so it's about you being open, it's asking to be guided and then letting go.
- 12:49Guidance, it won't always arrive dramatically. It won't always arrive where
- 12:55you go, oh my gosh, this is an absolute striking sign from the universe.
- 13:02It might be a thought that pops into your head, a conversation, an email.
- 13:07Maybe someone mentioning something at the exact right time, a door opening or even closing.
- 13:13Or it might be something you've been thinking about for weeks,
- 13:16suddenly becoming incredibly clear.
- 13:19And actually, we should talk about this as a whole, because I think with manifestation,
- 13:24sometimes we put on our vision boards what it is that we want to manifest.
- 13:29We think about it, we focus on it, we give it positivity and gratitude.
- 13:33Sometimes we have to remember that the universe delivering our manifestation
- 13:38could be an idea that comes to you.
- 13:41It may be when you're out walking, you might think, oh, do you know what?
- 13:44I should email that person about that job or that guy I met the other day.
- 13:48Maybe I should get in touch with him. Or maybe this idea of something that you've
- 13:52been thinking about writing a book or starting a side hustle.
- 13:56The universe will plant ideas into
- 13:59your head as a way of helping those manifestations to come to fruition.
- 14:04So it's up to you and it's your job to hone in on those. If you're asking for
- 14:08guidance and you get an idea, perhaps go with it.
- 14:11And sometimes it might be obvious you might get obvious synchronicities and
- 14:16I do love signs like love signs and synchronicities you might hear a song you'll
- 14:21see your magical number and you get the sign but what I don't want you to do,
- 14:26is to become so obsessed with the sign that you actually miss the guidance so
- 14:31that's the difference that's my little pocket of advice for you today.
- 14:37Now, number two, step two, I want you to ask to see what you're not seeing.
- 14:42So it's one of my favorite questions because sometimes we don't actually need something new.
- 14:47We need to see what is already there, already available for us.
- 14:52So I want you to ask out loud. You can do this in the morning or you can do
- 14:55this any time of day. You can do it now. You can pause me and say,
- 14:59show me what I am not seeing.
- 15:02Show me what I am not seeing. And that is such a powerful sentence because maybe
- 15:09you're convinced there are no opportunities. It feels stagnant.
- 15:13It feels like you're stuck.
- 15:15But maybe there are opportunities there, but they don't look the way that you expected them to look.
- 15:21Maybe you're convinced you don't have enough money. Maybe there are ways of
- 15:25creating more money that you haven't even considered. Or maybe you just batted
- 15:31off and thinking, no, that's not for me.
- 15:33Maybe you think someone doesn't like you maybe you've actually just interpreted
- 15:38something incorrectly this happened to a friend of mine recently who said oh
- 15:41this guy's not interested they've been I think they've had one or two dates
- 15:46and she went no they're not interested in me they've said this and I'm too busy
- 15:49to date and actually once we got into it I was like that's not what these messages
- 15:54say at all I think you've interpreted this wrong,
- 15:57and I think it was a.
- 15:59Past thoughts on love and relationships into this one and thinking actually
- 16:04what he's saying there is he's writing me off, he's having a go and actually
- 16:09it wasn't the case at all. So this opportunity of meeting this guy was still there.
- 16:13So maybe you think you're stuck but maybe there is actually a door right in
- 16:17front of you but maybe you're staring at the wall beside it instead of the door,
- 16:22and I think that's one of the most beautiful things about asking for guidance.
- 16:26You're not saying give me the answer I want you're saying show me what I'm missing,
- 16:31show me what is under my nose what am I not seeing here,
- 16:35can you see the difference in that because we become so attached to the outcome
- 16:41we want that sometimes we stop being curious,
- 16:44we decide that this has to happen or this person has to be the one or this job
- 16:49has to be done and this is the only way to do it,
- 16:52and then something doesn't happen and we think well it's not working but perhaps the guidance is,
- 17:00look over here maybe there's another way maybe there's something better maybe
- 17:04there's something you haven't thought of yet maybe you thought it was rejection
- 17:09you know me my favorite quote maybe what you thought was rejection was actually redirection,
- 17:15now I talk about that phrase all the time but I genuinely think it's one of the most.
- 17:20It's one of the most powerful manifestation beliefs out there.
- 17:25Sometimes the closed door is information. Sometimes the closed door is the answer that you need.
- 17:32Maybe the ghosting from the person that you like is the exact answer that you
- 17:36need. Maybe that's the closure you need.
- 17:40It doesn't mean you're not worthy. It doesn't mean you've done your manifestation wrong.
- 17:45All it means simply that that's not the way.
- 17:49And that is guidance too so remember any doors closing is also guidance too,
- 17:55number three what I want you to do is to ask for the blocks to be revealed now
- 18:00this one we're kind of going a little bit deeper so I hope you're still with
- 18:03me I hope you're still feeling inspired we're just going to go that little little little bit deeper now,
- 18:10because we often ask like universe bring me the thing bring me that dream that
- 18:14goal that I'm manifesting.
- 18:17But sometimes the more powerful question is what is getting in the way of me receiving the thing,
- 18:25and it's about looking for noticing and removing the blocks,
- 18:31so in terms of today's episode and asking for guidance there is another statement
- 18:36that you can say so if you feel like there is something blocking you or maybe
- 18:40you don't know why your manifestation isn't happening,
- 18:43you can do this thing and you can ask this thing for the blocks to be revealed.
- 18:48You could say, universe, dissolve the beliefs quietly keeping me from the life
- 18:55I am meant for and show me what I need to release.
- 18:59I know that's a mouthful so I'm going to repeat that for you again.
- 19:04Also, you could just say something similar to this. So, universe,
- 19:08dissolve the beliefs, quietly keeping me from the life I am meant for,
- 19:15and show me what I need to release.
- 19:19And I love this because we're not asking to be perfect. We're just saying,
- 19:23I must have absolutely no limiting beliefs before I can manifest.
- 19:29And I think this is a lot of the times when if your manifestation you feel like
- 19:33it's stuck and it's not happening sometimes we have these limiting beliefs but
- 19:38they are such core beliefs that we just think they're normal and that's how we're made up but,
- 19:43if you were brought up and you didn't see perhaps a strong loving relationship around you
- 19:51perhaps you always feel like you've been rejected and you've never been chosen
- 19:55you might carry this limiting belief which is I'm never chosen I'm never good
- 19:59enough even if you're going yeah but hold on I'm going out on dates and I'm
- 20:03giving out love what's going on
- 20:05if we still have a limiting belief in there to feel to kind of say that we're not worthy of love,
- 20:11then you could be blocking your manifestation and what I love about this you're just saying,
- 20:15look universe help me dissolve these beliefs that are keeping me from the life that I'm meant for.
- 20:22So we're not saying I must have absolutely no limiting beliefs before I can manifest.
- 20:27Because honestly, we're human.
- 20:29I always say this all the time. We're human. We're all going to have our own
- 20:32fears, doubts, and we're going to have things that some people might struggle
- 20:35with money more. Some people might struggle with love more.
- 20:40We're going to have days where we think, who am I to do this?
- 20:45Or this probably won't work. The point isn't to never think a negative thought.
- 20:50The point is to notice the thoughts that are running the show.
- 20:55So this is not getting rid of all negative thoughts, all limiting beliefs,
- 20:59you're human, but it's about working through them. And you're kind of asking
- 21:03at this point to notice the thoughts that are running the show.
- 21:06So maybe you're trying to manifest more money but if you're constantly saying
- 21:11I can't afford that maybe you're trying to grow a business but every time an
- 21:16opportunity comes up you think.
- 21:18You get a bit nervous you think oh do you know what I'm just not ready maybe
- 21:23you're the person that is looking for love but deep down maybe you think well
- 21:28do you know what what's the point people always leave me,
- 21:31maybe you want to put yourself out there but you are terrified of being rejected,
- 21:37so if any of these resonate with you or something similar just ask show me the
- 21:43belief underneath this and then don't judge what you find just notice it,
- 21:47this awareness will give you a choice you can say oh do you know what that's
- 21:52why I keep doing that because of this underlying belief and once you see it,
- 21:58that's when you can work on start changing it and sometimes the manifestation,
- 22:03isn't about bringing something into your life.
- 22:06It's about becoming available for something that was always possible.
- 22:12So this is helping to release those limiting beliefs and to kind of get you
- 22:17to hone in and open your eyes into why you might believe a certain way.
- 22:22And then you'll notice what can I do to slowly change that.
- 22:28Step number four, final, final step number four, I want you to ask to see the miracles.
- 22:36Oh, this is my absolute favorite because I think we can become so obsessed with the big,
- 22:45big manifestation that we completely miss the tiny specks of magic happening in every single day.
- 22:54And I do believe that miracles exist in every single day, but are we open to seeing them?
- 23:01Are we noticing them? Are we giving them enough attention?
- 23:05So I want you to say this. Remember, this whole episode is about asking for guidance.
- 23:11So I want you to say, universe, show me the miracles already surrounding me
- 23:17and teach me to notice them.
- 23:20You're not asking for new miracles. we're not asking for our manifestation to
- 23:23appear, we're not asking to
- 23:25meet our soulmate or to have £100,000 in the bank, wouldn't that be nice?
- 23:29All you're asking is show me the miracles already surrounding me and teach me to notice them.
- 23:35I promise if you do this and you open yourself up,
- 23:39you will start to see miracles every day, you will start to notice them the
- 23:43more you notice them, what we focus on
- 23:46it magnifies and it multiplies so the more we will see and the more miracles
- 23:52that will arrive to us so I love that because,
- 23:56what if your job today isn't to make something magical happen
- 24:01what if it is simply to notice what already is do you see that all of these
- 24:07steps today they're not about hard work they're not going off and
- 24:11going right Holly like me telling you go on let's go and take action,
- 24:14let's be proactive, get your journals out. These are really simple.
- 24:18All you've got to do is notice what is already there. Now, this could be mini
- 24:23miracles, like somebody sends you a message at the exact right moment.
- 24:28Maybe, I don't know, maybe you need
- 24:30a bit of kindness, you need a bit of nurturing, you need a bit of love.
- 24:33Maybe a lovely friend drops you a message at the exact right moment. That's a mini miracle.
- 24:39Maybe you have an idea that changes your entire perspective.
- 24:43So maybe an idea comes for you and it might change the way that you look at something.
- 24:47That could be a relationship that you're finding traumatic or a breakup and
- 24:51perhaps an idea comes to you that you think you know what actually this gives me some peace,
- 24:57maybe you bump into someone you haven't seen in years mini miracle,
- 25:02maybe something you thought was going to be difficult turns out to be easy so
- 25:06maybe I don't know maybe you've got a meeting today and you've been worrying
- 25:10about it and you've been doing notes and maybe a presentation actually it's
- 25:14turned out to be quite easy.
- 25:16Maybe you were going to have a difficult conversation with a loved one,
- 25:19a family member, a partner, and you thought, actually, that was a lot easier
- 25:23than I thought. That's another mini miracle.
- 25:27Maybe you simply wake up feeling happier today or tomorrow.
- 25:32Mini miracle. Thank you, universe, for showing me that miracle.
- 25:36Maybe you notice how beautiful the sky is. You notice the butterflies in your
- 25:41garden these moments of beauty throughout the day mini miracles perhaps this
- 25:47is your answers that look notice the beauty around you.
- 25:52Maybe someone at work makes you laugh so hard.
- 25:55Is that not just the best thing when you are laughing so hard with someone that
- 26:00you love that your stomach hurts? And you know, you look at someone when you
- 26:03are laughing that much. And in that moment, you think, oh my God, I love you so much.
- 26:09What a lovely moment. That's a mini miracle. That's a mini miracle right there.
- 26:14Maybe something you wanted six months ago has quietly become normal in your life.
- 26:21This is a big one because I think sometimes we forget that where you are right
- 26:27now is what you were once trying to manifest.
- 26:30If you've got a roof over your head, whether you're renting, whether you are,
- 26:34a mortgage house owner, you know, whatever it is, maybe something you wanted
- 26:41six months ago has quietly become normal,
- 26:44and you are now once where you wanted to manifest,
- 26:48I think we have to look back on this a lot and give credit and give gratitude
- 26:52to the universe because actually that's a miracle in itself and we can already
- 26:56tick that miracle box off today I'm certainly,
- 27:00in this situation I think when I'm saying this aloud to you I think actually
- 27:05you know I've been in survival mode recently
- 27:07but let's face it there was a
- 27:10time when I was training to become a makeup artist to work in film and tv.
- 27:16And it's quite a difficult business to get into. I now have worked very gratefully,
- 27:23have worked on big TV shows.
- 27:26I've filmed around the world. I've worked with amazing Hollywood actors and
- 27:31directors. And actually, that has become my normal.
- 27:34And just reading this out aloud to you from my notes, maybe something you wanted
- 27:38six months ago has become normal.
- 27:41I mean, how great is that? when you think about it I just think,
- 27:46I don't know it's actually suddenly made me really reflective when I think about
- 27:51that for a moment actually these are miracles that maybe,
- 27:56I've I'm not open to at the moment or that I'm not noticing,
- 28:01and yeah you can hear probably in my voice I'm suddenly like wow that's actually
- 28:05quite amazing isn't it and there's other things you know I am now seven months pregnant.
- 28:12And whilst I'm in survival mode, I'm like, you know, there was a point where
- 28:15I was manifesting, come on, this is what I want now. I want a baby.
- 28:19I want a, you know, a baby with my partner.
- 28:22And that's a miracle in itself. I am now what I was manifesting.
- 28:27So can we all think about that for a moment and just think if there's something
- 28:30that's quietly become normal in your life, that is maybe something you wanted six months ago.
- 28:36All of those things matter and I think the more we train ourselves to notice
- 28:41them the more magical life starts to feel because what you give your attention to it grows.
- 28:48If you spend all day looking for what's wrong your brain will become incredibly good,
- 28:55at finding what's wrong proving to you that you're right yes you're right everything
- 29:00is wrong Holly your brain is going to back you up but if you start looking for
- 29:04what's going right and you'll start looking at these mini miracles,
- 29:08you will start noticing that too and I'm not talking about pretending that everything
- 29:13is perfect you can have a terrible day and still notice one beautiful thing in that day,
- 29:19you can be sad and still notice something that you're grateful for and this
- 29:23is how I opened the episode today that I've been in survival mode,
- 29:28but I've been trying to dig deep and just finding what I can be grateful for,
- 29:33what I can be, what I can provide myself to be kind for the day.
- 29:38You could be stressed and still notice a moment of magic.
- 29:41So just because you're stressed, you're tired, you're sad, you're stuck,
- 29:45doesn't mean you can't notice magic in a moment.
- 29:49And that's what I want you to remember. It's not toxic positivity.
- 29:53It's simply expanding what you're paying attention to.
- 29:59So what does this guidance actually look like? Because if I tell you,
- 30:03ask for guidance, you might think, okay, but how do I know what that guidance
- 30:09actually is? And this is where I just want you to relax.
- 30:13I want you to ease into this. And you don't need to become a psychic overnight.
- 30:18You're not going to wake up tomorrow and go, oh my God, I'm enlightened and
- 30:22this is what I'm going to do.
- 30:23And, you know, please don't start thinking that every time you see 11-11,
- 30:29it means you need to make a life decision.
- 30:31I love an 11-11 on the clock. I'm not going to lie. I find that an 11-11 or
- 30:36a 1-1-1-1, I find that sometimes it's just a little nod.
- 30:41We're here, Holly. We got you. We've got your back. You're on the right path.
- 30:46But we can actually ask for proper guidance, you know.
- 30:50And I still do love sign. I'm not going to pretend I don't love sign.
- 30:54If you know me in real life, I'm always looking for signs. I love a sign.
- 30:58But I hope you can realize how this asking for guidance is just that little bit deeper.
- 31:05And it's that thing of kind of saying, is there something here I'm being invited to notice?
- 31:12So if you do get something of, you know, what you think might be a sign,
- 31:17just see if there's like a connection to that.
- 31:19Maybe, for example, let's think about this guidance thing.
- 31:24Maybe something happens and you just know it caught your attention for a reason.
- 31:30So what is it telling you? What is it that you've noticed? And see what guidance could be in that.
- 31:35Maybe someone says something that you've been thinking about and you kind of
- 31:39go, that's weird. I've been thinking about doing that.
- 31:41I've been thinking about joining that class. I've been thinking about going to that lecture.
- 31:46I've been thinking about, I don't know, paying for some lessons in something.
- 31:51Maybe an opportunity appears three times to you. That would be like,
- 31:55hello, the universe is trying to guide you on something.
- 31:59Maybe you keep coming back to the same idea. Maybe you suddenly feel pulled towards something.
- 32:05Maybe even you feel a very strong no about something you previously wanted.
- 32:12And I think this is why it's really important to keep coming back and checking
- 32:16in with our manifestations. Because sometimes we have an idea of what our vision
- 32:21is and what we want to manifest.
- 32:22But it doesn't mean those things don't change. and sometimes we go well I've
- 32:25got to keep working on that because that's the thing that I said I wanted to manifest in January,
- 32:30but if you're feeling a really strong no about something you previously wanted,
- 32:36maybe that's a guiding feeling of like hey look we just need to change your direction and,
- 32:44maybe if you've got a quiet feeling that says like try this and you can't explain
- 32:48it you don't know why, you don't know what it will lead to,
- 32:52then that's when maybe just take a pause.
- 32:54You don't necessarily need to act on everything, just pause and ask,
- 32:58is there something here I'm being invited to notice?
- 33:02That's all you need to ask. That question alone can change the way that you move through life.
- 33:08So stop looking for the answer and start looking for the next step.
- 33:12This is what I really want you to remember. You don't need to have your entire
- 33:16plan mapped out. You don't need to be guided to know how you're getting from A to Z.
- 33:22You just need the next step. That's all you need. So if you're feeling completely
- 33:26overwhelmed about something in life, don't ask, how am I going to fix everything?
- 33:31Just ask, what is my next right step?
- 33:35Is that picking up the phone and making a phone call? is it sending an email
- 33:39starting up a conversation maybe it's applying for something maybe it's saying
- 33:44no to something that you don't want to do maybe it's saying yes,
- 33:48maybe it's doing something you've been putting off and sometimes the next step
- 33:53is to rest it's that simple it doesn't always mean it's high intense action,
- 33:59we're so obsessed with action aren't we and yes we have to action our manifestations
- 34:03do more work hard and make it happen but sometimes,
- 34:06sometimes guidance is just saying stop rest wait and think for a moment let
- 34:12something unfold and that can still be movement too.
- 34:17So your simple daily practice, I would love you to try this.
- 34:22I'm going to make it incredibly easy for you. So tomorrow morning,
- 34:26before you reach for your phone, just take a deep breath in and say,
- 34:31I am open to guidance today.
- 34:33Show me what I need to know and guide me towards my next right step.
- 34:38Then choose one of these questions. You can either say, show me what I'm not
- 34:43seeing or show me what I need to release.
- 34:47Or show me the miracles already surrounding me and then go about your day that
- 34:52is it you don't need to spend an hour meditating you don't need to sit waiting for a sign,
- 34:58just become a little bit more observant a little bit more open a little bit more curious,
- 35:05and at the end of the day like ask yourself just check in with yourself and
- 35:08say like what did I notice today,
- 35:10not did I get my sign just what did I notice and just make a note a mental note
- 35:17or write it down is there something you noticed about yourself an opportunity,
- 35:21maybe notice something you need to let go of or you need to shift that's okay
- 35:26this isn't a test it's just a simple little practice,
- 35:30you don't have to force the magic this is just about trusting yourself asking
- 35:36for guidance and trusting the universe.
- 35:39All we need to know is, are you open and are you listening? It is that simple.
- 35:48So thank you so much for spending the time with me today on the manifestation station.
- 35:55Remember, you don't need to know the whole path. You don't need every answer.
- 35:58You don't need the sign that you think you needed. You just need to be open to the next right thing.
- 36:04So thank you so much for listening. if you have enjoyed this episode I would
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- 36:24on spotify just rate and review I will love you forever thank you so much,
- 36:29if you do this practice and it works for you I'm sure it will I can't wait to
- 36:33hear what happens for you then drop me a dm i'm at the holly edwards or at the
- 36:37dot manifestation station on instagram,
- 36:41so be open be prepared to be guided we don't need all the signs although we
- 36:46love a sign don't we i will see you next time and just remember you are exactly
- 36:52where you're meant to be goodbye.