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INTERVIEW: Tamar Braxton Talks 'Heartbreak Retrograde,' Healing, Relationship With Sisters, Greif; Traci + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Every day, Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Morning.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody is d j Envy, just hilarious, Charlamage the guy.
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  Speaker 3: We are the Breakfast Club Law and the Roses here
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  Speaker 3: as well. We got a special guest in the buildings
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  Speaker 3: in a new album, Heartbreak. Heartbreak Retrograde is out right now,
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  Speaker 3: ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: Tamar Braxton, welcome.
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  Speaker 4: Back, Hey friends, you look good.
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  Speaker 1: How you doing the kids? Kids? I want great? It
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  Speaker 1: is great.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, he's on break and so you know I can't
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  Speaker 5: even reach him.
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  Speaker 1: Not mad at you. You got a lot going on
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  Speaker 1: new albums. I'm going positivity.
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  Speaker 6: This is great break retro grade. Yes, what does retrograde
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  Speaker 6: mean to you? Like emotionally, well, you know, like.
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  Speaker 5: Mercury retro grade. And so it's like a long period
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  Speaker 5: of time where like things are just like not adding up,
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  Speaker 5: not making sense, where you just like feel like you're
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  Speaker 5: not yourself. And I chose to take it as something
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  Speaker 5: that is positive instead of a negative. This is a
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  Speaker 5: time where I can evolve, I can be myself and
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  Speaker 5: figure out things.
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  Speaker 1: That will best suit me in the future.
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  Speaker 5: And I feel like I want to say this, you know,
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  Speaker 5: heartbag retrograde was born here. Really the less conversation that
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  Speaker 5: we had about cheating. So Heartbreak Retrograde is about a
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  Speaker 5: woman who cheats on her spouse and breaks her own
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  Speaker 5: heart by breaking his heart.
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  Speaker 1: But you talked about it, you heard about it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, so are these old wounds resurfacing? Are you finally
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  Speaker 6: releasing it?
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  Speaker 1: I'm releasing it, you know.
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  Speaker 5: And I couldn't figure out Remember, I was still feeling
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  Speaker 5: bad about it.
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  Speaker 7: I couldn't talk about it.
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  Speaker 5: I couldn't figure out how to break it. And you know,
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  Speaker 5: putting together this project along with the movie was very
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  Speaker 5: therapeutic for me, and so I'm just so grateful about it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have a call that Xcent and have that conversation?
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  Speaker 1: I did. How did that go? Well? Okay?
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  Speaker 5: So we went out to lunch and I explained to
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  Speaker 5: him that this was about that portion of the relationship
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  Speaker 5: and he appreciated that. But there were some things about
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  Speaker 5: the movie that he didn't like.
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  Speaker 2: So you know what's so good about this? I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: You know, twenty twenty five is the year of the snake,
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  Speaker 6: So we got like what fourteen days left to you know,
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  Speaker 6: shed old habits and embrace personal growth just like a
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  Speaker 6: shape a snake shdd you skin?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, But this album, you know, dine it, he'll.
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  Speaker 1: Me, And I believe like it's sent a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 5: I've listened to it, and I feel like this is
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  Speaker 5: the medicine that I needed to get over my heartbreak retrograde.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't he like you said he didn't like parts
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  Speaker 1: of it? What didn't he like?
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  Speaker 5: I think that it was a lot of ego, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean, because it was based on a
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  Speaker 5: true story. It wasn't everything that happened been right, and
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  Speaker 5: so he was just you know, I think it's hard
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  Speaker 5: to see your ex or somebody that you once cared
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  Speaker 5: about or care about and like those positions with someone else,
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  Speaker 5: because I'm sure it brought him back to that moment feelings.
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  Speaker 3: When y'all had that dinner, did y'all read did anything
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  Speaker 3: like sparks pop off and say let's try this again?
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  Speaker 3: Since we're being so open.
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  Speaker 5: Or not, I don't think that person is healed in
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  Speaker 5: that capacity for that well.
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  Speaker 1: Not necessarily. It's a long story, I tell y'all off camera.
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  Speaker 5: Because women have that conversation men do exactly, and I
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  Speaker 5: think it's time to have that conversation. I think we
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  Speaker 5: need to normalize that it's both of us. That's not
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  Speaker 5: just men, you know, it's it's women too, because just
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  Speaker 5: like the same reasons why you know a man will
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  Speaker 5: cheat is because you know things are not all the
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  Speaker 5: way together at home, or things all the way together
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  Speaker 5: with themselves. It's the same thing women go through, the
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  Speaker 5: same thing. Explain, black men don't cheat?
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  Speaker 1: What did they do?
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  Speaker 5: It's another word for it us.
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  Speaker 2: No black men, comma don't cheat, like I don't want
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  Speaker 2: black men to.
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  Speaker 1: We don't want black men to cheat.
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  Speaker 8: However, thank you, Bill, Tamar. I was wondering if the
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  Speaker 8: ex you were referring to is in the movie.
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  Speaker 1: You tried it?
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  Speaker 5: No, okay, wondering because absolutely not. All right, y'all, y'all
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  Speaker 5: don't believe that. I wasn't talking about that because you
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  Speaker 5: want to bring the ship up, because I know y'all
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  Speaker 5: can't wait so like, but let's just talk about common sense.
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  Speaker 5: And first of all, we've been known each other a
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  Speaker 5: long time. Let's can we stop that. We can we
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  Speaker 5: dead that now, okay, because I'm just I'm just gonna
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  Speaker 5: be honest about that. Has never been a man who
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  Speaker 5: has experienced tamor who didn't want to marry me, and
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  Speaker 5: so if that was the case, he would be over here.
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  Speaker 5: Everybody cliar, Now let's.
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  Speaker 8: Move on, get them together, Lauren, I'm like, who I
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  Speaker 8: was talking about Vince because he's in the theship advice?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah he is, he is, But I didn't know if
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  Speaker 8: The reason why I asked that is because because he's
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  Speaker 8: in the your visual giving you relationship advice, and just
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  Speaker 8: people seeing him on screen again, we always just wonder,
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  Speaker 8: you know, where the relationship is, like what that looks like.
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  Speaker 8: So I didn't know if that was the person you
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  Speaker 8: had to sit down.
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  Speaker 5: That's cousin, and that's where that stops, cousin.
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  Speaker 7: So when you set to that point, you're in a
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  Speaker 7: good place.
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  Speaker 1: He's a family member and.
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  Speaker 5: That's that on that are you watch the video with Ben,
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  Speaker 5: I saw him hand taking pictures, you know, Vince being.
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  Speaker 6: The pictures they was killing.
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  Speaker 2: Was sitting in the background like they go, Vince back
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  Speaker 2: there with his mouth over.
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  Speaker 1: We love it.
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  Speaker 2: With this album about reliving heartbreak or reclaiming your.
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  Speaker 5: Power from it, it was about taking accountability, you know,
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  Speaker 5: and being responsible for someone's hurt that I caused. And
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  Speaker 5: like I said, when I was here, I felt really bad.
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  Speaker 5: That's feel when it like zoned in on me, like, wow,
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  Speaker 5: I really did hurt a person that bad, and I'm
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  Speaker 5: you know, I'm really sorry for that. And I hope
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  Speaker 5: that that person doesn't take that into you know, their future.
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  Speaker 5: I hope it doesn't stifle their growth and like really
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  Speaker 5: truly finding love.
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  Speaker 3: Was he surprised when you called to have dinner and
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  Speaker 3: talk about it, because a lot of times they say
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  Speaker 3: women don't apologize, So was he shocked and surprise?
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  Speaker 6: Hmmm?
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. I can't. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if I can answer that.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I also don't think men cheap because you said that earlier.
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  Speaker 6: But I don't think men cheap because there's something.
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  Speaker 2: Wrong at home.
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  Speaker 1: I do. I think there's something that's missing.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's something missing within you as a name.
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  Speaker 1: Agree you think so? You think it's all about the man.
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  Speaker 5: Has nothing to do with the women, it's nothing to
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  Speaker 5: do with the connection with another person.
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  Speaker 3: I think every situation is different. But I think a
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  Speaker 3: lot of times man trying to feed his ego, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean? And I think that's the main
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  Speaker 3: I think men need to grow up at times, and
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  Speaker 3: I don't think they've got to the place where they
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  Speaker 3: understand what the word love really means, what it really is.
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  Speaker 6: Because you don't really love yourself correct and it's like,
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  Speaker 6: you know, it's like pouring water into a cup that
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  Speaker 6: ain't got no bottom. So you just constantly think he's
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  Speaker 6: feeling it's feeling, it's feeling it. That's why most of
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  Speaker 6: the time you feel very empty after you you know.
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  Speaker 5: But what if you can't reach that other person, what
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  Speaker 5: if you can't reach your partner.
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  Speaker 2: That's a different circumstances.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not saying that there can't be times when you
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  Speaker 6: know it's problems at home, but it's really the guy, Well, I.
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  Speaker 1: Learned something today. I didn't know that. Okay, how did.
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  Speaker 8: You feel like on the other side, Like did you
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  Speaker 8: feel like it was something missing or did you like,
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  Speaker 8: was there like some self searching you had to do
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  Speaker 8: when you decided.
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  Speaker 5: To some healing that I needed to address. And also
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  Speaker 5: I was just really confused. And then, if I'm being honest,
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  Speaker 5: I just wasn't ready. I just wasn't ready.
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  Speaker 6: Was there any moments while you was recording this album
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  Speaker 6: where you had to stop because it was too real?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: A lot and and the film too.
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  Speaker 5: Because it just brought back a lot, Like I'm gonna
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  Speaker 5: tell you one part that was really, really real.
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  Speaker 1: Did he shifted once again? You shifted my uterus? That
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  Speaker 1: is what he read. Oh that was the real text.
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  Speaker 1: That was real.
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  Speaker 7: You got explained to for the people.
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  Speaker 3: So you know what the means having flashbacks.
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  Speaker 2: He shifted your u again again. I'll just say that
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  Speaker 2: like that's such a hard thing down. I'm just saying
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  Speaker 2: you already cheated him.
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  Speaker 5: I know when a woman like really understands and falls
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  Speaker 5: into her masculine energy, we become you all. And that's
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  Speaker 5: what that text was. I was just basically macin.
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  Speaker 2: Pussy wedding in yours the way I never told a girl.
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  Speaker 2: I've never told a woman that.
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  Speaker 7: Is wetter than you were.
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  Speaker 6: Imagine you imagine a man cheated on you and then
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  Speaker 6: told you that the woman he cheated with pussy was wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, is that equivalent. I'm just trying to hurt
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  Speaker 1: you because no, no, no, he went through my phone.
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  Speaker 8: And read that, and did you clear that with the
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  Speaker 8: person that you actually your ex before you put that
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  Speaker 8: in the visual, because that I know that still hurts.
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  Speaker 7: And he had to watch it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, I only have to address it
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  Speaker 5: with honesty. You can't have accountability without honesty. I had
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  Speaker 5: to have honesty, that's it.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. I had to address what I know that
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  Speaker 1: hurt you.
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  Speaker 2: That's different.
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  Speaker 1: I'm damn. I had to go get pilet surgery after that.
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  Speaker 2: I wish we could get a.
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  Speaker 1: Ppling now though, Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 1: So okay.
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  Speaker 8: The way that the album lines up, in a way
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  Speaker 8: the visual goes, it tells the story right because in
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  Speaker 8: the beginning, it's like you're happy, It's like you're y'all
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  Speaker 8: are just discovering each other. When you know you know
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  Speaker 8: is the first song individual.
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  Speaker 7: Writing.
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  Speaker 8: When you know you know about your ex? What is
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  Speaker 8: it that you discovered you lost? From that point to
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  Speaker 8: the point where you get to like, you know, uh,
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  Speaker 8: letter to Alleo man, what you mean, like what what
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  Speaker 8: changed in your relationship?
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  Speaker 7: Like at that point of what change in you?
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  Speaker 8: Where you were like, okay, I just was so sure
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  Speaker 8: about this, and then it went from so short to
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  Speaker 8: like you mess somebody else and you just completely forgot
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  Speaker 8: about what you.
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  Speaker 1: Were sure about.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't meet nobody else. I basically revisited something that
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  Speaker 5: I was completely over. And if I'm being honest, I
• 10:33
  Speaker 5: was honest with that person about that. When we first
• 10:35
  Speaker 5: started dating. You know, we were still talking, but we wasn't.
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  Speaker 5: We were still platonic, but I still had feelings. And
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  Speaker 5: I told that person else for the uterus shift, you're
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  Speaker 5: something else.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what devastated?
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  Speaker 7: Explain? Yeah, what's that conversation like then?
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  Speaker 8: Like when y'all first meet up and you're like, Okay,
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  Speaker 8: I want you to know I still got so much
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  Speaker 8: from my ex.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.
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  Speaker 5: Never thought that I would act on them. I just
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  Speaker 5: thought that there were feelings that would eventually go away.
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  Speaker 5: Does that make sense because we kind of I think
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  Speaker 5: that when we're in the single outside moment, sometimes we
• 11:16
  Speaker 5: go into situations having unresolved feelings, right that you never
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  Speaker 5: think that you're going to like revisit.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's honest, and I think that's normal.
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  Speaker 5: You're not gonna like especially if you really, you really
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  Speaker 5: truly love a person to spend time with the person,
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  Speaker 5: it just doesn't go away overnight.
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  Speaker 2: That's why you.
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  Speaker 6: Can't be laying down with everybody because you really do
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  Speaker 6: be exchanging and you really did. There is a piece
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  Speaker 6: of you that you know you have shared with that
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  Speaker 6: person level like you can people.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I was after I was very very sure
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  Speaker 5: that I wanted to be with the other person the
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  Speaker 5: person after that X, I was very very sure.
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  Speaker 1: And does it hurt you to talk about it over
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  Speaker 1: and over and over again? Does that body or not?
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  Speaker 1: I'm completely healed.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, so safer on the app on the project, right,
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  Speaker 8: you talk about like I feel safer besides you, you
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  Speaker 8: make me want a pressure wine?
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  Speaker 7: Or which person?
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  Speaker 1: Are you? Both?
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  Speaker 2: And boy?
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  Speaker 1: Been in love with two people at the same time? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you have, Yes, you have. What do you mean, No,
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  Speaker 1: of course you have.
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  Speaker 7: A long time.
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  Speaker 5: Get what I'm saying, Like it's a couple weeks ago,
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  Speaker 5: But no, that's not true. That's I mean you outside,
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  Speaker 5: So you kind of got to have a rosterapasta, no outside,
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  Speaker 5: not no more.
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  Speaker 7: But my last relationship before I became single.
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  Speaker 5: A variety of ball of variety that.
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  Speaker 8: At the time my last situation before I became single,
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  Speaker 8: I was experiencing like, how the heck am I still have.
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  Speaker 7: Love for you?
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  Speaker 8: But in love or feeling like I might be able
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  Speaker 8: to be in love with a person again, Like is
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  Speaker 8: that a thing? Like I was kind of like confused,
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  Speaker 8: and I know you had that conversation and your visual
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  Speaker 8: as well, like what is happening right now because you
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  Speaker 8: know it's just butterflies and lies, because a lot of
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  Speaker 8: times it's not love, it's butterflies and lies.
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  Speaker 7: Or if it's actual love with this new person.
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  Speaker 5: That it was actual love with the new person, but
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  Speaker 5: I had to button it up with the other one.
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  Speaker 5: Does that make sense?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because if you was really truly in love with
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  Speaker 3: somebody right, your feelings would take overweight when you would
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  Speaker 3: never want to hurt that person, and you would there
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  Speaker 3: would be no way that you could love two people
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  Speaker 3: the same way. Well, one could be an infatuation. One
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  Speaker 3: could be you just love the dick and the uterus moving.
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  Speaker 3: One could be just the butterfly. Could that please, don't
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  Speaker 3: don't cook that, whatever you do, don't clik that.
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  Speaker 5: Or it could be the memories.
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  Speaker 1: Or what could have been?
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  Speaker 5: And am I walking away from something that is truly
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  Speaker 5: meant for me?
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  Speaker 4: You know? It?
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  Speaker 5: Was I mature at the time, Was I you know,
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  Speaker 5: healed at the time, Was I a good enough woman?
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  Speaker 5: Did I understand myself at the time? It was all
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  Speaker 5: of those things that I had to figure out. You
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  Speaker 5: know with those two situations, and I regret that I
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  Speaker 5: hurt that person, I really do, But I don't regret
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  Speaker 5: that I found myself.
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  Speaker 2: I love this honest conversation. Yeah, I mean I do
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  Speaker 2: you feel lighter now that this music is ab out?
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  Speaker 1: Dude? It really truly held me.
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  Speaker 2: It really did you feel exposed in a way, not in.
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  Speaker 5: A scandalous bad way as some people want it to be.
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  Speaker 3: No, if somebody date you now, can they truly believe
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  Speaker 3: that you're into them and not possibly have feelings for
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  Speaker 3: an X or possibly.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I was honest with that person. I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: be honest about it. Hey, we're grown and I hate
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  Speaker 5: that I'm outside. I don't believe I'm supposed to be.
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  Speaker 5: However I am, and I'm just too old and evolved
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  Speaker 5: and just secured it to sit around and play a game.
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  Speaker 1: I don't really have time. Well, I was dating for you, now,
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  Speaker 1: how is that going? I'm not really doing a lot
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  Speaker 1: of it. But outside sucks?
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  Speaker 2: That sucks?
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  Speaker 7: You know, that's it?
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  Speaker 8: Are you intentionally dating? Are you just like having a
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  Speaker 8: good time again a little fasta pasta.
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  Speaker 5: I am not having a good time. I'm not having
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  Speaker 5: a good time, but it is what it is. And
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  Speaker 5: you know, I feel like now I put myself in
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  Speaker 5: a position to really truly be with my person and
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  Speaker 5: get it and get all that comes with it, and
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  Speaker 5: I'm ready for it. And so that situation will never
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  Speaker 5: ever ever happen to me again.
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  Speaker 2: So what is being light? I feel like because you
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: said now that the music is that you feel lighter.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so you know when you really truly let something go,
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  Speaker 5: guilt go, that's what I feel like. I completely let
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  Speaker 5: it go.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm this is the perfect time to do it.
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  Speaker 2: It's comic, it's the year.
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  Speaker 1: It's really.
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  Speaker 6: Nine, and it's a nine year, so nine is the
• 15:38
  Speaker 6: highest level to change. So all of this stuff, You're
• 15:40
  Speaker 6: literally supposed to shed all of this like a snake shd.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: So it was supposed to happen.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: It was supposed to.
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: It was supposed to have this conversation a few what
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: was that eight months ago? To put this record together?
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: Get what tricky? Put this record together, make this film,
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: make my wrongs, try to make my wrongs right and
• 15:55
  Speaker 5: grow from it.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Wow, but you did make.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Your wrongs right.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: You you you owned up what you have to do.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: Now it's on Live the Hill. But you did what
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: you were supposed to do.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: I think, thank you.
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: So what did heartbreak teach you that, like success, never
• 16:09
  Speaker 6: could personally about yourself with the heartbreak?
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: Well, I've been let down in both areas. I think
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: one of them I can control.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: In one of them, I can't.
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, heartbreak, I can control. That will never happen to
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: me again. I will never be heartbroken ever again.
• 16:27
  Speaker 7: How can you control that?
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: Because I just believe that you're not supposed to give
• 16:33
  Speaker 5: all of you. I have to have some of me
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: to be whole. If I give you all of me,
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: then that means I've lost control of myself.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I can't do that. No, I can't show up for you.
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: I can't show up for me.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I can't show up with my kid. I can't show
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: for your kids.
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: I cant show up for my businesses and other people
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: who need me. I can't give all of me. You
• 16:51
  Speaker 5: can't have all of me.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: I always want to know Tamo with your career. Right,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: You're amazing vocalist.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Thank you friend. You're just a dope person.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Anybody that knows you know you're a dope person. You're
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: not stuck up your fun.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: You speak to everybody, you hug, everybody, you make amazing music.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: Why don't you think you're a bigger artist than you
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: are because you're your everything.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I just feel like a line misses, something misses at
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: some point. Do you do you know what that is?
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Because even with you go to your ex who.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: Found Lady God God, and You've had the record, you
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: had the success, but it just seemed like it hasn't
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: hit like it's supposed to.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Really, I think so.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: I think that's awfully kind and true. At the same time,
• 17:31
  Speaker 5: I think that if I'm honest, if that, if that
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: is in God's plan for me, I think that will
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: absolutely happen. But I am proud of the success that
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: I've had thus far because I've sold out all of
• 17:48
  Speaker 5: my tours. I'm my own promoter, you know. I have
• 17:52
  Speaker 5: numerous television shows right number one television shows, some that
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: I've executive produced.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Is something that I create, create well.
• 18:01
  Speaker 5: But I think that sometimes people put me in a
• 18:05
  Speaker 5: box of the shadow of Tony Braxton, and that's disheartening
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: for me because we are two totally different people and artists.
• 18:14
  Speaker 5: And if that is something that is always talked about
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: and brought up when it comes to my talent and
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: my tours and my success. If you are comparing that
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: to hers, it would look like that I'm less successful.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah?
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: And I don't really like that because it's not fair
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: to her as an artist, and it's not fair to
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: me as an artist either, because I think that if
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: she wasn't my sister, it wouldn't be a Tony Braxton
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: that comes up in any conversation and anything that I do.
• 18:39
  Speaker 6: I mean, I understand whatever you're saying, and it is
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: an interesting conversation, but I feel like you found your
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: lane in other ways, I do, you know what I mean?
• 18:46
  Speaker 6: And your star has risen in you know, just as
• 18:50
  Speaker 6: big as Tony's another way.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: But she makes dope music.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: She's a dope artist, but I feel like she doesn't
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: get the looks and likeness of other artists, not even
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: her sister, just other artists in gentlemen. I always just
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: thought to myself, why, I just wonder why that was?
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: You know, that's really kind. Let's meditated on that. Come on,
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: you're a good meditator.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: I can tell I do. I'm getting better.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's really hard to kind of when I first start,
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: it was really hard for me to kind of tap in.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: I can do it probably like up to four to
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: five minutes. Now. Really that's impressive, but it takes a
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: while to get there.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: Once I get there, I can probably do it, but
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: it takes a while for me to get to that space.
• 19:24
  Speaker 6: It's impressive country beats.
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: I don't count be I'm just really started in it
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: and I really enjoy it, but it takes a long
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: time to get there. How long did it take you
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: to get to that point?
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Probably probably a year of constantly.
• 19:39
  Speaker 7: Doing really okay seven days a week.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Also you you also down with the ships too.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: We've seen you at Versus and is why did you
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: decide to go to Versus as support Bourbon?
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: Because first of all, that's my friend, my real friend.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Did y'all make up yet?
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: I mean, you know, it's so funny. He was on
• 19:59
  Speaker 6: when BT was up here. He but I talked him
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: on the phone. You and me was up a couple
• 20:03
  Speaker 6: weeks ago. He was on the phone too.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: It was a little bit.
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's my friend. And the truth is I
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: introduced him to his wife, and so we're really like
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: locked in and Tony couldn't make it when you met Burman.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: What's what made you say this is the perfect person
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: for my sister. That didn't happen like that. He assumed
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: her through me.
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: At first he was like yeah, and I was like,
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: she's married, leave my sister alone. And then when she
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: got a divorce, he was very intentional about her.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Now the internet was saying that you dated I've.
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: Never dated Brian ever in my life. So I met
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: him through somebody else, one of my other homegirls that
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: was dating him. And then when I went out with them,
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: he found out that I could sing. It was actually
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: Slim who found out that I could sing, and they
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: wanted to sign me the cash money.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: And that's the story.
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: How did you feel when folks were criticizing you about
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: supporting him as if it was something else other than.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: I just think it's another form of tamar cyberbullying, because
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: why wouldn't you support your family? That's my brother in law,
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: that's my family. You know, we spend holidays together, you know,
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: we have intimate conversations about my family, you know, so like,
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: why wouldn't I support man? Why would I not brush
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: them off or wipe them down?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Because and I'll do it again, thank you.
• 21:21
  Speaker 8: Like after they had the video of y'all facetiming Tony
• 21:24
  Speaker 8: Wraxton and just you know how excited all of you
• 21:26
  Speaker 8: guys were in that moment. But people still turn that
• 21:28
  Speaker 8: into like a thing to make a meme about it.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: People make things what they wanted to be.
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: You know, I'm not going to chase people and try
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: to beat them over the head and talk them into
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: liking me or you know, supporting me and the things
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: that I do.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: It's not a Tamar problem.
• 21:42
  Speaker 6: Has it gotten worse because it has since since I
• 21:45
  Speaker 6: want to say since the reality show. But I don't
• 21:47
  Speaker 6: feel like it would like this when y'all had the
• 21:48
  Speaker 6: reality I feel like it's gotten it has.
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: I feel like it has, and I don't have a
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: definition as to why. I think maybe because you know,
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: I was really kind of diving in to this the
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: other day with my therapist. I think because I don't
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: address things do, people just keep going and going and
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: going because they know number one, Tamar's clickbait number one. Right,
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: whether I say anything back or not, it's going to
• 22:15
  Speaker 5: go viral and it's going to be all over the
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: place for a few days. And if I don't address it,
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: then people believe it to be the truth. And the
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: reason why I won't address it is because I have
• 22:25
  Speaker 5: to address everything and I just simply don't want to
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: do that. I don't don't. I don't want to stop
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: doing what I'm doing and address some can I cuss
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: some bullshit that I don't care about. You get what
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. So, yes, it has gotten worse. And I
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: think that because big artists like Cardi b will hop
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: ha ass on the internet and read you your rights.
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: She don't care who you are, where you come from.
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: And it's going down Bobby Brown, I just don't simply
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: don't want to.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like it. I don't.
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: I don't want to do that.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like the headlines descrip for your music?
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: No?
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: No, I don't think it distracts from any success because
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: I still have it, which I feel like I have more,
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: although it's not as loud as it used to be,
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: but like I have more now. But I do think
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: it distracts from my personality and who I really am,
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: and that sometimes is troublesome for me.
• 23:12
  Speaker 7: With talking about headlines.
• 23:14
  Speaker 8: When everything happened with your accident and you came out
• 23:18
  Speaker 8: online and told people what happened, and the reaction just
• 23:22
  Speaker 8: wasn't as supportive as it should have been for someone
• 23:24
  Speaker 8: who was going through what you know, you went through.
• 23:26
  Speaker 8: How did you feel on the inside, Like you you're like, hey,
• 23:29
  Speaker 8: I almost died.
• 23:30
  Speaker 7: I woke up in a pool blood and what happened.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: First of all, for people that don't know.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: To talk about that.
• 23:36
  Speaker 5: And let me tell you what it, let me tell
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: you what.
• 23:39
  Speaker 7: I've reached out to you, so you know, and I
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: appreciate that, thank you.
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: I think that it was a specific situation that made
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: it negative. I think that at first that people were
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: really genuinely concerned. Actually was supposed to be my close friends,
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: if I'm being honest. Yeah, it was supposed to be
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: in my close friends, and I was just so that
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: it went out on the regular. So I think that
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: that situation turned to be negative because it was a
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: negative spin on it, and it was really something that
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: truly that was traumatic that happened to me. And I'm
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: going to decline from speaking to any further because I can't.
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: I'm tired.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: Well, back to the project I mentioned letter to man earlier. Yeah,
• 24:30
  Speaker 8: which man is.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I will not be telling y'all, I can't do that.
• 24:34
  Speaker 7: Letter to Leo Man is like, okay, So Leo Man.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: Is a tough man. That's a tough one. That's a
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: tough cookie to crack. And so was a Sagittarius and so.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: As.
• 24:47
  Speaker 5: I've never dated Arias ban I won't.
• 24:52
  Speaker 7: It's a great time.
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: It's a good time.
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: They're definitely tough to crack.
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: They are in a scorpio. It needs to be a
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: song about the all.
• 25:02
  Speaker 6: Actually, you ain't name no beautiful cancers because we're so sweet, you.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying?
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your sign?
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: I like a Virgo, but the mother ones we got
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: to stay in the prayer list for and fast and terry.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: You know we had.
• 25:18
  Speaker 6: We got a producer up here. Her name is Taylor,
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: and she keeps saying this joke. I don't even know
• 25:22
  Speaker 6: if it's a joke, but she keeps saying, if you
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: want something green and slow next time, go.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Buy you a turtle. That was me, I know, but
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: I think I know what it means. Don't be green.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not green and I ain't slow. I don't know
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: why she can't get that joke.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: She doesn't get it.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: She keeps saying it over and over like nobody wants.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Something green and slug go by you.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Turtle, but she's a little green.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Do you guys get what that means? What that means
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: that meditation?
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Do you think healed people love differently?
• 26:01
  Speaker 6: Are they just more honest about their limits?
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: I think both. I think that when you're healed, you
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: you're very careful about how you love right and who
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: you love because there is no way that I'm going
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: to get with a person who has a lot of
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: healing to do. It's just not going to work.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's not going to work.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: And I don't care how much chemistry we have or
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: what the vibe is.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: It's a good vibe, a good time. It's just never
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: ever ever going to work.
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: And I think that if I hadn't started my healing journey,
• 26:37
  Speaker 5: and it is a journey, and I want to say this,
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: A lot of people say this about me online. Oh
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: she's been on this healing journey, here she go again.
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: A healing journey is forever.
• 26:46
  Speaker 7: Every single day.
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: It's forever, and you have hiccups along the way. But
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: my healing journey will never stop because I know what
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: I know and I know.
• 26:55
  Speaker 6: And you said something. You expressed the sentiment that so
• 26:57
  Speaker 6: many women I know say. They were like, I don't
• 26:59
  Speaker 6: even want to deal with nobody. If they're not trying
• 27:01
  Speaker 6: to do some work on this other, they're not doing
• 27:03
  Speaker 6: the work on themsel.
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: Because why where we going to end up? Toxic in
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: your forties?
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Is not it?
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, It's not That's not it.
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: We were supposed to be fighting and arguing and I
• 27:14
  Speaker 5: ain't doing that. No, I'm laying on the beach and
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: making some coins.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Good night.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:18
  Speaker 8: Is that why you said you're not having fun outside?
• 27:21
  Speaker 8: It's because you keep running into toxic in over forty.
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: I am not running into anything, you know.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying?
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Thank you?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: And how's your relationship with your sisters? How y'all doing that?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I look at this, yaw'll be wondering what's real, what's
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: not real? What's made up? Behind the scenes? Did y'all speak?
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: This season was definitely unfortunately real, but it was necessary.
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: You know, we had a lot to get through and
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: talk about and figure out, and that we're still figuring out.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: And I'm just happy that we're on a path to
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: not being.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: Stuck in yesterday.
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: We can move forward from that and have different conversations
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: about what happened and why it happened, instead of people
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: holding on to different things that has been buried along
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: the way.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: You feel like your sisters are jealousy you, I know
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: one time you believe that.
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: Listen, when you're in an argument with your family members,
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: you say, anything happens.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: No, I don't truly believe that.
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: I don't believe that. I really honestly feel like you know,
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: in everybody's individual way, that we all really have a real.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Strong love for each other. I think that.
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: As individuals and as women, I think that some of
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: us are still trying to figure out what that looks like.
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: And I know I am what it looks like and
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: what it is and how we fit into our sisterhood
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: now today.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: As adults, And how do y'all fight as sisters? Like
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: after y'all fight, do y'all say I need five more minutes?
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Or like how does it stop when you get tired?
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: Like I think everybody go to their corners and patch
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: up and heel up.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: That's what I think, you know, Rest in peace to Tracy.
• 29:09
  Speaker 6: Always did that not bring y'all together and that not
• 29:13
  Speaker 6: make y'all say, you know what, all the petty we
• 29:15
  Speaker 6: haveing a dress, let's just sit down and do it,
• 29:17
  Speaker 6: because you know, life is short.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: In a sense.
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: But in a sense, it kind of made things exasperate, yeah,
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: because you know, we never thought that you know, we
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: would up. You don't think you're going to lose a sibling, right,
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: And but the way that you know she passed, she
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: got sick and it happened very rapidly. And so I
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: think that there's a lot of anger, but it's a
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: lot of healing that needs to happen that bubbles around
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: Tracy in that situation. And I think that the Tracy
• 29:49
  Speaker 5: situation made everything else so much bigger.
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I saw you. I saw you beating yourself up
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: about it. You know, I should would could ave it.
• 29:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we was a lot of time, But the truth
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: is I wasn't ready to heal back then, right, And
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: it doesn't matter, you know how much time we wasted
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: in the end, we really made up for it, and
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: I'm grateful for that. I just wish I had more
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: time with that kind of time with Tracy.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: And that's all different for me, and it's different.
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, I went to grief counseling before
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: Tracy passed, and not to say I was prepared for
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: but I was more prepared for it and how to
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: deal with it.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: So for me.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: With cancers, very very tricky, right, because it's I feel
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: like it's almost like a sense of sitting around and
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: waiting for somebody to pass.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 30:46
  Speaker 5: You know it's coming, especially at her stage, and so
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: I just feel like going through grief counseling prepared me
• 30:56
  Speaker 5: to deal with it, like I was dealing with it
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: while she was sick, if that makes sense. So when
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: it actually happened, I was more relieved than anything because
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: I asked her a specific question one time. I was like,
• 31:07
  Speaker 5: how do you feel, like, are you in pain?
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: Like?
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Because she was.
• 31:10
  Speaker 5: Heavily medicated, she was like, this never a moment when
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: I'm not in pain. Yeah, that was really hard.
• 31:17
  Speaker 7: What has been your Yeah, but.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: We love Tracy.
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: She's with me all the time, so let's bring your
• 31:22
  Speaker 5: back up. But she'd be mad if we was upset
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: about it.
• 31:25
  Speaker 8: So this project, when you're released from the grief of
• 31:28
  Speaker 8: your ex, what what do you find is your relief
• 31:30
  Speaker 8: from other griefs that you go through, like loss of
• 31:32
  Speaker 8: your sister friendships, whatever the case may be.
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: I stay in therapy and I'm on medication. I'm not
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: I got off medication two weeks ago just to film
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: this movie because it was very it's a very emotional film.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: But I can't wait to get back.
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm on Lexapro. It's the best thing that ever
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: happened to me. Everybody needs lex Pro.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Why don't you tell the people where the feel like
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: you said something that calms you.
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: It's just just it's good for my nervous system, you
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: know what I mean? You know, like when people like
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: hear tea on the internet and it buzzes and everybody
• 32:12
  Speaker 5: nervous system that's all over the place. It just keeps
• 32:14
  Speaker 5: it calm. It's the best without being high, that's the best.
• 32:21
  Speaker 8: So how are you dealing with things as they come
• 32:23
  Speaker 8: in these couple like this time that you're shooting your
• 32:25
  Speaker 8: movie since you're used to having like, you know, like
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: help with dealing with things that might pop up and
• 32:30
  Speaker 8: things people saying like are you because.
• 32:33
  Speaker 7: You're on the internet.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I'm on the internet.
• 32:35
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but like how do you how are you coping?
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: How you getting through?
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: You're therapy? Therapy?
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: You do what you gotta do for work, right, you
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: do what you gotta do because you want more things
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: and bigger things and bigger opportunities. And I don't look
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: at my mental health journey as a handicap, right. It
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: doesn't stifle me in any way. I just now know
• 32:57
  Speaker 5: how to navigate it. And I'm responsible with my mental
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: health health. And it's okay, listen, I don't I don't
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: have to be on mental health medication.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: It's just helpful. Does that make sense?
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Absolutely?
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: And so yeah, and I know that. And because I
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: know that, it doesn't make me feel a way because
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: I'm not on it. Does that make sense? I hope
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: that makes sense. I got you, Okay, I got you.
• 33:21
  Speaker 7: When you're in therapy, are you talking to your therapist
• 33:23
  Speaker 7: about everything?
• 33:24
  Speaker 8: Okay? What's what's like? I mean everything?
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: Do you have a culturally competent therapist?
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: So they are I have two? Okay?
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: And so helpful?
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Do they call you when they see stuff coming on?
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: Like let me just call me at three?
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's things like that.
• 33:46
  Speaker 8: Do things trigger you, like I know there was the
• 33:48
  Speaker 8: you sent the cease and desist because of the funky
• 33:50
  Speaker 8: Neva stuff.
• 33:51
  Speaker 7: Do we have to talk about that we don't have
• 33:52
  Speaker 7: to talk about it.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: You before that different topics. I should get up here
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: in twelve year round like she does sis. Then you're
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: gonna be like, feel a waste.
• 34:02
  Speaker 8: She knows that this is not any INSPI or anything
• 34:05
  Speaker 8: like that. It's just a conversation.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Well, let's go back to heartbreak.
• 34:08
  Speaker 6: The heartbreak can feel isolated, right, So what do you
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: hope women who are listening to this album alone at
• 34:14
  Speaker 6: night feel?
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: The number one thing for my takeaway, the only way
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: out is through. You just kind of got to go
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: through the process and you got to allow yourself to feel.
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: And just like my major feeling was grief and guilt.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: I had to get over that.
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: I had to, you know, go through all the steps
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: to get out of it. And I think that with
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: heartbreak retrograde, I just wanted to, you know, be the
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: piece for women to know that, you know, you're you're
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: not a broken person because you cheat on your spouse.
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean, You're not damaged goods. You
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: went through something and you take account nobility and you
• 35:01
  Speaker 5: go through the motions to heal and and and be
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: better and get better.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: I agree with all that, but.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: It's just the way.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, certain things you have to say,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: you don't.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: You can't know.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: You don't need to tell the man that the other
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: man shifted you.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I didn't tell him me read it.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what he should have been going should be.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Why would you tell that other I smacking, I mean
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: were racked too.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: So he was lying. He didn't really do it.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: You just I was sacking. I'm telling you I was sacking.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: So you're just helping his ego. Thank you, Okay.
• 35:42
  Speaker 7: I love that you.
• 35:42
  Speaker 6: Are just this triggered by she got a bass because
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: her last X all right around.
• 35:49
  Speaker 8: Lie, no girl, never because I got stitches to grow
• 35:57
  Speaker 8: where the stitches were stupid.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: He's changing the story.
• 36:00
  Speaker 8: Dermatologists for you your hair, Yes, God, you're still gonna
• 36:03
  Speaker 8: give them to me after my last question.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not upset about it all. You're doing your job,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna say this, she's amazing. You found her, right,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I found them the kind of.
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: Like that.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: People that recommended her.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: But I tell you that all the time.
• 36:19
  Speaker 8: You know, you're so supportive, and that's why, Like when
• 36:22
  Speaker 8: so today when I came in, I gave you some
• 36:23
  Speaker 8: hugs before this, I'm like it's such a dynamic of
• 36:26
  Speaker 8: like doing your job and like because I keep up
• 36:28
  Speaker 8: with everything that you do, but also in real life,
• 36:30
  Speaker 8: whenever thing's happen, I'm.
• 36:32
  Speaker 7: Like, hey, you good, like I know that.
• 36:34
  Speaker 8: And a lot of times I don't bring it to
• 36:35
  Speaker 8: air because when we talk, I know you're going through
• 36:37
  Speaker 8: things for real, for real and it gets really.
• 36:39
  Speaker 7: Tough for you.
• 36:39
  Speaker 6: So I was she found us while being here, she
• 36:44
  Speaker 6: found herself, and I think when she found herself that's
• 36:47
  Speaker 6: when she started to flourish.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: And that's what happened.
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: Isn't that amazing when you find yourself, like the level
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: of like like you never thought that you could even
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: think that big, you know what I mean? But finding
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: yourself is the key to it all. And I'm telling
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: you I'm not plugging my record. I'm just telling you
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: a heartbreak retrograde. I think it's saved my life.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: It just did.
• 37:11
  Speaker 7: The visual too, yeah too.
• 37:13
  Speaker 8: I think when people listen to the music, you should
• 37:14
  Speaker 8: watch the visual with the music because I think it
• 37:17
  Speaker 8: really shows something that all women go through, not just
• 37:20
  Speaker 8: about men and cheating, but just about figuring out who
• 37:22
  Speaker 8: you want to show up as.
• 37:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah me, DC's is still upset with me about this,
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: about this scene. But it's a very important scene that's
• 37:29
  Speaker 5: in the film. It's the breakup scene when he sits
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: me down and he's just like absolutely positively not like
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: what you do with them lips?
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: You think you're gona kiss me with those lips?
• 37:39
  Speaker 5: Like it's it's really important to men because I just
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: feel like we never see the other side. And we
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: always talk about when a woman's fed up, but we
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: never talk about when a man is done done.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: And it's over with and it's nothing you could do
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: about that shit the cry.
• 37:59
  Speaker 5: It's true, and I didn't know that until that situation
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: what that man can really be done, that men can.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Really be done with. Get hurt too, You hurt your feelings,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: but they would come back.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah damn. Is there a song on the album that
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: represents closure for you?
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 38:24
  Speaker 5: I think the record loved me. It's just talk talking
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: about I miss it and I love it, but it's over.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: And that's it.
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: I just have I had to take that situation as
• 38:38
  Speaker 5: a lesson because I really wanted it to work out,
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: and when it didn't, I just had to accept that
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: that this was your lesson, and I know this is
• 38:47
  Speaker 5: my lesson. To become the best version of myself for
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: the best person that God has for me, which is.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: My partner.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: With somebody else that you have been in love with somebody.
• 39:00
  Speaker 6: No, this is what you mean, because I'm saying, like,
• 39:02
  Speaker 6: could that happen again?
• 39:04
  Speaker 5: No, I'm never I will never experience another heartbreak, even
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: if if the person passes away, I will not experience heartbreak.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know how that's possible because.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: It's a part of life.
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: I'm not arguing with God. You understand what I'm saying.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: I feel it, and I know how to process it.
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: You understand what I'm saying, like, I'm not going into
• 39:23
  Speaker 5: a deep depression over it. I know how to handle
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: my emotions, you know. And I'm just never going to
• 39:29
  Speaker 5: experience heartbreak ever again.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: Is that not suppressing it?
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Though? No, I'm going to feel it.
• 39:34
  Speaker 5: I'm not going to say I'm not going to be sad,
• 39:36
  Speaker 5: but I'm not going to be heartbroken.
• 39:37
  Speaker 8: You're saying you're not gonna liw yourself to get to
• 39:39
  Speaker 8: that dark deep. I know what you're talking about because
• 39:41
  Speaker 8: I think men, y'all deal.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I can be there something. Having one of my kids,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I'm heartbroken.
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: That's different.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Heartbreak. I'm heartbroken.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Different my wife walks up and tells me she has
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: sex with somebody else that had a bigger penis.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: I'm heartbroken.
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, was a.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Shut up man.
• 40:03
  Speaker 8: Well, I know what you mean though, of going through
• 40:05
  Speaker 8: like that deep dark place because of something that you
• 40:08
  Speaker 8: think was done or was done, and you're like, I'm
• 40:09
  Speaker 8: never gonna allow myself to get back here.
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: It's not possible.
• 40:12
  Speaker 6: I don't think I mean, everybody grieved diff but I
• 40:15
  Speaker 6: just think grief is something we should allow ourselves to feel.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: That heartbreak is something we should allow ourselves.
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: Differ, not to that degree that was unhealthy.
• 40:24
  Speaker 8: Do you feel like that blocks you from having real
• 40:26
  Speaker 8: love again?
• 40:27
  Speaker 7: Though?
• 40:28
  Speaker 8: That what that you are set on, I'm never going
• 40:31
  Speaker 8: to experience heartbreak. So it's kind of like, I mean,
• 40:33
  Speaker 8: I'm talking about myself personally, right, because I decided that
• 40:36
  Speaker 8: after going through a really bad situation in a good situation,
• 40:39
  Speaker 8: I found myself almost like waiting for the next shoe
• 40:42
  Speaker 8: to drop because I wanted to like get out before
• 40:43
  Speaker 8: I was gonna feel anything that would hurt me, because
• 40:45
  Speaker 8: I didn't want to go through heartbreak again. And then
• 40:47
  Speaker 8: it was messing up what was good like it was
• 40:49
  Speaker 8: creating things that weren't even really happening. Do you experience
• 40:53
  Speaker 8: like are you able to be vulnerable and really accept that,
• 40:55
  Speaker 8: like you might not have all good with a person
• 40:58
  Speaker 8: that is good for you.
• 40:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but there is a wall, but you're not getting
• 41:04
  Speaker 5: past because I'm not going back. And that's that on that,
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean. I'm not anticipating pain, not
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: doing it. I'm gonna somebody makes me feel good and
• 41:14
  Speaker 5: we have in a moment, and you know, the vibe
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: is vibe it. I'm gonna sit in it and enjoy
• 41:19
  Speaker 5: every second until it's not there anymore, and then I'm
• 41:24
  Speaker 5: going to move to the left.
• 41:25
  Speaker 7: It's's no struggle love. You don't want struggle love.
• 41:27
  Speaker 5: I'm not doing it.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Why, I'm a great one. I'm a great catch. Hello.
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: I understand what you're saying, because, like you said, you
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: caused the heart break I did. But you're not gonna
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: beat yourself up over I guess a mistake that you made.
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: I did beat myself up.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: So what version of Tamo walked into the studio? What
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: version walked out? Well?
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: I came in here a little heavy, because you know,
• 41:53
  Speaker 5: stud when you did that, the studio Today was rough
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: for me because I think that sometimes like it's a lot, right,
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: and I have anxiety, and I know and I recognize
• 42:07
  Speaker 5: that I'm not on my medication right now, so it's
• 42:10
  Speaker 5: probably heightened.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: You're gonna get asked.
• 42:14
  Speaker 5: I don't want to discuss, you know, and you know,
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: I don't want to make things worse, not only for myself,
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: but for my loved ones and loved ones being the
• 42:25
  Speaker 5: person heart that I broke, or my siblings or I
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: know it's tough for my mother to see her daughters
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: that way.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: And I also don't.
• 42:34
  Speaker 5: Want to give opportunity for anybody to say anything else. Yeah,
• 42:41
  Speaker 5: but I'm okay now.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:43
  Speaker 5: Before I came in, I just senter it myself and
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm in a safe place. I'm in a
• 42:48
  Speaker 5: safe place because I'm in control of me, you control
• 42:50
  Speaker 5: of what comes out of my mouth. And it doesn't
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: matter what the headlines say. I know that whatever I say,
• 42:54
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna stand by, and that's it.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: Shifting the gag gonna come out because I'm not about him.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: But if he start doing it, he's not as a
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: uter shifter. Yes, I should have hired.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I just want to tell you, we love you, support you, yes,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: will we have your back?
• 43:19
  Speaker 7: And congrats on Bridezilla too, Thank you, thank you.
• 43:23
  Speaker 6: I do have one more question, because after heartbreak retrograde,
• 43:25
  Speaker 6: what does love look like moving forward forward?
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Is it softer? Is it guarded? Is it fearless?
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: It's all of that. But I'm looking forward to a
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: soft love, I really am. I'm looking forward to to
• 43:37
  Speaker 5: catering to and catering to me.
• 43:40
  Speaker 7: It's a great place there, you go what it's a
• 43:47
  Speaker 7: great place to be.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Do you talk? We open about it? I feelsation. Are
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: you opening? Are you public?
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: Because I won't be public ever again. Wait, just four
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: or five months ago, she had to, she had to
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: figure out which one it was going to be single
• 44:06
  Speaker 5: and I was dating.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: That's you should take more than one.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: She's happy, she's glowing now and it's the same thing
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: that though I fixed that before.
• 44:18
  Speaker 7: A terrible he dropped me.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Spray on hair dyed like paint, spray covers it.
• 44:23
  Speaker 6: You wait, this is true love, legendary.
• 44:30
  Speaker 8: Why to answer your question, I will talk about being
• 44:34
  Speaker 8: in a relationship, but I do want to keep certain
• 44:35
  Speaker 8: things to myself.
• 44:37
  Speaker 5: Because I haven't seen them on your page yet. Do
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: not show him yet I just don't show him. I
• 44:44
  Speaker 5: think that's when things get a little while. I mean,
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: don't show already posted him.
• 44:50
  Speaker 8: But oh wow, But I will say I think certain
• 44:52
  Speaker 8: things I want to keep to the chest a little bit,
• 44:54
  Speaker 8: just because I just it's a people be having a
• 44:58
  Speaker 8: lot to say in a lot going on, and everybody
• 45:00
  Speaker 8: not built to deal with all of that.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: And you don't know if that man got a whole
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: other family.
• 45:06
  Speaker 8: Exactly what he got and he don't got. Don't play
• 45:08
  Speaker 8: with me, That's what I did.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Oh that show boo boo, this is girl. How long
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: has it been? Boom? Can't even see that?
• 45:14
  Speaker 6: That bolls spot are like that sometimes?
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: She how long you've been with the man? She said, sometime.
• 45:21
  Speaker 7: I've been dating him for a while.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: It's a while, Lauren.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: You all in my business, and so you know about
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: the other people you're dating while you was dating.
• 45:28
  Speaker 8: Wow, when I met him, the people that I was like,
• 45:32
  Speaker 8: kind of have a conversation where we had that conversation. Yeah,
• 45:35
  Speaker 8: So how did you feel about that we weren't exclusively together,
• 45:38
  Speaker 8: like were he gonna you know what I mean? It
• 45:40
  Speaker 8: was I think more so because we were friends before this,
• 45:43
  Speaker 8: like he's not like a stranger.
• 45:45
  Speaker 7: He wasn't really focused on it.
• 45:46
  Speaker 8: I think he pulled up and understood, like, Okay, once
• 45:48
  Speaker 8: I'm here, I know all that is going to go
• 45:50
  Speaker 8: by the wayside. So let's just focus on each other
• 45:52
  Speaker 8: for real in this news space, not as friends.
• 45:54
  Speaker 5: And so how does men feel about that women dating
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: multiple dat?
• 46:02
  Speaker 6: I used to call her two nigga oh, because I
• 46:03
  Speaker 6: feel like you like, she's young, you know me and
• 46:05
  Speaker 6: she seeing the New York.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: Now go have some fun.
• 46:08
  Speaker 6: But I just thought it was ridiculous when he took
• 46:09
  Speaker 6: her on vacation and put will you be my girlfriends?
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: You went out the country with damn sorry you saw it.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: It was cute, but all the.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Way out of the country to get after you girl.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, you better because this is what I think.
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: I think that you were supposed to date several and
• 46:23
  Speaker 5: mad and made the best man who steps up when but.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: You done left the man sweat on you. So it's like.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: Saying that happened before they were they were seeing each other,
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: but they were joking that. She said, you never asked me,
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: We just came to It just happened, and that was
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: his joke back, will you be my girl.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: They were exclusive.
• 46:45
  Speaker 8: Still because I feel like even in my joke as
• 46:48
  Speaker 8: a person trying to figure out like how to go
• 46:50
  Speaker 8: into a relationship, because I was in a relationship young
• 46:52
  Speaker 8: and then it ended when I was like thirty thirty one.
• 46:54
  Speaker 8: So when I was single, I'm like, this is my
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: first time being an adult and being single. I don't
• 46:58
  Speaker 8: even know how you get back into a relationship at
• 47:01
  Speaker 8: this point. But we've had that conversation, and so that
• 47:04
  Speaker 8: was him being like, Okay, even if you don't know
• 47:07
  Speaker 8: and you're joking, I want to make sure you feel
• 47:09
  Speaker 8: as secure as you need to everything.
• 47:11
  Speaker 7: He's doing what you need to do. And Big Fatty
• 47:13
  Speaker 7: over the.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: Fatty and your man built that's crazy.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Just ignore him. Big Events used to be Evince.
• 47:36
  Speaker 7: I met him and he was a really nice person.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: But he's not even when you was with him, Teddy Repskins.
• 47:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's not that, but he is a man. Though
• 47:50
  Speaker 7: I was hot.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: No no, no, no no.
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: I was going to say, you know, I enjoyed my
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: Teddy Repskin era. I didn't think I wouldn't be able
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: to enjoy that.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: But about it's okay to be.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: That's what you said.
• 48:06
  Speaker 8: Think it's for me. It's not for me now, yeah,
• 48:09
  Speaker 8: I can do. He's not built like your ski. He's
• 48:11
  Speaker 8: just angry and.
• 48:13
  Speaker 5: He's happy for you.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: He's just playing.
• 48:15
  Speaker 8: I think so too, because when I was and he's
• 48:17
  Speaker 8: super happy from inside and being.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Happy for her. I'm happy. When the man proposed and
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: they walked down, it's kind of.
• 48:31
  Speaker 7: Like that's all he did.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: Make sure you walk down, that's all.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah you need no, don't say that. It would have
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: been like five months, six months.
• 48:44
  Speaker 7: But I've known for years.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: You know what the things they got to do, well
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: what I advise, live with each other, so you really
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: see the true meaning. You know, these conversations about bills
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: and finances and have that conversation about the future. How
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: many kids you want, how many kids he wants? You
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: need to have those conversations before you just get into it.
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: And I'm just saying have those.
• 49:04
  Speaker 8: Rushing But I am also like you know, I mean,
• 49:08
  Speaker 8: I'm I'm good, got him in a really great place.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: But when I meet him, it's not going to be long.
• 49:15
  Speaker 8: I don't think it will even before you meet him.
• 49:16
  Speaker 8: If it was up to him, it wouldn't be long.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, heartbreak retrograde, which.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Have them love me everybody. I don't know. I don't know.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: That's a couple of damn love me. I don't know both.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, we appreciate you for joining us holidays and
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: thank you.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Happy holidays to the family. It's take on Braxton. It's
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, every day, Breakfast Club.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Finish, y'all done,