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Episode #3952 The New Phil Hendrie Show · The World of Phil Hendrie

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  Speaker 1: The following is a world-famous Phil Henry Show encore presentation.
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  Speaker 2: And now, from the world-famous Phil Henry Show studios at
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  Speaker 2: the El Pacifico in Southern California, it's time once again, yes,
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  Speaker 2: yet again, it's time for the Phil Henry Show.
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  Speaker 3: Every day, unrelenting, day in and day out. It never ends. Oh, well,
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry to bother you. Well, How about taking a
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  Speaker 3: couple of weeks off, Phil? Yeah, how about putting something
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  Speaker 3: in here, Mr. Henry, like somebody... I don't know, man.
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  Speaker 1: It could be a different kind.
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  Speaker 3: Of a guy or something. What about that? What do
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  Speaker 3: you mean a different kind of a guy? Why not
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  Speaker 3: put a show in here, Phil, that... What's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: With your throat?
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  Speaker 3: I've got a little bit of laryngitis.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you had the same cold I had.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. But why not put a show in here, Phil,
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  Speaker 3: that is hosted by someone completely different, that is completely
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  Speaker 3: different from the show that you do... Yeah, because it's just,
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  Speaker 3: as Margaret said, unrelenting, day in and day out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get my phone, the show's downloaded, oh God,
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  Speaker 1: oh God, here it is again. Well, I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 1: If you guys don't dig.
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  Speaker 3: It, wait a minute, let me guess, we can quit?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can quit. You want to quit?
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  Speaker 3: No. No, I don't want to quit.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are talking about day in, day out, it's unrelenting,
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  Speaker 1: there's the Phil Henry show, that's the idea.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean every day.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and it ain't every day. Monday through Friday.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you do the classic. You do the classic, and
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  Speaker 3: then there's Elcott the next step. It's every day.
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  Speaker 4: Phil.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, give me a break. You guys are putting me on, right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, we are. Yeah, we are. We just wanted to
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  Speaker 3: start the show different. Okay, thank you for that. God,
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  Speaker 3: at least you could say it was a little bit funny.
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't it slightly funny?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess.
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  Speaker 3: God, it sounded like you were going to cry. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I guess.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it was funny.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Frank and Steve.
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  Speaker 3: Frank is here. Steve Bozell is here. Come on in, Frank.
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  Speaker 3: Just go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, kick it off, Frank.
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  Speaker 3: What's up?
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  Speaker 1: All right. Well, hello, everyone. I'm Frank Gray. And hello, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: And how are you doing, Steve?
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  Speaker 3: I'm fine.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Bozell is here. And Phil Henry.
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  Speaker 3: And hi, honey. Hi.
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  Speaker 1: And General, how are you doing? And Bud?
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  Speaker 2: Hi.
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing fine.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here today. because it was in September of 2021,
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  Speaker 1: almost a two-year anniversary, September 28th, 2021, when I told
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  Speaker 1: Steve Boesel here that the guy who has the highest
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  Speaker 1: score in golf doesn't win. I received a series of
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  Speaker 1: tests and emails from Mr. Boesel as recently as three
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago, questioning, are you sure? Are you sure that
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  Speaker 1: the guy who, and I asked Mr. Bozell, have you
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  Speaker 1: bothered to watch a game of golf? And it responded, no,
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  Speaker 1: it hadn't. And so it's here today. What do you
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  Speaker 1: need to find out? I'm here to find out when
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  Speaker 1: you play golf and you don't have the higher, you
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  Speaker 1: got the low, lower score.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I just need to understand how I watch golf on TV.
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  Speaker 1: You've watched the big tournaments.
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  Speaker 3: I watched a couple, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I see where it says a guy has a
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  Speaker 1: negative three or a negative five, and the man on
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  Speaker 1: the announcer part says, yeah, this guy's doing good.
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  Speaker 3: Look at him.
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  Speaker 1: He's got a negative. He doesn't have as high a
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  Speaker 1: score as another guy. And you understand I said that
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  Speaker 1: means it hasn't taken it as many strokes.
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  Speaker 3: Now, what do you mean by stroke?
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  Speaker 1: I mean the swing of the golf club.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Take it easy, Frank. Well, I've been dealing with this
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  Speaker 1: chowderhead for four years.
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  Speaker 3: Look, I agreed to come on here.
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  Speaker 1: You wanted to come.
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  Speaker 3: Don't agree.
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  Speaker 1: You wanted to come on here.
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  Speaker 3: You did request a time, Mr. Buzzle. And my name
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  Speaker 3: is Bozell. God. Sorry, you did request a time. I did, yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so don't say that I've dragged you on the
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  Speaker 1: air here. I came on here in protest because I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to work this out.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I know you guys were on the phone together, Mr. Bozell, correct? Yes,
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  Speaker 3: that is. But please call me Steve, everyone.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Steve.
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  Speaker 3: Steve? Hey, Steve. All right, Steve, you were on the
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  Speaker 3: phone with Frank.
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  Speaker 1: I was on the phone with Frank, and it was
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  Speaker 1: bothering me. Hey, can I ask a question, Steve?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Why is this coming up now? It's coming up now
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  Speaker 1: because April, my daughter, April Jr., wanted to go play
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  Speaker 1: miniature golf, and I hadn't played no miniature golf probably
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  Speaker 1: maybe in my whole life.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. You're kidding me.
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  Speaker 1: You've never played miniature golf.
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  Speaker 3: All right, see this? Look at this.
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  Speaker 1: Margaret, where are you?
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  Speaker 3: Right here. Right next to you. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: It says it's never played miniature golf. Why haven't you
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  Speaker 1: played miniature golf?
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know that it was some kind of a requirement. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: my God. I just have never played miniature golf.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody in the world has played miniature golf, especially with kids.
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  Speaker 1: My kids, they've played miniature golf with their mom, and
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  Speaker 1: they played miniature golf with their grandparents, and they played
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  Speaker 1: miniature golf. But it just so happens that I've never
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  Speaker 1: played miniature golf until last week when I went out
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  Speaker 1: with April Jr. So it was just you and your daughter?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my daughter and I.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to make it up to her because
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  Speaker 1: on the one-man show, she heard that I was going
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  Speaker 1: to call Steve April Jr. And I explained to her
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  Speaker 1: I was going to call the firstborn April Jr. It
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  Speaker 1: turned out it was a boy. And she said, how
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  Speaker 1: could you possibly do that, Daddy? And I said, I
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  Speaker 1: made a mistake. And she looked at me like I
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  Speaker 1: was something that grew in fertilizer in a hothouse. What
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  Speaker 1: is that?
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  Speaker 3: A mushroom? Yeah. She looked at me like I was
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  Speaker 3: a mushroom.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, well, what's everybody staring at me for? Just go
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  Speaker 3: ahead with your story.
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  Speaker 1: So I went out and I played miniature golf with
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  Speaker 1: April Jr. And on the first hole, she got it
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  Speaker 1: in on it. She got her in on a two
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  Speaker 1: and I got it in on a three. And you
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  Speaker 1: don't understand why your daughter beat you on that hole. I,
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  Speaker 1: I said to her, look, daddy knocked, took three knocks
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  Speaker 1: of the ball. And she said to me, my own
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  Speaker 1: daughter said to me, you gotta be putting me on Einstein.
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  Speaker 1: You can't understand what your daughter called you Einstein.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, listen, Frank, what's your name?
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  Speaker 3: Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Steve, I can't fault your daughter at all. It probably
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  Speaker 1: was trying to get through to you the best way
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  Speaker 1: it knew how. And you referring to, you can call
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  Speaker 1: me it, but calling my daughter it? I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what it's, what's it talking about? I explained this to you, Steve.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Now, you played miniature golf with your daughter. It beat
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  Speaker 1: you on the first hole. How many strokes did it take?
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  Speaker 3: She got it in in like three.
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  Speaker 1: Did you take additional strokes on purpose?
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean, I was trying as hard as I
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  Speaker 3: could to get it in the hole, but I realized
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  Speaker 3: at the time I had seven strokes. Hey, Steve, this
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  Speaker 3: is Phil, as you can see. Yeah, I guess you're
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  Speaker 3: sitting right there talking to me. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I find it hard to believe that you could be
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  Speaker 1: so dumb.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Steve. I agree. I agree. Yeah, me too.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I've been trying to tell you, Bozell. All
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  Speaker 1: of you people are saying I'm dumb. Yes, yes, yes.
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  Speaker 3: Steve, this is not difficult to get. And for you
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  Speaker 3: to play miniature golf with your own daughter and not
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  Speaker 3: understanding it, something's going on. What do you mean something's
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  Speaker 3: going on?
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  Speaker 1: Why did you drag me back to this studio today
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  Speaker 1: to talk about you not understanding how it is in golf,
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  Speaker 1: the guy with the low score wins and the guy
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  Speaker 1: with a high score? I want to know what it is,
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  Speaker 1: what it is, as they used to say in the,
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  Speaker 1: The Rhythm and Blues record business. Hey, what it is?
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  Speaker 3: Well, no.
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  Speaker 1: Well, what is it, or what it is, that makes
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  Speaker 1: you dumber than a bag full of hammerheads? That's I
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  Speaker 1: gotta know.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. I gotta get back into show business.
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  Speaker 1: Holy Christ.
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  Speaker 3: That's it? What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I just, I miss being in the spotlight. I miss
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  Speaker 1: being on the Phil Henry show. I have you on
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  Speaker 1: the show a lot. Yeah, but you have me on
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  Speaker 1: the show as a guest. And it's always about something
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  Speaker 1: that I did wrong or something that I boned up,
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  Speaker 1: something I just boneheaded my way into. Hey, look, Bozell,
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  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Don't you do a stand-up
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  Speaker 1: comedy act? Yeah, what about your stand-up comedy routine? My
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  Speaker 1: stand-up comedy routine, I do it at the Kitty Carousel
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  Speaker 1: there in the men's club. I tried getting on stage
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  Speaker 1: down there at Mayhem, that new comedy club in Pomona.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I got up and I did a set for
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  Speaker 1: the owner, and... The guy says to me, Hey, great job, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: And when we, when something opens up, we're sure to
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  Speaker 1: get you. Oh, the guy was blowing you off.
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  Speaker 3: Pretty much.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And so you're lying. This is your way of getting
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  Speaker 1: on the air.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not lying about anything.
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  Speaker 1: Well, your way of getting back on the air is saying,
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, explain to me how they score golf again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And you dragged me in here. You dragged me off
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  Speaker 1: of my sofa, out of my easy chair. When I'm watching, uh, uh,
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  Speaker 1: bridges at Ramagan on YouTube. Or I'm watching one of
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  Speaker 1: these great movies.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.
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  Speaker 1: I'm watching on YouTube a number of different movies, and
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  Speaker 1: you drag me off of that sofa. I've got to
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  Speaker 1: get into a pair of pants, shoes, a vest and
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  Speaker 1: a tie, and come down here.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody told you to put a vest on.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I wear a vest everywhere I go.
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  Speaker 3: Frank wears a vest a lot. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And I come down here to sit here and engage
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  Speaker 1: with your dumb ass. All right, come on, Frank.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, wait a minute.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 3: Just don't, don't.
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  Speaker 1: I got this coming. engage with your dumb ass about
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  Speaker 1: how it is they score golf because you simply miss
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  Speaker 1: the spotlight. Is that what, Steve, what do you want?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think I can do for you? I'm
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  Speaker 1: just thinking that maybe I haven't hosted my own show lately.
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  Speaker 1: You used to let me host the Steve Bozell Experience.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know how many people we've had
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  Speaker 1: hosting the show lately. I heard you have, you had
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  Speaker 1: Ted Bell last night and he had on Jay Santos
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  Speaker 1: and Jay Santos is part of a round table.
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  Speaker 3: Is that what you want?
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  Speaker 1: That's what you want, huh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, wait a minute.
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  Speaker 1: You want Ted Bell to interview you in a roundtable
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  Speaker 1: discussion of what? What kind of food? What kind of exercise?
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  Speaker 1: What kind of different physical regimen goes into making you
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  Speaker 1: a dumbass? Is that it?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, you know something? Wait a minute.
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  Speaker 1: No, no.
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  Speaker 3: You know something? That is uncalled for, Mr. Grant.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here.
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  Speaker 3: I'm here.
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  Speaker 1: Talking to you about how they score golf and all
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  Speaker 1: you want to do.
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  Speaker 3: All you really want to do, Steve, is just be
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  Speaker 3: on the air here.
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  Speaker 1: I'd like it, Mr. Henry, if I could do my
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  Speaker 1: own show on a regular basis, just like Ms. Dooley
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  Speaker 1: did and Mr. Elcott does. That would be Bugs Wilcott.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: Steve, I haven't had a regular podcast other than Elcott
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  Speaker 1: the Next Step. We haven't had a regular podcast since Bobby.
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  Speaker 3: And if he's going to do a regular podcast, you're
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  Speaker 3: putting me in there. Margaret, I thought you were... You
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  Speaker 3: thought I was what?
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  Speaker 1: I thought you were kind of, you know, retired off
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  Speaker 1: of the show here, doing that stuff, and you wanted
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  Speaker 1: to stay home with the... I know you're going to
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  Speaker 1: stay home with our son. What is it talking about?
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying, if you're giving out slots on the
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  Speaker 3: Phil Henry Show website, me, I, Margaret Gray... Yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: have to agree. Margaret Gray comes first. Well, I.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if that's the case, if you only got
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  Speaker 1: room for one. Here's what I'm saying. I'm not just
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  Speaker 1: giving them out in terms of seniority. We want to
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  Speaker 1: make sure they're entertaining. And all you had to do, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: is come to me and say, hey, Mr. Henry, I'd
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  Speaker 1: like to be on the Phil Henry Show platform instead
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  Speaker 1: of coming in here with some phony baloney thing about
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  Speaker 1: how do they score.
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  Speaker 3: Golf?
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  Speaker 1: It asked me, hey, Mr. Gray, how do they? It's
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  Speaker 1: been bothering me for three years. How do they score
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  Speaker 1: golf again?
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  Speaker 3: Well, if truth be told, I still don't get it.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta be kidding me, man. You still don't understand? No,
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  Speaker 3: not really, but I don't care as much as I
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  Speaker 3: care about having a show.
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  Speaker 1: They score golf the number of strokes it takes to
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  Speaker 1: get the ball in the hole. The lower number, the
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  Speaker 1: fewer number, the more good, the gooder.
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  Speaker 3: The better you are as a golfer.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, the better you are as a golfer. So when
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  Speaker 1: a guy gets the ball, when you're playing miniature golf
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  Speaker 1: with your daughter, April Jr., is that its name?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, that's... Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And your little girl stands there, and the love of
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  Speaker 1: your life, your little girl, and it stands over the ball,
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  Speaker 1: and it hits the ball, and it got it in,
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  Speaker 1: let's say, in two strokes, and it took you seven.
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  Speaker 3: That's correct, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That means it's better than you, because it only took
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  Speaker 1: it two strokes.
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  Speaker 3: Man, I can't feature that. You're an idiot. You are
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  Speaker 3: an idiot. Why would anybody want to give you a show?
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  Speaker 1: I understand, yes, that it takes two strokes for her
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  Speaker 1: to get it in the hole. You are really, Bozell,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, in all my years, in this
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  Speaker 1: world of ours, I've never met a guy with a
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  Speaker 1: full vacuum between the ears like you. You have a full,
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  Speaker 1: there's nothing there. It's a vacuum. No one, if someone
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  Speaker 1: shrunk down to the size of like a peanut and
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  Speaker 1: went inside your head, they'd suffocate.
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  Speaker 3: Why are you saying that?
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  Speaker 1: There's no air in there. There's nothing in there. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we got the point. Steve, let's talk behind scenes about
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  Speaker 1: I just, I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, Mr. Ernst, to do this.
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  Speaker 1: I know it doesn't make any sense. I just need
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  Speaker 1: to do something besides the construction business and being on
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  Speaker 1: stage the other night with you. You liked it, huh?
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  Speaker 3: It was, it was. You thought it was exciting.
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  Speaker 1: It was very exciting, even though I was made to
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  Speaker 1: look like a baboon's hind end, so.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you did too. Okay, I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. Instead of dragging Frank in here
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  Speaker 1: about the way they score golf, Bozell, now get this
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  Speaker 1: and get it good. The guy who takes the fewest
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  Speaker 1: number of strokes to get the ball in the hole
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  Speaker 1: is the guy what wins, okay? God, you talk almost
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  Speaker 1: like a dumbass. Talking to you over the course of
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: two years about this cat box stuff is driving me nuts.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Frank, calm down.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve.
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  Speaker 3: Let's talk. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset people.
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  Speaker 1: A little disingenuous man coming in here.
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  Speaker 3: I apologize, Frank. Oh, man.
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  Speaker 1: You know that my balls hurt. Why would that be?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, Frank.
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  Speaker 1: My... I have to go home and put ice on
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  Speaker 1: my balls. They had nothing to do with this, but that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. Okay, coming up next, we
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: have Dr. Jim Sadler and Vernon Dozier on the psychological
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: effects of these hurricanes, the one that's hitting Florida. You know,
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  Speaker 1: my girl Jackie is down there, and she and I
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  Speaker 1: have been talking about the preparation she's making, and Ryan's
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: down there along with Stassi, and, you know, people that
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  Speaker 1: we know. And this is not her first rodeo when
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• 14:23
  Speaker 1: that we know in the state of Florida who are
• 14:25
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• 14:27
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  Speaker 1: think it's due to make landfall.
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  Speaker 3: It's supposed to make landfall tonight.
• 14:38
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• 14:41
  Speaker 1: it's like a Cat 4, maybe even a Cat 5,
• 14:43
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  Speaker 3: Jim Sandler joining me. on our newsmaker line, Dr. Sadler
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: in San Diego. And I thought I'd have Dr.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Sadler on to talk about the psychological effects of storms, weather,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: where you're kept inside, where you don't really have the
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: opportunity to get out and kind of clear your mind.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: You're locked up inside the house. There's nowhere to go,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: nowhere to run. There's a claustrophobia. It's all happening to people...
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Right now in Florida, I thought, Dr. Sal, I know
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: we're in California. We don't really get hurricanes here. But
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: that claustrophobic feeling where you can't get out and get
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: stuff done, where you've got to sit and sort of
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: wait for this big event.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: Well, you know, Phil, waiting for a big event can
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: take many shapes and many sizes. And first of all,
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: I want to thank you for allowing me on the air.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great to have you, Doc.
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: And Margaret.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: It's wonderful to see you, Dr. Sadler. Yeah, it's great
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: to see you. Hi, Dr. Sadler.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: Hello, everyone. It's important, I think, for people to understand
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: that a hurricane is in many ways like you, like me.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: A hurricane is no different from who we are. A hurricane,
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: you were just mentioning, Phil, people wanting to be themselves,
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: wanting to be the very best that they can be.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: A hurricane wants to be the very best that it
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: can be. And if you try to stop it, if
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: you try to make a hurricane do what a hurricane...
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: doesn't want to do, then it'll literally lift you up
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: and throw you right into the street. Okay?
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: But I mean, a hurricane's a very destructive thing.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: It absolutely is. It is. That's why a force of
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: nature is not an intelligent being. It is a force
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: of nature that can be very destructive, and we don't
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: want it to pick us up and throw us into
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: the street.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Are you saying if we get picked up by a
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: hurricane and thrown into the street, that we have, excuse
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: my language, pissed it off?
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, Bud, that's a good way of putting it.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: We have pissed the hurricane off by trying to stop it,
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: and I wouldn't even say pissed it off. What we're
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: doing is we're trying to stop the forces of a
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: hurricane and make it do something that it wouldn't normally do.
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: We want its winds to calm down. We want it
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: to just, you know, go away. And the hurricane is
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: there to take you and everything you own and, you know,
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: as we said, throw it into the street. I can
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: tell you, in my life, and I guess I'm probably
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: admitting a little bit too much, but in my life,
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: I'm a lot like a hurricane. Probably a lot of
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: the folks listening right now are a lot like a hurricane.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: Because if you... It's hard for me to say this, Phil.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: Go ahead.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: If you piss me off, I'll pick you up and
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: throw you in the street if people piss me off.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Well, that's a heck of a way of jumping into
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: the conversation, Doc. You're sounding very hostile.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: No, no, no. I'm not being hostile. I'm saying this
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: is how we all are. Wouldn't you, Phil? Wouldn't you, Bud?
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: Wouldn't you, Margaret? Wouldn't you, General Shaw?
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, if I got angry enough, I might want
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: to physically manhandle somebody. That would take a lot of
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: anger and it would take a whole lot of I'd
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: have to have a really good reason for putting my
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: hands on somebody.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: Well, that's you. That's the difference between you and me.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: And that's the difference, Phil, by the way, between you, me,
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: and a hurricane. Me and a hurricane, or I, me
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: and a hurricane, I forget how to say it.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: You and a hurricane.
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, me and a hurricane are similar in that the
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: hurricane wants to be a hurricane, and it'll pick you
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: up and throw you right into the street. When you say, no, Mr. Hurricane, no,
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: you can't.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Are we really saying that to a hurricane? Are we
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: just kind of protecting ourselves from it?
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: Well, by protecting yourself from a hurricane, you're saying to
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: the hurricane, no, you don't get to be what you
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: ought to be, okay? And when someone says to me, Dr.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: Jim Sadler, you don't get to be what you want
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: to be, my instinct is to grab them by the
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: lapels of their jacket, whatever their sports jacket, whatever they wear,
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: I don't know, and lift them up and toss them
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: through a door out into the street.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: All right, we have Coach Vernon Dozier on the line.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: Coach Dozier went to your seminar last month on this
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: very thing, controlling one's temper, on this very thing, which
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: is using the forces within. I did a series.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: Of lectures there. It's Crips, yeah. And Coach Dozier was there.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Coach Dozier. Come on in, Coach. And, Coach, you were there, huh?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I was definitely there.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: Okay, and what did you take? So you were there
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: for my lectures on finding the powers of motivation.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was there because I had read, I know
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: you'd been on the Phil Henry show, and I saw
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: that you had.
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: What are you doing up at Henry's studio in Ventura?
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Because my wife and I had dinner in Santa Barbara,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: and Mr. Henry invited me to stop by.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: What's the problem?
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: I don't know. It just seems suspicious.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: There's nothing suspicious about it.
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: Are you here to tell me What?
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I simply wanted to say, Dr. Sadler, that I heard
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: you say that you want to throw, you know, during
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: that lecture, you said you want to pick up a
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: guy and throw him in the street. That's how angry
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: you get. But you didn't put it like a hurricane.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Well, I don't know what you mean. I didn't put
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: it like a hurricane.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: You didn't say, like a hurricane, I want to pick
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: a guy up and throw him in the street. You
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: just said some people, and I'm quoting it directly. My wife, Mindy,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: is here.
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: You know, that's the other thing about this guy. Our
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: wives have the same name.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: My wife is Mindy.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: That's the name of my wife.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: Now, wait a minute. Wait a minute.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: Wait a minute.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: My wife is Mandy. I'm sorry.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: My wife is Mandy.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: What's your wife's name?
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Hold on.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Don't say anything. Your wife, Coach Dozier, is what?
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Is what? What's your wife's name?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: My wife's name is Mandy.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: Mandy.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: No, I said Mindy.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: My wife's name is Mandy.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Well, that's my wife's name.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: If you guys... This is the other thing, Phil. I
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: don't want... I'll tell you what. I'm going to pick
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: somebody up and throw them in the street.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: You're not talking to me, are you?
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: I'm just telling you. Knock it off.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: We're not going to go down this road, okay?
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: Guys, you have covered this before with this Mindy Mandy thing.
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: My wife is not Mindy Mandy. My wife's name is Mandy.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: My wife's name is Mandy.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I don't care what your wife's name is. Coach Dozier,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I don't care. Let's move on now, okay?
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: Fine.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I went out to dinner with my
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: wife tonight, and we were coming through.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: Mr.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Henry asked me to stop by and talk to you
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: about having seen your lecture.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: All right. I'm sorry, Coach. I'm glad you came to
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: the lecture. The whole point of that lecture was finding
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: the power within. And I'm here talking on Mr. Henry's
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: show tonight about the power of a hurricane and finding
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: the power of the hurricane. And like a hurricane, I
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: have found myself, and I say this with great honesty
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: to you, Coach, and everybody listening, and look, I lift weights.
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: I lift weights. I'm into body sculpting. I lift.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we know that you do that.
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: Well, oh, is that? I'm sorry. I didn't mean to
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: bore you or anything.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: No, but you've been out on your front lawn, oiled up,
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: lifting weights.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: You've told us about it.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: I don't think I said I would. Well, I guess
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: I was.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: You did. You said you oiled up, went out on
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: your front lawn in a Speedo.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: Right, you know, but I'm not out there. Well, you
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: guys are trying to make it sound like I'm getting
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: out of the Speedo and showing my thing.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: No, I don't want to talk about this. Let's get
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: it off of your weightlifting and get back to the
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: question of your lecture. And we're going to talk about
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: the hurricane. I'd like to talk about the hurricane because
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I had heard your lecture. And you were talking about
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: power and trying to control power. And I thought it
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: was very interesting.
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: All right. So, but now here you are on the show.
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: I said that I want to, that like the hurricane.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I heard what you said at the lecture. You said
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: like a hurricane, sometimes you want to pick someone up
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: and throw them into the street.
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: That is correct, yes.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: And I knew that you were frustrated, but I thought
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: it was fascinating to the point where we can marshal
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: this kind of power and use it for good.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: All right, well, here's my point. Thank you very much, Coach.
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: I didn't mean to have words with you. No, I know.
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: So here's what I'm saying. I go through life, and
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: I have my challenges like anybody else. And I get
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: home at the end of the day, and I'm frustrated.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: I'm angry. And I want to grab the first guy
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: that I see, not my wife, not anybody, but I
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: want to take the first guy I see, put him
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: under my arm like he's a football, and just.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: And just what?
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Here's where I... What do you want to do? It's
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Coach Dozier. What do you want to do, Doc?
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: I want to just take him and.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: You want to put a man under your arm like
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: a football?
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: And what, ram his head into a wall?
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: God, listen to you. Ram his head into a wall.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: I'm not trying to make a joke out of it.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not making a joke out of it either. Is
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: that what you want to do?
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: I want to just pick a guy up like a football,
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: and I want to throw him into the street.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Was your lecture at the Scripps, did this have to
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: do with anger management or something?
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: This had to do with marshalling the power within, Coach Dozier.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was talking about marshalling the power within, and
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: it was a good lecture. And I would just say
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: to you, Dr. Sadler, why not marshal the power within
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you if you had a bad day, marshal the power within,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: and pick something up and throw it in the street,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: but not a man.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: Well, that's easier said than done.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: So, in other words, you want to do physical harm
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: to somebody.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: No, I just want, for the first time in my life,
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: for somebody to understand what it is I'm talking about.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: When I do a lecture and I say, marshal the
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: strength within, look at the hurricane down there, look at Milton,
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: Milton the Hurricane. It's almost like it's a dolphin or something.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: There's Flipper the dolphin and there's Milton the hurricane. Why
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: can't we have that kind of benign view of a
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: hurricane like we have of the dolphin? And so what
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: I want to do when I am frustrated and people
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: won't listen to me and they think I sound like
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: some kind of a freak.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: So people are still giving you a hard time about
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: missing half your tongue?
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they are. I should never have told people that
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: I lost half my tongue in a Lion taming accident.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: God almighty.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Well, I have to say it is kind of funny.
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, Doc.
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: Go ahead with what?
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Go ahead with what you're going to say about.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, you're right. I just want to say that
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: like Hurricane Milton, I want to grab someone, I don't
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: care who, man. Man, I want to do it.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: Every time we have you on the show now, Dr.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Sadler, you're having a life crisis.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: No, that's not true.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: Yes, it is absolutely true. Every time we're on the show,
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you melt down. You have some
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: anger management issue. You do, Dr. Sadler. I think it's time,
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: as we've often said to a great many guests, it's
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: time for you to step away.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you should step away from your business and take
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: some time off.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Oh, sure. I take time off. I want to be there.
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: Just like Mr. Bozell, I want to be where the
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: action is, Mr. Henry.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Are you asking me for your own show, too?
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: No.
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: I'm not. God, did you hear this?
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: Mandy, he's going, are you asking me for your own show, too?
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: That was my wife, okay? That's how funny she thinks
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: it is.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Well, that sure isn't my wife, Mindy.
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: No, it's my wife, Mindy.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, stop right there.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: So, Dr.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Sadler, Coach Dozier, I think you're the guy I should
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: ask the question of. What do you need to learn
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: more from Dr.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Sadler?
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: You're here. You saw his lecture. You found it fascinating.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: You're here.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: Now you're hearing him say that he's so frustrated with
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: his life that he just wants to pick someone up
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: and throw him in the street like a hurricane. I
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: will just say this. I'm shocked. I thought you had
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: a better control over your emotional life and your direction
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: in life, Doc, than to sit here and sound like
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: you're going to wet your pants or something, you know?
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, sure. Typical of a football coach to start
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: to impugn my manhood.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: No, I'm not trying to do that at all, but
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you're sounding so frustrated. I wish I could throw someone
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: in the street just like a hurricane.
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: That's right, and that's what my lecture should have been about.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: All right, so you're frustrated with your life. You don't...
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with it, you know.
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: Oh, he doesn't want to deal with it. I gave
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: you the... I gave you pearls of wisdom at when
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: I did my lecture, okay? And I'm telling you, when
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: I see this Hurricane Milton and what it gets to do.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: And you wish you could do what a hurricane.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: You want to do what the hurricane can do.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: I wish... As a man, I don't have the same
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: rights as a hurricane. And I've got every reason in
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: the world, every reason in the world to pick some
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: guy up and throw him right through a window. Oh, God,
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: listen to this. Maybe it's Henry. He's going... You hear
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: my wife? Yeah.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: Yes, I do.
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: You know what? I don't know why I'm wasting my
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: time with you.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Mr.
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: Henry.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: It's not your fault.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: We should never have stopped it.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: It's not your fault, Coach.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: It's not your fault, Coach. Dr. Sadler obviously is going
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: through a life crisis. I really did get a lot
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: out of his lecture, and I'm sorry he's having a
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: hard time.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Everything with him is.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: Dr.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Sadler is a guy who has done a lot of
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: good for a lot of people, but he's this close.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's this close to just violently melting down. I
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: think the man's violent, yes.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: Well, I, you know, he talks like he's some kind
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: of a nebbish. I'm sure I'd have no problem dealing
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: with him, you know. Yeah, Dr.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Sadler. Who? Dr.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: Sadler and Lynn.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: Oh, is that right? You wouldn't have any problem dealing?
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: So if I picked you up and I threw you
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: through a door.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Not going to happen.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: Dr.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Sadler, why don't you get a good night's sleep? Better yet,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: have yourself a drink, then go get a good night's sleep.
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: If I have a drink, I'm going to pick something
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: up and throw it through a door.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Is your wife there?
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: Mandy, can you make me some dinner? Yeah, she'll make
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: me dinner.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Get something to eat.
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: Boy.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: Boy. Phil really preps his shows well, doesn't he? I
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: had no idea.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: You had no idea about what? How sloppy this show
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: could get. Hey, hey, wait a second. It got so sloppy,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: we brought you on the air to talk to Dr.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Sandler about a lecture that you saw that coincided very
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: neatly with him trying to talk psychologically to people who
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: were feeling scared by the hurricane.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: And what you got was this guy and some half-mad,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: cackling little elf in the background.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: That's his wife?
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's his wife, man.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: His wife, you guys have a wife with the same name.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, you guys. All right, thanks a lot, coach. Thank you, coach.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Come on, Mandy, they're kicking us out.
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