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We Received Our First Hate Mail & The Boys Prepare for Snowmageddon | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: Papa Team six Welcome to another episode of For the Dads,
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  Speaker 1: saus Utopia two over the weekend. Hey, come on, come on,
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  Speaker 1: saws Utopia two over the weekend. I hope the trash
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  Speaker 1: is taken out. I hope the lunchboxes are packed. I
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  Speaker 1: hope man. I hope you were doing your job. If
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  Speaker 1: you have a newborn, I hope you're doing your job.
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  Speaker 1: And postpartum dude, I hope everybody out there, I hope
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  Speaker 1: you're being an awesome dad. This is For the Dads again,
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  Speaker 1: A show with myself, Willie one shehelf you got Fat
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  Speaker 1: Stafford Sherman Young over here as the co host. We
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  Speaker 1: have fun with fatherhood. We embrace the suck, we talk
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  Speaker 1: about the highs and lows. We storytell We are not experts.
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  Speaker 2: By any means.
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  Speaker 3: But this is just a show for the dads, by
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  Speaker 3: the dads, by a couple of dads.
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  Speaker 2: I got a three year old and a one year old.
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  Speaker 2: Shuram has a.
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  Speaker 3: Six six going on seven months, going on seven. Yes, sir,
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  Speaker 3: let's go.
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  Speaker 1: You can find us on social media at for the
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  Speaker 1: Dad's Pod, all social channels by the way, Instagram, Instagram's
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  Speaker 1: up right now. We just hit what fifty thousand followers
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram. That's amazing. Shout out everybody in the comments,
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  Speaker 1: Shout out everybody following. And again we're on We're on
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  Speaker 1: all the channels. We're even on for the for the
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  Speaker 1: older PT six members out there.
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  Speaker 3: We are on Facebook, very active Facebook page, Facebook page.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that that.
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  Speaker 3: Goes with the brand. That's very dad centric. I love that.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, the one that's been firing me up
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  Speaker 1: is again if you're listening right now, audio channels, if
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  Speaker 1: you're watching us on YouTube, the one that's been firing
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  Speaker 1: me up the most, you guys know, Spotify. I went
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  Speaker 1: in last week. I know we had our episode. By
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  Speaker 1: the way, shout out to all PT six for consuming
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  Speaker 1: that episode. I told a story about Rue having a seizure.
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  Speaker 1: I got a couple of things wrong on the story.
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  Speaker 1: My wife, My beautiful wife, Charlie. She corrected me almost immediately.
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  Speaker 1: Oh good, yeah, coming those shoes laughing.
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  Speaker 3: She said her stomach was hurting about the bear story
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  Speaker 3: that we told.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she had a.
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  Speaker 1: Report for me after hearing the way I told that story.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, a lot of it true. I just got
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  Speaker 1: a couple of things off, a couple facts off, and
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  Speaker 1: I did go in. I went into the Spotify comments, which,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, ninety six last I looked ninety six
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  Speaker 1: Spotify comments.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: People are flooding Spotify.
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  Speaker 1: People are flooding the YouTube comments.
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  Speaker 2: But I went in.
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  Speaker 1: I woke up and when I got the MT six
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  Speaker 1: APR and if you guys aren't familiar with that, that's
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  Speaker 1: the Milk Team six after pod report.
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  Speaker 2: So once I got the APR, she kind of told me,
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  Speaker 2: She's like.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, sweet Art, Rue wasn't a year and a half
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  Speaker 3: a year old, she was eight months old.
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  Speaker 1: Like, okay, I missed big miss on that. So I
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  Speaker 1: went into the comments, Papa Team six, it's Willie one
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  Speaker 1: show here. Hand up, I got it wrong. Ru was
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  Speaker 1: eight months she wasn't a year and a half and
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  Speaker 1: another thing I did get wrong, which makes sense because
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  Speaker 1: as I was telling the story, it's bringing a lot
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  Speaker 1: of emotion into going in and having the emotional the
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  Speaker 1: emotional moments I was having, Like once I got to
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  Speaker 1: the hospital, yeah, I didn't know, I said. The firefighter
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  Speaker 1: told me she had had a seizure. We did not
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  Speaker 1: know what was going on with Rue. We just knew
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  Speaker 1: that she was unresponsive. Yeah for a big amount of time.
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  Speaker 1: She started talking, but she was very out of it.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't know what was going on. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: as she's going over there in the ambulance and you
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  Speaker 1: were sprinting to the hospital, did not know at that
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  Speaker 1: point that she had had a seizure. Because I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I want to say last week if I remember it,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, the fire the firefighter, whoever had
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  Speaker 1: the phone.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, we're just telling you that. Yeah, but that
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  Speaker 3: wasn't the case that you gott We were we were, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we were in the dark.
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  Speaker 1: And so when we got there, and again I explained
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  Speaker 1: this emotional story, so I'm kind of keeping it lighter
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  Speaker 1: so I don't get into that box against Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, going over there, we had no clue what
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  Speaker 1: was going on with her. So then when we get
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  Speaker 1: into the hospital and the moments that I'm talking about
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  Speaker 1: where she's plugged in with ivs and needle and they're
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  Speaker 1: getting all their vitals, we have no clue what happened.
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  Speaker 1: So when she's doing whether it's a blood test, you're
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  Speaker 1: in test all these things to try and eliminate what
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  Speaker 1: it could have possibly been. Yeah, again, it's like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: we're just kind of subtracting things as we Once she
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  Speaker 1: was in the hospital and got you know, the the
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  Speaker 1: brain stuff attached to her head, that's when we're learning
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  Speaker 1: that it could be that it could have been a seizure.
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  Speaker 1: So again that's the empty six APR.
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  Speaker 3: So if we're just gonna grade Will on his dad
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  Speaker 3: brain there, I don't think too bad. You were only
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  Speaker 3: eight months off on her age.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then uh, you learned information later in the story
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  Speaker 3: than what you had told.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, but again, all dads know we have the ability.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to exaggerate the story in this particular
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  Speaker 1: sense to make it funny or anything else, but old
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  Speaker 1: dads know they do their best on telling stories.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, then their wife comes into the room.
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  Speaker 1: He said this like that's not what happened at all,
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  Speaker 1: and what I was talking about it is exactly you
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  Speaker 1: missed this part. You missed that part. Okay, I might
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  Speaker 1: have missed I might have missed that, but I kind
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  Speaker 1: of got the the overview of the entire story.
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  Speaker 3: Just unlocked a memory of when we were at that
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  Speaker 3: Halloween party and you're holding Scotti and you're telling Jill
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  Speaker 3: some story and I forget You're like, oh, yeah, she
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  Speaker 3: was six months in Charrow from the raft will. She
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  Speaker 3: was like a year and a half, six months, year
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  Speaker 3: and a half. I died, dude.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was something with Rue. I forget what that.
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  Speaker 3: But she's on the other side of the room. She's
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  Speaker 3: six months old. She was a year and a half.
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  Speaker 3: You know, she was a baby. Oh dude.
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  Speaker 1: Good times. But we got a big snow day. If
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  Speaker 1: you're in Nashville, Tennessee, big snow weekend coming up this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: We'll get in, yes, sure, and went to the zoo
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  Speaker 2: over the weekend against saw Zutopia.
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  Speaker 1: Two boys. Just a fleeting thought. Derek the Funkle brought
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  Speaker 1: this to our attention. If we want to start thinking
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  Speaker 1: about Valentine's Day, we should start thinking about it now. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I see this as advice and encouragement. Will also knowing
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  Speaker 1: in my heart of hearts that won't probably happen until
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  Speaker 1: maybe the super Bowl happens, and then it's like, oh shit,
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  Speaker 1: we got Valentine's Day next weekend.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, sports take a pause for just that hair of
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  Speaker 3: a second, which is perfect timing for Valentine's Day. It's
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  Speaker 3: a nice little window right there that all men get
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  Speaker 3: reminded that God this holiday. Man, Oh yeah, you gotta
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  Speaker 3: do the dinner thing. Chef had a great note on
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  Speaker 3: his Valentine's Day debacle. He already signed up for a
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  Speaker 3: pretty Yeah you got.
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  Speaker 1: Reservations for it at a very expensive spot. You didn't
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  Speaker 1: know it was an expensive spot, but now you're learning
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  Speaker 1: after the fact that you booked the reservation, Like you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna need some coin going into this.
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  Speaker 4: Place this Saturday after a week long trip to Miami.
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  Speaker 4: Not only that, ooh ooh, Chef, but hey, Valentine's Day,
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  Speaker 4: the missus deserves it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the best.
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  Speaker 4: I love her dearly. Yeah, I'm very excited, and it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: Money will be.
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  Speaker 3: Follow up with me on this because we all know
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna forget.
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  Speaker 1: But for the dads. We can support you on this day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, that's why you're asking. That's not why
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  Speaker 1: you even told this. But I'm just telling you now
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  Speaker 1: we can throw some support your way. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but follow up because I'll forget for dessert and don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like you're nagging me, Like, hey, you said support,
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  Speaker 1: Does that mean you're gonna throw me some cash?
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  Speaker 4: Like I know, don't be afraid demanded, The stubbornness of
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  Speaker 4: me is like, no, it's okay, but I will follow.
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  Speaker 2: Up with you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, good news. On Valentine's they were dropping some some
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  Speaker 1: new merch.
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  Speaker 3: We're wearing it right now. We got some busting gear
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  Speaker 3: on the back. What's it say on the back against
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  Speaker 3: your It says busting your hold on. Let me, I
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  Speaker 3: took a picture.
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  Speaker 5: You're forever.
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  Speaker 3: You're my forever rodeo.
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  Speaker 2: You're my forever road.
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  Speaker 3: You're my forever rodeo. Dude, imagine gifting that to wife
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  Speaker 3: you on Valentine's. I gotta be honest. For any of
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  Speaker 3: the pet sikos that are listening or empty siccos on audio,
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  Speaker 3: please go to some kind of video format, whether it's
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  Speaker 3: YouTube or Spotify. You have to see the shirt that
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  Speaker 3: Will is wearing. I told Garrett, who's in charge of
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  Speaker 3: our merch here at Bustin, that is officially my favorite
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  Speaker 3: shirt we've ever made, hands down.
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  Speaker 1: And if you are a Papa Team Siko out there
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  Speaker 1: and your wife is aware that you consume this show,
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  Speaker 1: and maybe you're a little much with the show to
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  Speaker 1: where you might not have bridged the gap for her
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  Speaker 1: to come on board fully for Milk six or maybe
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  Speaker 1: she's flirting with Milk Team six, or maybe she is
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  Speaker 1: an empty sixer. Yeah, but give to a sweetheart. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I love this show, dude. Look at this. Look at
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  Speaker 1: this merchandise that they have in the store BWTV dot.
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  Speaker 3: Com, ewtv dot com. Because I'm telling you, you will
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  Speaker 3: be wrapping the show obviously if you wear that shirt.
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  Speaker 3: But that is a cool shirt. Yeah in hen raul minte,
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  Speaker 3: which is Spanish for in general.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can embrace the brand while giving all the
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  Speaker 1: praise to your wife.
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  Speaker 2: You were my forever rodeo.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and I for Anyptsikos out there, they are going, Will,
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  Speaker 3: what about my wife, She's a she's already bought in.
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  Speaker 3: Look no further, I got a Milk Team Milk Team
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  Speaker 3: six shirt.
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  Speaker 1: Just sit on the front, in the front centered written
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  Speaker 1: Milk Team six and then on the back on milk
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  Speaker 1: Team six on duty all.
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  Speaker 2: Day, all day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you can see you're doing a good job.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, sir, You're doing a good job. And we
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  Speaker 3: have some new girl dad hats on.
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  Speaker 2: These are new.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, don't sleep on the news.
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  Speaker 1: Bures me all the neew merch bwtv dot com. We
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of things to get through. We uh
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  Speaker 1: proposed a question on last episode. Uh just threw it
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  Speaker 1: out their hardest thing about being a parent. We have
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  Speaker 1: a couple comments that we're gonna read from that. We
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  Speaker 1: also have our voicemail or hotline that you can call
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  Speaker 1: into six and one the dads where you jump in.
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: You you call the hot line, you tell a story,
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: whether it's a win, loss, a dad hack, something you're cracking,
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  Speaker 1: a cold one too, like a good quality moment. Just
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  Speaker 1: you're just telling us something, a little story about you
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  Speaker 1: and embracing the BT six fatherhood. You can do that
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  Speaker 1: and when you do get featured on the hot line,
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  Speaker 1: the voicemail or now email, we will send you merch.
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  Speaker 1: So if you get featured on the show, we will
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  Speaker 1: also reach out to you, send you some merchandise for free,
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: and all you gotta do engage, engage with the pod.
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  Speaker 1: But we got comments from YouTube, Spotify, the hot line,
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  Speaker 1: the email Again, if you can't if you're international and
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  Speaker 1: you can't reach the hot line, or you simply don't
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  Speaker 1: want to call in and tell a story using your voice,
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  Speaker 1: you feel much better articulating it and writing it down
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  Speaker 1: via email six oh onededads at gmail dot com.
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  Speaker 2: You can do that. We have emails.
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  Speaker 1: We got a wifey shout out here, we got new
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  Speaker 1: dad shout outs, we got a lot to get through.
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  Speaker 3: We got husband shout outs. I have a husband, a
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  Speaker 3: PT six shout out from his wife.
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  Speaker 1: I love having that iteration in our show because now
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  Speaker 1: we have been getting shout outs, whether it's a mom
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  Speaker 1: or a dad's birthday, or they just want to throw
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  Speaker 1: love to their partner's way via through a show or
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  Speaker 1: a platform like ourselves. We did gets a pushback last week.
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  Speaker 1: Wasn't somebody upset that we didn't read that we didn't
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  Speaker 1: read like a shout out for.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, her husband? Is that the one that in question?
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  Speaker 6: I believe, so we had and so I I have
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  Speaker 6: reached out and everything We had a happy birthday shout
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  Speaker 6: out on Christmas Eve from an empty sixer that I
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  Speaker 6: tried to explain it we missed because the episode had
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  Speaker 6: dropped that week. The next week was best of and
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  Speaker 6: then we came back on the first of it.
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  Speaker 2: The guy got lost in them. He got lost in
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  Speaker 2: the sauce.
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  Speaker 3: He got a little loss on the birthday had happened
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  Speaker 3: well and so, and he's he's not blaming me, he's
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  Speaker 3: being very kind too. But I have an added weight
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  Speaker 3: in this because our last two episodes we because of time,
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  Speaker 3: I cut an email on both of those episodes. It
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  Speaker 3: just so happened to be this one that got both
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  Speaker 3: what was the what was the what was like the
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  Speaker 3: reaction or the empty sixer being like ah.
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  Speaker 6: The guy wrote us and said, hey guys, I want
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  Speaker 6: to let you know I just got an earful through text. Basically,
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  Speaker 6: the wife's like, look at all these birthday shout outs
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  Speaker 6: there doing.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, I swear.
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  Speaker 6: I wrote one in I swear, and she sent it
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  Speaker 6: on every channel in a good way. And so I
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  Speaker 6: reached out to him and I just said, man, we
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  Speaker 6: have it. I was like, here's why it didn't get read.
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  Speaker 6: It will get read and send me your address. We'll
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  Speaker 6: send you a shirt. And so that guy is getting
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  Speaker 6: a little bit of merch. She fought the hard fight.
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  Speaker 6: He said, Look, I love you guys, but I'm getting
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  Speaker 6: an earful from the wifey.
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  Speaker 1: He got an earful from the wife feet. It was
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be a surprise to him. Surprise doesn't up
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  Speaker 1: and he gets earful from the wifeyet because he's probably like,
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  Speaker 1: oh man, it'd be cool if my maybe my wife
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  Speaker 1: writes in.
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  Speaker 2: But we also can't have that pressure put on us.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, we can't have the expectation if we miss
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  Speaker 1: a couple birthday show like there's this is this is
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  Speaker 1: a growing community and what.
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  Speaker 2: We can't guys, we're just guys.
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  Speaker 3: What we can't do. We can't start acting like toddlers.
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  Speaker 3: We're parents, we're adults. Yeah, yeah, you got to know
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  Speaker 3: that some stuff we're gonna miss, it's gonna get lost
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  Speaker 3: in the fray a little bit. We do. We hate that,
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  Speaker 3: trust me. We want to shout everybody hate it. We
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  Speaker 3: hate missing moments for people.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the best issue to have because we have so
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  Speaker 4: many awesome people writing in and in turn we can't
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  Speaker 4: get to everyone. But we want to Derek's obast on
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  Speaker 4: the phone. If any of you guys were here here
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  Speaker 4: for the early days when I was running, I had
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  Speaker 4: the phone, it's we've improved a lot. So this is
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  Speaker 4: a This is a band of.
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  Speaker 3: Four right here. It's a band of four, four idiots. Yeah, truly,
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  Speaker 3: we're figuring it out as we go. Every time you
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  Speaker 3: say we are not experts, I want to say and
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  Speaker 3: we'll prove it to you too. Yeah, stay tuned.
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  Speaker 6: We're also currently figuring out the email hat situation. So
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  Speaker 6: in the juxtaposition of we're figuring out we have been
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  Speaker 6: jumping through some the solution for that.
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  Speaker 3: No, we're gonna have to.
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  Speaker 6: Get a bundle of hats and mail them out ourselves here,
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  Speaker 6: I guess, because we can't only ship to Canada, and
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  Speaker 6: so thank you guys all for making life out.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna send some to Scandinavia, but shipped from the
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  Speaker 3: warehouse Internationale. So we have to send that dude this
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  Speaker 3: office and then we will ship the internationally, which I
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  Speaker 3: love that solve again.
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  Speaker 2: Group them in. It's a group of men and all
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  Speaker 2: dads and all moms. No listening to this.
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  Speaker 1: This is how things can operate at times. Man we
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  Speaker 1: write checks, our.
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  Speaker 3: Ass can't cash.
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  Speaker 1: We get ourselves in some pickles. Yea to where then
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  Speaker 1: we're getting the ear full from wifey.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I could have done that a lot better. I could
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  Speaker 1: have went I could have went about that a lot better.
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  Speaker 1: I did say I was going to do this for
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  Speaker 1: so and so. I just forgot. Yeah, Dad, bring kicks in.
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  Speaker 1: Oh she was eight months old, she wasn't a year
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: and a half.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, assume me.
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we do. We want to, We want to. Let's
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: get into let's let's do some some some parenthood before
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: before the birth, before the birthday.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: Shoutouts, let's do some Parentokay.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: Please don't forget.
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we can't forget. And by the way, felas we do,
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: got to keep this one under an hour. We gotta
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: keep this episode under an hour.
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: Perfect, it's perfect, all right?
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: So last week pose the question hardest part about parenthood?
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, something that we juggle with in our brains
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: as we're driving, as we try you know, anytime I
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: feel like new parents are parents, you're in some of
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: these deeper conversations.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: You're trying to our articulate what parenthood is.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: Why it's hard, It doesn't seem fun to do, but
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: it's also the greatest thing in the world. It's always
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: hard to just I'm always trying to find like an
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: articulation of how I would answer that question. But we
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: had some write ends. This one's from Caleb Gross. Just
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: got a chance to finish deisode.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: Early Monday morning.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: My opinion on the hardest thing about parenthood, aside from
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: all the sleepless nights and arguments with the independent toddlers,
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: it's definitely watching them grow up. It's the best thing
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: and the hardest thing at the same time. You want
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: them to stay little forever, but you were setting them
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: up and teaching them to be their own little person. Dude,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: I could not agree more. I don't know how many
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: one on one conversations I have with through when we
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: talk about like when our third birthday was coming up.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: I remember a car ride.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: We were doing pizza Friday, so we were on a
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: drive going to our pizza spots. Shout out a home team,
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: no free shoutouts to home team, very big shout out, Yeah,
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: very big shout out to them. But we were on
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: the way back and we were talking about a birthday
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: and it's like, I know you're going to be three,
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: and I was trying to be more optimistic about her
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: turning three, even though I'm battling all these internal battles. Oh,
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: I want her to say, my little girl absolutely forever.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: I want her to be my little bundle of joy forever.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: Because we also have this digital picture frame at the
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: house that goes through a lot of old photos. So
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: every day I'm seeing all these old photos of ru
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: and I just smiled like.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, look at little baby Ruver.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: And Rue comes over and looks. So I'm being optimistic
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: to her about her turning three. And we're kind of
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: sitting there and we're on the final stretch down down,
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: cut that part out down, We're on the final stretch
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: down to the house, and Rude just hits me with
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: that a you're sad that I'm turning three, And I'm like, sweetheart,
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: I am said that you turning three?
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Well, why you said? I'm just like sweethearted.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: It's hard to explain, like, I'm so happy you're getting
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: bigger and you're able to do the things that you're
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: wanting to do, whether it's put words together, sentences together,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: like write and get better, climb stuff, jump off things,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: grow taller, get stronger, get faster. She loves being faster,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: get better at dancing. But Dad, Dad struggles with the
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: fact that you are growing up in front of me,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: because one day she's like, oh Dad, you know she
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: said something about I'll be little for you right now,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I know you will, But I just
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: play this story and movie in my head of you're
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: gonna grow up one day and you're not gonna be
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: with dad at anymore, like in our house, Like one
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: day you're gonna grow and you're gonna be liked at
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be like Mama Tour. You're our size and
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: you're that age, and you're gonna have little kids of
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: your own. And that makes me sad. It makes me
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: happy and it makes me sad all the same time.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I feel all of these emotions, like as you continue
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: to get older and when you're you're there with scarlet now,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: but when it's scarlet, it's it's one month at a time.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: You get just get sad that months are kind of
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: going a little faster. And then it gets to the
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: year marks two and a half, three and a half,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: and it just feels like time flies, bro. And so
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: where's like Sodad is happy Insid. I'm like, yeah, I'm
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: both happy, and I am really happy that you're turning three.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I can't wait for you to be three. It's gonna
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: be an awesome year. But that it gets really sad
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: just seeing you grow up. It's it's it's the saddest
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: thing in the world. And I love Caleb's ride in
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: because that is very hard about parenthood because you just
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: get so family's incredible. You just get so connected emotionally
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: everything and you just pour into your little to your
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: little kiddos and just seeing them get older and put
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: their first sentences together and teach you things when they
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: come home from school and you just see the development happening.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: And because she's right, she went into school today and
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: they have to bring in something every week to do,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: like the alphabet. This week was the letter I. So
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: she said dinner.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Last night like I, eh, eh, eh, book like that
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: doesn't start that doesn't start with I. She's pretty close
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: yeah eh, and.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: She beck igloo like that. That is one that is
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: one we can't make an igloo. We can't bring an
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: igloo into school. But to figure out.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: What you're going to bring in for like show and
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: tail or, do over the letter. I could do a
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: marshmallowglue with toothpicks.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, saying in this morning at breakfast, she got
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: done with breakfast, I kind of screwed her little chair
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: over because she's going to do an illustration. So she
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: draws basically the family. She draws Mom, Mama, Dad, Dad, Waffle,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Rue and Scottie. And then I'm walking her through writing
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: illustration on the top because she knows the alphabet pretty well.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: She has how to write every letter. She's got her
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: own little way right in.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: It kind of reminds you of Toy Story where it's
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: got the writing on the bottom of each foot. Yeah,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: kind of the broken the broken letters. And I'm like,
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I l L, I could spell illustration. But she's writes
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: the illustration across the top, and as a three year old,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: they write big letters, so it's not all going to
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: fit across the top. So then for illustration the TiO in,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: she has to skew it down to the side. She
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: just writes TiO in down the steppic And I'm just
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: sitting there looking at this this illus with illustration written
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: over the top down to the side, and I'm just
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: staring at it. Trying to take it in because it's like, man,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: she's just growing up, and her handwriting is gonna get better. Yeah,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: her drawings are gonna get better. And at some point
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: she's gonna be she's not gonna be satisfied with having
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: to bend the word, and she's gonna want it to
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: fit on the top of the page, and that's gonna
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: make her frustrated. I'm just gonna remember the times where
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: there was so much innocence and you trying to figure.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Out how to write illustration across the paper. Uh huh,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: She's gonna have a ruler, she's gonna be spacing out.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: I gotta redo this, and then one day it's gonna
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: be writing your name and date and it's out the
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: top left of the top right corner because you're in
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: grade school or you're in your school or high school.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna be thinking about back to the
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: time where we're just trying to figure out how to
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: fit illustration on the top of your construction paper.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: I'm only at the beginning points of it. You you brought
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: up with Scarlett. I have felt it, but to a
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: very minor degree of what you're feeling right now. But
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: it's it's starting with her hair growth. I know that's
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: like a weird place to go, but it's like very visible.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: It's like being able to mow your lawn and like
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: seeing the work that you've done. Her hair growing, it's
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: every day. I'm like, it's longer every day. Yeah, you're
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: a new person, Like I hate this, yeah, but I'm
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: so excited that her hair's coming in and that we're
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: playing with it in back time and stuff. But also
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you were just you were bald, you have
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: no hair. No, oh my god, gott he.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Now we're messing with a little ponytail to where it's
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: just she looks like a little Who from Doctor Suit,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: like a Doctor Seus's book where she's got her little ponytail,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: but it sticks straight up and you get you just
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you love them because it's so adorable.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: But it's also like, oh, you're getting hair now. Yeah.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: And even though like to you when you're like, oh,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: that's kind of myn like mine feels minor in comparison
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: to what you're going through.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Dude.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: It's all whether you have a newborn a toddler and
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I just have a toddler right now. But I'm assuming
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: every parent that goes through whatever iteration of life that
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: they're in, it's all the same emotion and the same feeling.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: So when she rolls over to her belly for the
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: first time, it's just like it's it's pandemonium in the house.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: When her hair is grown, when she starts saying dad,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: they are Mama for the or they're just their first word,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: or just consonants, they're just making sounds. It's like pandemonium
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: in those moments. You gotta try and bottle them up
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: because there's gonna be the next thing.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the country I'm I will never tell you to
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: put a country song on, and I will never tell
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: you to turn off a country song. That's where I
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: stand with country. Yeah, I know it and I like it,
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: But those like those don't grow up little girl type
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: of like songs down they're hitting, dude, they truly are hitting.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: We just had Luke Combs on the bus that which
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: will release in like early March, I believe. But just
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: sitting and talking with Luke Combs and you can tell
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: he's just he.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Loves Fatherhood yep.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: And he brought up this album which I was fired
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: up about but it's called fathers and father and sons
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: or fathers and Sons.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Another one that's just like it just has you living
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: in all the like your relationship with your parents, like
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: you being a parent ties it all together. There's that
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: one from Post Malone that I've brought up about his
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: baby girl growing up and she's getting married, that I'll
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: just have you if you're a girl.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Dad, you're in tears listening to that song.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: That is the exact song that I was referencing. I
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: didn't know if I could say Luke Combs by I'm
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: glad you brought it up. The I hope he doesn't
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: find find out that I didn't hang the man that
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: song about yeah, hone Jill, that was like her song
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: during pregnancy, and she would cry every time. I never cried,
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: not once. And then when we booked Luke Combs, she
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: was like, honey, he's the guy, like I'm obsessed with him.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: He's the guy that I was like, we'll play the song.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: I don't remember the song, bro. I made it to
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: the first chorus and I was like, oh, Lee, dude,
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel these things now, like this.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Is and those feelings are the greatest thing in the world. Yeah,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: even though, like as men, you feel we like it,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: just it feels weak to us.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: But Bro, the amount of times you start crying as
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: a parent, I feel like I cry at least once
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: a week if you add up the average throughout a year.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, Brother, our little two month stint whatever that was
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: where it was at least on this show, we were crazy.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: The Jill and I were talking about the moment of
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: when she told me that she was pregnant. I told
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: her that I wanted to go to Target and go
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: to the baby section and just go walk around and
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: driving to Target, she wanted to drive. I put my
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: hand on her stomach, and that's when it really hit me.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I didn't really tear up, like look at the pregnancy test,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: but I put my hand on her stomach and as
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: we were driving down sixty five to that Brentwood Target,
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: and Bro, it hit me like a brick wall. I
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: broke down. And I was thinking about that exact moment
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: very recently with Scarlet of like you were in there,
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: like you were like a little chicken nugget back then,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: but like that was you. Like my hand was on
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: her belly and you were cooking in there, and now
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: you're here and you're this person. And I thought I
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: loved you then when I was like crying, But now
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: I have to like physically kind of hold back when
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: I squeeze you because I literally might pop you. Yeah,
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: I could suffocate you, could kill you.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: But right though, those cheeks on your face right now,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Daddy could put them in the oven at three seventy
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: five and take a knife to them because I want
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: to eat them so badly.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: I like, truly, it's it's insane. It's insane. I was
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: even happy I got home.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Got tears.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: You're glossed over, Yeah, glossed over, you glossed over. I got.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: I got home like later than you. Mondays are just
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: like crazy days here. That's usually my late day. But uh,
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: I was so excited that I caught her before she
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: got in her crib. I was like stoked on that.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: I used to come home to like Scarlett, like you
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: would kind of like walk in with and I'll do
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: this for the rest of my life, Like you kind
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: of walk in and you're like, oh man, you know,
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: fatherhood doesn't stop. I gotta keep being a dad. I
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: got all this stuff to do. And yesterday it was like,
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: I gotta get in before she goes into the crib.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: I gotta kiss her. Yeah, I have to kiss her
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: before she goes in that crib.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: And the hard part about that is when they get older,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: like Ruby and three, she very much gets sad when
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Mama and dadad like leaves the house. We're like wondering
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: when we're coming back, like, hey, Dad, are you are
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: you going on a plane, And because if she knows
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I'm going on a plane, I won't be there for
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: that time or anything. Odada's not going on a plane
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: like that is just going to work for a little bit.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I'll be back, We'll be hanging out the back half
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: of the day. But then there's this like guilt side,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: this sadness that creeps in because you just feel like
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: you're letting them down because they don't fully understand yet
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: and the fact that they don't understand and it's so
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: innocent that they're just.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Sad that you're leaving.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: You're like, I feel so bad that I feel like
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I'm taking something away from you right now because when
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: they're little, you have all those things. I got to
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: get back, like just to give them a kiss, good night.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: But also you know that their brain doesn't fully comprehend
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: the dad has gone for the day.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: They're just they're happy to see dad dad. It's worse time. Also,
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: that was from just one email response to our Oh yeah, yeah, and.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Again, got to keep this show under an hour.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: And I was also thinking too, like when you were
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: telling the story about driving down the highway and your
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: hand is on Wifey's belly, on Jillie Bean's belly, and
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: now they're sitting in the car seat, in the back seat.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: But just if you think about when you're you, you know, you.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Go through buds training. Yeah, they're pregnant, they're about to pop.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: All the fears and unknowns that are weighing on you.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: As much as you're enjoying the moment to put your
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: hand on it, also appreciating like I'm so fired up
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: to be a dead but I'm.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Also terrified, so fucking scared.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: And now they're just sitting in the back seat and
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: you're like, yo, we're a family, Yes, Like how nuts
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: is this?
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Anyway, gotta keep.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: It doing, got to keep it under our I got
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Donnie Maz on YouTube. He says first time, long time,
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: not really first time, but father three four year old
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: and twenty month twin boys from Staten Island. Dude, I
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: want to meet Donnie. This is a pt siko. I
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: think the answer to Will's question about the hardest thing
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: is just knowing that you're doing it right. We all
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: have these goals on what and how to raise our
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: kids to be hard working, respectful and responsible people in
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: this world. But the reassurance of what you're doing is
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: correct and right and in the best interests of our children, ourselves,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: and our family. Yeah, he's starting to have those thoughts
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: because he's got.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: A four year old.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's got a four year old, and like the
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: four year olds starting to like develop that personality. I
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: could totally see that of like, yeah, am I pointing
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: them in the right direction. That's a whole other vault.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all those fears that you try to live with,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: like as they are going through because and Ruse and
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: she's three at school right now.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: But it's not you know, you're not dealing with all.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: The social issues of them coming home and you know
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: somebody might have said something mean to them, or there's
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: actual drama or beef going on with a friend, or
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a situation happened and you're trying to coach them through,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: like am I leading them the right direction? But I
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: love that that response.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: From Dannie and Staten Island.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: You just innately know that you're doing it right, but
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: doing it and doing it right too is just man,
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and it's just pain. It's so sad, man.
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: It really yeah, it really right? Right, No, it's sad.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: It is sad because that is true.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not even close to being there, and I'll stop
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: saying that. But like, Scarlett's only six months, but I'm
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: a sorry to have those thoughts in my head of
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: like the person that she's gonna develop into, like will
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: she be excited for school or will mornings be a
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: drag like when I'm getting her ready for daycare? And
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: in my head, I like to tell myself, Oh, she's
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: gonna love school. I just have a feeling, yeah, I
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: have a feeling.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Like when he's like, you know, you're doing it right.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: I think Over the weekend, Matt Lionert had a tweet
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: or a post that he put out because he's taking
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: his boy, his son.
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: Boy was in the fields.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, his son, who's a he's a quarterback, right, He's
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: going to TCU is he really? I think so, Like
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: he's a he's an athlete, Like he's got a he's
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: got what you want.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: If you're a former athlete, you raise an athlete.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: And I love just his vulnerability of posting that he's
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: struggling going to drop Is that right? That gud right there.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: That's probably a rivalry in itself, it is, But he's
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: gonna he's gonna drop his.
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: Boy off at school, and he's like he's he's kind
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: of posting through it. And I loved it because this
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: is like, you know, this is a former quarterback.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: This a guy, you know what I mean?
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: This a man's man, and his boy seems to be
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: like he's becoming a man's man. He's a quarterback, he's
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: on scholarship, probably has an nil deal going to sm you,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: and he's got his dad just tweeted about how sad
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: he is that he's dropping his son off, Like, ah, Dad,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: you come on. But they probably have such a bond
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: and a relationship that it's just so hard when you
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: get to that point.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: I'm sure he had so many tears.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: To where that's how you hope to feel when you
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: send your kid off to school and that's probably the
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: most painful feeling when you are dropping him off at school,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: because you know, like, man, I was so intentional and
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: we did this right now. I wish I could have
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: all these moments back and you're not becoming a grown
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: man and you're going to college to where I'm going
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: to be far away.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm going to be a flight away.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I'm sure he's going to go to a lot of
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: his stuff, but it just feels like it's a very
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: emotional time you watch lamb Man.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: I've watched episodes in season one I was doing. You
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: guys watched lamb Man. You guys at home watched lamb Man. Yeah,
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: up until a very popular show the season two. Someone's
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: been tweeting about lamb Man. I forgot who Hey, just
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: talking about the season Finalely.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: Finale is incredible. The finale is incredible. Anybody who's wavering
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: off of Lambman, because I understand that all against this
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: feeling because it's shut. It's such a good show. It's
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: and some of the story arcs you get off on
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: these side missions that you're just like, we don't need
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: any of this.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: I don't need the Old People's Home.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I don't need the relationship with the Sun and the
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: gal who just had the baby. I don't need any
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: of that soap opry. Yeah, I don't need Rebecca and
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: the Australian guy. I think he's British. People are kind
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: of correct me. He's a British dude or an English dude.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I don't need the little love interest going on. I
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: need I need Rebecca to be as shark as a lawyer.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: How she is in the season finale's great, but.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: There's a there's an episode where the daughter is going
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: to TCU.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: She's going off to school.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: And her mom, by the way, the mom is the
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: uh uh from the movie, not the Varsity Blues. She
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: is the Sunday the Whip Creak. Absolutely, but the mom
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: is sending her to tc TCU and she's just broken
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: down as she's dropping her baby off, and she's calling
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Billy Bob like, so you're just not gonna be here
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: with me today, Like you're just gonna go off to
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: work and pretend none of this is happening. And you
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: know Billy Bob, he's got his one liners to where
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: he just goes off to work and does this thing.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: Is like Christ, these women in their emotions.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and Mom just feels like she's going
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: through it on her own. But that's how I envision
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: what those what those days are going to be like
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: whenever ruined, Scottie go.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Off to college.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: Oh, just a mental pretzel, the mental pretzel of uh.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Scarlet needed to be under billy lights when she was
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: born and we had gotten no sleep. This was like
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: day two in the hospital and they're like, hey, for
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: y'all to get sleep and for her to be under
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: the billy lights, we can just take her to the nursery.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: It's two rooms down, yeah, from the room we're in.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: And bro them wheeling out Scarlet from our hospital room.
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: You would have thought she was going off to college.
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: Jill and I started weeping. And we had only known
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: Scarlet for maybe sixteen hours seventeen hours at that point.
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: And it's like I told Jill in that moment, I
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: was like, if this is this feeling, college is not
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: going to be okay.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, daycare was emotional care.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Daycare is emotional dropping the rod of a school for
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: the first day in shro and I just gotta go
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: park in a parking spot just so we can have
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: a good cry for a second. I see her tearing up,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm like trying to hold back tears. I'm like, hey,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: you know, we ended up. We were ended up, like
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: laughing from him, like they're they're here, come the water works.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: You's got to kind of take a moment because she's like, oh, did.
• 34:56
  Speaker 6: You see Lioner's other posts about his kids he made?
• 34:59
  Speaker 6: I think it was like last week. He has a
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: video of him sitting at the table and his wife's
• 35:02
  Speaker 6: recording and the kid goes over and says, Hey, Alexa,
• 35:05
  Speaker 6: who's Matt Liner. Matt Lionert is a good car, a
• 35:10
  Speaker 6: great college quarterback that played at USC and did this
• 35:12
  Speaker 6: national Dad. His pro career did not amount to much.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: Just shut off.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: That's hilarious.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: No, I did not.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, dude, he does.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I enjoyed me some Matt Liner bro enjoy me. Some
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Matt Liner offered him up some lollipop. People like, oh,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: you're doing an advertising post everything. Hey, we're trying to
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: get our pt sichos, right, man, there's nothing like some
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: an ice cool lollipop with Chris Bapple.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Tell me you've never had lollipop without telling me you've
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: never had a lollipop. Will was putting out a legitimate
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: help for your dad.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to I'm trying to help my my
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: fellow PT six are out in that moment. Yeah, buddy,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I know it's hard. All PT six we got our
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: arms around you. Yeah, because you lose one off to college.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: We're all sad. I'm not like in it with all
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: these dads who post about their stories. I'm in it
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: with them for sure. Got to keep it under.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: Gott to keep it under an hour. I got Jason
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: H two eight seven six, He says PT. Sixer of
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: two girls, a five and three year old. Hearing Will
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: talk brings me back to when my oldest was diagnosed
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: with type one diabetes. As a father and man, is
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: the hardest thing to be in this situation where you
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: have no control over anything. One thing I've learned in
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: the past three years of her living with this is
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: that you have to take the little wins. Maybe you
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: can't control everything, but be the best of what you can.
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: My wife and I have tackled this as a team,
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: and her A one C hasn't been over seven in
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: the past one and a half years. That's very hard
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: to do. By the way, Yeah, very hard to do.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Well done by Jason.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: H Well done by Jason. I have another one here
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: from Alex Briscolino. Oh a four the Dead's crew. This
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: is Alex Briscollno, I'm from Chicago and I'm a father
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: of two absolute.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: Studs of children.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: My oldest is two and a half year old boy
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: named Bennett and an eight month old daughter named Reagan.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: So listening to the episode this week and listening to
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: old Willie Winshoff talk about the parts of parenting that
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: are the hardest and asking the BT six community what
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: they think are the hardest parts of parenthood is My
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: answer is that both the greatest and hardest part of parenthood.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: He is He's putting a double stamp on it for
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: all of us watching them grow up. Oh, this thing
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: hits so hard because as a parent, there are so
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: many times that you reflect on the accomplishments of your
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: little one where it makes you so proud of them.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: On the other hand, it makes you sad because all
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the moments that we remember from when they were little
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: are now gone. I tell all the BT six community
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: to cherish every moment that you spend with your kiddo,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: because it all goes by way too quick, from the
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: midnight feeds to my toddler wanting to have ice cream
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: for dinner and then wanting to listen to Scrilla on repeat.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: All the emotions, tears, frustrations, crying, laughs, and love were
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: all worth it because at the end of the day,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: your kiddo loves you with every ounce of there being.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Never forget that. It's just a reminder too, because I
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: love this ride and I appreciate you Alex. Shout out Alex.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: But his oldest is two and a half years, Like
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: we're talking about it, My oldest is three. Your oldest
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: right now is six months. And we have all of
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: these emotions, talk about the memories that we have right now.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: And you know, there's there's pt sixers out there that
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: have kids that are now off to college or they're
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: now grown, or they're listening to us and just thinking
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: about They would reiterate and say all of the same things,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: and they almost envy that we have a three year old,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: a two and a half year old with Alex, an
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: eight month old with Alex, a six month old with scarlet,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: because they would either they would love to go back
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: in it and envy what we get to go through again.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: They wish that they could relive it, and maybe they don't.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Maybe they're like, Man, I poured everything in towards the
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: most beautiful time ever. I wish I could relive these
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: these moments. There's these memories and moments, but I also
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: feel great about where everything's at. But boys, the young
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: PT sixers out there cherish all of it.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: But yeah, good okay, good Son, good Son, good Son?
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: Good Are we under an hour?
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: I think we got to cut it off.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: We can't get to these new dads. I do have
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: a very fun I thought we could jump into the
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: hate well really quick before we go into the positives hate.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: Mail, hate mail.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: We have our first hate mail two for the dad's
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: podcasts that we wanted to.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of excitement that you have with this,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: and I'm here's where my brain's going. I'm in fight
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: or flight right now. I got a PT six need
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: to be in fight or flight. Do we need to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: think about barricading up Hey and going.
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: To here's the deal. People can get mad at this
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: PT six can deploy on this guy. I'm not against that,
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: but I have to say I think this guy pretty
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: much kind of nailed his summary of our podcast. Okay,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: like he's not far off. This comes from Phoenix one
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: three eight on Spotify.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: We didn't need to say his name for everyone here was.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, don't music. That's p h O E n i
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: X Dash one three eight on Tournament Phoenix Phoenix Dash
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: one three eight on Spotify. Yeah, this was two days ago,
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: he said, one star podcast. Oh, one star one star podcast.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: Go back to the drawing board. Guys, it's like dumb
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: call of duty sport betting. Bro Talk. It's like dumb
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: call of duty sport betting. Bro Talk goes, well, I'm
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: a dad. Now he nailed. It was the full comment.
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: It's the full comment. I'm like, hey, you got the
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: premise the show. At that point, the show's just not
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: for you. Yeah, that's all it is. It's just not
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: for him. It's just not for him. So we could
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: go after him for sure.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: We had to set of balls. He dropped his social
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: his social name.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Bro the comment again, one star podcasts, Get back to
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: the drawing board. Go back to the drawing board. Oh no,
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: it's like dumb call duty sport betting. Bro Talk goes, well,
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: I'm a dad.
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: Now, I bet his wife is right behind when he
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: wrote that, just like see this is this is so
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: dumb sports.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: She probably loved the show Let's break it out and
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: I loved it.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: For the people who do sports bet it's sports betting fun.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: Does it have its moments of adversity? Yeah for sure?
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Do dads love their bros? Yeah? Are there moments of
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: adversity with their bros?
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: We is call duty fun.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: It's called duty fun. Is pubg fun?
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's getting a great Katie ratio fun.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Can't it be shitty at times? Absolutely? It has
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: its verse adversity boom fun, embracing the suck, embracing the suck.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: He did nail it. He nailed it and one star.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: It's if we nailed what he thinks we are. Why
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: would that'd be a five star podcast? I was about
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: to say, he broke down pretty much. I mean, minus
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: the sports banting. We don't really talk about that on
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: the show, but you know, yeah, welcome to the show, Phoenix,
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: Welcome to fatherhood Phoenix. Yah, Phoenix might not be a dad,
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: he might be an st six, but it could be
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: could be. Oh yeah, I guess it could be could
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: be an empty six hate.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: The negativity to be negative.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we like to have fun. We have no clue
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: what we're doing. That's why that's we sit here and
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: talk about with our community. Absolutely tell their own stories. Yeah,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: make light of it. That's what we did before fatherhood.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: I was telling you, realize how serious it is.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, true, and if we did come with all the
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: receipts at all these studies and stuff. At the end
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: of the day, I am just a bro. So who
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: am I to tell you what to do? At least,
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: I'm just hanging out on this pod and just saying, Hey,
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: I cry a lot when I see my daughter getting older.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah it makes me sad. Yeah, because that's about the
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: only thing. I'm an expert in his crying.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a dude. I'm a bro. I love football. Yeah,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: I love video games a lot of my past life.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I still love dabbling in some video games in this
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: life where I can find time to do it.
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: I enjoy.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: I enjoy having fun with life.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: Tell them what you said to Jill on the phone.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it's over the weekend. Caught a pod because again,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: football season's kind of coming to an end. So there's
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: not a lot of games on which, By the way,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: I love the NFL. I love playoff football because games
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: are done by a reasonable hour. It's not like a
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Sunday night FOOTBA or Monday night football kicks off at
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: like seven seven thirty.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: That is a great take central times.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: It's happening now at like five thirty to where you
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: get to enjoy the game, and by the time the
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: game's done, it's still about nine nine o'clock at night. Yes,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: sweet a pocket to where it's like, oh man, there's
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: not a whole lot to prepare a whole lot for
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: the next week, to where you're trying to gather all
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: this information and storylines going on in the football world
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: so I could be prepped and ready to go for
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: all the shows that we do the next week. It
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: kind of felt like it is a good weekend. We
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: get to a couple games of football. We kind of
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: have an open night because Sean and I finished His
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: and Hers. By the way, if you're a couple out
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: there and you're looking for a show on Netflix, a
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: limited series His and Hers on Netflix.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: Good. I love that actor.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: I forget his name, John Yeah, Yeah, he's anttr guy.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: He's a Washington fan.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: I want to say we had it back and forth
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: one time back on Twitter in the early days.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: In the early days.
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: He's the most fascinating man ever. He trained professional in
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: Russia to be an actor. Like his story is crazy.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: Crazy, and he loves being a dad.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: He's got a he's got that famous pot that viral
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: podcast with Shilah buff where they kind of talk about
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: parenthood and yeadhood. Highly encourage, recommend that as well. But
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: joh and I we finished his and hers like we
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: finished our show because it's only six episodes long, and
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, I'm like, oh, let's.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: We got an opportunity tonight. We got a change.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so uh eloquently quoted.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, an opportunity to go have some fun and
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: play some video games tonight with the boys. It's about
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: nine to nine thirty. Got to get a couple of
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: hours under our belt. So I hit up Shurham and
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: it's Saturday. It felt like a day we alluded that
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: could be a possibility. Absolutely, colms are quiet throughout the night,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: so I just shoot the eyes where we at tonight.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Boys.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: Jared kind of gives us a I could be on
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: i'd be a game time decision. It is looking optimistic. Yeah,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: it is looking like an opportunity is upon us. Yeah,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: and Shuram hasn't answered yet, But I know Shuram's been
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: doing trying to have intentionality behind that not being on
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: his phone like screen time and everything else. So I'm thinking, like, Okay,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: how do I get a hold of Shirm because he
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: hasn't hit the chat back. However, I see Shuram respond
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: to somebody on X a pt sixer out there drop
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: this psychotic meal with ollipops.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Dree that with the shrimp cocktail and the pizza Olio pizza.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: It loved it a plus.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: But then he also had some cold shrimp cocktail on
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: the photo too, and he's got some cold shrimp cocktail,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: pizza and Oli pop kind of a you know, that's
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: a different but hey, we're not here to judge any
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: pizza judge.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: But I see Sherm respond to him be like, oh,
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: this is awesome.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: And Sherm is responding to that on X after the
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: group chat has been hit up. That's weird and people
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: have been reaching out to Shram, so I'm like, Okay,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: that's a little weird. Maybe Shurm's maybe he won't be
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: able to go tonight, which would be fine, but we
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: just need some comments. We need some PT six communication
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: ye've been taking place. So I'm trying to scroll and
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: figure out my phone had died and I turned it
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: back on, so my messages hasn't hadn't loaded, because I'm
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: trying to type in Jill and see where I can
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: find Jill's old number so I can reach out to
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Jill myself. So I can't find it, so eventually I
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: just call Shirm. Shearm picks up. He gives me a
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: debrief on the things have been going on the last
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: couple hours. He's been apparently ripping. I was a resume.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I have a resume for PT six. He's operating, I
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: really was. He felt good, and I'm like, I want
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: to talk to Jill. So he puts me on speaker
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: with Jill and I want to get I want to
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: see a Sherm can play with the boys.
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: She's like, I will, Hello, Will, Jill.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: It's so good to talk to you. You sound beautiful. Hey, listen,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: do you think sum can come out to play with
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: his friends tonight?
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: She goes like outside, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Like come outside and play. This is me knocking on
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: the door. See, I'm sure he can hang out with
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: his friends to night. Yeah, and she gives them the
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: go ahead, she gives them the green light. It's up
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: from there.
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: It was up from there.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: We get on comms, we get on the controller. We
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: have again, not call of duty, but puff.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: G oh yeah, Phoenix would have been pissed with how
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: much fun we are having. It was and just a
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: little backstory of the leading into that phone call. I
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: basically or I'll save it for crack of cole one. Actually, okay,
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: or I can get it. I can get into it
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: for the crack of cole one. I know we have
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: other comments.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Let's you shout out a couple of new dads. Let's
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: shout out a couple of new dads. BT six franc
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  Speaker 1: underscore Apple podcasts. Okay, it's speedy six franc. This is
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  Speaker 3: You can.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Good A fella's been listening till day one. Fella has
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: been listening. I think he meant since day one. And
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: I'm living in the best times. Baby girl woke me
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: up at four am and then go back to sleep.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Good good.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: It's currently four twenty nine in the morning right now,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm on the couch with her while she eats
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: pancake and sausage on a stick and watching Mickey Mouse wonderful.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: That's awesome.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: She doesn't know Dad wanted to sleep at one am,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: but I'm hearing ready for that. Lefty on the mound.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Love the show. Keep up the good work and hopefully
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: there's no bears in the restroom when we go shopping
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: later today.
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: God dude walked in. Shout out Frank, shout out fregrets
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: on being a new dad. Hey, shout out the pancake
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: and sausage on stick. Forgot that existed? Yeah, that was
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: fire in elementary school. Blake F one three on. This
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: is an email. Okay, boys, bravo for this idea and
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: congrats on all the success. My wife and I had
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: a loss at nineteen weeks last year. Rough time for
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: the home team. Fast forward a year and we are
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: expecting a baby boy in June. Come on, Blake, let's go.
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: Thanks so much for the content and encouraging stories from
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: members as well as yourselves. Let's go, Blake, shut out
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: black Man.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's big time.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Boo can only imagine dude, nineteen weeks along and getting
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: some bad news. I have another one here from Blake.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: This one is Blake James. Ooh, shut out Blake. We
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: got a photo to shout out the new Squad ninety
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: six and PT six. Hey boys, this is Blake James.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Two weeks ago I became a PT six member. Good
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: official girl dad. My wife gave birth to our baby
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: girl at one oh wait in the morning on January first.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: We have a new Year's baby. She was the first
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: baby born for the start of twenty twenty six.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: Yo. Yo.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: Got to give a huge shout out to my gangster
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: ass wife, Gracie.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: She pushed for a little over two hours.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: Good God, Gracie.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: But they put us in the newspaper and I had
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: the merch on love the podcast Hope to get a
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: shout out. Hope the boys and their babies are happy
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: and healthy. And here's the photo they push out the
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: bait they've got him in the bapis Blake and Gracey.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: Shout out to you guys. That is awesome.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: Blake made the papes come on. That's so sick, dude.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: Two hours two hours, first baby of twenty six. My
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: wife was pushed for forty plus. You talking gigs as yeh,
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: come on, that's kind of soft. I'm just hey, I'm just,
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: I'm just we're going busting balls.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: This is where Phoenix is right.
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: Hey, hey, we're busting balls.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: We're we're joking.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: We'll go back to the drawing boy, Conner shaw.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Sell, my shits have taken through it. We'll go off.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: I'm geor joking. We're out.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: We're just we're having fun on the podcast. That's all
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: we're doing.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Congratulations play jeez, Concher All says boys in all caps, wife,
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: you and I are expecting our first tomorrow Saturday. Dang.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: So this was just three days ago and we couldn't
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: be more excited. Hash that girl.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Dad.
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: This pod has not only helped me prepare, but it's
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: encouraging me that there's a community of other dads out
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: there who are not experts in parentheses sharing their wins,
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: losses and tips. Ps. The hospital is humbling me with
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: the chair that I am pretty sure they just moved
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: from the waiting room. Connor, he said, good Connor Shawl
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: if you are still in said hospital or you actually
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: probably just got home with your little bundle of joy.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: They had them on Saturday. Congratulations you guys, dude, congratulations
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: and try to get some sleep. Welcome to the show.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, dude, be walked in, Welcome to you.
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: I kind of I forget everything that comes with these
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: new dads because I'm like so excited for him, and
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: then I kind of get a little PTSD flashback to
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: like my little Trench, and I'm like, oh man, those yeah,
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: those first four weeks. Yeah, but shout out the new
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: dad's when Kracker cole One, Kracker cole.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: One, we got some of our Kracker cole one always
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  Speaker 1: brought to us by the wonderful Ollipop.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Lollipop has a new flavor, Shirley Temple.
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: Yes, they do.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: So if you're like a non alcoholic bevy person, we
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  Speaker 1: of prebiotic fiber two what is it, three to five
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: or two to five grams of sugar par can And
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: they got a variety of flavors. I run through my
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: list all the time. Chris Bapple, Watermelonline, Classic Grape. Those
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: are my top three. Shirley Temple is in my top five.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: It's a very good taste light on the tummy and
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: you don't feel guilty afterwards.
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: Will I could not agree more with Ollipop. I love
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: that the Shirley Temple. It's very Valentine's Day themed that
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: that's kind of my favorite thing. We had mentioned it
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: in our Little Valentine's clip. I love the pink, I
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: love the look, and of course you get Okay, I've
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: looked into this and I can't wait to do it
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: because I went to drink lollipop Ford slash but BWTB
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: to see how it works. But essentially, you get a
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: free can of ollipop right now if you buy any
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: two cans at an Ollipop store, and Ollipop will pay
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: you back. They will literally PayPal or Venmo you money.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: If you send them your receipt that you bought two
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: cans of lollipop at a store, they'll pay for one
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: of the cans.
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: No ship.
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: I swear to god, I want to do it this
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: week because I'm like, that's that is like actually a
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: ton of fun. Like I want to I want to
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: see how it works. I want to get a Venmo
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: from Ollipop and what you need to do too, because.
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: This is where this will, this will be.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: These are these are going to be future retweets. Oh yeah,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: but you brought up the Valentine's Day theme. Imagine having
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: a couple of cans a Shirley Temple ollipop sitting there,
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: packaged with a new bus in Valentine's tea.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: We didn't even bring this one up. Did we bring
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: this one up? I don't think we talked about it.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: You keep my heart busting and a lot of the
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: fun little Valentine's Day hard candies that you used to
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: get from your little Secret crush says for the boys down,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: bad for you. MT six no free shout outs, locked
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: in all written on the little hard candies Tier.
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: One lover, Tier one.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: Dude, if I had one free to speak, yeah, freed,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: but one iteration.
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: You own the company, permission to speak.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like we should have more of Valentine theme
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: colors versus the black.
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: But that could be that could be a culture, It
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: could be a cold take. I think there.
• 54:39
  Speaker 6: Are color options. I don't know about color options for
• 54:41
  Speaker 6: that one. I know this black shirt that is the
• 54:43
  Speaker 6: same as Shermans will have pink text.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Shurm's got the white one on.
• 54:48
  Speaker 6: A black with pink text. I know that shirt, and
• 54:51
  Speaker 6: then I do believe I do believe I could be wrong.
• 54:53
  Speaker 6: There is obviously additional bussing merch that I don't know
• 54:56
  Speaker 6: if it's a hat or something that I believe is pink,
• 54:58
  Speaker 6: would be terribly wrong.
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: Love it either way.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: What I'm what I'm talking about for the retweet, like say,
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: you had this shirt right here, my forever what is
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: it my forever rodeo?
• 55:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: If you have this shirt nice, nice and folded with
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: a couple lollipops, Shirley Temple sitting there, that's a photo
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: that's just ding.
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: That's retweet. Yeah, that's relimiting.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: If you want to, Willie, will you see retweet that's
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: you're edited in the right.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Everyone's gonna fire me up.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: That that's the gift that the boys got for their
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: wife and guys. Again, that works on any flavor at
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: any retailers. It does not have to be the Shirley Temple.
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: It could be Will's favorite classic grape, could be root beer, Chrisapple,
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: it could be Chris papple line, any of those flavors.
• 55:41
  Speaker 4: Ollipop is everywhere. Has anyone tried lemon lime yet?
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: I have not. I saw it.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: I was going to go lemon lime, but I also
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: saw orange squeeze, so I wanted to try like the
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: orange soda style.
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: I want to go get my pub sub and I
• 55:54
  Speaker 4: saw it in publics and I grabbed it.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: Quite delicious, Oh god God, like a good light one
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: like not one that doesn't feel like it's a like
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: a syrupy taste like lemon lime.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Feels like a good.
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: Very compared to other competitors that we will not name. Yeah,
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: it is, in my opinion, doesn't have that that syrupy taste. Yeah, dude,
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: it has that really light It's really punchy with the
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: lot with the lime taste.
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: I love.
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: It's incredible.
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: I was blown away, and I was wondering if any
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: of you guys have tried it.
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: No, have not, not yet.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: Can't wait to get my hands on it. It's gonna
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: be two hand grabbed too.
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: Didn't even know they had an orange flavor. To be honest,
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: I'm big on like orange flavors. So that is the
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: next one. I want to have a full roll decks Man,
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: crack a col One, Lollipop, crack a cole one. Make
• 56:42
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• 56:59
  Speaker 3: will Compton. What is your cracker, col my crack of cold?
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: One is going to go to the upcoming snow weekend.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be taking place here in Nashville. Come on,
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: optimism when big snow's coming.
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: Right now, we're looking at last I saw fifteen to
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: eighteen inches on one on the weather app.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, phone, I saw up to nineteen inches on weather
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: dot com.
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be nuts.
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: Some people dislike snow days. That's okay, that's o bad,
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: It's okay. We're just like, hey, we know it's coming.
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: We can't control what's about to happen to us. We
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: control how we respond. Yes, sir, you want to be
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: a thermostat and not a thermometer. Come on, you don't
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: want to be sitting there just because it gets cold.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Now you get cold, you get a little cold hearted,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: you get a little pessimistic, get a little anti snow.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: You don't want to do that. Hey, snow's coming.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: What are we gonna do about it pro snow we
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: got here's what's here's how we are equipping ourselves. Okay,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: right now, you're gonna assume that you can't get out
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: of the house. That's what you have to assume, because
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: we can get to a hill. We got the sleds,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: sleds ordered ready to go. They're gonna be coming in. Uh,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: you gotta get the outfits ready, the boots, the heavy
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: hout are where for the kiddos. They're gonna they're gonna
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: argue with you about one to put gloves on. I'm
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: more of a dad that'll take the approach. Okay, you
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: go out there and find out the hard way. Oh
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: you want to wear a dress outside instead of instead
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: of all these layers, Go ahead, be my guess.
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Frostbit's actually really cool. You should check it out.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, step outside. I'm telling you right now, it's freezing.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: You're gonna hate that you're wearing a dress. But go
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: outside right now and find out for yourself. You're gonna
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: come back in.
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: You're gonna be all right, Dad, d Let's let's get
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: the let's get the outer world. Oh, Dad was right, mm, but.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: Building a snowman will be on the docket, getting on
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: the sled. I'll be on the docket. Maybe get a
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: little snowball fight in just kind of see where Rou's
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: mental's at, because she might I might send her in
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: a blender.
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: Do you have a carrot for the snowman?
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: Knows?
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: Great note, I just want I didn't want to tell
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: you how to do it, but hey, this is PT
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: six game. Listen.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: If you're thinking about it, well, you're in Nashville. You're
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: in a spot where it's gonna snow this weekend. Maybe
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: you're in a spot where it's snowing right now. Again,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: be a thermostat, not a thermometer. We can't control. We
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: can't control the weather. It's happening to us. Yes, we
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: get to have we get snow day.
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: Also, I got I have some extra charcoal for you
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: if needed. I can put it in a little zip
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: block back because I know you got a propen.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Yes you were telling me, yeah, yep, great game from
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: a bet sixer right here. So if you're preparing prepping
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: for this snow day and you think you're gonna build
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: a snowman, go ahead and get what's needed for the
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: snowmak get some charcoal. Get some maybe black buttons. Get
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: the carrots for the nose, maybe a little cute hat,
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: a scarf, scarf, make sure you get the scarf, have to.
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: I have a have a quick tip on game here.
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: Oh please.
• 59:43
  Speaker 4: If you're a big sledding person, learn this one. When
• 59:46
  Speaker 4: I was a little kid, the old man made one
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  Speaker 4: of the best causes ever made. Snow day wise, don't
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: get the saucer. You know the saucers and everything. The
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  Speaker 4: little plastics sleds are great. Get you an actual wooden
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: sled with the iron ram, the old school style. Yeah,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 4: rid those things, especially if you're on a hill. Ice
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: is over fly. You want to talk about having fun
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 4: on a sled, those things, especially if you got little boys,
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 4: if you know toddlers, you might want to be a
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: little more careful because these things go. But I'm telling
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 4: you that once you go, once you start on a
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: actual old school sled, one that goes up to like
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  Speaker 4: twenty five miles an hour, you will never want to
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: go on like a plastic saucer again in your life.
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  Speaker 3: Once you start, you're never gonna stop. You'll never stop.
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  Speaker 4: That's mine.
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  Speaker 3: Would you order just wondering what'd you order?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: For floods.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: For sleds.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, ordered uh, you have to look at Amazon not
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: get that one. You don't want to go You don't
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: want to go too fast for real? Yeah, true, she'll
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: want to go fast. But I'm saying that that I
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: that's older old.
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  Speaker 2: Yeahh the boys. I think three year old boys would
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: love something like that.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: Probably, I would say like five to six and up
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: is probably when my dad got one, because they they
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: will like, if you're on a big hill, especially out
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: here in Tennessee, like you, it could be potentially dangerous,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: so they will actually, especially if it's an icy road,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: those things go.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah to me, to me, you want to a beginner
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: level sled and create the hunger for wanting something better
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: or wanting something fast. Yeah, you start off too fast
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: and you have a bad moment, then you're shine them
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: away from a dude. Snow days are fun. Sledding is awesome.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I gotta. I have a snowboard here at the
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: shop that very easily. You just sit towards the rear,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: you hold up the snowboard a little bit. It's a
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 3: great little makeshift slid. For now, because Scarlet, I mean
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: we're talking six months ye scarts.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: Where you put her out there and you kind of
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: just seeing what her reaction is to all the snow.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: And you're like, look at the snow on the ground. Sligh, yeah,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: oh look at that. They eat the snow. Do you
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: want to eat some snow? Can I feed her snow
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: that she drinks water? Right, it's fine? And then uh yeah,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: what else as far as the snow day goes? You're
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: talking snow day prep and it turned what was your
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 3: last note? You said? Outfits boots, gloves, outfits boots gloves,
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: snow man, sled, build a snow man, yup, make sure
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 3: you have soup ready to go?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: What do you want to do chili?
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Just just know whatever you're gonna need, whatever ingredients you're
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: gonna need inside the house.
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  Speaker 2: To assume we're not going to be able to leave
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: the house.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: You did, okay, So I just the not leaving the
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: house part remembered. Firewood, firewood, firewood, fire.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, get the fireplace going, maybe get the kids down,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: get the kids down early, and then an opportunity.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: Come on, man, come on, Scrilla starts playing me Me,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: Me me meanly. I don't even know if that's our
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: song for writing Shockwave. But maybe people don't.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: Familiar with Scrilla. Just go to Spotify right now, type
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: in Scrilla, Sit back. That's the that's theme music for
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  Speaker 1: Papa Team six.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. I am very side for this snow day.
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  Speaker 5: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: It will be Scarlet's first snow experienced, Scotti's first snow experience.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because Scotty was only like a couple months last year. Okay,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: so yeah, Scotty's first real experience.
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  Speaker 2: She's gonna love this.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: I can just see it now.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 3: I hope Scarlet lights up, dude. Uh, he was a
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: little a little iffy about the first snow day. Oh really,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: you had to get a bought in. I do remember that. Yeah,
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: she was having a little trouble with the snowman. She
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: was crying a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well winter over.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: I think I think Scotty's gonna love the snow. Who's
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: gonna love it now because last year she had a.
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  Speaker 3: Lot of fun, uh huh uh yeah, no doubt. Scotty's
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: just gonna be pounding the snow. She's gonna be out
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: there snow angels.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's getting rude of it. Just lay on the
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: ground swao.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be a littleld it's gonna be a little
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: wett You just gotta embrace it.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: And then don't be a thermometer roue.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Hey, come on, that's a Dan Gable original. I
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 3: don't even know if he said.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: It, but these are the thermometer thermostat speech is one
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: that if you're worth a ship.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: As a coach, you're telling it to your team.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: Parts of the year where guys are starting to bitch,
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: you're starting to feel it a little bit. Listen, you
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: can't we can't control all this other bullshit. Yeah, old
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: man Dan's done that speech once or twice.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Oh, I'm sure Dan.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a good coffee beans speech out there.
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  Speaker 3: Google is saying that is a Martin Luther King junior quote.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: Oh there we go, Yes, who.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: There we go.
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  Speaker 3: That's wonderful. Well done, dude, well done. Yeah. Also, weatherise
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: your house. That was a big one for me last year.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: Around the snow day, are pipes froze and if I
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: had gone underneath the house to check, I was seeing
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 3: that some of those pipes were running on the ground.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: I needed to get them up in the beams or
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: whatever they're called.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's smart that you're you're putting some young
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: dads on game.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: They might need to go check the pipes.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: Open your cabinets. That's a big one. I know, that's
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: a big one.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: Open the cabinets.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for like keeping the sync from freezing over.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: Apparently a helps the temperature to kind of enter into
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: like the underneath of the sink and keep those pipes warm.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: That's good game.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: It's been a little that game. I'm no expert. My
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 3: pipes have been frozen multiple times. Texans have we got
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: to get the community involved. When this drops, it'll be
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: Wednesday morning. Yeah, because you're listening hopefully on Wednesday morning
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: right now, we're Thursday.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: Snow isn't come yet.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so just drop any tips for snow days to
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: pre prep work, whether it's what is it weatherizing your house?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: Winter rising?
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, weathering no, I think I said yeah either way, winter.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: Rising your house?
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, whatever games out there. We got embraced the snow, Dad,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: you got embraced. And speaking of winter rising things or
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 3: weatherizing them. Uh. I took Scarlet to the zoo this weekend.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 3: That is my crack a cold one. She just absolutely
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 3: crushed it. Dude, it's so much fun getting to hang
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: out with people outside the house. I don't know if
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: I touched on this last episode. Babysitter went absolutely fantastic.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: Let's go absolutely fantastic for Jared show. So we have
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: her schedule, we know her openings, we have two date
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: nights scheduled for this month. Yeah, dude, let's go. Are
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: you kidding me? January twenty eight.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: How was the feeling when you left the babysitter the
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 2: first time?
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: Dude? Really really well, I'm so glad that we did.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: Here's a little dad hack. Meet the babysitter in person
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: before said babysitting night.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: That way you said a dad hack. That just feels
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: like you should probably just meet the babysitter.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: Oh parents, Yes, sorry, parents, Yes, meet the babysitter.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: Have kid meet them. There you go, good clarification.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: Well, thank you, super babysit is seven.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: How tall are you?
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: And they said you were pretty good? So I think
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: we're gonna go.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: With yeah, all right, we'll see there.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 3: Honey, you've met her, right, yeah, honey, I mean, come on,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: what do you think I am? When you get here?
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: Just say we hey, look I told my wife about you.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 3: I said, I met you. I know, we haven't I
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: know we haven't met. Just whenever you come into the
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 3: house to say to see if you tell that you
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: met me, all that we'll have a pizza there for you.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: We'll buy you a pizza.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, uh the but she was great, have your your
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: child meet them. Scarlet like hung out with her at
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 3: this coffee shop for like an hour and a half
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: and was like getting our chest, playing with their hair,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 3: YadA YadA. So when she came over on the night
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: of Scarlet won friendly face, Scarlet was super sleepy and
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: she just melted onto Julia's shoulder and looked out like
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: a light dude. So leaving was the easiest thing in
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 3: the entire world. I mean, she was pto. Where was
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 3: I going, Trip to the zoo? Trip to the zoo.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 3: So anyways, yeah, just getting out of the house is
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: absolutely incredible and getting to hang out with adult humans.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: Got to meet some new friends. They were a couple
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 3: of friends of Jared's. That was very front, very fun.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 3: They are actually about to enter into PT six here
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 3: in may Oh, which was I told Jared. I was like,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 3: we got to hook up your boy Adam with some
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 3: for the dad's stuff. Lovely couple. Mom dude. Mom was
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 3: asking me some questions about the strollers, because guess what
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: Sherman did. He forgot to bring his stroller to the
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 3: zoo Saturday. I got to rent a stroller from the zoo,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: got to pay money. That was fun, that was so fun.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: I forgot the stroller.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: Good good, got a stroller that's built for a four
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: year old, not a six month old. They had to
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: pack all these blankets and so she would fit.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: You're sending jail photos. What's that stroller? We're what happened
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: to the stroller?
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 3: What stroller the Sherman, the Nuna or the Duna? We
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: have two strollers? Where are they? Ah?
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: I forgot them, and.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 3: I'm going to I'm going easy on Jill there in
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 3: the back of her car. But I did not know.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: I didn't know. I didn't know. Hey, I didn't do
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: that Jill under the bus. I kind of did everything
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 3: she does for the family, and hey, I was operating
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: under the assumption that I had messed up. As the
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: funniest part, so all of my pictures were very strategically
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: not Scarlet in the stroller throughout the entire day, and
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 3: then realized when I got home and the stroller wasn't
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 3: in there, I was like, Oh, it's in her car.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: So this one's on Jill.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: This one's on Jill. Finally put up the graphic where
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: it's like hang the banner where it's like a thousand
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: to zero and just put a one for Sureman, I
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 3: find the banner. Oh but dude, this year was just
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 3: a ton of fun. Jared and his girlfriend Mackenzie, they're
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 3: a wonderful, wonderful couple. We love hanging out with them.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 3: It was very fun just to get to see Scarlett
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: interacting with them, to get to see Jared and st
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 3: Sixer interacting with Scarlet. Jared might be in a little
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 3: bit of trouble, he told us later that night. He
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: kind of fucks with babies now exact quote.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, duck with babies now.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: He kind of fucks with babies now because Jared's a
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: gooom bret. He's a he is is so yeah with
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 3: goombrat tendencies and yeah, it was just it was really
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 3: fun to watch McKenzie interacting with Scarlet. Yeah, it's Scarlet
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: loves girls, loves girls. We're at Buffalo Wild Wings the
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 3: other night and there was a little table of teenage girls.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: Scarlet watched him the entire day, entire thought she was
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: one of them and wanted like, Mom, Dad, you go away,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: put me at that tape. Yeah yeah, but yeah, dude,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 3: just getting out going and doing stuff the zoo. It
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 3: was a ton of fun. Didn't win arizd Scarlet very
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: well though. She's kind of got a little like stuff
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: in the cough, you know what I'm saying, just got
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 3: like some stuff in her lungs. So I kind of
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: got a little talking to from Jilly being on that.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 3: We'll work on it.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be are winter rizing her. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: you got you got a molder.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: I'm building up her straight.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're building up the straight little thing. The little cough.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: That's good, honey, wire cheeks chapped? What's going on with that?
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 3: You didn't put any low share of vasoline on her? No?
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: I didn't.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 5: Good?
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 3: You know, hey, did she have a whole other layer
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: underneath her jacket? No, she didn't.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 5: Good.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: We got to communicate about the stroller. Good. Good forgot
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: to put moisturizer on her.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 5: Good.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: Good to get a cough, good thought I was taking
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: Everything went great, though, everything went great. Thought I was
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 3: taking her to a restaurant. It was really just a
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 3: bar that served food. Good dude, the guy, the host
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: that was like at the door to the place we
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 3: walked in. When I walked in with Scarlett, was like,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, they're doing a baby. They were very nice
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 3: and accommodating. Shout out the corner of the corner bar. Yeah,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 3: we brought out the corner, no free shoutouts. It's a
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 3: great spot if you're in Nashville. They were very accommodate.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 3: Speaking of zoo we saw Zutopia two on Friday night.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 3: Tell me, tell me about it because I freaking loved Zootopia.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: Bro Zootopia two is a banger, great story, great story,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: arcs with characters, great twists. Rus engaged the whole time.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: We took rid of the movie theater on Friday night.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: Friday night, got to sit here for Scottie. So we
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: had a little you know, mommy daughter or mom and
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: dad taking Rue on a little date night to the
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: movie theater for a movie night and pizza. Friday didn't
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: get the pizza, but dude, Ru loved it. She's like
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: sitting up on our edge of the CT entire movie
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: to the to the whole point of where probably the
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: back third of the movie was left.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 3: She had to go potty. Yeah, but she didn't want
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: to go potty. She wanted to watch the movie.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's like, all right, sweet a, Right, here's what
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: we could do this little trick in movie because we
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: can't pause the movie like we do at home. We
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: can't pause while you go to the bathroom. Ever we
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: get there's a there's a crowd in here, we can't
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: pause the movie.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 3: Was she asking to positive, Yes, you see if we
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: could pause the movie?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 5: Cute?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: And I was like, but what we can do? This
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: is a part we just got done with a big moment.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: There's still a little bit of.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: The movie left.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: If we run, we can run right now and go
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: to the go potty, and then we'll run back and
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: we'll be able to see great parts.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: Of the movie.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: Heck yeah, I was like, but if you don't want to,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: you're you're gonna have to hold it.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to kind of wrestle around and hold it.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: She's like, I want to hold it dead.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: That's a big moment.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: She held it. That's a big mill for sure. She's
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: just gonna pee.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: She's gonna be a through underwear and we're gonna, you know,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: have a little code red, get some napkins, kind of
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: like held it it. Yeah, she held it tour. After
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: we run in the body, she goes botty. But Zutopia
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: two is phenomenal. Any parents out there who've seen Utopia one,
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: Zutopia two is incredible. If you haven't seen it with
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: your toddler yet, take your toddler. Yeah, if you haven't
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: seen Zutopia at all, you can just go watch Utopia two.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: You got start with Utopia one. It doesn't matter. But
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: Zutopia is the move.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I was going to ask you as far
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: as Utopia two goes, I am a bit of a
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 3: snob with movies. I just wanted to make sure it's
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: not too many callbacks to the first. It's kind of
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 3: its own original story.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: It's kind of its own it's kind of its own
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: original to where Fox and Bunny like they you know,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: they just they saved the day in the first one. Yeah, Yeah,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: to where they are like vet cops now when they
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: kind of go off and do their own thing. I'm
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: like love the friction with the with the Chief, Like,
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: what is it the chief?
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: What is he a bull?
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah? But they have like all those.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: Little ties to the first one. But it's like a
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: new it's a newer story. It's a fun it's a
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: good one. It's a good one.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: You'll like it.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 3: Daniel Tiger would be very proud of Real for holding
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  Speaker 3: it during the mode.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Daniel Tiger would be bumped and Tiger was sitting
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: there just holding her hand through it.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: God, but she loved it.
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  Speaker 3: Bro.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: Shakira, she's like the the antelope. Yeah, Shakira has another
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: banger song to where we've been hitting that song. We've
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: just been going back and forth on a repeat from
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: the first Utopian the second one. But she's got another
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: banger song.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: I forgot that that was an original piece that she
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 3: did for that first one. And when the credits were
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 3: and we were watching Zoo House, Yeah, God, I forgot
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 3: what a banger this is.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: It was good though. I highly recommend to all the parents.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: I love that everybody wants a good a good kids movie.
• 1:15:12
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  Speaker 3: We can't let Phoenix hear that one. That's crazy work, because.
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  Speaker 6: It's what I It's one of my favorite callings we've
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 6: ever received, just because of the voice and what he said.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: What he said that.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 7: I'll sorry, golly, boys, you got Andy here real quick.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 7: I got a pro tip for expecting fathers, which is
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 7: the situation I'm currently in.
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  Speaker 5: But before that, we'll let you know I'm a day
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  Speaker 5: one listener.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 7: I started listening first episode and then I was like, well,
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  Speaker 7: probably do this because I.
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  Speaker 5: Like these boys. Again, I figured to give me some
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 5: wisdom for expecting child two. Three years. A week later,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 5: my wife's like, hey, I'm breaking. I'm like, well, good news.
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  Speaker 5: I prepared. I've been listening to this podcast. So fast
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 5: forward for the expecting father.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 7: He's probably gonna have to go on some daycara tours
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 7: and if you've never been there, you have no idea
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 7: what to ask these people. Yeah, we're in there asking
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 7: him like, uh, where they play at, where they sleep
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 7: or the doors locked?
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 5: We got none. Man, Before you go in, you have
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 5: to quit Google. You look like a hero to your wife.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 5: You go in there and be like, what's the certification
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 5: of the teachers?
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 3: Teachers? Like?
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 5: What a question? From this moment, excuse me answer, I
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 5: didn't hear what you said. That's good. Uh, follow it up.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 7: It's like who's c if your certified, and what do
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 7: we do to make sure you keep taking the courses?
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 5: Love that question. So yeah, you have to quit Google.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 5: That's my pro tip and.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: You'll have a good day day.
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  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 3: That's au from Andy right there. That's a plus phone
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 3: call from Andy right there. Indeed, dude, the fact that
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 3: a guy that sounds like that loves his pot Phoenix
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 3: would piss his pants of Andy walk into a room,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: would piss his pants Andy, so on.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: It, dude, He's on it. You call the fluff right there, Andy.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: His hack.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: His pro tip is any situation or conversation you're about
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: to go into, use Google.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: Hey, what are the questions to ask? Yes, went talking
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: to so and so as a parent.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 3: And it is true. I talked about that on an
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 3: episode with you guys of our shopping experience. I was
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 3: the first guy that he described. I didn't Google beforehand. Yeah,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 3: I didn't know anything to ask. The only thing was
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 3: the security measure, which was, like, you know, do the
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 3: doors locked? He's exactly right, dude, he's shout out Andy.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: And like I think to times where we might be
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: sitting with somebody that maybe baby sits the kids, or
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: potential nanny or a doctor or whatever it is, troll
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: will rip off some of these questions and then we'll
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: cand I sit there because I'm kind of quiet the
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: whole time, and Troll look over to me and we
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: kind of just both smiled.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 5: Jos.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: She's like, you have any question, sweetheart. I feel pretty good.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: It's pretty good.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: But that game right there, I need a Yeah, you
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: fuff use Google. Hey, I'm about to meet with this
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: about to meet with this pediatrician. What are some good
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: questions to ask as a father?
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you had a situation with your new house where
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 3: you did the blue tape thing where you all went
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 3: around and you kind of blue taped everything. I know
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 3: renters do that all the time too, where you go
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 3: through and you take pictures of stuff in the house,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 3: any of those little things where it's like Dad could
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: either go in completely blind or could go in and
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 3: look like he did his homework well done.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: And I need Andy Colling in more. Yeah, I need
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: that voice in my life.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm always and Andy please and sounds and Andy
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 3: sounds like an older dad.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 4: Did he say how oldest kids were?
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 3: Well daycare?
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 4: So?
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but he has that voice of like a seasoned
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: early sixty who loves watching a football. I just don't
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 3: run the damn Yeah. I don't want to be that guy,
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 3: but just guessing his accent, I feel like he's anywhere
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 3: from Abilene, Texas to Little Rock, Arkansas. Is going to
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 3: be my guest, and that could be somewhere in Oklahoma too. Andy,
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 3: if you don't mind sharing your location, you just sound
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 3: like my kind of people. You just kind of sound
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 3: like a tics. Andy. I like those boys. I listened
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 3: to it.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: That's your that's your neck of the woods. That's my
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: neck of the woods. He really throws for a loopies.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: I got Felsen from Minnesota.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 3: I'm from PRISONO man, like, damn Okay, California. This is
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 3: from V he says. I thought I was ready.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 5: Boys, it's V again. That's a voicemail about an hour ago.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: Hung up.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 3: My wife looking at me and was like, you really
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 3: just butchered that from calling back because when it was happening,
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 3: we watched someone go off the road because Ike's hell out,
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 3: so everyone be safe.
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 8: But just my thing was is I thought I had
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 8: all this together because we're expecting our.
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 3: First in April, and then I listened to the episode
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 3: where you guys are talking about sucking you.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 4: He could got of noses, and I look at my
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 4: wife and I'm like, what are they talking about?
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: And then I finally realized, like, I have no idea
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 3: what I'm doing here.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 8: So my question is is there's all.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 3: The basic stuff that you know, expecting fathers me, but
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 3: what is the stuff that really threw you for a
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 3: curve ball that you really had to adapt and learn
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 3: how to do. Appreciate you boys, talk to your fam'd
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 3: be sick as that.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 6: That's a good phoney, really good question. The first phone
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 6: call he sent in was much more mild and generic.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 6: The second one you could tell the wife was like
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 6: you suck at that?
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 3: And he's like, no, I'm calling back and getting and
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 3: it was an hour on the dot. He thought about it.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 3: He pulled an handy and he said, what's a good
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 3: question I can ask these boys?
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: Naturally, that's a great feeling and thought that you felt
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: when hearing about the mucus and it's not sucking. Yeah,
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: because again that's that was news to me. It was like, oh, hey,
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: kids got a stuff. He knows, like, how do we
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: get this stuff even out of their noses? Now we
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: got this little bulb right here. That's when we first
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: learned about the bulb. Then we go to the manual snotsucker.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: And then I'm learning through sure that there's this machine
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: of a snotsucker out there that you don't have to
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: sit there and feel like you're torturing the kid. They
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: actually probably have fun with it or love it. We
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: we're still in the process. I need to get my
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: hands on.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 3: Those bro I ripped some mucus out this morning, by
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 3: the way, ripped some out with that electronic and all went, well,
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 3: she oh yeah, and dude, I'm talking so much. And guys,
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 3: we don't get any money from that company of whatever
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 3: that It's.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: Crazy how much you pull out of their nose, Like
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: when I'm doing it with the tube, the manual one.
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: It's crazy how you'll keep hearing the noise and you're
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 1: like you got to take a breath and continue to
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: go because like, my god, they got so much up
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: there they do.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 3: Sorry I cut you off.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 2: Well, no, I was gonna just say. I felt like
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 2: that's a natural like you, we have no clue. We
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: I want to say my first my first moments is
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 1: just always having the diaper bag ready and being in
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: like thinking ahead more. I'm very poor at being able
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: to think ahead. Stuff that's Chari is sitting there saying,
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, or she might whether you want to call
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: it getting an ear for or we're just having a
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: conversation about it.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 2: Trump's in there.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I haven't been able. I don't know
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: how to get my brain the forward think about some
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: of this stuff.
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 3: I to where I'm like learning on the fly.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: There again, no matter even what we tell you, there's
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: gonna be things that come up that we're not even
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: currently aware of. There's gonna be things that I've already
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: forgotten that. Yeah, sure threw me for a loop.
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 3: As far as if he's talking about he's about to
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 3: be a father, correct, is the whole point of this.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 3: There is a multitude of things that you're gonna have
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 3: to learn that you're gonna need to learn. But as
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 3: far as your basics of like getting sorry, swaddling, uh no, sucking, feeding,
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 3: and putting down for sleep, like if you get that
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 3: figured out, if you can go and changing diapers, dull.
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: Changing diapers, changing and you're gonna you're gonna do more
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: than you think. Yeah, it's not gonna be like you
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: let one go and.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 2: You let it sit. No, you want to you want
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: to change your diaper aceps. They don't get it. Dipper ashes.
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: Having a cream on their little bump, Yes, a little
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: cream on their bumb like as you get done, kind
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 1: of wiping them with a good clean what are those
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: things called the cleans the little wipes, Yeah, a little
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: clean wipes after you get done doing that, putting a
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: little cream on their bum.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: For wifey.
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's pumping breastfeeding. You guys are
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: doing formula, but Choro was a mix of breastfeeding and pumping.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: So Charle getting done as many times as I could
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: think about.
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: Her or think ahead.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: It's like washing out, washing out all the things for
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 1: the breast pumping, like you being the guy to do that,
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: to help take that off, take the little things off
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: of their plate. Because again postpartums are real thing. So
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: being there for your wife, having constant communication and conversation.
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: You don't always have to be like over his shoulder,
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: how you feeling, how you feeling?
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 2: Anything I can do he are we doing?
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 3: Mmm? But just knowing your presences there and you're thinking
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 3: about these things around her world and her life to
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 3: where whether it's cleaning out things with the with the
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 3: with the breast pump, being like, hey, go change or
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 3: you you take take a take a load off? Yeah, okay,
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 3: can I throw a little extra dad hack that right in?
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: Alex would would do the date night guy. Yeah, Jill
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 3: had a snack bucket for whenever she was pumping. Bro
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 3: put together a little snack bucket for your girl, you know,
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 3: all of your favorites.
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 2: That's good, that's good game right there, that's good.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 3: Get I didn't do it. Jill did it for herself.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 3: But hey, maybe I could make the look like a
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 3: real petty sick. Yeah, and dude, just get all of
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 3: her favorite snacks and hey, what's this We already have cheeses.
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 3: We already have Welch's gummies. Yeah, but you know for
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 3: when you're pumping. Yeah, got your little slack basket.
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: Snack bucket being on type of diaper bag. Understanding cream
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: going on the bum with the baby when you're changing
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: the baby.
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 3: A lot, and you can never use too much. Now,
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 3: if you're on a tight budget, you can absolutely use
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 3: too much. But you really, that's my one tip on
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 3: the cream.
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: Decluttering the house.
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: There'll be a lot of stuff going on when the
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: baby comes to where again, wife, he's going to be
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: in it, so decluttering the house, cleaning up the kitchen,
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: picking up things around the house, making sure she has
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: a clean space. Because the women are essentially like locked
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: in the house for like the.
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 2: First eight weeks.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: It feels like, Yeah, little stuff like that little interest
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 1: your wife has, Like maybe there's a sweet treat you
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: can bring her home. Maybe she's a latte girl, maybe
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 1: she's a coffee girl going out and getting the coffees.
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 3: If you don't have a rocker at your house, there
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: is a really nice rocker at Target that I swear
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 3: is one hundred dollars on the dot. It looks like
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 3: a white rocking chair that you would have on your
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 3: front porch. It comes with a nice little foot rest
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 3: on it too that sways back and forth as well.
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 3: That's like separate of the chair. It's one hundred dollars.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 3: Even I know that's pretty expensive, but if you're in
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 3: the furniture game, you know that's a that's a pretty
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 3: good deal. Yeah, And get a nice little bit booty
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 3: cushion for dude, and that can be her little pump station.
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 3: That could be her little rock station. Having a good rocker, Yeah,
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 3: getting becoming a pro and swaddling. I have to.
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of anything else.
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 3: In the swaddling game for any Like new dads that
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 3: are listening are like, oh man, I gotta get on
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 3: the swaddling. Just on YouTube. That's what I did. I
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 3: looked up a video like almost how to tie your
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 3: tie type video. Swaddling's not too it's not crazy. You
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 3: just got to make sure you have a big enough
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 3: blanket or big enough towel for sure. For sure, get
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 3: him nice and tight.
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: Understanding the schedule. It's like eat, sleep, poop. You're trying
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 1: to get him to sleep for two and a half
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: two to three hours at a time.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: Understanding what shifts you guys are gonna be taking. If
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: you guys are talking about who's going to be doing
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 1: what shift? Yeah, those would be the things in the beginning.
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and the start shopping for a car seats like
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 3: you're shopping for a car. That's how you could really
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 3: impress her. Yeah, honey, I'm looking at these. You know,
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 3: I got four options here. I like this one because
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 3: of that one. Da da du He can't go wrong
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 3: with the car seat. All of them are great. Start
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 3: shopping car seats in front of her on your phone.
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 3: Let her kind of see it over your shoulder.
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what are you doing?
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 3: Just looking, just trying to figure out what car seats best. Yeah,
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 3: I've heard so, you know, Will Will says he's got
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 3: to do in a nuna, but we don't know, you know,
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 3: Sherman's got do. We're gonna have pressure cargo in the
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 3: car now. I'm just trying to make sure we're safe, right, Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 3: it's a good foundation. Good foundation. We got one last
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 3: one from Max, all right, got to keep it under
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 3: an hour. I have to keep it under an hour.
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 8: Boys, Max here pt six member to a nine month
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 8: old baby girl, have a dad hack and response to
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 8: your question at the end of your last podcast. For me,
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 8: the hardest part of being a parent doesn't have to
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 8: do anything with my daughter, but instead has to do
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 8: with self care and that change of identity. My wife
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 8: and I were fortunate enough to both you home for
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 8: the first five months of our daughter's life and being
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 8: excited first time parents. Our daughter was our focus twenty
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 8: four to seven, especially in those early months with learning
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 8: curves and figuring everything out. It just apped all of
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 8: our energy. This is where my dad hack comes in.
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 8: Regular happy hours with other parents. Now, don't judge me
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 8: because I do live in good old Wisconsin, but meeting
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 8: almost every Friday at a brewery with a couple other
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 8: dads and moms has been a game changer. Sometimes as parents,
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 8: we forget about the outside world or even what day
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 8: it is. But having some close friends that have kids
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 8: close in age and can relate brings you back to earth,
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 8: just like having this podcast. Hearing relatable stories and other
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 8: experiences makes you feel like you aren't alone. Happy hour
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 8: might not look the same as he used to, as
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 8: we have our diaper bags, snacks, toys, and everything else
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 8: for the kids, but I think as a parent we
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 8: appreciate the time with other parents and it's worth it.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 2: Level up this dad.
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 8: Hack even more if you have all the wives meet
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 8: up beforehand while the dads stay back and keep the
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 8: kids for an hour. Give those moms an hour of
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 8: time to themselves. The moms deserve that and appreciate it.
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 8: Thanks boyse pt six, Forever appreciate it.
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 3: I hate to do this because that was a really
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 3: great call, but we will have to actually cut that
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 3: chef because Phoenix is gonna hate the fuck out of
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 3: the voice.
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 1: You made that way too seriously. Second, you said we're
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: actually going out. Hey, that's a that's a great phone call. Great,
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: a great call in. And he is one thousand percent right.
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: I want to say the biggest thing I know listening
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 1: to Charro is like going in the motherhood and everything
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: else was like the loss of identity of the life
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: that you had before. And I feel like she you
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 1: just get boxed into just being a parent like that
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: that becomes what your identity is.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So having that those tips right there blows his
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 2: name again.
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 3: Max.
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: Having those tips right there from Max is spot on
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: because it it is it's a twenty four to seven
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: gig and kind of like lose yourself a little bit.
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: And then when you're in the suck and you're around
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: just your partner twenty four to seven the entire time,
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: like bickering and some things are just gonna happen, whether
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: it's resentment, whether it's subconscious, whatever it is, you're gonna
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: be around each other at all times, your roommate. You're
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: locked in the foxhole together. And that's awesome that he
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: got five months off, but as he's sitting there putting
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: everybody on game, it's like just being around that person
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 1: at all times can cause some just internal chaos, internal
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 1: dialogue that you have with yourself and just feel like, man,
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: is this what it's going to be like forever?
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 3: It is crazy. Just talking about the corner bar that
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 3: I went to with Jared and Mackenzie. I'll send you
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 3: the picture and you can bring it up. I brought
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 3: her little upright seat that we've talked about before. Ye
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 3: have that on the table. She's sitting there, Jared and
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 3: Mackenzie are having drinks. We're living life, we're being humans
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 3: in the wild. And Scarlet's right there, and like that
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 3: was my first sign being out and get hot wings
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 3: and fries and you know, a drink with friends and
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 3: stuff like you just feel.
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 1: Like your battery just gets recharged a little bit in
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: the biggest way. Everything I was thinking leading up to this,
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 1: I can. I can start throwing this into the equation
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: and it'll just bring me much more joy. Not that
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: you're not having fun and not having a lot of
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: joy in your life, but oh, I can go out
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 1: and do these things.
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 2: Scarlett crushed it.
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, things I tell myself on Hey, I can't
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 1: do this, I gotta stay home.
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 3: The kid blah bla blah.
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: Dude, if you figure it out and then the moment
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: you do step outside or I love the hack too,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: the little tip on let the women go out for
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: an hour before while the dads hang back, pro move
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: have a nice school lollipop with the boys before they
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: go out and meet the women for dinner. I love
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 1: that man, pro move and we it levels up bro
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: again that that battery just fills up.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just in a humongous shout out also to everybody
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 3: that's all these comments and emails and calls today have
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 3: been fantasy been great. Yeah, they've been really good.
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 2: They've been great.
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 3: Shout out to him too.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 6: You could tell he wrote the intense wrote down like
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 6: it's it's a little bit of a script, like I
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 6: love it. Listening to it, I was like, Oh, this
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 6: guy said I'm gonna get on the fucking show and
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 6: this is how I'm gonna do it.
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 3: So that's great and I'm gonna give the dad some
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 3: real game. Also, shout out Wisconsin. When I was there,
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 3: I saw a Madison There was a dentist office where
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 3: the dentists also owned a brewery that was attached to
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 3: his dental office. Look, we don't shout out Wisconsin on
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 3: this show. Oh will I just Wisconsin Badger's haunt my
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 3: night man. Okay, well shout out.
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 2: Maybe he meant something by that again, that's me. That's
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 2: I'm taking that one.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 3: Personal shout out. Lincoln, Nebraska. I've never been by. I've
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 3: heard really great things. And I bet they got some
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 3: dental breweries there. I bet they There we go, there
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 3: we go.
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 1: Come on, all right, I got a wifey shout out here,
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 1: wifey shout out before we end the episode with a
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: lesson of the week, which is gonna come to us
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 1: from Dan Gable.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 2: It's gonna come to us from David.
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 3: Also, I have a lesson of the Week that I've
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 3: pushed three weeks. I can't read it for you what
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 3: you can read it. But we're still gotta have a
• 1:38:12
  Speaker 3: Dan Gable quote. I know, I know.
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 1: All right, Here we go, wipey shout out from Eric
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 1: Iyantis fellas Eric here from Godly Texas. I had to
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 1: write in the brag on my wife, Sophia, the ultimate
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 1: empty sixer and former Alito High School teacher. She's an
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: absolute badass. We have a photo right here of them. No,
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: the lovely couple it seems like they're out there on
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: a hike with the little one.
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 3: Or maybe yeah, keep reading, it's very different than a hike.
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I see an animal in this photo a.
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 3: Hunting They get home.
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: On December seventeenth, she gave birth to our twin daughters,
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: and watching her step straight into mo mode with two
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 1: newborns and still love every second of it has been unreal. Well,
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: ten days before delivering twins, she was still climbing into
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 1: a deer, standing shooting pigs. Same woman, same great effort
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 1: and attitude That leads me to my best piece of advice.
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: Make sure you marry a badass, o, Mary, someone who's
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 1: constantly pushing themselves to be better. When she's leveling up,
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 1: it forces me to level up two as a husband,
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 1: as a dad, and a man.
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 2: We love the pod. You all keep crushing it. Thank you,
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 2: Eric Yantis. So they were hunting a lovely couple of times.
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 3: Just a brag on the Yantis family, but also to
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 3: brag on Alito, Texas man. That's a bear cut right there,
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 3: missus Yantis. Thank you for wrapping Alito high. Thank you
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 3: for teaching those young kids, and thank you for going
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 3: and splitting a hog. Yeah, yeah, just two weeks after
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 3: giving birth to twins?
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 6: Was that ten days before delivering between has a very
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 6: large belly in the picture.
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 1: Next, Oh my gouge, I'm thinking they're on a hike
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 1: with the newborn. Oh, hang on a second. This is
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 1: ten days before she's delivering twins. Come on, man, hey, honey,
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 1: we gotta get it. We gotta get in the before
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 1: we get into this delivery room. God, they just wrapped
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 1: Aldos so well and shout out Godly too. That's a
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 1: great community. They're truly in my neck of the woods.
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 1: That's really fun. Shout out the Yntis family. I love
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 1: shout out big shout out to them.
• 1:40:14
  Speaker 3: This Okay, before we end the episode, I have the
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 3: birthday thing as well, but this is from Candice Hurt. Hey, guys,
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 3: my husband Shane started listening to the pod shortly after
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 3: our son was born in July. He began referring to
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 3: himself as a pt sixer and myself as an empty sixer.
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 3: After overhearing several episodes, it quickly became something that we
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 3: now enjoy together. Shane is such a great dad to
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 3: our now six month old Cohen and always embraces the
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 3: good Times aka the Trenches. He refuses to comment until
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 3: we are all caught up, and we are so so
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 3: close to fully catching up on the podcast. Just have
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 3: to let you guys know how much we appreciates. It's funny,
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 3: it's entertaining, it's relatable, and with so much great advice
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 3: and added emotional intelligence.
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 2: Keep it up and thank you.
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 3: Ps. We just bought our first lollipops. So far Apple
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 3: Crisp remains at the top.
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 2: Indeed it does.
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 3: Good Lord, this might be an all timer episode for
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 3: ride Ins.
• 1:41:21
  Speaker 6: She wrote on five different of our channels to get
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 6: her husband shouted out as well. I think it was
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 6: an emails, Instagram, I believe it was x DMS. I
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 6: believe it was YouTube comment and maybe a Spotify comment
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 6: as well. All slightly different, but she's a milk Team.
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 3: Six to that. I say, Shane Hurt, thank you for
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 3: being an absolute sick of for getting your wife onto this,
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 3: for just celebrating everything that is fatherhood. Dude, You're a legend.
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 2: Shane.
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 3: Thank you. Drum roll please, we have Sarah Garcia, who
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 3: wrote in for her husband's birthday, which was on December thirtieth. Okay,
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 3: belated this to get right. This is a maketh this
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 3: is a make right. Hold on, let mean you're right,
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 3: You're right. Let me read this thing. Sorry. This is
• 1:42:10
  Speaker 3: from Sarah Garcia. This came in via email. Will. Hello,
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 3: I would like to request a birthday shout out for
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 3: my wonderful husband, Tyler Wright. His birthday is on December thirtieth,
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 3: and he will be thirty two this year.
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 2: Come on.
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 3: He has been a huge fan of your show since
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 3: twenty twenty. We live in Nebraska, so he has also
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 3: been a huge fan of Wills since his freshman year
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 3: at UNL. That's how you know they're a true siko.
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 3: Dude who calls it UNL tbr GBR. My husband made
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 3: me say all of that in parenthesis. He watches your
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 3: episodes religiously and very loudly. Every year for Christmas, he
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  Speaker 3: asks for merch from your shows, specifically the dad gear.
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  Speaker 3: And he is also the best dad to my son,
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 3: who is his step son. My son has even said
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 3: that he considers my husband his dad more than his
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  Speaker 3: biological father. He always prioritizes our son's needs over his
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  Speaker 3: own without hesitation. This birthday shout out is the only
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  Speaker 3: president he asks for, and he will ship his pants.
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  Speaker 3: If he gets it, please please please give him this gift.
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  Speaker 3: It will make me the best wife ever and it
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 3: will mean that my birthday present has to be a
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 3: good one this year. Winkie face man, Sarah Garcia and
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 3: what was what was his name? Tyler Wright? Tyler, you're
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  Speaker 3: doing good, bro, You're you're crushing you're crushing it man
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  Speaker 3: and GBR baby GBR forever.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for the sport.
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  Speaker 1: But even that that that right up right there, you
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  Speaker 1: can tell that, uh that you're crushing it right now
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  Speaker 1: being a stepdad, all the things that she said in
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  Speaker 1: that note, big.
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  Speaker 2: Shots to you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's Sarah. We're sorry, we did not see that.
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  Speaker 3: As we're to Sarah, We're sorry. We're it's Sarah. I
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 3: did quite don't want an empt sixer on our ass.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, it just can't happen.
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  Speaker 3: We're moving on to our Dan Gable quotes, our lesson
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  Speaker 3: of the week. I still have two emails that we
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 3: didn't read that we'll have to do next episode. Yeah,
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 3: that's just the way she goes. Yeah, and I'm sorry, Sarah.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Yo.
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  Speaker 2: We are sorry.
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  Speaker 3: That is chef's fault. Just point the finger at somebody. Sorry, Sarah,
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  Speaker 3: well done, apologize, chef. I if I would just wasn't
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  Speaker 3: a fucking idiot, this would aball be fixed. Go over
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  Speaker 3: really really nicely. Yeah, Will, what was your topic lesson
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  Speaker 3: or Dan Gable quote of the week?
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  Speaker 2: You got a lesson?
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  Speaker 3: I do?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, good, It's brief. It's very brief.
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  Speaker 1: Love it, uh, Dan Gable, this is a This is
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  Speaker 1: a quote that I think just goes in well with
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 1: parenthood because we talk about the highest of highs in
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 1: parenthood and when you can, when you can, like uh
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 1: present what the gold medal of parenthoods feels like? It's
• 1:45:00
  Speaker 1: this quote right here from Dan Gable. It's gold medals
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 1: aren't really made of gold. They're made of sweat, determination
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  Speaker 1: and a hard to find in a hard to find
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  Speaker 1: Let me start that again.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, take a second, we'll cut that the gold Medal
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  Speaker 3: of parenthoid gold medals aren't really made of gold.
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  Speaker 1: They're made of sweat, determination and a hard to find
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  Speaker 1: alloy called guts.
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  Speaker 4: Bro.
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  Speaker 3: He's unreal with the quotes as Dan Gabel right there,
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  Speaker 3: that's Dan Gable. I have one bracing this suck that
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  Speaker 3: is that's the gold medal in a what was it
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 3: a hard to find alloy called what hard to find
• 1:45:45
  Speaker 3: alloy gold guts? That one gets your piss it does.
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  Speaker 3: I actually want that one printed like that. That's cool.
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  Speaker 3: I love that quote I had. I had one that
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 3: I thought applied very nicely to Fatherho just life in general.
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 3: Dan Gable is Dan Gable. Uh, freedom across the world
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  Speaker 3: is a result of many individuals working together. That's Dan Gable.
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  Speaker 2: That's parenthood.
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  Speaker 3: That's parenthood working together, communicating.
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  Speaker 2: That's what creates freedom.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, I just love that. A wrestler slash wrestling
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  Speaker 3: coach that was on his quotes page a freedom across
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  Speaker 3: the world.
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  Speaker 1: Man, imagine being Dan Gable knowing that what you do
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna echo in eternity of wrestling is also going
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 1: to echo to.
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  Speaker 3: For the Dad's podcast, Yeah, it's gonna echo into parenthood. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's gonna get the piss hot. Yeah, it's gonna get
• 1:46:42
  Speaker 3: the pissh It's gonna change lives. I so shout out.
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  Speaker 3: That was our Dan Gable Quote of the Week segment
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  Speaker 3: brought to you by Dan Gable and for the Dads.
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  Speaker 3: Last but not least, it is very brief. We I
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  Speaker 3: think this was even three episodes ago. For my lesson
• 1:47:00
  Speaker 3: the week. So this was kind of like my New
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 3: Year's resolution that I had for myself. But staying in
• 1:47:08
  Speaker 3: touch with those that you love. I have a one
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 3: hour round trip commute to Scarlett's daycare, sometimes longer with traffic.
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 3: I've decided during that time to call people that I love,
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 3: or people back in Texas that I just miss or
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 3: want to stay close to and share life with and
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  Speaker 3: stories with. There is something so grounding about speaking with
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 3: those that you know and love so well, asking them
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 3: for advice, helping them with their struggles, asking about their
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 3: day and telling them about yours, or just being a
• 1:47:42
  Speaker 3: set of ears for them to vent and vice versa.
• 1:47:46
  Speaker 3: Life moves incredibly fast, and so far these calls have
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 3: aided in slowing things down, having a meaningful conversation with substance,
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 3: being able to laugh at yourself while telling a frustrating
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 3: story of fatherhood. It's sometimes just what the doctor ordered.
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 3: Have I read that before? No? I think it's just
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 3: been on my sheet. I was reading it, I was like,
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 3: have I read this on the pod book?
• 1:48:10
  Speaker 2: Off the press?
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, cool, it's a good one, thank you, and it's
• 1:48:14
  Speaker 3: been going. It's actually been going really well, these last
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 3: like three weeks, it's been a lot of fun.
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 2: It's a lesson I feel like I need to incorporate
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 2: in my life.
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 3: It's been good, dude. I've I've been catching up with
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 3: a lot of friends I haven't seen in person and
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 3: quite a while, and just it's so much fun tapping
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 3: in just hearing the little quips and personalities of like
• 1:48:32
  Speaker 3: their kids they're growing up, having a couple of laughs, yes, dude,
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 3: and just being able to like laugh about stuff that
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 3: I could call you and you would have a completely
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 3: different take on it than like somebody that I've known
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 3: since I was twelve years old. It's just like, I
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 3: don't know, it's fun.
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  Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to cut that. Oh no, you're
• 1:48:56
  Speaker 1: talking about catching up with your bros not on this show.
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, God forbid. I got one of their gamer tags too,
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 3: and like scheduled trying to introduce them into our PUBG world.
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 3: That would be a shame one of my high school
• 1:49:12
  Speaker 3: dues from back in the day. Try and get him
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 3: to play pubg with us. You better not play on
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 3: the sports book either, Oh no way. Oh and we
• 1:49:21
  Speaker 3: have a poll here to finish out the show. We
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 3: have a poll, A poll, A poll.
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 6: Well, last episode, we did a break and shout out
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 6: out some people that sent us things, and Shirm told
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 6: Pt six to send an emoji into the chat. It
• 1:49:36
  Speaker 6: was a very defsive decision which emoji, Sheram said, and
• 1:49:40
  Speaker 6: so I thought we'd just address it, Sam, do you
• 1:49:41
  Speaker 6: want to just read out what the emojis were?
• 1:49:44
  Speaker 1: I did see in the comments us with a bunch
• 1:49:46
  Speaker 1: of beach emojis, and I had no clue what was
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 1: going on. I was like, did I miss something in
• 1:49:50
  Speaker 1: the episode to where everybody just knows to drop beach
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 1: emojis At.
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  Speaker 3: The at the h we did a little thank you
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 3: segment for all the stuff that's been sent in. At
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  Speaker 3: the very end, I did, in fact, and actually lost
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 3: in the poll, which is hilarious. I said comment a
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  Speaker 3: little peach, a peach, peach, And I started seeing all
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 3: these beach emojis that because I usually like checked the
• 1:50:11
  Speaker 3: episode like six fifteen, whatever went drops, I see all
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 3: these beach umbrellas, beaches, oceans, and I'm like, what's going
• 1:50:21
  Speaker 3: When did we talk about a beach in the episode.
• 1:50:23
  Speaker 3: I'm so, oh my god, oh my god. I only
• 1:50:27
  Speaker 3: saw two peaches. Yeah, I think only two people got
• 1:50:30
  Speaker 3: it right.
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 4: Crazy as far as that everyone in this room heard peach.
• 1:50:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah that was not a but uh I didn't hear anything.
• 1:50:38
  Speaker 3: It got translated to me, which is that's okay, that's okay.
• 1:50:43
  Speaker 3: But I'm glad we got that sold. I'm glad we
• 1:50:45
  Speaker 3: got that pole. So which one won the beach beach? So,
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  Speaker 3: I mean I would say then that would mean that
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  Speaker 3: you were wrong. I think you're right now that I
• 1:50:56
  Speaker 3: if everybody's dropping beaches and then the pole says no,
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 3: it was beach, not peached, that that would tell me
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 3: I didn't pronounce it correctly. You know. I think there's
• 1:51:05
  Speaker 3: only one way to go about this, to really kind
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 3: of settle it. If you have watched it all the
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 3: way to this point to the end, I.
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 1: Feel like everybody checks out the majority, like ninety nine percent,
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  Speaker 1: they're gone.
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  Speaker 3: The Phoenixes of the world. They're out here, they're out
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 3: of here.
• 1:51:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they've left one star reviews.
• 1:51:22
  Speaker 3: But if you don't think we need to go back
• 1:51:24
  Speaker 3: to the drawing board, come in a little beach A
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 3: What I said it once, I won't say it again.
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  Speaker 2: Should it be a different emoji? What if people just
• 1:51:32
  Speaker 2: follow from last week.
• 1:51:33
  Speaker 3: So that's that's a good call comment. Let's come in
• 1:51:39
  Speaker 3: a bear. Let's come in a little bear face. Okay, yeah,
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 3: bear face, par emoji face, bear emoji face. Okay, let's
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 3: do that, okay. Or I wish there was a phoenix emoji.
• 1:51:50
  Speaker 3: That would be sick. Will's cooking up something. I'm trying
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 3: to into the emojis in my head. Bare face face,
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 3: bare face. That's perfect.
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 4: Great, sod great, so great. So wait, wait one second,
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 4: Happy anniversary, Alex. Love you so much. I hope you
• 1:52:12
  Speaker 4: have the best day ever. Oh for almost almost.
• 1:52:16
  Speaker 3: Let that one slip three, Just trying to sneak that
• 1:52:19
  Speaker 3: one in when everybody's tuned out. I'm waiting to see
• 1:52:23
  Speaker 3: she'll watch the whole episode. Okay, Joe Chef loves Alex.
• 1:52:30
  Speaker 2: What are you doing for the anniversary?
• 1:52:32
  Speaker 3: It's today?
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 4: I mean I'm going to be working today. I called her.
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 4: I sent her a little vemo for nails. Long text.
• 1:52:39
  Speaker 2: One old boy wrote in about how he had the
• 1:52:41
  Speaker 2: weekend prepped up.
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we've we've already discussed, we went over. It's just
• 1:52:46
  Speaker 3: it's an unfairn we got massages on Monday week. Well,
• 1:52:49
  Speaker 3: she lives in Knoxville. So that's the issue. So I said, hey,
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 3: go get your nails done. I sent her extra because
• 1:52:56
  Speaker 3: she does the build her jail and not the normal okay,
• 1:52:58
  Speaker 3: normal nails. Hey, he's kind of on it.
• 1:53:01
  Speaker 4: Made sure I was on it. Send her nice text
• 1:53:03
  Speaker 4: you send her flowers. I think I'm gonna try to
• 1:53:06
  Speaker 4: whenever we get done, I'm gonna try to get some
• 1:53:08
  Speaker 4: the game boys putting on flowers on Friday.
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 3: We Hate You Want or tour Workshop could before the
• 1:53:13
  Speaker 3: dads get us singing Graham for Alex. I'm singing She's.
• 1:53:23
  Speaker 4: She's at work right now at the Vet hospital, So
• 1:53:27
  Speaker 4: wouldn't that be something?
• 1:53:30
  Speaker 3: Get Elvis Presley go walk in there. Listen. This is
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 3: from Chef.
• 1:53:34
  Speaker 4: I'm sure I'll get a fun call. She's like, Hey,
• 1:53:35
  Speaker 4: you can't do that.
• 1:53:39
  Speaker 3: So I just want the office to know that I
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 3: love you and you're my number one.
• 1:53:42
  Speaker 4: Everyone in there needs to know.
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 3: You just have Elvis seeing something not romantic at all
• 1:53:48
  Speaker 3: at all. Scrella, Happy anniversary, Love you so much, Tier one,
• 1:53:54
  Speaker 3: lover Chef.
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 1: Good so beat six, You're the best, leap comments, subscribe everywhere,
• 1:54:00
  Speaker 1: take out the trash.
• 1:54:02
  Speaker 2: We will see you next week.