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The Mistruth of “What is meant for you will not pass you by.” · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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Speaker 1: Hi. I had saying with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
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Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation
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Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. I want to talk about and I
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Speaker 1: want to get comfortable because we're going to have a conversation.
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Speaker 1: I want to talk about a slogan I see often
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Speaker 1: in spiritual spaces. I see it in posts on social media,
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Speaker 1: and I'm not calling it a spiritual truth. I think
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Speaker 1: it's a slogan and I started to do some shows
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Speaker 1: on it last year and I keep circling back to it,
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Speaker 1: and every time I see it in a post, it
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Speaker 1: makes me cringe, like that psychic part of me that's
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Speaker 1: bumping up against a mistruth. I cringe. And so the
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Speaker 1: slogan is what is meant for you will not pass
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Speaker 1: you by. And there are many versions of this. What
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Speaker 1: you want will find you, you will you know, you know,
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Speaker 1: I'm going with this like there are many ways in
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Speaker 1: which this is worded. But again, the spiritual slogan is
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Speaker 1: what is meant for you will not pass you by,
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Speaker 1: and it's it sounds comforting again and it sounds spiritual.
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Speaker 1: But I don't think it's a truth because I've seen
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Speaker 1: people lean into that. Very faithful people lean into that,
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Speaker 1: and they think that it's an act of faith by
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Speaker 1: just trusting that spirit, God, the universe is going to
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Speaker 1: bring them whatever it is that they they desire, or
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Speaker 1: that their desire. While they may hold one desire, spirit
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Speaker 1: may have another desire, Like there's this The way it
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Speaker 1: feels is like there's this disconnect. Right. You may want
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Speaker 1: to pursue this business, and if everything's not working out
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Speaker 1: initially the way you thought, then it must not be
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Speaker 1: meant for you. Or you pursued something to a point
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Speaker 1: and things didn't seem to line up, and oh, it
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Speaker 1: wasn't meant for me. And I actually don't think that's true.
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Speaker 1: And I think a lot of really faithful people, pious people,
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Speaker 1: are missing their life. This journey is work. This journey
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Speaker 1: requires your dedication, your focus, your love, your passion. And
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Speaker 1: I think we're using what's not meant for me as
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Speaker 1: an excuse to not find the thing that you'll work
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Speaker 1: at no matter what. And so it's very easy to
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Speaker 1: think that if something's not truly yours, that you don't
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Speaker 1: have to pursue it. Vehemently is the word that came
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Speaker 1: for vehemently with all your heart. And I think that's
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Speaker 1: why so many people succeed in so many people don't.
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Speaker 1: And so when people hear this phrase, they often turn
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Speaker 1: to it as a permission slip to stay passive to
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Speaker 1: a degree. I'll do so much and then well God
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Speaker 1: must kick in. And if God doesn't kick in, then
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Speaker 1: that must mean it's not meant for me, or if
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Speaker 1: it's it's really meant for me, than God's going to
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Speaker 1: do the work. And I can tell you that is
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Speaker 1: not true. And I know many people are holding this
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Speaker 1: belief who are not lazy, but because they believe that
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Speaker 1: they are being truly faithful and a good servant of God.
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Speaker 1: But that's just not how it works. Life requires your participation,
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Speaker 1: your love, your devotion, your care. You got to show
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Speaker 1: up for the miracle, and anything you want requires your effort.
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Speaker 1: Now there's a fine line between over efforting out of
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Speaker 1: fear or doubt or insecurity. That's not what I'm talking about.
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Speaker 1: And I think those can all be reasons why it
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Speaker 1: might be easier to hide behind this faithful slogan of
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Speaker 1: it's not meant for you, will not pass you by.
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Speaker 1: But I think the point I want to make to
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Speaker 1: you is that. I think there's a lot of mistruth
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Speaker 1: in that statement, and I don't believe that we're here
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Speaker 1: just to sit on the sidelines of our life. There's
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Speaker 1: an internal stillness that is a spiritual power, and then
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Speaker 1: there's an activity because we believe we're acting out of
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Speaker 1: faith based on these slogans. So yes, I do believe
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Speaker 1: that there are things that are yours and that may
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Speaker 1: not show up in the exact timing that you see.
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Speaker 1: So you have a desire and maybe you start to
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Speaker 1: work at it or you're praying for it, and you're
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Speaker 1: not seeing an opening just yet. It doesn't mean it's
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Speaker 1: not meant for you. It means the opening hasn't shown
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Speaker 1: up yet, and you still pursue it. You still go
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Speaker 1: for it. You decide that this is right for me,
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Speaker 1: and I feel enthusiastic about it, I feel passionate about it,
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Speaker 1: I feel deep love for it. And then you move
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Speaker 1: towards it with trust, and you can get a message
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Speaker 1: so strongly about a desire and it's still not show
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Speaker 1: up in the exact way you think. I've talked to
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Speaker 1: you a lot about that, But the way that you're
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Speaker 1: available for it is your pursuit. So I actually think
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Speaker 1: if a spiritual slogan doesn't invoke true faith and truth, faith,
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Speaker 1: as I've said to you many times in this program,
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Speaker 1: is action, and it's action from a very open, curious,
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Speaker 1: willingness and expectancy to be present for your miracle. Because
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Speaker 1: something can absolutely be a match for you and you
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Speaker 1: can still miss it, and it's because you're choosing fear
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Speaker 1: in some ways, or you're choosing delay in some ways,
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Speaker 1: or you're choosing doubt instead of continuing to step forward
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Speaker 1: and find your opening, being available for your opening. And
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Speaker 1: that's why I do believe spiritual slogans can be dangerous.
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Speaker 1: They are easy to repeat, but that repetition does not
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Speaker 1: make something necessarily true. Yeah, so I'm gonna say some
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Speaker 1: spiritual slogans are partial truths, and this is one that
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Speaker 1: I feel is a mistruth. And they're helpful and they
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Speaker 1: can make you feel good, but the real work requires
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Speaker 1: that you follow spiritual law. So don't let yourself get stuck,
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Speaker 1: don't let yourself stop acting on something, don't let yourself
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Speaker 1: look at external circumstances and make it mean something or assume, oh,
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Speaker 1: it's not going to go my way, because these things
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Speaker 1: haven't shown up because oftentimes you're not going to see
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Speaker 1: a lot of signs that everything's going to happen. You
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Speaker 1: might see signs of life, sure, but that's just a
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Speaker 1: way for the universe to say, keep going, keep going,
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Speaker 1: keep going. It's not it's not an answer. So it's
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Speaker 1: not surrender to believe that what is meant for you
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Speaker 1: will not pass you by. I think oftentimes it's used
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Speaker 1: as avoidance, and so I believe that faith is very active,
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Speaker 1: and you got to expect what you want. You got
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Speaker 1: to take action towards what you want. You got to
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Speaker 1: name what you want. Because here's the other piece of this.
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Speaker 1: I think what gets in the way often of people
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Speaker 1: continuing to show up for themselves. So if they're not
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Speaker 1: clearly naming what they want, they're trying something and maybe
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Speaker 1: they have a story or an idea built around that's something,
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Speaker 1: but they may not really really know what it is
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Speaker 1: that they desire. Because when you root into desire, that
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Speaker 1: is your green light from the heavens. When you are
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Speaker 1: so devoted to a vision that you have, you have
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Speaker 1: to trust that that's your sign that God's on board,
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Speaker 1: and you gotta take steps. You gotta take steps you
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Speaker 1: don't know what it's going to be until your emotion
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Speaker 1: towards it. And so how do you know if something's
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Speaker 1: really not meant for you until you have turned over
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Speaker 1: every stone? And I can guarantee you people using that
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Speaker 1: slogan are not turning over every stone. People who are
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Speaker 1: succeeding and creating the life they truly want, they are
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Speaker 1: willing to turn over every stone. It doesn't mean they're
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Speaker 1: going to have to most of the time, you don't.
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Speaker 1: You just have to be open and ready and present
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Speaker 1: for the right stone. But there's a willingness to say,
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to give this up because it feels
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Speaker 1: so right and true to me, and I'm going to
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Speaker 1: do everything that I have to do. And yes, life
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Speaker 1: is going to show up. You know, life is going
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Speaker 1: to do wacky things. Things aren't going to go in
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Speaker 1: the exact direction that you think, or all the circumstance
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Speaker 1: into surrounding your experience may not be lining up. You
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Speaker 1: may be in pursuit of something and then stumble into illness. Okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: care for yourself and keep going. And there's always a
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Speaker 1: way to keep going. And so you gotta believe. You
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Speaker 1: gotta believe that what you want is stronger than some
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Speaker 1: force outside of you dictating what is possible for you,
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Speaker 1: because spiritual truth is all things are possible, all things
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Speaker 1: are possible, and be in your spiritual practice around that belief. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's my thought on this. You got to live like
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Speaker 1: it's going to happen. That is, when you see that
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Speaker 1: what you desire will come to you, no matter what,
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Speaker 1: if you are acting like whatever it is that you
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Speaker 1: desire will come to you. So I hope this is helpful.
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Speaker 1: I want to create a world of spiritual people who
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Speaker 1: are powerful and we're not just waiting for some energy
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Speaker 1: outside of us, though Spirit is co creating with us,
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Speaker 1: and Spirit doesn't tell us exactly all the little pieces
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Speaker 1: of that. So there is some truth to surrender and
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Speaker 1: allowing spirit to show up. But I'll tell you this,
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Speaker 1: when I get the message to surrender, it's because I've
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Speaker 1: done everything I know to do and instead of worrying
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Speaker 1: because I haven't seen a physical result yet, and being
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Speaker 1: guided to give it over fully and completely to spirit.
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Speaker 1: That's very different than using that slogan what is meant
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Speaker 1: for you will not pass you by. So I hope
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Speaker 1: this helps. I want to keep having this conversation about
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Speaker 1: this because I don't like it. I don't like seeing
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Speaker 1: it in material. I don't think it's true. I see
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Speaker 1: the way it's sandwiched into a message that's like really good.
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Speaker 1: Like I'll read a post on Instagram, I'll be like,
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Speaker 1: that is so good and it's hitting all the beats,
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Speaker 1: and then that's this line I'll show up in it
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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, uh uh ah, no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: don't think that's true at all. I can guarantee you
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Speaker 1: people are missing out on the life they're meant to
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Speaker 1: live because they're holding back because they think they need
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Speaker 1: to wait on God or God should have done this
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Speaker 1: by now, if it's really going to happen. No, you
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Speaker 1: have no idea when God's going to make something happen,
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Speaker 1: and you have no idea the way that's going to unfold.
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Speaker 1: All you have to do is keep showing up for
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Speaker 1: it in every way that you know how. And that's
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Speaker 1: all that's required of you, is to use your gifts,
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Speaker 1: your talents, your spiritual practice, your effort to move you
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Speaker 1: forward without stress, strain, worry, pressure, manipulation, fear, doubt creeping in,
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Speaker 1: worry creeping in. So this is your time this is
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Speaker 1: your life. Pursue it with all your heart and soul
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Speaker 1: and know that you can have exactly what you desire
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Speaker 1: if you are willing to stick with it and believe
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Speaker 1: much for listening to the show. I pray it was helpful.
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Speaker 1: I pray it helps to shift some things a bit.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to keep returning to this idea. I want
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Speaker 1: to know where it came from. This thought what's not
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Speaker 1: meant for you will not pass you by. I really
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Speaker 1: want to know where it came from. I may never
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Speaker 1: know where it actually originated, and I want to spend
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Speaker 1: some time really disproving it with spiritual law. So I'm
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Speaker 1: going to revisit it, but I want to open the
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Speaker 1: door to I strongly believe it is a mistruth and
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Speaker 1: if there is something that you want, it can still
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Speaker 1: pass you by if you are not showing up for
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Speaker 1: it with a wide open heart and devotion and belief
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Speaker 1: and action. Thank you so much for listening. I look
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Speaker 1: forward to connecting with you on the next show. Take
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Speaker 1: care of yourself. Goodbye.