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Best Show Moments - Male Contraceptive & The Secret to Smelling Great! · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's best show Moments podcast, the
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  Speaker 1: very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast.
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  Speaker 2: This week we talk about New Zealand at the moment.
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  Speaker 2: Right our prime minister is out of the country this week.
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  Speaker 2: Our Deputy Prime Minister Winston Peters, he's out of the
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  Speaker 2: country this week, So who's in charge? David Seymour is
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  Speaker 2: that acting prime minister this week?
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  Speaker 3: There you go, Okay, well let's see if anything happens
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  Speaker 3: this week.
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  Speaker 4: The now a responds, But you.
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  Speaker 2: Think about what is what's the sort of qualification from that?
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  Speaker 5: You know, he's never been a prime minister before, But
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  Speaker 5: I guess now.
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  Speaker 4: You're doubting his quals not at all.
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  Speaker 3: Most politicians study polls at university, don't they study politics?
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, they study politics and then they become a
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  Speaker 3: career politician. And then there are some that come from
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  Speaker 3: different fields. So I can think of Shane restI, who's
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  Speaker 3: a doctor and that's right, and then he's become a
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  Speaker 3: politician and that leads me to qualifications.
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  Speaker 4: So this eighty I found this article over the weekend.
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  Speaker 3: Eighty five year old woman who is working towards her
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  Speaker 3: fourth university degree. Wow, and the reason and she says
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  Speaker 3: she's doing it is she can't just sit around, And
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  Speaker 3: she said she feels far better on the days that
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  Speaker 3: she's studying than if she's just sitting at home in
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  Speaker 3: a chair, not doing a hell of a lot.
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  Speaker 5: I love the plasticity of her mind.
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  Speaker 6: I dread the thought of having to go and upskill
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  Speaker 6: and go to it and do it another degree like that.
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  Speaker 3: So the degree she's doing is in religious studies, philosophy
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  Speaker 3: and ethics. The very first degree she did was pharmacy,
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  Speaker 3: and then she had two in between. And in between all.
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  Speaker 4: Of that, she was a teacher.
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  Speaker 3: So she just has spent her entire life learning basically.
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  Speaker 3: And I feel like there's something in this. She says
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  Speaker 3: she wasn't particularly brilliant at school. She did a levels
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  Speaker 3: but didn't get a's. She's from the UK, so I
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  Speaker 3: feel like there's something in this.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like that constant learning.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you either do that or you do the saduko,
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  Speaker 3: don't you when your eighties?
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  Speaker 5: Keep the minds up. I do it in different ways.
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  Speaker 6: I kind of self teach, you know, Like all my
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  Speaker 6: camera stuff is self taught. And I love to go
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  Speaker 6: and I'm a YouTube learner from the University of YouTube.
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  Speaker 3: You you come down on me for my interior styling
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  Speaker 3: course that I didn't complete because I didn't get the certificate.
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  Speaker 4: I don't see a certificate.
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  Speaker 3: For yourself looting video skills over there until I see.
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  Speaker 4: The frame degree, which doesn't count. Where's you mine?
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  Speaker 5: Where's YouTube? Send me the certificate?
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  Speaker 7: Mate?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Why don't they start giving us corese certificates?
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  Speaker 3: But if you had to literally say all the things
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  Speaker 3: that you're qualified in and think about it. For example,
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  Speaker 3: you didn't know you're sitting next to a bronze medallion
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  Speaker 3: Surf Life Saver.
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  Speaker 5: Did you?
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  Speaker 3: No? No, that's a qualification on top of a degree
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  Speaker 3: in a postgram when.
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  Speaker 6: It comes to Surf Life Saving. The thing that scares
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  Speaker 6: me there is the bronze.
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  Speaker 4: I was.
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  Speaker 5: You got a double degree? You got two degrees? Have
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  Speaker 5: a year? Oh well I've got I've got a major
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  Speaker 5: in a minor.
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  Speaker 6: I'm psych and bio in science, which probably makes me
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  Speaker 6: the most highly qualified person in the room.
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  Speaker 5: Are getting over there?
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  Speaker 3: What do you need? Degrees do you have because you
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  Speaker 3: keep saying a double degree but you've actually one? Do
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  Speaker 3: you or do you not have one? Do you or
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  Speaker 3: do you not have one degree.
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  Speaker 5: How many have you got.
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  Speaker 4: I've only got one, but you did a postcrap. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but that's not a degree.
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  Speaker 5: And I've got one, then I've got a major degree.
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  Speaker 3: I've also got majors and miners in marketing and management
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  Speaker 3: as well.
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  Speaker 4: But I don't count those post grade diploma and journals.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have a dog in this qualified and something.
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  Speaker 3: Surely you've got a certificate for your elliptical writing?
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  Speaker 4: Did you do.
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  Speaker 5: University entrants and stuff that's university injuryes? You didn't go
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  Speaker 5: to university? About my degree I got when you're sitting
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  Speaker 5: over there with a.
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  Speaker 4: But do you have any other qualifications?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, like I honestly I will get my certificate
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  Speaker 3: for the interior styling.
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  Speaker 4: Is there anything in that role?
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  Speaker 5: What do you mean you will get it?
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  Speaker 4: Qualification?
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  Speaker 5: Qualifications?
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  Speaker 1: We did.
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  Speaker 2: We do it because because before we had children, we
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  Speaker 2: thought we've been going to brush up on that sort
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  Speaker 2: of stuff.
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  Speaker 3: We did.
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  Speaker 5: God ever happens to me in here, I don't know
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  Speaker 5: who I'm going to go with, the bronze medalist over
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  Speaker 5: here or the.
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  Speaker 6: Guy that can't find his certificate. If I'm in trouble
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  Speaker 6: and you're worried about my degree.
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  Speaker 3: And by the way, I think, I think to make
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  Speaker 3: my Broms medallion relevant, I have to do a refresher.
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  Speaker 5: In that case, I'm still my Lord's license. So what
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  Speaker 5: have you got? What qualifications are you allan? It's all about.
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  Speaker 2: Qualifications you have, because this is a woman overseas is
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  Speaker 2: studying up for her fourth degree.
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  Speaker 5: But the cool thing about this is is.
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  Speaker 3: Her age eighty five, eighty five years of age doing
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  Speaker 3: her fourth degree. The first one was in pharmacy, this
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  Speaker 3: latest one is in religious studies. And she said it's
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  Speaker 3: to keep her mind active and if she sits there
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  Speaker 3: without doing a day of study.
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  Speaker 4: She doesn't feel as good. I love it.
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  Speaker 3: It's so positive and it's a message for us all.
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  Speaker 3: Even if you thought you were going to retire, maybe
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  Speaker 3: not from learning.
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  Speaker 2: Keep the brain active as well. Michelle, what have you
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  Speaker 2: got certificates?
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  Speaker 3: In?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: I want to.
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  Speaker 7: Crystal healing court five years ago in Australia before I
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  Speaker 7: moved home. So I did that course, which was wonderful,
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  Speaker 7: and then I went to a lovely lady Andy and
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  Speaker 7: Tearron Go and I did my raiki one.
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  Speaker 3: Ah see, this is what I'm talking about. It's you know,
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  Speaker 3: you say qualifications, and it doesn't just mean degrees. It
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  Speaker 3: can be certificates and lots of things. Jace, you failed
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  Speaker 3: to mention you also have a Scout.
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  Speaker 4: Certificate exactly Queen something or other Queen Scout. You're a queen?
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  Speaker 5: How did you become the queen? Was the Queen's middle
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  Speaker 5: at the time.
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  Speaker 3: I graduated from browning with you and I did a
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  Speaker 3: bit of.
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  Speaker 4: Girl guides as well.
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  Speaker 5: Is the queen's Guides you?
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  Speaker 3: No, just because I didn't do it into my twenties,
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  Speaker 3: but you should say he's not.
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  Speaker 4: And he can make some great damn But I tell
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  Speaker 4: you have you got a queen's ward.
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  Speaker 3: I solute you we're talking the male contraceptive and I
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  Speaker 3: kind of wish Jas was here for this, and ironically
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  Speaker 3: Stam has brought it to the table. The most responsible
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  Speaker 3: person on the show.
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  Speaker 6: Jase, is the very guy you could trust with this
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  Speaker 6: kind of responsibility of taking the male contraceptive gel.
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  Speaker 3: You would argue because in your relationship you look at
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  Speaker 3: each other and you go who's most likely to not
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  Speaker 3: forget to take their pill?
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  Speaker 6: Which I think is why the evolution up until this
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  Speaker 6: point has trusted the woman. I mean, the woman is
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  Speaker 6: the one that effectively has to deal with the consequences
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  Speaker 6: of getting pregnant as well.
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  Speaker 3: Well, well, I still think any day now, I love
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  Speaker 3: child's gonna knock on your door.
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  Speaker 4: To be fair, I'm waiting for that.
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  Speaker 6: While there is hope for people like me in the
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  Speaker 6: future because there is a new male contraceptive gel. That's
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  Speaker 6: all you have to do is rub it on your
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  Speaker 6: shoulders and it's very promising it at the stages apparently
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  Speaker 6: it starts to work within eight weeks. That's when you
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  Speaker 6: start to see the decrease in spom cow.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like the idea of a gel because I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I have taken the contraceptive pill as a very responsible
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  Speaker 3: female for many years, and I just feel like a
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  Speaker 3: gel feels really flimsy to me, like a pill is
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  Speaker 3: a A gel feels like, oh, you didn't quite put.
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  Speaker 5: Enough off, yeah? Or have I rubbed up agatest something
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  Speaker 5: and it's come off. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So I went and did a gym workout and then off.
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  Speaker 5: It's a very good point.
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  Speaker 6: Two drugs in it, nees serone and test sorscerone, which
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  Speaker 6: effectively brings down your testosterone.
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  Speaker 3: And how I can see why you want to take
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  Speaker 3: this because it's got tea in it.
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  Speaker 5: That's it. It's got a little testosterone.
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  Speaker 6: So not only will I not get you prigedant, but
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  Speaker 6: I am ready to go, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 5: So you have to rub it between your shoulder blades.
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  Speaker 6: Now, I think that is a cruel twist of fate
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  Speaker 6: for most men who can't reach the middle of their back.
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  Speaker 5: So in order to be safe, you have to rub
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  Speaker 5: it on my back.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I could reach the middle of my
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  Speaker 3: own back. To be fair, I'm trying now. I'd have
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  Speaker 3: to put the gel on the back of my hand
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  Speaker 3: and then kind of do.
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  Speaker 6: A little I'm going to put the gel on a
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  Speaker 6: loop and then rub it on a stick so that
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  Speaker 6: I can do it myself.
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  Speaker 4: No, the loofer would absorb the gel. There's no way.
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  Speaker 5: It's a tough cell, isn't it.
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  Speaker 4: I just don't I just don't think this would work.
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  Speaker 3: And I think the woman would have to do just
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  Speaker 3: as much work, if not more than if she just
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  Speaker 3: took the pearl.
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  Speaker 4: Welln look, it would mean that they don't have.
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  Speaker 3: Any of the pill side effects, which would be a
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  Speaker 3: welcome change. But to wait eight weeks as well, I
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  Speaker 3: mean that part's quite good.
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  Speaker 4: Tell us the woman is.
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  Speaker 5: Just trying to get out of this the whole time.
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  Speaker 3: Tell us what you think would the male contraceptive honestly
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  Speaker 3: work in your relationship. You can give us a call
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  Speaker 3: on eight hundred double oh four Coast or one hundred
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  Speaker 4: Text us on two six nine. We would love to
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  Speaker 4: get would.
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  Speaker 5: Love to hear from you this morning. It's a it's
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  Speaker 5: a very fun interesting topic. It's the future, really, isn't it?
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  Speaker 5: Males taking the male contracepsion film.
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  Speaker 6: It is.
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  Speaker 1: Your weekly feel good breakfast, best show moments, the very
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  Speaker 1: best of Coasts Tony Street, Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
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  Speaker 6: Now we want to smell beautiful, don't we? So I
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  Speaker 6: want to introduce to you this morning a man called
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  Speaker 6: Travis mcdoner. Now you probably don't know, but he is
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  Speaker 6: just a fleet manager for andrew Sims, which is a
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  Speaker 6: car company. But every time I have an interaction with
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  Speaker 6: this business and the man himself, Travis is there.
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  Speaker 5: He always smells amazing.
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  Speaker 6: So I fronted up the other day and I said, Travis,
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  Speaker 6: how do you always smell so good?
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  Speaker 4: And that's confronting for Thomas, isn't it.
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  Speaker 6: Well, the thing is here. There's actually two secrets to it.
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  Speaker 6: The first thing was how he gets the perfume or
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  Speaker 6: the cologne.
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  Speaker 5: You don't call it perfume.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think when you're a male, do yet.
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  Speaker 6: To remain smelling after you know, applying it in the
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  Speaker 6: morning and it's still smelling great right into the evening.
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  Speaker 6: But also the actual choice of clone that he uses.
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  Speaker 6: Now he said he refuses to give that away because
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  Speaker 6: it is the cologne that he gets the most comments
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  Speaker 6: about from women and men.
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  Speaker 4: He wouldn't tell you what coloney wear is.
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  Speaker 5: I got it out of him.
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  Speaker 4: This is Thomas sounds like a Travis.
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  Speaker 5: Sorry Trump, but I got it out of him.
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  Speaker 6: I said, I will not share your cologne with the
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  Speaker 6: single person, but I am prepared to give away his
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  Speaker 6: secrets today.
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  Speaker 5: So the first thing he does, do you know what
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  Speaker 5: he does? He puts vassaline.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know if I want to hear.
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  Speaker 5: This on his wrists and on his carotid artery. So
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  Speaker 5: just a poor Travis. I just wanted to congratulate the guy.
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  Speaker 6: Now I'm giving away a secret and you're you're saying
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  Speaker 6: he's rubbing vascaline on his crotch.
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  Speaker 5: The poor guy.
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  Speaker 4: Why did you have to say corotid artery? Don't you
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  Speaker 4: just mean his neck?
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  Speaker 5: On the carotid arterye.
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  Speaker 6: According to to Travis, it's the absolute secret because that's
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  Speaker 6: you know, that's where the pulse is giving out the
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  Speaker 6: warmth and the smell.
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  Speaker 4: Did he have a slippery looking neck?
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  Speaker 5: No, you couldn't even tell.
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  Speaker 6: He's wearing a beautiful suit despite your ripping on, poor Travis.
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  Speaker 5: He's a lovely man, so you're.
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  Speaker 4: Giving away his secrets.
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  Speaker 3: Mate.
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  Speaker 5: So a little bit of vasciline on the carotid arterie
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  Speaker 5: and the rest.
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  Speaker 6: Then he sprays the perfume on it, and that's what
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  Speaker 6: is the scent through the afternoon.
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  Speaker 5: Do woman do anything like that in terms of making
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  Speaker 5: the scent last.
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  Speaker 3: I'm glad you brought this up because if you'd listen
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  Speaker 3: to my We Need to Talk podcasts with Joe Malowe,
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  Speaker 3: you would note what.
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  Speaker 5: Is Joe Malone the baron of perfume? Trevorner, I tell
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  Speaker 5: you what.
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  Speaker 3: So what she said if you've missed it, and by
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  Speaker 3: the way, you can get this on iHeartRadio or wherever
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  Speaker 3: you listen to your podcast. She basically does a double dip,
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  Speaker 3: so every single day of her life, she puts on one.
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  Speaker 4: Or the toilette first all over her skin.
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  Speaker 3: And body, like everywhere, including the crowded artery and the crops.
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  Speaker 5: I'm guessing.
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  Speaker 3: And then on the daily she chooses a different scent
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  Speaker 3: on how she's feeling that day.
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  Speaker 4: So she's doubling up.
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  Speaker 3: I think Travis should think about doubling up rather than
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  Speaker 3: his second one being a vassiline.
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  Speaker 5: What does she know over a fleet manager?
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  Speaker 4: I don't hate speaking.
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  Speaker 5: I need to I need to see the coloone.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, reveal a secret.
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  Speaker 6: The secret is Jean Paul Gortier and it's lamel elixa
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  Speaker 6: and it's in a gold container. Jean Paul grtier alixe lameil.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, write it down ahead of Father's Day and ahead
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  Speaker 3: of Birthday and Christmas.
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  Speaker 4: This is Coast Breakfast. God, I love that song. It's
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  Speaker 4: so uplifting, isn't it? Certainly is, especially if you have.
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  Speaker 3: Argued with your partner last night. Did you have an argument, Sammy?
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  Speaker 5: No, not really, not really. The day to day there's always.
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  Speaker 3: I've got I've got the answer of you. I think
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  Speaker 3: Archie Bargie intimates physical argument you're not having those.
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  Speaker 5: Oh no, no, if I did, I'd lose, so.
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  Speaker 4: Would my husband. So I stumbled across this and I thought.
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  Speaker 3: This is a really good thing to consider the next
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  Speaker 3: time you are arguing. So it's from Meat Underscore the
• 12:47
  Speaker 3: Freeman's and they are essentially relationship coaches. They're a couple,
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  Speaker 3: but they give you really good tips and advice, and
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  Speaker 3: I started following them and it really rings true.
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  Speaker 4: So this is what I read.
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  Speaker 3: Many arguments occur because you and your partner are actually
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  Speaker 3: having two different conversations.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, does that make sense to you?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yestin.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So what they're talking about here is one of
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  Speaker 3: you is talking about your feelings. The other is trying
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  Speaker 3: to talk about logic, which one of those of you
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  Speaker 3: saying logic, I think most males.
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  Speaker 5: Are, yeah, yeah, what are you study?
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  Speaker 3: I think I fall into the gray area a bit
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  Speaker 3: of a logic, bit of feeling, depending whether I'm experiencing
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  Speaker 3: strong perimenopausal symptoms or not.
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  Speaker 5: So the same as Jace as well.
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  Speaker 6: See, Jason would be on the emotional side as well,
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  Speaker 6: and so his wife.
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  Speaker 4: No, I think his wife's the logic. I think Jason's Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're probably right there. Okay, So what do we do
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  Speaker 4: about this? This is what I like about this page.
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  Speaker 5: It tells us what to do solutions. Don't give me problems,
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  Speaker 5: give me solutions. Study.
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  Speaker 3: So, first of all, one of you is sharing how
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  Speaker 3: something has impacted you emotionally, and the other is focused
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  Speaker 3: on how it wasn't their intention to do so. So
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  Speaker 3: you're essentially saying I didn't mean to offend you, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying, but I was a few and I'm sad
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  Speaker 3: about that.
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  Speaker 4: And so now you're arguing you're and.
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  Speaker 3: You keep going to me but I didn't mean to
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  Speaker 3: and I said, I know that, but you.
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  Speaker 4: Still hurt me.
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  Speaker 6: So you've still got a problem here. And do you
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  Speaker 6: know that actually translates to kids too, you know, like
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  Speaker 6: when there's a fight or say, for instance, Yesterda, I'm
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  Speaker 6: a little girl because he slipped over and banging her
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  Speaker 6: knee and grace it. What I found is that if
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  Speaker 6: you please the fact that they're injured, like I know
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  Speaker 6: you're injured, it's going to be okay. If you give
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  Speaker 6: them the fact that they're injured, it's almost like curing
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  Speaker 6: the problem.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, exact makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: And I have that exact problem with my own kids too,
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  Speaker 3: because Let's say Juliet will accidentally not glocky and she'll
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: go but I didn't mean to, And I'm like, you
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  Speaker 3: could still show some empathy because he's still crying. I
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  Speaker 3: know you didn't mean to, but can you still go
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  Speaker 3: see if he's okay?
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  Speaker 5: One hundred percent okay.
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  Speaker 3: So the reason we do this is one of you
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  Speaker 3: is talking about the present situation. The other is trying
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: to talk about the unresolved past. So the problem is
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: we're not just dealing with that. We're also dealing with
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: the fact that you didn't empty the dishwasher that morning.
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  Speaker 5: That's that's the emotion. Person is yelling, that's bringing up
• 15:01
  Speaker 5: the past.
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  Speaker 3: Yep. So one of you is trying to provide feedback
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: to be better, the other is perceiving it as personal criticism.
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  Speaker 3: So next time you have an argument, just think about
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: those two sides.
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  Speaker 5: How to feel the.
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  Speaker 3: Logic, have a bit more empathy, and if you're the EmPATH,
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  Speaker 3: maybe just you know, don't bring up the past.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. It's man versus woman.
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