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21: Why Does Human Design Feel So Accurate? · Rewild by Design

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to ReWild by Design, podcast for women in midlife who are ready to burn the rule book, drop the good girl mask, and come home to who they really are.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host Marissa, a human design and gene keys mentor, and your guide in this wild woman era.
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  SPEAKER_00: Get ready for bold conversations, raw truths, and the kind of insights that'll shake you awake.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because midlife isn't the end of your story.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the point where you finally get to write it your way.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of the most common reactions that I get when I do human design readings or I'm talking to somebody about their chart is people like stare at me like, how did you know that?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I always laugh a little bit because I'm not pulling this shit right out of my ass.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it's not miraculously coming out of thin air.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design feels so accurate for almost all of us, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: As long as we got the right birth date and time and location.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because human design helps us name those patterns that you're already living, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the blueprint that your soul chose to come into this lifetime with.
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  SPEAKER_00: So of course it feels resonant.
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  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of people get emotional during readings.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not just because they're hearing something that is completely brand new and they're having this like huge breakthrough moment, but it's really having the language for to name all of the things that they have already been feeling their whole lives, but never gave themselves permission to actually feel and embody and actually live.
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  SPEAKER_00: So many of us women spend decades, if not our entire lives, looking at our struggles as personality flaws.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like there's something inherently wrong with us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you're too emotional, or you're too sensitive, you're not consistent enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why are you tired all the time?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or you're too much, or you're never gonna be enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then they sit down and hear something in their chart reflected back to them, and the gears start moving, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And things start clicking.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this isn't like an overnight thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design is meant to be an experiment, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're meant to play with it, you're meant to just use it, see what happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a science experiment, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We're testing things out, and the more you play with it, the more you're gonna get these, oh shit, yeah, you're right.
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  SPEAKER_00: This totally makes sense, types of moments.
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  SPEAKER_00: And one of the biggest reasons that I feel like human design hits people so deeply is because, again, as women especially, we have been operating or trying to operate in ways that don't actually work for us, for our unique energetic system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you hear something in your chart, you have a reading, and let's say, for example, you are designed not to have consistent output every single day, or that you're not supposed to force decisions with your mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's like an immediate exhale.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can't even tell you how many projectors and other undefined sacrils that I've worked with who genuinely believed that they were lazy, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because they physically and energetically cannot keep up with the generators and manifesting generators in the world around them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or if they've done that, they've ended up in severe burnout cycles.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or a woman with emotional authority who has spent years thinking that they were just indecisive when really all they need is just a little bit more time to feel into their decisions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, and this can even happen with generators, because a lot of generators spend these decades in people-pleasing patterns.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you end up running on fumes because you're going against what your sacral actually has energy for.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is a big one, because like 70% of us have this undefined, is the undefined ego, where we feel this pressure to constantly prove our worthiness or prove ourselves, or constantly have this motivation when that's not how we operate, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And once you start seeing these patterns in real time in your real life, it's different than just logically seeing a chart and all of these little bullet points that you check off on a list.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, that's not how this works.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once you start feeling into this in your body, and you're seeing these patterns, you can't unsee them.
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  SPEAKER_00: And for so many women that I work with, this is like this first time that they give themselves the permission to stop feeling wrong for how they operate.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this emotional reaction in any com can come in waves, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like these a huge emotional release.
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  SPEAKER_00: Tears are good.
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  SPEAKER_00: This almost going through the grief cycle as well, because you're you're grieving this version of yourself that you have played your entire life and figuring out that actually wasn't me.
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  SPEAKER_00: But and human design goes so much deeper than just these personality traits.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is the user manual for your aura, for your energy mechanics.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it shows you, like I said, those patterns that are running underneath and how you move through your life, like why certain things drain the hell out of you, and why some decisions always feel forced when other ones just feel natural, or maybe why you have spent years and years, decades even overriding what your body already knows, because logic says you have to use your brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there is this deep sense of relief when it starts making sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like I said, there's grief in here too.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we can acknowledge the grief for what it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't want to bypass it and push past it because you finally realize that you've been trying to operate as someone else.
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  SPEAKER_00: And no wonder it doesn't fucking work for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you're not, if you're not meant to keep up, find a better way, find a more efficient way, find the gifts in your chart.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's the beauty of working together in a container like the Nine Centers Mystery School is that we're untangling these patterns together.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not out here solo, you know, on a raft in the middle of the ocean trying to figure this out.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're working together to gently tease back all of these layers.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it can also feel confronting.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's another reason why doing this in community and with support will help you get there so much faster.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like human design kind of is it gets bastardized on the internet because I mean, everyone has an opinion, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: They're like assholes, everybody's got one, and everybody has their own take, which I think it is beautiful to kind of dissect a system and make it work for you, but you have to honor the structure and the integrity of the system instead of trying to recreate the wheel and make it not fit, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: People like to look at the aesthetics of the system or just the personality descriptions and like this type always does this.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not what it's meant to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design is not another box that you're supposed to shove your ass into.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design helps you understand your energy, how you make decisions, how you process your emotions, why certain relationships feel so natural and easy, and others just drain the hell out of you, or why some environments completely fry your nervous system, and others are just deeply supportive, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There sometimes you don't have words to explain it, and that's why human design can come in and help you with those words.
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  SPEAKER_00: And human design gives us context, not more excuses, and again, certainly not another box to put ourselves into.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've I've hinted at this before, but the biggest shift that so many women see when they're dissecting their human design chart, they're starting to live it, is it helps you stop fighting your energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, no, life doesn't suddenly become sunshine and unicorn farts.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it's not always going to be easy, but you have a roadmap to guide you to what is correct for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that does feel more ease-filled.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's also this trap that can come in with human design that a lot of people just fall right into.
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  SPEAKER_00: Again, like I said, they turn it into this another performance metric, another box, and another identity that you need to like put that hat on.
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  SPEAKER_00: And while the system is very complex and it can be complicated, you don't need to understand every single gate, every channel, every transit, and all the nuances and you know, the arrows.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't need to understand all of that in order to live your design.
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  SPEAKER_00: That that misses the whole point.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design is here to give you freedom, not rigidity.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's not here to tell you who you're allowed to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're already it, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're that that girl.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's a system that helps you understand what's already working for you, what's correct, what are your gifts, what are your strengths, what can you lean on in your life to be the best human you can be, and to drop all of these masks that don't serve you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you've ever sat down, looked at your chart, maybe you got yours free from my site, and you thought, how does this know me so well?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is exactly why.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human design is like a mirror reflecting the patterns that you have already been living, even if you don't have the words, it's going to give you the language and the feeling.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think the feeling is so much more important than the intellectual logical understanding of things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you want a good place to start, if you haven't already grabbed your human design chart free from my website, it also includes a free audio called the Energy Snapshot.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is an amazing place to start.
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  SPEAKER_00: Easiest entry point, it'll walk you through your type.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll hear my voice talk what is supportive for your energy type without all the overwhelm.
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  SPEAKER_00: And look, if you have been living in your chart for your for a while and feel like something isn't really like clicking the way you want it to, or you're ready to just excavate all of those underlying patterns, this isn't a you problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is a support problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: The Nine Centers Mystery School is the place where we do the work together.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not just talking about your design.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is not another digital course to put shelves on your dusty platform, you know, your dusty shelf.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is again, we're excavating the parts of you that got buried under who you were told to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if that sounds like something that you have been looking for, the link to apply will be below.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you want to talk through it first, go ahead and grab a free chemistry call.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'll I'm super easy to reach, and I will talk to you soon.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, that's it for this episode of Rewild by Design.
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  SPEAKER_00: I trust that you got what you needed here today.
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  SPEAKER_00: And just remember, you don't need another checklist, you need your own voice back.
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  SPEAKER_00: So go out, live a little louder, a little freer, and a hell of a lot more like yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'll see you next time.