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Is it courtesy to say someone's on speaker, or does it make you look suspicious? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a flying Hi.
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  Speaker 2: And the club on nine four seventh.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you guys just send everything to a voice to
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  Speaker 3: a voice, not line, and we are more than okay
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  Speaker 3: with it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because this one, I think I've run into this.
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  Speaker 4: I think you've run into this.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody's running to this and I don't see what I
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  Speaker 3: absolutely do not see what the issue is. And I'll
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  Speaker 3: tell you why, and I'll tell you why after you
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  Speaker 3: hear this voice.
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  Speaker 1: Note Hi Annel in the club.
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  Speaker 5: So I was with my wife a few days ago
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  Speaker 5: and in the car, we are driving, and then our
• 0:34
  Speaker 5: phones are connected to the bluetooth as usual. So she
• 0:37
  Speaker 5: gets a call from her boss. When she answers the phone,
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  Speaker 5: she throws that this exclaimer to this guy when I
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  Speaker 5: led to whatever the case may be, to say, Hey,
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  Speaker 5: I'm with my husband on the line, how are you doing?
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  Speaker 5: And that sort of put me off a lot. So
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  Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I'm overthinking things because it's after
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  Speaker 5: hours as well. But yeah, what do you guys think.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's absolutely it's not only is it okay,
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  Speaker 3: but it is more than okay. It is necessary to
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  Speaker 3: tell anyone that calls you that they're on speaker.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, if you're on your hands free kit in your car,
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  Speaker 4: yeah and iPhone. You're saying that immediately as an answer,
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  Speaker 4: Hi on Nell, how are you? You're on speaking, You're
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  Speaker 4: on speaker phone and I've got what what in the car?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I don't care. Sometimes you don't have to say who's
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  Speaker 2: on the car?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you gotta tell me there's people in the car?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Hi, Hi, Frankie, I'm in the car. You're on
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  Speaker 3: speaker what's up? Do you know what I'm saying? And husband,
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  Speaker 3: I get that you think that in twenty twenty six
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  Speaker 3: there's such a thing as after hours in the workspace.
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  Speaker 3: But I mean, let's be honest, look at your life
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  Speaker 3: right now. You and I, frank you were on the
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  Speaker 3: phone until ten last night.
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  Speaker 1: We were. You don't know if there is after hours anymore.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think there is, because of emails, because of phones.
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  Speaker 3: We isn't right? No is what's happening years? I and
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  Speaker 3: I think we'll all agree on this one. It is
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  Speaker 3: absolutely important that you tell in a friendship setting, in
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  Speaker 3: a work set, in anything setting. As soon as somebody's
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  Speaker 3: on speaker, they need to be told.
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  Speaker 4: But here's the thing though, if you do that generally
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  Speaker 4: the husband wouldn't have seen an issue with it. So
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  Speaker 4: I think that's what the problem is here. The wife
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  Speaker 4: never does that, but now she did that when the
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  Speaker 4: colleague because he doesn't.
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  Speaker 6: Say that she always takes the call and opens to
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  Speaker 6: the disclaimer. It's this particular call in the context of
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  Speaker 6: it being outside of work hours.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think that matters?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think, especially your boss.
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  Speaker 3: You know, with your boss, you're discussing such sensitive things
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  Speaker 3: like who's getting fired, who's getting hired, money situations. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: he was even calling to be like the race you
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  Speaker 3: ask for that thumbs up, and maybe she, your wife,
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  Speaker 3: doesn't want you knowing that she got a raise because
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  Speaker 3: now we're all going to budget her raise.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 1: That's problem. She's a liar.
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  Speaker 2: That is absolutely allowed as well.
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  Speaker 3: I really think wife and boss, they are allowed to
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  Speaker 3: have their own conversations that don't involve you. She's not
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  Speaker 3: a proxy of you at her job. She works for
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  Speaker 3: herself with the boss.
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  Speaker 6: But do not at her job. In our car, you see,
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  Speaker 6: so this is our shared space.
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  Speaker 7: I find people do this a lot with kids in
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  Speaker 7: the car. They think that they can talk to you
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  Speaker 7: with the kids in the car, and sometimes you they're
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  Speaker 7: telling your friends something.
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  Speaker 2: Like and you are a sailor. I'm a sailor.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, I don't know how I keep it clean for radio.
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  Speaker 7: But sometimes you're disclosing something that you don't necessarily think
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  Speaker 7: is age appropriate for the kids to hear. And now,
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  Speaker 7: I just think that if you're in a car and
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  Speaker 7: there's lots and there's other people in the car, it's
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  Speaker 7: a disclaimer upfront. I'm in the car, you're here with
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  Speaker 7: the whole family.
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  Speaker 4: Happened to me with my sister the other day because
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  Speaker 4: I was speaking to her and then there wasn't anyone
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  Speaker 4: in the car, and then without my knowledge, she had stopped,
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  Speaker 4: and then the little nieces got in the car and
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  Speaker 4: I let her rip. He would I just heard from
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  Speaker 4: the back, God, thank you only on ice cream?
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  Speaker 2: And that's fifteen ice cream.
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  Speaker 1: Fifteen ice creams Now, it's like more than fifteen.
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  Speaker 2: On one one eighty eight thirty eight, nine four seven.
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  Speaker 2: Have you listened to this?
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  Speaker 1: Hi? Annely in the club.
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  Speaker 5: So I was with my wife a few days ago
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  Speaker 5: and in the car we are driving, and then our
• 4:14
  Speaker 5: phones are connected to the Bluetooth as usual, so she
• 4:17
  Speaker 5: gets a call from her boss. When she answers the phone,
• 4:20
  Speaker 5: she throws that this exclaimer to this guy when I
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  Speaker 5: led to whatever the case may be, to say, Hey,
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  Speaker 5: I'm with my husband on the line, how are you doing?
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  Speaker 5: And that sort of put me off a lot. So
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  Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I'm overthinking things because it's after
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  Speaker 5: hours as well, But yeah, what do you guys think?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 3: Oh one one eighty eight thirty eight nine four seven
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  Speaker 3: sending us a voice note zero eight four double zero
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  Speaker 3: double zero nine four seven.
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  Speaker 2: Put yourself on either end.
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  Speaker 3: You know you are You are the one who's telling
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  Speaker 3: people that you know they're on speaker.
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  Speaker 2: You're the one in.
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  Speaker 3: The car who's listening to that, to that, to the
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  Speaker 3: first conversation, Hey, you know who's listening to this alert
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  Speaker 3: that we are on speaker And you're the one calling
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  Speaker 3: as well. Who would appreciate, you know, being told if
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  Speaker 3: you're on speaker?
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  Speaker 1: Do you mind hi? Annel in the club?
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  Speaker 5: So I was with my wife a few days ago
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  Speaker 5: and in the car we are driving, and then our
• 5:15
  Speaker 5: phones are connected to the Bluetooth as usual. So she
• 5:18
  Speaker 5: gets a call from her boss. When she answers the phone,
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  Speaker 5: she throws thattist exclaimer to this guy when I led
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  Speaker 5: to whatever the case may be, to say, hey, I'm
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  Speaker 5: with my husband on the line, how are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: And that sort of put me off a lot.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm not sure if I'm overthinking things because it's
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  Speaker 5: after hours as well.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, what do you guys.
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  Speaker 8: Think You don't need to hold me that you'll don't
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  Speaker 8: speaker please because my mouth we the girl get us
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  Speaker 8: both in travel.
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  Speaker 5: There is some extracurricular activities taking place.
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  Speaker 3: There definitely no Actually, I agree with Anela.
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  Speaker 1: You have to let people know that they all not speaker.
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  Speaker 2: Me, especially my friends. I'm forever. I mean, my wife
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  Speaker 2: is in the well, it's in the car. We can
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  Speaker 2: talk and whatever, but you need to be away.
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  Speaker 1: Nah, she's hiding something. She's about to get promotions.
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  Speaker 3: But I think two things can be right at the
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  Speaker 3: same time. Maybe you guys do think that something since
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  Speaker 3: going on, but at the same time it's still her
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  Speaker 3: pass and as her husband, you are not privy to
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  Speaker 3: our conversations with her boss, regardless of whether they dubious
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  Speaker 3: or not. You're just not allowed to listen.
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  Speaker 4: In The danger is for me is that the boss
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  Speaker 4: finds and you know, how it is at work. At work,
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  Speaker 4: we mind about our significant others exactly, and the boss is.
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  Speaker 1: How are you doing there? Good? How's that useless husband
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  Speaker 1: of yours?
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  Speaker 2: Or maybe you've been calling your husband broke and then.
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  Speaker 3: You your boss is like, hey, how's broken? Hunters, And
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  Speaker 3: it's like you're like personal joke between you.
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  Speaker 2: And the pass It's dangerous. Listen in Meryton, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, great listen, Well what do you think?
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  Speaker 9: Look guys, after hours, it's my personal space, right, I
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  Speaker 9: honestly feel like the boss should know that I'm in
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  Speaker 9: my personal space. I'm just my private people and should
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  Speaker 9: keep it brief, just like when I'm at work. My
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  Speaker 9: husband cannot just call me and we just chat for
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  Speaker 9: an hour. So the disclaimer looks and sounds not right
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  Speaker 9: because where else would I be? You know, who else
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  Speaker 9: would I be with? So it should be very brief.
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  Speaker 9: If my boss is calling me after hours, get to
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  Speaker 9: the point, Hi, can you talk? I just want to
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  Speaker 9: talk about one, two three. I shouldn't have to explain
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  Speaker 9: where I am and who I'm with.
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  Speaker 3: No, but she wasn't explaining. The boss hadn't spoken. She said, Hi,
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  Speaker 3: I'm in the car with my husband. We are on speaker,
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  Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: So it's not to say he was going to have
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  Speaker 2: a long, hour long chat. And maybe the.
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  Speaker 3: Boss just wants to say something quickly. You know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying, and he knows. And this is why ielate
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  Speaker 3: if there is some sort of a fake going on,
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  Speaker 3: the boss wouldn't be calling at that time because he
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  Speaker 3: understands that he's ever going to fail.
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  Speaker 2: With the married person.
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  Speaker 3: I really believe that it's around work. But she's just like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: sensitive information. Just be careful if you want to start
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  Speaker 3: speaking about it.
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  Speaker 2: They are ears here.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that you should tell everyone if they're funny,
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  Speaker 4: if there's someone in the.
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  Speaker 1: Car with you.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know, it just sounds a bit funny. I
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  Speaker 9: do it when I must my kids because obviously me
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  Speaker 9: and my kids, you know our language sometimes, but I
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  Speaker 9: don't know if it's another adult. I just feel like
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  Speaker 9: when you mentioned it already, it raises a brown.
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  Speaker 3: Then you guys like to be suspicious, You guys, you guys,
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  Speaker 3: you got inspect her most constantly looking for something.
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  Speaker 2: Listen for you, getting.
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  Speaker 3: Yourself a full tank of your thank.
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  Speaker 4: You more driving and chatting for you, your weekend.
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  Speaker 3: You enjoy your weekend, keep warm, god get So you
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  Speaker 3: are in Cosmo City, Good morning.
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  Speaker 10: Morning, money and the chap.
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  Speaker 2: How are you good? How are you good? Good?
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  Speaker 11: Good good.
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  Speaker 10: So my take is, mh, you can do the disclaimer,
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  Speaker 10: just not at the beginning of the call, especially when
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  Speaker 10: it's your husband. So my thing the red flag here
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  Speaker 10: for me is why do you just say, hey, I'm
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  Speaker 10: with my husband in the car. That's an allad, So
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  Speaker 10: say hi, boss, how are you? And then when he says, oh,
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  Speaker 10: yeah that and he mentioned something sensitive, you're like, oh, no, boss,
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  Speaker 10: I'm actually with my husband in the car. Then you're
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  Speaker 10: basically saying we can continue speaking about sensitive things. But
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  Speaker 10: the alad, the boss, whatever you do, don't talk about
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  Speaker 10: whatever because my husband is here. If it was me
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  Speaker 10: we stopping on the side of the road, we will
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  Speaker 10: have that conversation before we continue.
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  Speaker 3: No, but maybe you know your boss, like for instance,
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  Speaker 3: like our boss Jonathan, Donathan will call you and get
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  Speaker 3: straight to the point type.
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  Speaker 1: Of things there before you say, yeah.
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  Speaker 10: You know my husband went by, then knows my boss.
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  Speaker 10: Unless I've been working there for a week. If I've
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  Speaker 10: been working with Jonathan for like a year, I'm telling
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  Speaker 10: you that your family now knows if it's your boss,
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  Speaker 10: they know I it's the boss. So my husband knows
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  Speaker 10: everyone at work, like doesn't know their faces. But the
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  Speaker 10: minute's like, oh, it's that one. So he definitely knows
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  Speaker 10: my boss. He knows, oh that one will just start
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  Speaker 10: and he won't even mind because I tell him about
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  Speaker 10: this boss all the time.
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  Speaker 2: It's the tamer.
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  Speaker 7: And I think Joe's got trust is because honestly, if
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  Speaker 7: I'm driving with my husband and he does it often,
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  Speaker 7: he'll say, whoever's on the line, Sunday's in the car
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  Speaker 7: with me, I don't go, oh my gosh, why beginning.
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  Speaker 10: But the beginning telling is not a problem, Cindy. It's
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  Speaker 10: the it's the it's the when the context is the
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  Speaker 10: when you I can't just be answering and the first
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  Speaker 10: thing you say is HI, I'm with my husband in
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  Speaker 10: the car.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's telling.
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  Speaker 3: You should especially like for instance, I'll give you an example.
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  Speaker 3: My husband's an attorney. There's sensitive things that they're discussing
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  Speaker 3: there that I should not ever be prove of to you.
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  Speaker 3: And when he answered the phone, he'll come he'll be
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  Speaker 3: like hi, And then it's in the car with me,
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  Speaker 3: do you want to continue with the conversation now and
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  Speaker 3: then you'll take the phone of speaking.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not like, why are you taking a speaker? I'm
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  Speaker 2: with you, sister, No, this is do you know that what.
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  Speaker 10: She's not?
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  Speaker 2: They're not discussing.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what you are, even if you're a teacher,
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  Speaker 3: it matters.
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  Speaker 7: It's definite in respect for the other person on the
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  Speaker 7: land who might not actually want their information shared with
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  Speaker 7: your partner.
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  Speaker 1: Don't care.
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  Speaker 6: I'd put my boss on speaker. I mean, what's confidential
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  Speaker 6: about a raster?
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  Speaker 2: Listen, even if it is not a professional call.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe the boss is just calling to share something about themselves.
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  Speaker 3: The husband does not deserve to know up until a
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  Speaker 3: point where the wife says, hey, did you hit my
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  Speaker 3: post after hours?
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  Speaker 10: That's that's okay, but do the disclaimer after when you realize,
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  Speaker 10: oh no, no, no, this is not something we should
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  Speaker 10: be discussing in front of people. I do that all
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  Speaker 10: the time, but I don't start with it. It's the start.
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  Speaker 10: It's the beginning. That's that's It's the allied, like, be
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  Speaker 10: careful sadicly hour if.
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  Speaker 4: I'm phoning, and even if it's my friends, doesn't matter
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  Speaker 4: who I'm phining if if they're in the car with
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  Speaker 4: other people and they don't tell me of the bad
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  Speaker 4: I'm upset.
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  Speaker 1: Up. Never said anything, they repeat.
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  Speaker 10: So you're like, hi, Frankie, how are you? And then
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  Speaker 10: when you're like listen, I can another too, because you
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  Speaker 10: know that, not just when they're about to say what
• 12:46
  Speaker 10: they're about to say, because you know them matter to
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  Speaker 10: just that, you know, it's where it was done, it's
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  Speaker 10: how it's done. It raises, don't let.
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  Speaker 2: Them bully women, stand strong, don't get so.
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  Speaker 10: Can I'm stand anyone? This one?
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: Can I'm standing only one business?
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: Standing on business?
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: Can I give you a full tank of fuel?
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  Speaker 12: Alright?
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  Speaker 4: Oh please, compliments of my returns.
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  Speaker 1: It's yours full.
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  Speaker 10: Tank of fuel for you man?
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  Speaker 1: You hi Annel in the club.
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  Speaker 5: So I was with my wife a few days ago
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  Speaker 5: and in the car we are driving, and then our
• 13:28
  Speaker 5: phones are connected to the bluetooth as usual. So she
• 13:31
  Speaker 5: gets a call from her boss. When she answers the phone,
• 13:34
  Speaker 5: she throws atist exclaimer to this guy when I led
• 13:37
  Speaker 5: to whatever the case may be, to saying hey, I'm
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  Speaker 5: with my husband on the line, how are you doing?
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  Speaker 5: And that sort of put me off a lot, So
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  Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I'm overthinking things because it's after
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  Speaker 5: hours as well. But yeah, what do you guys.
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  Speaker 6: Think would it have been an issue if if the
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  Speaker 6: boss was female?
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  Speaker 2: Is this only an issue because the boss is male.
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  Speaker 13: I was going to tell her she's getting an increase,
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  Speaker 13: she's getting more money.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she doesn't want her husband to know in the.
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  Speaker 8: Club, So I think with the disclaim I mean if
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  Speaker 8: her husband was known for a wife to put out disclaimers,
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  Speaker 8: then it wouldn't be alarming to him. But for the
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  Speaker 8: fact that he's raising it, and it shows that it's
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  Speaker 8: not something that she normally does.
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  Speaker 4: See That's what I said in the beginning, because it's
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  Speaker 4: out of behavior, that's why he's raising it. She doesn't
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  Speaker 4: often do this. But to your point, it's the boss.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe she doesn't do that when her friend's call.
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  Speaker 3: And I think, correct me if I'm wrong, But people
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  Speaker 3: dabbled in extramural marital activities. You generally wouldn't even allow
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  Speaker 3: your phone to go into bluetooth.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying at the city is wild.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you can like I cannot speak on
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  Speaker 2: behalf of it.
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  Speaker 3: I am not one of them. Jacqueline. You're in sance
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  Speaker 3: in good morning.
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  Speaker 12: Good morning guys. I'm on speaker and my whole family
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  Speaker 12: is on the car with me.
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  Speaker 4: Hi.
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  Speaker 2: There we go, There we go.
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  Speaker 3: See, that's how it's done.
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  Speaker 9: So I'm a PA and I worked.
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  Speaker 12: In HR for a very very long time and my
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  Speaker 12: boss would phoney with things that I don't actually need
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  Speaker 12: to be disclosed to anybody. So whether you my friend,
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  Speaker 12: or my husband or even a colleague, you know, I
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  Speaker 12: need my boss needs to know there's someone in the
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  Speaker 12: car because he's going to roll into something and say listen,
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  Speaker 12: I'm at labor court and I need something.
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  Speaker 13: And no, and even as.
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  Speaker 3: A PA, let's say your boss calls you right and
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  Speaker 3: they are now disclosing something that is even personal to them.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: But because you're a PA, you're a personal assistance, that
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: is your privy of knowledge to him. No one else
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: is supposed to know those things. And now at face
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: value is going to look like, oh, you and your
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: boss are up to something sinister, but you're just protecting
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: your boss, Like, hey, boss, you're on speaker, please don't
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: say anything.
• 15:58
  Speaker 10: Yes, no, one hundred.
• 16:01
  Speaker 12: I mean, especially as a PA, you've found out to
• 16:04
  Speaker 12: be privy to stuff that you actually don't often want
• 16:08
  Speaker 12: to know.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: So I just I don't think there's an issue here.
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: I think if this man, I don't think there's an issue.
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: I honestly I think maybe if you send us something
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: else that she's done, build the case for us, my
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: guy who sent the voice, yeah, bull the case, give
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: us a history.
• 16:24
  Speaker 10: Stay.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: And then there was this, and then there was that.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: But just one call on a random.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Night where it's her boss and she says you're on speaker,
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: and all of a sudden you're alarmed. Jacqueline, you get
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: yourself a full tank thanks to my way in show Ransom.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: So dog, have a good wi it happy driving my
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: tape you and Rodaport's.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: Good morning, good morning, good morning. How are you.
• 16:53
  Speaker 10: Good?
• 16:54
  Speaker 11: How are you guys?
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: With great you?
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: You know it's because I read your your little citation
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: here you say there's something fishy.
• 17:01
  Speaker 13: There's definitely something fishy, and the guy has every reason
• 17:05
  Speaker 13: to be suspicious. Were saying this because I know firsthand
• 17:11
  Speaker 13: I have done it.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Which will side were you on.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Were you on the side that was having the fishingists
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: or you were on the side that was on the
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: receiving end of the fishingist.
• 17:22
  Speaker 11: I was a fishinist.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: I was generator. Okay, what was going on?
• 17:29
  Speaker 11: So basically, if your boss calls you at night and
• 17:33
  Speaker 11: you have a disclaimer, I know those disclaimers very well
• 17:36
  Speaker 11: where you're like, I'm with my husband, so he knows
• 17:40
  Speaker 11: not to say hi, babe, or where are you? Or
• 17:43
  Speaker 11: are we meeting? So I know it very care So.
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: Hang on a second, just now, as an expert in
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: the field, do you so what do you when you
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: answer the phone before they get a chance to speak,
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: do you say.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Something I.
• 18:01
  Speaker 10: Do?
• 18:01
  Speaker 11: I said right off the bed.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: So you Hi, my husband's in the car right that?
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: Like that, you don't even wait for that person to
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: say I.
• 18:09
  Speaker 11: Don't even I don't even wait for the hello, because
• 18:11
  Speaker 11: I need to warn them before they say anything that's
• 18:14
  Speaker 11: out of pocket.
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: Oh and was your husband in the car at that time?
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Is he still your husband?
• 18:23
  Speaker 13: No?
• 18:23
  Speaker 11: Unfortunately you would divorced.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: Unfortunately found out, he found out, unfortunately found out.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: And how long had.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: Had the fishing has been going on before your husband
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: found out?
• 18:33
  Speaker 11: Three years?
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: With your boss?
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Why do you not? Why do you not sound sorry
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: about it? You just I mean, she's with the boss.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Now you with the boss.
• 18:46
  Speaker 13: Now, No, not with the boss.
• 18:48
  Speaker 11: I left the job. Guys, this was like ten years ago.
• 18:51
  Speaker 11: Oh divove ten years ago, so.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: We can laugh about it.
• 18:54
  Speaker 11: I know it very well.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: And you had no kids with your husband.
• 18:59
  Speaker 11: I've got a kid with my husband.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, he's gonna hate you forever you yeah, and rightfully,
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: so I'm at in husband.
• 19:07
  Speaker 11: Sorry, no, but just to let the guy know that
• 19:11
  Speaker 11: there's something fishy. If you feel that it's fishy, it
• 19:13
  Speaker 11: is fishy.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: So you're saying you're saying that his first instinct is
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: the correct one.
• 19:20
  Speaker 11: It's the correct one.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: No, I can't argue.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: I can't argue because you came with facts and experience
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: and we were just you know, we were circumstantial like
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: We were a sup professor. We are students.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: You have a PhD.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I'm in grade one exactly.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Oh, but thank you for this.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: I'm so sad to beginous, not yet to bask in
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: the glory You've been right. But you get yourself a
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: long tank of petrol so you can drive to all
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: your sneaky links in the city.
• 19:50
  Speaker 11: Thank you, sponsor, Thank.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: You my way.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: Jesus, I can't see why she was having an affair.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: She has a lot of find out.
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