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- 0:00I say it all the time, be a great teammate first.
- 0:02That's the most important thing, right?
- 0:04Be the best of, be the best of whatever role you have to be
- 0:07that day. If that's being in the dugout,
- 0:10cheering your team teammate on, then you'd be the best person
- 0:12that does that. If that's coming in as a pinch
- 0:15runner, then you do that, right? If it's coming in as a pinch
- 0:19hitter, be the best that you can be at that and be prepared to do
- 0:21it. Whether you live northeast, West
- 0:22or South, the best fast pitch info comes from the coach's
- 0:28mouth. Welcome to the From the Coach's
- 0:45Mouth podcast with your host Jay Bolden and Ken Krause.
- 1:10Hello everyone, this is Ken. And this is Jay.
- 1:13And we're here for a very special holiday episode of the
- 1:16From the Coach's Mouth podcast. Ken, is that like one of those
- 1:19special episodes of Blossom back in the day?
- 1:23Yeah, a little bit, you know, but not quite.
- 1:27Hopefully we don't have to go into all of those socially
- 1:29conscious topics, but we are going to have some fun today.
- 1:33I think talking about really kind of the year in review.
- 1:37We're on episode 41. Jay isn't that hard to believe.
- 1:40Yeah, it is. I mean, you know, I think we've
- 1:42been pretty consistent throughout the, the year and I'm
- 1:46excited to see what next year holds.
- 1:47I know we've been talking to a lot of potential guests and it
- 1:51was some big names in there and then some other, you know,
- 1:53unknowns that can come out and help coaches grow.
- 1:55And I think that's I'm excited for for what next year's going
- 1:58to bring for the podcast. And it's grown.
- 2:01I think it's, you know, honestly, this was just
- 2:04something that I, I think we wanted to just do just to have
- 2:07some fun with. And it's kind of grown a little
- 2:09bit and we're get, we've had some great feedback from people
- 2:11this year and, you know, it's just, it's awesome.
- 2:14So for those of you who are listening and this past year, we
- 2:16really appreciate you all. And yeah, I'm excited for this
- 2:20episode too, Ken. Yeah, me too.
- 2:22And you know, I, everybody, thank you so much for listening
- 2:25to us. I know it sounds like we're
- 2:26wrapping up already, but no, thank you for listening.
- 2:29We appreciate everybody getting in.
- 2:31Definitely appreciate you sharing it with your friends.
- 2:34So you know, if you want to do that right now, smash that like
- 2:37button, share it with someone that you love, someone you think
- 2:40might get some value out of this and help us continue to grow the
- 2:43podcast, which will help us continue to attract more guests.
- 2:47Because nobody wants to come on to a podcast that's going to
- 2:50three people in their basement. Yeah, definitely not that.
- 2:54So hopefully I'm thinking about maybe, you know, talking my
- 2:59T-shirt guy, get some T-shirts made maybe next year.
- 3:01And you know, anybody who maybe shares the podcast out, I'd send
- 3:05it, send you out AT shirt or and definitely going to get some
- 3:07stickers. Even thinking about getting a
- 3:09banner put up in my facility for people to to see and you know,
- 3:13and and do that, just try to get the word out there a little bit.
- 3:15And yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited for next year.
- 3:17So we'll see what happens. Awesome, I might even try to
- 3:20clean up the background here even though we haven't been
- 3:23using video. You know, I look at the
- 3:25background where I am right now and it looks like I'm doing this
- 3:29out of a supply closet somewhere.
- 3:31You mean you're not? I thought you work.
- 3:34No, not quite. It's just a room where when we
- 3:36don't want to have things sitting out in the main part of
- 3:39the house, then it all gets dumped into here.
- 3:41So. Yeah, yeah.
- 3:43I have one of those too. So I understand completely.
- 3:45I think we all, everybody listening probably has one of
- 3:47those rooms. So, yeah, absolutely so.
- 3:49And a couple of drawers too. Of course, y'all definitely have
- 3:54a couple drawers like that, maybe two or three actually.
- 3:56So let's today let's why don't we talk a little bit about like
- 4:01let's look back on on what we've done over the year, maybe talk
- 4:04about some of the episodes and some of the guests that we've
- 4:06had. I think it'd be good to to
- 4:08reflect on that and then we can throw our our little insights in
- 4:11here and there as we go along. What do you think about that,
- 4:13Ken? Jay, that sounds like a great
- 4:15idea. All right.
- 4:16Do you want to go first or you want me to go first?
- 4:18Well, actually I'm OK with going first.
- 4:21So forth. OK, I want to talk about what
- 4:24was our very first episode. Spotify does a thing.
- 4:28I'm trying to remember what they call it now.
- 4:29I think it was like rap 2025 where they give us a bunch of
- 4:33stats. So I'm going to start with our
- 4:35very first episode, which was Rick Paulie, which maybe it's
- 4:39just because it was the oldest episode or he was the oldest
- 4:42guest. Sorry, Rick.
- 4:43Oh boy. But oh boy, that was definitely
- 4:47our most popular episode that we had.
- 4:50Either, like I say, people went back and they were listening to
- 4:53it, they saw Rick and they wanted to do it.
- 4:54Or there were a whole bunch of people that sampled it in the
- 4:57beginning and went, jeez, these guys.
- 5:01Yeah, and then that was it. But I'll say so I want to say
- 5:03something about Rick. I mean, what what a great
- 5:05person. I mean, he's super, super
- 5:08important not just to us, but to the entire fast pitch pitching
- 5:12community. The guy is like a, he's a
- 5:14savant. Honestly, I really feel like he,
- 5:17we're blessed because he's, you know, been our mentor for years
- 5:19and we've worked alongside him with at clinics and, you know,
- 5:23on our, on our weekly calls with him on Tuesdays and that whole
- 5:27group. But you know, he's just been not
- 5:29just for us, but the entire fast pitch pitching community.
- 5:33I mean, the guy has been a resource for not just like
- 5:36recently, this has been for years.
- 5:38And so he's, he's incredibly important in the in the fast
- 5:41pitch community. And, and you know, I don't know
- 5:43anybody more knowledgeable than that man.
- 5:45I mean, and not, and the best part, Ken, I think you'll agree
- 5:48with me is like, he is absolutely not afraid to try new
- 5:51things. I mean, he's been there, done
- 5:53it, seen it, right? And he's still out there trying
- 5:56to learn and grow. And I mean, that's just he's, I
- 5:59think that's a lot of the reason why people probably listen to
- 6:02that episode is because the guy has so much knowledge to just
- 6:05give and put out there that, you know, if you're a, if you're a
- 6:08pitching dad or a pitching, you know, mom with, with a kid, I
- 6:11think that's a, that's an episode you wanted to turn, turn
- 6:14tune into because just you might pick up some good information to
- 6:17help your kid out, you know. Yeah, no, I agree.
- 6:20And that's the amazing thing about Rick is that of a lot of
- 6:23people in his position would just say, OK, well, I've learned
- 6:26what I've learned. I know what I know I'm going to
- 6:29go out there and I'm just going to push that out there and, you
- 6:32know, I'm satisfied with it. But not Rick.
- 6:34I mean, he'll tell you, I think he said he's changed more in the
- 6:38way he teaches pitching in the last five years than he did, you
- 6:42know, in all the years prior. So, you know, he just has a
- 6:45thirst for knowledge. And he just keeps on trying to
- 6:47learn. And he loves discussing things
- 6:50with you. And if you bring up a topic that
- 6:53throws him off, you'll stay up all night thinking about it.
- 6:56And yeah, sure statement. It's just great to see that
- 7:00someone at his level still wants to learn.
- 7:02So anybody else who's out there that thinks they know it all,
- 7:06you know, I would say take a fake a cue from Rick.
- 7:10Listen, listen to that episode, hear what he's talking about.
- 7:13We're planning on having him back on very soon.
- 7:17So it'll be interesting to see, you know, going back just over
- 7:22the last year and see, you know, does he still agree with
- 7:25everything he said then? Yeah, yeah, can't wait.
- 7:29He's going to be great. So I'm going to I'm going to go
- 7:31with mine and actually believe it or not, I'm going to go with
- 7:33the second episode we had with Sheets.
- 7:36I feel like, you know, for me that I was so amazingly happy
- 7:41when he agreed to be on the podcast.
- 7:43The guy is just, I mean, he does it the right way and he does it
- 7:47for the right reasons. And that is to create better
- 7:50people, not just better players. And I really feel like that's a
- 7:54lot that's missing out on, on what's going on today is it's
- 7:57it's very transactional. And he makes it not so
- 8:00transactional, you know, talking about person first, student
- 8:05second, player 3rd. And really he comes through on
- 8:09that, you know, teaching these his young men down there at
- 8:12Georgia how to tie a tie, how to hand, how to how to, you know,
- 8:15prepare themselves for a job interview after this, you know,
- 8:19the proper handshakes, all, all. And also what he does is, is,
- 8:23you know, I thought it's just great.
- 8:25He takes time out of his practice plans to do things
- 8:29where he focuses on the mental side, the mental health and
- 8:31well-being of his of his players.
- 8:33And I think for me, that's one that resonated with me a ton as
- 8:37a coach because it's more than just the the wins and losses.
- 8:41It's more about the connections you make and, and watching these
- 8:44young men and young women grow up to be successful in their
- 8:47field after after baseball or softball's over.
- 8:50So Sheets was, I thought, awesome.
- 8:51Plus the energy that guy brings, how can you it's just so
- 8:54contagious. How can you not want to run
- 8:56through a wall after you talk to that guy, you know, So he was he
- 9:00was great. So Sheets, thanks again for
- 9:02being on here and we appreciate that for sure.
- 9:05Yeah, no, that was definitely a great conversation.
- 9:07You know, so upbeat, so positive, loving what he does.
- 9:11I mean, that's what you can hear more than anything else.
- 9:13And I think that that's an important part for any coach is
- 9:17if you're not loving it, if you're not, you know, really
- 9:21enjoying the idea of helping young people become bet the best
- 9:24version of themselves, as they say on Ted Lasso, then, you
- 9:28know, what are you doing it for? He really embodies that.
- 9:33All right, another one I'm going to pick.
- 9:34And just because, you know, she's somebody that's meant a
- 9:36lot to me through my coaching career, and that's Cindy
- 9:40Bristow. She's a legend.
- 9:42She's a Hall of Famer. To have somebody like Cindy just
- 9:45take the time, you know, she does all of her own stuff to
- 9:48take the time to, you know, chat with us and talk about all the
- 9:52different things. You know, what it was like when
- 9:54she was playing, you know, some of the things that she's working
- 9:57on now. And in fact, again, another
- 9:59lifelong learner, someone who's never been satisfied with where
- 10:03she is, always trying to find new things and willing to change
- 10:08what she's been doing if she finds something that's better.
- 10:11Ken, I'll tell you what, I could talk to her hours on hours on
- 10:14hours. That was probably one of the
- 10:16best episodes that I was like, I, I don't want this lady to get
- 10:20off. Like, can we keep talking?
- 10:21Not only was she just knowledgeable, she was
- 10:24absolutely hysterical too. You combine, you combine those
- 10:29two things together and I'm like, let's go.
- 10:31That's those are the people I want to be around because when
- 10:34you're done talking to her, you feel good about yourself.
- 10:36And she was she that was a great, a great episode.
- 10:40And I really again, another person who's who we I remember
- 10:45the question asked her like, you know, has your teachings changed
- 10:49or And she just laughed at herself.
- 10:50She's like, Oh my goodness, Ken. Absolutely.
- 10:53You know, she's like, I wish all the videos and all that she was
- 10:56just, you know, she was so she was so great about it too.
- 10:59And again, another another legend, legend in the game who's
- 11:02really out there helping people. So her Curveball Chronicles is
- 11:06great, you know, and again, she's that was a great guest and
- 11:09I, I'd love to have her back to just to talk to her.
- 11:12I don't, we don't even need to talk softball.
- 11:13I just talk about the Dodgers or her mom or whatever.
- 11:16But she was fantastic and that was a great episode.
- 11:20Yeah, absolutely. You know, like you say, she's
- 11:22just, I think you can talk to her about just about anything
- 11:25and have a great conversation. Yeah, she's great.
- 11:28So the one that that I was floored and just blessed and so
- 11:33happy that she joined us was Lauren Hager, right?
- 11:37The whole thing for me is, yeah, she made that post, I think in
- 11:402017 when she first started doing lessons, talked about how
- 11:45the ball doesn't face second base behind me or center field
- 11:49behind me, right? How the balls palm up, you know,
- 11:52and she's not doing hello elbow, right?
- 11:54And she shows a clip and and these were just things that she
- 11:57was experiencing when she was an instructor that first started,
- 12:00you know, and and can you and I were talking just before we
- 12:02started recording this podcast of these kids that we get that
- 12:05come in and the mechanics is like somebody had to teach you
- 12:09that, right? Somebody had to teach the
- 12:11athlete out of you. And you know, that post for me
- 12:15and, and just to have her on and again, what a special softball
- 12:18player, right? One of the only 5050 people
- 12:21around, I mean, fifty home runs, right?
- 12:23And, and, and just she could hit, she could pitch, she could
- 12:26do it all. And then for her to post
- 12:27something that she's seen in her lessons that we, you and I see
- 12:31all the time too. It just resonated with me.
- 12:33And I was when she's she agreed to be on the podcast.
- 12:35I just, I thought it was awesome and, and can't thank her enough
- 12:38for spending time with us. And that was early, right?
- 12:41That was like early some of our earlier episodes that we got
- 12:43going with her. So that was a that was a really,
- 12:46really good episode. And, and I think, you know,
- 12:48having Lauren on was just great. Yeah, no, I agree.
- 12:51You know, just listening to somebody and I think, you know,
- 12:53one of her best stories was talking about how she struggled.
- 12:57You know, when she was in college, she was not the number
- 13:00one pitcher for four years. She was #2 behind another great
- 13:04pitcher. But, you know, she said when it
- 13:06was finally her time and, you know, her coaches told her, you
- 13:09know, you need to change up. And, you know, that's one of
- 13:12those things, you know, we're going to divert a little bit
- 13:14from kind of the topic of today, but that's one of those things
- 13:17that amazes me. How many college pitchers have
- 13:20told us that that they didn't really develop a change up in
- 13:24until they were in college? How can that be going on?
- 13:27I mean, I know speed is wonderful, but change of speed
- 13:30is even more effective. You know, if you're a parent of
- 13:34a of a pitcher or you're a pitching coach, get that change
- 13:39up going early, get that thing developed so that girl can throw
- 13:42it and make it look like she's throwing it as hard as she can
- 13:45throw. It's going to be your fast, best
- 13:47fastball of the day. And it turns out to be just
- 13:50about 1/3 of the speed or 2/3 of the speed.
- 13:53I guess, you know, the 10 to 1215 miles an hour slower.
- 13:57That is so effective. And it just amazes me that how
- 14:01many pitchers you see don't have that yet.
- 14:05Yep. What about you?
- 14:06What was what was another one? Ken, that you?
- 14:09OK, I'm going to put a couple of them together, and that's just
- 14:11because, you know, these are a couple of our good friends,
- 14:14Linda Lynch and Pam Savage. Yes, great episodes, both of
- 14:19them. Both of them.
- 14:21Yeah. You know, we enjoyed talking to
- 14:23them so much. You know, we talked to them in a
- 14:25different context just about every week.
- 14:28But to get them on, and I know that they were both a little
- 14:30nervous about coming on and doing it, which is of course
- 14:33funny to us because we're just a couple of dopes doing a podcast.
- 14:37Pretty much. But they're, you know, they were
- 14:40nervous like this was going to be on ESPN or something.
- 14:43But, you know, we had great conversations with both of them.
- 14:46I mean, Linda talking about, you know, I could listen to her
- 14:50stories about, you know, the old days of when she was first a
- 14:53player and the people she played with and the things she learned.
- 14:57Her whole thing with, you know, the rowing thing just in the
- 15:01middle, you know, kind of in the middle of her softball career,
- 15:03she just gets bored with it and and decides to go out and be a
- 15:08competitive rower instead. And then, you know, and then
- 15:11Pam, you know, on the very first U of I softball team, she was,
- 15:17you know, the pitcher of the year for that team and then had
- 15:20an injury and wasn't able to play anymore.
- 15:22But, you know, became a pitching coach and really started looking
- 15:26into it. And, you know, one of her
- 15:27driving forces was, I don't want anybody else to get hurt, like I
- 15:31got hurt. So she thought, you know, maybe
- 15:33I should look into this a little bit more.
- 15:35And instead of riding on what she had done, she went out there
- 15:39and she found good information. And she's teaching kids the
- 15:42right way to pitch and having a lot of success with it.
- 15:45Yeah, not only that I we're spoiled, Ken, because we get to
- 15:48spend Tuesdays with both of those, you know, and amongst
- 15:51others, but you know, we're spoiled to have those two and,
- 15:54and their thoughts and ideas about pitching every Tuesday,
- 15:57you know, and I think that that's just something that's
- 15:59really cool to see. And they both have so much,
- 16:02they've both given so much to help me grow and you grow as as
- 16:05a better pitching coach, you know, you know, like they say
- 16:08it, it takes a village and we have a really strong village,
- 16:10which is super cool. And those two are, are
- 16:13absolutely awesome because they give so much.
- 16:15Yeah, I agree with you both. I could listen to both of them
- 16:18talk about their stories, you know, just about everyday.
- 16:21So. And I think Linda, people don't
- 16:23give her enough credit that that Lady is like she.
- 16:26I call her the legend. That's Linda Lynch, the legend.
- 16:29Like. She's been through it, she's
- 16:31done it. She's played against some of the
- 16:33best ever to Chuck a ball, you know, and still humble and still
- 16:37learning and still growing. I mean, just incredible.
- 16:40I mean, most of she's like a lot of the driving force of of what
- 16:43we're doing. She's the one always exploring
- 16:46things, you know, and it's just great.
- 16:48So, and, and again, it's it's great when we had a chance, when
- 16:51we got the the motor preference stuff, we got certified and went
- 16:54through that class out there at James's place, you know, all of
- 16:57us were together. So that was cool.
- 16:59You know, it was really cool to do it and see and talk to them
- 17:01in person too. So yeah, I agree.
- 17:03Those two are super huge. And those are both great
- 17:05episodes with really good stories from both of those, both
- 17:08of them so. Yeah.
- 17:11Yeah, I'm going to go with with 1 here.
- 17:13And again, I, I don't know, outside of Rick Pauly, the next
- 17:18person I, I would turn to and do turn to about pitching is Josh
- 17:22Johnson, Dr. Josh Johnson, you know, at Virginia Tech.
- 17:25I don't again, this is a guy who's who is absolutely pushing
- 17:28the envelope, you know, with bio mechanics and, and movement.
- 17:33And when he was talking about researching and talking to
- 17:37javelin throwers, right, for pitching, like that's just such
- 17:42outside the box and, and what's the correlation between those
- 17:46two? And just, again, that's a, and
- 17:48all of the stuff, the biomechanical assessments that
- 17:51he does down there in his lab, you know, and the guy is just in
- 17:54it like he's in it. He wants to learn, he and he
- 17:57also wants to help people. He has that wonderful newsletter
- 18:00that comes out. I think, you know, it's like, I
- 18:01think once a month or so on. And it's just filled with
- 18:04information and, and stuff on studies and, and just, you know,
- 18:09it's, it's just awesome. And so like to have a person
- 18:11like that. And again, who's a, who's a
- 18:14pitching coach, you know what an amazing, an amazing school with
- 18:18a tough conference. And yeah, so having Josh on here
- 18:22is just that was great. Just really great.
- 18:25Yeah, I mean, you know, I read his, you know, his, his
- 18:28newsletter every time it comes out.
- 18:30And half the time my head hurts when I'm done reading it.
- 18:33You know, just the, the studies that, you know, he comes across
- 18:36and all that. But it's, it's amazing to see
- 18:40the research that's out there and, and it isn't just the
- 18:43individual pieces, but when you start putting it all together in
- 18:46the aggregate, you really start to get a feeling of what you
- 18:51should be doing, what's important, what isn't important,
- 18:54what people waste time on as well.
- 18:57So, you know, I it's just, it's a great thing to read.
- 19:00So I, I got to tell you up the story, knew him prior when he
- 19:04was at Ball State. So I had him come up and talk to
- 19:07Illinois Coaches Association up, you know, years ago.
- 19:11That's that's where I kind of met him first.
- 19:12And we would converse here and there.
- 19:14And then when I was at Loyola, we were at Florida Atlantic and
- 19:17we were playing, he was at Mississippi State at, at the
- 19:20time there, he was a pitching coach there and, and all that.
- 19:22So we're all playing and, and I'm, I'm sitting behind home
- 19:27plate trying to watch and scout the other, the other teams and
- 19:31the pitchers and what not. And there's a gun, a stalker
- 19:35that's reading every pitch and every pitch, spin rate.
- 19:39And Josh has their GA there recording every pitch out of
- 19:42every pitcher's, not just not just his every pitcher's there
- 19:46like spin rate. And that's a person who wants
- 19:49that data is going to use that data.
- 19:50That's where data becomes important to you, right.
- 19:53Wasn't ball flight information, Ken, It was spin rate and speed.
- 19:57And so we got together later that weekend, went out and and
- 20:00had a a drink and something to eat and.
- 20:03We were just talking about that he was just like, yeah, you
- 20:05know, we're, you know, this person threw this, this hard and
- 20:07had this much spin and, you know, it was and that kind of
- 20:10thing. It's just that's the point.
- 20:11It was like he's such into that side of just exploring with data
- 20:15and the biomechanical stuff. So it was great.
- 20:19And also good to catch up with him there too.
- 20:21And it was great. Grateful that he came on our
- 20:23podcast especially early as we started too so.
- 20:25Yeah. I mean, that's the amazing
- 20:28thing, I think for, you know, all the guests that we've been
- 20:30able to, you know, pull off, but you know, we've started to get a
- 20:32following. You know, people are starting to
- 20:35know who we are and you know, we're definitely seeing we had
- 20:38some nice comments. This is the best softball
- 20:41podcast out there. But you know, there were some
- 20:44people that really took a chance that they'd be wasting their
- 20:47time coming on because we didn't have much out there.
- 20:51Guys like sheets and and, and Josh, you know, they, they came
- 20:55on very, very early on. You know, I mean, Rick's a
- 20:58friend, so it was nice of him to do that.
- 21:01But, you know, some of the others where, you know, they're
- 21:03more acquaintances or even people that we don't know very
- 21:06well and to just say, hey, you know, we'll do.
- 21:09Yeah, sure, I'll talk to you. And I think that's one of the
- 21:11great things about the whole softball community, by the way,
- 21:14is it's so giving. I think people are willing to
- 21:17share what they know. And nobody, well, I shouldn't
- 21:21say nobody because, you know, that's too all-encompassing.
- 21:23But I think that the majority of coaches, especially those who
- 21:27have accomplished some things, they know that they didn't get
- 21:29there by themselves. So they're more than happy to
- 21:32turn around and share what they know with others and help others
- 21:36grow. And and that's why we've seen
- 21:38the game improve so much, don't you think?
- 21:40I I agree 100%. Like I, I think that's it too.
- 21:43I also want to really quick talk about one another episode and
- 21:46it's kind of leads into what you're talking about.
- 21:49But the episode with Helen Pena at Ball State, that is something
- 21:52that is not in her realm. Like she does not like doing any
- 21:55of this and for her to step out of her comfort zone to do that,
- 22:00to come on here and talk to us like again, can that's the
- 22:03softball community, helping the softball community grow, right?
- 22:07And I think that's the that's the beauty of this is that it's
- 22:11really about giving back, right? Like we're trying to help other
- 22:14coaches. All these other coaches are
- 22:16trying to help other coaches, but at the same time, we're also
- 22:18helping each other, right? That was this was an Ave. for
- 22:21Helen to step out of her comfort zone and to do that.
- 22:23And she actually made a post on Twitter about it and was
- 22:26thankful to us for allowing her to have to do that.
- 22:29And I think, Ken, that's what this is about, right?
- 22:31Like that to me was that's the coolest thing ever for to hear
- 22:35that, you know, we helped another coach get out of their
- 22:39comfort zone so that they could grow.
- 22:41Man, that's that's the power of what this is really about,
- 22:44right? And to help others, it's about
- 22:47I'm going to take something from Sheets and I'm going to take
- 22:50something from Patrick Murphy. And that's servant leadership,
- 22:53right? And that is you doing it without
- 22:56having to get any of the credit for it, right?
- 22:58It's not about you or me, Ken. It's more about how we're
- 23:01helping other people. And like you said, I would, I
- 23:03think I told you this, I was at a coaches clinic which was held
- 23:09in Peoria. And I'm walking and they're
- 23:11like, hey, Coach J. And no idea who this person is.
- 23:15Love your podcast, man. You and Ken are great.
- 23:18Love listening to you. I like that.
- 23:21But like that right there. And I'm like, hey, so I walked
- 23:23over talking like thank you so much for listening.
- 23:25He's like, he's like, yeah, I listen to it every week.
- 23:27He's like, and my daughter as well.
- 23:28I make her listen to it too. And I'm like, I'm like, well,
- 23:31thank you for listening, you know, but that's I mean, that's
- 23:33what it's about, right? It's about just an Ave. to help
- 23:36other coaches grow and you know, and you do a lot of that with
- 23:40your your blog, your softball blog, that you do softball
- 23:43success. I mean, that's huge.
- 23:44I people read that all the time And and you know, I'm trying to
- 23:47get some more content out there on my page.
- 23:49That's just helping people and I think that's what it's about.
- 23:52So I thought that the episode with Helen was huge, not just
- 23:55for us, but for her as well too. So.
- 23:58Oh, that's so cool to hear. Yeah.
- 24:00I mean, I've been enjoying the content you've been putting out
- 24:02on your Facebook page. So you know, the be bold, fast
- 24:04pitch, everybody that's listening, you should be
- 24:07subscribing to that. And, you know, we're following
- 24:09it or whatever it is you do on Facebook.
- 24:11But yeah, you've had some great posts.
- 24:13In fact, you've made me jealous a couple of times.
- 24:15I'm like damn, I wish I would have written that one.
- 24:17It's just. I stole one.
- 24:19When you steal them all and, and I've like I've told you before,
- 24:22I've stolen plenty of your things too.
- 24:24It's not about stealing. It's about Sharon, right?
- 24:26Nobody is. No one's reinventing the wheel.
- 24:29It's just there. You know, those are just my
- 24:31thoughts. Like I just these thoughts pop
- 24:33in my head or something triggers me.
- 24:35Like I'll see something. I'm like, that's just that just
- 24:37triggers me, you know what I mean?
- 24:38And so I'm just like, OK, let's let's write this down, let's
- 24:42make it thoughtful so people understand it and then let's go
- 24:44from there. So I mean, yeah, I don't know,
- 24:46it's more of that. But it at the same time too, I
- 24:49don't want to put too much out there that I sound like I'm, you
- 24:51know, preaching and that's not where I'm at, so.
- 24:54Well, I don't have a problem doing that obviously.
- 24:56That's OK though. I've been doing that blog
- 24:59forever so. Yeah, and it's a great blog.
- 25:01It's awesome. Well, I and I've gotten to the
- 25:03point now where sometimes I have to go into the blog and I have
- 25:06to search on a topic or a title that I came up with.
- 25:11And sometimes I find, yeah, yeah, that is a great title.
- 25:13And I thought so eight years ago when I wrote that blog post.
- 25:17So got to come up with something else, another one that I want to
- 25:20talk about. You know, I mean, we had, I
- 25:22mean, we loved every guest that we've had so far at least.
- 25:25So I almost feel bad doing this just because, you know, if we
- 25:28don't mention someone who was on there, I hope that they don't
- 25:31feel bad. It's just these are kind of off
- 25:34the top of the head. But anyway, I want to talk about
- 25:36Rob Cruz, you know, so he's a hitting guy and just talking to
- 25:41Rob. He, you know, he has his own
- 25:43podcast. He talks to Rick Paulie now and
- 25:46then he talks to a lot of other great people and you know, just
- 25:49it's fun. First of all, the listen to his
- 25:51cadence and the way he talks. It's kind of laid back, but he's
- 25:55got a lot of stuff and a lot of great ideas.
- 25:58And I loved how he talked about, you know, how next year at this
- 26:02time, I may be teaching something completely different.
- 26:05It's all about, you know what I learned and you know what works
- 26:09and, and trying to individualize the instruction to the player.
- 26:13You know, also talking about, you know, he loves to talk about
- 26:16the SEC and says, you know, what works, you know, on your local
- 26:20travel team may not work at the SEC level.
- 26:23So you want to always be looking.
- 26:25Don't take success for granted. Don't, you know, mistake success
- 26:29for being really, really good at what you're doing.
- 26:32You know, always get out there and try to see what are the best
- 26:35in the world doing, how are they going about doing it?
- 26:38What are their similarities? What are their differences?
- 26:41What's important, what isn't, and how do you get yourself
- 26:45better every single day? Yeah, and did you see the last
- 26:49episode with him and Rick Paulie?
- 26:50Yeah, yeah. Oh, that is if you, if you're
- 26:53listening to this podcast right now, go find Rob Cruz's last
- 26:56episode with Rick Paulie on it about how the game, what is it's
- 27:00the travel ball, right? How travel ball has has changed
- 27:03and those kinds of things, right?
- 27:05Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I watched.
- 27:07I got most of it, watched almost all of it and I can't remember
- 27:10the title of it, but it was absolutely fantastic and it's a
- 27:13must watch, must watch and listen to for parents.
- 27:16It's really good, really good, so.
- 27:19Yeah, and I, I listen to it a lot of my podcast listening
- 27:23happens in the car, you know, when I'm driving, driving the
- 27:26lessons and, and all that. So I don't get to see too many.
- 27:29That's kind of one of the reasons why I think we felt it
- 27:32was never important to do video for our podcast because we are,
- 27:38you know, we're the type that listen more than we watch.
- 27:41You know, there are certain times when video would be
- 27:43helpful, but as you always say, Jay, you and I have faces for
- 27:47radio, so. This is a very true statement.
- 27:49So one that I want to talk about is Emma Lemley, right?
- 27:53Like we had in here, we have an Athletes Unlimited player come
- 27:56on our podcast to talk to us and to talk about pitching.
- 27:59And I'm pretty sure that we're going to have an Athletes
- 28:01Unlimited coach come on here hopefully next year, Ken and I
- 28:05think. The.
- 28:07Works of putting that together and I think that's going to be
- 28:09great because we can ask some questions about what that league
- 28:12is like and and the growth of that league and I think that's
- 28:15used to but Emma was great and what a great person to talk to
- 28:18super bubbly and and you know my favorite quote from her is like
- 28:22I still throw the ball over the catcher's head like that.
- 28:25Like here you get like, you know I, it's I say it all the time to
- 28:28my my players. I'll throw one that's super high
- 28:30and I'm like, hey, listen, Emma Lemley was on my podcast and
- 28:33said she still does that. So we're OK, you're OK too.
- 28:36You'll lock it in. But I thought that was a great
- 28:38episode as well too, so. Yeah, I was working with the new
- 28:41pitching student last night. That was her second lesson and
- 28:44trying to get her out of her comfort zone, get, you know,
- 28:46bring more of the athlete out in her, get her more aggressive.
- 28:49I think she's still kind of of the mindset that she has to
- 28:53throw the ball over the plate or at least to within her dad's
- 28:57reach. And I was telling her, I said,
- 28:59you know, have you ever watched a game, you know, college game
- 29:02on TV? So they throw balls away, too,
- 29:05you know, I mean, yeah. I mean, when you're working at
- 29:08it, you know, and especially in the cage or something like that,
- 29:11you know, don't feel like you have to be careful.
- 29:14Get out there and you push that envelope, find out what you can
- 29:16do. You know success lives out there
- 29:19on the edge of the envelope. Yep, I agree.
- 29:23So I've just got a couple more Ken and we can go through all of
- 29:25them. I've listened to every single
- 29:27one of them, you know, and and I love all of them and there's
- 29:29some really good highlights and all of those.
- 29:32But I I would be I would kick myself if I didn't talk about
- 29:36the Carrie Blalock one. I mean, I'm, I'm a Saluki and
- 29:39that was that was a great moment just for me to talk to her
- 29:43because what she did there at SIU, you know, for me was meant
- 29:47a lot. And you know, I would I would
- 29:49still go down there if I had some of my kids that I had that
- 29:52were at other schools that would go play SIU in in March.
- 29:55I would try to get down there on the weekend, stay the weekend
- 29:58and go see all the old stomping grounds.
- 29:59But and plus just the knowledge that she had another Hall of
- 30:04Famer on here who's was and again.
- 30:06Walking the Hall of Famer. Yeah, yeah.
- 30:09And and talking about still doing it the right way, that
- 30:12it's about the relationships, right And how her coaching has
- 30:16changed over the years for that. It's it's really about making
- 30:19the connections with those players.
- 30:21And I think for her, you know, she's seen that because now that
- 30:25she's moved on from SIU and kind of retired from there, but still
- 30:29helping at Johnny Logan all the time she's spending now with her
- 30:32former players playing golf or going to weddings.
- 30:35And I think that's that's when you have a chance to look back
- 30:38on on that career and be like, yeah, you know, I actually did
- 30:40do it the right way. And so that was a great episode
- 30:43for me, Meant a lot to me. As you can see, every morning I
- 30:46wake up there, Ken, and get that SISIU alumni coffee going.
- 30:51And yeah, I'm proud of proud of that.
- 30:53And, and was really great to talk to her.
- 30:55So I meant a lot to me. Yeah, now that was a great
- 30:58conversation for sure. In fact, I mentioned her last
- 31:01night to one of my students and just talking about how we talked
- 31:04to her and some of the things that, you know, she was saying
- 31:07and, and about how, you know, when she went back to watch.
- 31:11And I asked her if she said sits in the bad parent section.
- 31:14And she says, Oh yeah, absolutely.
- 31:18Yeah, that's great. You know, filling a part.
- 31:20Yeah, actually, that was Courtney.
- 31:22She mentioned that. She said, yeah, my, yeah, my dad
- 31:24sits out in the outfield, you know, and says way behind the
- 31:26fence, you know, and he's doing game changer at the same time.
- 31:30So, you know, he must be really depending on those umpire
- 31:33signals. But yeah, you know, it's just I
- 31:36think that he people will look at it and say, you know, I don't
- 31:39want to get in my daughter's way.
- 31:41I just want to go out there and enjoy the games and see what
- 31:44she's doing and, and root for her and root for her team mates
- 31:47and, and, you know, that's, that's the fun part of it.
- 31:51You know, that's what people have to remember.
- 31:53I think sometimes there's too much emphasis on the recruiting
- 31:57aspect. Not everybody wants to play in
- 31:59college, right? Not everybody's going to be able
- 32:02to play at the college that they would like to go to.
- 32:06So that's a consideration as well.
- 32:08You know, I mean, I've certainly seen it.
- 32:10If you really want to play, there's a place for you, but it
- 32:13may not always align with the type of school that you want to
- 32:16go to. If you want to go to a big
- 32:18school and you don't have big school ability, then you know,
- 32:21maybe you'll have to play club there, which is another viable
- 32:24option for you. Or if it's really important to
- 32:26you to play softball, then you may, you know, you're going to
- 32:29have to maybe go to a different type of school then would be
- 32:31your first choice. So those are options that people
- 32:35have to, you know, consider as they go into it.
- 32:39But you know, the point being that the originally people were
- 32:44playing softball because it's fun, they like to compete, they
- 32:48enjoy the game. Sometimes it's gotten a little
- 32:51too much about college recruiting and, you know, you
- 32:54forget the original purpose of it.
- 32:56So hopefully, you know, we'll remember more of that and you
- 32:59know, more of that will come out and just get out there and enjoy
- 33:02the game. And then you know, the rest of
- 33:04that is gravy. Yeah, I agree.
- 33:07I agree. Great points on all of that,
- 33:09Ken. So do you have any others you
- 33:11want to share? Because if not, I want to switch
- 33:13gears a little bit if you're OK with it.
- 33:15OK. I think, you know, the only
- 33:17other one I'm going to mention right now was just because he's
- 33:19local to us, Joe Kinsella over at Lake Forest, You know,
- 33:24there's a guy that's been there at that school for a long time.
- 33:27He's been doing it right. He talked about how he has
- 33:31pictures that are all over the place.
- 33:33He puts together a staff. He doesn't look for five kids
- 33:36that can throw 65 miles an hour. He's got one of those.
- 33:40He's got one that throws 50 miles an hour with great spin.
- 33:43He has other girls that do other things and, you know, really
- 33:46tries to mix it up. And, you know, he uses his
- 33:50pictures as a toolbox, which is, you know, I think it's a great
- 33:54thing. You know, it's to find different
- 33:57players that can contribute different things.
- 33:59I know he does that all the way through the lineup, you know,
- 34:02but it's really the, the people aspect of it.
- 34:05So I I enjoyed listening to him talk about all that stuff.
- 34:08And he's just a great guy. Like I've worked several camps
- 34:11with him and every time it's just, it's always a pleasure.
- 34:14He just, he does it the right way.
- 34:16The information he gives out to the kids, the players is just
- 34:19incredible. And he's just a good guy.
- 34:21And that's why he's always there.
- 34:22They always invite him because he's good.
- 34:24They wouldn't invite you if you're not good, right?
- 34:26So right. You know, same with you.
- 34:28That's why you get invited, because.
- 34:29You're good. I'm like the last straw.
- 34:31They're like, hey, listen, somebody got sick on the way
- 34:34here. Can you be here in 15 minutes?
- 34:36Oh, that's not true. I'm sure that you're a top
- 34:38choice there, Jay. OK, but anyway, he just does it
- 34:42the right way. And and I remember the first
- 34:44time I met him and and worked a college camp with him, I was
- 34:47like, yeah, I like this guy. He does it the right way.
- 34:49You know, the way his interaction with the players was
- 34:51great too. So yeah, Joe's great.
- 34:53And he's and again, he's got a great program up there at Lake
- 34:56Forest and he does it the right way and he's and he knows what
- 34:58he's looking for and and it it's it's awesome.
- 35:01So yeah, that was a great episode too.
- 35:03And he's local to us, which is great.
- 35:05So but I want to switch, I want to switch gears a little bit.
- 35:08Ken, we've talked a lot about all these awesome episodes.
- 35:12I want to talk not so much about episodes, but you can throw them
- 35:14in there if you want. Two things I want to talk about
- 35:17real quick is, is what are you looking forward to you
- 35:21personally, right? Doesn't have to be podcast
- 35:23related in the new year in 2026. Could be something that you want
- 35:27to you're looking forward to learning about doing more
- 35:31lessons. I don't know whatever that might
- 35:32be. And then the other one on that
- 35:35is now that I now that I said that I forgot what the other one
- 35:38was. Oh, now it pops back in that 50
- 35:42plus age range is that wonderful thing.
- 35:44What are you looking for for this upcoming college softball
- 35:48season? Because honestly, Ken, we're
- 35:50literally about, I want to say what, 6 to 8 weeks away from the
- 35:55first pitch being thrown? We've got softball that's coming
- 35:59first week of February up at the Rosemont Dome.
- 36:01DePaul has their Dome up there. Got some great teams coming in.
- 36:05People, people will be down in Florida, all those wonderful
- 36:07tournaments. So what are you looking forward
- 36:09to personally and then what are you looking forward to for this
- 36:13softball season? All righty.
- 36:14Well, I think, you know, that'll relate to the last episode we
- 36:19recorded with Prashant or Prashant, sorry, I keep saying
- 36:22his name backwards. It's Prashant and you know,
- 36:26action types learning about that.
- 36:28I'm really looking forward to, you know, diving into that and
- 36:31learning more about how people move and the mental aspect of
- 36:35it, the personality aspects of it so that I can even do a
- 36:39better job of working with my kids and helping them to find
- 36:43the optimal way to do things. Another thing I'm looking
- 36:46forward to is I've got some new tech on the way.
- 36:49We had heard about Panther tech. They have a sensor you can put
- 36:54on that helps with proprioception.
- 36:56I don't know about you, but I get some kids every now and then
- 36:58I'll ask them, you know, did you feel that?
- 37:00And I'll say, no, they have no idea where they are in space.
- 37:05And so this will help to give them an indication you set the
- 37:09range of where they should be. And you can either have it buzz
- 37:13and vibrate or Bing and vibrate, whatever it does, if they're in
- 37:18the right range or if they get outside of the right range, you
- 37:20can either use it as positive or negative type of reinforcement.
- 37:24But, you know, something to help, you know, I already have
- 37:27two or three kids in mind that, you know, I think, OK, if I can
- 37:30get them to feel it with this, then it'll help shortcut that
- 37:35learning curve. So those are a couple of the the
- 37:38things personally that I'm looking for as far as a college
- 37:42season, Gosh, you know, it's just so incredible to watch.
- 37:46I have my DVR set to, you know, to capture pretty much, I guess
- 37:51every game that's on TV, or at least it's on certain channels,
- 37:54I don't get to actually watch them all.
- 37:57At some point I have to just go through and clear out forty of
- 37:59them. But it's just such a such a
- 38:04great thing to see. It will be interesting to see
- 38:07how, you know, there's that whole leaping thing going on now
- 38:11the, you know, the semi crow hop and to see is that going to be
- 38:15called? Are they going to be watching it
- 38:17or are people just going to be jumping like Bruce Lee, you
- 38:21know, ninja leaps to get, you know, to land and then throw the
- 38:26pitch from there? So I'm curious to see how that's
- 38:28going to affect the game or if it's going to affect the game or
- 38:32if it's going to get called, if they're going to allow it, you
- 38:34know, And then other than that, of course, always just seeing
- 38:37great players doing what they love to do.
- 38:40How about you? Well, I think personally, I'm,
- 38:44I'm on the same line, along the same lines with you, the, the
- 38:46action types of something I really want to dig into.
- 38:50I feel that that's going to help again, how we can connect the
- 38:52brain to movement and why this happens or that happens.
- 38:56And, you know, big loop, small loop are, are things I really
- 38:59want to dig into and helping kids or players get back to
- 39:03where they're in the big loop. And so I, you know, I think
- 39:06that's one of the biggest things where I just want to dive in on
- 39:09that and, and get as much information as possible.
- 39:12So that's, that's the one area I really, I really want to focus
- 39:15on personally. Again, learning as much as I can
- 39:18from our group, I think is another thing to trying and
- 39:21exploring new things, thinking outside of the box on some of
- 39:23these things, allowing kids to move the way their bodies meant
- 39:26to move, I think is important. So I think that's personally
- 39:29where I want to be for the softball season.
- 39:32What I'm really hoping my favorite part of this is when I
- 39:37love the mid majors because some of those kids were overlooked by
- 39:40these Power 4, Power 5 schools, right?
- 39:43And I feel like seeing what mid major is going to be ranked in
- 39:47the top 25, right? Like last year we had Florida
- 39:49Atlantic that had some really good stuff.
- 39:51Liberty, right? There's another one I mean.
- 39:54Yeah, that was a Cinderella story.
- 39:56What Louisiana, yeah, what Louisiana Tech did to LSU last
- 40:02year, not just once but twice, shows you that it's not always
- 40:05about how hard you throw the ball.
- 40:06It's about how you make people miss it.
- 40:08And defense and speed put pressure on defenses.
- 40:12And I think that was something that was really important.
- 40:15And how important defensive is at that, at that level.
- 40:18It's funny. Can I want to?
- 40:19I want to move. Sidebar off of this is I had AI
- 40:22had a kid come in the other day and they were talking like, Oh
- 40:25yeah, you know, I only had like 4 strikeouts and I'm like,
- 40:28that's amazing. You know, I'm like, look at the
- 40:30women's College World Series. Like you don't see double digit
- 40:34strikeouts every game, right? All those kids can hit, you
- 40:37know, even in our level NAIA, D2D3, everybody can hit.
- 40:40So you're going to see less and less of that.
- 40:43And that's where the defense really has to be a part of it.
- 40:45So I'm like, you're getting 4 strikeouts.
- 40:46That's pretty Dang good. Let's let's continue to build
- 40:49from there. And I think people need to
- 40:50realize that it's it's the older you get, the harder the hitters
- 40:53are to get out. And we need to make sure you
- 40:56understand your defense is just as important.
- 40:58So getting that weak contact and stuff like that.
- 41:01So I'm I'm interested in digging into into that.
- 41:05And again, watching what mid majors can act can can make some
- 41:09noise. I just I love it and yeah,
- 41:11that's to me the biggest thing and I want to go watch can you
- 41:14know, like the first weekend in February, I want to get up there
- 41:17to the Rosemont Dome and I want to go see some of my kids throw.
- 41:20I've got five, I think 5 kids that are going to be up there
- 41:23that weekend and see him. Yeah, it's, you know, Ken, this
- 41:26is something I and and I again, I had AI had one of those
- 41:30moments of OK, yeah, I, I think I'm, I think I'm doing a good
- 41:34job, right? Like, yeah.
- 41:35And I was like, wow, this, I'm going to have 17 kids this year,
- 41:39Ken, that are going to be pitching at the Division One
- 41:41level. Wow, that, that's amazing, Jay.
- 41:43And I can't like it's just, it's humbling.
- 41:46I'm not even knocking like, you know, division two and any I and
- 41:49D 32. I'm proud of all those two.
- 41:50But it's just like, wow, like, OK, like you take a look back at
- 41:53that and and and it just humbles you.
- 41:56And I'm grateful. I'm grateful, you know, like
- 41:58grateful that those those parents and those people
- 42:01believed in what I'm doing. And I know you feel the same way
- 42:04too, Ken, that, you know, people believe in what we're doing and
- 42:07I think that's, that's huge. So, but yeah, I was a very
- 42:10humble moment. So I'm excited to go see them
- 42:12and watch what they can do this year, good or bad.
- 42:14You know, I'm still, I'm still there pitching coach and I'm
- 42:16still there to help them as much as I can.
- 42:18And it's, it's cool. It's, it's great, though, this
- 42:21time of year for me too, is, is fun because they all come back
- 42:24and they still want to do lessons, you know, and it's so
- 42:27cool. It's so cool.
- 42:28I'm like, they come back and guess what?
- 42:30Guess what? We're still working on stuff.
- 42:32It's not like they just made it like, here we go.
- 42:34We got to fine tune it again. Let's get after it.
- 42:36So those are the two things that I'm looking for one, personally
- 42:40and both watching this softball season.
- 42:42Plus, I would be mad at myself if I did not mention that I'm
- 42:46super excited for what Saint Xavier is going to do this year.
- 42:50Like, our goals are there, our kids are there, we're excited.
- 42:53I'm excited to get this going. We have a hard schedule this
- 42:56year and I can't wait to see what our kids can do because
- 42:59they've put a lot of hard work in and I'm excited for our
- 43:01pitching staff this year. That's great.
- 43:03So do you think you've got a shot at the, you know, whatever
- 43:07the World Series, you know, the season ending tournament?
- 43:11I I think we do can, we've made it to regionals every year and
- 43:14that's by winning your conference.
- 43:16And we get out to the regional and we'll play some tougher
- 43:19competition. And it's, they're tight games.
- 43:21And our head coach has done a great job of, of putting some
- 43:24tighter games towards the end of our schedule this year just so
- 43:27we can have that feeling when we go there.
- 43:29And I think that's important. And we start out where we,
- 43:32we're, we play some tough competition.
- 43:34We come out play like the number 14 team in the nation in the
- 43:38first, the first game out. So there's that.
- 43:40Then we go to a couple tournaments where we're playing
- 43:42in the top ten. We go down to Gulf Shores.
- 43:44We're playing more teams in the top ten, you know, and I think
- 43:48that's it. We just we got to I just got to
- 43:51get over the hump and I think this is this year is is the year
- 43:54that we can do it. It's it's there, the talent is
- 43:56there, the coaching is there. The kids are bought in and I'm
- 43:59excited to see it And and again, I think they can do it.
- 44:02I really think they can do it. So.
- 44:04That's great. I mean, I'm, I'm glad to hear
- 44:06that. Good luck with that.
- 44:07I, you know, I, you never know what's going to happen in the
- 44:10season. You know, you get a couple of
- 44:12key injuries and all of a sudden you're scrambling, you know,
- 44:15but, but you know, next person up right, they have to go in
- 44:18there. You know, every, every negative
- 44:20like that, that, you know, where there's an injury or, you know,
- 44:23something happens. Some, you know, maybe there's a
- 44:25death in the family and somebody can't make a game or something
- 44:28and you give somebody else an opportunity to step up and show
- 44:32what they can do. And I think, you know, so that's
- 44:34one of those things that you know, that I want to just talk
- 44:37about real quick for those, you know, kids that are on the
- 44:40bench, you know, maybe you're not playing, you know, if it's
- 44:43travel ball, you're not maybe playing on Sundays.
- 44:46Get yourself ready. Always be ready to come in
- 44:49because you can't always tell when you're going to get your
- 44:52opportunity. But when it comes along, you got
- 44:55to be ready to do it. You got to be able to step in
- 44:57there. You have to be able to show
- 45:00that, hey, you know, I can do the job and you know, you do
- 45:03that and you just never know. It could wind up in, resulting
- 45:08in more playing time for you down the road.
- 45:11Yep, you have to be prepared. I think that's a big thing.
- 45:14A lot of these colleges have large rosters and when it's your
- 45:18moment is called, you have to be ready to do it.
- 45:21And then guess what happens then if you do it in that moment,
- 45:24you're going to get more moments.
- 45:25And again, continue to do that. So, and I say it all the time,
- 45:29be a great teammate first. That's the most important thing,
- 45:31right? Be the best of, be the best of
- 45:34whatever role you have to be that day.
- 45:37If that's being in the dugout cheering your team teammate on,
- 45:40then you'd be the best person that does that.
- 45:42If that's coming in as a pinch runner, then you do that, right?
- 45:46If it's coming in as a pinch hitter, be the best that you can
- 45:48be at that and be prepared to do it.
- 45:50So and yeah, I'm excited. This college season is I think
- 45:54is going to be great, you know, both at the highest level and
- 45:57you know, I love watching the D2 stuff.
- 45:59You know, you got Lewis University out there and you got
- 46:02University of Indian Indies are both great programs.
- 46:05We've got our buddy Kyle up there at Hillsdale, another good
- 46:09D2 program. It's going to be exciting to see
- 46:12what these these programs do at all all these different levels.
- 46:15So yeah. Right.
- 46:16Yeah, You know, Speaking of D2, I've got my girl Jenna Kosnoff
- 46:20down at Maryville. I'm excited to see what her, her
- 46:23season's going to look like this year.
- 46:25She she's been starting since she was a freshman.
- 46:28She's gotten better every year. A big hitter for them, you know,
- 46:32big stick. I think they, you know, they're
- 46:33putting her into a larger role. So, you know, it'll, it'll be
- 46:38fun to see that part of it. I always love watching, you
- 46:41know, when my kids are playing in college, you know, they do
- 46:44make it and, you know, they're out there and love to see the
- 46:47stuff they're doing. And yeah, I'll be seeing Jenna.
- 46:50I think over the break. I'm going to see Juliana from
- 46:54North Central. She's coming in for a couple
- 46:57pitching lessons just to get tuned up before the season
- 47:00starts. Maybe Gwen, you know, a couple
- 47:03of others. So, you know, looking forward to
- 47:06reconnecting with them, seeing where they are, you know,
- 47:09hearing their stories, you know, some good, some bad.
- 47:12But some of I think what we do with our kids sometimes, you
- 47:16know, depending on what school they're at or what their
- 47:17situation is, you know, we're counselling.
- 47:20We're helping them with that mental part of the game, helping
- 47:23them get ready for whatever is going to come up.
- 47:26Yeah, I'm putting them to work, too.
- 47:28I have one of my kids from Toledo who's coming home and
- 47:31she's going to be at my, you know, my daughter's practices.
- 47:35For a. Break yeah she'll be there and
- 47:37we'll be doing some last season pitcher and utility player there
- 47:39so she's coming in going to be going to be working with my
- 47:42daughter's 11 U team so it's exciting to it's I love when
- 47:46they get a chance to to give back to the game it just means a
- 47:49lot to me so you know and I'm sure it does for you too so.
- 47:53Awesome. Yeah, absolutely.
- 47:55You know, it's just, you know, this is the time of the year
- 47:58where we reflect back on everything.
- 48:00And I think for the From the Coach's Mouth podcast, it's been
- 48:03a, you know, a great first year. You know, I haven't gone back
- 48:07and listened to the really early episodes.
- 48:10You know, I mean, the one with Rick was pretty raw.
- 48:13I'm sure you know, I mean we. Had to find our footing.
- 48:16Yeah, You know, we've gotten, hopefully we've gotten better at
- 48:20it. I hate to think we got worse in
- 48:21our approach. We kind of found our rhythm.
- 48:23I'll say this, Ken, like I've listened to plenty of.
- 48:25Podcasts and the our flow is really good, right?
- 48:31Like the way that you take care of things on your end to make it
- 48:35sound it is it's it is. Well, it is well done because
- 48:39I've heard other ones. They just hop on and go here we
- 48:41go. And then there's nothing.
- 48:42I mean, I'm like, man, our even my wife goes, man, you guys
- 48:44sound really professional. I'm like, yeah, funny, ain't it?
- 48:48As far from that as possible, but I mean it really does.
- 48:51So again, thanks for you. Thanks to you for all you do.
- 48:55Again, this is a 2 headed monster and there's nobody else
- 48:58I'd rather be along this journey with than you, buddy.
- 49:00So I appreciate you. Same here Jay and I appreciate
- 49:04you everything. You do.
- 49:05You've lined up some great guests for us, you know, and are
- 49:09continuing to do so. I'm excited for who we're going
- 49:11to have coming on in the new year.
- 49:13And I think it's just going to keep getting better and better
- 49:16and, you know, getting more insights and hopefully, again,
- 49:19people are finding value in what we're doing, finding that, you
- 49:24know, certain things at least resonate with them.
- 49:27They go Oh, and that's, you know, I think why we try to
- 49:30sometimes get, you know, coaches to talk about, you know, their
- 49:34insecurities or their, you know, do you ever feel like a failure?
- 49:39Do you ever feel like, what am I doing?
- 49:40You know, I should just give it up And it's it's always amazing
- 49:43to hear those high level coaches that we get to speak with who
- 49:46have, you know, the same concerns that, you know,
- 49:49everybody else does. Yep, I agree and I'm.
- 49:53Excited to have more of them on here so they can share that with
- 49:55more people. So we, you guys know you're not
- 49:57alone out there. And, and some days it's great
- 50:00and some days it's just not so great.
- 50:01You know, that's the journey of coaching and journey of playing
- 50:04sports too, right? So, yeah.
- 50:07Well, anything else can you want to talk about?
- 50:10No, I think that pretty much wraps it up.
- 50:12For today. Awesome.
- 50:14Well, everybody who's listening. I'll let Ken close it out, but
- 50:17just wanted to say again, thank you.
- 50:18And it's been a great year for us.
- 50:20It's, it's, it's blossomed into something that I think Ken and I
- 50:23both didn't know it could get to.
- 50:25And we're excited to continue to do it.
- 50:27And we're both driven to, to continue to, to provide good,
- 50:30good stuff for you guys out there.
- 50:32But can't thank you enough for those of you clicking like and
- 50:34sharing it and coming into lessons and saying, hey, listen
- 50:37to the podcast. And it was great today we're
- 50:38saying screaming at Ken and I going, hey, we're sending us
- 50:41that message like that means a lot to Ken.
- 50:44And I know Ken and I have both shared messages with we shared
- 50:47with each other and from people that have said, man, I really
- 50:49love it what you guys are doing. So we appreciate you and thank
- 50:52you for listening. And I hope you all have a very
- 50:55Merry Christmas and a happy holiday and a great happy New
- 50:58year to all of you and where you look forward to 2026 for sure.
- 51:02Yes. And I I second that, you know.
- 51:04Merry Christmas, happy Hanukkah, happy Kwanzaa, whatever,
- 51:09whatever it is. If you know, if you're a Druid
- 51:11and you celebrate Saturnalia, you know, great for you too.
- 51:16Anything like whatever holiday, whatever winter holiday you're
- 51:19celebrating, that's great. Try to take some time off if you
- 51:22can, you know, get a little bit of downtime in there.
- 51:24You get yourself revved up for the next year.
- 51:26All righty. So that's it for us this week.
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