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- 0:00They say we're loud, opinionated, afraid Telling
- 0:05us to hush, dim our historical light But, darlings,
- 0:09we're the Harpies, sharp and keen Unveiling the
- 0:12truth behind the silver screen History Harpies
- 0:17hear us roar Through the ages we explore Hi,
- 0:24welcome to History Harpies I'm Lauren And I'm
- 0:26Christine And we welcome you for a very Friendsgiving
- 0:31episode. Oh, Friendsgiving. You are correct.
- 0:34Yes. I do wonder whether we're going to have
- 0:36time before Thanksgiving to do another episode,
- 0:39but this could be considered a pre -Thanksgiving
- 0:42episode where we give thanks for the gift that
- 0:45is, drum roll, sexual harassment. Yes, this is
- 0:51going to be the topic of what is our 14th episode.
- 0:54We are going to be talking about some films that
- 0:57deal with teachers and students and harassment
- 1:01on all sides or harassment on different sides.
- 1:05Maybe we should say bad behavior, some good behavior
- 1:08and a lot of rumors and a lot of rumors. And
- 1:12certainly we also have going a lot of power differentials.
- 1:15I guess we could probably do a whole elaborate
- 1:18thing where we spun this out, Lauren, to turn
- 1:21power differentials into a conversation about
- 1:23Thanksgiving and like the American founding or
- 1:26something. But let's not do that. Let's not.
- 1:28Let's not do that. Let's not. But I am going
- 1:30to say before we start that I think we've appropriately
- 1:32bridged Halloween and Thanksgiving because I
- 1:36just brought you a present of your favorite candy,
- 1:40which came from my son's Halloween bag. But here's
- 1:43what you don't know. And you said that too. Here's
- 1:44what you don't know, because I didn't want to
- 1:46spoil the gifts at the time. Right before you
- 1:49came, I went to CVS and bought myself a pack
- 1:52of Twizzlers. Oh my goodness. But yours was so
- 1:56special. The thoughts that count. Yes. And I
- 1:58am looking forward to perhaps turkey flavored
- 2:01Twizzlers in honor of Thanksgiving. I'm going
- 2:05to vomit now. And pretty soon we'll be heading
- 2:08to our Thanksgiving traditions where we can Spend
- 2:12time with family and whatever that means. Whatever
- 2:15that means. Whatever that means. For all families.
- 2:18For all families. Whatever that means. Yeah.
- 2:20Yeah. this is also a nice segue from Thanksgiving
- 2:24to hunting, because the first thing we're going,
- 2:27isn't that fantastic? I didn't even practice
- 2:28that one. Oh, girl, you are on it. Zipping around.
- 2:32Zipping around. So the first thing we want to
- 2:34talk about is a very recent film that came out.
- 2:37And then we're going to talk about a couple of
- 2:38older ones that pertain to our theme. So the
- 2:42first film we want to talk about is called After
- 2:44the Hunt and came out fairly recently in 2025
- 2:48and a film that in some ways got a lot of buzz
- 2:52initially, but the buzz faded pretty quickly.
- 2:56It's interesting because I told somebody what
- 2:58we were talking about this week, the three films.
- 3:00And of course, I didn't think they would have
- 3:02heard of the older films, but they said, well,
- 3:05I haven't heard of any of those films. And I
- 3:07said, oh, OK. I said, well, this is this Julia
- 3:10Roberts vehicle. And so the idea is Well, as
- 3:16two professors, we felt that we had to go and
- 3:19see this film about academia and Yale specifically
- 3:25in this particular film and Julia Roberts playing
- 3:28a professor and to investigate how well it captures
- 3:34academia and some of its flaws and the film in
- 3:38general. So the idea is that Julia Roberts is
- 3:42a philosophy professor at Yale who for, right?
- 3:47Philosophy. Yes, philosophy. For reasons that
- 3:50we're unsure is still doesn't have any tenure.
- 3:53Still does not have tenure. Even though she is
- 3:56Julia Roberts. And so is in her mid fifties,
- 3:59at least. Yes. And in the film is Although there
- 4:04are some medical reasons, or maybe she took a
- 4:08few leaves, or I don't know, extensions. It's
- 4:12unclear. It's unclear why she is not a full professor.
- 4:15But she is not a full professor. And listeners,
- 4:17let me just say one thing, because I'm going
- 4:19to clarify it for you. Please. All right. And
- 4:21I'm not telling you, Christine, anything. No,
- 4:23I understand. I understand. Tenure is not this
- 4:27nebulous thing that one person in the world gets.
- 4:31There are very explicit rules in every department.
- 4:36Procedures. Procedures about how you get tenure,
- 4:40what you need to publish, and what you submit
- 4:43and when. And most people get it. Yes. Okay?
- 4:47Criteria. calendars and most people are successful.
- 4:50It is like a promotion at work. It is a promotion
- 4:53at work. So the idea that in this department
- 4:56either Julia Roberts or the Andrew Garfield character
- 5:01who's a much younger assistant professor named
- 5:03Hank are vying for tenure And only one of them
- 5:07can be the chosen is ridiculous. So we have this,
- 5:12this ridiculous scenario in which these two are
- 5:14presented as being very close friends, close
- 5:17colleagues. They are both in the same department.
- 5:20But yes, as you say, Lauren, the film presents
- 5:23to us that they are competing for tenure, which
- 5:26as we know is ludicrous. And I have to say if
- 5:30If Lauren and I had to compete for tenure, the
- 5:32entire department would collapse. It really would.
- 5:35I mean, just nobody would ever want only one
- 5:37of us. I think we have to make that very, very
- 5:39clear. So we have then this point of tension
- 5:42in the film. And actually, didn't we go off for
- 5:45tenure at the same time? We did. We did. up at
- 5:47the same time and we both got it. And we both
- 5:50got it. So our own experience refutes this film.
- 5:52Yes, as it does every experience, certainly.
- 5:55Although I do like the idea of these kind of
- 5:57cage match competitions over tenure. We had that
- 6:00in our department. I would not complain, actually,
- 6:03because that might mean that. OK, anyway. So
- 6:06this is a point of controversy and conflict in
- 6:10the relationship of these two people, again,
- 6:12played by Julia Roberts and Andrew Garfield.
- 6:13But what is more of a controversy, although it
- 6:17does relate to the tenure question, is that there
- 6:20is a graduate student, I just want to call her
- 6:23Sydney, because she plays Sydney in The Bear.
- 6:27And in this film she's called Maggie, she is
- 6:29the child of billionaires, and we are told pretty
- 6:31explicitly that she is not a talented graduate
- 6:34student. I know Lauren, but this is a shock.
- 6:38Because, okay, so, but here's the other thing.
- 6:41So she is a black woman. She's a queer woman.
- 6:44She is open about her non -normative gender identity.
- 6:50Yes, is in a relationship with a non -binary
- 6:52person. Right. So she is someone who is very
- 6:56openly expressing her identity and also at the
- 7:01same time talking about I guess, separating herself
- 7:05from the legacy of her parents or at least other
- 7:08people perceive it that way. She doesn't she
- 7:10doesn't have to live in like a crappy New Haven
- 7:14hole. She could live anywhere. Yes. And she and
- 7:17she lives in the crappy New Haven hole. Yes.
- 7:19And the unkind way to describe it is that she
- 7:21is cosplaying a poverty that she does not experience.
- 7:24And this is something that the Julia Roberts
- 7:26character in effect accuses her of later. It's
- 7:29germane to the story. It's germane to the story.
- 7:32And so. we have then a student who is very, very
- 7:35close to the Julia Roberts character, sort of
- 7:38mimics her. There's a sense of real intimacy
- 7:41in the friendship with her. And certainly one
- 7:43of the things that is shocking about this film
- 7:46that really makes it seem incredibly dated and
- 7:50out of this era is we're shown an image of relationships
- 7:53between graduate students and professors that
- 7:55simply does not exist anymore. That is the Julia
- 7:58Roberts character has all these graduate students
- 8:00over to her house. It's very clear that this
- 8:03is a regular occurrence. They are talking about
- 8:05intimate relationships. They're on sofas next
- 8:08to one another. They're touching each other,
- 8:10kissing each other. They know where the bathrooms
- 8:12are. They're very familiar. with the surroundings
- 8:16and Julia Roberts' husband who's a psychiatrist
- 8:19I think, he's there with them too and it feels
- 8:22like they're there with peers of their own age
- 8:25when in fact they're not. They're not and this
- 8:27is a situation that I think is fair to say has
- 8:30not pertained in academia since at least the
- 8:321990s. That degree of that uh, informality, that
- 8:37intimacy, that physical intimacy between graduate
- 8:40students and professors. It's just completely
- 8:42unheard of now, certainly. And that would not
- 8:45say, of course, you can still have students over
- 8:47to your house, but it is very bounded, right?
- 8:50The rules are very clear of what is acceptable
- 8:52and what isn't. And so we're really shown, we're
- 8:55shown an image of something that simply does
- 8:57not exist anymore in academia. And so for that
- 8:59reason, it's problematic because the party that
- 9:02opens the film, leads to Andrew Garfield and
- 9:07Sydney, Maggie, I want to think about her, going
- 9:10home and going back to Andrew Garfield's place,
- 9:14as I remember it. Yes. For a nightcap. And quote,
- 9:17something bad happens. Something bad happens.
- 9:19Where they cross, he crosses the line. He crosses
- 9:21the line. And we don't know what that is, but
- 9:23they're coming from a place where, in my opinion,
- 9:26the line was crossed already. Long ago. Long
- 9:28ago. Yes. Whatever it was that happened between
- 9:33them caused Maggie to go to Julia Roberts and
- 9:37say Hank has done this to me and I need your
- 9:41help and I'm going to accuse him publicly of
- 9:45this violation and the violation isn't spelled
- 9:50out, but she says, I don't have to say what it
- 9:54is. It made me uncomfortable. He crossed a line
- 9:57and that's it. And all of this is supposed to
- 10:00be enough. for the Alma character, julia roberts’
- 10:03character, right that she's not supposed to need
- 10:06any details she's not supposed to need any right
- 10:09assertion of what happened explicitly and the
- 10:12the maggie character’s very disappointed in her
- 10:14response because she expects right from julia
- 10:17roberts this immediate sympathy right. I'm going
- 10:21to believe anything you say. Anything you say.
- 10:24And when it doesn't happen, then we see over
- 10:25the course of the film, a real sort of intensification
- 10:28of both Maggie's anger, her the complexity of
- 10:33her relationship with Julia Roberts. And of course,
- 10:35we have the Andrew Garfield character who defends
- 10:38his innocence quite stridently. And also brings
- 10:41up accusations of plagiarism. Yes. That, in fact,
- 10:45that's the reason why he invited her to his house
- 10:48and that he was trying to get her to to admit
- 10:50to plagiarism in a more informal situation or
- 10:55environment. And that, in fact, again, the whole
- 10:58issue wasn't sexual harassment. It was plagiarism.
- 11:04Julia Roberts sort of you know at first doesn't
- 11:07really know what to believe because she's very
- 11:09close with Hank but then Hank becomes more aggressive
- 11:13about you know being defended and why isn't Julia
- 11:17Roberts sticking up for him and he eventually
- 11:20is fired. So first the tenure case is in jeopardy
- 11:24and then as you say he is fired and certainly
- 11:26although it's not talked about explicitly in
- 11:28the film as much as perhaps we might expect his
- 11:31career is now over. Right. His career is over.
- 11:34He's going to have to go work at Starbucks or
- 11:35whatever. Okay. Also, let's put in the little,
- 11:38the punctuation that Julia Roberts is vomiting
- 11:41and ill for reasons unknown. We do not know.
- 11:44Throughout. We do not know. So we know that she's
- 11:47sick of some sort, but she's in the bathroom
- 11:50all the time. She's vomiting. She's taking pills.
- 11:54And at one point, she goes into the office of
- 11:57a colleague and writes herself a drug prescription
- 12:00and goes and gets it. and this standing. gets
- 12:04her own career in jeopardy when this is found
- 12:06out. We never have any explanation for why with
- 12:09a chronic illness she needs to forge prescriptions.
- 12:11We're not shown a reluctant doctor. We're not
- 12:14shown anything like this. But what we also don't
- 12:17really understand until maybe the very end of
- 12:19the movie is that it's clear she has no sexual
- 12:22relationship with her husband who is very affectionate.
- 12:25He wants, they sleep in separate bedrooms. He
- 12:27basically keeps saying, you don't want to have
- 12:29anything to do with me. And so we also have this
- 12:32sense of sexual tension between her and the Andrew
- 12:35Garfield character that is playing into this
- 12:37almost sort of triangle with with Maggie and
- 12:41so it's it's a film in which It's a lot of stuff
- 12:45is going on. That's a dumb thing to say, but
- 12:47it's a lot of stuff. All of this, again, the
- 12:49illness and the pills and the husband. It's like
- 12:53you take one of those Boggle cages and you shake
- 12:56it up and there's just all these issues in there.
- 12:59And that's what this is. There's probably 15
- 13:02major hot button political issues. And you can
- 13:04find them in this movie. You can find them in
- 13:06this movie. Like pick a headline, pick a category.
- 13:10It's there. And so we have this classic sort
- 13:13of #metoo story. We have a classic sexual harassment
- 13:15in academia. We have the he said, she said, although
- 13:18again, we never know exactly sort of what it
- 13:20was. We have the added dynamic of this. the sexual
- 13:25tension between Andrew Garfield and Julia Roberts,
- 13:27but also the intimation, very strong, that Maggie
- 13:29is in love with the Julia Roberts character.
- 13:32But she also wants to be her over the course
- 13:35of the film. She starts dressing like her. So
- 13:36we have a Single White Female vibe. Yeah, very
- 13:38much so. She's dressing like her. She's externally
- 13:40our hair like. All of it. She starts to imitate
- 13:44Maggie in ways that are, or imitate Alma, I'm
- 13:47sorry, in ways that are really visible. almost
- 13:50in the beginning, you're like, why are these
- 13:51women dressing so similarly? And then you realize,
- 13:54oh, that's deliberate. Yes. Right. Now, by the
- 13:57end of the film, also, if you haven't forgotten,
- 13:59and maybe you have, because it was forgettable,
- 14:02Andrew Garfield gets really violent. Yes, he
- 14:04does. And then you're like, oh, maybe he did
- 14:07assault people, person, because he He gets really
- 14:12violent with Julia Roberts. And he's very angry.
- 14:15And of course, he's lost his job and everything
- 14:18he's worked for. And he's kind of crept into
- 14:22this. second apartment. Yeah, which is really
- 14:25deus ex machina in real estate terms. Yeah. So
- 14:29yeah, so we have this reveal that they in fact
- 14:31were having an affair, Julia Roberts and Andrew
- 14:33Garfield. But then we have the other reveal that
- 14:36she in fact, and of course, this is so important
- 14:39in terms of understanding the film in a kind
- 14:41of #metoo sense, “believe all women” sense. that
- 14:44she had falsely accused a much older male lover,
- 14:49a friend of her father's, when she was a young
- 14:51woman, and that he had ended up committing suicide
- 14:54over this. And so there's very much the sense
- 14:59in the film that we don't believe all women,
- 15:02which of course cast out on, again, I want to
- 15:06say Sydney too, on Maggie. But then there is
- 15:10this moment of violence, as you say, from Andrew
- 15:12Garfield, where Like, maybe he did do something.
- 15:15But it's strange that the kind of he said, she
- 15:17said, that ends up not really being an issue
- 15:19in the film at all. Well, also because her demise
- 15:22is due to these pills. Due to this prescription
- 15:25thing. Which, and then by the end of the film,
- 15:28she's redeemed herself. She's now a dean. She's
- 15:31written a book. We don't really understand how
- 15:32any of that happened. Total mystery. Total mystery.
- 15:35But the he said, she said doesn't end up in...
- 15:40Really the failure of anyone except maybe Andrew
- 15:43Garfield, of course, but we see it in the very
- 15:46last scene. Julia Roberts is with Sydney, Maggie,
- 15:50and they're talking. And now Maggie has a great
- 15:52new job and she's going to get married and all
- 15:55that kind of stuff. And we see that Julia Roberts
- 15:58is a Dean and she looks like she has a bestseller
- 16:01out. Who knows about what? But that they've made
- 16:04it past this moment. And that, again, there was
- 16:09also the moment where Maggie has an article written
- 16:14about Julia Roberts. That she's not supportive,
- 16:17that she doesn't believe her. And Julia Roberts,
- 16:21of course, flips the script on her and says,
- 16:23again, you're this person who's just a person
- 16:26of privilege. A person of privilege and a virtue
- 16:28signaling, all of it. So the thing about the
- 16:32film that, for me, was interesting, again, going
- 16:34back to that boggle scenario is that it brings
- 16:37up some very, very interesting issues in terms
- 16:40of generational tensions in academia between
- 16:43women. Of course, the issue of sexual harassment
- 16:46in education, things like that, which we can
- 16:50talk about and different power dynamics. But
- 16:53the movie just never knows where it's going.
- 16:57And we have a lot of characters that seem either
- 17:01irrelevant or undeveloped. And as we said, the
- 17:04character that plays Julia Roberts' husband,
- 17:07why he comes off as gay in everything. Everything.
- 17:10Michael Schulbarg. Michael Schulbarg. Everything
- 17:13he now seems. gay, and in this film, of course,
- 17:17included. Included. Yeah, very much so. It's
- 17:19uncanny. And the whole thing that we've talked
- 17:22about just by ourselves, but that made the film
- 17:24not work, is the casting of Julia Roberts, because
- 17:28it's the whole - Destructive. The whole idea
- 17:31that a woman in her late 50s would be in the
- 17:36situation - And a assistant professor without
- 17:37tenure. Assistant professor vying for tenure,
- 17:39who even has to depend on her husband for all
- 17:42these things. This doesn't make any sense. Well,
- 17:44also because we are told, and you and I talked
- 17:46about this, we're told also in the film that
- 17:48she's a superstar philosopher. Right. And so
- 17:51we have this bizarro dynamic whereby she's well
- 17:54-known. Again, it's not just that she's at Yale.
- 17:56Obviously, Yale has lots of untenured assistant
- 17:58professors running around, but she's a star in
- 18:00the field. She has graduate students that she's
- 18:03supervising. Right. But she is an untenured assistant
- 18:07professor who, again, is on the same professional
- 18:09level as the much younger Andrew Garfield. And
- 18:12so one of the things that we talked about when
- 18:14we left was, was it just a casting issue where
- 18:16it was always intended for a much younger woman,
- 18:19and then Julia Roberts says, hey, I'm interested.
- 18:22And the answer is yes. And the answer is yes,
- 18:23that that's how it played out. And I assume,
- 18:26yes, it's probably very hard to say no to Julia
- 18:28Roberts if she wants to be in your film, but
- 18:30her casting, it really was destructive, I think.
- 18:34Unless they rewrote the film so that... She didn't
- 18:38have to be vying for tenure, first of all, for
- 18:40the problem to work. She could have been a full
- 18:42professor anyway, because the vying for tenure
- 18:44just went nowhere. And it never played into the
- 18:49momentum of the storytelling. But I also think
- 18:51it would have been much more interesting to have
- 18:53a woman in that role who was maybe 38 to 40.
- 18:58That age, because in terms of compressing the
- 19:01difference, generational difference, between
- 19:03her and Maggie. because in some ways it makes
- 19:06a lot of sense that you have julia roberts as
- 19:09a Gen X woman who who whose immediate instinct
- 19:12is to say wait a minute i need the information
- 19:15i need to wait what i know about all of you i
- 19:18need to wait details explain it to me what happened.
- 19:21And I think it would have been, and so it's very
- 19:24easy to fall into the, again, I still want to
- 19:27say Sydney, to fall into the Maggie saying, wait
- 19:29a minute, this isn't how it works. Right. Right.
- 19:31You're supposed to just agree with me. Say, you're
- 19:33just supposed to agree with me. Believe me. Believe
- 19:34all of it. You don't even need detail. Right.
- 19:36Right. And certainly, I mean, anyway. So I think
- 19:40that it would have been much more interesting
- 19:41to have a woman who was maybe 10 years older,
- 19:45who was not quite sort of the Gen Z, but more
- 19:48of a millennial who could lean into that a little
- 19:52bit more. And especially because of the age similarity
- 19:54with Andrew Garfield. They came to this place
- 19:59together, right? They both started teaching at
- 20:01the same time. They have this affair. Well, the
- 20:04other thing, though, that would have made sense
- 20:07is that the graduate student was older. Because
- 20:11yeah, grad students are any age as we know. And
- 20:13so if the graduate student had been a little
- 20:16bit older, that also would have made some sense
- 20:19in terms of thinking about how we process this
- 20:22information. And even with the graduate student
- 20:25being closer in age to Andrew Garfield, that
- 20:28would have been kind of interesting. So again,
- 20:31just the idea that there are 10 years between
- 20:36Maggie, Andrew Garfield, and Julia Roberts. They
- 20:40were spanning about 30 years between the three
- 20:42of them. And even if we're, I mean, some of the
- 20:44reviews said, well, we're really not supposed
- 20:46to think Julia Roberts is her actual age. We're
- 20:48supposed to just imagine her. I'm like, well,
- 20:50it's just kind of hard. Does it work that way?
- 20:52No. And part of the character, part of what a
- 20:56lot of these reviews said made her so brilliant
- 20:57in the film is that she was so icy and she's
- 21:00had this like really long history and she's had
- 21:02all these illnesses and we're supposed to read
- 21:05her as old. I mean, so it isn't like, on the
- 21:09one hand, we imagine a very young Julia Roberts,
- 21:12but on the other hand, we're seeing a current
- 21:15age Julia Roberts. Well, and again, Michael Stuhlbarg
- 21:17is, what, in his 50s? And so what does it matter
- 21:21for that character as well? If you cast a much
- 21:24younger woman in that Julia Roberts role, yes,
- 21:27well, OK, then do you adjust in terms of the
- 21:28husband? And one of the things, of course, we
- 21:30talked about. is that there's no need for the
- 21:33husband character at all. And it would have been
- 21:35so much more powerful if she were single. And
- 21:39I think we might have even mentioned this in
- 21:41the pod before. If she were single, and then
- 21:44you have exactly that dynamic, right? The sort
- 21:47of quote unquote childless cat lady professor.
- 21:51And that would have been fascinating in terms
- 21:53of the sexual and romantic and professional dynamics.
- 21:56Right, right. And the fact that she has the husband
- 21:58who also I mean, she walks on water with this
- 22:02guy. She can do anything. She literally says,
- 22:04I don't love you. And he's like, give me more,
- 22:07baby. That's OK. That's OK. That's OK. And I
- 22:09had an affair with Andrew Garfield. I'm like,
- 22:11that's OK. I'm going to go live in my other apartment.
- 22:14That's OK. That's OK. That's OK. Whatever. Whatever
- 22:17you want. Because one of the things we also talked
- 22:21about that is pertinent here, before we move
- 22:23on to our other accusations by people, is so
- 22:27OK. We talked before about how the film does
- 22:32seem to be inspired by Oleanna, something that
- 22:36neither one of us watched for this pod but David
- 22:39Mamet's play a professor who also is going up
- 22:44for tenure who is accused of sexual harassment
- 22:46and then rape by an undergraduate student. And
- 22:50what is bizarre, I think, about After the Hunt
- 22:52is we have kind of a splicing of that kind of
- 22:56story with a very, in some ways, modern story
- 22:59about sexual harassment in academia and accusations
- 23:02in academia with, as we discussed, After the
- 23:05Hunt looks like a 1970s film. When we watched
- 23:10it, you and I immediately said he's using the
- 23:13Woody Allen font. Right. Right. We have the kind
- 23:15of Woody Allen music. Right. You have As we talked
- 23:18about a few minutes ago, you have this domestic
- 23:21intimate environment of the professors and students
- 23:24hanging out together, drinking together, touching
- 23:26each other, laying on each other. And so that's
- 23:30something else that I think weakens this film
- 23:31so badly. is that in order to have the true power
- 23:36of the dynamics among these three people, you
- 23:38need to have today's environment. The door needs
- 23:41to stay open, never have them over with alcohol,
- 23:46right? The boundaries have to be super clear.
- 23:48And so I think that that's in some ways, yes.
- 23:52Can you imagine a graduate student and a professor
- 23:55saying, oh, well, I'll give you a ride home.
- 23:57Come up for a nightcap. I mean, unfortunately,
- 23:59I should say, let me amend that. I can imagine
- 24:02that situation. But that is a situation that
- 24:06is not normative. It's not normative. And all
- 24:09of that was presented in the film as it is normative
- 24:12in academia. It hasn't been that way in decades.
- 24:15In a very long time. No, it hasn't been. And
- 24:19again, The whole portrayal of academia, and this
- 24:23isn't for those listeners who are saying, well,
- 24:25these are two cranky academics who are like,
- 24:28we just want it to be exactly the way it is.
- 24:30No, no. But it's like do a little bit of homework.
- 24:33Talk to an academic. Talk to an academic. Learn
- 24:36just a little bit about tenure. And here's why.
- 24:40It's not that you need to know everything, but
- 24:44this ridiculous myth. that no one gets tenure
- 24:48and a publish or perish. It's just not true. And
- 24:52that the decision can be made overnight that
- 24:55someone can say, well, you know, we've just decided
- 24:57five minutes ago to not give you tenure. And
- 24:58that there also is nothing behind it. Whereas
- 25:01Julia Roberts is like, I don't know if I'm getting
- 25:04it. It's a big question mark, coin toss. You're
- 25:08like, girl, have you written a book or not? I
- 25:11mean, that's... Let's see the outside evaluators.
- 25:14Yeah, let's just see it all because Otherwise
- 25:17it makes no sense in the same way that the familiarity
- 25:20that the almost intimacy almost the intimacy
- 25:23between graduate students and professors and
- 25:26also professors of different ranks Yeah, all
- 25:28kind of laying on each other awesome So so no
- 25:34one at quote Yale actually talked to anyone at
- 25:38Yale. And if they did touch people at Yale and
- 25:40the Yale told them, people told them that this
- 25:42is the way it is, then that's a problem. Then
- 25:44that's a problem. Well, and maybe this should
- 25:46be the last thing that we talk about. One thing
- 25:49you and I have talked about before is European
- 25:53directors who keep writing films as if American
- 25:57adults smoke. And we have that here. We have
- 26:02that here. Smoking in bars. Smoking in bars.
- 26:05Smoking in houses. Smoking in houses. And it
- 26:07really is so symbolic, and I think we see that
- 26:09in this film. This is a director who has no idea
- 26:14what American academia is like. Again, even Yale
- 26:17today. It's not that we don't know it because
- 26:19we don't teach at Yale. No. Sadly. Or maybe not.
- 26:25Or maybe not. That's true. Let's amend that.
- 26:27But it's, again, so clear. It is a completely
- 26:30outdated vision that just absolutely craters
- 26:34this film as having anything to say. Yeah, it
- 26:36really does. It really does. And it's not even
- 26:39a film about academia that I would show my own
- 26:43students. I agree. My own students would find
- 26:45this film just dumbing. They would fall asleep.
- 26:50Yeah. And, you know, we almost fell asleep because,
- 26:52you know. So, not a success, but still we have
- 26:57an accuser, we don't know the truth of things,
- 27:00although it is hinted to us, we have a kind of
- 27:03odd resolution, and we do have a life ruined,
- 27:07the Andrew Garfield character, and so let's talk
- 27:10about some more accusations. Some more ruining
- 27:13of lives, some more bad behavior. And let's talk
- 27:18about The Children's Hour. How about that? An
- 27:22older film came out in 1961 and directed by William
- 27:29Wyler. Star -studded cast. Star -studded cast.
- 27:32Audrey Hepburn playing a teacher. School mistress,
- 27:37can we say? Yep. Shirley McLean playing her fellow
- 27:41school mistress and fellow teacher and confidant
- 27:45and bestie. And bestie. And so this is from a
- 27:49play by Lillian Hellman that had been very successful
- 27:52on Broadway. In the 30s. In the 30s and very
- 27:54controversial because it deals with an accusation
- 27:57of lesbianism. Yes. But then made into a film
- 28:01in 1961, again, another very successful film,
- 28:04a young Shirley MacLaine with already an established
- 28:08star in Audrey Hepburn as her partner. I mean,
- 28:11scene partner, I should say. And so we have,
- 28:14in this case, two women running a school. They
- 28:18were college classmates, very close friends.
- 28:20And it's a school for girls. And as far as we
- 28:23can tell, it seems to be very wealthy young girls
- 28:25with local families. And there is a very badly
- 28:30behaved young girl, Mary, who is a liar, wants
- 28:33lots of attention. And Mary's grandmother is
- 28:36an important patron of the school, and maybe
- 28:39with others as well. And maybe with others, yes.
- 28:40But Mary's grandmother is referred to over and
- 28:43over again in terms of somebody who is funding
- 28:45this school. Yes, and is very well connected
- 28:47with the other families who are sending their
- 28:49daughters there. And is also related to Audrey
- 28:53Hepburn's, while he will become a fiance, Joe.
- 28:57Joe. played by James Garner. Right. And I've
- 28:59said, I think James Garner is a little miscast
- 29:01in this. I don't really see that. I don't really
- 29:02see the, the chemistry between him and Audrey
- 29:04Hepburn. But anyway, that is true. And so, uh,
- 29:09basically it's a combination of Mary being a
- 29:12kind of bad seed, lying, uh, bullying other girls,
- 29:17disliking the fact that she is punished by Karen
- 29:19and Martha for her bad behavior. It's a combination
- 29:22of just wanting revenge on the two of them and
- 29:25actually overhearing. a conversation between
- 29:28Martha and her flighty actress aunt who lives
- 29:31with them that leads her to accuse them of being
- 29:36lovers to her grandmother, which absolutely craters
- 29:38the school. All of the parents pull their daughters
- 29:40out. It is devastating. And interestingly, it
- 29:44isn't just that Mary tells her grandmother, but
- 29:48that the grandmother then infers information
- 29:51she hears first from the child. from information
- 29:55she then hears from the aunt. To conclude that
- 30:01the two women have been involved in quote unnatural
- 30:03relations Yeah, so just to clarify this the the
- 30:06little girl who's up to no good says to her grandmother
- 30:09I know all these terrible things things that
- 30:12are so awful I can only whisper them to you the
- 30:14grandmother can't even really believe it but
- 30:16she wants to validate it for herself and when
- 30:18she goes back to the school and the aunt says
- 30:22yeah, those women are always together and You
- 30:25know Shirley McLaine seemed angry when Audrey
- 30:29Hepburn and her soon -to -be husband will get
- 30:33married. Jealous of Joe. And she validates this
- 30:35narrative that isn't about sexuality at all,
- 30:39but to the grandmother, it feels that way. Although
- 30:43I think that it is the case that we have the
- 30:45hint from the aunt that she does see this as
- 30:48a sexual relationship in the sense that She or
- 30:52at least a romantic one, right? Not just a close
- 30:54friendship. And the reason why I say that is
- 30:56because she says you were always that way as
- 30:58a little girl. Yes, right? You always have very
- 31:00you were jealous of your female friends. You
- 31:03didn't date anyone, have never had a boyfriend.
- 31:06And so I think there is that undertone there
- 31:07with the aunt. Well, I guess what I felt from
- 31:10the aunt was the aunt was saying she thinks Shirley
- 31:13MacLaine is gay. She doesn't necessarily think
- 31:16that Audrey Hepburn is gay. Yes, that they have
- 31:18a relationship. That they have a relationship.
- 31:19But yes, I think she definitely draws the conclusion
- 31:22that Shirley MacLaine desires a relationship
- 31:26with Audrey Hepburn and maybe not and vice versa.
- 31:29Well, and of course, the other thing about the
- 31:31grandmother And I think this is probably the
- 31:34most disturbing part in some ways to me. So Mary
- 31:37says to her grandmother, I hear strange noises
- 31:40when they're in the room together late at night.
- 31:43But then the other thing is that when she whispers
- 31:46in the grandmother's ear, which we don't hear,
- 31:49but. The intimation is very strong, that what
- 31:53Mary is whispering is some of the content she
- 31:57has gotten from the secret sex book that she's
- 32:00been reading secretly in her room. And so again,
- 32:03we don't know that, and it's probably for the
- 32:04best, but that it really is this extremely concrete
- 32:08transmission. They are having a sexual relationship,
- 32:12and I have overheard it, because what of course
- 32:14the grandmother says is, well, what two people
- 32:16want to do on their own is fine. The grandmother
- 32:19keeps insisting, I care about the fact that this
- 32:22is in front of children. How would children know
- 32:26about these sex acts unless basically, and for
- 32:29some reason nobody ever says, well, maybe she
- 32:30read a book, which is the reality. And so this
- 32:34is the grandmother's defense, right? That these
- 32:35two women, if they want to do that, but it can't
- 32:38be that they're running a school for children
- 32:39and all the children leave the school and the
- 32:41school collapses. And Mary ends up. blackmailing
- 32:44her girlfriend, Veronica Cartwright, who then
- 32:47was in tons of Things, who's a kleptomaniac,
- 32:51and says, well, if you don't confirm my story
- 32:54about these two being lovers, then I'm going
- 32:57to tell everybody that you stole all the stuff,
- 33:00and they're all the cops, and all that. So it
- 33:02leads to the complete demise of the school, the
- 33:06complete isolation of these two women, and their
- 33:09social isolation as pariahs. And they're just
- 33:14alone together although Audrey Hepburn's fiance
- 33:17Joe is still Hanging around supportive supportive
- 33:21and says look we can all leave together even
- 33:24you Shirley McClaine come with us come with us
- 33:28and you know, we'll get married and it'll be
- 33:30okay and They're having this conversation and
- 33:34then Audrey Hepburn says to him Ask the question
- 33:38that you want to ask. And he does. And he does.
- 33:42And he does. And he says, you know, were you
- 33:44ever into her? Or some version of that. Yeah,
- 33:47were you lovers? Right. And from then on, Audrey
- 33:52Hepburn says, well, it can never be. And see,
- 33:55and I actually thought that was a very unfair
- 33:57moment. Because she pushes him. She does. And
- 34:00pushes him. And he says, I don't need to know.
- 34:02I believe you. I don't want to know. I haven't
- 34:05given any thought. And approximately a dozen
- 34:08times she says to him, come on, just ask it.
- 34:11It's okay if you just ask. And then of course,
- 34:14as soon as he does ask, she turns and says, well,
- 34:16I'm sorry you asked that question. And so now
- 34:18we can never be together and I'm breaking our
- 34:20engagement and the relationship ends. Yeah. And
- 34:22she also assumes for him that he will never be
- 34:27able to think about anything else. Even when
- 34:29they have children and have a, you know, go live
- 34:31somewhere else and have a totally different life,
- 34:35then he'll always be thinking what she loves
- 34:37with Shirley MacLaine. Even when it's very clear
- 34:39that they have a passionate physical relationship.
- 34:43Yes. And that is made very, very clear to us.
- 34:46That she wants children right away. She wants
- 34:47children right away. They're going out in the
- 34:49car, presumably necking or whatever. Right. We
- 34:51see these kind of passionate kisses between them.
- 34:52Sure. And of course, the other thing we should
- 34:54probably bring up is that the two women, they
- 34:57sue the grandmother for libel. I'm sorry, for
- 35:00slander. And they lose the case because the flighty
- 35:03aunt won't come back to testify. And so they
- 35:07are impoverished. They are famous, publicly famous,
- 35:10because of this case that they've lost. And in
- 35:13some ways, I think the most disturbing little
- 35:15moment in this film is when they are going out
- 35:17to take a walk. and the men in the truck drive
- 35:21by and sort of stop and look at them. And I think
- 35:24there is this real sense of physical danger for
- 35:27them about assault, about physical violence.
- 35:30And of course, Joe is this kind of protector
- 35:33for them, but that relationship does collapse.
- 35:36And eventually the lie collapses as well, that
- 35:39it is realized that no, in fact, they have not
- 35:42been lovers. But then we have the kicker in that
- 35:44Shirley MacLaine, in effect, will say, well,
- 35:47Yes, I'm in love with you and I had these feelings
- 35:50and these feelings and and they didn't come to
- 35:53light until the accusation happened right and
- 35:56so it is of course fascinating to think well
- 35:59the mechanics of that right in terms of this
- 36:02little girl who well Well, okay. Do we think
- 36:06that Mary who again is total bad seed total bad
- 36:09seed right the evil child right unapologetically
- 36:12evil evil child. Do we think again? That she
- 36:16is halfway honest and believing that they are
- 36:19lovers. There's reason for her to be halfway
- 36:23honest and however she's so evil and she's so
- 36:27conniving and she's so untrustworthy that you
- 36:31even if there is intimacy or you know some some
- 36:35sort of romantic relationship between them or
- 36:38an emotional relationship between them. You just
- 36:42don't want to give this girl any credit I agree
- 36:45and it's unfortunate that it takes the quote
- 36:47lie to bring out the truth and of course not
- 36:51of course, but sadly the truth leads to Shirley
- 36:56McLaine committing suicide because I mean think
- 37:02about why and because she wants Audrey Hepburn
- 37:04to live her life happily. She wants her to go
- 37:06back to Joe or she just can't bear the thought
- 37:09that she's attracted to women. That's left kind
- 37:13of a question mark. It is and it's I think a
- 37:15not very satisfying one either because it's not
- 37:19this and one thing that is important is she clearly
- 37:23doesn't expect Karen. to come back and say, oh,
- 37:27well, I love you too, and let's run off. And
- 37:30she's not expecting that. She does seem distraught
- 37:33at this discovery of her own sexuality. But of
- 37:37course, Karen's response is not necessarily a
- 37:41good one, in that Karen's response is initially,
- 37:45this isn't true, why do you think that? You're
- 37:47upset, you know. So much has happened, you're
- 37:49tired. You just think of these crazy things that
- 37:51aren't, you know, a good night's sleep, you'll
- 37:53get over it. And so we do have the classic, and
- 37:55of course, this is something that you teach and
- 37:57talk about much more than I do, but we do have
- 38:00this kind of classic moment at the end of the
- 38:02film where, quote unquote, the gay has to die,
- 38:05which is a trope, but I don't think it's explained
- 38:09very well. Why is she committing suicide? Does
- 38:14she think that Karen will go back to Joe? Doesn't
- 38:16she realize that this will be a long -lasting,
- 38:20devastating event for Karen since they've been
- 38:22friends for so long? And in some ways the ending
- 38:26seems kind of cheap to me, I will say. However,
- 38:29in the time period, there is no other. I hear
- 38:33you. And so that is why that happens. And again,
- 38:38an openly gay character, even as reluctantly
- 38:43open as she is. does have to kill herself in
- 38:47this framework and also in terms of Cold War
- 38:53milieu and all of that. And again, Hellman herself
- 38:58had all kinds of sexual partners and lived a
- 39:04very complicated life and also a life also based
- 39:07on rumors and innuendos and all sorts of... Vibes
- 39:14that that we see in this play and you know are
- 39:16in the play and and then then the movie Very
- 39:20very Hellman esque, but but yeah, it it's it's
- 39:24very very sad and although the very at the very
- 39:28end of it when we see Audrey Hepburn leaving
- 39:30leaving the cemetery behind the tree and we do
- 39:33not see them reuniting no absolutely not and
- 39:35that's very important I agree that Whatever has
- 39:39been said between them is is done is done And
- 39:42that it doesn't matter now that Shirley MacLaine's
- 39:45not in the picture. And that also they're no
- 39:50longer in the papers for being lovers and that
- 39:53their reputations are intact. That it's done.
- 39:58It's interesting because I was thinking about
- 39:59this is a weird connection to make, but so Henry
- 40:02James writes this novel The Bostonians right
- 40:04about feminists early feminists in in Boston
- 40:06and the ending of this book is very famous because
- 40:09the the suffragette the sort of blue stocking
- 40:12who has had this very very close relationship
- 40:14with the younger feminist Verena, Verena ends
- 40:17up marrying this very masculine man and so you
- 40:21have the masculine man now married to the feminist
- 40:23Verena who's sort of like no you need to stay
- 40:25away from her and the the older suffragette,
- 40:29quote unquote, blue stocking, she's miserable,
- 40:31something terrible is happening to her, and it's
- 40:33very much the sense of like, she has been excluded,
- 40:35she has been pushed out, and Verena the young
- 40:37feminist is now with this sort of solid, very
- 40:39aggressive masculine man. And in some ways, you
- 40:42can imagine an ending of The Children's Hour.
- 40:44There is a version of that, right? But with the
- 40:47older character, the Shirley MacLean character
- 40:49in this case, again, sort of being excluded,
- 40:51being dead, and this resolution of Audrey Hepburn
- 40:55back with James Garner, which again, as you
- 40:57say, this doesn't happen. And so it is a very
- 41:00different kind of ending than we have in something
- 41:03like The Bostonians, where it's, nope, she's
- 41:05just going to be on her own. She is not going
- 41:07back to the arms of the man. There's no affirmation.
- 41:12of the Audrey Hepburn characters saying, I'm
- 41:15receding back into respectability, right? I'm
- 41:17going back to this heterosexual relationship.
- 41:19I mean, she is heterosexual. There's every indication
- 41:21that she'll go on to have a relationship with
- 41:23a man. But it's not this kind of, we've solved
- 41:26that problem and now I'm going back to this sort
- 41:29of basis. Although interestingly, going back
- 41:31to After the Hunt, the Maggie character resolves
- 41:35her life that way. Oh yeah. In that she says,
- 41:38of course, you know, homosexuality or her being
- 41:41marrying a woman doesn't matter anymore in 2025,
- 41:44especially in New Haven, right? But her happy
- 41:47ending is, I'm marrying a woman, I met this great
- 41:50woman who works at MoMA or something, right?
- 41:52And I'm living my life and I'm going on. It's
- 41:54respectability. It's respectability. She ends
- 41:57up that way. And of course, Julia Roberts does
- 41:59too. the Dean and I guess a better relationship
- 42:03with her husband. But it's interesting that even
- 42:06the queer character in After the Hunt goes to
- 42:09respectability. Yeah, and bourgeois respectability.
- 42:12Yes. And that's actually something we should
- 42:14also point out about The Children's Hour because
- 42:15to me, one of the most interesting lines is when
- 42:18Karen and Martha are having that big conversation
- 42:20at the end, when Martha ends up saying, I do
- 42:24love you, they have this little moment where
- 42:26they say, well, okay. other women live in these
- 42:29relationships. They have sexual and romantic
- 42:31relationships. So why is it in effect so bad
- 42:35even if we were that way? And the argument that
- 42:38they give, it's dependent upon place and to some
- 42:41extent upon class and commitment because the
- 42:44answer is, well, okay, they might be in Greenwich
- 42:46Village or whatever. But the answer is also if
- 42:50they know their sexual identity if they are confident
- 42:54in their sexual identity then they just live
- 42:56their lives right and and that but they of course
- 42:59say but we are not quote -unquote like that until
- 43:02we can have that sense of validation and that
- 43:04we're living our truth or whatever and i think
- 43:06it is important to understand that that is being
- 43:10said. Right in 1961 I wonder about the original
- 43:14play and if there was a line like that in when
- 43:17the play first came out in 30s and of course
- 43:19I have no idea I haven't read the play but that
- 43:20that's a very interesting line to me because
- 43:22I think that that's a natural response of someone
- 43:24seeing the film in 1961 to say well wait a minute
- 43:27there are lesbians living in New York City or
- 43:29whatever right what's the problem sure sure absolutely
- 43:32absolutely okay so we have an accusation that
- 43:35is ends up being true. Right. Even if it is not
- 43:40delivered in a sense of truth telling. Right.
- 43:45Is that fair to say? Yes. Yes. Yes. And again,
- 43:49just to point of comparison, an accusation that
- 43:53initially needs to be validated a few times.
- 43:55Yes. Unlike After the Hunt where the accusation
- 43:59is Is it? Is it? Yeah. And it's barely an accusation
- 44:03in the sense of detail, right? It's just as we
- 44:06talked about earlier, it's just across the line.
- 44:08And we do have these different layers of details,
- 44:11right? The whispered thing to the grandmother
- 44:12and the conversation and the verifying. And because,
- 44:16of course, there is the sense that these relationships
- 44:20are, there's many different possibilities about
- 44:22the relationship between these two women. Yes,
- 44:24absolutely. Who, after all, are living together.
- 44:26Yes. Living together as the co -heads of the
- 44:28school. Sure, sure. okay so let's um it does
- 44:33have a downer ending i would say it well let's
- 44:36repeat that it does have a downer although as
- 44:37you say but audrey heppern is very empowered
- 44:39and we have that wonderful sort of marching out
- 44:41with her head held high okay so let's talk about
- 44:44another um film in this case from 1956 that isn't
- 44:49quite about an accusation although we do have
- 44:52sort of an accusatory vibe here we definitely
- 44:55also have themes of sexuality sexual identity
- 44:59masculinity, femininity in a sense, and this
- 45:02is Tea and Sympathy. 1956 set at a boarding school,
- 45:09much like The Children’s Hour. And we have again
- 45:12dynamics of power differential between teachers
- 45:15and students, but we also have a weird sort of
- 45:18in the middle person of Laura, the main character,
- 45:23the wife of a coach. And we consistently wonder
- 45:25why she married him. We can talk about that in
- 45:28a minute. And the close relationship that she
- 45:30has with one of the students at the school who
- 45:32is living in their dormitory, the dormitory that
- 45:35they live in. And so the student Tom is not very
- 45:39popular with his classmates because of his, quote,
- 45:44difference. He is more, in their eyes, effeminate.
- 45:48He knows how to sew. He knows how to cook. He
- 45:51wants to be a folk singer. Very 1956. He is going
- 45:55to be in a play where he... performing as a woman
- 45:59wearing a dress he doesn't know how to quote
- 46:01walk the right way and he is really tormented
- 46:06by the other guys throughout most of the film
- 46:09and who Not only accuse him of being gay and
- 46:16they call him sister boy, and he's not man enough
- 46:19But his own father is incredibly disappointed.
- 46:22His own father who attended this school who's
- 46:25close to this coach continues to Harp on why
- 46:29his son can't just man up and be like the other
- 46:32guys and have a crew cut. Play sports. Play sports.
- 46:36And he doesn't play a sport, actually. Well,
- 46:38okay, so I just want to pick apart the tennis.
- 46:42So when I watched this, and I hadn't seen this
- 46:44film in a while, I had forgotten the tennis part.
- 46:48Here is the thing that is so funny. And this
- 46:51is, I guess, a dated thing about tennis. He is
- 46:56this really good tennis player, Tom. And he's
- 46:58playing against another guy who they say swings
- 47:01like a man, which I assume to be a full swing
- 47:03and a follow through. And Tom has what looks
- 47:07more like a slice. Now, if we were to see tennis
- 47:11today, somebody like Djokovic or any of the main
- 47:15guys, Alvarez, they have slice all the time.
- 47:18There is nothing effeminate about a slice. And
- 47:22again, Federer has this incredible backhand slice
- 47:25he's really famous for. So there's an interesting
- 47:28evolution of how that style of play has come
- 47:33to be sort of now gotten more masculinity attached
- 47:38to it. Because watching the two of them play,
- 47:40I was like, yeah, that guy's got a slice. I mean,
- 47:42that's how he's winning. And slices are hard to
- 47:45return. I mean, there's no joke in that. So it's
- 47:48just interesting that He is an athlete, he's
- 47:51a good athlete, and he's still somebody who is
- 47:56the, you know, recipient of a lot of... sort
- 48:01of bullying and turmoil and things like that.
- 48:06And his own father, again, is the worst of them
- 48:08all. Absolutely. And again, even if his own father
- 48:11gave him a little bit of support or said, you
- 48:14know, son, it's okay, you know, you can do lots
- 48:16of things, or the theater, you know, people used
- 48:19to dress up as women all the time, Shakespeare,
- 48:21whatever, he doesn't do that. He just continues
- 48:24to harp on him. And again, So there's this interesting
- 48:28relationship between Tom and Laura, who you also
- 48:31know is lonely, who feels like she's dealing
- 48:34with major toxic masculinity and being married
- 48:37to, what's his name? bill bill and just and she
- 48:41had been married before to this other kinder
- 48:45gentler man whom she had married when she was
- 48:4818 and he was a died in world war two okay so
- 48:52she loved this other man very much so much so
- 48:55that she still celebrates her that was very odd
- 48:58but okay And she tells Tom, you remind me of
- 49:02my first husband. And so the whole movie, for
- 49:06me at least, I mean, I don't think we would call
- 49:08it queer coded. I think it's out and out. Tom
- 49:12is a gay man. Oh, see, I disagree with that,
- 49:14though. I took the whole movie as... Tom is a
- 49:18gay man, and this movie is a way to shame him
- 49:23and to box him into a straight envelope and to
- 49:26give him a happy, straight ending. Oh, I just
- 49:29agree. That's interesting. I read it as a cautionary
- 49:33tale to gay people. Oh, I totally disagree. Oh,
- 49:37that's so interesting. He's gay and he doesn't
- 49:40want like the scene with the waitress where he's
- 49:43supposed to hook up with her and then tell everybody
- 49:45about it he's not interested in her because she's
- 49:48a woman and he's Not getting sex with Laura in
- 49:53the film He has sex with Laura because he he's
- 49:56trying to prove to himself that he's that he
- 49:59is not gay, but he is But he's gay. Well, he's
- 50:03gay. No. Well, here's the counter. And it goes
- 50:05back to what you just said about the tennis stroke,
- 50:08because one of the things that I think does come
- 50:10up a lot in this film, and Tom himself even says
- 50:13it, things that do not need to be coded as effeminate.
- 50:19When he does them, they are read as effeminate.
- 50:23Right. And the tennis is a good example of that
- 50:27where yes he's he's an athlete and he should
- 50:30be praised by the other boys for doing this but
- 50:34he says this to his roommate his roommate who
- 50:36is sympathetic for much of the film where he
- 50:38says I don't even think about how I walk and
- 50:41why is it that things you don't get or the walking
- 50:44right I mean his hair it's so funny that his
- 50:46dad is obsessed with his hair and he says and
- 50:49he says look. a crew cut doesn't look good on
- 50:53me. He's like, I've tried it before. It just
- 50:55doesn't look good on me. I like this. I think
- 50:57this is more flattering. And so to me, I do actually
- 51:01think that all of those times when Laura says
- 51:05and tries to say to Bill, she says to Bill, you
- 51:09have one narrow vision of masculinity, right?
- 51:13The whole point about Tom is that Tom is showing
- 51:16us a wider spectrum of masculinity. And here,
- 51:20you know what, I'm going to agree. There is a
- 51:22gay character in this film. It is Bill. Because
- 51:25the whole point is Bill is the guy who's like,
- 51:29I'm super repressed. I'm going mountain climbing
- 51:32with the boys. So we are told about Bill. Right.
- 51:36He does not want to have sex with his wife. Right.
- 51:38Right. He does not want to touch her. He does
- 51:40not want to be affectionate. And she's hot. And
- 51:42she's well, we can talk about that in a second.
- 51:44I think she's hot. I don't know. Deborah Kerr
- 51:46has just never done it for me. I just think she's
- 51:48so like, I don't know. I think she's hot. I think
- 51:51she's sexier in The King and I actually. But
- 51:52anyway, but but we do have I mean, Bill is this
- 51:55classic kind of homosocial guy. Right. But I
- 51:57think also we when we get the added bit that
- 52:01he will not Sleep with her because she says this
- 52:04right. She's like right touch each other. You
- 52:05don't touch me Why and they've only been married
- 52:07for friggin year, right? And so to me what I
- 52:11think is interesting bill is the totally closeted
- 52:14hyper masculine right and that but then Again,
- 52:19the point of Tom is to say you know what a guy
- 52:21can sew a straight Heterosexual man he can sew
- 52:25he can have longer hair. He can be interested
- 52:28in the theater because of course we're also told
- 52:31that Tom does end up getting married. He doesn't
- 52:33run off again to basically living through this
- 52:35partner. Again, to me, I think this is all Hollywood
- 52:38saying, this guy is gay. And you might be right,
- 52:42OK? I'm willing to go if Bill is gay too. But
- 52:45he encounters another gay man, which triggers
- 52:49his own repressed queer feeling, is OK? I think
- 52:55that it's all a cover up that Tom stuff is all
- 52:58a cover up. There's no world in which Tom is
- 53:01not is again going to the village and going to
- 53:05live with a partner and we never see him again.
- 53:08This is this is Hollywood again saying this is
- 53:11what can happen for you if you're gay and, you
- 53:14know, kind of pray the gay way. And I completely
- 53:17disagree. And that's that's the way because because
- 53:19if that's the message of the film or in general,
- 53:22I just absolutely don't think that we can say,
- 53:25every representation of a man who, again, likes
- 53:29theater, likes to sew, I don't think we can say
- 53:33that means that he is super explicitly a closeted
- 53:37gay man. But again, Hollywood - He has sex with
- 53:40a woman in this film. I'm just gonna say that
- 53:41again. He has sex with a woman whose husband
- 53:46is not having sex with her. Right. Who's the
- 53:49gay one? The one who's having sex with her? Right.
- 53:51But she later says in the letter, right? Yes,
- 53:54that letter is so annoying. The letter is, to
- 53:57me, the letter is sort of the smoking bullet.
- 54:00Whereas, I mean, she really kind of talks about
- 54:02she shouldn't have done it, and she should have
- 54:04been thinking more about her husband than about
- 54:08Tom. And again, to me, it's the Hollywood message
- 54:11of he's gay, but he fixed it. And you can too.
- 54:19That's the way that I read it. And I don't think
- 54:25that, again, Hollywood is clever enough at this
- 54:29time to say we're actually going to... think
- 54:33about alternative visions of masculinity. But
- 54:36that's where I think it's important. I mean,
- 54:37it comes from a novel, right? It comes from a
- 54:39novel. And I do think, yes, the letter at the
- 54:41end is ridiculous. But that, of course, is more
- 54:45a focus of rescuing Deborah Kerr, who is, of
- 54:47course, this massive star in 1956, as unappealing
- 54:50as I find her. She's a huge star in 1956. And
- 54:53so I think it's more saying, well, wait a minute.
- 54:55We just endorsed adultery that this woman isn't
- 54:59and she does leave her husband she leaves Bill
- 55:01sure right so we don't have that restoration
- 55:03of oh okay they're all happy now so but Bill
- 55:06of course has not gotten married again Bill still
- 55:09living there with the boys in the household going
- 55:11on the camping trips right you know so I think
- 55:14we might have some Brokeback Mountains going
- 55:16on with Bill and the camping trips I think we
- 55:19had an experiment gone An experiment that Lin
- 55:24led to a lifelong of more experiments. And that
- 55:28Tom, later in his life, as we go to see him,
- 55:30will be on the down low. I mean, there's just
- 55:33no question about that. Okay, here's the thing.
- 55:35So I hate to say it, and I'm not saying this
- 55:38is wrong, but you are reading Tea and Sympathy
- 55:41as if it was... written by Tennessee Williams.
- 55:45No, I mean, and think about it that way, right?
- 55:47So if we kind of cross Tea and Sympathy, you
- 55:50know, with something like Cat on a Hot Tin Roof,
- 55:53right? Again, sort of the closeted young guy
- 55:55who was sexually experiments with another man.
- 55:58And, you know, then it becomes hell for his wife
- 56:00or whatever. And so I just, I, I think that yes,
- 56:04you might be right that he is that that Hollywood
- 56:06can't confront it. Nevertheless, I think that
- 56:09it is so interestingly explicit in the film.
- 56:13This is Laura's whole point, right? Again, that
- 56:16spectrum of masculinity and that people do not
- 56:19need to be shoved into these narrow categories
- 56:23and told that, okay, this is the whole point
- 56:27of what she says, right? If a man has these interests,
- 56:30it doesn't mean he's gay. And yes, you might
- 56:33be saying that the film is arguing the opposite
- 56:37of what Laura is saying, but I think she is a
- 56:42genuine mouthpiece. And that just doesn't make
- 56:45sense to me that the film is arguing against
- 56:48what we hear her say so often in this film. All
- 56:53of these different kinds of activities, interests,
- 56:56personae, clothes, whatever. That can still be
- 57:00a straight man. Yes, because she is a straight
- 57:03woman and she wants to sleep with him. She wants
- 57:08him to... It's a Will and Grace situation. Okay.
- 57:17Okay. Yeah. I mean, but see, again, that's, I
- 57:19don't know. I'm going to maintain. Bill is the
- 57:23gay man. I don't disagree about Bill. I'm okay.
- 57:26I agree with you on Bill, but I'm seeing. But
- 57:30again, it's 1956. Then why, he just needs to
- 57:32like run up to the city and just. Can't do it.
- 57:37Can't do it on film. He's a novelist. Can't do
- 57:39it on film. Can't do it on film. Well, I don't
- 57:41mean, I, yeah. I'm just saying that. Celluloid
- 57:45Closet, you know, watch it over and over. There's
- 57:48no happy ending for gay people. Okay. No, and
- 57:53I understand that. I absolutely understand that.
- 57:55But I also think, I think, and certainly you
- 57:58as a historian of 20th century popular culture,
- 58:00right, you again, you think about this much more
- 58:02than I do. But I do think, right, in 1956, even
- 58:07that lesson that there is a broad spectrum of
- 58:11masculinity. that doesn't involve, or that does
- 58:16involve all of these other things. That to me
- 58:19is enough of a radical statement in that film.
- 58:25And what's interesting though, of course, thinking
- 58:27about the other things that we talked about.
- 58:29So we have basically a high school junior, because
- 58:33it refers to him coming back the following year.
- 58:35We have a high school junior who basically is
- 58:37going out to have sex with a prostitute, although
- 58:41it doesn't happen. in a very disturbing kind
- 58:43of way, and then has sex with his headmaster's
- 58:50teacher, whatever, I'm sorry, wife. And this
- 58:53is all presented very much, of course, in a different
- 58:55way than it would be presented today. So certainly
- 58:58today, the idea might be, oh, well, she's sexually
- 59:00harassing him. She's very forward. She is forward.
- 59:03But he also is very forward with her. He kind
- 59:05of stalks her, in a sense, right? He's always
- 59:08kind of following her, wants to find out where
- 59:10she is. And this is the other thing, then, that
- 59:12you need to explain. Why is he constantly...
- 59:17Because he's a gay man who needs comfort with
- 59:20the one person who can understand him. him when
- 59:23he is surrounded by people who are ostracizing
- 59:26him, who are bullying him. So why kiss her in
- 59:28the first place? Well, I think he's sexually
- 59:32confused. I mean, I think he's trying to figure,
- 59:35he is trying to pray it away or kiss it away
- 59:41or what. I think on the one, again, he's confused.
- 59:44He's, I'm not saying he's, out and proud, I'm
- 59:47saying he's a gay man who's sexually confused.
- 59:51And that is the way I read it. And I will stick
- 59:55to that. Okay. And I am going to respectfully
- 59:57disagree with you. Yeah, that's fine. And again,
- 1:00:00I think we are seeing this very interesting spectrum
- 1:00:02of masculinity. Yes. And this is what, and because
- 1:00:05of course, we also always have the word gentle,
- 1:00:08right? Gentle. Gentle. But I am going to, I think
- 1:00:12that Deborah Kerr is so unappealing sexually
- 1:00:15and it's interesting that you think she's hot
- 1:00:17because to me I think she's I mean she's not
- 1:00:19as hot I mean as some of the other women we've
- 1:00:22talked about in some of these other older films
- 1:00:26or that sort of thing. But I can see how in this
- 1:00:29film, she's cast in the right way. I mean, she's
- 1:00:33not a total bombshell. It's not Marilyn Monroe
- 1:00:37in 1956. No. And again, to be married to this
- 1:00:41coach at this boarding school to have this super,
- 1:00:44super hot wife would make a whole lot of sense.
- 1:00:47Well, and of course, the other dynamic that is
- 1:00:48pertinent is that we are told very explicitly
- 1:00:51that he has never really known his mother. His
- 1:00:53mother abandoned him and she understands the
- 1:00:56relationship to some extent initially in that
- 1:00:59she is kind of mothering him. Hence the whole
- 1:01:00tea and sympathy thing, right? She's told this
- 1:01:02is what you're supposed to do for these boys.
- 1:01:03Give them tea and sympathy, not then like have
- 1:01:05sex with them in a glade somewhere off the golf
- 1:01:07course. So it is interesting to think. if Tea
- 1:01:14and Sympathy were being made today, right? And
- 1:01:16this is another film that would not be made today.
- 1:01:19The dynamics would be so unacceptable. So unacceptable.
- 1:01:21And I think we do need to probably point out,
- 1:01:23before we finish today, that... Tea and sympathy
- 1:01:27is the origin of something Dan Savage says very
- 1:01:32often as the paradigm for relationships between
- 1:01:37older people and younger people. That the obligation
- 1:01:41of the younger person entering into such a relationship
- 1:01:45is the tea and sympathy rule. That be kind. This
- 1:01:49of course is the famous sort of last line or
- 1:01:52one of the last lines of the film. When you speak
- 1:01:54about this in the future, And you will, be kind.
- 1:01:58And so again, this is the Dan Savage teen sympathy
- 1:02:00rule. the obligation of the younger person in
- 1:02:02the relationship with the older, not to then
- 1:02:04later on, right, criticize the older person,
- 1:02:08but. And say they were. And say they were. Like
- 1:02:10a hag or whatever. To be kind, to be kind. Right,
- 1:02:14right. Or to say, you know what, I just like
- 1:02:17men and I don't know why I stuck with that woman.
- 1:02:20And which is what Tom will say. OK, you know
- 1:02:22what the one thing we can agree on? OK. We can
- 1:02:25agree on that. If nothing else, we can say that
- 1:02:28Tom Lee. is not a gold star gay. No! Because
- 1:02:35he does have sex with a woman. He's not a gold
- 1:02:37star gay. No! Just like Dan Savage, actually.
- 1:02:40Not a gold star gay. Not a gold star gay. Oh,
- 1:02:43wait, can I say one more thing about Dan Savage?
- 1:02:45You can say whatever you want, girl. You can
- 1:02:46say whatever you want. I realized the entire
- 1:02:48time. So, yes, the dad is terrible. The dad is
- 1:02:52so terrible that he even dislikes the friends
- 1:02:55that Tom has. So awful. So awful. But I was like,
- 1:02:59he looks so familiar. I'm like, that actor looks
- 1:03:01so familiar. Who is he? And so I looked it up.
- 1:03:05The actor who plays Tom's dad is Grandpa Baker
- 1:03:09in 16 Candles, the one who is like, where is
- 1:03:13my automobile? Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. So he
- 1:03:17always plays assholes, apparently. That's a bummer.
- 1:03:21The one who does the little claps his hands really
- 1:03:23rudely. It's interesting that you read that movie
- 1:03:25so differently. It is. Yeah. I'm going to leave
- 1:03:30them with being kind of a, again, a Will and
- 1:03:34Grace situation. OK, interesting. Yeah. I do
- 1:03:39like to mentally sort of recast that film. I
- 1:03:41think it would be fascinating if there were someone
- 1:03:43with more overt sex appeal than Deborah Carr,
- 1:03:47because she does to me look so motherly. She
- 1:03:49is motherly. She's like 35 when she makes that
- 1:03:51film. To me, she looks like she's 50. She looks
- 1:03:53so old. She does look old. I mean, it's part
- 1:03:54of that 50s haircut. That 50s haircut, why would
- 1:03:57women get that in the 50s? No, it's just that
- 1:04:00healthy thing. What is it? Yeah, what is it?
- 1:04:02And she's so stagey to me. You know, the whole,
- 1:04:04like, British accent thing where it just doesn't
- 1:04:07work. It's like, where did you come from? I get
- 1:04:09it. She's stilted. She's stagey. It's like she's
- 1:04:11still doing the play on Broadway. And you want
- 1:04:14someone, I want someone in that role who is,
- 1:04:17does have more sort of electricity. Again, but
- 1:04:21the problem with that is... Kind of more milfy.
- 1:04:23I hate to say it, but I want more milfy. But
- 1:04:25if you put a Stifler's mom in there, for instance,
- 1:04:27going back to one of our other pods, if you
- 1:04:30put a milfy person in there, then the other guys
- 1:04:34are going to really want her too. Fair point.
- 1:04:38And the whole point of this movie... as I read
- 1:04:41it, and maybe obviously we're reading it differently,
- 1:04:44is that they have this special connection, and
- 1:04:46that he sees things in her that other guys don't
- 1:04:49see. Whereas if she's like super just off the
- 1:04:53charts, MILF, bombshell, all the other guys are
- 1:04:56going to be drooling around, plus the whole husband
- 1:04:59not sleeping with her, then the gayness of that
- 1:05:02will come out overt. So you can sort of say,
- 1:05:06well, maybe she just isn't hot enough. I do buy
- 1:05:11Bill being gay completely. But I think there
- 1:05:13are two gay men in this film, not one. And I'm
- 1:05:19sticking, I'm sticking to it. We will just have
- 1:05:22to agree. We will have to. Agree to disagree.
- 1:05:25We will. So we have again, it's really interesting
- 1:05:27to think about, we don't have time to talk about
- 1:05:29it today in our episode, but it's interesting
- 1:05:31to think why universities, schools really generate
- 1:05:36these kind of dramatic. connections yeah the
- 1:05:39the again power differential that we've mentioned
- 1:05:41a couple of times the idea of that accusations
- 1:05:44are so powerful they can destroy lives with the
- 1:05:47older films the living arrangement Yes, very
- 1:05:49much so. That, again, not so much with After
- 1:05:52the Hunt, although we can talk about the fact
- 1:05:53that the first scene with everyone being so intimate
- 1:05:56in that space led to the rest. Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:05:58But the first two films, the earlier films, Children's
- 1:06:01Hour and Tea and Sympathy, have people living in
- 1:06:04close quarters and observing one another in close
- 1:06:07quarters. And again, in one instance, Tom is
- 1:06:11living right above the couple and in the other,
- 1:06:14the two women are living with the girls. So a
- 1:06:17lot of it has to do I think with sort of spatial
- 1:06:19orientation. Yeah, that's a good point. And in
- 1:06:23workplace situations where people aren't spending
- 1:06:27all of their time together, it's not to say that
- 1:06:29of course, of course it happens, right? But you
- 1:06:32don't have that 24 hour proximity to one another.
- 1:06:36Well, but it's also interesting then. So of course
- 1:06:38we have different, very different age groups,
- 1:06:40right? We've talked about very young girls sort
- 1:06:42of elementary school age girls and then we have
- 1:06:45the teenage boys and then of course we have the
- 1:06:47graduate students and it seems to say something
- 1:06:50that are graduate students seem to be the most.
- 1:06:54fragile of our three demographics. And it's interesting.
- 1:06:58And we could probably talk about that for another
- 1:06:59hour. But I think that's fair to say. No, I agree
- 1:07:02with you. And it's interesting because, again,
- 1:07:05Mary, little bitch Mary. Bitch. But she's tough
- 1:07:08as nails. Absolutely. And she's tough as nails.
- 1:07:11She's a little criminal. In 1961. And Maggie,
- 1:07:16in 2025, really does seem like she is. completely
- 1:07:20going to fall apart. And again, different things
- 1:07:24are happening to them, but it is interesting,
- 1:07:27yes. And Tom, I mean, of course, he's very, very
- 1:07:31vulnerable and he is showing, you know, he's
- 1:07:34having all of these moments of, you know, kind
- 1:07:36of... No, depression, anxiety, however you want
- 1:07:40to think about it. But at the end of the day,
- 1:07:43he kind of, I don't want to say man's up. He
- 1:07:45goes back to the reunion. Right. He goes back
- 1:07:47to the reunion. And again, we see the graduate
- 1:07:52student really, really. having this trouble and
- 1:07:57having trouble even inhabiting the same spaces
- 1:08:00with Andrew Garfield and and it doesn't again
- 1:08:04until the whole five years later thing which
- 1:08:06we don't really understand right makes no sense
- 1:08:08that she's gotten her act together yes and it's
- 1:08:11much more mature and assured and but but who
- 1:08:13knows why who knows why it's a mystery well you
- 1:08:16know we didn't talk beforehand about book recommendations,
- 1:08:19but I'm guessing yours might be The Celluloid
- 1:08:21Closet. Well, no, I'm going to give you the book
- 1:08:24that we read. So we read last week in my graduate
- 1:08:27class for anyone who isn't in my graduate class
- 1:08:29listening to this. I don't think anyone is. It
- 1:08:33is a wonderful book by a historian. Carrie Baker, called
- 1:08:39the Women's Movement Against Sexual Harassment.
- 1:08:41And it's a history of sexual harassment in the
- 1:08:4370s and the 80s, much of it occurring in academic
- 1:08:46settings. And some really, really fascinating
- 1:08:50legal history, all sorts of analysis of power
- 1:08:54dynamics. And it is really a, I wouldn't say
- 1:08:58it's a. pleasant read, but it is a fascinating
- 1:09:02read. And it really gets into the ways in which,
- 1:09:06again, power and labor and various workplaces.
- 1:09:12are treating sexual harassment at different times
- 1:09:16and the meaning of gender and all sorts of ideas.
- 1:09:20So I highly recommend it if people are interested
- 1:09:23in a longer, I would say longer, but history
- 1:09:26of sexual harassment since the term became legally
- 1:09:31debated and legally argued. Oh, well, that sounds
- 1:09:35really fascinating. And I will then also slap
- 1:09:39up the celluloid closet on our list. All right.
- 1:09:42Again, which we've mentioned earlier in the pod,
- 1:09:44really interesting and important sort of history
- 1:09:46of a very important component of Hollywood. So
- 1:09:49I think that that is all the time that we have
- 1:09:51now. OK, well, if we don't see if we don't. See
- 1:09:56or we're not going to see you. But if we don't
- 1:10:00communicate before Thanksgiving, have a wonderful
- 1:10:03hunt. Have a wonderful hunt. And until then.
- 1:10:06Until then. Harpies out.