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#99 - Are You Playing It Too Safe With Evangelism? (Part 2) · Gospel Talks Podcast

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We're continuing part two of risky gospel opportunities and why playing
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it safe isn't always faithful.
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~ we talked about this last time.
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The greatest risk in evangelism isn't rejection,
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it's burying the opportunities God has entrusted to us.
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And we looked at the passage of the talents in Matthew twenty five,
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fourteen to thirty. ~ you know,
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we
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We worked through a number of things,
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~ understanding the parable, defining what is gospel risk,
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~ what are we really afraid of?
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Persecution, ostracizing ~ being ostracized from society
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or rejection. ~ and and then we ended last week talking about risk management versus
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risk avoidance. You know, businesses talk about managing risk.
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not eliminating it and that's true in the kingdom of Christ as well.
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We can't eliminate the risk. As a matter of fact,
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there's a a a writer that wrote a book about ministry called Dangerous Calling.
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And I just yeah I think it's this Jeff,
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you could comment on this. Ministry is quite the dangerous place
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for any Christian to be.
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I think it's dangerous on multiple levels,
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but i if nothing else, just the spiritual battle.
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We have an enemy who hates what we do and he wants to stop us because
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he wants to stop ~ the work God wants to do through us and and so as we step
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out for God, we put a target on our back.
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Yep. Yeah, we do. And what's amazing is Jesus has said to us,
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Love your enemies. ~ I don't know how to do that yet,
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but he says, Love your enemies is what he's commanded me to do.
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And y relational evangelism is the only strategy that I know of
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to get the gospel to people who are resistant towards it,
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who are against us and our message.
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And it also is a great way of managing the risk.
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Like we've said, it's a great platform to have repeated gospel opportunities
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to manage risk because people will know you care.
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They will know you're invested in them and that you love them.
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They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
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And so ~ that being said, we're picking up where we left off.
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And what we're gonna look at today is what are the opportunities we commonly miss.
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And
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~ what gospel opportunities do Christians most frequently bury?
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But before that, let's introduce the podcast.
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Welcome to Gospel Talks Podcast,
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where we help Christians all over the world become more effective
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in relational evangelism and discipleship.
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My name is George Binocca, and with me today is Jeff Musgrave.
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And it's great to be with him,
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author, founder of the Exchange.
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Jeff, you just finished writing a brand new book.
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~ you want to tell us a little bit about that?
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So Conversations with Jesus Volume One has been out for a while.
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~ it's the first half of the book of John.
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And just finished editing and ~ sending off to the publisher
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~ volume two and super, super excited about it.
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I feel like I've been living with John for just I mean,
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literally the person, ~ for the last ~ couple of years,
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but specifically the last couple of weeks.
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my wife Anna and I have read through the book two different times and ~ just kind of
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~ zeroing in on everything, learning,
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~ seeing ~ the life of Jesus in that last night,
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watching him restore Peter. ~ there's actually a section of a chapter
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on ~ what what Peter's restoration looks like in the book of Acts.
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It's yeah
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Yeah.
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super exciting. We're I'm really thrilled.
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Hmm, I love it. I can't wait for it to come out ~ and we will tell
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you guys all about it. You won't miss out on that.
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Well, let's just start with this question that I left off on in the introduction.
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What gospel opportunities ~ do you feel that most Christians frequently bury?
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Yeah, I ~ you know, this list that I have in front of me that I'm gonna talk about,
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you wrote. So maybe maybe the two of us should work on this together.
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this new neighbors, I am confident you put that on there because when
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you ~ first moved into town,
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~ you left all your connections ~ where you were and were kind
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of with nobody and I
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I actually told you, I said, George,
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you're in a brand new neighborhood.
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There's gotta be people right there.
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And it took a while for people to move in where you were,
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didn't it?
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It did, it did. That ha house right across the street from me wasn't even done yet.
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The people that moved into that house are Dylan and Emily.
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They have two kids, ~ and little ones.
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And they've been actually coming over on Fridays,
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been doing a Bible study together.
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~ and so it's amazing.
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The new neighbor thing is a real thing.
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When you see a U Haul, you should grab your back brace and your Ben
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Gay and you should go over and help unload.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. And and ~ bring meals. I mean,
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people need ~ so much in those moments.
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And
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Yeah.
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just make yourself a good neighbor.
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I mean, that's i we're not trying to buy anything,
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we're just trying to be a good neighbor and become friends
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Yeah.
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because that's what friends do.
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Yep, that that's exactly right.
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there are other people on this list.
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~ coworkers are a big one. Jeff,
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I I have not worked very long in a secular I've had little short stints
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in a secular workplace. I don't know if you've had a a stint in a secular workplace,
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but ~ there I mean, it is hard to be a Christian in a secular workplace
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and at the same time there's such great gospel opportunity because
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you spend probably more time with these pe as much time with these people
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as you do your family.
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Yeah. I and I think ~ again, the way to reach co-workers is
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I think first and foremost be be a good worker.
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~ but
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Mm.
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but secondly, ~ just be a good making friends with people,
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letting them know w I I want to know you personally as a person.
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I care about you personally. And ~ that relational connection ~ just takes
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you past ~ accomplishing work together.
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to accomplishing life together.
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Yes. Yes. ~ I I agree with you a hundred percent.
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The next one is also a great one.
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I love family gatherings. ~ and can maybe I could expand it,
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Jeff. Helping your family, let's say they buy a new house and they need somebody
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to come and demolish floors with them and paint and do stuff like that.
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I don't know how you handle witnessing to family members and things like that.
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Well, I think it when I do seminars,
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the biggest question that shows up every single seminar just we just
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got back from ~ where was I?
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~ Norfolk, Virginia. And ~ the church that we were in there had three
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or four people that their family had I mean they one woman said when
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I first got saved, I really pushed people too hard.
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And now they don't want to talk to me.
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What do I do? And so
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Mm.
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we talked about that very thing.
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~ making yourself a loved ~ relative by just simply showing up,
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being the the person who's always going to care for everybody else.
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frankly, the only way to get people like that to want to talk
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to you is to talk about the things they want to talk about,
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and ~
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Mm
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if you're
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You're earning back the the relationship.
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The relationship has
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Mm.
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been damaged and it didn't mean to.
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You I I don't I don't think people on purpose burn relationships,
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but when we recognize we've got a wounded relationship,
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we have to we have to earn back the we call it pocket change,
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Anna and I do it's just a term we use to to relationships and and really help them
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desire to be with you.
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And what I found
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Mm.
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is that when I'm a genuine believer and I am genuinely living the life
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of Christ and ~ carefully giving people the relationship that they need
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and and want from a relative, eventually they're gonna want to talk about
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me helping them because they watch me help other people and they I mean when when
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they get emotionally, physically ~ ill,
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they're gonna want us around.
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Yep.
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Amen. Amen. I agree with you a hundred percent.
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And on this list are things that I know we could talk about.
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We probably have examples ~ of each of these hospital visits,
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weddings, funerals, crisis moments,
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waiting rooms, sporting events,
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any of those that you've
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Well let's
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take those all together. ~ the sporting
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Yeah.
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event kind of goes into a different category.
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~ hospital visits, weddings, funerals,
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~ crisis moments, waiting rooms,
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all of those are situational. I'm I'm with you because I mean it
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Mm.
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it ~ and ~ when we are in those moments,
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I think that we have to be ever like ~ a wedding,
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I whenever I
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go to weddings, I always recognize ~ that that preacher over there is nervous.
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I need to go talk to him. And you know,
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they're just people that need help.
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And ~ I always want to jump in and help where ~ that is is needed.
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And what you find is that as you're going in and serving,
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funerals are the same way, crisis moments the same way.
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~
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Mm.
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then you just find these are the people who are open and need
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ministry. I had a friend who was in intensive care
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for some time and eventually died.
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This just recently happened. And ~ I I ~ went
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to the hospital and went to every single family member.
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I didn't you know it wasn't like I was checking them off,
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but I just needed to know how are they doing?
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What can I do to help? And in the process you find
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those abilities to to minister Christ to them.
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Yeah, ~ agreed. ~ those are critical times,
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those are rare opportunities, but ~ those are times when people
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are thinking about life and death and all that sort of thing,
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and so ~ we shouldn't pass those by easily.
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~ why do you think sporting event yeah
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That sporting event. I mean y are you are you ready to move on?
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~
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I shouldn't
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jump ~ in.
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No, you're good. ~ sporting events,
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I was hope to I was hoping to run away from it.
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But any I don't know why. I mean,
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I think
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this is a thing, but
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here's the deal. sharing an event together
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is what's gonna build that relationship.
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So it's possible
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Mm-hmm.
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that it is impossible to actually witness during a football game.
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I mean, you know, we're cheering,
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we're you know, and it's like it's not like you can interrupt this moment
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of look at that touchdown with let me give you the next point of the gospel.
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But what we can do is enjoy that event together and in the process of doing so,
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connect us, which gives me an opportunity to be able to speak to him
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at a different place, a different t venue ~ of about the Lord.
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So these are events that we are purposely connecting with people.
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So in other words, I'm not just gonna go there and enjoy the football game.
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I'm gonna go there and I'm gonna purposely try to connect with the person that
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I attended with.
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Hmm. Why do you think that
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why do you think God entrusts us with these types of opportunities or talents
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if we borrow Jesus' terminology from the parable?
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why does God open these doors for us?
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Yeah, i I I think we have to go back to the meta-narrative of nature of of history.
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And the meta-narrative of history is that Jesus came to seek and to save that which
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was lost from Adam's fall to the very last ~ soul before
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the trump is blown. ~ God
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Mm.
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is working to rescue people. He he sent me to
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Mm.
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serve him.
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on this rescue mission. It's not my rescue mission.
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I don't have to rescue people.
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He's rescuing them, but he he works with me.
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And so if that's the case, if he really has sent me to this rescue mission,
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then the fact is that ~
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he is also going to connect me with specific people
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he's trying to rescue. And I I I feel like that's my job is to be looking
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for those people and knowing that he's doing that.
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Mm-hmm. I love that. Yeah, being aware of what God is doing around you.
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that's the one situation where you could say,
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Don't be scared to read into it.
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Because God is probably doing something.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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we call those divine appointments.
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And the fact is that we should be looking for them,
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expecting them, and ~ and read I I love this thought,
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and I'm really stealing something from later on in our in my our notes,
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but God is always at work. ~ I mean he's never not at work,
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but when
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Mm.
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he pulled back that veil just a little bit.
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and allows me to see what he's doing,
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I personally see that as his invitation to get to get involved in what he's doing
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and to actually be a
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Mm.
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part of it myself.
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Mm. I love that. I love that. A and
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I
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guess the question we could ask is ~ what's the goal?
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Because let's talk about the word success for a second.
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~ success, this idea of success.
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We could start thinking of evangelism as ~
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an opportunity for our success.
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You know, were we successful in converting them?
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but but I don't think that's the goal.
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When you look at that parable
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What do you see as the goal of this whole process?
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I think that pointing back to the parable is really valuable because
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in the parable you've got three different guys and with three different levels
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of what we would call success.
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And the two who serve their master well were both equally commended,
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equally commended. And in the process,
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the the the words that we hear that are so beautiful are well done,
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good, and
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faithful servant. So I I think those two words,
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good and faithful, are the words that determine success by God.
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So I live my life for him in goodness
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and am faithful to take the opportunities that he puts in my path.
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So that is success. Success is ~ God seeing me as faithful.
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So to drill down on that a little bit,
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~ you know, for my friends who are a little bit more analytical,
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~ how do you define success in witnessing w because there
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I mean, because isn't there a failure in witnessing,
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right? I mean, I like it's the thing I think of is you can't fail when
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you fa when you witness. So what does succeeding look like with those biblical
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caveats of it's not what the world would define a success?
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So how would we define
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success in in a scenario where we're witnessing.
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Yeah, I ~ I don't know whether you feel this way,
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but I feel like when I take the risk,
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have the conversation, and get shut down.
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And I mean that it it was a failure in terms of conversion rate.
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~
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Right.
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I go I go away from that and have this sense of victory.
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I I didn't
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Right.
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I didn't
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chicken out even though the possibility of rejection was high.
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I I I s I took this the step.
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I did what God wanted me to do.
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And ~ I I love the abil the thought process.
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I'm not trying to win the world.
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That's God's job. What I'm trying
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Mm, mm.
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to do is follow my savior. And if I'm following the savior,
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then I'm I'm actually successful.
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I mean I
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I feel like I have done what I was supposed to do.
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Now failure in a in a witnessing opportunity,
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I've certainly had those two. That's when I chicken out.
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That's when I I sometimes I chicken out by talking about God and
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not talking about the gospel. ~ sometimes
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Mm.
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I chicken out by kind of mentioning that people need to be saved,
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but not helping a person recognize they need to be saved.
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Do you know what I mean? I'm I
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Mm, mm.
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I'm I'm I'm taking the easy path and
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And most of the times I go away recognizing that that was a failure.
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I wasn't faithful.
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You know, it's interesting because ~ I I think the only way we can fail
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is to not do what God told us to do.
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~
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He he.
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I mean, really, disobedience is failure for a Christian.
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~ that's I just I just have to obey.
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I I just have to live life his way.
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~ the results have nothing to do with success for a Christian.
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~ because the results are all God's.
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He gets the glory for the results.
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No one gets to go to heaven and go,
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Yeah, but you're like, you know,
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I won these people for you and Jesus is standing there like,
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No, I died for them. You just were a witness for me,
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but ~ thank you for pointing the finger,
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you know. because that's what John the Baptist did.
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He pointed, he pointed, he pointed.
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I do think though that Jesus is going to
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~ recognize our intimate service with him.
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So in other words, when I get to heaven
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Mm.
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and and there are people there that I had the privilege of being
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in the birthing room, you know,
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I had the privilege
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Mm.
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of being part of their their trusting Christ.
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I I just have ~ a confidence that Jesus is going to
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purposely acknowledge we worked together to see that one saved,
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didn't we, Jeff? ~
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Mm.
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I just I really believe that there's a companionship with Jesus
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in witnessing that that is beyond anything we could experience any other way.
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And you see what Jesus respects.
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He respects what he loves, what he praises is our faithfulness.
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you know, in in those things. ~ cooperating with him is a great way to
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put it the way you put it right then.
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~ but that and doing that on a big scale,
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multiplication, which is the thing that ~ I've I remember back when
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I was seventeen or eighteen when I first took the seminar,
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you came to our church.
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I still remember that analogy of the guys who really gifted guys were winning like,
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what was it? Like a thousand people to Christ every
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Yeah, we
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yeah. Versus the guy who's like one,
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then two, then like it was compounding,
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Two one person
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but it was slower to begin with.
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every six months is what that d illustration is about.
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Yeah.
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I love that. By the way, that's how multiplication works in the kingdom.
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That's how multiplication works with money.
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That's how multiplication works for everything.
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Is, you know, it there's this compounding effect over time.
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~ but any investment like that,
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we know this as people who maybe invest in the stock market or invest in the future.
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Risk is the price you pay for opportunity.
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And there is
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Yeah, it's interesting, George,
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when it comes to money,
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the higher the risk, the the the greater the payout.
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I mean, it's it's just really
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Yeah.
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interesting. I think the same thing is true in the spiritual realm,
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that sometimes the risk is a little bit you know,
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that's why we get afraid.
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Yeah. ~ I mean, and this is a question I'm gonna ~ was gonna ask is
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is that similar in in evangelism?
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And you you you kinda already answered it there.
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It is. how though how do we become bolder in our witness knowing there
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is risk here? How do we become risk tolerant in evangelism?
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Yeah. Well, if I if we knew that someone would be saved
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if we talked, we
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Mm.
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would all be talking all the time.
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I mean that there
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Mm.
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there's I I I deal with different I mean,
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I was in this seminar last weekend,
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~ we had 50 people plus in our seminar,
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and I I looked around the room and there was not a single person in that room that
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that wasn't there because they didn't want to see people come to Christ.
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They were there because they wanted to see people come to Christ.
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Mm. Mm.
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The problem was
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not that they didn't want to see people saved.
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The problem was that they is not that they don't know enough.
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The real problem is they don't know what's going to happen.
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And we're we're hesitant because we don't know what this foray into evangelism
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is is going to actually do. It's we don't know what where it's going to take us.
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~ frankly, I think we're afraid of being asked questions that we don't know.
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~ I think we're afraid someone's gonna really push back too hard.
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~
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Mm.
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and I I feel like I
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I was in a ~ store the other day and
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I saw this statement. It was a it was a sporting schools store and it says,
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You miss every shot you don't take.
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Yep. Yep. Yep.
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And I think I think we have to remember
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that ~ we we're not gonna see anybody come to Christ if we don't introduce anybody
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to Jesus. And
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Mm.
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~ and so w if we just have to kind of recognize the the only way this
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is gonna happen is if I take the risk and and not every opportunity is gonna
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hap is gonna is going to present itself as someone trusting Christ.
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I know even in the New Testament it says some plant,
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some water
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some till and those are all people who are going to eventually trust christ there
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are people who are eventually going to reject christ we're not every opportunity
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is gonna pan out but we know
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Mm.
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this that if we don't take those opportunities no one is gonna be saved from
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our ministry.
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Hmm. ~ w what do you think is
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the missing ingredient ~ that people don't maybe don't have
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or don't have enough of that is necessary to have this multiplication mentality?
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I think I think the real issue is do we believe that God is in the saving business?
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Do we believe
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Mm.
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God will use me? And I that's that's really,
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I mean, we we close every single session with pray the Lord of harvest that
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he would send forth laborers. The reason we do that is because Jesus preceded that
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prayer request with this statement the harvest is plenteous.
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Mm.
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And either we take him at his word.
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~ and and take steps because we believe that's true or or we don't take
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him in his word and do nothing because it if and faith is really the issue.
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~ do I believe that God is genuinely in the saving business?
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And do I believe that he has invested in me because he believes in me
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and wants to use me?
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You know, every time I've done an exchange bible study and I get to chapter two,
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I kind of dread it. And but I am I'm almost never disappointed at by
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the end of chapter two because here I think I'm stepping into
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an uncomfortable conversation about the gospel.
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This is an uncomfortable topic,
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yet God blesses. I don't know if you have any moment in your life where
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God surprised you when you stepped into an uncomfortable gospel conversation.
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Can I just back up and and comment about that before I answer the question?
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Yeah.
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~ it's what I love about the Exchange Bible study is that lesson
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two is coming whether we want it to or not.
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~
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True.
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And so in a conversation, it's really easy to kind
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of downplay it, to kind of sides it,
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Mm, mm.
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to kind of
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and the nice thing about the Exchange Bible study is number one,
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it's not me saying it. It well actually it is me.
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You let the author say it and and you don't have to.
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~ but it it it's the book,
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it's the truth, it's the Bible saying these words.
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Mm. Mm.
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but
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number two, ~ it
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you know, lesson two follows lesson one and and people recognize I've
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got to get through this. And and you're right,
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over and over and over we see the outcome that is positive.
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So you asked the question, what's the most ~ surprising,
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~ uncomfortable gospel conversation?
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Anna and I had a long conversation with
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an atheist and Anna said at the end of the conversation,
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Jeff, this is not working.
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We we gotta do
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Mm.
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something different. ~ she suggested we get a a a an apologetics type book
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and and kind of help him with it.
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And I and I remember the conversation we had,
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and basically my response was let's just give the gospel a chance.
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Let's let he had he had agreed to do the four lesson Bible study,
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and ~ I really wanted to see what was gonna happen.
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And the the coolest thing is that
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We didn't even get a chance to get to the third lesson.
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After we finished lesson two, ~ he came to me and said,
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~ literally these words, I don't need to study anymore because I'm convinced this
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is true. I need to make
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Mm.
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what you told me about. And ~ I just would love for all of us to
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To let that phrase go through our brain,
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let's just give the gospel a chance.
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Sometimes we ~ forward the the ~ opposition answers before
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the opposition is even given to us.
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so
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Mm.
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rather than s trying to apologetically convince someone,
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let's just give the gospel a chance.
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And as people have real problems with something that's being said,
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then we can stop and answer those questions.
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So I just
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I watching Carleton come to Christ was one of those moments in which
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I decided I'm gonna give the gospel a chance and I watched the gospel prove itself
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to me. And we can always do that.
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Yeah. Yep. Amen. ~ as we get ready to wrap this up,
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~ let's just do a practical risk assessment.
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So you just kind of trying to put ourselves always in the shoes of somebody
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in our audience who's saying, Okay,
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I want to become bolder and I've got some ideas on this,
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but Jeff, you go first. What are some low risk,
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high impact opportunities they can start taking this week?
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Yeah, I I I love the question.
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So tell me your story.
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Hm.
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most people love to talk about themselves and th you're showing interest
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in that person and before you know it,
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you're gonna get to the place where you can help them see Jesus.
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So I think just my my favorite go-to is ~ so tell me a little bit about yourself.
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Tell me your story. Where you know,
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how how did you get to where we are today?
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And ~ it's just really cool to watch that happen.
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Hmm. I I I love that. the one one that I love
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is ~ almost nobody, even an atheist,
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probably won't turn you down if you go,
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hey, can I pray pray for you? Is that okay?
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How can I pray for you? Can I pray with you right now?
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~ pe people just ~ of all faiths,
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backgrounds, worldviews, they pray.
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And so ~ it's kind of an interesting thing,
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the credence even the world pays to prayer.
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Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's interesting,
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~ you you hear about what's going on in Nepal and people say,
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we gotta be praying for those people,
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you know, we gotta be thinking about that.
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Mm. Mm-hmm.
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And I just think that's
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really ~ true. I another one that I think is really,
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really simple is and I I know I wrote the Bible study,
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I'm supposed to say this, but it is
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Mm-hmm.
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so easy to just tell people I have this four lesson Bible study that
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I really believe the two of us would enjoy studying together.
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It's just a simple introduction to who God is,
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how to have a close relationship with him.
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Use as the
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Yeah.
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Bible so that you s see it for yourself and decide whether you believe it
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and ~ just offer to study the Bible and specifically the exchange bible study with
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people.
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Hm. Yeah, I love that. ~ I love that.
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We've talked about other things before.
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most people drink coffee. Everybody eats.
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Okay, so those are easy ones. Inviting them to just common things.
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every and you talk about this,
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Jeff. ~ I think in giving the exchange,
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your testimony is ~ a presentation of the gospel.
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It's w it's one of the best gospel tools.
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Yeah, and it is the most
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powerful tool to get into gospel conversations of anything else we have.
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~ just telling our own story. So invite their you know,
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tell me your story. And then the cool thing is when I invite someone else
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to tell me their story, they usually reciprocate by wanting to hear my story.
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So that and I'm always gonna tell my spiritual journey.
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Yeah, absolutely. ~ okay, last thing,
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lightning round. When we stand before Jesus one day,
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what do you think he'll care most about regarding our witness?
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Yeah. I just finished Conversations with Jesus,
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Volume Two, and in that section we have the ~ denial of Peter.
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And I just think to myself, when Peter was standing at that fire
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~ and denied Jesus, the likelihood of him seeing someone converted
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if he just started witnessing to them wasn't very high.
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I mean, that wasn't why he was there.
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What Jesus wanted Peter to do.
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was to stand with him. And I I really feel like ~ what
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God is gonna want from me when I get to heaven is not how many people
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did you lead to Jesus, but did you stand with me?
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I I think he wants us to love
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him so much that we have to talk about him.
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I mean that's that's literally the biggest issue.
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Mm-hmm. Yeah, did you hide hide your light under the bushel or did you l
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set it up on a hill? ~ were you ashamed of me?
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Like you said before, ~ you know,
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are we wearing it comfortably on our shirt sleeve?
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~ yeah, I I think that's a great one.
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anything else before we close this out?
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You know, I don't know that this will touch other people as much as it touches me,
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but my friend Mike Reddick and I were in the Philippines together and
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I was just overwhelmed by the physical needs around me.
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And I knew that Mike was involved with helping some specific kids make their
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way through college and those sort of things.
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And I said, Mike, I said, doesn't doesn't this get overwhelming to you?
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I mean
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And I will never forget what he said.
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Just because I can't do something for everyone doesn't
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Mm.
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mean I can't do something for someone.
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And I think sometimes
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Mm.
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we get a little overwhelmed at God told me to go g give the gospel
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to every creature. And ~ if I think about the overwhelming nature of it,
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it can kind of paralyze me and and help and not do anything.
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And so I kind
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Mm.
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of love that thought. I
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I I'm just gonna do something for someone.
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I I really believe this. God doesn't expect me to win the world,
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but He does expect me to win someone.
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And so that's that's that's what I want to just leave
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Mm-hmm.
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with everybody. Look, God doesn't expect us to do everything,
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but He does expect us to do something.
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Mm, mm. Amen. Amen. ~ yeah,
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I I I think that's that's a great way to to to end it.
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That's that's the truth about this situation.
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And ~ you know, we go into the harvest,
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we pray this every week with you guys,
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but we know that some water, some sow,
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but God gives the increase. and so it's God who wins,
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and Jesus does win. I mean, read the book of Revelation to summarize
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the whole book of Revelation as Jesus wins.
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And so, ~
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Pray with us as we pray to the Lord of the harvest that he would send forth
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