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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for American mamas. Dear mamas, how
- 0:02Speaker 1: do you reconcile your Christian faith with the loss of
- 0:05Speaker 1: life in Texas from those floods. Well, let's ask our
- 0:08Speaker 1: American mamas.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Ma, she said.
- 0:21Speaker 1: In joining us now our American mama Terry Netderville. First
- 0:26Speaker 1: of all, this has kind of been a roller coaster
- 0:29Speaker 1: of a bit of a weekend because you had the
- 0:31Speaker 1: personal joy of having your family around you for the
- 0:33Speaker 1: Fourth of July and it's a big celebration for y'all,
- 0:35Speaker 1: and you guys had a great time, and then the
- 0:37Speaker 1: news comes of what's been going on in Texas and
- 0:40Speaker 1: there's just heartbreaking that.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and we didn't have we didn't have
- 0:45Speaker 2: the news. One, we had music going, you're enjoying family. Yeah,
- 0:48Speaker 2: there was tons of people there, and so we were
- 0:50Speaker 2: kind of late to the game. We didn't know this
- 0:51Speaker 2: was happening until one of our guests said to me,
- 0:55Speaker 2: I cannot believe what's happening in Kerrville, Texas. And I said,
- 0:59Speaker 2: what's happened in Kerrville? What's going on? And then they
- 1:02Speaker 2: told me and I was like, wait, what, Like it
- 1:06Speaker 2: didn't I couldn't comprehend how something like that could happen
- 1:10Speaker 2: and that way. And at that time, we didn't know,
- 1:14Speaker 2: you know, we didn't know how many lives were being affected.
- 1:18Speaker 2: We didn't know about all the little girls in the
- 1:20Speaker 2: camp missed it camp. And then I got on late
- 1:23Speaker 2: that night or really early next morning. I was on Facebook,
- 1:27Speaker 2: and I saw some of our friends who had girls
- 1:30Speaker 2: that went to that camp, and they were heartbroken. And
- 1:33Speaker 2: in times like this, I don't understand, and I'm looking
- 1:36Speaker 2: to God for answers, like, help me understand, help me
- 1:39Speaker 2: get through this, because these little girls did nothing wrong.
- 1:43Speaker 2: So God, help me understand. And you start looking for
- 1:46Speaker 2: something for verses, Well, I'll tell you what happened. I
- 1:50Speaker 2: was scrolling Facebook and Louis our very own Lewis Avaloni.
- 1:55Speaker 2: He had posted his feelings and thoughts and feelings about this,
- 1:58Speaker 2: and when I read it, it struck me to my
- 2:01Speaker 2: core and I knew immediately that this was God using
- 2:04Speaker 2: him because it it oh it just in fact, it
- 2:07Speaker 2: ad meant so much I shared it. I just looked
- 2:09Speaker 2: and it's about three thousand people have shared this because
- 2:13Speaker 2: it really hits. Yeah, Lewis, you have to go to Facebook.
- 2:16Speaker 1: Actually, that's just on one account. Yeah, on it been
- 2:19Speaker 1: shared on some other accounts, and then so that three
- 2:21Speaker 1: thous as right, So it's actually larger than that that's
- 2:24Speaker 1: been shore.
- 2:24Speaker 2: I thought, I want to read this because I know
- 2:26Speaker 2: people aren't on social media some people, but you should.
- 2:29Speaker 1: If you're on social media, go check it out.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Check it. He wrote. There are moments in life so sorrowful,
- 2:35Speaker 2: so beyond our comprehension that words feel powerless. The tragic
- 2:39Speaker 2: loss of life from the recent rising of the Guadalupe
- 2:42Speaker 2: River is one such moment, especially as parents like you
- 2:45Speaker 2: and me desperately try not to imagine the indescribable loss
- 2:48Speaker 2: the parents of those children are experiencing. That's because his parents.
- 2:52Speaker 2: We spend our lives trying to do everything right. We
- 2:55Speaker 2: buckle the seat built, we hold their hand near traffic.
- 2:59Speaker 2: We stay up late. We're brying over fevers, friends and futures.
- 3:02Speaker 2: We build our schedules, our finances, our very identities around
- 3:05Speaker 2: the safety and success of our children. We try to
- 3:08Speaker 2: protect them from all harm, believing perhaps subconsciously, that if
- 3:11Speaker 2: we just make the right decisions, they'll be safe. We
- 3:14Speaker 2: cling to that sense of control as we go from
- 3:16Speaker 2: checking on our children at night in their beds to
- 3:19Speaker 2: checking Life three sixty repeatedly to see where they are
- 3:22Speaker 2: on a map. But in moments like this, we're reminded
- 3:25Speaker 2: brutally that we are not in control. And that's hard
- 3:28Speaker 2: to accept, almost too hard, because when tragedy strikes, we
- 3:32Speaker 2: naturally ask where was God? But scripture tells us something essential,
- 3:38Speaker 2: something that gives perspective even when we're surrounded by heartbreak.
- 3:41Speaker 2: Psalm one seventy three reminds us children are a heritage
- 3:45Speaker 2: from the Lord, offspring, a reward from him. These children
- 3:50Speaker 2: are not merely ours, They are God's. We were entrusted
- 3:53Speaker 2: with them, handpicked for the role of parenthood by the
- 3:56Speaker 2: creator of the universe. That wasn't by chance, that was
- 4:00Speaker 2: by design. Jeremiah one to five says, before I formed
- 4:03Speaker 2: you in the womb, I knew you and saw one
- 4:05Speaker 2: thirty nine speaks beautifully of how God knit us together
- 4:09Speaker 2: in our mother's womb. That child you tucked into bed
- 4:12Speaker 2: last night, the one you held through their first steps
- 4:15Speaker 2: in first tears, was never a random combination of biology.
- 4:18Speaker 2: They were appointed to you as your sacred assignment. You
- 4:21Speaker 2: were hired by God himself to be their protector. Nurturer
- 4:24Speaker 2: and God. That's why we try so hard to protect them,
- 4:28Speaker 2: because the responsibility runs deeper than instinct, It runs into eternity.
- 4:33Speaker 2: But even in that, even with all of our efforts,
- 4:36Speaker 2: we must remember the rest of the truth, God is
- 4:38Speaker 2: still in control. As unimaginable as it may seem, when
- 4:42Speaker 2: we face lost like this, his hand has not left us.
- 4:47Speaker 2: That doesn't erase the pain, but it reframes it to
- 4:51Speaker 2: every one of us, asking why know this? We are
- 4:54Speaker 2: entrusted with our children for a season, but they belonged
- 4:56Speaker 2: to Him for eternity. Nothing in this life is truly
- 4:59Speaker 2: out to keep, not our possessions, not even the people
- 5:03Speaker 2: we hold dearest. Everything we have passes through our hands
- 5:06Speaker 2: like water through our fingers. But God's love that's eternal.
- 5:11Speaker 2: It does not fade, It does not fail, and it
- 5:14Speaker 2: never lets go. God understands the ache of losing a child.
- 5:18Speaker 2: He gave his only son not because it made sense,
- 5:20Speaker 2: but because it was part of a greater redemption. That
- 5:23Speaker 2: same God holds the souls of those children lost in
- 5:25Speaker 2: this tragedy, and he holds us too. None of us
- 5:28Speaker 2: is promised tomorrow. None of us can out smart or
- 5:31Speaker 2: outplant a world that's full of unpredictable storms. But we
- 5:34Speaker 2: can make today count. We can treat each day as
- 5:37Speaker 2: a gift because it is. We may not be in control,
- 5:39Speaker 2: but we serve a God who is, even when in
- 5:42Speaker 2: the face of such tragedy it seems ridiculous to think.
- 5:45Speaker 1: So you can check that out on American Ground Radio
- 5:48Speaker 1: on our Facebook page, Lewis Beautiful Words. Thank you for
- 5:51Speaker 1: posting those turn out of a thank you so much.