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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just- Living Up To Your Name 5.19.25 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  Pursue the challenges I'm fair Shila Hashem gum came hammer
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  abido gudolim. The levels on the branches and
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  the details of gila Hashem are actually much larger than
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  anything. It's now open shot simple case
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  queer beseri ha damlio has a Kabul kuna versus be very
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  careful when they're thinking about giving respect and
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  allowing Hashem's name to have respect OB homage.
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  He has seen every action that you do perform.
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  Sirichi is a queer with one ET analyzer and think about mode
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  great detail and nothing comes out of your action that might
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  cause some degree of of disgrace.
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  As ane question. You know, we've learnt this
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  secretary board doesn't matter whether the person does it
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  intentional or unintentional, it's still the same thing.
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  You cannot be involved in bringing out shem.
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  Now obviously if someone does eat some of those unintentional,
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  the punishment is less. But the reality is even or
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  intentionally a person can be the trigger and the cause to
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  bring out collection. You have to be very careful.
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  This is the key, Classic says. How do you define this top?
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  I take money from the butcher. For me, it would be if I take
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  money from the butcher, took me from the butcher and I didn't
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  pay them immediately. For me, on my level, that would
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  be because people would see me taking food and they would see
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  me not paying maybe everything I don't pay, maybe anything I pay
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  late. And that would be a whole lot of
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  shame. Terrible, my love recognizes in
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  my example, you got Anna de mas Guena by a mot below Toda below
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  to Philippe. If I would walk for a mode
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  without wearing, without learning toda, speaking toda or
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  wearing to Philippe for me on my level.
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  We'll get to the point in a SEC Ideas.
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  Shikola Adama, the female de Gato every person according to
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  his level, according to what's expected about Levi Masho
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  Nirchal Venador according to what he's considered in the is a
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  generation they actually born in Libertia assault Davar Bilty
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  Agun Leish comatose person has to be very careful and analyze
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  and make sure not to perform an action that's beneath his like
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  accepted level. And this is the key.
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  Beneath the level that he's seen as doesn't make a difference if
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  he considers himself as a humble person.
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  Lower than that level it doesn't have.
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  He's not allowed to act on a level that's beneath what people
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  consider him. If people treat him as a big
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  deal, he need to be a big deal 'cause you are present when you
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  represent. You can't be beneath that.
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  See if she's born in Libertia. Also devalued the Argon leash.
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  Can Moto cannot do anything that's beneath his level.
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  Or kvi Ki kvi reboot ha shibuto vocmato, according to his great
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  importance and wisdom and eyes of the people can that we shield
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  busy Hiloto. According to that level, the
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  people treat you as a big deal. You need to add to your care and
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  add the level of care and accompany a service of Hashem.
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  And your exactitude is worth to use your exact level and Soviet
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  Hashem get people think you're a learning person to carry his own
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  workers in person. People think you're a rabbi, You
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  have to act like a rabbit. People think that you are a very
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  wise person to look at and follow.
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  You need to treat yourself that way.
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  If you're getting, I don't know, Even if you're not really that
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  level, that's the point. Even if you're not really on
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  that level, just the fact that you're perceived.
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  That that. Say perception is enough, then
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  in any or second, if you don't act according to your name, that
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  Shem's name is being disrespected.
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  Because people look at you, they see you as a representative
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  version. They look at your representative
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  is not really so impressive. Look at these people, they
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  learn, so they don't talk probably.
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  So this. Is a big problem.
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  This is a big problem, Say B. Tech, the community as a whole.
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  So I everyone's moving towards this learning right with it,
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  morning, night, whatever it is, but the lives haven't been
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  adjusted or they're learning with people that are not
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  understanding of their lifestyles and they're holding
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  them at a level. And maybe the guys will get
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  there one day, but for the most part, they're still doing the
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  regular thing. So this kind of is what the
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  book's talking about now. OK.
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  So the challenge of this, we're talking about people that, you
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  know, really carry the flag because they're learners and
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  it's a much bigger challenge. I don't think it's as prevalent
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  the issue because most people who do learn are usually working
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  on themselves in other areas as well and they develop.
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  I think they're perfect at all. It's a process.
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  Of time that's a natural process by people.
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  Sorry. And people, exactly people are,
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  you know, coming into learning later on in life and stuff like
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  that, they're not expected to really represent the flag
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  properly and when others judge. Not talking about.
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  Right. Others judgement say that they
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  should be, you know, then you're right.
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  And people think if the guy learns in the morning he's
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  expected to be a good guy all around, then they are going to
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  be sometimes disappointed. First of all, it does happen
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  that people get better. But even if not, they are going
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  to be disappointed. And you're right, it is a
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  challenge. You know what if that that's how
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  people perceive those who have it's without a schedule, then
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  those who have it throughout a schedule need to act
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  accordingly. Whatever you're perceived as, if
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  someone says Shamir Shavat means, you know, if he's very
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  careful about Chevelle laws, he means he should be very careful
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  about honesty rules. That's how it works in people's
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  minds. Then you need to be the
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  everything according to what people think is the one area.
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  Maybe the only here in Al Tuda, where we allow people's
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  judgement to matter is that humbleness.
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  They like that people see you as more than what you are.
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  It's really not a good thing in general, but you're obligated to
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  carry. You're literally obligated to
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  live according to your name tag. It's the one area.
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  You have to sketch it, which means not that you sketch your
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  honesty, but the fact that people consider you Tamir Khan.
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  Let's say. That's it.
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  Well, the rabbi said that you live up to your name.
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  If we're called Yehudim, we have to live up to that name.
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  That's true. But Yudim is a very general
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  thing. Not everyone is carrying
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  themselves according to that level.
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  Where? But that's not where the
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  Kularshan comes in because sadly, the same people, a lot of
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  they will know that I could be a Jew and not a great guy.
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  The Kularshan comes in if he's expected to be living as a good
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  Jew. And now here's where the
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  question comes in. Is he really doing so?
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  Is he honest? Is he nice?
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  Is he crying? Does he get angry?
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  All the classes that people look at, right?
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  And now all those things are put the test and you have to be good
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  at those areas. If you are accepted as a
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  relatively good Jew, you're obligated to carry yourself
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  across the board consistently. This is something that demands
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  consistency and maybe even demands to be above your level
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  in this area because perception, it's, it's all, it's literally
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  important in this topic. We never care about perception,
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  but we do. So in this topic, we need to
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  care about how you look. I sent him with the United class
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  Classic example was a rabbit. They couldn't learn anymore.
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  And you know, he was an old man. People used to visit him or they
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  were visiting me that book open in front of them as if he was
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  learning. He didn't learn, he was
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  sketching. That's a very strange thing for
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  a rabbit. I do you know what he was afraid
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  of the following perception. If people see him as now
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  learning, they're going to think it's normal for someone that
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  age, someone's learning whatever it is that oftimes, and that's
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  not good for his students. There's a for his students or
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  for his visitors. He needed them to see him as a
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  learner. That's his level, right?
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  And the same thing is true regardless across the board.
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  If you're getting involved in the other question, should you
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  get involved in the certain business dealing and you know
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  that it's kosher, you know that it's preceded uncostioned and
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  you consider the respectable person in the community, be
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  careful, be wary. There are those who might be
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  negatively influenced or might be a matter of a negative
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  understanding what's going on. And this is a very important
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  topic of being consistent with your title and living up TNA.
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  And although it's not fair sometimes because I didn't I
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  didn't create this name. This happened and people
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  overdoing what I am all these types of arguments fair.
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  You have to understand you are representing Hashem and you have
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  a big name. Then your big name is
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  representing Hashem and that's calls for acting in the best of
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  all. So, Lizzie writes, is.
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  That why you hate public service that.
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  Or who does? It says hate public service like
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  that. No Sonata ravenut hate the Rob
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  Rabinet means because you should hate honor.
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  So many reason hate power and hate honor and Raven it usually
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  means obviously some level of real power and real honor.
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  So I see today so it's Rishna says the person should hate the
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  Raven. It's wild Rishna could you
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  imagine telling Taminism Zameem and murder the people hate the
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  Raven it. But you know what?
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  I hear it the call Mashi exad. Limit time speaking woman, but
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  then you know I. Cleaning your life.
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  But these are classic ones that are truer than true.
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  Know how to explain? I yeah, the another one.
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  Don't get too connected to the government, right?
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  It'll suck. Your air totally the core maschi
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  of Sodomizellafi. Let me stream our Babylon mood.
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  If someone is not living up to their proper level of, you know,
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  character, your shed straightness the kuna medot kuna
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  medot and he's learning a lot Gorem bizaion la limudas more.
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  He's going to create a bizarion to the learning of tonight's
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  office as a husband Khalila he Lulu schmoyek, but unnecessarily
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  to say is disgrace to the name of Ayyadah Shalimoto.
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  Why is a person, let's say, learns a lot but has terrible
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  character? Why is such a bizarion?
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  See the Torah itself because the Torah is meant to to come into
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  us and change us. And now I'm displaying the fact
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  if the Tudah is not working doesn't work, it's not powerful.
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  God's gift is limited. That's a challenge and because
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  of that where our risk of discretion into that itself and
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  therefore we make sure we must make sure to live up to our
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  level of Tudah, live up in your character going to level 10.
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  Everyone loves the tourists and learning guys and everyone loves
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  to say look at these guys and I can go away.
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  They yell, whatever they do, they're cheating the system, the
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  whole business. It's true that there are such
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  people. Number one, it's few and far
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  between. If you look at the masses of how
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  many people are sitting there and have a good character,
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  there's majority of our majority.
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  Oh, that way there are the minority, Kaha, it's like that
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  and across the whole world, the same way that minority
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  everything, and it may even be minority or rabbis that are the
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  best, whatever. Maybe it's across the board.
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  That's how it works. Life has minorities and you had
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  to be wary of, you know, treating the kool-aid too much
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  to then get disappoint. If you're drinking the kool-aid
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  too much, you get very upset when you see someone who's
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  floored. You overdid it, you over
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  assumed. And just because the guy learns
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  and he's going to be a perfect person, he's not may not even be
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  a good person, but majority of them are because normally the
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  Tara comes into the system and guides a person to live a
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  different life. If, however, a person is
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  studying the Tara like it's a, it's like a subject or a person
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  never absorb the message that Tara they just got the
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  information wherever it may be. It's possible to be a relation.
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  Sure is. A person's going to be super
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  careful if they hold the flag. They need to live by the flag.
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  And this is true for them, and it's true for a regular person
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  as well. You have to live by your title,
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  and if you don't, Hashem's name is our risk.
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  OK, we're stopping this.