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130 | Self-Abandonment Isn't Holiness: You Are Worth Being Loved Well
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What if everything you've been doing to earn your way back isn't actually making you more worthy? The over-serving, the shrinking, the never asking, the carrying your healing alone. Today I'm reframing one of the most quietly damaging beliefs I see in women after an affair: that worthiness is something you have to earn back through enough sacrifice and self-erasure. It isn't. And Psalm 23 changed everything for me around that.
We explore:
The self-abandonment…
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