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Season 2 - Episode 97 - Power & Force · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Talking today about power versus Force.
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  There is a big difference. Your power is something that's
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  yours, it is made up of your mindset, it's made up of your
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  demeanor, it's made up of your character.
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  Your power comes in, through the elements of you that you
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  cultivate to be yourself, your integrity, your honor, how you
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  show up, those are all things that fall under your power.
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  Nobody can make you think something that you Choose to
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  think now force that comes into like you know, when you're
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  angry, when you're going to try to handle something, through
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  harsh words manipulation gaslighting, right?
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  Those things tend to fall under the, the use of force.
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  How do I go about this and listen?
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  Sometimes you do need to be angry.
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  There have been times in my life.
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  When showing up in a situation, it was necessary to show up
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  angry. My son got picked on in school
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  and the Cool did not want to deal with it, for one reason, or
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  another because it was, you know, people in charge were
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  children were involved and I had to go in there and I had to use
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  that Force as a weapon in that moment because otherwise I
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  wasn't going to get the attention that needed to be
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  done, but the moment I got the attention.
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  I switched over to the power which was the Wizardry of
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  working with what I had as skill sets.
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  And there's a delicate balance between knowing when to use them
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  and knowing when other people are using them for the wrong
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  reasons, which is why I included in that list that Force comes in
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  under manipulation narcissism gaslighting.
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  All those things come in under that feeling of, I'm being
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  forced to do something. It is a force that I don't like
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  I'm being shoved in that way and so I'm I'm bringing this up
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  because I think that a lot of people struggle with do I jump
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  in and defend myself. Well, Right now, the way you're
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  interpreting what's going on in your situation, if you're in
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  this type of a situation, it all comes down to the your
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  interpretation and if you are letting people in your head
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  again because nobody can make you think or feel or do things
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  that you choose not to do and you have to ask yourself, am I
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  staying in a state where I'm president?
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  I am in control of myself or am I letting someone else control
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  me? For, I am no longer in my power.
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  So really vital question to ask because it's imperative to stay
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  in your power, always be checking back in with that,
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  always be looking to working and staying in your power.
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  Nothing is more important than that, nothing because it leads
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  to everything. Great in your life, it leads to
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  every bit of of your own character development.
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  When you are in your state of power you're centered you're
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  certain you have the ability to flow.
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  Sure. You do need to go to others.
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  Sometimes, sometimes force is necessary but it's not often and
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  you can typically get more places than anything with your
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  power. So it's a tricky thing to pay
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  attention to, but you have to ask yourself.
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  Am I using my power or my using my Force to get what I want and
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  if you are someone who's listening to this and you are
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  someone who does use an emotional manipulation and
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  certain things with people, you have to ask yourself.
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  Barely, why am I doing this? I don't need to do this.
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  I can get what I want a better way and then feel better about
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  it. If you're someone that's having
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  that happen to you, you have to ask yourself.
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  Well, what's the reason I'm giving up my power to something
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  that I know I don't like and Don't make yourself wrong for it
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  but just really debrief yourself as to what's the reason it's
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  happening because ultimately again, nobody can make you think
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  feel do act be anything that you don't agree to in some way shape
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  or form. You have to be the person that's
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  in charge of you and it's always necessary to look at it and can
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  and keep asking yourself a, my aunt asked to be the person that
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  I want to be every single day. This is not a, like, a annual
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  Check in where you do it once in 365 days, you have to do it
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  every damn day to stay on task. So really take a look at this
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  power and force in your life. What's showing up for you around
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  you in you all of it because it's necessary to understand it
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  in order to work with it. Alright?
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  My friends, I hope you have a blessed day and I will see you
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  tomorrow. Bye.
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  Check in where you do it once in 365 days, you have to do it
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  every damn day to stay on task. So really take a look at this
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  power and force in your life. What's showing up for you around
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  you in you all of it because it's necessary to understand it
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  in order to work with it. Alright?
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  My friends, I hope you have a blessed day and I will see you
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  tomorrow. Bye.