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"I’m Not Worthy of Being Loved Just Because I Exist" | The Victimhood Loop | Ep. 11

What happens when you finally stop replaying the story of what was done to you — and start asking what it's here to teach you?

In Episode 11 of The United States of Us, Tammy and Lori have one of their most honest conversations yet. It starts with a post called "The Victimhood Loop" and turns into something neither of them planned: a live, unscripted, and emotional exchange about a real moment when Lori felt "not chosen" — and how she moved through it instead of staying stuck in it.

Together they unpack why healing is a responsibility (not a fault), what forgiveness really means, and how the…

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