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The Lie of Kindness: Why People Pleasing Isn’t Service

This BTB short tackles the difference between true service and people pleasing, and why confusing the two can drain your identity, energy, and purpose. Host Kollman Gearhart, also known as Coach K, argues that real helping comes from alignment and fullness, not fear and the need to keep everyone happy.We discuss the hidden cost of saying yes too often, the signs that your body and purpose are paying the price, and a few practical ways to protect your capacity while still serving others well.

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In this episode, Coach K defines the “lie of kindness” as people pleasing disguised as…

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