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How to Handle the Darkness Before the Dawn · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi and Samy with Intuite of coaching with Amy Radio.
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  Speaker 1: And this is your sacred space or spirituality and tuition,
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  Speaker 1: manifestation and metaphysical wisdom. All right, So you have been
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  Speaker 1: working a manifestation, a goal, a clear desired result, and
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you're doing everything you know to do.
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  Speaker 1: You've been showing up, you feel like you're being patient,
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  Speaker 1: you're staying faithful, and then suddenly you hit that moment
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  Speaker 1: where you think, oh my god, what if it does
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  Speaker 1: not happen, or oh my god, this is not working.
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  Speaker 1: That is the moment. That is the moment, that is
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  Speaker 1: the darkness. That is the moment when your desire is
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  Speaker 1: actually getting ready to manifest. That is not the moment
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  Speaker 1: to quit. That is not the moment to panic. That
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  Speaker 1: is not the moment to start making the appearances mean something.
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  Speaker 1: They do not mean meaning what you're seeing in your
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  Speaker 1: external experience. Us humans love to make that mean something.
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  Speaker 1: So we're working on something, we're pursuing something, and we're
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  Speaker 1: not getting a result, or we're not getting the result
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  Speaker 1: that we want. Maybe we've been looking for a new
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  Speaker 1: opportunity and you're not seeing what you actually want. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: you're seeing little bits and pieces of things, but it's
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  Speaker 1: not a match to what you ultimately said you wanted.
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  Speaker 1: And so then you start to think, well, this must
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  Speaker 1: mean it's not available to me. This must mean there
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  Speaker 1: aren't opportunities. This must mean God wants me to stay
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  Speaker 1: on my job. Now, that is the moment to dig in.
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  Speaker 1: That is the moment to use your affirmations, attitude, your prayer,
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  Speaker 1: your decorative practices. That is the moment where you tip
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  Speaker 1: the scale into manifestation. Because the human mind will always, always, always,
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  Speaker 1: always look around their circumstances and say, oh, there's signs here.
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  Speaker 1: It's not going to happen. It's not going to come together.
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  Speaker 1: Nevin is flowing in the right direction. Maybe I was wrong,
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  Speaker 1: Maybe this is the wrong desire. Maybe God doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: me to have it, maybe it's too late. And then
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  Speaker 1: worry shows up, and fear shows up, and doubt shows up,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes bitterness shows up. And that is when you have
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  Speaker 1: to reach into your heart and say, absolutely not, I
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  Speaker 1: have no idea how this is going to work, but
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  Speaker 1: I am staying with this. It must come in to form.
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  Speaker 1: You have to believe that in your heart in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: and I promise you this is the arc of manifestation.
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  Speaker 1: Where people think manifestation doesn't work is when they hit
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  Speaker 1: this moment, they don't dig in and say absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: This must work, this must work. This is what Florence
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  Speaker 1: Shovlshin calls the darkest before the dawn. The dawn is
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  Speaker 1: the manifestation. The darkness is the fear, the doubt, the worry,
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  Speaker 1: the anxiety, the appearances that make it look like something's
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  Speaker 1: not going to happen, and all the energy that comes
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  Speaker 1: up within you that supports that. Right, the fear, the
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  Speaker 1: stories you start telling yourself, well, what if, what if?
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  Speaker 1: And then you start looking around your life and believing
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  Speaker 1: it's not going to come together, And so then the
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  Speaker 1: mind starts going this must mean, this must mean, this
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  Speaker 1: must mean. This must mean I need a backup plant.
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  Speaker 1: This must mean I need to do something else. This
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  Speaker 1: must mean I'm not called to do this. This must
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  Speaker 1: mean but it doesn't mean anything. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: start seeing it as a part of the game. Anyone
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  Speaker 1: who has ever been successful, whether in business, love, money,
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  Speaker 1: healing their body, they know there comes a moment where
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  Speaker 1: it looks like it's not going to happen, and it
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  Speaker 1: looks like everything's falling apart. And that is the moment
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  Speaker 1: where you say, I reject these appearances. I know there
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  Speaker 1: is a way. I know there is a way. I
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  Speaker 1: know there is a way. I know there is a way.
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  Speaker 1: And then you start to pray. I suggest everyone have
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  Speaker 1: a go to prayer that they use. Mine is the
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  Speaker 1: Lord's prayer, because I can default into that quickly. I've
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  Speaker 1: explained on this show. I have a very beautiful relationship
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  Speaker 1: with that prayer. You're learned it very young, and I
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  Speaker 1: can use it magically and it calls me back, calls
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  Speaker 1: me back. But have your own prayer, whatever works for you.
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  Speaker 1: And when I hit those moments where I'm looking around,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, oh my gosh, it's not going to come together.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's not going to work. Oh my god, this
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  Speaker 1: is going to go this way, that's when I start
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  Speaker 1: trying to oh, this must be this must mean well,
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  Speaker 1: this is showing up, so this must mean it's not
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  Speaker 1: going to go this way. That is when I start
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  Speaker 1: to pray even more. And I add, if I'm not
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  Speaker 1: praying the Lord's prayer in those moments, thank you, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: thank you God, thank you, thank you, thank you God.
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  Speaker 1: And that is both a prayer as well as a
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  Speaker 1: manifestation practice, a visualization practice, because I promise you on
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  Speaker 1: the other side of my manifestation, when I get what
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  Speaker 1: I want, I'm like, thank you, thank you, thank you God,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you God. And so I'll
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  Speaker 1: just I mean, I'm just doing that all day when
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking when i have that darkness moment, and it's
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  Speaker 1: not because I'm trying to avoid my feelings. No, I'm
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  Speaker 1: very aware of how I'm feeling in that moment. And
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  Speaker 1: it's not because I'm trying to run from the fear
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  Speaker 1: or the worry or the doubt. But it's because I
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  Speaker 1: can honestly say, yes, I'm feeling this, and yes it's
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  Speaker 1: not comfortable. But I also know that these feelings do
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  Speaker 1: not manifest the result I want. And I know what
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  Speaker 1: I want with all my heart. I want it. I
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  Speaker 1: want it, I love it. I want this result. I
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  Speaker 1: know it's meant for me. I know I deserve to
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  Speaker 1: have it. I know it belongs to me. I just
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  Speaker 1: can't see the next right step. So I pray and
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  Speaker 1: I trust that the next step will be revealed, and
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  Speaker 1: then once I'm back to center, right, So I'm using
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  Speaker 1: the gratitude and using the Lord's prayer to bring me
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  Speaker 1: back to center. I go back to my affirmations. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think if you're already starting to feel the worst
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  Speaker 1: of the darkness, I don't think that's the time to
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  Speaker 1: do your affirmations. Have something in between that brings you
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  Speaker 1: back to center. Maybe it's a meditation you do. I
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  Speaker 1: usually do do a meditation. A bunch in there too,
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  Speaker 1: I do. I mean, I do everything. I am a
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  Speaker 1: practicer and so. And then once you get back close
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  Speaker 1: to center, you can go into your affirmations, and I
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  Speaker 1: hope whatever manifestation you're working, you have an affirmation specifically
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  Speaker 1: for that. You can go back into your declarative statements,
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  Speaker 1: you can go back into your gratitude. If I'm manifesting money,
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  Speaker 1: as many of you know, I have tons of practices
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  Speaker 1: that I use for manifesting money, I'll do some of those,
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  Speaker 1: because when you feel your absolute worst during a manifestation,
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  Speaker 1: that is not the time to abandon your journey. That's
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  Speaker 1: the time to dig in and keep going. I am
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  Speaker 1: smiling right now because you'll know once you start to
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  Speaker 1: really understand how this is, you know that this is
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  Speaker 1: the cycle, and you think your human mind. She genuinely thinks,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, it's not going to work. But that
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  Speaker 1: is not what's going on there. That is actually a
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  Speaker 1: time to recommit to your faith. It is the time
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  Speaker 1: to dig in. I have been attempting to teach this
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  Speaker 1: to clients for years, and those that get it really
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  Speaker 1: live extraordinary lives. And those that don't, their journey gets
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  Speaker 1: a lot more windy. But inevitably, you got to go
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  Speaker 1: through this, and you got to learn how to go
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  Speaker 1: through this. I also recognize something important. This is why
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  Speaker 1: faith has to be practiced consistently. It is hard to
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  Speaker 1: dig deep in a hard moment if you have not
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  Speaker 1: been building faith over time. I'm not saying miracles cannot
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  Speaker 1: happen fast and rapidly and immediately. They can't. But I
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  Speaker 1: do believe you need some foundation inside of yourself. Faith
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  Speaker 1: is built. Practice matters. Do your affirmation, do your gratitude,
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  Speaker 1: do all of your practices, train yourself to navigate the darkness,
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  Speaker 1: because there is a moment when you need every single
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  Speaker 1: one of those practices if you're going to live the
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  Speaker 1: life you truly want to be living. So, as I
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  Speaker 1: was putting these show notes together, what flashes Steph Curry.
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  Speaker 1: You know how back in the day Warriors, the Splash
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  Speaker 1: brother days, they could just pull it out in like
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  Speaker 1: the third quarter or the beginning of the fourth they would.
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  Speaker 1: It would just there was like this magic connection between
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  Speaker 1: all of them and they would they would blow this
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  Speaker 1: came out and they were down right, they were maybe
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  Speaker 1: going into that and they were down and then they'd
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  Speaker 1: show up just on fire. That's exactly what I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Because the reason they could pull it out though, is
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  Speaker 1: because they practice, and so that is manifestation. When the
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  Speaker 1: pressure comes, you gotta pull it out because that pressure
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  Speaker 1: is all the work you've been doing with yourself on
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  Speaker 1: yourself is starting to compress against those lower negative feelings
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  Speaker 1: that are within you. And the way you create diamonds
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  Speaker 1: is you keep practicing. You got to pull it out.
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  Speaker 1: But you can only pull it out because you know
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  Speaker 1: how to practice. That is why the spiritual work works.
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  Speaker 1: That is why letting yourself receive parking spots and finding
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  Speaker 1: money on the street, that is why that works because
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  Speaker 1: when you need that faith at that moment. And I
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  Speaker 1: know there are people listening to this show who are
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  Speaker 1: like Amy, I know exactly what you're talking about. It's miraculous.
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  Speaker 1: On the other side, it's hell when you're in it.
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  Speaker 1: But the way you navigate that is because you have
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  Speaker 1: been practicing and you're able to stay consistent, because there
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  Speaker 1: is going to always be a moment when you don't know,
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  Speaker 1: but you do, and your practice is how you do.
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  Speaker 1: And this is how we stop creating life by default
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  Speaker 1: and start creating a life intentionally. So if you really
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  Speaker 1: want manifestation to work for you, this is how you
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  Speaker 1: do it. This is how you do it. But it's
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  Speaker 1: not just one technique, right. I love techniques, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'll jump on YouTube and learn a new technique.
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  Speaker 1: I think they all work, But really what needs to
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  Speaker 1: work is you and so practice, practice, practice, because you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna need that muscle to be well defined and strong
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  Speaker 1: when you are at this moment where there's something you
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  Speaker 1: really really want. You are being so intentional but about
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  Speaker 1: a desire, about a manifestation, and you're gonna have to
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  Speaker 1: dig in. You're gonna have to be a splash brother
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  Speaker 1: and dig in. And it's not gonna feel good when
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  Speaker 1: not worry and that fear and that doubt and the stories,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, the stories when you're thinking of, oh,
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  Speaker 1: if this doesn't come together, this is gonna happen. When
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  Speaker 1: that gets going in your body, it feels terrible, like
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  Speaker 1: so bad, But that doesn't mean anything other than you're
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  Speaker 1: almost there. Start practicing. Start practicing. Don't talk to anybody
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  Speaker 1: about it, Just start practicing unless and less. The only
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  Speaker 1: I might say, talk to somebody about it, it's somebody
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  Speaker 1: who is spiritual, somebody who knows s faith. Talk to them.
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  Speaker 1: But don't talk to somebody else who doesn't get it,
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  Speaker 1: because they will take you down a road that'll take
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  Speaker 1: you ten years away from your desire. So because they'll
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  Speaker 1: start telling you stories, well that must mean and this
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  Speaker 1: must mean, and that must mean. But the external reality
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  Speaker 1: does not mean shit when you're a manifest I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it really doesn't mean anything now. But if you weren't
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  Speaker 1: manifesting unless you choose to believe that it does, And
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  Speaker 1: most humans run around this planet thinking that it does.
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  Speaker 1: And so it's unfortunate. But where spirit comes in. So
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  Speaker 1: I pray this show was helpful. I'm going to keep
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  Speaker 1: talking about this because I know this to absolutely one
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  Speaker 1: percent be true. I have I have tested it, tried
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  Speaker 1: and true. But I also spend a lot of years.
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  Speaker 1: Why I am going to talk about it so much
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  Speaker 1: is because they spend a lot of years getting to
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  Speaker 1: that moment the darkness, and thinking, well, this must be,
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  Speaker 1: this must be, this must be, this must be. And
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  Speaker 1: then I'd go and you know, I had somebody in
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  Speaker 1: my life I would talk to who believed in external results,
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  Speaker 1: that the external is, that that's the truth, and then
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  Speaker 1: they would take me on a on a journey. I'd
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  Speaker 1: let them right because I'm talking to them, I'm feeling bad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying not to feel bad, because it does feel bad.
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  Speaker 1: And so we think we're doing our best to feel
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  Speaker 1: better by deviating from the desire or abandoning the desire,
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  Speaker 1: or giving up or thinking it didn't work, or choosing
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  Speaker 1: a practical choice. But we're not. We're not. We're just
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  Speaker 1: playing into the darkness. So be above the darkness, stick
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  Speaker 1: with it, dig in, reach into your heart, use every
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  Speaker 1: practice you know to practice. Expect the darkness to show up,
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  Speaker 1: Expect it and say I got it, and practice your
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  Speaker 1: way through it. You have no idea how much practice
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  Speaker 1: it really really takes to do what you really really
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  Speaker 1: want to do. I do, I do, And if you
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  Speaker 1: want help with that, I can help you. I know
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  Speaker 1: these spiritual principle makes sense as you've been listening to
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  Speaker 1: this show, but you may find it's difficult to apply
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  Speaker 1: in real life. I get it. I help you bridge
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  Speaker 1: the gap between spiritual insight and real life results. I
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  Speaker 1: live this stuff. I live this stuff. I'm not just
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  Speaker 1: on this podcast. I haven't done sixteen hundred podcasts talking
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  Speaker 1: about noise. I live this and I can help you
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  Speaker 1: so much for listening to the show. I pray it
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  Speaker 1: was helpful. I look forward to connecting with you on
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  Speaker 1: the next Take care of yourself. Goodbye,