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What We do is Love · Life and Love Podcast

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You practice what you preach. I do practice what
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I preach. And what I preach is what I practice.
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Nah, not even. Not even? No. What's going on?
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What's going on? What's going on? You're now
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tuned in to Life in Love with... Kerika. And
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Sean, the front room edition. That's right. Yo,
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so the... I know we back. We took a... Episode
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the two off. Um, we definitely gonna be back
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more frequent. Um, how you sound everything from
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something? Yeah. All right. We're gonna be back
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more frequent But um, we're gonna do our part
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in our front room. We're gonna take it out of
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the studio We're gonna un -formalize things Plus
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the in -home studio is turning into something
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else, which must my boys are prepared for they
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ready So we're gonna be doing a lot more like
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live stream things for with the fam, that'll
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be on another channel which we'll announce and
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we'll talk about and all that other good stuff
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very soon. And we're gonna start doing some more
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live stuff here as well. Erica and I are gonna
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be doing some live things as well on the network.
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So you'll start seeing more of that thing. I
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have a video dropping soon that explains a lot
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of changes for the network. different podcasts
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that's no longer part of the network, podcasts
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that are under construction, different shows
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and things of that nature that we do have in
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the works and that are coming up. But, you know,
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change is good. Change is good. Sometimes you
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got to make changes, got to adjust some things.
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And that's what is happening right now. Sometimes
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you got to change. So things has to change. So
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let's get into the show, man. I hope you all
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enjoyed the last episode of Life and Love, man.
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So we... We had a good time on that episode So
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this woman we're gonna kind of continue some
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of the the conversation that we had last episode
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But let's talk about TV shows that we were raised
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on So what are those two two shows because I'm
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telling you our shows are gonna be starkly different
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What are the two like we're gonna start on TV
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shows and then I want to go to cartoons What
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are the two TV shows that you grew up on watching?
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Good times. Okay. I love me some JJ Evans and
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I'm gonna say the Jefferson Jefferson's. Okay.
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Okay. I'm not too far off. Yeah, I mean Definitely.
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It wasn't good times for me man Good times was
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cool and all but I'm from Detroit man. I lived
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in a hood in the project So a lot of that was
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not the projects we stayed in apartment you was
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the good time I guess so um George Jefferson
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definitely cuz I sure was fired yeah, and um
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a second would be To to set That's a good one
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to to settle to my favorite shows coming up cartoons.
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Let's see now. I know that's what we're gonna
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be definitely different Yeah, what cartoons did
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you grow up on okay? Keep it real Goku I'm sure
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it's I think it's probably cause something. Yes
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Dragon Ball Z, but yeah You ain't watch I did
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I used to watch that coming home from school
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I used to come home and I used to watch Goku
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Now I might can tell you everything was going
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on right now, but I had like that hell like Goku
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Dragon Ball Z We all know what it is. Do the
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Power Rangers count as a cartoon? Yeah, that
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counts. Power Rangers. Power Rangers, all right.
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All right, for me, Transformers. Okay. Transformers
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was one. I used to watch that shit all the time.
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Young. And I'm gonna go to Smurfs. Okay. Yeah,
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you really took it back to the cartoon. Yeah,
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man. I'm a cartoon connoisseur. And we can keep
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going. We can go to Gummy Bears. The Bernstein
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Bears. The Bernstein Bears. Bernstein. Bernstein.
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Who says it's Bernstein? It's Bernstein. Bernstein
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Bears, okay. It's the Bernstein. Yeah, I used
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to watch that, but I used to read the books more
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than anything when it comes to those. The books
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was more, but they come on TV. What's the dude
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them DuckTales? Yeah. Those are the joints. Yep,
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the Jetsons. Yeah, yeah. I'm shocked you didn't
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watch no Care Bears. I did watch Care Bears.
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Care Bears was the joint. Yeah, it's taking it
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back. Yeah, you gotta take it back. I didn't
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watch the Care Bears. I mean, you only two years
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older than me. That's true. That's it, you right
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there. You an 80s baby. That's true. Right there.
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I watched cartoon and stuff. Uh -huh. But what
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the old people had you really watch it? That's
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what I was gonna say. I'm look I've been watching
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Petticoat Junction. Uh -huh. Um, Highway to Heaven.
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Oh, yeah. Highway to Heaven was the shit. People
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sleep on that. Highway to Heaven was the shit.
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Archie Bunker Nails. Yeah. All that. Yeah. I
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was like, yo, Highway to Heaven made me watch
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um What's the um, the other one is like good
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night the Waltons, you know because the dad was
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on Highway to Heaven too. I maybe watched that
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show. Highway to Heaven was some good filming.
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Shoot. How long did it take you to realize Buddy
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was dead? Him and his band was dead. They were
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angels the whole time. Oh, it been a very long
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time. Me too. Tell me a minute. You know what?
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I can remember the episode. We definitely tell
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you our age. I remember the episode when they
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had the black lady from She was in the movie
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with Eddie Murphy when she shot a pinky toe.
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She was in that. She was in Highway to Heaven.
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And she was on the episode. She was on a few
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episodes. And she was on an episode. What made
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me realize him too was dead was she was on a
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particular episode. And I was like, huh? I'm
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pretty sure that was like 5 ,000 episodes later
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when that happened. But I was like, oh, shit.
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Yeah, when she came around. And they probably
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showed it at the end every time. But it was always
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hitchhiking. So it just never could really tell.
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Now you're right about that. And then she turned
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around and did a show with her and her other
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ladies. And they were angels. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Whenever stuff will happen to people, you know,
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they will be there. They were like, yeah. So
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I used to like quantum leap too. Yeah. Quantum
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leap was fire. Yeah. People sleep on quantum
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leap. Quantum leap was fire. And the original,
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my man used to build shit and get out of everything.
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Matt, not Matt Locke, the dude they used to build,
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he used to build, he'd take a paper clip and
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a rubber band and he'd be like, flip someone's,
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what was his name? God damn, I can't think of
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his name. Yeah, it's not Matt Locke, though.
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Nah, and Knight Rider. Knight Rider was firewood
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kid. Yeah. Classic joints, classic joints. Ain't
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gotta be all black, Joe. No. You know what I
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mean? Nah, because I watch a lot of the other
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ones. I grew up in the area where, you know,
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we got up Saturday morning, ate a bowl of cereal,
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sat in front of the TV. All of us just sat in
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front of the TV and watched cartoons first thing
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in the morning. Then when the cartoons went off,
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he was outside. Right. Because the cartoons went
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off at like 10, 11. Yeah. Yeah. It didn't stay
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on all day. The cartoons were not on all day.
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They too long started doing that. But then now
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it's kind of like dying back down because we
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don't have like regular TV all the time. It really
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don't. And then these kids only watch YouTube.
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Yeah. They don't really watch no cartoons. Nope,
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they don't. Just watch YouTube all day. You pay
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for all this live TV, and the only thing he watches
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is the free YouTube. That's it. Free YouTube.
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And then get mad at Netflix if he's like, yo,
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we gonna cut Netflix off. I be watching that,
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no you don't. No you don't, no you don't. Don't
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at all. You're lying. Now, coming up, grew up
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in, in the household we black so we can only
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know what black people do saturday morning when
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the bleach was going what songs was playing papa
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was a rolling stone played that and my grandma
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loved um smoky robinson He didn't like smokey
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like that. Nope. No, it was Al Green. He did
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listen to Smokey. But he didn't really care about
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that Al Green because he know my grandma love
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him. So he didn't care. Every time he used to
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come on. He didn't like him. I think around the
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same thing. It was definitely some Al Green Smokey
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temptations. Definitely. Oh yeah. Anything Motown
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related, Anita Baker, that's probably why I love
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Anita Baker so much. I love her music. I love
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Anita Baker so much. Yes, I am. I don't care
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how many people complain and say she a diva and
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she got a bad attitude, I still fuck with Anita
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Baker. I'm always gonna fuck with Anita Baker.
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Anita Baker's one of my favorites. Stuff like
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that was also played while we were on. Cleaning
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the home on a Saturday morning kids now they
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don't know nothing about that When we get up
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and clean they be in the bed see but that's our
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fault I always I'm always gonna feel like a lot
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of stuff that people complain that kids don't
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do now and What we used to do is because we stopped
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it. We stopped it If the kids knew Saturday morning,
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you had to get up You got to clean you got to
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do this down the third for you could do anything
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They would know We do the cleaning. We'll get
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up and we'll clean. And we don't want to wake
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them up. You're right. Just like that video you
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sent me. Well, it's an arm show with this woman.
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She had a lot of kids. I can't even remember
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how much she had a lot of kids. Right. And, you
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know, they were all, you know, like grown kids,
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you know, and they was living with her. Only
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one was at the house. Right. Because he got married.
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But she was like, all the kids, they play a part.
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And even if they do work, they still contribute.
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Yeah, they contribute to painting something in
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the house. Yeah. Not mad at that because they
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need to learn. They cook. She was having them
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cook. Yeah, they got to cook. And I don't blame
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her. She was like, what? Twenty three to twelve
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or ten. Yeah. Yeah. And I was a bunch of them
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kids. Yeah. It was like that was the age group.
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It was like twenty three to ten. Yeah. 10 or
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11. Yeah, they weren't baby babies. Right. It
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was about 10 of them. He still was enough for
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them to do chores and stuff around the house
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and things. But her husband, he was true to what
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he said. He said he told she thought she was
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going to have no kids. She thought maybe one.
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He told her he want to have a lot of kids. That's
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what he told her. I want to know, did he say
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that before or after the man? No, no, he told
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her before. She told him before. He kept her
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on her back. He kept her on her back, barefooted
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and pregnant. And she said she'd been having
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babies since the 80s. And she still look good.
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80s, 90s, and so like that. I commend her. She
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been having babies for a long time. She still
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look good. Yeah, she do look good. She all look
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good. She kept her self up. She still look good.
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Hair look good. You know, because a lot of time,
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women, you know, you get pregnant. You start
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having all these babies and - Y 'all start falling
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off. Yeah. You know, you look like - Y 'all be
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falling off like a leather wig. Right. But -
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But that's what she said. I was like, hey, that's
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dope. I'm like, shit, I only got two and I gotta
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fuss for them to do something. And these over
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here, her kids, they over there help cooking,
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they cleaning, they washing dishes, they do their
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chores. But at the same time, those kids are
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older, so. Yeah, they are. Yeah, you know me
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and then they teach down. Yeah. Yeah, she still
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she had a schedule from the beginning right and
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and that also helps You know, you got someone
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on the schedule from the jizz. Oh, yeah. I mean
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she she runs a tight ship I mean, that's the
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job right there keep all that intact but at the
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end of the day, you know, she's not Tired and
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complaining and stressed out because she ain't
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got no help. I know we all in this house. We
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gonna help yeah pop pitch in and It'll work out,
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I'm trying to find it. Good luck with that. I
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know right, because we talk way too much, even
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online. It's a damn shame. We live together,
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we can easily just verbally tell each other things,
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but no, we send memes. We'll send memes, videos,
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everything. It'll be a plethora of things that
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get sent to each other throughout the day, what
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we like. Yeah, I ain't gonna be able to find
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that shit. Yeah. It's been a, not too long, but
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still. It's a bunch of stuff done piled up on
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top of that. Yeah. After I went back just a few
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steps and realized there's a couple of items
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where it was like, I think I sent that before.
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We even talked about that. So yeah, that's cool.
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That's a wrap, but it's cool. I mean, everybody
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get the gist. Yeah. And I'm sure y 'all probably
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saw it float no line anyway, because I saw it
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on my own and then he turned around and sent
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it to me. So. Right. Y 'all probably see you
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know, what are we talking about? But yeah, and
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if you don't so what? I know your birthday just
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passed. How did how did how did turning 44 feel?
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I Didn't feel no different to be honest, okay,
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no different, you know because I made a promise
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to myself that I'm going to continue to keep
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my health up do everything that I need to do
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because you know when you do get older Older
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things do get you know Limited, but you got to
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make sure you do what you need to do to keep
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those things flowing So I feel good. I look good,
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and that's all what matters You look desirable
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Oh Lord, that's why I only get to get you acting
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up And get you acting up was there anything that
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you all wanted to do your birthday that you didn't
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get to do No Actually, this was the first laid
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-back birthday Like we did things throughout
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the week. Yes, we did and it was very laid -back
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It was just us by ourselves for the whole week
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and we just kind of just do some things that
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we just wanted to do like Just get up and go
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right do it right and just spending that little
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time like that together like that meant a lot
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to me Oh because now, you know, I was like, you
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know what? I can look forward to this like every
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year if it's just us doing something just a little
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something I'm cool with it. Right, you know,
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we used to go out for birthdays, go out of town
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and do this and do that. Yeah, we do. We just
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do a lot of that. We didn't did it this year.
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And it's actually been like the first time, like
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we really did. Yeah, because I always believed
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that, you know, on your born day, you should
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go on vacation, go take, you know, take a trip,
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get out of that area and stuff. And we did have
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plans to do that, but then their plans kind of
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changed. But I think it changed for the better.
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Oh, it did. It worked out. Like you said, we
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did a whole bunch. We did a whole bunch that
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we even though, you know, we took, you know what
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I mean, we was home. You know what I mean? But
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we were doing stuff and we didn't have the boys
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for a little while. So and then on your actual
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birthday, we had the boys and then we all chilled
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and everybody was cool. You know what I mean?
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That was a good thing. Yeah. But we still got
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to go out again because I didn't wear my birthday
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outfit. This is what he does for birthdays. You
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get a new outfit, right? Got to get something
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else. I got a birthday outfit. I didn't even
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get to wear it. That's how I believe it. Anytime
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you every time you have a birthday. Put on something
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new, put on something fly. If you're not gonna
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buy it for yourself, I try to go out and make
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sure I get something for everybody on their birthday.
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The boys on their birthday, they look forward
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to it. They don't. They know they're getting
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the outfit. They don't get something easy. Right,
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they already get clothes anyway, but yeah. It's
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funny, Devon said, yeah, my birthday coming up,
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dad. Where we going out to eat at? I said, bro,
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you're having a party, son. But she still would
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take me to get something to go out there. I said,
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bro, you're not going anywhere. You only have
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money on a party. You'll be at the crib, bro.
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Right, you're going to have food here. You're
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going to eat at the house, homie. Shoot. No,
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he is not. I'm not doing that this year. But
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you are getting an outfit. You're getting an
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outfit. You're getting the pants and the shirt.
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You're getting the pants and the top. You're
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getting the pants and the top. You definitely
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get the pants and the top. Am I even buy undergarments
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you getting I Ain't buy no hat so cuz Shawn fucked
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that up. He threw his head out the window that
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one time boy He threw at your clean out the window
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when he was little. I never bought another head
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again. They have bought my head again Look back
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to the back seat look bad So I never buy your
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ass a hat again boy, he looked at me by your
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stupid ass I had to get I'm not doing I believe
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in that. Let me tell you something. This is me
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Tell you to the movies you go to sleep. It'll
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be three years before you see another fucking
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movie with me That's straight up and then when
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you go back you better stay away Never forget
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if your ass go to the bathroom more than one
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time. You can't go back to the movies with me
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I don't go to the bathroom like that. Don't eat
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don't drink if you got a weak bladder. I ain't
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with this shit Don't talk to me while we watching
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the movies the movies is a place that I like
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to go to It's my sanctuary. It's a fun place
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for me. So needless to say, Erica and Deshawn,
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they don't go to the movies often with me. Davon
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does. He's my movie guy until he fucked up. He
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fucked up before and he stopped going for a little
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minute and I will go by myself. But he's back
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reinstated. The whole house is back reinstated.
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Davon was back reinstated a lot quicker than
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everybody else. If you fucking go to sleep, yeah.
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She went to sleep on Black Panther when it first
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dropped. We drove all the way to South Carolina.
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We had shit to do. We took the boys, dropped
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them off in Andrews. We drove all the way to
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the beach. We checked in our hotel and then we
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went to the movies. I'm hype. I'm sitting up,
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let your go. Yeah, I was tired. You ain't did
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nothing but passenger. You ain't did no driving.
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You barely paid for anything. You did nothing.
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You did absolutely nothing. So guess what? No
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credit for that ass ain't been back since she
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was at that time. It was three years Three years.
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I took her to see she went with me to go see
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Odyssey. She was great. She was a great We went
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to see um, what's the Ron Kluger joint centers,
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yeah She did a great job. She's not been back
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to a Marvel film since then. Yeah, she was up
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The next time she saw Black Panther was at the
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house. I went to see that shit at least two,
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three times at the theater by myself. The next
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time she saw the Black Panther, TV right there,
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the house. So that nigga never again. We get
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punished if we don't act right in the movies.
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Don't be asking for a whole bunch of shit. I'm
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gonna get snacks. I'm getting popcorn. I'm getting
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drinks. You gonna be well fed. and you gonna
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be good, big buckets. You do this here? Don't
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fucking embarrass me. Don't you embarrass me
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like that. You will never go again. I'm embarrassed.
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I'm embarrassed. Let me ask you a question. We
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married, we've been married now for 18 years
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now. I mean, we've been together for 18 years.
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We only been married for like, shit what? 12,
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going on 12, 13, it's going on 13? Actually,
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yes. Yeah, it's going on 13. It'll be 14, not
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too long. Hold on, this year was 13? It's 13.
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When we got married? In 12. Oh, shit. 13, we
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got married in 13. We got married in 2013, right?
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Yeah, we got married in 13. Mm -hmm, 13. I'm
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counting my hands to make sure I'm normally on
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point I see you been dozing off a little bit
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on the time you used to get me all the time and
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now I stop giving a fuck I Stop caring whatever
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cuz I was the only one caring. I always had the
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time I had to date she used to mess up the date
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all the time I knew what it was. We got married
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on the 15th. That's what we kept saying the 17th
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to 16th. Because you proposed on the Valentine's,
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right? Right. So I always have said like the
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14th. Yeah you did. Because Valentine's is February
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14th. But we nowhere near, we didn't get married
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nowhere near February 15th. No we didn't because
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it was Valentine's so we pushed it back to March,
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okay? And the 15th. Yes, it's 3, 15, 13. Three
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by three. That's still bad. Well, paying for
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you to remember, that's for me, okay? See? Anyway.
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That's what she did. So I'd stop caring. But
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I'll be back. You forgot. You forget slowly.
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I'll be back. I'll be back. I'll start caring
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again. As long as when the day come and you acknowledge
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it, I don't care. I do more than acknowledge.
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I don't care. You can tell somebody you got married
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March the 10th. I don't care. I do more than
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acknowledge. When the 15th come, be on point.
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I ain't going all out for 14. You don't got to.
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Yeah, you always say that. Just put a bow on
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it, you don't care. You're a lame ass. 15, we
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should do our vows. That'll be the time we renew
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our vows. We'll be in another house. We plan
23:10
on doing it at the house, so we'll be on the
23:12
acreage. We'll have the acreage to do it. So
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we'll do it at the new house. That's the plan.
23:19
That's fine. We need that. We haven't, you know,
23:24
really. Everybody around us getting old and shit.
23:29
Yeah, we're gonna do that. We're gonna renew
23:31
our vows. We're gonna have mad people at the
23:34
ranch. And put both of the kids in it this time.
23:40
Well, one was there, but he still was young.
23:42
He was little. This time, he can really know
23:44
what going on. That's true. Yeah, we're gonna
23:47
do that. We're gonna do that. And we're gonna
23:49
do it on our wedding day. Okay, that's a good
23:53
idea. But I was asking. All right, so we've been
23:55
married 13 years. Do you still flirt with me?
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Do you still do the flirty thing? Yeah, I do.
24:06
And why? Because I still like you. Because I
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still like you. I still love you. There we go.
24:15
We friends. One of the twins. Put it in there.
24:22
Right? So now you're right, you're right, you're
24:26
right. That's why. Okay. And sometime I do it
24:29
and you like, oh my God, that cringey girl coming
24:33
over here. I like doing that though. Gotta get
24:35
used to it. I like doing it. I like doing that.
24:38
Gotta play hard to get. Can't just let you get
24:42
this the way you want it. Gotta play hard to
24:45
get. It's that cringey ass girl again. That's
24:47
a cringey ass Erica. You'll be back fucking with
24:50
me. I'm at work. Now when I stop, you gonna be
24:56
like, hey, now what's going on? Just like when
24:59
you don't touch me, I'm like, dude, what's going
25:01
on? I always touch you. You always touching me,
25:03
what's up? Yeah, that's true. Do you get tired
25:05
of me doing it? I rub your ass a lot. Do you
25:07
get tired of that? I'm used to it, so it don't
25:09
matter. It don't matter to you? I'm used to it.
25:12
And I like it, but now it's just something I
25:15
expect you to do. Okay, I respect it. And if
25:17
you don't do it, What's wrong with you? Right,
25:20
right. Yeah. You're right. You're right. I respect
25:23
that. Now I'll get mad. I think flirting is key,
25:25
because I flirt with you all the time too. Yeah.
25:26
I ain't gonna lie, I do more to flirt. I damn
25:28
near sexual harass this woman. Yes, yes. I ain't
25:31
gonna even lie to you. And don't be wanting,
25:33
don't be wanting nothing. I just do it just to
25:36
harass her. Because it's there. It's in your
25:38
presence. I just do it to harasser. Yeah, it's
25:41
fun that way. I think it's fun that way. I just
25:44
grab and touch and hold, hug and grab and touch
25:46
and hold, touch, hold, grab and hug. It's how
25:50
she come around. Hey, girl, come here. I get
25:53
in my creepy old man voice. Hey, yeah. Come here.
25:58
Let me touch on you real quick. Yeah. Put your
26:02
hand in my pocket. Yup, put your hand in my pocket.
26:05
Yeah, I got something in there for you to hold
26:07
on to. I know. Yo, but I am not as much of a
26:16
perv as you are. You are the perv. I'm not. You
26:20
are the perv with the vert. You the perv, I'm
26:23
the vert. That's what it is. I end the pervert.
26:28
In the sense in the word, but you created this
26:31
though, huh? I created you created huh? Because
26:34
you were that way. Okay You were that way. You're
26:38
right And so I had to get that way. I'm like,
26:42
okay. Oh, I like this So now we hear now we hear
26:47
not trying to shut it down I'ma tell my mama.
26:58
She gon' be on my side. Let that girl do whatever
27:01
she want to do. This ain't gon' be a long episode
27:03
either, y 'all. I'ma tell you that right now.
27:06
This not gon' be a long episode. We got a long
27:07
day. We got a lot more stuff to do today. This
27:10
not gon' be a long episode. So I wanna get to
27:12
quick hits. Okay. All right, here goes some quick
27:14
hits. First one, what if you thought your thoughts
27:19
were loud enough for people to hear? What, what,
27:24
what? How would you feel about that? If your
27:26
thoughts were loud enough for people to hear,
27:27
how would you feel? I feel sorry for some folks.
27:36
I would feel sorry. Yeah. Yeah. In this house,
27:41
everybody know each other thoughts because we
27:43
just say shit. But outside of this house, there's
27:46
a lot of motherfuckers that wouldn't fuck with
27:47
me based on my thoughts. You would not like me.
27:51
Right. Bitch ass nigga. My quiet thoughts be,
27:57
or you'll think I'm fucking crazy and need to
28:00
be committed to voice. So maybe it's a good thing
28:03
we don't have that. Right, right. All right,
28:06
another one. What if you woke up with a completely
28:09
different voice? How would you feel about that?
28:14
I love my voice how it is. I think I'm at a good
28:17
medium in my voice. If I wake up with anything
28:21
more high -pitched or deep for a girl or deep,
28:25
life is over. Now, but what if, you know, my
28:28
voice is deep? What if my voice is hot pitch
28:31
like you? Be sounding like nah, we can't do that
28:37
No, I'm gonna have to fish your voice box. I'm
28:41
gonna have to go find somebody. Hey, no Don't
28:48
be talking to me like that we gonna have to go
28:51
fix that like We gonna have to do some surgery.
28:55
We got to find somebody to put some base in your
28:57
voice We might as well get a divorce That's fucked
29:12
up yo, that's fucked up over my voice. Yeah,
29:15
it wasn't always like that just something happened
29:16
to me to change What if you had to wear one outfit
29:25
forever, what would that outfit be? Hey one outfit
29:30
for ever. What would it be? Every day you have
29:34
to go outside in the same gear same. I was gonna
29:37
have to be something nice And it's in your closet
29:43
fuck that it's in your closet now, how about
29:45
that I got something that's in the middle. What?
29:53
You got something? Which one is it? Say it. It's
29:57
like my blue spandex kind of big leg and the
30:02
kind of cropped shirt. You would wear that every
30:04
single day? I would because it's comfortable
30:06
too. But I can also wear it out because it's
30:11
nice for that. So I can up play it or down play
30:14
it. I would wear that. As long as I could wear
30:17
a t -shirt it's going to be... There's gonna
30:19
be some chinos in a pullover I'm not gonna want
30:26
to wear a jogger suit every day neither because
30:28
I was gonna say a jogger suit But I'm not gonna
30:30
wear that every no you're not I wear shorts all
30:33
the time in summertime. I rather the chino pants
30:36
And a nice pullover shirt as long as I got a
30:40
t -shirt on I can Take the pullover off boom
30:46
And it gotta be one of my nice tees though. You
30:49
know what I'm saying? My nice soft cotton joints.
30:51
You know what I mean? What about the shoes? That's
30:54
gonna be hard for me though. I wear too many
30:57
pairs of shoes. If I gotta pick a shoe, people
31:02
gonna be shocked. It'll probably be my, it'll
31:06
probably be my white Jordan 4s with the, where
31:08
I got the different color laces in it. It'll
31:11
probably be those. Cause they can go with the
31:12
chinos and they'll go with a pullover. Every
31:16
time I wear them shoes, somebody would be like,
31:18
yo, I like those nice shoes, nice shoes. We was
31:21
in the Mediterranean spot yesterday and somebody
31:22
said that. That's what I'll do. That'd be my
31:25
outfit. Boom, boom, boom. Right there. Right
31:27
there. Next. What if you could only speak in
31:31
song lyrics? What song would it be? That's going
31:35
to be hard for me. That's going to be hard for
31:42
me. Pick two songs. Two songs. Let's see what's
32:07
my other way escape. Okay. I get so weak in the
32:14
knees. That's my favorite time. I like that.
32:15
You'll be born as hell. You think so? All the
32:17
lovey -dovey shit. See, that's your problem right
32:20
there. Mine's gonna be biggie warning. You know
32:25
what I mean? Damn, why don't you stick me for
32:28
my paper? Damn, why don't you stick me for my
32:31
paper? Heard about the Rolexes and the Lexes,
32:34
tripped the Texas license plates out of state.
32:37
I'm gonna be on that shit. Yeah, you'll be getting
32:41
on my nerves. can't knock the hustle thinking
32:44
of the time i'll be talking to give you a piece
32:49
of my mind oh lord yeah that sound like now who
32:54
you think you are now baby one day you'll be
33:00
a star last scene state trying to drop the sling
33:05
i'm deep in the south kicking up top gang yeah
33:08
that's me right there bouncing on the highway
33:11
switching We'd definitely be hip hop and R &B.
33:15
Yup, yup, yup. See, that'll work right there.
33:19
That'll work right there, you'll be shocked.
33:21
That's how we'll do it. I'm either cussing or
33:25
we're flipping it. Relax, yup. Even my biggie.
33:31
Damn, you wanna stick me through the paper? Damn,
33:34
yup. That's funny, because I can't really see
33:38
that right now. See, see, see, see, see. That's
33:42
a lie, that's a lie. All right, last two questions.
33:46
How important is foreplay? It's important. Why?
33:50
It's not very, very important, but it's in the
33:54
top three. OK. And it's important because what?
33:59
For one, it gets you in the mood. It creates
34:03
arousal. Right. And second, It prolongs it long.
34:12
You know, we can have more time. Right, right,
34:14
right. You trying to play me like I'm a mini
34:17
man? No, not that. I'm talking shit, calm down.
34:20
It's just fun when, you know, you're doing different
34:23
things. Right, I agree, I agree. Oh, who's the
34:26
third one? You said it. I said three? Yeah, you
34:30
said three things. You could have stopped at
34:31
two. I didn't say top three, right. Yeah, you
34:32
said top three things. Okay, we can stop at two.
34:34
All right, there we go. I mean, I think I agree.
34:37
I think it's important, too. Gotta get the engine
34:39
started. Gotta crank the car up, let it idle
34:42
a little bit, let the oil get in there. Right,
34:44
right. You know, it's cold. You just can't get
34:46
in and then go. You ain't gotta let it warm up
34:48
a little bit. I like forcing my way in, though.
34:50
We know. We know. We don't know. We know. We
34:58
know, sir. Like putting that train through that
35:02
little hole. Yeah, shut up, take it. It's almost
35:12
over. We'll just be playing y 'all, calm down.
35:18
Oh my God. All right, last question. Self satisfaction.
35:24
Should you take out time for your self love care?
35:28
You definitely should. You should always take
35:31
out time for yourself because if you ain't good,
35:33
you can't be good to nobody else. That's my motto.
35:36
You know, I believe in that y 'all go I mean
35:38
across the board sometimes you might need to
35:40
just go plug up the rolls and handy and Like
35:43
you gotta go do some shit for yourself. You go
35:46
out the house go handle you but take yourself
35:48
somewhere I believe in taking yourself somewhere
35:51
go do something for yourself Even though I don't
35:53
do that all the time because I could go out for
35:55
myself and I'm still bringing something back
35:57
for the whole house And you tell me all the time
35:59
I need to stop doing that But it's just a habit
36:01
that I've developed that I don't know how to
36:02
break just yet Yeah, I mean, but I just how I've
36:05
I do shit, but I believe in self care. Go do
36:09
some shit for yourself. You definitely need that.
36:11
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36:16
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36:38
I just be doing shit Right So this is life in
36:44
love with Erica and Sean here on the got what
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you need network and we in the living room We'll
36:49
holler at y 'all later base